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Long story short, a girl who I know from my major who also used to take the bus with me had graduated a year ago, at that time I had went my way and bought her graduation gifts and a congratulations card, a year later she had not even texted me "congratulations" on my graduation last week, although she had went to the graduation party and knows that I've graduated there.
Here is the thing, me, her and her friend who is now my ex-friend used to take the same bus and are in the same major, but since me and my ex-friend and a couple other people had to work in a graduation project she had showed me her true colors, in short she is nothing but a snake, a bully, a backstabber, and I am pretty sure that she had been feeding her lies and other stuff about me. guy to the point where I would be walking through a room's door and she would be opening the door to "us", & when I had said "thank you" to her she ignored me, meanwhile when the guy behind me who is one of the guys who used to work in the graduation project with us had passed by and thanked her, she said "your welcome" to him.
I am hurt, I am broken, the group that I've worked with for the graduation project have hurt me, bullied me, etc I need therapy becuase of them. I could write over 1000 pages about everything they've done to me during the past 9 months, specially this semester, I don't know what to do, I've already graduated, I feel like shit, I keep dissociating, I am afraid of facing real life, I just wish I can go back in time and re-live my last semester in uni, it was the WORST semester ever, the constant bullying, humiliation, and the INFINTE AMOUNT OF RACISMA that I've faced was and still unbearable, I wish I could have the chance to go back and enjoy my last semester in uni, I am stuck in this phase of depression, I can't accept the fact that I am no longer an undergraduate, that time is flying by me, I regret being vulnerable and opening up to my ex-friend, I regret befriending her, I wish when she had approached me in class 2 years ago that I've kept it casual, maybe now she would have just been a "classmate", I hate being in this position.
I am afraid of befriending people now, not a single person from my uni had contacted me after graduating, It was literally me sending a congrats text to 5 people, 3 of them had replied, and the 3ed one keeps dragging replying to me for days, and the other 2 literally ignored the texts. I feel so lonely, so alone, I don't even have high-school friend, childhood friends, etc.

I had a few very very close friends in high school and considered them to me special in my life. Unfortunately we all separated as we went to different universities.
We all stayed in contact for the first 1-2 years and the ones who went abroad naturally fell more distant with time. Whenever they visit we would have a small reunion together.
Suddenly the closest friend of the group started ignoring me. I thought she was busy so I didn't contact her as often as I did (she did not read them)
It's been over 1 year since we met up together as a group. Now, the ones that live closer to me started ignoring me too. And it happened quite suddenly. So i thought we were all very busy and I was ok with that.
However, I saw them post pictures together on social media a few days ago. I didn't even know they came back to where I live. They just straight up ignored my messages and hung out. One of them even lied by saying that she wasn't going to come here for a few months.
I feel betrayed and confused because i don't know what went wrong. What should I do?
I considered them to be really close friends and we shares great memories.

I am the oldest daughter of 3 in a Mexican household. I have good grades, I’m student body president at my college, I work 2 jobs and pay my own bills. I’ve always done what my parents ask me to basically. The only things I do that they don’t like is not cleaning my room and having a boyfriend. I rarely have time to clean since I’m so busy with school and work and as for my boyfriend they don’t like him because he is shorter than me and because he lives an hour away from me. Now for the infantiliziaton part they don’t trust me when I’m out with my boyfriend. We have been dating for 3 years now and I am not allowed to drive to him because it’s wrong for a girl to drive herself for a man and I’m not allowed to go over to his house or sleepover because what will people say? I am planning on attending a uni 1 hour away after finishing my Associates in the fall and my parents are looking into houses in that area so I can still stay with them and be safe .Secondly when I bring up anything they make fun of me by speaking in a baby tone like recently I brought up how I want to be treated more like an adult by driving myself to a university transfer day 1 hour away and my mother was freaking out saying how I don’t have experience driving far away ( I’ve had my license for 4 years now) and how I was going to get into an accident and that she should go with me just to be safe. Any problem I have with them they just chop it up to me being ungrateful or immature.The whole point of this post is basically what can I do to make my parents have more trust in me and let go of their leash on me. Sorry if this post doesn’t make sense I’m just very emotional rn

So I’ve suspected I have ADHD since a teenager. I always did really poorly in school due to low attention span, maintaining friendships, impulsive decisions and extremely forgetful. The last year or so, I’ve been researching more on ADHD and it really all makes sense. My highs and lows, anxiety and anxious moods, and aggressive for no apparent reason. Making the appointment for a Psych is what’s making me most anxious. I just keep putting it off. I’m afraid especially because of the area I live they’re going to think I’m just seeking meds. Any advice?

So I’m a junior in high school, today in 8th hour (last period) I got screamed at by a teacher. Here’s the story, my science teacher called out sick so my class went to study hall(this is important), the science teacher did not give us any work to do. So I was sitting by the 2 girls I usual sit by. Then 3 other guys came by us and sat by us. But there was this one freshman who is like 6,3 300Lbs with a supper deep voice. The freshman is a louder talker, but I was just sitting in my seat shuffling cards for fun. Then the study hall teacher let’s call her Mrs.East, stands up and yells(yes I actually mean yell not raise her voice but yell) at us. She said “you 4 boys need to move” I was genuinely confused. So one of the guys asked why and she proceeded to yell and say “you boys are so loud and obnoxious” the 3 boys who came by us moved but I didn’t. Mrs.East then yelled at me “you need to move now” and I said “I wasn’t even talking” (I said this calmly because I’m a pretty chill person and screaming doesn’t faze me because I’m in a military program with a very high rank, so I’ve been yelled and screamed at by people in the actual military, and I have yelled at cadets) then Mrs.East yelled “I don’t care move now” so I moved to a different spot. At this point I felt very disrespected. So about 2 minutes later I moved back to were I was sitting because I was not the problem. Mrs East proceeded to through a pair of scissors on the ground and SCREAM “you can go to the office or sit somewhere different” then I said “Mrs.East I wasn’t even talking” she screamed “ GO NOW” so I got up and went to the office. I told the principal about what happened and he seemed pissed in a “this is a waist of my time kind of way” so I just sat in the office for the rest of the day. Then my friend was in the office after school and overheard Mrs. East changing the story and talking crap about me(I have video evidence). I have never felt so disrespected and so treated like not a human in my life, and I’ve been SCREAMED at by O-7’s in the military, hazed and fraternized. In my opinion I felt like I was not in the wrong and she was for over reacting. Plus my voice sound nothing like the 6’3 deep voiced freshman. Teachers what are your opinions on the matter?

I’ve kept in touch with zero. Mix of moving around a lot (different states and also different countries), usually being the only minority at school, and eventually my family settled down in a small town that I left and never went back to. Even for college, I only keep in touch with a couple of people and none of us live in the same city anymore. It’s more like a few random texts throughout the year.
My boyfriend on the other hand is only friends with the friends he has had since elementary school, despite growing up in a big city where we live now and having the option to branch out and find new connections. He finds it really strange that I don’t have friends from childhood. On the other hand, I find it strange that he has nothing in common with his childhood friends anymore (nothing within interests, hobbies, belief systems, nothing). He even admits that they frequently have nothing to talk about and if he met them now at our age, he would avoid them with a ten foot pole.
I’m just curious, have you kept in touch with friends from childhood or young adulthood? If so, was it out of convenience? Genuine mutual interests? Loyalty?

Would This Be Considered Gifted?
Hello all,
I recently underwent some psychological testing for the sake of clarifying some diagnoses and gaining a bit more insight into my personal abilities and issues, etc.
Unfortunately, and I will admit to this now (though my post will show it either way), I am a pretty insecure person, and I’ve carried a lot of self-doubt and low self-esteem issues specifically related to intelligence, pretty much as soon as I can remember (elementary school onward). I was never tested or evaluated for my schools’ gifted programs, as I never performed well academically and had a lot of behavioral issues. This all changed come my junior and senior years of high school, when I finally learned that I had ADHD and probably ASD. After that affirmation and subsequent treatment, I was able to turn everything around and achieve straight A’s until graduation, even leading up to now in college, where I’ve managed to maintain a 4.0 and be accepted into my school’s honors program.
I think I was very hindered up until this point of my life because I felt like a failure. All of my closest friends were gifted students; they were the only people I could relate to on the deepest, most personal level, yet I never had the validation of being “one of them,” so to speak. Perhaps it doesn’t matter. I know it doesn’t matter. I’m doing well now, and that’s all that should be important. That said, I am curious if maybe all of this worry and anxiety and belief that I should have been given more opportunities earlier in my life was valid. At one point in ninth grade, a teacher of mine pulled me aside and told me I shouldn’t be stuck in school when it was clear I exceeded my peers in many ways, and that I could graduate early if I decided to take accelerated classes online. She reached out to my parents and my counselor, but my father (a gifted individual himself) told me she probably just wanted me out of her class for causing trouble, and that it didn’t mean anything. That, along with my fear of losing out on the social aspect of high school, caused me to reject the offer. That said, I still found success by the end of high school, as the English department awarded me and another student a certificate of achievement out of our entire graduating class of about 450 students.
When it comes to the test results above, I do have some skepticism. I feel like the tests I took as part of the WAIS-IV weren’t as in-depth as some people online seem to describe them as. That could just be a false impression on my end, but upon further investigation of the psychologist I visited, I found a lot of negative reviews and controversies regarding her practice, which only fuels my skepticism. Anyway, as is indicated by my results I have ADHD-C, and this has had a noticeable impact on my behavior, memory, and processing speed throughout my life. Of course, for the test, I was asked to cease medication, so I’m also unsure if these results are fully representative of my ability in a more ideal headspace. Another potential impact on my results could be depression, which was also diagnosed by the psychologist, and insomnia.
I apologize for the long-winded post. I am mainly confused because, despite the 114 FSIQ and 122 GAI, which wouldn’t normally be considered gifted, I scored 132 in VCI, which is enough for classification in some schools’ gifted programs. I hope it is fine for me to post these here rather than CognitiveTesting, but I may cross post if necessary. Any and all insight would be appreciated. Thank you all!

Good Evening All, I am a senior high teacher and have been for many years, but I am now the parent of a struggling little boy and I feel like it has given me an entirely new insight into the school system. My son is a busy, energetic boy who is dealing with a move to a new community and acting out. According to his teacher he is pestering other students, cannot sit still, and is using inappropriate language (well grade one inappropriate- he’s not swearing). This is all impacting his ability to make friends as the other kids don’t want to play with the “bad kid.” I also have some suspicion he may have adhd, and I’ve arranged a doctors appointment but it is hard to tell if this is his issue or if he is just struggling with all of the changes in his young life. This is a story I’ve seen in my classroom many times, and it is surreal approaching this situation as a parent instead of as the teacher.
My response was to figure out how I could support the teacher and make things better for my son. I arranged a meeting where we could speak to my son, and talk to him about our plan to provide rewards and consequences to encourage good behaviour. I planned to be an extremely supportive parent, but then during the meeting a small thing happened that made me hesitant to be too punitive on my son. I ended up with the impression that this teacher didn’t care about my son, and she probably spent her breaks complaining about him and suddenly I lost a bit of trust for the school system. She of course didn’t say those things but when I tried to discuss some mean things other kids had been saying to my son, and some strategies that set him up for success in his last classroom I felt like she was brushing me off and it was hard to commit to providing a punishment to my son when I wasn’t sure she was being fair to him. I’m probably not being fair to her, but it’s hard to trust someone else with this little person that you care about more than anything in the world.
Now I fully admit I am making a mistake and I’m likely not being as supportive as I need to be. Of course I’m telling my son he needs to behave and I’m trying to offer him incentives to have good days, but I’m not taking away privileges and being angry with him like I thought I would be, and maybe he can sense that and is just playing me. I don’t know. All I know is he comes home and cries because he had a bad day, and he’s lonely and I’m scared for my son. I just don’t know how to help him and letting him feel my disappointment and anger seems like too much right now. I want to be his safe space instead. I want his home to be where he can come home and relax and feel loved.
In my frantic research trying to find some way to help my son I have come across countless other social media posts from mothers whose kids are struggling in school just like mine. It has caused me to reflect on some of my past interactions with students and their parents. Did some of them sense I didn’t care about their child (whether that was true or not)? Did they feel helpless to fix their child’s problem with school?
I don’t know what all the answers are but man it’s breaking my heart.

Sooo. For one, I'm transgender. (Mtf), and I was with my abusive ex (cis woman), since literally high-school. We were together for a long time, I told her I would ".Wear women's clothes, and fantasize about being a woman. And for some reason dressing as one in private helped me cope sometimes." I also had expressed that sometimes it would cause me to get turned on (what the trans community later described as 'euphoria erections'). She didn't mind, atleast she said she didn't, she said she thought it was sexy, she liked a 'guy in touch with his feminine side' ,and she was bisexual anyways. I had coped with my gender issues (which i didn't fully realize were gender issues due to upbringing) , by just having these private escapes, often with her as an audience. She turned it more and more sexual though. Often whenever I was just relaxing in fem clothes she ALWAYS progressed it to sex. Now I had a bit of a 'being dominated' fetish I'm not gonna lie. But often she wanted me to do things I thought were really.gross. like making me sit in our sex juices, or sit with my own ejaculate on myself. She had a weird and honestly sick fetish for stuff like that. Specific to males in panties. And I kinda just coped with life with the mentality of " well I get to have the family the 'good Christian kid' and his high-school sweetheart. And my mother will one day look at grand babies and love the hell out of em, and that'll make all this worth it. Also I want to clarify, Post transition (so as a woman) I would be a lesbian. I've never been attracted to men. Another reason why my gender issues confused me so much. I also ALWAYS was just as honest with my partner (my abuser), as I was with myself at any given time in regards to this issue. So its not like I was a total closet case to my at the time gf. Sadly my mother got really sick. And no. She didn't make it. She went rather fast. It was devastating, tbh we had a more matriarchal system in our household, despite our father being a religious zealot. She ran the home, and he normally caved to what she wanted. I became so deeply depressed I was going to genuinely kill myself. Eventually one day I just told my partner, " I need to explore my fem side and figure out what this gender issue is, and I need to fully explore it, to see if my feminine side is just latent desires I couldn't act on when younger or if I was actually trans. " she VERY reluctantly , and angrily one day took me to get some clothes of my own. A padded bra, multiple women's underwear, and some thigh highs, and agreed to let me continue to borrow some of her stuff, until I got more items. We began exploring. Well I did, she kept trying to fetishize it, and when I told her no, or when I stayed dressed even after sex. She would get beyond huffy with me. She started getting more and more mean to me as I continued to explore in a non sexualized way. I eventually one night extremely scared and sobbing, told her I was trans and there was nothing anyone could do to fix it. So I braced for impact, expecting her to break up with me. I was astounded she said " There is nothing wrong with you, its the 2020s, and people are becoming more accepting now." I was terrified, knowing my dad was never gonna accept it, and my brothers were a coin toss, though I knew my.younger one most likely wouldn't care. And I didn't think my older one really would either but still. Hiwever as I continued in my path to coming out as a transwoman. She got more and more verbally and maliciously abusive, she sabotaged things I was beginning to try, she berated me constantly and even tried to delay my coming out. I eventually started dressing as a woman full time, except at work. And around my bio family. I started hrt in private, except my partner and her parents knew. (She was my abuser not my partner). She turned from a sweet borderline feminist, and fairly sensible liberal gal, to an irl reddit cringelord for lack of a better term. She started taking these really jacked up takes, that she never espoused before, and calling me names like " gender retard". I kept pleading with her to stop, that if she wanted to break up we just could, I'd need some time to find a place, but everything could be amicable (btw I was clear that this option always was on the table), and It was ok if she didn't wanna stay alot of couples split after a transition and that doesn't make you a bigot. But if you want to keep trying, please stop mistreating me. Several of my friends had wanted me to dump her for how she was acting. But I foolishly believed she loved me and was just having a hard time. But eventually she dumped me and at the worst time, I had lost a job , got a new job, and had to leave it for safety reasons and was basically financially dependent on her, despite wanting to leave but needing an exit strategy. She turned our new apartment (after we fled her parents house) into a horror house. I still to this day have nightmares of waking up on the couch with her about to walk through the door. The abuse was horrible. At one point comongntoca head with her brutally beating me black and blue. I didnt fight back. Within a few weeks I was on sidewalks. We had a savings account that I had helped build for over SEVEN years. And it was in her name. And she kept all of it. I was homeless and still technically am. But am housed. I don't know how to have peace. I see her when I close my eyes. I hear her insults in my head. And I'm STILL recovering from her financial abuse. What do I do? Please...

Of course I think in the early years you should do it for them but I think just before puberty (4th grade) they should learn to make their own lunches and wake themselves up to prepare them not only to halep them become more responsible but also the freedom it gives them. Being woken up feels forceful but waking yourself up and getting up by yourself with an alarm feels much less invasive and its great for people who don't like to be talked to or looked at first thing in the morning. Also by letting them make their own lunch they can put in what they like and don't like and put in the amount of food they want. I always thought it was weird that peoples parents still wake them up in high school and complain about school lunch but also don't know how to make a lunch and I feel like it shows a lack of Independence and discipline which is partially the adults fault.

I keep hearing how critical it is to have good friends in your adolescence because that's where you learn to be independent and develop the social skills you'll need for the rest of your life, but it’s too late for me to have that. I tried to fit in with other kids but they mostly thought I was weird because I’m autistic, so I was bullied and left out a lot. I never really had a group to do anything with outside of school and seeing other people talk about how they couldn’t have survived their middle/high school years without their friends, or seeing the kind of friendships in coming of age stories that make being a teenager look like a fun time makes me feel I missed out on everything. It really makes me angry to look back at my old yearbooks and see how much fun all the normal kids were having.
I don’t think I can stand knowing that everyone else gets to enjoy their coming of age years when I couldn’t. I never got to go out to a movie with friends or have sleepovers or go on trips together, and I was basically alone for every important milestone of my life. I never got to celebrate with friends on my birthday or when I graduated high school, or have fun at summer camp or anything like that, and I get really depressed when I see young people getting to have fun with their friends because they’re so much more socially developed than I ever was.
My life's really gone downhill because I ended up dropping out of college and my family made me move with them to an isolated area and my family is forcing me to live with them, and they treat me like I’ll never be able to work, and I have no real means of getting out of this area other than running away. I'm 33 and I feel I missed out too much on life since I’ll never know how it feels to be a normal teen and growing up feeling like people care about you or that you have a future. I think what I want more than anything is to get those years back and if I can’t then I think I would rather die than get any older.

So there's this girl in my high school who I started talking to a few months ago, and she's someone who I really care about, and a very close friend of mine.
However, for the last few months, she has had all kinds of personal issues and developed anorexia as a coping mechanism, she's getting really deep into it, and I'm worried about her because I know firsthand how bad this can mess you up and what it can do to you.
I suffered from Anorexia after being raped by my former stepdad a few years ago (long story) but had been keeping it at bay for like a yeayear and a half, and considered myself -mostly- recovered. However, my friend's actions are really triggering me, and making me slip and finding myself skipping meals, looking at myself in the mirror more often than I should, or feeling weird and uncomfortable with my body during my gymnastics trainings. She talks about her anorexia and stuff, not to trigger me, but because she needs to vent.
I've already talked to her about it, but she says I'm the only person she can talk with about this (despite having many other friends, I guess she thinks they'll dislike her for being anorexic ??) but I just don't want to talk about it, I've been struggling with my own shit recently and the last thing I need is to starve myself again. I just don't want to get back to that, I really want to get better.
What should I do? I don't want to leave her, especially with what she's going through right now, but I also don't want to fall into this hell again. Anyone got any advice?

Congratulations to everyone who graduated, we made it through! I was one of the many students who graduated as well and I had people asking about a party or how I'm celebrating it. I did go for lunch and dinners with my close friend and his family but doesn't really feel like I have graduated. My batch (class of 2020) didn't really get the send off in high school and probably experienced for the first time how it feels to walk on the big stage.
My work hard ethic came from high school where one of my teacher's really encouraged me to explore things outside my comfort zone. So pretty much along this journey of 6-8 years, I've never really celebrated any of my achievements. I kind of feel ashamed that I have to reach out on Reddit to even ask this. I do know people celebrate in different ways, so l'd like to know how some of y’all celebrated.

Hello hello, I have to start looking for jobs and internships soon and I am having a hard time with a resume because I literally have no experience. In my country you can't work through high school and I moved around too much to be involved in community activities. I have just finished my first year of university which was exhausting, however, I feel prepared to join uni clubs in the next academic year.
So what do I do for now? Leave the experience section out? I'm in the tech field and I'm starting a portfolio during my university vacation. I did start a club in my secondary school but that was about crocheting so I don't know if I can include that as it isn't relevant. Please help

Hi there, I'm new to the sub so please forgive me if this question has been answered a thousand times. I'm a new grad DPT with just under 175k of debt from PT school. I put myself through my bachelors and masters with no debt, but PT school is notoriously expensive with a fairly low salary ceiling (all things considered). I now have to enroll in a payment plan and have heard great things about SAVE, but didn't realize I was going to have to consolidate all of my Stafford loans into the one giant loan with 6% interest.
From what I understand, the biggest disadvantage to this, under the assumption that the majority of the debt will be forgiven at the end of the repayment period, is that if your income is too high then your payments might end up higher than the standard plan. How high is "too high" of a salary? I'm going to assume that my estimated salary range of 90-120k before retirement/health contributions is not considered in that tier, but what would be? Based on the online calculators, the SAVE plan would by far be the lowest payment as of right now, I'm just curious what other factors might need to be considered before consolidating and any other possible consequences/disadvantages.

TL;DR I M25 started talking to my highschool ex again F24 she is pregnant and only sees the man she is pregnant by once a week. We just so happen to have become neighbors recently and she wanted to see me so I went to visit her. We talked about a lot of things from when we used to be a couple to how her mom let us live together when we were just teenagers and started even talking about how we were each other's first sex partner.
She leaned on me and laid her legs across me and that progressed to me holding her from 11pm all the way up to 7am and we just talked about so much and it made me feel a lot of feelings again that I didn't know was still there. She also made me hug her before I left the next day but now she's acting like she feels guilty about seeing me and I feel like I'm in love with her again.
The man she is pregnant by M32 treats her poorly and says things like he doesn't think her baby is his and calls her names and she said she was only with him a month before she found out she was pregnant. She also said that she thinks she got pregnant way too soon. What should I do in the situation?
I still want to see her and she acts like she'd like to see me but we have to sneak around and I don't really understand why she wants to see me if she's concerned about the guy she's pregnant by and I also don't know why she lets us interact in romantic ways if she doesn't actually want to take our relationship anywhere. I hope I've made enough sense for someone to give me some advice because I really need some right now.
I loved this girl and high school and I love her now and I'm just very confused right now by how she talks to me and how she interacts with me. She also is receptive to my flirting and my flirtacious compliments and even plays into me saying things like I'll be her child's stepfather or how I know she feels the same way I do.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you

I know pagod minsan mga empleyado and I validate their feelings. But I have feelings as well.
Scenario #1: Sanay ako minsan na pumipila sa prestige line sa SM Supermarket dahil my parents own a prestige card. Pero one time, ako lang mag-isa at 'di ko namalayan na sa prestige line ako nakapila. Nung una, 'di ko pansin na nakapila ako. Tapos may isang cashier (without even asking if may prestige card ako) na nilakasan ang kanyang boses at sinabing, "Ma'am, mali kayo ng pinilahan." Tapos tinuro niya ang prestige sign. Tapos inulit niya pa nang malakas. Tapos yung mga tao na kasama ko sa pila tinignan nila akong lahat. Tapos umalis ako sa pila and yung babae na nasa huling pila tinitigan ako mula ulo hanggang paa. Wala naman akong problema if pagsasabihan ako nang maayos kasi mali naman talaga ako ng pinilahan. Pero ang rude lang na binase na agad sa itsura ko at inassume na 'di ako nabibilang sa pilahan without even asking me na, "ma'am may prestige po ba kayo?" Pero hindi siya nagtanong ng ganun sa akin. The girl was so blatantly rude towards me. Even some customers na kasama ko sa pilahan ang sama pa ng tingin sa akin. Mukha rin kasi akong high school kahit nasa 20s pataas na ako (may degree na ako at kasalukuyang nasa graduate school but baby face ako). Napahiya ako doon dahil sa empleyado na 'yun. This goes to show that people judge you for the way you look. Sana matuto ang mga tao to be kinder sa kapwa nila - mayaman man o mahirap. 'Wag din sana mayabang ang iba na porket nasa prestige kayo ang taas na ng tingin niyo sa sarili niyo.
Scenario #2: Some Watsons employees are rude and/or passive aggressive. Medyo marami na rin akong experience, so 'di ko na paisa-isahin pa. Pero 'di ko naman nilalahat kasi may mga iba rin naman na mababait. Pero one time, I went to the store to buy some drinks. Nagkataon na yung roommate (friend) ko is nandoon din. As soon as I paid the items, binigay ko yung advantage card ko sa friend ko para may dagdag points ulit ako. 'Di yata napansin ng cashier na yung card ko is binigay ko sa friend ko nung siya na ang nasa harapan ng cashier. After ma-swipe ng cashier yung card, kinuha ko ito bigla. Masama tingin sa akin ng cashier. Muntikan na ako magka-anxiety attack nun pero ngumiti lang ako at sinabi ko na, "Ah, gusto ko lang madagdagan points ko." 'Di kumibo friend ko nung kinuha ko yung advantage card, so siguro inassume na ng cashier na magkasama kami. Gets ko naman kasi baka akala niya magnanakaw ako at baka nabigla siya. Pero ang nakakainis lang is that no matter what I do, some of them are still rude or 'di masaya sa trabaho nila. Intimidating sila at times. Minsan, iba sa kanila 'di pa marunong rumespeto sa boundaries ng mga tao kahit gusto lang naman ng mga customers bumili nang payapa.
Marami pa akong experiences pero eto pa lang ang natatandaan ko.

I’m a 22 year old man and haven’t been in a relationship since right after high school. I’ve been interested in a girl that’s only a year or so younger than me, so similar phase of life. I’ve been tempted to ask her out, but I don’t have a driver’s license and I feel like that means I’d be asking a lot out of a partner
I generally know how to drive, just haven’t done it enough to feel comfortable and have been procrastinating getting my license for awhile. I’m not exactly embarrassed about it, though I do feel guilty about always needing someone else to pick me up.
Where I live doesn’t really have accessible public transit. I was wondering if people feel it’d be selfish and irresponsible to try entering relationships in this situation. I’m not assuming I’d have a shot in the first place, I’d honestly be totally cool with rejection, I’ve had my fill, but I still feel guilty about the idea of trying to pursue anything

In my sophomore year of high school I fell in love with this girl. Let’s call her “traitor”. When i first met traitor everything was great,we got along great until…I told her I had feelings for her… that’s when everything had turned to st. She started accusing me of things I wasn’t doing. She started to become uninterested in me. She started to act like I wasn’t worth her time and that hurt my soul. So the rest of that year, traitor and I argued(sometimes my fault and most times her fault) fast forward to my junior year… traitor treated me like complete st. Let me give you some examples of what she did to me:
1.would make offense and hurtful jokes but would get mad when I would do what she was doing

1. she would talk crap about me to all of her friends and have them give me stupid looks and lie about it that she never did any of that and they were all just rumors
   
2. She would make up, lies about my friends, threatening to jump her. When half of them don’t even know her.
   
3. She would blame everything on everybody else except her boyfriend… she could never take the responsibility for herself
   
4. Knowing that I liked her, she would tell me about her and her boyfriend”spicy stuff” which would make me feel sick because she knew that I liked her
   
5. We were only allowed to talk about what she wanted to talk about otherwise it wasn’t important.
   
6. She had given out my number and had her friends cyber bully me, blamed it on them, and threaten to tell the police that I was harassing her if I went to go to the police about her friends.
   
7. She lied that I gotta stay order on her. That said we had to stay 50 feet away from each other.
   
8. I always had to walk on eggshells with her and etc. So after all of this, she had blocked me because she didn’t want to admit her wrongdoings and then when I apologize to her, she had no problem with that
   

so the forgiving part of me decided to give her another chance because I believe in more chances and I always wanna see the best in people . I guess I had made a joke that she didn’t like, but she didn’t let me know(which usually she would make jokes that I didn’t like and I would just have to sit there and take it and keep my mouth shut) she ended up blocking me and when I confronted her about it, she tried to ignore me but when she couldn’t avoid me anymore she said, and I quote:” oh yeah me and my boyfriend talked about it and we both don’t really don’t want to talk to you(a.k.a. you’re not worth my time)”when I heard say that,that broke me. that’s when I shouted in front of all the courtyard “ you wanna f****k up your life that’s on you,go to hell,b****ch “ later I felt so bad about what I had said, and I was thinking of apologizing and giving her another chance but as much as I want to give her another chance, trying to take the little good times we had isn’t worth it. as much as I wanted it to be, but sometimes I do question myself whether I was the a-hole or not and if I should go up to her and apologize.
So,aita for telling her to go to hell?
P.s feel free to give advice,it’s very much needed ❤️ and sorry if this is really bad this is my first time doing this…
and I will also also try my best to give you guys an update if there is one to give.

so far i've watched these animes:-
Attack on Titan, Jujutsu Kaisen, Your Name, Demon Slayer, Black Clover, Solo Leveling, Devilman Crybaby, Eighty-Six, Summertime Rendering, My Dress-up Darling, Naruto, High School dxd, Weathering with you, I want eat your pancreas, Garden of words etc.
I need some anime recommendations, which have a great story line, no matter it's genres. I just want to watch an anime with a good storyline and proper ending.

Help out a junior tryna make a college list. Bay area 😭
No hooks wanting to go into finance. Ideally wanna add a CS/DS double major after I get in.
GPA: 3.35 UWGPA end of junior year, upward trend from freshman year. UC unweighted: 3.5, UC weighted: 4.0, UC weighted and capped: 3.83
ACT: 35
ECs: tutoring business, 3 years, 5 figure revenue, managing a team of 20+, Creating a website, partnered with 25+ charities, raised $3000+, Published a book about Fintech, Deca since sophomore year, got officer position, Volunteering for an organization since freshman year, helping disabled people, VP of a web3 non-profit. 2000+ people reached, conducted massive pitchfests, partnered with F500 CEOs, etc, Created an options trading algorithm: has over 3k downloads, Summer job every summer of high school, Research paper with a professor, Multiple internships in CS and Finance, Volunteering: tutored CS for underprivileged students in Africa.
Awards: PVSA Gold, Handful of FBLA/DECA awards. Highest is 6th place internationals for Deca. Have many more states/regional awards
I know my gpa is really low but maybe ECs make up for it? Trying to start on a list but I have no clue what kind of schools I should apply to. Any shot at T40s?