Choot ka maja hindi me

Hi everyone,
I just want to get it this out of my chest kaya pashare lang po.
Natalo ang Dad ko sa last barangay elections. He's been into politics for the last 20 years of my life (I'm 29, F) pero I've never been really inspired of him. Nakita ko kasi kung ano ang nagagawa ng greed at entitlement sa tao at kitang kita ko yun noon sa mga magulang ko nung nasa posisyon pa sila. I actually kind of hated them talaga because of it. Sobrang dami nilang stupid decisions na ginawa throughout their life dahil lang may access sila sa pera. And the one of the worst para sakin is yung gusto nilang magpanggap akong Ate ng panganay ko because di kami kasal ng LIP which di ako pumayag, of course. I actually moved out years ago.
Me and my immediate family (my 2 kids & LIP) are very religious din talaga. Bonding moment na namin ang Sunday school with the kids, praying, bumibili din ako ng mga bible na interactive for kids, going to mass etc.
I remember na nung nasa pwesto ang tatay ko, naiinis sya sa Father ng church namin, to the point na di sya pumasok sa simbahan nung binyag ng anak ko dahil kagalit nya si Father. Di kasi pumayag si Father gawing parking lot ng mga residents yung gilid ng simbahan dito. Ganyan ka entitled ang tatay ko.
Now, dahil wala ng kaibigan ang tatay ko at wala na sigurong matakbuhan, lagi ng nakikiride sa mga posts namin about God and the Bible. I actually delete his comments kasi tingin ko talaga napakaimpokrito nya. Naalala ko lahat ng sinabi nya. I remembered na sinabihan nya ko noon na basta umuwi lang daw ako sa bahay, tuturuan nya ko pano kumita ng 100k ng papirma pirma lang.
Galit na galit ako sakanya nung gusto namin magcelebrate ng bday ang anak namin sa shelter ng street children, dahil sya ang nakapwesto, need magpaapprove sa kanya. Di nya kami pinayagan dahil marurumi daw ang mga bata doon. Napakakapal ng mukha.
I know God wants me to forgive. Pero ang hirap. 🥲 Whenever I see him, hindi tatay ko ang nakikita ko. Ang nakikita ko yung mga batang ninakawan nya ng dapat sakanila, mg magulang na nakakagawa ng mali dahil sa gutom, mga pamilya sana na mas may maginhawa pang buhay kundi dahil sakanila.
Nakaasa na ngayon ang tatay ko sa LPG business nya para ipagamot yung now legally blind kong nanay, and pagaralin for the 3rd time yung PWD (mentally challenged) kung kapatid. Pero di ko alam, wala parin akong maramdaman na awa para sakanya.
Totoo pala. Mahirap pala talaga magpatawad. Thanks for reading guys!!

Hi everyone,
I just want to get it this out of my chest kaya pashare lang po.
Natalo ang Dad ko sa last barangay elections. He's been into politics for the last 20 years of my life (I'm 29, F) pero I've never been really inspired of him. Nakita ko kasi kung ano ang nagagawa ng greed at entitlement sa tao at kitang kita ko yun noon sa mga magulang ko nung nasa posisyon pa sila. I actually kind of hated them talaga because of it. Sobrang dami nilang stupid decisions na ginawa throughout their life dahil lang may access sila sa pera. And the one of the worst para sakin is yung gusto nilang magpanggap akong Ate ng panganay ko because di kami kasal ng LIP which di ako pumayag, of course. I actually moved out years ago.
Me and my immediate family (my 2 kids & LIP) are very religious din talaga. Bonding moment na namin ang Sunday school with the kids, praying, bumibili din ako ng mga bible na interactive for kids, going to mass etc.
I remember na nung nasa pwesto ang tatay ko, naiinis sya sa Father ng church namin, to the point na di sya pumasok sa simbahan nung binyag ng anak ko dahil kagalit nya si Father. Di kasi pumayag si Father gawing parking lot ng mga residents yung gilid ng simbahan dito. Ganyan ka entitled ang tatay ko.
Now, dahil wala ng kaibigan ang tatay ko at wala na sigurong matakbuhan, lagi ng nakikiride sa mga posts namin about God and the Bible. I actually delete his comments kasi tingin ko talaga napakaimpokrito nya. Naalala ko lahat ng sinabi nya. I remembered na sinabihan nya ko noon na basta umuwi lang daw ako sa bahay, tuturuan nya ko pano kumita ng 100k ng papirma pirma lang.
Galit na galit ako sakanya nung gusto namin magcelebrate ng bday ang anak namin sa shelter ng street children, dahil sya ang nakapwesto, need magpaapprove sa kanya. Di nya kami pinayagan dahil marurumi daw ang mga bata doon. Napakakapal ng mukha.
I know God wants me to forgive. Pero ang hirap. 🥲 Whenever I see him, hindi tatay ko ang nakikita ko. Ang nakikita ko yung mga batang ninakawan nya ng dapat sakanila, mg magulang na nakakagawa ng mali dahil sa gutom, mga pamilya sana na mas may maginhawa pang buhay kundi dahil sakanila.
Nakaasa na ngayon ang tatay ko sa LPG business nya para ipagamot yung now legally blind kong nanay, and pagaralin for the 3rd time yung PWD (mentally challenged) kung kapatid. Pero di ko alam, wala parin akong maramdaman na awa para sakanya.
Totoo pala. Mahirap pala talaga magpatawad. Thanks for reading guys!!

So I met this beautiful girl sa Reddit sa Ph4Dating sub 3 months ago.
I posted kasi dun na I'm looking for a special someone marami yong nag message saken to the point na nasa 40+ yong requests hahaha. But there was this one girl na nag papansin talaga HAHAHA sa comments to capture my attention which worked. So we exchanged pic and to my surprise, she was beautiful (morena) and tall. She also finds me attractive based on my looks and height SKL HAHAHA
Taga batangas sya and I'm from bicol, Distance was not a problem i have naman a car and yong parents ko merong property sa batangas so any time pwede kami mag kita pero due to our work and businesses we have tight schedule so hanggang vc lang muna.
So we talked for 3 weeks palaging kaming nag uupdate, usap about life, nag lalaro ng games, SOP HAHAHAHA and sext.
Pero napagod ako why?
Sa 3 weeks na yon walang araw na di kami nag aaway, She was very toxic palagi sya nag sisimula nang away which ako palagi ang nag sosorry. Isa pang turn off na nalaman ko ay nag vavape(everyday) sya at mahilig mag party which is hindi ko gusto kasi sa ganitong edad (23) I'm looking for a potential wife na responsible, may control sa sarili, mature at marunong humawak ng pera.
Napuno na ako kasi di kona kaya ang toxicity, Kasi ba naman pagod ka nga sa work at pag manage ng business sasalubong pa sayo katoxican, So ang ending nag usap kami ng masinsinan which lasted for 4 hours (seminar yarn) Inexplain ko sakanya everything kung ano yong nararamdaman namen at kung saan patungo ang talking stage.
So Ayun we both agree to stop talking to each other. We don't want to waste each other's time
Nakokosensya lang ako kasi I know that she is a soft and caring girl. Alam ko na umiiyak sya nun at i know deep down she still clings for my love and affection.
Redditors did I do the right thing? Any advice?

One of my friends is in a relationship with someone none of us (her circle) approves of. At first we tried to be civil although he's really giving an off vibe. Then feeling namin masyado na siya naging comfortable since nakakausap na nga namin siya to the point na he talks to us informally already. I mean, we don't care about the age naman talaga (he's younger than us) it's actually okay if casual lang siya makipag-usap para we won't feel too old lol. Pero kasi, yung tone? I think that's it e. Idk kung arte lang namin 'to pero sana gets niyo? Kasi diba there's a certain tone talaga na when you hear from someone na di mo super close parang ma-o-off ka? Ganon. Then he also started calling us our nicknames na within the circle lang actually. Siguro kasi naririnig niya sa friend namin pero kasi!!! 😭 Alsoooo!!! He likes sending us random private messages. Like: "Hi. Kumusta ka na?" mga ganyan.
Kapag may lakad kami, he demands update from us. FROM US!!! Hindi sa jowa niya. He'll be like: "Kasama niyo si ano diba?", "Asan kayo ngayon?", "Sino ba mga kasama niyo?", "Update mo ako kung anong ginagawa niya." LIKE BWISIT KA NAGPAALAM NAMAN NA SAYO FRIEND NAMIN BAKIT ANG DAMI MO PANG TANONG?! Also, kailangan ba talaga i-update ka oras oras? For sure naman before going nasabi na sayo saan kami pupunta at kung sino-sino kami. What's the need of asking us pa ONE BY ONE. Isa-isa pa kami imemessage with the same question kainis. Every gala ganon siya. Tapos madalas di na lang nakakasama friend namin kasi di siya papayag na hindi siya kasama. EH GIRLS HANGOUT YON BAKIT KA SASAMA?!!
One time, my friends visited me sa place ko which is 4hrs drive pa. Tapos I think my friend failed to tell him saan na siya since nalowbatt siya sa byahe (but nagmessage siya nung pauwi na kami!). Sa akin siya nagmessage since ako yung pinuntahan. He started lashing out on me. EH KAGIGISING KO LANG?!! I was so pissed kasi he's already talking sh*t about my friend saying: "Ginagago na ako niyang kaibigan niyo" and such. He also threatened me na di na raw niya ever papayagan friend namin kapag kami ang kasama. So I snapped. I was like: SINO KA BA? Then ayun, magka-away na talaga kami after non. Mas hindi na siya makasama sa gala kasi my friend won't bring him. I told her about the fight. Even sent her his messages para alam niya na ganon jowa niya magsalita about her. PARA HINDI LANG NAKAREPLY GINAGAGO KA NA? BONAK. He tried to apologize pero duh. Kapal mo naman.
Today, my friend sent a message to our GC telling us to accept her friend request. It turns out that her boyfriend (or ex idk) unfriended us using HER account. So epal talaga!!! Then someone asked if they broke up blahblah. She said she already blocked him and he's annoying.
I was the last one to open the GC and I think I got a little overjoyed. I even replied "HOORAY 🙌🏻" about the break up question. 😭 Then I replied in almost every messages about the guy, trash talking him. I'm usually a seener in our GC but today ako ata pinakamadaldal.
However, after my little celebration, I felt EXTREMELY guilty. What if too much pala? Baka na-offend friend ko (PROBABLY!!!) kasi ang saya ko eh wala na nga ata sila huhu. I didn't ask pa if okay lang siya or how is she coping up since ilang years din sila. Mas nauna pa ako magsaya. 😭
I'm feeling guilty, I know I should say sorry but at the same time I don't want to because that sorry will be useless cuz I actually mean everything I said about the guy. 🫠 Pero still, I want to say sorry for my insensitivity. BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW KSHSKSKSKSKS

Part 2 Reference: https://www.reddit.com/OffMyChestPH/s/xwlcpMlBXO
(Baka last update na ituu.)
May nabasa kasi ako na parang di raw totoo ‘to kasi ang daming nangyari within 2-3 weeks.
Actually, pang fourth time na pang gagago na ‘to. I don’t know, everything became messy after my birthday last December, after giving me a promise ring (na mej maluwag) and after we went to Pandora para pasukatan ang ring finger ko for engagement ring “daw”, lol. Sign na siguro ‘yung maluwag na promise ring HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA.
First was last Dec, few days after my birthday, he went to our house around 10PM, lasing siya that time, galing siya sa bahay ng pinsan nila, boys night keme, but he only stayed for few minutes kasi babalik daw siya doon. Pero he told me to wait for him kasi sa’min daw siya matutulog. I waited for him, hanggang sa napuyat na ko wala pa rin. I called him many times pero walang sagot. Nag alala pa ko no’n coz dala niya ‘yung sasakyan niya, syempre naisip ko that time naaksidente na or what.
The next morning, ang dami kong missed call from his sister, asking me if I was with him hindi raw kasi umuwi hindi rin matawagan. We were all worried about him, ‘yung pinsan niya na pinuntahan niya wala ring idea kung nasaan siya kasi umalis rin daw doon pagkabalik. Guess what kung saan siya galing? Sa bahay ng current girlfriend ng ex fling ko. Oo, ang hirap paniwalaan pero yes super smol ng world. Actually, sila ‘yung common denominator namin kaya humaba usapan namin nung first usap namin sa getting to know each other stage. Friend niya ‘yung current girlfriend ng ex fling ko and nakakasama niya sa gatherings ‘yung ex fling ko pero hindi sila close. Anyways, my ex-BF hated my ex-fling, after ko kasi sagutin si ex-BF, ex-fling messaged me na bakit daw jinowa ko si ex-BF. And nung first month namin ni ex-BF, ilang beses ako pinuntahan ni ex-fling sa bahay iwan lang si ex-BF. Mas gwapo si ex-fling pero mas gago, medyo messy rin kasi ‘yung story namin HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA. Toro kasi ako before, kaya attracted ako sa red. It’s another story.
Going back, hindi ko rin alam mahal yata ako ni Lord kasi nakita ko lang naman na may story si current GF ni ex-fling na nasa inuman siya tas iba na ‘yung kutob ko. I messaged my ex-fling, I asked him kung nasaan girlfriend niya, he told me na kasama daw ni Zena, nag inom daw last night (pinsan ni current GF ni ex fling). Around 11AM, nakauwi na si ex-BF, I asked him saan siya galing, he told me sa bahay daw ni Zena siya galing with their other tropa. Syempre I already know, na nandoon din si current girlfriend ni ex-fling so I asked him if kasama ba niya ‘yon, HE TOLD ME NA NO AND HE DENIED. I messaged ex-fling if totoo ba na kasama ng girlfriend niya si Zena, sabi oo daw she even sent him a pic with Zena. So I told him my ex-BF’s answer to me na kasama rin daw si Zena. And there, ex-BF and ex-fling’s current GF were both telling us na kasama nila si Zena but denying na kasama nila ang isa’t isa. Later on, we found out from their other kasama na oo nga na parehas nga silang nandoon at magkatabi pa daw sa inuman and same room rin natulog but with Zena daw. We broke up after that but few weeks nag come back rin coz he missed me daw and that he’s sorry about what he did, the lying and denying but not sorry na nakasama niya si current GF ni ex-fling. They’re just friends lang daw talaga. Syempre, pinatawad ko, ginaslight ko pa sarili ko na baka OA lang ako. But you know what, later on I found out na clingy rin pala sila during that time, na kapag nac-CR si current GF ni ex-fling nagpapasama siya kay and ex-BF.
That was the first. The second was last Feb, nahuli ko siya na nag drunk chat sa crush niya na mahilig mag post ng naka-bikini and luwa ang suso. Binati niya ng Happy V-Day! Obob ko sobra, if you’re my friend baka nilublob mo na ko sa timba. But anyways, ayoko na. Too much na, I don’t have any plans na bumalik pa. Di na rin naman ‘yon babalik, and nakakahiya na rin sa sarili ko at sa mga kaibigan ko if babalikan ko pa. This is just a phase, things will get better rin.
Update with him and new girl, ex-BF changed his profile pic na ako ‘yung nag pic. New girl commented, “Bakit ka nagpalit DP, ayaw mo na ba sa luma?” with laughing emoji. And they went out today, guess what where he brought her? To our favorite resto, hehe. I don’t have any plans of doing any pettiness but my friends plan to. He has a secret na ang may alam lang ay ang family niya and me and his ex-GF, nalaman ko lang dahil malikot ang kamay ko and wala siyang choice kung hindi ang umamin.
Update with girl besty, she’s back in the US. Anyways, may nabasa ako na wala naman daw cheating sa ginawa nung dalawa, lols. Ang dami kong screenshot ng convo nila, favorite ko pa nga doon ay ‘yung screenshot ng suggestion niya. My ex-BF told her na nag aaway kami because of her, and this was her answer: “Makipag break ka na lang. Kasi di’ba may gano’n? Kapag di na nila kaya, araw araw nag aaway, wala na sa ayos, makipagbreak ka na lang.”
I already blocked him and all his friends and fam na rin. I really want peace.

we’ve been together for 6months. we do things together and all. i broke up with him kasi too much na for me. rude magsalita, simpleng bagay inaaway ako, umabot din sa point na naitulak niya ako, hinahagis gamit ko when i am about to leave kapag nag aaway kami. he really exhaust me but he’s also the one who makes me happy. btw, i’m [f26] and my ex [m25]
first few months: nagkakilala kami sa bar tapos usap then nagclick kami. few weeks okay naman siya mabait. pala kwento and all. usually he talks about his ex na toxic daw. na madami daw atraso sakanya and utang. i always listen lang naman sakanya kasi kahit ako nagkkwento about sa ex ko. nothing off naman for me kung ikwento niya ex niya. but in that story he’s the victim like they just ghosted each other. 3yrs yung relationship nila. so i just brush it off and go with the flow. we had out first kiss, tapos after nun inaway niya ako kasi i was unsure with my feelings nun. imagine 2 weeks palang kami nag uusap lalatagan niya ko ng “bat mo ko kiniss if wala ka nararamdaman sakin” linawin ko daw sakanya and all. i am not the person who easily falls for a guy. idk kung ako ba may problema. kasi the first time we talk sabi ko can he wait for me na maging okay ako mentally then we will push this thing we had. pero habang tumatagal nappressure ako and inaaway niya ako parati. bakit daw di ko siya kinocompliment. kesyo daw di ko naman talaga siya bet napilitan lang ako. buti pa daw ibang tao sinasabihan siya ng pogi ako hindi. actually marami pang petty fights. nakikipag away din siya sakin kahit na nasa office ako nagwowork. and ayun nakilala ko siya na wala siyang work. tinanggap ko siya ng buo. after a month sinagot ko siya mahal niya ako mahal ko siya. tinanggap ko siya ng buo. pero habang tumatagal lumalala kasi. di ako nag i love you nagalit. there was also a time na nagagalit siya bakit daw di ko pa siya nakikita sa future ko eh 2 months palang kami nun. nakikita na daw niya ako bilang asawa niya. i mean i am not that kind of person since complicated yung fam ko. but hindi niya iniintindi yun instead inaaway niya ako kapag ganun. i’m sorry, pero i am not the kind of person na mabilis makita yung future niya. i mean no offense sakanya, pero maski work wala pa nga siya. nag buy and sell naman siya ng products. pero idk iba pa rin pag may work. hanggang sa naging hobby ata niya pang aaway sakin. he even use my past against me. bakit daw nagpapareto pa ako 2 yrs ago. i don’t even know him that time. ginagamit lang daw ako ng mga ex ko. di daw genuine love sakin. siya daw super genuine niya and all. dun nagrevolve yung relationship. parati akong careful sa sasabihin ko kasi may mali lang na isa aawayin ako. yung away namin umaabot ng 2-5 hrs minsan buong shift ko sa work inaaway lang ako. and recently, i got out of that relationship. nagbeg pa siya and all pero my decision was final na. namimiss ko siya ngayon sobra. ang hirap bumangon. just wanna ask lang din. tama naman yung ginawa ko no? i mean i got out for my peace and for my self respect. tiniis ko kasi sa ilang buwan yung ganung ugali. sobrang hirap ako bumangon and mag heal right now. naubos kasi ako.

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Pasensya na kung mahaba dahil ineexpress ko lang po yung feelings ko genuinely
Hi M25 here. Wala nang paligoy ligoy pa. Hindi ako magaling mag English. I mean I can watch movies pero with subtitle, and kayang makipag chat na gamit ay English language but heck napaka hirap intindihin kapag verbally mo na naririnig yung mga accent nila without subtitle or kapag nakipag usap ka sa foreigner ganon, basta english, bigla akong na-ffreeze.
Even sa work, I’m already on mid level na, na ang expectation is dapat maning-mani na sa akin itong mga ganitong soft skills pero hindi and madalas ako lang ang Pinoy sa project then the rest ay Germans or Irish na nag eenglish, nakakahiya pero minsan nag rerequest ako sa kanila na bagalan nila salita nila kasi I’m tryng my best to understand them. Kasi ako yung talo kapag di ko naintindihan yung buong meeting.
Nag aaral naman ako sa youtube and panay nood ng mga youtuber na nag eenglish, naiintindihan ko sila for example si Carlo Ople, nagegets ko siya dahil siguro sa pag pronounce niya ng sentences? Pero kapag yung normal convo with a german or irish people, grabe napaka hirap. Yung naka kunot na yung noo ko na parang pang meme
ako’y nappressure na, and malaki yung epekto sakin kasi it affects yung quality ng work ko like kunyari iba pala pagkakaintindi ko sa pagkakaintindi nila (i.e sa work) and the likes. Na minsan kahit itanong ko ng pangalawang beses, hindi ko parin ma-gets kaya minsan hindi ko na lang pinapaulit kasi nakakahiya sa end ko and will just ping them for clarification.
though sanay na din naman ako mag present dahil kasama sa work ko and nakakagawa ako ng personal script pero pag dating sa Q&A, alam mo yung alam mo yung sagot pero hindi mo pang masabi ng tama kasi hindi mo alam kung pano i-start englishin? Tbh talo pa ako ng 5 year old kid na panay nood ng peppa pig sa englishan
So ayun, gusto ko lang sana mag ask ng TIPS, literal na tips na pang bobo na kagaya ko na kung pano talaga ako magiimprove makipag communicate or umintindi kasi gustong gusto ko na talaga mag improve at nahihirapan na po talaga ako
Again, Pasensya na kung mahaba dahil ineexpress ko lang po yung feelings ko genuinely
Salamat sa mga makakaintindi.

Hi guys, I just want to ask if may bayad ang disconnection ng Globe Fiber. Nasira kasi ang router nung Globe Fiber namin dahil nabasa ng rain water leaks. Pero kakabayad lang namin nung nasira yung router. Now 4 days na kami walang internet and ang hirap especially for me na student at sa mga nagtatrabaho sa bahay. Nakailang reach out na kami sa Globe at Home ayaw nila magsend ng technician and ayaw din sabihin paano ang disconnection procedure. Pag nagpunta ka sa messenger wala na yung disconnection option sa bot chat nila. And everytime na natawag kami sa hotline operator lang ang nasagot. Now we want to change ISP, but hindi namin sure paano madidisconnect ang Globe Fiber namin. It's ok ba na wag na lang bayaran para madisconnect na nila or need ireach out pa rin sa kanila. Thank you in advance everyone!
Ps. I'm from Cavite (for location reference)

I find myself writing this while laying down and asking why am I giving up so easily with my work now.
Sobrang pabigat na ako sa work. I don't deliver my deliverables well. Umay na ako sa mga squammy ko na mga ka-trabaho. Everytime our meeting would end, I would make face when I dropped na. Sukang suka na ako at hindi ko na sila vibes. I sacrifice my rest days to pay the bills. I didn't have the sense of fulfilment while working here.
3 years na ako sa work, the longest one I've been with. The valid reason I can think of leaving is the pay, hindi na siya kaya ng mga bayarin ko. I support my brother and bought a house. If hindi pa ako mag work ng rest days, kulang ang ibabayad ko.
Umiibabaw rin feeling ko na that the job isn't right for me. Some people get it fast it habang ako hindi? Dito ako nalulungkot kasi I exert effort but it isn't enough. I'm serious about my work, but I get stomped down kapag may nakita na mali.
Its hard to find balance in life. Pero, I only live once and a life to cherish. If I always feel this way, its a reason to quit. I want to be in an environment where I can flourish and appreciated.
I'm afraid this might happen again if I went to a different company in a different environment.

reddit family i need your insights please wala akong trusted person na pwede ako mag open up ng nararamdaman ko.people around me betrayed me already. Hindi ko maintindihan ang emotions ko ngayon regarding sa situation namin mag asawa relating source of income. I am a housewife from day 1 up to now. My husband used to work abroad for few years before until i found out all his cheating business, we both struggled and dito na siya nag work.we are slowly moving on for how many years nakalimutan ko na lahat we are doing good but financially matter dumating na kmi sa part na eto nahihirapan na siya since wala naman ako ambag financially and pag aabroad na lang ang madaliang option niya.at malapit na siya umalis. And here I am parang lahat ng memories ko bumalik lahat ng pain kahit paulit ulit ko sinasabi sa sarili ko na practical lang dapat kasi may dalawang anak kmi at wala din naman ako. Wala akong balak pigilan siya kasi sa panahon ngayon mas kailangan natin ang pera. Pero sobrang hindi ko maintindihan ang sarili ko bigla na lang akong umiiwas sa kanya at nandidiri ako.we don’t talk about plans niya siya lang nag decide since yun na lang ang option niya.ako parang robot lang na ah okay something ganun lang na usapan no deep conversations happened. Ngayon parang ako pa ang nagmamadali na makaalis na siya dahil naiirita ako kapag andito siya.very opposite ako before this decision happens. Ganun na ba ako ka bad o talaga bang di ko tanggap o may something pa sakin?nahihirapan na ko pero di ko kayang umiyak di ko kayang ilabas. Thank you in advance sa mga insights nyo

reddit family i need your insights please wala akong trusted person na pwede ako mag open up ng nararamdaman ko.people around me betrayed me already. Hindi ko maintindihan ang emotions ko ngayon regarding sa situation namin mag asawa relating source of income. I am a housewife from day 1 up to now. My husband used to work abroad for few years before until i found out all his cheating business, we both struggled and dito na siya nag work.we are slowly moving on for how many years nakalimutan ko na lahat we are doing good but financially matter dumating na kmi sa part na eto nahihirapan na siya since wala naman ako ambag financially and pag aabroad na lang ang madaliang option niya.at malapit na siya umalis. And here I am parang lahat ng memories ko bumalik lahat ng pain kahit paulit ulit ko sinasabi sa sarili ko na practical lang dapat kasi may dalawang anak kmi at wala din naman ako. Wala akong balak pigilan siya kasi sa panahon ngayon mas kailangan natin ang pera. Pero sobrang hindi ko maintindihan ang sarili ko bigla na lang akong umiiwas sa kanya at nandidiri ako.we don’t talk about plans niya siya lang nag decide since yun na lang ang option niya.ako parang robot lang na ah okay something ganun lang na usapan no deep conversations happened. Ngayon parang ako pa ang nagmamadali na makaalis na siya dahil naiirita ako kapag andito siya.very opposite ako before this decision happens. Ganun na ba ako ka bad o talaga bang di ko tanggap o may something pa sakin?nahihirapan na ko pero di ko kayang umiyak di ko kayang ilabas. Thank you in advance sa mga insights nyo

Warning: Please excuse the wrong grammars and sentences, I’m not very good at explaining but I am happy to learn if you have any corrections
I’ve noticed how my face is asymetric during pandemic. I was made aware of this when I was in grade 6, when a friend asked me “bat tagibang yung face mo” (this is translated since bisaya ako), I didn’t think much of it since shini-ship ako sa mga kaklase ko or sa schoolmates ko (GWAPA). But during the pandemic, the argument between how people percieve your face and which is more accurate ba sa mirror or sa back cam ng phone mo. I tried looking sa mirror and I found myself pretty pero nung nag pic ako using back cam, dun ko nakita lahat ng imperfections and literal na tabingi yung mukha ko. Of course, I became insecure and I prefered to just stay quiet.
Fast forward. Nag christmas celebration kami sa bukidnon last year, with my family and cousins. The morning of December 25, nag-gather kami para kumain at umalis sa ni-rentahan namin. Suddenly, my cousin looked at me and told how asymmetrical my face is. Most of my family members were there and I fought hard to not cry eventhough my tears were already falling. She gave advices but I still think she was wrong for saying that out loud in front of our family members.
I did become more confident since hindi ko na mina-mind yung pagmumukha ko but everytime I look in the mirror I can’t help but just whisper “hindi ka maganda” or if I’m out with my friends and they begin to rant about how ugly they are, knowing full well they aren’t, just breaks me and degrades my whole excistence. Mas naging malala din to since sinasabihan ako ng mama ko na ang itim itim ko na raw tapos ano na nangyari sa pagmumukha ko. Sometimes nagsasabi din siya na ang panget ko tapos ikukumpara pa ako sa kuya ko, na makinis, maputi at gwapo.

Katuwaan lang ito kaso di to mangyayari without your help. Hindi naman kita ipapakilala as a girlfriend, as a friend lang. Gusto ko kasi matameme or matigil na siya sa kakakamusta sa ex ko. Lalo na favorite niya kasi yun. Kaunting exposure lang naman saka selfie tayo. Para matahimik muna silang lahat. Kaya lang, gusto ko sana mahigitan mo ex ko base sa looks and sa pakikitungo sa tao.
Ito yung mga katangian na tingin ko lamang ka sa ex ko if ever.
About you: single, must be 5'5" and above, 25-32, maputi, must be makinis, slim to average build, preferably physically active, g sa intelligent or nerdy conversation, confident with her looks, simple, humble, smells good, hygienic, respectful sa elderlies, from NCR or nearby areas, and not apologist.
About me: 29 pero mukha raw 27 in person, single, 5'10", moreno, fit, gym rat-can do 100burpees in 10mins, can drive, has beard(but i shave weekly), post grad student (big 4), likes toyota cars and believes in toyota's philosophy, stock trader, mabango, does not smoke, drinks occasionally, introvert pero madaldal pag comfy na (INFJ), minsan nerdy, knows a lot in the world of business and politics, from Rizal, hygienic, dog lover, and not apologist.
If interested, hit me up with an intro. Tapos kwentuhan tayo at kain sa labas. If natuloy, planuhin natin. 😄

Hi! OFW ako sa UAE (26F). So ever since I started sa work ko, there is one kabayan (F) na sobra ang galit sakin. To the point na binabantayan niya yung lahat ng kilos ko. My absences/sick leaves, mga ginagawa ko sa floor. As in lahat. She also tends to make stories and spread it to “recruit” others to hate me. It went on for a year now. Noon kasi, I don’t mind it. Para saakin kasi, I’m just there to work and not to befriend them. Tama na saakin yung 2 or 3 friends. Lahat ng mga sinasabi niya behind my back nakakarating sakin and I didn’t bother to correct them before kasi I thought alam ko naman na hindi totoo yun lahat so okay na siguro yun. I was also thinking na maybe if I didn’t give attention to it, maybe it will just stop. Pero hindi. It went on and on.
Mas close ako sa boys and my husband knows it. He knows everything. The thing is, tuwing may kausap ako na lalake na colleague namin, sasabihin niya (colleague ) na nilalandi ko or na-fuck na ako non. She and her circle of friends calls me “pakarat gaming”. There was also a time na I had a very bad breakout because of my hormonal problems, sabi nila it’s because I’m sleeping around and I have a*ds na. It was so bad.
So last night, may nakarating na naman sakin and they are trying to tell my SIL (which is katrabaho din namin) na I’m having an affair with this guy sa work. My SIL and I was able to talk through it and I was able to prove na wala talaga. I even talked to my husband about it and he told me to report them.
So mga Ka-Reddit, ito na nga. Pagod na kong i-ignore yung mga ginagawa nila and I’m starting to feel uncomfortable going to work. Sa group lang nila ako may problema but the rest of the team esp other nationalities love me naman. What should I do? Is it time to report them to the higher management?

My boyfriend(28) and I(25) had a huge fight almost a month ago. Masakit mga nasabi niya sa akin. Sobrang sakit. He told me that he used me to get over sa ex niya and that hindi ko deserved mabigyan ng efforts sa relationship namin. Yong mga words na nagamit sobrang below the belt din. For instance, he told me na ginawa niya akong pampalipas oras niya. Out of pettiness, after ng away namin, i messaged his family. Hindi pa nila ako nameet but aware sila na may jowa na anak nila. I introduced myself nicely and told them about what happened. I also told them na he’s a good man pa rin sa akin despite sa mga pain na nacause niya. Maayos naman jowa ko pero he’s merciless kapag galit. Nakakapagsabi siya ng mga bagay that intentionally could hurt me.
We were able to talk about our issues and naging maayos naman kami. A part of me says na dapat inamin ko yong ginawa ko kaso hindi ko na ginawa and inisip ko na lang na baka hindi nila pinansin or nakita msg ko since wala naman akong reply ka nakuha at all sa family niya and niremove ko yong msg ko.
Nalaman ng jowa ko and he was mad. Pinagmumura niya ako sa chat. He didn’t ask me kung bakit ko ginawa yon, instead he told me na ayaw niya na. I asked him to calm down and pag usapan namin ng maayos kaso ayaw niya. I remember isang episode sa expecially for you when tyang amy said na kapag nag aaway sila ng asawa niya, sa mother in law niya siya nagsasabi and may explanation siya regarding doon. Tho alam ko naman na may kagagahan ako sa nagawa ko. Hindi rin ako sure kung nabasa ba msg ko or since i removed it naman agad or nakita na lang na naremove msg.
ABYG kaso nagsumbong ako sa parents niya about our fight?

about me: - 4th yr med student - 5’1 on the petite curvy side - short hair with tats - madaldal and kalog - likes to hold hands in public - loves hugs - more info when we see each other na hehe
about you: - ung lalakeng love language ay quality time and physical touch please para hindi ko need itago na clingy and affectionate ako as a person uWu. - minimum 5’6 height - mabango - good conversationalist - plus points if you drive for sponty dates
hit me up if pasok ka sa banga with your best photo, see ya! 🫶🏻

Hi. Kamusta? Ako eto, 7 years nang nasa ibang bansa pero hindi parin nakakauwi kahit magbakashon man lang. 28 January 2017, 1 week bago ako umalis papuntang Middle East, nag paalam na ako sa'yo, wala tayong formal closure. We didn't cry in front of each other when I broke the news to you pero kitang-kita ko sa mga mata mo nung mga panahong yun na feeling mo aalis ako kasi gusto kong iwasan yung mga problemang pinagdadaanan mo. I wasn't able to support you nor i-comfort man lang. If I just had a choice at that time, hindi ako aalis. Inisip ko rin naman kasi para sa atin din naman yun kung may babalikan pa ako. I left without looking back. 1 year after, nagchat yung close friend mo sa akin, nagkaroon din sha ng opportunity dito sa Middle East. Nagkita kami. Napag-usapan ka namin. The week before bago kami magkita, kwento ng close friend mo magka video call kayo pero lasing ka at that time kaya ang kumakausap sa kanya is yung bestfriend mo. Habang magkausap sila ng bestfriend mo, naririnig ka nila sa background. Sinasabi mo na "bakit ka umalis, Luis? (not my real name) Bakit mo ko iniwan? Mahal na mahal parin kitang gago ka! Hindi ako mag jojowa ulit kung di lang din ikaw" habang umiiyak ka. Hindi ko alam kung maniniwala ako. Pero wala naman silang rason para magsinungaling sila sakin tungkol sa sinabi mo. Naging matigas ako. Kahit na alam mo na nakarating na sakin yung sinabi mo, hindi parin ako nagparamdam. Kahit yung mga kaibigan mo, sumuko na sa akin. Pero kailangan kong gawin yun hindi dahil sa wala na akong nararamdaman. Kailangan kong gawin yun kasi ayaw na kitang masaktan. Ayaw kitang bigyan ng false hope. Gusto kita maging malaya. Gusto ko magmahal ka din ng iba. Sa 7 years, taun-taon kitang mine-message tuwing birthday mo pero puro reacts lang ang reply na nakukuha ko. Intention ko lang naman is to check-up on you at least once a year pero I think you're no longer interested. Nakakausap ko padin ang mga kaibigan mo, single ka parin sabi nila. Recently, stino-stalk ko yung social media mo. Ang pogi at hot mo na lalo. I think you are already happy with where and what you are right now. I think it is time for me to fully let you go kahit alam kong may nararamdaman parin ako sayo. Mahal padin kitang gago ka. Uuwi na ako in 7 mos. Gusto kitang dalawin sa clinic na pinagta-trabahuhan mo. 'Di ko alam kung magdadala ba ako ng flowers or pasalubong at least. Gusto mo ng sinu-surprise kita especially nung mga panahong tayo pa. Shet bat ngayon palang kinakabahan na ako? Kakamustahin kita. Tatanungin kita kung masaya ka. Siguro, makaka move-on lang ako kung meron ka nang iba. Pero for now, mahal pa rin kita.

Hi guys, I'm from Lower Antipolo and I'm currently interested in learning the sportTennis 🎾. I've found a coach na natuturo around the area and mukhang oks naman, so baka may gusto sumama sakin matuto mag Tennis. Of course may bayad yung coach, so kkb tayo. Hopefully, matuto tayo and pwede na tayo pumalo after.
Also, if baka marunong ka na mag tennis diyan na willing mag turo, I'm also G.
About Me:

• Working as a Developer in Makati
• From Antipolo (as stated above)
• Interests: Learning Tennis, Horror, Travelling, and Photography.

About You:

• Hopefully maayos kausap and hindi mayabang.

Kung hindi kayo na annoy, wag nyo na tong basahin

1. 100,000 gastos sa groceries tapos may pa gulat gulat pang reaction: oo na, mayaman ka
   
2. In every immigration offload stories laging may nagcocomment "sa akin wala masyadong tinanong" "bakit andaming tanong sa inyo, sa akin yung company ID lang" "ako na may PRC license kahit unemployed"
   

OO NA jusko pati ba naman immigration ginagawa nyong flex

1. Upgrading from "iphone 14 pro max to iphone 15 pro max" yoko na mag comment about this
   
2. "where did you get ___" "link on my bio" hindi ko na lang bibilhin
   
3. "I love this skincare product brightens my skin" "look how this makeup cover my dark spots" shamelessly saying these while having clear skin. bonus: naka filter pa
   
4. kpop fans saying "kamukha mo si ____ from _____" sa comment section ng mga attractive people
   
5. instead of shopee reviews nilalagay nila fancams or picture ng kpop idol. (they also do this in twitter) dont get me wrong kpop fan din ako pero sana ilagay sa lugar .
   
6. curious ako yung flags sa profile meaning ba nun ethnicity nila, bakit yung iba sampu
   
7. debatable: guess the bill challenge
   
8. "kastahin" i cant even put into words my anger in any comment section that says this word. it's really inappropriate to comment this on non-thirst trap posts
   

marami pa kaso nakalimutan ko na yung iba

For context, may inoutsource ako na nameet ko online. Sobrang dami kong hinahandle and may team na talaga ko but overwhelmed na kami. This guy has been out of work for a few years already. And considering na same school kami, I know may mataas na standards kami, so I thought why not bigyan siya ng work? So I outsourced 1 project with a basic task with him, and ok naman. May mga kailangan lang icomment etc. but manageable and di ako nahassle. Sa susunod mas malaki na yung role niya, 50% of the project fee binibigay ko since nagtake over na siya.
Ok siya in terms of knowledge and ideas, but parang ang daming hurdles — kulang sa software na needed and may lack of resources to finish a task to the point na pinagamit ko laptop ko. Dito na ko na start mafrustrate, kasi para sakin if kukunin mo yung task daapat fully prepared ka. Ngayon I started feeling like hindi na sulit yung bayad ko kasi 1. My time is being consumed trying to adjust for him and 2. my staff can do the same work na less mahahassle ako, maybe mas matagal, but mas naka-set na yung process and expectations.
This weekend I’ve been checking kung matatapos niya and if need niya ng help and requesting for him to send work in progress para masimulan ko na yung comments knowing na sobrang dami kong gagawin pagdating ng Monday. Alam ko nang ngarag ako. And lagi niyang response later isesend, never sending a WIP — until umabot ng Monday ng madaling araw siya nagsend.
Gumising ako na anxious, and bombarded with messages. Then makikita ko na may mga kulang pa yung submitted work niya, asking me to just annotate ano yung details and siya na mag eedit. Take note buong araw leg work ako, I’ll be moving from one place to another. Literal wala akong space sa brain ko to sit down and check everything in one go. Out of frustration sinabi ko na sa kanya, “im paying you more than my staff, considering na 1 project lang to, sila they handle more. Pero parang mas nahahassle ako if isspoonfeed pa lahat”
From his end, ayaw niya isend na di complete kasi daw para isang edit na lang. but for me, I didn’t have the luxury of time para maupuan yung lahat ng yun hence have been asking for work in progress to comment as needed.
In all fairness to him definitely a huge bulk ng project was his brain. Kaya nga I outsourced kasi brain drain na talaga ako. But what I was frustrated was the circumstances na instead na gumaan pakiramdam ko, it felt like I was catering to his needs. I guess na-hurt siya dun. And he was offended saying things like sinisiksik lang niya sarili niya, and na feeling niya nagiging charity lang etc. He dropped the project kasi di niya kaya magwork na sinabihan siya ng ganon. and ngayon more delay because I have to pull out a staff to finish the task na iniwan niya. Sobrang frustrated ako kahapon and sobrang pagod I tried finishing the task he left and felt like ang gago lang ng situation na I asked for help sa tao na need ng work, and in the end, ako pa yung napasama.
ABYG for being straightforward with how I felt with the situation?

is it me lang or tanan man ta gabatyag ka kapigaduhon subong? halin sa groceries, fruits kag veggies, tapos sa kuryente. hindi na gid masanggan ang presyo ya.

Nag walk in me kanina, ang pangit ko sumagot!!! Lalo na sa part na bakit one month lang exp ko. Hirap i-market ng sarili pag ganto jadjagdhays (Penge tips). Sabi ko kanina pag di ako pumasa dito oks lang kasi hindi ko naman target company ito kumbaga pang exp lang sa interview. Ang bait nung guard btwww pangit lang company dami bad reviews aye.
ANYWAY MAY BAGO NA KONG PET PEEVE. Si ate ko kanina panay tanong kung san ako nakatira eme eme tapos kung newbie ba ko sabi ko one month lang exp ko tapos sabay sabing nag awol daw siguro ako sabay tawa sabi ko hindi SDUJAHDKAJSHDJ ukinammm UKINAM NARINING SIGURO NUNG NAG IINTERVIEW DI AKO PINASA HAHAHAHAHAHAHWHWJHWA grabe ka ate q see u never
Btw, Pa-refer naman sa inyo here lang sana sa QC or malapittt. yung tumatanggap 1 month exp. please
EDITED: thank youuu sa mga nag comment, na-appreciate ko sm lomve u sana masarap ulam niyo