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4yrs LDR delulu lang ba ako or may future (medyo mahaba)
2024.05.14 05:37 Firm-Character-677 4yrs LDR delulu lang ba ako or may future (medyo mahaba)
Hi I just wanna share my LDR story cuz I can't really judge clearly right now without being biased. I'm already attached to him given na naka abot na kami ng 4years and my mind seems to justify him. We broke up last May 5 lang.
Anyways, I'm 23F, filipino and he's 23M, indian.
Ps. Medyo mahaba hahaha
So, we met on a MMORPG last summer of 2020. We started talking on DC and I usually don't get interested to ppl I met online but his attack was kinda different. He asked about my GPA and I was like wow concern sa grado baka matino. Ganern. Online classes are still on going that time so we usually talk more at night. And it wasn't just some small talks but quality talks. About life ganern, interests and views on different things. We don't usually agree but we both talk so deeply about it kaya nagkasundo.
Fast forward, ako talaga ang unang naattached. And I already know that time (which was only months after we first talked) na wala kaming patutunguhan. He wasn't that attached to the point of considering me on his future. But still, I didn't mind. Wala pa din naman akong plano sumabak sa relationship irl. NBSB pero may mga manliligaw. So ayun, nagpatuloy sa kalandian habang nanonotice ko na na medyo may katotohanan na sa mga "I love you" nya. We've been so wholesome na rin. Been into different kind of games like Dragon Raja, 8ball, COC, at halos lahat na yata ng games sa play store na subukan na. Hindi naman ako gamer tbh ML lang talaga yung game na nilalaro ko tyaka yung MMORPG na yun. But anyways to make the story short, sa 4 years na yun marami na ring away. Let's say every year may pinag aawayan talaga. He was talking to girls on DC even tho it wasn't that malicious but still. We started there too😆 iyan yung issue sa let's say 2-3 yrs ig. Pero di naman sobrang dami mga like 2 months lng out of 12. Then last year, he greeted his ex of 2yrs a happy birthday. Tbh nung unang year wala lang sa akin. On our 2nd year when I found out, I told him to stop cuz I didn't like it. Last year was kinda diff cuz he greeted her a belated birthday mga atiiih. Belated hahahaha the care to greet even though it was alrdy late di ba. So nag away ulit. Ilang beses na rin sya nag ask ng chances sa 4yrs na Yan. Like super sincere to the point na hindi ka niya tatantanan ng message mapa DC, tele, WhatsApp or insta. Ilang beses na rin sya umiyak dahil sa situation namin like sa LDR, to say sorry, dahil sa different beliefs and all. I told him that we should wait until 26 to decide if pwede na iuwi sa kasalan hahaha ganun kalala ang love and patience ko mga bhiee. He agreed too cuz by that time, we will be mature enough to decide considering na di pa sya secured sa job that time. And to conclude kasi napahaba na, for me, our love was real and very wholesome I might not show it through this forum but yeah, it was. But the thing is, last 1st week of May I kinda tested him saying that, "this is probably the lowest point of my life" cuz currently we're having some financial problem cuz of hospitalization and he knew it. But guess what, he ignored that msg. I told him goodnight right after kasi mukhang Wala talaga syang plano mag reply and guess what, he replied. "Sorry Im kinda busy, you can sleep tho" okay I understand. Busy sya. But girl diba? Am I wrong tho? Did I just assume stuffs? Pero I decided to end it right after. I deleted my msged abt that lowest point shi and he innocently asked if I want to explain why I was breaking up with him. And I told him no need. Cuz bakit pa? I've had my answer. And si kuya sabi niya, I kinda know why and it's rlly hard that I can't do anything about it. Pero why not console me? Pero mali ba ako? I need your wisdom masyado nang biased utak ko. So ayun wala na talaga. Kala ko mabilis lang mag move on since online lang pero iba rin talaga pag naattached na haha. Was I wrong tho or did I saved myself. Anyways, graduation na nxt year so focus nlang muna sa studies ngayon.
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Anyways, I'm 23F, filipino and he's 23M, indian.
Ps. Medyo mahaba hahaha
So, we met on a MMORPG last summer of 2020. We started talking on DC and I usually don't get interested to ppl I met online but his attack was kinda different. He asked about my GPA and I was like wow concern sa grado baka matino. Ganern. Online classes are still on going that time so we usually talk more at night. And it wasn't just some small talks but quality talks. About life ganern, interests and views on different things. We don't usually agree but we both talk so deeply about it kaya nagkasundo.
Fast forward, ako talaga ang unang naattached. And I already know that time (which was only months after we first talked) na wala kaming patutunguhan. He wasn't that attached to the point of considering me on his future. But still, I didn't mind. Wala pa din naman akong plano sumabak sa relationship irl. NBSB pero may mga manliligaw. So ayun, nagpatuloy sa kalandian habang nanonotice ko na na medyo may katotohanan na sa mga "I love you" nya. We've been so wholesome na rin. Been into different kind of games like Dragon Raja, 8ball, COC, at halos lahat na yata ng games sa play store na subukan na. Hindi naman ako gamer tbh ML lang talaga yung game na nilalaro ko tyaka yung MMORPG na yun. But anyways to make the story short, sa 4 years na yun marami na ring away. Let's say every year may pinag aawayan talaga. He was talking to girls on DC even tho it wasn't that malicious but still. We started there too😆 iyan yung issue sa let's say 2-3 yrs ig. Pero di naman sobrang dami mga like 2 months lng out of 12. Then last year, he greeted his ex of 2yrs a happy birthday. Tbh nung unang year wala lang sa akin. On our 2nd year when I found out, I told him to stop cuz I didn't like it. Last year was kinda diff cuz he greeted her a belated birthday mga atiiih. Belated hahahaha the care to greet even though it was alrdy late di ba. So nag away ulit. Ilang beses na rin sya nag ask ng chances sa 4yrs na Yan. Like super sincere to the point na hindi ka niya tatantanan ng message mapa DC, tele, WhatsApp or insta. Ilang beses na rin sya umiyak dahil sa situation namin like sa LDR, to say sorry, dahil sa different beliefs and all. I told him that we should wait until 26 to decide if pwede na iuwi sa kasalan hahaha ganun kalala ang love and patience ko mga bhiee. He agreed too cuz by that time, we will be mature enough to decide considering na di pa sya secured sa job that time. And to conclude kasi napahaba na, for me, our love was real and very wholesome I might not show it through this forum but yeah, it was. But the thing is, last 1st week of May I kinda tested him saying that, "this is probably the lowest point of my life" cuz currently we're having some financial problem cuz of hospitalization and he knew it. But guess what, he ignored that msg. I told him goodnight right after kasi mukhang Wala talaga syang plano mag reply and guess what, he replied. "Sorry Im kinda busy, you can sleep tho" okay I understand. Busy sya. But girl diba? Am I wrong tho? Did I just assume stuffs? Pero I decided to end it right after. I deleted my msged abt that lowest point shi and he innocently asked if I want to explain why I was breaking up with him. And I told him no need. Cuz bakit pa? I've had my answer. And si kuya sabi niya, I kinda know why and it's rlly hard that I can't do anything about it. Pero why not console me? Pero mali ba ako? I need your wisdom masyado nang biased utak ko. So ayun wala na talaga. Kala ko mabilis lang mag move on since online lang pero iba rin talaga pag naattached na haha. Was I wrong tho or did I saved myself. Anyways, graduation na nxt year so focus nlang muna sa studies ngayon.
2024.05.14 05:23 Existing-Fruit-3475 [HIRE ME] Food Addiction, Emotional-eating, and Binge-eating Recovery ; Fitness Partner
Hi! I am a newbie coach. Currently building my portfolio of success stories from clients.
If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
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If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
2024.05.14 05:22 Existing-Fruit-3475 [HIRE ME] Food Addiction, Emotional-eating, and Binge-eating Recovery ; Fitness Partner
Hi! I am a newbie coach. Currently building my portfolio of success stories from clients.
If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
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If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
2024.05.14 05:21 Existing-Fruit-3475 [HIRE ME] Food Addiction, Emotional-eating, and Binge-eating Recovery ; Fitness Partner
Hi! I am a newbie coach. Currently building my portfolio of success stories from clients.
If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
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If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
2024.05.14 05:21 Existing-Fruit-3475 [HIRE ME] Food Addiction, Emotional-eating, and Binge-eating Recovery ; Fitness Partner
Hi! I am a newbie coach. Currently building my portfolio of success stories from clients.
If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
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If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
2024.05.14 05:19 Existing-Fruit-3475 [HIRE ME] Food Addiction and Binge-eating Recovery ; Fitness Partner
Hi! I am a newbie coach. Currently building my portfolio of success stories from clients.
If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
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If you're interested, I'll be happy and excited to work with you.
The goal of the program is to help you overcome your food addiction and binge-eating. Be craving free. Not be a victim and slave to your cravings and leaving you sedated and lethargic from binge-eating. Ending up demotived.
We also aim for good energy so you actually get to live the life you want to live and pursue your passion.
Yung totoong rason naman bakit tayo malakas kumain dahil sa cravings natin. Kapag nawala na cravings natin, hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self-control kasi wala ka ng kailangan labanan. Effortless na ang weightloss kasi ikaw na mismo aayaw sa dating unhealthy habits mo. Gumawa kana ng bagong ikaw.
As a former fat guy that shared the same struggles with their relationship with food, I understand how hard it is sticking to a diet. But narealize ko kaya karamihan satin nag fefail or pumayat na dati tapos na-gain ulit lahat ng pinayat at mas tumaba ba, kasi hindi talaga natin na address yung root cause kung bakit tayo tumaba. A part of the reason is yung burn out ng pag pigil ng cravings. Kahit may cheat meal/day tayo sa diet, wala tyong ibang iniisip kundi yung oras na mkakain ulit natin yung favorite food natin. Ang naging problem ko din dati, after ko kumain ng cheat meal, minsan magiging cheat day, tapos cheat week. Hanggang sa tuluyan nakong hindi naka balik alindog. Balik nanaman sa dati. Pag natikman ko na yung paborito kong pagkain, hindi ko na kayang huminto.
The goal of the program is not to manage cravings, but remove cravings. Hindi mo kailangan ng discipline at self control kung ikaw na mismo aayaw sa mga guilty pleasures na pagkain.
"Food Freedom and Fitness" program
What can you expect in the program/ebook: 1) What is food addiction 2) How to overcome food addiction 3) My journey, struggles, and how I overcame my food addiction 4) Introduction to Running as a Hobby and How to Start 5) Training Schedule for Body Sculpting 6) Daily Journaling 7) Accountability Tracking
In this program, all of the knowledge I feel necessary is in here. Apart from the program, you get access to a support system to track your progress and accountability
Introductory Price : Php 500 with 4-week support/partner. You can message me 24/7 if you're having troubles with your cravings. Think of me as more of a sponsor and guide through your food freedom journey. And someone you can confide to in your daily struggles.
What to do after the 4 week period? Rinse and repeat the entire program. There are unlimited potential variety inside the program on how your day will be like.
Feel free to send me a DM if you are interested.
2024.05.14 05:17 No_Menu_8750 What I want
Soooo after lots of thinking and going down one road and up another and repeat like 20times. I have decided want to try having an open marriage. Are you ready cuz this is a looooong story and well you were warned.
So once upon a time….. just kidding, about two years ago now I (f 38) found out my husband (maa was 40) was having an affair with a co-worker. After the confrontation and pain and digestion of feelings I decided I wanted to give it another go. I still to this day love my husband and think he is truly my soulmate. We have been togethemarried a total of 9yrs. Have children from previous relationships but not any in common. Although if you counts our fur babies we have 3 in common.
We have been in couples therapy since about a month after it happened. While that has been amazing I have also been attending my own personal counselor to make sure I don’t have anything I am carrying from childhood into my marriage. He on the other hand has stated that he knows exactly how to communicate what he needs to and express how he feels. It always feels like I’m the one that “has” to work on her shit for “our” marriage to work.
With all that being said, about almost a year ago I noticed our sex life go in decline. He has became somewhat reliable in me initiating sex and he just goes with it. It’s has become very far in between the times he does and while it is amazing I just want more. I know with time marriages go through it, however even during the time he was having the affair and after we had a good fucking sex life.
Now two years after the fact and having me mention it multiple times all I have received from him and our counselor is:
HIM- Maybe I just don’t satisfy you and you need someone or something else.
MARRIAGE COUNSELOR- His testosterone was down so let’s give it time to get it up again with his shots( which he already takes)
Now I’m not an innocent victim here. While I don’t appreciate an affair I would have been less hurt with a one night stand. No strings attached. No flirty texts while we were in bed. I recently went on a solo trip and might have had one myself. It showed me that while I do love him so fucking much I didn’t feel bad and well got a good sex night.
Now because of others peoples circumstances and shit having an open marriage came up. I asked him if he would be open to it. To what he responded, “No, I don’t want anyone else but you”. I can’t help but feel like that was such a hypocritical respond. He had a full on affair was actually planning on meeting up with her the same week I found out. So had I not found out he was going to meet up with her yet again.
I love him but I want to have a fucking phase and be fucked the way I should be. There’s nothing exciting about our sex life anymore and it’s not for lack of imagination. I have books for us to get ideas and spark up the light but he doesn’t care.
Now the more I think about it do feel like I want an open marriage. I don’t want a polyamorous marriage. I just want to be fucked the way I want to once in a while and it seems to not phase him at all.
What are y’all’s thoughts?!
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So once upon a time….. just kidding, about two years ago now I (f 38) found out my husband (maa was 40) was having an affair with a co-worker. After the confrontation and pain and digestion of feelings I decided I wanted to give it another go. I still to this day love my husband and think he is truly my soulmate. We have been togethemarried a total of 9yrs. Have children from previous relationships but not any in common. Although if you counts our fur babies we have 3 in common.
We have been in couples therapy since about a month after it happened. While that has been amazing I have also been attending my own personal counselor to make sure I don’t have anything I am carrying from childhood into my marriage. He on the other hand has stated that he knows exactly how to communicate what he needs to and express how he feels. It always feels like I’m the one that “has” to work on her shit for “our” marriage to work.
With all that being said, about almost a year ago I noticed our sex life go in decline. He has became somewhat reliable in me initiating sex and he just goes with it. It’s has become very far in between the times he does and while it is amazing I just want more. I know with time marriages go through it, however even during the time he was having the affair and after we had a good fucking sex life.
Now two years after the fact and having me mention it multiple times all I have received from him and our counselor is:
HIM- Maybe I just don’t satisfy you and you need someone or something else.
MARRIAGE COUNSELOR- His testosterone was down so let’s give it time to get it up again with his shots( which he already takes)
Now I’m not an innocent victim here. While I don’t appreciate an affair I would have been less hurt with a one night stand. No strings attached. No flirty texts while we were in bed. I recently went on a solo trip and might have had one myself. It showed me that while I do love him so fucking much I didn’t feel bad and well got a good sex night.
Now because of others peoples circumstances and shit having an open marriage came up. I asked him if he would be open to it. To what he responded, “No, I don’t want anyone else but you”. I can’t help but feel like that was such a hypocritical respond. He had a full on affair was actually planning on meeting up with her the same week I found out. So had I not found out he was going to meet up with her yet again.
I love him but I want to have a fucking phase and be fucked the way I should be. There’s nothing exciting about our sex life anymore and it’s not for lack of imagination. I have books for us to get ideas and spark up the light but he doesn’t care.
Now the more I think about it do feel like I want an open marriage. I don’t want a polyamorous marriage. I just want to be fucked the way I want to once in a while and it seems to not phase him at all.
What are y’all’s thoughts?!
2024.05.14 04:19 laufeypink Why is my mother treating me like this?
Hi po, I just wanna share/rant my experience with me and my mom. Long short story my mom hates me and she likes my kuya. Alam ko na yun since bata pa and tanggap ko. My parents are separated nung bata pa ako. Lumaki ako with my grandparents since yung mom ko is an OFW, while yung father ko walang pake samin namay pake? lol. Pinatigil ako ng mama ko this sec sem (I’m an arki student) kase ginastos ko yung pera for tuition fee (1K) the reason why ginastos ko bcs hindi ako pinadalhan ng father ko for my school materials which is hindi naman bago. And I already told my mom na hindi nanaman mag bibigay ng pera si papa kase wala syang pera and need niya bumili for his maintenance. But ayaw niya ako bigyan kase naka budget na lahat. But I need materials for my plates and materials for others subs so no choice ako. Nung nalaman niya na kulang ng 1k yung pang tuition fee ko kase ng sumbong yung kuya ko. They decided na mag stop ako. I was so devastated that time, and they only send me 500pesos for 4days for my allowance. Nag reklamo ako kase hindi kaya ng 500 for 4days. And I need a laptop nung midterm to final exam kase mag ddigital na kami but hindi nila ako binigayn. My mom told me na maghanap ka nang paraan problema mo na yan. So I asked help for my friends and blockmates. Kaso di talaga kaya ng time kase mahina yung wifi sa campus and they also need it. Well ofc bagsak ako sa subject na yun kase hindi ako nakakapasa ng project. Hiyang hiya ako kase wala akong laptop during our exams kase photoshop yung exam namin nung midterm and prelim. Nang matapos na yung semester umuwi nako samin dala2 lahat ng gamit ko and nalaman ko na binilhan pala ni mama si kuya ng brand new laptop for next sem. And until now hindi niya ako binibigyan ng allowance for my needs. (like deodorant, foods, or kahit skincare man lang) lahat ng attention niya na kay kuya. And ang dami niyang order sa online na dumadating sa bahay puro mga branded clothes and bag. Sinabihan na siya ng tita ko na dapat yung mga binibili mo na mga gamit dapat kay anak mo yan.
P.S. sorry for the grammar and typo na iiyak kase ako while typing this and wala pakong tulog. Thank you for reading.
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P.S. sorry for the grammar and typo na iiyak kase ako while typing this and wala pakong tulog. Thank you for reading.
2024.05.14 04:18 mybstoleranceislow No child support for 15yrs, now he's in UK living his life
Hi guys! I was inspired by the posts and the legit advices I read here, so I thought I should also share my story.
I got pregnant at 17 (now I'm 34) and my ex was 19 that time. I was about to turn 18 when I told my family and kahit almost prepared na lahat for my 18th bday, I chose to not have a big party and asked mom if I can just use the money for my birth. We were both students by then, he took Accountancy and I took Tourism. Since the term just started and I just enrolled, mom asked me to just finish the term. Yet, ex needs to find work ASAP because that's the right thing to do.
Fast forward, as an 18 yo pregnant teenager, of course it was high risk. Got admitted to a private hospital and mom took care of all the bills. Ex's salary is only enough to cover for my daily needs (cravings, vits, baby things, etc). Don't get me wrong, I am not the maluho at maselan type of preggy. He continued with work and I took care of my baby.
Fast fast forward. I live in QC and he's from Pque. It's literally north to south travel and he once asked if we can schedule staying home for a week then south (though he works in Q.Ave) palit palit kumbaga. His father gave him a car though, so I agreed kasi it's not much of a hassle for the baby naman since may car. That was the setup. Maybe he's just homesick and wants to be with his family kahit sya mahirapan everyday papasok. The first few weeks went fine until one day, I found out he's cheating. Mind you, not only 1 sidechick, but 3.
This was way back keypad phone days and I was bothered by the series of text msgs na naririnig ko sa phone nya. No passcodes, everything manual. He's taking a bath then, and I felt the urge na pakialaman yung phone. I don't normally do that, but it felt like GO GIRL YOU GOTTA CHECK IT TODAY. Then lo and behold, 1 girl was telling him she cooked their lunch. The other one was asking, sabay ba sila papasok. The other one is nagtatampo kasi di narereplyan. I felt betrayed of course, but remained calm (i'm proud cos when this happened I am under PPD). It wasn't easy. I just told him, "Bilisan mo na maligo at hinihintay ka ng 3 babae mo!", then never said anything about it.
I need to have a job so I can break up with him. I have my family to help me start again and I am positive I don't need his help. So I plotted the plan, that's to apply somewhere in Makati. Because of the cold shoulder, he then finally realized what I'm doing and became aggressive. For some reason, parang gusto nya ibalik ang dati, but for me it's a never. I believe in HE DID IT ONCE, HE'LL DO IT AGAIN type. I managed to get a job and escaped from the hell hole.
This is getting longer so here are the highlights: 1. When mom asked to meet his mom about the pregnancy, Tita said "So anong gagawin natin dyan?, which made my mom angry. She's insinuating that we should get the baby aborted. She even said "Sinira mo naman buhay ng anak ko.", like he's the girl in our relationship and I don't have a future waiting. Hence, my mom don't like his family.
In all honesty, I want to see my ex again. I wanted to show him where I'm at, kung pano ko pinalaki mga anak ko ng wala sya, how beautiful and well mannered they are. And of course, I want to see how they will react. I am now working at a BPO for 6yrs, also owns a clothing business. Di pa rin ako mayaman, but I managed to achieve everything over the yrs as a single mom. Ito na yung sinabihan nya dati na DI MO MABUBUHAY MGA ANAK MO. I wanna shove this to his face.
I did my research too, found out he's in UK. Living a life he don't deserve. He abandoned my kids. He ignored me once when I asked help cos my bunso had dengue. Well, here's where I need the advice.
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I got pregnant at 17 (now I'm 34) and my ex was 19 that time. I was about to turn 18 when I told my family and kahit almost prepared na lahat for my 18th bday, I chose to not have a big party and asked mom if I can just use the money for my birth. We were both students by then, he took Accountancy and I took Tourism. Since the term just started and I just enrolled, mom asked me to just finish the term. Yet, ex needs to find work ASAP because that's the right thing to do.
Fast forward, as an 18 yo pregnant teenager, of course it was high risk. Got admitted to a private hospital and mom took care of all the bills. Ex's salary is only enough to cover for my daily needs (cravings, vits, baby things, etc). Don't get me wrong, I am not the maluho at maselan type of preggy. He continued with work and I took care of my baby.
Fast fast forward. I live in QC and he's from Pque. It's literally north to south travel and he once asked if we can schedule staying home for a week then south (though he works in Q.Ave) palit palit kumbaga. His father gave him a car though, so I agreed kasi it's not much of a hassle for the baby naman since may car. That was the setup. Maybe he's just homesick and wants to be with his family kahit sya mahirapan everyday papasok. The first few weeks went fine until one day, I found out he's cheating. Mind you, not only 1 sidechick, but 3.
This was way back keypad phone days and I was bothered by the series of text msgs na naririnig ko sa phone nya. No passcodes, everything manual. He's taking a bath then, and I felt the urge na pakialaman yung phone. I don't normally do that, but it felt like GO GIRL YOU GOTTA CHECK IT TODAY. Then lo and behold, 1 girl was telling him she cooked their lunch. The other one was asking, sabay ba sila papasok. The other one is nagtatampo kasi di narereplyan. I felt betrayed of course, but remained calm (i'm proud cos when this happened I am under PPD). It wasn't easy. I just told him, "Bilisan mo na maligo at hinihintay ka ng 3 babae mo!", then never said anything about it.
I need to have a job so I can break up with him. I have my family to help me start again and I am positive I don't need his help. So I plotted the plan, that's to apply somewhere in Makati. Because of the cold shoulder, he then finally realized what I'm doing and became aggressive. For some reason, parang gusto nya ibalik ang dati, but for me it's a never. I believe in HE DID IT ONCE, HE'LL DO IT AGAIN type. I managed to get a job and escaped from the hell hole.
This is getting longer so here are the highlights: 1. When mom asked to meet his mom about the pregnancy, Tita said "So anong gagawin natin dyan?, which made my mom angry. She's insinuating that we should get the baby aborted. She even said "Sinira mo naman buhay ng anak ko.", like he's the girl in our relationship and I don't have a future waiting. Hence, my mom don't like his family.
- I was battered when he found out I had a bf at work (technically we broke up from the day he cheated). I had to have sx with him para lang makaalis ng bahay every day. With that, I got pregnant with my 2nd child. This was technically, RPE, but I don't want to see it that way cos my baby was a blessing.
- When we separated, he took my eldest and told me "BUHAYIN MO MAG ISA ANAK MO, AKIN TONG ISA". This means maghahati kami sa mga bata at wala ng pakialamanan. He even shoved to my face na di ko kaya bumuhay ng bata dahil wala ako matinong work.
- I borrowed my eldest on my bday and never talked to them again. Why? Go, sue me. I am the mom. From then on, I took care of everything.
In all honesty, I want to see my ex again. I wanted to show him where I'm at, kung pano ko pinalaki mga anak ko ng wala sya, how beautiful and well mannered they are. And of course, I want to see how they will react. I am now working at a BPO for 6yrs, also owns a clothing business. Di pa rin ako mayaman, but I managed to achieve everything over the yrs as a single mom. Ito na yung sinabihan nya dati na DI MO MABUBUHAY MGA ANAK MO. I wanna shove this to his face.
I did my research too, found out he's in UK. Living a life he don't deserve. He abandoned my kids. He ignored me once when I asked help cos my bunso had dengue. Well, here's where I need the advice.
- Should I keep silent and let things be? Pigilan yung bunso ko na hagilapin sya?
- Do something and file a case for child support at kunin kung ano ang dapat matagal ng nabigay sa mga bata?
2024.05.14 04:16 mybstoleranceislow No child support for 15yrs, now he's in UK living his life
Hi guys! I was inspired by the posts and the legit advices I read here, so I thought I should also share my story.
I got pregnant at 17 (now I'm 34) and my ex was 19 that time. I was about to turn 18 when I told my family and kahit almost prepared na lahat for my 18th bday, I chose to not have a big party and asked mom if I can just use the money for my birth. We were both students by then, he took Accountancy and I took Tourism. Since the term just started and I just enrolled, mom asked me to just finish the term. Yet, ex needs to find work ASAP because that's the right thing to do.
Fast forward, as an 18 yo pregnant teenager, of course it was high risk. Got admitted to a private hospital and mom took care of all the bills. Ex's salary is only enough to cover for my daily needs (cravings, vits, baby things, etc). Don't get me wrong, I am not the maluho at maselan type of preggy. He continued with work and I took care of my baby.
Fast fast forward. I live in QC and he's from Pque. It's literally north to south travel and he once asked if we can schedule staying home for a week then south (though he works in Q.Ave) palit palit kumbaga. His father gave him a car though, so I agreed kasi it's not much of a hassle for the baby naman since may car. That was the setup. Maybe he's just homesick and wants to be with his family kahit sya mahirapan everyday papasok. The first few weeks went fine until one day, I found out he's cheating. Mind you, not only 1 sidechick, but 3.
This was way back keypad phone days and I was bothered by the series of text msgs na naririnig ko sa phone nya. No passcodes, everything manual. He's taking a bath then, and I felt the urge na pakialaman yung phone. I don't normally do that, but it felt like GO GIRL YOU GOTTA CHECK IT TODAY. Then lo and behold, 1 girl was telling him she cooked their lunch. The other one was asking, sabay ba sila papasok. The other one is nagtatampo kasi di narereplyan. I felt betrayed of course, but remained calm (i'm proud cos when this happened I am under PPD). It wasn't easy. I just told him, "Bilisan mo na maligo at hinihintay ka ng 3 babae mo!", then never said anything about it.
I need to have a job so I can break up with him. I have my family to help me start again and I am positive I don't need his help. So I plotted the plan, that's to apply somewhere in Makati. Because of the cold shoulder, he then finally realized what I'm doing and became aggressive. For some reason, parang gusto nya ibalik ang dati, but for me it's a never. I believe in HE DID IT ONCE, HE'LL DO IT AGAIN type. I managed to get a job and escaped from the hell hole.
This is getting longer so here are the highlights: 1. When mom asked to meet his mom about the pregnancy, Tita said "So anong gagawin natin dyan?, which made my mom angry. She's insinuating that we should get the baby aborted. She even said "Sinira mo naman buhay ng anak ko.", like he's the girl in our relationship and I don't have a future waiting. Hence, my mom don't like his family.
In all honesty, I want to see my ex again. I wanted to show him where I'm at, kung pano ko pinalaki mga anak ko ng wala sya, how beautiful and well mannered they are. And of course, I want to see how they will react. I am now working at a BPO for 6yrs, also owns a clothing business. Di pa rin ako mayaman, but I managed to achieve everything over the yrs as a single mom. Ito na yung sinabihan nya dati na DI MO MABUBUHAY MGA ANAK MO. I wanna shove this to his face.
I did my research too, found out he's in UK. Living a life he don't deserve. He abandoned my kids. He ignored me once when I asked help cos my bunso had dengue. Well, here's where I need the advice.
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I got pregnant at 17 (now I'm 34) and my ex was 19 that time. I was about to turn 18 when I told my family and kahit almost prepared na lahat for my 18th bday, I chose to not have a big party and asked mom if I can just use the money for my birth. We were both students by then, he took Accountancy and I took Tourism. Since the term just started and I just enrolled, mom asked me to just finish the term. Yet, ex needs to find work ASAP because that's the right thing to do.
Fast forward, as an 18 yo pregnant teenager, of course it was high risk. Got admitted to a private hospital and mom took care of all the bills. Ex's salary is only enough to cover for my daily needs (cravings, vits, baby things, etc). Don't get me wrong, I am not the maluho at maselan type of preggy. He continued with work and I took care of my baby.
Fast fast forward. I live in QC and he's from Pque. It's literally north to south travel and he once asked if we can schedule staying home for a week then south (though he works in Q.Ave) palit palit kumbaga. His father gave him a car though, so I agreed kasi it's not much of a hassle for the baby naman since may car. That was the setup. Maybe he's just homesick and wants to be with his family kahit sya mahirapan everyday papasok. The first few weeks went fine until one day, I found out he's cheating. Mind you, not only 1 sidechick, but 3.
This was way back keypad phone days and I was bothered by the series of text msgs na naririnig ko sa phone nya. No passcodes, everything manual. He's taking a bath then, and I felt the urge na pakialaman yung phone. I don't normally do that, but it felt like GO GIRL YOU GOTTA CHECK IT TODAY. Then lo and behold, 1 girl was telling him she cooked their lunch. The other one was asking, sabay ba sila papasok. The other one is nagtatampo kasi di narereplyan. I felt betrayed of course, but remained calm (i'm proud cos when this happened I am under PPD). It wasn't easy. I just told him, "Bilisan mo na maligo at hinihintay ka ng 3 babae mo!", then never said anything about it.
I need to have a job so I can break up with him. I have my family to help me start again and I am positive I don't need his help. So I plotted the plan, that's to apply somewhere in Makati. Because of the cold shoulder, he then finally realized what I'm doing and became aggressive. For some reason, parang gusto nya ibalik ang dati, but for me it's a never. I believe in HE DID IT ONCE, HE'LL DO IT AGAIN type. I managed to get a job and escaped from the hell hole.
This is getting longer so here are the highlights: 1. When mom asked to meet his mom about the pregnancy, Tita said "So anong gagawin natin dyan?, which made my mom angry. She's insinuating that we should get the baby aborted. She even said "Sinira mo naman buhay ng anak ko.", like he's the girl in our relationship and I don't have a future waiting. Hence, my mom don't like his family.
- I was battered when he found out I had a bf at work (technically we broke up from the day he cheated). I had to have sx with him para lang makaalis ng bahay every day. With that, I got pregnant with my 2nd child. This was technically, RPE, but I don't want to see it that way cos my baby was a blessing.
- When we separated, he took my eldest and told me "BUHAYIN MO MAG ISA ANAK MO, AKIN TONG ISA". This means maghahati kami sa mga bata at wala ng pakialamanan. He even shoved to my face na di ko kaya bumuhay ng bata dahil wala ako matinong work.
- I borrowed my eldest on my bday and never talked to them again. Why? Go, sue me. I am the mom. From then on, I took care of everything.
In all honesty, I want to see my ex again. I wanted to show him where I'm at, kung pano ko pinalaki mga anak ko ng wala sya, how beautiful and well mannered they are. And of course, I want to see how they will react. I am now working at a BPO for 6yrs, also owns a clothing business. Di pa rin ako mayaman, but I managed to achieve everything over the yrs as a single mom. Ito na yung sinabihan nya dati na DI MO MABUBUHAY MGA ANAK MO. I wanna shove this to his face.
I did my research too, found out he's in UK. Living a life he don't deserve. He abandoned my kids. He ignored me once when I asked help cos my bunso had dengue. Well, here's where I need the advice.
- Should I keep silent and let things be? Pigilan yung bunso ko na hagilapin sya?
- Do something and file a case for child support at kunin kung ano ang dapat matagal ng nabigay sa mga bata?
2024.05.14 02:58 Adventurous-Hobbyist ABYG for lashing out on and cutting ties off my father?
Back story: i (early 30s F) used to be my father’s (mid-50s M) favorite daughter until i’m not. On going divorce processing sila ng mother ko and may ka LDR si papa sa ibang bansa na bagong relationship lang din. Safe to say nasa honeymoon stage sila. Side note: for some while na, me and my other adult sibs have diminished our respect sakanya for multiple reasons.
I have kids of my own and may kapatid akong around the same age lang ng eldest kong anak. So, pag may kailangan for school, groceries and others dinadamay ko na. I earn more naman kasi compared sa ‘rents ko so i don’t really mind. Since separated na parents namin, i and my kids live with my mom’s fam with my youngest kapatid. So lahat ng kailangan ng mga bata andito na samin. And no, walang child support binibigay tatay ko since wala din siyang source of stable income. Me and my two grown sibs no longer depend on our father’s assistance. Ang sabi na lang namin kahit wag na kami, yung bunso na lang. now, his sole role or ambag na lang is maghahatid in the morning sa mga bata to school. My youngest kapatid and my kids. Hindi niya pa magampanan yang simple role na yan kesyo wala daw gas, sira daw sasakyan and kung ano pa. Mind you, may dalawa siyang sasakyan - isa galing sa kapatid niya, isa galing sa gf niya. Both overused cars so nagkaka problema din. Of all the reasons na di siya makakasundo and hatid sa mga bata is because he wakes up late, ending either pinapasolo namin mga bata papuntang school or hinahatid ko. Btw, i work graveshift.
Eto na ang exciting part: what’s worse than him waking up late is magdamag silang magka video call ng ldr gf niya. Literally magdamag kahit tulog sila. So i cant call him via messenger, dapat phone call. Eh di naman ako nagloload kasi wherever i go, i have wifi. So this morning, after work ko since naprepare naman na ni mama bfast ng anak ko for school, and she said na nagusap na sila ni papa na magsusundo si papa umidlip na muna ako. Yung kapatid ko di makakapasok since may sinat daw.
I get off work at 5am. Tapos around 7am nakita ko di pa nasusundo anak ko. Tried calling my father via messenger kahit alam kong di uubra, desperately, nakiusap ako sa mga friends kong online na maki call pero wala din pantawag sa phone. At this point bwisit na bwisit na ako kasi naalimpungatan, puyat, and gigil na ako. Also, before today, couple of times ko na nabanggit sakanya na ang hirap niya contactin pag uumaga para gisingin siya para magsundo. The most recent one was not even a week ago. I guess he took it lightly kaya magdamag pa rin silang nakababad mag vc.
Balik tayo sa ganap this morning. When he eventually woke up, tinanong niya ako kung nasa bahay pa daw mga bata. Obvs yes. And dito na ako naglash out. Sabi ko sa chat sakanya yet again, ang hirap niya contactin. Nakikisuyo pa ako sa iba para lang matawagan siya. And napamura ako with matching exclamation points. Nagmura ako, di ko siya minura. There’s a difference. So syempre, bilang naalimpungatan din siya, natrigger siya dun sa sinabi ko, nagalit din siya. Ofc. Nasabi ko na lang na wag na siya magsundo, salamt na lang in a furious way.
So ayun, ang ending ako na naghatid sa anak ko sa school and while walking papuntang sakayan ng jeep, eto na siya, pinapalipad na sasakyan. Galit niyang sinabi sakin na siya na daw maghahatid. Nung nakita niyang wala yung kapatid ko, dumeretcho siya sa bahay kasi di niya alam na may sinat so di niya alam na di rin papasok. Few mins later, nadaanan niya ulet kami pabalik, siya na daw maghahatid. Sabi ko, no. Not anymore. Cut off na siya. And he drove away. I blocked him na. I feel so g4g() while composing this and i guess AYG. Pero sino ba yung mas g4g()? Ako o yung tatay ko? Hahahaha
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I have kids of my own and may kapatid akong around the same age lang ng eldest kong anak. So, pag may kailangan for school, groceries and others dinadamay ko na. I earn more naman kasi compared sa ‘rents ko so i don’t really mind. Since separated na parents namin, i and my kids live with my mom’s fam with my youngest kapatid. So lahat ng kailangan ng mga bata andito na samin. And no, walang child support binibigay tatay ko since wala din siyang source of stable income. Me and my two grown sibs no longer depend on our father’s assistance. Ang sabi na lang namin kahit wag na kami, yung bunso na lang. now, his sole role or ambag na lang is maghahatid in the morning sa mga bata to school. My youngest kapatid and my kids. Hindi niya pa magampanan yang simple role na yan kesyo wala daw gas, sira daw sasakyan and kung ano pa. Mind you, may dalawa siyang sasakyan - isa galing sa kapatid niya, isa galing sa gf niya. Both overused cars so nagkaka problema din. Of all the reasons na di siya makakasundo and hatid sa mga bata is because he wakes up late, ending either pinapasolo namin mga bata papuntang school or hinahatid ko. Btw, i work graveshift.
Eto na ang exciting part: what’s worse than him waking up late is magdamag silang magka video call ng ldr gf niya. Literally magdamag kahit tulog sila. So i cant call him via messenger, dapat phone call. Eh di naman ako nagloload kasi wherever i go, i have wifi. So this morning, after work ko since naprepare naman na ni mama bfast ng anak ko for school, and she said na nagusap na sila ni papa na magsusundo si papa umidlip na muna ako. Yung kapatid ko di makakapasok since may sinat daw.
I get off work at 5am. Tapos around 7am nakita ko di pa nasusundo anak ko. Tried calling my father via messenger kahit alam kong di uubra, desperately, nakiusap ako sa mga friends kong online na maki call pero wala din pantawag sa phone. At this point bwisit na bwisit na ako kasi naalimpungatan, puyat, and gigil na ako. Also, before today, couple of times ko na nabanggit sakanya na ang hirap niya contactin pag uumaga para gisingin siya para magsundo. The most recent one was not even a week ago. I guess he took it lightly kaya magdamag pa rin silang nakababad mag vc.
Balik tayo sa ganap this morning. When he eventually woke up, tinanong niya ako kung nasa bahay pa daw mga bata. Obvs yes. And dito na ako naglash out. Sabi ko sa chat sakanya yet again, ang hirap niya contactin. Nakikisuyo pa ako sa iba para lang matawagan siya. And napamura ako with matching exclamation points. Nagmura ako, di ko siya minura. There’s a difference. So syempre, bilang naalimpungatan din siya, natrigger siya dun sa sinabi ko, nagalit din siya. Ofc. Nasabi ko na lang na wag na siya magsundo, salamt na lang in a furious way.
So ayun, ang ending ako na naghatid sa anak ko sa school and while walking papuntang sakayan ng jeep, eto na siya, pinapalipad na sasakyan. Galit niyang sinabi sakin na siya na daw maghahatid. Nung nakita niyang wala yung kapatid ko, dumeretcho siya sa bahay kasi di niya alam na may sinat so di niya alam na di rin papasok. Few mins later, nadaanan niya ulet kami pabalik, siya na daw maghahatid. Sabi ko, no. Not anymore. Cut off na siya. And he drove away. I blocked him na. I feel so g4g() while composing this and i guess AYG. Pero sino ba yung mas g4g()? Ako o yung tatay ko? Hahahaha
2024.05.14 00:34 Poiboykanaka Interesting .Genealogies
Now we've all heard of the genealogies of the Chiefs of Hawai'i. we have heard that those which the strongest genealogies have the strongest claims to their Moku and Mokupuni. some being simply Ali'i nui or Kaukau Ali'i while others being the Ali'i Aimoku. Kamehaemha being the first Mo'i of All hawai'i as the islands were at once divided for over 900 years by war.
those of Kaua'i would be of Kaua'i and Ni'ihau, and sometimes O'ahu. sometimes those of O'ahu would take control of Kaua'i and molokai. Maui was once said to have control all the way to Ni'ihau (though I suspect that, that's when further division between the kingdoms occurred, as Mauinui would become today's maui county) and then there was the big island. sometimes the big island would even divide itself only for it to need to be united again.
now, genealogically this is important. this tells us how the chiefs mingled and I personally have found Interesting stories.....
These leads me to a discussion and investigation.
Who do you think had the strongest genealogy? Kamehameha, or Kaumuali'i. let me give an insight for those who do not know.
Kamehameha was said to belong to the big islands chiefs, being of the Genealogies of Keoua, coming from Keawe, and those of Kekupo'iwa II, coming from the lineages of ha'ae, son of Mahi and kekelaokalani, both being Half Siblings, children of Queen Kalanikauleleiaiwi. Kamehameha at his deathbed was then told by his advisor that he was the true son of the greatt as well as ruthless Kahekili of Maui, belonging to the genealogies of Kekaulike (as far as I have studies, those genealogies had some of the strongest Kapu Moe living) and Had the Tokens to prove it.
Now... this would make Kamehameha stronger in the lines of simply Hema (one of the two brothers Hawaiian chiefs belong to) but Kaumuali'i belonged to both Hema and Puna. his mother was chiefess Kamakahelei, whom belonged to the genealogies of Peleiholani through her mother, Ka'apuwai, and the genealogies of Lonoikahaupu, through her father, Kaumeheiwa. Kaumuali'is father however, was Ka'eokulani...brother of king kahekili. This would make him have the strength of the Maui kings. this also allowed for the genealogies of Kalanikauleleaiwi, queen of the big island, mother of kekupo'iwa I whom was the spouse of Kekaulike to reach kaua'i. with kaumuali'i, the genealogies of Puna and Hema, very firmly United. (the genealogies of kaua'i and o'ahu descend primarily of puna)
SO!!! ARE YOU UP TO THE CHALLENGE????
WHO DO YOU THINK HAD THE STRONGEST???
good luck!!!!
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those of Kaua'i would be of Kaua'i and Ni'ihau, and sometimes O'ahu. sometimes those of O'ahu would take control of Kaua'i and molokai. Maui was once said to have control all the way to Ni'ihau (though I suspect that, that's when further division between the kingdoms occurred, as Mauinui would become today's maui county) and then there was the big island. sometimes the big island would even divide itself only for it to need to be united again.
now, genealogically this is important. this tells us how the chiefs mingled and I personally have found Interesting stories.....
These leads me to a discussion and investigation.
Who do you think had the strongest genealogy? Kamehameha, or Kaumuali'i. let me give an insight for those who do not know.
Kamehameha was said to belong to the big islands chiefs, being of the Genealogies of Keoua, coming from Keawe, and those of Kekupo'iwa II, coming from the lineages of ha'ae, son of Mahi and kekelaokalani, both being Half Siblings, children of Queen Kalanikauleleiaiwi. Kamehameha at his deathbed was then told by his advisor that he was the true son of the greatt as well as ruthless Kahekili of Maui, belonging to the genealogies of Kekaulike (as far as I have studies, those genealogies had some of the strongest Kapu Moe living) and Had the Tokens to prove it.
Now... this would make Kamehameha stronger in the lines of simply Hema (one of the two brothers Hawaiian chiefs belong to) but Kaumuali'i belonged to both Hema and Puna. his mother was chiefess Kamakahelei, whom belonged to the genealogies of Peleiholani through her mother, Ka'apuwai, and the genealogies of Lonoikahaupu, through her father, Kaumeheiwa. Kaumuali'is father however, was Ka'eokulani...brother of king kahekili. This would make him have the strength of the Maui kings. this also allowed for the genealogies of Kalanikauleleaiwi, queen of the big island, mother of kekupo'iwa I whom was the spouse of Kekaulike to reach kaua'i. with kaumuali'i, the genealogies of Puna and Hema, very firmly United. (the genealogies of kaua'i and o'ahu descend primarily of puna)
SO!!! ARE YOU UP TO THE CHALLENGE????
WHO DO YOU THINK HAD THE STRONGEST???
good luck!!!!
2024.05.14 00:02 ewankopaakshelli Is it wrong to stay friends with someone who wronged someone else? Dapat ba makisawsaw sa issue ng iba?
This might be a case to case basis like kung cheaterapist malamang hindi ko na kakaibiganin ‘yung tao.
Pero what if I stay “friends” with someone na may bad connotation na from others like “manyak daw” magsalita?
I wasn’t there to witness it and I started to keep distance pero civil pa rin ako doon sa tao (more like acquaintance trato ko) since I wasn’t involved personally.
At dahil narinig ko lang ‘yung story, I am giving the benefit of the doubt towards that person but I’m keeping my distance from him at the same time.
And I know naman na kapag nasa situation ako kapag ginawa ‘yun, I will not have second thoughts raising the issue and cutting them off.
Minsan kasi yung iba parang gusto blind follower ka ng grupo nila na susunod ka kasi sabi nila layuan mo o dahil hindi sila ok nung tao.
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Pero what if I stay “friends” with someone na may bad connotation na from others like “manyak daw” magsalita?
I wasn’t there to witness it and I started to keep distance pero civil pa rin ako doon sa tao (more like acquaintance trato ko) since I wasn’t involved personally.
At dahil narinig ko lang ‘yung story, I am giving the benefit of the doubt towards that person but I’m keeping my distance from him at the same time.
And I know naman na kapag nasa situation ako kapag ginawa ‘yun, I will not have second thoughts raising the issue and cutting them off.
Minsan kasi yung iba parang gusto blind follower ka ng grupo nila na susunod ka kasi sabi nila layuan mo o dahil hindi sila ok nung tao.
2024.05.13 20:46 boot_dev_q Help a noob here 😭
So imma final year CS student, aur bhai mere job nahi lagi hai, par bhai kuch karne kaa jonoon hai, maa baap ko kush karna hai aur apna future bhi banana hai, so pls guid me...
Background : from tier 2 private cllg, know programming well, (typically mern stack ka 14 aur 200+ leetcode wala ) mere ek baar toc mei acche aye the to subject thoda acha lagta hai mujhe 🙂 ab yaad nahi kuch, maths to ghatna yaad hai mujhe shuru se padha hai sab kuch ( 12th ke bhi thode concepts revise karne honge), aur baki sab subjecta ka bhi same haal hai DSA ko chhod kar bas programming aati hai muze
1) How and where to start 2) What are some good resources 3) What best in your opinion ( offline/online) 4) What are good online classes in you opinion or experience ?
TLDR : launde ne bass backhodi ki hai cllg mei GATE ke liye guidance maang raha hai
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Background : from tier 2 private cllg, know programming well, (typically mern stack ka 14 aur 200+ leetcode wala ) mere ek baar toc mei acche aye the to subject thoda acha lagta hai mujhe 🙂 ab yaad nahi kuch, maths to ghatna yaad hai mujhe shuru se padha hai sab kuch ( 12th ke bhi thode concepts revise karne honge), aur baki sab subjecta ka bhi same haal hai DSA ko chhod kar bas programming aati hai muze
1) How and where to start 2) What are some good resources 3) What best in your opinion ( offline/online) 4) What are good online classes in you opinion or experience ?
TLDR : launde ne bass backhodi ki hai cllg mei GATE ke liye guidance maang raha hai
2024.05.13 19:56 laufeypink Why is my mother treating me like this?
Hi po, I just wanna share/rant my experience with me and my mom. Long short story my mom hates me and she likes my kuya. Alam ko na yun since bata pa and tanggap ko. My parents are separated nung bata pa ako. Lumaki ako with my grandparents since yung mom ko is an OFW, while yung father ko walang pake samin namay pake? lol. Pinatigil ako ng mama ko this sec sem (I’m an arki student) kase ginastos ko yung pera for tuition fee (1K) the reason why ginastos ko bcs hindi ako pinadalhan ng father ko for my school materials which is hindi naman bago. And I already told my mom na hindi nanaman mag bibigay ng pera si papa kase wala syang pera and need niya bumili for his maintenance. But ayaw niya ako bigyan kase naka budget na lahat. But I need materials for my plates and materials for others subs so no choice ako. Nung nalaman niya na kulang ng 1k yung pang tuition fee ko kase ng sumbong yung kuya ko. They decided na mag stop ako. I was so devastated that time, and they only send me 500pesos for 4days for my allowance. Nag reklamo ako kase hindi kaya ng 500 for 4days. And I need a laptop nung midterm to final exam kase mag ddigital na kami but hindi nila ako binigayn. My mom told me na maghanap ka nang paraan problema mo na yan. So I asked help for my friends and blockmates. Kaso di talaga kaya ng time kase mahina yung wifi sa campus and they also need it. Well ofc bagsak ako sa subject na yun kase hindi ako nakakapasa ng project. Hiyang hiya ako kase wala akong laptop during our exams kase photoshop yung exam namin nung midterm and prelim. Nang matapos na yung semester umuwi nako samin dala2 lahat ng gamit ko and nalaman ko na binilhan pala ni mama si kuya ng brand new laptop for next sem. And until now hindi niya ako binibigyan ng allowance for my needs. (like deodorant, foods, or kahit skincare man lang) lahat ng attention niya na kay kuya. And ang dami niyang order sa online na dumadating sa bahay puro mga branded clothes and bag. Sinabihan na siya ng tita ko na dapat yung mga binibili mo na mga gamit dapat kay anak mo yan.
P.S. sorry for the grammar and typo na iiyak kase ako while typing this and wala pakong tulog. Thank you for reading.
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P.S. sorry for the grammar and typo na iiyak kase ako while typing this and wala pakong tulog. Thank you for reading.
2024.05.13 19:52 Dapper_Celery9105 Droppers what’s your story
First attempt mein 59 ile aaya second mein 86ile. Viteee hogaya. Ugee went fine lagta hai hojayega. Drop lene ka soch Rahi huin. To all the people jinhone drop liya tha what is your story. Kaise kiya kya kiya kidhar Bakchodi ki Tum logo ne. Also agar droppers ke paas time bahut hota then why do they fail.
Was thinking batminton classes join karne ke ka taaki drop year mein ghost na ban Jau also Mujhe motu nahi hona. Isse drop year mein dead nahi houngi and atleast todha physical activity se positivity to aayegi.
Aur kuch ideas Jo Tum log recommend karoge?
And also droppers who failed kuch tips hai kya ki kya bakchodi nahi karu.
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Was thinking batminton classes join karne ke ka taaki drop year mein ghost na ban Jau also Mujhe motu nahi hona. Isse drop year mein dead nahi houngi and atleast todha physical activity se positivity to aayegi.
Aur kuch ideas Jo Tum log recommend karoge?
And also droppers who failed kuch tips hai kya ki kya bakchodi nahi karu.
2024.05.13 19:01 Old-Funny-6222 A comment on Haiza’s giveaway
 | Saw this comment on Haiza’s instagram recently. And totally agree with this term. Nothing but truth submitted by Old-Funny-6222 to JanabMadamIbrahim [link] [comments] |
2024.05.13 18:55 hritxik Title is facing Depression & anxiety
Jee maine 1st attempt me 30%tile 2nd attempt me 18 %tile ( ye soch ke sab tukke krdiya tha ki ab mains me isse se bura kya hi ho skta hai ) now CBSE boards result come & got 52.8% with Compartment in maths now, so relative calling me even I'm not reciving call , they call my mom& dad and tesing him/ her that apka ladka to kota gaya tha ye mains me fail kaise ho hogya vo sab vo phir bhi theek hai ye CBSE me bhi fail ho gya awww .
Ab Mai kya kru Mera jine ki ek vajah bhi nhi bacchi , at the end maa ka pyaar aa jata hai
Ab drop liya hai jee + cbse ( 2025 ) & now Everyone says that academics comeback is just a myth ! परंतु का मेरे पास खोने के लिए बचा ही क्या है !
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Ab Mai kya kru Mera jine ki ek vajah bhi nhi bacchi , at the end maa ka pyaar aa jata hai
Ab drop liya hai jee + cbse ( 2025 ) & now Everyone says that academics comeback is just a myth ! परंतु का मेरे पास खोने के लिए बचा ही क्या है !
2024.05.13 18:51 hritxik Title is facing Depression & anxiety
Jee maine 1st attempt me 30%tile 2nd attempt me 18 %tile ( ye soch ke sab tukke krdiya tha ki ab mains me isse se bura kya hi ho skta hai ) now CBSE boards result come & got 52.8% with Compartment in maths now, so relative calling me even I'm not reciving call , they call my mom& dad and tesing him/ her that apka ladka to kota gaya tha ye mains me fail kaise ho hogya vo sab vo phir bhi theek hai ye CBSE me bhi fail ho gya awww .
Ab Mai kya kru Mera jine ki ek vajah bhi nhi bacchi , at the end maa ka pyaar aa jata hai
Ab drop liya hai jee + cbse ( 2025 ) & now Everyone says that academics comeback is just a myth ! परंतु का मेरे पास खोने के लिए बचा ही क्या है !
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Ab Mai kya kru Mera jine ki ek vajah bhi nhi bacchi , at the end maa ka pyaar aa jata hai
Ab drop liya hai jee + cbse ( 2025 ) & now Everyone says that academics comeback is just a myth ! परंतु का मेरे पास खोने के लिए बचा ही क्या है !
2024.05.13 18:44 Boojho_from-NCERT DROPPER DIARIES DAY 10 (AUR MODS THODA JALDI APPROVE KARO)
So aaj boards ka result aaya and guess what my stupid ass scored 78.8 percentage (with highest in biology 82 like wtf jabki mein jee ki so called prep kar raha hu
kal pw ka jo short test diya tha us mein 96/96 aaye 10 baje result aaya maa baap full khush ki chalo thoda sa hi sahi par comeback to ho raha hai (not judging my test but they judged my seriousness)
fir madarchod result aa gaya aur papa thoda gussa ho gaye even told me a waste ( I am not blaming my father and pliz don't type you don't deserve him and all those bullshit bro just stfu and don't judge my family from this single line and my perspective)
par fir jab shaam ko thoda eavesdrop kara to suna ki papa bole ki chicken le aaye kya but my mom denied it saying ki aaj somvaar hai (my family are all shivbhakts and they say i was blessed with three marks on my forehead full badassery)
Physics : 26 question diye the 17 ho gaye baaki nahi bane even tho fight pura kiya
Chemistry : Bawaal chiz padhi be Fe0.93O wali chiz majaa aagaya hands down the best class
Maths : jaisa chal raha hai aur haa sir ne aaj se quad eqn start kara
aaj bhot kam self study hui aur raat ko jagkar apne notes + maths ke hw attempt karunga
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kal pw ka jo short test diya tha us mein 96/96 aaye 10 baje result aaya maa baap full khush ki chalo thoda sa hi sahi par comeback to ho raha hai (not judging my test but they judged my seriousness)
fir madarchod result aa gaya aur papa thoda gussa ho gaye even told me a waste ( I am not blaming my father and pliz don't type you don't deserve him and all those bullshit bro just stfu and don't judge my family from this single line and my perspective)
par fir jab shaam ko thoda eavesdrop kara to suna ki papa bole ki chicken le aaye kya but my mom denied it saying ki aaj somvaar hai (my family are all shivbhakts and they say i was blessed with three marks on my forehead full badassery)
Physics : 26 question diye the 17 ho gaye baaki nahi bane even tho fight pura kiya
Chemistry : Bawaal chiz padhi be Fe0.93O wali chiz majaa aagaya hands down the best class
Maths : jaisa chal raha hai aur haa sir ne aaj se quad eqn start kara
aaj bhot kam self study hui aur raat ko jagkar apne notes + maths ke hw attempt karunga
2024.05.13 18:22 fuckhogayaji kinda chud hi gaye guru but still kuch toh seekh hi gaye
64% aaye hai guru
dumb nhi hu mein bas procrastination and low motivation se chud gya
result ke time ankh se aansu ane lag gye ki bc kya se kya ho gya mera, never thought ki etne kam number ayenge matlab 60-70% ke beech mein toh kabhi dekha hi nhi hai result
jee mocks mein 11th ke end tak aate aate 200+ tak aane lag gye the and 12th mein jo chudaap kiya hai meine
mein etna careless ho gya tha 12th mein like literally board se pehle kon nhi padhta mein vo chutiya hu jo boards se ek din pehle bhi time waste kar rha tha and youtube dekh raha lol
well mere maa baap duniya ke best maa baap hai literally I thought aaj kutayi pakki hai meri but unhone kuch bhi nhi bola and ulta motivate kiya koi naa hote rehta hai koi badi baat nhi hai tension mat le agle saal puri mehnat karke exams diyo, I feel mere jaisa chutiya aesa maa baap deserve nhi karta
jeetne bhi 11thies ess post ko dekh rhe hai guys guys guys pls 11th mein padhayi ko seriously lena chalu kar dena and overconfident kabhi mat hona and bkl'n 10th ke result se demotivate mat ho mere bhi 91% the and dekh lo aaj kaha hu mein, aane waale kal par dhyaan do and consistent raho din ka 6 hr hi padho but roj padho and self doubt mat karna kabhi
coaching mein samajh naa aye toh maa chudane gayii coaching jaana band kardo and online padho, jara bhi deri mat lagana ess decision mein koi fayda nhi time waste karne ka,
damn, kya hi din tha aaj ka, hamesha yadd rahega
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dumb nhi hu mein bas procrastination and low motivation se chud gya
result ke time ankh se aansu ane lag gye ki bc kya se kya ho gya mera, never thought ki etne kam number ayenge matlab 60-70% ke beech mein toh kabhi dekha hi nhi hai result
jee mocks mein 11th ke end tak aate aate 200+ tak aane lag gye the and 12th mein jo chudaap kiya hai meine
mein etna careless ho gya tha 12th mein like literally board se pehle kon nhi padhta mein vo chutiya hu jo boards se ek din pehle bhi time waste kar rha tha and youtube dekh raha lol
well mere maa baap duniya ke best maa baap hai literally I thought aaj kutayi pakki hai meri but unhone kuch bhi nhi bola and ulta motivate kiya koi naa hote rehta hai koi badi baat nhi hai tension mat le agle saal puri mehnat karke exams diyo, I feel mere jaisa chutiya aesa maa baap deserve nhi karta
jeetne bhi 11thies ess post ko dekh rhe hai guys guys guys pls 11th mein padhayi ko seriously lena chalu kar dena and overconfident kabhi mat hona and bkl'n 10th ke result se demotivate mat ho mere bhi 91% the and dekh lo aaj kaha hu mein, aane waale kal par dhyaan do and consistent raho din ka 6 hr hi padho but roj padho and self doubt mat karna kabhi
coaching mein samajh naa aye toh maa chudane gayii coaching jaana band kardo and online padho, jara bhi deri mat lagana ess decision mein koi fayda nhi time waste karne ka,
damn, kya hi din tha aaj ka, hamesha yadd rahega
2024.05.13 18:21 justanotherpickme thak gayi hu ab
its gonna be a long trauma dump.
im 19f, appeared in 12th this year, this would be my first drop. vaise to iss sun pe lurker rehti thi, aaj laga maybe kuch bol hi du to atleast relief rahega kisko dhang se bataya to. vaise to life meri bekar nhi hai overall dekha jaye to. yaha pe logo ka padho bc achhi lagne lagti hai life, and phir agle din vahi rr.
i was five almost, jb mere nana ne pehli baar mujhe touch kiya tha. mummy papa ka office rehta tha and bhaiya ka school to akele chhodne ki jagah nana ko bula lete the vo log ki mera dhyaan rakhe. achha dhyan rakhe the (apna lolzzz). now that i think about the movements and the way he'd shake afterwards, pyare nanaji was most probably cumming in his dhoti holding his five year old granddaughter on his thigh. (i mean, ladke shayad better jaane, kabhi kisi se detail mein puchha nhi iss baare mein. after it had got some action and y'all are ejaculating, do you guys like, freeze for a bit a breathe hard? agar nhi to im sorry for the wrong allegations). anyways that happened for a while. uske baad ka mujhe kuch yaad nhi. tbh ye bhi nhi yaad tha, until 3-4 saal pehle jb i read a similar scene in a book and ye yaad aaya phir shock mein chali gayi. had two beautiful frnds jinko bataya iss baare mein and they tried to help me out as best as they could. andar se ye bhi lagta tha ki mummy ko kabhi pata bhi chala to nahi manengi, isiliye parents se thoda grudge rehta tha and ladti jhagadati rehti thi.
fast forward to present, mai apne best friend ke saath relationship mein aa gayi and slowly but surely, he made a great impact on my relationship with my family. like uski uske parents ke saath achhe relations hain and ladka bhi sahi hai (haa pyar krti hu usse, mar jaungi ek din) to convince kr liya mujhe ki mere parents bhi pasand krte hain mujhe. and tb se mere relations meri family ke saath significantly improve hue. i even started to trust them.
to kya hai na, mummy and nana ki jamti nhi hai (he's neither a good husband nor a good father), isiliye mummy unse baat nhi krti. ek din recently mummy unhi ke baare mein upset thi and maine mummy se bol diya ki "uss aadmi se to mujhe nafrat hai. royi hu bestfriend ko batate hue" and mummy was like mujhe batao but mana kar di ki abhi nhi.
agle din she came to me and said ki unhe raat mein neend nhi aa rahi thi ye sochte hue ki aisa unhone kya kar diya ki I don't trust her but trust my frnds? phir bohot bolne pe mai unhe puri baat bata di (utni detail mein nhi obviously) and she was very supportive. boli ki "maa baap important hote hain par bachcho se zyada nhi. mai to vaise bhi unhe ghar na bulati but ab to sawal hi nhi uthata. shakal nhi dekhungi unki". and mai apne room mein aake rone lagi ki maine apni maa ko galat samjha ki vo mujhpe yakeen nhi karengi.
then agle din, i think jb mai ghar pe nhi thi tb mummy bhaiya ko ye baat batayi and he told her abt how once i confessed to him i was a lesbian (bisexual boli thi but lauda hai), and pata nhi kaise, mummy ko convince kr doya ki im making this whole story up for sympathy and to seem cool.
mummy aayi and mujhse boli ki "tum jo batayi ho, vo sach mein hua hai ya jo tum ghatiya books padhti ho, uski vajah se dimag mein baitha li ho ki mere saath bhi kuch galat hua hai?" and phir asked me abt that lesbian wala and told me ki inhi sab vajah se my face has lost its innocence and mai kuch nahi kar paayi hu. kaise i didn't deserve the marks i got in boards and sabka entrance exam tha but sab ek event mein aa rahe the but tumne kuch padha nhi tha isiliye nhi aayi (true but jisko neet dena hota vo aise bhi na aata). and how she feels ashamed and unsafe to go out with me varna i would wander off with "bhaiya log". that other girls of my age look smart and innocent and good even of they're fat. and gori ladkiyo ka chehra nhi pink hai, but you have yellowish tone and you never look smart, tumhare andar vo cheez hi nhi. she ended her speech with, "tumhari vajah se maine apne baap ko galat samjha. agar tum jhoote ilzam laga rahi ho to uska anjam dikhega." and then very lightly said, as if she didn't believe it, "aur agar mere baap ne kuch kiya hoga to bhagwan batayenge."
since that day, i haven't been able to look at my family the same way. the love, trust and respect i had for them seems gone. uss din ke baad mummy achhe se baa ki but bhul nhi paa rahi unn words ko. isse pehle bhi aisa bohot kuch boli hain vo jo bura laga tha but ye Dil tod diya. i can't believe my first heartbreak is from my mother itself.
isse pehle bhi she'd questioned my character. mai maanti hu, mai chutiye bachchi thi. nhi samjhti thi kuch. school bus mein achhe bhaiya log mile the to sabko achha samajhti thi and apne age ke logo se ghul mil nhi paati thi. isiliye almost got tricked by a senior jo uss time 11th mein the (i was in 6th, koi dost nhi tha to attention ki bhukhi rehti thi). uske liye mummy branded me as "characterless". I WAS IN SIXTH, NHI PATA THA MUJHE KUCH. phir ek baar humlog kahi gaye the and mummy dusri seat pe chali gayi mujhko leke jbki meri dost pichhe ki seat pe thi. i tried going to her to uss time to mummy bas gusse se dekhi but ghar aake boli ki how im such a bad daughter, achhe ghaf ki ladkiya sirf apne mummy papa ke paas rehti hain but tumko to matakna rehta hai. tumhare jaisi ladkiyo ko characterless rehte hain, kisi ki nhi hoti hain. (this was in class 9th).
ho sakta hai mai apna side leke dekh rahi hu isiliye mai khud ko sahi samajh rahi. but galti kya ki maine ye to koi achhe se explain karo???
recent ye nana wala batane ke baad to bas yahi manati hu roz bhagwan se ki maar daale mujhe. sach nata rahi, jb dekhega na koi sirf meri mummy papa aur bhaiya ko saath mein, to itne perfect lagte hain. and mai manhoos ki yarah aa jaati hu beech mein. (mumma thinks ki mera chehra normal rehne pe mahoos lagta hai, i should be smiling har samay varna apni life barbaad ke dungi aisi shakal bana ke).
marne ka ya relapse krne ka (i used to self harm) roz mann krta hai, but apni best friend aur apne bf ke baare mein sochke ruk jaati hu. sach mein doni pagal pyaar krte hain mujhse. bestfriend ki life already laudi ho rakhi hai, aur nhi pareshan krna, bf ki life mein pehle hi bohot trauma the, ab badhane ka mann nhi. i promised him I'd helo him heal.
ab 15 aur 16 ko cuet hai but padha nhi hai kuch and pata nhi kaise niklega. nikalka bhi zaruri hai varna home life aur fucked up ho jaayegi plus ghar se niklungi to insabme dimag nhi lagega.
samajh nhi aa raha kaise padhu ab, aakhiri din bacha hai, sab kuch padha hai but revise krna hai. idk bhai, higheay sach mein sundar lagne laga hai (srsly)
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im 19f, appeared in 12th this year, this would be my first drop. vaise to iss sun pe lurker rehti thi, aaj laga maybe kuch bol hi du to atleast relief rahega kisko dhang se bataya to. vaise to life meri bekar nhi hai overall dekha jaye to. yaha pe logo ka padho bc achhi lagne lagti hai life, and phir agle din vahi rr.
i was five almost, jb mere nana ne pehli baar mujhe touch kiya tha. mummy papa ka office rehta tha and bhaiya ka school to akele chhodne ki jagah nana ko bula lete the vo log ki mera dhyaan rakhe. achha dhyan rakhe the (apna lolzzz). now that i think about the movements and the way he'd shake afterwards, pyare nanaji was most probably cumming in his dhoti holding his five year old granddaughter on his thigh. (i mean, ladke shayad better jaane, kabhi kisi se detail mein puchha nhi iss baare mein. after it had got some action and y'all are ejaculating, do you guys like, freeze for a bit a breathe hard? agar nhi to im sorry for the wrong allegations). anyways that happened for a while. uske baad ka mujhe kuch yaad nhi. tbh ye bhi nhi yaad tha, until 3-4 saal pehle jb i read a similar scene in a book and ye yaad aaya phir shock mein chali gayi. had two beautiful frnds jinko bataya iss baare mein and they tried to help me out as best as they could. andar se ye bhi lagta tha ki mummy ko kabhi pata bhi chala to nahi manengi, isiliye parents se thoda grudge rehta tha and ladti jhagadati rehti thi.
fast forward to present, mai apne best friend ke saath relationship mein aa gayi and slowly but surely, he made a great impact on my relationship with my family. like uski uske parents ke saath achhe relations hain and ladka bhi sahi hai (haa pyar krti hu usse, mar jaungi ek din) to convince kr liya mujhe ki mere parents bhi pasand krte hain mujhe. and tb se mere relations meri family ke saath significantly improve hue. i even started to trust them.
to kya hai na, mummy and nana ki jamti nhi hai (he's neither a good husband nor a good father), isiliye mummy unse baat nhi krti. ek din recently mummy unhi ke baare mein upset thi and maine mummy se bol diya ki "uss aadmi se to mujhe nafrat hai. royi hu bestfriend ko batate hue" and mummy was like mujhe batao but mana kar di ki abhi nhi.
agle din she came to me and said ki unhe raat mein neend nhi aa rahi thi ye sochte hue ki aisa unhone kya kar diya ki I don't trust her but trust my frnds? phir bohot bolne pe mai unhe puri baat bata di (utni detail mein nhi obviously) and she was very supportive. boli ki "maa baap important hote hain par bachcho se zyada nhi. mai to vaise bhi unhe ghar na bulati but ab to sawal hi nhi uthata. shakal nhi dekhungi unki". and mai apne room mein aake rone lagi ki maine apni maa ko galat samjha ki vo mujhpe yakeen nhi karengi.
then agle din, i think jb mai ghar pe nhi thi tb mummy bhaiya ko ye baat batayi and he told her abt how once i confessed to him i was a lesbian (bisexual boli thi but lauda hai), and pata nhi kaise, mummy ko convince kr doya ki im making this whole story up for sympathy and to seem cool.
mummy aayi and mujhse boli ki "tum jo batayi ho, vo sach mein hua hai ya jo tum ghatiya books padhti ho, uski vajah se dimag mein baitha li ho ki mere saath bhi kuch galat hua hai?" and phir asked me abt that lesbian wala and told me ki inhi sab vajah se my face has lost its innocence and mai kuch nahi kar paayi hu. kaise i didn't deserve the marks i got in boards and sabka entrance exam tha but sab ek event mein aa rahe the but tumne kuch padha nhi tha isiliye nhi aayi (true but jisko neet dena hota vo aise bhi na aata). and how she feels ashamed and unsafe to go out with me varna i would wander off with "bhaiya log". that other girls of my age look smart and innocent and good even of they're fat. and gori ladkiyo ka chehra nhi pink hai, but you have yellowish tone and you never look smart, tumhare andar vo cheez hi nhi. she ended her speech with, "tumhari vajah se maine apne baap ko galat samjha. agar tum jhoote ilzam laga rahi ho to uska anjam dikhega." and then very lightly said, as if she didn't believe it, "aur agar mere baap ne kuch kiya hoga to bhagwan batayenge."
since that day, i haven't been able to look at my family the same way. the love, trust and respect i had for them seems gone. uss din ke baad mummy achhe se baa ki but bhul nhi paa rahi unn words ko. isse pehle bhi aisa bohot kuch boli hain vo jo bura laga tha but ye Dil tod diya. i can't believe my first heartbreak is from my mother itself.
isse pehle bhi she'd questioned my character. mai maanti hu, mai chutiye bachchi thi. nhi samjhti thi kuch. school bus mein achhe bhaiya log mile the to sabko achha samajhti thi and apne age ke logo se ghul mil nhi paati thi. isiliye almost got tricked by a senior jo uss time 11th mein the (i was in 6th, koi dost nhi tha to attention ki bhukhi rehti thi). uske liye mummy branded me as "characterless". I WAS IN SIXTH, NHI PATA THA MUJHE KUCH. phir ek baar humlog kahi gaye the and mummy dusri seat pe chali gayi mujhko leke jbki meri dost pichhe ki seat pe thi. i tried going to her to uss time to mummy bas gusse se dekhi but ghar aake boli ki how im such a bad daughter, achhe ghaf ki ladkiya sirf apne mummy papa ke paas rehti hain but tumko to matakna rehta hai. tumhare jaisi ladkiyo ko characterless rehte hain, kisi ki nhi hoti hain. (this was in class 9th).
ho sakta hai mai apna side leke dekh rahi hu isiliye mai khud ko sahi samajh rahi. but galti kya ki maine ye to koi achhe se explain karo???
recent ye nana wala batane ke baad to bas yahi manati hu roz bhagwan se ki maar daale mujhe. sach nata rahi, jb dekhega na koi sirf meri mummy papa aur bhaiya ko saath mein, to itne perfect lagte hain. and mai manhoos ki yarah aa jaati hu beech mein. (mumma thinks ki mera chehra normal rehne pe mahoos lagta hai, i should be smiling har samay varna apni life barbaad ke dungi aisi shakal bana ke).
marne ka ya relapse krne ka (i used to self harm) roz mann krta hai, but apni best friend aur apne bf ke baare mein sochke ruk jaati hu. sach mein doni pagal pyaar krte hain mujhse. bestfriend ki life already laudi ho rakhi hai, aur nhi pareshan krna, bf ki life mein pehle hi bohot trauma the, ab badhane ka mann nhi. i promised him I'd helo him heal.
ab 15 aur 16 ko cuet hai but padha nhi hai kuch and pata nhi kaise niklega. nikalka bhi zaruri hai varna home life aur fucked up ho jaayegi plus ghar se niklungi to insabme dimag nhi lagega.
samajh nhi aa raha kaise padhu ab, aakhiri din bacha hai, sab kuch padha hai but revise krna hai. idk bhai, higheay sach mein sundar lagne laga hai (srsly)