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European League TagPro

2013.12.03 16:43 bizkut European League TagPro

A Europe-based competitive league for the capture-the-flag game TagPro: grab the opponent's flag and bring it back to yours. For more information, check out /TagPro.
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2024.05.15 01:27 beardofturtles Game minimising but then unable to open game again.

Only started doing this recently where the game minimises itself but when I click on the thumbnail it just black screens and then back to desktop. Game is still running as my coop opponent online says I'm still playing. A game restart seems to work but then sometimes I also get the same issue when first running the game.
It's unique to ToB so I'm not really sure where to start looking for solutions or errors in my system. I assume even a crash log wouldn't show anything as the game isn't actually crashing.
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2024.05.15 01:23 JellyAgent 24 [M4F] #Online #Paris Looking for a friend/FWB

Hello everyone! I am 24 years old and live in Paris, and I am looking for a friend/fwb to talk about our life, play games and have some fun either online or IRL if we get to meet each other.
I workout almost daily and would consider myself as being quite attractive. I have brown eyes, short/medium auburn hair and a short beard. I can verify with a picture once you message me :). I speak both french and English.
I like to play video games (on pc and switch), draw (mostly non fiction), go on walk, visit museums, cook a bit and like to read. I also love to learn new things.
I can be quite kinky and open to explore new kinks. I think it’s important to talk about what we like and expectations we might have and get to know each other a bit at first. I am not into rushing stuff. I would consider myself as a switch. I am also open to exchanging pics and videos if you’re confortable with that.
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2024.05.15 01:22 SugarMaddy_ Online mining/gathering games like ffxiv???

Hey guys I’m looking to find some other online games I can play that’s NOT ffxiv. More so I can mine and gather random shit in an online environment, not too concerned with a similar story or UI. I have a lot of personal opinions about ffxiv but I keep finding myself wanting to blfucking MINE SHIT so y’all know any other games that are similar so I can stop wanting to play ffxiv????
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2024.05.15 01:22 bridgersz Miscommunication about when to hang out - who's right?

Me and my boyfriend always do similar things to this, this happened tonight:
He texted me this evening, asking if I wanted to hang out and play games online.
I said absolutely, I just have 2 pages left to study to reach my daily goal.
He says OK, will I have time to shower first?
I say yes, absolutely.
Then neither of us contact one another. I assume he's still in the shower and/or fixing with some stuff afterwards. He's assuming I'm studying, which I was, but whilst waiting for him.
I get that it's really just a miscommunication, but I really feel like he should've shot me a message after he finished showering! I just kept on studying thinking he was busy. D:
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2024.05.15 01:22 GloomyEnvironment879 Will i be considered a well rounded student even if i don’t have APs?

I'm a dual citizen of the U.S., but I've primarily lived and studied outside the States in a school that doesn’t offer AP or IB courses. My unweighted GPA is 3.9 out of 4.3. I haven't yet taken the SAT or TOEFL but I am targeting a score above 1450 for the SAT. My class ranking is 5/171.
I am planning to major in engineering, with a focus on aerospace and electrical engineering. I lead the engineering group for our school’s FRC team, which is the first-ranked team in our country and holds a global rank in the top 60 for the 2024 season. Additionally, I founded our school’s SDGS club, which recently won two titles, and I serve as the head academic in our school’s MUN club, earning several best and outstanding delegate awards.
My country doesn't offer many opportunities for community service or internships, so most of my extracurricular involvement has been through an online tutoring program where I've contributed around 200 hours helping elementary students in rural areas. In terms of academic competitions, I have several national science fair honorable mentions and similar recognitions in short thesis competitions. I also have a background in music which I've played the violin for ten years and have been a national champion twice in orchestra competitions, champion of several national and international violin solo competitions, and served as concert master for five consecutive years across three different school orchestras.
I’m afraid that not having taken any APs would affect my application, and also i don’t think I’ve made that of a massive impact on the society (for example i didn’t establish a nonprofit and help 3000 applicants or stuff) plus i don’t have an excellent research program with any college professors.
These are the schools that I’m applying to. Can anyone please give someone comments on this application (from admission offices’ perspective) and advices on what i can improve in my common app, or what i should focus on in my essays?
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2024.05.15 01:18 l_am_meepmoop Odd issue with steam that only occurs with CoP

There is the reoccuring issue on my Steam that only happens with Call of Pripyat. The issue is that when ever I play the game the hours decrease on play time. When I played today I was at 34.2 hours but after playing it for 2 hours, I checked steam only for the play time hours to be 31.2 hours. Before anyone asks, yes my steam was online the entire time and no my internet never went out.
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2024.05.15 01:18 AcuallyIsGooby Great connection, terrible gaming

Hi folks, I don't want to bore you with a long story but I feel it's unavoidable in order to explain my situation thoroughly so I'll start with bullets to give an overview of what my console is telling me.
Story: before I moved out of my parents place in 2018 I had this same issue, NAT type switching from open to moderate over and over, with open still presenting the same issues (almost as if it's actually moderate all the time despite displaying as open) and I never managed to get it working, my Dad runs his business from home and he is the network administrator, he assures me everything is fine with the router and settings. UPnP on, zero config etc
But nothing I do will fix the problem.
I move out, get my own router and everything, and it just works straight out of the box. Finally I have smooth online gaming without any lag issues (network speeds are identical to my parents place) 5 years of smooth gaming pass and sadly I'm forced to move back in with my parents, who now live somewhere else, but have the same network config as they did before.
Now I'm back in their new house and I'm having the same issues again, on both wired and wireless connections. Since I last lived with them my console now has the QoS tagging settings which 'appears' to resolve the issue when I test my NAT type and connection, but it doesn't, the issue persists - I can't hear audio in party chat clearly, it's distorted. I get a constant latency warning when trying to play multiplayer, despite my network speed being fine. I feared I would have this problem again before moving back in and my worst fears have been confirmed. I had to deal with this from 2009 when I was 16 trying to play modern warfare 2 with my buddies, and it continued until I left home in 2018. Hardware has been upgraded, replaced, even ISP has changed in that time and yet, whenever I'm at my parents place I have this issue.
I'm at a loss of what to do, is this anything to do with mesh WiFi? Because on paper the only difference between our networks is that here they're using 'Tenda Nova' brand mesh WiFi system and I wasn't - we have the same ISP and even the same tarrif too.
I cannot find the source of the issue and it's driving me nuts because I'm the only one in the house who is negatively affected by it so nobody else really cares. Every other device including my phone works fine, it's only my Xbox. I help run a sim racing league on Assetto Corsa and I've been unable to partake in any races since I moved back in, this sucks because it's my main hobby and every week I have to watch them all racing live on twitch knowing I can't even connect.
If anyone can suggest anything to help me out here I'd be eternally grateful, it's gonna be a long year if I can't relax and play games in the evenings after work :(
Something is definitely wrong with the network settings somewhere, because my own 'vanilla' network worked just fine
Thank you for reading my post, happy to answer any questions that I'm able to
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2024.05.15 01:18 Alarmed_Broccoli2250 Why did nobody tell me Crosley is garbage?

First timer here... I inherited a bunch of my dad's vinyl when he passed away. I didn't currently have a record player, and it was around christmas, so I bought one of those crosley suitcase players at Walmart for like 30 bucks. It was plug and play and served me just fine for a couple of years. I just occasionally used it, so it was whatever.
Recently my husband and I have gotten into buying more vinyl and wanted to upgrade to a better turntable. My husband's birthday was this past march, so I thought I'd buy him one as a gift that I could benefit from as well... went back to Walmart (don't come at me) and bought a Crosley C62b for around $200. I had looked online at reviews and they were generally positive. I knew that coming from walmart this wasn't going to be "top of the line", but the company is so known that I thought it would be a decent player we could get a year or 2 out of before upgrading to something nicer.
On his birthday we set it up according to Instructions, which were pretty vague, but we watched some YouTube videos and we were pretty confident about it. We played a few songs and it did great. We were heading out to dinner, so we didn't mess with it any more that night or the next couple of days. Since then we have yet to play a record through without it skipping.
We have balanced that tone arm 2946 times, set the antiskating, calibrated the stylus, replaced parts, tightened screws that were loose from the factory... done everything imaginable to get this thing to work properly and we still cannot play a record through. The needle just jumps all around and I'm really worried it's going to mess up all these $40 vinyls we've bought.
Like I said, we're pretty confident in our abilities to set this thing up. My husband and I are not idiots (unless you count us buying not one, but 2 crosley players). He's a musician that's worked around music equipment basically his whole life. I have electrical and mechanical experience from the Navy, and I also run sound equipment at our church every Sunday. My husband and I are pretty good at doing things like this, so I'm really just not sure what else to do.
I was an idiot and threw the box away the next day, or I would have taken it back. And I have reached out to crosley multiple times with no response. You'd think a company that's as known as crosley would have a decent customer service department. They must know their products are shit.
Anyways.... anyone have any advice on something I could try? Usually the first song will play fine, but as the arm moves in it starts jumping and skipping whole songs.
Or could someone recommend a good player around the $200-300 range?
And please don't comment on this and be an asshole. A lot of times in these niche communities people can come off as self righteous. Be cool. I'm seriously looking for some good advice here.
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2024.05.15 01:17 OrgasmicLarry Intermittent WiFi

We’ve used Xfinity in the past and have had the same issues we do now. My wife and I bought our first home just this month and had to get Xfinity, while previously where we lived we had smithville fiber in southern central Indiana.
With smithville I never had this problem, but now that we’re back using Xfinity again it’s like picking and poking old scars. I have no idea why we can have okay WiFi for like 2-5 minutes, and then randomly lose all connection for a couple minutes or more and then it come back. We just had the Xfinity tech install the cables from outside into the house and set up our router in the living room. I can’t see it being the technicians fault since we dealt with the same problem at our old place before.
Besides that, There’s a jack and Ethernet port in the room that I had setup for gaming already when we bought the house, but somehow was “disconnected” and they said they would charge us 100 dollars just to connect them… which we declined. The only solution to the problem is being directly connected to the router with an Ethernet cable. Which would be whatever, but running a cable along the walls and the floor under doors just to do so looks so tacky and my wife hates looking at it. I’ve looked into all sorts of fixes going into device properties, gateway settings and the whole 9 yards but nothing has worked.
I can’t even play games or watch anything online with my gaming PC because I get internet for all of 2-3 minutes, and lose internet for 15 minutes This is probably one of the most infuriating things I’ve ever had to deal with internet wise Working 10-12 hours a day, coming home and not being able to use a service we pay for.
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2024.05.15 01:15 Peppermillionare Dog Kingdom Marionette fight (Guide)

Dog Kingdom Marionette fight (Guide)
I'm making a multiplayer online co-op RPG in the style of modem MMO raid fights. It's been a lot of hard work but everyone is having loads of fun playing and I am super proud and wanted to share!
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2024.05.15 01:13 vrhelmutt My thoughts on pizzagate

Conspiracy theories involving “elite” pedophile rings have recently been dominating social media in a disorienting frenzy. They have been around for some time but in this century rose back to popularity during the 2016 Election cycle. This crop, at least, took root with what became known as “Pizzagate.” Promoters of that conspiracy theory in 2016 used social media platforms to make unfounded but viral allegations that Hillary Clinton and other prominent Democrats were running a pedophile ring out of the basement of a pizzeria even though that restaurant had no basement, or any ties to known politicians other than the typical flesh pressing (Phrasing I know) moments fit for a picture hung on the wall. Since then, the dark theme of Pizzagate has found new life with permutations forming part of the #Qanon conspiracy theory, incorporated under the umbrella term “pedogate.” The gist of the #pedogate conspiracy theory is that global elites (politicians, celebrities, and wealthy businesspersons) are covertly involved in a far-reaching ring that uses young children for sexual purposes. “What most of these conspiracy theories involve in one way or another is laying accusations of pedophilia or involvement in pedophile rings at the feet of people that they despise or hate, and during the 16’ election cycle, Democrats were a wide target for an opposing political movement that had hijacked the rival Republican party. Pizzagate originated with the “alt right” and “alt lite,” far right extremists who range from outright white supremacists to those who publicly shun racists but otherwise fall in step with their belief systems. Pizzagate jumped from the fringes to the mainstream because as it denigrated Hillary Clinton, it sucked in supporters of then-candidate Donald Trump. After the election all mention of pedogate seemed to be put on a simmer while other National outrages boiled over (#Covid #RussiaGate #BLM) and just like clockwork (heading into our next election cycle has been turned back up. The pedogate conspiracy and all associated stories employ a centuries-old tactic: playing on deep-seated human anxieties by conjuring images of imperiled children, the purest and defenseless victim of any manner of injustice. An example in the modern era of weaponized conspiracy was the satanic panic of the 1980s, in which a wave of hysteria over alleged child molestation at daycare centers swept the nation. But while that phenomenon was a moral panic attributable, at least in part, to social anxiety over white middle class women entering the work force en masse for the first time and entrusting their children to others, the current conspiracy theories about pedophile rings equate to similar propaganda. They carry a danger for stirring up violence. If you want to elicit violent action the way to do it is through hate and fear. Once you target and label a population as pedophiles, you can do anything you like to that population with full excuse being given to the myth you’ve wrapped around it. That’s not to say fears of child abuse or sex trafficking are unfounded. There are many as pedophilia has ancient roots and in many cases was encourage by many world cultures and religions a lot later into Civilization than we’d like to admit. The International Labor Organization reports that 25 percent of the world’s 40.3 million victims of human trafficking are children. The most vulnerable, according to the National Human Trafficking Hotline, are migrants, runaways, the homeless, and youngsters who have been victims of violence. Despite their obsession over the topic, conspiracy followers aren’t worked up about those children who are in true harm’s way. In the world of propaganda, it’s never about real children. Instead, it’s about what children represent. The children imperiled by conspiracy theories, in other words, are only metaphors. Children carry a vast amount of weight in any society, but especially modern ones when they’re expected to survive past the age of five. It wasn’t as intense before the 18th century when child mortality rates were really high. They represent the future, and all that is beautiful and decent and honest in a society, because they are innocent. For most people also, the meaning of their existence is rooted in their children. Children are eschatological, they represent death for us, and what is coming behind us after we are gone. They also represent the threat of loss, if they disappear, if they die, that is the death of society. That’s why they became so crucial and central to Cold War propaganda. The real terror of the nuclear holocaust would be the death of the children, because that’s the death of everyone. A recent example of this is in a recent police investigation into conspiracy claims of PizzaGate style accusation of Portland’s Voodoo Doughnuts. Detectives attempted to contact the person accusing Voodoo Doughnuts on social media of running a pedophile ring. The accuser did not cooperate with investigators and it’s been documented in other coverage online that they had become agitated and accused the Police with complicity when tracked down in person, even though they were attempting to investigate. The pendulum of conspiracy theories about systematic child abuse has swung back and forth for centuries. Examples such as blood libel, when Jewish communities were attacked over false allegations of murdering and consuming Christian children in the Middle Ages. In Europe, During the Thirty Years War, entire villages were put to the sword because it was believed they were abusing children of the other religions. One characteristic that helps Pizzagate-style conspiracy theories gain popularity is that they function like a puzzle game and give its audience a large level of involvement through social media. A lot of conspiracy theories are oracular, where the information comes from one source an oracle. Then there are others where there are a few people who promote the notions, almost like gurus or a conspiracy priesthood. But Pizzagate, it’s more of what one would call a participatory conspiracy theory. Participatory conspiracy theories lay out a scenario or situation and then they ask their audience, ‘what more can you find out about this, what more can you add?’ It turns the audience into willing participants, some knowing they are creating a destructive madlib and other (potential real victims) caking on mystical distraction to issues that have been unreported or scars that have not bee properly treated. The thing about participatory conspiracy theories is it can really create a devoted following because it gives people something to do, it makes them feel they can solve the whole thing or uncover new aspects to it. Once you get that energy going it’s almost self-sustaining. Followers of the Qanon conspiracy theory, call themselves “bakers” because their protagonist “Q” pops up on Internet message boards and leaves “crumbs” (i.e., clues), and they are tasked with picking up the crumbs in order to solve the puzzle. (“Q” is supposed to reference the character’s government security clearance level).
#Q followers believe an even more incoherent version of Pizzagate. This is largely a right-wing fantasy that originated in a series of incoherent posts on #4chan in 2017 by someone calling themselves #QAnon. Following on the heels of similar idiocy such as Pizzagate, it advances a fantastic web of deceit that wraps up Trumpism, deep state fearmongering, evil, satanic pedophilia rings controlled by the Democratic Party, investigations into Russian meddling in the 2016 US election, the Las Vegas shooting, and New World Order paranoia into a package easily and wholeheartedly promoted by internet cesspools and far-right personalities such as Alex Jones. The premise is that President Trump is secretly working to take down a global ring of elite, cannibalistic, satanic pedophiles. And the investigation into Russian meddling into the 2016 election, led by former FBI director Robert Mueller, is actually an investigation into the so-called “deep state”, where a cabal of evil, globalists, including Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama, are responsible for everything from a global pedophile ring to the mass shooting in Las Vegas in 2017. According to the enlightened, when Trump awkwardly took a drink from a bottle of Fiji water at a press conference in November 2017, it wasn’t because he was thirsty; it was actually a secret signal to those in the know that the annihilation of deep state pedophiles had begun (or was about to begin). Because as everyone knows, Fiji is a hot spot for child trafficking. ( I could go on and on with this poorly thought-out shit, I will spare you ) The role the Internet and social media play in helping to spread such insanity can’t be underestimated. Just a few decades earlier, conspiracy theorists would identify each other using letters to the editor printed in newspapers and magazines. It was a lot harder to identify your fellow conspiracy theorists. You would have to physically meet to swap your stories or send letters or call. They would set up these groups that would communicate by newsletter. They would meet in a physical space, like someone’s living room. I personally witnessed people from my childhood, dutifully photocopying newsletters they had received in the mail to give to others (Primarily at my #JW congregation, how ironic). Now obviously it can go much more quickly, because you can identity people immediately. You can quickly share ideas and the data you’ve collected. The Internet allows such people to exist in bubbles where they rarely have their beliefs challenged. The extraordinarily polarized society we’re in right now has made people less willing to seek out other view points. Because of the internet you have less chance of doing this. There’s very little incentive to look outside one’s own bubble once they have become invested in a conspiracy theory. Once you start to act out on those behaviors you are forced to double down by repeating the act to prove it was a just act. Eventually you get caught up in a movement that totally defines your conscious and you can’t get out of it. The second you step out of that world view your actions go back to being reprehensible. Now the question becomes, “What’s the harm? If it sheds light on child abuse, then isn’t it still productive?” The answer in this case is a resounding NO. In my opinion and PAINFUL experience, the root cause and sustaining factors of institutionalized child sex abuse are all things that would counter your typical Conspiracy Nut’s world view, thus causing a complete blackout to the problems. The entity taking part in the harming of children on a local and tangible level aren’t some suit and tie wearing global elitist. It’s a guidance counselor, youth pastor, unvetted young substitute teacher, aunt/uncle/cousin/neighbor. It’s anyone who has been given routine private access to a child’s mind and body because of the social conventions that have been protected for generations by our relatives whether they themselves are guilty of abuse or not. In all the Qanon madness I also kept very close tabs on the pending prosecution of the Boy scouts of America and never saw any widely shared memes about their involvement in the abuse syndicate. Why is this? How is this so? Aren’t these people watching the news, seeing the court records and hearing the individual cases being brought against Scout Leaders (SOME OF WHO RAN THEIR OWN NETWORKS!!)? When I would find mention of accusation it was met with the ever scarce “skepticism” because if the media is covering it, it must be a plot to destroy the organization. There are now non-for profit organizations setting up victim funds and protections for people to come out with their stories and somehow THIS is the fake ruse. Some that know me know that I was a Jehovah’s Witness as a youth/teen/young adult. That chapter of my life could fill many chapters and the research on the organization, the real true black and white history of the religion would honestly surprise you. I saw what I now know was abuse, I personally experienced abuse in many forms. The perpetrators involved are either still Witnesses or are dead or have moved “away from the organization”. But one thing that was left intact in each situation was the secret that they prey on children. The parents, these organizations and the collective promise to keep up appearances are directly to blame for the suffering untold thousands, millions of children and broken adults. All for what? Pride and Vanity and a commitment to all involved to protect them from the “mean old world” despite allowing predators to eat their children from within. Being a #JW was a very interesting experience. It provides a very efficient form of insulation from outside society and allows people involved to view the chaos from afar. There is this persistent (albeit false) sense of shared peace that members have. It’s as though for three days a week you go to this meeting where no matter what, everyone has a smile and feels about things EXACTLY how you do. There is no cursing, there are no politics, there surely isn’t any destructive influences that would tarnish your chances of salvation. For a parent this is a refuge when raising a child in a world that is dangerously unpredictable. A Child that you are unable (or unwilling) to teach coping skills to get along by societal standards, A child you want to protect by hiding. This is problem #1. As an adult the congregation presents an avenue for which you can act and behave in a way that allows you to reconcile your past, a way to have less of those nights awake because you think about past wrongs you’ve committed against people. It’s the proverbial band-aid for a guilty, bruised, destroyed conscious of any size. Coming into the organization takes nothing more than the desire to change, publicly declaring your willingness to hand over your life to God (The organization). Bam, You’re in! No credit check, no background check. This is problem #2. A JW is taught that “every facet is an asset” (Ministerial Servants know what I’m talking about). What this means is that every facet of your life is an asset to the organization to spread its word. If the world see’s their product’s application into your life and thereby how much better it is than a normal person’s, then they’ve made an “Effective Witness” to the world. This causes Witnesses of any age to allow almost every facet of their life to be a tool by the organization. For a parent this includes their children. This is problem #3 When you get a culture that insulates itself from the real world, that allows you to enter without any coherent vetting, give access to children whose parents feel obligated to present as a “witness” to the lifestyle. You get a twisted corridor in which victims can get lost for a lifetime and predators can hide in plain sight. For any proponents of the “Save-The-Children” movement to not take a step back and really analyze their local community and lifestyle through these lenses only illustrates that child abuse is being weaponized politically at the expense of others whom you aren’t willing to save because it would look bad for ‘your side’. If you truly care, you wouldn’t be sharing email forwards about what evil unverified unmentionable thing you read some celebrity or politician did. Instead, you’d be drawing back on your experiences as a child. Even if nothing happened directly to you, I’m sure you know some one that had an experience that forever harmed their life. Who did it? Was there a pattern or social condition that allowed for this as was laid out in the JW example? How could it have been avoided? Would you have stopped it if you saw the signs? Are you willing to stop it in the future, knowing what you know now? If you can answer any of those questions with a yes, then you have all you need to WRITE your own material to reach real victims and their families. Does your action cause problems for your ‘side’? It shouldn’t matter and you know that. If it does make a difference to you then you are no better than the shadowy pedophilic cabal that you are so obsessed with.
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2024.05.15 01:12 Evening-Parsley2112 Narc mother asks for help with monster brother after 8 years of NC

So this is a long one. Like, I'm going back over it and damn. This is longer than I thought it would be. Throwaway account, I've only made one other post to this relating to what's going on. Instead of updating the other post, I figured I'd make a separate one about the whole shit show I experienced, and the shit circus I uncovered and avoided. I'll try to keep this in as chronological an order as I can.
As the title says, my abusive/narc mom and pos/delusional/golden child brother started trying to reach out to me a few months ago wanting to make amends and build bridges with me again. There were a few people that commented on my previous post in another subreddit that may be a little disappointed in me for how I handled this, and a few that might enjoy that I handled it the way I did. Someone commented to not let them use my good nature. My nature is dependent on who I'm dealing with, and when it comes to that side of my family, I'm more stick than carrot. So their attempts did not go ignored, and did not go unpunished.
Growing up, I was always closer with my Dad than my mom. My brother was the epitome of "pampered mamma's boy". He started having seizures as a child and was diagnosed with epilepsy, which I thought was why my mom babied the absolute fuck out of him long into adulthood. He would go a year or 2 without any seizures, and then there would be a few months where he'd be having them every other day. At Anytime he got in trouble at home or school, my mom would find a way to blame me, for not making sure he knew whatever he was doing would get him in trouble, or she would blame my dad for not being "involved enough in their baby's life." My dad was in the Navy and I remember any time he'd deploy, I'd dread every day until he came back. My brother would taunt me that he knew whatever he did, I'd be the one to get in trouble for it. My dad would always make things up for me when he got back from his deployments though. We'd often have weekend trips just the 2 of us. And then around my 12th birthday, my mom insisted on sitting us all down and explain to that she and my dad were getting a divorce. We got the whole talk about how they still love us and they just can't be together anymore, etc. my dad told us both that he still loved us and he would be there for us whenever we needed him. He explained that he would be moving out, but he would be by to pick us up to spend the weekends with us. I was nervous and honestly scared of what it would be like without him. But I was looking forward to the weekend when I got to see him again. That never happened though, and that was the last time I ever got to see him.
Right before his weekend with us, my mom explained to us that my dad didn't want anything to do with us anymore. There was some news story about a father that killed his kids when he had custody of them and she used that to terrify my brother and convince him that our dad wanted to kill us to start his life over. We left damn near everything behind and moved in with my mom's brother in Florida (from Virginia) a couple days before my dad was supposed to come get us. After that, she went to great lengths to make sure we had no contact from him.
Years went on, my mom seemed more indifferent towards me than ever. She never seemed interested in anything I did unless my brother also seemed interested in it. She didn't show any interest in my wanting to learn guitar until my brother also showed interest in it. Then we got one guitar that we had to share, I'd take lessons on the condition that I taught my brother whatever I learned in them. My brother eventually wound up breaking the guitar and I was blamed for not storing it in the case it came with. I had to share my N64 with him whenever he wanted to play it. I was playing perfect dark one day and having a hard time killing the skedar leader at the end of the game. My brother burst into the room saying he wanted to play his MegaMan game, to which I just replied "give me a minute, this boss fight is hard, once I'm done you can have your turn" He didn't like that. He left the room and came back with a hammer and smashed the console while I was still playing. My fault for not letting him play it. The only thing I had that he could not use was a pair of roller blades my aunt got me for my 14th birthday. I specifically asked for roller blades to get around instead of a bike because my brother and I had different shoe sizes, so he couldn't wear them Because of constant shit like that, I never really put much value in having things growing up. I didnt want to buy something or get something as a gift just to have it fucked up in a few weeks or months. At some point, my "little" brother became the larger one, so my clothes all became "hand-me-ups" as he outgrew everything. So, because I didn't really have any distractions at home, I turned into a high achieving student, rarely got in trouble. made the honor roll all throughout school. But that wasn't something to celebrate as it was expected of me. I had long since decided that I was moving out as soon as I could once I turn 18. I got a job working at a Walgreens as soon as I could and started saving up for a car. My mom however took issue with this and would never agree to take me looking for one and absolutely refused to ever have it put on her insurance. This is where my Aunt comes in. She and her son are the only 2 on my mom's side that aren't some sort of degenerate. She had her son young, but put herself through college while raising him alone and eventually got her MBA and a cushy upper corporate job. She told me to tell my mom I had to go in to work on one of my days off, that she would pick me up and she would take me car shopping. So that's what we did. I couldn't quite afford a cash car, but she helped me with the financing. I put down what I had as the down payment, the arrangement she made with me was that 1- as long as I was in school, she would cover the insurance and payments for me, however, if I got into an accident, I was responsible for paying the deductable. And 2- as long as i was living with my mom, the car remained in her (Aunt's) name. And if anything happened to it, to let her know so she could get the appropriate authorities involved. My mom was PISSED when she found out I now had a car. Her reasoning (that she said in front of my aunt) was that she didn't think it was fair for one of us-either me or my brother- to have something the other couldn't use. Due to him being 13 and having epilepsy, he couldn't drive, so why should i have a car if my brother doesn't? That turned into a long shouting match between my mom and Aunt that basically ended with my aunt explaining that since it was her car, and all paperwork on her name, I was just on the insurance for it so I could drive it. But if anything at all happened to it while I was living at my Mom's, that the police and insurance companies would get involved. My mom still kept track of all the miles on the car to "make sure I was only going to work and school and wherever she told me I could go". Most of the time, when I hung out with friends, I wasn't the one driving. From that that point though, my mindset was very much "keep my head down and nose clean until I can leave." I graduated a month before my 18th birthday. After graduation, my mom and i got into an argument about me contributing to her bills. I eventually dropped the ball that I planned on getting back in touch with my Dad and leaving. She started laughing. Something about that laugh made me really uncomfortable. She then said "well, you can certainly meet up with him whenever you want! I'll supply the gun if you buy the bullet!" And told me my dad had died when I was 15. That. Fucking. Broke. Me. Later that night, i called my best friend and vented everything to him. He was in the DEP program for the Navy and would be shipping out in a few months, he told me to come by first thing in the morning and talk with him and his parents about the whole situation. I basically packed up all of my clothes and left the day after my 18th birthday. I just left my house key and a note that said "I'm not your problem anymore." I couch surfed for a little while until after my best friend left for boot camp, then I was able to move in and live with his parents (chosen parents basically). My only real rules were keep the house and my space clean and make sure I had a job and/or going to school. I spent a few months mourning my dad and kind of in a haze. Since he was in the Navy though, that meant I was reliable for financial aid for school. My second dad helped me get everything put together to start receiving that so I could start college.
Well, after a couple years of this, my brother, who had spent his time at school more as "forced socializing" instead of learning, was expelled from public schools for allegedly setting off a fire extinguisher in a classroom. He had to enroll at an alternative school called "the drop back-in academy" that was specifically for dropouts or anyone that got the boot from the public school system. My mom reached out to me and asked me if I would drive him to this school in the mornings, she'd pick him up in the afternoons, and she'd pay me $20 a week.I agreed to it thinking this was out of character for her, but she surprisingly held up to that agreement. I drove him for a couple years until I was ready to start my bachelor program. My second parents were getting ready to move back to their hometown and I was going to start school on the other side of the city. So, I was moving to that side of town and couldn't really drive out of my way to pick up and drop off my brother anymore. He continued his enrollment at this place for another 3 years (5 years total) and it turned out, he was never attending. I would drop his ass off there every day and he'd just walk home immediately after I pulled out of the parking lot. He'd just tell my mom that he finished his work early and decided to walk home instead of wait around for her. One afternoon, I'm coming home early from work and my brother is just sitting on the steps to my studio apartment. He tells me that he and our mom got into a really big argument and he needs a place to stay. I (reluctantly) let him in. I'm stuck thinking he must be really desperate if he's coming to me for help. But I start thinking at this point, he's 24, jobless, and probably needs to learn some self discipline and responsibility, and our mom just never did that for him. So I try to help. I ask him what their fight was about and he tells me that he started dating this girl at his alternative school. She was 21 and got the boot from the school system for being too old to attend (we actually have several relatives that were kicked out of the school system for the same reason) and that he accidentally got her pregnant and our mom did not take kindly to that. I called my landlord and explained the situation to him. He was okay with it, so I let him crash on my couch for a little bit (until the end of my lease, then I'd be moving) and just told him to clean up after himself, take care of himself, etc until we could all work this out. He crashed there for a few months and did Jack shit. He would complain that I didn't have a computer for him to use (I only had a laptop I bought for school) and I didn't have any video game consoles for him to entertain himself with. So he was stuck there bored all day. I got tired of the complaining and lack of effort and told him he had to go back to our mom's if he wasn't going to be an adult. We started shouting at each other until he dropped this little bombshell. He yelled "I can't go back to Mom's!" And when I asked why, he just blurted out "because it's to close to that elementary school!" That stopped the whole thing. "And why is that a big deal now?" I asked him. I already knew why that would be the problem, but 1% of me was holding onto the hope that he was got jumped by a gang of 5th graders and the trauma was too much for him to bear. I told him he could either tell me what's going on, or I could make a phone call and get every last detail I needed. He confessed that he had been leaving that school and going over to his "girlfriend's" house and waiting for her to get home. And that one day, her mom ended up catching them in the act. I explained to him that he was leaving out important details if that was the reason he couldn't be near a school.
He told me she was 14, not 21. I. Lost. My. Shit. Everything after that is kinda fuzzy, but he was arrested, mom posted bail, and since she lived right around the corner from an elementary school, he couldn't stay there. So they told his parole officer that he'd be staying at my address until his court date.. his PO had swung by a couple times, but I was always either at work or school or out somewhere. At this point, I told him the lease was up in 6 weeks, I couldn't stand to be around him. I packed my stuff early, moved out into a storage unit, and I stayed at an extended stay hotel until it was time for me to move. Called my landlord and told him what was going on, and if my brother was still there the last week of the lease, nail him for trespassing. My landlord was a good guy. I never had any problems with him. I paid up the last 6 weeks and threw him since extra cash for his troubles as I knew I wouldn't be getting my deposit back. That was the last time I saw my brother. After I moved out of state, I cut all contact with everyone in that family except my Aunt who was the only one that ever helped me out or even had my back. But even then, it was just through email. We'd mainly email birthday and holiday wishes to each other. Updates from my side on how life and career are going.
I never had a myspace or a Facebook growing up. I either never had a computer to check it on, or I was just so accustomed to not having any online distractions that I just never got around to making one. I did finally make a Facebook and I did get in touch with my dad's side of the family and reconnected with them. I hadn't seem most of them since I was 4 or 5. Some of them had been in contact with my brother (he fucking knew our dad died) and was spinning some sort of web about how he graduated high school early, had gone to college for pre-med and then got some sort of full ride scholarship to some prestigious medical school in Florida. He told them I wasn't on social media because I had been arrested for selling drugs and that he was taking me in after I got released. He was also using my senior portrait as a profile pic. They were surprised when they saw me and how I "looked just like my brother!" I had set the record straight. They looked dumbfounded when I told them that he couldn't get himself out of the 9th grade in 10 years, and now would likely never complete his high school journey due to the fact he can't be within 100 yards of a school.
So, fast forward to last week. I checked my email for the first time since late January (for my aunt's birthday) and noticed a few from her saying my mom wanted to reach out, then several emails from a new address. It was my mom's first initial and last name. Subject lines usually read "please respond" and "let me know you're okay" and stuff like that. I'd copy some of them over, but holy shit this is already a novella. Basically she got my email address from sneaking my aunt's phone (aunt did not sell me out). She's trying to apologize for how she treated me growing up and trying to excuse it by saying I reminded her of my dad and then she was going through menopause and just any excuse to dishes full accountability it seems. She acknowledges that it was wrong to hold me accountable for my brother's fuck-ups but dismisses that by saying he didn't know any better and she needed me to be a good role model for him. Things have been hard for her since I left, since she "had" to take my brother back in (I would've left him on the street or in jail), she had to sell her house (she was only 10 years into her mortgage) and buy another smaller one further from a school for him. He never did get a hs diploma or GED because how can he? And she's been going through breast cancer treatment for the last several months and just doesn't have the energy to take care of her 33yo baby anymore. She asked me if I lived close enough to them to take him in for a little bit while she focuses on her health. I left Florida 8 years ago and haven't even lived in the same time zone in 6 years. She can only check her email at work since she no longer has Internet at home. She had to cancel her home Internet service because of him. So, I decided to just put my brother's name into a search bar and the first thing that pops up is a FDLE sex offender's page. And holy shit has he gone downhill. He had a second arrest when he was 27 for the same thing, and then was caught in communications with another girl (like Chris Hansen sting) and was released from prison at the beginning of the year. And the mugshot.... You know the pale lady from the scary stories to tell in the dark movie? Think that, but with a patchy beard. Beady eyes, bad skin and all. According to the sheriff's office inmate search, he's been arrested 5 times in the last 10 years. Twice for lewd and lascivious battery of a minor (aged 12-15), once for solicitation of a minor, and twice for probation violations.
The TL/DR: abusive mom took all her frustrations out on me, blamed me for everything my brother did, hid my father's death from me until I was almost 18, and reaches out after 8 years of no contact and wants me to take care of her pedophile son while she's in poor health.
I'm attaching my response to her below.
Hi. I'm alive. I'm well. I'm also not okay with you contacting me, especially under the circumstances that you violated the privacy of your own sister to get my contact information. I have read your apologies and excuses and I do not accept either. You say I reminded you of Dad? He spent more time with me and showed more interest in my well-being than you ever did, and that's including the 6 years he was absent from my life by your own selfish design. Menopause? I find that hard to believe as this went on for the better part of half a decade and not once in that time did your attitude towards brother change. You always treated him with the same coddling infantile obsession and patience that one would show a toddler. It was and is clear that you have a preferred child as that adult-sized pile of shit is still living comfortably with dear old mama. I'm guessing no one else is willing to take him in? Are Uncle and Cousins afraid of him doing something to their daughters or grandchildren? I do believe you when you say you want to rebuild the bridge that you nuked from orbit years ago, but I can't believe it's not for your own selfish desires. And I can't find any reason or way my quality of life could be improved with your presence. The reality is, my life has been far better without you than it could be with you. I've never said this to anyone, but if there is a sense of karma and balance in the universe, your current situation is proof of that. The next time I see your name on my computer screen, had better be for your obituary. But since you and the monster you raised both decided to keep Dad's death a secret from me, and remove any choice I had to mourn or pay my respects, I'll return that kindness to you.
Please die away from me.
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2024.05.15 01:11 Tasty_Study_69 Game sucks now

These bugs never stop spawning anymore, I used to play on helldivers by myself and sneak around and have fun, now I can’t play on 7 because there’s so many stalkers that appear out of nowhere, guns don’t do anything anymore, I get the whole “we’re not heroes” lore but like shit you can’t do anything cause 4 chargers at once spawn. Been playing the game since it came out and I’ve been trying to support it but the player base are turning sour and nobody talks online anymore or even comes to you if you ask for help, and like I said I’ve been playing since it came out and it felt more balanced before they started messing with stuff than it does now, as the old saying goes “ if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it!”
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2024.05.15 01:11 HammerheadSharkDude Movement just randomly stops working

I've been getting into modded minecraft recently and decided to try a mod pack that is currently only on forge, I mention this because I normally play using modrinth and have yet to have this problem on there. The problem is that every now and then my movement for one direction will just not read until I've released it and try again. This happens for every movement direction just one at a time. I've looked up solutions online and cannot find this issue let alone a fix anywhere. This issue is very annoying and has already gotten me killed.
I do play on steam deck because my laptop just kinda sucks in general with performance, but as I've said I have not had this issue until using forge. Any help will be appreciated.
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2024.05.15 01:11 _squeeee Update To: Did I Fuck Up My Relationship With My Son?

OG Post: https://www.reddit.com/Parenting/comments/1crbnp3/comment/l3xiv87/?context=3
Hi Everyone,
If you're new to this, link to the original post has been posted.
I read all your comments, your ridiculous DM requests, your advice, etc...I just can't get to them all so I'll just provide you guys with the following:
  1. I want to thank the ones who offered great advice and encouraging words of support and comfort. Instead of judging me or my son as if you all have known us for a long time - you all took the time to share your experience and how you all handled the situation, That was more helpful than anything.
  2. I want to applaud the great parents out there who think they know my son because they've been 19 before and were thrown out into the streets to fend for themselves so they think they can relate. We all can't relate to each others' experiences, not fully. Also, I'm sorry your parents did that to you but just because you "turned out okay" doesn't mean that everyone else will. Apparently, you all didn't turn out okay because you all left some really shitty comments like there's a one size fit all manual for parenting. And I hope your kids (if you have any) will turn out okay or have turned out okay with your type of parenting without any resentment towards you.
  3. I will not make my son move out of his home just for him to experience the ultimate struggle at the age of 19 - survival mode. Even though he's old enough to vote, go to war, be jailed for a crime - he is still a kid. We live in a HCOL area. You can't buy a townhome built in 1974 in my neighborhood for less than $450k. $20/hr is not even enough to survive here and actually live comfortably. He could move to a different county, but he drives to 3 different locations for work and the farther you are from those locations, the more gas you're putting in the tank and the more time spent on the road. He is not going to find roommates as his friends are also struggling to make enough to even rent an apartment or be approved as all the properties here require that your income is 3x the annual amount of the rent. By kicking him out, it's not helping anyone. He'll just be homeless (ruin his credit) and come back. He might as well just figure out a budget and start squirreling away money to save up enough to move out. He is also transferring to a state school after CC and has brought up that he will not be living at home but live closer to campus.
  4. He is/was not a bad kid. He is not on drugs. Yes, his father was and is still present. We've been married for 20 years. My in-laws also have helped us raise our kids (we live very close - like walk to their house close) so they have also experienced the old school type of parenting without the beatings. He's respectful, can be thoughtful most times, and very caring. His attitude the other day is still unacceptable and was the wrong way to express his emotions and thoughts but I was also wrong in the way I responded. My son has never been in fights, have never been called to the principal's office for doing dumb shit most teenagers do. He usually has a good head on his shoulders. Cops have never showed up at my door because he was out doing something stupid with his friends.
  5. He works full time and goes to school full time because it's manageable for him. We have discussed that if doing both is too overwhelming, that he will cut back to working on a part time basis. But, for now, it's doable. He works from 6 am - 11 am. Gets home around 11:30 in the morning or goes straight to the CC for his in person classes. He also has online classes that he can do at his pace. He doesn't work on weekends so he can use that time to focus on his school assignments. He's also not your typical young adult who goes out every night to hang out with friends...he goes to work, school, gym, and home. Most of his friends are in school out of state playing D1 sports. As far as me thinking I know where my son is at all the time - I'm not just pulling this shit out of my ass - my family and I track each other through Life360. So I know where they are and where they've been and they can also see where I am and where I've been. And there's also Find My iPhone which we all share each other's locations. We all tend to misplace our phones in the house and we use it to make that annoying alarm sound.
  6. He's probably the smartest kid I know. He started taking AP classes in 10th grade and on. He took AP Biology, AP Calculus, AP Physics, AP ASL, and AP Statistics. By the time he was in 12th grade, he managed to get enough credits that he could do school half day, go home, and then go to the after care program where he used to work. For a kid, he was pretty good at time management. Better than me as an adult now. I have the time management skills of a carrot (I have ADHD). He graduated with a 4.5 GPA (due to AP classes weighed at 5.0)
  7. I'm not a perfect person nor a perfect parent. I'm learning as I go and doing the best I can with what I have. I may have fucked up sometimes along the way but I'm still a human being and we're all prone to fucking up. I've owned my mistakes and I strive to do better; not just for me, but also for my family.
  8. Yes, he's a dick like most teenagers. I was a dick when I was a teenager. Probably worse than my kids. But he's not perfect and I don't expect him to be. We consider ourselves lucky that he didn't turn out to be a delinquent who barely passed HS or addicted to drugs and alcohol.
  9. His lesson learned from this is that Mom & Dad aren't going to be around forever so might as well buckle up and enjoy the ride into financial literacy. He's going to start slow and figure out what works for him. We're not disowning him. No matter what, he's still our kid and we're going to move on from this and work something out so all parties are on the same page.
  10. My kids are spoiled but they're not brats. Yes, we overcompensated to make up for our crappy childhoods but they have mostly been grateful for everything they have and that they have a great support system. They know that they have a great support system - it took and is taking a whole village to raise my children. Most of our family is local and they have positively contributed to the people that my children have become. They're not sheltered like some of you have stated on here. They are very much aware of what is going on around them and that there are other who are not so lucky. They didn't grow up with a silver spoon in their mouths - they were just lucky to be born into a family with loving parents and extended family.
I know that was long but I hope I've covered everything. This was the first time he's ever been this disrespectful - so this is not a constant thing, this is brand new. Waters are still rocky so I'm not going to bring this up until I've figured out how to approach him with this situation and some time has passed. No matter how you look at it, he doesn't have the emotional maturity as a full grown adult with a developed frontal lobe and have lived through multiple life experiences.
However, we're going to treat him the young adult that he is and instill in him that he is responsible for how his life is going to turn out now that we've passed the reins over to him. Raising my kids have been the most exhausting, draining, and confusing thing I have ever done in my life. I was only 22 when he was born - I was a young mother, a wife, a college student, and a young adult who had to figure out life (and I still am). I have no resentment towards him and my daughter because I had them so young. If anything, I'm grateful as I had to learn how to stand on my own two feet and learn how to make better decisions for their sake. They didn't choose to be born - I made that choice for them and I promised myself that they will always grow up knowing they were loved and cared for. And they are - deeply. But as I said, I had the support of family - my husband's family who welcomed me and helped me throughout the journey.
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2024.05.15 01:08 Shadowmaster486 31M US/East Coast - (M4F) Looking for the one.

Hey There!. I’m from North Carolina and I work fully remote so location isn't to big of an issue, though i would prefer someone within a state nor two.(I do love a good road-trip) I’m looking for long term and monogamous. Someone who wants to know how my day is going and isn't afraid to blow up my phone. Honestly I like doing all that cheesy couple stuff. I would prefer someone 28-34 but would be willing to be slightly flexible on that. I prefer a nice quiet night in, but I do like going out. I don't really go out places on my own but would definitely go out if i had someone to go with. I speak fluent sarcasm, and can have a pretty dark sense of humor. It can take me a bit to warm up to someone so I'm not looking to jump right into a relationship, but that is the end goal. My love language is definitely Quality Time. I haven't really been having luck at this whole online dating thing, but I'm not ready to give up, though hope is slowly dwindling. I'm a pretty big nerd and work in the IT field. I love my job even on the frustrating days. I watch Anime and play Video Games in the majority of my down time, but i will gladly go places if you want to go somewhere. Looks wise i am 5 foot 2 and slightly chubby, though i am working on getting more in shape. Dark blond hair and green eyes. I would be willing to send a picture if you are too. I don't want to give away all my secrets in the post since then we wouldn't have anything to talk about. Chat is open but I'm willing to talk somewhere else if you don't like using the chat since i know it can be a pain.
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2024.05.15 01:07 big_hot_load_69 How to support alcoholic friend?

A friend and I have been spending our Friday nights for the past 15 years drinking beer and playing video games online together. He always overdid it and 15 months ago realized he had a problem and quit drinking. We would still play games together and I would have a few beers, which he said never bothered him. He was sober those 15 months, but this past week he had a tough day and decided to drink. Then it happened a second time, and a third.
My question is, how should I be supporting him? Should I refuse to play games with him if I know he’s having a drink? Should I not have a drink, even though he can’t see me having one? Or should I just let him make his own choices and be there for him?
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2024.05.15 01:05 Mainestrone [Flash] [2000s] Online game by SOS Children's Village

Platform(s): Online
Genre: Third person 2D, Top down, Educational game
Estimated year of release: Mid-to-late 2000s
Graphics/art style: cartoony, very colorful, may have taken place in fall due to brown leaves lying on the ground, the background colours were light or dark depending on the in-game time, character lines appeared in big speech bubbles
Notable characters: Several school-aged children and adult caretakers
Notable gameplay mechanics: Very simple, arrow keys to explore your surrondings, space bar to trigger conversations and mouse to play minigames
Other details: Even though I played the game on a German gaming website, it was in English and advertised an international child welfare organisation. Judging by the blue logo popping up occasionally, I assume it was SOS Children's Village. The MC (you could chose their gender and ethnicity) lived in a housing facility with other children and some adult custodians. When you talked to the characters, they urged you to get informed about children in need. I remember five minigames: Picking up apples falling from a tree, raking up leaves, putting paper in a wastebasket, throwing basketballs through a hoop and solving simple jigsaw puzzles that consisted of pictures of real-life children. You could also drive to school via bus.
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2024.05.15 01:05 OutlawJournalist How do I make this jump in Metroid Returns 3DS?

How do I make this jump in Metroid Returns 3DS?
Hey everyone, Just playing through Area 2 of Metroid Returns. I'm in the hot area right before the eighth Metroid. I'm pretty sure I'm just supposed to jump straight up with Super Jump and grab the ledge but for some reason I keep hitting the slime walls and falling down. I'm pressing jump and up or jump, up and right. Any advice would be greatly appreciated because when I watch people online do it, it seems simple.
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2024.05.15 01:03 rapidcodelab Supply-Side Platforms (SSPs) - Role in the ad ecosystem and optimization techniques

Supply-Side Platforms (SSPs) have emerged as crucial facilitators for publishers seeking to monetize their digital properties. These platforms, often operating behind the scenes, orchestrate the complex interplay between ad inventory and potential buyers, ensuring that the ad space on websites and apps is sold efficiently and lucratively.
At the heart of an SSP's function is inventory management. Publishers, whether they run news websites, blogs, or mobile apps, rely on SSPs to handle their available ad space with precision. This involves categorizing inventory, prioritizing premium spots, and segmenting it based on user data and content type. Through this granular control, SSPs help publishers understand the true value of their ad space and present it in the most attractive manner to potential buyers.
The magic of SSPs lies in their ability to automate the selling process. Real-time bidding (RTB) is the technological marvel that underpins this automation. When a user visits a webpage, an auction takes place within milliseconds, where multiple advertisers bid to display their ad. The highest bidder wins the impression. This instantaneous auction ensures that publishers can sell their inventory at the best possible price, optimizing their revenue with each user visit.
Revenue optimization is another cornerstone of SSP functionality. Advanced algorithms sift through vast datasets to predict which ad networks or DSPs will offer the highest bids. These algorithms consider various factors such as the user's demographics, the context of the content being viewed, and historical bid data. By doing so, SSPs ensure that each ad impression is sold at a price that maximizes the publisher's earnings.
The concept of yield management is intrinsic to SSPs. By employing dynamic pricing models, SSPs adjust the cost of ad impressions in real-time, responding to fluctuations in demand and supply. This dynamic approach prevents the undervaluation of ad inventory and ensures that publishers are always getting the best possible price for their ad space.
One of the significant advantages of using SSPs is the access to a diverse array of demand sources. By connecting with multiple ad exchanges and DSPs, SSPs widen the pool of potential buyers for a publisher’s inventory. This extensive reach not only increases the chances of selling ad space but also fosters competition among advertisers, driving up the prices.
In the quest for optimal performance, several sophisticated techniques come into play. Header bidding stands out as a revolutionary method that allows multiple demand sources to bid on the same inventory simultaneously. This simultaneous auction boosts competition, often resulting in higher revenues compared to traditional sequential auctions.
Machine learning has also become integral to SSP operations. These algorithms analyze patterns and predict the value of ad impressions with remarkable accuracy. They take into account myriad data points, including user behavior, historical bid amounts, and the context in which the ad will appear. The real-time insights provided by machine learning help SSPs make informed decisions that enhance revenue outcomes.
Audience segmentation is another vital strategy employed by SSPs. By leveraging data management platforms (DMPs), SSPs can create detailed audience profiles based on demographics, interests, and online behavior. Advertisers highly value these targeted segments, as they enable more precise ad placements, often leading to higher CPMs.
Floor price optimization is a delicate balancing act. SSPs use historical and predictive data to set minimum prices for ad impressions. This ensures that the inventory is not sold for less than it’s worth while also remaining attractive to potential buyers. Adjusting these floor prices dynamically helps in maintaining an optimal balance between high revenue and inventory clearance.
Quality control in advertising cannot be overstated. SSPs implement stringent measures to ensure that the ads displayed are of high quality, free from malware, and meet viewability standards. High-quality ads lead to better user engagement and attract premium advertisers, thereby increasing revenue potential.
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2024.05.15 01:03 PerfectMeeting1897 Anyone want to make a band from distance?

A few years ago I had some online friends and we used to make music together from distance. One would make compose something and the other one would download it on his software to add stuff, and one was in charge of the mixing and we would publish it in Souncloud. We weren’t very experienced at the time, one of them was a good musician, the other one had good idea for lyrics and samples from other songs or producer packs. It was so fun, I would love to do that again. Dm me if you are interesting, just for fun and hey who knows, maybe we can cook something really good. I can work on Hip-Hop, Trip-hop, rock, electronic music, experimental stuff, electro pop, pop, reggae, ska, and alternative stuff. And I can play guitar, keyboard, (very average voice, I’m not a singer, maybe even below average), bass, ESPECIALLY bass, and I can compose stuff, mix, and as well. Dm if you are interested, especially if you compose stuff cuz I love working on other people’s compositions and add my stuff.
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2024.05.15 01:02 valeriamoraza Feeling disheartened and overwhelmed

Hi!
I'm fairly new to the game and only unlocked terraforming a couple weeks ago. However, I can't stop watching all those YouTube videos of BEAUTIFUL islands and I can't help wonder, HOW did they ever do that??? I'm struggling to even get enoug bells to buy stuff, and I have absolutely no idea where to start or which parts I should add to my island. I try to get inspired but more often than not I get discouraged by how much I would need to do to get to that level of design and I just want to quit altogether. Has anyone felt this way before? How did you get over it? It doesn't help that I don't have a Nintendo switch online connection, so I can't visit other islands. I'm really thinking about getting it but then again, who would I visit, I don't have any friends that play the game.... My question basically is, how do I move on from here? 😂
Disclaimer: I don't want this message to come across as the wrong thing! I'm extremely happy to be playing the game and it's gotten me through some pretty bad times already.
I hope that made sense...
Thank you all very much, this server's awesome 💛
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