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my partner and i are both trans masc, i haven’t changed anything physically while he has been on T and gotten top surgery - I understand already that like i don’t really have the right to be seen as a man or masculine person when ive not changed anything (and am not out to everyone) but he does see me that way — recently though he’s been more fixated on penises , and his love for them and his queerness around men etc , which i joined in on because yeah we both like men , but recently he told me the fact that neither of us are amab is making him dysphoric when we have sex , he’s suggested open relationship which i have turned down vehemently , he’s suggested a semi open relationship , not full on sex just him getting sexual contact with cis men etc — it’s made me very depressed and insecure about myself but i know that i can’t expect him to love my body as it is when i’m so far from what masculine people are “supposed” to be and when he’s got his own personal dysphoria to deal with
there’s a lot of resources on like personal dysphoria and how to deal with it but not how to deal with the dysphoria your body causes other people — if anyone has resources on that i’d really appreciate it

"Huh, those silly libs", says Bob, "isn't it obvious that men have penises and women have vaginas?". He continues, "They go like lock-and-key, obviously they are made for each other. Not only that, normative het sex is THE way because of that."
I presume people in this subreddit will find flaws in Bob's reasoning more easily than a typical one. I wish to call attention to a very specific fallacy he committed: he conflated his interpretation of reality with reality itself.
How, you say? Bob believes that the penis and vagina must go together like "keys and locks". This, in itself, is an interpretation; and a sufficiently creative person could find alternative interpretations. For instance, how about: "The vagina is there primarily for reproductive purposes. However, the clitoris is there solely for sexual purposes. The clitoris and a person interested in pleasuring their partner with a clitoris go together like bread and butter". Does this mean that every sexual relationship with at least one person with a clitoris ought to reflect this dynamic? Does this interpretation say anything objective or mind-independent about sexual relationships involving at least one clit-having person per se? Not necessarily - as you have seen, Bob has interpreted it differently and his interpretation is also internally consistent.
Neither interpretation by itself actually illuminates mind-independent facts about reality, it reflects the subject's biases, values, preferences, sexuality etc instead. It would be fallacious to argue otherwise (unless one can provide reasons for the claim logically independent of the interpretation).
This fallacy, whereby one conflates interpretation with reality in itself, is called the Mind-Projection Fallacy. It seemed obvious to me as pertaining to many forms of gender-normative thinking, and thus I wanted to call attention to it. A different example would be the interpretation of penetration as a form of dominance. An example in a different context for the sake of illustration would be the argument that "since our understanding of reality is so error-prone, reality is fundamentally uncertain" (it is true that our understanding of reality is error-prone, but instead of taking it as a sign of our ignorance, it is fallacious to conclude that our understanding of reality and the ways in which we represent it are reality in itself.)
When it is not the Mind-Projection Fallacy: If one is simply expressing themselves without claiming their interpretation to be an objective fact. Alternatively, if their interpretation is meant to reflect an objective reality, then independent arguments are provided.

I feel like I'm straight. I love hanging out with men and touching their skin and being near them and smelling them. But... I can't look at the penis. I do sex for them and as a reward I get the nice cuddling. I don't want anything to do with men's penises but I'm willing to do it because regular cuddles aren't the same as the post-sex ones. Is this asexuality or just "being a fusspot"?

Yeah yeah, an old saying, reproduction isn't the purpose of life and doesn't determine value, but let me explain...
So, I am a 16 Year Old, who was introduced to ""feminism"" somewhere in 2022 (I think), thanks to a friend of mine. It turns out, this was actually Mysandry, in the sense that he shared how some of these "feminists" were trying to get rid of men in reproduction, one example being the "fact" that their vaginas will evolve into penises and clone themselves, except that would probably make them hermaphrodites and should happen with men too...
Nonetheless, I was "invested", since this gave me an idea about the two sexes (which would be used for a fictional piece in the end, just with a bit of spiece from our Universe, lol), since I am quite the brain stormer, not bragging or narcissism, I just come up with a lot ideas in general. But as time went on, I started to suffer from overthoughts and the amount of information I've found, including myths like "We were all Female", "Females came before Males", "Women have stronger legs", "You're Genetically Superior and Flawless due to XX", "Men are the weaker sex", "You were inside your Mother who was inside your Grandmother", "Inteligence is Mother Only", among other things, although that last one wasn't as common though). There are still fools, especially on Quora, who believe that all embryos start out as females, and just look at some individuals on that site like Anonymous04, horrors! I also tried to ask ChatGPT, but it's pretty much declining and INFURIATING! SO MANY WRONG ANSWERS! SOMETIMES IT'S OUTRIGHT LAZY!
These moments got soooo BAD, that I: -concerned my parents -made my dad think I was... drugged (since I acted blank when I was working with him once) -wasted my school-off week by overthinking -replied to many answers that ANNOYED me (arguably still do, and embarrassed myself, perhaps) -kept talking to my online friends-couldn't change the topic and basically made it my entire personality or routine for like the past few weeks (maybe even months!) -had an existencial crisis, outbursts, screaming, $u!c!d@l thoughts, etc. -and evenbecame skeptical and "mad" at God (yes, and screw off with the atheism)
Needless to say... It's quite complicated with me and I could go in-depth a lot more, but I managed to recover from most issues. However, before I settle things up, I need to settle one more thing, and that is reproduction. As far as we know, both Males & Females exist to reproduce genetically diverse offsprings, the only difference is their investments, Females for Offspring Support & Males for Competition or Attraction.
While I've noted and saved many things to read later on (like Seminal Fluids doing much more than just transfering Sperm Cells), I am still a bit concerned, stressed and annoyed, cause it just feels like females are the more favored sex in like existence (oversimplication to say it like that, really), and so, I'd like to ask some few things... Although I am definitely gonna give a lot due to overthinking and concerns:
1.Nucleous: So, as far as we know, both Ovum & Sperm Nuclei fuse to form a Zygote, a new life. Both parents guide the development of the child's characteristics and functions, however, APPERANTLY Ovum Cells have been illustrated to have a 'Nucleous' in their 'Nucleus', and turns out this is some sh!t that Zygotes "apperantly need". It's from this jackshit article from 2008: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2265587/#:\~:text=Sperm%20have%20no%20nucleoli%2C%20so,oocyte%20for%20its%20nucleolar%20beginnings. But allas, does this really make sense? No other information has been found or mentioned anywhere else. There's the "Germinal Vesicle" (Nucleus) and the "Germinal Spot" (Nuclelous), but apperantly when the Ovum goes through M II or however it was, the Germinal Vesicle breaks down and dissolves/mixes with the Cytoplasm or so. So is the Germinal Spot the actual Nucleus, and the "Germinal Vesicle" is just one of the ""expensive ingredients"" of the Ovum? Sperm Cells apperantly have Nuclear Vascoles, are those influencal?
2.Cytoplasm: Upon researching more and talking to some Chat Bots (for thes sake of sanity... or INsanity), does the Cytoplasm actually create and give rise to our cells and tissues or is that an outdaded misunderstanding, and it's main & actual function is to SUPPORT the development of the cells created by both parents? ChatGPT has also said that it also gives Building Blocks, Energy, Cell Growth & Differentiation or some confusing crap, but are those words actually referring to the processes of the Zygote's more stable and rapid growth? Is it true that this Cytoplasm is the Cytoplasm in our cells, or since it decreases, is it easily replaced by the production of our cells (combination of mom and dad, as we know)?
3.Organelles: Cytoplasmic components that are apart of the Cytoplasm' support, but again, are those organelles still the same as those in our cells? Shouldn't they decrease like the Cytoplasm and be created by our cells again since (and I am using Google Searches, cuz yes): ---Ribosomes apperantly originate from our Nucleo-lus? ---Lysosomes are formed by the fusion of transport vesciles budded from the trans Golgi network with endosomes ---Endosomes form by the inagination of the plasma membrance and are trigger by the activation of cell surface receptors ---Golgi Bodies originate from the endoplasmic reticulum ---The endoplasmic reticulum originates from the outer membrance of the nuclear envelop during cell division and among other things, but is Mitochondria the only organelle that manages to stay in by it's high number and self reproduction? Is Mitochondria like 90% of the Ovum's organelles hopefully thinking and the other organelles are a small amount compared to the Mitochondria?
4.Cytoskeleton: Apperantly, that is also a thing and it's not an organelle, but apperantly it also has evolved from prokaryotic cytomotive filaments. Even then, Sperm Cells apperantly have a highly specialized cytoskeletal organization or cytoskeletal proteins (like actin, tubulin and spectrin), so?...
5.RNA: Do we inherit more RNA from mom due to the freaking egg, or is it irrelevant because it is transient as the embryo starts to produce it's own RNA and proteins? But ChatGPT has also said this crap: "This maternal RNA helps to jump-start the developmental processes until the Zygote's own genome can take over". It has been said that Sperm has "vanishingly small" amount of RNA compared to the Ovum, but then there have been studies that Non-Coding RNA or so can influence Embryo Development or that Sperm delivers a complex population of RNAs to the Oocyte. Based on a Google Research, I've found this: "6871 proteins have been identified and reported in Sperm, 1376 in the Oocyte and 1300 in the Blastocyst. With a deeper analysis of the sperm proteome, 103 proteins with known roles in the processes of fertilization and 93 with roles in early embryo development have been identified." Can the RNA in seminal fluids/plasma be influential or inherited too? Isn't RNA small?

1. Is most of our makeup matrilineal and are we therefore more related, connected or like our mothers???!!
   
2. Epi-Genetics: Is it true that epi-genetics tend to favor mothers more? ChatFuckingGPT has said that RNA can influence certain aspects of cellular function and gene expression, and that pregnancy and even nursing can cause genes to be expressed or some sh!t, but aren't there studies that say that Mammals are more like their fathers (even if outdaded) and that the sex determination & even seminal fluids can cause gene expression too? Do mothers give us more gene expressions? Are we more like our mothers because of the gene expressions? Or are these outdaded myths?!
   

8.Paternal Genetic Speciality: If we happen to inherit the mtDNA from Mom, is there anything genetically special about fathers? I know that children inherit more mutations from their Fathers, which would be variable and probably lead to gene expression & epigenetics, but what else can this bring? Even if these mutations can be harmful or neutral, could they be repurposed and changed for future generations? Is there anything unique about inheriting more mutations from Dad? I have heard that male reproductive genes (including expression or specific function) also evolve faster than any other type of gene, including female reproductive genes. How does this help? However, if the Mitochondria Genome is said to evolve faster than the Nuclear Genome or something among those lines, does this abandon the special features of fathers and most mutations don't come from dad, OR as I decided to copy from a helper of mine: The percentage of mitochondrial DNA in the cells is2.5% of total cellular DNA1% of total cellular DNA10% of total cellular DNANone of the above (toppr.com). There's also this, but I think it's quite the manipulation since every mitochondria is still a copy of each other, right? https://www.quora.com/Do-you-get-more-of-your-mothers-genes-or-fathers-genes/answeTim-Eck-3?ch=15&oid=327935038&share=dea75d62&srid=uk6F9W&target_type=answer
9.Paternal Contributions: It has been depicted and said that only the head of the Sperm gets delivered, but apperantly there are articles that say that this is also a misconception that the entire sperm enters the egg, with the assumptions being that the Paternal MtDNA not being transmitted, but apperantly, the Sperm Mitochondria actually enters the egg but needs to be destroyed to prevent issues like the Mitochondrial diseases. With this in mind though, what else does the Sperm contribute to the embryo? Centrioles, Centrosomes & the Microtubule System & Microspindle-... Apperatus needed for mitosis? are done by the Sperm too, and it also brings the Chemical Signal for the Egg to activate it's metabolism and complete meiosis? Does this chemical also do anything like give calcuim to the Egg or anything else too? If the entire sperm enters the egg, what else could it bring to the embryonic development? Can there be any paternal contributions to milk like the Y chromosome presence in women bodyparts due to boy pregnancy and the high estrogen, prolactin & a bit of progestertone in seminal fluids? Are there more Sperm components and organelles that we can't easily observe? Is it possible that the absorbtion of all Sperm Cells can benefit the cells of females if the tail has more than 1000 proteins? Does the Journey, Agility, Adapatations, Variability, Motility & Penentration of the Sperm influence the Nucleus (therefore Embryo) in any way? What about the penentrations of multiple sperms (even if they won't enter or mege with the egg)? Or am I just fantasing, and reality is cruel? What about the chromatin condensation sperm? Are sperm cells, and therefore males, just doomed to be not helpful and more limted?...
10.Male Investment: We know that Males invest time into various behaviors, but how exactly does this help the species? Do they optimize & improve their genes? Do they evolve new traits? Do they mutate more? Are males a great investment for evolution or adaptability? Anything else unique? If more females than males have reproduced, does that mean that males are inferior or not helpful and that nature prefers females more? If males and sperm cells are simpler, does that mean they are inferior, disadvantaged or not special? Do non-reproducing males still help with something (assuming they haven't died)? Do you need to almost always (excluding species like Orange Cats and Calico Cats) have a 50/50 amount of both sexes so you don't cause genetic problems even if fewer males will pass on their genes?
That's all I really have to say, I probably sound like I am being dramatic, impulsive and immature, but I really have been overthinking and so, I'd like if some help could be given. This sure was long, but I think I might have given something interesting and such. I thought this could be used as a last resort to settle this before I grow up more. I hope I didn't seem bad or anything like that. I am just in a "scared and confused" situation from the amount of stuff I've seen. ChatGPT really isn't good when it comes to mental health, lol

Most commonly, people who have chlamydia don’t show any signs or symptoms. That’s why it’s so important for anyone who is sexually active to get tested for common STIs annually or when they have a new partner. If left untreated, chlamydia can permanently damage a woman’s reproductive health and lead to infertility.
When symptoms do present, they may not be noticeable until a few weeks after exposure.
For women and people with vaginas, symptoms are similar to those of a yeast infection or UTI and include:
Changes in discharge
Burning sensation when peeing
Similarly, chlamydia symptoms in men and those with penises, can easily be confused with other conditions and include:
Discharge
Burning sensation when peeing
Burning or itching
Pain and swelling in one or both testicles
If you experience these symptoms, get tested. Keep in mind though, that most people who have chlamydia don’t experience any symptoms. That’s why it’s so important to get tested regularly.

come on trannies and tranners that's simple biology that kids learn in preschool, girls have a vagina and boys have a penis!
so whatever has no penis, is not a boy. we live after all, in a penis dominated world.
lets count:
-Cis woman, not a man, no penis obviously duuuh
-Trans man, not a man, just a woman on testosterone, no functional penis
-Trans woman, a man unless he has no penis then he's still a man Exceptio probat regulam duh
Simple? Easy? Of course, even a child could understand that therefore it's true and if you don't agree with it then you're dumber then preschool kids!
Now brb going to teach children some more about penises and vaginas, I can do it and not be a pedophile because unlike you weirdos im wearing a priestly skirt and not drag queen skirt.

My ex Sarah, initiated a breakup because I was too physically ill for her to want to take care of me. Long story short but she gave me a rare STD from a past partner that caused permanent damage to my body. I knew it was her because I had only ever had two sex partners my entire life and my other partner had tested negative for that rare STD. Before doctors could find out what was wrong with me, I developed severe and sudden onset symptoms including frequent vomiting and nausea, severe weight loss, and limping as my legs no longer worked properly. It bothered her that we couldn't party and do all the things she wanted to do. Also, Sarah transitioned from male to female in the middle of our relationship and I welcomed it with open arms because I loved her. I went to clubs with her even though I was disabled and tried to make sure she felt loved and supported as much as possible.
Sarah however, would never return the favor. She would often become cold and distant when I was sick and once even left me on the cold floor of a hotel covered in my own vomit and urine. I begged her to call an ambulance and she turned around and pretended to sleep. When I was finally able to get the strength to get off the ground 7 hours later, I called myself an Uber to the hospital. It turned out that I had a stomach blockage. When I confronted her about this she said she didn't believe that I was ever sick because she "had an ex who lied about having cancer". I showed her official paperwork of multiple diagnoses as a result of this STD. She apologized, told me she believed me, but even then still treated me as though I was still an inconvenience. I felt so embarrassed every time she wanted to go out and party, and I could barely even walk.
There were many instances of verbal abuse as well, often in public places. For example, we went out on a date at a bar once. I had let her know that due to a family emergency, I might take out my phone a few times. The second I take my phone out, she bashed the table, tossed the chair, left a $100 bill on the table and walked out even before the food even came. I was so humiliated and other people asked if I was okay. She apologized after, but that is just one of many instances of this kind of behavior. I am not a perfect human by any means but when I tell you not ONCE did I ever raise my voice at her in the entire relationship... I have a very big fear of confrontation so the way she responded to things caused me to develop panic disorder and symptoms of schizophrenia. I was hospitalized 42 times in one year usually with a BPM over 150 and was admitted to a psych ward. Keep in mind, before I met her I had no prior mental health history. I had a stable job, a healthy body and was never on mental health medications. My only prior relationship of 5 years was also stable and loving but my partner moved across the country so we chose to end things.
The underlying issue was that Sarah was on a cocktail of medications, Antidepressants, anxiety medication, ADHD medication and another drug for mental health which I can't recall. Because of her ADHD, she would sometimes forget to pick up her medications. At the same time, she was experimenting with different medications and dosages (under doctor supervision). This meant she was always on a different combination of psychiatric medications throughout out relationship. Her mood was really unpredictable and I never knew when she would snap. For example, we had just went to ikea that day and everything was great. We had a fun time installing curtains in her new apartment. I would sometimes suffer from really bad brain fog from the antibiotics and panic attack meds I was always on. Well apparently I didn't realize I made a face after she asked me to pass her something, which caused her to yell "Stop making that stupid fucking face I cant stand it". Then she proceeded to mock me...
She would also go through my phone behind my back, accusing me of cheating when I would never do such a thing and there was nothing to even possibly HINT at the thought. She said she did this because her "exes all cheated". Even though she would always go to gay bars alone wearing nothing but lingerie. And I never bothered her once about it. I didn't want to interfere with her freedom of expression. She was finding her new identity (transitioning from male to female)
After 4 long years she broke up with me in public after I coincidentally bumped into her at a bar when our mutual friend and I went out for drinks. Sarah was talking to other girls but I was just so happy to see her and ran to give her a hug. But she seemed upset that I had ruined her day. She went on a rant for 20 minutes about how she can't stand me always being sick and said she fell out of love with me a few months back but didn't want to tell me. She told me soulmates don't exist (I never said they did), how I am "not special" (never said I was) and she could "find someone tonight if she wanted to".
The panic attack I had from her yelling at me so much in public was so bad that I started puking blood. I was taken by ambulance to the hospital and after she never checked up on me. Instead I woke up in the hospital the next day to see that she started following hundreds of plus sized porn stars and sharing their posts. After causing me to drop to 91 lbs at 5'8".
After that I blocked her on all social medias. I had also blocked her number. One day about 6 months after the breakup I received a voicemail from her from another number. She said it was an emergency and was crying so I called her back. She told me how her hamster died because she forgot to feed her and was crying and blaming her ADHD saying she basically forgot the hamster existed. This turned into a long conversation about her apologizing, her feeling lonely because no one wants to date her. She moved across the country and I made it very clear, I had not even the slightest interest in getting back with her.
She said she cared about me as a friend and missed the friendship we had. I agreed to remain friends but only unblocked her on Instagram. She then started sharing with me intimate details of her sex life with strangers and other people she would meet at bars. It seemed like every conversation would turn into her sending me memes about sucking off trans girls and trans penises. Then she would tell me how she was good at sucking dick and would only top people. Then it progressed into telling me how trans girls anuses felt better than vaginas and that was really the last straw for me. I had told her numerous times this made me uncomfortable. She said she was just sharing information that she shares with all her female friends and made me seem unreasonable for not wanting to discuss her sex life. Especially when she knew I was dealing with a death in the family at the same time. And I'm not just a female friend, I pictured myself at one point spending my life with her. Why do I want to picture her sucking dick and what her partner's penises look like?
I make it clear that she has a very bad issue with respecting boundaries and I block her instagram. About 3 weeks later, she makes a new account with the same picture and almost the same name. She likes my posts and all my stories. I go to the page to check the account because I was confused as I thought I blocked her already. As soon as she liked my posts with this alt account, she uploads photos of her making out with other people and talks about how good dick is. Was this behavior intentional or am I just looking too hard into things? I just can't understand what I did to deserve any of this...

PPP (Pearly Penile Papules) are small dome shaped bumps around the corona of the penis caused by glandular overgrowth. They are non-sexually transmitted and have nothing to do with personal hygiene. PPP is common in males in their 20’s and 30’s, and more common on uncircumcised penises. These bumps are harmless but can cause low self esteem. The pearly penile papules can be removed via a simple outpatient procedure called C02 laser treatment. A C02 laser is used to vaporize the papules resulting in a smoother appearance. This procedure can take as little as a few minutes to perform, and heals within just a few days.

I (M/44) was devastated by a divorce mid COVID. Total blindside after 15 years of marriage. I was intimate with my wife on a Thursday, and on Friday I was served papers by sheriff, thrown out of house by restraining order, accused of being an alcoholic, forced to test for alcohol and drugs in the state court system (passed all tests for 10 months with flying colors), court supervised time with my kids for those ten months… lost everything in the divorce except my house. Now back to having my kids 50% of the time.
A couple months into dealing with this, I met a girl (F/39). At first I thought it would just be a rebound, but she was different…We have an incredible amount in common. We both have family from the same part of our state, we both graduated from the same college five years apart, we are both singers and perform together all the time, we are both the glue that holds our friend group together (friends and relationships matter to us and we enjoy entertaining). We have been together for three years, we’ve lived together for two years, we both work out of the house everyday, and we are not sick of each other. She’s also stunningly gorgeous, rocking body, funny, smart, generous, and a constant sounding board and support system for me.
I was also laid off a year after I met her. She was nothing but supportive. I have three kids and she is an amazing parental figure to them, even though she has no kids and has never been married. They absolutely LOVE her. They look up to her as a parent and the model of a professional woman as she has a great job. She’s a natural with my three kids, and has expressed to me that she always wanted kids of her own but never found the right guy.
Speaking of finding the right guy… it’s not because she didn’t try…. A few weeks ago we were out with another couple. The three of them were drinking, I was stone cold sober (divorce legalese was reignited after my lay off and new job, and I can take zero chances), and the subject of body count came up. My count is 14, including her. My Dad always taught me that women are the keepers of the sex and the men are the contributors of the commitment, which eventually leads to sex. I’ve known guys that are in the 200s of women slept with, and I was never shy about calling them gross, so I don’t honor the double standard (applause for a man vs shame for a woman), that’s just not my speed. Anyway, we all answered, but she refused. A few days later, I brought it back up (wish I hadn’t) in the context of “if we’re discussing marriage, we need to be honest”.
I’m number 118. One Hundred and Eighteen.
She has it to the exact number because she kept a physical list (red flag?) and her childhood friends did the same (which she says she deleted after we were together because she knew I was the one). It’s like she thinks she’s Samantha from Sex and the City. She says the dating apps have changed the dating narrative since the iPhone came out in 2007 (the year I met my ex wife) and her being a young professional and living in a studio apartment in the city and going on lots of dates was just what people did. She agrees that her number is high, but she was always safe and tested, but obviously can’t change the past. She says she’s with me now, and that’s what matters and if I hadn’t been married for 15 years my number would be way higher and this would not be an issue.
I was absolutely traumatized. I still am. I’ve asked close confidants who I know in my professional life that will most surely never meet her, and most of them have said that’s definitely a high number, but it’s not off the charts. Two girls from that group who had similar similar situations with regard to living situation (alone and in the city), relationship status (single) and age were honest about their numbers and reported numbers of 50-60 and 70-80 partners respectively. They were both married at 36.
I know she is a little bit ashamed of this number because she was so tightlipped about it… she did not want to tell me. She also would be mortified if any of our family or friends found out (her mother and my parents specifically) and she has said that if it ever gets out she would never forgive me. So, clearly it’s a touchy subject.
The more I digest this, I feel four things:
1.) Heartbroken. For me and for her. She says she was looking for men to love her and for one to eventually become a husband and she thought dating (which apparently means sleeping with) lots of guys would accomplish that. She admits she has Daddy issues. I’ve met her Dad. He divorced her mother when she was five, and was cheating with the woman who is now her now stepmother. She had very little contact with him. The guy is just a cold dude. No other way to put it. She also had weight loss surgery in 2015, and she dropped 65 pounds. That made guys take notice, and it was like she was liberated.
2.) Personal Inadequacy. Definitely some of my own ego problems going on here… the ability to compete with her experience level and the sheer number of penises she’s seen and all the size differentials that comes with that. Some retroactive jealousy too, not because I wanted to live like that, but because she has 117 other dudes who had her. Like… that’s a crazy number, right?
3.) Fear of her bolting if/when our relationship gets hard. If she’s bedded that many dudes in the past what’s to stop it in the future? She SWEARS that with all of this dating and promiscuity, she has never ever once cheated on someone she was in an exclusive relationship with, however she has admitted that when a relationship ended, she would binge on guys for a few weeks (she threw out an example of 6 or 7 guys in a month after ending a relationship of six months).
4.) Just generally skeeved out. The reasons for this are the same as why I would never date a stripper. Is nothing sacred when it comes to her body and intimacy?
Am I just behind the times? Did we just live different lives? If I had found this out two months in, I probably would have bolted. If I had never known this, I would not have thought twice about putting a ring on it. Now, my head is telling me all the good things she’s done and how happy I am with her, but my heart is hurting and disappointed and telling me something else. I guess I just don’t know what that something else is.
I know that’s a lot, and I’m expecting some sarcastic comments, but hopeful to get some honest feedback here too.
Thanks very much.
TL;DR: 39F girl never married with no kids I’m dating has slept with 117 dudes before me. Other than this, she’s great and says I’m the one. I’m a mess. Any advice?

Her ass was chapped enough to write a bibliography about one of the most popular series in the last decade, this is just for laughs, I find unchecked feminist rage to be amusing. (I will be purchasing this series regardless, it has a death grip on me)

Everytime I see a “kinky” bot people love it and leave good reviews and praise it but as soon as an ACTUALLY kinky bot people shit on it. As long as it ain’t down right dirty [meaning incestuous, discriminatory, pedophillic, ect] why tf are you being a dick?
And another thing—Why are almost all female bots just “boobs” “BREED ME” “step sister” “step mom” “kidnapped” “ass” “femcel” “whore”?? Do yall know women are humans too? Do you need writing lessons? It especially pisses me off when people can’t separate horny from story. You can have a horny pfp for the bot, you can have a horny story for the bot, but for Odins sake PLEASE know what can work as a full length story and what is a oneshot.
Also please start tagging things that actually have something to do with the bots. (Ps there’s a difference between a futa and a trans woman. Futas aren’t trans. They are women who were born with penises.)

Hello everyone,
For medical reasons ( I have a skin foreskin problem and I broke my brake ), I will have a surgery. I don't really mind being circumcized even tho I liked my penis uncut before I got my skin changing - around a year ago-. I got creams but it didn't change much the solid skin ring that was forming on my foreskin. I'm a bit nervous about the surgery especially on the results. I think that cut penises can look really amazing as they call look a bit fucked up.
I am french, I know that usually doctors do low and loose circumcision over here. I checked on Google and I feel like low and tight looks better and more clean ( does it change a lot the look ?). I will ask my urologist about it. What is your opinion on that ? I would really not have to go to another surgery. Also about the feelings, is there a difference in the different forms of circumcisions ? If I have the choice what would be the best type of circumcision ? I see my urologist on the 26th and we will discuss
Also my urologist told me my head skin would change which I knew but is there a way to reduce it ? Because I've seen some penises that have very "rocky" skin and I wish to not have it looking too dry. I know it will happen but may I reduce it with hydrating creams for instance ?
Last question ( sorry lol ), I will be ambulatory, which means I will get out of the hospital the same day. I live in Paris and I plan to take the public transports to go back to my place ( +1hour). Is it fine or a very bad idea ? I already did it for my wisdom teeth and I'm used to be high in public transports but maybe sitting can be a problem just after the circumcision?
Thank you very much for your answers. I am really glad that a group like that exists honestly.
My surgery is planned on the 3rd of July

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