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2024.05.16 01:54 Embarrassed-Mud7953 TaskUs new HMO iCare aka Insular Life
I don't mean to post hate, kaloka to hmo na to i'm not sure kung understaffed sila or ayaw lang talaga nila mag accomodate ng mga nag papa approve ng LOA. Mother ko 2 hours nag hihintay para lang ma approve ung LOA nya for lab test, 6am pa lang nasa diagnostic clinic na kasi may fasting, na "duling" na daw sya sa gutom kakahintay. Andami din hospital at clinic na ayaw i accomodate kasi every 6 months daw nagbabayad sa mga providers.
Sa newest app nila, ilang beses ako nag papa approve ng LOA wala din! naghintay ako ng araw sa email ko if magsesend sila ng approved LOA sa email ko kaso wala!
Ang sakit lang sa ulo. Ibalik nalang sana ung dati hmo provider.
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Sa newest app nila, ilang beses ako nag papa approve ng LOA wala din! naghintay ako ng araw sa email ko if magsesend sila ng approved LOA sa email ko kaso wala!
Ang sakit lang sa ulo. Ibalik nalang sana ung dati hmo provider.
2024.05.15 20:22 Waste-Ad33 I got 95% in boards, and full in Pol. I am sharing the pattern and strategy that helped me in prepping for my subjects(Eng/Pol/socio/Econ/Legal). Y’all can dm me for notes as well.
Hello class 12 humanities students! I just received my class 12 results, and am sharing my study pattern, tips and tricks, and guide to score 90+ in your domains. (Eng/Pol/socio/Econ/Legal) Jitna jaldi shuru karoge, it’s better. Believe me!
For context, my aggregate scores were 95% I have a full in polsci as well!
I’ll go subject wise. Lmk if y’all need any other help!
Anyone who wants extra question papers, or material, can dm me :)
SOME COMMON POINTS
-> Questions get repeated more often than u notice in humanities. The answers expected from u oscillate around a select few topics. They alter the wording and present the questions.
-> NEVER FOLLOW GUIDEBOOKS BLINDLY. They have multiple discrepancies, and can misguide you
-> KV notes (especially the ones by Ranchi and Chandigarh), Edudel, and jawahar navodya vidyalaya notes are top notch. Do refer to them.
-> NCERT is your holy grail, even for economics. Read it very very well.
-> 5-6 markers ke lie always make mind maps after your answersin your core subjects.
-> Never write para style for theory subjects. Make crisp and clear points acc to the marks of the question.
-> Language mein para answers always.
-> questions at the end of the chapters are v important. Never miss them.
-> you should practice papers in real test like conditions to ensure getting used to the pattern and the environment.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————
::English::
Never, I repeat, never take English lightly. My marks were cut in English purely because I made the mistake of taking lit. section, especially Vistas lightly.
The best way to study English Lit. is to make short notes of each chapter, and they should have: - Keywords, poetic devices
-> Remake and re-remake them on rough sheets before exams. This helps retain more.
Clarify the updated writing section formats with your teachers before your mid-terms. Try making model answers for each chapter. For reading comp., I believe understanding the format of the current year is what u need.
TOP RESOURCES:
::Political Science::
This subject is very interesting! 12th pol is fun and easy.
****start with world pol
*maps and cartoons are important. Maps of Indian pol and cartoons of both. Mere paas pdfs hai of all the cartoons and maps if y’all need em*
BEST RESOURCES:
2.Human at Ease. Poorva ma’am’s classes are the best for sure!!
::Economics::
Economics mein IED is very simple, but macro (esp numericals) can baffle you.
::Sociology::
Very interesting, but can get confusing if your 11th concepts aren’t clear.
Again, don’t use help books, I beg of you guys. Apne notes banao, and do PYQS.
Notes banao detailed Format questions and answers NCERT is your holy grail, I repeat, your holy grail.
BEST RESOURCES:
::Legal Studies::
Possibly the most unpredictable subject of humanities, that is open to a plethora of interpretations. You need a lot of time to understand the pattern, as well as the textbook. It is very text heavy, with a lot of terms and articles and sections.
I can’t emphasise enough on the importance of being thorough with NCERT.
Make detailed notes, and reread them on regular intervals. Arihant is a good reference book (possibly the only one out there), but that too has errors. There is legit no good yt channel for legal.
TOP RESOURCES:
PYQs: read the answer keys very very well. It helps a lot, trust me. ( last 8 years) Arihant: but always cross check the answers from pyqs and the book. Notes are good.
**** I can share notes if y’all want as well. ****
A chapter-wise guide of sorts (cuz legal ka material nahi hai zyada)
Judiciary: A long and exhausting chapter. For preserving your own sanity, divide it into three parts: -> Page 3-14
ADR: seems long, but is a rather simple and straight forward chapter. -> make a comparative table of Arbitration, mediation and conciliation, along with mind maps of each topic.
4 business laws: very simple and scoring. 20 marks guaranteed if you do them well. -> understand the cases given very well. They are always used for the case based questions. Any topics that mention steps of any sort, or a doctrine are vv important.
Legal Entities: again, v simple. -> make a table for diff b/w ops and sole proprietorship ; public and pvt company ; partnership and lap.
Criminal Law -> objectives of cl is v imp.
Intl Law Divide into 2 parts and do separately:
submitted by Waste-Ad33 to CBSEarts [link] [comments]
For context, my aggregate scores were 95% I have a full in polsci as well!
I’ll go subject wise. Lmk if y’all need any other help!
Anyone who wants extra question papers, or material, can dm me :)
SOME COMMON POINTS
-> Questions get repeated more often than u notice in humanities. The answers expected from u oscillate around a select few topics. They alter the wording and present the questions.
-> NEVER FOLLOW GUIDEBOOKS BLINDLY. They have multiple discrepancies, and can misguide you
-> KV notes (especially the ones by Ranchi and Chandigarh), Edudel, and jawahar navodya vidyalaya notes are top notch. Do refer to them.
-> NCERT is your holy grail, even for economics. Read it very very well.
-> 5-6 markers ke lie always make mind maps after your answersin your core subjects.
-> Never write para style for theory subjects. Make crisp and clear points acc to the marks of the question.
-> Language mein para answers always.
-> questions at the end of the chapters are v important. Never miss them.
-> you should practice papers in real test like conditions to ensure getting used to the pattern and the environment.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————
::English::
Never, I repeat, never take English lightly. My marks were cut in English purely because I made the mistake of taking lit. section, especially Vistas lightly.
The best way to study English Lit. is to make short notes of each chapter, and they should have: - Keywords, poetic devices
- Theme - Character Sketches (keypoints) - A self prepared outline of the story/poem. This should have some important lines from the text that u quote, and some quotes from outside that are related to the main idea of the story/poem. U can also prepare model answers.-> REVISE THESE NOTES ON A REGULAR BASIS.
-> Remake and re-remake them on rough sheets before exams. This helps retain more.
Clarify the updated writing section formats with your teachers before your mid-terms. Try making model answers for each chapter. For reading comp., I believe understanding the format of the current year is what u need.
TOP RESOURCES:
- KV notes (Ranchi is the best), edudel https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xpuBvLfZvoKTvfHN0JR4sjcTgk1FsQ6Y/view
- Shipra Mishra’s YouTube videos
::Political Science::
This subject is very interesting! 12th pol is fun and easy.
****start with world pol
-> For end of bipolarity, read Cold War era first. It creates a good base, plus helps u a lot if you’re prepping for cuet! -> mind maps!!!! Always make mind maps. It helps a lot. -> globalisation, environment, security ko lightly mat lena. Very scoring but can also drop your marks if you don’t prep them well.**** indian pol
-> chronological order mein jaana here is better. Maybe club chapter 2 and 5. -> indian pol is much easier. Make detailed notes for indian pol.NEVER TRUST POL GUIDE BOOKS!
*maps and cartoons are important. Maps of Indian pol and cartoons of both. Mere paas pdfs hai of all the cartoons and maps if y’all need em*
BEST RESOURCES:
- KV notes, edudel notes https://drive.google.com/file/d/1EvoVIwVKVNZUIllRAT0XhTGpihHMCX08/view
2.Human at Ease. Poorva ma’am’s classes are the best for sure!!
- Notes banao, ya phir make questions out of each topic and create answers and use as notes, or do both.
- PYQS (last 13 years)
::Economics::
Economics mein IED is very simple, but macro (esp numericals) can baffle you.
- IED
-> Trust NCERT blindly for sure, but sandeep Garg notes are good for memorising points wise. -> Make short notes.
- Macro
-> Sandeep Garg se numericals karna is much simpler. Formulas are crisp, and they have plenty of additional questions at the back. -> I’d say it’s better to do theory from NCERT. -> theory ke short notes banao, point wise. -> for numericals, practice them regularly, especially if you suck at mathematical things.
- Rajat Arora
- Sunil Panda
- KV notes, edudel https://edustud.nic.in/edu/SupportMaterial202324/12/12_economics_eng_sm_2024.pdf
- PYQS (last 15 years)
::Sociology::
Very interesting, but can get confusing if your 11th concepts aren’t clear.
Again, don’t use help books, I beg of you guys. Apne notes banao, and do PYQS.
Notes banao detailed Format questions and answers NCERT is your holy grail, I repeat, your holy grail.
BEST RESOURCES:
- Human-at-Ease Edudel notes https://edustud.nic.in/edu/SupportMaterial202324/12/12_sociology_eng_sm_2024.pdf Throughly do ncert PYQS ( last 13 years )
::Legal Studies::
Possibly the most unpredictable subject of humanities, that is open to a plethora of interpretations. You need a lot of time to understand the pattern, as well as the textbook. It is very text heavy, with a lot of terms and articles and sections.
I can’t emphasise enough on the importance of being thorough with NCERT.
Make detailed notes, and reread them on regular intervals. Arihant is a good reference book (possibly the only one out there), but that too has errors. There is legit no good yt channel for legal.
TOP RESOURCES:
PYQs: read the answer keys very very well. It helps a lot, trust me. ( last 8 years) Arihant: but always cross check the answers from pyqs and the book. Notes are good.
**** I can share notes if y’all want as well. ****
A chapter-wise guide of sorts (cuz legal ka material nahi hai zyada)
Judiciary: A long and exhausting chapter. For preserving your own sanity, divide it into three parts: -> Page 3-14
-> Page 15-21 (right before judicial review) -> Page 22- 26 (I advise reading supplementary material as well. It helps understand the cases better + is good for case based questions)*do them separately, otw pagal ho jaoge)*
ADR: seems long, but is a rather simple and straight forward chapter. -> make a comparative table of Arbitration, mediation and conciliation, along with mind maps of each topic.
4 business laws: very simple and scoring. 20 marks guaranteed if you do them well. -> understand the cases given very well. They are always used for the case based questions. Any topics that mention steps of any sort, or a doctrine are vv important.
-> mind maps ; differentiation tables are vv important here.Law and sdg: simple hai boht. ->Just read the book and make basic notes.
Legal Entities: again, v simple. -> make a table for diff b/w ops and sole proprietorship ; public and pvt company ; partnership and lap.
Criminal Law -> objectives of cl is v imp.
-> ipc, cps and iea ache se clearly samjho. There should be no confusion, nahi to phase jaoge. -> confession v/s admission is imp. -> cases ache se samjho plsHuman Rights: v difficult to remember. If you can rote learn, then nothing like it. Many case questions from here as well. ->best bet: sticky notes pe pointers banao and stick them above your table. Roz thoda padho.
-> some things I found v imp: article 14 (equality principle) ; article 19 (reasonable restrictions) ; Article 20 (section 377 chronology) ; Article 21A - DPSP to fundamental right ; arrest v/s detention ; DPSP ( 5 features, 5 dpsps) ; Fundamental duties (5)Quasi judicial bodies: v simple -> functions and features pata hona chahiye
Intl Law Divide into 2 parts and do separately:
-> Page 163- 172 (right above intl human rights) -> page 172 ( intl human rights) to 178Legal Professions Again, divide into 2 parts:
-> page 183-189 ( legal ed in india) -> pages 189 ( usa) to 193. (This is a lot to retain thus I recommend doing this alag se)Legal Services: Simple hai sabse zyada!
->make good notes—————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————
2024.05.15 20:22 Waste-Ad33 I got 95% in boards, and full in Pol. I am sharing the pattern and strategy that helped me in prepping for my subjects(Eng/Pol/socio/Econ/Legal). Y’all can dm me for notes as well.
Hello class 12 humanities students! I just received my class 12 results, and am sharing my study pattern, tips and tricks, and guide to score 90+ in your domains. (Eng/Pol/socio/Econ/Legal) Jitna jaldi shuru karoge, it’s better. Believe me!
For context, my aggregate scores were 95% I have a full in polsci as well!
I’ll go subject wise. Lmk if y’all need any other help!
Anyone who wants extra question papers, or material, can dm me :)
SOME COMMON POINTS
-> Questions get repeated more often than u notice in humanities. The answers expected from u oscillate around a select few topics. They alter the wording and present the questions.
-> NEVER FOLLOW GUIDEBOOKS BLINDLY. They have multiple discrepancies, and can misguide you
-> KV notes (especially the ones by Ranchi and Chandigarh), Edudel, and jawahar navodya vidyalaya notes are top notch. Do refer to them.
-> NCERT is your holy grail, even for economics. Read it very very well.
-> 5-6 markers ke lie always make mind maps after your answersin your core subjects.
-> Never write para style for theory subjects. Make crisp and clear points acc to the marks of the question.
-> Language mein para answers always.
-> questions at the end of the chapters are v important. Never miss them.
-> you should practice papers in real test like conditions to ensure getting used to the pattern and the environment.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————
::English::
Never, I repeat, never take English lightly. My marks were cut in English purely because I made the mistake of taking lit. section, especially Vistas lightly.
The best way to study English Lit. is to make short notes of each chapter, and they should have: - Keywords, poetic devices
-> Remake and re-remake them on rough sheets before exams. This helps retain more.
Clarify the updated writing section formats with your teachers before your mid-terms. Try making model answers for each chapter. For reading comp., I believe understanding the format of the current year is what u need.
TOP RESOURCES:
::Political Science::
This subject is very interesting! 12th pol is fun and easy.
****start with world pol
*maps and cartoons are important. Maps of Indian pol and cartoons of both. Mere paas pdfs hai of all the cartoons and maps if y’all need em*
BEST RESOURCES:
2.Human at Ease. Poorva ma’am’s classes are the best for sure!!
::Economics::
Economics mein IED is very simple, but macro (esp numericals) can baffle you.
::Sociology::
Very interesting, but can get confusing if your 11th concepts aren’t clear.
Again, don’t use help books, I beg of you guys. Apne notes banao, and do PYQS.
Notes banao detailed Format questions and answers NCERT is your holy grail, I repeat, your holy grail.
BEST RESOURCES:
::Legal Studies::
Possibly the most unpredictable subject of humanities, that is open to a plethora of interpretations. You need a lot of time to understand the pattern, as well as the textbook. It is very text heavy, with a lot of terms and articles and sections.
I can’t emphasise enough on the importance of being thorough with NCERT.
Make detailed notes, and reread them on regular intervals. Arihant is a good reference book (possibly the only one out there), but that too has errors. There is legit no good yt channel for legal.
TOP RESOURCES:
PYQs: read the answer keys very very well. It helps a lot, trust me. ( last 8 years) Arihant: but always cross check the answers from pyqs and the book. Notes are good.
**** I can share notes if y’all want as well. ****
A chapter-wise guide of sorts (cuz legal ka material nahi hai zyada)
Judiciary: A long and exhausting chapter. For preserving your own sanity, divide it into three parts: -> Page 3-14
ADR: seems long, but is a rather simple and straight forward chapter. -> make a comparative table of Arbitration, mediation and conciliation, along with mind maps of each topic.
4 business laws: very simple and scoring. 20 marks guaranteed if you do them well. -> understand the cases given very well. They are always used for the case based questions. Any topics that mention steps of any sort, or a doctrine are vv important.
Legal Entities: again, v simple. -> make a table for diff b/w ops and sole proprietorship ; public and pvt company ; partnership and lap.
Criminal Law -> objectives of cl is v imp.
Intl Law Divide into 2 parts and do separately:
submitted by Waste-Ad33 to CBSEarts [link] [comments]
For context, my aggregate scores were 95% I have a full in polsci as well!
I’ll go subject wise. Lmk if y’all need any other help!
Anyone who wants extra question papers, or material, can dm me :)
SOME COMMON POINTS
-> Questions get repeated more often than u notice in humanities. The answers expected from u oscillate around a select few topics. They alter the wording and present the questions.
-> NEVER FOLLOW GUIDEBOOKS BLINDLY. They have multiple discrepancies, and can misguide you
-> KV notes (especially the ones by Ranchi and Chandigarh), Edudel, and jawahar navodya vidyalaya notes are top notch. Do refer to them.
-> NCERT is your holy grail, even for economics. Read it very very well.
-> 5-6 markers ke lie always make mind maps after your answersin your core subjects.
-> Never write para style for theory subjects. Make crisp and clear points acc to the marks of the question.
-> Language mein para answers always.
-> questions at the end of the chapters are v important. Never miss them.
-> you should practice papers in real test like conditions to ensure getting used to the pattern and the environment.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————
::English::
Never, I repeat, never take English lightly. My marks were cut in English purely because I made the mistake of taking lit. section, especially Vistas lightly.
The best way to study English Lit. is to make short notes of each chapter, and they should have: - Keywords, poetic devices
- Theme - Character Sketches (keypoints) - A self prepared outline of the story/poem. This should have some important lines from the text that u quote, and some quotes from outside that are related to the main idea of the story/poem. U can also prepare model answers.-> REVISE THESE NOTES ON A REGULAR BASIS.
-> Remake and re-remake them on rough sheets before exams. This helps retain more.
Clarify the updated writing section formats with your teachers before your mid-terms. Try making model answers for each chapter. For reading comp., I believe understanding the format of the current year is what u need.
TOP RESOURCES:
- KV notes (Ranchi is the best), edudel https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xpuBvLfZvoKTvfHN0JR4sjcTgk1FsQ6Y/view
- Shipra Mishra’s YouTube videos
::Political Science::
This subject is very interesting! 12th pol is fun and easy.
****start with world pol
-> For end of bipolarity, read Cold War era first. It creates a good base, plus helps u a lot if you’re prepping for cuet! -> mind maps!!!! Always make mind maps. It helps a lot. -> globalisation, environment, security ko lightly mat lena. Very scoring but can also drop your marks if you don’t prep them well.**** indian pol
-> chronological order mein jaana here is better. Maybe club chapter 2 and 5. -> indian pol is much easier. Make detailed notes for indian pol.NEVER TRUST POL GUIDE BOOKS!
*maps and cartoons are important. Maps of Indian pol and cartoons of both. Mere paas pdfs hai of all the cartoons and maps if y’all need em*
BEST RESOURCES:
- KV notes, edudel notes https://drive.google.com/file/d/1EvoVIwVKVNZUIllRAT0XhTGpihHMCX08/view
2.Human at Ease. Poorva ma’am’s classes are the best for sure!!
- Notes banao, ya phir make questions out of each topic and create answers and use as notes, or do both.
- PYQS (last 13 years)
::Economics::
Economics mein IED is very simple, but macro (esp numericals) can baffle you.
- IED
-> Trust NCERT blindly for sure, but sandeep Garg notes are good for memorising points wise. -> Make short notes.
- Macro
-> Sandeep Garg se numericals karna is much simpler. Formulas are crisp, and they have plenty of additional questions at the back. -> I’d say it’s better to do theory from NCERT. -> theory ke short notes banao, point wise. -> for numericals, practice them regularly, especially if you suck at mathematical things.
- Rajat Arora
- Sunil Panda
- KV notes, edudel https://edustud.nic.in/edu/SupportMaterial202324/12/12_economics_eng_sm_2024.pdf
- PYQS (last 15 years)
::Sociology::
Very interesting, but can get confusing if your 11th concepts aren’t clear.
Again, don’t use help books, I beg of you guys. Apne notes banao, and do PYQS.
Notes banao detailed Format questions and answers NCERT is your holy grail, I repeat, your holy grail.
BEST RESOURCES:
- Human-at-Ease Edudel notes https://edustud.nic.in/edu/SupportMaterial202324/12/12_sociology_eng_sm_2024.pdf Throughly do ncert PYQS ( last 13 years )
::Legal Studies::
Possibly the most unpredictable subject of humanities, that is open to a plethora of interpretations. You need a lot of time to understand the pattern, as well as the textbook. It is very text heavy, with a lot of terms and articles and sections.
I can’t emphasise enough on the importance of being thorough with NCERT.
Make detailed notes, and reread them on regular intervals. Arihant is a good reference book (possibly the only one out there), but that too has errors. There is legit no good yt channel for legal.
TOP RESOURCES:
PYQs: read the answer keys very very well. It helps a lot, trust me. ( last 8 years) Arihant: but always cross check the answers from pyqs and the book. Notes are good.
**** I can share notes if y’all want as well. ****
A chapter-wise guide of sorts (cuz legal ka material nahi hai zyada)
Judiciary: A long and exhausting chapter. For preserving your own sanity, divide it into three parts: -> Page 3-14
-> Page 15-21 (right before judicial review) -> Page 22- 26 (I advise reading supplementary material as well. It helps understand the cases better + is good for case based questions)*do them separately, otw pagal ho jaoge)*
ADR: seems long, but is a rather simple and straight forward chapter. -> make a comparative table of Arbitration, mediation and conciliation, along with mind maps of each topic.
4 business laws: very simple and scoring. 20 marks guaranteed if you do them well. -> understand the cases given very well. They are always used for the case based questions. Any topics that mention steps of any sort, or a doctrine are vv important.
-> mind maps ; differentiation tables are vv important here.Law and sdg: simple hai boht. ->Just read the book and make basic notes.
Legal Entities: again, v simple. -> make a table for diff b/w ops and sole proprietorship ; public and pvt company ; partnership and lap.
Criminal Law -> objectives of cl is v imp.
-> ipc, cps and iea ache se clearly samjho. There should be no confusion, nahi to phase jaoge. -> confession v/s admission is imp. -> cases ache se samjho plsHuman Rights: v difficult to remember. If you can rote learn, then nothing like it. Many case questions from here as well. ->best bet: sticky notes pe pointers banao and stick them above your table. Roz thoda padho.
-> some things I found v imp: article 14 (equality principle) ; article 19 (reasonable restrictions) ; Article 20 (section 377 chronology) ; Article 21A - DPSP to fundamental right ; arrest v/s detention ; DPSP ( 5 features, 5 dpsps) ; Fundamental duties (5)Quasi judicial bodies: v simple -> functions and features pata hona chahiye
Intl Law Divide into 2 parts and do separately:
-> Page 163- 172 (right above intl human rights) -> page 172 ( intl human rights) to 178Legal Professions Again, divide into 2 parts:
-> page 183-189 ( legal ed in india) -> pages 189 ( usa) to 193. (This is a lot to retain thus I recommend doing this alag se)Legal Services: Simple hai sabse zyada!
->make good notes—————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————
2024.05.15 20:03 Smart_Yam1754 Puro plano pero hindi natutuloy
This is my first time posting, so, bear with it.
F(19) 1st year college. Ako lang ba yung plano nang plano sa utak ko pero hindi ko ma tuloy tuloy? I kwento ko muna sainyo kung bakit.
Ganito kasi, I'm 1st year college student (pre-med student). Actually, I want to work, part time pagkatapos ng class ko pero 'yung pag uwi mo galing class ganito madadatnan mo, papasok palang ako ng pinto, kitang kita ko na ang kalat ng bahay, btw, dito ako naka kira sa Tito ko, a commercial space, like walang kwarto, pag pasok mo sa pinto, higaan na nila sa sahig ang makikita, literal na walang harang, if meron, mga cabinet at box lang. So, pag uwi ko palang galing school eh sobrang kalat na, 'yung tipong mga laruan ng anak niya kalat kalat, hanggang sa kusina (ilang meters lang pagitan mula pinto at lababo), 'yung labahan nila nasa sahig na, 'yung pinag kainan nila nung tanghalian andoon pa sa mesa (my class schedule is 7-7 or 1-6pm) and ang uwi ko depende sa traffic or 8-9, minsan maaga ang uwi, usually around 7-8pm), 'yung ibang hugasin nasa lababo, halos mapuno na buong lababo sa dami, 'yung iba nasa kalan na, nangangamoy na 'yung basura sa mga tinatapon na pagkain, hindi pa nakaka saing at nakapag luto ng ulam, 'yung tiles sa cr ang dumi dumi, 'yung bowl, ang panghi pa, may tubig naman. 'yung sa higaan ko, naka taob na 'yung electric fan, ang daming laruan na naka kalat, 'yung tae ng mga ibon niya nasa damitan ko na, 'yung iba nasa sahig na tapos siya, nakikita kong naka higa at nag lalaro ng cod or nanonood sa fb at TikTok na parang walang paki alam sa paligid niya.
-sige, sabihin na natin na ✨dapat lang na mag linis ka ng bahay dahil nakikitira ka lang diyan ✨ pero, dapat din bang pati mga alaga niyang ibon ako ang mag papakain at linisin ang mga tae nila? Dapat din bang ako ang mag laba ng damit nilang tatlo (siya, 'yung asawa niya at 'yung anak niya)? Dapat din bang ako ang mag ayos ng higaan nila? Dapat din bang mag igib ako ng tubig pampa ligo niya (dito kasi saamin tuwing 10 pm hanggang madaling araw lang ang tubig, so nag iipon na ako niyan dahil sa umaga hanggang gabi walang tubig, isa o dalawang beses sa isang linggo lang nag kaka tubig mahina pa. Ehh ang nagagamit na tubig is pampa ligo nung bata at para sa kusina at kapag may pasok ako, then walang natitira sakaniya pam paligo at pambuhos sa cr, so, need talaga mag igib sa kapit bahay) pero, p*t@ pati 'yon ako gagawa? Ako rin minsan ang nag papaligo at nag aayos sa anak niya kapag tanghali ang pasok ko, which is ok lang dahil pinsan ko naman siya. Dapat din bang sandukan ko siya ng kain at ulam at bigyan siya ng tubig? Kulang nalang subuan ko siya. Uutusan pa ako niyan na gumawa ako ng sawsawan niya.
-ayos lang na ako ang mag hugas, mag walis, mag ayos ng kalat nung anak niya at mag linis ng cr, ok lang, walang problema pero 'yung ako ang gagawa ng mga dapat niyang gawain at ako ang hinihintay niyang gawin ko lahat 'yon habang pagod na pagod ako sa school at nakikipag bakbakan sa jeep or bus pauwi, habang siya walang ginagawa (hatid sundo lang sa anak niya talaga) tapos na, wala nanaman siyang gagawin. Uuwi akong naka uniform pa rin anak niya (day care palang ang anak niya, kaya wala pa masyadong alam).
-hindi ko na alam gagawin ko, dahil sa nangyayari dito sa bahay, nawawalan na ako ng motivation para ipagpa tuloy ang plano kong magka work. Usually, patapos na ako sa requirements ehh, Pag-Ibig, SSS (may number na nila ako, pupunta nalang ako sa nearest branch para kunin ang mga 'yon) at Med. Cert. nalang ang kulang ko. Need ko pa kasi mag sinungaling na may pasok ako para kumuha ng ibang requirements ko para payagan niya akong umalis ng bahay (sa mga mag sasabi na ✨ sinungaling ka naman pala✨ sige, sabihin na natin nag sinungaling ako, pero ano magagawa ko? Hindi ako pinapayagang lumabas ng bahay kung walang pasok, nakaka labas lang ako kapag may pasok o hindi kaya may bibilhin sa tindahan) 'yung resume ko naayos ko na. Gustong gusto kong mag aaply ng work, sinabi ko na rin sa Tita ko na nag papa aral saakin which is ok lang daw para magka experience ako. Gusto kong mag part time sa 7/11, Jollibee, MCDO or sa BPO. alam ko na 'yung mga links, agency nung tatlo, sa BPO naman nakapag apply na ako online, ang kaso pa, nawawalan ako ng gana. Nag email na 'yung mga companies na inapplyan ko for BPO and ready na for interviews ang kaso hindi ko mapunta puntahan dahil sa p*t@ng$n@ng Tito ko na 'yan, hindi ako pinapa alis ng bahay at dahil ng tabi kami ng kalsada, syempre maingay hindi rin ako makapag online interview, kung doon ako sa tahimik na lugar, puro wrong timing. Paiba iba rin kasi ang schedule ng interviews nila, minsan may pasok ako, minsan maingay dito sa bahay or hindi kaya nasa byahe ako or wala akong load.
-gusto ko rin na kapag nagka work ako, at nagka sweldo mag a-apartment nalang ako kaso hindi natutuloy. Ang dami dami kong plano, gustong gusto ko nang umalis dito sa bahay na 'to, ang dami ng binigay si Lord na sign para mag apply ako ng work ang kaso laging bad timing. Hindi ko alam kung malas pa ako o ano, nawawalan na ako ng gana sa lahat, pagod na pagod na 'yung utak at katawan ko, pakiramdam ko anytime, babagsak na ako. Kahit nahiga or naka tulog na ako, pakiramdam ko pagod na pagod pa rin ako. 'yung tipong iisipin ko nalang na, may patutunguhan pa ba ako? May magagawa pa ba ako? Tapos ang maririnig mo pa sa Tito ay ✨bb, t@ng@, g@g, walang #tak, tamad, walang mararating sa buhay dahil adik KUNO ang tatay ko, sinungaling, at magnanakaw✨ (na kahit kailan hindi ko nagawa) actually siya nga ang kumukuha ng pera ko eh, 'yung mga barya ko na dapat pamasahe ko, para ano? Pam bili niya ng ysi? Huminto na raw ako sa pag aaral dahil wala naman daw akong mararating, pa Doctor Doctor pa raw ang gusto ko, baka raw Doctor kwak kwak, mag stay nalang daw ako dito sa bahay at mag linis, mag batay ng bahay at nung anak niya. Anong mapapala ko? Para insultuhin niya? Para gawin niyang katulong? Para mura murahin niya? 'wag nalang, huminto nalang ako sa pag hinga kaysa makasama ko siya.
-plano ko rin na umuwi ng province, payag naman siya ang kaso lang kapatid ko ang ipapalit saakin????? Para ano, sila naman ang kawawain niya???? Sila naman ang pagdiskitahan niya???? Ayaw nila pero pinipilit niya, dahil wala rin naman magawa mga kapatid ko nag oo nalang sila. Gusto ko rin kasi umuwi para makapag register sa comelec at bumisita sa mga magulang ko.
-masakit masabihan ng mga ganoong salita, lalo na sa kamag anak mo, mga magulang ko, naririnig ko kung paano niya murahin 'yung pamilya ko, na para bang hindi niya pamilya. Masakit, sobrang sakit, hindi ko alam kung ano na ang mararamdan ko, iiyak ba ako sa galit? sa pagod? Sa awa sa pamilya ko? Sa sarili ko? Hindi ko alam kung ano na ang gagawin ko, pakiramdam ko ang hina hina ko. Dahil sakaniya, lumala ang anxiety ko, na depressed ako, sobra 'yung stress at breakdown ko, 'yung tipong sinisisi ko sarili ko dahil baka totoo nga ang sinasabi niyang walang akong mararating dahil bb at tamad ako. Dahil sakaniya, umiiyak ako ng patago, nagkaroon ang ng insomnia, nawalan ako ng ganang kumilos at mag aral. Lahat ng plano ko sa utak ko, unti unti nang nawawala, lumala ang s$!cid@l thoughts ko, nawalan na rin ako ng ganang kumain. Grabe pala 'yung epekto ng mga salita, hindi ko aakalain na grabe na pala ang pinag bago ko sa sarili simula nung naririnig ko ang mga salitang 'yon, para bang takot na takot ako sa lahat, para bang gusto ko nalang matulog nang matulog.
MGA GUSTO KONG PLANO O GAWIN PERO HINDI MATULOY TULOY DAHIL SA TITO KO: • mag part time, para kapag may sweldo na maka alis na sa bahay na ito. • naka hanap ng murang apartment at naka usap na 'yung landikung magkano(1k for all) may allowance naman pero hindi kaya dahil hindi niya pinayagan. • mag stop ng school para magka work, pero hindi natuloy dahil iinsultuhin lang ako, dahil daw baka ✨bb✨ ako kaya ako nag stop. • nag apply ng scholarship abroad, pero hindi natuloy kasi ayaw ako pauwiin sa province para mag request ng form 137 at ipa apostille ito sa DepED (nalaman niya ito sa Tita ko) alam niyo ba ang sabi saakin ✨akala mo naman kung matalino ka para mag aral sa abroad, mayaman ka ba? Dito ka nalang, tulungan mo ako sa pag aalaga kay **** para naman may silbi ka. Taas taas ng pangrap mo, wala namang kwenta✨ haha. • nag aaply sa BPO pero hindi matuloy tuloy sa interview dahil sa wrong timing niya. • pagtapos ko nitong 2nd sem ay mag apply na ako pero sabi niya ✨ 'wag ka na munang mag trabaho, alagaan mo si **** at ako naman ang mag trabaho ✨
PS: Sorry for long narrations, grabe na kasi talaga ang ginagawa ng Tito ko. And gusto ko lang mailabas ang hinanakit ko sakaniya. Pagod na rin kasi talaga ako, parang hindi ko na talaga kaya. 'Wag nalang din niyong pansinin 'yung mga errors or typo.
Advice naman po 'yung pwede kong gawin? Hindi ko na rin po kasi kaya talaga, konti nalang po talaga, susuko na ako. Hindi ko rin alam ang sasabihin ko sakaniya, natatakot din kasi ako. Siya lang kasi relative ko rito sa NCR. Siya rin naman ang pumilit sa Tita ko at pamilya ko na dito ako sa bahay niya titira, hindi niya ako pinayagan mag boarding house para raw may kasama sila rito haha.
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F(19) 1st year college. Ako lang ba yung plano nang plano sa utak ko pero hindi ko ma tuloy tuloy? I kwento ko muna sainyo kung bakit.
Ganito kasi, I'm 1st year college student (pre-med student). Actually, I want to work, part time pagkatapos ng class ko pero 'yung pag uwi mo galing class ganito madadatnan mo, papasok palang ako ng pinto, kitang kita ko na ang kalat ng bahay, btw, dito ako naka kira sa Tito ko, a commercial space, like walang kwarto, pag pasok mo sa pinto, higaan na nila sa sahig ang makikita, literal na walang harang, if meron, mga cabinet at box lang. So, pag uwi ko palang galing school eh sobrang kalat na, 'yung tipong mga laruan ng anak niya kalat kalat, hanggang sa kusina (ilang meters lang pagitan mula pinto at lababo), 'yung labahan nila nasa sahig na, 'yung pinag kainan nila nung tanghalian andoon pa sa mesa (my class schedule is 7-7 or 1-6pm) and ang uwi ko depende sa traffic or 8-9, minsan maaga ang uwi, usually around 7-8pm), 'yung ibang hugasin nasa lababo, halos mapuno na buong lababo sa dami, 'yung iba nasa kalan na, nangangamoy na 'yung basura sa mga tinatapon na pagkain, hindi pa nakaka saing at nakapag luto ng ulam, 'yung tiles sa cr ang dumi dumi, 'yung bowl, ang panghi pa, may tubig naman. 'yung sa higaan ko, naka taob na 'yung electric fan, ang daming laruan na naka kalat, 'yung tae ng mga ibon niya nasa damitan ko na, 'yung iba nasa sahig na tapos siya, nakikita kong naka higa at nag lalaro ng cod or nanonood sa fb at TikTok na parang walang paki alam sa paligid niya.
- ganiyan ang routine ko kapag uuwi ako galing school, 'yung tipong hindi mo alam kung maiiyak ka dahil sa inis o tatamarin ka dahil sa pagod. Syempre, hindi naman kikilos si Tito, hindi ko rin naman pwedeng sabihin sakaniya 'yung mga nakikita ko dahil iniisip ko na baka pagalitan ako ('yung line niya na ✨nakikita mo hindi mo pa linisin✨ at ✨ay andiyan ka na pala, mag saing; mag walis; mag hugas ka na pala✨)kaya no choice ako. Pagka tanggal ko ng sapatos at pag lapag ng bag ko, nag linis at nag sasaing na agad ako, tulo tulo na 'yung pawis sa mukha ko. Pagkatapos kong mag linis, ganoon pa rin ang ginagawa niya. Then, papakainin, palilinisin ng katawan, huhugasin ang pwet nung anak niya at paiinumin ng gamot, ganiyan din ang lagi kong ginagawa sa anak niya. Kaya minsan kapag tinatanong ako kung kumain na ba ako, ang sasabihin ko lang ay "oo" dahil sa paraang 'yon makaka higa at makakapag pahinga ako habang kumakain sila.
-sige, sabihin na natin na ✨dapat lang na mag linis ka ng bahay dahil nakikitira ka lang diyan ✨ pero, dapat din bang pati mga alaga niyang ibon ako ang mag papakain at linisin ang mga tae nila? Dapat din bang ako ang mag laba ng damit nilang tatlo (siya, 'yung asawa niya at 'yung anak niya)? Dapat din bang ako ang mag ayos ng higaan nila? Dapat din bang mag igib ako ng tubig pampa ligo niya (dito kasi saamin tuwing 10 pm hanggang madaling araw lang ang tubig, so nag iipon na ako niyan dahil sa umaga hanggang gabi walang tubig, isa o dalawang beses sa isang linggo lang nag kaka tubig mahina pa. Ehh ang nagagamit na tubig is pampa ligo nung bata at para sa kusina at kapag may pasok ako, then walang natitira sakaniya pam paligo at pambuhos sa cr, so, need talaga mag igib sa kapit bahay) pero, p*t@ pati 'yon ako gagawa? Ako rin minsan ang nag papaligo at nag aayos sa anak niya kapag tanghali ang pasok ko, which is ok lang dahil pinsan ko naman siya. Dapat din bang sandukan ko siya ng kain at ulam at bigyan siya ng tubig? Kulang nalang subuan ko siya. Uutusan pa ako niyan na gumawa ako ng sawsawan niya.
-ayos lang na ako ang mag hugas, mag walis, mag ayos ng kalat nung anak niya at mag linis ng cr, ok lang, walang problema pero 'yung ako ang gagawa ng mga dapat niyang gawain at ako ang hinihintay niyang gawin ko lahat 'yon habang pagod na pagod ako sa school at nakikipag bakbakan sa jeep or bus pauwi, habang siya walang ginagawa (hatid sundo lang sa anak niya talaga) tapos na, wala nanaman siyang gagawin. Uuwi akong naka uniform pa rin anak niya (day care palang ang anak niya, kaya wala pa masyadong alam).
-hindi ko na alam gagawin ko, dahil sa nangyayari dito sa bahay, nawawalan na ako ng motivation para ipagpa tuloy ang plano kong magka work. Usually, patapos na ako sa requirements ehh, Pag-Ibig, SSS (may number na nila ako, pupunta nalang ako sa nearest branch para kunin ang mga 'yon) at Med. Cert. nalang ang kulang ko. Need ko pa kasi mag sinungaling na may pasok ako para kumuha ng ibang requirements ko para payagan niya akong umalis ng bahay (sa mga mag sasabi na ✨ sinungaling ka naman pala✨ sige, sabihin na natin nag sinungaling ako, pero ano magagawa ko? Hindi ako pinapayagang lumabas ng bahay kung walang pasok, nakaka labas lang ako kapag may pasok o hindi kaya may bibilhin sa tindahan) 'yung resume ko naayos ko na. Gustong gusto kong mag aaply ng work, sinabi ko na rin sa Tita ko na nag papa aral saakin which is ok lang daw para magka experience ako. Gusto kong mag part time sa 7/11, Jollibee, MCDO or sa BPO. alam ko na 'yung mga links, agency nung tatlo, sa BPO naman nakapag apply na ako online, ang kaso pa, nawawalan ako ng gana. Nag email na 'yung mga companies na inapplyan ko for BPO and ready na for interviews ang kaso hindi ko mapunta puntahan dahil sa p*t@ng$n@ng Tito ko na 'yan, hindi ako pinapa alis ng bahay at dahil ng tabi kami ng kalsada, syempre maingay hindi rin ako makapag online interview, kung doon ako sa tahimik na lugar, puro wrong timing. Paiba iba rin kasi ang schedule ng interviews nila, minsan may pasok ako, minsan maingay dito sa bahay or hindi kaya nasa byahe ako or wala akong load.
-gusto ko rin na kapag nagka work ako, at nagka sweldo mag a-apartment nalang ako kaso hindi natutuloy. Ang dami dami kong plano, gustong gusto ko nang umalis dito sa bahay na 'to, ang dami ng binigay si Lord na sign para mag apply ako ng work ang kaso laging bad timing. Hindi ko alam kung malas pa ako o ano, nawawalan na ako ng gana sa lahat, pagod na pagod na 'yung utak at katawan ko, pakiramdam ko anytime, babagsak na ako. Kahit nahiga or naka tulog na ako, pakiramdam ko pagod na pagod pa rin ako. 'yung tipong iisipin ko nalang na, may patutunguhan pa ba ako? May magagawa pa ba ako? Tapos ang maririnig mo pa sa Tito ay ✨bb, t@ng@, g@g, walang #tak, tamad, walang mararating sa buhay dahil adik KUNO ang tatay ko, sinungaling, at magnanakaw✨ (na kahit kailan hindi ko nagawa) actually siya nga ang kumukuha ng pera ko eh, 'yung mga barya ko na dapat pamasahe ko, para ano? Pam bili niya ng ysi? Huminto na raw ako sa pag aaral dahil wala naman daw akong mararating, pa Doctor Doctor pa raw ang gusto ko, baka raw Doctor kwak kwak, mag stay nalang daw ako dito sa bahay at mag linis, mag batay ng bahay at nung anak niya. Anong mapapala ko? Para insultuhin niya? Para gawin niyang katulong? Para mura murahin niya? 'wag nalang, huminto nalang ako sa pag hinga kaysa makasama ko siya.
-plano ko rin na umuwi ng province, payag naman siya ang kaso lang kapatid ko ang ipapalit saakin????? Para ano, sila naman ang kawawain niya???? Sila naman ang pagdiskitahan niya???? Ayaw nila pero pinipilit niya, dahil wala rin naman magawa mga kapatid ko nag oo nalang sila. Gusto ko rin kasi umuwi para makapag register sa comelec at bumisita sa mga magulang ko.
-masakit masabihan ng mga ganoong salita, lalo na sa kamag anak mo, mga magulang ko, naririnig ko kung paano niya murahin 'yung pamilya ko, na para bang hindi niya pamilya. Masakit, sobrang sakit, hindi ko alam kung ano na ang mararamdan ko, iiyak ba ako sa galit? sa pagod? Sa awa sa pamilya ko? Sa sarili ko? Hindi ko alam kung ano na ang gagawin ko, pakiramdam ko ang hina hina ko. Dahil sakaniya, lumala ang anxiety ko, na depressed ako, sobra 'yung stress at breakdown ko, 'yung tipong sinisisi ko sarili ko dahil baka totoo nga ang sinasabi niyang walang akong mararating dahil bb at tamad ako. Dahil sakaniya, umiiyak ako ng patago, nagkaroon ang ng insomnia, nawalan ako ng ganang kumilos at mag aral. Lahat ng plano ko sa utak ko, unti unti nang nawawala, lumala ang s$!cid@l thoughts ko, nawalan na rin ako ng ganang kumain. Grabe pala 'yung epekto ng mga salita, hindi ko aakalain na grabe na pala ang pinag bago ko sa sarili simula nung naririnig ko ang mga salitang 'yon, para bang takot na takot ako sa lahat, para bang gusto ko nalang matulog nang matulog.
MGA GUSTO KONG PLANO O GAWIN PERO HINDI MATULOY TULOY DAHIL SA TITO KO: • mag part time, para kapag may sweldo na maka alis na sa bahay na ito. • naka hanap ng murang apartment at naka usap na 'yung landikung magkano(1k for all) may allowance naman pero hindi kaya dahil hindi niya pinayagan. • mag stop ng school para magka work, pero hindi natuloy dahil iinsultuhin lang ako, dahil daw baka ✨bb✨ ako kaya ako nag stop. • nag apply ng scholarship abroad, pero hindi natuloy kasi ayaw ako pauwiin sa province para mag request ng form 137 at ipa apostille ito sa DepED (nalaman niya ito sa Tita ko) alam niyo ba ang sabi saakin ✨akala mo naman kung matalino ka para mag aral sa abroad, mayaman ka ba? Dito ka nalang, tulungan mo ako sa pag aalaga kay **** para naman may silbi ka. Taas taas ng pangrap mo, wala namang kwenta✨ haha. • nag aaply sa BPO pero hindi matuloy tuloy sa interview dahil sa wrong timing niya. • pagtapos ko nitong 2nd sem ay mag apply na ako pero sabi niya ✨ 'wag ka na munang mag trabaho, alagaan mo si **** at ako naman ang mag trabaho ✨
PS: Sorry for long narrations, grabe na kasi talaga ang ginagawa ng Tito ko. And gusto ko lang mailabas ang hinanakit ko sakaniya. Pagod na rin kasi talaga ako, parang hindi ko na talaga kaya. 'Wag nalang din niyong pansinin 'yung mga errors or typo.
Advice naman po 'yung pwede kong gawin? Hindi ko na rin po kasi kaya talaga, konti nalang po talaga, susuko na ako. Hindi ko rin alam ang sasabihin ko sakaniya, natatakot din kasi ako. Siya lang kasi relative ko rito sa NCR. Siya rin naman ang pumilit sa Tita ko at pamilya ko na dito ako sa bahay niya titira, hindi niya ako pinayagan mag boarding house para raw may kasama sila rito haha.
2024.05.15 18:41 faforhyperhost As someone in their early 30s, nakakatakot yung feeling na tumatanda na parents mo. Pag nagkasakit sila, for sure ubos ang savings mo and you have to start all over again.
Diba? I may sound ungrateful. Hindi ka talaga makakapag start ng life mo unless patay na parents mo. Ang dami kong naiisip.
Pwede ba yung sabihin na, "Ma, Pa, hanggang 50% lang ng emergency fund ko ang pwede ko i-allocate kapag nagkasakit kayo. Kapag lumagpas na dun yung bills, kitakits na lang sa langit. Para naman may matira pa sakin."
And siyempre kung magkasakit si Mama, unang round ng ubusan ng savings. Later on after 5 years na nakaipon ka na, si papa naman. Ubos ka ulit.
Pwede ba imbis na cancer eh maaksidente na lang sila yung tipong instant goodbye para wala nang malaking bills.
Kung ako magkaka anak at tatanda, voluntary swiside na lang ako by 70.
Don't get me wrong. Maganda relationship namin ng parents. Feeling ko nga tatanggi sila na ipagamot ko if ever dumating sa point na yun. Pero siyempre kumplikado yun at di naman basta basta papayag lahat sa ganun.
Kung maayos lang sana healthcare at retirement benefits dito sa pinas, hindi sana problema to.
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Pwede ba yung sabihin na, "Ma, Pa, hanggang 50% lang ng emergency fund ko ang pwede ko i-allocate kapag nagkasakit kayo. Kapag lumagpas na dun yung bills, kitakits na lang sa langit. Para naman may matira pa sakin."
And siyempre kung magkasakit si Mama, unang round ng ubusan ng savings. Later on after 5 years na nakaipon ka na, si papa naman. Ubos ka ulit.
Pwede ba imbis na cancer eh maaksidente na lang sila yung tipong instant goodbye para wala nang malaking bills.
Kung ako magkaka anak at tatanda, voluntary swiside na lang ako by 70.
Don't get me wrong. Maganda relationship namin ng parents. Feeling ko nga tatanggi sila na ipagamot ko if ever dumating sa point na yun. Pero siyempre kumplikado yun at di naman basta basta papayag lahat sa ganun.
Kung maayos lang sana healthcare at retirement benefits dito sa pinas, hindi sana problema to.
2024.05.15 17:51 PainWorldly6862 Ye 2nd drop leke kuch galat toh nahi kar rahi na
05 ki hoon. ek aur saal de diya phir toh 20 saal ki ho jaungi. Baaki school ke dost sab 2nd year complete kar liye honge college mein. Aur aesa koi fix nahi hota college agle saal bhi milegi.
Iss baar 550 aa raha. Papa toh obsess hi ho gaye hain ki beti ko doctor banake chodunga.
5 saal mbbs matlab 25 ki hungi jab tak khatam hoga, phir MD wagera bhi hota hai. Plus ye bhi koi jannat si course nahi hai, toxic hai bolte hain.
Idk kya kar rahi mein. Papa ko khush karne ke liye kuch bhi kar sakti hoon. Aur life mein itna fail hote hote woh zeal khudmein aur aa hi nahi rahi hai ki kuch karna hai. Bas papa ke liye hi karna hai sochke 2nd drop ka socha hai.
Aur ye nahi bhi toh kya karun aur. pcb se hoon mujhe koi aur field interest nahi dilata hai plus scale bhi accha nahi dikh raha. private aur semi government nahi lena kyunki financially burden karna nahi parents ko aur.
Online se karungi iss baar. 1st drop offline liya tha. Toh tablet lene ka soch rahi par lagta hai itni bojh bane ja rahi hoon parents pe ki itna paise kharch karne ko bura lag raha.
I never imagine I'd be in this place. My younger self would so mad if she saw me today.
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Iss baar 550 aa raha. Papa toh obsess hi ho gaye hain ki beti ko doctor banake chodunga.
5 saal mbbs matlab 25 ki hungi jab tak khatam hoga, phir MD wagera bhi hota hai. Plus ye bhi koi jannat si course nahi hai, toxic hai bolte hain.
Idk kya kar rahi mein. Papa ko khush karne ke liye kuch bhi kar sakti hoon. Aur life mein itna fail hote hote woh zeal khudmein aur aa hi nahi rahi hai ki kuch karna hai. Bas papa ke liye hi karna hai sochke 2nd drop ka socha hai.
Aur ye nahi bhi toh kya karun aur. pcb se hoon mujhe koi aur field interest nahi dilata hai plus scale bhi accha nahi dikh raha. private aur semi government nahi lena kyunki financially burden karna nahi parents ko aur.
Online se karungi iss baar. 1st drop offline liya tha. Toh tablet lene ka soch rahi par lagta hai itni bojh bane ja rahi hoon parents pe ki itna paise kharch karne ko bura lag raha.
I never imagine I'd be in this place. My younger self would so mad if she saw me today.
2024.05.15 17:33 POISON_loveuwu Ab kya karu iske bad sahi mein dar lag raha hai
Context : class 12th pcmb pass out this year , got results not that good (80+) , gave jee mains didn't go well being a person who has done little to no maths got 78 percentile (300k rank) , gave neet , checked the answer key of the physics section already knew won't get neet this year , giving cuet as plan B par jo courses man mein the wo bhi nahi hoga lagta hai , bsc karne ka mann nahi , cuet hoga bhi ki nahi wo bhi sure nahi , ab kya karu jivan mein , drop bhi lene ka sure nahi hu bcoz already have my mind fucked aur ek saal khich paunga ki nahi janta
About parents , dono hi supportive hai but results ke time mei kya hota wo hi Jane par iss bar unhone bohot koshish ki mujhe support karne ki but unse nahi hora and wo kuch bol bhi nahi rahe that hurts the most , unlog ko dekh ke ab mujhe Maan hora hai ki Ghar chordu atleast wo khush rahenge , my father just wants I just get some thing good so that he could be proud of but I couldn't do anything at all these years and my mother wants me to be successful so that I can get out of the place I'm living in ( bcoz of gharelu jhamela with relatives ) both of them are giving their best and I just couldn't do anything
Ab drop lena nahi chahta aur private mein bhi padhna nahi chahta bcoz of the fees , agar abhi kisi bade private mein ghus jau to papa mana bhi nahi karenge paise bhi de denge par kuch saalo bad sunna bohot hoga ki "private college mein padha itne paise deke , aur placement bhi acchi nahi le paya" it's just inevitable to ab kya karu mein kuch samajh mein nahi aa raha koi kuch advice de do please
Medical mein iccha tha par mbbs chorke aur kuch mein Jane ki iccha bhi nahi , engineering mein sirf biotech aur biomed eng aise bio related mein interests hai aur architecture mein bhi , i mean engineering lines ke bare mein kuch ache se pata bhi nahi mujhe
Please help guys
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About parents , dono hi supportive hai but results ke time mei kya hota wo hi Jane par iss bar unhone bohot koshish ki mujhe support karne ki but unse nahi hora and wo kuch bol bhi nahi rahe that hurts the most , unlog ko dekh ke ab mujhe Maan hora hai ki Ghar chordu atleast wo khush rahenge , my father just wants I just get some thing good so that he could be proud of but I couldn't do anything at all these years and my mother wants me to be successful so that I can get out of the place I'm living in ( bcoz of gharelu jhamela with relatives ) both of them are giving their best and I just couldn't do anything
Ab drop lena nahi chahta aur private mein bhi padhna nahi chahta bcoz of the fees , agar abhi kisi bade private mein ghus jau to papa mana bhi nahi karenge paise bhi de denge par kuch saalo bad sunna bohot hoga ki "private college mein padha itne paise deke , aur placement bhi acchi nahi le paya" it's just inevitable to ab kya karu mein kuch samajh mein nahi aa raha koi kuch advice de do please
Medical mein iccha tha par mbbs chorke aur kuch mein Jane ki iccha bhi nahi , engineering mein sirf biotech aur biomed eng aise bio related mein interests hai aur architecture mein bhi , i mean engineering lines ke bare mein kuch ache se pata bhi nahi mujhe
Please help guys
2024.05.15 14:45 superdistro_769 Just want to ask about nta selling data and scam regarding students and scam calls to parents
mere bhaiya neet ke exam se phele kota mei the unke papa ko phone aata hai aaur bolte hai ki mere bhaiya underage hai aaur unne bina licence ke bike chala rahe hai rat ko aaur unke bhai (scammer) ka accedent kar dia to vo log mere bhai ko unke ghar me rakha hai auur nahi jane deinge agar x amount nahi pay kia(1ya 2 lakh se jada tha kuch) aaur mere ki rone ki aavaj sunai aaur vo bolrahe the papa bachao sorry aaur phir bola jaldi paise transfer karo
vo log bhaut sidhe sadhe hai lekin mere bhaiya ke ghar me sabh log dady bolte hai
jab call kara to bhaiya ne nahi uthaya kuki usdin unka test tha
unhone phir se call kia center par faculty hai jinne known wale koi unhone kaha vo test de raha hai
aaur thori deer bad jab unka test khatam hua unhe sabse phele baat karwai aaur conform kia
mere bhaiya ne bata ye bhaut se logo ke sath ho raha hai vaha
any clue how they are getting the numbers my brother have a button and a smart phone (he never uses smartphone temper bhi nahi chadhaya yek bar rat ko ola karne box se nikala tha) so no he didnt signed anyvwebsite app or joined the telegram and after some days the number was unavailable
please beware and pass this info to the one who is staying away and his family
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vo log bhaut sidhe sadhe hai lekin mere bhaiya ke ghar me sabh log dady bolte hai
jab call kara to bhaiya ne nahi uthaya kuki usdin unka test tha
unhone phir se call kia center par faculty hai jinne known wale koi unhone kaha vo test de raha hai
aaur thori deer bad jab unka test khatam hua unhe sabse phele baat karwai aaur conform kia
mere bhaiya ne bata ye bhaut se logo ke sath ho raha hai vaha
any clue how they are getting the numbers my brother have a button and a smart phone (he never uses smartphone temper bhi nahi chadhaya yek bar rat ko ola karne box se nikala tha) so no he didnt signed anyvwebsite app or joined the telegram and after some days the number was unavailable
please beware and pass this info to the one who is staying away and his family
2024.05.15 14:13 Jealous_Look4814 mag ipon raw ako kung gusto ko maghanda
Hello. I'm not good at story telling kaya bear with me po. I'm 16, going 17 two months from now. So, kanina kase nanonood ako sa yt ng process on how to get a driver license para pag 18 na ako next year eh alam ko na ang gagawin ko. Nakita ako ng mama ko and then she asked “Ano pinapanood mo?” tapos sabi ko “paano kumuha ng driver license, ang hirap pala ma” tapos nag agree naman siya.
Tapos sabi niya pa “Bakit kukuha kana? Hindi ka pa tinuturuan ni Papa mo magmotor ah tsaka bata ka pa” tapos sabi ko naman “Tinitignan ko lang kase 'di ba 18 na ako next year, nireready ko lang para may alam na ako”. Sabi niya uli sa akin “Oo nga 'no, 18 kana next year” tapos sabi ko lang oo. Then bigla niyang tinanong na “Ano maghahanda ka pa?” tapos yung boses niya parang pagalit na walang gana ako naman hindi nalang sumagot. Nagsalita ulit siya, sabi niya “Kung gusto mo maghanda, mag ipon kana ngayon palang” yung boses niya parang naiinis tapos umalis na siya papuntang kusina.
Ewan ko ano ba 'tong nafefeel ko, parang nalulungkot ako. Tuwing nababanggit kase yung birthday ko laging sinasabi ni mama na “kung gusto mo maghanda, mag ipon kana” o kaya naman “mag ipon ka para may ipanghanda ka sa bday mo”. She started saying these when I was 8. Simula nung 8 ako hindi na siya naghahanda o kaya naman after ng birthday ko doon niya maaalala na birthday ko pala. Naalala ko pa nga last year na birthday ko sabi ko sa kanya habang papaalis siya na “ma, birthday ko ngayon” tapos sabi niya “ano??” kase parang hindi nya ako narinig. Ewan ko hahaha every year ata niyang nakakalimutan birthday ko. Hindi naman dahil sa wala kaming panghanda o ano kase may kaya naman kami kahit papaano, hindi naman kami mahirap na mahirap. Nakakalungkot lang kase yung mga kaibigan ko na magdedebut this year (mas matanda sila ng 1 year sa akin) eh pinagpaplanuhan na kung saan sila magdedebut. Pag pinag uusapan namin magkakaibigan lagi kong sinasabi na “ayos lang kahit walang handa, hindi ako mahilig mag celebrate eh” pero yung totoo, nakakalimutan talaga lagi yung birthday ko sa bahay kahit si papa ko. May time before nung 11 years old ako ay nag ipon ako ng tig 5 pesos sa baon ko para ipambili ng Jollibee burger steak kase malapit naman yung school ko sa jabi tapos doon ako nagcelebrate mag isa. Tuwing malapit na yung birthday ko kinakabahan ako kase natatakot ako na hindi na naman nila maalala tapos naiiyak nalang ako lagi tuwing birthday ko.
Yung feeling na naiinis ako kase bakit parang ang unfair sa akin pero at the same time nalulungkot ako kase parang ang unimportant kong tao, even my friends kasi last year kaunti lang bumati tapos yung pinakabest friends ko nakalimutan nya. Parang nakakalungkot lang talaga na every year ganto yung eksena. Super confusing rin kasi bakit nung 1-7 ako naalala ko na nagluluto si mama tapos nung nag 8 na ako biglang parang naging normal na araw nalang siya.
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Tapos sabi niya pa “Bakit kukuha kana? Hindi ka pa tinuturuan ni Papa mo magmotor ah tsaka bata ka pa” tapos sabi ko naman “Tinitignan ko lang kase 'di ba 18 na ako next year, nireready ko lang para may alam na ako”. Sabi niya uli sa akin “Oo nga 'no, 18 kana next year” tapos sabi ko lang oo. Then bigla niyang tinanong na “Ano maghahanda ka pa?” tapos yung boses niya parang pagalit na walang gana ako naman hindi nalang sumagot. Nagsalita ulit siya, sabi niya “Kung gusto mo maghanda, mag ipon kana ngayon palang” yung boses niya parang naiinis tapos umalis na siya papuntang kusina.
Ewan ko ano ba 'tong nafefeel ko, parang nalulungkot ako. Tuwing nababanggit kase yung birthday ko laging sinasabi ni mama na “kung gusto mo maghanda, mag ipon kana” o kaya naman “mag ipon ka para may ipanghanda ka sa bday mo”. She started saying these when I was 8. Simula nung 8 ako hindi na siya naghahanda o kaya naman after ng birthday ko doon niya maaalala na birthday ko pala. Naalala ko pa nga last year na birthday ko sabi ko sa kanya habang papaalis siya na “ma, birthday ko ngayon” tapos sabi niya “ano??” kase parang hindi nya ako narinig. Ewan ko hahaha every year ata niyang nakakalimutan birthday ko. Hindi naman dahil sa wala kaming panghanda o ano kase may kaya naman kami kahit papaano, hindi naman kami mahirap na mahirap. Nakakalungkot lang kase yung mga kaibigan ko na magdedebut this year (mas matanda sila ng 1 year sa akin) eh pinagpaplanuhan na kung saan sila magdedebut. Pag pinag uusapan namin magkakaibigan lagi kong sinasabi na “ayos lang kahit walang handa, hindi ako mahilig mag celebrate eh” pero yung totoo, nakakalimutan talaga lagi yung birthday ko sa bahay kahit si papa ko. May time before nung 11 years old ako ay nag ipon ako ng tig 5 pesos sa baon ko para ipambili ng Jollibee burger steak kase malapit naman yung school ko sa jabi tapos doon ako nagcelebrate mag isa. Tuwing malapit na yung birthday ko kinakabahan ako kase natatakot ako na hindi na naman nila maalala tapos naiiyak nalang ako lagi tuwing birthday ko.
Yung feeling na naiinis ako kase bakit parang ang unfair sa akin pero at the same time nalulungkot ako kase parang ang unimportant kong tao, even my friends kasi last year kaunti lang bumati tapos yung pinakabest friends ko nakalimutan nya. Parang nakakalungkot lang talaga na every year ganto yung eksena. Super confusing rin kasi bakit nung 1-7 ako naalala ko na nagluluto si mama tapos nung nag 8 na ako biglang parang naging normal na araw nalang siya.
2024.05.15 13:23 heshamizhar School walon ne naam kaat diya, ab kya karun? (My school expelled me, what should I do?)
So mere dadaji ki health kharab thi isiliye meri family aur main unhe dekhne gye the, unki condition bhtt critical thi isiliye bhtt dino se unhi ke pass rukna pada, meri bhi tabiyat kharab ho gyi, school aane ki condition bilkul nahi thi, maine apni class teacher ko sab bataaya tha and application bhi di thi, still aaj papa ke phone pe school ki taraf se text aaya ki mera name kat gya hai. Kuch samajh nahi aa raha bhai, koi bata do ki kya karun?
TLDR: My school expelled me even though I informed my teacher
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TLDR: My school expelled me even though I informed my teacher
2024.05.15 13:19 heshamizhar School walon ne naam kaat diya (my school expelled me)
 | So mere dadaji ki health kharab thi isiliye meri family aur main unhe dekhne gye the, unki condition bhtt critical thi isiliye bhtt dino se unhi ke pass rukna pada, meri bhi tabiyat kharab ho gyi, school aane ki condition bilkul nahi thi, maine apni class teacher ko sab bataaya tha and application bhi di thi, still aaj papa ke phone pe school ki taraf se text aaya ki mera name kat gya hai. Kuch samajh nahi aa raha bhai, koi bata do ki kya karun? submitted by heshamizhar to JEENEETards [link] [comments] TLDR: My school expelled me even though I informed my teacher |
2024.05.15 12:59 noturmage I want to be independent but my mom doesn't
It's long but pls read and offer your thoughts.. Here it goes:
I was an A-lister student. From grade school ro college wala ako ibang ginawa kundi mag-aral, bahay-school literally. Graduated cum laude & topped the boards. Only had 1 relationship while studying, 2 when I was already working, and I didn't go out with friends that much. I did everything my parents wanted...
Now I'm 27(f). I now have a bf. Ang source of income nya is business (buy&sell ng cars, printing shop with multiple franchises) tho aminado ako hindi pa ganun kalakas kumita. He did not finish college, pero nag vocational. His parents are separated, pero civil at all goods lahat, and every Sunday nandun sila sa father side nila para bonding.
Hindi ko napakilala si bf sa bahay nung nanliligaw palang since kahit ako mismo naoverwhelm sa feelings ko. Sabi nga nila: when you know, you know. Pero a month into our relationship pinakilala ko sya kay mama and pumunta sya sa bahay.
Okay naman nung una, pero di ko alam anong nangyari bakit biglang naging ganun si mama. Nung nalaman ata history. Na sobrang ayaw na nya dun kay bf as in na umabot na sa point na ang sasakit ng nasabi nya. Ang reason nya is ayaw nya na maging bf ko ay galing sa broken family. Kahit na inexplain ko naman na okay silang lahat. Ayaw din ni mama na ma-meet ko anyone from his family.
Personally, nameet ko na family nya nang patago at masasabi ko na sobrang okay ng dynamics nila. Grabe. Nun ko narealize na wala talaga sa pagiging separated ng parents kung masaya ba sila or hindi as a family. Kasi parang sobrang chill nila lahat parang walang problema. At super bait nila lahat sakin.
Now the problem is, lagi ako binabawalan makipagkita kay bf. Bawal ako gumala after work, laging tinatanong kung nasan, sino kasama, pero pag sinabi ko na friends hindi maniniwala at magagalit sakin nang sobra.
Kaya natuto ako na wag nalang magsabi na si bf kasama. Di ko na sinasabi talaga. Kasi ultimo kakain lang kami or magkakape, matindi na ang galit sakin ni mama... kaya tumahimik na din ako sa bahay. Kahit anong sabihin ko ay mali. Meron pa, namatay lola ni bf and nagpapaalam ako kay mama. Ayaw. Wala daw sya pkialam kung patay or buhay man pupuntahan ko basta ayaw nyang mameet ko family ni bf. Sabi dati basta magpaalam ako okay na pero pag nagpaalam, galit sobra. Na nagkakaiyakan na.
I "had" plans na mag-work sa US since yun din ang gusto ng parents simula una. Na dun na ko tumira at dun nalang ako. Pero now nagdadalawang isip ako since naniniwala talaga ako sa potential ng business ni bf and mga plans namin na negosyo. Tho aalis pa rin ako pero 2-3years lang siguro then uwi na dito for good... Yun pa ata isa sa kinakagalit ng mama ko. Kasi gusto nya ako maging kapalit ni papa na maging ofw, at maging earner para sa kanila.
Tinanong ko sya kung ayaw ba nya makita na masaya ako at may nagmamahal sakin... Ang sabi nya kahit kailan daw hindi sya haharap sa family ni bf at hindi sya pupunta if ever ikasal ako. Super dami pa nyang nasabi na masasakit kay bf then magagalit sya bakit di pumupunta. As per bf naman, di sya galit pero pupunta nalang daw sya kapag super stable na ng business nya and mapprove nya na magiging okay ako sa kanya. Nasabihan pa nga ako na sana daw di nalang nya ako tinutukan nung bata kung magiging ganito lang din ako. :)
Now my mom and I are not okay...
Nakakapagod. Nakakasakal.
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I was an A-lister student. From grade school ro college wala ako ibang ginawa kundi mag-aral, bahay-school literally. Graduated cum laude & topped the boards. Only had 1 relationship while studying, 2 when I was already working, and I didn't go out with friends that much. I did everything my parents wanted...
Now I'm 27(f). I now have a bf. Ang source of income nya is business (buy&sell ng cars, printing shop with multiple franchises) tho aminado ako hindi pa ganun kalakas kumita. He did not finish college, pero nag vocational. His parents are separated, pero civil at all goods lahat, and every Sunday nandun sila sa father side nila para bonding.
Hindi ko napakilala si bf sa bahay nung nanliligaw palang since kahit ako mismo naoverwhelm sa feelings ko. Sabi nga nila: when you know, you know. Pero a month into our relationship pinakilala ko sya kay mama and pumunta sya sa bahay.
Okay naman nung una, pero di ko alam anong nangyari bakit biglang naging ganun si mama. Nung nalaman ata history. Na sobrang ayaw na nya dun kay bf as in na umabot na sa point na ang sasakit ng nasabi nya. Ang reason nya is ayaw nya na maging bf ko ay galing sa broken family. Kahit na inexplain ko naman na okay silang lahat. Ayaw din ni mama na ma-meet ko anyone from his family.
Personally, nameet ko na family nya nang patago at masasabi ko na sobrang okay ng dynamics nila. Grabe. Nun ko narealize na wala talaga sa pagiging separated ng parents kung masaya ba sila or hindi as a family. Kasi parang sobrang chill nila lahat parang walang problema. At super bait nila lahat sakin.
Now the problem is, lagi ako binabawalan makipagkita kay bf. Bawal ako gumala after work, laging tinatanong kung nasan, sino kasama, pero pag sinabi ko na friends hindi maniniwala at magagalit sakin nang sobra.
Kaya natuto ako na wag nalang magsabi na si bf kasama. Di ko na sinasabi talaga. Kasi ultimo kakain lang kami or magkakape, matindi na ang galit sakin ni mama... kaya tumahimik na din ako sa bahay. Kahit anong sabihin ko ay mali. Meron pa, namatay lola ni bf and nagpapaalam ako kay mama. Ayaw. Wala daw sya pkialam kung patay or buhay man pupuntahan ko basta ayaw nyang mameet ko family ni bf. Sabi dati basta magpaalam ako okay na pero pag nagpaalam, galit sobra. Na nagkakaiyakan na.
I "had" plans na mag-work sa US since yun din ang gusto ng parents simula una. Na dun na ko tumira at dun nalang ako. Pero now nagdadalawang isip ako since naniniwala talaga ako sa potential ng business ni bf and mga plans namin na negosyo. Tho aalis pa rin ako pero 2-3years lang siguro then uwi na dito for good... Yun pa ata isa sa kinakagalit ng mama ko. Kasi gusto nya ako maging kapalit ni papa na maging ofw, at maging earner para sa kanila.
Tinanong ko sya kung ayaw ba nya makita na masaya ako at may nagmamahal sakin... Ang sabi nya kahit kailan daw hindi sya haharap sa family ni bf at hindi sya pupunta if ever ikasal ako. Super dami pa nyang nasabi na masasakit kay bf then magagalit sya bakit di pumupunta. As per bf naman, di sya galit pero pupunta nalang daw sya kapag super stable na ng business nya and mapprove nya na magiging okay ako sa kanya. Nasabihan pa nga ako na sana daw di nalang nya ako tinutukan nung bata kung magiging ganito lang din ako. :)
Now my mom and I are not okay...
Nakakapagod. Nakakasakal.
2024.05.15 11:59 WastePoet69 Please 🙏🏻 koi please kardo!!
Bhai private college me Jaa rha hoon...
Whi mil rha h par meri financial condition itni achi nhi h and guess what ( Mera ews bhi nhi bnna ) Soo bhaiyo.. whi fees ka issue h loan leke Jaa rha hoon half fees to parents keh rhe the savings wagera se ho jayegi lekin bachhi hui fees le liye laon Lena padega...🥲 Mere paas 2 saal h me kuch bhi sikhne ko taiyar hoon please meri help karoo... Me kese earn kar sakta hoon college ke sath sath?? Jisse me apni fees khud bhar sakoun.. I know mujhe ye private wali situation aane hi nhi Deni thi but ab mere paas koi aur raasta nhi h... Me thoda Village area se aata hoon yha koi btech karta hi nhi h...
I hope koi help karree 😣
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Whi mil rha h par meri financial condition itni achi nhi h and guess what ( Mera ews bhi nhi bnna ) Soo bhaiyo.. whi fees ka issue h loan leke Jaa rha hoon half fees to parents keh rhe the savings wagera se ho jayegi lekin bachhi hui fees le liye laon Lena padega...🥲 Mere paas 2 saal h me kuch bhi sikhne ko taiyar hoon please meri help karoo... Me kese earn kar sakta hoon college ke sath sath?? Jisse me apni fees khud bhar sakoun.. I know mujhe ye private wali situation aane hi nhi Deni thi but ab mere paas koi aur raasta nhi h... Me thoda Village area se aata hoon yha koi btech karta hi nhi h...
I hope koi help karree 😣
2024.05.15 11:41 heshamizhar School walon ne naam kaat diya (My school expelled me)
So mere dadaji ki health kharab thi isiliye meri family aur main unhe dekhne gye the, unki condition bhtt critical thi isiliye bhtt dino se unhi ke pass rukna pada, meri bhi tabiyat kharab ho gyi, school aane ki condition bilkul nahi thi, maine apni class teacher ko sab bataaya tha and application bhi di thi, still aaj papa ke phone pe school ki taraf se text aaya ki mera name kat gya hai. Kuch samajh nahi aa raha bhai, koi bata do ki kya karun?
TLDR: My school expelled me even though I informed my teacher
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TLDR: My school expelled me even though I informed my teacher
2024.05.15 11:30 WastePoet69 Please 🙏🏻 koi please kardo!!
Bhai private college me Jaa rha hoon...
Whi mil rha h par meri financial condition itni achi nhi h and guess what ( Mera ews bhi nhi bnna ) Soo bhaiyo.. whi fees ka issue h loan leke Jaa rha hoon half fees to parents keh rhe the savings wagera se ho jayegi lekin bachhi hui fees le liye laon Lena padega...🥲 Mere paas 2 saal h me kuch bhi sikhne ko taiyar hoon please meri help karoo... Me kese earn kar sakta hoon college ke sath sath?? Jisse me apni fees khud bhar sakoun.. I know mujhe ye private wali situation aane hi nhi Deni thi but ab mere paas koi aur raasta nhi h... Me thoda Village area se aata hoon yha koi btech karta hi nhi h...
I hope koi help karree 😣
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Whi mil rha h par meri financial condition itni achi nhi h and guess what ( Mera ews bhi nhi bnna ) Soo bhaiyo.. whi fees ka issue h loan leke Jaa rha hoon half fees to parents keh rhe the savings wagera se ho jayegi lekin bachhi hui fees le liye laon Lena padega...🥲 Mere paas 2 saal h me kuch bhi sikhne ko taiyar hoon please meri help karoo... Me kese earn kar sakta hoon college ke sath sath?? Jisse me apni fees khud bhar sakoun.. I know mujhe ye private wali situation aane hi nhi Deni thi but ab mere paas koi aur raasta nhi h... Me thoda Village area se aata hoon yha koi btech karta hi nhi h...
I hope koi help karree 😣
2024.05.15 10:52 Senior_Magician_1213 Cuet postponed
Bc maine kuch nhi padha tha cuet ke liye kyuki mere ko neet ke liye drop lena tha bahut muskil se bc gharwalo ko manaya tha 3rd drop ke liye ab cuet postponed ho gaya tho ghar wale bol rahe tu bsc ke sath neet de diyo mai unko kitna samjaya ki mai manage nhi kar paunga dono ek sath uper se ab du me attendence bhi strict hone lagi hai bc lagta hai sala iss janam me doctor nhi banpaunga.
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2024.05.15 10:50 Prestigious_You5967 Pinsan kong mag nanakaw
So we have a small korean mart that my brother and I invested para magkaron ng own business si mama kahit small time lang. Our mom is a cancer survivor but still her maintenance and meds are too expensive. And during the time nung nalaman namin na may cancer sya hindi nya alam kung paano sya mag papa opera since hinaharang ng kabet ng tatay namin yung pera. And during that time hindi malaki sweldo ko since sa BPO lang ako nag wowork and yung brother ko 3 years pa lang sya nag wowork. Yung only way namin is yung HMO. And ayun yung nag push samin na ipunan si mama ng pang start nya ng business.
Sobrang liit lang ng korean mart namin halos parang sarisari store lang. Originally pamangkin namin yung bantay. Then dumating yung tita namin, sister ni mama, naging bantay din sya pag wala pamangkin namin.
Recently our cousin decided na makipag live in sa jowa nya na tiga samin. May 2 anak walang trabaho. Yung lalake lang yung may work. So inofferan sya ni mama na mag bantay. I know hindi malaki pa sweldo ni mama pero compare sa ibang tindahan I think justifiable naman yung ₱300 per day. And nag bibigay si mama ng ₱200 each na bonus sakanila if maka 10k sila per day. Plus may libre silang samgy meat.
Our cousin has a history ng pag nanakaw pero sa nanay nya lang at ate nya. Tho if I remember correctly, may isa kaming tita na ninakaw nya yung boundary ng jeep sabi nya wala daw inabot yung driver 😂 but despite her history binigiyan sya ni mama ng chance. Tulong na din since wala nga syang trabaho.
At first maayos pa syang nag tatrabaho sa kmart. May alkansya kasi si mama yung glass na ipunan nya ng pang 13th month nya sa mga nag babantay plus ayun na pinaka sweldo nya sa sarili nya. Mga bagong 1k, 500/week and 100/day laman nun and naka logged sa notebook nila palagi yung hulog. Andun kasi sa kmart lang yun so sobrang takaw mata na sya sa customers plus nanakawan yung tita ko ng cellphone ng isang customer, kaya nag decide si mama na ipasok na lang sa room ko (wala na kasi ako sa house kung asan yung kmart) at peace si mama na magiging safe yung money dun.
Then April came, ioopen na dapat ni mama yung alkansya nya para bilangin kung mag kano ipon sa 1st quarter ng 2024 para idedeposit na sa bank. Pero pag check ni mama less than 3k na lang yung laman (isang 1k and the rest 100’s na lang)
So bakit pinsan namin main suspect namin? Bukod sa may history sya ito mga reasons:
Then nung mother’s day nag swimming kami andun sya si klepto hindi maka harap at tingin at lapit samin. Pinandidirihan namin syang lahat. Then nakita ko pumasok sila sa ng jowa nya sa room kung san kami natulog ni mama ay ang bilis ko pumasok din baka makuha yung natitirang 500 sa bag ko 😂 oh may isa pa, ninakaw nya cellphone ng pamangin nya nung last weekends lang 😂😂😂
BAGO KA NA SIS! 2024 NA MAG NANAKAW KA PARIN 🤭🤭🤭 NAKAKAHIYA KANG PUTANGINA KA!
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Sobrang liit lang ng korean mart namin halos parang sarisari store lang. Originally pamangkin namin yung bantay. Then dumating yung tita namin, sister ni mama, naging bantay din sya pag wala pamangkin namin.
Recently our cousin decided na makipag live in sa jowa nya na tiga samin. May 2 anak walang trabaho. Yung lalake lang yung may work. So inofferan sya ni mama na mag bantay. I know hindi malaki pa sweldo ni mama pero compare sa ibang tindahan I think justifiable naman yung ₱300 per day. And nag bibigay si mama ng ₱200 each na bonus sakanila if maka 10k sila per day. Plus may libre silang samgy meat.
Our cousin has a history ng pag nanakaw pero sa nanay nya lang at ate nya. Tho if I remember correctly, may isa kaming tita na ninakaw nya yung boundary ng jeep sabi nya wala daw inabot yung driver 😂 but despite her history binigiyan sya ni mama ng chance. Tulong na din since wala nga syang trabaho.
At first maayos pa syang nag tatrabaho sa kmart. May alkansya kasi si mama yung glass na ipunan nya ng pang 13th month nya sa mga nag babantay plus ayun na pinaka sweldo nya sa sarili nya. Mga bagong 1k, 500/week and 100/day laman nun and naka logged sa notebook nila palagi yung hulog. Andun kasi sa kmart lang yun so sobrang takaw mata na sya sa customers plus nanakawan yung tita ko ng cellphone ng isang customer, kaya nag decide si mama na ipasok na lang sa room ko (wala na kasi ako sa house kung asan yung kmart) at peace si mama na magiging safe yung money dun.
Then April came, ioopen na dapat ni mama yung alkansya nya para bilangin kung mag kano ipon sa 1st quarter ng 2024 para idedeposit na sa bank. Pero pag check ni mama less than 3k na lang yung laman (isang 1k and the rest 100’s na lang)
So bakit pinsan namin main suspect namin? Bukod sa may history sya ito mga reasons:
- walang history ng nakawan sa bahay ni lola nung dumating lang sya nag karon ng ganon.
- 3 lang silang bantay. Pero sya at tita ko lang may access sa ipon, yung pamangkin ko binibigay nya sa tita ko lahat ng sales at pang hulog
- may nirerentahan silang apartment pero halos every night dun sya natutulog sa kwarto ko ng walang paalam pero ang paalam nya sa mga tita ko dun is nag sabi na sya 🙄
- March 30 nag hulog tita ko ng 2 1k sa ipon, Tuesday after March 30 natulog sya dun and weekends that week umuwi sya sa bahay ng nanay nya nag pa easter egg hunting sa mga bata at nan libre for eat out.
- last year sya lang yung tumulong kay mama kumuha dun. So meaning sya lang may alam paano kumuha ng pera na hindi babasagin yung alkansya (Lagay ko picture para mapicture out nyo) alkansya
- wala syang work pero naka bili ng aso na worth 9k and tablet ng mga anak nya
- mga chat nya kay mama after the incident sobrang HAHAHAHA not sure what’s the right term to use pero PUTANGINA SYA!
Then nung mother’s day nag swimming kami andun sya si klepto hindi maka harap at tingin at lapit samin. Pinandidirihan namin syang lahat. Then nakita ko pumasok sila sa ng jowa nya sa room kung san kami natulog ni mama ay ang bilis ko pumasok din baka makuha yung natitirang 500 sa bag ko 😂 oh may isa pa, ninakaw nya cellphone ng pamangin nya nung last weekends lang 😂😂😂
BAGO KA NA SIS! 2024 NA MAG NANAKAW KA PARIN 🤭🤭🤭 NAKAKAHIYA KANG PUTANGINA KA!
2024.05.15 10:42 WayAlternative7949 How to get your Article published in news paper ?
Articles haru Kantipur, Ktmpost, Nagarik, Rising Nepal jasto thulo patrika haru ma publish garna ko laagi hami jasto normal manxe le ke garna parxa ? Articles haru herda ekdam famous or kunai renowned post ma vako manxe ko matra dekhxu ! Kahile kahi ta famous writer ko articles haru ni boring hunxa ! Yedi thulo media ma chance namilne vaye aru media ma kasari publish garne ?? Maile economics ma articles lekheko xu behavioral economics ma future ma phd gariyo vane reference ma CV ma dekhauna mikxa vanera and in other hand aafno thoughts haru mass ma share garum vanera ! Is there any other way ??
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2024.05.15 07:41 Skull_Reaper101 Parents never appreciate me for anything, and it's all lies.
bc 10th me 90 laye the,papa ne iphone prmise kiya tha 90.2% ke upar laya toh. What did i get? Faces of dissapointment because it was *just* above 90.
12th me 83.6 aaye. 97 in computers, they didn't talk about computers. pcm me avg 77.3% admittedly. What did I get? Papa ne sunaya bas. Bc i got scolded because it was *just* above the minimum 75% all colleges are asking.
BC sirf dant khata hu mai. papa ko pata hai how much I like photography, mujhe ek camera promise kiya tha, dad is backtracking on that too, ki zyada costly hai etc. 2 weeks back jab s23 was selling for 40k, he asked me if I wanted it. I told him phone nahi chahiye, ek camera le do pehle, phone jab mera tootega tab dekhenge. What did he say? He told me phone se photography ho jaega. BC itna dard hua ye sun kar. Now I didn't get either. I asked him to get an ipad for college so I can use it for my notes, it's much easier to organise in it. We discussed a bit. A few days later I told him ki US me sasta milta hai, chacha se mangwa lenge, what did he say? KYA ZAROORAT HAI TUMHE? BHENCHOD ITNA GUSSA AYA NA
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12th me 83.6 aaye. 97 in computers, they didn't talk about computers. pcm me avg 77.3% admittedly. What did I get? Papa ne sunaya bas. Bc i got scolded because it was *just* above the minimum 75% all colleges are asking.
BC sirf dant khata hu mai. papa ko pata hai how much I like photography, mujhe ek camera promise kiya tha, dad is backtracking on that too, ki zyada costly hai etc. 2 weeks back jab s23 was selling for 40k, he asked me if I wanted it. I told him phone nahi chahiye, ek camera le do pehle, phone jab mera tootega tab dekhenge. What did he say? He told me phone se photography ho jaega. BC itna dard hua ye sun kar. Now I didn't get either. I asked him to get an ipad for college so I can use it for my notes, it's much easier to organise in it. We discussed a bit. A few days later I told him ki US me sasta milta hai, chacha se mangwa lenge, what did he say? KYA ZAROORAT HAI TUMHE? BHENCHOD ITNA GUSSA AYA NA
2024.05.15 04:23 noturmage Thoughts about my bf and mom?
It's long but pls read and offer your thoughts.. Here it goes:
I was an A-lister student. From grade school ro college wala ako ibang ginawa kundi mag-aral, bahay-school literally. Graduated cum laude & topped the boards. Only had 1 relationship while studying, 2 when I was already working, and I didn't go out with friends that much. I did everything my parents wanted...
Now I'm 27(f). I now have a bf. Ang source of income nya is business (buy&sell ng cars, printing shop with multiple franchises) tho aminado ako hindi pa ganun kalakas kumita. He did not finish college, pero nag vocational. His parents are separated, pero civil at all goods lahat, and every Sunday nandun sila sa father side nila para bonding.
Hindi ko napakilala si bf sa bahay nung nanliligaw palang since kahit ako mismo naoverwhelm sa feelings ko. Sabi nga nila: when you know, you know. Pero a month into our relationship pinakilala ko sya kay mama and pumunta sya sa bahay.
Okay naman nung una, pero di ko alam anong nangyari bakit biglang naging ganun si mama. Nung nalaman ata history. Na sobrang ayaw na nya dun kay bf as in na umabot na sa point na ang sasakit ng nasabi nya. Ang reason nya is ayaw nya na maging bf ko ay galing sa broken family. Kahit na inexplain ko naman na okay silang lahat. Ayaw din ni mama na ma-meet ko anyone from his family.
Personally, nameet ko na family nya nang patago at masasabi ko na sobrang okay ng dynamics nila. Grabe. Nun ko narealize na wala talaga sa pagiging separated ng parents kung masaya ba sila or hindi as a family. Kasi parang sobrang chill nila lahat parang walang problema. At super bait nila lahat sakin.
Now the problem is, lagi ako binabawalan makipagkita kay bf. Bawal ako gumala after work, laging tinatanong kung nasan, sino kasama, pero pag sinabi ko na friends hindi maniniwala at magagalit sakin nang sobra.
Kaya natuto ako na wag nalang magsabi na si bf kasama. Di ko na sinasabi talaga. Kasi ultimo kakain lang kami or magkakape, matindi na ang galit sakin ni mama... kaya tumahimik na din ako sa bahay. Kahit anong sabihin ko ay mali. Meron pa, namatay lola ni bf and nagpapaalam ako kay mama. Ayaw. Wala daw sya pkialam kung patay or buhay man pupuntahan ko basta ayaw nyang mameet ko family ni bf. Sabi dati basta magpaalam ako okay na pero pag nagpaalam, galit sobra. Na nagkakaiyakan na.
I "had" plans na mag-work sa US since yun din ang gusto ng parents simula una. Na dun na ko tumira at dun nalang ako. Pero now nagdadalawang isip ako since naniniwala talaga ako sa potential ng business ni bf and mga plans namin na negosyo. Tho aalis pa rin ako pero 2-3years lang siguro then uwi na dito for good... Yun pa ata isa sa kinakagalit ng mama ko. Kasi gusto nya ako maging kapalit ni papa na maging ofw, at maging earner para sa kanila.
Tinanong ko sya kung ayaw ba nya makita na masaya ako at may nagmamahal sakin... Ang sabi nya kahit kailan daw hindi sya haharap sa family ni bf at hindi sya pupunta if ever ikasal ako. Super dami pa nyang nasabi na masasakit kay bf then magagalit sya bakit di pumupunta. As per bf naman, di sya galit pero pupunta nalang daw sya kapag super stable na ng business nya and mapprove nya na magiging okay ako sa kanya. Nasabihan pa nga ako na sana daw di nalang nya ako tinutukan nung bata kung magiging ganito lang din ako. :)
Now my mom and I are not okay...
Nakakapagod. Nakakasakal.
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I was an A-lister student. From grade school ro college wala ako ibang ginawa kundi mag-aral, bahay-school literally. Graduated cum laude & topped the boards. Only had 1 relationship while studying, 2 when I was already working, and I didn't go out with friends that much. I did everything my parents wanted...
Now I'm 27(f). I now have a bf. Ang source of income nya is business (buy&sell ng cars, printing shop with multiple franchises) tho aminado ako hindi pa ganun kalakas kumita. He did not finish college, pero nag vocational. His parents are separated, pero civil at all goods lahat, and every Sunday nandun sila sa father side nila para bonding.
Hindi ko napakilala si bf sa bahay nung nanliligaw palang since kahit ako mismo naoverwhelm sa feelings ko. Sabi nga nila: when you know, you know. Pero a month into our relationship pinakilala ko sya kay mama and pumunta sya sa bahay.
Okay naman nung una, pero di ko alam anong nangyari bakit biglang naging ganun si mama. Nung nalaman ata history. Na sobrang ayaw na nya dun kay bf as in na umabot na sa point na ang sasakit ng nasabi nya. Ang reason nya is ayaw nya na maging bf ko ay galing sa broken family. Kahit na inexplain ko naman na okay silang lahat. Ayaw din ni mama na ma-meet ko anyone from his family.
Personally, nameet ko na family nya nang patago at masasabi ko na sobrang okay ng dynamics nila. Grabe. Nun ko narealize na wala talaga sa pagiging separated ng parents kung masaya ba sila or hindi as a family. Kasi parang sobrang chill nila lahat parang walang problema. At super bait nila lahat sakin.
Now the problem is, lagi ako binabawalan makipagkita kay bf. Bawal ako gumala after work, laging tinatanong kung nasan, sino kasama, pero pag sinabi ko na friends hindi maniniwala at magagalit sakin nang sobra.
Kaya natuto ako na wag nalang magsabi na si bf kasama. Di ko na sinasabi talaga. Kasi ultimo kakain lang kami or magkakape, matindi na ang galit sakin ni mama... kaya tumahimik na din ako sa bahay. Kahit anong sabihin ko ay mali. Meron pa, namatay lola ni bf and nagpapaalam ako kay mama. Ayaw. Wala daw sya pkialam kung patay or buhay man pupuntahan ko basta ayaw nyang mameet ko family ni bf. Sabi dati basta magpaalam ako okay na pero pag nagpaalam, galit sobra. Na nagkakaiyakan na.
I "had" plans na mag-work sa US since yun din ang gusto ng parents simula una. Na dun na ko tumira at dun nalang ako. Pero now nagdadalawang isip ako since naniniwala talaga ako sa potential ng business ni bf and mga plans namin na negosyo. Tho aalis pa rin ako pero 2-3years lang siguro then uwi na dito for good... Yun pa ata isa sa kinakagalit ng mama ko. Kasi gusto nya ako maging kapalit ni papa na maging ofw, at maging earner para sa kanila.
Tinanong ko sya kung ayaw ba nya makita na masaya ako at may nagmamahal sakin... Ang sabi nya kahit kailan daw hindi sya haharap sa family ni bf at hindi sya pupunta if ever ikasal ako. Super dami pa nyang nasabi na masasakit kay bf then magagalit sya bakit di pumupunta. As per bf naman, di sya galit pero pupunta nalang daw sya kapag super stable na ng business nya and mapprove nya na magiging okay ako sa kanya. Nasabihan pa nga ako na sana daw di nalang nya ako tinutukan nung bata kung magiging ganito lang din ako. :)
Now my mom and I are not okay...
Nakakapagod. Nakakasakal.
2024.05.15 01:04 EvilAngel03 Napaka walang kwenta ng Smart
Yung mga mag papa convert ng esim jan, just a reminder. Even though nag ooffer sila kung ano ano sa smart regarding esim, wag niyo papa convert yung number niyo. Sobrang hassle ng experience ko.
Sasabihin nila na saglit lang yun process and advantages ng esim pero ang totoo i dedeactivate nila yung physical sim niyo, then sobrang tagal before nila ma send sainyo yung esim sa email via QR code.
Almost 1 week na ako tumatawag sa hotline and nag chat sa Smart pero wala nakakapag resolve ng issue.
Ang pinaka masama pa dun, nag rerely ka sa number mo sa lahat ng transactions mo and communication pero di mo na magamit dahil na deactivate na nila.
Sobrang nagsisisi ako bakit ganito saten 😭 Di ba nila alam yung hassle na yun. Sobrang disappointed sa Smart talaga.
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Sasabihin nila na saglit lang yun process and advantages ng esim pero ang totoo i dedeactivate nila yung physical sim niyo, then sobrang tagal before nila ma send sainyo yung esim sa email via QR code.
Almost 1 week na ako tumatawag sa hotline and nag chat sa Smart pero wala nakakapag resolve ng issue.
Ang pinaka masama pa dun, nag rerely ka sa number mo sa lahat ng transactions mo and communication pero di mo na magamit dahil na deactivate na nila.
Sobrang nagsisisi ako bakit ganito saten 😭 Di ba nila alam yung hassle na yun. Sobrang disappointed sa Smart talaga.
2024.05.14 22:19 Outrageous-Seesaw838 I got RT in chem
My father isn’t supportive I didn’t tell him my result cuz I was scared mumma was the only one who knew about it due to panic I told one of relative that I passed didn’t knew it’ll spread out that quickly and my mother told my dad about my result that I got rt in chem and tbse he’s made my life a living hell I’m so fucking miserable rn my mother was there for me when he was shouting (Failure,nikambi,0,footpath wale gareeb bhi zyda le aaye isse, kaam kuch nhi krti ldkia ghar ke kaam bhi krti h saare ke saare and 90% se uppar bhi lati h and ye to failure nikli FAILURE) Then ata h papa ko relative ka call for wishes tbse mera downfall hota h ki isse kuch hoga nhi 10th me schl change krwa dia iska kyuki udhar sci nhi milli bola bhi tha commerce lelo tumhari bski nhi h science ye toh fail hogyi 11th me bhi isne ye hi kia tha sbme compartment le ayi maa ko haath jodne pdhe pass krwane keliye (normal meeting thi my mom didn’t do that she stood for me kyuki teacher was degrading me) and he went on and on shouting now relatives ke sth even neighbours know about it i was fucking depressed these 2 years after 10th result he fucked my mental health so bad Im thinking of sending my marks for reevaluation ( I got 8) still I didn’t think I’ll get this low I fucked up and ik it but do I deserve this torture? He’s making my life hell he’s shouting at me again and again I’ve been depressed 10th se abhi tk I feel like killing myself I feel like failure for wasting their money idk I really wanna clear jee ya something else to prove myself to him and to myself I didn’t even study for chem in do din hua hi nhi still I’m thinking JEE keliye I should do it and I’m fucking it up I don’t even use phone I’m just sitting blank half of the time ya phir I sleep out of nowhere idk if someone is going through the same abhi while writing he shouted at me ki bahar aao and marks btao and cuet ki timing btao 8 number kaise aye tumhare bski nhi thi to li kyu pcm This is what is happening in my life and I have no escape I’m going to commit suicide or ya phir I’ll stand up Pls take care of those who’re facing the same thing as me
KINDLY UPVOTE IT SO OTHERS CAN VENT OUT YA PHIR THERAPY MIL JAYE UNHE
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KINDLY UPVOTE IT SO OTHERS CAN VENT OUT YA PHIR THERAPY MIL JAYE UNHE