Choti ke cudai

Dabba ne sabko shopping karwai ammi, dono khala and amma; but jaise ye log faltu ka content or thumbnail banate thy fuhaan ki ammi fuhaan ki ammi toh wahi fuhaan ki ammi ka phela mother's day tha kuch special effort nhi ???? Dabba itna sukha sukha sab kuch ??? Abhi tumhare he bhai bhabhi ne tumko woh challenge karwaya jisme tumne woh saman liya h jo sayad Zindagii me nhi dekha hoga ya khareeda hoga even tumko use he nhi karna ayega jiss level ka professional saman layi ho or suit bhi le aayi thi.... Toh vlog ke liye he sahi ek bag ya suit bhabhi ke liye bhi le leti. Downvotes hoga but I really don't care maydumb koi dudh ki dhulli nhi h lekin is this right ?? Not pampering her in pregnancy days , postpartum pregnancy days and even when you are saying everything on vlog and like taunting toh kya ek suit ya kuch bhi bhabhi ke liye bol deti toh kya choti ho jati challu ?? Challu your bhabhi did really good with you if it's on camera then also kam se kam show to karti thi na she groomed her, shadi , shopping, such gifts every thing thoda toh insaan ko ehsaan faramosh hona chahiye.

March me mummy Milne aai thi, kuch din ruki bhi thi ek raat ko aaise hi kisi choti se baat pe mujhe Rona aaya tabhi mummy ne dekh liya
Vo puchne lagi kya hua,ye sunkar Mai apne aansu roka nahi paya aur,aur jyada rone laga
Mai 1 ghanta Mummy ke pallu me sar chupa ke roya,mummy pooch Rahi thi ki kya hua Mai kuch nahi bola bas rota gaya aur rota gaya
Rone ke baad duniya fir se rangeen dikne lagi thi
आप अपना भी बताइए 🥹🥹

Yesterday, while at college to submit my last sem pending assignments, I experienced a moment that left a lasting impact. As my teacher was in a meeting and asked me to wait for an hour, I took a walk to a nearby tapri and lit a cigarette. Surrounded by college students, I found myself seated near a Swiggy delivery guy.
Our eyes met, and unexpectedly, he opened up to me, his story filled with heartache. He began by saying, "Bhai zindagi mai padhai jarur karna aur bhot padhai karna. Padhai ke bina kuch nahi hai. Mai roj rota hu bhai. 700 rs kamata hu din ke. 500 ghar deta hu 200 ka petrol dalwata hu. Bete ko english medium mai padhara hu jisse aage chalke ye na kehde ki baap ne mere liye kuch nhi kra. Pure din bas ek 30 rs ki biryani ki plate mai rehta hu bhai. 10 rs kharchne ke lie bhi sochna padta hai. Yeh cigarette mere dost ne dillayi mujhe. Subah 6 bje rote hue nikalta hu aur 11 bje rote hue ghusta hu. Sote waqt bas yeh maangta hu ki moksh miljaaye. Agar maa baap saath hote toh shayad asa na hota n aaj. Choti umar mai gundagardi kari. Nahi maani kisi ki baat, ab toh bas marjaau toh badhia. Bas bhai bura mat banna lekin bhot padhna. Jeb mai paise ho jab apne kamaye hue jitne nashe chaho karna. Bas bhot padhna. Maa baap ke lie padhna. Apne is bade bhai ko yaad rakhte hue."Ordering chai for us both, I offered him a small gesture of comfort.
This encounter amplified my sense of responsibility and compassion. It was a powerful reminder of the challenges many face and the importance of striving for a better future, not only for ourselves but for the well-being of those around us.This touching encounter illustrates the profound effect that one person's story can have on another, and how empathy can deepen our understanding of life's complexities.

Just realised lamba chavda likh diya- Jinka exam hai kripaya kripaya karke na padhe apni padhai par dhyan de. unless break liya ho.
raat ke 2:15 baj rahe hai. and this thing is stuck in my mind since morning. mene series of bad decisions liye hai. like offcourse not resisting like mujhe engineering nahi karni , iske upar kuch karano wajah se drop lena aur bhi bahot hai, saare padhai related bhi nahi hai lekin sabse ganda drop wala tha. mujhe vet banna tha ik its yuck for some people lekin, dheere dheere i understood its the same shit as JEE tough ahhh competition everywhere. not for me. mein drawing mein bhi kaafi accha hu, mujhe banna tha ek architect, gharwalon ko lagta hai architecture is useless bruh like actual architect banne ka sapna hai mera, chalo sahi yeh nahi toh nahi commerce? NEIN Lmao
Drop year ke shuruvaat mein he mujhe malum tha nahi hone wala mujhse yeh :) jihne real interest hai IIT NIT's mein jaane ka woh tak reh jaate hai peeche. mene toh sapne bhi nahi dekhe inke lmao kyuki karni he nahi thi eng.
ab anyways drop lene ko keh diya, PCM mein daal diya, Coaching mein daal diya. itna sab kara toh karna padega hem mujhse hua nahi kuch :) 70 percentile aayi last year iss baar 70 aur second pucho na toh sahi. Though mene try kara JEE maths accha karne ka kyuki B.arch ka paper bhi dene wala tha diya bhi. Did good in drawing but idk I fucked up maths sincerely.
mere parents mujhe kitna bhi ganda score aa jaaye kuch na kehte literally. Reason is they tried for few exams and failed back in their times. and yeh jo kuch nahi kehne wala part hai it hurts more then anything. Gaali dedo toh bhi chal jayega, silence is really loud ff's
Ab mujhe really nahi pata mujhe kya karna chahiye like koi carrier switch bhi possible nahi hai. Engineering is the way now, mera cet 11 ko hai. I don't know mein kya he karunga. Pura burn out ho chukaa hu. upar se mental health ke jo actual dragonized lode lage pade hai woh different. Pata nahi kitne number aayenge ya kya, I gave mocks scored decentish or even bad for few but its relative (90-110 never more then this and less then 90). mene mera part kara sahi se sahi - Chem and maths ke 22,23 pyqs kare saare ke saare physics reh gaya though lekin koi ni gand maraye. even if i fail to score good i won't feel shit bas decent sa score aa jaye bas like 90-94 ke beech mein khushhh aaye aaye nahi aaye nahi aaye. mujhe cse bhi nahi chahiye- abhi ke liye only mechanical interest me a little kyuki mene curriculum dekha uska (mere ke cousin se pata chala sab kuch) and this is the only thing that interests me.
But life is straight up fucked. nahi mila accha percentile toh yaha local mein CSE ya entc se kaam chalana padega since there is no point in spening ONE SEXTILLION DOLLARS on a tier 55 college. Abhi ke liye i will have to stick to engineeing kyuki yahi plate pe khana dalega aage masters wagera bhi karunga since abhi toh chud gaya huuu :).
Drop na liya hota* toh aaj dost jo yahi local college mein hai unke saath admission le leta, toh i would have been much more happier atleast. khudke interest explore karta, drawing banani aati i would have worked on acrylic painting, portraits yeh woh. yeh saal jo mental health ko chot pahuchi hai that is ahhhhhhhh i don't even know what to say. Interest nahi bacha kisi mein, chalta firta laash hu bas lol.
Laptop leke balcony mein baitha hu garmi ki wajah se, planes revise kar raha tha, suddenly yeh dimag mein explodeee jaisa kar gaya ab type kar raha, Subah se su!cdeee contemplate kar raha, ro raha hu literally idk what have i even become its not academic thing lmao, gand maraye result gand maraye sab kuch 50 percentile bhi aa jaye toh i will not feel sad, kyuki kari hai mene mehnat. maths pura ragad diya chem pura ragad diya with pyqs, lack of revision is gonna fuck me prolly lekin abhi ke liye fuck it. lekin depression kaccha chaba jaa raha. na kisi mein interest hai na kuch. my mind is playing both teams- ek kehta hai pagal hai kya bsdk ? jindagi bahot choti hai, yeh sab mat soch ek kehta hai mar ja bhai life toh waise bhi suffering hai. I am damn sure i will not KMS lmao, because i am a pussy to do so and i have constant hope of things will get better. bahot dino se i didn't see anything get better isi wajah se thoda kam ho raha ispe bhi bharosa lekin again i hope things will get better :))))))
am not bluffing on depression part- actually diagnosed hu moderately depressed, many personal reasons led to this.
JO BHI DROP LENE KA SOCH RAHE HAI PLEASE I REQUEST YOU- PEHLE KHUDKO PARKHO, TUMHARI MENTAL HEALTH KAISI HAI YEH DEKHO DON'T BE STUPID AND TAKE DROP AGAR TUM ALREADY DEPRESSED AND ANXIOUS HO. IT'S A FRESH START FROM BASICS- LEKIN JUST LOOK BACK AT YOURSELF 2 YEARS AGO AND SOCHO KAHA GALAT GAYA MEIN ? MUJHE SAMAJH MEIN TOH SAB AATA THA GALAT KAHA GAYA? IT MIGHT BE LIKE PROBLEM SOLVING KAM KARI YEH WOH. LEKIN AGAR LAGE- YOU TRIED YOUR BESTT I MEAN BESST AND STILL FAILED, YOU CAN GO FOR DROP THOUGH, KEH RAHA TRIED YOUR BEST. (mIGHT KEH RAHA). SOCH SAMAJH KE LIYO DROP PLEASEEE AUR LIYA TOH KOI KASAR NA CHHODO WARNA, EK SAAL BAAD JAB TUMHARA EXAM HOTA JEE NEET CET KOI BHI USKE 3 DIN PEHLE TUM AISA RANT TYPE KAROGE 😭

Hi!
In case you're wondering, yes, I'm 21. I know you probably have TONS of questions, and I'll address them end mein. But for now, here's a not-so-little bit about me (get some popcorn, one heck of a post).
Gender: Male
Age: 21
Height & Weight: 5'10" & 54 kg
Marital status: Single (21 mein toh divorced hone se raha 😔)
Education: Pursuing mechanical engineering in a renowned university
Profession: Started a marketing agency recently so I can fund my startup In sha Allah
Hobbies: Haye, aik ho toh bataun. I've picked up almost everything under the Sun - Rubik's cube, skating, sketching, poetry, piano, consuming self-help + business stuff. But one thing that's been permanent is Bollywood rom-com (Dilwaale, Humpty Sharma ki Dulhania, uffff SIMP for these)
Do you want kids? Not in the next 5 years. After that, In sha Allah
Religion: This is a tough one. Alhamdulillah, I fast poora but I struggle with praying. As of now, I don't pray (which is something I need to work on). Other than that, I'm FAIRLY religious.
When it comes to matters dealing with people, I am extremely cautious - kisi ko hurt na karun. I refuse to take interest (and In sha Allah, never will). Although I myself listen to songs, but I don't put them on my publich social media posts (work related, more on that later).
I was recently working with a client (from Australia) and I was ultimately getting people to buy homes (which is done on interest over there), so I quit that (despite that being my only source of income). Allah had better plans (I kept on working with that agency on other clients though, so win-win).
Deal breakers:
1. Doesn't care about halal/haram income: I am obsessed with this. I would rather die hungry than feed myself and my family from haram earnings.
2. Emotional and can't hold discussions: I'm someone who's very calm when solving problems. I see it as "as vs. the problem" instead of "you vs. I", and I expect my wife to do the same. To communicate what bothered her, what problems she's facing so we can solve that instead of being emotional, taane maarna, behas karna.
3. Can't change her opinions on something: If you believe a Sun is a star, and I give you evidence to support that it isn't, and you still don't change your mind, can't happen. I'm always ready to learn new things and change my opinion on something (if I'm given the facts, evidence and logic) and expect my wife to to the same.
4. Is a "feminist": I cannot stress this enough. Although I crack a LOT of sexist jokes, I am a feminist, but not in the way you'd expect. I want to make my wife financially independent, so if we seperate or I die, she doesn't have to struggle. I also want to teach her how to do everything without me (for the said reason). I am NOT a fan of "mera jism, mera marzi" and pseudo-feminism.
5. A medical professional who plans on working: Doctors spend a lot of time hospitals aur patents ke saath, and I want a partner who's there for me. Not someone who works 12 hours a day and comes home too tired to do ANYTHING (not talking about chores).
6. Doesn't dress modestly: Definition - revealing clothes, no dupatta, jeans. You don't necessarily have to do hijab or niqab but still modest dressing.
Interesting facts about you:
Remember how I wrote I'm just 21? I'm a big advocate of early marriages. Why?
Not only do you stay away from haram relationships and zina, but your focus is just on one place - your person. You can really get ahead in life when you have that one person's support. I want to build my life with that person. I have big dreams. Shayad ho jayen, shayad nahi. Allah ki marzi. But mein ne apni taraf se efforts daalni hain, and I want my wife to support me throughout that.
And an interesting story
My aapi was a kid when she brought an eraser home. Apparently, her friend gifted her that. My mother got suspicious and thought aapi ne chori ki hai. She wrote a letter to her teacher asking her to make sure yeh gift hi tha.
She did that to make sure keh itni choti si bachi bhi chori na kar rahi ho.
That's the kind of family my family is. Hamari family mein people don't lie. We don't steal. Even taking a fruit from someone's tree without asking them is considered stealing.
Itna trust hai keh even if I get "caught" in a hotel room with a girl and I say keh I don't know the girl, toh my parents WILL believe me. Of course, I honour that just as much and would never do that.
City: Islamabad
Residence (Own/Rented): Government
Family details: Father is a civil servant, mother is a housewife, one married sister. Upper middle class
Requirements:
1. Supports me emotionally: I would say I'm an entrepreneur, and the stress in my life is fucking crazy. All I want from my wife is to hold my hand and tell me she's there for me and always will be by my side.
2. Values align karti hon: Honest, respectful (I greet even sweepers, kaam wali auntie and everyone bara, and I respect my teachers so much I don't talk about them naam le kar even behind their back), doesn't hurt others (would rather hurt herself).
3. Humour: Bohat lame dad jokes maarta hun. Bas don't say "lame" or "hasna tha" at my jokes and we're good to go ;)
4: Accountability: You can accept when you're wrong and don't let your ego get in the way
Upar upar se, that's mainly it.
Expectations from the partner:
Someone who's my safe place. The last thing I want is when I'm home, I have one more thing to worry about.
Timeframe in which you want to marry: 6-12 months

Kuch nhi bas kal birthday tha tho ek dost bol raha tha ki special din hota kuch karne dekho har birthday.
I don't feel special truly, not for any particular reason. But I completely get why it can be special and a thing to celebrate. Just I have never look forward to it or planned the day for something very significant.
Fir bhi accha gaya I am blessed to have loving people around, tho mujhe personally lagta bhot significant chez ho he gayi.

1. Mummy Kheri banayi har saal ki tarah kyuki mujhe pasand hai ( mujhe laga ye saal nhi hota, bas tiring hota itna extra kam ).
2. Ek dost ke sath pastry aur chole kulche khaye
3. Mere neighbourhood me ek cute choti bachi ( bhen he Maan lo ) usme tshirt gift di aur card banaya

ek choti ki achievement meri bhi ALLEN ke mock mee 300+ finally ik bhot zyada nahi hai but I was fucking stucked between 250-300 give up krdiya tha maine ki is saal to nahi hoga (abhi bhi nahi hoga) to last week se dhang se phadhai nahi kr paya....ab thodi hope mili hai ki 450 tk Jaa skta hu...izzat to bacha hi lu kamse kam

Its been a 1.5 month since I left reddit as my downfall has ended up...........So as such mai apne baare mein thoda bata du ki mai koi social media apps nahi chalata reddit chalata tha woh bhi AB nai ............Ab tak sab accha hi chal Raha hai life mein thoda bhot dukh aata hai life mein but bear kar leta hu ......Sorry baato baato mein maine apne baare mein batana hi bhool Gaya I am a jee drop year student (drop year end ho chuka) abhi kal Mera result aaya not boasting but I got a pretty decent score of 94%ile which enough for me ..........not for my family kyunki unki expectations kabhi khatam nahi hone wali khair iss baare mein phir kabhi baat karenge ......dekho ab mai thodi apne Mann ki baat karta hu
Mai yeah nahi keh Raha ki reddit chodne se meri life mein jyada Khushi aayi it's just ki ab mujhe khush hone ke liye reddit par aane ki neeed nai hai ....sach batau to bina social media ke mujhe itna sukun milta hai bhot jyada also mai ek baat bata du ki jab Mera mains ka paper khatam hua tha pass hi badminton academy hai training ke liye join karli (even I bought a racket and a pair of shoes for badminton and poori duniya ke sports centre surajkund mein meerut ke 12 number shoes ka sirf ek pair tha still )thi and sachme poore dinn mein mujhe itni happiness kabhi nai milti jitni uss do ghanto ke liye milti hai ....unn do ghanto ke liye mai bas apne andar ki Khushi dekhta hu bass mujhe fark nahi padta ki life mein kya hoga kya nai ...job milegi nai .... successful honge ya nai .....koi ladki mujhe pasand karegi ya nai .......it's just me for that time .............latter at present pair mein cramp aaya hua hai 😅 not cuz of badminton ghar mein hi pair Mudd gaya tha.........I am not sure ki ye sukoon kab Tak rehne wala hai .....but I wish ki hamesha ke liye reh jaaye .......
Aaj “reddit wale homies” ki yaad aayi to socha wada Kiya tha chodne Wale post mein kuch accha hua to life update jaroor doonga to ye hai abhi ka life update ..........dekho mujhe nai pata ki tum kis hal mein ho kya problem hai tumhari life mein bass ek baat yaad rakhana aur imagine karna ki jiss problem se tum abhi gujar rahe ho Aaj se dass sawaal baad jab tumhari ek choti si family hogi ek sundar si wife ek khilkhilata hua baccha hoga kya tab bhi tumhe Aaj wali problem yaad rahegi ya nahi ......sirf ye sochna and u will get the answer
I am not stating ki mai bhot ideal life jee Raha hu problems abhi bhi hai ....but mujhe ab utna fark\dukh nahi hota unko leke I just take them as a problem for a very certain period of time
Ab mujhe koi idea nai hai ki college life kaisi hogi kaisi nahi but itna sure hai ki mai apna composure nahi khone wala whatsoever be the problem
ek aur baat 1.5 month ke difference se batara hu shitposting hoti to hai iss subreddit pe ab jyada 😅
Mere real life mein ek hi dost hai woh college mein 9-10 din mein baat hoti rehti hai . .......but u homies hits different.........so tum bhi ek din meri tarah khush ho jaoge ......
Stay happy fellas ..........oh sorry bhailog
Aur ha dobara kuch aacha hua TO JARUR. Aaunga aur nahi bhi hua to bhi jo ho Raha hai woh batane aaunga........iss wale ke comments bhi padhunga.....dekhu to sahi bhailog ko mai yaad bhi hu ya nahi 😅😅🙂
Bye for this time 👋

A very close friend (female) of mine today suffered from a fate no girl should ever face.
She is a 2026 neetard, and hence usse apne Ghar se door Nanded, Maharashtra me uske parents ne bhej Diya hai for neet prep. Wo waha hostel pe rehti hai and everything is kinda average except one thing, some mf Chapris who tease her jab wo coaching jaati hai.
Aaj wo coaching jaa rahi thi afternoon 4 baje ke aaspas, ek choti si gali se, uske saath uska cousin bhi tha. Waha kuch aawara chapriyo ne usse cheda.
1.uske mooh par cigarette ka dhua maara

1. Usse touch karne ki koshish ki
   
2. Jab wo bhaagne lagi toh usse kinda dhamkaya ki "aaj toh Jaa Rahi hai, kal dekhlunga" and all
   
3. Uske cousin ne usse bachane ka try Kiya toh usse gandi gandi gaaliya di
   
4. Some people would say usne kya pehna tha, bohot modest kapde pehne the. Jab wo scarf pehenti hai toh usse tease karte hai ki "kya aakhe hai, aakhe aisi hai toh andar se kya hi dikhti hogi" types. Toh scarf is not an option to safe guard her.
   

Bhaiyas and Didis, mai aapse sab se humble request karna chahta hu ki aap apne experience se kuch toh solution dede iss samasya ka. My friend feels it's her fault ye sab ho raha hai, which is not. It is assertive that police me FIR lodge karna is not an option for her, for reasons unknown.
A. Agar koi aisa tarika ho jisse anonymous police complaint ho sake, regarding this matter, please let me know.
B. Agar koi tarika ho jisse aisa experience uske saath naa ho, please let me know.
C. Any other help would be appreciated.
Edit :- Uska cousin bhi ussi ke class me hai and bss wo dono hi hai waha akele, no family members and no relatives nearby. Uska main argument hai ki ek ladka karta toh complaint kar deti, but alag alag ladke roz chedte hai, kitno ki complaint kare wo?

A friend of mine coahcing jaa rahi thi afternoon 4 baje ke aaspas, ek choti si gali se, uske saath uska cousin (male) bhi tha. Waha kuch aawara chapriyo ne usse cheda.

1. uske mooh par cigarette ka dhua maara
   
2. Usse touch karne ki koshish ki
   
3. Jab wo bhaagne lagi toh usse kinda dhamkaya ki "aaj toh Jaa Rahi hai, kal dekhlunga" and all
   
4. Uske cousin ne usse bachane ka try Kiya toh usse gandi gandi gaaliya di
   
5. Some people would say usne kya pehna tha, bohot modest kapde pehne the. Jab wo scarf pehenti hai toh usse tease karte hai ki "kya aakhe hai, aakhe aisi hai toh andar se kya hi dikhti hogi" types. Toh scarf is not an option to safe guard her.
   

Bhaiyas and Didis, mai aapse sab se humble request karna chahta hu ki aap apne experience se kuch toh solution dede iss samasya ka. My friend feels it's her fault ye sab ho raha hai, which is not. It is assertive that police me FIR lodge karna is not an option for her, for reasons unknown. I know aapke results ka tension chal raha hai but this matter is urgent, I hope you understand.
A. Agar koi aisa tarika ho jisse anonymous police complaint ho sake, regarding this matter, please let me know.
B. Agar koi tarika ho jisse aisa experience uske saath naa ho, please let me know.
C. Any other help would be appreciated.
Edit :- Uska cousin bhi ussi ke class me hai and bss wo dono hi hai waha akele, no family members and no relatives nearby. Uska main argument hai ki ek ladka karta toh complaint kar deti, but alag alag ladke roz chedte hai, kitno ki complaint kare wo?

I'm 23 from Gujarat mujhe apne 4+ ke long distance relationship ke liye advice chahiye ( mere unpaid therapist ban jao )
Starting se meri situation samjhte hai
Mai Gujarat se hu aur mai 5 saal phele apne friend ke sath delhi ghoomne gaya tha... udhar hum ek party me gaye the aur tab mai apni gf se pheli baar mila tha hum mile humne baate ki in short humari vibe match ho gayi thi... humne number exchange kare n fir mahino tak baate karte gaye phele texts fir calls n hum close aate gaye dekhte hi dekhte relationship me aa gaye.
Year 1 - honeymoon period
Hum log relationship ke honeymoon period me the... ek doosre se raat baar baat karte fir din me apne apne kaam pe hote.... din me bhale hi busy rehte par raat ko ache se baat karte apne poore din ki baate batate ( mujhe bohot pasand hai uski baate suna matlab mai bina bore hue poori raat uski baate sun sakta hu ) best year of my life..... hum pheli baar sath me trip pe gaye the goa... best trip n sabse badiya saal meri zindagi ke
Year 2 - EX
Humari relationship ka doosra saal start hua hum khush the.... ek dikkhat thi uska ex vo log ahbi bi touch me the khabi kabar wish n baate kar lete ( mujhe ye baat pata thi n mujhe koi problem nahi tha haa thoda jealous tha kyuki bc usko guitar bheja ne aata tha ) vo dono ek hi city me the toh mujhe thoda ajeeb lagta tha but mene khabi ye baat boli nahi fir vo log close aane lage mujhe acha nahi lag raha tha toh mene ek raat baat ki mujhe ye acha nahi lag raha n usne ye baat ko samjha aur mujhse bola ki vo baat kam karegi n doori banake rakhegi...... baaki toh sab me we were good humne sath aur bi achi trips kari acha time spend kiya.... regular days pe dono din me apne kaam me busy hote n raat ko ache se baat karte masti karte , movies series dekhte , reels n current affairs pe charcha karte MAJE HI MAJEEEE
Year 3 - good news n bad news
Good - humne apne apne ghar pe relationship ke baare me bata diya n dono ki family open thi sabne accept kiya hum log khush the mai uski family se mila vo meri family se mili ( vo toh meri family ki favorite hi ban gayi ) shaadi ke baare me baat hone lagi humne decide kiya ki 4-5 saal me shaadi kar lege aur tab tak financially independent bi ho jayege apni nayi life sath me start karege.
Bad - meri gf jaha job karti thi udhar uske ache friends bane gaye the acha bada group tha unka weekends me sab sath me plan karte bahar jaate short trips, movies , clubs etc etc
Ab uss group me se do ladke ( ramesh n suresh ) uske ache dost ban gaye... ramesh ke sath thoda zyaada hi close hone lagi vo sath me lunch n dinner karte vo acha dost ban gaya tha.... fir ek din suresh ne propose kar diya.... meri gf ne usko mana kar diya.... thode dino baad ek aur bomb fatta ki ramesh bi like karta hai aur ye kaise pata chala ye logo ne house party rakhi thi sab daaru ke nashe me truth n dare khel rahe the aur ramesh bhaisahab ne bata diya ( ye bkl male bestfriend ) aur ye sab baate meri gf ne mere sath share kiya tha toh kya ho raha hai mujhe sab pata tha.... meri gf ko sirf unke sath dosti continue rakhni thi n ladke kamine toh hote hai.
Ye sab fir bi theek tha mujhe thoda insecure feel hota tha par mujhe uspe poora trust tha aur achi ladki hai ( green flag )
Ek baar mai milne gaya tha hum sath me trip pe gaye the ek raat mai uska phone use kar raha tha ( check kar raha tha ) aur mujhe gallery me uske group ke trips ki photo dekhi aur bi clubs party ki photos dekhi jo mujhe ye pata nahi thi ( ye baat mere liye isliye badi hai kyuki hum jo bi karte the kahi bi bahar jaate the toh update karte the ya raat ko batate the ki kidhar gaye kya kiya etc etc ) aur ye saari parties n trips ke baare me mujhe nahi bataya tha vo dono ladke bi group me the aur mujhe ye bilkul bi acha nahi laga mene khabi iske baare me usse baat nahi ki bas pata nahi kyu mann me hi baat rakhi aur iss baat ne mujhe bohot effect kiya humari trip katam hui mai apne ghar gaya mai raat ko so nahi pata tha mai ro bi nahi pata tha.. pata nahi kya feeling thi.. confuse ho gaya tha.. kuch bi samjh nahi aa raha tha... mene iss baare me baat ki usne bola ki hum log apne apne kaam me busy ho gaye the ki vo bata nahi payi ( haa uss time pe hum dono kaam pe busy ho gaye the ki raat ko bi ache se baat nahi kar pate the ) par toh bi ye toh fuddu reason tha mene kuch bola nahi aur bas jaisa chal raha tha chalne diya.
Year 4 - downfall
Meri gf ko family issues ki wajah se delhi ki job chodhh ne padhi n she was good uska plan ye tha ki mba karke aur badi achi job le lugi ya govt exams ki tayari karugi ( hume koi financial issue nahi the dono ki families well to do hai ) toh iss chakar me ye baat achi hui ki uske group se dooriya badh gayi n baate bandh ho gayi.
Par hum ahbi tak phele jaise nahi hue hai april katam hone ko aaya hai hum ek baar bi nahi mile hai ahbi toh hum raat ko baat bi nahi karte hai na normal calls na video calls kyuki vo games khel rahi hoti hai mene bola usse ki humara time tum game ko de rahi ho but kuch hua nahi mene fir khabi roka nahi mujhe lagta hai ki usse game khelne se khushi milte hai vo enjoy karti hai toh mai kuch bolta nahi hu raat ko kaam se aate apni series ya movie dekh ke good night bolke so jaata hu aur mujhe strongly feel ho raha hai ki hum khabi bi break up kar sakte hai hum ek doosre se kuch share nahi karte apni problems apne pass rakhte hai.
Ek baat clear karna chata hu ye sab mere relationship ke main events the jisme mene apni side ki story batayi hai jo mene feel kiya aur khud ko clear green chit nahi de raha hu mai bi red flag hu mere bi choti si male ego hai , ladayi ke baad me hafto tak baat nahi karta , ladayi ke baad ache se nahi manata , bohot zyaada kaam me busy ho jaata hu ki time hi nahi de pata hu..
Ye kuch meri dil ki baate jo mene khabi kisko bola nahi idhar bi isliye bata paa raha hu kyuki mujhe koi janta nahi hai
Mujhe sach me help chahiye mai khud ko bohot zyaada lonely feel karne laga hu... raat ko bed pe rone ka mann karta hai par ro nahi pata hu pata nahi kya hota hai.. mere sath kya ho raha hai kuch samjh nahi aa raha hai
Thank you

Jismein wo bolta h na kuch logo ke liye hoti hogi bhai ye choti baat

17M . Bachpan se sports me bohot accha tha (state cricket bhi khela tha )aur basketball and football me school ko represent bhi kia tha fir 7 me meri academy shift hoagy aur ghar se duur hogaie isliya chood ni padhi aur uske baad Dadaji ko paralysis hogaya to puri family ka focus shift hogaya . Mere dada ji ki last wish the muhje tv me khlete hua dekhna lakin vo pura hone se peele vo challenge fir 8 ki ending me ye deicide ho ki ham shift hojayege khyki hamne naya ghar kharida tha aur uske pas ek cricket academy bhi the uska name Vijay Yadav tha (uses boot ache cricketer nikle hai jaise ki Rahul tewatia aur mohit sharma ) vaha pe baat kari to pata chola ki registration ke XXXXX amount dena tha aur family ke uper expenses ka burden tha kyuki abhi abhi shift hue the isliya decide hua ki after 6 months dekhnge aur fir 6 mahine baad jab family stable hogai to merlo mana kar Diya gaya ki is sad me future nhi hai. unto pata tha ki much sports se boot pyarr tha aur Padhi me bhi avg tha lakin uske liye kabhi family ne kuch nhi bola par pata nhi kyu mana kar diya aur fir c-19 agaya aur sab baand hoagy aur mere fitness bhi khtm ho gayi eventually in obesity fir jab 1 lockdown khula to decide kiya ki body ko back in shape Lana hai to badminton academy start kardi just for fitness aur jo Socha tha vaise hi hua fir 10 me boards agaye .paper 2 terms me the to peele me Bina paddle 70% age Lekin ghar wale boot narazz the aur mere kuch so called friends ne pock bhi kiya to fire I decide 1 time in my life to study eventually ending with 97% in 2 term aur overall something 85-87 % ke around mere 10 khtm .( mere papa nit Trichy se dropped out the kyuki uses time pe family ki financial condition thik nhi the ) unka sappna tha ki mai IIT jayu aur fir maine pcm leli aur soccha ki dadaji ka spna to pura nhi kar paya papa ka karne ki koshis karta hua aur ek ganndi si local coaching join karli pata nhi kaise unhone manipulate kiya but started preparing (uses coaching ne dummy school bhi dill diya ) 11 was great I started going to coaching mere friends bhi boot the at 11 I was that good ki I.E Irodov bhi solve Kate tha aur hot bhi thi lakin chem thodi f***d up the but fir dehire dehire I stated spending time playing basketball khuki mere society me basketball ka naya court construct hua tha and got good at it aur fir ghar pe bina baate I started playing tournaments aur position bhi thik thak ti jaise 2 ya 3 . fir Ayi 12 aur padhne se Mann hat gaya aur mere khelna ghaer walo ne baand kardia aur fir mere coaching me bohot changes hone lane purane teacher chood ke Jane legate aur without experience teacher joined which f****d up the syllabus and around nov 2023 mere coaching ke top faculty separated and formed their own institute lakin khuki separate hue the to jo owner tha puranni wali academy ka chi***ya tha aur ussne cases Karne start kardia aur jo bacche star faculty ji vajhse uni coaching Gaye to unhone baccho ko manipulate Karna start kardia aur fir saree bacche distract hoagie lekin my father was very serious about that and thanks to my big cousin brother ( vo bhai iitk se tha) I was supposed to get IIt anyway. due to this whole scenario my org chemistry was like shit and maths to kya hi bole aur fir somehow managed to score 91 percentile (27s1) in 1 attempt lekin ghar wale khush nhi the aur merko tanne padhne lagaya aur kyuki mera gym aur sports done band kardia I got fat once again . I hate study mtlb Marne sada passand hai padhne se lekin kya kara ghar ke bada beta hu to I have to do thing I hate like I love it because life sucks ye samhj agaya aur fir 12 boards die aur usme maths me thoda Ganda kardia aur fir abhi 5 ko 2 attempt diya . meri sablse badi galti ye thi ki ma kabhi na nhi bol paya .na kabhi ghar walo se paise liya party wagers Karne ka liya khaki ek mindset bann gaya Tha ki kuch achieve kar na beyond IIT. aur fir dost kamm ho Gaye aur dosti khtm hone lagi . fir lonely hoagy a ghar se niche nhi jata tha tha aue ek baat sabse zadda chubh thi ti kii me ek waste potential hu kyuki I was very good and playing and learning different sports . Aur ab a kela hua hardly 2-3 dost hai jinse baat hoti hai suci**l thought bhi boot aye Kyuki jee nhi ho para tha lekin papa ko kon samjhaya . fir Socha ki ek paper ke liye ye say nhi Karne kyuki mere family bhi hai aur ek choti behen bhi hai. mere sath ki dost jinne jee diya unke bohot zadda marks aye aur mere par aur pressure bada gaya . My father is very chill mtlb vo bolete hai ki kabhi bhi alcohol wagera try Karna ho to unnse suggestion le ke karu vo acchi suggest karenge that type of chill . agar mera IIT ho gaya tho ye bhi confirm nhi hai ki mere degree complete hogi ya nhi ye papa ko pata hai aur un hone allow bhi kar diya hai Kyuki kuch future plans hai . aur ab samjh agay hai ki life is unexpected aur what so every the situation is I will fight . ab a kela hu lekin khush hu kyuki motivation aur dicipline agaya hai aur mai apne idols ko dekhta hu (jaise mera idol cr7 hai) to ussko intna time se dekhne ke baad ye Sikh mili ki vo pane papa ka spna pura kar sakta hai to mai kyu nhi .mai bohot obbsesed hu sports se ki abhi thodi dere mere ram vs mcl ka match hai UCL😅. All the end destiny matters not the journey for me .

English Version (Look below for Urdu version):
I've recently noticed the sheer amount of misinformation in Pakistan, typically related to science, although I'd assume that it can also be extended to several other topics as well. This seems to be related to the popularity of short-form content on Facebook, typically with the same TTS voice and music playing in the background. Engaging in intellectual conversations is one of my favorite activities, so seeing people having such strange ideas is very discouraging. I've tried many times to correct people, especially in topics where I find myself to have decent knowledge, however, sometimes, the very foundation of their knowledge is so batshit insane that I just have to give up. I can't speak for the entirety of Pakistan, but I've noticed this especially in Punjab. Has anyone else encountered this, and if so, how have you dealt with it?
Urdu Version:
Mein ne aaj kal dekha hai ke Pakistan men logoon go bohut si ghalat information di jati hai, aam taour par ye science par hoti hai leken doosray chizon tak bhi ho sakti hai. Yeh aksar Facebook par mukhstasir (choti) videos ki shakal mein ati hai jis main wahin ki wahin background music aur text-to-speech (lafzoon se alfaz tak) waali awaz hoti hai. Kisi interesting topic ke bare mein baat karna mujhe kafi dilchaspi deta hai is liye logoon ke pass itne ajeeb ideas dekh kar mera mood to bilkul nahi lagta. Mein ne bohut koshish ki hai ke correct baat bataon leken kuch ideas itne pagal hote hein ke mein bus chor deta hoon. Poore Pakistan mein shaiad na ho leken Punjab men mein ne khas tour par dekha hai. Agar aap ke sath bhi aisa hua hai, to aap nai us ke sath kese niptaia hai?
(Sorry for bad translation and inconsistencies, I just wanted to add an Urdu version since some people just add Urdu and English together so I get the idea that some people find Urdu easier to read)
Edit: Maybe I should've used the word "conspiracy"... too late now.

Taken pcm in class 11th beacuse my father wanted to see me as engineer earning 1 lakh a month , bhenchod itni choti soch maine bola mai arts lunga mere se chemistry nhi hoga Maine 10th ke starting se hi plan Pura Kar liya tha , par mere papa ne mujhe forcefully pcm liwa diya , Mai 11th me new school me shift hua waha mai Pura saal samjh hi nhi paya ki karu kya , pw ka batch liya like mujhe Pata hi nhi tha ki padhna kaise hai , Mai bass lecture dekhta tha vooo bhi 1din me 1 aur sochta tha ki bhut paadh raha hu , 1qth me mere 51 % aye maths and chemistry me lowest , new school ke laude ekdum chutiye thee kisi koo ek baar chila ke bol diya tha tooh student + teacher dono rone lage thee , parents ko bula diya 🤡, Maine ghr me bola mere se nhi hoo raha yaha pe mujhe dummy dilwa dooo NDA karunga (beacuse usme chemistry nhi this + usme history padhne ko milta) Maine bola ghr me ki mujhe bhar bhej doo coaching wagera karunga maths ki , kyuki yaha peee ghr mee padhayi nhi hoti hai achee se bhut disturb Karte hai papa mummy yeh karo voo kardo and exactly puree saal esaa hi hua , maths ka cutoff mai clear nhi Kar paya , abb Dec me jee ka form bhar raha tha taab mai apne nda ka 2nd attempt ke liye preparation start kardiya tha + boards (chemistry me abb taak iupac bhi nhi Ata hai )Maine kaise bhi karke boards nikal diya, aurmere ghr walo ne mere liye jee ka form bhi bhara diya Kal Mera jee ka exam hai , Mai kya karunga mujhe nhi Pata iss chakar mee mera nda ka bhi preparation ruk gaya hai , mujhe Pata Hai Mera jee nhi hoga aur na hi nda Maine 11th me pcm lene se phele bola Tha kii mai 12th ke baad change karunga apna stream abb ghar wale usme bhi nhi Maan rahe , Maine bola cuet ka form bharna hai du me Jane ke liye uske liye itna dharma hua hai ghr me .
Sahi bata raha huu mental state ekdum lowest point pe agaya hai , any suggestion ?

Taken pcm in class 11th beacuse my father wanted to see me as engineer earning 1 lakh a month , bhenchod itni choti soch maine bola mai arts lunga mere se chemistry nhi hoga Maine 10th ke starting se hi plan Pura Kar liya tha , par mere papa ne mujhe forcefully pcm liwa diya , Mai 11th me new school me shift hua waha mai Pura saal samjh hi nhi paya ki karu kya , pw ka batch liya like mujhe Pata hi nhi tha ki padhna kaise hai , Mai bass lecture dekhta tha vooo bhi 1din me 1 aur sochta tha ki bhut paadh raha hu , 11th me mere 51 % aye maths and chemistry me lowest , new school ke laude ekdum chutiye thee kisi koo ek baar chila ke bol diya tha tooh student + teacher dono rone lage thee , parents ko bula diya 🤡, Maine ghr me bola mere se nhi hoo raha yaha pe mujhe dummy dilwa dooo NDA karunga (beacuse usme chemistry nhi this + usme history padhne ko milta) Maine bola ghr me ki mujhe bhar bhej doo coaching wagera karunga maths ki , kyuki yaha peee ghr mee padhayi nhi hoti hai achee se bhut disturb Karte hai papa mummy yeh karo voo kardo and exactly puree saal esaa hi hua , maths ka cutoff mai clear nhi Kar paya , abb Dec me jee ka form bhar raha tha taab mai apne nda ka 2nd attempt ke liye preparation start kardiya tha + boards (chemistry me abb taak iupac bhi nhi Ata hai )Maine kaise bhi karke boards nikal diya, aurmere ghr walo ne mere liye jee ka form bhi bhara diya Kal Mera jee ka exam hai , Mai kya karunga mujhe nhi Pata iss chakar mee mera nda ka bhi preparation ruk gaya hai , mujhe Pata Hai Mera jee nhi hoga aur na hi nda Maine 11th me pcm lene se phele bola Tha kii mai 12th ke baad change karunga apna stream abb ghar wale usme bhi nhi Maan rahe , Maine bola cuet ka form bharna hai me Jane ke liye uske liye itna dharma hua hai ghr me .
Sahi bata raha huu mental state ekdum lowest point pe agaya hai , any suggestion ?

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Mai apne baal choti rakhti hoon. Mere curly hain to meri aankh par aate hain. Mere teachers ne kuch nahi kaha tabhj bhi mummy ko kat vane the aur bol rahin thin teacher dategi. To Maine bola bus aage kutva Dena peeche ke bade rakhna kyunki pichli baar bahut chote kar diye the. She said ok. Mujhe laga is baar acche katega so i let him cook. Barber ne bola adjust karne ke liye thode katne karenge peeche ke par unse pichli baar ke tarah hi kaat diye 😭😭. Samne se bhi bahut zada chote kar diye boy cut lag rha hai. Maine mummy par bhorose Kiya par abse na karungi. Itne gande lag rahe hai yaar.

Aj jab mea bahar saman lene gya tha toa 75 ka English puch rha tha shopkeeper par usi samay ak aur uncle thea toa unhone English mea batane ke baad sunana ya brag karna start kardiya has has kar aur kha ki meri beti 4th class mea hain usko tak aati hain Hindi mea ginti aur tumko nhi , unhone mera school aur class puchi , mera aur unki beti ka school same tha toa aur hase aur phir main defend karne ke liye bola ki sikhayi nhi jati kyunki English medium hain , jo ki sach hain mere area mea Jo English medium school hain unme Hindi ko neglect hi Kiya jata hain , ab yaar mea bahar jata nhi utna bolna hota nhi school ke ilawa aur hindi ginti ki zarurat bhi kahi nhi padti , par mea ye soch rha hun ki itne saare logo mea kya mea hi milta hun choti sea badi baat ko lekr sunne ke liye

I have done all the chapters during mains 1 and boards and made a note of the important points as well. Ab confusion ho rha ki how do I revise properly in the last week. Ek mock roz de rha saath mein analysis, baaki time kya karu ? Concepts are all clear lekin kuch choti moti cheeze jo chapter ke beech mein hoti hain vo bhool jata hu aur abhi ncert to poori padh nahi sakta… (4th April waala hu 😖)