Flirty text to bf

i spent another year dating someone i thought really loved me and would change their mind about wanting a relationship, but didn’t. instead, we had unprotected sex, went on dates multiple times a week, met each other’s parents and friends, celebrated birthdays, and looked at apartments for him. fwb essentially. my stomach starts flipping when i think about how in hindsight i was so aware and yet so willing because i wanted to do all those things with him. but obviously it was breaking me because if it were me, i’d be wanting to do those things with him. here’s the thing; he told me from the first two weeks of dating that he didn’t want to be in a relationship. i loved spending any time i could with him because i loved him. i trusted him really quickly because he liked me for who i was. when he pointed out silly things about me it felt loving and flirty. he wasn’t mad that i was shy, soft spoken, and…slightly awkward. corny? in an endearing way? those things made him want to be around me more.
suddenly though, every so often he would get irritated by me. okay, fair enough. i can be annoying but it got worse. i feel like its torture to have relationship type fights with someone you’re not committed to, it leaves way too much room for people to take it too far. he gave his reasons for wanting no attachments and i said okay, ill let it slide for now because of how much he liked me, and how much i liked him. he wanted to go out with me every few days…i’m thinking to myself, okay this man is telling me he loves me, wants to see me all the time, and treats me well…he’s definitely gonna want me in the future right? i’m screaming because that was literally not the case sksks. he was looking for experiences with someone. i just happened to be the first girl he matched with and the plans went through with when he moved. we hit it off and ran with it.
so i’m letting it slide for months and every so often he would drop something like, “that’s us in the future” while pointing at a young family and mind you i trust this person so i’m thinking i’m in the clear. well we went on a 3 day trip together and all hell was breaking loose every day?? suddenly me not being able to hear him over high winds is the end of the world. my ideas are insane. me having anxiety is annoying. my personality is annoying. and its like hold up???
and that was our last interaction besides him sending me photos from the trip with no text. now i feel cursed because he doesn’t want to be with me or like me a chunk of the time but he keeps texting me? but not really???
also this man told me its my fault for having relationships problems because i keep picking the wrong men subconsciously 😭😭😭?? (he ate lowkey) but then he said he’s gonna crash my wedding with another man 😭 idk if i should laugh or cry 😭😭😂😭😭😭 i swear i keep picking the sweetest most wholesome men and then they start hating on me and i’m like damn ☠️💔

For some backstory, I(25f) haven't always had the closest bond with my step-dad growing up. I always felt intimidated by him because of the fact that I found him rude and neglectful of my siblings and I. He preferred his biological children more. He never really made an effort to bond with me, causing a strain in our relationship and me feeling heavily negative about him. He has done many things from: saying "i would date someone like you if i was in highschool" and being creepy one time and dangerously close in my face while he was drunk. This caused my mother and I to get into a fight, and then them ignoring me for three days including my birthday (which has left me a lot of trauma since then). Let's just say, I do not feel kind things towards him, but still remain respectful towards him for the sake of my mom and because I live in his house for the next 1 1/2 months until I can move out.
My boyfriend is in a tough spot right now financially, so he is also staying with his parents. However, it is a very cramped space they live in since its his parents, brother, and sister. The worst part of it all is how horribly hoarded it is to the point where it's hard to navigate the apartment. It's so bad to the point where there is expired food still in the fridge, mold in various areas such as the shower and such, and is extremely dirty to the point where giant roaches are found. He is working 2 jobs back-to-back to try to help pay off his debt, but the conditions he is in is unsafe and mentally draining.
This has also put a strain on our relationship as we struggle with money and are trying to fix our credit. The distance from each other is super far and our jobs are opposite schedules with different days off. Mentally, I have felt extremely down as well. It's so bad to the point where my bf broke down crying because of his horrible living situation and that his parents and brother pestering him for money for rent despite the conditions they live in.
I know my situation isn't as horrible as his, but I feel extremely uncomfortable living under the same roof as him and found it super odd that he has been so strict with me ever since I moved back in. I have always followed the rules to the 'A' and never argued back with him because I did not want to disrespect him. One of his rules specifically was not having my boyfriend stay the night, which I understand completely.
I felt desperate, because I love my bf so much and care about him and there's nothing in the world that i wouldn't do for him. I texted my father first, given it wouldn't hurt to ask if my bf could move in with us temporarily for the next 1 1/2 months until we both move out. However, my father declined without even asking me about why my boyfriend needs another place to move into temporarily. Straight up declined, which has left me confused and hurt because I have done nothing but respect my step-dad despite the fact that he's a creep. I felt hurt, asking him why that was his choice, but then backtracked saying that I was no longer interested in hearing his excuse and would sort out living in a motel with my bf in july for the time being. I have felt like I have shown him respect always and have never received any in return. Most of my life I felt he has always treated me unfairly because im not his blood. This was a favor I feel like I am not asking much of given the short amount of time it would be. What do you guys think? Am I wrong?
TLDR; my step-father has said no to my boyfriend (who lives in a horrible hoarding situation that is mentally affecting him) moving in with us for the next 1 1/2 months until we move out because he is a creepy a-hole who has always been controlling and not respectful towards me

A new woman transferred to my office about 4 months ago and since we’ve been developing a good friendship, but I have developed a little crush. We related being the only 2 in our office from the same generation and being born during the same week. We were both off last week for our birthdays so I texted her looking to hangout. We decided to meet up for lunch and have a few drinks. We spent about 3 hours drinking, eating, laughing at each other, told stories about past experiences including work. As we’re drinking she casually mentions that she broke up with her boyfriend 2 months ago. In the moment I’m thinking why is she telling you this but don’t read too much into it. We joked about keeping our enjoyment over to another bar but she had to work the next day. I did tease her that she to finish her drink before we left and she gives me a flirty look asking if this is fraternization. I said I was just teasing and she asked was fraternization meant, I did look up the definition and read it to her and asked if that what we were doing and she just smiled and shrugged her shoulders.

So my coworker and I are both attractive to eachother . He is very sweet ,but we don't have lot in common / talk about. It is very hard to communicate due to language barrier and culture differences. He is learning English and is still in college. We both live at home and savings for cars. It is a nice distraction to be flirty at work. I usually just do a quick love tap ,but other day he put his hand on my shoulder to get my attention and then asked if he could play with my hair. Sometimes we text outside of work/FT but recently put a stop to it. Then he called me a week ago to check in on me since I had a work incident . It can b frustrating at times understanding eachother and explaining what things mean etc. It is very different in the us etc. I mean I guess it wouldn't go anywhere even if he left thr company . I'm always hesitant to hang outside of work even tho we live close by because I feel like one of us would make a move. Idk if it just sexual attraction or more ... he compliments me a lot which is nice and odd being he is younger then me and have different ideas of our future. He want kids and I don't at all and very different religions believes etc .f 28 I am obviously not gonna cross a boundary because I am dedicated to keeping my job. He acts very sarcastic and idk when he is joking or not. AlthoughI am like that with everyone yet he still jokes with me . Idk .the point of posting this but feels good to let out my thoughts.

Hello women of Reddit,
I'm going through a very rough time emotionally and spiritually and have always found peace when I express my thoughts by writing them out so I figured I would find a Subreddit to express myself and see what strangers who are impartial to my situation will say. There's always two sides to a story, so I'll be mindful to not sit here like a narcissist trying to paint a holy picture of myself and an unholy one of her. I pledge to be completely honest, even if I am burned at the stake in the comments for any wrongdoings of mine. Please note there's a limit to how many characters I can type in here, so 20 years of history for important context will need to be summarized as much as possible. I'll do my best to keep it relevant and share the parts that matter.
In my first year of high school at age 13, a friend of mine was dating a girl from a different high school that he would bring around to hang out with us. She seemed like a nice girl as far as I could tell, but I couldn't help but notice how literally everyone who had something to say about her would always highlight and emphasize that she was a slut and they would tell stories about stuff she has done when she was drunk. I didn't think much of it at the time because why would I? It had nothing to do with me. Soon after, I moved to a different high school and cut ties with that friend.
A few years went by, and one day out of nowhere to my surprise, she called my house to say hi, and to see if I wanted to hang out. I decided to hang out with her because I learned from her that she was no longer dating the guy I met her through, and we were somewhat acquainted already so it felt ok. We started to hang out a lot and I started feeling those fuzzy feelings in my stomach where I knew I was beginning to develop feelings for her, and so much that I was finding myself "borrowing" my dads' car when I didn't yet have my license just to be able to go see her. People around me who knew her started to notice that her and I were getting close, and I started getting warnings from literally dozens of people to not bother with her because she's a slut, and she's just going to hurt me in the end. Despite all these warnings, the feelings I had inside of me for her at that time were too strong to ignore, so I ended up ignoring the warnings people were giving me and wanted to judge her from my experience with her rather than other people's words.
During the time I was hanging out with her, I soon learned that she was apparently seeing or casually dating someone new, which of course bothered me because I liked her and I could feel from her that she liked me too. I started noticing that certain times in evenings she would not answer her phone at all and because I was increasingly growing so in love with her, I literally would begin to sit outside her place down the street in a car just to see what the hell she was doing certain evenings that she wouldn't answer my calls. Of course, it soon became obvious to me that she was going to see this guy she was "seeing" because she would always jump in a taxi very late night and get dropped off at the same house. I'm ashamed when I look back and realize that I was somewhat stalking her and being creepy, but the intentions weren't bad but rather just a little too curious, and it was also killing me inside to see her casually seeing this older guy who I felt was probably just exploiting her for sex. I say that because it was weird to me that she never hung out with him during the day as friends like her and I did but only went to see him late at night, so my mind started messing with me a lot and all the rumours about her started coming in as intrusive thoughts. I'm already a person who has a very deep depth of conscious thoughts so I can sometimes get very deep into my imagination and that's not really a good thing when the mind goes into dark and negative places.
One day during an afternoon I dropped by her house unannounced and I knocked on her house door but no one answered even though I was sure she was home. I went to the side of the house and climbed up on a utility box below her bedroom window that she would always sneak out of, so I can look through the window and maybe get her attention, and I instantly couldn't believe my eyes. There she was butt naked having sex with her ex-boyfriend, the guy I was friends with in early high school. I felt sick to my stomach that I walked right into that so I quickly left to my car and immediately drove off. It was so disturbing to see this and also to realize she was fucking an older guy and also liked me, all three at the same time. I never brought that up to her during that time because it was just too foul to mention. One night, she called me and asked me if I can pick her up from a friend's house because she had too much to drink and couldn't get home safe, so I said okay. When we got to her house, she asked me to help her inside, and so I did and next thing you know when we are sitting on the couch her hands are in my pants, she pulled me into her bedroom, and we had sex for the first time. This was when I lost my virginity.
After this point her and I began to start sleeping with each other regularly and of course it made me love her more and more. I couldn't deal with the circumstance the way it was and so I got very serious with her and let her know I was not cool with what she's doing and that she would need to stop this madness. We got into a lot of arguments and fights about what she was doing and we fought and fought, until one day she suddenly out of nowhere came to me and said she "broke up" with the older guy. She told me she wanted to be official and be a real exclusive couple together with me. I felt this sigh of relief go through me, but also somehow it didn't feel as good as it could've or should've had I not known all these past issues about her.
Here we are suddenly an official couple, and I started realizing that I had this deep insecurity anytime she would say she wanted to go hang out with her girlfriends and "guy friends" to party. I wasn't into drinking and partying at that age and so I would always tell her no, especially if other guys are around, but she didn't care what I had to say and would do what she wanted anyway. When I would try to stop her, she would fight me and tell people that I was being controlling. I felt like I had no power and didn't know what to do because I always thought she will get drunk and do somethign with other guys and that scared the shit out of me.
Soon after I randomly met a girl at a friends house who took interest in me. One day just like that I decided to hang out with her and I ended up cheating on my GF with her. I regret that I did that but looking back on it, I feel like I did it because I was so insecure and upset deep inside at everything I was going through with my GF and her going out partying and drinking with other guys around that I just didn't care anymore and went with it. She eventually found out that I cheated, and demanded I end contact with that girl and I did. I saw that it actually hurt her and I apologized for it and luckily for me she forgave me despite showing serious displeasure. I explained to her that I messed up and I did it because I thought she was likely cheating on me anyways and I had a hard time getting over her past. We both agreed to move on from that. That was when I was 19 and it was the only time I ever cheated on her. I learned from that one mistake I made.
A few more years went by, and still she was giving me a very hard time when it came to going out drinking with her friends. I was working very long 16-hour days at that time, and it never sat well with me for her to go out and get drunk when I'm not present. We continued to fight and argue over this, and she simply never understood me on why I didn't want her to do this. I would do this because I knew that when she drinks, she's not herself at all. She becomes very flirty and inappropriate, and I didn't want that to happen if I'm not around to look after her and stop her from doing dumb shit. Either way, she would do it and ignore what I say. I got fed up with this and ended up breaking up with her. During this time of being broken up, I started trying to see other girls and despite meeting other women in platonic terms, my heart kept wanting her back. So after six months of being broken up, I went back to her and tried to talk to her to see if she wanted to get back together and try to have a fresh start. She immediately showed interest, but she said she had to let me know during the time broken up that she started seeing and having sex with someone else. Despite not offically being a couple at that time, it shattered me. Why? Because I couldn't believe that after everything we went through, she would just go and fuck another dude who was clearly exploiting her for sex. I know that because she dropped him in the snap of a finger to come back to me, so obviously there was nothing of substance there other than her avoiding being alone. I cried about it and ultimately accepted being together again.
Many years went by again and new problems came up, now she is comparing me and us to her friends and their boyfriends. Giving me a hard time that I don't buy her designer bags and spend money on expensive items for her. I would argue with her over this a lot because to me, it was just stupid to be buying junk like this when you don't have too much money to spare, especially at our age, but she didn't care. Every day was arguing and fighting and her putting me down simply for not buying her designer bags. This is when I began to notice that I was starting to get verbally abusive towards her with name calling, belittling and shaming for stuff she's done wrong. There were also many times where I would get physical with her too by grabbing her by the shoulders and shaking her out of frustration during arguments because she would drive me insane with her words. I didn't know how else to express my anger so it always translated mostly into insults about her promiscuity and history. Anyway, eventually I got so fed up with her that I ended up telling her to take a hike and that I don't want to be with her if this is the type of person she's going to be by disturbing the peace in our household with constant comparisons to others. I didn't actually literally mean it when I told her to take a hike and leave and this is something I would often say when we would fight because when I'm angry I feel like I mean it but whenever I would calm down I knew I didn't want her to actually leave. She of course eventually took it literally, and when she did leave this time she immediately started seeing another guy. How did I know? I used 'find my phone' on her iPhone at that time to track her very strange movements and pulled up on her one day while she was with another man. The man shit himself when he seen me, kicked her to the curb and drove off while texting her to forget him. Her reason for doing this was, "you kicked me out, we are not together, and I don't want to be with you". All that just because I didn't buy her chanel and louis vuitton designer bags that her friends boyfriends were buying for them. Me being the low self-esteem insecure loser, I ended up trying to once again work things out with her and reconcile our relationship because I was afraid to lose her and be alone. It's embarassing to admit this but that's the truth.
Again more years went by and I had noticed that a depression and anxiety struggle I had over the years was starting to get pretty bad. Luckily in 2018 I was able to cure my depression in the Amazon Jungle of Peru by participating in several Ayahuasca ceremonies but unfortunately it didn't do anything to help my crippling anxiety. After that trip when I came home from Peru and she was again beginning to show signs of discontent by comparing me to other peoples boyfriends and was giving me a hard time every single day about stupid shit. She was telling me I don't do anything for her, despite over the years sending her on so many vacations with her friends and giving her thousands of dollars of spending money, bankrolling her business she started and so much more. I was taking so much of this from her on a daily basis that it was driving me insane to where I told her once again during the heat of an argument to take a hike if she thinks I'm so bad and of course she did just that. She never stopped to think of all the things that I have done for her but only seemed to focus on what I wasn't doing for her.
After she moved out we still talked regularly and I started noticing she was acting a bit weird. One night I asked her to go out for dinner and drinks and when we got back to the house she passed out drunk and so I went through her phone. I immediately went to her texts and found out she was seeing someone and the texts indicated it was potentially and most likely physical and so of course I lost my shit. I woke her up and confronted her about the texts and I will never forget the smirk she had on her face. I couldn't believe that once again she would do this and especially after fighting over dumb shit like comparing me to others. Everything I learned about this guy she was now seeing indicated she got with him because he appeared to have money. I felt this because she ridiculously and shamelessly stated she liked his Mercedes G-Wagon and all the comparisons to other people and the bad influences she had around her was obvious to me. Sadly, I again let myself down and begged her like a little bitch to stop talking to him and she was not wanting to this time. I was so fucking pathetic that I paid her a very very large six figure sum of cash to come back to me and to leave this guy. Before the cash offer she wasn't showing interest to come back but once I mentioned the money and bought her some jewellery, she suddenly was warming up to wanting to come back to me. I did, however, throw some contingencies in there that she had to come with me to Peru to participate in Ayahausca ceremonies because I felt like she had some serious internal issues and traumas that she also needed to sort out to change for the better. I felt like the reason she was always behaving so reckless and so concerned with other peoples lives and all these comparisons was because of some deep rooted traumas. I say this because she grew up without a father and without money so this is something I always considered about her and kept in mind. Participating in Ayahuasca circles really opened my eyes to trauma and behavior issues we humans have from stuff in our childhood so I knew all these messed up things she's doing stems from a root cause of something in her early life experience. It was certainly the reason why I needed healing because I had my own traumas from my childhood that was affecting my life and behavioir as well. Anyway, she hesitantly agreed and we went to Peru together. When we were in the jungle I felt her energy during one particular Ayahuasca ceremony and she seemed very scared and showing a side of her that I didn't see before. I knew right then and there that she is suffering from something in her soul that that she wasn't even aware of. I always did notice and pickup on her very serious lack of self awareness that she still seems to struggle with to this very day.
We got back home and everything seemed alright. I started noticing she was different in a way I hadn't witnessed before. Different in terms of her energy and her aura. One day she suddenly out of no where told me "after ayahuasca, looking back on myself, I feel like I was possessed by something very dark considering how I used to behave" .. She was referrng to her reckless beahvior and essentially saying she can't even believe her own past behavior and feels like she wasnt herself and now she is waking up and snapping out of it. I swear to god I cried tears of relief when she said this to me and I felt like maybe, just maybe we can have a normal life now. She also at this same time made a promise to me that she would never ever repeat those same behaviors again and that even if we were fighting one day and separated temporarily on a break for whatever reason, that she would give me the respect of letting me know before she talks to or dates any other men. Sounded very good to me of course.
Well, unfortunately Ayahuasca isn't a one trick pony and often times it requires many many ceremonies to fully heal deep rooted subconscious traumas and if you don't go back and finish what you started, you can slip back into old habits especially if you don't put in the work to change from the lessons you learn. I can only speak for myself and can say that I was still not doing too well with my anxiety and I wanted to go back to Peru again to do more work on myself. This time I left to Peru in 2021 and when I came back she was again suddenly being so nasty and mean to me when I was in an energetically sensitive state. Once again every single day back to comparing me to other men who shower their women with money and saying I never do anything for her like the entire past 17 years of everything I did for her, giving her cash, jewellery, vacations and cars all was nothing. The past didnt matter, it only mattered what I was doing for her in the moment. She drove me so insane for six months straight that one day I blew up and told her to either stop or get out. She decided to pack up and move out on her own. I tried to stop her but she didn't and she went anwyay. Some months went by and we would talk on the phone and she would tell me she realizes she has a lot of work to do on herself and that she is trying to heal herself. I told her great, I'm happy to hear that and I really did feel like maybe she might need this time alone to heal and it could possibly be what she needs. Well, unfortunately for me, she once again revealed to me a little over a month ago that she is talking to another man AGAIN and despite promising me she wouldn't do so without talking to me first, she did anyway. Her reason for breaking her promise is "were not together and I owe you nothing". She went as far as showing me text messages between her and this man from the USA and I asked her why she would rub that in my face and she said "I showed you that text so you can see that there are real men out there who wont just give bread crumbs to their woman". According to her, all I ever gave her was bread crumbs despite spending hundreds of thousands of dollars of my own money on her over the years, I am now being measured up with random men she met on dating apps. Here's the kicker, we dont live in the USA and she's been talking about wanting to move there for the last couple of years. Interesting how she now suddenly is speaking to a man online from there. You can draw your own conclusion on the motive for that.
The sad part of this all is that despite the resentment, I still love her......
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Well, there you have it. That's the story of my pathetic life. I imagine I will be shamed and told how much of a loser I am and I probably deserve it. Either way, I want to hear what some of you think.

Me (21f) and my bf (21m) would be having our 1 year anniversary in a few days. We got into a fight the other day because of something I said. We “broke up” like a month or two ago for like maybe 2 days and since then my brain has just not been able to feel normal. Like I’m always waiting for the next thing I’ll do that will trigger another fight that maybe will be the last straw.
Anyways we haven’t spoke much over the last few days, I was alone which I’m not very often because we’re together a lot and was thinking maybe it wouldn’t be so bad if he broke up with me. I can do the things I like to do, watch the shows I want to watch etc etc.
I was giving him space but he texted me out of the blue and was still really upset. I mean, pissed. It was very clear from the msgs he was still angry telling me I will never change but to whoever is reading this, I have changed. Since I’ve met him I’ve changed in so many ways for the better because he deserves it. But yes I make mistakes.
Anyways whole point of this is, after our recent convo everything feels too real now. As if we have already broken up or we’re about to and I’m really sad? Not having him around for a few days and being able to eat garbage and watch dumb shows is fun and all, but never seeing him again? I don’t know what to think. All his stuff is still here. If he is planning on leaving I don’t even want to see him again it will just reopen so many wounds I’m trying to manage.
We were supposed to go out of town to see my family next week and everyone was so excited to meet him for the first time. Idk I think I’m just rambling at this point.
Any advice on how to handle this potential breakup or if there’s anything I can do? If anyone’s experienced something similar I would love to hear.
TLDR: I was enjoying alone time from my partner until I realized it could be permanent and now I’m sad

A few days ago in posted something on there knowing i would get bad people to respond but i forgot how fucking crazy this world is. this guy who said his name was daniel started texting me and at first he seemed nice and cool said he could give me drugs and a place to stay if i worked for him so i agreed but little did i know this disgusting person wanted me to fuck his dogs and do a gangbang with a bunch of guys he knows and told me that he liked babies like.. fucking them... ik this is dumb asf but i still didnt leave or tell him anything cause i was either gonna run away or kms so how much worse could it get right? but he told me literally yesterday that he wanted me to "recruit" more girls 10-16 and sent me someones profile, he even called her prey. i dont know what got into me but i did it and after i felt so bad cause she was really nice and my age too so i told him he was a piece of shite and that he should die in a fire before also begging him to come back because i wanted to run away. please be weary of people that are nice especially men on here. anyways im gonna die next week on monday because i know i cant stop people like this and i feel so guilty for going along with him in the first place and for so long i had watched cp before too when i was 15 from my bf that was 39 and have been molested many times since i was 4. i have no one anymore not my mom not my sisters and not my friends especially if they knew the shit ive done ive sent him photos of my friends because he wanted to cum and he said some terrible shit about them talking about wanting to fuck minors and kidnap people and torture them. im done with this world i hope its better without me :)

(23M) My gf (22F) are in a 5 year relationship, a year ago went to an event there she meet a guy. They began talking because he seemed very demotivated so she tried to cheer him up initially and then eventually their talking grew deep and they began talking frquently. She told him she doesn't have a bf (she haven't told any of her friends cause she fears her parents but idk how it relates to friends still) there talking grew and they were talking from morning till night helping and sharing personal things. His friend spilled the tea to her that he is going to propose her soon. She was confused and terrified so she told me about it. I was devasted seeing their chat she was so happy with him cheered up and enjoying rather than me. She usually doesn't talk with me with that enthusiasm. I asked her if she wanna go to him and end this but she didn't. She wanted to stay with me and told me she only loved me. So I told her to stop talking with him, which she did. He tried talking but she ignored him and after 4 5 days he stopped trying too. Now after a year, he texted her again saying he's alone and he cant stay without her and its his late father's bday so he wants someone to talk with. Now Idk what to do, I really can't stand a person with a past like this.

Janhvi kapoor's image changed in the span of last 4 months. During KWK 2024 she was talking about her being the sexiest girl in the business, mentioning that although guys say that they like her eyes... their eyes seem go everywhere else. Then the best is when she mentions a certain flirty text from an actor about seeing her beauty spots ... she seemed to giggle at that though. Clearly she enjoyed the text.. from reading her body language.( mentioning it publicly is just very unclassy on her part)

• p.s. even in 2022 KWK, Karan Johar tells Janhvi that she is sexy and she should flaunt it... or along those lines. He was clearly marketing Janhvi as the sex siren.

Cut to Mr. And Mrs. Mahi promotion Janhvi is all about her being over-sexualized by men and how she is the victim.
Is her PR consultants confused or what???
In Dec all those articles came out about Kartik and Janhvi dating as well.. they have been taken off the internet since 2020 by Janhvi's dad I am assuming(disgusting display of privilege, money, entitlement and power.) A lot of shady things seem to happen around Janhvi...
Any insider??? Any info on why Janhvi's image has gone Bipolar? And also the shady stuff?

Please bare with me as this will be a long one, it's my first ever post on reddit.
TW of child loss.
I (32f) my FH (35m) are getting married august this year. We live in Australia in a different state to both sides of our family. As we thought instead of picking between the two states we are from, we will have it where we are now.
History as I know all you lot love the background stories. We met in 2019, through tinder(in the state we currently both are atm). It was love at first sight for me. I already had a son who in 2019 was 8yo. My son adorned my partner, he would talk about future siblings and us getting married. Which led my partner n I picking wedding songs and talking about marriage. In 2021 my partner n I were a bit rocky. But my world came crashing apart when I got a phone call my son passed in a car crash. I flew back to my home state and well as you can imagine I was a mess. My family which I hadn't spoken to in 4 years due to being accused for something I did not do. They found out I didn't. But long story short I was in the head space to nit pick. My sons funeral happened and well I just got left by all my siblings to do the clean up my self while they went to the after do. I missed it. I'm only one person and I got blamed and made to feel like crap for it. And a lot other shit. In other words three of my siblings are arseholes. If they dont get their way. My sister we'll call her Petal(24), brothers Steve (31) n Bob (27).
My partner n I always stayed in contact but we spilt as he was still in the state we met. His boss wouldn't let him take time off etc. In the beginning 2023 I came back to the state to organise my sons stuff. Realising this man kept everything of his and mine in the same spot. He still looked after my cat n dog after all that time also. We rekindled and both realised the flame was always still there for each other. So by September last year we were ready to move forward with life as short as it is announce to our family's save the dates. Via Txt as we both have huge families, we would save the money this way.
A few weeks go by. I get a phone call from Steve. (Whom I havent spoken to since before coming up here as I had enough of always being cancelled on or never picking up my calls or barely responding to my texts) So I was like why am I getting a call. Turns out I just got questions after questions... well statements 'you never asked me to move' 'mum will be staying with me not you on your wedding' 'im not babysitting joey' youngest brother 12yo we I stated he would be other brother Dale (second youngest 21- they are all my siblings from my mother's side) as they are always together when Dale visits. I just focused on the positive. I knew he was wanting me to bite. Then when I was explaining joey would be walking behind my nieces with my sons photo Steve interrupted when are you getting married and laughed. He then said no, His daughter wasn't going to be wearing a dress she'll be wearing the same as her dad... and laughed. at the beginning of his save the date I put 'Aunty would love niece to be a flower girl if she would like' Remember no contact since this phone call at all. So I thought he was joking as he laughed. He then started repeating she was wearing the same as him. He also asked why would joey be following them and as I was explaining what I was thinking as my son would've wanted his cousins up there with him. I got cut off. I just planned all this and I said no I asked and you never responded. You never said no even when I spoke about the dresses. Apparently I just don't know what no sounds like and I've not changed and she is HIS flower girl for when him and his partner get married. I understand wanting your child to be apart of your wedding.... hence why I was trying to do what I know damn sure my boy would have done - to the point if they weren't in the party he would walk up to them n get them to help throw petal down the isle. I was upset. He rambled on and yelled shit at me and hung up when I said well if you didn't want her being a flower girl you could've just said it straight out.
I am still upset but I'm only upset due to he only brought it up when I was talking about what my son would want. If he had a problem with it why didn't he say it before hand. Later mum(51) found out him n his partner were upset I was getting married before them ( they have been engaged since 2021 and no mention of a wedding date) and they didn't want their daughter being someone else's flower girl before hand. Which again I understand so why not say that instead of starting the shit?
The next day Bob decided to tell me he couldn't come to the wedding as he doesn't know what his life would bring him to be doing then 🤦🏼‍♀️
Anyway I start to move forward with wedding planning . I let a friend know, as i was going to ask her to be a Bm. After saying getting married she bloody laughed so hard like i told the most funniest joke ever.... her daughter came in she is still laughing n said ' can you believe they are getting married' while wiping away tears from her eyes she laughed so hard. So I decided not to mention the bm part. She later started telling me what I should do for colours, who the bms should be, that the best man wears something different to the groomsmen. Etc. It was getting out of hand and everytime I mentioned we had decided what we are doing already is was wrong .... until she decided to make a competition with my unaware mother 'she better wear a dress or ill look better then her. Maybe even you' so I cut her out of my social group, my partner still thinks she was just helping. He needs the fog to clear.
I ask my best friend who I have known since 2017 and who was still there for me through the hard time of my son passing and still is to this day. Kel(43f) to be my MOH. My two sisters Petal n Kay(28f on father's side) as bridesmaids. As iTs tHe rIgHt tHiNg to do 🤦🏼‍♀️ at first I thought petal would flake first. If it's not her way she'll make some sort of version (even if it's LIES) that you did her wrong. I picked the dresses they were more then happy to pay for them. $160 ish each(aus). Well Kay went Mia for a few weeks. Then in January this year asked me if the place accepted afterpay. I said I know they accept Kalana or what ever its called. N then she was busting her arse for me to check.... she had the website I asked if she had her flights and accommodation prebooked. Nothing. As I was going to offer to pay for the dress if she was struggling. So I offered for her to come as a guest. 2 weeks NOT A SINGLE WORD. Not answering my calls or texts that wasn't even about the wedding. Its now Feb. I ask my cousin to be a back BM she was more then happy n as I was on the phone to her Kay said ' im getting a job so it'll be all sorted' now Kay is a sister who will take advantage for other people's hand outs. Where we are the closer to august you leave it your looking at 1600 n back minimum. N the week we are getting married not only with it be tourist session but race day also ( we forgot about race day 😅) After explaining this to her she decided with many more weeks in between she'll not come to the wedding at all.
So then it was my BF, petal and cousin.
Two weeks ago I got asked by my fathers (he is a dead beat) sister if he was invited. Long story short, I'm the child he never wanted. He never met my son at all while he was alive and loves to cause drama when it's not about him. He was a junkie when I first met him. So I politely said sorry no he is not and sorry for putting you in this position.
Just up until last week petal flaked. Family drama was happening and I pulled her up on her lies she had put in a group chat. She hadn't spoken to me since May. She would read the wedding chat but not respond. And I found out she had me on mute. Laste week I messaged her on the group chat, our private chat and text her can you aleast let me know whats going on. She came back with ' im not coming nor will I be in your wedding' I thanked her for letting me know. Went in the group chat for the wedding n she had already removed herself. N I blocked her shortly after my mum called. Mum had asked if I had heard from Petal. I told her what happened. Well, mum Being a mum was like 'ill get to the bottom of this' She asked why are you not part of the wedding anymore. My sister turned n said its not of your business. N then said I blocked her from the chat a while ago and I have not once messaged her n I'm mean. Mum caught her out n said she seen her lil picture keep up with the messaged just today etc. N she just banged on how no one understands her. So I blocked her.
I have now asked for my partners Sister to be a bm and she's more then happy to and I paid for her dress straight away so it should arrive to her before she is due to come up.
I found out in April my son will finally be a older brother like he always wanted. This is a miracle baby as I've had a few health problems with my uterus. To the point doctors said I might not even be able to do IVF. My partner n I are over the moon. I am in a a place where I'm happy and upset because my son is not here to witness what he always wanted. We have only told those that have been supportive, mu mum Dale and joey and my Sil.
All the stress of just my family has taken its toll. We have already paid majority of the wedding off and can't elope. I've lost all happiness for our day. I'm scared my father will rock up (he is spiteful like that) n im just deflated. With the add stress of being now 12weeks pregnant and still worried I could lose it at any point.
I have gotten all their jewellery, personalised pjs since Kay was involved. Personalised gifts and im paying for their hair and make up.
Kel my Moh is ready to go on a witch hunt. She's pissed that I have let it all go on for so long. So I'm trying to see if I am in the right or if I am in the wrong.
Am I being the Arsehole ? Bridezilla? Just feels no matter what happens in my life it's not good enough. If anything needs clearing up please let me know. Sorry for the long post. Thankyou in advance And if anyone has any advice ? Thankyou

(23M) My gf (22F) are in a 5 year relationship, a year ago went to an event there she meet a guy. They began talking because he seemed very demotivated so she tried to cheer him up initially and then eventually their talking grew deep and they began talking frquently. She told him she doesn't have a bf (she haven't told any of her friends cause she fears her parents but idk how it relates to friends still) there talking grew and they were talking from morning till night helping and sharing personal things. His friend spilled the tea to her that he is going to propose her soon. She was confused and terrified so she told me about it. I was devasted seeing their chat she was so happy with him cheered up and enjoying rather than me. She usually doesn't talk with me with that enthusiasm. I asked her if she wanna go to him and end this but she didn't. She wanted to stay with me and told me she only loved me. So I told her to stop talking with him, which she did. He tried talking but she ignored him and after 4 5 days he stopped trying too. Now after a year, he texted her again saying he's alone and he cant stay without her and its his late father's bday so he wants someone to talk with. Now Idk what to do, I really can't stand a person with a past like this. What should I do??

My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were seniors in high school and it's mainly been perfect apart from a handful of fights. The thing is every time we get into a disagreement, no matter who is in the wrong, he always ends up going to his friend that he's known since middle school. Now at first his friend seemed really normal but after we fought for the first time (I'm not even sure you could really classify it as a real fight) he's been so strange. He's always telling my bf that he's too clingy or that l've lost feelings for him. One time he even texted my BF that he saw me out at a bar with other guys even though I was literally with my boyfriend when he texted that. I don't know if he just has a little crush on him and is jealous or what but my boyfriend hung out with him a few days ago and he's been a bit off ever since. I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting but I feel like I should talk to him about this. We've been together for nearly four years now and it just really bothers me.

I am in a tough spot right now. I moved in to my boyfriend’s apt 3 months ago(I don’t pay rent). I graduated in December and I’m currently looking for a job right now so I can’t afford my own place.
History: I met my bf on a dating app and have been going out with him since June of last year. He said he’s never been in a relationship before and hasn’t been serious with anyone. It started as something casual but he wanted sexual exclusivity from the very beginning. It was great. We went along well and I enjoyed spending time with him. He asked me to be his gf in September and since then I stopped going on dates with other people. I understand that he might be seeing other people before this but nothing romantic or sexual. Since then, things have been going really well between us and I even started considering him to be the one (He said I’m the one for him and asked me if I would meet his parents sometime in the future). We do everything together, my friends like him and I’ve met most of his friends too. Although it did seem a bit soon, we’ve been on vacation(domestic and short) twice and it was great knowing how compatible we are. He is also the most supportive bf, he has been helping me look for a job and he assures me when I’m feeling burnt out with job hunting. His love language is acts of service and he will do anything if it makes me happy. I was in a very secure and happy relationship, or I thought so.
Fast forward to now: I had my doubts from a message he sent his best friend back in October(he showed it to me by mistake) and I decided to snoop around. It was the worst mistake ever. I don’t know how to feel cause it made me feel like everything is a lie. I didn’t go through his messages so I don’t know the details, but I know enough that he had a gf/situationship and he was still going out with her, at least till November. I also know she has blocked him. I brought it up with him (the text he sent his friend) and asked him why he was seeing other people and he straight up lied to my face. Maybe he was nervous and didn’t want to ruin what we have right now but I feel like he was gaslighting me during the whole conversation. He said he was seeing her till October but just for coffee and the whole conversation is just her berating him about his looks/job(private equity) and telling him how many guys she’s seeing at the moment who is better than him. I couldn’t tell him that I know for sure he went to dinner with her several times because of the way I found out. She also visited his apt till November but idk how frequent because we’ve been hanging out almost everyday at that point and I also had some of my stuff at his place. For context, he had told me before he went to Europe for work + vacation by himself last January (before I met him) but I found out that he actually went with her. Right now I want to focus on my job search and don’t want to deal with any of this(possibly leaving him and finding a new place to stay). Idk how to move forward. A part of me feels I should just forget I ever found out anything and continue focusing on my job search. I did consider leaving him but I can’t afford to do that rn because of my priorities. Is something like this forgivable? Also, is it worth bringing this topic up again? I know it’s been a while but it’s bothering me how he lied to me throughout our relationship. I just want him to admit to it.
TLDR: I(29F)recently found out that my bf(29M) has been constantly seeing his ex situationship during the first few months of our relationship. I don’t know to rebuild the trust in our relationship.

Today, I 29f noticed the passenger seat in my car was further back that I keep it. So I mentioned it to my boyfriend 27m "why is the seat so far back"? His excuse was the headrest was blocking the window. I let him use my car for work. I was the last one in that seat lastnight because we had gone out and he likes to drive. I keep the seat far back as is. He had never had a problem with me sitting in it and blocking anything. So that ended in a huge fight. Last week he texted me that he was on his way back to the shop, he works on a military base. I checked his location and he was already off base. So that was a lie. Then a few weeks ago, I noticed he was following some random girl on instagram. I asked about her and he told me he has known her since middle school. Ok cool. Then he goes and deletes her. Thats suspicious to me. We are both from Massachusetts and moved to a new state 7 months ago. I was freshly out of a 2 year abusive relationship and I didnt want to date. I moved back in with my mother at that time. Then this guy slides in my dms. we had a alot in common. But I strictly told him I want nothing to do with relationships. Then I get kicked out of my house because my neighbors made up a bunch of lies about me about parties in the yard and having random guys over which was insane. All I did was work, stay inside or go out with my friends. I never brought anyone home. My bf said I could stay with him. So I did because I had nowhere else to go. He had a friend in nc that said we could come down and stay with him. We figured ok, its cheaper down there and we can get a house. Mind you, all this was happening so fast when I didnt even want to date. I felt thrown into this. Now Im so traumatized from my ex. Im not happy and I dont know what to do. We live in an apartment now and I just want to get back to mass. I keep kicking myself in the ass because I knew better. I should have ignored his messages. I would still be at my job that was decent pay and living my life stress free. I need therapy foreal😂 what would you guys do?

Disclaimer: I don’t usually post on Reddit but this has really been on my mind recently, pls let me know if I’m posting this in the wrong place.
My ex (M21) and I (F21) were together for two years and friends for years before that. Three days before Valentine’s Day last year, he spent the whole day with my family and I, at the end of the night as I was walking out to my car I asked him what was wrong, he told me he was breaking up with me. I asked why and he said to me “you did nothing wrong, I still love you but loving you feels like a chore right now.” My heart absolutely shattered. After we cried for a bit he said “I love you, I’ll text you when I get home”.
I have to see him atleast once a week because our lives are very intertwined in our community. I will say he was having a rough situation that no 20 year old should have to deal with (a sick parent, they are doing better now thankfully!) and for the longest time I excused his behavior for that but I also realized he wasn’t treating me right for a while and even worse now obviously. I have so many stories and details about our relationship and what has happened since the breakup that I am open to including if asked in the comments, but I’ll just wait till they are asked.
He pretty much avoids me at all cost and is only cordial and makes small conversation if necessary. He almost always avoids eye contact and is cold. Except on random days where he makes too much eye contact with me when I talk and I become confused because of the look he gives me. Until recently…
Starting two months ago he came up to me in our shared community event that I see him at each week and he said to me in person “you look really good today”, and also the week before he texted me saying “I hope all has been well for you”. Ever since then there has been a pattern of him texting first and occasionally me texting first in relation to what they originally sent, but then they avoid me in person or stop texting randomly and become cold again. Then they’ll text again and it’s the same cycle over and over. Every time I begin to feel okay they text me and I’m spiraling again. It took me a long time to realize it wasn’t my fault, it was very detrimental to my mental health. But a part of me still wants and loves them. Last week after avoiding me like the plague as usual they texted me “how’d your finals go?” And me being me, I responded. We ended up sporadically texting back and forth the whole week and he sent some messages that could be friendly/flirty but not too obvious. And at one point they responded with something that didn’t have a cue to respond to like “yeahhhh”, so I left them on read. The following day they texted me again asking about a movie I just saw , and asking questions about things I was doing throughout the day. Then they stopped texting me again. It’s been 2 days now of nothing.
What do I do? I don’t understand why he keeps doing this to me. I hate that I’m being used probably, but there is that part of me that just hopes he wants me back. What do yall think? I’m sorry I know this is a lot but this was me trying to summarize it lol.

i just went on a 2 week break with my bf of almost 2 years because he isnt bettering his life. For context, we met during senior year of highschool and graduated in 2021 but didnt start dating until 2022 because of my own personal reasons. We started dating and all is well until i notice im picking him up 30 mins away, going to my house, and dropping him off daily (which adds to 2 hours a day) to see him and have been trying for him to practice driving and get his license since I met him. He does not have a phobia, he simply doesn’t want to drive or when he does drive, its for 15 mins and he calls it a day. I told him if he doesn’t have his license by my birthday i will rethink our relationship because i have put a lot of time and gas to come see him. Early in 2023, he was forced to quit his warehouse job (that he’s been working at since 2021) that pays $1000+ a week because he couldnt drive to a different warehouse since he was working with his mom. I was helping him apply to places that are a walking distance and bringing him to interviews and ive been supporting him because i love him. He shows me so much love as well and appreciates me for how i am but is so content with him doing the bare minimum and not pushing himself to be the best he can despite me cheering him on. Now he finally got a part time job and barely gets $500 every 2 weeks which shows how little he works. Idk what he does with his spare time but its not practicing driving or cleaning his messy room or doing anything to help him in any way. Now where the real kicker is is that I accidentally slept over in his room after his family’s bbq, he woke me up out of my sleep at 1AM and kicked me out because he was scared that his mother would get mad at him despite not getting a call or text for me to go home. I dont know what gave him the idea that his mom would get mad because she always tells me not to drive home late, and 10pm is late in her eyes. I can possibly forgive him for kicking me out because he needs to better communicate with his mom, but why cant i get over him doing the bare minimum for himself?

Hi!
Using a throwaway for anonymity purposes
My apologies if this is not the right sub for this discussion, but it's the only one I found remotely related to my experience.
I really enjoy meeting new people, hearing their stories, getting excited for them, as long as I am not directly involved in for example picking a ring for my best friend's girlfriend, help them pick drapes for their new house... However, if it's unplanned and they are in a tough spot about it, I will turn the world around to help them.
Same with relationships, I have not been in a long term relationship and when I entered a relationship, it was just annoying, because I did not have my personal time as much as I wanted to which eventually led to a break-up. No, it's not just that one girlfriend, it's in general... I love being alone. Genuinely. Even friends have limits. If we're somewhere for the weekend, I really start to feel the need for my solitude as it's too much. If they leave the room/place for an hour, I'm good again as I've been recharged.
If a close friend has got into a relationship, I will be interested to hear about it and care if they are happy, usually form a friendship with the partner as well as most of them are amazing people I love as friends, but I would hate to listen to them and their love for hours on end. OK, we have determined they are nice, I've met them, i know they are great, you two are a good pairing, we cool. Keep things to yourself. Don't shove tongues down each other's throats every five minutes. It's disgusting.
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On the other hand if a friend has suddenly broken up with his/her bf/gf and want to talk, I will absolutely listen to them and advise as much as I can to provide emotional support.
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Texting also does not bother me in the slightest, I can talk on a variety of topics for hours on end, make a connection, joke, give advice on romance, write poetry about love even, which again seems to counter some of the things I've written here, but that's where the confusion lies.
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My best friend from preschool whom I've known for 20+ years and we mostly talk about tech, booze and work, never really discussed gfs or anything like that, recently got into a relationship with a girl and they are getting serious, he just mentions her in passing every time we meet up. There's a whole bunch of other things going on in his life, both personally and professionally. It's genuinely one of the best meetups I have.
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Another couple I'm close friends with has just announced the wife is expecting and while I am really happy for them, I really don't want to spend the next year or so talking about their baby and nothing else. I truly am happy for them and want to know about their lives, but this cannot be the ONLY thing you can talk about... Yes, I know having a kid changes everything and it's a difficult change. I am fully aware of that and it would be absolutely impolite of me not to even ask about their child, at the end of the day, i do want to know a bit, but I don't want a 3 hour convo on how much he/she pooped today.
But, they could call me at 3 AM saying hey, I need x for my baby and I'd be there for them, because I love them.
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How do I approach this without coming off as a disinterested asshole?

He used to follow a girl on Tiktok I saw him asking her to talk with him on insta ( he send his insta account to her). I get advantage of that and make a fake account of that girl and text my boyfriend, he start flirting with her but also he told her a made up story (that there was a girl he loved when he was a teenager but she got married somewhere else and he till now because he loved her so much he never get committed to any girl, and then he send "My photos" to on that fake account that this is the girl he loved) He loved chubby girls Im chubby too but when I asked him who is more pretty me or his ex he said you are more pretty she was fat and he didn't like fat and also that my hands are manly. But on the other hand when I starting degrading my ownself he start defending it that no she wasn't that bad and her figure was sexy blah blah. The I asked him to swear that he dont love that girl anymore and im (the fake girl) the only woman now he wants. He doesn't swear easily and make me struggle alot to make him swear but at last he did it after I insisted. --1) what you think, he loves me or not? Why he is doing all this shit when he cares about me? Also he wanna marry me he talked to my parents, then why he is doing all this shit? . . Now the plan is: I will ask him to come on date (from fake account) Im asking him to come to another city because I live there. He agreed.Now when he comes on the location I will send my male friend instead, I have asked my male friend to make my bf face time through video call. And then I will ask him what he is doing here and why did he cheat and make him look like a fool. --2) what you think about my plan it is a nayy or yayyy?
I LOVE HIM he is not pretty not rich nothing extraordinary but he is the first and my only bf ever. We are in relationship since 2023 summer. We are in long distance relationship but have met multiple times. Haven't dont intercourse yet because im old schooled and I wanna lose my virginity on wedding night. But we have done other things, like kissing, I gave him blowjob: he cummed in my mouth and I just gulped his liquid which was very HOT. Cudding, sucking and all the intimate things we have done but not intercourse. --3) what should I do? Should I leave him after teaching him a lesson without listening to his any shitty excuses or boycott him temporarily.
From few a month Im being rude with him because I had feelings there is something fishy going on, You know that feeling in your stomach when You dont have proof but you just know it. After this all fake account thingy i just cant help it Im burning in fire i wanna burst on him but Im controling it eventually for the right time he might noticed that no? Today on call he told me that he is getting alot of girls request online lately then when I mock him "go talk to them dont call me" he said Im just doing that for passing time i only love you. I asked wdym by passing time and what even are you doing. He didn't answered my question, and changed the topic immediately.

today, I took the train ride back with a boy from my class. he stood far, too far for me to even properly hear him over the huffing engines. I wish I could move closer, but I would likely take a terrible fall because there was nothing to hold onto. I just realized how desperate I am for even a bump of shoulders, a hand around my wrist, anything that could be considered flirty over a century ago.
I want someone to touch my hair. it's been so long since anyone have. if it was highschool, I could turn around and ask one of my friends to play with my hair in class. unfortunately I have barely been able to exchange more than 5 texts with most of my friends, you can guess I haven't seen them in a while.
my mom grew less affectionate of me as I grew older. men grow cold as girls grow old but so do mothers, apparently, and I have not a wrinkle on my face yet. I think her desperation to find me someone, to push me towards the first boy who she sees being kind to me in church, it's because she's tired of caring for me and wants to find someone else to do it. I'm pretty sure she has told me that, or at least implied. I'm not her baby anymore, or anyone's. these past days, she acts like she hates me. maybe she really does. she can't hear my voice and not get irritated by my speech, by my words, by my tone, by my rambling at this ungodly hour (9pm). she's always too busy. everyone is, I guess, but she's the one who teared her insides to give me birth; isn't she, of all people, supposed to give me some space to exist within her world?
I have cats and the weather's terribly cold, so lucky me to have some cuddle buddies for the night. I'll go to sleep, I'm getting way too tired and sentimental and have cried enough this week. goodnight, hope you girls have been able to find some human warmth for yourselves.

My bf and me were on ft and I was screen sharing I got a snap from a person name zay and he jokingly went ooh so ur talking to other guys. I said no and I pulled up out saved in chats. There was a picture of me. I know it sounds bad but I have no memory of ever talking to that person or sending that. Why would I willingly go in there to show him that yknow. My boyfriend has the same picture and found it. He said that the photo was from January 2024 and we started dating dec 2023. He hung up and isn’t answering any of my calls or texts. Iv gone through all my January photos on snap redownloaded things to try and find any proof of it being old. I went in my Biden and found it and it says 2024. I can’t find any proof and I blocked the zay account so I can’t see the date it was sent. I really think the photo is old though. I’m scared he will break up with me. I would never cheat on him but I have no proof and I don’t remember ever sending that photo to that person. What should I do.

I am looking for feedback and understand I am not innocent in this.
I have only been in crisis once in my life (6 years ago) where I made many attempts and also self-harmed. Thanks to getting therapy for my PTSD I have not relapsed since then. I say this to emphasize that being in crisis is NOT normal for me.
I (27 f) have been dating my bf (32) for 2 years. I, unfortunately, got a concussion 2 months ago and recently have started having panic attacks, impulsivity + intense low mood swings. After being overworked in my job with my condition I had a mental breakdown where I stayed outside my apartment and called a hotline because I thought I was going to hurt myself. I did not feel able to keep myself safe despite not wanting to hurt myself. I have never had that before...
I was able to calm myself down but was still slightly in crisis when my bf got home so I told him the situation. He was worried but did not dwell on it. I was able to calm down in the evening but then had another scary mood swing and felt unsafe the next day. My bf mentioned that he would be leaving a bit earlier than previously planned and I asked him to please, please, please stay here this week because I'm struggling with a lot of mental pain and don't want to face this alone. I told him I felt like this is the one time in my life where I feel like I need someone else to support me. He said no because he has a dentist appointment and wants to spend time with his family.
For context he lives with me half of the time + stays with his family in a city near by the other half of the time.
He left and then was calling me a lot and I found myself getting more and more upset while I was still in crisis and knew this was not a good situation. I told him (and maybe this is where I messed up) that I was disappointed that he made the decision that he did and that speaking to him is making upset so I didn't want to talk to him for at least a couple of days because I am trying to get better. I said that I was hurt that he chose a dentist's appt and not wanting to drive too much over being there with me in my time of need.
I didn't talk to him for 24h but then felt guilty because I thought about the fact that he was probably really worried about my safety so it wasn't good of me to ask that we don't communicate
I sent a text apologizing for that and asking if we could talk on the phone. He said he wants to talk but needs space and is busy.
How do I interpret this?
(More context) I am in therapy + physio. During this crisis, I have made extra appts. A family member is also helping me and knows that I'm in crisis.
TLDR: I told my bf I feel unsafe due to mental anguish from a concussion and wanted him to stay with me, he left and when I got upset, he in turn would not communicate with me.

Me and a guy that I have been seeing went on a date, he said he was feeling anxiety - I comforted him. However, with this anxiety he was not being very touchy or flirty - he said he doesn’t like touching in public, however there was zero touch.. not even touching my hair etc or something small.
I’m not a fan of kissing or cuddling/ making out in public as i personally think it’s cringey.
But there was nothing, no indirect flirting.
I was thinking the guy was no longer into me - which also set off my body dysmorphia dark thoughts.
I ignored this but tried to comfort him.
After I went home, the guy asked me to stay over and I freaked out and got upset because I was thinking he’s going to want to touch me having a sleepover.. thoughts spiralling ended up to be thinking he was just wanted to use my body for sex, resulting in myself getting upset.
I’m not sure that he was wanting to do that and said did I really think that low of him.
I felt like a terrible person making his anxiety worse
Ever since, he gave me the silent cold treatment - then text me today and ghosted me again.
It’s a shame if he does ghost me because I did like him, he was everything my ex wasn’t and all round he is a really nice guy!
Thoughts? Has he now got the ick?