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Cawwsplay - Cute cosplay that makes you go aww

2013.09.20 17:21 Dorkside Cawwsplay - Cute cosplay that makes you go aww

Cosplay that makes you go aww. Too bad there's no going "aww" at the Reddit API changes and CEO, Spez's disastrous AMA responses. /cawwsplay stands with all third-party app developers who provide features that Reddit refuses to for both accessibility and moderation, going dark from June 12 - June 14. For more information, read [here](https://www.reddit.com/ModCoord/comments/1476fkn/reddit_blackout_2023_save_3rd_party_apps/).
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2014.12.16 00:56 NudeTayneMNW r/Episode - Choose Your Story!

Welcome to this fan-run subreddit for the Episode app, a platform for interactive and visual stories. This subreddit is for both readers and writers who use the interactive animated story platform.
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2008.01.25 05:07 A subreddit for cute and cuddly pictures

Things that make you go AWW! -- like puppies, bunnies, babies, and so on... Feel free to post original pictures and videos of cute things.
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2024.05.16 23:02 Violet-Flowersss Maxi-Challenge 6: Results

Maxi-Challenge 6: Results
Welcome back queens from our first ball! You had a tall order this challenge, and several of you did very well. Let’s not delay the results any longer!
Tracy Martel, you are safe
Absynthe, Mistress Anna Conda, Liz Onya, Raven Starfire, B*tch, and Miz Erie, you all represent the tops and bottoms of this challenge. Now, on to the critiques.
Absynthe: Absynthe, I love simple looks when they’re done right, and each and every one of your looks did simplicity right. I especially appreciate that you weaved a theme through all three looks. For your first look, I love that you went with a more recent trend. I can totally see Kim K wearing this in an “unexpected” paparazzi pic. At first, I was skeptical of the skirt, because tighter skirts or pants were more the style, but I actually appreciate that you didn’t directly copy a Kim K look. My only real critique is the shoes. I think the black laces, especially on clear shoes, takes away from the simplicity in the rest of the look and brings down the athleisurewear vibe. I would have preferred a sneaker or basic heel. I also kind of wish you had used a different lip, not only to break up a set, but also because big ass lips were more on trend for this style. Still, I really like this look as a whole. Now, your second look, I really really love. I instantly got this was a 60s look, yet it feels fresh to me. The dress is the perfect silhouette, and the squares you created are so crisp. The largest black square has a little blotch of gray that I immediately noticed, and I wish you had fixed it. But, that’s really the only thing here I can critique. I think my favorite part of this look is the mug, these eyes are just so right for a 60s look. Every choice your made with this second look is great. The third look is really the best in terms of simplicity done right. There’s not much going on, but all the details are so good and beautiful. I love the little belt below the waist, it helps convey the Greek/Roman feel you were going for. With the rest of the editing, there’s some small (small) issues. On the right side of the dress, there’s a gliterry piece sticking out that I think came from merging pieces together. I also feel like the shawl is oversaturated for this look. In a different look, it would be fine, but with the softness of the dress and overall feel of the look, that bright bright red doesn’t quite fit. Don’t think I didn’t notice that all the metals match this time though - I did and I appreciate it. Putting the small editing issues aside, this look is very beautiful and regal. In fact, all three looks are really great and beautiful. Great work Absynthe!
Mistress Anna Conda: Mistress, all three of your looks have a great concept, but fall short in terms of execution. For the first one, before you added a description, I really had no idea what decade or century you were going for. With the description, I kind of see the 2010s, but that should have been conveyed clearer. The wig is the main aspect thats makes this look feel older than the 2010s. And, I don’t love that you lightened it. The original color would have matched the pants, and if you didn’t want them to match, the wig should be a color thats more different than the pants. I appreciate that you recolored the necklaces to match the earrings, but I wish you had done the opposite, because the gold necklaces blend into the top, making it look even messier. The pants totally give 2010s, and the color is really nice. However, they don’t look like jeans, they look like leggings. Adding stitching or denim patterning would’ve made them look more like jeans. Its a nice look, I like the attitude and idea, but the small details are off and it missed the main goal of the challenge. Of your three looks, I think this second look is my least favorite. For one thing, this jumpsuit for a disco look is about the most expected choice ever. The recoloring is really nice, the teal and orange combo is really pretty. But, the balance is off. There is a lottt of teal and not a lot of orange. What’s really brining this look down, though, is the wig. To be frank, it looks like a dead bush with some green spores. If there was a reference, I wish you had provided it because I couldn’t find it online. I see the idea you had, and it could’ve been cute, but the colors really need to be changed. As a whole, I think this look is suffering from a lack of creativity and needs to be amped up. The third look is the best out of the three. Its very cute, and clearly reads as 1890s. She looks like a mix of little bo peep and mary poppins. The combination of pieces is really smooth, and the top and bottom come together to make a nice, cohesive dress. The only editing issue you have is on the top. Where the pink and blue meet, theres a rough, shaky black line. I think you were trying to make them look layers, but it just looks odd, and because of the fold that stretches across the shirt, that prevents the two different colors from looking like layers. Not to beat a dead horse, but another issue with the top is the stark difference in fabrics. The skirt is a very soft, almost matte material while the top is shiny and plasticy. They don’t look like they’d be a part of the same dress, ruining the illusion. The wig, hat, and gloves were a nice touch though and help elevate the look a bit. This look is mostly accurate for the 1980s, but what’s not right for the time period is the waist. The dress you’ve created is very unflattering, in that it completely eliminates your waist. Corsets were still popular in the 1890s, so at the very least, there should be a semblance of an hourglass figure. All three looks are nice, but not particularly stunning, mainly because of the details.
Liz Onya: Liz, each and every one of your looks is so great, and I can clearly tell you put a lot of thought and effort into every one. This first look of yours is so beautiful. I actually had to look up Akaska because I’ve never seen the movie, and all the references are so right. I especially like the headpiece, its very accurate to hers. My favorite part of this look is the smoke at the bottom, it really helps sell the mysterious vampire mystery. However… this is not a 2000s look. It kind of feels like a cope out. While the movie was made in the 2000s, the vampire your imitating is ancient Egyptian, and therefore dressed in a way thats meant to imitate ancient fashion. While others did imitate movie characters, their movie characters were from the 2000s canonically and therefore dressed in 2000s fashion. Vampires definitely were a big part of the 2000s, but if you had done Twilight instead, that would’ve fit the 2000s better because the fashion in that movie was from the 2000s. There’s no issues with your look, its gorgeous, but it does not fit the challenge prompt. Your second look is my favorite of the three, and dare I say, my favorite out of all the 1900s look. I could immediately tell this was from the 1980s, and I think you did the 80s in such a fun, new way. I love art, and I love when its incorporated into to fasion. The recoloring on the dress is just amazing. I love how it looks like its literally made of painted paper, and the shakiness of the lines works really well here because its accurate to the reference you provided. Even though it is very accurate to the reference, you still managed to make it your own by combining two references and through the wig and makeup choices. The body paint is fantastic, and even the white line on the wig looks like paint, a detail I love. The wig helps reinforce that this is an 80s look, and its blocky shape works perfectly with all the shapes throughout the dress. I don’t have a single negative thing to say about this look, incredible work. With your third look, I love love love that you went with a more obscure reference, and gave us a little history lesson. The editing really turns this into a stunning look. It easily could have been too basic if you left the dress as it is in the game, but that pool of blood at the bottom really amps up the horror here. The way you intertwined your fingers into the victims hair is so great and such an important detail. With the head, I do wish that the victims skin tone was different because at first glance it looks like your holding your own head. Using a different body type helped create a difference, but a different skin tone would have really hit it home. As for the victims body, I was really confused on what it was until I zoomed in on my laptop. All the dark blood all over the body makes it blend into the pool of blood, so its not clear that its a body. Less blood or a lighter outfit would have made it clearer. You do get extra credit for creating two 1800s looks, though. As for your head, the blood splatter on the face was such a great detail to add in there, I really love it. I would have liked a different mug, though. She looks almost surprised or sad - like shes not the one who just murdered a woman. A fiercer, meaner mug would’ve been better. The hair is great, it looks like the 1890s, but unkept and messy, adding the story. Overall, this look is so hauntingly beautiful, and tells such a great visual story. You just keep wowing me every challenge, Liz!
Raven Starfire: Raven, out of the three looks, I feel like you put the most thought and attention into the 1800s look, and let the others fall to the wayside. For your 2000s look… I’m really not loving it. You resubmitted it (which is fine) and I wish you hadn’t because I think the first submission was better. The blonde hair does not look good, the color is all wrong, and because it is so long, it completely ruins the rest of the look. The dark brown hair was a lot more complimentary and I felt it was a nice way for you to put your own spin on a Mean Girls look. The mismatched pinks really bother me, the jacket and the skirt aren’t the same shade and you could’ve easily fixed that. I’m not loving the top skirt combo otherwise either, the jacket is athleisurewear while the skirt is preppy. I think there was a lot more you could’ve done to make this look more cohesive and more unique; as-is, it reads as a knock-off mean girl. For the second look, I actually asked my mom if this look was accurate for the 80s (because she grew up then) and she confirmed that this is accurate for a boss bitch from the 80s. The makeup is great, she confirmed there were a lot of pastels in the 80s, and I like the expression the eye and lip combo makes. While all the pieces in the outfit are time-period accurate, I don’t love the look as a whole. Starting with the wig, I, for one, am not a fan of this wig already, but I think there were ways you could have improved it. But since you mentioned the big hair of the 80s, I really wish you had gone with a different wig entirely that was even bigger. I’ve seen my mom’s high school photos, and her hair takes up about 70% of the frame, so I would've loved to have seen you go really big. The same thing goes for the shoulder pads, I barely even noticed this top had them, which I wouldn’t care about if you hadn't mentioned big shoulder pads. The pattern on the top totally gives 80s, but I wish you had used a lower level of it, one that didn’t have the weird harness on it. If you wanted to keep the harness, I think it would've been nicer if it matched the skirt so the skirt color was tied into the shirt somehow. That also would’ve made the harness feel more like an intentional choice. I appreciate that you matched the shoes so exactly to the skirt, buttt I think white would’ve stood out more and tied into the gloves. This look is very accurate for the 80s, but I’m just not in love with it. Now, your 1800s look, I totally am in love with. It totally feels like its from the 1800s while still being unique and creative. The layering on the skirt is absolutely beautiful, I especially really appreciate the lace edges, it helps bring all the layers together into a cohesive look. The ruffles, the gloves, the pleats, its all so beautiful. Something was bothering me about the skirt, and it took me a little while to figure out what, but I realized the waist is not angled correctly. The figures of the queens in the game are angled to the right, so waistlines should be angled that same way. The waistline you created is angled head-on, and since the rest of the queen’s body and dress is not, it looks off. If that detail was fixed, this dress would be perfect. As for the mug, I love these eyes for this look. I’m not in love with the lips, though - the bright coral color doesn’t match the rest of the burnt tones in this look. I think a softer pink or orange lip would’ve worked better. But, these small issues don’t distract from the overall look too much, making for a stunning and beautiful look overall. If the other two looks were as great as the third look, you would be in the top, but the third look isnt enough to save you from the bottom on its own.
Btch: Btch, throughout all your looks, I can tell you really focused on refinement and cohesiveness. The first look is fine. It is not particularly inventive or creative, but it is cohesive. Even the small details go together. I especially appreciate how the zippers on the skirt match the jacket zippers, as do the silver hair accessories. The skirt color perfectly matches the fur on the jacket, which is great. Originally, my biggest issue was that you used the “Legally Drag” top to do an Elle Woods look, but then you deleted that reference pic. In doing so, you also deleted the decade you were referencing, which was in the challenge prompt. I still know you were going for the early 2000s, because I can’t erase my memory and you originally said so, but without the reference, it doesn’t totally give early 2000s. Elle Woods was over the top with how much pink she wore, that’s why she stood out - its not like that was an early 2000s trend. I don’t feel like this outfit is particularly inventive, even without the reference pic. I am grateful, though, that you took my note about using sets and didn’t use the matching hair or skirt for this top. The hair was a nice way to put your own spin on this style, and it gives early 2000s, I just wish you had incorporated your own twist into this look more. I also think the skirt you resubmitted with works a lot better for this look than the original skirt you had. Overall, the look is cohesive and solid, but not particularly creative or unique. This second look of yours is super cute, and I’m glad you took the time to recolor and resubmit it. Changing the green for the red helped simplify and refine the look- its a small change with a big effect. I am a little tired of seeing this top used for 90s looks, but the recoloring and pants help make it feel fresher. The hair is super cute for this look, but its reminds me more of Black Panthers from the 60s/70s than the 90s. It just makes me really want a Black Panter look, and sad that you didn’t give that to me. A beanie or bucket hat would’ve fit the 90s more. The shoes are cute, but they don’t really mesh with the rest of the outfit because there’s not cheetah print anywhere else. I like the little ankle bracelets, and the red cheetah print is cute, but a solid color shoe would’ve worked better. They also could’ve worked if cheetah print was incorporated somewhere else in the outfit. Its a very cute, fun look, but a tad basic. On the flip side, this third look of yours is super fun and unexpected! I adore that you went for a masculine look. I’m not always crazy about masc looks in this game, but when it’s done right, they’re so good. And this is done soooo right. Those rich brown tones look so good, and that mug is so sexy. With your editing, the hat got a little fuzzy. The ribbon around the hat could be clearer; it kind of blends into the hat. Similarly, while I appreciate that you went back to change the colors of the bows on the shoes, since they are so dark now, they just look like a blur from afar. Additionally, I really wish you had edited the hat onto a more masculine wig. The beautiful hair and sparkling earrings ruin the hot man fantasy I desperately want. I know I’ve been harsh on your editing before, and I hope that’s not why you chose not to fully edit this look. I really wouldn’t care that you didn’t fully edit if the hair didn’t pull me out of the fantasy so much. The rest of the outfit is really great and beautiful, the shining light against the dark outfit is just stunning. This look very much feels like the 1800s, but I can’t judge its accuracy to a decade because you didn’t specify a decade, which was in the challenge prompt. The inspo pic you provided shows looks from a lot of different years, and they vary, so I would’ve liked to know which decade you were trying to emulate. Otherwise, I really enjoy this look, it’s a nice twist that I didn’t expect from you!
Miz Erie: Miz, you had some great ideas for this challenge, but the execution of each look fell a little short. Your first look is cute. A bit basic, but cute. The hair i really like, I could very much see someone in an early 2000s movie with this hair. Lots of denim was definitely a trend in the early 2000s, and I’m glad you brought that. What was not a trend in the early 2000s was big top little bottoms. That’s a more recent trend. Even putting that aside, I still don’t love the tiny skirt with the giant jacket. I really want some baggy pants to balance the look more. The recoloring on the skirt is really nice, it matches the jacket without blending in. I also like the recoloring of the shoes, they feel very early 2000s and pull in the pink from the top and thong. The mug is really nice too, these lips are perfect for this look are totally give early 2000s frosted lips. I am assuming you went for an early 2000s look though because you did not specify that, which was in the challenge prompt. For your second look, I’m very happy that you specified that this was showgirl look and not a flapper look, and provided some reference pics. The top, bottom and shoes look good together and definitely give 1920s showgirl. I get what you were trying to do with the headpiece when looking at your reference photos, but I don’t feel like it works. It doesn’t look fun or sparkly like the one in the photo do, and the harsh spikes bring down the playfulness in the rest the outfit. The Eyevie or So Raven wig would have matched the reference pics more and fit the rest of the outfit better. Part of my dislike for the headpiece may be because of the mug. She’s supposed to be a showgirl, but she looks so depressed, its making me sad. I just don’t understand why you went for such a sad face. For the rest of the outfit, while the top and bottom match colors and look good together in that regard, the nakedness of the top against the bottom doesn’t fully work for me. The skirt is a little slutty with the leg sticking out, but its waist is solid. She either needs to be wearing less clothes or more clothes. The shoes work really well, they’re subtle but the gold details are a nice touch. The idea is nice, but these issues bring the whole look down. Your third look is the best, but theres still some issues with it. I love the idea behind your 1850s look, and parts of it are really beautiful, but the execution fell short in a few ways. The combination of the top and dress is really nice, they come together to make a cohesive dress perfectly. There’s a slight editing issue with the wig though. On the left shoulder, one strand of hair is all choppy. The hanging bow ribbons are also choppy around the edges. I like that you changed the earrings on this wig, but they’re not actually connected to the ears. They’re just floating in the wig. The recoloring and editing on the dress is perfect, but I have a few other issues with it. The darkness in the middle looks unflattering, especially when the bust has that same pattern, but lighter. The gradient on the skirt should have been reversed. While the pattern is very pretty, its a lot to have it all over. If the bust was solid, it would make the dress less busy, and make the patterning stand out more. The pattern on the bows especially doesn’t help with the busyness; the pattern is too small on them to really be effective so they just look blurry and weird. Another issue I have with this look is that the wig doesn’t work for this dress. I know the top and wig are part of a set (which I don’t love that you used them together), but the simplicity of the wig and the fact that its hanging down doesn’t work with the fullness of the dress. An updo would’ve worked better, and been more accurate for the time period. The idea was really great, and the execution was almost there, but these issues make the look feel unfinished, and the same goes for the other two looks as well.
Absynthe, your simple looks really wowed me. You are safe. You used the Golden Fig on yourself, but since you are high/safe, it has no effect.
Liz, challenge after challenge, you just keep amazing me. Condragulations, you are the winner of this challenge!
B*tch, you are safe.
Raven, your 1800s look was stunning, but the other two were not. I’m sorry my love but you are up for elimination.
Miz Erie, your ideas were great, but your execution was not. You… are safe.
That means, Mistress Anna Conda, I’m sorry my love but you are up for elimination. Now, it is time for you and Raven to looksync for your life!
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2024.05.16 22:58 Adorable_Raccoon Female Rage: The Musical, Thoughts

Taylor is co-opting the phrase "female rage" and white-washing it of meaning. I felt a weird twinge that something wasn't right when she made the joke in Paris. Now that other people have written about it makes sense sense to me. And it wasn't just a joke her team applied for a copyright on the phrase "female rage: the musical."
Female rage media are stories about women fighting back against patriarchal or racial subjugation, killing their abusers and abandoning traditional femininity. It's a movement about women becoming enraged under the pressures of society. Because it is only safe for people who are oppressed and marginalized to fight back in fiction.
The phrase "Female rage" is not cute slogan about being angry at a bad exboyfriend. TTPD is mostly about a break up and they're not even mostly angry songs. Taylors feminism will always be a billionaire selling the idea of liberal feminism with the intent to make more billions. And even if her rage was about the patriarchal music industry and the selling of her masters. She is still centering her money and not the inequities of being women and the harms that they suffer.
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2024.05.16 22:50 The_Fearles_Toothles What should I do? How do I approach her without feeling awkward or weird? Is it still possible to text her?

Hi all, so I'm gonna make this quick. I sort of/partially have feelings for this person. Partially because 1. We've never actually had a decent conversation 2. Im not sure about my feelings either The reason I show interest in this person is because how she treated me. At first I viewed her as in just like everybody normal, in my college there's a lot of pretty girls here and there but I'd say she's cute. So my first interaction with her was because my friend wanted data for a physics experiment, I was in the same class with her and basically I was hesitant and I didn't wanna do it but due to his constant begging, I'm like ok it won't hurt I guess. I didn't wanna do it because I don't wanna talk to girls, last time I talk to one it didn't end well. I never dated, she was just an acquaintance I'd say (past), somehow I'd say something dumb and got pissed off, called me a piece of shit and blocked on wa. This happened twice (this girl and another girl) but I won't go too much in details, in short I was young and basically the way I talk was not respectful. Now I'm more mature but I'm still careful with my words, this all happens in text btw. So yeah I digressed, pretty much intimidated by this girl, grew the guts, went up n talk to her. I asked her for the data and she said yes, kinda thought she was gonna be rude abt it but she was surprisingly really nice, she sent it via phone number n yea I to this day still have her phone number.
My next encounter with her was basically me and my friend (the guy who ask me for the data) were at a university, for like course briefing cuz I wanna take computer science. Somehow she was also in this lecture but with friends?? I didn't think too much nor do I bother much. But surprisingly, she said hi and ask for my name. It took me by surprise to be honest, I've never been great with being social, I've always been alone and invisible towards ppl, by the time I reached to college I completely abandoned my past, so I have no contacts with past highschool mates. The thought of this kinda just took me by surprise that's all. We didn't talk, I should have tried to initiate too, because I could have had the chance to meet new ppl and her friends, but I was very anti social and like I said I only cared about myself, I came from a dark past, so basically I have 0 social skills.
After the briefing, I encountered her again, it was during an English test. Time's up, paper done, I packed my bag and started to leave but she surprisingly approached me again. She was just asking about the paper, like how is this done, this and that. On my way back, I started to see her differently.
Last encounter, not physical, through chat, I was sicked and admitted to the hospital. She was the only person who I knew had the same classes for phys and eng, also I have her hp. I texted her, saying what did I miss, she was very kind about it to provide info. At the moment, I kinda show interest, well is not love at first sight bullshit but just interested, I wanted to know her better.
Present day, it's been few months since we chat, the thought of her kinda graze my mind every now and then. Biggest mistake I made was I should have initiated the conversation more like what do you plan on studying or where course you taking in uni, I thought I could get her to talk to me but I was really shy to converse with her knowing how much I suck at talking to ppl. I only realised this mistake when the new sem started, I should have just ask her out actually, I think she also lived near me according to a conversation I hear with the lecturer and her. Basically, I fucked up. I'm in the same class with her in English only this year, which in itself is lucky considering there's 31 classes and I got to be in that one class with her. But she had a fair share of friends and I couldn't approach her.
Ok, I'm just gonna talk about her abit. The reason I find her hard to approach is because she had a lot of friends, I don't assume I know, I've seen her alot with her friends and basically there was no room for me to interact. I feel like it be too creepy to suddenly text her now, plus I always see with her best friend? So I feel like she's the type of person who doesn't wanna be in a relationship, I don't even know if she has bf or not. I know nothing about her, and trying to know her now would seem to odd and bad timing. Idk about you guys but I feel like she would be creeped out, cuz l'm like a loner in class and also think is just impossible to text her. I won't be seeing her as the semester ends, but is finals so that's the time I see her but again I'd probably won't talk to her cuz again she has a lot of friends so she probably entertain them instead of a loner like me, plus I don't wanna stand out in front multiple people. I was thinking of maybe ask to study together? But two of us is just really weird.. I find it weird too
So what would you guys do in my position? I think is kinda pointless to ask since yk I had the chance I blew it, it took me months to realise I should have initiated the conversation, it doesn't matter if we're dating or not, I just wanna know her and be friends with her, I found myself in a serious of friendship desperation 💀 compared to last year. Feel free to inquire more questions about my situation. Like to see how you guys would go about it, I know I'd said I keep it short but hey wth, might as well go full story mode
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2024.05.16 22:31 BroccoliPotatoToday How do I talk about this with a new potential partner?

I will summarize the story the best I can cuz telling stories isn’t my strength.
Three weeks ago a friend of my roommate stayed over in our apartment while my roommate was on a trip, this guy came to celebrate the holidays in the country we live and my roommate said he could stay for the weekend in his room. (for context; this is a normal arrangement that we have where our friends often will stay over with us instead of paying for a hotel)
So I (24 F) was hosting this guy, let's call him Broccoli (30 M), whom my roommate told him to don’t talk to me or bother me because I was very reserved lol, but from the very beginning when he texted about his landing I was replying with silly jokes so he wouldn’t feel awkward being in a stranger house, I did not had much info about him or did he about me. First night here we had a conversation about life, career, and other personal stuff, by the second night we barely talked or saw each other because during the day he was celebrating the holidays and I was working, three Doritos later, or aka third night, we already had a first date with dinner, coffee, arcade, cocktails and kinda end up having sex, kinda because he made me and himself so physically exhausted with all that crazy adventure around the city, from the moment we had coffee I tried to take us home but he wanted to make a big impression I guess, which I find cute.
Since then he has gone back to the country where he lives and works (Idk if it is relevant to the story, but in case is confusing to someone, none of the people mentioned in this story including myself, are originally from the countries where we currently live, European union stuff I guess) and currently, we are E-Dating and I do want to know where this goes since we did a nice match and he shows how interest he is in me, he told me he wants me to come to visit him in the end of the summer and even said he will pay for the tickets after I told him I don’t think I have money for that since I already have few trips scheduled, like for example I will be going to US to visit my family in July so I will be gone from Europe 4 weeks and with a heavy time difference which means we will barely even speak in that period, so he already bought tickets to visit me before I leave for US so we can spend time together, which is crazy because I even said that we will not have any sex because my roommate will be home, I will have my period and I am just too uncomfortable/in pain for that, that I will not have days off because I am just coming from a vacation so we only will have by time before or after work and he still did not hesitate to buy them.
So here comes the issue, I don’t know how to bring up this aspect of my life to him, I want to be honest with him and usually goes more smoothly because I get to meet the person for a few months before bringing it up, but since he is doing a lot of money investment in me so the ideal will be from the moment he comes to ask what are his expectations from me, from us, like I can have a monogamous relationship, I did in the past, but we probably will be E-dating for a while before anything, so I don’t know till what point I can compromise or settle without feeling that I am hiding something from him of who I am as a person. Originally during the dates Broccoli is coming, I was going to have a different friend over to have sex because my roommate was going to be on holidays, and I cancelled to prioritize Broccoli but also before meeting Broccoli in a few weeks, I already have a weekend trip scheduled to the mediterranean which he knows of because I said I was visiting friends, what he doesn’t know is those friends are a guy I used to date and his new partner that they invite me to celebrate with them that they got a new apartment, a threesome basically, which I already planned and paid for the tickets before even knowing Broccoli existed, and is kinda weird because I don’t want and I will not cancel this arrangement because tickets are bought and Broccoli is not even my boyfriend, which means I don’t feel the need to give explicit details about me going on a weekend trip to another country to have a threesome, but I do feel the need of being honest about my sexually active life. And also I am of course assuming Broccoli is monogamous, and this is because when we had sex that night he did not want to use a condom because he wasn’t able to feel anything he said, which I told him I am not doing raw sex and his answer then was “that’s not an issue if we are exclusive” YIKES like this is his red flag so far, my last thought in that moment was STI, I was concern about pregnancy because the only thing stopping me from it are condoms, and I am not looking forward to hormone myself with pills since my body is fine, and even though I am sexually active I never had to drink a day after pill and have never done a pregnancy test in my life because It was never a need, I did not want to start now because of this guy that I just met, I still want to give him a chance, assuming we can figure something out with the condoms, but is like oh my god you don’t want to use condoms you don’t even know what I have we just meet each other (I don’t have anything and I did not say that out loud either but those are my current thoughts when reflecting about he not being worry enough about condoms, was of course also a weird moment to bring up like well you are not my first roommate’s friend that I sleep with)
In conclusion, how should I approach him when he comes, to talk about what are his relationship expectations with me since we live in different countries for now and how to bring up that my past and present active life have being very much like this story.
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2024.05.16 22:21 Cakesandb4kes Someone selling stories on Inga and Guy?

Article: https://heatworld.com/entertainment/made-in-chelsea/inga-valentiner-guy-connolly/
Title: Wait, is Inga Valentiner dating Made in Chelsea co-star’s ex?
It looks as though Yas's ex and Sam's ex have struck a potential new romance and it's giving major teen drama energy. Think Gossip Girl meets The O.C - wait, is that showing our age? How about Elite meets Outer Banks?
Inga recently appeared on the Instagram story of Guy Connolly. You know, Guy Connolly, the chap Yas dated back in the Spring of 2023 when she was flirting it up a storm with Miles Nazaire, WAY before snogging Sam Prince came on the scene.
Inga bowed out of MIC when things started to become serious between Sam and Yas and although she never confirmed she had quit she has been noticeably absent for the past series. Turns out she's enjoying some beach time with Guy. See? Outer Banks energy. Sharing a video on his Instagram story, Inga was playing with a cute little doggo on the beach and filming said furry creature as Guy filmed the interaction.
Guy's social media is private atm so unless you're one of his 1800 followers you won't be able to catch their day out at the beach but trust us it is giving major date vibes complete with a gorge sunset and giggles from Inga. Romance or not, we definitely ship this duo.
The last paragraph gave it away that someone sent Heat World the video/story. If Guy wanted everyone to know that he’s spending time with Inga his profile would’ve been public for everyone to see
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2024.05.16 22:20 Fire_Breather178 Cheeni Kum(2007) - A Rom-Com not talked about enough

Cheeni Kum(2007) - A Rom-Com not talked about enough
I had a DVD of this film as a kid, but never understood much of it, rewatched it today after many years and needless to say I loved this film (especially the first half). Also probably one of the best first 25 minutes of a Bollywood film. Everything was going perfectly till Paresh Rawal came to screen, no hate for him but I just hate these sort of characters (post retirement uncles commenting on everything and classic emotional blackmailing by Indian parents). Although I understand that his character was necessary, the vibe of the movie was just ruined for me (it became "preachy").
The chemistry between Sexy and Ghaspoos was so refreshing and cute, and the casting for both the leads was PERFECT. The rom-com part of the story is the best I have seen in Bollywood. And also great songs, with the title track being one of Shreya Ghoshal's best. Easy 8/10
P.S. Tabu is so 😭😭😭
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2024.05.16 22:11 OfficialFazzy [M4F] Hazbin Hotel - Lucifer & Lilith long term rp

(Not replacing any current partners! ♥️)
Hello! I’m Mono, and I’m 21M. I’m currently looking for another partner to play out my favorite plot of Hazbin Hotel! Before I get into the details, I want to get past the requirements you must meet.
You must:
Story:
It’s very simple rather. The roleplay will begin with the story of Lucifer and Lilith first meeting and falling in love in Eden. I got inspired by some fan videos by how they first met and would like to play them out since they’re so darn good! Once we meet on discord I can show you what we can play out on those ideas. Back to the story, we spend some time in Eden and then play out their story. This means the fall to Hell, when Lilith thrived, and then normal but cute, spicy married couple things. Eventually Lilith falls pregnant with Charlie, and Lucifer takes care of her, and they both take a break from being rulers to focus on her health and make sure their heir is born safely. Then from then on we focus on the Morningstar family dynamic!
Anyways I think that’s it! Please meet the requirements and don’t be afraid to reach out!
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2024.05.16 22:05 useRr1355 I can't help it

I look at you from across the room
Instantly feel the urge to talk to you
One more thing I'm thinking about
Why am I not sitting next to you?
I'm so jealous of that blonde girl,
Cute blue dress with white ribbons.
I can't help it, I feel this way deeply.
Though I should be grateful, not angry.
I get to live in the same town
get to call you ever since lockdown
get to see the same purple sky
As you, every single cold night.
I think I might just die.
You're literally a rockstar
Carrying around your guitar
And when you start playing
I immediately start shaking
Shivers running down my spine
I can't believe it, this is real life!
I can't help it I'm taking pictures
I can't help it I'm shouting curse words
I can't help it if you're like this
You're unbelievable, actually...
I love the way your curly hair looks
It's giving 1950s yearbooks
Imagine if we had lived then
It all would have been so weird
No social media to stalk you No close friends story to post to which you'd react and call. Not knowing I only let YOU see it all.
All the shit you've been put through, I wanna kill the people who've hurt you I'll literally fight them one by one Then hide their bodies in my backyard And don't worry the cops won't find me or if they do it will still be worth it
I can tell you this one thing for sure I won't let you cry for no more I don't want any tears running down On your cheeks, through your dimples. (Unless of course they're happy tears)
Everytime I write in my journal I can't help but feel fortunate To write down your name Because Girl you never fail to amaze me!
School bells ring, classes end I go up to you and you pull me in. We say goodbye, see you next week The weekend's here, oh how great! It of course makes me happy. But I can't help overthinking. Did I do something wrong? What if my spell comes off? I've only used it a few times before.
You always put a smile on my face I love how you smell and the roses in your hair. The adorable way you laugh, While I tell you my, silly poems. Gosh, I love hanging out with you, I know, you'll shine eternally!
You always make me feel great Because you're just so amazing Why are you so nice to me? Like actually, why do I deserve this? I think I don't, not at all I feel now, that it will come to end.
Until then, I want you to know I love you wholeheartedly, And will forever do! There is just, no one quite like you! C. This is for you.
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2024.05.16 22:04 These_Decision_4705 I did it with my step cus IK that is sounds bad but plz hear me out

Hey guys I have a crazy story. Last night while I was at my family's vacation house my super cute step cousin came into my bed. We always flirted but never thought of this. We went from 1:00AM until 4:00 AM and it got really intimate. We actually orgasmed at the same time because we timed it. We also wanted to have me bust inside her. Looking back on it I don't know what I was thinking.
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2024.05.16 21:41 useRr1355 I can't help it

I look at you from across the room, Instantly feel the urge to talk to you. One more thing I'm thinking about, Why am I not sitting next to you? I'm so jealous of that blonde girl, Cute blue dress with white ribbons.
I can't help it, I feel this way deeply, I know I should be grateful, not angry. I get to live in the same town, get to call you ever since lockdown, get to see the same purple sky As you, every single cold night.
You're literally a rockstar, Carrying around your guitar. And when you start playing, I immediately start shaking. Shivers running down my spine, I can't believe it, this is real life!
I can't help it I'm taking pictures, I can't help it I'm screaming every word, I can't help it if you're like this, You're unbelievable, actually...
I love the way your curly hair looks, It's giving 1950s yearbooks. Imagine if we had lived then, Would have we still met? No social media to stalk you, No close friends story I could post To which you'd react and call, Not knowing I only let YOU, see it all.
All the bad you've been put through, I wanna hit the people who've hurt you. I'll literally fight them one by one, Then hide their stuff in my backyard. And don't worry the cops won't find me or if they do, it will still be worth it.
I can tell you this one thing for sure, I won't let you cry for no more. I don't want any tears running down, On your cheeks, through your dimples. (Unless of course they're happy tears)
Everytime I write in my journal, I can't help but feel fortunate To write down your name, 'cuz Girl, you never fail to amaze me!
School bells ring, classes end, I go up to you and you pull me in. We say goodbye, see you next week, The weekend's here, oh how great! It of course makes me happy. But I can't help overthinking. Did I do something wrong? What if my spell comes off? Which I've only used a few times before, When I wanted to make you call.
You always put a smile on my face, I love how you smell and the roses in you hair. The adorable way you laugh, Whild I tell you my silly poems. Gosh, I love hanging out with you! I know you'll shine eternally.
You always make me feel great, Because you're just so amazing. Why are you so nice to me? Like actually, why do I deserve this? I don't, not at all, I know that, It unfortunately might soon end...
Until then, I want you to know, I love you with all my heart, I will forever and ever do, Because I've never seen anyone like you.
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2024.05.16 21:40 Swimming-Rush-1740 My two lovebirds escaped yesterday :(

Their wings were not clipped. I quickly realizing they’re not inside house and just ….? I don’t think I’ve really processed the fact that they’re gone. I’m just numb. Tears do start streaming down my face when I look at their pictures, but I am not feeling anything.
Anyway, I don’t know why but I just don’t see anything working to get them back. Like they can fly very well, who’s to say they’re somewhere around (we went to check). Even if they were, how will we ever catch them? They were not 100% domesticated so they will fly away if you try.
Reading stories in this subreddit that their escaped lovebird was found a day after, 1 week after or even 8 months (?) is just .. I just don’t understand how that’s even possible to be so lucky.
Any advice on like what to do? Like how do I navigate this whole thing? How did you deal with the pain of losing two dear pets that improved my life immensely the last four years and made me happy every fucking time I would see them. I was truly obsessed. I would constantly stop whatever I’m doing just take a moment and look at them. They were soooooo cute and funny.
Any advice on how to approach this situation? Keep looking for them even though it just feels so delusional? Online I did share pictures of my birds. How do I deal with the idea that they probably won’t survive the wild, and that it was my fault that their life is cut short? Any other stuff that I should take into account? :(
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2024.05.16 21:39 discountedgarbo is it wrong to feel vexed?

okay so basically I was dating this girl a couple months back, we’d been friends for a few years, admitted to liking each other, and then started going out. (rookie mistake ik)
we ended up calling it quits a few months later bc she had a tendency to be jealous over my friends and I don’t fw that for obvious reasons. especially since I was spending equal time with everyone and making sure I could take care of my relationship on top of my friendships. my best friends mean the world to me and those two have been there with me through everything, I’m not giving them up. I was, as far as I’m concerned, doing the right thing in that regard.
we agreed we worked better friends and broke up but a few weeks later she gets this boyfriend (she’s bi, which never bothered me and still doesn’t). but she’s posting him EVERYWHERE and she never posted me anywhere. I was only ever on her private snap story a handful of times. but she’s posting this guy daily and the vacation they took (despite only being together for a couple months) as well as all this other corny couple stuff they’re doing. she likes corny, I get that, but anytime I’d suggest something similar she was never interested (like picnics and cute arcade dates and that stuff).
it feels stupid to be upset over it especially since the breakup was mutual and it’s been a few months but I can’t help but feel upset and kind of used bc of it. :/ anybody else been here? any advice for getting out of it?
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2024.05.16 21:30 New-Wing-7444 Do I get a second cat?

I have a sweet, affectionate and playful 5 yr old gray Korat mix (a dust kitty, if you will), and I’m wondering if it’s too late to introduce another younger cat into the mix? For context: he has been the only animal in the house for 2 years, but prior to that he has lived with dogs and another cat. He also came from a shelter and a foster home where he presumably interacted with other animals then. He’s not crazy about dogs, but depending on the dog he is either avoidant or indifferent. When my old roommate Introduced a female kitten into the house (which already had the dog), the two took a few weeks to warm up and eventually got along so well. They would snuggle in bed and play/wrestle and it seemed like my boy would teach her the ropes of being a cat. My boy was about 3 at the time. It was cute, and I sometimes feel like he misses that. He is super playful like i mentioned, and I’m not home all the time to constantly stimulate him. He meows constantly if I don’t let him on our enclosed porch to birdwatch which I can’t always do when I’m not home for hours. I want to get another cat but I’m hesitant being that he seems to be comfortable being the only animal in certain ways (doesn’t have to inhale his food before someone else gets it)
Sorry this is so long! I guess I’m looking for some input or advice or success stories of introducing an adult cat to a younger kitty and if getting a male or female would be better. Thank you!! 🐈‍⬛
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2024.05.16 21:27 MirimeKisarrastine Sedi, vidi, cogitavi - a.k.a. I sat down, watched S3 pt. 1 and have some thoughts

It was underwhelming. I did a good job of avoiding most spoilers, didn't watch any promos and such, and what I was spoiled on was, as usual, out of context. It still didn't help. The overall feeling right now is "meh". There were parts I liked and parts I didn't.
Daphne got mentioned a few times, mostly in the context of having been the first diamond or having a loving and passionate marriage. It's very little but it's not like I really expected more.
Edwina apparently made a great match abroad which is enough to keep my Fredwina hopes up.
Hyacinth was a delight in each and every one of her scenes.
Francesca was also interesting to watch. That scene when John calls on her was so cute. And that music sheet move at the end? Be still, my heart.
Every time I saw Cressida, I half-expected her to announce this year's tributes for Hunger Games.
Eloise was kind of meandering throughout the story without much to do.
The Mondrich's storyline looks like it could go interesting places.
Violet's subplot barely started, we shall see how part 2 handles it.
Benedict is similar to Eloise in meandering through the story without much to do.
Colin and Penelope aren't doing it for me. Their romance felt rushed and underdeveloped, both too little and too much at the same time.
Maybe part 2 will improve on things, give a fuller context to the hanging plot threads. For now, I feel no burning desire to watch again.
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2024.05.16 21:24 desperate_virg I lost my only real friend today :(

I knew him for 13 years. 13 years and now hes gone.
I'm gonna be cringe on main i dont care but my heart is shattered today and my soul is heavy. me and my best friend (gonna call him Ted) have been through everything together we've know each other since primary school and im turning 21 this year.
I remember sitting by the pond with the tag poles in i remember us playing with our teddy cat and dog and making them go through all sorts of drama, we loved a bit of drama. I always found it hard in school to make friends I was always a floater and I still am now, making friends are hard. i dont think the autism helps, i dont really fit in anywhere but i felt like i did with him.
we lost touch for a year or two after primary but due to an unfortunate event we got back in touch i wish the reason we reconnected was different but i wont get into that. we became so close we we're inseparable we would draw together we would tag each other in dumb little drawing about our characters or of each other we would call on discord almost every night. he had so many stresses in his life growing up, i wish i couldve taken that all away.
we are both very mentally ill. we both stopped each other from hurting ourselfs im gonna be honest we grew an unhealthy attachment from one another i know he didnt like being away from me and sometimes when i was in college (my college was in a different town) i would have panic attacks because i was too far away from him and was scared he was gonna hurt himself and i couldnt stop him. we were there for each other though through thick and thin but everyone has a limit eventually.
Ted first took a break from me when i was having a psychotic episode and was talking gibberish and he though id hurt myself, at the time he didnt know i was psychotic and Ted had a big stress in his life at the time, a huge one. I'm not gonna get into what his stress was but it was relating to his dad so i see now why he wanted space from me but at the time i was heartbroke i was already psychotic so it mad it worse. but after we both calmed down we reconnected and it was like nothing new.
Ted introduced me to his friend (gonna call him ed) and us three became very close :)
fast forward to 2020 I have my first proper job in a local bar and through my coworker i meet the most beautiful person to walk this earth. our cute meet and story up to eventual relationship is a story for someplace else but I'm lucky to be dating them now however, this did cause some issue.
my other half met Ted and they got on ! YES LETS GO !! however, my other half says gypsy and Ted thinks its a slur. (please dont aruge about that idc) Also my other half didnt use to boycott mcdonalds and my friend didnt like that. PLEASE NOTE since then my partner has boycotted them but Ted didnt know that so he told Ed that my partner doesnt boycott. we had an argument, Ted had an episode and he was mean, after he said he needed space to get better so i gave him that and we started talking again after a while.
But now Ed feels uncomfrotable around me and he told me his parents were getting suspicious of him having online friends so he cant talk to me anymore, so i didnt message. fast forward to now im getting confused because i ask ted how ed is doing and ted says hes going good... but i thought ed wasnt allowed online friends so how do u know?
ted admitted that Ed just didnt want to talk to me because he was uncomfortable with me not because of his parents. wow thanks Ed good to know you care that much, oh well we were drifting anyway.
Why would Ted go behind my back and talk about me i didnt think hed do that although i didnt think he would say mean things during his episode but he did but i forgave him for that but part of me cant forgive him for this i dont know why
maybe because of how i was treated by my step dad or treated at school or treated online but Ted causing a friend to leave me felt like a different sort of hurt. But apart from him and my partner there is no one that close with me. I have friends who i drink with do drugs with but after that they dont really want much to do with me and my other friends are in uni who dont really have time to talk to me which i understand so without Ted i have my partner and their friends. how sad.
I told him i need space indefinitely i dont wanna lose this friendship but i feel i already have. im gonna miss him.
here is sit now stoned as i write this,I know it was my doing i said i wanted space because I do I started my message with "idk if we should be friends" i was the one who did this because it just hurts being around him i dont know why
TLTR: I no longer friends with my friend of 13 years
edit: im sitting here eyes red and watery and i see his gamer tag pop up, hes playing video games while im sitting here a mess
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2024.05.16 21:23 tattertottz Why is my (25M) boyfriend (25M) so adamant about me posting him on social media?

This is something that's really starting to piss me off. I already have a very passive social media presence - my facebook timeline is only things that other people have tagged me in, and I very rarely post stories on Instagram/Snapchat. Last time was probably a month or two ago? And they weren't even about people, usually a funny meme or something. I've posted him on Snapchat a couple times, only because he told me he wanted me to. All of my friends know about him, and I've brought him around the family several times too (even though I haven't told them we're in a committed relationship yet, but they all pretty much know based on what I've heard). I'm not embarrassed of him, and I don't mind when he posts me on his, but posting my life and business online just has never been my thing; I'm just naturally reserved and private, and I'd say I'm just a lurker, somebody who likes to see what the people I've met in life are up to. He'll scroll on Instagram and tell me "how cute it is to see all these gay men posting about their SO's" and how "he wants that." I literally just have no desire to post not just him, but anything online. And as I type this out, I'm starting to feel huge resentment for him for caring so much about something that's just so artificial and ridiculous to me. As if being an active poster on social media is some sort of "requirement" for our relationship or for him to feel satisfied in his relationship. I've told my therapist how I feel about this, and she says that different people have different feelings on social media, and she always reassures me after our sessions but it still bothers me when he passively implies that I'm somehow "wrong" for not wanting to post my business for the whole internet to see. Am I supposed to compromise on this and just do it? I genuinely don't want my business online. At this point I've considered just deactivating it so it'll shut him up.
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2024.05.16 21:08 dpceee I finished Pikmin 4 and I think it might be the best game in the series.

I probably could write a long review, but I will try to avoid doing so.
Overall, I don't think Pikmin 4 is perfect, and in some ways, I think it was a step down from Pikmin 3, the game itself was really great.
Losing the ability to throw captains hurt, losing the third captain limited multitasking. Oatchi was something that I was expecting not to like so much, and I ended up loving him, even if he has some flaws. (I fell for the fake rumor that the game was going to feature 4 captains, so I was thinking that 4 captains and a dog is too much.) I really was not a fan of having a custom captain. I much prefer games where I am playing as some character that is not designed as a self-insert. I like Olimar and Louie for that reason. They might not be very deep characters, but they are characters.
I did not like how this game handled getting items. I loved the fanfare for every item in the previous games. In Pikmin 1, it was for the parts, in 2, it was to see the ship react, but I loved spinning the items around as a kid. It made the treasurers feel like cool. I understand why they would have decided not to do it.
OATCHI: To go into the Oatchi topic, I think that he was super cool. I really liked how he was both a unit and a captain. I like how he also played differently than our main captain. He is definitely way to powerful. I often ended sending him in instead of the pikmin because he is. I don't think I liked the lack of pikmin control, because it was based around them all clinging to him.
PIKMIN: The new pikmin types were cool. Glow pikmin and their night segments were super cool. I really like the static defense sections, and I would like to see them expand upon it. I like that they teleport back to the captain, but I don't like that they teleport to Oatchi, since he's often better on his own. The glow pikmin replaced the Bulmin, which is somewhat sad. I found myself only using them in caves for the candy pops, except for the Engulfed Castle (which I am disappointed that the image spoiled what hid in there). Ice pikmin felt a little strong with their freeze stuns, but they were fine. The White and Purple pikmin finally get onions, which is nice, but I only had the onion for the final item, so it was not so much of a boon for me. It felt weird, still. I like the change that ever type of pikmin can dig for hidden items.
CONTROLS: I was not a fan of the auto-lock. It had a tendency make things harder more than it helping. It was really annoying to flip through things to get to what I wanted. I am torn on the new camera angle. I like how it gets up and close, but it makes the game feel less strategic. I think that is why I liked Pikmin 3 on the Wii U a lot was because of the gamepad. When I played Deluxe, I could not help but feel that the something was missing the whole time.
BONUS: They basically remade Pikmin 1 as a bonus game in the post-game. How cool is that?
Overall, I really like the Pikmin games. I started on 2 when I was a kid. I still have my 200+ day (also not complete) game file. My goal was to just chill and grow pikmin then. The caves scared me. I've always liked how pikmin games can be kind of scary sometimes. Regardless, I liked 4 a lot because it returned to the structure of 2, so perhaps I am biased. I always felt like I was missing the caves in 3.
TLDR: Pikmin 4 is good.
EDIT: I forgot to actually say what I liked. (from my comment) "I might have lost that point as I was writing (probably because I had no thoughout plan). I loved the limited squad size. The overworld maps were great. I loved the rest area, Oatchi was super cute and I loved him by the end. I liked the dandori challenges. I liked the story. The nighttime mode was a huge surprise for me, and some of those defenses were tense. I love how the game echoed Pikmin 2 by design and how we essentially got a remake of Pikmin 1 as bonus content. Some of the new enemies were great, especially the HUGE ones. I liked big boy bulborbs and the sovereign bublax was so crazy when I first saw it.
I liked that there were some parts of the game that made me feel scared, actually too. Pikmin is a cutesy game, but there are some horror elements hidden within it."
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2024.05.16 21:04 Bro2016 Rescued Feral Kitten 8 months ago still hisses Need Advise

Hi Reddit,
Long story short, my ex and I rescued a kitten and have had a hard time getting him to trust me. He is obsessed with my resident cat who is turning 2 next month and follows him, cuddles, plays, and copy’s everything he does. The bond between them two is adorable. In the begging, Ra (feral kitten) was very defensive and we continued to work with him. Fast forward a few months he started letting us pet him only when he is tired or half asleep. His tail wiggles a lot when I pet him. I noticed he formed a greater bond with my ex. He is very talkative and talks to her a lot when she talks to him. It’s pretty cute! However, I’ve been trying to approach him with calm energy but I noticed he is still very skiddish around me compared to my ex.
I’m really trying to form a bond because my ex is moving out next month and my ex can’t take him because we can not separate my cat with hers. They really have a loving bond and it’s cute.
I need advise because I want him to trust me and I’m following my ex’s advise on how to work with him but it’s not working. Given that she is moving out next month I’m really worried how he will act when it’s just me. I’m hoping he forms a bond with me because it will be me and my boy Tesla (resident cat).
Looking forward to any advise :)
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2024.05.16 21:01 pocket-monsterrr Anyone else get overly attached to their starter home?

(Not sure whether to tag this as storytime or discussion, sorry!)
For context: This is the first time I've really gotten invested in a Sims save file, and my first time playing without cheats. My two sims are just me and my husband lol. This is also the first time I've picked up the game since 2021.
I started out in the "Crick Cabana" in Willow Creek as many do. I had played in this house a couple times before and kind of dreaded it. Cheap appliances, ugly and uncomfortable furniture, claustrophobic rooms, you know the deal. I was slowly upgrading and changing things as I went along but I had fully intended to upgrade houses and start a family once I had saved up enough money.
Well fast forward to where I am now... my Sims are practically rich and getting even richer by the day. My self-insert is currently expecting her first child 🎉 and it would probably be a good idea to move into a bigger house, but I just can't bring myself to do it even though I can afford it now. 😭 I've grown to love that little house. Though quaint, it has come a long way from the shoddy thing it used to be. I even built a cute little gazebo for my Sim to do her paintings on.
I took a quick look at all the other houses in Willow Creek and they're either just plain ugly or don't feel "homey" at all; they're much too fancy for my personal taste, even despite my Sims being wealthy. I hate how empty the houses feel. And I know, I know, that's a very solvable issue... but I don't feel like solving it right now. 😂 Maybe later. My favorite thing about my house is how cozy it feels, it makes excellent use of the space it has. I know it's just a game, but it does feel like home.
So I think I have two major options:
  1. Make major renovations to the house. In other words, finally expand the home and add a second story. The lot itself is kind of cramped but I think I could make due. I probably wouldn't be able to have any luxuries like a pool or any other large furnishings unless I make a basement. The house might still get cramped as I eventually have more children, but I could always add a third story.
  2. Move into my least-hated house and adjust it my liking as I go along. I could still check out Oasis Springs and Brindleton Bay, but I don't prefer those places. Instantly have way more room and avoid the hassle of trying to build a decent, functional house on a tiny lot... but I would miss my home. I could actually have a yard, and I would love to eventually adopt a dog. (Which I feel I wouldn't have the outdoor space after renovation.)
I know I am MAJORLY overthinking this, but I can't help it. 😅 I do have fun.
I really wish there was a way to effectively own two houses. (And if there is I do not know of it lol.)
Does anyone else love their starter home this much? And did you decide to move?
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2024.05.16 20:58 Birdie1243 Accidentally Sleeping with the ML trope

I wondered if anyone had recommendations for a FL accidentally spending the night with the og!ML of the story they were reincarnated into, or if they accidentally sleep with the EmperoPrince (if it's not a reincarnation story).
Some stories I've already read with this trope:
I would prefer stories like the ones above where the ML wants them to get married or wants to be in a relationship with the FL after their first night.
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2024.05.16 20:50 pienotacake What makes you watch a vtuber ?

Hey everyone ! I've been wondering these past few days especially since I became a vtuber myself, what really makes people watch your content, is it because of your model or because you're entertaining or because your personality is likeable, or all the three ? I mean surely like every content creator there must be something that makes people stay but I've seen the vtuber community blooming and growing so fast that I couldn't quite catch up on everything.
I personally entered it before because it looked intriguing and also interesting. I mean I'm a lot into mangas / animes and cute things plus content creators so when I discovered it, I was the happiest ! What about you guys ? What is your story ?
I'm sorry this is a bit of a wide topic but I'm really curious to see everyone's different answers ! <3
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2024.05.16 20:42 WrongRun4764 Groomsman dress being destroyed?!

It’s been a long time I wanted to submit this story to the Potato Queen herself!
It’s a long story, actually it’s two stories in one, because as it involves the same person over more than decade long, it’s worth telling the whole story all at once (and it makes it may more fun too!). I decided to share it because it’s the kind of story that doesn’t seem to happen very often.
Below you will find goodies about an ex, a wedding, a dress, a delivery company and more! Please simply be mindful English is not my first language, trying my best to entertain you all the same.
This story goes back a long way, when (let’s name him) Frank (M) and myself (F) were both in college (both 17 at the time, we’re now 33), young and naive teenagers. We started as friends and eventually decided to be together. We then decided to move to another city together, as I was about to start university.
It went well for a while and then started to go south. So, long story short, after about two years together, we decided to break up. It wasn’t a mean breakup or anything, I think we were mostly disappointed it didn’t work out. Anyway.
We live in the province of Quebec. For those who don’t know, there is this weird tradition of starting and ending about any lease on July 1st. I have no idea why, but Canada’s Day has always been for anybody moving, in this province, a synonym of sweating under the sun, moving boxes, lifting heavy things and ending the day with cold beer and cheap pizza in a new and probably not so clean apartment. Why this context? Because we broke up two weeks before July 1st. It means it was virtually impossible to find another apartment so close to this date. We were about 7 hours away from both our families living on the countryside. We were also awfully broke students. We decided to give it a chance at being roommates.
Yes, it was super awkward at first, really not easy to manage to say the least. We were walking on eggshells and were definitely on edge for a while. There were also some pretty awkward situations, like this one time he decided to bring a one night home as I was sleeping in the adjacent room. Not only that, but the shameful phone call he had to make, waking me up in the middle of the night, so I could unlock the front door because he had forgotten his keys to find out he had brought home an acquaintance of mine. Nowadays I find this story delightfully funny tbh. But on that night, as I couldn’t go back to sleep because the gal decided to show off how an amazing singer she could have been —because, oh boy, this voice carried loudly all the way to my ears for more than an hour — I did not find it funny. I was furious, but prepared myself for the eventuality it would ever happen again. Do you remember the “Tiny Wall Challenges”? Let’s just say I had some games ideas after that night.
Anyway, anybody would probably have walked away but we still deeply cared for each other. We even did better than just survive through this whole year as roommates, we decided to move into a bigger apartment with two other friends. Believe it or not, we stayed there two more years. Moreover, these years were some of the best years and I still keep lots of good memories from this period.
Fast forward to the second part of the story. After being roommates for years, at some point we parted ways and lived our lives. We maintained contact throughout the years and when Frank finally started dating his wife to be, I was absolutely happy for him. He asked her to marry him and she said yes! Our friendship still held such a high place in both our hearts that he asked me to be one of his groomsmen, with his other best friend and his little brother. I felt so honoured, as I was technically a female, to be chosen to be on his side at the wedding.
The bridesmaids chose matching dresses in a beautiful forest green, all from a specialized website from UK, and I was to also be in a dress on the groom’s side, but matching the colour of the other groomsmen suits. With Frank, We all shopped together for their suits, chose a beautiful dark grey for his and a light grey for us, and we were able to match it perfectly with clothing samples I ordered from the website. Everything was going as planned. That being done, I ordered the dress, considering buying two inches heel shoes to go with it. It would take about four months to be done and the dress would arrive about a month and a half before the wedding. I decided to wait for the dress to arrive to pick shoes to go with it.
Four months passed, and I finally received a notice that the dress was on its way. The bridesmaids dresses arrived a bit before mine and they were all absolutely beautiful. As we all ordered from the same shop, we were able to choose different dresses that suited each of our styles, with identical fabrics that made the whole thing look fantastic.
I received the delivery’s notice, saying it was to be delivered by DHL. (If you never had to deal with this delivery company before, let’s just say this in itself is a red flag, but what could I do.)
I chose a delivery date that I could be home all day. I awaited their arrival, and waited. At some point I received a notification that they couldn’t deliver it because there was an error in the address. I called DHL customer service as soon as I read it and could verify with the clerk on the phone that there was no error on the original delivery address and that actually, internally, they miss-wrote a letter of the postal code. The person assured me that the delivery person would be notified and they would then be on their way back.
I waited. It never came.
The next morning, I received a notification that, unable to deliver it, the expeditor had agreed to DESTROY the package! I screamed! Why in the world would the UK online shop allow to destroy a custom made dress that took four months to do?! And why the hell the delivery service didn’t make any other attempt after being responsible of the address error in the first place. I was beyond mad. I called DHL, they confirmed someone at the company had agreed on the destruction of the item. I wrote to the person I was in contact with from the beginning at the online shop (this lovely clerk who clearly never asked for any of this). Over there, they couldn’t find who the hell agreed to this insane request to destroy the dress. They were also appalled and didn’t understand how it could have happened. They could put a request to redo the dress rush, but we first needed to either try to stop the destruction from happening by going to the DHL warehouse directly, or to obtain a proof from DHL that the dress was irreversibly lost forever.
It felt surreal! The fiancées were both furious too. There was only one DHL warehouse we could go to do this kind of request in the city and it was really far. As the clock was ticking, they jumped in their car, joined me, and to the warehouse we went, arriving a few minutes before closing like an epic movie scene. The clerk there was mind blown by the whole situation. It seemed we were too late and the best we could do was to have the proof that, in their system, the dress had effectively transited and was destroyed.
With photos as proof in hand, I forwarded everything to the clerk of the online dress shop. Days passed, as they were awaiting the okay to start sewing a new dress. They were really trying their best to help the situation but it seemed to be a mess over there about the whole situation. We were now a month before the wedding. At some point, I was starting to panic. They finally agreed to redo it, but it would be waaaay too close before the wedding to receive it. Like a few days before kind of close, if nothing happened in transport this time.
I decided to go shopping for another dress. I spent a whole day trying to find the perfect grey that would fit the other groomsmen suits. In the last possible boutique, there was one dress checking all the criteria. I bought the new one and wrote to the first shop, hoping they would agree to refund the lost dress.
I took an appointment later that week to do the adjustments on the new dress. I then shopped for shoes. I found a cute pair with one inch heel that would be perfect for me. I’m not used to walking with heels, so the lower the better after all.
Like all this turmoil wasn’t enough, my family called and told me that my grandfather’s health suddenly decreased. Remember? Seven hours drive from family. I canceled some plans and bought a ticket for the night’s bus ride right after the dress fitting. On that morning, the UK shop agreed to refund the dress. That part was a big relief. I went to the dress fitting. At last, three weeks before the wedding, The second dress would be ready in about seven days. I came back home to gather some things to get back out to catch my bus.
But suddenly, the doorbell rang.
I opened.
Some DHL delivery man casually gave me a package and left.
Yes. That’s what you think.
I closed the door, went to my room, sat on the bed, opened the bag. It was indeed the first dress. I had a melt down. I cried so hard. I put the dress down, looked at it, told it “I’ll deal with you when I come back” and went away to the bus station.
Few days later, coming back from the family, I collected the second dress and dealt with the first one, which no longer fitted the length of the shoes! My MIL at the time knew an old lady who was lovely enough to accommodate me and do the fitting of the first one for a as modest price. I decided to keep it a secret until the wedding day. (These friends wouldn’t do any drama about reveals etc, nor would they think it was stealing any of their thunder, don’t worry about that.)
On the wedding morning, I effectively surprised the bride and groom with both dresses. They were mind blowed, flabbergasted to say the least! I put the original one for the official photoshoot and discretely changed right after dinner for the other one. People around that had followed the incredible adventures were laughing out loud and finding it hilarious that I decided to wear both of them as I had so much troubles!
Quite a story with dresses and with an ex, right? Guess what, I’m also the godmother of their first child!
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