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2024.05.22 05:21 Key_Koala_2455 my best friend is jealous of my boyfriend, what do i do?
For context, my bestfriend,(15F) me(15F) and my boyfriend(15M) are all teenagers . Octoberish 2023, my bestfriend was kicked out by her mother and moved in with me and my family. We spent a lot of time together, and have shared a bedroom since she moved in, (we still do) i believe she has grown attached to me. about 2 - 3 months ago, I got a boyfriend. He is a great boyfriend, and treats me very well, although she has never really liked him.
As of recently, she has become more and more jealous that i spend time with him quite often, she has admitted that she is jealous, and is afraid im going to abandon her. At first, it wasnt too bad, and i got it, but now it has turned into constant fights and disagreements about the issue, the most recent one being last night. the week before, we had a disagreement about it as well, in which she felt we were in the honeymoon phase of our relationship and were spending a lot of time together, making her feel left behind and forgotten. at the end of last weeks disagreement, It ended up being a solution that we have weekly dinners with each other, just us two, no phones or anything. I wasnt really happy with this, but i was willing to come to a compromise because i felt that i had to cater to both her and my boyfriend.
Fast forward, to last nights arguement. Me, my bf and my bsf all go to the same school, but there was no school this week. My bf is only free on friday night, which is when we had originally planned to have dinner, me and her are free everyday besides saturday, so i messaged her "can we swap dinner to sat night?" she said she was busy, so i said "how about sunday?" she said "ill see, why not friday?" I explained to her that my bf is only free that night and i'd like to see him this week as we aren't at school. She responded with "wow ok" in which i said "bru ??" and she said "excuse me" and it went on from there, i said i didnt understand the issue as i was just trying to create a balance between the two and shuffle it around so it worked for everyone, to which she said im blowing her off to see my bf and it went back and fourth like that. I spoke to my mum, my mum went outside and spoke to her, didnt end well, she came back in, we then heard her crying so mum went out to comfort her. After the first time my mum went out and came back in, my bsf proceeded to say that she felt betrayal, i said that i cant deal with it anymore, and it needs to be a boundary that i cannot handle being responsible for jealousy and this stuff when im trying to have balance in the situation it honestly went back and fourth until later that night, when she sent me a massive apology saying how she apologizes for lashing out, how it impacted me, and that she was proud of me for how i handled the situation and standing my ground. she also said she reacted out of fear. I responded in the morning, thanking her for the apology and pointing out that it felt like i was in two relationships having to deal with all this jealousy and find solutions such as weekly dinners to mend our relationship. she responded saying it comes from her jealousy, that shes been holding the standards she holds to herself against me, and how we see spending time with each other as different things. for example, i see that we are with each other majority of the time, but she sees it as if we're not interacting or doing something together its not really spending time with each other. But if there is solutions such as going on dinner dates, it feels like im dating her, which im not interested in doing. there was more in the message but it was mainly about how she lashed out the night before and thanking me for handling it maturely.
Basically, i dont want it to feel like im dating her, and i dont want to have to deal with this jealousy anymore. she says she understands how it must make me feel, and that shes trying to let go of those standards she holds to me, but im not sure i can go again with another of these situations. im honestly sick of it, and frustrated, so, what should i do?
Before you comment saying stuff like "its stupid teenage drama" and whatever else, thats not what I'm looking for, this is seriously affecting me, and making me constantly upset and frustrated. I believe this could ruin my friendship with her.
TL;DR: my bestfriend has been living with me and i think has grown attached, i recently got a boyfriend and she hasnt been taking us spending time well together.
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As of recently, she has become more and more jealous that i spend time with him quite often, she has admitted that she is jealous, and is afraid im going to abandon her. At first, it wasnt too bad, and i got it, but now it has turned into constant fights and disagreements about the issue, the most recent one being last night. the week before, we had a disagreement about it as well, in which she felt we were in the honeymoon phase of our relationship and were spending a lot of time together, making her feel left behind and forgotten. at the end of last weeks disagreement, It ended up being a solution that we have weekly dinners with each other, just us two, no phones or anything. I wasnt really happy with this, but i was willing to come to a compromise because i felt that i had to cater to both her and my boyfriend.
Fast forward, to last nights arguement. Me, my bf and my bsf all go to the same school, but there was no school this week. My bf is only free on friday night, which is when we had originally planned to have dinner, me and her are free everyday besides saturday, so i messaged her "can we swap dinner to sat night?" she said she was busy, so i said "how about sunday?" she said "ill see, why not friday?" I explained to her that my bf is only free that night and i'd like to see him this week as we aren't at school. She responded with "wow ok" in which i said "bru ??" and she said "excuse me" and it went on from there, i said i didnt understand the issue as i was just trying to create a balance between the two and shuffle it around so it worked for everyone, to which she said im blowing her off to see my bf and it went back and fourth like that. I spoke to my mum, my mum went outside and spoke to her, didnt end well, she came back in, we then heard her crying so mum went out to comfort her. After the first time my mum went out and came back in, my bsf proceeded to say that she felt betrayal, i said that i cant deal with it anymore, and it needs to be a boundary that i cannot handle being responsible for jealousy and this stuff when im trying to have balance in the situation it honestly went back and fourth until later that night, when she sent me a massive apology saying how she apologizes for lashing out, how it impacted me, and that she was proud of me for how i handled the situation and standing my ground. she also said she reacted out of fear. I responded in the morning, thanking her for the apology and pointing out that it felt like i was in two relationships having to deal with all this jealousy and find solutions such as weekly dinners to mend our relationship. she responded saying it comes from her jealousy, that shes been holding the standards she holds to herself against me, and how we see spending time with each other as different things. for example, i see that we are with each other majority of the time, but she sees it as if we're not interacting or doing something together its not really spending time with each other. But if there is solutions such as going on dinner dates, it feels like im dating her, which im not interested in doing. there was more in the message but it was mainly about how she lashed out the night before and thanking me for handling it maturely.
Basically, i dont want it to feel like im dating her, and i dont want to have to deal with this jealousy anymore. she says she understands how it must make me feel, and that shes trying to let go of those standards she holds to me, but im not sure i can go again with another of these situations. im honestly sick of it, and frustrated, so, what should i do?
Before you comment saying stuff like "its stupid teenage drama" and whatever else, thats not what I'm looking for, this is seriously affecting me, and making me constantly upset and frustrated. I believe this could ruin my friendship with her.
TL;DR: my bestfriend has been living with me and i think has grown attached, i recently got a boyfriend and she hasnt been taking us spending time well together.
2024.05.22 05:21 sjzero Were the CSPs Done?..
A little over a week ago I had a dealer do the recall for the light bar and 4 pending CSPs. (12v sensor, heated steering wheel, charge cord stuck, and high voltage battery). When I look in the app now the recall is gone and 2 of the 4 CSPs are gone. The two remaining are the stuck cord and high voltage battery. Is it possible the dealer didn’t do it, or maybe it takes longer for the system to register? I’m guessing the online system checks the vehicle’s software versions. For both codes the dealer’s paperwork said, “inspected and confirmed no codes in system and module programming is up to date”. Just seems odd the other items have cleared.
I have to go back tomorrow because the left buttons on the steering wheel stopped working after they did the heated steering wheel. I’m guessing a connector or something. Thoughts?
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I have to go back tomorrow because the left buttons on the steering wheel stopped working after they did the heated steering wheel. I’m guessing a connector or something. Thoughts?
2024.05.22 05:19 BasilTheStoner Am I really a bad and toxic partner? AITAH
First off this happened with my ex and I’m doing extremely better with my new girlfriend. I just wanted to make this post cause I still feel guilty about how I made my ex feel even though everyone tells me I was in the right. I still feel guilty because people close to me are obviously biased so I wanted unbiased opinions.
I(M23) met my Ex(F27) when I was 19 and she was 23. The circumstances for how we got together are a little strange long story short her uncle dated my mom but was a shitty person and was eventually kicked out, but my mom stayed in contact with there family. So when she arrived in the US( they’re from Mexico) and said she hated her job, living situation, life my mom asked her if she wanted to stay with her. Now I wasn’t stoked at first but when I first saw her I instantly fell in love I didn’t even notice the pig poo smell( worked at a farm) she had. Then again I had taken a shroom earlier that day and had taken an edible half an hour before she got there. We got along pretty well from the beginning we both loved anime in particular studio ghibli movies. Plus we were both emotionally bad I had problems at home and with my overindulgence of substances, she was in a new country with no family or friends to rely on and it was her first time away from her family. There was an obvious connection and we both knew it tension kept building up until I kissed her and kept kissing her for a whole hour. But afterwards she said that although she did have feelings for me she couldn’t have a relationship with me. Her reasons were “ I’m way older than you” and “you’re mom will hate me and kick me out” which was untrue because our feelings were so obvious my mom noticed and confronted me about it early on. And she said it was sweet to see me finally happy again.( I had been depressed for a while at the time) But even though I protested she made her decision and I said ok, but obviously since we lived together we wouldn’t be able to just be friends. I’m not going to lie I was wrong in what I did next. I kept insisting that we could be in a relationship and we should try at least, we kissed more times and went on dates but nothing more. Until a month in she finally said ok but with some rules. 1: it had to stay secret and no one could know not even my mom 2: if I wanted to be her bf I had to not be jealous at all she had just experienced being free and didn’t want someone controlling her 3: I had to be ok with eventually breaking up because “relationships never last forever”. I said ok and we were officially bf and gf but it didn’t last to long because within the week she broke up with me because of her being way older. I begged and cried and eventually we got back together (I know lame but it was my first serious relationship btw). This pattern repeated when we fought, she would get mad ignore me while I begged and pleaded and even said sorry when it was clearly her fault. In total we broke up like 7-10 times in the first year. When our anniversary was coming up I went all out I bought her a new iPhone 12 took her to downtown Chicago and even got a hotel with a view of the beach and the city . When I went to tell her she said we needed to break up before I could tell her. When I did tell her she did offer to pay half but I was insistent on going. Eventually we compromised and we would plan our breakup after the trip. The only reason we stayed together was because I was always trying to maintain it. We eventually moved in together after a year a bunch of things happened in our first year living together and like before we broke up multiple times. And every time I would always beg her to come back even when I caught her sending flirtatious messages to a coworker(I’m pretty sure she cheated on me with). Now it may seem like it’s pretty cut and dry the answer but here’s where I may be the AH. About 2 years after moving in we both lost our jobs and while she found one I didn’t. Along with this my major depression came back and I’ll be honest I didn’t do much of anything for a whole month I was not supporting her in any way both financially and emotionally or any other way I was just sleeping or feeling horrible. She supported us that whole month working and cleaning and cooking until she got fed up(reasonably) and said I either help or we would be done. So I got up got a job and got help. Honestly after that things were good for a while but they went back to bad eventually. I obviously didn’t have enough money and even new debt( using my credit card to pay for everything) and obviously couldn’t spend as much. This caused major problems but we stayed together for another year until we broke up for real. Quick note the previous time we broke up I warned her that I was tired of playing this game and next time she wanted to break up to be sure because I wasn’t begging or trying to save anything. When she did break up with me I said ok and told her if that’s what she wanted then fine. For the first month after she ignored me even though we lived together then she would stay out till 3 at the bars with her new guy “friends” or just not coming home. And me being me I couldn’t keep my promise and kept trying to get back crying begging but she would shut me down every time. After the first month I moved out but we kept in contact because she “wanted to stay friends”. I went on a couple dates but obviously none led to anything so I would text her trying to get back and she would tell me “we’re only friends we won’t be anything else anymore”. And when I asked if she still loved me she said “like a friend nothing more and she doesn’t love me how I wanted”. This is the same thing she said when I asked one more time to get back together after taking her to Korean bbq. So after that I made up my mind I would get over her. I became distant and didn’t talk as much with her even when I wanted to. Fast forward 6 months after breaking up I met my current gf went on a date and instantly hit it off. I met up one last time to meet my ex and tell her I have a gf and she shouldn’t contact me anymore. After that she would randomly message me things like “IMYSM” and “I’m sad aren’t you”. All this until one day she says she wanted to make out with me because she missed my lips. I got mad and called her saying why didn’t she say this earlier why now. And if she still loved me why didn’t she say so earlier. On top of other things. This was 2 weeks ago we have had 0 contact and she unadded me from everything. While I don’t feel bad because I’m not with her, I do feel I may have moved on quickly and really hurt her especially after our last convo and just overall guilt that I was a bad bf and that I caused our breakup.
TLDR: I was in a relationship for almost 4 years and I feel like I was a bad bf/person
P.S. Hopefully Sam and John read this on the podcast I love hearing it and it brought me laughs throughout this whole ordeal.
P.S.S. There’s a whole lot more but it’s hard to summarize a 4 year relationship into one post.
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I(M23) met my Ex(F27) when I was 19 and she was 23. The circumstances for how we got together are a little strange long story short her uncle dated my mom but was a shitty person and was eventually kicked out, but my mom stayed in contact with there family. So when she arrived in the US( they’re from Mexico) and said she hated her job, living situation, life my mom asked her if she wanted to stay with her. Now I wasn’t stoked at first but when I first saw her I instantly fell in love I didn’t even notice the pig poo smell( worked at a farm) she had. Then again I had taken a shroom earlier that day and had taken an edible half an hour before she got there. We got along pretty well from the beginning we both loved anime in particular studio ghibli movies. Plus we were both emotionally bad I had problems at home and with my overindulgence of substances, she was in a new country with no family or friends to rely on and it was her first time away from her family. There was an obvious connection and we both knew it tension kept building up until I kissed her and kept kissing her for a whole hour. But afterwards she said that although she did have feelings for me she couldn’t have a relationship with me. Her reasons were “ I’m way older than you” and “you’re mom will hate me and kick me out” which was untrue because our feelings were so obvious my mom noticed and confronted me about it early on. And she said it was sweet to see me finally happy again.( I had been depressed for a while at the time) But even though I protested she made her decision and I said ok, but obviously since we lived together we wouldn’t be able to just be friends. I’m not going to lie I was wrong in what I did next. I kept insisting that we could be in a relationship and we should try at least, we kissed more times and went on dates but nothing more. Until a month in she finally said ok but with some rules. 1: it had to stay secret and no one could know not even my mom 2: if I wanted to be her bf I had to not be jealous at all she had just experienced being free and didn’t want someone controlling her 3: I had to be ok with eventually breaking up because “relationships never last forever”. I said ok and we were officially bf and gf but it didn’t last to long because within the week she broke up with me because of her being way older. I begged and cried and eventually we got back together (I know lame but it was my first serious relationship btw). This pattern repeated when we fought, she would get mad ignore me while I begged and pleaded and even said sorry when it was clearly her fault. In total we broke up like 7-10 times in the first year. When our anniversary was coming up I went all out I bought her a new iPhone 12 took her to downtown Chicago and even got a hotel with a view of the beach and the city . When I went to tell her she said we needed to break up before I could tell her. When I did tell her she did offer to pay half but I was insistent on going. Eventually we compromised and we would plan our breakup after the trip. The only reason we stayed together was because I was always trying to maintain it. We eventually moved in together after a year a bunch of things happened in our first year living together and like before we broke up multiple times. And every time I would always beg her to come back even when I caught her sending flirtatious messages to a coworker(I’m pretty sure she cheated on me with). Now it may seem like it’s pretty cut and dry the answer but here’s where I may be the AH. About 2 years after moving in we both lost our jobs and while she found one I didn’t. Along with this my major depression came back and I’ll be honest I didn’t do much of anything for a whole month I was not supporting her in any way both financially and emotionally or any other way I was just sleeping or feeling horrible. She supported us that whole month working and cleaning and cooking until she got fed up(reasonably) and said I either help or we would be done. So I got up got a job and got help. Honestly after that things were good for a while but they went back to bad eventually. I obviously didn’t have enough money and even new debt( using my credit card to pay for everything) and obviously couldn’t spend as much. This caused major problems but we stayed together for another year until we broke up for real. Quick note the previous time we broke up I warned her that I was tired of playing this game and next time she wanted to break up to be sure because I wasn’t begging or trying to save anything. When she did break up with me I said ok and told her if that’s what she wanted then fine. For the first month after she ignored me even though we lived together then she would stay out till 3 at the bars with her new guy “friends” or just not coming home. And me being me I couldn’t keep my promise and kept trying to get back crying begging but she would shut me down every time. After the first month I moved out but we kept in contact because she “wanted to stay friends”. I went on a couple dates but obviously none led to anything so I would text her trying to get back and she would tell me “we’re only friends we won’t be anything else anymore”. And when I asked if she still loved me she said “like a friend nothing more and she doesn’t love me how I wanted”. This is the same thing she said when I asked one more time to get back together after taking her to Korean bbq. So after that I made up my mind I would get over her. I became distant and didn’t talk as much with her even when I wanted to. Fast forward 6 months after breaking up I met my current gf went on a date and instantly hit it off. I met up one last time to meet my ex and tell her I have a gf and she shouldn’t contact me anymore. After that she would randomly message me things like “IMYSM” and “I’m sad aren’t you”. All this until one day she says she wanted to make out with me because she missed my lips. I got mad and called her saying why didn’t she say this earlier why now. And if she still loved me why didn’t she say so earlier. On top of other things. This was 2 weeks ago we have had 0 contact and she unadded me from everything. While I don’t feel bad because I’m not with her, I do feel I may have moved on quickly and really hurt her especially after our last convo and just overall guilt that I was a bad bf and that I caused our breakup.
TLDR: I was in a relationship for almost 4 years and I feel like I was a bad bf/person
P.S. Hopefully Sam and John read this on the podcast I love hearing it and it brought me laughs throughout this whole ordeal.
P.S.S. There’s a whole lot more but it’s hard to summarize a 4 year relationship into one post.
2024.05.22 05:17 Femboy_Yugioh 26[M4M]Texas-Femboy need looking for someone to game with and I hope it goes for more
I have had good and bad experiences off this forum but I won’t give up! So here’s me : Hiya! I’m just ust A femboy looking for a serious ltr , so I’ll get to the point 🤗. I’m not here for the games , or ghosting . I’m here for something long term. Dating apps don’t work for me sadly.
Located: Texas.
Willing to move to another state or have my future partner live with me .
Appearance :
A thick black femboy who loves dressing up sometimes . Height : 5’3. I wear glasses to read manga . My style is mostly goth/casual clothes from mostly anime shirts and chokers.
💙My hobbies:
TALL (taller than my own height) , very communicative, masculine(mostly beards and body hair) gamers/anime nerds. These are just preferences not a deal breaker .
✅Ps: for compatibility reasons I’m a 100% bottom.
IMPORTANT : If you made it this far, please message me an introduction about yourself. This is extremely important as it tells me alot about you. I won’t respond to a simple message. If you can’t make the effort , I won’t waste my time honestly .
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Located: Texas.
Willing to move to another state or have my future partner live with me .
Appearance :
A thick black femboy who loves dressing up sometimes . Height : 5’3. I wear glasses to read manga . My style is mostly goth/casual clothes from mostly anime shirts and chokers.
💙My hobbies:
- Anime : Some of my favorites animes are Tokyo ghoul , Sword Art Online , Yuri on ice , Future Diary, JJK, MHA, Yaoi(Love stage , Sasaki and Miyano)
- Manga : I’ve completed so many mangas from yaoi , Ouran high school host club , berserk , ect .
- Cosplay : I’ve done Pokémon & a Tokyo Ghoul cosplay before .
- Anime cons: I’ve been to at least 11 anime/Comic cons.
- Dueling (Yu-Gi-Oh!)
- Pokémon
- Yaoi
- Pc gaming
- Overwatch. I love this game have over 500 hrs .
- Marvel/DC
- Tv drama : The Vampire Diaries , Supernatural, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, The 100.
- Horror- big fan of tv shows , movies like AHS
- Consoles I have are : Ps5, Nintendo switch , psp, ps vita, Nintendo 3ds , wii, gameboy , ect .
- [ ] Monogamous
- [ ] Single
- [ ] Loyalty
- [ ] Communication
- [ ] No kids
- [ ] Open-minded
- [ ] Common interest : Nerdy (Anime, Games, Star Wars or anything nerdy)
- [ ] Sure on what you want
- [ ] Mature
- [ ] 21+ in age : no exceptions .
TALL (taller than my own height) , very communicative, masculine(mostly beards and body hair) gamers/anime nerds. These are just preferences not a deal breaker .
✅Ps: for compatibility reasons I’m a 100% bottom.
IMPORTANT : If you made it this far, please message me an introduction about yourself. This is extremely important as it tells me alot about you. I won’t respond to a simple message. If you can’t make the effort , I won’t waste my time honestly .
2024.05.22 05:15 ArtisticCurrency3699 Date Converter Easily Convert Between English and Nepali Dates! 📅🔄
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Whether you're planning events, checking historical dates, or simply curious about dates in different calendars, this tool has you covered.
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Give it a try and let me know how it's helped you navigate different date systems. Feel free to share any interesting date conversions you've discovered using this tool. Let's bridge the gap between calendars! 📆✨
2024.05.22 05:12 double_prong My wing has 30 new girls so far this year! WTG
My wing is a sweet Indian guy. Young, still figuring things out. Last night he hit 30 new girls mark, year to date. Not counting his rotation girls from before. Before this year he had 11 girls total. Mostly online, some from dance clubs, one from day game.
Way to go buddy! You know who you are.
What stands out to me is that he still has so much to learn. Tons of guys would consider themselves gods at this point and put themselves out there as coaches. Even with this success, we're not masters. We're just guys trying to improve and help each other out. Putting ourselves out there, handling our fears and imperfections, doing the work. Being part-time awesome.
All the coaches out there who charge money and have less experience than this, just stop. You're not doing guys any good.
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Way to go buddy! You know who you are.
What stands out to me is that he still has so much to learn. Tons of guys would consider themselves gods at this point and put themselves out there as coaches. Even with this success, we're not masters. We're just guys trying to improve and help each other out. Putting ourselves out there, handling our fears and imperfections, doing the work. Being part-time awesome.
All the coaches out there who charge money and have less experience than this, just stop. You're not doing guys any good.
2024.05.22 05:12 chailattebabe 32 [F4M] Pennsylvania - where are all the elder emos?! 🖤
Hey there, pic of me here
I’m looking for someone to talk to every day, someone who craves connection just as much as I do. Note that I would like to text but voice/video chatting is nice too.
I’m employed full time as a retail manager. In the past, I’ve taught elementary school and been a pharmacy technician. I’ve had several jobs in retail before the one I have now. I can actually count on two hands how many jobs I’ve had!
I love makeup, skincare, and fragrance. I used to have a huge collection of everything but I recently went through a purge so I am starting over but it has been fun to have a fresh start!
In my free time, I enjoy shopping. My favorite stores are Ulta Bath and Body Works, Five Below, and Target. I also love the occasional trip to Dollar Tree!
I’m also into video games. I’m still in the process of playing Pokémon Violet even though it was released a year and a half ago. I also collect the cards, play the card game online, play Pokémon Go, and watch the anime from time to time.
It’s important for me to note that I recently made the switch to sobriety for my own health. I still enjoy going out from time to time, I just choose not to drink. I don’t mind if you drink, however.
In the near future (within the next 2-3 years) I would like to settle down and start a family.
Please only message me if you are serious about talking. Send a photo with your message, I tend to overlook the many plain “hey” and “what’s up” messages. I look forward to meeting you!
P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair and tattoos
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I’m looking for someone to talk to every day, someone who craves connection just as much as I do. Note that I would like to text but voice/video chatting is nice too.
I’m employed full time as a retail manager. In the past, I’ve taught elementary school and been a pharmacy technician. I’ve had several jobs in retail before the one I have now. I can actually count on two hands how many jobs I’ve had!
I love makeup, skincare, and fragrance. I used to have a huge collection of everything but I recently went through a purge so I am starting over but it has been fun to have a fresh start!
In my free time, I enjoy shopping. My favorite stores are Ulta Bath and Body Works, Five Below, and Target. I also love the occasional trip to Dollar Tree!
I’m also into video games. I’m still in the process of playing Pokémon Violet even though it was released a year and a half ago. I also collect the cards, play the card game online, play Pokémon Go, and watch the anime from time to time.
It’s important for me to note that I recently made the switch to sobriety for my own health. I still enjoy going out from time to time, I just choose not to drink. I don’t mind if you drink, however.
In the near future (within the next 2-3 years) I would like to settle down and start a family.
Please only message me if you are serious about talking. Send a photo with your message, I tend to overlook the many plain “hey” and “what’s up” messages. I look forward to meeting you!
P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair and tattoos
2024.05.22 05:11 chailattebabe 32 [F4M] Pennsylvania - where are all the elder emos?! 🖤
Hey there, pic of me here
I’m looking for someone to talk to every day, someone who craves connection just as much as I do. Note that I would like to text but voice/video chatting is nice too.
I’m employed full time as a retail manager. In the past, I’ve taught elementary school and been a pharmacy technician. I’ve had several jobs in retail before the one I have now. I can actually count on two hands how many jobs I’ve had!
I love makeup, skincare, and fragrance. I used to have a huge collection of everything but I recently went through a purge so I am starting over but it has been fun to have a fresh start!
In my free time, I enjoy shopping. My favorite stores are Ulta Bath and Body Works, Five Below, and Target. I also love the occasional trip to Dollar Tree!
I’m also into video games. I’m still in the process of playing Pokémon Violet even though it was released a year and a half ago. I also collect the cards, play the card game online, play Pokémon Go, and watch the anime from time to time.
It’s important for me to note that I recently made the switch to sobriety for my own health. I still enjoy going out from time to time, I just choose not to drink. I don’t mind if you drink, however.
In the near future (within the next 2-3 years) I would like to settle down and start a family.
Please only message me if you are serious about talking. Send a photo with your message, I tend to overlook the many plain “hey” and “what’s up” messages. I look forward to meeting you!
P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair and tattoos
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I’m looking for someone to talk to every day, someone who craves connection just as much as I do. Note that I would like to text but voice/video chatting is nice too.
I’m employed full time as a retail manager. In the past, I’ve taught elementary school and been a pharmacy technician. I’ve had several jobs in retail before the one I have now. I can actually count on two hands how many jobs I’ve had!
I love makeup, skincare, and fragrance. I used to have a huge collection of everything but I recently went through a purge so I am starting over but it has been fun to have a fresh start!
In my free time, I enjoy shopping. My favorite stores are Ulta Bath and Body Works, Five Below, and Target. I also love the occasional trip to Dollar Tree!
I’m also into video games. I’m still in the process of playing Pokémon Violet even though it was released a year and a half ago. I also collect the cards, play the card game online, play Pokémon Go, and watch the anime from time to time.
It’s important for me to note that I recently made the switch to sobriety for my own health. I still enjoy going out from time to time, I just choose not to drink. I don’t mind if you drink, however.
In the near future (within the next 2-3 years) I would like to settle down and start a family.
Please only message me if you are serious about talking. Send a photo with your message, I tend to overlook the many plain “hey” and “what’s up” messages. I look forward to meeting you!
P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair and tattoos
2024.05.22 05:10 queenbaddie24 Boyfriend didn’t tell me about/invite me to fellowship graduation?
I started dating a guy about 5-6 months ago and by all other measures the relationship seemed to be heading towards marriage by all the in depth conversations we’ve had aside from two “red flags”:
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- He’s brought up meeting my parents, but when I asked about his he said he wanted to wait until “it’s time” to tell them about me because they don’t really have conversations about girlfriends/significant others. I guess I could kind of understand.
- We happened to be talking about diplomas today and I asked him a question about if his program would be having a fellowship graduation and if he would be attending. I realized he was taking a long time to respond so I used the question symbols on iMessage. He said that they would be and that it was turning out to be organized badly due to the venue selected etc. He said he’d be attending for the free food and I asked if his family would be attending. He said they asked but he doesn’t know because he doesn’t think other families are attending. I guess he just wasn’t going to tell me if I didn’t ask. Should I be offended? Is this a red flag?
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2024.05.22 05:08 Jealous_Literature_4 Custom tablet wall mount project
 | This project took months since I originally conceived it in my head, to actually complete it, since I've been constantly putting it off. Back in January 2024, I started with buying the tablet that I wanted to use for my wall mounted Home Assistant dashboard. I was originally going to go with Lenovo M10 3rd gen model for about 170 euro, but after some digging around i have found a recommendation for another model that is kinda older but slimmer, with a much better looking screen and higher resolution. I went with the Samsung Galaxy Tab S5e that i found factory refurbished online on a French website Electro Depot for a price of 200 euros - it was in perfect condition, looked brand new when it arrived, kind of a steal for that price. The Super AMOLED screen on it is just amazing, such a nice contrast, black depth and great color rendition. submitted by Jealous_Literature_4 to homeassistant [link] [comments] Since it originally launched in 2019, Android updates stopped, and the last version was kinda aged, so i slapped on a custom ROM on it - LineageOS 21 that runs Android 14. That end of business was fixed, all good to go. Next step was figuring out what wall mount I was going to go with. Having said that, the Galaxy S5e did not have a lot of options, there were some VidaBox mounts, TabCare, TabLines etc, that all looked kinda bulky and hella expensive, that wasn't gonna cut it for me, i wanted something slim and sleek looking. So, I started looking around for some 3D models of wall mounts for it - again, slim pickings. Not a lot of people using the Galaxy S5e wall mount I guess. The only one i found, and ended up using for testing purposes was one on Thingiverse from a dude named Cemera, the problem was, it was missing two upper pieces and not alot of style or a place to hide the USB cable behind. So I kept digging and eventually found a near perfect 3D model of a wall mount that checked all the boxes for me, the problem was - it was designed for a Samsung Galaxy Tab A8 10.5, which had all different physical dimensions compared to the S5e, ouch. So I grabbed the 3D files from this dude named MADSGADEBERG on Cults3D, and went to work. Having said that, i had almost zero experience doing modeling 3D stuff (if we don't count SketchUp floor plan design), so you can imagine the pain of going through the process of actually adapting the 3D model to fit my Galaxy Tab S5e, when the width, height, thickness, camera placement and even the speaker location that are all different. Anyway, hours and hours went into the Fusion 360 that I grabbed previously with a free personal licence, rummaging through tutorials on YouTube, and finally I got the result that I wanted. I can't say that this was a slight modification of the original wall mount design for the Galaxy Tab A8, since i ended up changing a lot of stuff to it, including volume button notch, area around the usb port was hella sketchy on the original model, had to beef it all up since original one was just begging it to break. I have also remodeled the front cover design, playing with the bezel width, chamfer and fillet of corners, magnets depth etc, all to fit the Galaxy S5E as tight as possible, with really small tolerances. Even added the four openings on the sides for amazing sounding quad AKG speakers. My biggest gripe with all of this, was having to cut that beautiful design into two pieces, as most 3D printers (including my Bambu Lab X1C) do not have the big enough work area to print this in one piece, e.g the mount being all that slimmed up was still ~270mm long, and i had 256x256x256mm on my build plate to work with. Such a shame, but oh well. Actually the biggest problem that was revolving about the wall mount design was getting a slim enough USB-C cable, actually slim enough connector part, and that was not easy as it sounds. So, you see, you USA guys had the cable I wanted on your Amazon, but living in Europe I resorted to finding something closer. AliExpress was also an option, but I did not have the patience to wait weeks getting it delivered from China. So, i actually found a dude on Etsy from the Netherlands that makes or rather modifies these cables, and it was perfectly sized for my wall mount project. Bingo, i had everything i needed for the wall mount part, except the magnets that i forgot to order - luckily the one day shipping from Amazon in France works like a charm - hurray. Ok, having finished the wall mount part, i still needed to figure out how the hell i was going to power this on the wall. So, you see, in the USA, you guys have at least some solutions of buying a recessed box for the wall outlet. Here, in Europe, we don't do alot of drywalls, and we don't recess the outlets that much in the brick walls. Luckily, my place here in France is all drywalled, but there are still zero solutions online for buying a deeper recessed wall box or media box that would fit my needs. So, as you might have guessed, I had to design and 3D print one up from scratch. As I was getting familiar with Fusion 360, that wasn't as much of a hassle compared to modifying the wall mount design. I had in mind of creating something sleek that would fit an outlet with USB-A and USB-C ports to actually power the tablet. The problem is, i did not have power wires available right in the area that i was wanting to mount the tablet, but luckily on that wall i had a junction box near the floor. I bought some 2 metre wires, a couple of electric connectors to borrow the neutral, live and ground wires from the junction box, cut up a square hole in the drywall and I was good to go. I had 10cm of clearance in the wall, so I used it up to the max, designing a box that is 6cm deep, leaving the 4cm for the round power outlet box. Good thing about this, I could use normal sized chargers in the actual outlet if I had the need to, since 6cm plus the length of the prongs that go into the holes in the outlet gives a nice depth to fit regular sized chargers. Alright, i know that a lot of people just do not care of esthetics behind when the tablet and the mount are going to cover all the holes and drilling/cutting mess anyway, but i wanted to keep things clean, designing a cover for the recessed box to hide the cuts in the drywall. I also chose a cheap but nice looking outlet - i like to keep things clean and tidy, sue me. Instead of drilling all the stuff in the drywall and adding screws, I went with a less destructive method, adding a heavy duty double sided tape to everything, holds like a champ and i can peel it off if i ever decide to change the wall mount location. So there you have it, a project that i wanted to do for years, all the way back when i started getting into Home Assistant, but i always kept delaying it thinking it was too much work - well it was, but having it done in the end, i learned a lot of useful stuff in the process. For instance, modeling in Fusion 360, it will help me alot with my 3D printing hobby, where I will actually design some future items instead of just printing the files that other people made. Also, I love being handy around the house, tinkering with home related projects, but i never have enough chances to do it, so routing that power wires and adding a power outlet to the wall felt nice to do. For the dashboard part, I ended up going for WallPanel instead of FullyKiosk as a solution for the fullscreen HA, the screensaver, etc. Also, since my Galaxy S5E is rooted, I have added a charging control behavior for it via ACC (Advanced Charging Controller) Magisk module. I keep it charged up to 80%, and having it drop to 20% before starting to charge again. That way I know the battery stays healthy and is not going to swell up being kept at 100% all the time. Thanks for reading all the way to the end of my tablet wall mount project, if you have any questions I will gladly answer them in the comments. Check out the full photos that i took during the making of all the stuff in my Flickr album, as there are plenty. Most people add just a couple and I just keep wondering what stuff they did in the actual process, and how they did it. I can also share all the STL files if people want to recreate what I did. Take care guys, peace. |
2024.05.22 05:08 BetterMistake3849 Youtube scammer/Roblox/Discord
 | Please stay away from this guy Powerz/Power he is making youtube videos where he try to get people to buy from him,but he never give you anything and his online shop dont work I got scammed 5th december 2023 but he dont respond on Discord where you have to send proof to him.I tried to contact youtube and Discord to report him with no luck,and got timeout on his Discord when I told him to pay my money back. submitted by BetterMistake3849 to Scams [link] [comments] |
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2024.05.22 05:05 Electronic_Design607 I feel bad for my best friend.
My best friend (25F) is currently living with her parents (56 years old) and brother (21M). She is currently applying for a loan to fund her master’s degree. While in the midst of this, her mother constantly degrades her saying she is “committing sins by not doing anything around the house”, called her a “whore” for having dated multiple guys in the past (mind you she is now two years single), and blaming her for her dad having a stroke simply because she is still living at home and not having a job, and “do more around the house”.
My best friend, let’s call her Jane, sleeps in her room a lot and feels tired all the time. She said sleeping is the only way she can mentally escape. At first I thought the environment at her house must be bad, but lord, I underestimated how bad it is. I saw everything first hand during a video call. Her mom would barge into her bedroom at random times and spew verbal abuses, then leave to do something else and hum a song, then after a few minutes comes back into her bedroom to hurl another barrage of verbal abuses. It’s was like an unpredictable switch being turn on and off. Jane can’t even lock the bedroom door because the banging would never stop and her mom would never stop shouting. When Jane enjoys something, like watching Netflix or reading a novel, or eating her favorite dish, her mother seems unable to let her be happy and always bring up Jane’s insecurities and whether she will get to go to university in a passive aggressive, jabbing way.
Jane got into Queens Mary University and is waiting for her loan application to be processed. She cooks breakfast for her family everyday and help around the house around 1/3 of the time. She helps looking after her sibling. She takes online certification courses and is actively applying for jobs. But doing these things are not yet yielding results in ways that her mother wants to see. She lost do much weight and since last year was diagnosed with Bipolar Personality Disorder.
I don’t know what I can do to help. Her father is a calm and kind man who is the only one that treats her gently in the house, but the way he goes about intervening with Jane’s mother behavior is too passive. He always calmly telling his wife to “calm down and talk to her nicely” but there is no sense of authority at all. The father is also the only one financially supporting the entire family and recently got a stroke diagnosis. His advice for Jane was “don’t stay in your room and sleep all the time. Come outside and nice to your mom, don’t take her words seriously”.
What do y’all think Jane can do if leaving the house is impossible at the moment?
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My best friend, let’s call her Jane, sleeps in her room a lot and feels tired all the time. She said sleeping is the only way she can mentally escape. At first I thought the environment at her house must be bad, but lord, I underestimated how bad it is. I saw everything first hand during a video call. Her mom would barge into her bedroom at random times and spew verbal abuses, then leave to do something else and hum a song, then after a few minutes comes back into her bedroom to hurl another barrage of verbal abuses. It’s was like an unpredictable switch being turn on and off. Jane can’t even lock the bedroom door because the banging would never stop and her mom would never stop shouting. When Jane enjoys something, like watching Netflix or reading a novel, or eating her favorite dish, her mother seems unable to let her be happy and always bring up Jane’s insecurities and whether she will get to go to university in a passive aggressive, jabbing way.
Jane got into Queens Mary University and is waiting for her loan application to be processed. She cooks breakfast for her family everyday and help around the house around 1/3 of the time. She helps looking after her sibling. She takes online certification courses and is actively applying for jobs. But doing these things are not yet yielding results in ways that her mother wants to see. She lost do much weight and since last year was diagnosed with Bipolar Personality Disorder.
I don’t know what I can do to help. Her father is a calm and kind man who is the only one that treats her gently in the house, but the way he goes about intervening with Jane’s mother behavior is too passive. He always calmly telling his wife to “calm down and talk to her nicely” but there is no sense of authority at all. The father is also the only one financially supporting the entire family and recently got a stroke diagnosis. His advice for Jane was “don’t stay in your room and sleep all the time. Come outside and nice to your mom, don’t take her words seriously”.
What do y’all think Jane can do if leaving the house is impossible at the moment?
2024.05.22 05:04 sunn_vaeide 22 [F4F] Asia/Online - Nerdy Asian looking for friendship maybe more
Hello! Like most other people here I am trying to make so friends though if things go a different direction I'm open to the idea of a relationship but friendship is the priority. Ideally something long term not just for a short chat or anything. I want to meet people who like to vc as well, on discord specifically, and if you play games on pc that is even better! But anyways on to me :p
I am Japanese born and raised however due to certain world events I am located in Poland temporarily before I go back to Japan but anyways! When I have time to myself I spend a lot of it online, not much of a social butterfly, but still I want to meet some people to keep my company in my free, maybe play with, and voice chat with since I far better at speaking than writing 😅
You could call me a pretty massive nerd and also kind of antisocial, outside of work at least, though if I am drinking a bit I warm up a little easier :p I love anything to with games, tech, and science. I guess I sort of collect games, I have over 600+ games on steam. If you want more specifics I mostly play strategy, 4X, simulators, and FPS's. Recently most of my time has been taken up by Squad, Assetto Corsa, Gray Zone Warfare, and Helldivers!
If games are not your thing though that is okay too! I love the outdoors too and working out. Snowboarding, surfing, and spearfishing are some of the things I like to do whenever I can get myself outside of the house though of course cannot really do many of those things here in Poland at the moment 😅.
I am active military as well though currently working voluntarily with the international legion teaching paramedics and combat medics. So if you are also feel free to say hi as well! always cool meeting others in the same career as me.
But of course I am much more comfy just sitting in my room playing games, watching, anime, or reading so that is where you will most often find me. I love talking about anything really especially learning about other people and how it is where they live.
If any of this sounded interesting to you feel free to message me, and of course please actually tell me something about yourself, "Hi" or "Hey" does not really tell me much about you. Also Reddit sort of hates me and does not give me notifications so if I am slow to respond so sorry! But anyways have a good day/evening!
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I am Japanese born and raised however due to certain world events I am located in Poland temporarily before I go back to Japan but anyways! When I have time to myself I spend a lot of it online, not much of a social butterfly, but still I want to meet some people to keep my company in my free, maybe play with, and voice chat with since I far better at speaking than writing 😅
You could call me a pretty massive nerd and also kind of antisocial, outside of work at least, though if I am drinking a bit I warm up a little easier :p I love anything to with games, tech, and science. I guess I sort of collect games, I have over 600+ games on steam. If you want more specifics I mostly play strategy, 4X, simulators, and FPS's. Recently most of my time has been taken up by Squad, Assetto Corsa, Gray Zone Warfare, and Helldivers!
If games are not your thing though that is okay too! I love the outdoors too and working out. Snowboarding, surfing, and spearfishing are some of the things I like to do whenever I can get myself outside of the house though of course cannot really do many of those things here in Poland at the moment 😅.
I am active military as well though currently working voluntarily with the international legion teaching paramedics and combat medics. So if you are also feel free to say hi as well! always cool meeting others in the same career as me.
But of course I am much more comfy just sitting in my room playing games, watching, anime, or reading so that is where you will most often find me. I love talking about anything really especially learning about other people and how it is where they live.
If any of this sounded interesting to you feel free to message me, and of course please actually tell me something about yourself, "Hi" or "Hey" does not really tell me much about you. Also Reddit sort of hates me and does not give me notifications so if I am slow to respond so sorry! But anyways have a good day/evening!
2024.05.22 05:03 LegApprehensive2089 How to accept myself and also work on myself anxious attachment
This is kinda a sequel to a post I made few days ago
Hello umm just some background for context
I’m 21 year old man
I have a long history of uhh loneliness and limerence and putting people on a pedestal especially woman I’m crushing on
I get attached to folks really easily
Actively working on myself exercise and diet so far I’m 304 down to 277lbs since January
Keep trying to tell myself that I’m doing this for me myself and my health but deep down I also know I’m doing to think to be a lil more attractive
Trying to get back into therapy just waiting for my insurance to kick in
Context and why I posted this
Without airing anyone’s dirty laundry
Basically met someone over in R4R and Forever alone dating. Talked sparingly she found someone in her home country which was cool happy for her
We continued to talk recently though she was in a crisis basically abandoned by her abuser and kicked out of her home
I’ve been trying my best to help being supportive sent a lil money. (I know it’s not a scam)
It was good I was really trying to do the right thing and uhh well my dumbass started crushing on her.
And I feel a lil gross cause she just got out of abusive relationship and I shouldn’t be thinking about dating her she’s focus’s on where she’s gonna eat and sleep.
This has all been going on for a week and a half
Friday I felt limerence kicking in I was at my desk and I realized as I was working I was day dreaming about me visiting and us visiting all the historical sites in her country
It scares the hell out of me I don’t wanna be limerent again and chasing people again
But I’ve still been helpful and supportive but today at work I had I think it might have been an anxiety attack but basically I just spilled my guts and told her how I have a huge crush on her
And I know it’s wrong but I can’t hold it in if I kept holding it in I was gonna start bawling my eyes out in work. I apologized
She got back to me she isn’t mad, at me
She was very forgiving and understanding and empathetic
She said she thinks I’ve got anxious attachment like her, she said she’d help me work through it.
So when I got home from work today. I went online and did some research and I know tests aren’t like certified or a diagnosis I guess but I took three different ones and got anxious attachment every time.
I feel like the hardest part of my self improvement is gonna be social stuff, I’ve always been awkward I catch feelings very easily
I’m a stupid romantic, I’m apparently to kind for my own good
I’ve always wanted the intimacy and the lovey dovey stuff of relationships the companionships more than any sex o
And look, I swear I’m not a nice guy, or a white knight
I genuinely went into helping her because it was the right thing to do. It’s just my brains is stupid cause people are nice to me and I get really attached I’m a sucker for compliments
I would just love any and all advice and resources maybe you notice something I don’t
I don’t hate myself I don’t think I’m fuck ugly
I used to think I was unlovable but I’ve had one relationship in my life and in therapy I learned that, I have the qualities to be a good boyfriend they just manifest in improper ways
My dream in life is I want a home, a sense of independence, I’d love to get married and I love her she loves me we support each other and help each other grow as human beings
*im not specifically talking about her in my dream in life
I know this is a lot and might sound like the ramblings of a mad man. But I’d really appreciate anything
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Hello umm just some background for context
I’m 21 year old man
I have a long history of uhh loneliness and limerence and putting people on a pedestal especially woman I’m crushing on
I get attached to folks really easily
Actively working on myself exercise and diet so far I’m 304 down to 277lbs since January
Keep trying to tell myself that I’m doing this for me myself and my health but deep down I also know I’m doing to think to be a lil more attractive
Trying to get back into therapy just waiting for my insurance to kick in
Context and why I posted this
Without airing anyone’s dirty laundry
Basically met someone over in R4R and Forever alone dating. Talked sparingly she found someone in her home country which was cool happy for her
We continued to talk recently though she was in a crisis basically abandoned by her abuser and kicked out of her home
I’ve been trying my best to help being supportive sent a lil money. (I know it’s not a scam)
It was good I was really trying to do the right thing and uhh well my dumbass started crushing on her.
And I feel a lil gross cause she just got out of abusive relationship and I shouldn’t be thinking about dating her she’s focus’s on where she’s gonna eat and sleep.
This has all been going on for a week and a half
Friday I felt limerence kicking in I was at my desk and I realized as I was working I was day dreaming about me visiting and us visiting all the historical sites in her country
It scares the hell out of me I don’t wanna be limerent again and chasing people again
But I’ve still been helpful and supportive but today at work I had I think it might have been an anxiety attack but basically I just spilled my guts and told her how I have a huge crush on her
And I know it’s wrong but I can’t hold it in if I kept holding it in I was gonna start bawling my eyes out in work. I apologized
She got back to me she isn’t mad, at me
She was very forgiving and understanding and empathetic
She said she thinks I’ve got anxious attachment like her, she said she’d help me work through it.
So when I got home from work today. I went online and did some research and I know tests aren’t like certified or a diagnosis I guess but I took three different ones and got anxious attachment every time.
I feel like the hardest part of my self improvement is gonna be social stuff, I’ve always been awkward I catch feelings very easily
I’m a stupid romantic, I’m apparently to kind for my own good
I’ve always wanted the intimacy and the lovey dovey stuff of relationships the companionships more than any sex o
And look, I swear I’m not a nice guy, or a white knight
I genuinely went into helping her because it was the right thing to do. It’s just my brains is stupid cause people are nice to me and I get really attached I’m a sucker for compliments
I would just love any and all advice and resources maybe you notice something I don’t
I don’t hate myself I don’t think I’m fuck ugly
I used to think I was unlovable but I’ve had one relationship in my life and in therapy I learned that, I have the qualities to be a good boyfriend they just manifest in improper ways
My dream in life is I want a home, a sense of independence, I’d love to get married and I love her she loves me we support each other and help each other grow as human beings
*im not specifically talking about her in my dream in life
I know this is a lot and might sound like the ramblings of a mad man. But I’d really appreciate anything
2024.05.22 05:03 maxamum_fitness Free Fitness coaching
For the month of June I’m giving 10 black women in this sub free online fitness coaching. Reply here or just dm me. Good luck on your goals and remember ladies everybody is a beach body
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2024.05.22 05:03 DIY_Forever Aquila mods, an slicers statuses.
I am making progress with my Aquila, and my Aquila X3 Max. Still have a way to go. So just to keep you and myself entertained as the printers are chugging along here is the status of the projects.
Now I have a bit more to do to prepare for stuff like ABS etc... but for now, happy as can be...
Updates that still need to be done or were not part of the original plan but got added.
Items that can be done while under warranty.
Both Prusa Slicer and Cura are available for Linux on ARM64, but Cura insists on a login, and something about the pass off, and back from their web page and Cura never really is able to log in, so Prusa slicer it is.
I have the regular Aquila working with Prusa Slicer, at least on my Win 11 laptop,
If I am not mistaken, the Aquila X3 Max should be more or less the same profile, but with a 400x400x400 build area... About to test that theory out.
That leaves...
So I am off to try to learn something to replace Sketchup, but I have no clue what. I started in on Blender years ago but got sidetracked. Might give that another whack or two...
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The original Aquila...
has been and continues to be getting some much needed love... Updates done, to improve performance, reliability and capability.- Capricorn 260 deg C bowden tube
- Aluminum leveling wheels, and heavy duty springs.
- WinSinn 40mm LED QUIET fans for hot end and main board.
- Adjustable BL Touch / 3D Touch mount. Transparent PETG.
- 3D Touch sensor, and compatible BL Touch / Ender 3 V2 type cable. I routed the cable external to the sheath for the other cables. Thinking I should have run it IN the sheath to protect it.
- Voxelab BLtouch firmware was a complete bust. Went on recommendation of folks here with the Mirscoc firmware, which works great but requires another upgrade.
- Adjustable vertical display mount. The non adjustables put the display at an angle that is hard for me to read.
- Snap on Y axis pull ring.
Now I have a bit more to do to prepare for stuff like ABS etc... but for now, happy as can be...
Updates that still need to be done or were not part of the original plan but got added.
- Winsinn dual ball bearing 60mm 12v fans for power supply.
- After seeing the video of how the power supply is vented, or actually NOT vented, looking for an STL so I don’t have to reinvent the wheel for a power supply cover with actual exhaust vents where Voxelab should have put them.
- Creality upgrade cast metal extruder
- Creality Spider V3 hot end. Probably not necessary YET, but it was $10.00 off and since I was planning on the upgrade, might as well have it in my stash.
- Slot covers. The slots catch all sorts of crud including cat hair when I can’t keep her away from the nice warm printer…
- Dual Z Axis kit with upper bearings as well to insure no Z wobble.https://amzn.to/3QSwkVQ
- Potentially 3D print custom hot end cover / fan shroud / BL Touch mount to give this a more factory appearance, and better fan ducting. https://www.thingiverse.com/thing:5231763
The Aquila X3 Max.
This is going to fall under maintenance / adjustment while under warranty but once out of warranty some mods are going to happen.Items that can be done while under warranty.
- Sort out the Z axis gantry issues. I think I figured it out and I believe the Z axis gantry itself is not level to either the bed or the top bar. Will verify that with the calipers tomorrow, Not 100% certain of how to fix that, but I believe it needs to be fixed SOON!
- Custom extrusion slot covers. Since the leveling handwheels come in red, let’s go with red PETG and trim it out all the way..
- Capricorn bowden tube
- Spare Voxelab proximity sensors for Auto Level. Just keeping that at the ready in inventory.
- Sort out the bed adhesion issue. Pretty sure it is related to that Z gantry issue. Once I get myopic about leveling and building a mesh, and then absolutely verifying my Z offset my prints stick like glue. Without it though, no such luck…
- WinSinn 40mm fans for hot end and main board (Same as regular Aquila)
- WinSinn 60mm fans for power supply (Same as regular Aquila).
- Creality upgrade cast metal extruder
- Cast metal (aluminum) bed adjuster wheels and heavy duty springs (Red).
- Creality Spider Pro 3.0 all metal hotend kit. I am not sure if this will require a firmware update, and if so, which one?
Slicers
So I am trying to get away from Microsoft and Apple products and am wanting to get onto an open source platform. The latest Raspberry Pi 5 8GB is actually a fairly good little desktop replacement even for 3D modelling as long as you don't ask too terribly much of it.Both Prusa Slicer and Cura are available for Linux on ARM64, but Cura insists on a login, and something about the pass off, and back from their web page and Cura never really is able to log in, so Prusa slicer it is.
I have the regular Aquila working with Prusa Slicer, at least on my Win 11 laptop,
If I am not mistaken, the Aquila X3 Max should be more or less the same profile, but with a 400x400x400 build area... About to test that theory out.
That leaves...
3D Design / CAD software.
I admit I got really spoiled doing 3D modeling with Sketchup, back when it was a free Google product I made a sh*t ton of models there, and then Trimble happened, and boy are they proud of their locally installable versions, and the free online version blows absolute chunks.So I am off to try to learn something to replace Sketchup, but I have no clue what. I started in on Blender years ago but got sidetracked. Might give that another whack or two...
2024.05.22 05:00 Delicious-Cause3338 Legit Eastman and laird signatures?
 | Hey all! I’m new to this subreddit, and just wanted to post some pics of a TMNT #4 signed by Eastman and Laird that I purchased on eBay. The seller has nearly 100% feedback and also is selling a #1 also signed by Eastman and laird. What do you think of these signatures, legit? I know Eastmans signature has changed over the years but the laird imo looks spot on. Would appreciate your guys thoughts! The first pic is #4 and the second is #1. submitted by Delicious-Cause3338 to TMNT [link] [comments] |
2024.05.22 04:57 Dag0at26 How do I transfer my save data from ps4 to ps5???
I played on my ps4 when it first came out for a couple months I’ve downloaded the save date to my PlayStation cloud but I can’t find it. Is there a way I can transfer my save date from my ps4 to my ps5? When I downloaded it on my ps5 all my characters were level 1. I played way back when I where I’m eligible for the free battle pass but I can’t get my save data for it out.
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2024.05.22 04:56 lostautistic1 Lost, Autistic, and Slightly Obsessed. What do I do? LONG
This could end up being a book, but I don’t know how to change how I’m feeling. Before you come in here really harshly judging me or screaming that I am making accusations and being crazy, full disclosure that I am autistic and I have NEVER hidden this from my friends or any man I’ve dated.
Now that that’s out of the way, let me continue. I was in a Christian singles group in my area that used to get together fairly often (it was usually once a month, but drama happened after the guy that started it made a mess…so we disbanded). Everyone is 21-40 and unmarried. I have a very close friend in this group. I’ve known her for many years and I met her outside of it. We did hikes and trips and lots of fun stuff together during that weird limbo after Covid. We stayed solid once work picked back up, but doing as much did slow down.
One of the other girls from the group and I became pretty close pretty fast (this was over the course of a year, so, May 2023 to now). My gut about her told me that I should maybe be worried and run (comes off as strong!), while everything else said that she was cool. She was kinda pushy to be close as friends, so I was okay with that, especially since my really close friend got buried in her work and had even told me that she gets a bit more introverted when she has to work (I’m 50/50 introvert/extrovert) and to broaden my circle (I was her shadow for a bit there…lol). For context, we are both straight 30 something year old women that have successful careers. The new girl is 29, straight with a boyfriend, and has a good job that keeps her busy.
I check in with them both, to see if they have any interest in the three of us hanging out and being friends. I always get shut down…my long time friend says that she is at a different place in life. New girl says nearly the same thing. What’s really weird though, is that New girls parents live just down the road from my good friend, so, they literally can hang out anytime she visits her parents…which varies…
Time passes and the new girl and I make a plan to move in together, because our city in the US is very expensive and living alone just won’t work anymore for either of us, even on our salaries. Once that was planned, I feel like everything started changing.
So, and this is where autism comes into play. If you have any triggers about cyber stalking or stress from things like that, please stop reading now. I really don’t need someone getting really worked up and laying into me. As the subreddit is called “advice”, I’m seeking advice, not to be screamed at and/or called crazy.
I ended up moving in with newer friend. I let her know of all of my quirks and odd things while we were still friends (not roommates yet), and she has been so great…(I think).
Here is where I’m truly hung up, and it all sounds really odd and off and wrong, because, to my knowledge, both of these people have been great and honest with me.
Right around when I started saying I was going to be roomies with her, I think around the start of the year because of leases and things, I noticed a shift in chat patterns online. It was really odd, but what was also odd was how my two friends started sounding alike. They were night and day for a reason, and it truly balanced out my life. They were online a lot together, and then, I noticed a few of the church ladies, specifically from my church, which, new girl really didn’t like the service at, were online too. I felt like I was getting left out, but, when I would ask my two friends that I was closer to about it, they both denied anything was happening (I asked a few times). I asked another friend that I’m pretty close with about it that was online when they were all online, and she said that she had only talked to my roommate the once, at the singles event (she’s always been close to my long time friend…additionally, the way she answered, I could see her pulse was racing), and she didn’t know of anything.
One of my siblings pointed out the logical answer - these were hot times for people to be online. Right after work. Right after dinner. Etc. But then it started getting specific when one girl moved away for just a few months to take a contract. Again - all on at the same time (there are four of them), but to accommodate the girl that moved. For a bit there, I was gathering my receipts/screen shots, but I deleted them and stopped that once she moved in. The last thing I needed was her seeing that somehow and drama happening.
She and I had a good conversation on the first night that she lived with me about how I have but one thing that could hurt my feelings/is my insecurity, and that was being left out and having stuff hidden from me, and people lying to me. Just to tell me the truth always. I don’t get angry or jealous if I know what’s going on and I don’t feel like things are being hidden from me. I told her that I felt like she was becoming friends with my group of church friends behind my back, and I was really insecure about it. She insisted that wasn’t the case. We shook on being honest about friendships and whatnot, and everything seemed okay.
For those of you wondering/that don’t know - a lot of times, the autistic mind will cling to what it doesn’t know in confusion/curiosity, and obsess. This is what I explained to both friends. I don’t mean to be that way. I was literally born with this, and I’m trying to navigate it as best I can. I just need transparency and honesty always, even if you think it could hurt my feelings.
Well, things got weirder once new girl moved in. She started writing this short story that used the name of my good friends dog in it over and over (not a super common word/name). My close friend had a container in the back of her car that she had mentioned to me she finally got rid of. When roomie showed up with it, I was SHOCKED! I called her on it, and she insisted that her mom gave it to her, but, it had a very odd and specific part marked up ( I’m autistic…I remember these things…every detail….) exactly how my good friends did. I guess that my friend could have tossed it out, and my roomies mom could have done a dumpster dive 🤷♀️ It just doesn’t seem likely at all. My close friend and I met for coffee one day, and she got this deer in the headlights look on her face after her Facebook messenger went off, just a minute or two before I went home. Once I was alone, I saw that roomie was on Facebook messenger and was the only common friend we had online at that moment (I guess my good friend added her on fb one day).
I’m so lost on what to do, because when I ask them for honesty (which, they are allowed to be friends, I’m not like, weird about that…) they just insist that they aren’t friends. Why would roomie have moved in with me if she could have lived down the street from a friend for FREE at her parents? That’s what they both ask 🤷♀️ I’m at a loss right now. Like, it’s really hard living with someone that I don’t fully trust. I just need to know for my piece of mind…What do I do? Thank you for reading all of that.
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Now that that’s out of the way, let me continue. I was in a Christian singles group in my area that used to get together fairly often (it was usually once a month, but drama happened after the guy that started it made a mess…so we disbanded). Everyone is 21-40 and unmarried. I have a very close friend in this group. I’ve known her for many years and I met her outside of it. We did hikes and trips and lots of fun stuff together during that weird limbo after Covid. We stayed solid once work picked back up, but doing as much did slow down.
One of the other girls from the group and I became pretty close pretty fast (this was over the course of a year, so, May 2023 to now). My gut about her told me that I should maybe be worried and run (comes off as strong!), while everything else said that she was cool. She was kinda pushy to be close as friends, so I was okay with that, especially since my really close friend got buried in her work and had even told me that she gets a bit more introverted when she has to work (I’m 50/50 introvert/extrovert) and to broaden my circle (I was her shadow for a bit there…lol). For context, we are both straight 30 something year old women that have successful careers. The new girl is 29, straight with a boyfriend, and has a good job that keeps her busy.
I check in with them both, to see if they have any interest in the three of us hanging out and being friends. I always get shut down…my long time friend says that she is at a different place in life. New girl says nearly the same thing. What’s really weird though, is that New girls parents live just down the road from my good friend, so, they literally can hang out anytime she visits her parents…which varies…
Time passes and the new girl and I make a plan to move in together, because our city in the US is very expensive and living alone just won’t work anymore for either of us, even on our salaries. Once that was planned, I feel like everything started changing.
So, and this is where autism comes into play. If you have any triggers about cyber stalking or stress from things like that, please stop reading now. I really don’t need someone getting really worked up and laying into me. As the subreddit is called “advice”, I’m seeking advice, not to be screamed at and/or called crazy.
I ended up moving in with newer friend. I let her know of all of my quirks and odd things while we were still friends (not roommates yet), and she has been so great…(I think).
Here is where I’m truly hung up, and it all sounds really odd and off and wrong, because, to my knowledge, both of these people have been great and honest with me.
Right around when I started saying I was going to be roomies with her, I think around the start of the year because of leases and things, I noticed a shift in chat patterns online. It was really odd, but what was also odd was how my two friends started sounding alike. They were night and day for a reason, and it truly balanced out my life. They were online a lot together, and then, I noticed a few of the church ladies, specifically from my church, which, new girl really didn’t like the service at, were online too. I felt like I was getting left out, but, when I would ask my two friends that I was closer to about it, they both denied anything was happening (I asked a few times). I asked another friend that I’m pretty close with about it that was online when they were all online, and she said that she had only talked to my roommate the once, at the singles event (she’s always been close to my long time friend…additionally, the way she answered, I could see her pulse was racing), and she didn’t know of anything.
One of my siblings pointed out the logical answer - these were hot times for people to be online. Right after work. Right after dinner. Etc. But then it started getting specific when one girl moved away for just a few months to take a contract. Again - all on at the same time (there are four of them), but to accommodate the girl that moved. For a bit there, I was gathering my receipts/screen shots, but I deleted them and stopped that once she moved in. The last thing I needed was her seeing that somehow and drama happening.
She and I had a good conversation on the first night that she lived with me about how I have but one thing that could hurt my feelings/is my insecurity, and that was being left out and having stuff hidden from me, and people lying to me. Just to tell me the truth always. I don’t get angry or jealous if I know what’s going on and I don’t feel like things are being hidden from me. I told her that I felt like she was becoming friends with my group of church friends behind my back, and I was really insecure about it. She insisted that wasn’t the case. We shook on being honest about friendships and whatnot, and everything seemed okay.
For those of you wondering/that don’t know - a lot of times, the autistic mind will cling to what it doesn’t know in confusion/curiosity, and obsess. This is what I explained to both friends. I don’t mean to be that way. I was literally born with this, and I’m trying to navigate it as best I can. I just need transparency and honesty always, even if you think it could hurt my feelings.
Well, things got weirder once new girl moved in. She started writing this short story that used the name of my good friends dog in it over and over (not a super common word/name). My close friend had a container in the back of her car that she had mentioned to me she finally got rid of. When roomie showed up with it, I was SHOCKED! I called her on it, and she insisted that her mom gave it to her, but, it had a very odd and specific part marked up ( I’m autistic…I remember these things…every detail….) exactly how my good friends did. I guess that my friend could have tossed it out, and my roomies mom could have done a dumpster dive 🤷♀️ It just doesn’t seem likely at all. My close friend and I met for coffee one day, and she got this deer in the headlights look on her face after her Facebook messenger went off, just a minute or two before I went home. Once I was alone, I saw that roomie was on Facebook messenger and was the only common friend we had online at that moment (I guess my good friend added her on fb one day).
I’m so lost on what to do, because when I ask them for honesty (which, they are allowed to be friends, I’m not like, weird about that…) they just insist that they aren’t friends. Why would roomie have moved in with me if she could have lived down the street from a friend for FREE at her parents? That’s what they both ask 🤷♀️ I’m at a loss right now. Like, it’s really hard living with someone that I don’t fully trust. I just need to know for my piece of mind…What do I do? Thank you for reading all of that.