I need some help on how to analyze some data I collected for my project. I basically measured my results by seeing whether the subject selected an answer that correlated with the ordinal values of 0,1,2, or 3. I have it all in a frequency table of how often each of those values were selected, but Idk how to run any other analysis like an anova or Kruskal-Wallis Test. plz help me lol

I will most likely take the WAIS-V (as part of a broader assessment) this fall/winter. I've never taken the WAIS-IV, WAIS-III, etc.
I have taken the CAIT, Raven's, and a lot of other free online IQ tests, most of them involving matrices.
I've decided to quit taking online IQ tests in an attempt to prevent the WAIS results from being invalidated. So by the time I actually take the test, it will have been at least 6 months since my last online IQ test.
Nonetheless, I'm concerned that my prior experience with IQ tests will inflate my results. And while I don't know any of the WAIS-V solutions, nor have I practiced any of the skills that I will be tested on (such as matrix reasoning or coding), I am concerned that my knowledge of how the test is structured may confer an advantage. I am aware of what the subtests are, what the directions/instructions are, and which ones are timed. So I wouldn't be going into it totally naive. So while I do not know any of the answers or any tricks (for digit span, for example), I am worried that I still know too much about the format of the test.
I guess my question is: how problematic is this? Do you think this is a valid concern, or am I worrying about a nothing burger?

I need some help on how to analyze some data I collected for my project. I basically measured my results by seeing whether the subject selected an answer that correlated with the ordinal values of 0,1,2, or 3. I have it all in a frequency table of how often each of those values were selected, but Idk how to run any other analysis like an anova or Kruskal-Wallis Test. plz help me lol

I (M28) moved in with a couple that are a friend of a friend type deal. They (M28 and F27) own a home together and have 2 other housemates living with them. We are all working professionals. Upon moving in, the dynamic was great. I'm always at work or gone from the home so I rarely interacted with them, rent is always 2 weeks early, I keep the place clean, I don't bring guests over. Additionally, they have 3 cats from the couple and 2 cats from one of the other housemates. I play with the cats and will sometimes clean their kitty litter area if it gets too messy, I don't expect anything out of it I just genuinely like their cats.
When I moved in, part of my lease agreement stated that I could have a dog. Prior to signing the lease and prior to moving in I had voiced that I intended to get to get a dog. Several months later I was out and about and saw some puppies, I went up to view them and one of them was crying and then crawled on me. I picked the puppy up, it stopped crying then peed on me.. I immediately knew that was my dog. I'm not one to get emotional and act on impulse but I knew that was my dog.
I called up my housemates (the owners) and told them that I will likely get a dog by the end of the weekend. I texted so that I could have it in writing that I was going to get a puppy, the puppy was to stay in my room away from the stay in my room to quarantine just in case it was sick. I am going to come home every day for lunch to feed the puppy, play with him, feed him etc. Additionally, I was going to limit the amount of hours I worked to put a lot of time into my pup. I also stated that if it didn't work out, it would hurt my soul but, I could easily re-home my pup and have him stay with my mom.
I f*cked up and ended up getting the dog that day but several hours later, making sure my mom was okay with possibly taking the dog if it didn't work out. I got my dog on a Saturday and that day I bought all his necessities, including a travel bag/crate to put him in so that I could keep him off the ground just in case he was sick with something and I didn't know.
That Sunday, he stayed in my room, and I quarantined myself in there as a precaution. I made an appointment with a Vet for Monday (2 days after I had got him). I took half the day off of work so that I could take him. I spent a LOT of money to get him evaluated and tested for possible transmissible diseases that could get the cats sick. I asked the vet all the right questions in terms of the do's and don'ts about puppy health. Specifically asked, "can my dog get the cats sick?" The Vet said "not unless my dog is sick and the cats get around him or specifically his poo." I followed up with, "Can the cats get my dog sick?" He said, "not unless the puppy is in direct contact with the cat's feces." I continued to quarantine my pup, got him some artificial turf, began to crate train and potty train immediately. I got his results quick, by Wednesday... he came back with a clean bill of health and had an appointment that following Saturday for his first dose of distemper (parvo vaccine). He got his first parvo vaccine and was given his first dose of topical anti-flea medicine. During this visit, I asked the vet two questions 1) Can I start taking my dog out in my backyard to potty train him? 2) Will my dog get the cats sick? Answer: 1) So long as you know that no other dogs have been back there to pee/poo and he's not in direct contact with pee/poo. 2) No, especially now that we know that he is not a carrier of anything.
At this point, in order to potty train my dog, when I catch him squatting in my room, I'm picking him up and taking him to the door, having him ring (touch a bell thing), and taking him to a specific spot in the back yard. When he's done, I carry him back in or stay outside with him to play a little since we're confined to only being in my room and the backyard. After which, I carry him and bring him back in. I'm kind of in my own world as I am really happy but I begin to notice that the owners are being passive aggressive, they aren't asking about the puppy or how he's doing or even saying "hi" to me... hell .. they haven't even made an attempt to meet him. It didn't hit me until I asked one of them if they wanted to meet the puppy and they responded with "nah, I'm good. I'm okay." I was immediately thrown back thinking to myself "who doesn't want to meet a puppy?"
I came home from work one day, put the puppy in his case and took him out to play/poo/pee. I brought him back in and I finally heard the business. The girlfriend was pissed to the point where you can hear that she wanted to cry (that cracked voice sound). "I can't believe you did this, it was impulsive. You got the dog without even asking us. He can get our cats sick. He can bring in fleas, we're very serious about fleas. You did not discuss this with us. We had a similar situation with our last roommate that didn't take care of his cat and neglected it." It went on and on and on. I calmly responded with, "Please do not equate me with another individual. I took my dog to the vet not even 2 days after I got him, since then he's been in my room and in my room only. He already has one of his shots, is on anti flea meds, gets his second dose April 20th and third May 18th." She emotionally goes on and on and effectively makes it sound like I'm incompetent... I'm an electrical engineer... I'm not stupid by any means. I got her questions answered but she still requested that I carry him in his case despite already establishing that he cannot get the cats sick, whatever, I'm still honoring that request.
We are all talking normal again but still, they have not made an attempt to meet the puppy nor ask about my puppy. They just see me taking him out to the backyard or leaving with him. The only puppy related thing they asked is that I spray water over where he pees in the backyard because it can kill the grill. My puppy is 4 - 5 lbs at 10 weeks old, he pees milliliters, we have san augustine grass, this grass is literally unkillable short of not watering it (this request I do not honor as I just found it completely irrational, when he gets bigger... sure.. right now though?).
I feel like I'm walking on egg shells here. I want to move but this place is 25 minutes (without traffic) from my job and is affordable. I have three options 1) Move out further from work and get my own place. 2) Move back in with my mom who lives 55 miles away from my job. 3) Re-home my dog. First two options mean that I will not be able to go home for lunch to take my dog out to pee/poo and play/eat. Third option, is the nuclear one and I don't want to touch it.
I don't know how to go about this, I know I jacked up by impulsively getting the dog but he's here and I'm making it work but at the same time feel like I'm keeping him prisoner in my room.
My housemates are cool, they're well educated and nice people but man, they are passive aggressive as heck. It kills me that they won't even acknowledge my puppy, he's done nothing wrong. I kills me more because he loves people and gets excited to meet new people. When I'm gone at work, he does not cry, bark, etc. He's just chill'n with his music (low volume), chewing on his toys, searching for snacks that I've hid in his play area, sleeping or waiting for me. My housemates legit do not have to do anything, I have not asked anything of them and it kills me that they won't even acknowledge him.
How do I go about this?
tldr: I got a puppy, am a responsible owner but owners are being weird about me having a dog despite it being okay on lease. I don't want to move due to proximity to work.

This is going to be a long one so heads up.
A bit of back story; I started dating my husband when I was 15. I chased this boy thorugh hell and back just to get a chance. Problems between us were immediate but didn't seem significant at the time. A few months into our relationship he had an adult "friend" that was telling him he needed to get control of me or "put me in my place" (referencing he should hit me). He didn't but the ego it gave him was a hard battel. 8 months into our relationship my mother forced me to move states because I was starting the process of emancipation and she didn't like that. I was still going through with it, it was just a buffer. 2 weeks after I left he was flirting with my friends. We were on and off for 3 months long distance before I said I had enough. When my emancipation was complete (6 months after I moved and about 3 months after we officially split) I let him know because we were still in touch. It was a few days after that he decided he wanted to try things again and came to me. Just a few days of being with me he decided he wanted to go home, with or without me. I reluctantly agreed to go with him even though I was comfortable where I was. We stayed in a trailer for months in the snow with no power or heat but I toughed it out. Eventually we moved in with his family. During that time he broke up with me multiple times to mess aground with other girls. We ended up moving again and he would be gone all the time hanging out with his friends. There were nights I would beg him, crying, for him to just come home and he would refuse We ended up moving again and spent some time with my family (i was 17). 3 days in he called his mom to have someone pick him up. He regretted it and I went and picked him up and brought him back. A few months after that he decided to leave again. 3 days later I was feeling weird. I just had an odd feeling, I didn't miss my period or anything but I had a friend get me a pregnancy test anyway. It came out positive. I didn't want kids, I never did. But I decided to keep the baby because he wanted to. He promised a better life. So he comes and picks me up and we move back in with his family. Everything was going great. Then I miscarried. After the miscarriage he was upset, he was really excited about having a kid. We talk about it and he talked me into trying for one on purpose, his family agreed with this. He promised to drop the weed, drop the beer, get a job and work his ass off for us. That never really happened. So here I am 17, and 5 months pregnant, he has 3 tall cans of beer in his system and starts being an ass. We get into it and he lays his hands on me. I locked him out of the room that night. So he finally drops the alcohol for good. We end up moving again. We got married the day I turned 18 because of his religious family. We fought about the weed and he "quit". But in reality he was just doing it behind my back. He would get mad at me for calling people out on their fake service dogs (I have a service dog and the fakes put me at great risk). He held a job for a really long time, making good money, and spoiling the shit out of me. Eventually we argue about the weed again. I almost left but he said he wouldn't be doing it anymore. Then again we argue about the weed, this time I agree to let him have dab carts. 2 a week. He ended up with between 3-5 a week. Things were really good for a long time after that.
Keep in mind everything I listed was not the entire relationship. Between all these bad moments there are lots of great ones. I have thousands of happy pictures and videos of us.
Now to recently. We moved back to our hometown. He spent a lot of time hanging out with his buddies and leaving me with the baby. He started smoking flower again and had the sudden urge to drink again. I was alone 90% of the time. So where do I go? I have a boy best friend that has been through hell and back with me since the first day of middle school. So I spent a lot of time hanging out with him while my husband was off fucking around like a child. Then the weird questions came in. "Are you doing anything with him while I'm gone?" "Your not cheating on me right?" Ect. No I wasn't. About a week ago I told my bsf I was picking him up from work. While I was in the parking lot waiting my husband calls insiting I pick him up first. I told him no because I didn't have room in the car for both and I was already there waiting. Well that started this whole fit about how asking him to wait 10 minutes was prioritizing my bsf over my husband. Eventually we get to my friends house, and my husband was waiting for us. He was just talking shit and being an ass for 20 minutes before he decided to leave in MY CAR. We argue over text for a while and then he tells me he's done with me. Fine. I give up. I don't care anymore. Then 30 minutes later he's accusing me of cheating with my bsf. He has told all his friends and family that I'm a hoe (my body count is 2 including him and the other one is NOT my bsf). My bsf has been doing his best to take care of me and help me out. Feeding me, taking over the baby, putting gas in my car, letting me stay the night. He's been a life saver for me.
Now it's a week later and he's asking if there is a chance we can work things out in the future... I love him I really do. He has lots of issues tho but so do I. My BPD makes me hard to handle sometimes as do my other mental and health problems.
I'm sure I know what the answer is already but what do I do? I'm a mess.

It won't make sense that if you believe that Allah will already punish someone if the person chooses to fail the test, that another believer is given powers to punish.
Shouldn't someone be let to fail shower much they want in this life and do all the bad things coz they will be punished anyways by God? Then what is the point of the test.
The only possible answer lies in any cultist mentality of insecurity. That the religion to survive, it needs to punish wrongdoing for the fear of losing other followers, hell should be an enough scare to a believer but because it's not, another form of current scare is needed.

Hey! I have been spending a lot of time in this subreddit reading other people’s experiences to comfort myself through my own abortion process, and I wanted to share my story for any other uterus-havers out there that were in the same boat as me and need a little reassurance and honesty about the process. For reference, I’m 19F and 5’4/115lbs, and I’ve been with my partner (20M) for almost three years.
I took a pregnancy test on the 40th day of my cycle (so I was five weeks four days along, my period was a week and a half late) and got a very quick positive result. I had a suspicion that I was pregnant because I had some weird spotting in the middle of my cycle and the week my period was supposed to start (no clotting), odd cramps, random nausea from strong smells, needing to pee way more than usual, random sadness and aggression from ovulation onward, extreme breast swelling and sensitivity (they were agonizing to even touch) and an ever so slight bloat that appeared right around ovulation and never really went down. I live in a southern state and knew that going in for procedure was going to be a goat rope despite the fact that I live in a decently sized city- I knew that if I was pregnant I wanted to have the medical abortion at home with my partner.
I ordered pills from AidAccess and it couldn’t have been any simpler, all I had to do was fill out a short survey and they guided me through email on how to pay for the pills. They were delivered about three days after I ordered them in an unmarked mail envelope with directions on how to use them inside. I ordered them a few days before I took the test because I was pretty confident it was going to be positive. They sent me 1 Mifepristone and 12 Misoprostol.
I took the test on a Friday night and told my partner I was pregnant, and he insisted I take another test just to be sure before I took the medication. Once again, another strong positive. At 9pm that night I took 800mg of Motrin (4 pills) and ate a bag of microwave popcorn and drank some water so I’d have something on my stomach. At 9:30 I took the Mifepristone orally and immediately inserted 4 Misoprostol vaginally- I’m terrified of throwing up and told my partner that if we had to get medical help to make sure there weren’t any remnants of the pills left inside. I know it’s NOT OPTIMAL to take the Miso at the same time as the Mife, but it was Easter weekend and I couldn’t be prolonging this process to when I would be going back to my extremely Christian and conservative parents’ house for the holiday.
I was extremely terrified and shaking when I got back into bed with my partner, and he rubbed my stomach to calm me down and put on a movie as a distraction. After about an hour I felt some light cramping and discomfort but nothing serious. At 12:30am, I inserted the next 4 pills vaginally- there was no bleeding at this point and I was worried, but I decided to give it time. My partner and I fell asleep around 1am and I woke up at about 3:15am to some discomfort but no real pain, and at 3:30am I inserted the last 4 pills and had bloody fingers after. I slept until about 10am the next morning and woke up feeling normal and not in any pain. I went to the bathroom to pee, and as soon as I sat down I had about a solid thirty seconds of chunks, clotting, and blood pouring out. I called my partner in and we ultimately determined that I had probably passed the pregnancy with the size of the chunks in the toilet.
Saturday and Easter Sunday were fairly normal, I stayed taking Motrin and bleeding ever so slightly throughout the weekend. The worst part was the hormonal comedown, I felt like I had been hit by a bus emotionally and didn’t really compute actual feelings. Monday morning I got up and went into work feeling pretty normal, and at about 9:30am I got hit with the worst abdominal pain I have ever felt in my life (I’m prescribed opioids for my cramps as a result of how many times I’ve been hospitalized from sheer pain, so this was a big deal) and clung to the toilet bowl for about 45 minutes at my research firm before just calling it a day and going home. I took 800mg of Motrin and it took about two hours to kick- those were probably the worst two hours of my life up to that point. Nothing would shake the pain, I was taking hot baths and putting microwaved bags of rice on my stomach and nothing was alleviating it. I also started bleeding heavily and clotting severely again. By about 2:30pm that afternoon I was feeling okay enough to get myself some food and felt like I would be able to go into work the next day.
I was so wrong. I was so entirely wrong. I woke up at about 8:00am the next morning and immediately vomited from the antagonizing pain I was in. This was the first time I actually threw up during the whole experience- thankfully my partner was there to hold my hair back and try to make me eat toaster waffles so I could take some more Motrin before he went to work. I was somehow able to choke it down and fell asleep shortly after as I did NOT want to be awake. Wednesday was a little crampy and bloody but I went to work and took breaks sitting on the cold bathroom floor for about 15-20 minutes at a time through the day- but by Thursday we were smooth sailing.
The uterine swelling, needing to pee, and breast tenderness went away after about a week and a half, and the bleeding stopped after about two weeks. I took two more pregnancy tests exactly four weeks from that Friday and they were both negative, and my first period was exactly six weeks after the abortion- it started this Friday. Emotionally, I’m still recovering- Mother’s Day kinda sucked for me I won’t lie, haha. I definitely couldn’t handle a baby right now as I’m a research scientist and my career is on the incline, but it’s fun to dream.
I’ll put any resources I used in the comments as this post is getting very long, and I’ll try to answer whatever questions anyone has to the best of my ability. The buildup was definitely scarier than the actual thing, as it was just like having a heavy period drawn out- and if you’re pregnant, you’ve probably had a period before, so just look at it as something you already experience once every 4 weeks, just ever so slightly amped up. Nothing new. You got this!

I went to my GYN to show her my Juno Bio results and she completely dismissed me. I explained to her that it seems like I had a high amount of strep in my sample and she just said that she had never heard of it and just continued to test me using a swab for standard BV…even after I tried telling her that my tests kept coming up negative every single time and the bacteria that showed up on the Juno Bio test were all different from the ones that the GYN office tests for. I just feel so defeated because I thought I had finally found some answers but my doctor wasn’t even willing to listen to me nor did she even seem interested in looking at the results I got. She just brushed me off and continued telling me the same generic things: “wear cotton underwear”, “wash with hypoallergenic soaps”, “take probiotics” and the list goes on. I’ve tried all of that…I’ve been doing it for months and have seen no change in my symptoms. I feel the exact same and I’m so tired of it. Maybe it was my fault for even going back to that doctor but I thought maybe she would be able to help this time. It seems that there aren’t many GYNs who are knowledgeable about AV and they don’t really seem to want to listen to their patients concerns.
Before I went back to my original GYN, I saw a telehealth doctor who I mentioned my problem to first. I explained to her my results and I also told her how I was cured the last time, but she seemed weary about giving me antibiotics since I’ve taken quite a few in the past. Instead, she mentioned using vitamin c and boric acid suppositories and trying a different kind of probiotic to see if it’ll help, but no probiotics have been working for me so far. I just wanted to see if I could try taking antibiotics one last time (the one that worked) and then follow up with a more homeopathic approach to avoid having to taking them so much in the future…no doctor will listen to me though.
Anyway, after I told her about my symptoms, surprisingly, she knew what strep was and her office even has a test for it…I think it’s for Group B Strep and other aerobic bacteria’s if I’m not mistaken. She said it’s called Swab One. I’m not sure if you all have heard of it. I see her next week, so I’m trying to be optimistic about it but I still have a lot of doubt at the moment. I just want to be fixed.

I used to wonder why god gives people power to punish people, had we been living in a shariah society when already this life itself is a test and punishments will be there by god eventually.
For example, knowing that something is wrong and the punishment will be burning for hell, and I choose to still do it, shouldn't people just let me be because whatever the case, I will be punished, why are humans given the go ahead to punish people too, don't they trust that God will punish?
But the answer simply lies on how cults work, because of how fragile the beliefs are , there is fear that this person might make other people question, hence we need to kill, punish or banish him regardless of where he will be punished in the hearafter.
Thankfully we don't live in times where people get killed for choosing to fail the test despite there already being hell, atleast in most parts of the world. This in turn, makes it easy for now these human punishments have been reduced to judgements, and as long as they don't affect you, where when told you should not do this and that, the reply can just be, I am aware, and I choose for God to punish me so let me be.

Hello! I have just adopted a dog I found on the street back in October with my girlfriend. She is 8years old and her name is Athena. We found her in Florida and have recently moved to Massachusetts in January. She didn’t have any life threatening issues from what we saw when we found her, just a cyst on her back that healed up. But like a month and a half ago we saw her sneezing blood. At first I didn’t think anything of it but over time it started to be really bad. Splotches of blood everywhere, constant nosebleeds and trouble breathing. We took her to an emergency vet one day because it was a really bad case that day at like 3am and was told to do a bunch of tests and scans for a lot of money that we do not have. We settled with some antibiotics that worked for a while but is still happening when they wore off. I would get pet insurance but I’m a little new to owning a dog and found out recently that insurances don’t deal with pre existing conditions. These tests are like $2000-5000 for just to see what it’s about and it’s not even set chance that the test will find anything I was told. please help with any answers on what we can do! We’ve been very stressed and worried thank you!
Here’s some more info: Dog 8 years Female Unknown breed 35 lbs When we found her she did have a chip with numbers but no one answered.

I'm 17 and I've tried to kill myself 3 times by hanging and reason that didn't work is because I don't have a rope, I used an extension cord. I think about suicide every single day every hour only reason I'm even alive still is cause I can't find a method to do it I've tried ordering (won't name it but it's poison) a substance online but couldn't buy it cause I'm not 18 yet ii spend at least an hour a day looking on google earth for a spot to jump and die at but the area I live has no high spots unfortunately so it appears unless I figure out how to hang myself, I'm stuck here until I find a method/spot
so basically how I ruined my life is that I dropped out of high school and have been doing nothing since I'm a failure at everything and have no energy to even go outside I'm not a good person but I'm not a horrible human at the same time I don't understand why I'm even on this earth I don't understand the concept of life or why people who arnt rich even enjoy it I was born into a family that's more towards the non-wealthy side
ever since I was a kid I've never had goals in life funny enough that was a question that was brought up in school a lot I've never been able to answer the most simple things in school for ex. questions like your goals, what you did that day, who are your hero's, favorite shows, random shit like that I've always felt different from everyone else and I know I am, I'm undiagnosed with everything but I'm pretty sure I have many mental illnesses I know for sure I have depression and very very severe social anxiety (I can't handle normal conversations using my voice with people I don't know) I can't even talk to people online with my voice I always just tell them I don't have a mic also I think I might have ocd or something to do with patterns cause I used to be so obsessive with patterns if I didn't end my path on my right foot id half to step off and back on or just go all the way back where I started, and another thing is adhd when I used to go to school I would be so unfocused no matter how hard I tried if I tried my best to focus I would focus too much on the fact that I need to focus and somehow my teacher would explain everything and id be lost
my school life was horrible for me ii want to go back so bad so I can at least have some sort of chance at life, but I know I'd be so miserable I don't even know why it was so bad for me it's not like I got bullied or anything I had friends not close friends but friends I didn't talk to anyone outside of my friends and I never had a girlfriend (I girl liked me once but I walked away because of my social anxiety) I would just sleep through every class until the day I stopped going I missed more than half of freshman year and half of sophomore I went like a month of junior year until I dropped out
it's not like I'm a dumb or horrible looking person idk if it's just me being bias towards myself but I'm decently smart I learn things quickly and I'm average looking but my main flaw is that I've never been able to process the first step in anything it's like the first step in anything is mentally impossible for me to get over. I've always had potential and I think that's what's going to sting the most after i end it
every day after to me seems like an endless loop and I'm stuck in it without a way out I've made some friends online (we all don't speak) but I'm still so miserable I can't do anything I feel like I'm so stuck I've tried to ask my grandpa if I can get tested for adhd but he just said "you can't have it that's when u jump all over the walls and stuff" obv he means people who have a lot of energy and to an extent he's right I do nothing but play games all day to cope with the fact I hate myself if I'm not playing games I'm browsing suicide forums or reddit communities based on suicide I want to get my GED or something but it's like I don't have the energy to make the first steps at all
also this happened recently but I found Vyvanse pills (stimulants for people with adhd) I took 5 (I know I shouldn't have) and I felt so much better like I was actually happy and I felt like I could actually do things (I wasted 4 playing games cause I was a lot better when I took them though) with my last one I actually went outside I didn't go out for a good reason though I had the energy I needed so I went out to check out a cell tower to climb so I could do what the forum name is only reason I didn't do it is cause it was gated but it still gave me motivation to acc do stuff I ordered more Adderall pills online from the dark web after they get delivered I'm going to use them so I have the energy to kill myself.
I honestly don't know why I wrote this I think I just needed to vent it's all over the place but oh well hopefully one of my family members use my pc and read this after I die so they can understand how miserable I was or something
if you have any ideas of how I can get my life back on track lmk.

I’ve struggled academically my entire life, I would talk to my mom about my struggles and would be brushed off with the “your brain works differently due to your strokes.” My brother has ADHD. But i finally took matters into my own hands.
I was originally supposed to be evaluated last year, but got my days mixed up. I went for an initial eval last month, and it’s suspected I have ADHD. I took the stupid TOVA test today. I couldn’t control the impulse to not press the x. I looked at the chair next to me, and the beautiful painting above me. I looked at the desk I was sitting at, and the time on my watch. I looked at the keys on the keyboard, and surprisingly didn’t start spinning in the chair.
I should get the results this week, and am excited to hopefully have the answers I’ve wanted for a long time. I’m hopeful that the results will be enough for a diagnosis and that I can start meds. I start my sophomore year of college in the fall, and am hopeful that I may finally be able to semi-function like everyone else.

Hello! I just wanted to hop on here real quick and share my story because not too long ago it was me looking for answers and hope. I am a 24 year old female that was originally “diagnosed” with HPV in 2020.
Backstory: I’d had a boyfriend at the time that cheated on me with his ex and got her pregnant (so obviously no condom). Before we’d started dating we’d gotten all the checks done and were clear to have intercourse without condoms as I had an IUD. He picked up the HPV from her and transferred it to me (yes we broke up but it was too late) and that’s where my story begins.
That year while in for my annual Pap smear I was told I had cell abnormalities, but my doctor never told me specifically it was HPV, just that’d we’d keep an eye on it. This happened for the next couple years until 2022 when I had a whole bunch of genital warts pop up. Initially I’d thought they were maybe razor burn and went to a walk in clinic to be sure. That day I was told by the male PA working that I was fine, it was indeed likely razor burn. Unfortunately, that was a bad call and they continued to spread like wildfire.
Months later I went in to see my gynecologist about the spots, she did a biopsy, and confirmed they were genital warts. We were too far past cryotherapy spot treatment at this point and it was the first time I officially heard I had HPV, not just “cell abnormalities.” I’m not sure why my doctor made it sound so casual, mentioning that lots of people got it at some point in their lives. Either way, I became completely sexually inactive out of fear of spreading it, how could I ever do that to someone? A few weeks later I went in for a full laser therapy surgery on my entire vagina, it was pretty unpleasant and I was out for a few days with a huge tube of aquaphor on hand. That was Dec. 2022.
Months later in July of 2023 I had another pap that still showed the abnormal HPV cells. This was a cause for concern by my doctor who suggested a loop electrosurgical excision procedure and to come in at my earliest convenience (I’d moved from OK to AZ but kept my doctor since we’d come so far together). Well I never got around to it and decided to get a new doctor in AZ because it was illogical to fly for those appointments.
I finally was able to get in to see the doctor of my choice on May 1st of 2024, who finally took the time to explain HPV, the test, how it’s detected, etc. During my pap she took one look at my cervix, said it looked healthy, and that they’d upload the results on the portal as well as give me a call. May 10, 2024 I finally received the normal/negative pap I’d been hoping for. To say I was surprised and overjoyed would be an understatement.
As for what I did? Well… I don’t really know. I graduated college in May 2022 and around that time I became pretty health conscious. I lost 25 pounds (160lbs to 135lbs as a 5’7” F) by working out multiple times a week, cutting out seed oils, drinking purified water, focusing on whole/natural foods, and getting more sleep. I can’t say for sure if this helped specifically, but you never know.
I also had never been HPV vaccinated and got my shots in 2023, I figured it wouldn’t hurt and my doctor gave me the green light.
I hope this helps someone realize it’ll be ok, but to keep up with those tests. I was convinced I’d have it forever and then one day it was just gone. I wish HPV was talked about and normalized more because I was confused and felt so dirty. I googled my little heart out, read all the Reddit pages, and ultimately found some peace with knowledge. Please leave your thoughts and questions, I’d love to hear from you!
Signed, OP

Hello everyone, I’m a 27year old female, I have a ongoing issue with my bladder now for about 2 weeks, I went to urgent care with what I thought was symptoms of a UTI(Burning while urinating, persistent need to pee, confusion and pain) I get a test done and they concluded that I do not have a UTI however I do have Blood in my urine, I get this dr who looks like Mrs Trunchbull from Matilda waddle in ,look me up and down and say “nothing is wrong,you only have e blood in your urine, go home and drink water” she then told me that they will go ahead and run a urinal cultural on my urine, Something wasn’t sitting right with me though,I waited and waited and got tired of it so I went to my local CVS and purchased at home UTI test strips and discovered that I have a high amount of leukocytes in my urine, but here’s the catch…zero Nitrites,So I text my dr through patient portal and tell her what my results are, she agrees that something may be wrong but wanted me to take a 5day UTI antibiotic just to be sure, by this time I got my cultural results back and of course they say “nothing grew,you are fine” me being me I didn’t like that answer but I just stayed quiet and hopeful and took my 5day antibiotics, well this Saturday rolls around and I’m still in pain, I have that urge still and I really need to get some answers, the antibiotics didn’t work, I tested my urine today and whattya know, I still have the same leukocytes in my urine, I’m finally going to a OBGYN tomorrow morning, However what are your thoughts on what this could be!? I’ll keep you all posted with an update.
TL;DR: Found traces of Blood and Leukocytes in my urine, I do not have Nitrites or UTI,Antibiotics didn’t work,I’m in agonizing pain.

Hi I just wanna share my LDR story cuz I can't really judge clearly right now without being biased. I'm already attached to him given na naka abot na kami ng 4years and my mind seems to justify him. We broke up last May 5 lang.
Anyways, I'm 23F, filipino and he's 23M, indian.
Ps. Medyo mahaba hahaha
So, we met on a MMORPG last summer of 2020. We started talking on DC and I usually don't get interested to ppl I met online but his attack was kinda different. He asked about my GPA and I was like wow concern sa grado baka matino. Ganern. Online classes are still on going that time so we usually talk more at night. And it wasn't just some small talks but quality talks. About life ganern, interests and views on different things. We don't usually agree but we both talk so deeply about it kaya nagkasundo.
Fast forward, ako talaga ang unang naattached. And I already know that time (which was only months after we first talked) na wala kaming patutunguhan. He wasn't that attached to the point of considering me on his future. But still, I didn't mind. Wala pa din naman akong plano sumabak sa relationship irl. NBSB pero may mga manliligaw. So ayun, nagpatuloy sa kalandian habang nanonotice ko na na medyo may katotohanan na sa mga "I love you" nya. We've been so wholesome na rin. Been into different kind of games like Dragon Raja, 8ball, COC, at halos lahat na yata ng games sa play store na subukan na. Hindi naman ako gamer tbh ML lang talaga yung game na nilalaro ko tyaka yung MMORPG na yun. But anyways to make the story short, sa 4 years na yun marami na ring away. Let's say every year may pinag aawayan talaga. He was talking to girls on DC even tho it wasn't that malicious but still. We started there too😆 iyan yung issue sa let's say 2-3 yrs ig. Pero di naman sobrang dami mga like 2 months lng out of 12. Then last year, he greeted his ex of 2yrs a happy birthday. Tbh nung unang year wala lang sa akin. On our 2nd year when I found out, I told him to stop cuz I didn't like it. Last year was kinda diff cuz he greeted her a belated birthday mga atiiih. Belated hahahaha the care to greet even though it was alrdy late di ba. So nag away ulit. Ilang beses na rin sya nag ask ng chances sa 4yrs na Yan. Like super sincere to the point na hindi ka niya tatantanan ng message mapa DC, tele, WhatsApp or insta. Ilang beses na rin sya umiyak dahil sa situation namin like sa LDR, to say sorry, dahil sa different beliefs and all. I told him that we should wait until 26 to decide if pwede na iuwi sa kasalan hahaha ganun kalala ang love and patience ko mga bhiee. He agreed too cuz by that time, we will be mature enough to decide considering na di pa sya secured sa job that time. And to conclude kasi napahaba na, for me, our love was real and very wholesome I might not show it through this forum but yeah, it was. But the thing is, last 1st week of May I kinda tested him saying that, "this is probably the lowest point of my life" cuz currently we're having some financial problem cuz of hospitalization and he knew it. But guess what, he ignored that msg. I told him goodnight right after kasi mukhang Wala talaga syang plano mag reply and guess what, he replied. "Sorry Im kinda busy, you can sleep tho" okay I understand. Busy sya. But girl diba? Am I wrong tho? Did I just assume stuffs? Pero I decided to end it right after. I deleted my msged abt that lowest point shi and he innocently asked if I want to explain why I was breaking up with him. And I told him no need. Cuz bakit pa? I've had my answer. And si kuya sabi niya, I kinda know why and it's rlly hard that I can't do anything about it. Pero why not console me? Pero mali ba ako? I need your wisdom masyado nang biased utak ko. So ayun wala na talaga. Kala ko mabilis lang mag move on since online lang pero iba rin talaga pag naattached na haha. Was I wrong tho or did I saved myself. Anyways, graduation na nxt year so focus nlang muna sa studies ngayon.

I got a 43/55 on the collegeboard practice test and I was proud, and then I took the one at the back of AMSCO and i got a fucking 9/55 on that fucking test (took it right after the collegeboard). The answers half the time don't even fucking make sense and it really brought my mental down because ive been using the fucking amsco book to study for the past week. What am I doing wrong?

Hi! I’m working on a project with a few buddies of mine that’s more or less your typical fantasy tabletop game.
We’re past the idea stage of the project, and have the base system we want the game to be written down, and a good buddy of mine has begun posting some concept doodles over on his Twitter.
We’re looking to expand our team with people from pretty much all fields interested in developing a tabletop game as we get ready to launch a Kickstarter campaign.

For Programmers & 3D Modelers Interested in the Project:

We’re looking for people who can make some test footage of an app/website we can use in the Kickstarter campaign - particularly, we want to show off these aspects:
-A 3D CharacteMiniature creator adapting the style of our team’s artist, going for a more Anime/Dragon Quest inspired aesthetic, and using some of the character options that will be available in the game
-A customizable battle map you can display your miniatures and tokens on as the Gamemaster runs the encounter, showing off some the actions you can take in combat

For Writers and Game Devs Interested in the Project:

As I said above, we have an outline with all the rules, character options, and features we want to include in a document that’s about 69 pages(give or take) but it’s more of a skeleton as it currently stands, and we’d like to bring more people in to get feedback and expand on some of the base ideas we have.
In particular, we need:
-Writers with a grasp on history & religion to expand on the cultures and pantheons we have and help write lore and history for them
-Tabletop/RPG game devs to give feedback, and give their thoughts on what they like, what they don’t like, and possibly help in some areas that could use more work

For Artist & Animators Interested in the Project:

Our team Artist is going to be working on an animation to use for our Kickstarter Campaign while also making concept art for the game itself. We’re looking for people who can replicate his style, and either do more line work, shade or ‘digitally ink’ his pieces for a more classic RPG manual aesthetic in the concepts, storyboard, or do a sequence of animation for the trailer.
He’s a bit of a newbie when it comes to animation, so even just giving your input on pointers or tips and tricks you like to use would also be very helpful.

For Sound Designers and Voice Actors Interested in the Project:

We’re looking for people who can make some music along with the planned animation, make some sound effects for any potential programmers that join our team to use in the test footage, and VO’s to lend their voices for characters in the project’s animation.
If you want more details or have any questions, feel free to comment below or shoot me a DM. I’ll answer to the best of my ability when I receive your message.

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Here is a quick compilation of recent Hinge changes and issues.
Top Photo
Hinge is rolling out the Top Photo feature to various locations. Note that if the Top Photo option is available for you, it is toggled on by default. You won't notice the photos shuffling when you view your own profile in the edit section. When you see the same people's profile on discover shuffling their photos constantly, it's because of Top Photo
Hinge however does not state whether or not Top Photo also applies to profiles on your Likes and Match lists. As far as I can tell, Top Photo does not apply to profiles on those lists.
Written Prompts character limit bug
There is a bug where you can't write anymore words in the written prompts without hitting the character limit. The simple work around is to write your prompts in a notes app on your phone, then copy and paste it onto Hinge. If you notice whatever you wrote is cut off by Hinge, it means your written prompt is too long and hit the character limit.
"Nearby" option removed from discover
On the latest UI update, Hinge removed the "Nearby" filter option (as well as the "Compatible" option), with only "Active today" and "New here" available. "Compatible" is now the default option when nothing is chosen. Note, this is only applicable to people with Hinge+ or X.
Hinge Support confirmed that the "Nearby" option was removed on purpose as they are testing this new UI. The important word here is that this is a supposedly a test, so there could be a possibility that Hinge could reverse the change. Hinge wants people to instead have quicker access to preferences in order to filter profiles better. (The three options given are Age, Height, and Dating Intentions.) If you want to see profiles closer to you, Hinge says to manually update the distance preference.
If you liked the "Nearby" option and don't like the fact Hinge removed this option, I suggest filing a support ticket and give them this feedback.
Hidden Words
Hinge added the Hidden Words feature back in April. It seems however, on social media many many people are misinformed as to how this feature actually works.
Hidden Words does not filter out profiles on discover or likes without comments. All it does is filter out specific words if someone sends a comment with their like/rose that contain those words. For example: if you added "pineapple on pizza", it won't filter out any profiles with those words included. Only if someone sent a like that included the comment 'pineapple on pizza" will the Hidden Words filter block that profile from showing up on your Likes list and notifications and instead will move it onto the Hidden Likes list.
So don't bother adding all the cliches you hate seeing on Hinge since it won't do anything to prevent you from seeing them unless they happen to send a comment including those specific phrases. You may instead inadvertently block a well meaning profile who happened to said the wrong words in their comments.
Relationship Type filter
Don't forget that there's a Relationship Type filter now available for most users, and more importantly it is a FREE filter. If you don't want any non-monogamy/poly/ENM people, or only want to seek those types, you can filter them now.
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Less than 3 weeks ago I finally had my husband removed and he is now living at a men’s group home that includes mandatory therapies and DBT five times per week. He got a job already (was unemployed with me for 8 months). It’s an entry level job but at least it’s a job.
Basically he has been doing everything he should have been doing here. He said he’s trying to be positive and rock bottom needed to happen in order for him to get his shit together.
He’s been acting like a totally different person. I guess more like he was in the beginning.
I don’t even recognize this person who has all this energy and smiling and confident and outgoing in public and doing everything on his own.
I don’t know how to feel. I’ve been angry. Bitter. It’s still so fresh from the horrow show. Why couldn’t he be this way before? Why did I have to go through so much? Is how I feel. I’ve been mean at least once a day and I have been picking at him, about his job, about his personality being different, etc.
Hes currently mad at me because he feels he’s doing everything he can “for us” and what he’s supposed to be doing, and I’m still mean to him and so now he feels “suicidal and hopeless and violent again”.
Welp, he’s already starting problems at this group home. Bullied one guy. Trying to show dominance I guess. Flipped out on the owners, started drama out of thin air.
I went to a hair appointment for the first time in almost a year (very unlike me to go that long without getting my hair done) and as expected he started blowing up my phone at my appointment flipping out in a made-up crisis claiming he was lost and demanding I pick him up (I hung up on him).
He claims the group home is kicking him out in 2 weeks due to not having state funding. Then he said it was because his drug test for weed is still showing positive and they said when he arrived he has 30 days to get it out of his system. So I don’t know what’s the real story or if he’s getting kicked out because of his behavior.
He’s been giving me the silent treatment not answering calls and says it’s because *I* need to tell him what *i’m* going to do because *I* need help (because Ive been mean). LMAO. I need help?! Yeah, for what I’ve endured!!!
It reminds me of what I am not missing in my own home. It reminds me of why he is not here.