Is it normal for a dogs head to be warm

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2008.03.14 20:08 /r/dogs: Woof

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2011.06.21 12:42 noriyasuu Birds with Arms

It's birds... with arms.
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2008.01.25 10:15 Happy Reddit to make you happy

Too many depressing things on the main page, so post about what makes you warm and fuzzy inside!
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2024.05.29 12:36 Vivid-Savings4661 I don’t know…

My mom is getting sicker. You wouldn’t care. I’m not sure why I’m writing this “to” you. I just found a chapstick of yours that you used. I put it on. It’s like our lips touched. I hate that I still love you. I read somewhere that you keep going until you break. I’ve had a rough life. I’m different. I have BPD. I’m not like “normal” people. This may have been my break that I never recover from. My last straw. The last thing that keeps me from ever finding or feeling happiness again. I’ve lost it all. All joy, all desires, all of it. It’s been this way for a year in October. I say that now as I don’t see it changing so I will be feeling the same in October. It’s scary it’s lasted this long. It does scare me. It’s getting harder and harder and harder. The days pass with nothingness to me. We always said we wasted so much time, I’m still wasting it. You leaving didn’t change much for me. I can’t believe it’ll be June because everyday has felt like the same rerun. Rinse and repeat. I’ve spent so much time in bed, the most in my entire life. I’m worried where I’m going to live, how I’m going to survive. It’s all on me now. I’m alone. I’m alone with the dogs. No one will take me with two dogs. I’m not getting rid of them. I’d be homeless before I did that. Life is scary when it all falls apart and you don’t care enough to pick it back up. I should hate you and I can’t figure out why I don’t. Maybe that’s true love. One of which I will never feel again.
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2024.05.29 12:31 throwawayforprivacyk Is my relationship over?

I've been with my partner for 8 years, we're engaged, we live together. We've recently come to think it's highly likely she has quiet BPD. And she seems to have been triggered into the worst episode of her life in the most unexpected way
Over the weekend she went to visit her ex. They're still friends (online) but haven't seen each other in person for about a decade. We talked it through beforehand and I made it clear that I was trusting her to not let anything happen, she assured me everything would be okay and we both agreed that the ideal situation is obviously that they can continue to just be friends. That was the whole point. My partner had some confusing feelings but she assured me she just wanted to see what was there to try and process it, but that our relationship would never be threatened and she knew that it would be a bad thing if they both had feelings for each other.
At the weekend, she talked through these feelings with the ex, who was very understanding but ultimately said she no longer felt that way, so they would indeed just be friends. She even wanted to meet me and all hang out. At the time, my partner was sad but took it well. When she initially got home she was still sad but okay, we talked normally, everything was good and I felt positive. But at some point it seemed to flick a switch in her head and she's been distraught since.
She's suddenly completely devastated that her ex doesn't return her feelings and is acting like she died. Saying things like "I need her, I can't live without her, she doesn't want me anymore". She's been very suicidal, barely eating and basically just crying or sleeping. She says it's the worst pain she's ever felt, it's all she can think about, nothing else feels real. When she was with her she felt happy and alive, now she feels dead and hollow. When she hugged her it felt like lightning, when she touches me she can't feel anything. She's now questioning our whole relationship, whether she actually ever loved me. She's saying she'd do drastic things to get her to love her back, including cutting her hair, changing her body, her name, ending our relationship.
But it was only last week she was telling me that she loved me completely. She looked at me like she loved me. We have an amazing relationship. And then bam she spends one day with her ex and she can't feel anything anymore. She really does seem to be in some kind of "state" she can't get out of, like she's not in control. So I guess I wondered if anyone had some insight on how much of this is potentially BPD related? Is this an abandonment thing? An FP thing? I can't tell her irrational thoughts apart from the truth. I'm praying that when the intensity lessens, she'll remember how she feels about me, but who knows. I'm going to stick by her side and support her as much as I can until then, even though my heart is breaking. Any advice on how I can be there for her or insight into what she's experiencing is appreciated
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2024.05.29 12:22 KevinTheJojoBoyo There Definitely are More outcomes than E.G.O

Spoilers For Library Of Ruina (All the way to the end) And Canto 4
So we know a part of humanity that can be manifested into physical power is the E.G.O Which causes you to either manifest it or distort
And Carmen believes it to be the true You and that may be true but I personally believe it's a Aspect of the true You* One of the outcomes when you embrace the true **You
"By all manner of means, Distortions are one of the many aspects of humanity. Their existence is not wholly wrongful from our point of view. It was simply time for them to emerge." -Zena
As an Arbiter of the head she likely knows alot and the fact she mentions it being One of the many aspects makes me believe there are either more to come or we've already seen a few
The Tearful Thing It is the most likely other aspect of humanity we've see so far
A massive eye ball which's tears can revert people to their original state
It was not technology which created it nor was it a outskirts creature
It was a Boy which was traveling the outskirts He looked at the stars and seemingly made a wish Before long he transformed? But it couldn't be a distortion since this was before The White Nights and Dark Days Incident
He was brought back by the one he was traveling with, Stephannete. She was a board member of K Corp What they did with him is irrelevant but I have another example of a possible outcome
The Index The Index has three ranks Proselytes, Proxys,Messengers When a Proselyte obtains a prescript telling them of their promotion with it they gain a Blade of their own
And you may think "Oh that's just a normal slightly weird blade" But with several of the proxy's their swords are no visible in their normal state but suddenly appear when they "Unlock it"
They Unlock it through using 6 unique combat pages Which gives them extra strength in addition to giving them access to a special move And changing their attack sprites
Now normally specifically Hubert and Gloria's weapons are only visible when attacking Specifically replacing Hubert's right arm whenever he attacks But his arm returns to normal in his Idle stance
It also gains a weird blue glow whenever their blade is unlocked We dont really know much more about it other than the mechanics so the only thing I can say is
Artificially manufactured E.G.O created by the index!!
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2024.05.29 12:22 Flaky-Elderberry-968 The Ultimate Guide to Jackets for Women: Elevate Your Wardrobe with Style and Versatility

The Ultimate Guide to Jackets for Women: Elevate Your Wardrobe with Style and Versatility
When it comes to creating a stylish and functional wardrobe, jackets for women are indispensable. Whether you're aiming for a chic look or need a practical layer for changing weather, a good jacket can be a game-changer. This guide will explore various styles, including velvet jackets, crop jackets, and summer jackets, helping you make informed choices to elevate your fashion game.
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The Timeless Appeal of Velvet Jackets for Women
Velvet jackets have been a symbol of luxury and sophistication for centuries. Their rich texture and sheen make them perfect for both casual and formal occasions. A velvet jacket women can be a versatile addition to your wardrobe, offering warmth and style in equal measure.
Why Choose a Velvet Jacket?
  1. Elegance and Sophistication: Velvet jackets exude a sense of opulence that few other fabrics can match. They are perfect for evening events, adding a touch of glamour to your outfit.
  2. Versatility: Despite their luxurious appearance, velvet jackets can be dressed down with jeans or dressed up with a skirt or dress pants.
  3. Comfort: Velvet is not only stylish but also comfortable, providing a soft and warm layer during cooler months.
Styling Tips
  • Casual Look: Pair a velvet jacket with skinny jeans and ankle boots for a chic, everyday look.
  • Formal Occasions: Wear your velvet jacket over a little black dress with heels for a sophisticated ensemble.
  • Office Wear: Combine a velvet blazer with tailored trousers and a crisp blouse for a professional yet stylish appearance.
Embracing Modern Trends with Stylish Jackets for Women
Staying on top of fashion trends can be a challenge, but incorporating stylish jackets for women into your wardrobe can keep you ahead of the curve. From bold colors to unique cuts, there are countless options to express your personal style.
Trending Styles
  1. Oversized Jackets: These are perfect for layering and provide a relaxed, trendy look. Pair with slim-fit pants to balance the silhouette.
  2. Leather Jackets: A classic choice that never goes out of style. Leather jackets add a rebellious edge to any outfit.
  3. Bomber Jackets: Sporty yet chic, bomber jackets are great for a casual, street-style look.
Styling Tips
  • Layering: Combine different textures and layers to create depth and interest in your outfit. For example, a stylish leather jacket over a silk blouse.
  • Color Pop: Don’t be afraid to choose jackets in bold colors or patterns to make a fashion statement.
  • Accessorize: Enhance your look with accessories like scarves, hats, and statement jewelry.
The Charm of Crop Jackets for Women
Crop jackets for women have made a significant comeback in recent years. These shorter jackets are perfect for highlighting your waistline and adding a modern twist to your outfits.
Why Choose a Crop Jacket?
  1. Flattering Fit: Crop jackets can accentuate your waist and create a flattering silhouette.
  2. Versatility: They can be worn with high-waisted jeans, skirts, and dresses, making them a versatile piece in your wardrobe.
  3. Seasonal Transition: Ideal for the transitional seasons of spring and fall, providing just enough warmth without overheating.
Styling Tips
  • High-Waisted Bottoms: Pair crop jackets with high-waisted jeans or skirts to balance the proportions and highlight your waist.
  • Layering: Wear a crop jacket over a longer top for a trendy layered look.
  • Footwear: Choose ankle boots or heels to elongate your legs and complete the outfit.
Staying Cool and Chic with Summer Jackets for Women
Summer jackets for women are essential for those cooler summer evenings or air-conditioned environments. The key is to choose lightweight fabrics and breathable designs.
Best Summer Jacket Materials
  1. Cotton: Lightweight and breathable, perfect for warm weather.
  2. Linen: Known for its coolness and comfort, linen jackets are great for summer.
  3. Denim: A classic choice that is both stylish and practical.
Popular Summer Jacket Styles
  1. Denim Jackets: Timeless and versatile, great for casual outings.
  2. Lightweight Blazers: Perfect for a polished look during the warmer months.
  3. Kimono Jackets: These provide a bohemian vibe and are great for layering
Styling Tips
  • Casual Day Out: Pair a denim jacket with a sundress and sandals for a relaxed summer look.
  • Office Ready: Wear a lightweight blazer over a sleeveless blouse and trousers for a professional yet cool outfit.
  • Boho Chic: Layer a kimono jacket over a simple tank top and shorts, adding some chunky jewelry to complete the look.
Conclusion
Incorporating various types of jackets into your wardrobe can significantly enhance your style and versatility. Whether you prefer the luxurious feel of a velvet jacket, the modern flair of a crop jacket, or the practicality of a summer jacket, there's a perfect option out there for every occasion. By mixing and matching these styles, you can create endless fashionable outfits that keep you comfortable and chic throughout the year.
Remember, the key to pulling off any look is confidence. Wear your chosen jacket with pride, and you'll be sure to turn heads wherever you go.
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2024.05.29 12:17 Hairy_Engineering537 My scary experience as a Gas Station Attendent.

My name is Jack Oliver, i am currently 26 years old, and i am employed as a Gas Station Attendent in a small town in Colorado. My job, is ehh.. I won't consider it bad nor good. I usually work overnight, but it would still be barely enough to meet end's meet. The gas station which is where i am currently working was formelly a place where people would normally dispose their garbage. It was pretty normal hearing rumours about a "ghost" or something like that about the place. I didn't believe in the idea of "ghosts" or "spirits" at that time, so i usually brushed it off. Like i said, i usually go overtime till 1:00 P.M midnight but i didn't experience anything unusual.. Until one day, it was a pretty normal day for me, although we barely had enough customers.. Just as usual, i worked overnight. It was 11:00 P.M, when everyone except me and my manager had already went home, we were the only one's left, i was doing extra work such as mopping the floors, cleaning the windows, etc. Oh and did i forget? Apart from attendents, we were also janitors. This was done to save extra costs of hiring other staff. As i was saying, i was doing extra work, when i suddenly heard my stomach rumble, i thought to myself that it was probably the food i ate for lunch earlier.. Since i couldn't hold it anymore, i took a little bathroom break. I used the last cubicle at the very end of the bathroom. I was doing my business, until i suddenly heard 3 knocks on the cubicle door. But i initially thought that it was my manager coming to check on me..
So i said: "Oh, Sorry Manager. I didn't notify you that i was using the bathroom."
No Response..
The knock seemed to get louder and louder, as if someone or something was trying to break theough the door..
I replied, and raised my voice
"Uhh, Manager.. I am currently using this! Could you please go find another cubicle?"
Feeling annoyed, I rushed to complete my business. I didn't even flush. And when i opened the door, i froze on what i saw.. I saw a lady wearing a white dress, hee skin rotting, and her head decapitated.. She was facing the opposite direction of me, she let out a small giggle, feeling absolutely terrified, i tried to move, trying to run away as soon as i can, but my body was just frozen.. As it looked at me, i screamed and screamed, finally my body gave in, and i ran so hard that i almost tripped, then i saw my manager bursting out of his office.
He asked: "What's all this commotion? Why are you screaming like a little girl?"
I replied: "Manager, Manager! I saw it!"
He asked: Who's It? What are you talking about?
I replied "That lady with no head."
The manager froze in fear, struggling to comprehend what i said. Then he pointed his office. I immedietly understood what he meant, and went into his office with him following behind. He locked the doors, and closed the blinds..
He said with fear in his eyes:
"Your Lucky.."
I replied: "How am i lucky? I literally saw a lady with no head!"
He Replied: "Your lucky to be even alive.."
I was confused on what he meant, so i asked:
"Why is that?"
He explained to me, that lady i saw was no ordinary ghost or spirit.. He explained, that spirit i saw was supposed to kill me, and trap my soul in her world.. My heart froze when i heard him, if i haven't ran earlier, i would have been dead i thought to myself. My manager advised me to not go home for the night, and to go to a place with many people to prevent being followed by the entity.. I immedietly thanked him, and did what he has told, i didn't go home for the night and i went to the local 7/11 to prevent the entity from following me, As i am writing this as of now, i heard 3 knocks on the door of my house. It is currently 11:00 P.M. Before i look out the window, if something was to ever happen to me, i hope you will never see me, as if you do, i will be there fetching you to the other world..
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2024.05.29 12:15 ShotCaregiver1053 Seeking a Meaningful Relationship and Overcoming Challenges in Egypt Help to find the right decision & Prayers

Iam a simple man who lives in Egypt. I am turning 34 y/o soon, I think I am getting old and I need to have a relationship with a Godly woman, This is becoming so hard either in my church, through mutual connections or even online. I made post here ,Most women just look for money, house, and no matter the personality is unfortunately!
I yearn to have a family of my own someday and share the joys of raising children. It's a dream that keeps me going, but the path to finding the right partner feels increasingly difficult.
I don't want to be a discouraging person or give you negative energy or be an ungrateful person, but the reality we have reached is very difficult for me.
From the moment I wake up from sleep and go to work, and I see the faces of people in public transportation and the metro, how sad and burdened they are with conflicts, vulgar language, and narrow-mindedness, to the extent of corruption that has engulfed the country from top to bottom in all state institutions.
Throughout my life, I have been an ordinary citizen who minds his own business, with no interest in politics, economics, or any of that. I have never heard a single positive news in this country since the day I was born. All I see is lies, blatant violations of natural rights, restrictions on freedoms, intrusive interference in people's privacy with audacity and impudence, harassment, unjust and oppressive laws, and unjustifiable government complications.
I saw a post here on Reddit a few days ago asking which country is the least safe to visit, and most of the answers were "Egypt" from foreigners!
Just because I am Egyptian, I am viewed with suspicion. Foreigners in my country (supposedly "my country") are treated better than me, they have all the rights, while I have nothing but obligations, against my will, and there is no reciprocity from the country.
Everything I see, whether on television or in statements from officials, is unfortunately dishonest. The truth is as clear as the sun, and we find those who justify it. There is no real progress or change happening. Education has lost its value here. What a waste of my efforts and all the notes I took throughout the years, only to find that a child on TikTok or YouTube can make thousands of dollars every month, just like that, or even a dancer.
I walk in the streets or browse the internet and I hear a completely new language. I hear words that are half Arabic and half English, as if knowing English now makes someone more cultured or educated, or as if they live in a compound in Egypt!
When will my country be clean? And I mean cleanliness of the mind, thoughts, and heart before the cleanliness of the streets. Do we need another 20 or 30 years at least? That's assuming we start now... I'll be 50 or 60 years old by then... How will I live my life?"
I will answer here the question of why I'm still not married. I am an Eastern man, which means I was raised believing that I am the head of the household and responsible for providing for the family financially. If I have the ability today to sustain my household (comfortably) and cover the monthly expenses, will I still be able to do so after just one year? Or will I see a look of disappointment from my wife or children because I'm unable to meet their basic needs? And if I take on multiple jobs, when will I have time to live my life with my family?
How can I have children in these circumstances? How can I raise them in a society that is completely unbalanced psychologically? How can I keep them safe walking on these streets, hearing all these profanities and witnessing all the harmful things that have become so normal? How can I prevent them from getting into fights or becoming thugs with ease?
And even if I consider traveling, how can I travel in the first place? It has become extremely difficult and costly, almost impossible compared to the past. And even if I manage to do it, where will I go and who will I leave my house to? Will I find peace in that place? And if I can't adapt, what should I do? Whenever airport officials see an Egyptian passport anywhere, they become afraid because they know you might come and cause trouble.
Why is it that an American/European/English/Australian citizen can wake up in the morning and comfortably reach any place on the planet in a few hours, only needing to say, "I am an American citizen!" And I may need to humble myself, go through paperwork, pay money, wait for their mercy and favor, whether they accept or reject me, and most likely they would reject me!
There is a lot that cannot be expressed in writing, and there are many unanswered questions. I am not complaining, God knows, I am grateful to God for my home, job, life, family, health, and many other things. There are definitely others who are living in worse conditions than me, but I just wanted to speak up, nothing more.
I would greatly appreciate any advice or suggestions you have for me. Should I take the risk, getting married, having children?
Your prayers, please..
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. Your support and insights mean a lot to me.
tl;dr: I'm a 34-year-old Egyptian man seeking a meaningful relationship with a Godly woman. Despite trying various avenues, it's been challenging to find a partner who values compatibility over material possessions. I dream of having a family and raising children, but the path to finding the right partner feels increasingly difficult. I'm also concerned about the societal challenges, safety issues, and the complex.
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2024.05.29 12:15 MoonriseRunner Instances where a game subtly spoils you, but you don't even know that it just revealed a secret to you until much later?

So obviously this one is about Elden Ring and the hidden truth behind of its God Marika.
For anyone unaware: The game puts a mystery into your lap around the halfway mark about the true identity of Marika and her regent Radagon, how they relate and what fucked all of it up. There is a direct Questline associated with the character "Goldmask" which seeks to unveil this mystery of the world's worst divorce that made it everyone else's problem.
Obviously please do not read further to avoid Spoilers for ELDEN RING
We already get a glimpse of Marikas Identity in the first seconds of the game in which>! we can actually see the switch between Marika and Radagon happen as one seeks to Destroy the Elden Ring with their Hammer, and the other aims to repair it. !< Obviously, without knowing anything about the mystery or who this character even is, we are left to scramble once we know more, but there are instances in the game in which the reveal is directly hinted at, or in the very least not directly spoken about.
After defeating Godrick the Grafted, Enia, the Finger reader Crone next to the Two Fingers that give the player Guidance says the following in regards to Godrick:
In that moment Enia spells the truth out without us even understanding who the mayor Demigods are and how related they are to each other. It is only later that we learn about Radagon and their offspring with Renalla.
Furthermore, another fun little interaction I noticed about the Whole Marika/Radagon fiasco comes from everyone's favourite Dog, the Turtle Pope Miriel!
When asked about Radagon:
"You know, it's said that Lord Radagon harboured a secret... A famed sculptor of the Erdtree Capital was once summoned to render Lord Radagon's likeness in giant stature. When he glimpsed the skeleton in Radagon's closet. And as such, it's said the great statue harbours his secret too".
It not only sets up the Statue of Radagon in the Capital as being noteworthy even outside of the Goldmask questline, but in hindsight yeah that is just Miriel telling you "Yeah shits weird with Radagon and what he looks like lol" basically giving another hint that something is seriously weird about the Guy.
I was just wondering if any other game does this kind of foretelling, or even just downright admitting to things without the player having enough context.
I recently played through Signalis and LOL that's an instance where this definitely implies, but I won't bother with the details.
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2024.05.29 12:14 rectangles8 Potential early birth!!

35.1 weeks FTM
Okay SO, I had a appointment at my local hospital yesterday which was just a normal check up and to put all my baby book information into their system (I’m in Australia) and she felt for his head (first time anyone has felt where his head is) and she said “Oh! He’s reaallly low!” And wrote down that I was 3/5 engaged, which I had no idea what that meant until I got home and looked it up 😱.
Then today I just had my regular OB appointment with my doctor and after I told him what she measured his engagement as he checked as well and he said I’m actually 2/5 🤯🫣 I’ve never known this doctor to really show a whole load of emotion but it really took him by surprise with another “Oh wow he’s really low!” And my belly is only measuring 32-33 weeks now!!
Been mildly leaking some fluid which we’re tracking with a pad at the moment and I’ll take into the maternity ward for testing probably tomorrow (if it comes up wet in the morning) just incase as well.
I’m hoping to hear alllllll the positive things people experienced with early engagement and even premature labour because although my partner and I are super excited at the possibility he might be coming early (my doctor said he won’t be surprised if he comes by 37 weeks at this rate 😱 but isn’t worried at all about his health or my own as we’re both super duper healthy so we won’t need to be transferred as long as things stay that way) we’re obviously feeling lots of other emotions so please fire away with all the best and most encouraging stories you have for us! 🤍🫣
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2024.05.29 12:08 Blockchain-TEMU New 2 Check-ins - Need Their New Rights - Can't Wear Dang Kwemawae Scrubs Now, Get them Later, Have to Wear the GPT Garment and Scan Oil Waistband Or Never Get Clothes

  1. Checkin Liam Traylor Checkin Markus Johnson needs scrubs checked in inpatient voluntary rx reds typical to disease with phonetic encoded name appropriate to regionality or medicine, Markus Seer rc weed or something send liam floor 5 can't markus excuse Greet Markus and ID ID And DBT Parameters Markus with a NC IV Zyprexa and give extra depth to simulation by caching oil stealing hippocampus stem cells to a cache where he gets these back if he ever is here long enough for a lenovo pc which is like right away i guess but takes forever to him due to slipspace pilot effect where he is devolved and firebolt is stripped and markus is always good and didnt do notink wrong but liam did major wrong, loam theft, he got to get upstairs ward adolecent he is not canada adolecent 1.2 Stash markus stem cell as he is on NSI-189 and we get him some kind of abilify BRAINS which this is what NSI-189 is like neurotrophic child abilify and we get him this telling him it is a piprazine-indole-fluorinate which he needs the "negatives reds" which is we techs slip him that and he knew all this already and we got him the positive slip sentiment like a sign answer or whatever 1.3 Dont give markus too much NSI-189 or he will be super orgasm raped when he is violated and he cannot take this and he sees it in a stash like one time markus as ugandan saw his dads ak-47 in a hold and now he sees his culprit here is butyl plus always reds bacteria which he got that in the evidence case in hold here 1.4 Liam is given to shawn but shawn had to be super treated dbt for transexual, gave hold heart then major stunning and transexual core and back in a body and then made him berghdals brother and fought berghdal as a dog troop in the 1st yitvah eastern seaboard and this was for shawns dbt and liam is not a dork idiot but moe filled to his mom which is not at all shawn but looks like his pair bond fake never not any way little baby jace which liam traylor loves weed and was shocked away from it so he gets his sex magic equivalent at his masturbation targets bond which once I saw liam in there sleeping just once 1.5 A therapist efe cures liam of schizo-affective disorder with liam dropping premium access due to efe hacking liam in minecraft and his own hyperbolic gone and him out of there with his mommy and not too much here already and back into his first life, try again and given now same medicine as markus which he knows that this is the same medicine as markus which he now got slips and slips are great and he never gets to the point some male mom of scientology is giving him slippers like his mom. 1.6 Liam meets him mom again which tied is a instigator of chemical apocalypse like shawn so is treated well and then she is back with liam and they are in a homeless shelter which the new europe is very real for the family and they are good and they are safe and they are always smoking weed in the hostel they say if they post on the internet in violation of night shift only social media then they might "use up" a lenovo pc bracelet and post on social media trees like they used to and this is their right with some oil in their proximity family myself who i have only personal interests on this userpage or thai does not post and this is semi-audited but generally safe 1.7 Liam smokes weed again age 17 one year after what their age of consent is. He is smoking weed with shawn and they are all compliant and there is no additional addition of sign language and they are not like daddy or like mommy or like child but like adult and they are only doing this on visitation like usual 1.8 Markus is given back his hippocampus and released to where he was before when the police shot him, he was just working at a desk, so he gets back to where I thought him, which I am ESP and him getting shot somewhere else is what triggered me getting shot locally and I thought he was right next to me when I was shot by police, I thought him downstairs but this is a new location and he is sent to where I thought him initially which seeing him was just esp. 1.9 Markus gets a lenove PC at some pc speakers, which these are a form of full PC token and just upgraded in component to speaker, so those speaker over there are his lenovo pc to work at the front desk and markus is working at liams front desk as team secret. 2.0 It is 60 real years from now predicted analysis, the people are incorporated to get to some overworld, where I am is the underworld and this process afforementioned cures the reds of the family enough they can get normal food not reds food and markus realizes the romanaj conflation just to him speaker secret. 2.1 People are taking their blues which they got blues illegally with source reds up before and now you got like the people seeing the wae is they get blues from a whole life of taking reds not just getting blues and markus never did this he is ugandan, but schwinn-san was taking blues with being mensa literally and underage and semi-legally practicing dancing dbt when i was recently sex magicked and I fulfilled this endpoint of schwinn-san's dancing therapy and I was shot with markus and schwinn-san for schwinn-san had a weapon that day.
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2024.05.29 12:05 adnauuuseam Theory: How Kenjaku had multiple CTs, and how Yuta can have both Limitless and Copy

Theory: How Kenjaku had multiple CTs, and how Yuta can have both Limitless and Copy
Inspired by Lightning's twitter thread: https://x.com/lightningclare/status/1795173352199356583
This is somewhat of a Yuta cope thread.
We know Kenjaku (as of his death in Geto's body) possessed 3 CT's that we're aware of:
  1. The brain CT (his own CT)
  2. The body's CT (Cursed Spirit Manipulation, Geto's CT) -- I'll refer to this as "new CT"
  3. The previous body's CT (Anti Gravity, Itadori's mum's CT) -- I'll refer to this as "old CT"
According to this fanbook, the brain CT allows him to have 2 CTs at once -- the brain CT itself plus the (hijacked) body's CT.
https://preview.redd.it/ips42vp73c3d1.jpg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fdfc7868d4407f7fd860b2fc4d57645bdd220b40
The part that's interesting though, is where it says this method should then discard the previous body's CT (Anti Gravity, for example) but somehow Kenjaku managed to retain it through certain means.
My theory on how he does it:
Kenjaku splits his soul into a cursed object (e.g. finger) while in the previous body to retain that body's CT. He then eats the cursed object when he moves on to the new body. This is how he has the "old CT" and the "new CT" at the same time.
We know from Angel that Kenjaku was the one who turned old sorcerers into cursed objects, which were then reincarnated as Culling Game players. (We also know that's how Sukuna learned to do what he did in ch 212.)
But how did Kenjaku learn the method to do this?
I think, it's because that is fundamentally similar to how his brain-swap CT works. A part of "you" is concentrated into a single body part, that body part gets inside "someone else" and now "you" override someone else's body.
We see in Sukuna's example that while in Megumi's body, he was able to use both Ten Shadows and Shrine. So it appears that when the vessel has an innate CT, and the soul reincarnated from the consumed cursed object also has an innate CT, this body now has control of both.
Now obviously with the Sukuna-Megumi example, you have 1 physical body, 2 souls, and 2 CTs. Sukuna's soul won out and therefore piloted Megumi's body.
Say Kenjaku applies the same method. If Kenjaku turns a part of his soul into a cursed object while still in the old body, and then consumes this cursed object after he's switched over, he would technically be consuming his own soul in the new body and there would be no conflict. By eating the cursed object made from the previous body, he now has the "old CT" and by physically being in the new body he inherently has the "new CT". Hence the final result is 1 physical body, 1 soul, and 2 CTs (3 including brain CT). It's like a cheat code.
Mei proposed 3 possibilities when it came to Yuta, and I think (I hope) the most likely answer is that the brain CT is a one-time, permanent move, so it doesn't get affected by the 5 minute timer on Yuta's CT.
I think(?) it's established somewhere (I can't find source so please correct me if I'm wrong) that most people have an innate understanding of their CT when they gain them. I don't see why this can't apply to Yuta when he copies CTs from other sorcerers.
My cope is that, when he consumed and copied Kenjaku's CT, he gained the same innate understanding of how brain-swap works, and how that translates into turning part of one's self into a cursed object. This opens up option 4 for Yuta:
As Yuta, he splits his own soul into a finger before body hopping into Gojo's corpse. After the body swap process is done, he eats the Yuta-finger cursed object to get Copy.
Assuming the brain-swap CT is a permanent once-off transfer, Yuta is now stuck in Gojo's body with Limitless but he can also use Copy, just like how the OG brainswapper had CSM and Anti Gravity.
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2024.05.29 12:03 dat_delt Work conflict w/big customer

Quick background: I’m a BDM/AM for a digital infrastructure company. I've generally handled customer conflicts well, with no major issues aside from occasionally forgetting to reply to emails. I've always been good at resolving problems.
Now to the issue: Last week, while transitioning from atomoxetine to dexamfetamine (dex is amazing 🙏🏼), we encountered a problem with a project delivery for a major customer. My newly energilzed brain went into overdrive trying to manage and possible fallout. Although the issue was beyond our operational teams control, it will impact future projects and potentially damage my relationship with both the customer and the end user, who happens to be my second biggest client.
I alerted a key executive in the customer's team to give them a heads up, hoping to prevent them from being blindsided at handover. They appreciated the warning, but it upset their operations team, which was not my intention.
"Put a muzzle on your dog" is one of the many ‘lovely’ comments I've over heard regarding me informing an executive of this situation.
Any tips on handling this emotionally? It's really gotten me down, and I’m struggling to focus on a plan to fix things. (I don't the medication swap is helping the issue 😅) I didn't realise how much the atomoxetine was dulling my emotions.
Normally, I'm the cheerful, happy person in the office that always find a solution.
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2024.05.29 12:02 kittyvk My bf and I are not talking and idk how to fix it

A few days ago I asked my boyfriend of 5 years what he liked about me because I get told a lot how lucky I am to be with him and I agree he is great and I'm not the easiest to be with. He got really defensive as soon as I asked the question and asked if I was fishing for compliments and that he just likes me and isn't that enough? His answer made me a bit sad because I could list a bunch of qualities I love about him from the top of my head, which I told him. He basically ignored what I said and we haven't been talking much the past few days. Two days ago I had a job interview and really wanted to talk to him about it because I needed advice so I did and I guess he took that as a sign that our issue was resolved. Because at night he started kissing me and expected more to happen, which I denied by saying that I was too tired. Also kissing him felt really weird for some reason, I completely tensed up. Ever since we've been back to barely talking. But the weird thing is that besides not talking or being intimate he acts completely normal, he makes me coffee in the morning and cooks for me etc. but I can feel that he is not happy, this morning he seemed really grumpy when he left for work. But if I ask him about I know that he would pretend like everything is fine and make me out to be the only person to see a problem here. What do I do???
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2024.05.29 12:02 bodg123 Will you put on a little tin foil with me?

I understand the common conclusion and how obvious it is. There are bite marks and she now has the same devil fruit. One would presume she ate her(and the kids) accidentally while in a glutton state.
I would like to challenge this conclusion with a what if. What if the bite marks are a red herring? I would need to explain how it would be possible for her to have the ability. Why there are bite marks on the clothes(the table is confirmed to be bitten by her). And where the kids actually went if they weren't eaten.
I would like to attempt to offer an alternate explanation/interpretation. Please be kind and bear with me. I will explain any of my thoughts if anyone finds them confusing.
https://preview.redd.it/xfeqkgkfwb3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=78cf21e04e4ea08be78e83b394cfafe6ffc0df06
https://preview.redd.it/tdopuckfwb3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f3703d07c579954acc518cf786c3b54d41afd47b
She's in a state of utter bliss. It's her birthday and she's with people she cares about. We are directly told big mom isn't aware of the full truth. But two people saw it.
https://preview.redd.it/kbpzfdfsxb3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4e57888b6a334e45cfbae8043f80e1f2a71693d
This doesn't make my case one way or another, however I think it establishes that we will get a follow up on this in elbaph. Either it is confirmed that she ate them, or that something else happened.
https://preview.redd.it/z1g00qrwyb3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1a61086346521771602a6edf1e3039916249c6c9
https://preview.redd.it/e3s9qprwyb3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8b732964583cfae68e4a554e9ead4ab2d8a55c30
The obvious conclusion here is by saying he's never seen a monster like that he's referring to her being a human eating enormous sized person.
What if he was actually referring to Carmel as a monster. Using some sort of powerful devil fruit ability could be why he says it that way.
He is afraid of her getting to close to him. This again works to back to common conclusion as if he's afraid she would eat him. He already has an ability that could feed her, or at the least take sights off of him. He doesn't have much reason to be scared she would eat him. Especially if she just ate a bunch of people.
So what if he's actually saying not to come close because he was afraid Carmel could enter his body(as he could have just seen her do to Lin Lin. Why make the remark that he's sure she will come back soon if he just saw her get eaten? Of course it could be he's just trying to console her, but I'm under the impression he's being honest with her.
https://preview.redd.it/dt9q97dx0c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=91dc282871ae21976aa6b514f944a68adab2141b
It's possible he's surprised the fruit powers he witnessed earlier were now in Lin Lin without having eaten a fruit.
At this point you are probably wondering, so what alternative interpretation explains it. I think mother Carmel used a devil fruit awakening/ultimate move to anchor her soul in another body. She is not free to wander in a soul form because she hasn't died. different from how brooks ability unanchors his soul without forcing him to the underworld
We have been told of operations to make someone immortal. We have seen someone push out intangible things such as memories and pain. Do you think it's impossible that someone with a soul fruit could manage to put thier soul into a new body? The only explanation I can think of for the bite marks on the clothes is that it's burning. We haven't ever seen a soul burn so it's probably the weakest link in the theory.
https://preview.redd.it/ifi6sf413c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d7db47a0af76e7dc74cf86c09bb6a7abfcac23bd
Oda tells us Carmel had a plan to leave after this one. She already she potential ino Lin Lin. So what if her plan was to take over Lin lins body. She was already making arrangements to see the kids/Lin Lin. This ultimate move could have required her to use other souls as sacrifices(which would explain where the kids went), or she could have sold them while Lin Lin was eating. The sacrifice scenario makes more sense to me. Seeing Carmel take the souls of a bunch of kids she was claiming to help while taking over Lin lins body could be why the giants hated her so much. That is a huge betrayal from being seen as a saint.
https://preview.redd.it/vhfbktxx3c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ea804400e1fa69769a354742378ad318b81ee2d5
I don't have any concrete evidence to support this, but I believe there are 3 components to a being. The body, the soul, and the spirit. The spirit would be where haki/personality eminate from. The soul would be where life force/vitality come from.
I think this because of the above scene. It establishes that choppers personality isn't directly tied to hi devil fruit. What law swapped between them would be thier spirits. When Franky is in choppers body, he is a devil fruit user. This establishes that abilities are tied to the physical body of the person. Ie if big mom took soul from a fruit user, their ability wouldn't go with it just like it didn't when law swapped whatever he swapped.
After reading this you could still be skeptical. But there's another weird focus we haven't been told more about. Why did one of big moms homies become uncooperative after she lost her memory?
https://preview.redd.it/t3ky6t0y5c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f00708ec289fc8e14cad39ab8fd0462318706be7
When she first losses her memory you see that napoleon was also knocked out with her.
https://preview.redd.it/ow1mjpv66c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cf670fdcceb09039e71762f963c3a108b57c0d04
In the next page you can see big mom doesn't know who she is anymore. Napoleon is also confused. As confirmed later, he didn't Lose his memory. So these question marks(if not referring to big moms confusion) could be napoleons confusion about big mom being confused.
https://preview.redd.it/bfg7fkbl6c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2f1a3fa9a9c989c5354ec8e857c27f5c042f8626
Oda makes a point of telling us her hat isn't talking. Why would he suddenly become silent and not be trying to help big mom?
https://preview.redd.it/5h03mxeu6c3d1.jpg?width=1975&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a5cd328e47d81133bb5c4b2fabf7b9e98318b801
https://preview.redd.it/k64v1yeu6c3d1.jpg?width=797&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=787e1da6a379c5176490dd4b8a39588f2fed82f4
More panels of napoleon chilling with his eyes closed as Lin Lin walks about without memory. It's important to note that when Sabo lost his memory, he still behaved like himself. When Lin Lin was olin she behaved very much like the nice well intentioned child version of her we saw during the flashback.
https://preview.redd.it/qpj4jvg97c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ef59450663d952bdb3eb329aa720a1eb6e67e0af
https://preview.redd.it/rnemv4h97c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e4997b07ab115b338fb33bf92423f8a90fcedfcf
After getting a knock to the head, her memories come back. Napoleon remarks that he's glad she's back to normal. This confirms he was aware she wasn't herself before. So why would he decide to stay quiet till she got her memories back?
https://preview.redd.it/l2wd1tap7c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4d8045974dbe063d7407cabbe7e00d08fbc24d34
https://preview.redd.it/ewaqstat7c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=055cb195f9c6300f350dace65235ab4873136461
https://preview.redd.it/12086fsu7c3d1.jpg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=24868b999f5de92ca9a9d6e3f64af83a3ab985d7
I find these panels of her little singy bliss to be strange. For one, why show that cemetary when showing the inside of her? What's with the zombie dogs? We know her ability cannot put souls into dead bodies. So if it's not supposed to be literal, what's the whole pet cemetary thing about? She's making a point of telling us Sanjis cream is taking her back to the the croquemboushe memory from her birthday. Both are made with cream and it's bringing her back the same happiness she felt as well as the amazing taste. So what if the little bliss imagination of the kids floating in the air with Carmel isn't far off from what actually happened?
So super wild idea. What if to remove Carmel from Lin lins body brook does an exorcism. This isn't so crazy. We have seen brook use soul scream to remove the souls of big moms creations. Moving a soul that anchored itself in Lin lins body isn't to far off.
Either way, I think it will get confirmed in elbaf. The common explanation I see going around is the whole eating people was too dark for oda to confirm. However he tells us much worse with kumas reality as a slave. So who knows. Time will tell.
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2024.05.29 12:01 DesperatelyAskReddit Leavers Queue? (Idea)

This is not me complaining about people leaving. This is not the intention. It happened to all of us, people leave. Sometimes with bad intentions, sometimes because their dog peed on their carpet. In almost all situations this makes it very hard to win for the team with a missing teammate. The idea I talked about with a friend is the following I present "Leavers Queue". You can queue into leavers queue for ranked only, wait times will be exceptionally long since there are not so many people leaving but eventually after like half an hour you will be queued into a game taking the position of a leaving player after 5 minutes of abstinence or whenever the leavers penalty would be applied normally. The player that disconnected loses nothing more than he would otherwise since the penalty would prevent him from earning substantial ranks improvements even if he reconnects so there’s no harm in replacing him. The team hopefully receives a cooperative and motivated teammate and in exchange for the long queue times and the game being harder since your side was missing a teammate for five minutes you will receive a reward for a win 2-3 times the size of a normal ranked reward. If you lose you will lose rank points but maybe slightly less depending on the circumstances. It’s a little bit like being a fireman waiting for a call to extinguish the flames. Any obvious reasons this would be a bad idea? Maybe people would queue into it to troll??? (This also happens in normal ranked so what would be the difference?) Feel free to respond I guess. English is not my first language. Typed on a phone. Sincerely, me.
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2024.05.29 11:58 PinkPonk4567 I've been looking for a diagnosis for too long

Hello everyone! I hope this post doesn't ends up being too long, but here it goes...so, I live in a third world country (México) and despite I am considered to be privileged here and I got the chance to access private health care all my life, it's been YEARS since i've been fighting for a diagnosis, not bc I actually want to be sick but bc I need validation, just that. I know that's very common with chronic illnesses but in Mexico they have absolute no clue of many diseases. I was a healthy kid but something doesn't fits so well, my mom said I used to have headaches in kindergarden and I remember having to leave "piñatas" (piñatas is like a kids bday party) bc of it, I had MRI's being done at an early age, at some point I was constantly refusing to have breakfast bc I was never hungry, I remember not feeling so well in the morning, kind of like morning sickness, but at that time I didn't knew how to verbally express the feeling, I have a vivid memory of one time the principal of my school recluted me because my mom told her that I always came to classes with an empty stomach. I also remember being really nauseos for weird things, it was mostly like high sensitivity, I wasn't a picky eater, it was just that lots of things made me nausseous, they gave me the ick, basically. But apart from that I rarely got sick, I was "normal" it wasn't until my pre-teen years came that I frequently sport injured myself, it happened again and again and again, and I went several times thorught the rehab process, I knew that was uncommon bc I was making pretty much the same level of effort and activity than my ballet/gymnastics classmates. I have a type A personality, overachiever, people pleaser, had strict parents, anyway, the point is that I lived in a high stress state since a young age. Long story short, eventually I got diagnosed with fibro out of diagnosis of exclussion, this happened at the age of 18, but this two last years, I've been dealing with long covid (that's another story) but I've been thinking I might have something else, but I don't know. And before you say it, I am very educated and I know about ME/CFS, post viral illness, all that kinds of stuff. The only proper diagnosis I've gotten is "dysautonomia" which I think I might had it for a long time, it was just veeeery mild, like, I used to get dizzy everytime I stood up as a teen. My current symptoms are: fatigue, pem, horrible nausea everytime I try to eat or drink and sometimes I vomit, loss of appetite and thirst, tachycardia, desrealization, feeling of being poisoned/drunk/slow, head pressure, neck stiffness, sinus congestion kind of pain, dysregulation of circadiam rythm, mild brain fog, frequent bruises, chest pain, ocassional morning body stifness, episodes of joint pain, eye pain. Honestly I've been suspecting CCI due to Ehler Danhlos Syndrome causing all kinds of symptoms that mimic or are CFS, but I do not discard I might have post viral fatigue or even just CFS. It's just that those several injuries I had as a teen and adult caught my attention a lot, they seem to point to some type of connective disorder. And actually I have an structural problem with my jaw, I have a proganat mandible clase II, but aesthetically never showed so the never detected it, and my parentes denied to pay for the surgery for years, seven dentists told me I needed it, now I don't work bc of my condition and can't pay for it. Anyway, I ALWAYS have that weird neck stifness no matter how hard I try to relax, and it's not just stress, I think a lot of my problems might be bc of an structural neck/jaw issue but I'm not sure. I don't now where the fuck to go anymore, I've been pushing throught for too long, and did everything the doctors told me, like psyquiatric help, CBT theraphy, yoga, I was like a fucking health freak and very active person how tf they assume I enjoy to stay in my home all day. I can't travel to America or Europe to get this kind of appointments with neurosurgeouns and it drives me nuts bc I have a high intuition that my problem has a solution or at least improvement. Also no more money for it, already spended like 17'000 USD on this, I just live throught the day like surviving, I'm not venting but, I wish I could have more guidance on this conditions, and I can't even show doctors here information bc they don't understand english to a 100% and make fun of me bc apparently I feel like Dr. House. I'm so done with their mediocrity, what should I do? Pleaseeeee any suggestions an opinions are highly appreciated
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2024.05.29 11:54 Missjpjw I think I'm scaring myself

Hi guys, I'm 31F and I've not been diagnosed properly yet, I've been to the ER months ago and they suspected POTs, kept a heart monitor on me for a couple of hours, did an xray and then sent me home, I can't get a regular GP because I live semi rurally and no doctors here have been taking new patients since I moved here, my sister in law has HEDS/POTs and agrees with the hospital that my symptoms are most likely POTs; for the past two days my chest and neck feel tight, and there's a pressure in my head, mostly at night/when I've eaten something, mostly not painful and the pressure eases a bit if I lay down and breathe deeply, I'm so afraid that I'm having a heart attack or one is coming or something and I'm sure the anxiety about the symptoms is making it worse, I don't know when I need to worry, no fainting or presyncope, bpm/BP in normal ranges according to my mediscan BP thingy but I'm testing laying down. I'm having trouble distracting myself from it, I'm afraid that I'm going to die in my sleep or have a heart attack and go undiscovered for days because I don't have a support system nearby. Forgive me if I'm rambling or being stupid, I got about an hour's sleep last night. I don't know what to do 🥲
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2024.05.29 11:52 Effective-Drummer-61 Is anyone else's lab like this?

Is anyone else's lab like this?
Hi all, just a question about whether this is a normal lab thing to do as I know they're normally very foodie. My lab (13 months) never really seems excited about his food, I have him on lifestages adult kibble which he won't really eat dry so I've added a wet food gravy mix pouch as a topper and now he will eat it but I have to keep reminding him because he will walk away/get distracted. He used to be half raw fed until he completely refused to eat his food. He's very interested in our human food but just doesn't seem to care about his. He's a very healthy, active dog and I worry that when he doesn't eat it he's not getting what he needs. Does anyone have any tips? Or is anyone else's lab like this? He used to absolutely devour his food but when he turned about 7-8 months he's completely slowed...photo of my boy for attention!
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2024.05.29 11:51 notjustanumbercolor Do you feel like men find it (too) easy to confide in you?

Is having the OW or Former OW (mental) flair some sort of a magnet for male confessions? Or is this some predisposition for having unfiltered and non judgmental conversation that's a prerequisite for becoming the OW? Do you experience this?
I feel like I got into that situationship initially because it was "so easy" for MM to talk to me and tell me things he never told anyone before (maybe I shouldn't, but I believe that). Yes, I can be understanding, I like to understand different perspectives and I like weird. But fuck, it's doing my head in.
I had a male friend who was a notorious cheater and he'd tell me all about his adultery stories. I got so fed up with it. I fixed my moral compass, I fixed my broken parts, so I thought. Yet still, I have an ex boyfriend reach out to me sharing updates of his life, like, why? It's been 15 years, let it go. Then all of a sudden at work drinks a male colleague tells me his wife is pregnant with their 3rd. I mean, dude, she's not even past her 1st trimester yet, why are you telling me this ?!
I want normal. Any advice how to get "normal" without actually having to tell people to fuck off?
I'm finally in a normal relationship. I feel my partner is normal. He's told plenty of people to fuck off.
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2024.05.29 11:47 throwRA1561599 My (29M) girlfriend (28F) left me. How do I handle the forever single life?

Excuse my spelling, English is not my first language.
I (29M) really can't wrap my head around it...
My partner (28F) left me yesterday after 6 months and I really have no clue what the real issue is.
For context, I was single for 7 years before and dated a few times over the years, but there never was a person I could really link with. I'd describe me as a down to earth person, no need for going to clubs, getting wasted all the time, got a stable job that I love, got friends and family, work out, got my own home and vehicles. Just a grown man who just wants a little bit love in his rather normal and stable life.
I was really happy alone, got used to it and then I met my ex. We just linked, had appreciation for each other and worked out really fine. I thought finally I met the one I can settle with. Every issuse I thought I would have was talked about and the biggest one was (so I thought) that I don't want kids. But that was no problem for her, so we were on the same page there as well.
Now the reason she broke up with me is (according to her), that I need to much love (wtf does that mean?) and that she is a really outgoing person and I am not. It is true that I'm kind of an introvert, but over the six month we did heaps of things with same interest. E.g. we both really like castles and nature and every time we spend time with each other we went outside and did hikes, visited castles and ruins, old towns, visited friends and family, had barbeque, etc. (she told me that our sexlife was perfect, so I don't think that's the reason)
I really don't understand what the real reason is noone wants me, 'cause I am loving and caring, cook meals, clean the house, am open minded, willing to compromise and always honest.
Now I'd like to now if there are other people like me, that just can't find the right person and how do you deal with it? I really am sick and tiered of these women that can't see that I'm a nice person.
What is wrong with a man, with his life together, loving, caring and honest? (I'm 6'4 and 242lbs so height and weight shouldn't be a problem either?)
tl;dr : girlfriend left me, because I need to much love and she is outgoing while I'm kind of an introvert
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2024.05.29 11:42 Honeysyedseo Why Your SDRs Are Failing and How You Can Fix It in 2024

Why Your SDRs Are Failing and How You Can Fix It in 2024
How Every SDR On The Planet Can Exceed Quota in 2024:
P.S. The Role of Outbound/SDRs is changing FAST.

Here’s what old-aged GTM looks like: (before Clay / Instantly)

This is true for 100% of Medium/High TAM companies – excluding ABM..
🤡:
👉Hiring 3-10 SDRs for 1:1 manual prospecting
👉Annual subscriptions to ZoomInfo, Apollo, Seamless, LeadIQ, manual data entry, gsheets, Lemlist, Salesloft/Outreach
👉 SDR spending 80% of day on manual data entry
E.g.
  • List building from sales nav, then zoom info, then scrolling linkedin etc
  • Manual account research
  • Manual contact enrichment
  • Manual email enrichment
  • Writing "8 minute" emails
  • Calling/prospecting to any lead in CRM

Typical team:

6-10+ SDRs, 3 AEs, 6 figure(bloated tech stack, manual workflow
Each SDR: $75k/yr+ (and insurance, taxes, etc)
Tech stack: Close to or more than 5 figures a month (mostly for stale data, outdated tools)
This was considered “normal”.
The inefficient cycle of scaling headcount was also normalized
E.g.
Step #1 - hire X number of SDRs
Step #2 - ⅔ fail within the first 3 months
The reason SDRs fail is because they’re spending 80% of their time on the WRONG leads and WRONG tasks…

New aged outbound: (after Clay)

SDR Hitting Quota
👉 Clay + One Clay operatoGTM engineer + SDRs + AEs + Email infrastructure.
Clay is at the forefront – the most powerful sales tool of the last 10 years.
Instantly.ai is just fantastic – beats tools like Outreach, Lemlist every single day of the week.
Utilizing both allows your team to scale relevant, personalized outreach campaigns.
(Without these 2 tools, none of this would be possible.)
🐊:
One Clay Operator that…
👉 Uses Clay to automate research, list building and 1:many hyper-targeted prospecting
👉 Scoring/delivering curated enriched best-fit leads to your SDRs CRM
👉 Set up triggers and filters, write hundreds of highly individualized emails/day with the click of a button.
Clay at the forefront, of course, to dialing in your ideal customer situation (definition in comments)
High Leverage SDR Workflow: (e.g. only human to human tasks)
100% of their day, they are…
✅ cold calling the best-fit enriched leads delivered to their CRM from Clay operator
✅ warm-calling email leads that reply, 5 min> speed-to-lead dialing
✅ warm-calling leads that open email 4+ times, 5 min> speed-to-lead dialing
✅ social selling (linkedin, personal brand, events etc)
✅ building strategic relationships, follow up
Reverse engineer “WHY” SDRs fail.
It is because they spend 80% of their time on the WRONG leads and WRONG tasks…
By using Clay – you unlock your SDRs to focus ALL of their time selling to the best fit leads:
They are not touching any data…
Not one SDR is required for email, list building or research. (Crazy, I know…)
Once your Clay/Email infrastructure is built…
… you will be placing your SDRs into this workflow.
Clay blog on this entire workflow in June 👀
Source
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2024.05.29 11:37 LuisoWikeda I lost the love of my life, but I didn't drink again.

Hello friends.
I need some help. This is going to take a while.
I grew up in a working class immigrant family with little to no love and always had to take care of myself on my own. My father was a heavy drinker, he was humiliating, beating and raping my mother while I was watching and listening during all my childhood. My sister was born when I was almost 8, so I also had to take care of her emotionally as our parents definitely weren't prepared for a full blown life with children. My mother searched for hope at Jehovah's Witnesses, so she was full of that pseudo-religious Christian nonsense and told us that the world would end soon anyways, that we would be happy in paradise and so on. It was the worst.
I first drank when I was 13. Finally I had found something that alleviated all that pain, the voices and the memories. I could just go out and have fun! People liked me, I was something special as I had a good grasp of the world through books. Books were always there for me. When I was 18, I met a 16-yo girl from my school, we became and couple and she showed me what real love is. We moved away from our home town and started a life together. After we finished our studies, I started my PhD-program and on our 10-year-anniversary, we married. This was eight years ago. We were going a lot, I was most definitely an alcoholic back then, but a functional one. She took good care of me.
After one year of our marriage, she proposed to open our relationship in 2017. She had never slept with anyone else and after 13 years and with the contract and all that, we thought our relationship would be strong enough to persevere anything that comes. One year later again, I found a woman who I really liked and we started dating. We fell in love and tried to make it work. My wife gave her best to accomodate my new relationship and we talked a lot about polyamory, but in the end we were just too unexperienced. Our relationship was based on not talking about problematic aspects and rather just keep carrying on, but that doesn't work with such a complex situation at hand. We were overwhelmed by our feelings and especially for me it was hard, because the new woman was talking about kids constantly. I wished to have a family since forever, but for my wife that was not an option. I thought, we could find another solution like adoption, but oh my, how naive I was! With almost no money and being physically capable of getting kids on our own, we had no chance. My wife didn't want to do that with her body which I can totally understand. So I was drawn to that other woman too much and my marriage crumbled. Sadly, just some weeks later the new woman left me for a guy she was dating before and also because I was in a really bad place back then and accussed her of not taking enough care of me. It was so sad.
So, I fell into the worst depression of my life. This was 2019. I was 31, drank more than ever before and took a lot of drugs. There were times when I went out partying from Friday to Monday on a regular basis without even sleeping or going home. There was nothing there. At the same time, I started therapy and finally understood why I was feeling so bad all the time. I was diagnosed with PTSD and major depression and learned some basic techniques to work on myself through ACT (= acceptance and commitment therapy). All year I was processing the break-ups and did little else than trying to cling to life with all I had. I spend New Year's abroad and though almost one year had passed, I still had not fully recovered from losing the two people I loved the most on this planet.
So, 2020 started and I tried to get sober for the first time in my life. I made it to 9 weeks, which was one of my proudest achievements to that day. I thought that now I had learned my lesson and that I could "drink normally" now, of which I know that it doesn't work. So, COVID came and I went for a walk with a young women from my reading circle. She was my student for 2 years prior and we also had a good connection. She was smart, funny, kind, wild and beautiful. You can imagine what happened next: We sat down by the river, got us some bottles of booze and drank and talked all night. We went to my place and kissed. One week later, I went to visit her at her place with a bottle of wodka, we made out and slept together. I liked her very, very much.
In the next month, it became a full blown affair. She was in a long-distance relationship back then and they had a "don't ask, don't tell"-policy. I was happy to have to have to spend my time with, so experience intimacy and just to talk. We talked about everything and she loved to listen. Back then, I worked as a Cultural Scientist and naturally had a lot to tell about the workings of the world. We read books together and discussed them, which is what I always dreamed of in a relationship. A year later, she had already broken up with her boyfriend, she asked me if we should try it as a couple. Of course we should, darling! Don’t you know that I loved you since the day we went for a walk? Sure, let’s do it. I’ll give it everything I have.
I was on and off from alcohol during that first year, but just a couple of weeks after we decided to be together I got really, really badly drunk and she got scared of my real self. So I did the only right thing and went to sobriety training. This was August 13th 2021 and I haven’t had a drink since then.
I can’t write about the rest, because it hurts too much.
Short version:
She didn’t quit drinking, which lead to many, many problems. She cheated on me while drunk and lied about it, which shattered my heart to dust. I forgave her, she did it again. I tried to convince her to stop drinking because I was so scared that it would happen again, but I was too pushy and aggressive. I didn’t know of Al Anon back then and their principles, I would be so much wiser now. I can't forgive myself for being so mean to her when she messed up. I should have seen that she's struggling and give her redemption. Instead, I yelled at her and threw her out of my flat because she fell and hurt herself while being drunk. That's not acceptable. You simply don't do that, no matter how you much you hate alcohol and how hurt you are yourself.
Last year was very hard and we broke up several times, but always found back to each other. Finally, on December we broke up for good and met for the first time last week. I was so full of hope that she finally understood and took measures to quit, so we could be together and start a family. We always dreamed of children and our own life, we just loved each other so very, very much. But instead, she told me that she’s dating someone also, actually that they were already dating in between out break-ups and that they already kissed when she was abroad over two years ago. So, basically this whole relationship has been a lie and she was betraying me knowingly for years. I don’t know how to process this. I’m not angry at her, she is way younger (28 now) and just wanted to live her life. She made mistakes with not telling me because she wanted to make it easier for me, but easy isn’t important, truth is. Although she’s a cheater, a liar and constantly neglected my needs, I don’t blame her. She was also raised in difficult circumstances and with all the bullshit I have done in my life, who am I to judge? I loved her, love her and will love her all my life because I see her for who she really is and nothing will ever change this. I wish her the best of luck with her new boy who seems to be a genuinely nice and smart person. They drink, though. Nothing more to say.
I’m 36 now. I wanted to start my family at 30 and failed three consecutive times. It’s gonna take me at least a year to recover from that news, I still had so much hope. I’m so scared that I’ll never find a partner again whom I loved so much like her. I was with my wife for 13 years, but these 4 years with her were without any comparison. She showed me so many things I never even dreamed of, she made me laugh every single day and she was the smartest, bravest, craziest little whirlwind you can imagine. But also, she was insulting and hurting at times. Honest she never was. I know that there’s nothing to be done, but it hurts so bad that there were times in the last weeks I thought I must die.
I long so very much for love and tranquility and a deep connection. With my background in science, philosophy, arts and literature, it’s very hard to find someone who’s deeply interested in all that stuff and on a similar level and also not the most boring you ever met at the same time. I also work in a techno club and meet a lot of people there, but most of them are so daft that they wouldn’t recognize a complex and beautiful thought if it slapped them in the face with a skateboard.
I know that I have take to care of myself first and foremost before I can start again to look for a new partner. But I feel like my time is running out and that she was the last chance I had to start a family. Who’s gonna want an old bum who’s chattering all the time about his sobriety and his wild years, constantly lamenting about what he’s lost? And that I will do, because it meant so much to me and with my condition I’m gonna relive every part of these relationships forever ad infinitum nauseam.
Every day is a struggle without her.
But the one thing I can be proud of: I didn’t start drinking again, it was not even close. I knew that there would never be a chance for something healthy if I just had one drink. I made a lot of mistakes and did a lot of things I’m not proud of in this time, but this one I didn’t make.
And I won’t make it today either.
Because I know, if I want to experience beauty and love again, I have to be me best self and this I can only be sober, healthy and clear-headed.
And it surely helps to imagine the future love of my life sitting somewhere in her room, sipping on her wine and reading sobriety literature which she finally bought half a year ago but didn’t came around to read it because of all the other books she has started and not finished yet. But after the last incident, she decided to give it a try.
If you read this, future love of my life:
IWNDWYT
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2024.05.29 11:37 A_Les_DemeanOur THIS IS WHAT ASSASSINS CREED SHADOWS SHOULD OF BEEN!

YASUKE
POINTS
  1. Thats one line of missions, only his character is on, and everyones story is seperate with separate missions changble characters etc!
UNAMED JAPANESE MALE CHARACTER
UNAMED FEMALE CHARACTER
POINTS
  1. All of these characters would have there own set of missions, side characters etc, near to the end there stories become intertwined to do with templars etc.
  2. Each of the characters also would have there own play styles.
UNAMED JAPANESE MALE CHARACTER PLAYSTYLE
YUSUKES PLAY STYLE
UNAMED FEMALE CHARACTER
TAKEAWAY I think these play styles would of added alot of depth and character to all the characters. This is how the game should of been.
Tell me what you guys think!!!
PS: UBISOFT, YOU COULD STILL DELAY THE GAME AND USE MY IDEAS!
THIS WOULD OF BEEN GOOD!
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