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2020.02.04 03:24 Chadtopia

A non-satirical community and the opposite of /Cringetopia-like subs. There are plenty of things considered socially unacceptable or uncool, but some people are so confident in owning it that it becomes commendable. Reaching the peak of not giving a fuck and doing whatever makes them happy even as others make fun of them for it. Those are Chads, rather man or woman. We aim to celebrate those Chads and applaud them for doing what they enjoy. We should all be able to do that without judgment.
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2012.05.25 17:53 Talk shit, get hit.

Everybody has a plan until they get punched in the mouth.
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2024.05.16 15:18 karma_is_my_bf13 My husband has been deployed for several months and I don’t know how to move forward from here.

My husband has been deployed for several months and I don’t know how to move forward from here.
I (33f) am experiencing a deployment for the first time as a spouse. (Prior mil myself and have been on the other side) My husband (35m) has been deployed for several months and I know the whole crew has been having a hell of a time. My husband lacks emotional intelligence and is not exactly the greatest communicator so this deployment has really tested us. He doesn’t share anything. Literally tells me that he is fine. He’s not sleeping well so he is exhausted. Otherwise I literally have no idea what’s going on with him. I’ve been told he is a loner and spends a lot of time in his office. I know he is stressed, but I don’t know what to do to help him. And he doesn’t tell me how to help either. I know he is going through a lot, but I am also going through my own set of things. We moved right before he deployed, it has been incredibly difficult making friends. I work from home so my social interactions are far and few between. I’ve been doing a lot of work on myself. I see a therapist weekly, I’ve even deactivated social media to avoid the black hole of drama. But I am lonely and sad. I try not to let him know that. I got upset last week because every conversation we were having was incredibly dry. So I got off early one day because I knew I was getting frustrated and I didn’t want to fight. I expressed that to him in an email the next day. That I was trying to do the right thing by logging off instead of creating a fight. He clearly took it really badly. Decided to ignore me for 6 days. This is the fourth time he does this. He stews and gets more and more angry instead of trying to release or calm down. He promised me he wouldn’t keep doing this and yet here we are again. I’m starting to feel like no matter what I do, I’m wrong. He seems to feel the same way. I’m also not the one implying I’m done with the relationship. I’ve never been upset about him talking to his family. I’ve only expressed confusion about how when he does talk to them, he doesn’t tell me about it. Not because I need to know but because it’s something to chat about. I always tell him when I talk to them because it’s something to talk about. Mind you they never check on me, I’m always checking on them. Trying to have a relationship since it’s so important to him. The boat hit a port the day of our anniversary. He called me drunk, we didn’t talk much cuz he was busy introducing me to everyone and directing the group of like 10 people to the next bar. He told me he would call me later and never did. He called me the next day and I told him it hurt my feelings that he didn’t call me again and that he completely seemed to have forgotten our anniversary. Mind you I sent him a card months ago for him to open on our anniversary, which he admitted he opened that day. He said that he talked to his whole family and that it’s not fair for me to expect all his phone time because he wants to talk to other people too. I have no issue with him taking to his family, let me be crystal clear. I didn’t like that he said he would do something and then didn’t. That seems to be the theme and I’m tired of feeling like I’m the problem. The first message is his email to me. The second is my response. I’m at my breaking point and I need some advice. I’m at a loss and honestly considering calling it quits. I know that sounds bad but I can’t seem to do anything right despite my best efforts. I also get zero guidance from him on what I can do. He has been very verbally abusive to me, broken my trust many times by making promises he keeps breaking and yet I keep on going. But he says he doesn’t feel like he will ever be able to open up? I don’t get it. I really really don’t get it. I need advise of any kind. Good, bad or ugly.
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2024.05.16 15:18 HaloCS Is my current positon underpaid/undervalued?

While I was completing my B.S. in CySec, I started in a junioassociate level position at a hospitals IT department. The job mainly focuses on Epic Security changes and leveraging other provisioning software that automates certain tasks such as changing Epic settings or granting access to other applications. While the job sometimes requies small critical thinking/problem solving for some things, our tickets get routed to the appropriate Epic teams before changes are amde for approval. Skills to me seem relatively basic for IT, mostly having a bit of an understanding of everything and all applications.
It's been some years and I was able to complete my B.S. and started my M.S. but in AI/ML. I also even was able to complete some certificates along the way for Epic Security and DC. Participated in Go-Lives and application upgrades as well as trained new members.
At the moment I'm making $26 the hour, about $3 more than what I started with, and still am an Associate. Some other team members of mine are making around 90-100k a year, and they've been working at the hospital longer in other positions (5-10+ years), but I've had instances where I've trained them or had to cover their workload as well and it seems lighter than mine, consindering they trained me to be able to do "everything". Whereas some don't.
So my questions are;
  1. Is the current pay and term length of my "Associate" title normal? I do live in a big city where some things like rent are just increasing drastically and my salary isn't able to keep up.
  2. Are there other positions within health IT I can try to leverage my AI/ML knowledge that I'm gathering? I'd like to eventually change towards a more programming-related job.
  3. Some advised maybe trying contracted Epic jobs similar to what I'm doing as they pay better but I wasn't sure if that would be a good idea. Anyone might know on that?
My goal is to eventually get into SWE or development, but this job allows me to keep up with my rigorus masters program so I wouldn't mind holding off longer until I can complete it. Maybe just change to a different team within the same location that pays more so I'm not as tight on money with essential bills.
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2024.05.16 15:17 KirstdwHam Retrenching cleaning lady

This is such a difficult question as I don’t want to be insensitive about the current high cost of living as well as high unemployment.
We have a cleaning lady that has been working for my husband since before we met - been around 4 years now.
She arrives at 7AM and leaves around 12:30. She gets paid R340 for a half day once a week - includes breakfast & lunch. I also give her a little bit of electricity every month. She gets all her sick leave, annual leave, Christmas bonus, etc
We are expecting our first child and would like to appoint a lady with nanny experience as well as cleaning. This would only be a few days a week (2 - 3 days a week) This is purely because I work from home and would need someone to just assist if I have a meeting (baby wants a bottle while I’m busy or needs a nappy change while I’m busy - don’t want them raising our child)
We would not be able to afford both our nanny/cleaner and our current cleaning lady.
We haven’t spoken to her yet, but we are considering a “retrenchment” so to speak. She would get 3 months salary (without having to come into work) - she doesn’t have to work out her notice period.
Then at the end of the 3 months, we will give her a severance of R6000. Note she was earning between R1360 - R1700p/m working for us once a week.
I have done some research regarding the matter and I can’t seem to find definitive answers. Would this be a fair dismissal with the 3 months notice period & severance pay - or would this be grounds for unfair dismissal as she hasn’t done anything wrong?
She is lovely, but our needs have changed unfortunately.
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2024.05.16 15:17 unheimliches-hygge [real] (5/16/2024) Roiling Seas

My mind keeps going back to the symbolism of the Two of Pentacles card, which came up in a tarot reading I did for myself the other day. I had asked the cards how to get through the next nine days, with the two-year anniversary of a trauma hanging over me - the trauma being that someone I had loved and trusted for years broke my trust and turned out to be just a compulsive womanizer, a pathological liar, a sick and emotionally abusive covert narcissist.
The way I see the cards working is that they can’t tell a person anything the person doesn’t already know - but our subconscious and unconscious minds know a lot that doesn’t rise to the level of our surface consciousness. The imagery and symbolism of the tarot cards gives the mind a puzzle of trying to interpret how a given set of cards drawn and placed into a meaningful pattern relates to the question they ask. So it prompts a meditation that can help bring the knowledge of one’s intuition and instincts and subconscious up to the forefront of consciousness. It’s a very powerful tool even if you don’t believe in serendipity and grace, but in my experience, there’s a lot of serendipity and grace at work too behind the seeming randomness of the cards.
Anyway, the Two of Pentacles is someone trying to juggle and balance things and dance against the background of a roiling sea. And the suit of Pentacles is about practical life matters, money, career, domestic concerns, and so on. So yesterday, I was thinking what that meant for me was that I needed to spend the time focusing on practical things to distract myself from ruminating and worrying, by juggling all my efforts towards various goals like being productive at work, managing my finances, getting exercise, spending time with friends, and taking care of errands and tasks at home. The problem with trying to use distractions to escape from trauma is that, at the end of the day, you lie down in bed, and then everything you tried to run away from by keeping busy during the day swirls up in your thoughts, and the pain comes crashing in on you.
So that happened last night. It was a bad night. I went around and around and around in the same circles in my head. Why would someone treat me that way? Did I just misunderstand him? Did I judge him too harshly? Was it all my fault? What could and should I have done differently? Is there something I still could do to fix things, to change things, to make things better, to heal, to find closure? What was going on in his head, who was he really, what happened to him to make him this way? The endless circle of questions, and going through my crazy-quilt patchwork of memories where some things have faded and some things have stood out and grown larger, seams have ripped and torn, and nothing adds up into a coherent story that I can make sense of.
I finally thought: Why can’t I just settle on the narrative that makes the most sense and then put it behind me and move on? What happened was that someone I trusted turned out to be a dysfunctional dud of a person. Clive was a messed-up jerk. As for Oonagh, I thought she was a friend too, but really I didn’t know her very well, and she turned out to be just another flaky, immature scene person. And John was probably only so nice to me because he was hoping we could date, and when he finally understood that it was Clive I had been in love with and that I was shattered by the breakup, John lost interest in me. So that was what happened. It sucked, it was horrible, it triggered my PTSD symptoms that had been in remission for 20 years before that. But I do have a narrative about it that makes sense, and what I need to do is just write it all off as a loss, write all three of them off as former friends who just turned out not to be good friends to me. I still have a lot of friends and resources and joy and blessings, and I need to focus on the happy possibilities ahead of me instead of the grief and hurt that I suffered through for the past two years.
So then, with those thoughts, I calmed down, and I finally fell asleep, after all the crying and loud sobbing and shaking. Mornings and evenings are always some of the worst times for rumination, but it was just really a bad night.
So now I think this is what the Two of Pentacles was foretelling for me: emotionally, I am sailing on stormy seas for the next two weeks. I will have ups and downs, I will be struggling to keep on an even keel, to keep from floundering or capsizing. On a practical level, I have lots to keep me busy, though everything is really pretty great. But it’s a precarious time, and I have to be very strong and brave and focused and mindful to get through it safely.
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2024.05.16 15:17 Peachy_keen25 Need advice on difficult situation. Are we doing something wrong?

WH had an emotional affair back in 2021. I was a SAHM and fought him so hard and basically bullied him into ending it because he wouldn’t do it on his own and I was scared/not in an easy place to start over. It took many years, but we were able to work through our issues and become friends again. We’ve learned how to better communicate and work through our problems together for the most part. However, we’ve still decided to split amicably because we’re just very different people and he still can’t tell me some of the things I absolutely need to hear, but that’s not the real issue here. I made a friend at my kid’s school and as we got closer, I met her family and she eventually told me all the problems in her own marriage and how she’d had a PA early on in the relationship then an EA with that same person within the last year and another EA years ago with someone else. She is not remorseful and blames her BS for her actions. WH and I made friends with her BS, but I was the one closer to him. Nothing inappropriate has ever happened between us. New friend and her spouse begin to have issues surrounding previous affairs that have never been fully dealt with and I try to talk them both through it because I know how hard it is and wish someone would’ve been there to help me. Friend and her BS end up separating. She blames me for it because I recommended a book that helped WH and I through things and that caused her BS to realize all the things that were wrong with their relationship. She’s cut contact with me for the most part, but I still talk to her BS and he’s told me how she’s spiraling and becoming more and more emotionally abusive as she doesn’t get her way.
BS eventually told me he thought he liked me more than he should and I told him about limerence. He said he looked into it and he could see why I’d think that and he can see how his wife showed signs of that during her affairs, but he doesn’t think that’s what this is. We’ve tried to distance ourselves, but as things worsen between them, we’ve definitely bonded more and I find myself having feelings for him as well. I know neither of us are in a place to date, but his wife keeps insinuating that something is happening between us and I can’t deny that I am starting to see him as more than a friend. I’m feeling guilty because while his friendship has had no impact on my marriage, I fear my friendship has had an impact on his.
We do keep trying to distance ourselves from one another, but it never lasts long because he really does need the support and I do want to be there for him, but fear my talking to him at all is making things worse. He tells me that he also doesn’t want to stop talking because it’s like letting her win and we shouldn’t verify to her that if she gets abusive enough, she’ll get what she wants. I feel like I’m in a no win scenario. Are we doing anything wrong? Where do I/we go from here?
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2024.05.16 15:17 stephaniesmith45 Shouldn’t my dr be recommending I get a blood glucose monitor?

49 female. A1C was 10.9. Fasting 120 (taken at 4:30 pm after only drinking coffee with creamer at 8 am). Fasting probably was not that high due to 2 weeks of Keto (a month now.). She just stating to take Metformin ER twice a day and recheck in 3 months. She said I didn’t have to check my sugars. I think I should? Due to work I haven’t made an appt with a Endo yet but I plan to. But shouldn’t my primary care Dr be more proactive?
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2024.05.16 15:16 Rare-Entrepreneur327 Looking for a very sweet generous person 😁 I want to complete my set

Looking for a very sweet generous person 😁 I want to complete my set
I know this is a long shot but I only need this one and 2 gold cards to complete the whole album And trying to build dice for partners event.. let’s hope it doesn’t glitch again 😑🫤
IGN:Krys Play MONOPOLY GO! with me! Download it here: https://mply.io/pOBekdKibqc https://mply.io/pOBekdKibqc
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2024.05.16 15:16 Whatisakellly Purchased Item Sent to Someone Else

I’ve used Zenmarket to purchase more than 500 items from Japan and have never had an issue with them - well, with the exception of one other issue - until now.
I purchased an item set to release at the end of February 2024. I reached out to Zenmarket in April inquiring why the item still hasn’t arrived to the Zenmarket warehouse yet when it was in stock on the website and stated that it will ship in 2-4 business days. Zenmarket responded to my message stating that the item was being shipped and Zenmarket was waiting for its reception.
Flash forward to a little more than week ago and the item still hasn’t arrived. I submitted a ticket and after following up on the ticket since I didn’t receive any response, I received the following message:
“Thank you for using our service.
We are very sorry for the trouble and inconvenience. After through checking we found that your item might have been included to other person's parcel. And we're currently checking it with the person in question. We will update you once we have more information”
My question is, what’s next? What happens if the person who received my item doesn’t admit that they actually received it? What happens if they admit they did get it and live in another country? Who is responsible for international shipping then? Why can’t Zenmarket just reimburse me for the item’s cost or just repurchase it for me as the item is still in stock?
Has anyone else faced this situation before?
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2024.05.16 15:15 sxftlyme What would you choose in these circumstances?

For context, I’m a 23 year old afab in a country where birth control and abortions are accessible.
I cannot take the regular pill/combination pill because I have previously had migraines with aura which gives risk of stroke.
Anything progesterone-only wrecks my body, the worst of it is that I get my period every second week, and I get it for a week straight (so im on my period half the time) This has been the case both for the minipill and the implant over a long span of time.
Condoms decrease my pleasure in sex to the point that my desire to have sex is entirely taken away, I can feel the difference very strongly and it is uncomfortable.
I have an appointment for a copper IUD but it’s not for a few months.
My partner lasts very long and more often than not doesn’t finish during sex, we have sex around 2 times a week.
When I’m not on hormonal contraception, my cycles are extremely regular, and I have a tracker for my period and ovulation.
I recently got back on the minipill due to being with this partner and absolutely hate it, which is why I made an IUD appointment.
Considering all factors, I am thinking of stopping the pill and using the method of tracking my cycle to avoid getting pregnant until my IUD, and take plan B if really needed. I figured my situation is somewhat unique so I was curious what others would do in my shoes.
Also, spermicides arent available in my country.
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2024.05.16 15:14 SmartIntroduction1 Fair price on HVAC replacement?

Background: I live in a 100+ year old 4-bedroom house in Northern VA, where the winters are cold and the summers very hot and humid. The house was remodeled over 20 years ago and done cheaply where the walls don’t have good insulation and the HVAC needs to be replaced, plus the house has always had extreme temperatures on opposite floors (1st story vs 2nd story) depending on the season.
Situation: We’ve had several companies come out and look at our ductwork and system and have all (minus one) recommended a one for one replacement of the heat pump and air handler, with no guarantee it’ll fix our temperature problem and none have even suggested replacing the ductwork since it’s too complex, and it’s “just the way it is since it’s an old house.” I saw on this forum that a high end system is a waste without the proper ductwork. We finally were able to get a contractor to take an in depth look and agree to redesign the ductwork. They by far seemed the most interested in fixing our problem, doing multiple hour+ visits. The guy seems honest and knowledgeable, but since I can’t ask for other quotes in the area since the others aren’t interested in redesigning ductwork, I wanted to reach out to you all in this forum.
Advice: Does this seem like it may work and a fair price?
System installation will include a 10-year manufacturer warranty on all parts and a 2-year labor warranty. HEAT PUMP: EL18XPV - 3 Ton two-stage compressor AIR HANDLER: CBA38MV - variable-speed blower motor THERMOSTAT: S40 Price: $22,713.00
Custom duct modifications. Increasing size of supply trunk line and gradually stepping dow into size to keep static pressure up and provide better airflow to add registers. Adding return and grill to upstairs bedroom. Increasing size of return duct to living room and install larger return grill in living room if necessary. Also, running larger duct to basement for better airflow. Corner wall in living room will taken down to run ducting to basement. Customer will need contractor to rebuild corner wall after installation is completed. Price: $10,393.00
Total: ~$32k
Thank you.
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2024.05.16 15:14 vcrfuneral_ Having trouble deciding between two colleges

Hey guys, I'll make this quick.
I need help choosing between colleges for my last two years. I'm transferring from a CC. Important info: I'm 29 Years old and my car is on its last leg.
My two options are School L and school T.
School L has a really nice medium sized campus, small classes and is 15 min from my house. The Public bus drops off in front of it so if my car completly dies, I can still get to school. There's lots of ways to get involved and meet people with clubs and activities for students.
Cons are that it's $40k a year and they're only offering about $13k in scholarships. Also, they're a religious school, and the demographic is young white rich republican (I'm 30, poor, and Asian, so I worry about making friends and networking). I also worry that the school won't be as challenging since it's not known for a great Engineering program.
School T also has a campus about the same size, small classes and is actually recognized for their engineering program as being one of the best in the state. they offer special research programs for my concentration since it's a Public research university so the opportunity to network and find internships/jobs is higher. The cost without aid is only $9k a year. It's also much more diverse
Cons: it's almost 2 hours away and my car is probably not going to last the last two years. Moving closer isn't an option since I can't afford to work full time to cover rent and finish in two years. My current job is very flexible around my school schedule so I could work on days I'm not on campus.
That's about it. Please help me decide as I need to get enrolled soon.
And Hopefully this is allowed...
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2024.05.16 15:14 Every_Owl5510 Is it even “Fear Of Missing Out” if you miss out all the time? A Rant:

Almost everything that’s been changed or added in the last 6 months has been designed to make the player feel like if they don’t make a purchase, they’ll likely have to wait months for that variant or card.
When I first started playing I was collecting cool variants indiscriminately. Obviously that’s a waste of currency, so I only focused on Peach, Venomized, Artgerm, Rian, and Inkpulp. Not only does it take forever for the variants you want to show up, but even focusing on a few doesn’t really help. Now I get Peach 90% of the time, and it still took like 5 months to finish a deck, ofc without the cosmetics I like.
Heck, before they added customization, I had no incentive to spend credits excessively, and got pretty smart about keeping a huge stockpile with minimal spending.
Most days I go to the shop and see like 2 overpriced bundles, claim my free credits, see some cool variants that aren’t worth my free gold, and skip over the rare reasonably priced bundle, since it just looks stupid next to the $99 bundle. As if I wouldn’t think I’d be equally/proportionally as screwed as a customer when I get my tokens and boosters.
The spotlight system just made me skip more cards I would’ve otherwise tried if Second Dinner didn’t make it painfully clear that if I spend my currency, there’s a high chance of regretting it within a month, which is why they even took efforts to impede datamined spotlight schedules. Wouldn’t want you skipping 3 weeks because week 4 is a smarter choice.
All of this FOMO has just conditioned me to stop expecting anything reasonable, spend less, scrutinize every bundle, etc. I have a greater fear of wasting my currency than I do of missing out on a card. Which is honestly how it should be I guess. It’s just funny since it’s not their intention.
Overall, I still enjoy the game, but I went from playing 3 hours a day to like 3 hours a week. A lot of these grievances could be reduced if FOMO wasn’t so deeply ingrained. All my friends are falling off this game because missing a few weeks now and then derails the experience.
This system works for Fortnite, which has secured their popularity with children and their economy AKA parents wallets, but the amount of money Snap is asking for, I’d wager it’s an adult demographic supporting the economy, and I don’t know how long they expect adults to keep up with FOMO. Everyone has jobs, emergencies, weddings, etc. You can hop on Fortnite after a year and at worst you’ll have to wait for a Spider-Gwen skin for 6 months, but Snap? Good luck. Sure, you can still have fun, but how many months are you willing to wait to get the cards you need? If you took a month off and missed 2 cards you really wanted on top of 2 you were already missing, is 2 months worth it? 4 months?
Idk. Just food for thought. I think eventually they’re going to start giving out a lot for free when the player base starts dwindling. If they want to practice FOMO, there’s still a way to be consumer friendly. I really wish they’d have digital exclusive variants from comics, in-theater movies, Disney+. That’d be a cool way to drum up hype and future sales, while making it achievable and rewarding.
Here’s hoping when Pokémon Snap—, I mean Pocket comes out, that they really embarrass Second Dinner.
tl;dr: Marvel Snap is an ice cream truck that circles the block 3 times a day, and when you go outside they want $15 for an ice cream every day except Monday. How badly do you want that ice cream?
/rant
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2024.05.16 15:13 Francesaur Getting frustrated (rant)

Getting frustrated (rant)
I’m getting frustrated with how long it’s taking. I was told 18-24 months (which already seemed like such a long time because it was just to fix my midline and a rightwards cant). I’m quickly approaching month 24 and was just told I need another 6 months of aligners to fix a posterior open bite that developed when trying to fix the cant. I’m so sick of having Invisalign— it makes me feel ugly and self conscious. I want to quit / I almost wish I hadn’t done Invisalign in the first place, but now I have to finish since I still have the posterior open bite and my right canine has gone rogue, so we need to fix that… it just doesn’t even seem like I’ve fixed much about my smile and certainly doesn’t seem like it would take 2.5 years. I need a little encouragement 🥲
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2024.05.16 15:13 Neither-Chain8789 SA?

When I was 16 I met this man who told me he was 27 but I now know he is 34 we met when I was out around where I live late one night when I was with my friend. We exchanged numbers and texted all night a couple of days after he wanted me to come and see him but he works late at night so told me it needed to be after he finished around 1 AM so I left my house without anyone knowing so I could meet up with him after he finished work. I got in his car and then he took me where he works which is a takeaway locally near me and nobody was there and he showed me into the back and I went in we talked and then he told me to wait there and then he came back with some alcohol I had some to drink but he said he doesn’t drink and then we smoked and got high and he introduced me to Coke and asked if I wanted some at this point I just gave in and I did even though I’d never had that before as normally I’d be to scared to even try anything like that. I started throwing up and apologising as I was embarrassed and he told me not to be silly and it’s normal. After this we had sex there and then he dropped me off at home. This always plays on my mind and I can’t stop thinking about it. I don’t know whether it was SA or myself to blame as I wish I just stayed at home or didn’t take anything it just keeps me awake thinking about it all the time.
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2024.05.16 15:13 Oricorio Why does the order Notoptera seem to be unused/lacking in information and where do Grylloblattodea and Mantophasmatodea actually belong?

I’ve been trying to create a comprehensive list of the insect orders for myself with the goal of compiling my own notes on each of them next. However, everywhere I look the lists appear to differ slightly. I understand that this sounds like a common occurrence when it comes to classification systems, it just bothers me that this doesn’t seem to have a straight answer which is why I was working to create a list for my own use. I’ve almost completed this now, however I am stumped by the same issue I run into every time; classifying Grylloblattodea and Mantophasmatodea which leads into my search for information on the order Notoptera.
The order Notoptera seems to be unused as far as I can tell or at least very barren when it comes to information. So, where do Grylloblattodea and Mantophasmatodea actually fit in? I only have 1 free position remaining on my list of orders so I love the thought of simply throwing in Notoptera to contain both Grylloblattodea and Mantophasmatodea. However, if this isn’t actually correct or Notoptera is out of use then it will still continue to bother me all the same so I am hoping someone on here may be able to help me.
Obviously with limited information on some of these remaining insects I don’t expect to find out a lot about these orders, but at this point I would just very much like to complete my list.
TL;DR, the title of this post.
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2024.05.16 15:13 Evening_Area457 Poor electrical work?

My husband hired an electrician to install two outdoor fans on our porch and an outlet above our fireplace for our TV.
I came home to find the fans are not even/centered (no photos, but they’re off by about 6 inches with one being closer to the center. They’re on bead board so it shouldn’t be too hard to center them).
Instead of wiring the fans to a single switch on the inside of our front door (pic 1) which controls our coach light and other outdoor lights, he added an ugly two switch metal thing outside the front door (pic 2). He cut through our trim and nailed the metal to our siding. The trim is also cracked from how he cut it (pic 3). I’ll add that our attic is fully open and easily accessible so he had access to go up there, take the wire to the wall and drop it down.
(The fans have remote controls so I think one switch would be fine since we can separately control them that way if desired)
He also cut a massive hole in our drywall for the outlet and left it unpatched (pic 4). I get that he wouldn’t have our paint for that wall but the drywall is literally broken and uneven and it seems unprofessional to me that he also didn’t patch it. I know he’s not a drywall professional, but I would expect he could at least patch the hole he made so we can paint it later.
Is this acceptable work? I feel like I have more work and expenses to fix what he’s done and the reason I hire a professional is to make this easier on me.
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2024.05.16 15:13 MinecraftSexUpdate [GUIDE] Enjoy GAMING again by ruining the fun of sexhavers and foids

Are you a gamer? Want to take out on normies, sexhavers, and foids that infest what used to be OUR hobby? Those of us born in the 80's will remember a time when being a gamer was scorned. We were bullied, chastised, and shunned from our peer groups for enjoying video games. This would last up until the mid to late 90's when the media finally started pushing games to "dudebros" and eventually women in the early to mid 2000's. Finally in the past 10 years we've seen an infestation of shitskins and third worlders completely flooding everything. I refuse to lay down and die. I will stand and fight till the bitter end.
It's time to turn the tables and make them suffer as they made us suffer, both in life and the virtual world. (Legally and within the confines of the game, this is NOT a guide to IRL ruinate or anything of the sort.) Some of this stuff isn't allowed if you're an EU gamer.
First off, you're going to have to let go of playing video games to "win" or acquire virtual greed. You're going to need a new mindset. The mindset of a sadistic psychopath hellbent on extracting keks from anyone and everyone deemed not one of us. No more giving a fuck about your KDA, w/l ratio, or "following the rules" or the "meta" of what other players expect you to do. You are a gamer going your own way, regardless of what the groupthink expects or wants. If the game is F2P or you're a richfag or jewtuber who can get free games from devs then being banned is part of the fun, and is expected of you. If you cannot afford to buy back into games or are too technologically retarded to change your IP and spoof your hardware to get around bans in F2P games then you'll have to tread carefully.
Here's the part where I instruct you on how to fuck over these sexhavers for your own sadistic pleasure. After all they've denied us a life worth living in the real world and treat us like lepers. It's time they feel uncomfortable in OUR space. Feel free to add to any of these methods or pitch in ideas.
Foid infested "cozy" games
Shit like "Animal Crossing" or "Palia." Anything that lets you decorate and grow shit is a "cozy" game and women infest these games more than any other. It's literally a containment game of sorts to keep them out of other shit. To fuck with women in these games all you have to do is steal resources, build ugly and annoying things within the game world, be rude via emotes and text chat, and use emotes to make it look like your character is grabbing their tits or eating them out. I once did /eat to some slag girl gamer in WoW Vanilla 20 years ago and when I reverse searched my name she was bitching about it on reddit and remembered my characters exact name 4-5 years ago. She's STILL SEETHING about it 15 years later. This is what you want. Virtual RAPE. Many foids stream these types of games, and it's incredibly easy to get under their skin. Make the ugliest characters you possibly can and always stand in their camera. Stalk them in-game. Uglify the world around them. Spam emotes. The world is your oyster.
MMORPG's
World of Warcraft, or anything else really. Gank them. Corpse camp them. Dispel their world buffs. Emote spam sexually assault them. Use a high level or highly geared character to camp low level quest zones and steal mobs, resources, and kill low level players. Stream snipe them till they hide their screen with nothingness. Join their guilds and steal their resources after faking being a Chad. Get the entire guild wiped, blame it on the women healers. Play a vital role and underperform / disconnect at pivotal moments and blame a thunderstorm. Make everyone wait on your actions, but not enough to get gkicked. Openly challenge sex havers lifestyles in discord voice calls and call them out on their privileged bullshit. (Genetics, riches, went to a nice school, raised by good parents, etc.) Use every underbelly evil shithead tactic that these fuckers used towards us during our childhoods and young adult lives. Roleplay it up and lie about your IRL self to make them feel inferior. Exploit early and often, and cash out via RMT before you get banned or when you quit for some NEET bucks. If the game has a "random queue" system you can wipe endless groups or refuse to participate and hold entire game lobbies hostage.
FPS
Overwatch, Counter Strike, etc. Simply play terribly in ranked matches. Don't assist the team. Mic spam. Play vital roles like tank or healer then simply don't heal and tell them openly on the mic to beg if they want heals. Refuse to play at all if a woman is in voice chat. Verbally accost every white knight that defends her. Remember, they're most likely wagies who have to go to work tomorrow and you're most likely a NEET who has infinite free time. Remind them of this. (Even if it's not true.) In FPS with one life, openly tell the enemy team where your team mates are camping. Use aimbots, wall hacks, and other cheats to make both sides pissed off. If you're doing well gloat. If you're playing shittily, then call them a loser or a nerd. Flashbang your own team. Drop objective items as far as possible. Die with expensive guns (Auto sniper in CS triggers normies.) and make sure the enemy acquires them. Acquire or goad team mates into team killing you to 2 week ban them.
MOBA / RTS
League, Dota 2, Age of Empires, and other slop. Never go to the "meta" lane. (AD carry / support normally go bottom lane, but you're gonna always go middle, and steal your own teams jungle.) Never build the right items. Feed the enemy team, kill steal your own. Never push lanes or objectives. Ping spam. Keep text chats very "safe" to avoid bans. When a team mate dies, some ping spam and a "?" goes a long way. Never agree to surrender, unless your team is winning. Always report everyone who rages on you. Play characters that have statistically low win rates or are extra annoying. Use a lag switch to delay and hold entire lobbies hostage (RTS). Wall in your own team. Use retarded high risk low reward build orders. Be completely useless all of the time and never join team fights except after everyone's dead then schizo gaslight them that they were the ones not helping.
Survival, Crafting / Building Games
Minecraft, and shit like it. Become insanely super godlike good at the game. Learn all the metas, muscle memory, speed run tech, and master PvP. Join reddit servers and ruinate months of "cozy crafting" with max enchanted equipment and masterful grief tactics. Construct server destroying redstone machines. Completely ruin spawn and active players bases while they're offline. Destroy their VIP / pay 2 win "donation" special items. Join their discords and spam anti-vax, anti-pitbull, and black people violence webms from rekt threads on 4chan to get their servers shut down. Literally use modded hacked clients to ESP radar hack and dupe your way to victory, kicking down reddit twerps virtual sand castles and record the seethe in their discord voice chats while pretending you don't know what's going on. Abuse and exploit anything you can to the detriment of other players (Shittily coded cash shops and stores. RPG elements that are 100% broken, like a "health swap" spell that you can use on any god-geared player to swap your 1/2 heart health with their full HP then 1 shot them naked kinda shit.)
Indie slop
None of these games have any cheat protection. Cheat Engine even the most basic shit. I once played some slop card game and was able to set my opponents HP at the start of the game to 0 and win immediately. You can pretty much speed hack on all of this shit and most hack sites will have a few dedicated cheat bros that can do the wildest shit like gain access to admin panels and other destructive things. Even without cheats most basic exploits can really break these games. If a dupe method worked on one shitty survival Unreal 5 sloppa game, chances are it works on the other 7,000.
VR / Roleplay shit
Fondle titties. When the white knights run up and shout "back off" loudly point and laugh at them. Force feed slags coconut drinks. Put your arm around everyone and get really up close in their face. Make fun of their furfag outfits. Call them trannies. Take a right wing stance on everything. Use cheats to spam gore and porn everywhere. Use mod menus (Cheats) to force other players to emote or spawn giant laggy objects and explosions. Always talk shit in VOIP and spam soundboards. Be as annoying and as insufferable as possible.
Single Player Games
Okay, so this one's hard to "troll" but there's still ways to do it. You gotta share stuff in normie spaces that will offend and upset them. There was a guy that played Red Dead 2 and brutually murdered and tortured the "women have a right to vote" NPC to the point where he got banned off jewtube for it cause it pissed off so many redditors. You're gonna have to be real creative with this one. If you're a jewtuber you can intentionally kill off all the gay NPC's in Baldurs Gate 3 or something during your streams or playthroughs and watch the seethe roll in. Or make misleading and untrue guides or push a narrative you'd prefer to see and post them to normie sites to really stick it to 'em.
Please, feel free to share your ways of griefing and trolling foids and sexhavers within the confines of the video game. Since we can't be happy in real life, the least we can do is make their virtual lives closer to ours. Give them a taste of their own medicine. The only joy I have left in life is making others seethe in video games, because what the fuck else is there to do?
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2024.05.16 15:12 Flittingsis vivosmart HR replacement

I have a quite old vovosmart HR. It doesn't keep a charge as well as it used to but that's ok, I can work with that. However, I noticed today that the hear rate zone alert was inaccurate during my run/walk. Not a huge deal, but if I'm going to start getting back into running then I want to have accurate information (I was in zone 3, but the notification kept saying that my heat rate was low even though it is set for zone 3).
For a replacement my main requirement is a watch that isn't bulky or very large. I've been trying to compare the specs on the website and have it narrowed down to a couple options but wanted to get some opinions of people who actually use the devices.
The vivosmart is obviously one option. The small size is a real plus. The same general features as my old one, but just better.
The Venu is another option mainly b/c it is listed as a smaller option. I like the square faces more than the round faces, so that would be the Sq or Sq 2. Give me a reason why the round face is better and I'll listen.
I don't want a coach on my wrist. GPS seems neat, but probably unnecessary. However, the safety feature would be nice. I don't care about music storage.
Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.16 15:12 Suspicious_Cat4737 Scabies cheaper Treatment

My son had Scabies starting on waistline and ignored it, not realising what it was. Any way, to cut a long story short, it became crusted and spread to other family members. The doctor told me I had Sebhorreic Dermatitis and gave me scalp medication. When the rash appeared on my body, I was prescribed 2 doses of permethrin. After the treatment I started getting severe itching on my feet and became convinced that my scalp must have been the beginning of it and ordered Permithrin Soap from India which is much cheaper than small 5% cream which barely covers your whole body. I rubbed it into my scalp after lathering it with cold water on dry skin and used it all over my body. It penetrates more into the skin and you can get more coverage than the cream. I have noticed a massive difference in the itching. It’s only 1% Permithrin but lathers up into a cream absorbed by the skin. Going to use 2nd dose today and leave overnight. This is so much cheaper and I am convinced it will work. I can’t believe how the GP didn’t connect the scalp as being infected!!!
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2024.05.16 15:12 glorbogal Post-Ep. 12 FTC Thoughts

Relatively new to edgic, but I have some thoughts on FTC based on the storylines we’ve seen highlighted in this season/episode. Kenzie is locked in for the win either way.
  1. I can definitely see FTC as a Charlie vs Kenzie situation, with Ben breaking the tie vote in Kenzie’s favor (as several people have now pointed out). I think the fact that Ben’s vote for Kenzie and the (not negative) aftermath of it at camp was so emphasized definitely bolsters this theory. The inclusion of Charlie’s “why did Ben vote for Kenzie?” line during post TC debrief was interestingly placed. Kenzie and Charlie also have had the highest, most consistent visibility for the duration of the game.
  2. But…is Maria the disliked personality that can’t manage to pull off a win at FTC? I can see a Maria vs Kenzie finale with Ben breaking the tie as well. I know the popular conclusion right now is Maria gets out at 5, which makes sense for sure. It’s not likely, but possible, for Maria to go on an immunity tear and then win fire (which she was specifically called out at the sanctuary for being good at doing). There was also the confessional with her talking about how she doesn’t like to feel disliked/Venus’ tribal comments. Maria also was a direct foil to Charlie’s pre-tribal aside with Ben about not wanting Maria to feel betrayed the day after tribal—now it’s Charlie with the sense of betrayal from his former #1 ally. She’s the only player left who has a strong enough negative edit if we’re taking the inclusion of Jeff’s line in the first ep as setting up a “why ___ loses” narrative. I think this would be a much more dynamic interpretation of the social game win for Kenzie we’re all gearing up for next week. Venus and Tiff probably won’t vote for Maria. Hunter said Kenzie was his number 1. With Q likely for voting for Maria, maybe Tevin and Soda also hop in and vote Maria. Charlie could vote Maria if he does get the boot. Liz prob leans Kenzie because of the rock paper scissors debacle. It’s not super likely, but I could definitely see this as a (distant) possibility.
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2024.05.16 15:12 MikiPunani Should I transition from working as an investment analyst to a product analyst?

I have been working as an investment analyst in the equity real estate sector for 2 years (my first full time job). As much as I enjoy learning about the markets and different property types, I don’t have the stamina for long and stressful hours and I get burned out every week. I’ve also experienced anxieties and panic attacks due to the unending list of priorities everyday.
I am considering to make a move in a different role such as a product analyst role as I am looking into a less stressful role but still within the industry. However, I’m unsure if this is the right thing to do as I don’t have a good understanding of what product analysts do on a day to day. As far as the salary goes, I know that an analyst level in investments earn much more relative to a product analyst role, however also noting that there is also an attractive earning potential in the products side once you become more senior in the role.
Should I stick in my current role and hope that once I get up on the learning curve, things will be easier for me? Or should I just make a move early on? Any advice would be appreciated.
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