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2024.05.21 11:09 drewssstuff ive no friends apparently.

now its entirely not their fault too, im partially to blame here. probably i wasnt able to form real bonds with them. im not that needy or materialistic i think, but i think i deserve that my friends who i have spent the last 4 years at uni could wish me on my birthday. i dont like to make too many friends bcoz it gets too much at one point so i made many acquaintances in uni i tried to keep my friend circle of moderate size.
maybe if i thought about this on any other day than today id feel less sad but the fact today's my birthday and none of them wished me just stings so much. its not like they're very introvert or tend to forget things. we recently celebrated quite a few birthdays and planned surprise parties and such. and thats why i said its probably my fault too that im not so memorable or didnt form any good bonds.
two of the guys who everyone says are my bfs, i was with them last night probably till 1am. i started to get calls from family so i l left and they didnt even notice. i was with others on discord few hours ago and nothing from them too. i dont want gifts and im too shy for all that stuff but wishing me isnt that difficult. ik this all sounds so childish and im like an attention whore but it all means something to me.
i got sick so i wouldnt be celebrating anyways. this is just a shout into the void of the internet. cheers.
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2024.05.21 11:08 KatFurry4 What are they discussing? [Art by me]

What are they discussing? [Art by me]
Hey y’all!! This is a present I’ve made for my friends birthday ^ Our sonas are having a late night walk.. but what are they discussing?
(Wanna see more of my art? Check my instagram! It’s @darackthewolf :3 Interested in commissions? DM me or go to darack.carrd.co :D)
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2024.05.21 11:06 Intelligent-Owl3363 Seeing someone seriously

I met a guy 3 months back and both of us are practicing Muslims, he intended to know more about me and kept asking for some time together. Sometime i gave time and sometimes I refused ( like to go a little far from my hostel). I allowed myself to spend more time which i wouldn't do with any other guy only because I was also interested. But after 2 months i felt that this was enough time for him and we shouldn't meet frequently. (But all this while things were in limits no touch, nothing.)
Just days later this, I lost my loving father and felt ( still feeling) shattered. When I came back to my hostel he has been there as a constant support. I have 2 close female friends but it's only him who is trying to be by my side as much as possible so that I can focus on my studies. He attended my father's Janaza namaz and constantly giving religious advice on how I should grieve. Also sitting beside me in library so that I study and not cry. All these gestures touched me so much that i just wanted to give him a tight hug.
Last night during our walk, we sat together and i touched his arms and it was really comforting, probably reminded me of my father. He said i can hug and cry if I want and that's what I did exactly, he tried to regulate himself and held me and kissed my forehead. I can see love in his eyes and in my case a genuine admiration for someone trying his best to comfort me ( although I always had physical attraction towards him)
In our case, it can take upto 2 years to be married ( if we finally decide on each other)., but as of now I want him to be my side and occasionally want to hug him and seek comfort in him. ( I can't go to family at the moment, I have to be here and focus on studies), his presence is making things easier for me and I just want to be around him. But i dont know if i can stop myself from going in his arms anymore.
I can't distance myself because it is helping me in grief and healing, but after last night also I want wondering if me embracing him for cuddle is alright religiously.
Please suggest ways where I can keep his warming presence in my life without angering Allah ;( He never demands anything although he had earlier asked the permission to hold hands, and simple things)
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2024.05.21 11:04 aisehi43566 Controversial !!

I know this will get a looooot of downvotes from those modern chimps out there but THIS IS THE REALITY. I am not even trying to put out a conversation inviting opinions , this post is straight out facts and i do not care about upvotes or comments I am talking about how degrading the fashion standards have become, specifically for women. Boys do not have any fashion trend ( we just have a pair of shirt, pant and jeans for most of the occasions). Sometimes I feel like vomiting when I go out to so called ' modern places'. I mean you can just roam around naked instead of wearing those dresses. In any broad sense one cannot justify the clothing that they have forced on women's body. Ofcourse girls wear them with pride thinking they are representing women empowerment ( I don't know how being naked is empowering to women ). I am not in anyway justifying any wrong action or harrasment just because a girl is wearing a skimpy dress. Even if in broad daylight , if a girl is roaming around naked , nobody should even have a thought about any wrongdoing. Everybody is responsible for their own action. There is no compromise on that and I strongly detest the Indian environment where women are still unsafe even withouth wearing skimpy clothing. Please keep that in mind before crying in the comments These so called fashionable dresses are a TOTALL BULLSHIT AND DEGRADED PEICE OF SHIT. It shows how much you respect yourself , just for getting some eyes on you you are eroding your privacy. And ofcourse some will cry that these dresses are for our own comfort let me tell you THESE DRESSES ARE NOT AT ALL COMFORTABLE , ATLEAST THOSE FUCKING SHORT DRESSES. I have seen my female friends how uncomfortable they become after wearing those , constantly trying to push down a short skirt , I mean why did you wear it in the first place. Everybody likes attention and it takes courage to admit it simply .I have even stopped going to the gym , which Is ofcourse located in a 'modern place' not because I cannot control myself because I don't want to see an almost naked girl wherever i go. Man's brain is hardwired in a way that even in normal circumstances it notices the opposite gender , it is normal sexuality but to pronounce that in every occasion is absolute nonsense. There were some girls who were protesting to wear short dress inside a religious place , I mean whats the point of that. If you have your own freedom then religious places have their own freedom to maintain their own rules. Day by day these fashion trends are normalizing which is a serious concern for society as a whole. I hope you get my message .
TLDR: mat pad bhai phir
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2024.05.21 11:03 federicookie I don't know what's going on lol (help)

Okay I don't even know how to start this so I'm going to do it as I can. Talking about this for me it's very difficult. I'll try to give as much context as I can because the situation is very complicated. I'm a 21 year old "guy" who is presumably a cis person. For several years, more or less since I was 15-16, I began to feel a certain disconnection with my gender and my physical appearance in general as well. I always thought it might be an age thing because feeling disconnected from your body is normal as a teenager, but more and more I'm realizing that maybe it's more than that. I was always a person with an attitude that did not fit with the typical gender roles that a boy would have, I always had more female friends since I was always very (maybe too much) sensitive and I still am. Whenever I want to buy clothes I can't find anything I like and I always complain that I like "girl" clothes much more but there is something that needs to be understood. I was born in a family belonging to a religious sect that derives from extreme Christianity. I have never told my parents about my bisexuality although I think they must already know something. They have never accepted that from me. I also received psychological, physical and sexual abuse throughout my life (I prefer not to talk about it now so as not to get sidetracked but so you can imagine the type of things I faced. My parents sent me at 13 years old, alone, for 70 days to a kind of spiritual retreat on the other side of the country where they forced me to do forced labor and receive different types of humiliations just to force me to "remove the sin" from me) This is just one of the infinite mistreatment that they did to me during my life, it's something I'm working on but unfortunately I don't know how to solve it yet. I mean, you can imagine that with all this, coming out as a trans person would be something bordering on impossible for me. To all this, I also have a girlfriend, I have no idea what she might think of me either (Please understand that I am not saying that this is a bad thing, it is just that living in a third world country everything that has to do with gender and diversity can be a very big source of harassment and bullying, and my parents aren't exactly the definition of understanding) I am very afraid, I am afraid of what people might say about me and I am very afraid of facing this problem alone because the truth is at this moment this is just one of the other problems I have just as important. I really don't know where I should start or what I should think about all this. I hope it's not annoying, I apologize if anything I said is wrong. I hope that from my family context you understand that I am the least educated person in gender issues but I try to do my best to understand what I am feeling. I would appreciate if someone could advise me taking the things I said into account, thank you very much and have a good day.
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2024.05.21 10:55 SatisfactionAny3799 AITAH for wanting to uninvite 2 people from my birthday celebration?

For two weeks now I’ve been planning what I want to do for my 24th birthday as I’ve never really celebrated my birthday in the past. I decided on a bbq during the day and a sleepoveladies night in at my place (718sqft apartment). I’ve invited some of my favorite people to come celebrate my birthday with me though everyone will not be staying the night…only myself and 7 of the 16 people I invited are staying the night. One of the people I invited asked if it would be okay if SHE invited her bff (I’ve met her once) and someone who we both know from work. Me not knowing how to say no I said yea sure.
But now I’m thinking about not inviting the two add on people. Reason why is because the best friend of the person I invited said that she will not be able to stay the night…which is fine…but then she says “I’m just gonna come and get drunk and swim”…which made me feel a little bit off because it’s like…is that all you’re coming for???? And then the other person…she’s cool we talk at work but not really. The reason I’m thinking about uninviting her is because of some pajamas. Silly…I know. I want us all having matching pajamas. I found some nice pajamas on Amazon for $16. Everyone immediately got theirs no problem I even bought some for my best friend because she didn’t have the money yet. But this one girl she’s saying that she already has pink pajamas. I’m pretty sure they aren’t the same shade of pink or the same style. If anybody’s gonna be in a different style or shade it’s gonna be me.
Am I wrong for wanting to un invite them or is it no big deal and I’m just being silly???
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2024.05.21 10:53 rvsegvldtears next steps for me

(I used chat gpt to give a summary for what happened because what I originally wrote was way too long)
The narrator is a junior at a university, living a complex and strained relationship with three friends: "Lila," "Alya," and "Marinette" (pseudonyms). Initially, the narrator became close to Alya, their freshman roommate, and through her, became part of a friend group including Marinette. Despite being introverted, the narrator made efforts to bond but found the social demands exhausting.
Conflict arose when the narrator needed alone time away from Marinette, leading to misunderstandings and accusations of calling Marinette "clingy." This worsened when Marinette ignored the narrator's health concerns related to anemia, particularly refusing to turn off the air conditioning despite the narrator's frequent illnesses.
Eventually, the narrator decided to move dorms and replace themselves with Alya, leading to another conflict when Marinette pressured an early move-out, causing significant distress to the narrator. Meanwhile, tensions with Alya surfaced over unpaid debts and disagreements on priorities, particularly Alya's tendency to prioritize boys over friends. Alya's neglect of her dog and subsequent misrepresentation of the narrator's intentions further strained their relationship.
Lila had previously supported the narrator during a tough period, but a recent incident involving Lila, another friend, and a misunderstanding about sleeping with someone caused a fallout. Marinette and Lila's private conversations revealed hurtful comments about the narrator, particularly on the narrator's birthday.
Feeling isolated, the narrator questions their place in the group, recognizing through therapy that Marinette holds an unresolved grudge and Alya's self-centeredness. They grapple with the desire for solitude versus the need for social connection, compounded by being the only queer person in the group whose concerns and interests often go ignored. The narrator seeks guidance on how to proceed with these friendships.
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2024.05.21 10:50 purplecoffe3 To my ex’s baby mama,

[ lengthy post ahead ]
Hello Be*, idk if you’ll ever see this but I’ll send it anyway. We met once at his birthday celebration. When we were still together. With the cheater I know he is, I knew he was eyeing for you since you are attractive. Without a doubt, I was mesmerized by your beauty as well, and I saw that as a chance to finally end that relationship. I joked with you pa nga "Gusto mo sa’yo na lang (ex ko)? Toxic naman yan e." That was true, yet I wasn’t wrong though. You ended up dating and even having a baby.
Fast forward to now, I came across your tiktok account, and there were no posts from you, just reposts from other accounts explaining the situation you were having—Cheating, living with a narcissist-pathological liar, and being emotionally, verbally, and mentally abused. I feel so sorry for you since I have experienced all you are going through. Don't get me wrong, I don't pity you; it's just that I wish you knew that I went through everything he made you feel while we were together. He was disrespectful to my parents and his mom, always came to our house at the middle of the night, intoxicated, and I was always afraid of what he would do if I did not accompany him because he had anger issues. The reason why I experienced trauma bonding with him. Idk, if he shared this with you, but we also had a baby.
That was our difference. You chose motherhood, I didn't. When I found out I was pregnant with him, we weren’t talking for a while (our whole rs was like that, on & off). Still informed him about it, and when he found out? he told me, "Mag-PT ka ulit, baka niloloko mo lang ako para bumalik ako." (ew) but I was afraid back then, so I did in front of him kasi akala ko gusto niya. I thought having a baby with him would change him, but it didn't. He still cheated on me despite knowing the fact that I was pregnant, so I decided not to continue my pregnancy because I had so many ambitions and couldn't risk them for someone who is incapable of loving. That includes both of us. I wasn't ready, and I couldn't imagine him being a good father to my child, nor could I because I didn't know how to love myself. Before that decision was made, a lot of “fixing” happened, I begged him several times, cried, and was still called insane while going through pregnancy just bc I was asking for assurance..
When I finally decided that there were no hopes for us, I finally blocked him everywhere and he was calling me thru his mom’s phone number— It was chaotic, and the only thing on my mind at the moment was that I needed to get rid of 'this' because my kid did not deserve what he was about to see, if he made it. I went to the OB alone and was terrified. I took three f*king PTs, and they were all as clear as water, indicating "positive". However, when they were checking up on me, the physicians informed me that they had trouble finding the baby's heartbeat. Yes, it was ectopic.
Am I a bad person if I felt relieved? Because I did. I was in anguish, too. I felt compelled to blame someone, and so I blamed it all on him. Ofc, he branded me "crazy" and had the audacity to say, "Kung di ka lang sana nag-isip nang nag-isip. Kasalanan mo yan!” After losing my kid, I never went back, but I still sobbed every fking day, wondering how in the world I could have met someone with no heart. I never even got an apology. Until December 202 (we were in no contact for 2 months, after losing my baby) he was following one of my best friends and saw me on her story, he sent my best friend a DM to introduce me to him again ‘para makabawi’ he said, I didn’t really understood what he meant by that, makabawi para sa nagawa niya? O para lokohin ulit ako? that’s when he began booty calling me again. I met with him while I was still in the process of moving on from everything and the trauma bond remained strong bc he told me he was sorry, that’s what I thought. I had no idea you were already with him at that moment, till the morning when he and I were still together, and saw that you were bomboarding his phone with messages and calls at 6 a.m. That’s when I knew. I saw myself in you. I went home feeling ashamed and disgusted with myself. Cried myself to sleep because I didn’t know anything, he fooled me once again. Worse, he made me his sidechick, something I wouldn’t even dream of becoming.
I’m sorry. I was about to confront you, but shame consumed me. I never intended to hurt another woman. But believe me, I never met him again despite of him sending me messages every now and then, despite the fact that I already blocked him everywhere & even changed my phone number, but still he asked where I was, if I was available, and anything else you can think of while you and him were together. The only thing I want from him is my money, which he owed me. Damn, I was so stupid.
But, anyhow, all I wanted to say was that while this may sound cliché, you did not deserve it, all the pain and self loathing. Scrolling over your reposts, I see you're also in pain because of your baby daddy. I am very sorry that you and your kid had to meet a monster. If you and him are still together and came across this, and the patterns remain the same. Do me a favor: get you your baby out of that boy's life because HE WILL NEVER MAN UP. I hope your find the strength to walk away because you don’t need someone who makes you feel unworthy of the right kind of love. You deserve a love you ought to give, and nothing less.
I assumed he told you about how I was the toxic one? Heck, I was. It's because he cheated on me several times, lied straight to my face after crying and running to me to come back over and over again, and still managed to hit up on girls while knowing I was pregnant. That’s what a narcissist does, I’ve had trust issues and anxiety as a result of him. In my perception, your existence was a blessing to me, it freed me from that situation. It was never easy, it really felt like I was going insane, bc how in the hell could someone do that to me— who had full of love in my heart, but shattered into pieces after offering a love that’s genuine. But I did, I was able to walk away and I hope you will too.
Girl, I sincerely hope that things will work out for you in the long run. Losing my angel, opened my eyes, and I pray it will do the same for you and your little one. I apologize if I also caused you pain. You deserve a love that is safe, calm, and at peace. Most of all, your baby do not deserve a father like that, you’ll both do fine on your own.
Please save yourself; no one will. I dodged a bullet, unaware that you would be the one to catch it. Please, just live even if it feels like dying; I promise you, it will be over shortly. Above all, prioritize your own well-being. We never deserved it; no one ever does. From woman to a woman, I am rooting for your healing, Mama. ❤️‍🩹
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2024.05.21 10:50 Yurii_S_Kh “May we be that kind of crazy”. Conversation with Protopresbyter Joseph Dzagoev about Orthodoxy on the Kolyma peninsula

“May we be that kind of crazy”. Conversation with Protopresbyter Joseph Dzagoev about Orthodoxy on the Kolyma peninsula
Protopresbyter Joseph Dzagoev, a priest in the Protection monastery in Magadan, tells about the spiritual life in his city. He talks about well-worn stereotypes, “ordinary” Christian miracles, and how we should never get tired of trusting the Lord.
Trinity Cathedral in Magadan
The Russian antimension
Before 1989, our city was lacking not only a monastery; we didn’t have a single church. Before the Bolshevik persecutions against religion, there were churches, chapels and veneration crosses at various neighboring villages, on the coast, and in Cossack settlements. It wasn’t till the very end of the twentieth century when the persecution of the Christian faith finally officially stopped, and with the blessing of the Bishop of Khabarovsk, the very first Orthodox community was formed here. The first services were held in a private residence. This is where the Protection Monastery was later founded. Although it’s true that our city never even had a chance to have a church, because it started its life, so to speak, as a local GULAG camp in the early 1930s. That’s why any church was out of the question. We aren’t talking about the times of the Russian Empire, when churches were everywhere, and everyone, including exiles, convicts and other prisoners, always had the opportunity to attend a church service. But on the other hand, even if we didn’t have a physical church, it doesn’t mean that we had no Christians here. We have every reason to call both Solovki and Magadan and their surrounding territories an enormous Russian antimension spread under the open sky. How many new martyrs and confessors suffered here in very recent times!
One of the most revered local saints is the Venerable Confessor Andronik (Lukash), one of the elders of Glinsk Hermitage, whose relics rest in our Holy Trinity Cathedral. But there are many more saints like him—both those we know, and those known only to God. So, the place you stand is holy ground. I think we should know more about the holiness of this land.
Well-worn stereotypes
Fr. Joseph, how can we understand the salvific value of sufferings? How do we benefit from them if viewed from the Christian perspective? After all, not everyone who suffered here at Kolyma suffered for Christ’s sake. If we read the works of Varlam Shalamov1—it gives you jitters and you even can grow despondent.
—I have to say right away that neither I, nor many of the inhabitants of our region, are fans of Varlam Tikhonovich's literary work. You can’t find a glimpse of light in his writing. Besides, the locals say that not everything that he wrote is truthful. But let's leave Shalamov in peace, God rest his soul. As for the meaning and nature of suffering, in my opinion, there were prisoners (and there are still some—I have been conducting prison pastoral care since 1998 in our region, so I can talk to the prisoners) who truly suffered for the truth, for Christ’s sake, and for their loyalty to Him. But there were also some (moreover, many) who endured the hardship of imprisonment because, as many of them admit, they have been beneficial to them. They redeem from “other” sins for which they probably haven’t been “officially” convicted. These people tell me: “It’s better that I suffer here and now instead of later, in the afterlife.” I think this speaks of the humility cultivated in them. I used to meet real Christians behind bars, so we shouldn’t suppose that Kolyma is only for hardened thugs. But cultivating suffering—no, I will not do that. Let’s remember the words of the Apostle Peter: But let none of you suffer as a murderer, or as a thief, or as an evildoer, or as a busybody in other men's matters (1 Peter 4:15).
But overall I, and the overwhelming majority of residents of Kolyma region, have already gotten quite tired of this reference, the stereotype regarding our land—that Magadan is all about the prisons, camps, tough guys in padded jackets with an inmate number, barbed wire, and so forth. It still works somehow as a gimmick for tourists, but our land has so much more and it can surprise in a good way by bring joy to someone “from the mainland.” Actually, have you noticed that we even say, “from the mainland”, despite the fact that Magadan is actually also a mainland city, while Yakutsk is only 2000 kilometers away from us?
Aha, right, “just” a mere couple of thousand kilometers—no big deal!
—But it is so beautiful, isn’t it?
The embankment
That's true. The sea knolls, the sea, your сhurches, the embankment, the central streets and museums—it's a pleasure to walk around!
—So, we don't live in the dreary past, nor do we relish the allure of prison life—we have other things to do and something and someone to pray about. We have much to do, and that’s good. Because you can’t, after all, rush around the country “seeking greener pastures”. It is better to get comfortable in your own clean, spacious, well stocked and hospitable home. But you’ll obtain this home only when you, and not some “fairy-tale do-gooder,” take care of it yourself. Besides, that “fairy-tale do-gooder” actually does offer support; we receive sizable support from the federal budget. And no, it’s not our thing to sit here whining and waiting for better times, unwilling to lift a finger to make those better times come.
The fruits of a recent sermon and “birth pangs” of the Apostle Paul
But let us return to the idea of the Russian antimension spread under the open sky. It seems to me that the whole of Russia can serve as such antimension, since persecutions happened all over Russia. So many churches and monasteries were destroyed! I think, we, the Christians of today, can’t come even close to Holy Russia of that time.
In the Protection monastery
And in qualitative terms?
—On the one hand, I can dwell on the problems like an old man—where our young generation (including priests) is heading, that they are the victims of the “upbringing” of the 1990s, that the former generations were “warriors, far better than you,”2 “unlike the current crop of youth,” and to some extent I would probably be right. On the other hand, as a modern-day priest, I see something joyful happening before my own eyes—I wouldn’t’ say holy, I should be careful here—but examples that speak of a worthy and often miraculous Christian life.
Let’s take our Protection Monastery, for example. As I already said, it was founded around a house of worship with the blessing of Bishop Gabriel of Khabarovsk as far back as 1992. There was a community there already, but they were able to obtain their own building, albeit a small and remote one, only in the 1990s. Vladyka used to visit us here several times a year, and this community grew larger over time. Later the Magadan diocese was formed, so when Vladyka Arkady came here together with the monks, they began to travel all over Kolyma as missionaries, visiting every village and hamlet, baptizing, serving, and having conversations. That’s how the life of the Church has gradually settled here. Much later, our monastery was built, and it currently has four elderly nuns headed by Matushka Nadezhda, the abbess.
It turns out that everyone has different gifts. One person is man of prayer, another is a master craftsman, and yet another one is an excellent organizer.
—I think the most difficult thing is to have only just begun the spiritual life—considering those “birth pangs” of the Apostle Paul. But later on, there comes a moment of great joy when you see that your community is growing in Christ. Thanks to Bishop Arkady’s labors, we were able to accomplish very much Above all, he succeeded in changing the attitude of the regional and city authorities towards the Church. And not just of the authorities, but also of our local people. Formerly, believers were called “relics of the past” and “pariahs,” despicable and worthless people with “issues,” who were crazy in the head. Now, largely thanks to missionary work, people have realized that first of all, Christ is risen, and secondly, His Resurrection directly affects each and every one of us. Do you choose to languish in the darkness of eternal complaints and death? Wouldn’t it be better to be joyful and work alongside Christ and His disciples? That’s where our choice is. It is, of course, a serious question—to what extent we sinners are worthy disciples of the Lord. But our failures don’t give us the right to forsake God, right? Judging from my own experience, I know how perplexed people were when we witnessed the faith. I remember how in the 1990s, when I was still working at a mining plant (I am a mine foreman by education), there was a lot of theft. And when someone made me an offer to “steal” at work, I replied that I was a Christian and I would not steal. They stared at me and kept looking at me for a long time as if I were insane. However, at any time, to follow Christ was always seen by the fallen world as a disease—we are not right in the head if we are Christians. God willing, may we be that kind of crazy.
Kolyma paradoxes and the miracles of Magadan
Protopresbyter Joseph Dzagoev with the patients of residential care facility
—The irony is that the site of the present-day Holy Trinity Cathedral in Magadan formerly housed the 1st administrative office of Dalstroy, the very consortium that brought workers, or rather slaves, to the GULAG. Later on, they decided to build the House of Soviets there, a huge one by local standards, around fourteen stories tall. But they never finished it; the structure cracked and it was impossible to commission it. That unfinished construction site has seen it all: drunken brawls, the stench of beer, teenagers committing suicide… It was horrible. But now it is the site of our magnificent Trinity Cathedral.
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if our hearts were also transformed?
—That is harder to achieve, of course. Especially now, when the war is going on, and when our boys return after witnessing all that death. What are we to do with them? God willing, some of them will find their way to the church, But what about the rest? After the Great Patriotic War, career military people were sent to work here—straight from active duty in the army, they became the camp guards. They say there was an unheard level of drunkenness here... I don't know what will happen now. We pray that we can overcome the ordeal that befell our military men and their families.
Yes, and more about the sick. Our monastery is on good and friendly terms with the staff at the psychoneurological residential care facility. Many patients and their staff come to us, and we also visit them. We hold services, we meet and talk to people, comforting them to the best of our abilities. Here is what I want to say: According to information from the residential facility’s staff, the vast majority of their patients (and it’s something like ninety percent!) are the children of drug addicts and alcoholics. And there are about four hundred people residing there! This is the sad part.
Now about the miracles so common for Christians. Have you noticed one young man at the service—a kind and caring one, who is smiling and willing to help everyone? This is our Sasha, and he also resides there. He came a long time ago, when the Protection Monastery had just been founded. Well, he sort of came, but he couldn’t say a word—he could only mumble something unintelligibly. Well, he kept mumbling something while we prayed together with him. All churches and communities have such people, so it’s not surprising. But one day we came to the morning service and saw our Sasha standing in front of the icon of the Mother of God, clearly reciting, “Rejoice O Virgin Mother of God.” Not only was he reciting it, but so eloquently that any pious church reader would be jealous! We stood there in amazement. Once he finished praying, we came closer. “Sasha, dearest, how did you learn to read, how do you know the words?” He answered so calmly but matter-of-factly: “This Auntie taught me!” and pointed to the icon of the Mother of God. We could only stand there in silence and continue praying. And that’s what we do! As for Sasha, he continues to come, almost never missing a service. He also helps around the monastery and assists at our meetings in his residential care facility.
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So, we do have miracles, we can’t do without them. On the one hand, those miracles are truly our great support on our path to God. On the other hand, they give us a wonderful opportunity to pause and think that Christ does not work miracles without reason or purpose—any real miracle has its own meaning, and we always see God's love in it. We also have to work hard, even if we are spiritual invalids. We can still progress towards Heaven. If we ourselves don’t make an effort, of course there won’t be miracles! So I wish for us all to keeping working. And one more thing: If you ever happen to be in Kolyma, you are cordially invited to visit us!
Peter Davydov spoke with Protopresbyter Joseph Dzagoev
1 Varlam Shalamov (June 18, 1907–January 17, 1982, was a poet and writer who spent much of the period from 1937 to 1951 imprisoned in forced-labor camps in the Arctic region of Kolyma, due in part to his support of Leon Trotsky and praise of writer Ivan Bunin. He is the author of Kolyma Tales, about life in the northern GULAG.—OC.
2 From the poem about the Battle of Borodino, Borodino, by Mikail Lermontov.—OC.
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2024.05.21 10:47 Fun-Inspector-5739 [38/M] #California - Let's voicechat, watch shows/movies/anime, or play games!

Ahoy there! I've been feeling a bit lonely and friendless lately, so I'm hoping to make some new connections. I'm open to platonic friendships with anyone and maybe something more 🌶️ with women if it goes that way. Just be honest about what you're looking for.
A bit about me:
I'm currently focusing on self-improvement:
I'm also exploring new hobbies, so if you have any suggestions, I'd love to hear them!
Big fan of:
Looking for someone laid-back to chat with, game, watch shows/movies, or just talk. Maybe we can even meet up someday! We could hit an arcade, grab some Korean BBQ, or watch something together if we vibe well.
If you're interested, send me a message with some info about yourself! :]
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2024.05.21 10:47 the_rari_atari Month 2 - sent her a B-Day Card to initiate contact

Hi all ,
Its been two months since we broke up , I am 32 and she is 31. We were together 3.5 years and really fell for this girl.
Well.. I initiated the breakup and told her I wasn't happy because she emotionally shut off from me and didn't appreciate nor value me. Her manipulative mother and sister were also very involved in the relationship telling her how to run things and control me. I did not like that and it caused a lot of conflict.
I told her that I was willing to work on the relationship. She didn't engage and she shut off even more and we've had no contact since, none whatsoever. She had my stuff ready to collect the next day and that was the end of that. I was heartbroken. Her friends removed me from social media too.
I've literally done nothing but give her anything she wanted in the relationship. Her ex cheated on her twice and she took him back twice which hurt me even more because I was loyal and nothing bad had ever happened.
It was her birthday over the weekend and I left her a nice birthday card that wished her a wonderful day and that I would love for us to connect sometimes. She hasn't even acknowledged it or even say thank you or anything :(

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2024.05.21 10:38 Fun-Discipline8985 Stress-filled situation.

So let me go on a story.
I'm a gay 29M.
I lost my parents, and received inheritance around two months before my birthday last year. It was put toward purchasing a lovely home with several rooms and accommodations. It's very lovely.
However; when this happened, I lost my job which would've provided a far better income, benefits, and far easier work due to circumstances that transpired. I was set back for a while, and ultimately became financially unstable. I always make it work out ultimately now, re-employed and taking odd jobs, so I've become reliable on that front.
I invited a coworker of mine who wanted to avoid her abusive living situation with her mother, who threatened to kick her out. This coworker friend (20F) [Let's call her J] tends to have anger-issues that elicit her to lash out at people rather immensely. She has made tremendous progress in this respect I feel in some of the time I know her, but habits continue. It's not physical or anything, it's just emotional/anxiety riddled stuff, and so forth. For the most part, having lost the job, the majority of the duress between us arrives from housing situations and ultimately the issues aren't massive. Either out of respect, out of understanding, or out of better compatibility, things improved. Likewise she has a cat, and while it can be a little annoying, it's adorable so I forgive it. Likewise she's a big animal lover.
Near Christmas, another former Coworker of mine (24F) [She can be H.]had a falling out with her boyfriend. So at the behest of my new roommate's request, she was given a room. It was a trial to sort of get her back on her feet. I offered a month without rent to allow her to save money. Then a 3-month period discounted Rent, to help her furnish herself. Likewise due to a smaller room; she had less money owed. This has continued for five or so months in totality. This Coworker I don't have much synergy with, and she seems primarily self-contained. I don't opt to interact with her, and she doesn't with me. Likewise; she's far more extroverted than I or my roommate, so often goes out drinking, hanging out with boys, etc.
Recap.
J is 20. H is 24.
And for the majority of the time together; the two have been fast friends and likewise seemed to improve more as they've hung out here. Until the second roommate wanted a cat, which initially both were overjoyed by. She got a kitten, pretty spontaneously. And ignoring advice, she let it interact with my roommate's cat. We were initially planning on keeping them apart for both their safety, especially because the kitten hadn't been vet-processed and J's cat has a slightly weak immune system. This was in breach of trust given, and upset J quite a bit.
H had made plans to hangout with a friend that night, and essentially left the cat in a carrier in her room, and told J she'd likely be back by 1 AM that night, and if she could watch the cat. J had work at 7 AM, but agreed.
H got drunk and never came home that night. Meanwhile, the kitten she adopted was mewling all night across J's room and upsetting her essentially. The 4-week old kitten was comforted and likewise, and could fit into your cupped hands. It got stuck under a door once even, escaping it's carrier. It could've been bad or worse. I'm mildly upset at it.
But likewise; I own a pet I keep in my room too, who rarely scratches at the door sometimes. I can understand a cat left to their own devices can be fine, they can be solitary creatures seemingly. But given how young the kitten was and how it needed constant attention, it felt very rough for J to both look after H's kitten after everything, and for H to disappear after saying she'd return. Likewise J didn't want the cat to be harmed. She'd leave it be for intermittent periods but would check in on it every half-hour to hour.
So on this side of the topic; I feel J is beyond validated.
But it evolved.
J elected to lash out at H over this. Sending 20+ text messages in the same day; threatening to get the cat into a Vet, or Humane Shelter due to what had happened and the seeming neglect, so on and forth. Hollow threats she claims to provoke H into caring more, but ultimately still made and essentially this was on the first day of owning the kitten. I don't feel H was given an opportunity or time to process or adjust from her day's decision, and was bombarded immensely with hateful messages that tore her down.
Ultimately, this led to H giving her cat away, but she refuses to apologize, and their friendship essentially broke. H's ability to take accountability is tremendously limited and often leans toward victimization at times, but I empathized with her because J can be absolutely vitriolic, toxic, and poisonous when her anger oversteps her rationality.
Ultimately H feels like moving out in some regards due to it. But the talk about J's feelings toward H; the disdain, annoyance, and likewise low-opinion J holds due to this, has caused H to recluse some toward J further. And ultimately time has passed, between shouting at one another, to text messages, to H seeking refuge in friends and drink, to J having a operation around this time and spending time recuperating from it. Which opened a bridge of concern from H, that I hoped would maybe lead them to talking it out. Because the two can be good at it.
But ultimately when J relented enough to offer the Olive Branch, H rejected it. Which is her right. Civility after the initial moments had been somewhat restored, life moved on, they weren't friends but they could mostly live with one another.
Which led J spiraling into an angry tirade that was primarily meant to tear down H again, and did so by praying on trauma H had. Because J wanted to ensure all bridges were burnt down.
I'm stuck in the middle on this and it's aggravating me.
H refuses to even so much as budge in admitting fault, but I honestly don't think leaving your kitten alone at home is necessarily a bad idea on paper; since many animals are often left alone and while not the greatest situation can still be fine. She already has to work an 8-hour+ job some days, and would be relying on us in the interim for feline-care, until the cat was grown, had her shots, and was allowed to roam the house and have some more freedom. And likewise she had made plans, and got carried away. I can honestly chalk up her decisions to inexperience and bad decision-making and feel in some respects she deserves some grace. Likewise J's treatment of her, personal attacks, threats to get the Cat put into a Vet after one day, and likewise were it me in her shoes it would make me reconsider ownership of the cat as well, and likewise would make me very unreceptive toward any sort of relationship with J.
But as I said; H throughout all of this didn't apologize, and took solely to defending her decisions, justifying her rationale in them, and ultimately even on the things she did wrong that led to the situation developing, doesn't relent.
J meanwhile, I can see the frustration on. She is earnestly trying to get H to be accountable. She helped tremendously toward even getting the cat, and offered a lot of help throughout the process. She had her own cat endangered recklessly despite several warnings (in a very avoidable way that you'd deliberately have to do otherwise), and likewise was sent to work without sleep caretaking for a kitten that she had only volunteered for a few hours for. Much the same, the kitten was essentially in distress and abandoned in the first day, which raised a few questions about the responsibility and future events arising alike to that.
But; I feel that while J deserves to be told that in several respects she was right, that her grievances toward H erupted in such a manner that it was absolutely disrespectful, and painful, and likewise manipulative in the worst of ways.
I've no idea what to do in this case, because I'd like both Renters to sort of hash it out, and be done with it, but obviously not happening per se. But I'm also conflicted on the topic. I don't know if the kitten left alone is a massive deal and red flag for future neglect on the first day, or if it was acceptable to take time away from the kitten given how it would be left alone anyway when she worked. Likewise; I'm not sure if J's justified in respects for how used it made her feel and not receiving a single apology, or if H at this point is suffering more than enough from how J's reacting.
I'm very stuck in the middle here, and I'm worried about losing one. Should I accept the potential loss?
TL;DR: 20F lashes out toxically at 24F for abandoning kitten she had just adopted for twelve+ hours and making her babysit on a work-night beyond agreed upon times and also endangering her own cat in the same day. 24F refuses to apologize, but 20F's negative response has been borderline overwhelming and personal.
29M landlord is unsure what to do, feel, think, or prepare for.
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2024.05.21 10:29 adulting4kids More Emotion Prompts

  1. Sonder: The protagonist, while people-watching in a crowded city square, experiences a profound sonder moment, realizing the intricate stories of those around them.
  2. Énouement: On their 30th birthday, the protagonist reflects on the énouement of their life, pondering the unexpected twists and turns that led them to this moment.
  3. Chrysalism: During a cozy thunderstorm, the protagonist finds solace in their home, reveling in the chrysalism of raindrops tapping on the window.
  4. Monachopsis: Attending a high-society event, the protagonist, feeling out of place, grapples with monachopsis in a sea of unfamiliar faces.
  5. Liberosis: After a life-changing event, the protagonist embraces liberosis, letting go of trivial concerns and embarking on a minimalist lifestyle.
  6. Vellichor: Exploring an old, dusty library, the protagonist inhales the vellichor of aged books, each telling a story of bygone eras.
  7. Anecdoche: In the midst of a lively party, the protagonist engages in an anecdoche, trying to share a personal story amid the chaotic chatter.
  8. Jouska: The protagonist engages in a silent jouska, rehearsing a conversation with a loved one that they never have the courage to voice.
  9. Nighthawk: Alone in their thoughts during a sleepless night, the protagonist experiences nighthawk, contemplating the choices that brought them to this insomnia.
  10. Occhiolism: Gazing at the vast night sky, the protagonist grapples with occhiolism, feeling infinitesimally small in the grand cosmos.
  11. Lachesism: The protagonist, seeking a thrill, faces lachesism head-on by participating in extreme sports, craving the adrenaline rush.
  12. Rubatosis: During a moment of anxiety, the protagonist becomes acutely aware of their own heartbeat, experiencing rubatosis in a tense situation.
  13. Exulansis: Unable to convey a deeply personal experience, the protagonist faces exulansis, resigning to the solitude of their unshared story.
  14. Sonderlust: Inspired by wanderlust, the protagonist embraces sonderlust, setting off on a journey to explore diverse cultures and connect with strangers.
  15. Limerence: The protagonist, captivated by someone new, grapples with the intoxicating effects of limerence, navigating the complexities of infatuation.
  16. Altschmerz: The protagonist, burdened by the weight of recurring issues, confronts altschmerz and seeks a new perspective on long-standing challenges.
  17. Chiasmus: Engaging in a heated debate, the protagonist skillfully uses chiasmus to convey a powerful argument, leaving their opponent speechless.
  18. Hiraeth: Visiting their childhood home after years away, the protagonist experiences hiraeth, longing for the simplicity of bygone days.
  19. Xenization: Immersed in a foreign land, the protagonist grapples with xenization, navigating cultural differences and seeking a sense of belonging.
  20. Petrichor: Walking through a rejuvenated forest after a rainstorm, the protagonist relishes in the petrichor, a reminder of nature's resilience.
  21. Ineffable: Confronted with an indescribable beauty, the protagonist struggles with ineffable emotions, unable to capture the experience in words.
  22. Resfeber: As they prepare for a significant journey, the protagonist feels resfeber, a mix of nervousness and excitement, anticipating the unknown.
  23. Avenoir: Reflecting on a lost love, the protagonist yearns for avenoir, a glimpse into an alternate future where the relationship flourished.
  24. Adronitis: Attending a crowded party, the protagonist experiences adronitis, the frustration of struggling to connect with others in the social chaos.
  25. Chrysoprase: Discovering a hidden gem, the protagonist feels chrysoprase, an unexpected surge of joy and delight in the midst of daily life.
  26. Fernweh: Looking at a world map, the protagonist succumbs to fernweh, a deep desire to explore distant lands and experience the unknown.
  27. Zephyr: Standing on a cliff overlooking the ocean, the protagonist feels the gentle zephyr, contemplating the ephemeral nature of life.
  28. Torschlusspanik: Approaching a significant life milestone, the protagonist grapples with torschlusspanik, fearing the narrowing of opportunities as time passes.
  29. Cavil: Engaging in a philosophical discussion, the protagonist delights in cavil, exploring nuanced arguments and challenging conventional wisdom.
  30. Mamihlapinatapai: Locked in a prolonged gaze with a potential romantic interest, the protagonist experiences mamihlapinatapai, the silent communication of mutual desire.
  31. Nefelibata: The protagonist, lost in creative pursuits, embraces nefelibata, living in the clouds of their imagination and artistic expression.
  32. Ubuntu: Faced with a communal challenge, the protagonist draws strength from ubuntu, a sense of shared humanity and collective support.
  33. Boketto: Staring out of a window, the protagonist engages in boketto, lost in contemplation and daydreaming.
  34. Hygge: Creating a cozy reading nook, the protagonist immerses themselves in hygge, finding comfort and contentment in simple pleasures.
  35. Amae: Seeking reassurance, the protagonist experiences amae, leaning on loved ones for emotional support and connection.
  36. Ukiyo: The protagonist, embracing a carefree lifestyle, embodies ukiyo, reveling in the fleeting pleasures of the present moment.
  37. Sankofa: Confronted with personal growth, the protagonist embraces sankofa, learning from past experiences to shape a brighter future.
  38. La douleur exquise: Receiving an unrequited love letter, the protagonist grapples with la douleur exquise, the exquisite pain of wanting someone unattainable.
  39. Mudita: Witnessing a friend's success, the protagonist feels mudita, genuine joy and celebration for the happiness of others.
  40. Yūgen: In a moment of deep introspection, the protagonist senses yūgen, an awareness of profound beauty and mystery in the universe.
  41. Ikinokori: Surviving a life-threatening situation, the protagonist feels ikinokori, a heightened appreciation for the gift of life.
  42. Ephemeral: Observing a butterfly's brief existence, the protagonist reflects on the ephemeral nature of beauty and life.
  43. Thalassophile: Standing on a serene beach, the protagonist embraces their thalassophile nature, finding solace and connection with the sea.
  44. Psithurism: Camping in a peaceful forest, the protagonist listens to the soothing psithurism of leaves rustling in the wind.
  45. Obfuscate: Navigating a complex political situation, the protagonist strategically uses obfuscation to protect vital information.
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2024.05.21 10:27 tuttifucky President Yun Suk-yul's former call-girl wife's public activities are in question

President Yun Suk-yul's former call-girl wife's public activities are in question
President Yun Suk-yul's former call-girl wife, Kim Gun-hee, has recently resumed her public activities at diplomatic and religious events, but there are those in the People's Power Party who believe that she should first clarify the suspicions toward her.

Former call-girl spouse of President's spouse, Kim bitch is greeting to Monk Jinwoo, the head of Jogye order at sari yiun (sari transfer) ceremony at Hoeamsa Temple in Yangju, Gyeonggi Province on the 19th.
In an interview with the Buddhist Broadcasting Service (BBS) radio, Representative Cho Hae-jin said, "She should explain the facts to the people about the various allegations and seek their understanding, and if there is something to apologize for, she should definitely apologize." He emphasized that she should take responsibility for her activities so that President Yun Suk-yeol's wife can be more upright and clear. However, he pointed out that there are recurring situations where she comes forward and then backs down again and again in consideration of public sentiment and public opinion. This situation is embarrassing for the first call-girl lady.
Kim attended a luncheon for the South Korean and Cambodian state heads on the 16th, and then participated in a sari yiun (sari transfer) ceremony at Hoeamsa Temple in Yangju, Gyeonggi Province on the 19th.
In addition, Representative-elect Kim Jae-sup (Do-Bong-gap, Seoul) said in an SBS radio interview that "Mrs. Kim's public activities require an explanation." He expressed his stance on the issue of a special prosecutor and a second office in charge of the president's spouse, which would manage the president's circle of friends and relatives, saying that "the government has already promised to set up the special prosecutor and the second office together." He added that the public would think her role is necessary.
Finally, in a radio interview with Korea Broadcasting System (KBS), former lawmaker Kim Young-woo said, "There is no clear explanation for her to say "I will only assist" when Yoon was a presidential candidate, and the special prosecutor was very promising, but when there is no progress, public events and actions lead to a loss of trust and misunderstanding.
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2024.05.21 10:22 Intelligent-Owl3363 Seeing someone seriously

I met a guy 3 months back and both of us are practicing Muslims, he intended to know more about me and kept asking for some time together. Sometime i gave time and sometimes I refused ( like to go a little far from my hostel). I allowed myself to spend more time which i wouldn't do with any other guy only because I was also interested. But after 2 months i felt that this was enough time for him and we shouldn't meet frequently. (But all this while things were in limits no touch, nothing.)
Just days later this, I lost my loving father and felt ( still feeling) shattered. When I came back to my hostel he has been there as a constant support. I have 2 close female friends but it's only him who is trying to be by my side as much as possible so that I can focus on my studies. He attended my father's Janaza namaz and constantly giving religious advice on how I should grieve. Also sitting beside me in library so that I study and not cry. All these gestures touched me so much that i just wanted to give him a tight hug.
Last night during our walk, we sat together and i touched his arms and it was really comforting, probably reminded me of my father. He said i can hug and cry if I want and that's what I did exactly, he tried to regulate himself and held me and kissed my forehead. I can see love in his eyes and in my case a genuine admiration for someone trying his best to comfort me ( although I always had physical attraction towards him)
In our case, it can take upto 2 years to be married ( if we finally decide on each other)., but as of now I want him to be my side and occasionally want to hug him and seek comfort in him. ( I can't go to family at the moment, I have to be here and focus on studies), his presence is making things easier for me and I just want to be around him. But i dont know if i can stop myself from going in his arms anymore.
I can't distance myself because it is helping me in grief and healing, but after last night also I want wondering if me embracing him for cuddle is alright religiously.
Please suggest ways where I can keep his warming presence in my life without angering Allah ;( He never demands anything although he had earlier asked the permission to hold hands, and simple things)
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2024.05.21 10:20 Material_Towel_8051 Ex Gf who broke up with me because I won't have a tattoo of her name wants to reconcile after 2 years. AIW for telling her " Fuck Off?"

We dated for 2 years. She loved tattoos & maybe had 6 tattoos when we were dating. TBH, I never liked tattoos but I don't judge people's for having it. Once we had a argument on a topic that she had a tattoo right over her vag*na written as " Jame's Property" ( James is my surname ). She said she had done this for me. I appreciated her but also I told her it wasn't necessary. I told her she doesn't need to show her love by marking her body & I love her for being herself. She took it offensively & started to argue with me saying I don't love her & I don't appreciate her efforts for our relationship. He had an argument but was able to solve it & pass through it.
Then she asked me to have a tattoo of her name in my neck as her birthday present. She knew that I absolutely hate tattoos & I do participate in blood donation events so its a big no from me. I told her she can ask anything but I won't have any tattoo. She again started to argue with me but I was farm with my decision. Then she lost it. Called me names, shouted at me & accused me for using her. I couldn't believe what I was hearing from her at that moment. I realised our relationship was getting toxic. I wanted to end it but wanted to give it another go because I loved her. To my suprise, She broke up with me saying she can't be with someone who doesn't love her. Before I could do anything, I found myself blocked in her every social media.
2 years passed since then & I'm in lot better position right now. I'm doing really well & I'm earning a fair income too. I gained new hobbies. I met new peoples & became friends with them. But last night, I got plenty of messages from my ex asking how was I. I wasn't expecting this cause I almost forgot that she existed ( because of they way parted ways ) but I didn't reply any of them. In Mid Night, I get bunch of calls from her but didn't pick any of them. In the early morning, she again called me & was sending me messages continuesly. Finally I picked her call & she said we need to talk. I told her what & she Immediately said she made a huge mistake by breaking up with me. That she misses me & she wants me back. She also said she won't force me for anything again & will try to remove those tattoos if I want. I was listening her but for some reason I didn't feel anything. Its maybe because my life became more beautiful without her in this 2 years & I don't want to sacrifice it. I just said " Fuck off & never try to contact me again". Then I blocked her.
Don't know what I did was right or wrong but I shared it with some of my friends today. Some of them said I did the right thing, some of them said I was extra cruel on her for saying it because she was trying to get a chance to fix our broken relationship.
AIW?
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2024.05.21 10:14 British_Historian 50 Questions Classic Tomb Raider Trivia

Hello Tomb Raiders! I played the original Tomb Raiders many years ago but to say it's a game series I have a deep personal knowledge of would be a lie short of very basic stuff.
I however have a friend who has played the Original PS1 Trilogy religiously, so much so that when we started doing trivia nights where one person gets to pick whatever subject they like and I make a 50 question quiz on that subject it's been their pick of choice!
Now I have done some googling, and wiki scrolling, but I'm concerned that I may not be penetrating the surface level. So I'm here to ask you lot for questions that would be appropriate.
The 50 questions are divided as follows.
10 Questions anyone who played the game should know.
10 Questions anyone who paid close attention to the lore in game would know.
10 Questions anyone who paid close attention to the mechanics would know.
10 Questions someone who has done expanded reading on the game would know.
10 Questions someone who studied the development of the game would know.
These numbers are not fixed, but are the general idea. This is also specifically the original PS1 Trilogy, they were very specific about that.
Hope you can help!
Thanks for your time.
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2024.05.21 10:14 Mysterious_Band2737 Test/Experiment

On Saturday lunchtime my wife and I have a meal out arranged with very good friends which was booked weeks ago. It is in a fancy restaurant where there will be many courses and it will include wine. I intend to have some wine but aim to limit the quantity as I haven’t had any alcohol since starting MJ 2 1/2 weeks ago. My relationship with alcohol is a complex and interesting one which I would be happy to share here if others were interested? Suffice it to say I have drunk more than was good for me for much of my life over the last 40 years or so. How MJ interacts with alcohol interests me. Will I be interested in any wine? If so, how much? I will also ensure I remain well hydrated with lots of water.
My friend and I discussed the meal and whilst they were willing to cancel it, despite it being my friend’s birthday, we all agreed that we would go anyway and I will take this opportunity to see how MJ gets along with a diverse selection of high quality food. Parts of it will be easy for me eg not eating the bread and butter or the desserts. These meals tend to be protein heavy with a few veg and sauce/dressings on the plate. Without bread I can avoid mopping up the sauce and if they do serve carb heavy veg such as potatoes I can just leave those on the side. I have chosen to declare myself Pescatarian for the purposes of the meal as it is a set tasting menu and red meat really is a turn off for me at the moment.
It makes sense to me to go along, enjoy the experience and see what I can learn. Making adjustments feels like a key step for long term progress.
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2024.05.21 10:11 DanaXue Sending Gift with Store Credit?

Hello, I wanted to ask if its still possible to send some one a Gift with CCUd Store Credits? i wanted to give a friend something for their birthday.
Like getting the cheapest aurora with "fresh cash" or something and CCU it to the ship i want to gift with store credit, does that still work?
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2024.05.21 10:09 tarnishedhalo98 I'm (25F) not sure if getting back with my ex (23M) would be a bad call after seeing each for the first time in over a year, after no contact? I don't know what to do.

TLDR AT THE BOTTOM.
This might be long, I'm sorry. My ex (23M) and I (25F) dated for an entire year in 2022, and then broke up and for the past year and little bit have not spoken or seen each other once. We met at a local bar and the way he came up to me as forward and sweet, he was younger than me but super confident and it worked. While we dated, we had a pretty great relationship and it was very much best friends/lovers, our whole group was amazing, and my current friend group now was essentially his group of friends first. He was always gentle with me, he let me be 110% myself, and I was his first love/his first girlfriend. He treated me really well.
Why did we break up, you ask? He was in his senior year of college at the time, and when he drank too much he'd get a little aggressive (not with me, like if someone bumped into him at the bar type vibe) and his sister was a fucking menace. She was my age, and so codependent on him she was mean to me because I took up his time instead of her. I was nothing but nice to her and tried to make it work, but she ruined my birthday that year, lied to him about how she treated me when he wasn't around, and was in general just really awful to me every chance she got. What's worse is I was his first girlfriend and that was her first time not having him to herself, and he didn't know any better and couldn't stand up for me when he needed to sometimes. It caused so many problems. Our friends hated her, too. That's the umbrella.
The actual breakup was because he was particularly difficult one night drunk and said something super mean to me, and when I wanted to talk to him about it he couldn't really face what he did. He had plans to go home that next day (an hour away, where his sister also lives) and said we'd talk on the phone later. Well, he called me, and he broke up with me over a 3 minute phone call. He didn't even sound like himself, he was distant and cold and the opposite of how he was with me any other time we'd ever gotten into an argument or discussion, and I KNEW it wasn't coming from him. I got over it pretty quickly because I was over his sister's shit and knew it was for the best regardless of how it happened.
We went this entire past year no contact, not seeing each other, nothing. Our friends saw him probably 3 times but he always left town before anyone went out and I'm 90% sure it was because he was avoiding seeing me.
ANYWAY. There's the back story, here's us seeing each other the first time.
This past weekend, one of our good friends had a really important event, and my ex was in town. My best girlfriend told me he would be, and my attitude toward it was truly whatever, I was fine seeing him and over it. We met everyone at the same bar he and I met at, which is basically our spot, and he was coming out of the bathroom when he saw me. His eyes went huge, he looked shocked. I thought it was a little funny, so I went up to him and gave him a a hug and said hi. He awkwardly said it was really nice to see me, and then went to the bar to get a drink. I went with my two friends to get a drink at the bar a few minutes later, and he was standing across from us literally glancing at me every 2 seconds.
I ended up going up to talk to him because we were obviously in the same group, and he asked me how I was. I said I'd been great, asked him how he was, pleasantries. He then goes, "but how are you really?" and I was like ?? No, like I've been great, dude. From there it was like nothing had changed between us. We were firing inside jokes off to each other, talking and laughing, and we pretty much turned into a unit from there. He was buying my drinks, giving me a piggyback ride to the next bar, arm around my waist the whole night, holding my hand, etc. If something funny happened I was the first person he was looking at.
At the end of the night we were talking and I asked him where he was staying, told him he could stay at mine if he wanted. He said he really wanted to, but he was seeing "kind of seeing someone". I asked him point blank if this was a girlfriend situation because I didn't want to ruin anything for him, then said I was seeing someone casually, too. He said he had no idea and basically brushed it off, was super nonchalant about it and didn't seem worried. I then said it wasn't like I wanted to do anything but it would be really nice to sleep next to him. He said he really wanted that, and we ended up back at mine. I had my head in his lap the whole uber ride to my house, he was brushing my hair out of my eyes, etc.
Nothing happened at my house, we stayed up and talked and laughed and cuddled and slept. The next morning we were up early talking and laughing more, catching up, etc. and went to our friend's brunch. The whole entire day he's looking at me like he did when we first met, watching out for me, at one point even pulled me into him and told me I was "really hard not to look at". It was like we were dating again.
We went back to our friend's apartment and hung out with everyone, and it was him in a being bag chair and me between his legs. He was playing with my hair the entire time, massaging my shoulders, leaning into me to laugh at everything we were the only ones noticing. We didn't even talk to hardly anyone else the whole 3 hours we were there. I left at the same time he did because he had an hour to drive home, and our goodbye was so emotional??
He hugged me so tightly for 3 minutes, said "well one of us is going to have to let go" and kissed me so hard it was like he was going off to war or something. I told him I had no idea what I was supposed to say, and he said he didn't either, and we kissed again really hard and we held hands until I was walked off far enough and had to let go. I got in my car and cried for 5 minutes, but I wasn't sad and I wasn't sure why.
I don't know what to do now. He hasn't texted or reached out and I'm sure he's just as confused as I am. I don't have rose-colored glasses on, I know there would need to be a ton of discussions before we ever revisited an "us", but this weekend just threw me because of how he ended our relationship. He's had a lot of things happen the last year that I know made him grow up and mature a lot, but I just don’t know. Am I delusional or does it seem like he's not over it either? He ended it but he also initiated all of this, so I shouldn't reach out, or should I?
TLDR; My ex (23M) and I (25F) saw each other for the first time after a year of no contact and it was like nothing between us changed, we were electric. He very obviously wasn't over me at all/looking at me the entire weekend like he did when we were dating/taking care of me/acting like he did when we dated. I'm not sure what to do because it made me realize I'm not over it either, even after going the entire last year thinking I was. I don't know where to go from here.
Any input is helpful, I'm sorry this is so fucking long lol
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2024.05.21 10:08 bakerwithacamera Lost A Friend After Talking About Ending My Marriage

Anyone else have this happen? Make a couples friend but when shit hits the fan they seem to get distant and weird?
The friend is getting space b/c they are focusing more on their relationship with god (they were never super religious before - and I'm not at all anymore)....and I've hurt their feelings on "several occasions" - their words (yet, I have no idea what was said or done that did so, even after apologizing and trying to offer to chat, listen to what hurt them, and share that I value them and our friendship and would like to repair it if possible). It seems odd b/c we've discussed challenging topics and disagreed with what seemed like mutual respect without anyone getting worked up or heated. I dunno. She's told me of times she's gotten into disagreements with others that seemed to get way heated, and if we did, we would share our opinions, but if we didn't agree, we would disagree, but it seemed to be without issue. I loved that. I have no idea, but maybe she didn't feel the same or avoided confrontation. Either way, I do not know b/c nothing was said about what I did that hurt her. Thinking about this later has annoyed me because I cannot be responsible for hurt feelings I was unaware of. If she wants to avoid sharing, that is her decision, but it's not something I can repair or even be accountable for when I honestly have no idea what I did that caused pain. But my brain still feels like I'm to blame (cue ADHD guilt and rumination)
This all feels strange b/c they know how I've been trying to make a plan to separate from my partner b/c of all the lying and just lack of support. They would gush about our friendship and myself and how they value both (I would also share how much I valued her, too). It was kind, and I thought so much of her. Yet, I am thinking it was possibly crap, b/c she said she wanted to avoid sharing b/c she didn't want it to be a big thing and could still be neighbors and friendly to me. That was why we should keep at our passions and be there when needed. But when I started to share how things were not okay with my spouse, it just seemed to get...odd, and after things got worse, the friend became more distant.
I am exhausted after busting my spouse for lying (about bigger issues) and just feeling fed up with it (this is not the first, second, or third time). That mess is another post in itself, but needless to say, I do have a plan, my degree will be finished in less than six months, and I am not going to let myself settle any further for being treated poorly by a person who needs to work on themselves (get a therapist) before even trying to work things out with me - couples therapy (which is also apart of the plan). But when I told the friend, they seemed to avoid the issue, apologize, and get distant and weird.
I feel like I was kicked while I was down. I have let them lean on me. I've been there and thought I would be given the same, but once my marriage seemed like it was going south and I might be looking for options, I felt ghosted. I asked if I offended or hurt them prior b/c of how they seemed distant, and they replied, "No, we are just busy and will reconnect when things calm down *we've both been busy for sure*). I asked twice (a month apart b/c they stopped being helpful with my kiddos - we'd usually help each other with our kids, like pick-up or drop off but they stopped and said how they couldn't provide that regularly (almost implying I was expecting too much and they thought it would be just once in a while- even though I cleared it with them before this as a regular thing once a week for myself after doing the same for them with their kiddo all summer). Still, after weeks of weird, distant behavior, I asked if I had offended or done something bc I was getting a strange vibe from our last interaction. I mentioned that I was sorry if I had done something to offend. I didn't want to cause an issue because I value them and our friendship. I also am/was super late on their gift (they were never home, and the gift - guacamole they said they loved that I made got eaten by the many kiddos I have in this place). I told them I would make more but wanted to deliver it when they were home (our schedules are just not aligned) and had offered (before their bday) to take them out for their bday for drinks. I only got a little in return when I mentioned this (even before the gift was late). It just felt like they wanted not to hang out. I let it go b/c I didn't want to keep at it. And then I got a long text about the god thing and what was said above after the last probe.
I cannot say this is the only reason; my kid also doesn't want to hang out with their kid as much anymore (they are now at different developmental stages—mine is a teenager while theirs is still a couple of years from that). But I'm mostly sad that when I needed a friend, they got distant when I told them how I wanted to separate and just needed to be away from my partner. I feel b/c our kids are no longer friends and that being my friend is no longer wanted (I cannot say I didn't see her do this to others by hanging with questionable people that she didn't like much, but her son was friends with them so she acted like she wanted to be their friend for her son's benefit). I wondered if I was in the same category, and I did ask this once before b/c of how she did mention avoiding one mom (whom she did give the impression were friends to this woman), and she was very adamant she loved me (as well as loved my family).
I've heard of this happening (distantly, but not anyone I KNOW), but I'm curious if anyone else has experienced this before. I have been negative for a bit after finding out about my husband's lying and how deep it goes (it has been problematic since December and just got to a breaking point in March). I try to be understanding and am willing to hear someone out and have worked hard on not getting defensive (even if I do so inside, I try to practice pausing before replying - avoiding my ADHD rigidity or my ego getting in the way of not taking feedback personally or as an identity). This hurts because I've worked hard on growth (which has been a determent to my marriage because I no longer accept that I'm always the problem). I am still determining what my marriage will look like. Still, I'd like to think that I had a real friend who would talk to me (they seemed to easily share shit that was beyond messed up and asked for my advice, which I usually suggested seeking support through therapy b/c the issues being presented seemed heavy - as well as personal perspective in trusting their feelings if something feels off *with family member turmoil and inappropriate behaviors). I figured I had a confidant; maybe are getting religious and having to let go of friends who weren't religious. I cannot deny it; I know people like that, and I moved away from all that long ago.
Maybe I am an ass, I don't know really, it just hits harder when my spouse is treating me like I'm awful and then this happens...makes me think maybe I am.
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2024.05.21 10:08 Sea-Shine2878 [Request] June birthday for an amazing friend 🥳 [US]

Hi RAoCers!
I would love your help surprising a dear friend for her birthday. Last year, she was completely shocked and awestruck by all your wonderful well wishes. She definitely did not know this kind corner of the Internet existed. I would love to surprise her again next month! I've known her since our middle and high school days, but we only recently reconnected these last few years through snail mail. She is an all-around awesome, caring person and works as a home health aide.
Any cards would be sincerely appreciated. Her birthday is on June 15. Late cards are welcomed since I plan to see her at the end of June. Her favorite colors are purple, red, bright colors, loves humor, proud pet mama, kayaking, music, and anything kawaii. Any card would be cherished and adored!
Please include your username on envelope so that I can post a TY! If you would like a return "Thank You" card, please include a return address. Thank you so much!
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