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2024.05.22 01:11 adamAlexanderGreen Young Avengers will an Entanglement Movie

Young Avengers film formed by Kamala Khan & Lead by Kate Bishop, will bring together the Young Avengers via Quantum Entanglement.
First seen in The Marvels, where they are Entangled by thier light based powers. connection to Kree based teleportation devices such as the Bangles and the Infinity Stones themselves. Quantum entanglement key element is transportation. Transportation will be the key to the Film, as it is a theme of the Multiverse Saga in general.
The Movie will see Kamala once again being in an entanglement scenario, where a Time traveling Nathinel Richards arrives in Kate’s Pad and warns the teens about Kang’s invasion onto the multiverse. As he was searching for the Avengers in other timelines, but his Armors Temporal pad malfunction after a Kang Fight and lead him to Kamala & Kate’s timeline.
Ironlad is also a teenager, but feels like Kamala isn’t ready for the responsibilities to help save his world. Ironlad attempts to time jump to another universe but actually transports Kamala and Kate to San Francisco in the same timeline. In need to fix his temp pad, he asks where is Tony Stark. Kamala informs him that he died in Endgame. Kate tells him that her parents own a Security company and both of thier partners are Avengers. The girls reach for thier phones, but they left them back in New York. Kamala goes asking people to borrow thier iPhones so she can call Carol Danvers. But Hawkeye and Carol don’t answer. Kate tells them they can try to go find Scott Kang. IronLad is arrogant and doesn’t need the kids help to find a hero, Kamala grabs him before he can fly off. To test thier power he begins a fight with them in the middle of the city.
Kate quickly hits him with a emp arrow, but IronLad advanced armor reboots itself. Kamala uses her newly improved Embiggen powers to protect civilians and stall IronLad. Kate uses several trick arrows in coordination with Kamala and they manage to remove his helmet. (The actor that played Harley Keener Ironman 3) reveals his face, and stops fighting once Antman intervenes. Kate, Kamala, & Cassie meet for the first time at Scott Kang’s lab as they interrogate Ironlad about the validity to his warnings about Kang.
Scott is traumatized that he didn’t actually defeat Kang, and tells the kids that he will buy them a flight back home and to let the adults handle this situation. Kamala ask Cassie what’s it like to have a superhero dad. Even tho her’s is human, Kamala thinks her family is as much of heroes as the Avengers. Cassie & Kate realize their favorite color is purple. Ironlad gets bored of the bonding, and doesn’t think Antman is up to the challenge of helping him. He begins to start his temp pad, but realizes that high quantum frequencies are being detected by his armor. Ironlad demands Scott use his science to help rebuild his pad. For Quantum is the basis to his tech as well. Antman tries to reason with him, but ironlad describes the eradication on his world. Antman and Ironlad begin to fight for access to the basement of his home. Cassie and Scott shrink, while Kamala & Kate try to fight and reason with him. The team crashes into the basement, where ironlad races to the focal point of quantum in the room. Picking up the device that sent the Pym family into the Quantum realm in Quantumania. Ironlad’s nanotech absorbs the device and the temp pad starts to activate. Scott gets serious and starts to enlarge, but Ironlad blasts him back upstairs. The kids all shift and are transported to Westview New Jersey.
They all start having a screaming match, as Cassie is furious that he shot her dad. Kamala tries to calm the team down, but it’s Kate Bishop who makes everyone shut up with a puzzle arrow. This arrow expand an entire acre of land with Purple lasers. She explains it’s a game, that you have to work together or you’ll burn. Cassie laughs and shrinks, ironlad armor is tough enough to not be phased, Kamala has to actually maneuver around to escape the maze of lasers. Kate shows her reflexes and experience by doing flips and evading the laser beams.They all laugh realizing Cassie and Ironlad cheat. As tension dwindles, ironlad explains why he is so serious. That in his future he is a genius prodigy, and learn about the existence of the multiverse in a dream as a kid. Then a week ago Kang invaded his world and eradicated a majority of human life, and took away knowledge and education rights to the slaves of his world. The teens tell thier experience during the blip and how it took away thier own youth, and that’s why the Avengers are an important symbol of hope for them. Kamala starts to fangirl about Carol, Hawkeye, and Ironman… but is stop by Agatha.
Agatha says she saw the kids in her crystal ball, and is aware of the Kang Situation. Using magic to transport them into her suburban home. IronLad is confused why a witch is helping them. Cassie & Kate both keep thier guards up, but hear her out. Agatha tells them that they are on a children’s Crusade, but she can help them all get back home. Ironlad interjects, he needs heros that are competent and ready for war. Agatha uses magic to upgrade thier outfit, then tells them her step son should be home from school soon. Ironlad is tired of waiting as the girls continue to bond and learn more about their abilities. He doubts Billy/Wiccan is as powerful as Agatha claims, and ask why won’t she just use her magic to fight Kang. Agatha says that’s not her role. Billy enters awkwardly, wondering why all these teens are in his house. Kamala ask just how powerful is he, and he simply says he can do whatever he wants.
IronLad test him, and fires a rocket. Wiccan makes it turn into a headband. Picking it up and wearing it, he repeats he can do whatever he wants. Agatha, ask what exactly is Ironlads plan to stop Kang since his Quantum enhanced temp pad can teleport but still can’t take him home. Ironlad says he just needs more power, and rushes Wiccan. Sending his armor to liquidity and consume the sorcerer. Wiccan force pushes back and as they struggle for control, the temp pad activates and sends the group to a new Location; Kahmer Tajh.
Agatha makes fun of the monastery architecture and compares it to her home. Only Kamala & Agatha know this is the home of the sorcerer supreme. Wiccan and Ironlad argue over the consent of letting him suck his energy. And the girls grow more wary of how much they can trust ironlad. Agatha tells them they can find power in teamwork, and disappears into the castle. Kate & Kamala breaks the team into groups. To find Wong or other sorcerers that can help thier fight against the Kang invasion. Wiccan follow where Agatha went. Kate & Cassie search the for more weapons and gear. Kamala and ironlad find Wong & America Chavez.
The 2nd half of the movie has the group coming to face thier teenage fears, as the castle has a horror hex. Ironlad is too afraid to time jump, as memories from his home being overran by Kang haunts him. Wiccan and Agatha are immune to castles spells, as they are magical in tune, however they can’t use thier magic to its fullest extent due to the runes places around the Thaj that prohibits forbidden spells. Wong meets Kamala and tells the young avengers that he didn’t put the horror hex on. There is a Skrull sorcerer in the castle doing this. Kate finds an Asgardian bow and arrows, and takes it for “emergency”. Cassie tells her she is a criminal too, and jokes she spent a day in Jail. Ironlad finds the skrull sorcerer, under stress from the truama spell he is getting beat in the fight. But Wiccan arrives and they team up to defeat him. With a massive display of science meets magic, the young avengers put thier animosity behind them and regroup with Kamala and Wong. Wong is then impaled by a spear by Agatha. Wong’s skin turns Green and it’s revealed he is a skrull too.
America Chavez is distraught, and prepares to fight all the young avengers as she don’t know who to trust. Kamala relates to her humanity, and proves she is just a kid too. She tells her to help them fight off the other skrulls that may be in the castle. Agatha and Wiccan use thier magic sight to determine who is a skrull and who is a real sorcerer. The young Avengers fight off the skrulls, and learn America Chavez can travel the multiverse freely. IronLad sends his armor around her, but she punches and the star impact sends them to Baltimore, USA. The result sends all the hero’s and the Skrulls they were fighting as well.
Inside the Bradley home, Eli is playing video games when the hero’s instantly appear in his house. This sequence is shot from his perspective, as if it’s a home invasion. He runs for his granfathers room, to get his gun. But the safe is only full of a vials of Serum. A skrull breaks into the room and swings an axe at him. He ducks, and drinks the serum. Assuming it was hulk serum he read online; it was actually his grandfather’s other super soldier serum. He punches the Skrull so hard that his guts explode. Eli runs into the living room ready to box, but see’s the young avengers beating up the Skrulls. Shrugging his shoulders he jumps in and helps.
The team see’s how Brutal he fights and Ironlad likes him. Kamala says they can’t just recruit every teen they see, but looks closer and realizes she seen him on tv. He is the grandson of the first black super soldier, revealed in Captain America Brave new world where they were wrongfully accused of a terrorist attack at the White House. He explains that he has actually been taking his grandfather’s serum and synthesizing it for a hormone steroid supplement. But today he drank the original source out of fear for his life. Making him 10x stronger than he has ever been on the drug. Agatha has a funny don’t don’t drugs PSA, as the kids formulate a way on how to repay Eli for his housing damages. We learn his grandfather is still on trail, and he lives alone. Kate gets everyon back on focus and tells them maybe they can’t help ironlad. They have destroyed homes & Castles today and she needs to get back home to feed her dog Lucky. Kate makes a PowerPoint presentation on how to get ironlad out of their lives, and get Captain Marvel. Ironlad becomes more interested in Carol after Kamala keeps hyping her up to be the strongest avenger of all. Wiccan & Agatha use magic to fix the house as the hero’s finally contact Fury and the whereabouts of Captain Marvel. Fury asks why the hell didn’t she just call him to begin with. Kamala didn’t want to get in trouble for stealing the intel about all these characters
The final act has Kamala & Kate using each hero’s best quality to get Ironlad back to his world, and deflate the Kang dictator in his timeline. Kamala nicknames them Team Red & Team Blue after Captain America & Ironman and Team Purple after Hawkeye since he Don’t get much love.
Team Red; Ms. Marvel, America Team Blue; Wiccan, Eli, Team Purple; Kate Bishop, Cassie, Agatha
America Chavez punches 2 Star portals, one to ironlads homeworld and another to the location fury tells them Carol is. They all wear a harness rope that Kate gives them so they don’t get lost in the multiverse jump. America isn’t sure she can send so may people at once into a diffrent timeline, but Cassie uses her quantum shrinking disk and ironlad’s tech to help keep them from all turning fall off and turning into spaghetti. While they are preparing, Kamala meets Carol in a New York park and catches up. Ironlad watches them from behind the portal and says this must be what it’s like to have a true friend. Kamala tells Carol that if she keeps asking her for support then she wouldn’t be a hero. Carol gives her the 2nd Bangel and tells her just let her know if she needs backup. Ironlad is still hesitant that going into the fight against Kang with a bangel isn’t gonna do much. Kamala tells them she isn’t a normal human, she is inhuman.
And the team all suit up as the prepare to hum into the Star. IronLad suddenly laughs and fires her rockets around the building. Knocking out America and collapsing the roof, and shoves Kamala into the future with him.
It’s assume all the young avengers and Agatha are crushed under debris. The perspective changes to Eli who has to save all the hero’s bleeding out or stuck. Eli saves them By bear crawling and dragging them out of the fires. America uses her last strength to send the heros into the future
Kamala fights IronLad alone in a future hala. Ironlad reveals that he is the Kang variant, and his master plan was to go to a past timeline where both bangles existed. These weapons of mass destruction are his way of fighting off other Kang’s tryin to conquer his conquered timeline, following the events of Loki. Due the branching timelines, not even the tva knew he was a variant of Kang since his biological DNA is that of a Reed Richards. Kamala is losing the fight, as Ironlad has one of the bangles and can temporarily stop time. He continues to toy with Kamala and steals her other bangle. Mocking her for playing hero, he kicks her off a platform and into a pit of terrain crystals. Kamala uses the last of her will to let out a furry of punches, cracking the crystals around her and filling the battlefield with mist. Kamala goes through terrgenises, turning into stone. Ironlad fires a missle at her, but ironlad blocks it with a shield formed by Wiccan
Kate Bishop arrives saying Young Avengers Assemble, all the Young Avngers exit America portal. Kate then says that ones for Kamala, and Cassie grows and begins the final fight. The team hold off the firepower of ironlad while Kamalas scales break off. Ironlad can combat Wiccan’s magic with the bangles, and uses time stop techniques to stay ahead of the gang. Kate shoots Cassie’s shrinking disk onto one of the bangles, crushing ironlads left arm. Wiccan uses kamala’s satchel scarf to drag ironlad like a whip. Eli uses his magic shield to block the repulsor blast, and Kate uses the Asgardian bow to pierce his Armor. Cassie uppercuts and shrinks rapidly as the team closes in to fight close quarters. Ironlad makes an energy shield then blows back them all, Kamala is awake and grabs his wrist from far away. Realizing she don’t have light energy anymore, but can stretch her body like Reed Richards. She slams him like hulk did in the original Avengers. Nathinel monoluges about how there will be more conquerors just like history. Tva agents appears, Mobius enters telling the heros thanks for fixing this slight anomaly they better return home or they will all be prune in seconds. IronLad vaporizes and the timeline is erased as the heros return home
The movie ends with Kamala having a to explain to the khan family the events of the film and who all her new friends are. They all are ready to return to thier respected homes, when fury enters and says he heard there was a secret invasion. A running joke about how fury is now last to know anything
Post credit 1: Jessica jones is taking on a private investigator case when she spots a teen couple in an alleyway. She comments that they must be runaways, she zooms in and it’s Cloak and Dagger. They teleport away
Post credit 2: on another planet the Skrull Queen is talking about the failed relations of Kree following Captain Marvel restarting the Hala Sun. The humans are no longer allies after the declaration of war against all allies the President made. She says maybe it’s time we fight back son; and the camera pans to Hulkling
The Young Avengers will return in Avenger’s Secrt Wars
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2024.05.22 01:10 sobeitson AITA for being upset about not being invited to my best friends wedding?

I, 29 (f), have been best friends with my 29 (m) childhood friend for nearly our whole lives. he announced on social media last year he got engaged to his partner (m), and i reached out to tell him how happy i was for him and couldn’t wait to celebrate. fast forward a few months, I started noticing him posting things about his wedding website. I reached out to him, because I saw that his wedding was going to be overseas. I wanted to make sure that he had my new address for my invitation (never doubted being invited as he came to my wedding, i should add here we also live in different states), so I texted him and I told him hey if you need my new address just let me know, he texted me back and said don’t worry you and your plus one will have an invitation in the mail.
fast forward all of these months later, his wedding is next week, and I was never invited. He’s been posting relentlessly on social media between his wedding shower, and all of his other friends from childhood and college coming to the wedding, and now leading up to the wedding next week, everyone I know has been posting about it. i’ve had to see this for months now.
I have not reached out to him to ask him why he did not invite me, I guess I’ve just been afraid of what he might say or what the reason might be, because I truly do not understand why, but I just feel like this is such a huge slap in the face and his way of, intentionally ending our friendship after all of these years.
What doesn’t make sense - Is that six years ago at my wedding, he and his future husband came to our wedding and stayed for several days, and we spent a lot of time together and made some great memories. I never saw our friendship ending, we’ve known each other since before we could barely talk, I never realized that I didn’t fit in his life anymore. But over the last few months and seeing him shamelessly posting about his wedding, never reaching out to me once, it just seems like he’s trying to send some kind of message and to let me know that this friendship is over. I’m not sure what to do, or if I should wait until after the wedding to say something. But it’s been incredibly hurtful to see all of these things on social media leading up to his wedding knowing that I didn’t get an invite and have to continue this shitty time of seeing all of these posts on social media for the next week. I’m not sure how to handle this.
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2024.05.22 01:08 PlaceGood4897 Need advice and support

We have a D&E scheduled for two days from Now and an ultrasound tomorrow prior to this to confirm our decision to TFMR. 2 weeks ago at the 13 week ultrasound, they found multiple fetal anomalies including suggested semi or lobar holoprosencephaly, cardiac deviation, clubbed foot, possible spinal issues, placental cord issues, possible growth issues, micrognathia, the baby doesn’t appear to have a developed chin. We attempted to do a CVS which was unsuccessful and only retrieved maternal dna, tomorrow we are doing an ultrasound and an amniocentesis. Although we won’t have genetic results before TMFR. Our doctor told us that it’s concerning they found so many issues so early and many of these issues will look worse as the baby progresses. I have been on this Reddit ever since reading others stories and trying to make sense of our situation. I think we both know we will likely Tfmr if the baby looks the same tomorrow or worse but I just want to understand if that is reasonable. My Brain keeps tricking me into thinking that maybe the issues aren’t that bad or maybe the ultrasound findings weren’t real. It’s just so challenging to go forward, wishing I could freeze time. This was an ivf pregnancy so we thought we were past the huge hurdle after getting pregnant and this has all Been so shocking and sad and really quite unbelievable. I guess we are in the “grey” diagnosis zone that is so challenging. I can see how supportive this community is to each other. Just looking for advice or thoughts on our situation. Would anyone do anything differently or ask any questions that I haven’t thought of from our providers?
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2024.05.22 01:07 xuntyhunty Is there anything we can do?

My partner (24) and I (24) moved to Chicago about 3 months ago. Neither of us had ever made a move of this size as adults, and we were completely unprepared for how difficult and expensive it would be. I spent months before my last lease was up applying for jobs and apartments, but was essentially rejected by everything because nobody wanted to take a chance on someone living out of state that they couldn’t meet in person. We got the advice from everybody to go ahead and come up and try to get established, and thought we had plenty of savings to do so, but once we were here found ourselves stuck in a cycle—-nobody would rent to us, even with a co-signer, because we weren’t employed, and nobody would employ us because we hadn’t been in the city long. Finally, we found a sublease that would rent to us, but the rent was very high, and we were pressured to sign the lease renewal right away. We thought we’d for sure be hired by the time we ran out of money, but we only recently found jobs to accept us, and they’re each only training us part time at minimum wage right now. We also had a horribly timed medical emergency costing us $800.
Please, please do not tell us what we should have done differently. We have made plenty of mistakes and could never have imagined how hard this was all going to be. But we are so close to being out of the woods, as we’re both going full time in a few weeks. Rent is due on the first and we have less than $200 in the bank and $1750 left to earn. We’re doing odd jobs, walking for wag, selling plasma and selling anything we can to try and make the difference, but it just doesn’t seem like it’s going to be enough. Our co-signer has also had emergency expenses come up and cannot do anything to help. We are considering taking out an online cash loan but I’m nervous it’s going to just make things worse.
Is there anything else we can do???
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2024.05.22 01:07 Disastrous-Eagle3224 [M4A] Celebrity shocks the world with her porn debut

I am 18+ and all characters are 18+
Hello everyone! In this roleplay I’m looking for you to play as a celebrity as she decides to venture into porn professionally for whatever reason. She decides to go with a higher class studio (for me TUSHY/BLACKED would be perfect but I’m easy to go with any high class studio, or even an onlyfans account if you’d rather). We’ll start the scene arriving on shoot day and beforehand we’ll get to know each other a bit better before we get started. During the shoot itself we have an amazing time together, both of us having some of the best fun of our lives and when we’re done it’s safe to say that your character, even if she doesn’t want to do it on cam, will definitely be inviting my character around for some fun in her own time!
I’m looking for someone who doesn’t want to rush things and likes a good detailed role play ideally, so if you’re someone who does one line responses/ low effort replies then I’m afraid I’m not the partner for you! My only other request is that so I know you have read the full post I’m asking you to in your opening message tell me who you would like to play as and also how long your responses are, and please do not open with just ‘hey’ or ‘roleplay?’, you will definitely be ignored. Thank you!
Celebrities: Sydney Sweeney, Kylie Jenner, Kim Kardashian, Kendall Jenner, Kourtney Kardashian, Khloe Kardashian, Madison Beer, Margot Robbie, Chantel Jeffries, Sommer Ray, Katie Sigmond, Charli D’Amelio, Jenna Ortega Olivia Rodrigo, Pineapplebrat, Maren Turmo, Lauren Alexis, Millie Bobby Brown, Anne Hathaway, Sabrina Carpenter, Erna Husko, Bella Poarch, Sssniperwolf, Taylor Swift and Addison Rae. Or bring your own suggestion and maybe we can make it work!
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2024.05.22 01:07 aspiring_Novelis 4 Year Old Issues [vent]

Hi everyone! I have a 4 year old and we’re going through what I hope is just changes. We started preschool at the beginning of April. Post covid we never really went anywhere (mistake) so little one has gotten a fever every 2 weeks so we just got over our 3rd fever. I have a bit of a paranoid mindset and overthink things way too easily. Little one doesn’t like school because we tried preschool before and either the place traumatized him or something cause he will make himself throw up because he doesn’t want to go. He does do better now, I did have to stay with him when we were there the first month but I’m at least able to leave now. Recently we’ve had an increase in him throwing fits and getting angry which on it’s own I attribute to life stages?
He doesn’t want to eat anything which again happens in phases, we’ve been through this one before.
He started taking naps again. He was never good at napping. It was always a fight and we finally gave up napping about a year ago actually. Yesterday and today he got really really cranky and wanted to sleep on his own which makes me anxious (I have no clue why). As I’m posting this he has been asleep for an hour and absolutely does not want to wake up even though it’s 4pm. Granted he has been sick a lot and that is tiring.
We are in the process of scheduling his annual exam with the pediatrician. I have been frantically emailing the doctor and he doesn’t seem worried, but MIL heard about the nap and is convinced that it’s not normal which makes my anxiety start up again. If anyone has any advice, I really appreciate it. He’s our first so I don’t really have much experience other than coming from a big family but as a teenager I wasn’t paying attention to the babies day to day routines.
I’m also a stay at home mom so he is also really really clingy and he/we do have separation anxiety issues.
Thanks
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2024.05.22 01:05 FuzzyCats_22 Still struggling from break up 8 months later from addict ex…

Still struggling 8 months later from addict and or potentially avoidant ex…
Hey guys, I just need to vent and maybe hope to get some advice/support for the situation I am going through.
For a bit of a backstory, here is what happened…
Back in December of last year, I reached out to an ex of mine who abruptly ended our relationship back in September because he had “relapsed”. He totally cut me off with no real explanation or closure.
I had seen him in person. I was crying, but he didn’t comfort me at all, he claimed he didn’t even know I was crying… he just sat there.
We had exchanged messages over the period of a few weeks and things seemed to be “better”. He told me that he loved me still. I thought there may have been a chance of things working out, back to how it was before the break-up happened…
To my dismay, he got angry with me, saying I felt he didn’t care, because, of course, I had extreme trust issues after him abandoning me, and he didn’t seem to be going the extra mile to prove that, so in response to this he ignored me for a week because apparently he has “anger“ issues and didn’t want to say things he’d regret so just blanked me.
We spoke again after this. He said he was hurt that I claimed he didn’t “care” and he knows he needs to get help etc.
But once again, he just didn’t seem to be proving that he genuinely cares and has my best interest.
So I mentioned this, and well, he got angry again, except this time he was calling me names, which of course upset me and had me crying, while telling me what a “drain” I am and how he doesn’t need this in his life. He then blocked me. I haven't heard anything since and am still blocked.
I’ve been trying to heal from this situation but even months later, I am struggling immensely. I just have constant “ifs” and “buts” going around in my mind, not understanding how this person once claimed to have loved me and then suddenly switched up on me.
None of this makes any sense, and it hurts. I don’t understand it. I think that’s what makes healing even harder is not having the answers I wanted to get. I still care deeply for this person even after all they have done to me. I’m just feeling broken emotionally, my self-worth and esteem have taken a massive toll due to all of this, and I’m doing all I can to move forward, but it’s not easy as I still love this person.
I’ve been reading books and looking at different forums about addictions and how many people have been in a similar situation to me, but it doesn't make the pain any less. I just don’t get how someone can act this way and why.
I hate that I still love this person and wonder if I'll ever get over them, because all I can do is think of them and wish things could go back to how they once were.
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2024.05.22 01:05 Busy_Marsupial4891 Should I Report?

I (19F) work as a before + after school counselor at an elementary school. It’s my first job ever, and I started last August. My supervisor (25M) has been very touchy with male students. (He is gay and single as well and acts this way with male students only).
He will play with their hair, tickle them, pick them up, sit them on his lap, lay down with them while playing with their hair, basically cuddling them. The children’s ages range from kindergarten (5) to fifth grade (10).
The student he says he has the most attachment to is a fifth grader (10M) that he met in third grade when he first moved to that site as a supervisor. He will actively seek that child to watch his grade activities during after care, he will call that child up to the sign-out and let the child use his (supervisor’s) own phone, while cuddling.
The parents of this child seem to be aware, from the interactions I’ve seen and heard, but they don’t seem concerned at all. This happens daily.
All of my past coworkers have not mentioned it at all. However, all the students know that that child is his favorite. A month ago, I got a new coworker (21F) who became like a friend to me. Today we were talking, and she brought up the topic of that fifth-grader. She told me how sketchy it seems as the supervisor will always be walking and hugging him. Not even five minutes later, our supervisor comes and sits down with us to chat with us. He mentions how sad he is that the fifth-grader is moving to middle school and leaving. He says on Friday he will be “attached by his side” and “crying, so pretend like he’s not the supervisor for the day.” My coworker and I look at each other. The supervisor then continues to say that he mentioned to the student if he doesn’t leave early tomorrow after graduation, he will buy the child ice cream and keep him in the front with him all afternoon. The mom then agreed and the child as well, according to the supervisor. Supervisor also said that he will pick up the child early from middle school just to hangout with him and take him for ice cream, or bring him back to the elementary school to stay with him.
Should I report this? It’s been happening all year, but this is the first time another coworker mentioned something.
Who do I report this to? The supervisor is friends with all the directors, and I’m scared of reporting, but nothing happens because I’m overreacting and then everyone knows I reported. The organization that we work for has STRICT rules on no hugging, touching, especially tickling or laying down with a student. The supervisor and I attended meetings together with that same topic.
What do I do??? Please help.
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2024.05.22 01:04 RintheWeeb Puberty induced depression

I have looked through google and this sub extensively and only found one post (same title) discussing this issue. The only comment was deleted so I don’t know what to do.
I’ve been on T for almost 10 months now, my mental health was great until just after the 9 month mark. My whole life started to decline around me after that as well, so that isn’t helping. I have no energy and I feel the same I did back in 6th grade when my mental health was probably the worst in my entire life. I’m staying up super late, I’ve relapsed on SH, I’m looking for attention from anyone who will give it to me (mostly sexual) and I’m so so done with life. I know this doesn’t last and I’m on meds already, but nothing I have done or tried has helped me genuinely feel better. I hate feeling like this and I want the euphoria that I had before.
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2024.05.22 01:01 No_Unit791 I (22f) am struggling in my new relationship (26m) do you have any advice yes or no?

So I (22F) just started a new relationship with a guy (26m) and it’s been going great. The only thing is is that we haven’t made it official. It’s a LDR and for a little backstory, he and I were both in pretty toxic relationships in the past that have lead to a lot of trauma on both of our parts. We’ve been getting to know each other and we are that the point where we feel like we love each other to the best of our knowledge of love. The part where I need advice is that I asked him why we weren’t official yet and he said “I don’t know. I think I would prefer to ask you in person instead of over the phone.” I thought that he just didn’t feel right asking over the phone, so I asked him to be my boyfriend and he started spiraling. He started crying and saying that he doesn’t know if he’s ready for that because of his past trauma and how he feels like making it official means he has to give me all his trust, which has led him to being hurt before. I don’t want to push him into something he might not be ready for, but I also don’t want to be in this limbo forever either. Does anyone have any advice on how to go about this? I know I don’t wanna leave him and I want to be patient, but it’s difficult when we’re basically in an LDR and we don’t have the official title. It’s causing me some anxiety thinking that because we aren’t official, he could be with anyone he wanted to where he lives. If anyone has any advice, it would help me a lot.
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2024.05.22 00:59 123999123999 Please stop spreading misinformation about HyunA's boyfriend, Yong Junhyung

[TW + marked NSFW for mention of SA]
Making this post because lots of people are still actively spreading misinformation and lies about Hyuna's boyfriend, Junhyung, and it's harmful in many ways, because as opposed to what many people think and tell, the investigation concluded that Junhyung never shared SA videos or received SA videos, or hidden camera videos, or sex-tapes, and that he was never part of the JJY group chats.
Jong Joonyoung (JJY)'s group chats in which hidden camera videos were shared without the consent of the girls (molka) and the Burning Sun scandal are two different things, but JJY's group chat was discovered through the Burning Sun investigation (2019). If you want to learn about it, the BBC has just released a documentary on Burning Sun, JJY & the molka chatrooms are also adressed in it. (You can already note that JJY & Junhyung's names are pretty close, therefore lots of people mistaked them when the news of his relationship with Hyuna came out in January. There were enough people to clarify that and make it clear that JJY ≠ Junhyung though, but not so many know what was actually Junhyung's part and are therefore still spreading misleading information.)
When SBS's '8'O'Clock News' news first shared screenshots of messages JJY and other idols had exchanged in the chatrooms, Junhyung's message was added and edited, which made it seem like he was part of the groupchats when he wasn't.
In 2015, he was sent one video by JJY (1-1) that was not a sex-tape but a video of a girl taken in a pub in which he (JJY) was touching her (or she was touching him) (no nudity or intercourse in the video), the video was made with her consent but was not sent with her consent. This is the video he's talking about in his statement about leaving Highlight, and the video he made crude comments about. There are no other videos.
(see first line of the table: kbs court documents translation*, he is not mentioned again *original article link)
He later on received a message from JJY that was something like "I got caught sending the video", to which Junhyung replied "You got caught by her? (the girl from the video)" (that's the message that was edited by SBS that made it seem like he was part of the groupchats), and didn't report him.
I'm adding a part of a comment of another redditor that went through the case's files, as it sums up things well: "[...] The video in question was of JJY engaged in making out with a woman in a bar and that she put her hand on a "certain part of his anatomy". The police transcript went on to say that the video was taken with the woman's knowledge and consent, but she did not consent to having it shared. There was no nudity or intercourse shown in the video. I don't know if Yong Junhyung knew it was sent without the woman's consent. The transcript did not reveal what the text of the messages about the video said, however Yong Junhyung has said he feels embarrassed and ashamed about what he said in response to receiving this video. So no doubt it was something douchy, but not necessarily worse than what you would expect guys texting about such a video would be. There is no evidence in the transcripts to suggest that Yong Junhyung knew that women were being [SA'd] or that illegal videos were being made and shared. The video he received was not exactly something you could take to the police as its not illegal to make out in a bar."
He did not go to jail and wasn't sentenced, he was called in as a witness and fully cooparated with the police, left his group to atone and protect Highlight from the backlash.
Also Junhyung is NOT the guy (Choi Jong Bum) that abused and blackmailed Goo Hara back in 2018/2019. Junhyung and Hara dated for about 2 years in 2011, anyone claiming he abused her is making things up (according to official sources, Junhyung was a supportive boyfriend who helped Hara through some hard times, and the two ended things amicably and decided to remain friends).
I've seen people on Twitter, on Reddit, on Youtube, in Hyuna's comments section, calling him a rapist, saying he was involved in 'non-consensual gang bangs', watched 'SA videos of young girls', is a 'sex traffickant', 'sex criminal' or that he admitted "watching SA videos", and to what we know by the investigation that was led, that is NOT TRUE.
That's for the actual facts, please do not spread misinformation and don't buy in everything you read. You're free not to support their relationship but spreading lies is not ok.
more sources: Statement from Around Us Ent. before Junhyung left HIGHLIGHT (before clarification): "Hello, this is Around Us Ent. We are writing in regards to the news of the reveal of singer Jung Joon Young’s KakaoTalk chatroom, which was reported on SBS’s ‘8 O’Clock News’ on March 11, 2019. We are aware that people are saying that Highlight member Yong Junhyung is the ‘Singer Yong’ that is shown in the contents of the conversation from the group chatroom with illegal hidden camera footage that was revealed on the news. Yong Junhyung has no connection to the filming or sharing of illegal videos. Also, Yong Junhyung has never been in a chatroom where Jung Joon Young’s illegal hidden camera videos were shared. In addition to that, we have confirmed that he has never been in any group chatroom at all with Jung Joon Young. We directly confirmed with Yong Junhyung after the news report and found out that conversation that was shared in the news was originally the content of a one-on-one conversation between Jung Joon Young and Yong Junhyung. Previously in 2016 [actually 2015 but Around Us Ent. didn't have this information at the moment, cf Junhyung's declaration coming after] when Jung Joon Young was having a hard time due to a personal matter, Yong Junhyung asked him what was happening. Jung Joon Young replied ‘I got caught taking a video and sending it [the message included symbols for laughter],” and [Yong Junhyung] asked in return, ‘You mean you were caught by the woman?’ In regards to the simulated group chatroom screenshot that was shared in the news, we plan to verify with SBS News about the authenticity. [...]" referring to the fact that in the screenshots first shared by SBS, it made it seem like he was part of the chatroom
Junhyung's declaration when leaving Highlight: "Hello, this is Yong Jun-hyung. First, I sincerely apologize to the members and all fans who have had a hard time because of me these past few days. After the SBS 8 o'clock news on the 11th, I received a call from the company to check the facts. At that time, I didn't understand the point well and only conveyed that I wasn't in [the] group chat. Therefore, the company, taking my side, officially stated that the report was not accurate, but it was based on the wrong information I provided. In the process of preparing the official statement with the company, I mentioned that the incident was in 2016 because the conversation with Jung Joon-young wasn't saved in my KakaoTalk, so I couldn't accurately check the date at that time. I apologize for adding to everyone's confusion on this as well.
Regarding the KakaoTalk content from late 2015 reported in the news, the conversation with Jung Joon-young was after we drank together the previous day. He told me about an incident (being caught sharing illegal video recording), and I replied, "You got caught by the girl?" I did not receive that video at that time, but I did receive one on a different occasion. In addition, I had inappropriate conversations regarding it. All these actions were extremely immoral, and I was foolish. I failed to recognize this as a crime and illegal behavior, and was complacent about it, and I regret not firmly stopping it.
Yesterday, I went for a reference person investigation related to this issue. I spoke truthfully about everything I knew and cooperated with the investigation. While receiving the witness interview, I saw exactly what conversations I had in the past, and I felt indescribably ashamed and [horrified/regretful].
I have never engaged in illegal acts like taking or spreading hidden camera videos. Since the end of 2016, my relationship with Jung Joon-young was just occasionally asking about each other's well-being. However, knowing about it, I thought and acted too easily and carelessly, being an onlooker to this serious issue that could've led to more victims.
I'm truly sorry for betraying the trust of the members and fans who believed in me, failing to reciprocate the love given to me. I realize the severity of this matter, and I do not want any further harm to be done to my fans and members who must have been disappointed because of me, so I will leave the group Highlight as of March 14, 2019. I will live while reflecting on myself again and again. I apologize sincerely once again."
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2024.05.22 00:58 Zestyclose-Mine4517 My feelings are genuinely hurt

Strap up. This is a doozy and I’d love opinions.
I am 2 months out of a 14 year relationship with my ex husband. He’s left the home and currently has the kids. He lives with his girlfriend. I’m learning how to be alone and it’s not fun but I’m learning..
I’ve been dating around mostly on bumble. Last month a guy complimented my profile and said I look like I’d be worth a long term relationship and would put time into me. So he’s came over 3-4 times and I really vibed with him. Great personality. I genuinely liked him. The downside is he isn’t a great replier and prefers to play apex instead of talking to me or hanging out. Then he mentioned not wanting a girlfriend so I was confused.. He also mentioned he doesn’t share so didn’t want me sleeping around and he wouldn’t either. I asked for him to come over more because I genuinely enjoy his company and he’d always flake for the game and just not give me a heads up. I realized I deserve better than that. I do like having someone’s attention and time but I could go a week without seeing him and I’d definitely want to see him. So before Mother’s Day I mentioned not sleeping together anymore and just being friends since he didn’t want a girlfriend and I liked him. I was trying to protect my own heart. The next day he snapped me like is the real reason you don’t want to sleep with me anymore because you really like me too much or I don’t fxxx you enough? Honestly it was I liked him and wanted to see him more but it seemed he wasn’t as interested in me. Well he ended up coming over and hanging out before Mother’s Day. Took me to dinner and mentioned he may want to date me in 6 weeks we just have to get to know each other. That was the last time I’ve seen him and I’ve asked him to come over multiple times and he flaked out. Then he went 3 days without a snap and finally was like “I sat on apex for 3 days straight” and I was like wow, am I not even deserving of anything? It felt he ghosted me and he was like it wasn’t deliberate but it still felt that way. I told him look, I’ll just leave you alone and let you do your own thing. So I took my snooze off bumble. Today he snaps me and shows me my bumble profile and was like look I told you I don’t share so I’m done pursuing anything with you.
My feelings got hurt. I tried multiple times to communicate with him that I liked him and was interested in something and obviously more than he was interested in me. I even get the video game thing because I love video games myself.
But he said basically I can’t go 10 days without validation or foaming at the mouth for sex. Which that hurt too because I feel like seeing someone even once a week isn’t too much to ask. I’d prefer to see him multiple times.
I laid it all out. I explained I liked him and was trying to protect my heart. I can be alone but I do like for someone to text me even a few times a day so I know I’m on their mind. I’m not saying we have to go jump into a relationship but I felt like if he wanted to see me more, he would but his video game is more important. Which he’s a single fatherless man and can do that. I even told him I only wish the best for him and if he wants to stream and be good I hope he can be.
But my feelings are hurt and it sucks and I just wanted to vent here. I’m so sad. I obviously know I liked him more than he liked me and it just sucks.
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2024.05.22 00:56 Melted_Moon Too sensitive and childish

Hi !
I am a 19F, and I am too sensitive and come across as childish, because of my personality. I cannot argue with someone close, like my family, without crying.
Long contextualisation here, sorry in advance. This is more of a vent post looking for advice.
I was the cliché weird girl, ugly, curly hair and glasses, with no friends and who didn’t understood what was going on half of the time. I got bullied in preschool and sometimes over the years. I am ashamed, but I got violent when people were mocking me, and when we argued, because I was sad and didn’t knew what to do. Still am today to some extent. I was very unhappy when in public and in school, borderline embarrassed of existing, hating myself, but it got way better as a teen.
I grew up, I am social, I have very good friends, I am funny, I am way better, and sometimes I can’t believe how far I’ve got from the old me. I am very proud of myself on that. But I don’t have a lot of "life experience", with how I was so isolated before. I would say that I have three years of real "life experience". It felt like coming out of the fog or something.
Now, I am not someone that takes things at heart, or too personally. I like to think that I am pretty level headed. I never cried in front of my friends, except for something very serious or because we were watching a sad movie.
However, when I am alone or with my family, it is different. I just can’t help it, and I immediately cry when :
-I am embarrassed about myself - when I don’t have any great comeback when arguing - I am angry and the person I am arguing with doesn’t care and use it to make fun of me - when I think about something sad or someone going through intense emotional pain
But I never cry in public.
My close family is very different from me on this aspect, my parents are loving and supportive but they are not as sensitive.
The other day I argued with my father over lunch. It wasn’t because of something I did, he just got angry by himself and was being unfair and quite frankly ruining the meal, so I intervened. When he started jabbing at me, I left the table, because it was the end of the meal and my siblings already left. I was pissed, but didn’t want to cry. My father said "yeah right, go cry".
It’s not much. Worse things happens in life
(like when I had Cushing disease and nobody believed me until I went to the doctors alone lol)
But I got so angry. Because my little sister says the same thing when we argue. Because she never cry and I cry, well, often.
She doesn’t likes me. When I come home she never talks to me, seeing me makes her angry. She is the kind of pretty, very opinionated girl who would have bullied the hell out of me if we were in the same grade. We joked about this before. She is also f ing rude and probably hasn’t cried in years.
There have been instances of my dad and sister telling my that I act and behave childishly, my mother too. It’s true that I can be sometimes, but I am not childish about serious things, not about how I treat people, or live my life, or with my studies.
And besides why can’t I be childish with my FAMILY, in my own home, with my parents when I am literally their CHILD ? Like, I am the child that is "wise beyond its years" when I talk about serious things with my parents, when we talk about life and philosophy.
There is a big difference with how I act day-to-day with close family members, joyful and frankly dumb, and with how I am when it comes to serious subjects. And they get to see both of these sides of me, often. Which is why it hurts even more when they call me childish and they all agree with it.
I feel they don’t take me seriously, because I am the sensitive, cry easily artsy former-victim child. And I hate this. Because I can’t argue without crying, and when I don’t cry I don’t know how to respond and my arguments are weak. And I look pathetic. Even if we love each other very much and have healthy relationships.
I am sorry for the extensive rent, but i feel like it was needed so that you could give me some advice on how to be less sensitive, cry less and appear less childish, I guess, based on this context.
Sorry for over sharing, and for my English, it is not my first language
thanks you :D
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2024.05.22 00:56 sobeitson Not invited to best friends wedding for no reason?

I, 29 (f), have been best friends with my 29 (m) childhood friend for nearly our whole lives. he announced on social media last year he got engaged to his partner (m), and i reached out to tell him how happy i was for him and couldn’t wait to celebrate. fast forward a few months, I started noticing him posting things about his wedding website. I reached out to him, because I saw that his wedding was going to be overseas. I wanted to make sure that he had my new address for my invitation (never doubted being invited as he came to my wedding)l, and i should add we live in different states) so I texted him and I told him hey if you need my new address just let me know, he texted me back and said don’t worry you and your plus one will have an invitation in the mail.
fast forward all of these months later, his wedding is next week, and I was never invited. He’s been posting relentlessly on social media between his wedding shower, and all of his other friends from childhood and college coming to the wedding, and now leading up to the wedding next week, everyone I know has been posting about it. i’ve had to see this for months now.
I have not reached out to him to ask him why he did not invite me, I guess I’ve just been afraid of what he might say or what the reason might be, because I truly do not understand why, but I just feel like this is such a huge slap in the face and his way of, intentionally ending our friendship after all of these years.
What doesn’t make sense - Is that six years ago at my wedding, he and his future husband came to our wedding and stayed for several days, and we spent a lot of time together and made some great memories. I never saw our friendship ending, we’ve known each other since before we could barely talk, I never realized that I didn’t fit in his life anymore. But over the last few months and seeing him shamelessly posting about his wedding, never reaching out to me once, it just seems like he’s intentionally trying to hurt me and to let me know that this friendship is over. I’m not sure what to do, or if I should wait until after the wedding to say something. But it’s been incredibly hurtful to see all of these things on social media leading up to his wedding, knowing that I never got invited, even though he assured me that my invitation would be in the mail.
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2024.05.22 00:55 Odd-Fold5078 ‘22F’GF. and 26M my boyfriend doesn’t think i should tell him when to post me

I and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now I love him and i know he loves me too but sometimes i ask him to do things for me for example i want to be posted but he says he would do that on him own time when he wants to. He does post me once in a while but i want it more doesn’t have to be everyday. Also i sometimes feel he doesn’t want to call as much as i call him,like i always call him on my break but i always have to tell him before he calls me on his work break. lol me with this guys thanks
any advice will be appreciated
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2024.05.22 00:54 Returningdarkness I never get to have a day to do what I want

I’m currently a prison guard and my facility is very understaffed so I’ve been having to do a lot of over time, either from working over, going in early, working one of my days off, and also trying to do some computer based training that I have to be done with before summer is over.
When I’m at home, I try and give my wife some time to relax and not worry about the house stuff and the kids. I’m doing dishes, laundry (we have to go to a laundromat because our apartment doesn’t have a hook up for a washer and dryer), getting the kids ready for school, cooking the meals, cleaning the floors, the carpets, the bathrooms, feeding and watering the cats, cleaning the litter box, taking the garbage out, and also taking care of whatever hair up her ass project she comes up with that usually involves me moving furniture around.
I rarely get to do anything that I want to do to relax anymore. I love the video game Sea of Thieves, it’s my current favorite game that I want to play for hours on end. That’s mainly because it takes a minimum of two hours to be able to have any sort of progress. My wife asked if I wanted to get Game Pass back so I can play online again, and I told her not to worry about it since I don’t have time to play anymore. Before I even said anything I had told her I wasn’t complaining, I’m just pointing out that it’s just the truth.
Not even an hour later it’s getting thrown in my face that I’m complaining about not having time to do anything else but housework. I’m just so tired. I haven’t felt relaxed in weeks. My legs and feet are killing me, they’re just constantly burning.
I’ve put myself in this situation and I’m not going to be leaving my wife or anything like that before I get any comments like that, so shush. I’m just wanting to vent and help myself get some of these thoughts out of my head.
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2024.05.22 00:53 Main_Tax7542 My (20M) exgf (20F) is coming to pick up mail, I want to fix things still. What is the most mature way to handle this?

My(I am 20M and she is 20F) ex girlfriend is coming to my place to pick up some mail concerning things from the government because she doesn’t have an address in the US that she can use for mail at the moment. I don’t mind letting her use it. We were together for 2 years.
To sum up our relationship, amazing first year and was perfect especially with senior year of highschool in the middle of it, afterwards I developed really selfish and narcissistic tendencies and I hurt her by making her feel unimportant. I know what I did and I want to be how I was in the beginning again. But anyways, after that, two months ago we broke up. She checked in on me and we had a couple stays together, slept together, and I thought I could fix things but she told me she didn’t want me to be there for her, she wants to be herself and be independent, and she doesn’t want me to be there except for our cat-child that I raised with her towards the end of our relationship.
Now after all that i see she’s getting important mail and I never got to tell her that I’m going to change and that I realized I was selfish and a narcissistic asshole. I want to say that I will be the person I was before because I know that’s who I am truly inside.
As for why i became that way, I prioritized a career over her and I also let my ex girl best friend (my age) know way too much about our relationship and I talked to her too fluently. I’ve erased those things from my life realizing just how important she was and I’m going to keep it that way no matter what.
With the last interactions me and this girl had, the last two visits I feel like I showed profoundly that I wanted to fix things because she’s extremely precious to me and she herself told me I was doing really well, and then she hit me with that “I don’t want a relationship.” “I can’t be in a relationship with you.” She named reasons like I don’t actually miss her, just her presence, I just want the old version of her, saying that I somewhere said I can’t be as good as I was for her in the beginning..
All things I’m not sure were accurate at all but I understand that her experience with me is entirely influential about how she thinks I feel.
To get back to the point, she’s coming to see me for a split second for the mail, I’ve been in no contact for 2weeks and had to break it for this, but I want to do something.
As foolish as it sounds and my friends told me I shouldn’t but I want to get her a gift, some flowers, and I have letters I want to give her and give her the freedom of taking and reading them if she wants to, letters about my reflection of my mistakes and how much I want her back, what I want to change and etc. Things of that nature. And of course say things about my narcissism and that I’m working on it. She told me she misses the old me and I know that’s who I really am, I’d do anything to show her that. I was a selfless lover who truly loved her and I regret everything.
Should I give that to her? To clarify, I really don’t want anything from her at all. If anything it’s just an act of affection for damn near no reason and then the letters I hope she reads and understands that I want to change, whether she reconsiders the relationship or not. I’m going to keep no contact afterwards anyway..
But I’m on the fence about it because while I don’t think she’ll take it as a broken boundary, and I’m scared that she might just be waiting for me to show signs of change or effort or anything. I’m scared doing NOTHING is actually the wrong choice.
Any advice at all is appreciated. I really want things to work out with her, the problems in our relationship are being worked on, on my end and I’m taking responsibility for everything that happened, but I still want to make logical and respectful decisions. I just feel like this risk is worth it, I believe having loved over not loving at all is greater than not loving given the opportunity to..
Sorry for the Yapping session.
(P.S I’ve realized I get immature in these situations and I’m getting advice here to make sure I do the right thing because I want that to change too.)
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2024.05.22 00:52 curioustomato_ Getting Started with Post Guidance

Community moderators often have to remove posts that don’t match the vibe of their community or fail to follow the posting rules. That’s where Reddit’s Post Guidance comes in to save the day! With Post Guidance, mods spend less time checking rule-breaking posts and more time enjoying the fun parts of moderating. Think of Post Guidance as your invisible friend, catching posts and helping users fix them according to your post requirements before they even get posted.
See it in action here!
➡️ Ready to set up Post Guidance for your community? Let’s start by answering your top questions about this new Reddit super-tool.
1. Who is Post Guidance for?
Post Guidance is a feature that can be used by ANY community moderator on Reddit. Post Guidance will double-check a redditor's post before they actually post it to your community, to ensure the post follows your community rules. So, if someone is about to post something that doesn’t follow your posting requirements, this nifty feature will prevent them from hitting that ‘submit’ button. Post Guidance then kindly prompts that user to fix their post–and yes, you can customize the prompt! Pretty cool, right?
2. Why do I need Post Guidance?
If you have requirements a redditor should abide by when they go to post to your community, Post Guidance would be a very helpful addition.
Some communities require each post to have a certain word in the headline. Other communities require posts of a certain character length. Post Guidance is a tool that can be set up for either of these cases.
In our early experiments, communities with Post Guidance enabled saw a 35% drop in Automod removals! This means more people are making more posts that follow the rules of those subreddits. People are happier when they find it easy to contribute to your community.
3. I’d love to set up Post Guidance, where do I start?
To set up Post Guidance, on your community homepage, navigate to Mod Tools > Automations.
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4. What are some rules I could add to Post Guidance?
We see that Post Guidance is most effective in helping moderators when there are at least three Post Guidance automations set up. If you want help coming up with good rules for Post Guidance, check your Mod Insights page to see content that is most often reported. This will give you a look into content that should probably have not made it into your feed in the first place.
Here are a few examples of Post Guidance automations:
Formatting Requirement You should consider adding your formatting requirements to Post Guidance. For example, if you require each post to have a question mark, your post guidance might look like this:
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Word Requirement You might consider adding a requirement that a post title (or body) has at least three words. This helps reduce Low-Quality posts in your community. After all, you may want high-quality contributions – not just one-word posts. Here is what your automation may look like.
Feel free to copy the following to set up your automation! missing (regex): \b\w+\b.\\b\w+\b.*\b\w+\b*
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Topic Management Maybe you’re managing a community, but some topics are better for a different community. You could set up a Post Guidance feature that looks for those topics you don’t allow and reminds the user the topic isn’t allowed in your community but they can post in a different community.

💡 Have more ideas or want solutions for how you might implement Post Guidance in your community? Let others know what works for your community in the comments.
Edit: added a link to the snazzy Post Guidance GIF
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2024.05.22 00:51 Early-Pressure2057 Rehoming brother

Trying to make a really long story short. My dad was “given” a blue and gold macaw when the bird bit his friends new babies finger. Norman is his name and he was 2. I was a teen, and spent a lot of time with him. We had a screened lanai and pool and he would fly around inside and out. My dad had him for 25 years. In the last four years he moved to a smaller house to accommodate their age and upkeep abilities. Norman hated it and squawked all the time, and my dad placed him in a back bedroom with a small window and kinda forgot about him. I visited his Florida home from my adult home in Ohio with my kids yearly and about that time my teen daughter asked her grandpa if we could just take him home with us. My dad packed him up and pretty much shoved him in my truck. We brought him and his beloved cage home and have spent six years trying to get him to be comfortable. He is miserable. I can’t let him out a lot, as I’ve always had dogs. There is no where to fly. He just screams all the time and I’m so clueless. I want him to be happy, and I’m positive I can’t give him what he deserves. I’ve tried to relocate him with people I knew who had birds but they didn’t want the task. He is angry especially if he sees a broom or vacuum, he lunges at people he doesn’t know, and he prefers women to men. I don’t want to go the rescue route because Ohio doesn’t have splendid options for people genuinely not looking to make a dime off him. An id really like to keep in contact with him, as he is a family member, I just want him to have his freedom and be happy. Any ideas?
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2024.05.22 00:50 Ilikeapples0001 Phoenix Rising (all hail empress pink au) (art by HellMick)

Phoenix Rising (all hail empress pink au) (art by HellMick)
The Pink Diamond surveyed her latest campaign from orbit. It took a lot of research and development to make this view possible, but to see the light show below? Worth every Currency. From this heavenly vantage she could see every bombardment, every burning city, sometimes even a strike from her own vessel against a particularly stubborn entrenchment, and there was no shortage of these on this miserable rock. She had half a mind to depopulate this one completely, ship any survivors off to her less morally upstanding allies for their impudence… And yet she couldn’t help but admire their refusal to roll over, their dedication to what they believed in even unto extinction. Would that all of Homeworld’s citizens could be so devoted.
The doors behind her crashed open, though the tiny little gem that emerged from them couldn’t have opened them alone. “My Diamond! Empress!” she huffed, clearly worked up over something as she saluted and keeled appropriately. Pink for her part said nothing, simply turning just enough to look over her shoulder at one of her trusted seers. “Forgive me, please, but I bring grave news from the ground campaign.”
Pink scowled, but her countenance soon softened again, at least enough to be clear there was no ill will to her Padparadsha. “Elaborate,” she commanded.
“Th-there’s been an accident… I don’t know for sure but something happened with our bombardment, one of the shots hit our own troops, hundreds are dead and more are casualties-”
“That’s not my concern, there are lower ranks that can deal with such incidents. I suggest you report to the guilty party’s commanding officer and inform any next-of-kin.”
Padparadsha stammered and squawked before at last mustang words once more. “I-I-I did, m-my Diamond… and I am.”
“...What?” That can’t be right. “What do you mean ‘you are’? That-” No. No chance in hell. There is no way THAT happened. “I thought your visions were accurate, why are you implying this- this heresy!?”
Padparadsha shrunk away as if it would protect her. “I-I didn’t see everything, but the only thing that could have hurt her was an orbital strike!” she whimpered. “She was there and then there was so much fire… and smoke… and pain…” Even remembering this clearly pained her, but Pink was in no mind to care.
“Those… those…!” Words failed the Empress. Conscious thought fell by the wayside. Only revenge remained, only death to repay death. She didn’t even bother to dismiss her seer as she broke down her own doors, thundering down to the siege batteries with vengeful intent.
Glowing pink eyes scoured the message again and again, hoping - nay, demanding - to see the hidden message within that simply wasn’t there. Her grip clasped around a garnet’s neck as the last call of her kin burned into the screen.
“Cut off STOP surrounded STOP overwhelmed STOP phoenix rising STOP”
Phoenix Rising - the ultimate sacrifice, the code to bombard one’s own position. Pink’s glower swept the assembled gunnery crew, all of them having been knelt down and clutching the backs of their heads as if facing or forestalling execution. Some of them were wounded in the scuffle, and a pile of stones in one corner signified the Empress’ current capacity for patience. They’d all sworn up and down that they’d only followed the orders of their superiors, and even pyropes weren’t about to defy commands from one of Pink’s own. But who then? Who could be at fault for this? This doesn’t just happen! Pink’s children do not die!
“The sapphires…” Pink Diamond breathed, shaking her voice apart as her grip tightened, popping the poor pyrope’s body like a paper bag. “The sapphires! THE SAPPHIRES! I’LL HAVE THEIR GEMS FOR THIS!” she shrieked, buffeting the deck. “I’LL GRIND THEM INTO SAND MYSELF FOR THIS!”
A scoff from the door interrupted her diatribe. "Tsh. I thought you were a fair and just ruler, Pink!” came an interjection from her purported peer the Yellow Diamond, her eyes hidden behind an opaque visor. “Yet here you are ordering executions on a whim. What of trials? Of juries? Of due process? Even Blue wouldn't sink that low."
In an eyeblink Pink had released the pyrope’s gem and seized Yellow by the collar instead, dragging her down to eye-level. "MY DAUGHTER IS DEAD BECAUSE OF THEM! BECAUSE OF THEIR FAILURE!" she howled, starting to damage the hearing of her audience. Yellow as always seemed unfazed.
"Would you execute a doctor for failure to save a life!? A constable for failure to make an arrest!? A general for failure to win a battle, perhaps!"
“YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT IT’S LIKE!” Pink wailed, her image of an indomitable goddess amongst women peeling and crumbling into the childish petulance that defined her life in the prior era. “You don’t know!” her sobs choked out, dissipating into Yellow’s chest. Streams from her own visor went unnoticed.
“I know EXACTLY what it’s like,” Yellow quietly rumbled, her tightening grip around Pink suddenly growing evident. “And I don’t care how powerful you’ve grown, you will NOT dictate my emotions!”
“YOUR emotions-!? My DAUGHTER-!”
“With me, Pink! Your daughter - WITH ME!” The clasp of Yellow’s gloved digits dug deeply into pink’s young supple arms, perhaps even enough to hurt. Their eyes met again, pangs of… something turning the Empress’ insides as the streams on both their faces caught the light. “That’s Moissanite down there, Pink…” Neither of them wanted to say anything after that, and neither of them did, for now. Pink’s visage contorted with torment and loss, staining her lover with hologrammatic tears and mucus between sobs and coughs alike. Yellow was harder to read, admirably struggling to prop herself upwards as the rock to break on, the shoulder to cry on, as she always had done. For a moment they were people - not ideals or authorities or goddesses amongst women, but agonised, bereaved people.
And then the moment passed. “You-” Yellow cracked, choking for a moment before shoving her grief back down just a little longer. “You need time to heal.” Turning to address the gunport Yellow made her orders to everyone present. “Your Empress requires dignified private grieving for our loss today. She will retire to her quarters indefinitely. All others present will be escorted to the brig for interrogation and debriefing. I-” Another crack. One that wouldn’t go back down. Yellow pulled Pink out of the room, guiding arm around her shoulder as her last choked-out order weakly emerged from her mouth: “I have to recover her gem-” Cut off by a barely-stifled sob of her own, no more words would leave her for quite some time. With their departure, a detachment of prison guards - topazes, quartzes of all stripes, even a bismuth - flowed in behind. Nobody was willing to resist, not after the pain they had dealt unto their Diamonds.
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https://www.reddit.com/AllHailEmpressPinkAU/s/Nnl4CwGLEl (+18 nsfw warning, viewer discretion is strongly advised)
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2024.05.22 00:50 Greedy-Initiative866 My boyfriend’s mad at me for asking him to do stuff for me.

Hello I’m in my first trimester, specifically 7 weeks, for a while my legs have hurt SO BAD, like since week 5 my leg muscles are so weak and I can’t stand for super long times, and I just found out I have BV so now my crotch burns really badly and moving makes it so much worse. I just asked my bf if he could cook me an egg sandwich for dinner and he started lashing out saying he ALWAYS makes me food (which he does) and that he hasn’t seen me make food in two months and that he feels trapped because if he doesn’t make me food I don’t eat. I explained that the only reason I ask him to make me food is because I’m in constant pain, specifically in my legs and now my hoo ha, and I’m extremely dizzy so when I go downstairs I feel like shit and can’t stand for too long, but he’s still mad at me. I know that I should be able to make myself food and stuff and I wish I was but I have genuinely had a really hard time during this pregnancy and I’m only on week 7. Idk what to do I don’t want to make him feel so bad, we had another argument before about how he feels hopeless and depressed right now and I think it’s because of me, I’ve felt horrible about myself and my pregnancy for so long and I still fucking do!! Idk what to do anymore, I don’t want him to feel unhappy because I’m pregnant, I just wanted a normal pregnancy.
Edit: the only time I don’t eat is if I’m in too much pain to be able to go downstairs and cook otherwise I’m fine making myself food
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2024.05.22 00:49 littlecatcrush Bf is growing distant what should I do?

Hi so my bf (18M) and I (18F) have been dating for around 3 months and recently I can feel my bf pulling away from me. Initially I thought it was the stress of his car window getting broken by a landscaping company 2 weeks ago, and he’s pissed that the guy who promised to hire people to fix it for him keeps pushing it back. Recently he is messaging me much less, often doesn’t open my messages even though he’s open. Also he’s much less affectionate with kisses and stuff like that. Normally we go home together after school every day and hang out for around an hour but recently more and more he’s been asking to hang with his friends after school while I wait and eventually he takes me straight home.
I want to give him his space and not be too clingy but at the same time I’ve been extremely anxious and crying myself to sleep over this. I know many men tend to withdraw when they’re going through things in their life but idk if giving him more space is gonna help or only make us more distant. Another part of me is starting to think maybe I’m not interesting enough for relationships. I see the way he laughs and plays with his friends and maybe being with them helps him take his mind off things. I wrack my brain for funny things to say to him but we’ve talked about basically everything there is and I’ve always been a more reserved person. What am I supposed to do?
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