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I tried to write down every single movie available on my Delta flights in March 2024. I handwrote some of my notes to pass the 13 hours which is why there are ??? when I couldn't read my own writing/abbreviations. Note that not all titles were available on all flights, and my list is missing a chunk of them (especially titles beginning with "S" for some reason). Hope someone finds it useful! Maybe someone will get to creating a Letterboxd list of them all before me!

10 Things I Hate About You
101 Dalmatians
12 Angry Men
13 Going on 30
17 Again
2001: A Space Odyssey
27 Dresses
500 Days of Summer
80 for Brady
A Beautiful Mind
A Bug's Life
A Cinderella Story
A Compassionate Spy
A Fantastic Woman
A Few Good Men
A Good Year
A Haunting in Venice
A League of Their Own
A Room with a View
A Separation
A Simple Plan
A Simple Wish
A.I. Artificial Intelligence
Abominable
Adam's Rib
Airheads
Akeelah and the Bee
Aladdin
Alice Through the Looking Glass
Alvin and the Chipmunks
Alvin and the Chipmunks: Chipwrecked
American Graffiti
American Street Kid
Amores Perros
An Inconvenient Truth
Anatomy of a Fall
Angels in the Outfield
Aquaman
Assassin Club
Asteroid City
Avatar: Way of Water
Avengers: Infinity War
Back to the Future
Bad Company
Barb and Star: Vista del Mar
Barbie
Batman
Batman Begins
Batman Returns
Batman vs. Superman Dawn
Battle of the Sexes
Beauty and the Beast
Beetlejuice
Being Mary Tyler Moore
Bend it Like Beckham
Better Luck Tomorrow
Big
Big George Foreman
Billy Elliott
Birds of Prey: Harley Quinn
Birthright Outlaw
Blackberry
Blade
Blade II
Blade Runner 2049
Blade Trinity
Blended
Blinded by the Light
Blue Beetle
Bolt
Bottoms
Brave
Brazil
Bridesmaids
Bridget Jones' Diary
Bridget Jones: Edge of Reason
Bring It On
Brown Sugar
Buoyancy
But I'm a Cheerleader
Call Me by Your Name
Carmen Jones
Central Intelligence
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
Cheaper by the Dozen
Chevalier
Chicken Run
Child's Play
Children of a Lesser God
Chinatown
Cinderella
Clifford the Big Red Dog
Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs
Clueless
Colossal
Condor's Nest
Cool Hand Luke
Coraline
Couples Retreat
Crazy Rich Asians
Crazy Stupid Love
Creed
Creed II
Crooklyn
Cruella
Chr. G
Dark Waters
Darkest Hour
Dawnland
Dazed and Confused
DC: League of Super Pets
Dear White People
Dee. Boys
Delivery Man
Desperately Seeking Susan
Despicable Me
Despicable Me 2
Despicable Me 3
Diary of a Wimpy Kid
Dret ard
Dr. Doolittle
Down with Love
Dr. Seuss Horton Hears a Who
Dr. Seuss The Grinch
Dr. Grinch The Lorax
Dreamgirls
Drop Dead Gorgeous
Drumline
Due Date
Dumb and Dumber
Dumb Money
Dune
Dunkirk
E.T.
Edge of Tomorrow
Eggs Over Easy
Elemental
Enter the Dragon
E????
Erin Brockovich
Eternals
Evan Almighty
Everest
Everything Everywhere All at Once
Evil Dead Rises
Expendables 4
F9: Fast Saga
Fallen
Fantastic Beasts
Fantastic Beasts: Crimes of Grindewald
Fantastic Beasts: Secrets of Dumbledore
Fargo
F&F: Hobbes and Shaw
Fast X
Father of the Bride
Feramana???
Ferner????
Field of Dreams
Finding Dory
Finding Nemo
First Man
Focus
Following
Fools Rush In
Forrest Gump
Freaky
Freaky Friday
Freelance
Frida
Friday
Frozen 2
Frozen River
Game Night
Gangster Squad
Garfield
Garfield: Tail of 2 Kitties
Get Smart
Ghostbusters
Glass
Glory
Godzilla vs Kong
Going in Style
Good Morning Vietnam
Gosford Park
Grand Torino
Gran Turismo
Gravity
Grease
Grease 2
Gremlins
Guardians of the Galaxy Vol 3
Guy Richie's The Covenant
Hacksaw Ridge
Half Nelson
Hanna
Happy Death Day
Happy Feet 2
Harlan County USA
Harold and Kumar: White Castle
Harry Potter 1-8
Haunted Mansion
He's Just Not That Into You
Her
Hereafter
Hocus Pocus
Honor Society
Horrible Bosses
Hotel Transylvania
House Party
How to Be Single
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
How to Train your Dragon
Hypnotic
I Am Legend
I Didn't See You There
I, Tonya
Ice Age: Collision Course
Ice Age: Continental Drift
Ice Age: Dawn of Dinosaurs
Ice Age: Meltdown
Ice on Fire
If Beale Street Could Talk
In the Heart of the Sea
In the Heights
In the Name of the Father
Inception
Incredibles 2
Indiana Jones: Dial of Destiny
Indiana Jones: Temple of Doom
Insidious: The Red Door
Insomnia
Instructions not INcluded
It
Jerry & Marge Go Large
Jersey Boys
John Wick
John Wick 2
John Wick 3
Joker
Jonah: A VeggieTales Movie
Journey to the Center of the Earth
Judas and the Black Messiah
Jules
Jumanji
Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle
Jurassic Park
Jurassic World
Just Married
Just my Luck
Kazaam
Kit Kittredge
Kramer vs Kramer
Kubo and the Two Strings
Kung Fu Panda
Kung Fu Panda 2
Kung Fu??????
La La Land
Labyrinth
Lady in the Water
Lakota Nation vs United States
Legally Blonde
Liar Liar
Life of the Party
Lightyear
Lilo and Stitch
Lion
Little Women
Living
Lo------
Lone Survivor
Love and Basketball
Love Again
Love Jones
Ma-d_____ ?
Madagascar
Madagascar Escape
Made of Honor
Mafia Mamma
Magic Mike's Last Dance
Malt------
Momma's Boy
Mamma Mia
Mamma Mia Here We Go Again
March of the Penguins
Mat------
Mean Girls
Meet the Parents?
Memento
Michael Clayton
Milk
Minions
Minions: Rise of Gru
Misery
Miss Congeniality
Missing Link
Mission Impossible Dead Reckoning
Mississippi Masala
Moana
Monster In Law
Monsters Inc
Monsters University
Moonlight
Mortal Enemies
Mr. Malcolm's List
Mulan
Mummies
Murder by Numbers
Murder on the Orient Express
Muriel's Wedding
My Animal
My Big Fat Greek Wedding
My Family
My Girl
National Lampoon's Vacation
Neighbors 2
Neruda
New Year's Eve
News of the World
Nights in Rodanthe
Nine Queens
No
No Country for Old Men
No Murches Frida??
Nomadland
Notting Hill
Ocean's 8
Ocean's 13
October Sky
Of tn age??
Once Upon a Time in Hollywood
Onward
Oppenheimer
Origin
Over the Hedge
Pacific Rim
Pandas
Pan's Labyrinth
ParaNorman
Paris is Burning
Past Lives
Paw Patrol: Mighty
Paw Patrol: More
Pee Wee's Big Adventure
Perfect Strangers
Persepolis
Phantom Thread
Pinball: The Man Who Saved the Game
Pitch Perfect
Pitch Perfect 3
Planes
Planes, Trains, and Automobiles
Pokemon: Detective Pikachu
Practical Magic
Pride and Prejudice
Primal Fear
Priscilla
Psycho
Pulp Fiction
Puppy Love
Puss in Boots
Queen and Slim
Radical
RRadi--- Wwi?/
Raging Bull
Ra the Breata?
Rat Race?
Ratatouille
Ready Player One
Real Women Have Curves
Red Tails
Reforge
Renfield
Repo Man
Rocky
Ruby Gillman
Rumor Has It
Rush Hour 2
RV
Róise & Frank
Sacfint??
Saving Face
Saving Private Ryan
School Daze
Scoob!
Scooby Doo
Scrapper
Scream VI
Searching
Selena
Selma
Semi Pro
Seven
Shaft
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Significant Other
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Skyfall
Smallfoot
Smoke?
Snowpiercer
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Something's Gotta Give
?
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Soul Surfer
Space Jam
Space Oddity
Sp Ra ????
Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse
Spider-Man: Homecoming
Spider-Man Into the Spider-Verse
Split
Spy Game?
Spy Kids
Stone and D????
Ste W s5t?
Stomp the Yard
Storks
Sweet Home Alabama
Tag
Talk to Me
Tangled
Tee as Go!??
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles
Tenet
The Adia Prse?
The Angry Black Girl and Her Monster
The Baby-Sitters Club
The Best Man
The Big Lebowski
The Big Short
The Biggest Little Farm
The Bird Cage
The Blind Side
The Blues Brothers
The Bodyguard
The Boogeyman
The Book of Life
The Boss Baby: Family Business
The Bourne Identity
The Boxer
The Breakfast Club
The Bucket List
The Caine Mutiny
The Campaign
The Castle
The Chronicles of Narnia
The Chronicles of Narnia 2
The Chronicles of Narnia 3
The Creator
The Croods New Age
The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
The Dark Knight Rises
The Dark Side
The Dead Don't Die
The Dry?
The Equalizer
The Exorcist: Believer
The Fabulous Filipino Brothers
The Fast and Furious (#1)
The S Heartbeats?
The Has???
The Gentlemen
The Good Nurse
The Goonies
The Great Wall
The Guard
The Harvest (La Cosecha)
The H????
The Hobbit
The Hobbit 2
The Hobbit 3
The Holdovers
The Hunger Games: Ballad of Snakes and Songbirds
The Hunger Games
The Hunger Games 2
The Hunger Games 3
The Hunger Games 4
The Hunt for Red October
The Huntsman: Winter’s War
The Incredibles
The Intern
The Invention of Lying
The Iron Giant
The Island
The Jungle Book
The Karate Kid
The Kids are Alright
The Lake House
The Land Before Time
The Last Out
The Last Samurai
The Lego Batman Movie
The Lego Movie
The Lesson
The Lion King
The Lion King
The Little Mermaid
The Little Mermaid
The Lord of the Rings: Fellowship
The Losers
The Man from UNCLE
The Marsh King’s Doughter
The Marvels
The Matrix: Resurrections
The Mitchells vs The Machines
The Mummy
The Neverending Story
The Nice Guys
The Nun II
The Odd Life of Timothy Green
The Other Zoey
The Outsiders
The Peanuts Movie
The Persian Version
The Pirates Who Don't Do Anything
The Place Beyond the Pines
The Popes Exorcist
The Pre--?
The Purge: Election Year
The Replacements
The Ring
The Secret Garden
The Secret Life of Pets
The Silence of the Lambs
The S --------
The ?
The ?
The ?
The ?
The ?
The Take
The Time Traveler's Wife
The True Cost
The Umbrellas of Cherbourg
The Un---- Country
The Usual Suspects
The ???
The ????
The ?????
The Wedding Singer
The Wizard of Oz
The Wood
The Zookeeper's Wife
Theater Camp
Them---?
There Will Be Blood
Thurs?
Titanic
To Kill a Mockingbird
Tooooo?
Tom ??
Tommy Boy
Top Gun
Top Gun: Maverick
Toy Story 2
Toy Story 3
Toy Story 4
Train to Busan
Training Day
Transformers Rise
Trolls
Trolls World Tour
Troy
Tully
Turning Red
Umami
Us
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V for Vendetta
V????
VeggieTales: Abe and the Amazing Promise
VeggieTales: Merry Larry and the True Light of Christmas
Vindicta
Vivo
Wallace & Gromit: The Curse of the Were-Rabbit
War Dogs
We Were Soldiers
We're the Millers
Wedding Crashers
West Side Story
Wet Hot American Summer
Where the Wild Things Are
Wildhood
Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory
Winters Bone
Wonder
Wonder Woman 1984
Wonka
Wreck It Ralph
Yes, Man
Yesterday
Young Punx: A Punk Parable
Zombieland

Okay... this is a difficult post to make as the WS, because I have debilitating shame and remorse and fear., so putting it all out there is scary... But here goes...it's a long one....
I am 41F, married to my wonderful wife, 33F, for almost 4 years, together for 8. She is gay, the first woman I have ever been with and I identify as bisexual. My 15 year old son from my previous marriage lives with us and my wife has taken the role of stepmother beautifully.
Some background....She cheated on me, physically with one woman (a drunken one night stand) and an emotional affair with another woman (a "friend" I always had bad feelings about - texting inappropriate pics, sharing loving feelings with each other and talking badly about me). This was only a few months into us dating, but I didnt find out until 2 and a half years and moving in together. She was extremely remorseful, claimed she was planning on telling me, and ultimately did everything right as far as helping me heal and reconcile. I felt like it took about 2-3 months for me to decide I was ready to forgive and move on. But I did. I mean, I never really forgot it, and still would look at the both of the other women's social media accts and would compare myself to them constantly. But overall, I felt like we were in a good place after a few months and really did come out stronger. My trust in her was restored and we were good. We got engaged, got married, bought a new house. We were truly happy.
Okay. Now... deep breath.... About 2 and a half months ago I had an emotional affair, texting and talking on the phone, with an old friend who lives in another state, that lasted a little under two weeks. This friend and I did share a history of hooking up, but this was years ago when we were teens/early 20's. He had reached out kind of out of nowhere, to tell me his marriage was on the rocks. I expressed sympathy and offered support. Then he went on to tell me he has always been in love with me, for 22 years. I was taken aback. In hindsight, I wish so badly I had just shown my wife this text right away. But I stupidly thought I could just handle it on my own and avoid making her uncomfortable (again...huge regret). Anyway, I told him that I cared deeply for him, but that I was happily married and boundaries needed to be respected. He agreed. We continued to text, at first just innocent things about what we had been up to over the past few years since we last saw each other. Then he told me he had made a suicice attempt recently. This scared and upset me, so I went on to tell him how much I loved him. He then told me I "saved his life" by telling him this, because he had been in such a bad place. The texts just got out of control after that. I am not saying that to act like I had no control. I know I did. But I started to feel feelings for him (or I thought I did) and honestly, was eating up the ego boost he was giving me. Messed up, I know. I have serious insecurities and vulnerability when it comes to men from my past. Again, no excuse. Anyway, eventually it lead to us being really inappropriate, talking about our past sexual moments with each other, how much we wanted to see eachother, how great it would be, etc. I sent him a picture of me, no nudity, but definitely suggestive.
Shortly after that, the guilt consumed me, I blocked his number, and I confessed to my wife. I admittedly trickle truthed at first, saying it was all him, but as the conversation went on, I admitted I also reciprocated, told him I loved him, talked about sex, and sent him a photo of me. Wife was of course pissed and devastated.
The NEXT day, this man's wife texted me. She said she knew all along. He had been deleting our texts, but she was seeing everything on their phone records. Shockingly, she wasnt flipping out on me. She actually said that their marriage was terrible for years, that this was mild compared to other things he had done, and this was finally her out. She actually even thanked me. But of course, also said this was real disgusting of both of us. She said she could have reached out to my wife several times but didn't. She said she had possession of her husband's phone (including the picture, and that he would never see it again), and that everything she had would be destroyed after their divorce was final. She also told me that he manipulated me (that he uses threats of suicide with her all the time), and that even though I was wrong too, it was him "who sunk his claws into me". She told me to show my wife what she was saying so that maybe it would help. I did, and it did help a little bit. She also said she believes I am a good person. All of this was a relief to hear, even though I didnt feel deserving of such grace. She said that I could give my wife her number if she ever needed to vent, but that she wouldnt pull up the facts she had because that is not helpful or healthy. My wife didnt want to do that. All of my texts with him had already been deleted on my phone, which I had done in state of panic before confessing. So my wife hasnt actually seen anything that was said and has only my words to go off of.
After about three days of talking and crying, and me telling her how remorseful I was and that I would do anything to save us, my wife said she wanted to work through this and stay with me. I was relieved of course, but still felt so awful, and honestly, still scared that she will leave. At one point, she even said she felt like she deserved this because of her cheating. And that what she did was worse because she actually physically slept with someone else. I told her that I didnt feel that way.
Flash forward, Dday was about two and a half months ago. I am still a wreck. Wife says she has already forgiven me (she is still "mad" but she is ready to move on). She believes me when I tell her I would never do this again. I know for a fact I would never.
I cant keep my intrusive thoughts of losing her from making me spiral. I feel so ashamed. I cant eat or sleep. I have constant anxiety attacks. I am trying SO hard not to put this burden on her, because it was ME who did the terrible thing. But i am just crying constantly and not myself. She even told me "the only thing keeping us from moving forward is you. We cant move forward as long as you are stuck."
We are in MC and our own IC. Wife is giving me so much reassurance, so why cant I hear it? And I dont want to keep putting my feelings on her. I know it is just overwhelming her which she doesnt deserve, and I know if I dont pull it together, it will drive her away. She said she misses me. She wants us to be ourselves again. She is still mad that I did this, but says she trusts me overall. Why cant I get out of this terrible depression? I think a part of me worries that if she actually SAW our texts, it would be too much. I dont know. I told her that it was way too emotional, but didnt really give specifics.
I am not totally sure what I am looking for here.... advice? positivity? Anything from anyone who has been there and successfully reconciled and give me hope? Advise on what I can do to snap out of this and move forward. And that reconciliation truly is possible. That what my wife is telling me is true and that alone should help me. She is the love of my life and the idea of losing her because of my disgusting actions is an actual nightmare. I feel terrible for the reprucussions this could have on my son if she left. He loves her so much. Our life was truly amazing, so why did i do this? I hate myself so much. How can i forgive myself??

Maybe it was in my head but I remember one guy who was at the same restaurant and he was sitting at another table… he kept staring at me wide eyed. I think I’m undiagnosed autistic but I probably don’t look that obviously so unless you are closer like you’re a coworker or something. So I’m assuming the men thought I was a normal girl dating a mental handicapped man.
Do you think it had to do with who I was with? I felt like I was being WATCHED.

Before we start this is my first relationship and this isn't hers and her ex isn't long distance but I am Im starting to develop anxiety and trust issues over this relationship and I don't know what to do these issues began when one day my girlfriend told me that her mother was calling her and so she hung up the phone when we were on call and picked up the other call after around 2 hours I was worried that something might have happened and just checked up on her and so she called me crying saying that she was sorry and I was confused because why would she be apologising and so I said whets wrong talk to me and she said ill tell you all about it later just give me a second and so again she hangs up and calls me back after an hour or so and so she's crying and she keeps apologising over and over again and I said what's wrong tell me and she said im sorry that I lied about talking to my mum it was actually my ex boyfriend who called me.
After this point I'm also starting to somewhat tear up because I don't know what to say or do and so I ask why he called and what did you guys talk about she says that he keeps telling her that he's changed and that he wants her back and that he's coming back to her town and wants to see her again and show her how much he's changed and so I asked for her response and she said that she told him that she didn't want him anymore and that she cheated on him and everything but she said he still insists on meeting her and getting back together and I just told her why don't you block him and she said she's scared that she's gonna hurt him and she doesn't know what to feel and she said she still has tiny feeling left for him but she also said that im the only person she needs and wants and she doesn't know what to feel and so I told her she's going to have to either hurt him or hurt me and that she's going to have to choose.
she was also worried that I didn't trust her after that which I was never worried about until after that happened because she immediately told me everything and so she told me to ask her anything about her life and so I did and I don't want to get too much into detail about her past due to privacy reasons but lets just say she's been with multiple men and had done the deed with multiple men and has cheated before I don't know how many times I just know she has and it was with this ex and so I told her to tell me any updates about her ex immediately and she said okay she also said that the problem would be solved after 2 days and so I waited and gave her time
we were normal for the first couple days after we were having fun and then I noticed things started to tilt after a week or so she stopped calling me baby as much calling me by my first name a lot more but still calls me baby she replies instantly compared to me whenever she sends a message ill reply within a minute or instantly but whenever she sends a message even if I reply instantly sometimes she wouldn't respond for a couple minutes after, she doesn't spend as much time with me as she used to, im not getting as much attention and love from her as much as I give her and its draining at times because whenever im not with her im just struck with anxiety and I don't know if she's really doing what she says she's doing or not and if she's just texting her ex and talking to him for example today I only got to spend time with her in the morning and once at night for a small amount of time around an hour the nighttime was mostly me carrying the conversation as she said she was tired.
I know she has her own struggles she has to bare and there's things going on in her life but I don't know if its the struggles that's making her unresponsive or something else and that's what's killing me but the time I spend with her is like no other I truly have the best time whenever im with her and it always makes me feel top notch and I don't know when I should confront her because I don't wanna make things worse for her since as I said she's also going through moments with university and family is there anything to do in this situation and is this normal?
TL;DR I suspect my girlfriend went back to her ex but I really don't know and now im anxious and starting to doubt things but love her too much

Ur a 2008 Wayne fan Lil Wayne fans call inahb2 a classic album Fake fans say it sucks
Well ur not a Wayne fan buddy That is Lil Wayne INAHB2 is the most unapologetic unforging bad ass of a album ever created He made it for idiots like u to say it’s bad cause u mad u get no pussy So u can’t relate to what Wayne droppin Get ur dicks wet and play it again yallllll 😂🔥
Songs like Kat food is exactly Lil Wayne
Wayne since I can remememebr was always popular cause he was the pussy eating lean sippin diamond teeth having goblin That’s why he was popular Fight me bitch Not to say he didn’t have hits that weren’t sexual but Wayne’s known for his creative lines about fucking Let’s be 100% honest here and stop acting like Wayne a wisdom droppin ass nigga when that he is not Everyone has moments in they discog But to me Wayne is for the club Wayne for us lady’s men

Just got my first order from Fabletics. I got a pair of The One joggers, pants, and shorts. I like the material and they are very comfortable, but there’s one glaring issue. When I tried them on, you could see EVERYTHING. It’s like they make these for Ken dolls.
I really like how they feel on me but I’m not interested in advertising my whole package to the world. Would sizing up help? Is it an issue with my boxer briefs? Or should I just give up on the brand altogether?
Wondering what other people have experienced with Fabletics men’s pants in the crotch.

So it is rather widely understood that the German economy in the 1930s was completely untenable, and needed to basically loot its neighbors to survive.
That said, in 1938 Germany annexed both Austria and Czechoslovakia - the latter of which had a powerful, developed economy that was immediately latched onto by the Germans.
When 1939 rolls around irl, there were many German officers who seemed to believe that the army was not in the state that it should be, and that more time was needed to prepare for how. If Hitler, hypothetically, listened to these men and delayed his demand for Danzig, how long could he have gone before economic conditions deteriorated to the point were he absolutely had to wage war, given the boost they received from their '38 takeovers?

In most respects I'm the target audience for X-Men '97, except for one thing: I didn't watch the cartoon it's a sequel to. (Grew up in the country, only had three channels, and Fox wasn't one of them.) I saw the first two episodes on VHS from the local rental place, and got a few other details here and there, but that's it. I've started watching the series (just finished episode 5, Remember It, no spoilers after that please) and I'm enjoying it but keep on wondering about whether certain details were in the 90s cartoon or not. My questions:

1. Was Rogue's backstory in the cartoon?
   
2. Did Iceman or Angel appear in the cartoon? I know they weren't on the team in the first episodes, where Jubilee was saved by the team in a mall, but I have no idea whether they starred in later episodes or they just popped up in that picture of the original 5 and Xavier on the mantelpiece in the new series.
   
3. Same question for Nightcrawler, the Hellfire Club, Moira MacTaggert, Mojo, the Morlocks...
   

Many men of TRP have long spread the rumor that average and even below average women have virtually unlimited sexual options with top tier men. Don't deny it fellas. You know you've repeated this bullshit.
So in the interest of journalism and science I'd like to pose a question to the average and below average women of PPD. Drop dead gorgeous women, please only reply under automod. So here goes.
Have any of you ever had an athlete, entertainer or celebrity send you a private message on social media? Have any of you matched with an athlete, entertainer or celebrity on an online dating app? Have any of you been flown around the world on exotic vacations by rich and powerful men? Because according to some of the men on PPD that's just another weekend in May for even the plainest of Janes. I want to get to the bottom of this by going straight to the source.

Anyone else have experiences where as you move along in your transition that you have a series of increasingly deep realizations about how grossed out you are at male norms and behaviors?
I’m increasingly confronted by that I’ve always been really grossed out by most men in my life, and while I used to think I was pansexual, I think my starting HRT and presenting more femininely basically shut the door on my interest in men or male spaces of any kind. Not sure if it’s common or even heard of among transfeminine people that taking clear steps away from presenting male suddenly shines a truly disgusting light on past male-centric experiences and also memories of being celebrated for male traits.

Hello Marriage,
I (27F) recently got married to my husband (29M) who I love very much. We're pretty much on the same page as a couple, however I'm having a dilemma about our last name since the wedding.
I always knew that I would never want to drop my last name after getting married as I have my college degrees and other career work in my maiden name. We talked about it a few months prior to the wedding and my husband agreed and understood this; why would I want to sabotage my progress by abandoning my birth name? I was however, willing to hyphenate my name with his. My husband was happy with this compromise and he even went a step further and offered to hyphenate his name with mine as well so we'd end up with the same last name. Even though I thought this was a bit weird (because in my culture men don't change their name when getting married), I was okay with it as long as he was happy with it.
Fast forward a few weeks before the wedding and I discover the amount of admin and paperwork it would take to change my name. Suddenly, I didn't feel like changing my name at all. I told this to my husband and he became visibly upset. I asked him why and his response was "Because I wanted us to share a family name and was willing to share the burden of changing name to do so". While this did make me feel bad, I still wanted to stand by my decision. He said he would still go ahead with hyphenating his even if I don't. I told him I would feel bad if he went ahead with that, but he insisted he wanted a shared name even if it was partial and on hm. We didn't bring up the topic again.
Now fast forward again after the marriage and he stayed true to his word and has changed his name. I'm now in a real dilemma; I feel bad that he went ahead with something I decided not to do which makes the situation feel incredibly one-sided and I feel that out of guilt I should reciprogate. On the other hand, did he maybe do this knowing I would feel guilty and make me change my mind? I just don't get why something like this should matter so much. I never had anything against hyphenating my name, but I just can't be bothered to deal with the admin.
Am I being unreasonable or are my feelings justified?

It is shocking how low the bar men (obligatory not all men disclaimer) I have interacted on other reddit forums have held themselves to. I literally had around five men in different subreddit in a few months all complaining they were not able to get the attention or affections of the opposite sex argue that they are entitled to a women's time and attention because there are "worse men who are married and have children". One of them literally brought up their highschool super attractive blonde cheerleader crush and how she "chose" to marry her abusive Chad bf and how he physically and verbally abuses her and how she should have picked him instead because he would never physically lay a hand on her. The ones I have run across seems to think the bar is if they don't physically hurt women they are entitled to women because some women stay with men who hurt them. This logic has me appalled and flabbergasted, because that is NOT the bar 🤦‍♀️. Does any other women have experience with this or am I just unfortunate?

A reporter drives along a dark twisting road, to a secluded town called Halls Landing tucked away in the Appalachian mountains. He had heard rumors of a local legend about a man who lived in a cabin tucked away deep in the woods. Supposedly, those who visit the cabin come back "twisted", "broken", or "changed" a different word is used for every retelling. Sometimes those who visit are said to never come back at all.
The reporters first stop would be the Due Drop Diner for a quick breakfast. He takes his seat and quickly decides on a cup of black coffee and the classic bacon and eggs. The waitress brings his meal to him. "We don't get many visitors here, what brings you to our neck of the woods?" The waitress, who's name tag read Stacy, asks in a very prominent Appalachian accent. "Well, I'm a reporter." The man answers. "I'm actually here to report on a local legend if you're not to busy." Stacy's face and demineaner suddenly shift. She goes pale and her warm smile and cheary personality fade for a moment to a look of anxiety, before quickly switching back. "I'm sorry but I can't talk right now, I have other tables to get to." She hurries off to one of the two other patrons in the Diner, who were here before he had arrived.
Dispite his strange encounter with the waitress he was determined to find out more about the local legend who driven so far to learn about. Yet, everyone in town seemed to react the same way, either dismissing the topic, changing the subject, or finding some reason to leave. It's as if no one wants talk about it, as if it's a secret.
After deciding that it might be a waste of time, he stops into an old country store, run by an older man he hadn't seen around town much, if at all. After purchasing a few items and turning to leave, the man speaks up. "You're that reporter right? The one the folks are so antsy about?" He turns back to old man, he has long grey hair and a thick beard to match. A pot belly coverd by a white tank top and overalls, and a voice that sounded like he smoked a pack a day sense the age of 6. The reporter replied "Yeah, I just wanted to know about the man who lived in the cabin, tucked back in the woods somewhere. Everyone always acts so dismissive and dodgy." Almost on instinct, the only man replies. "There's an old sawmill at the edge of town, behind it you'll find a walking trail. Head up that trail for about two hours. At the end you'll come to clearing, with what your looking for right there." The reporter, had been writing down what he could and hoped he could remember the rest. "Man, your a life saver thank you so much, you probably just saved my entire trip!" The reporter turns back to leave excitedly, before he can make it to the door, the old man says one more thing. "Just remember son, legends exist for a reason. " The reporter hastely made his way to his car, quickly turning the key and heading to the saw mill.
Something strange he noticed, however, was that everyone he could see, was watching him drive. Stopping any and all activity, just to stare him down as he made his way up the winding road. Men, women, even children. As if trying to force the car off the road.
He parked his car and made his way around the abandoned saw mill, until he found a break in the fence, with a trail leading up the mountain. After a grueling two hour walk up the trail in silence, he found it. A small clearing with an old cabin. The cabin was dark and decrepit compared to surrounding greenery. It looked as if it had been their first centuries, almost completely untouched. Feeling as if his hopes might've been dashed, he slowly makes his way to the front door, still panting from his hike up the mountain. He Knocks on the door, and to his surprise, after a few minutes, the door opens. Standing in the door way looks to be a man in his early 20s. Short, Dark brown hair, blue eyes, wearing a blue flannel, a pair of jeans, and heavy black boots. All of which look relatively new. The reporter, camcorder in hand, was expecting someone much older than the man that stood before him, and before he could get a word in edgewise. The man flashes a smug grin and speaks. "Let me guess, you want to hear about the man on the mountain." The reporter, having his plans laid bare before him, answers still tired from his hike. "uh yes, I had heard of the legends and thought I'd come see for myself. The towns folk seem pretty reluctant about giving me directions though." The man leans on the doorway, crossing his arms. "Yeah well, you know how it is. Superstition can cause people to act strange and weary, especially around new faces." His grin turned into a more friendly smile. "But where are my manners. The names Dean, and this old cabin was built by my great great great grandfather. He was the man on the mountain you've heard about."
The reporter, as excited as a city boy can be after hiking up hill for two hours straight. Smiles back at the man, excited to learn what this man might know. "Well, what happened? Why are the towns folk so weary of this place?" The reporter asks eagerly, his legs shaking from exhaustion. "The man on the mountain was cruel to say the least. He'd lore people up here, he'd carve weird symbols into their skin, mutilate them, dismember them. Some say he could even twist up someone's soul, change them in ways no one, not even god can fix." There was a moment of silence between them, before the man speaks up again. "Well, you're probably tired from your hike all the way up here. Come inside I'll get you a drink and we can talk more about it." The man steps aside to let the reporter in. The doorway was dark, as if swallowed by some impenetrable void. Regardless, the reporter enters the cabin, the door closes behind them. The lock clicks. The reporter never comes back.

Before we start this is my first relationship and this isn't hers and her ex isn't long distance but I am Im starting to develop anxiety and trust issues over this relationship and I don't know what to do these issues began when one day my girlfriend told me that her mother was calling her and so she hung up the phone when we were on call and picked up the other call after around 2 hours I was worried that something might have happened and just checked up on her and so she called me crying saying that she was sorry and I was confused because why would she be apologising and so I said whets wrong talk to me and she said ill tell you all about it later just give me a second and so again she hangs up and calls me back after an hour or so and so she's crying and she keeps apologising over and over again and I said what's wrong tell me and she said im sorry that I lied about talking to my mum it was actually my ex boyfriend who called me. After this point I'm also starting to somewhat tear up because I don't know what to say or do and so I ask why he called and what did you guys talk about she says that he keeps telling her that he's changed and that he wants her back and that he's coming back to her town and wants to see her again and show her how much he's changed and so I asked for her response and she said that she told him that she didn't want him anymore and that she cheated on him and everything but she said he still insists on meeting her and getting back together and I just told her why don't you block him and she said she's scared that she's gonna hurt him and she doesn't know what to feel and she said she still has tiny feeling left for him but she also said that im the only person she needs and wants and she doesn't know what to feel and so I told her she's going to have to either hurt him or hurt me and that she's going to have to choose. she was also worried that I didn't trust her after that which I was never worried about until after that happened because she immediately told me everything and so she told me to ask her anything about her life and so I did and I don't want to get too much into detail about her past due to privacy reasons but lets just say she's been with multiple men and had done the deed with multiple men and has cheated before I don't know how many times I just know she has and it was with this ex and so I told her to tell me any updates about her ex immediately and she said okay she also said that the problem would be solved after 2 days and so I waited and gave her time we were normal for the first couple days after we were having fun and then I noticed things started to tilt after a week or so she stopped calling me baby as much calling me by my first name a lot more but still calls me baby she replies instantly compared to me whenever she sends a message ill reply within a minute or instantly but whenever she sends a message even if I reply instantly sometimes she wouldn't respond for a couple minutes after, she doesn't spend as much time with me as she used to, im not getting as much attention and love from her as much as I give her and its draining at times because whenever im not with her im just struck with anxiety and I don't know if she's really doing what she says she's doing or not and if she's just texting her ex and talking to him for example today I only got to spend time with her in the morning and once at night for a small amount of time around an hour the nighttime was mostly me carrying the conversation as she said she was tired. I know she has her own struggles she has to bare and there's things going on in her life but I don't know if its the struggles that's making her unresponsive or something else and that's what's killing me but the time I spend with her is like no other I truly have the best time whenever im with her and it always makes me feel top notch and I don't know when I should confront her because I don't wanna make things worse for her since as I said she's also going through moments with university and family is there anything to do in this situation and is this normal?

The article was aimed at those who have never seen Akira Kurosawa's films and recommended the best way to start seeing his films; he/she even recommended a specific order:
1- Rashomon / 2- Seven Samurai / 3- Kagemusha / 4- Stray Dog / 5- High and Low / 6- The Hidden Fortress /
7- The Men Who Tread on the Tiger’s Tail / 8- Throne of Blood / 9- Ran / 10- Bad Sleep Well / 11- Yojimbo /
12- Sanjuro / 13- Ikiru / 14- The Lower Depths / 15- Red Beard
Remember that this is not a list of the best films, but of the best way to start seeing Kurosawa's films. Do you agree? The only thing I'm not sure about since I haven't seen any film is "Seven Samurai" mostly because I don't know if seeing as second a film lasting more than 3 hours is the best thing, but I don't know because I haven't seen them , it was just a thought.

I wrote this for a writing prompt in writingprompts, but not many people will see it because the prompt is a little old. I just wanted to share. Wrote during breaks at work so forgive me if it’s a little rough around the edges.
The prompt was, “Watching the man or woman of your dreams fall in love with someone else.”
feedback appreciated
::Caitlyn::
I watched her through her kitchen window.
She stood by the sink—wine glass in her hand, gently swirling it as she looked at her phone. God, was she pretty tonight. The yellow kitchen light cast a glow upon her skin, and I swear she was the brightest thing in the room—more so even than the bulb itself. Fishnet lace snaked up her legs, red as summer wine, and her bathrobe parted just enough at the top to tease—just enough to draw your attention to it so that she could playfully scold you for looking.
It’s what she did. I knew what she was waiting for, though. This was the first night he hadn’t shown up in over a week.
I didn’t get it. This guy—the guy who tracks muddy boots through the house, the guy that smokes cigarettes in the laundry room even when she specifically tells him not to, the guy who hasn’t touched a single dirty dish in as long as he’d been there—a dirty anything for that matter, and he’s the one she swoons for? Fucking bastard. That’s all he was. A dirty fucking bastard that didn’t deserve a woman even half as lovely as my Caitlyn.
She doesn’t get it—really, she doesn’t and it makes me feel kind of sorry for her. God, I mean if she only knew the things I’d do for her—the things that we have in common. We would be so happy together. I like to read just like she does, the same genres and everything. I even picked up the book she started last week, and it’s already one of my favorites. She likes to jog; I like to jog; she likes binging shows; I like binging shows. Both of us have a horrible sweet tooth as well. I can never help but smile at the thought of that.
Now, it’s three hours past eight, the time that he was supposed to arrive. She’d moved to the couch and was now lying on her back, letting one leg dangle to the floor. Blue light from the TV illuminated her features in the dark of the room, and it was not difficult to tell that she was upset. God, I hate to see her cry.
Occasionally, she would glance over. She would peer out the window with that solemn face and look in my direction. At first, I thought she was trying to see over me, to look over the hedge and into the trees behind her drive. After a few of her glances, I wasn’t convinced she wasn’t looking directly at me. Maybe she needed me. Perhaps this is her way of saying, “Come get me, Richard.” And what if it is? What if this was my chance, and I missed it because I thought about it too hard? Maybe she knew I’d been out here, watching all along, for all this time. If that was the case, then she surely knew that I wouldn’t be able to resist those watery eyes. It was time—time to be the man she needed—to finally confess my love for her, then hold her tight as she did the same.
I straightened myself—no more hiding. No more lurking in the shadows while she filled the void in her heart with all of these other worthless men. It was time she had a real man, a man who cared.
I walked to the door. For a second, I wondered if she’d left it unlocked for me. She’d done that before and pretended she was asleep whenever I made my way inside. She always did like to tease like that. I almost just opened it and walked straight in, but on second thought, I figured it might’ve been a little jarring. I decided to knock instead. To knock in the same sort of way that my heart was currently knocking against my eardrums. Why was I so nervous? She loved me; I knew she did, but still, I was nervous. Sweat beaded down the side of my face like condensation. I wiped it away with my sleeve and took a deep breath. This was it. In a few moments, I’d finally have my Caitlyn. I’d finally hold her in my arms like I’d always dreamed.
I brought my fist to the door, and my stomach tightened into a knot.
Just as I was about to do it, I heard gravel crunch in the distance.
Quickly, I darted back into the safety of the shadows, and I could see two bright headlights coming through the trees as they bounced down the dirt road.
It was him—the old Chevy Silverado with the silver toolbox in the back.
Of course, it had to be him.
He’d messed up this time, though; there was no way she’d forgive him now, not after tonight. With a smirk, I watched, wondering what kind of pitiful attempt he’d make to win her back this time, knowing that whatever it was wouldn’t be enough. Then he stepped out of his truck.
He was covered in black grease from head to foot and wore a mechanic uniform. He held something small in his arms, something with a bright red bow tied around its neck. It was hard to tell, but it looked like a little black lab from where I stood. Trustingly, it pressed its head against his chest and darted its eyes around the new scenery.
He walked up the porch steps. He was going to knock, but before he could, Caitlyn flung the door inward and glared at him. As much as I hated how she felt, that twisted expression of anger she gave him gave me more joy than I could’ve imagined. That joy was only fleeting, though. The man flashed a white smile as he looked down at his arms, rubbing the puppy’s head. It melted the expression right off of her face.
“Oh my God!” She squealed, happily shuffling her feet as she held her arms out.
I was appalled. A puppy? One dog and all of his sins are erased?
The two of them seemed so giddy together. They laughed and hugged and spoke in high voices to the puppy while they rubbed his head. The whole scene made me sick to my stomach if you really want to know the truth.
I don’t know how he did it—how he managed to weasel his way back into her heart and occupy the space that was so rightfully mine—truly, I didn’t. Who knows, maybe it was all an act. Perhaps it was her way of telling me, “you should’ve knocked.” And now, this is my punishment.
Maybe I should’ve. Maybe then I could’ve been the one to answer that door. A puppy wouldn’t soften my eyes, not like hers. I failed her, I know, but I will not fail her again. That is the last night he will ever come knocking on her door. I’m certain of it.

My friends mom has a birthday coming up on a Saturday and she wanted to surprise her with something new. Her mom is single and in her late 40s but is not the best at finding events and things to go out and meet people at. She wanted to maybe set up a sort of blind date or meetup for her mom but since we both don't know any single men around that age, are there any nice lounges or restaurants in the North ATL/Alpharetta/Roswell/Marietta areas that her mom could meet some new people or they enjoy a nice evening at?
Thanks! 😁

I have many gay friends and have no romantic interest in them. But every partner I’ve had has always been uncomfortable with me hanging out alone with fellow gay people. I couldn’t have sex with these people if I tried. Are you guys comfortable with your parter around other gay men? For some reason, I can’t see a straight man and women be friends without tension. So now I am curious what others think. I personally would only choose a partner I felt comfortable with being alone with gay men and not be tempted. I don’t have the energy for jealousy or doubt.

Hello there! I've been reading through X-Men from the beginning in the 60s using the Ultimate X-Men reading guide and am now in the mid 80s and was wondering if I should worry about reading Wolverine's solo series in tandem with the mainline X-Men series or are they completely separate? The guide only mentions a couple issues that presumably show when other team members show up in his series.
Thank you in advance!