Desi behan ki dress

Koi toh batah doh ki exact dress code kya hai girls keh liye mein confuse hu 🙏😭

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I went once when I was a senior in HS. (‘06.) I’m happy that museum is still a popular destination despite being in such a small town. Has it changed since 06? I remember seeing a framed photo of Lucy and Desi with their kids, playing with balloons. Wish I could find it in color. Also, is her blue Liz Taylor outfit there? Or at the exhibit in Universal Orlando resort? I feel like that one houses her gray Vitameatavegamin/Job Switching dress. I have a pic of me at the Vitameatavegamin table doing a taste test 🤣 I saw her “5 ft 2 Eyes of Blue” ukulele on display too, at one of the exhibits.

This is a detailed post, so bear with me. The following doesn't entail the entirety of me, but is a close approximation.
Age: 27 female
Height: 5 2"
Weight: 61 kgs
Caste: Kashmiri Butt
Sunni, practicing Muslims
Single, never married or engaged
City: Lahore.
Whether you’re in Pakistan or reside abroad, I’d prefer if you’re originally from (primarily) Lahore (or Islamabad), so the family meetups are much easier and there’s a cultural similarity too.
Education: BS (Honors) in Applied Psychology and Master's in Clinical Psychology.
Profession: Mental Health Counsellor
Family: We're 3 siblings including me. One brother, one sister. Mother is housewife. Father is retired from work.
Do you want kids? – Yes of course. But I’d like to wait at least a year and half (minimum) or more to settle into the marriage first, develop a bond with my spouse, understand each other and then get into the role of a parent, which is a huge responsibility as is.
Religiosity – I’m a practicing Muslim. Although I’m clearly not perfect, I do pray at least 4 times, do obligatory fasts, do hijab, dress modestly, listen to lectures of Mufti Menk, Dr. Omar Sulieman, Ustad Nouman Ali Khan, Youth Club, Dr. Yasir Qadhi and many others to become a better Muslim and a better human everyday. I’m modest but not an extremist/conservative by any means and like to stay open-minded.
I’m a Sunni Muslim. We don’t celebrate Milaad, khatam or any other bid’ah or shirk etc. I want someone with similar Aqeedah.
Deal Breakers:

• Poor personal hygiene
• Taller than 6 feet (too tall for me). But this one is still negotiable for the right person.
• Being younger than me
• Drinking, smoking or any kind of substance use in the past or present.
• Me having to live with in-laws after marriage
• Celebrating milad, khatams, and other bid'ah or shirk, etc.
• Controlling personality, anger management issues. Any paranoid or suspicious tendencies.
• Someone who’s not willing to help his wife at all in the house (for whatever reason)
• Not respecting women and treating them like house maids or mere babymakers.
• Not concerned with whether you earn halal or haram.
• Bringing trauma-responses, dysfunctional coping mechanisms/ baggage from previous relationships.
• Forcing wife to work after marriage or stay home.

Ideal marriage timeline – Around 1 ish year, but that can be mutually decided.
Important characteristics in a prospect
· Education: At least BS Honors or higher
· Age: somebody older than me
· Good personal hygiene and discipline – It should go without saying, but I want someone who takes good care of his personal hygiene, is organized and disciplined in life.
· Self-sufficient – I acknowledge that women are nurturers. Having said that, I’d highly value a spouse who is not shy to help around in house chores and is able to manage himself well. I’ve seen many husbands being “dependent” on their wives for the smallest things, and it doesn’t sit well with me. He should be able to take care of his own self and personal tasks if need be. Yes, women are carers, but everything in moderation, including moderation!
· Balance of Deen and Duniya – I’d really like my spouse praying daily, being God-fearing and trying to learn more about Deen in general. Bottom line, the basic pillars of Islam should be there. I’m not looking for perfection, (I’m far from it myself), but he should prioritize religious and moral values in his life and have a strong moral compass in general. I don’t want the typical molvi kind, rather someone educated on true Islam. Nothing extreme or conservative. I’d also want my partner to have good Ikhlaaq; so he’s easy to talk to and has good relationships with people around him. Humility is the greatest virtue, and I believe that true Deen is always reflected in one’s good character, not the obligatory prayer or fasts.
· Having Perspective and being far-sighted - Someone who values character, meaningful connection and personality compatibility more than running solely after typical appearance ideals. Those things fade and marriage is for the long haul anyways.
· Sense of emotional safety – There should be a sense of emotional safety with my spouse. That is, he respects mine and others’ opinions, is open-minded, is patient and tolerates a difference of opinion. Someone with whom I can feel truly heard and express myself without fear of judgement. Someone who is kind, compassionate, honest and doesn’t have anger issues or conservative thinking.
· Clear communication – There are few things I value more than good communication skills. He should be able to communicate in English or can at least reciprocate me (No, I’m not Shakespeare). More importantly, someone who is able to articulate his thoughts and feelings openly and is willing to have difficult conversations without stonewalling.
· Freedom – Freedom is my strongest core value. I want to feel free and autonomous around my spouse, i.e. to feel a sense of psychological safety around him and not feel caged. I’d really appreciate the freedom to work or choose to stay at home.
· Nuclear family - I'm a strong proponent of a nuclear family, i.e. husband, wife and their kids, which is conducive to mental health of all parties involved (as supported by our religion as well). I’ve personally seen and heard enough horror stories. Joint family system is the breeding ground for many domestic problems and inevitable conflicts. So, I’d really appreciate someone who understands this (without being offended) and can provide a nuclear family setup. Rented house is okay, so long as it's separate.
· Emotional availability – That is, he is able to listen to others, empathize, reciprocate love and care as well as express his own feelings and not afraid to lend a shoulder to cry on or compliment others. In other words, I want an Emotionally Intelligent person.
· Financial stability - Not being materialistic or unrealistic, but a man should be ambitious and have goals for future growth to sustain his family in the long run.
· Generosity - Someone who is generous (while staying within reason and means, of course) and not stingy with spending.
· A simple wedding - I'd prefer a relatively simple wedding.

This is a sketch of an ideal person for me, but anyone who’s somewhere along these lines is good.
Hobbies:
I’m pretty boring by regular standards, but here we go :)
I love to watch English movies, series, anime (AOT anyone? IYKYK), listen to audiobooks (I don’t prefer to read them, unless required professionally), watch documentaries and video essays on social, cultural issues, psychology, psychiatry, health, nutrition, fitness, true crime, etc. I’m keen on learning about nutrition and health and try to work on it myself as much as is practical for me. I enjoy instrumental compositions, especially piano and orchestra. I’m mesmerized by space/ universe. I also listen to various podcasts on plethora of topics from religion to medicine, mental health, relationships and social trends/evils, etc. I believe that YouTube is the greatest learning and leisure resource; I personally can’t go a day without it.
Interesting things about you:
I’m an ambivert (selectively social) and keep a very small but valuable circle. I love my “me time.” I am confident but like to keep to myself. I’m detail-oriented, like discipline, routine and order in life. I’m a Type-A personality and an ISTJ (if that matters to you). Not materialistic and generally low maintenance. I’m a bronze medalist and also a published researcher in Clinical Psychology discipline. I highly value my privacy, in real life and especially online.
I grew up in the Middle East. I live a simple life and prioritize self-care. I’m family-oriented and have a vision for my future parenting practices.
I’m a bubbly, energetic and very fun-loving person in general. I’m told that I’m compassionate and generous with appreciating others. The smallest things give me joy. I'm also firm with my boundaries in life.
I absolutely love animals and have a few pets myself (a cat and birds). Still wish I could have many more :( I cherish quality family time and hangouts. Definitely not brand conscious and I don’t watch the brain-numbing news (I do stay updated on world events though). Personally, I live and let live and expect the same from my spouse. I’m inclined towards rationality and logic; so not an idealist. I’m not much interested in politics. I’m less of an outdoorsy person and enjoy indoor activities much more. Nevertheless, I would love to travel with my spouse and explore new places for sure.
All in all, I’m a desi girl at heart, with a mix of western touch of course. I lean a little more towards traditional values (while keeping a balance) and don’t identify with radical feminism of today (things have gone so wrong there!), but rather “true” feminism that Islam so beautifully and rationally embodies.
In interpersonal relations, I always communicate and discuss things that bother me and never sweep things under the rug or pretend nothing happened. It’s only fair that I expect the same openness from my spouse.
I can’t stand people who don’t keep their word (in personal lives or professionally), i.e. they tell you they’ll do something and then they don’t.
To sum up, I’m looking for an easy-going, humble, self-aware, responsible, respectful and emotionally available man. Someone with whom I can make bad jokes and laugh at memes together; a best friend for life. Hopefully, someone who loves animals as much as I do. And of course, I’ll also be all those things I mentioned above without question.
P.S. No description can completely acquaint you with a person. Nevertheless, I tried to cover all the major points.
Nobody is perfect, and neither am I. It can be overwhelming, but don’t hesitate to reach out if you think we can click.
If you message, please get to the point straight away with your profile mentioned. I can’t do small talk and please DON’T message if you’re not looking to settle down or intend to ghost or just have poor online social etiquette, i.e. being inconsistent in the talking stage.
With a profound decision like marriage, I believe in vetting each other first. Once it’s apparent that we’re a good match, parents will definitely be involved for sure.
Thanks for having the patience to read through it :) :) :)
May Allah make it easy for all of us. Ameen.

In order to avoid confusion herre by pahadi I mean Khas specifically as there are other prominent hill groups too in Nepal .
In typical pahadi wedding we have something called Naumati_Baaja (Nau=9, mati=??, baja is instruments) Panche_baja (5 instruments) which are used in wedding procession. Here are videos of it being played.
https://youtu.be/882cb6Mt9dM?si=4HrkL5Uhcr1EtJd
https://youtu.be/puQlpNm1BhA?si=pH_JdBDXo0wEXRvy
Bands with trumpets , drums with players in red dress (probably inspired by British attire) are more seen in Madeshi (Desi) communities.
Do you have something similar in Kumaoni and Garhwali weddings ?

Ok so she was my crush for 4 years , she said yes in 2023 24 December ,she was a sanskari girl , we kissed and spent two days (6 hours each day ) hugging each other , yeah like a house date you can say , no indecent stuff. Because I would never do that , I think all that stuff should be done after marriage,
We used to talk about some indecent stuff sometimes she used to get very shy , we did it only a couple of times
Now In I think July she cheated on me ,it was a long distance relationship but she was the one who got guilty and confessed, I FORGAVE HER BECAUSE I LOVED HER SO MUCH , i just said to block the guy she cheated with me she blocked him but unblocked him after a week saying he's just a friend , I let it go
Then slowly and slowly she got upset with me for every little thing , that time I couldn't find her a dress for lower price she said pretty rude things,
Now in Feb 2024 , she began responding to my texts after 6-7 hours, I felt immense horror and worry as she was living away , so I used to contact her roommates to know if she's well or not
Now in March she now began responding to texts after 18-19 hours , when I asked she said she was studying and didn't have time so I said okay no worries but little did I know the only one she was busy for was me , she was talking with the guy she cheated , another guy who liked her ( her best friend said Don't do this kinda stuff to her but she didn't listen and she told me with proofs)
Then I said if you are not interested in me then we could just be friends she agreed , I was fucking heartbroken thinking about committing suicide and stuff but here she was talking all night with a guy ( for context this guy spread a rumour about a girl that she was a slut and he had sex with her ) , I was even more heartbroken, then next night I found out she was out there saying I love to random people , demn , and If you are wondering who told me this it was her , yes it was herself
Then I stopped texting her although my laptop's password is still her name and my name .
Then she text me I'm feeling depressed, I quickly respond and even stayed up all nights for 3 nights just in case if texts me I would be there for her and what did I get for that , when I asked her to forget about the problem and chill and talk with her parents what she said to me was "you are nobody to me"
The next day
Now she's sending me a ss of her sexting with numerous guys saying kitne ashleel log h , might i remind you she was sanskari and what pissed me off more was one of the she sexted with was none other than the guy who spread the rumour about that girl , so yeah now that chats must have already been in 10 different groups , and when I told her this she tells me ki baat itni badi h bhi nhi jitna badha rhe ho tum .
So why why it happened to me , what did I do wrong
Edit : now I'm getting to know 2 weeks after breaking up with me , she got a new bf from meerut , how I know that is because her best friend just couldn't take it anymore, she couldn't see me suffering anymore, so she sent the ss and her new bf was asking her best friend to come with her to rishikesh and vouch for her in front of her parents , he also said to bring more girls , his intentions are as clear as a day , but she's too fucking dumb, her best friend explained it to her but instead she got lectured ki gyaan na do

Funniest date in my life lol. So met this girl on bumble after breakup with my ex was desperate to be in relationship. So talked to her on vc and exchanged numbers talked for almost a 1 week.
Decided to go on a date , selected a chill cafe and decided to met there at 8.00 pm today. So i dressed up and went there waited for 5 min she entered the cafe and after her a huge man, like HUGE. Vo gate mein bhi atak sa raha tha lol.
She came to my seat and said "Yeh mera best friend hai. Raat ho rakhi hai to safety ke liye insko saath layi hoon. If you dont mind". I said "Nahi, koi baat nahi yeh hamare saath baitega". She said "He will sit on that table at the back". So i nodded..
After some time we started talking about our hobbies and anime which we talked a lot about in chat. But the bouncer guy was looking straight at me like vo eye contact ek dum glaring vala bana raha tha. Sala Motaa gubbara ghura hi ja raha tha. He was hugeee like i am 6'3" he was atleast 6' but twice as wide as me.
So uncomfortably talked with her while he eye me down. And she complimented my hair and touched them. I have long hair but as soon as she started touching my hair. Bouncer stood up as looked at me in rage. Like Rage. So i told her to stop touching and bouncer bhai sat down after that.
She then showed me her nails as i tried to compliment them she passed her hand to me. I grabbed it and as soon as i grabbed it gubbara stoodup and started walking towards us. I was not scared but ready ki iski ankh mein namak dal dunga phir dhakka de dunga isko. Mota sala uth bhi nahi payega.
He came closer i picked up the salt then the girl pulled her hand cause i was distracted. Mota vapis jane laga. Not to body shame anyone but he was about to kill me there. So yeah after that refrained from touching her. Finished my food and asked if she want to go dutch. She agreed and we went home. Blocked her as soon as i reached home.
Edit- She was soo nice of a girl. A huge green flag. I didn't understand why she did that cause this never happens even in anybody's wildest dream.

A lot of people have already switched over to their summer tires, but it's usually warm enough by now for my people back in the Northeastern US to not fear a sudden snow squall and make the swap (a little exaggerated, but not by much).
Here are some things you can do "while you're in there" (this is going to be very informal):

• At least a day or two before, clean and dress your tires. I take them to a self service car wash and go to town with high pressure soap and a tire brush. Rinse, dry, and put on your favorite tire dressing. You don't have to worry about sling if they aren't on the car yet.
  
• While you're cleaning the tires, get the wheels too. Decon spray (linked below), rinse, soap, brush (or mitt... to me, it depends on the wheel design). Dry them well and you can coat them with the same ceramic spray product I'm linking to below or whatever floats your boat.
  
• Once the winter wheels are off, measure your brake pad thickness. I use a sliding caliper like this one. If any of the pads are equal to or less than 5mm, it's time to start picking out new rotors and pads. If they're less than 2mm, it's time to start picking out a coffin... or submit to justrolledintotheshop.
  
• Clean and protect your painted calipers. Say fuck you to brake dust with a decon spray before washing, or if it isn't baked on just do what I do and use some dish soap and a soft sponge then rinse. When it's dry, ceramic coat them. I use an at-home friendly spray product that I wipe on with a microfiber, wait a few minutes, and buff off. My car is 7 years old and the calipers look damn near brand new. I don't use a pressure washer on the calipers because I'm pretty certain the GTI logo is just a sticker and I don't want to blast it off.
  
• Clean the rust off of the face of the rotor hats (the flat part with the bolt holes) and the wheel hub. Use whatever abrasive item you've got lying around (fine sand paper, steel wool, etc.) and some brake cleaner. Then apply a thin coating of anti-seize. Each year, clean off the old anti-seize and apply a new coat. Besides helping to prevent corrosion, it might make removing any hub centric rings easier the next time that needs to happen. And if you have hub centric rings, might as well clean them up with brake cleaner as well. Do not let the anti-seize get in the bolt holes or you may get an incorrect torque reading when tightening the lug bolts later. Do not let anti-seize get on the rotor surface and if you don't know why that's bad just don't do this... any of this.
  
• Clean the rust out of the thread holes. I have a wheel hanger tool like this one that threads into the lug bolt holes. I spray the threads on the hanger with some brake cleaner and then thread it into a lug bolt hole as far as it will go. I take it back out, clean the rust off of it with more brake cleaner, and just keep repeating the same process until there's little to no resistance from corrosion. Then rinse and repeat with each lug bolt hole. It's great not to feel any gritty resistance when you tighten your lug bolts. You can also use brake cleaner to clear some rust off of the lug bolts themselves. Spray them (or soak if they're pretty grimy), grab a metal pick, and just spin the bolts while holding the pick in place. I found a video showing what I mean. I'll also use that same metal pick to pull out any rocks that have dug into the winter tire treads.
  
• Now is a good time to clean your well wheel liners as well. Being in Amish land, mine are particularly encrusted in hay and horse shit so choose a technique at your discretion.
  
• Flip off the rear caliper carrier bolts. They know what they did.
  
• If you need to flush your brake fluid, now is a great time to do that.
  

 
So that's my dumb, long rant for anyone who's like me and just wants to do as much as they can "while they're in there." While the car is up on jack stands, I also like to clean the exhaust tips since they're in a higher, more comfortable to scrub position. At some point before winter, take the wheels and tires to the self service wash and give them the same treatment you did the summers. And when you swap those on, I wouldn't worry about all of the other stuff since the weather can be too cold by that time to want to bother with it (especially with how short autumn seems to be now).

Bit of a rant since I'm just typing and not sure where this is going. So my boyfriend (LDR) went out with a friend in December last year. They'd met in a group setting in a bar with their friends. Stuff happened, he helped her out and they kinda became friends. She asked to hang out again and he asked her to join in when he was going out with friends. On that day, him and his friends couldn't make it and the girl had to wait for almost an hour and then go back so he apologized and set another time to hang out. This time she decide the place and everything. So, she took him out to this charming high end french place, there was wine, the vibe was just that and she was dressed for a date. She made some not so subtle moves so he clarified that he's dating someone and it ended at that.
Now, she's recently reached out to hangout again and suggested brunch tomorrow. He mentioned it aaj and I said ki it's weird. He assured me that she knows that he is with me and it's not a thing. I trust him in that nothing is going to happen and all that. He also said that he I find it weird then he won't make plans with her again.
My problem is with the perception part of it or the part where maybe I'm wrong about things? Does it look weird that he is hanging out with someone who has a thing for him? Should I be concerned about him hanging? Should he have cancelled when I said it is a lil weird? Am I delusional in not being affected by mistake stuff like this? (When I know nothing is happening or has any chance of happening should I still intervene? ) On most days in not sure how are you supposed to behave as a partner? Where to draw the line? What to care about?
In a way it's not just about this one thing - I'm just having a hard time figuring out where am I jealous? Where should I try and intervene? Do I actually care about this or do I just care about what it would look like? (As in to a third person, to his and my friends - do I come out as an idiot for not caring about such things? ) basically I'm very confused about my own feelings and am a swinging pendulum when it comes to what to expect as a partner.
Another eg- all of them went to a pretty famous bar today where based on a wheel they had to do dares- as a part of that he went on a knee and asked someone out.when they were coming back he was telling me about it and one of his friends went ki oh don't go easy on him why are you laughing it off. I wouldn't if my boyfriend did that.
Context - He is a bit older so I don't want it to seem like ki someone has the upper hand (I'm not sure how wrong this sounds). And he is not someone who thinks a lot about things and we've talked about it but once you point something out he takes note of it and changes that thing. Also my first 'real' relationship, I'd just dated around before that so I keep telling him and myself that I'm not sure about half the things and an just forming my opinion on them as they come.
Just a rant but any thoughts and advice is very much appreciated. Also, people who are moch more smarter than me - how do you go about this or do you have all your thoughts sorted?

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I don’t understand why she has to wear those zabardasti ki frocks like tent all the time. Are they trying to make her feel like a Choti bacchhi ? There are so many options in the market these days she can wear comfortable co ord sets or kurta sets along with some stole. She will look well groomed and better. Saba use ajeeb jhalli banake kahi bhi le jaati. Instead of giving these girls lecture on makeup these ladies should teach them dressing up confidently and in style

Main jab chhoti thi tab meri dad mujhe ladkon ke kapde pehnati thi. Unko grandson chahiye tha par nahi mil Raha tha. Pehle main paida ho gayi. Phir mere uncle ko bhi beti hui, phir meri bua ko bhi beti hui. Par meri dad ko chahiye tha grandson toh woh mujhe hi bachpan se ladkon ke tarah kapde pehnate the, bal bhi cut karvate the. Almost nine years tak meri dadi ne mujhe ek ladke ki tarah hi rakha.
Jab main nine years ki ho gayi toh ek baar mujhe mere dadi barbar ke paas le jane wale the tab mere dadaji ne unko rok liya aur kaha ki, woh ladki hai, usko ladke ki tarah rakhna bandh karo. Uske bal nahi kutvana hai ab se. My brother was there but she still wanted to continue to keep me like a boy, I didn't like it, I didn't like having short hair and being dressed up like a boy, I just never said that to her.
My grandfather firmly said, no to her. She was upset about it. On the other hand I was very happy that I would get to grow my hair long and wear frocks and dresses.
I love my long hair. I like wearing dresses and looking feminine. I also learned how to do make up in 2023. I love doing make up and looking presentable.
If you wanted a son and got a daughter or got a son and feel like having daughter too but don't have the one you wanted then just let that child be the way they are. Don't try to make them something they are not. Just let them be who they are.
I hope these things will not happen in the future and parents/grandparents will understand and let their child being who they are.

I was travelling to Moulali, and a trans woman boards the bus around Raja bazar begging for money. Some payed her, some didn't. Those who didnt, had to listen to some unwarranted comments from her.
She asked me if I can give her ₹5, I politely said "Na nei". But guess who wouldnt take no for an answer !! She goes on to say "2 taka de? 1 taka de? 1 taka dile ki gorib hoye jabi?" TF??? So I said that I literally don't have money now, which btw was true. I had only ₹21 with me, just enough for the bus ride. I then said that I am a student, so I barely have any money with me, which btw is also true.
She then says, "Student bole excuse dibi na. Koto student e amake 1 taka dei. Lakh taka toh chaini. Toder moto toh ma baba r support peye toh boro hoyni. Chaileo khete taka rojgar korte parbona, tai ak du taka r jonno lokjon r kache haat pacchi". I then told her that she literally doesnt know anything about me so commenting about my life was unwarranted and that I said that I dont have money, so I'm sorry that I cant give her anything evenif I want to. Tarpor o goj-goj korte korte neme gelo.
No seriously, does she know my financial condition? No.
Does she know the kind of support system I have? No. Apart from my parents, who btw are in their 60s now, I quiet literally have nobody. Our relatives don't care about us, they are only interested in what they can get from us.
Does she know what kind of ups and downs I have had in my life? No. Won't go into details but I was going through a really bleak period in my life for years, not too long ago either.
Point being, no one is entitled to anyone's money. And its ironic that you won't ever see them not dressing in fancy sarees and a full face of makeup - which is quite opposite to someone claiming to survive on 1 or 2 rupees given by people. Dont get me wrong, I do support the LGBTQ community, and have been closely associated with them through friends and non profits that I volunteer at every now and then. But forcing someone to give them money and then resorting to playing victim, is annoying af.
I'm in such a foul mood right now ugh.