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2024.05.16 01:47 ilovemygfverymuch28 Need Urgent Advice

Hello. I have been in an LDR for 3 years & i adore my girlfriend more than life itself (per my username) I am not a reddit user & am making this account out of pure desperation My girlfriend has a lot of struggles with mental health. She suffers from severe bpd (& I think depression may have come with it too) which effects us a lot, especially because of the distance We only see each other again in late August because we have final exams to focus on this summer, unfortunately. My girlfriend has been going through a very rough patch mentally, & its difficult to help her from far away. One of the ways i want to help is to make things more exciting, because we seemed to fall into a bit of a daily routine & she is getting bored with it all We call daily for practically the entire day- I know thats not usually advisable, but it works for us. Texting is difficult for her, she feels less connected to me, & being apart for long periods of time causes her to get anxious regardless of reassurance especially with her current mental state. We cycle through playing video games, scrolling her TikTok feed, sometimes reading manga together, & of course just talking. However its starting to get stale, & the suggestions online are all the same! What are unique things I can do to make these calls more fresh? Similarly, is there any way I can really show her love from a distance? Unfortunately her main love languages are physical touch & acts of service, & she struggles with verbal affection. so are there any ways i could fulfil these & really make her feel loved (without breaking the bank)? Thank you for any replies
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2024.05.16 01:47 Fun-Reporter8913 KINDERGARTEN MADNESS - 20 students with adhd

I am a teacher aid at a pre-school. This would be my third year working there. My previous classes have been manageable and nothing out of the ordinary. So my new class has been a real challenge.
I have 3 kids with diagnosed autism. One has a personal teacher that stays with him at all times. The other two don´t. I also have to mention that my school is a "rich-ish people school" they accept any student and it has the reputation to accept kids that have been kicked from other schools (they just care about the money pretty much). The school has never offered training on dealing with special needs children or anything of the sort. Only two girls in the pre school have a degree in psychology the other don't. I personally graduated in Language education. We have 1 child psychologist who is never there. It´s frustating that te school does nothing to help these kids and doesn't do anything on pushing the parents on taking action. I have learned from videos and blogs on education for kids with learning disabilities but I just feel like it´s not enough. Besides my three students that have a hard time at school already the other 17 are all hyperactive, not well behaved and with a pretty much non existant attention span. I know that with kids you have to go overboard, use music, dance, interactive activities. But I swear nothings seems helpful for this group.
The head teacher has bad classroom management and it is chaos everyday. My throat hurts from screaming their names 20 times whether its to call them to get in line or call their attention. Circle time is absolute madness, they start running around, teasing each other, yelling, shouting, standing up, circling on their seats. I have talked to the teacher on what can we do for this to get better. When she is explaining the class I have to constantly tell everybody to sit proper, stop hitting your friend, put that toy in the backpack. Please just help me with advice on this. Anything is helpful. I swear I have never been this stressed.
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2024.05.16 01:45 Otherwise-Gate9490 Were we wrong for this?

So tomorrow (Thursday) is kindergarten graduation (finally omg!) We still have assigned school days on Friday and Monday. The majority of parents have been frustrated by this because they don’t see the point in bringing them those last two days after graduation. They’re planning trips and want to celebrate with family and friends. My team and I agree! There’s nothing for them to do anyway. Grades were due last Wednesday, report card comments have been turned in, we finished all curriculum, got every student MAP tested, submitted RTI paperwork, finished ABC Countdown— we’re done!
So rather than answering the same question a million times, we wrote a ClassDojo letter together stating that, “Per conversations with families, we understand that many students will not be returning after graduation. We are preparing to formally say goodbye to teachers and friends the morning of graduation. Friday and Monday will be spent cleaning out our classrooms for summer break. Students present those days will be together in one of our Kinder classrooms so they aren’t alone. They’ll be playing with centers and doing small activities with that teacher. We wish everyone safe travels and happy summer break!”
Well, here’s the drama: a parent, in my class of course, called the office this afternoon complaining that “the kinder teachers are saying there’s no school on Friday and Monday.” That’s simply just not true. I had admin call me angrily and then rush to me asking to see the post on Dojo. My AP scoffed and said that it’s illegal to post things like that and say there’s no school when there is. I asked her to read it again and to show me where we said that. She wouldn’t. She kept going on about it being illegal. She did make all of us remove the post though. Whatever, that’s fine, no big deal. I get it. Then, after talking to all of us individually she sends out an email to all of us in Kinder saying that we need to apologize and rectify the situation. Rectify what???
Now I’m pretty pissed because 1) that’s not what we said in the first place. 2) we already removed the posts, and 3) what are we even apologizing for????!!!!
Were we in the wrong for writing the letter?
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2024.05.16 01:45 ilovemygfverymuch28 F18 & F19. Looking for Advice! Urgent!

Hello. I have been in an LDR for 3 years & i adore my girlfriend more than life itself (per my username) I am not a reddit user & am making this account out of pure desperation My girlfriend has a lot of struggles with mental health. She suffers from severe bpd (& I think depression may have come with it too) which effects us a lot, especially because of the distance We only see each other again in late August because we have final exams to focus on this summer, unfortunately. My girlfriend has been going through a very rough patch mentally, & its difficult to help her from far away. One of the ways i want to help is to make things more exciting, because we seemed to fall into a bit of a daily routine & she is getting bored with it all We call daily for practically the entire day- I know thats not usually advisable, but it works for us. Texting is difficult for her, she feels less connected to me, & being apart for long periods of time causes her to get anxious regardless of reassurance especially with her current mental state. We cycle through playing video games, scrolling her TikTok feed, sometimes reading manga together, & of course just talking. However its starting to get stale, & the suggestions online are all the same! What are unique things I can do to make these calls more fresh? Similarly, is there any way I can really show her love from a distance? Unfortunately her main love languages are physical touch & acts of service, & she struggles with verbal affection. so are there any ways i could fulfil these & really make her feel loved (without breaking the bank)? Thank you for any replies
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2024.05.16 01:31 Fun-Reporter8913 KINDERGARTEN MADNESS - 20 students with adhd

I am a teacher aid at a pre-school. This would be my third year working there. My previous classes have been manageable and nothing out of the ordinary. So my new class has been a real challenge.
I have 3 kids with diagnosed autism. One has a personal teacher that stays with him at all times. The other two don´t. I also have to mention that my school is a "rich-ish people school" they accept any student and it has the reputation to accept kids that have been kicked from other schools (they just care about the money pretty much). The school has never offered training on dealing with special needs children or anything of the sort. Only two girls in the pre school have a degree in psychology the other don't. I personally graduated in Language education. We have 1 child psychologist who is never there. It´s frustating that te school does nothing to help these kids and doesn't do anything on pushing the parents on taking action. I have learned from videos and blogs on education for kids with learning disabilities but I just feel like it´s not enough. Besides my three students that have a hard time at school already the other 17 are all hyperactive, not well behaved and with a pretty much non existant attention span. I know that with kids you have to go overboard, use music, dance, interactive activities. But I swear nothings seems helpful for this group.
The head teacher has bad classroom management and it is chaos everyday. My throat hurts from screaming their names 20 times whether its to call them to get in line or call their attention. Circle time is absolute madness, they start running around, teasing each other, yelling, shouting, standing up, circling on their seats. I have talked to the teacher on what can we do for this to get better. When she is explaining the class I have to constantly tell everybody to sit proper, stop hitting your friend, put that toy in the backpack. Please just help me with advice on this. Anything is helpful. I swear I have never been this stressed.
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2024.05.16 01:26 Great_Ad7909 I really want to end it

My whole life i was fan of american culture, my mom pushed me and i had english courses since 6 y.o., i always watched those movies, series, cartoons where everything is so athmospheric and cool, not even only from US just any movie where original language is english, like from UK or Canada lol. And the first thing i thought when i started learning everything about culture of US or UK, Canada, english speaking countries, i was surprised how open people are there, how open to new stuff, how simple they are, how they having best time of their life every day.
Average American school looks 10 times better than mine
Average american parent is 10 times better than mine, at least most of parents are not divorced, mine were when i was just born.
Average american life is where 3000 dollars a month is poor, not 300 dollars, 3000.
Most popular actors,singers, even writers are in US
Richest,smartest people in the world live in US and became who they are in US
And here i am, was born in country which is just better than some Pakistan, and close to it because how people talk,think and live here.
My mother who always said i need english recently admitted that it wasn't for US, or moving in any different country. Then why the fuck i spent my whole life admiring this culture which she wasn't even planning to sent me in.
We participate in Diversity Visa loterry only for five years, but I'm freaking 17 now. Why, just why my parents didn't start earlier? They are not dumb. And I'm still here, i can't live here, people are so toxic, angry and stupid, not progressive at all. I just cant talk to them or be near them.
This year my mental health went completely crazy,i think i just got mature, i started looking at the window every ten minutes thinking "well it won't get any better anyway" then i remember "oh wait, I'm atheist, if i die i will end and stop existing like a fucking robot, and I'm only 17", but it doesn't help at all. 3 month and again to school, to those awful people.....to those awful classrooms
I can't study normally and move to US because got in some University, i can't study because my flat is complete mess, my parent won't clean it because says "there are lots of things, we can't just throw them away", every room is a mess, everything is so complicated you can't focus and think normally.
I have diagnosed depression, ADHD, and never told anyone, but yes, definitely main hero syndrome. My life is so fucked up that when I'm in school i think and imagine how cool i am , how rich i am, how everybody knows about me, listening to music. So insane and in so much denial, that can't study because of thinking how cool i am in my brain,because if i will stop and take a look in a mirror i will just scream and hurt everyone in the classroom because they just exist that way. I'm daydreaming every hour,minute,second and i can't stop, it's a habit.
And wow, this year, i thought it would be life changing, because i knew i couldn't bare one more year here at all, and thought "well, okay universe, come on ,all i need is just little luck, please, a little luck" if my family would win diversity visa we would sell our car, and flat my mom got from her mom who died two years ago(yes,thats sad), it would be more than 70k. I would start in new school, knowing culture and english, knowing where to find work, i would be happy as fuck working as some walmart cashier after school so i could buy nintendo, go to Shake Shack and drink starbucks on way home, watch american television to see those funny creative ads.( Of course my mom and my sister would be A LOT HAPPIER there and i would make sure of it).Watch US elections knowing it won't be worst country in the world in any circumstances. And of course would get in the best university possible, studying every day and going to cinema with friends on weekend.
already two of my mom's friends won, and they didn't even need it, "of course we have to win, it won't be fair any other way, it just can't be false, we deserve it more than average winner who was rich and had nice life here anyway,it just can't be this way, it won't be, of course it won't be, why would it, if anyone rules the world up there in space it should understand how much we want it, come on,we can't loose, it just won't be fair" My mom teaching other people english for two years now,whole flat is a mess because all around in any room there are tons of books about English.
We lost, we didn't win, and we definitely won't If we even will in future,i know i don't need it, we needed to win right now, this year Or i will be completely insane I just want to fall asleep and never wake up, living my perfect life in my perfect dreams in a perfect world with perfect family, perfect people and perfect perfection. I tried lucid dreaming but it's not working the way i wanted it to.
I don't know what to do I know i won't go to school after summer I won't because it's my choice, not any other creature choice, just mine And i won't, i will just stay in my room and die from starving. I don't care about my mom because i know it's not my fucking fault that life was unfair, not for me, for whole family. at least she will have more money for her, and less people to worry about
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2024.05.16 01:13 Agreeable_Income3763 Hurtigruten Cruise Line – Special Offers (Northern Lights Promise, No Single Supplement)

Hurtigruten Cruise Line – Special Offers (Northern Lights Promise, No Single Supplement)

Posted on May 15, 2024 by Andrew Larder

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Sail the Norwegian coast with us during the auroral season between September 20 and March 31 on a voyage of 11 days or more. If the Northern Lights do not occur within sight of your ship during your voyage, we will give your clients a 6 or 7-day Original Coastal Express Classic Voyage FREE OF CHARGE*.
Find your voyage NO SINGLE SUPPLEMENT SELECT DEPARTURES UP TO 30% OFF The Coastal Express 12 DAYS • 34 PLACES The Coastal Express Route
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MS Trollfjord
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Why we can make this promise Where we sail on the Norwegian coast is directly beneath the Auroral Zone, an area of consistent and heightened Northern Lights activity.
Our ships act as floating, mobile observatories that move between areas where there is a lot of cloud cover to places where it’s clear skies and perfect conditions to see the aurora when it appears.
How we help you to see the aurora All the cabins and suites on our ships have an ‘Northern Lights alert’ which will tell you whenever we spot sightings of the aurora, so you can rush to your window or outside to catch them.
Our crew will announce occurrences of the aurora to your cabin or suite at any time of the day or night. You can switch these announcements on and off as you prefer.
Northern Lights Promise Terms & Conditions Subject to the following ‘Terms and Conditions’ in 2023/24 This offer applies to all new bookings of voyages of 11 days or more along the Norwegian coast aboard The Coastal Express and The North Cape Line (previously known as The North Cape Express) voyages. It applies to North Cape Line voyages departing between September 26, 2023 and March 31, 2024 and The Coastal Express voyages departing between October 1, 2023 and March 31, 2024.
A Northern Lights occurrence is defined as a sighting from the ship that is recorded by the ship’s deck officers and that is announced to passengers on board. Announcements are made to your cabin or via another channel decided by the deck officers. An occurrence can last anything from a few minutes to a matter of hours, and the ships decision as to whether the Northern Lights occurred is final.
We announce occurrences of the Northern Lights on board the ship and you have the option of announcements direct to your cabin or suite. We hope that you will experience seeing the Northern Lights whilst on your voyage with us of 11 days or more, but we cannot be held responsible if you don’t.
We promise that in the event of there being no Northern Lights occurrence as defined above, you will receive a 6-day or 7-day Coastal Express – South or Coastal Express – North voyage, departing between October 1, 2024 and March 31, 2025 in an unspecified inside twin cabin on a full-board basis free of charge. You may upgrade to another grade of cabin subject to additional costs and availability.
We reserve the right to withdraw or amend the offer at any time. Please check at the time of booking as to the current status of the offer. The offer must be claimed and booked within 28 days from your return date. A choice of departure dates will be given.
The offer excludes flights, transfers, all onboard expenses, excursions, and luggage handling. The offer does not apply to re-scheduled or cancelled cruises. Bookings are non-transferable, non-changeable, and have no cash value.
Subject to the following ‘Terms and Conditions’ in 2024/25 This offer applies to all new bookings of voyages of 11 days or more along the Norwegian coast aboard The Coastal Express and The North Cape Line (previously The North Cape Express). It applies to voyages departing between September 20, 2024 and March 31, 2025.
A Northern Lights occurrence is defined as a sighting from the ship that is recorded by the ship’s deck officers and that is announced to passengers on board. Announcements are made to your cabin or via another channel decided by the deck officers. An occurrence can last anything from a few minutes to a matter of hours, and the ships decision as to whether the Northern Lights occurred is final.
We announce occurrences of the Northern Lights on board the ship and you have the option of announcements direct to your cabin or suite. We hope that you will experience seeing the Northern Lights whilst on your voyage with us of 11 days or more, but we cannot be held responsible if you don’t.
We promise that in the event of there being no Northern Lights occurrence as defined above, you will receive a 6-day southbound or 7-day northbound Coastal Express voyage, departing between September 20, 2025 and March 31, 2026 in an unspecified inside twin cabin on a full-board basis free of charge. You may upgrade to another grade of cabin subject to additional costs and availability. Please note that upgrading to suites with this offer may not be available.
We reserve the right to withdraw or amend the offer at any time. Please check at the time of booking as to the current status of the offer. The offer must be claimed and booked within 28 days from your return date. A choice of departure dates will be given.
The offer excludes flights, transfers, all onboard expenses, excursions, and luggage handling. The offer does not apply to re-scheduled or cancelled cruises. Bookings are non-transferable, non-changeable, and have no cash value. This offer is not combinable with claims for compensation, refunds or price reductions. __________________

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Check prices and availability to see applicable departures.
Enjoy Unique Experiences & Connections when Traveling Solo
Embark on a journey along the captivating Norwegian coast, where you can immerse yourself in the rich culture and warm coastal hospitality of this breathtaking region. Savor the dishes, art, architecture, and sights of Norway’s heritage, all while having the opportunity to connect with locals. Augment your experience by hearing charming stories and intriguing insights from our expert team about Norwegian culture, history, nature, and geography. In addition to onboard edutainment, connect with fellow travelers over shared experiences thanks to our small cruise ships that help to inspire more intimate conversations.
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As we travel up and down Norway’s magnificent coastline, you’ll be able to soak in the majestic views of the Norwegian fjords. On our cruises, you can also increase your chances of experiencing the Northern Lights in winter or the Midnight Sun in summer. When not taking in the views, you can retreat to your own private room. Be sure to stop by our spa and sauna for maximum relaxation. We also offer delicious meal options. Why wait to unwind?
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Enhance your journey as our Coastal Experience Team guides you in optional seasonal excursions, such as dogsledding, cycling, hiking, and birdwatching. Additionally, our chefs can take you on a culinary adventure with our curated menus that infuse locally sourced and seasonal seafood and produce. Enjoy dishes that include succulent fjord-farmed salmon and Nordic specialties.
Find your voyage NO SINGLE SUPPLEMENT SELECT DEPARTURES UP TO 30% OFF The Coastal Express 12 DAYS • 34 PLACES The Coastal Express Route
Bergen – Kirkenes – Bergen (Roundtrip)
Departure Dates
Regular departures
Price from $1,853
$1,575
Ships
Multiple
NO SINGLE SUPPLEMENT SELECT DEPARTURES UP TO 10% OFF The Coastal Express – To the Viking Capital 11 DAYS • 27 PLACES The Coastal Express – To the Viking Capital Route
Bergen – Kirkenes – Trondheim (Roundtrip)
Departure Dates
Regular departures
Price from
$3,848
Ships
Multiple
NO SINGLE SUPPLEMENT SELECT DEPARTURES UP TO 30% OFF The Coastal Express – North 7 DAYS • 34 PLACES The Coastal Express – North Route
Bergen – Kirkenes (Northbound)
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Multiple
NO SINGLE SUPPLEMENT SELECT DEPARTURES UP TO 30% OFF The Coastal Express – South 6 DAYS • 33 PLACES The Coastal Express – South Route
Kirkenes – Bergen (Southbound)
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Regular departures
Price from $1,075
$914
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Multiple
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Longyearbyen – Bergen (Southbound)
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$3,336
Ship
MS Trollfjord
NO SINGLE SUPPLEMENT SELECT DEPARTURES UP TO 25% OFF The Svalbard Line – North 11 DAYS • 7 PLACES The Svalbard Line – North Route
Bergen – Longyearbyen (Northbound)
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MS Trollfjord
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Bergen – Svalbard – Bergen (Roundtrip)
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2024.05.16 01:08 Quirky_Cheesecake_36 Letting go of the illusion

This is part pity party part seeking advice.
Met this person through a work friend. We exchange numbers and have a lot of conversations. Set first date everything good. Second date person drops the “looking for casual”- and boy oh boy I dropped the ball here. I didn’t ask for a definition of casual- I assumed a lot and ran with it. I should have said no and walked away but instead told them it was fine since I have kids and schedule is rough (they live with me 80%). We kept dating, we would text daily super flirty about how excited we were to see each other, how much we missed each other, how much we liked each other, how lucky they were to have met me.
It was so good to feel the spark, the attraction and just the touch. It has been sooo fucking long since I’ve had any touch. Anyway, scroll forward two/three months of this- I really like them as a person and just felt good. At this point I know I need to stop - i was away on a trip and I was waiting to come back to town. This person kept insinuating sex, how much they wanted me and I was going to finally do it because I felt such a desire for this person. Which meant I was going to have a talk about either being exclusive or just being done. Wednesday last week- we still flirted, wants me to come over soon and can’t wait to be with me alone. Thursday I fly back home- communication drops and shifts dramatically. Friday nothing. Sunday I get a generic text asking how my day is going and some pictures. Monday I asked this person out on date. No response. I get a message later Tuesday that they’ve started seeing someone else. I said thank you and wished him well.
Now I’m left really questioning myself- it’s hard not to get into my head. My heart feels bruised. I know it’s all on me- this person was clear I was not a choice. I honestly tried to remind myself about this but the idea of intimacy, being with someone and the lust n I felt (it’s been so long) drew me in.
So how do you get comfortable with the idea of being alone? I am terrified of the apps and meeting people IRL is difficult. I definitely know that casual is not for me. So that leaves me staring at a void. I do have hobbies and activities I like to do. I’m traveling soon and looking forward to summer.
Anyway this is cathartic - I need to go get dinner ready, my kid just came back all bruised from scateboarding and life goes on.
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2024.05.16 01:07 cyb3rgh am i being delusional telling myself that he’ll come back? i’ll put the break up text down below and some information. i wanna know from someone whose experienced a blindsided break up if i should just give up.

we had a picnic date on friday and he looked at me with so much love in his eyes. i slept over and left at around 2pm on Saturday because he wanted to cuddle more. We broke up on Monday.
on Monday morning, he texted me saying he woke up feeling shitty so i asked him if he wanted a hug. he never responded to me and i saw him walk another girl to her car as he was leaving campus. he usually waits for me and walks me to my class but instead, he just left. my heart shattered because he looked so happy with her. his body language showed me exactly how he was feeling. so i went home to process what i saw and to figure out what to say. this what happened:
me: do u like me still
him: the feelings i did have arent there anymore (after typing for 5 minutes)
me: do u like someone else
him: no
me: are u sure
him: there is no other person
me: did i do something wrong
him: Not necessarily I just think we are going in different directions I’m just trying to figure out what in store for me after school and that doesn’t seem something we share.
me: okay. i always had a feeling
him: im sorry
i left him on read because there’s no way im gonna be heartbroken AND left on read. we’ve had no arguments, disagreements or fights in the almost 5 months we were together. we didnt talk about our future together at all except what we would do this summer. i have no idea why he broke up with me and im trying to make sense of it. i didn’t fight for our relationship because if it’s true that he lost feelings for me, he can’t gain them back. im a sole believer in letting people go if they want to go but this hurts.
does it sound like he was just having a bad day and he’ll maybe reach out to me in a week to apologize? or is this it?
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2024.05.16 01:04 PaymentLarge Anxiety induced OAB: a success story

Hi everyone,
I used to frequently lurk on this reddit looking for some ways to deal with my case of anxiety induced OAB. I thought I’d chime and share a success story that had with my battle with overactive bladder. I just want to start with some background I’m 29m with not major medical or health complications, I’m healthy and physically active (at the time that my symptoms really cracked off I was probably the fittest I had been in my life).
My symptoms all started in August of 2022 and they came on suddenly. To set the scene it was a beautiful sunny Saturday and I had some plans to go surfing with some mates latter in the afternoon. There was some pretty good swell due at one of my favourite beaches in town and I was super exited (maybe a little nervous because it was going to be kind of larger surf that I was used to. In the morning I had breakie and a cup of coffee. I was really excited about this new coffee that I had got from the store. Immediately after the coffee I was a little anxious but nothing out of the ordinary, I thought it was nervous jitters for the surf session. Anyways my mated pick me up and we head to the beach (it was about an hour drive away). On the car trip I remember having to pee but again nothing out of the ordinary. We go surfing for about 2-3 hours, and I didn’t have to go once the entire time I was out. I get out of the water and change, and that when it all started. I went to use the bathroom and immediately afterwards had to go again (I thought it was weird and tried to go again but there was nothing…okay…). pack up the car and start driving, and the urge was strong again, stoped to go again still not much again. So I suffered for the rest of the car ride home feeling like I was going to go in my pants the whole time. It was at this point my anxiety shot through the roof and I felt like a panic attack was coming on (I had one earlier in the year so I kind of recognized the symptoms of it). I get home and try everything I can to get myself to calm down and nothing worked. The plan was to go home and then meet my friend for homemade pizza at their house (20 minute drive away). I get ready and use the bathroom and get halfway to my friends house only to have to stop and go again. I struggle through the dinner have to excuse myself once or twice to go again still there was not too much. By the end of the day I had burned 3500 calories of stress. I figured it was anxiety at the time and I hoped that it would get better in the morning.
But that urge became something I constantly had to deal with, and when I say constant I mean like I’d go and immediately feel like I needed to go again (maybe 5 minutes of relief between visits). This would lead to me having to go to the bathroom maybe 20 times a day or so. I missed out on movies, shows, drinking with my mates, had to start planning my life around bathroom access, and coffee. (At the time I would have done anything to be able to have a pint or a cup of coffee with my mated and not have to worry about my symptoms getting worse). All this worry was starting consume a large part of my day to day thinking. I mean it’s not like it a symptom that you can just ignore. Fomos and the general anxiety around whether was was going to get better This really stressed me out and made the problem much worse as time went on.
I figured I’d wait and see before going to the doctor see what was going on. After about a week with nothing getting better I decided to go see a doctor. They did some test which all came back negative, I had an ultrasound and everything was clear. At the ultrasound appointment with less than 100ml of liquid in my bladder the feeling was so intense the lady even showed me that there was nothing there on her screen (again this clued me into thinking maybe this was a physiological issue rather than physical one). They said there was nothing that they could find that was medically wrong with me but they would refer me to a urologist to give me the all clear. At this point in my mind there were not major medical issues with me, so there were two potential causes (1) anxiety and (2) a nagging injury. Re (2) I had a nagging groin injury that I sustained at the beginning of the year. I was going to pt for it and thought I could have been surfing from a hypertonic pelvic floor and that was causing the oab symptoms. I couldn’t get an appointment for several months so there was a long period of just waiting while still battling with this constant urge to use the bathroom.
After that appointment I figured I’m dealing with the injury with pt already so maybe I should try to focus on the anxiety aspect. So I tired everything that I could do to reduce my symptoms, drink less coffee, meditate (headspace), saw a therapist, stepped back my work as much as I could to get some time to relax, kept physically active (surfing running climbing multiple times a week), spent time with friends and still nothing made me feel better.
I think this was a period where I was the most stressed that I had ever been. Lets just say 2022 was a year I would not want to repeat anytime soon. To list all that I had going on (tw: cancer, suicide(friend), family member death ) :
  1. I was living abroad in nz and was far from family, and my partner. My dad earlier in the year had been diagnosed with cancer and was going through treatments.
  2. My really good friend attempted suicide twice (The first time I was the closest person to him and he confided in me with his intentions and everything. Probably the most stressful we ek of my life)
  3. My friends mental health emergency lead to me having to move flats on short notice because I didn’t feel safe where I lived because I was threatened by my friend after calling the cops on him to do a wellness check. I went from living in boarding situation with 12 really good friends to living in a studio which was super isolating.
  4. I felt afraid around the town because of these treats and made it harder to relax. Plus running which was my biggest outlet for stress and the thing that I did with my friend became to hard for me to do. It kept giving my ptsd flashbacks of the event.
  5. my grandfather passed away shortly after my father was diagnosed with cancer.
(tw:end)
  1. I was in the process of writing my thesis at the time and had my defence deadline approaching nearer and nearer.
  2. I was planning on moving back to my home country at the end of the year which meant that I was going to loose my whole support system and have to start fresh again. I had to worry about selling most of the stuff I own (car, furniture, clothes, surfboards etc.)
  3. I was also planning a carrier change from one research to a completely different field of study. I’m an academic and I wanted try something new. You either get to pick where you live or the research you do.
  4. worried about jobs I was going to get when I moved back and how I was going to support myself. This is related to 8)
I feel like any one of these events would be a lot to deal with on its own. This was all coming off the tail end of covid as well, thing were starting to get back to normal but there were still periodic lock downs. I feel like it had been a year of very high constant stress and everything together overloaded me. It hasn’t been uncommon for anxiety to manifest as physical symptoms for me before. I remember earlier in the year before the oab really kicked off that I couldn’t eat food without it making me feel sick. it turns out that anxiety cracks up stomach acid and that can make you feel nauseous. The doctor was able to help me out with.
Well to continue the story I went and saw urologist and he said that everything was clear and there was nothing to worry about. Just have to wait for things to calm down, he did give me some oxybutynin that didn’t really help. Then shorty after that I had to sell everything I owned and I flew back home. I remember that flight being kind of hard, I was sad to leave the country and anxious for the new life I was about to begin. It really enhanced the symptoms that I was experiencing.
I moved back to the USA at the end of 2023 and that is when I began trying to tackle this problem in earnest. The urologist recommended that I tried bladder retraining while it was helpful to see progress it still didn’t help with the symptoms that much. I tired cbd for my anxiety and had some success. It seemed to help manage my symptoms. I moved from summer in the southern hemisphere, to the middle of the winter in the northern hemisphere and the lack of sun didn’t help my mental health.
At this point I could go maybe 30 minutes between trips to the bathroom. I didn’t have coffee, or alcohol (didn’t even dream of it). Car trips were miserable, would spend most of them stressed I wouldn’t find a bathroom. Still had the constant urge to use the bathroom. Things were not fun. Luckily I had a decent amount of money in savings so I took some time to relax while I was waiting to defend my thesis. (I think I took about 6-7 months to myself)
Okay I’m sure you all know all that symptoms and how miserable they can be. Here’s what worked for me:
First thing I’d say is go see a doctor. Reddit is great but a doctor will be able to tell if there is anything physically wrong with you. Then trust what they say. When are you a dealing with a health related thing that is related to anxiety the most important thing is to make sure that you have a clean bill of health.
Once you know nothing is wrong physically here are some ways of dealing with oab caused my anxiety:
  1. Talk: Talk to your love ones about what you are dealing with. Tell them you are struggling with this medical issue and you may need to pull over and use the bathroom or disappear for a couple minutes. They will understand if they love you. I waited a long time to open up to my partner about this, and I felt a lot better after I told her what I was struggling with.
  2. Face this head on: Don’t retreat still do things go outside got to shows bars the store. You will be able to find a bathroom you don’t need to worry. Remember that stuff that you love to do don’t let oab rule your life. Its going to be scary but its good to face these anxieties head on. If you start canceling events because you are afraid of bathroom access will lead to further isolation, and eventually agoraphobia (not a good place to end up)
  3. Bladder retraining: This gives you a way to track progress and play chicken with your bladder in a controlled manner. You are trying to teach your brain the difference between really and fake signals. This will help you gain trust in yourself again. Remember this is gradual process.
  4. Professional help. Shortly after getting back to the states I started getting professional help to deal with all the stress I had in my life. I needed somewhere where I could process everything I was going through. I got the quickest appointment I could and took the first one I could get. By involving doctors and therapist and even your loved ones you are not tackling this problem alone anymore you have a team of people helping you. Plus they can give you ideas on how to manage your stress and anxiety.
  5. Headspace: In a similar vein headspace and mindfulness will help with learning how to acknowledge how we are feeling and move on. We are always going to need to use the bathroom there is no way around it and we sometimes will have the feeling that we need to go when we don’t need to. In the same way there is no getting rid of anxiety, what mindfulness does is help change our relationship with these feelings. You could try the session on chronic pain because what we are experiencing is a persistent unwanted sensation from out body like a form of pain. There is also more general ones about anxiety. I think we can borrow some of the ideas that people dealing with chronic pain use to to deal with the urges that we experience ( I don’t know how much there is to this though).
  6. (a) side tangent: I saw this guy in nz who said that when people are dealing with heartache sometimes taking a painkiller (like Tylenol or ibuprofen) can help deal with the pain. Even though the pain is psychosomatic the feeling is still real, and the painkiller can actually help with managing the heartbreak. (see)
  7. Medication: Trying anti anxiety meds was the biggest thing for me. What I really needed after all the stress was some mental space. For me lexapro gave me this space. I know that finding the right medication to be on can be hard and its a long process to find the one that is right for you. I’m currently on the lowest dose (5mg) and I have been taking it for about 1.5 years with little side effects (only if I miss a dose I feel a little dizzy in the evening). I know anti-anxiety meds get a bad wrap these days and I feel like there is a lot of misinformation about them. People worry that it is going numb them that they are going to feel like themselves, or that people are going to judge them for taking it, but in my case that hasn’t been my experience. If you are at a high level of stress it can help bring you back down to baseline, it can give you the space to acknowledge the things that make you feel anxious and move on. I highly recommend trying this out. I should also say here that it does take 1.5-2 months for the meds to really start working, and during that time your anxiety can increase (but its worth it!!!)
  8. CBD: if you don’t want to try an anti anxiety med try CBD, it really helps with stress and I found that it was pretty good at helping with some OAB symptoms at first but you build up a tolerance to it when you are taking it daily, and it can become expensive. What I found that worked for me was around 10-15mg 3 times a day (breakfast lunch and dinner). This helped me be less stressed in the car our when I was out walking places and there was no bathroom nearby.
When this all started I didn’t ever think I was going to be able to enjoy a cup of coffee again or go to a bar and have a pint and drive home with out a worry. After working at this for the last 2 years I’ve been able to get to a place where I can have a coffee and then go for a long car ride and have no symptoms. I’m able to go to a triva night and enjoy a beer without having to get up every 10 minutes to use the bathroom. I’m able to sit through meeting without having to leave 3-4. I’ve been able to give a 1 hr long talk to a large group of people (something I wouldn’t have been able to do because oab at the beginning of all this) with no issues. In my experience there is no instant cure for this, don’t say this to be negative but more so to say that its going to take hard work, and there is hope. I was able to overcome this thing and so can you! I hope this helps and thanks for taking the time to read my post.
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2024.05.16 00:59 Expensive_Profit7737 ABA or Pre-School pls help

My son will be 3 next month. He is level 3. He isn’t talking yet, he just has a few functional words. Right now he gets speech, OT, and does DI with early intervention. He always gets speech at a private practice. But since he’s turning 3 next month he won’t have access to early intervention anymore however we will be able to still go to the private speech sessions.
We’ve got accepted into a preschool and we are starting the process of going to the school for assessments and the school seems nice but we also heard back from ABA.
My concerns with preschool are even though he will be in a special ed class, I am not sure if he will have an aide and I am not sure how much they will be able to cater to my sons specific needs. Every child in special education isn’t autistic I don’t think. So my fear is he won’t get as much attention as he may need to really progress.
With ABA I’ve really only heard bad things but his SLP and the DI teacher recommended it. My son has bad tantrums and head bangs. His patience is very short. His receptive and expressive language is very poor so it’s hard to explain he has to wait or it’s hard for him to ask for help so this results in his head banging and injurious behavior.
Has anyone done both and can offer advice? Really curious about ABA experiences as well.
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2024.05.16 00:58 ColorMeCrazy274 [MI, USA] - Mediation / fight for 50/50

Looking for some input here fellas on mediation and fighting for 50/50
5yo and 1.5yo. About to start mediation next week. STBXW has refused to discuss anything, and i mean ANYTHING, for 6 months. In co-parenting, of which we had 2 sessions, she mentioned she thinks I get 2 non-consecutive nights a week - absolutely bonkers, i know. Even the co-parenting coach said that is not sustainable for the boys, and supports 50/50. I have maintained for 6 months, equal 50/50 or we will have problems. Here's the thing - she literally has ZERO good reasons to deny me this, other than being a control freak, and thinking shes the better parent (don't they all). I have been an active/, involved dad for 3+ years, and only within the last year, did my STBXW decide mom's role is to do everything, and dad sits in a corner and does nothing, and picked a fight if i ever infringed on mom jobs (laundry, cooking, cleaning, shopping, groceries, school stuff, etc). I repeat, mega control freak.
My question is - lets be honest, nobody wants this to go to trial. I am already $15k in the hole (her parents are funding her attorney). I'm pretty tapped already. Neither of us wants this to be prolonged. Our older boy starts kindergarten in the fall, and we all want this done before so we don't overlap new school with parents splitting. However, I can NEVER agree to her version of nonsense on parenting time. What things can I compromise on? I shared with her already offering her the residential address, and the slim majority of parenting time (think it was 51.5% / 48%, with a 5-2-2-5 schedule)
She is also a teacher, so if we do right of first refusal, she automatically gets some bonus days in the summer during the day when it's my time, and I'd pick them up on my way home.
My attorney loves our mediator. I am hoping the mediator gives it to STBXW straight (like, cut the shit, work out an equal plan, etc). We all know it's in the best interests of the kids to have both parents equally. But, in a worst case scenario, what carrots can I dangle? What can I offer as a compromise? HOW do I show I am compromising? (Part of me feels I am already at max compromise by asking for 50/50) As an absolute last-ditch-before-trial, How far off of 50/50 should i budge? I have been informed the assigned judge is not a default 50/50 judge, so I have a better shot at mediation per my attorney. Of course, I would prefer multiple meditations before giving in, but just thinking ahead.
Never fought the divorce, but of course I will fight for my boys
Always curious for reddit feedback!
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2024.05.16 00:57 No-Mycologist-4207 Landlord made me sign under false pretenses

So i have military orders and i will be moving next month but i was 17 when i got my current apartment since i was 17 they told me i could not get it myself and my mom had to become the legal “tenant” even though she is not living with me. Turns out i can rent it out since i am active duty military. And there is no ending the lease early clause in my contract. So they want me to keep paying rent for the remaining 11 months of my lease .What is my next step.
English isnt my first language forgive any mistakes made.
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2024.05.16 00:54 Ok_Concert_8669 This show confuses me

So yes! Basically going off of the title. I am a 25 year old black woman truthfully confused by this show. The dynamic of the cast , the personalities ( or lack thereof lol) . I binged This show in about two weeks and have seen 0 character development from anyone , haven’t really learned anything about any cast members personalities , and I feel like there are no true loyalties / friendships! I know it’s reality tv and it’s supposed to be dramatic and messy but oh my … I was really looking forward to seeing some black ppl find love and flirt around a little and support each other but it seems like the whole time they are one upping each other on trauma or they are just non verbal (alex) or switch up on each other SOOO QUICK. I was so excited to start this show but it’s really not giving what I wanted it to. I will continue to root for all of them and will give them my views no doubt bc we love an all black cast 🩶🩶 but What do yall think ??
Also do you think they have a low budget for the show because the things / activities they do just seem to be a lot less big / flashy compared to summer house (hamptons)
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2024.05.16 00:46 MountRoseATP Extended School Year question

Hi everyone,
I have a five year old son with ASD, who is transitioning out of a school for kids with special needs, to the public elementary school for preschool. On the draft for his IEP, they didn’t recommend an extended school year program. Basically, is this a tough recommendation to get? I’ve heard that it usually only is for children who digress academically over the summer, and while he doesn’t tend to do that, he does struggle with the change in routine and transition to and from a long break. At the beginning of this school year, they tried to send him to a different school, and I think the massive change caused him such anxiety that he ended up having some GI issues, when he’s normally totally pott trained. (Although I will admit that it sounds like that classroom may have been a chaotic, stressy mess. They didn’t provide the teacher with enough support and it was a disaster)
We’re really fortunate that his current school received a grant for a summer camp this summer, so he’ll be attending that this year. Otherwise there are very limited resources in the summer for special needs kids (we’re in North Carolina).
So, TL;DR, is it tough to get a recommendation for an extended school year? Is it generally frowned upon for educators to recommend it, or is it saved for the children who really regress academically and socially over the summer?
Thanks!
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2024.05.16 00:43 ChristopherMD20 I don’t want to hold my kids back

What would you target in terms of HSK level in order to help my children be bilingual? I started actively studying in February but my wife and in-laws do speak mostly Mandarin so I have exposure for a few years. I feel like I have been holding back my daughter’s expressive language given my poor Mandarin skills at present.
Some background: 我有两个孩子。我的女儿叫爽爽,她三岁。我的儿子叫小王。我的妻子是北京人。我的妻子说中文很好,但是她不会写字。我是医生所以每天很忙。我可以学习一点儿.请帮我.
This is a sample of my current skill level without using a dictionary, translator or other assistive device/app. My spoken Chinese is better than my written given my longer term exposure. I have a long ways to go…
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2024.05.16 00:43 ProcrastinatingVerse Looking for thrillers (or thrilling films)

I'm currently looking into getting an official Mubi account for myself. I personally am very open to any and every kind of film, so mubi will be fine for me, but given that I currently live at home, I'll be sharing the account with my Mum. She thinks Mubi is generally too niche for her, which is understandable if you're not a cinema buff or actively engaged in cinema. Her favourite genre by far is thrillers, as well as mystery films and anything psychological. So I just wondered what are the best titles of that genre available on Mubi. Another catch is the films must be in English. She doesn't watch any international films. I have tried to convince her to give it a try but she can't get past the language barrier. Nevertheless, I still want her to experience some gems on Mubi that she will like and that are worth watching
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2024.05.16 00:39 Dazzling-Natural-278 28[M4F] Be my palagi sa mundong nakakapagod.

Im looking for someone who can be my constant and exclusively mine and im yours. Someone who can bring peace of mind and someone who can be my home and i can be her home too. this is for SFW first cause i want to be in a serious relationship and looking for a gf that can be my wife. Muka lang seryoso to pero im funny and talktative
About Me :
About you
Yung lang siguro i dont care how you look don ako sa ugali kase di rin naman ako ganun ka pogi so kung di physical apperance ung mahalaga sayo baka ako na talaga ung para sayo just dm me ill wait for you and lets start our Love story that will last until our last breath. kung single ka tara na Kahit single mom ka pa.
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2024.05.16 00:39 Peacock-Shah-III A Summary of President Philip F. La Follette's Second Term (1949-1953) Peacock-Shah Alternate Elections

A Summary of President Philip F. La Follette's Second Term (1949-1953) Peacock-Shah Alternate Elections

Philip Fox La Follette, 34th President of the United States.
Administration:
Vice President: Michael A. Musmanno
Secretary of Peace: Douglas MacArthur (1951-1952 (interim)), Clarence Dill (1952-1953)
Secretary of State: Douglas MacArthur (1949-1951 (Department placed under Peace))
Secretary of War: Ralph Immell (1949-1951 (Department placed under Peace))
Secretary of the Navy: Francis P. Matthews (1949-1951 (Department placed under Peace))
Secretary of the Air Force: Charles Lindbergh (1949-1951 (Department placed under Peace))
Secretary of Production: Ralph Immell (1952-1953)
Secretary of the Treasury: Rexford Tugwell (1949-1951 (resigned to assume office as Governor of New York)), Harold Lord Varney (1951 (interim)), Ralph Immell (1951-1952 (department placed under Production))
Secretary of the Interior: Mildred H. McAfee (1949-1952 (department placed under Production))
Secretary of Energy: Floyd Dominy (1950-1952 (department placed under Production))
Secretary of Agriculture: Gerald Nye (1949-1952 (department placed under Production))
Secretary of Labor: George Meany (1949-1952 (department placed under Production))
Secretary of Science and Technology: Karl T. Compton (1949-1952 (department placed under Production))
Secretary of Prosperity: Francois Duvalier (1952-1953)
Attorney General: David Lilienthal (1949-1952 (department placed under Prosperity))
Secretary of Health: Francois Duvalier (1949-1952 (department placed under Prosperity))
Postmaster General: Gerald T. Boileau (1949-1952 (department placed under Prosperity))
Secretary of Education: Sara Gibson Blanding (1949-1952 (department placed under Prosperity)
President La Follette would announce a major reorganization of cabinet departments following his 1951 impeachment, uniting the Air Force, Navy, War, and State Departments into one grand “Department of Peace,” despite opposition from both military leadership and Secretary of State MacArthur, who would depart from the Administration at the commencement of 1952 and be replaced by Farmer-Labor doyen Clarence Dill. The President has framed the move as embodying the national seal of an eagle carrying both arrows and an olive branch, while promoting centralization to improve efficiency while avoiding involving the United States in entangling alliances, an effort that has led to the end of the effort to unite American allies on both sides of the Pacific into a mutual defense pact. First Lady Isen La Follette, personally notably introverted, has been brought before the public as the chief public campaigner for the Department of Peace.
With the centralization of foreign and military policy in full swing at the executive level despite the opposition of Congress, the spring of 1952 would see a second round of mass centralization, with longtime ally Ralph Immell appointed as the head of a new Department of Production, devised by Texas’s Lyndon B. Johnson, to supervise the old Treasury, Interior, Energy, Agriculture, Labor, and Science and Technology Departments, while Dr. Francois Duvalier has been appointed to lead the centralization of the Justice, Health, Education, and Post Office Departments into a united Department of Prosperity and Human Services, commonly referred to only by the former. As in the case of the Department of Peace, the former departments are slated to remain at a sub-cabinet level, and the efforts of opposition forces have successfully left the proposed integrations largely on paper for the time being.
On the level of sub-cabinet departments, the Bureau of Investigation has been merged with the Office of Strategic Services to form the National Security Agency (NSA), an intelligence agency combining the foreign and domestic. Meanwhile, an executive order would begin the National Aeronautics and Space Administration with former President Charles Lindbergh appointed as its first head, however, Lindbergh would soon be dismissed as a part of the executive’s compromise with congress’s impeachers, with businessman Howard Hughes taking his place.

Opposition Representative Richard Nixon shakes hands with Ethiopian Emperor Haile Selassie during the Emperor's visit to the United States, where President La Follette would emphasize American support for non-communist anti-colonial movements.
Foreign Policy:
-President La Follette has found rare common ground with the opposition on matters of foreign policy towards the Soviet Union, echoing Arthur Vandenberg’s declaration that “politics ends at the water’s edge.” The Administration has secured funding for the rebuilding of Indonesia, the Philippines, Japan, and Korea under social democratic anti-communist governments, with President La Follette describing the initiatives as building an “iron curtain” against communism.
-President La Follette’s term would see the death of two of the world’s premier foreign leaders: Marshall Philippe Petain of France and Chinese General Feng Yuxiang. President La Follette would visit Paris in 1951 for the funeral of Petain after nearly four decades in power, having hailed the French publicly as future allies in the battle with communism. Yet, already suspicious of the new government of Petain protege Charles De Gaulle after the leaking of America’s role in Smedley Butler’s assassination by Ambassador Gaston-Henry Haye, La Follette would find himself increasingly disenchanted with the French, with private reports indicating his horror at the mass deportation of Flemish, Germans, and Catalans into the French Congo from areas in Europe newly annexed into France.
-However, the President would nonetheless side with the French-supported Roman Legion rebelling against Greece in 1951, marking the creation of the Republic of the Pindus as the first state for the Aromanian people in world history. However, the new state has been accused of engaging in the ethnic cleansing of the Greek population.
-Meanwhile, touring China after the death of Feng Yuxiang, La Follette would become increasingly worried about the possible alignment of the nation towards the Soviet Union and controversially refuse to return the island of Taiwan to China until the election of a successor to Feng. With Communist leader Zhou Enlai rising in popularity and an election planned, American support would be thrown behind former warlord Yan Xishan, who would be selected President by the National Assembly in January of 1951 and promptly announce an indefinite delay on elections. Despite rising tensions with China’s Bolshevik-backed Communist Party, La Follette would sign a treaty of return in February of 1952 relinquishing Taiwan to Chinese control. However, after six decades of intense Japanization under colonial authorities, Taiwan has found itself culturally isolated from the rest of China, speaking almost entirely Japanese and Hokkien rather than Mandarin.
-A similar issue has emerged on the formerly Japanese territories of Sakhalin and the Kuril Islands. Owing to their close location to the Soviet Union, La Follette has authorized it as the site of dozens of American nuclear tests throughout his term and refused to cede sovereignty, with China, Japan, and Russia all harboring alternate claims to the islands.
-The President has impounded funds from the 1950 and 1951 budgets passed by Congress to distribute for the reconstruction of American allies and occupied regions in the Third Pacific War, enacting the MacArthur Plan without the authorization of Congress and repeating to Chinese Premier Yan Xishan his famous remark that “vermin are infesting and polluting democratic organizations and the government itself.”
-Working with the Latin American and East Asian nations in the American sphere of influence in the aftermath of the Franco-British Conflict, the President has moved the United States into the new Parliament of Nations headquartered in Rome, sending New Hampshire Progressive Senator Robert P. Bass as the first United States Representative to the largely powerless global body intended to facilitate global cooperation. Notably, however, the La Follette Administration has resisted efforts to include communist-aligned nations into the fold despite the membership of many French-aligned authoritarian regimes and absolute monarchies such as the Ethiopian Empire or the Caliphate.
-1951 would see the formalization of the Treaty of San Diego, officially ending the United States occupation of Japan, and with it La Follette's rule by decree of the islands, while maintaining an American military presence on the island chain and transferring to American control the Ryukyu Islands, Iwo Jima, Samoa, and the Japanese stake in the Nicaraguan Canal shared with Argentina, where former Milford W. Howard associate Harold Lord Varney has been appointed as High Commissioner.
-President La Follette held a summit with Ethiopian Emperor Haile Selassie, and Madagascar Prime Minister Joseph Raseta in 1951 to commemorate the longstanding American support for independent nations in Africa, hosting, among others, independence activists Seretse Khama of Botswana, Jomo Kenyatta of Kenya, and Hastings Banda of Nyasaland. Further, American jazz artist Andy Razaf has taken the throne as King of Madagascar following the lack of an heir apparent to deceased Queen Marie-Louise, however, unfamiliar with the island of his ancestors, the newly-crowned Andriamanantena I has been sidelined by Prime Minister Raseta.
-With rumors of Lazar Kaganovich planning Bolshevik expansion into Central Asia abounding, President La Follette and Secretary of Peace Dill would issue a joint statement in January of 1952 promising American opposition “by any means necessary” to “one more inch” of Bolshevik expansion, with Dill describing Kaganovich’s policy towards France and the United States as “trying to play both sides against the middle.

Destiny launches off the coast of Puerto Rico, inaugurating a new era in human history,
Domestic Policy:
-”Our attainments in space are a major element in the competition between the Soviet system and our own, they are part of the battle,” so would declare James E. Webb, Deputy Administrator of NASA, on October 4th, 1951, mere weeks after the failure of the impeachment of President La Follette, as he, former President Lindbergh, and gasping crowds of onlookers watched Destiny take flight, the first manmade satellite in human history to orbit the Earth. President La Follette would tout the achievement as the administration having begun the conquest of “the final frontier.”
-Working with Japanese scientists in the aftermath of the occupation, space policy has reached the fore as La Follette launches an aggressive series of follow-up satellites, beginning with Lewis and Clark and most recently including Stagecoach. However, rumors hold that the French have begun construction on their own site for space rocket launches.
-Staring down the barrel of Speaker Joseph McCarthy’s aggression and Senator Estes Kefauver’s investigation into the assassination of Smedley Butler, La Follette turned away from Congress in 1949 to fulfill his promise to “win the peace.” Acting first in April of 1949 shortly after the arrest of John L. Lewis, La Follette would issue Executive Orders 15092 and 15093, authorizing the building of an interstate highway system and national system of hydroelectric plants to be overseen by General Lucius D. Clay and the Army Corps of Engineers under the supervision of the Department of the Interior for the former and Department of Science and Technology for the latter, while authorizing the creation of a new Department of Energy, operating entirely on impounded funds and largely focusing on research on the utilization of nuclear energy.
-In the latter effort, the President has found the support of prominent opposition financier Lewis Strauss, who has nonetheless argued that the development of nuclear energy is hampered by New State bureaucratic centralization.
-Opposition politician Joseph Alioto has criticized the interstate highway system, pointing to the funding of La Follette’s campaign by the Firestone Tire Company and arguing that road dependent companies have colluded to impede the further expansion of rail infrastructure.
-Most controversially would be Executive Order 15097, issued in June of 1951 and seen as largely the brainchild of Secretary of the Treasury Rexford Tugwell, declaring the complete and total nationalization of the healthcare industry and authorizing the establishment of a National Healthcare Service (NHS) in the United States under the Department of Health. Although implementation has been plagued by legal challenges and billions in funding from healthcare providers to opposition candidates, the President has utilized impounded funds to subsidize healthcare for the elderly and impoverished.
-Executive Order 15102 in December of 1951 would establish under the Department of Labor an employers’ syndicate led by former General Electric CEO Gerald Swope called the Business Council, leading to denunciations from across Farmer-Labor despite the low participation in the attempted employers’ union.
-However, the 1946 executive orders declaring a national moratoria on the payment of mortgages and enacting wage and price controls were ended soon after the 1948 election.
-In the face of a rapidly growing economy, La Follette has worked with new Federal Reserve Chairman Bernard Baruch to digress on the expansionist monetary policy that characterized his first term, with interest rates quadrupling to 15% in an effort that has successfully brought inflation from 13% to a mere 3% annually. Unemployment has fallen to 3.2% as the GDP as a whole has grown nearly 9% over La Follette’s second term, an economic boom fueled by mass exportation to Europe and newly decolonized nations elsewhere. While the President has continued to voice support for the nationalization of the Federal Reserve, the issue has remained on the backburner.
-An executive order in January of 1952 has set the new national minimum wage to $7.00 an hour from a previous $3.25, causing mass business outcry despite the President’s argument that the increase is necessary to guarantee a “living wage” after post-war inflation. The Department of Justice has been authorized to prosecute offenders, however, critics have argued that businesses aligned with the President’s political opposition have been unfairly targeted.
-Rufus B. von KleinSmid of the Un-American Activities Board, appointed by the President to monitor journalism for seditious content, would attempt to suppress the release of an account by actress Frances Farmer of her forced confinement to a mental institution in 1948, where she was sterilized under La Follette’s Executive Order 14768 from 1946, authorizing the mass sterilization of the mentally ill and those with “criminal tendencies.” Further investigations into the ramifications of the order have led to staggering revelations of up to 200,000 sterilizations performed annually since 1946, largely under duress, on Americans in prison and mental institutions as well as former criminals. The President has defended the policy while authorizing a Department of Justice investigation into abuses by low level doctors.
-The President would support the prosecution of a half dozen prison wardens accused of citing Executive Order 14767, establishing cooperatives for prisoners to work without pay on natural beautification projects, to turn prisoners into de facto slave laborers working 18 hour shifts as contract labor on farms. While the President has argued that the system itself has brought boons to the environment and American agriculture, critics have claimed that abuse remains widespread.
-While delaying and, in some cases, entirely pausing the implementation of his executive orders in the wake of the promises of moderation amidst the impeachment trial that rescued his presidency from the brink of collapse, fascist Blackshirts and radical Mormon Destroying Angels have become increasingly violent in the months since impeachment, with headlines telling tales of opposition presses raided and armed men watching poll stations. Another conspiracy theory has held that the death of Committee for the Preservation of the Republic chairman Thomas Schall in a motor accident over the winter of 1951 was the result of an intentional Blackshirt hit-and-run.
-While many have blamed the fiery speeches of Vice President Musmanno for encouraging Blackshirts, President La Follette and his brother in the Senate have fiercely denounced all violence on behalf of their movement, appealing to supporters for calm as they call for the speedy prosecution of the allegedly Blackshirt bombthrowers that took the life of elderly comedian Will Rogers. Nonetheless, fear of political violence has led to the cancellation of the 1952 Progressive-Federalist presidential primary in favor of a convention held in tandem with the Liberty League under the auspices of the Committee for the Preservation of the Republic.
-Meanwhile, Washington Senate candidate Marion Zioncheck would throw himself off a building while campaigning to succeed Clarence Dill. In a coma, Zioncheck’s supporters have accused the administration alternately of reigniting his documented mental health issues and being behind the attempted murder themselves.
-September 14, 1951, the height of Blackshirt violence in Philadelphia, St. Louis, and New York City, has been labeled the “Knight of the Long Knives” by opposition critic Styles Bridges. Vice President Musmanno has stood alone in the administration in defending the actions publicly despite condemnation from President La Follette that has carried into the authorization of NSA prosecutions of Blackshirt perpetrators. Representative Richard Nixon, the lead impeachment manager in the La Follette trial, has credited J. Edgar Hoover with the investigations rather than La Follette and accused the administration of only condoning them under pressure from his brother.
-”People of America, wake up!” The last words of House Minority Leader Eduardo Chibas, broadcast into a million homes seconds before his suicide on live radio, has fueled the creation of local opposition organizing groups calling themselves “Wide-Awakes” and aiming to bridge opposition interests against the La Follette Administration.
-The President has made a half a dozen speeches across the nation under the banner of his loyal National Progressives of America calling for the ratification of a 20th Amendment to shift to the president the powers of Congress, restricting the republic’s legislative branch to a mere veto power, while arguing that the need for a strong legislature would be replaced with a 21st Amendment establishing a process for national referendums. Although not passed by Congress, several state legislatures, including those of Alabama and Washington, have passed resolutions indicating a willingness to ratify the amendment.
-The President further floated the concept of reforming the legislature into a “Chamber of Corporations” balancing representatives from the General Trades Union and Business Council.
-With the arrest of CIO leaders John L. Lewis and Tony Boyle, leadership of the nation’s chief opposition union has fallen to Walter Reuther and Jimmy Hoffa, representing the left and right of the organization. With widespread prosecutions against members and supporters such as Fulgencio Batista, however, Reuther and Hoffa have found themselves fighting to prevent the CIO’s collapse. Nonetheless, the CIO would hold a 1950 celebration of the life of former Vice President Lena Morrow Lewis, with President Alf Landon hailing her role in the opposition and using the funeral as a means to rally anti-La Follette sentiment.
-Following a career in national politics spanning nearly seven decades, former President William Randolph Hearst would stop the presses for a final time on August 14th of 1951, passing away at the age of 88 in his castle in San Simeon, California. Having been alternately king and kingmaker in American politics for a half century, Hearst’s funeral would leave the streets around the Grace Cathedral full for blocks, with his son and heir William Randolph Hearst Jr. managing proceedings. Yet, in light of Hearst’s turn to the opposition and support for Fulgencio Batista, President La Follette would be notably absent from the funeral of the man who once coronated him the Farmer-Labor Party’s nominee for the presidency.
-President La Follette would push for the statehood of the territory of Tannenbaum, initially in a tandem effort with Territorial Representative Ernest Gruening’s push for Jewish colonization of the region as an alternative to the increasingly violent Palestine. However, with public sentiment against statehood riled up by Father Charles Coughlin in a campaign tinged by anti-semitism, Senator Henrik Shipstead would filibuster the statehood bill, prompting the Administration to declare a moratoria on statehood efforts and a reconsideration of whether statehood stands in line with national security interest.
-At the urging of singer turned Tennessee Governor Roy Acuff, a group of anti-La Follette Hollywood stars have formed The Motion Picture Alliance for the Preservation of American Ideals, including Jane Russell, Ronald Reagan, Zasu Pitts, Gloria Swanson, June Allyson, Pat Buttram, Orson Welles, and Shirley Temple.
-Senator John Horne Blackmore has proposed an additional tax on chain stores to encourage the development of small business, while he, former New York Governor Ezra Pound, and publisher James Laughlin have called for the revival of the American social credit movement.
-Alabama and Illinois have established themselves as the fastest growing states in the nation, demonstrating success in Single Taxer Paul Douglas’s new “Illinois Model” as well as the continued prosperity of Alabama in the wake of Milford W. Howard’s fascist “Alabama Model” that has inspired emulation globally.
-Farmer-Laborite Maine Senator Benjamin Bubar’s investigation of Hollywood has led to the firing or blacklisting of several dozen actors on charges of alleged homosexuality, with the Administration attempting to tie the issue to support for the President’s political opposition, citing the blacklisting of Greta Garbo and Tennessee Williams as precedent for the firing of longtime members of the foreign service on charges of possible homosexual activities.
-Notable inventions and scientific breakthroughs during President La Follette’s term include the discovery of DNA by scientist Rosalind Franklin; the hydrogen bomb, newly tested on the island of Sakhalin; the first successful kidney transplant; and a revolutionary new vaccine for polio invented by University of Alabama doctor Jonas Salk.

In John L. Lewis's stead, dynamic young Jimmy Hoffa has led the independent labor movement.
The Supreme Court:
-Justice Thomas C. O’Brien, appointed in 1939 as a part of President Lindbergh’s takeover of the court, would die in November of 1951 at the age of 64. With the Presidency still reeling from impeachment, La Follette would nominate Michigan Supreme Court Justice Evo DeConcini to the position. However, the hostile Senate would overwhelmingly refuse to confirm the appointment, with Progressive-Federalist Leader George Pritchard vowing to oppose any La Follette nominee. With neither side budging, the position has remained vacant.

Map of the world as of 1952.
World Events:
-After 9 years of prolonged conflict, the Franco-British War would conclude in August of 1950 with the Treaty of Amsterdam signed by Marshal Petain and British Prime Minister Oliver Baldwin, largely ceding French colonies to the British Empire, with the exception of the Congo, on the time table for independence, and Guiana and Algeria, incorporated directly into metropolitan France. Meanwhile, French dominion has been de facto recognized over most of Western Europe, with the west bank of the Rhine, Catalonia, Luxembourg, and Belgium directly incorporated into France while Germany has been divided into a series of puppet states.
-Although the Spanish Republic has survived, the French-influenced, Catholic monarchist CEDA led by José María Valiente Soriano has received significant funding in challenging Prime Minister Jose Ortega y Gasset, with a similar situation emerging in Italy following the democratization of the nation by former dictator Filippo Tommaso Marinetti, who has been succeeded by the pro-French Achille Lauro.
-Alongside the neutral Netherlands, Portugal has stood outside of the French bloc, as fascist leader Francisco Rolão Preto has held onto power while courting the support of both Bolshevik Russia and the United States, explicitly citing Milford W. Howard as his model for rule.
-In what the French government has labeled “le épuration de la frontière,” (the border purification), a forced exodus has occurred from newly annexed territories, driving millions from their communities and largely to French Africa, where the government has resettled hundreds of thousands each of Catalans, Germans, Greeks, Flemish Belgians, Italians, and the Occitan as French settlers claim their former homes.
-Meanwhile, the international process of decolonization has sped up rapidly, with a proposal by Choudhary Rahmat Ali being adopted by the British to partition the former Raj and form the states of India and Pakistan, alongside a Christian state in the far east.
-Mexican Prime Minister Manuel Gomez Morin has emerged as the primary center of power in the Empire after the crowning of 8 year old Maximiliano II as Emperor.
-Under the leadership of Prime Minister George Drew, the Progressive-Conservatives have won yet another Canadian election, yet the rise of the Social Credit Party in Quebec has driven them to status as the nation’s official opposition. Drew has hosted an Anglo-American Summit alongside President La Follette and Newfoundland Prime Minister Joey Smallwood.
-With Bolshevik Russia as the senior partner, the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics has been established as an alliance between Russia and its satellite states in Kazakhstan and the Caucasus.
-The Hashemite Caliphate has experienced increased unrest in both Palestine, where radical Jewish and Muslim militias have clashed, and the majority Christian regions of Mount Lebanon and newly annexed Nubia, where order has been nearly impossible to enforce.
-Following the death of Jorge Carlos Mariategui after two decades at the helm of Peru, Jorge del Prado Chavez has succeeded him, shifting the nation further towards Bolshevik Russia and ending all possibility of Peru entering a Pacific defense pact.
-The National Party’s oppressive regime of white rule in South Africa has been used as a model by a growing movement for a white minority government among the displaced, largely German white population in the French Congo, slated for independence within the decade.
-Social Democrat Mohammed Mossadegh has been elected President of the Republic of Iran, bringing the Georgist nation closer to Bolshevik Russia geopolitically as a counterweight to fiercely pro-British Caliph Abdullah and pro- French Turkish President Celâl Bayar.
-Greek dictator Konstantinos Logothetopoulos would be deposed in a 1952 revolution following the successful secession of the Aromanians, with communist Markos Vafeiadis leading a Provisional Democratic People’s Government with Bolshevik support. However, prominent author Nikos Kazantzakis has emerged at the fore of an anti-Vafeiadis protest movement for democratic socialism influenced by Georges Sorel.
-Adopted throughout the Habsburg Realm, Soviet Union, and among many Jews in Palestine and Europeans in the Congo, the Esperanto language has gained nearly 50,000,000 speakers and become the official language of diplomacy for the newly founded Republic of Korea.

Bolshevik Russia's \"Iron Lazar\" Kaganovich.
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2024.05.16 00:39 Throwawaygorll Offering: Arabic(N), English(N), German(C1), Friendship(C2), seeking: French(A2)

Hey everyone! I'm seeking a language exchange partner for French. I try my best to keep a consistent routine, and I'd like someone to mostly correct my pronunciation and someone to practice speaking with once I'm a bit more advanced in a few months. My goal is to take the DELF B1 exam at the end of the year, and generally be able to speak the language well enough to travel and do an exchange semester in a French speaking country/maybe even move to study somewhere.
I can offer Arabic, which is my native language and English, which is my second language I grew up speaking at home(my family lived abroad for a long time and my siblings and I communicate in English, with my parents and friends from home in Arabic:) ). I can also offer a listening ear and my friendship, and some nice memes + cute pics of my cats and dogs from back home.
I started to learn German back in 2019 and I'm at a very comfortable level. I have been living, working and studying in Germany for 2 years now and use the language daily so I can help if anyone needs it (ofc I'm still also learning new things here and there, but I'm comfortable enough helping a bit if you're at a A1-B2 level).
I'd prefer someone who is in the same timezone GMT+2 (which most likely would be the case but I'm not sure ofc haha) and perhaps someone with time in the evenings 4x a week or so, but that's not a strict requirement. Also hopefully you don't mind texting or voice notes, because I'd like to practice as much as possible 😅.
If any other French learners want to be language buddies you can also hit me up! I try my best to dedicate time everyday for the language and actively practice writing and speaking, and I read in my free time or listen to stuff during commute.
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2024.05.16 00:38 lottaproblem At what point should I just let go.

I apologize for my language this post, I am coming from a place of anger and sadness. My girlfriend of five years has cheated on me. I saw her text with the other dudes. She’s actively on tinder. And she moved in with her uncle “because he needs the help” but I am like 70% sure she moved out to start fucking other dudes.
So after dating for a while I found out she’s an alcoholic and lately I’ve been trying to confront her about it and have lean off of alcohol because she gets violent and says mean things when she gets to drunk. From her red with other guys it was obvious sex was her main objective. It was also abundantly obvious she would get super Dr unk before going out with dudes. I confronted her about this and she admitted to sleeping with other dudes. Admitted to always getting drunk before. And also admitted she did it because she wanted to hurt me.
Life has been rough because we d see te in the same lease and like she has been started paying less than half her portion of rent. Sometimes I get 30% if her portion if I’m lucky.
I know I should live with my losses and drop her but after five years I feel almost responsible for her. She’s an alcoholic that can’t even work 16 hours a week. I know there is no way she would be able to cover rent and based on her family history if I leave her to fend for herself she will turn into a couch surfing crack head that does drugs and fucks people for money. I know she has better potential than that but at what point is it not my problem and I should just let her suffer her own consequences.
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2024.05.16 00:37 circlehead28 Statement from UW President regarding encampment…

Dear Students, Faculty and Staff,
The humanitarian crisis in Gaza — especially the extraordinary loss of lives and widespread starvation of civilians, including children — is heartbreaking. We join the calls by national and international leaders for a ceasefire that will include an end to military operations, the release of the hostages taken by Hamas on Oct. 7, and a surge of humanitarian aid for Palestinians and all people in Gaza — with the goal of achieving a lasting peace.
As you may be aware, groups of student and non-student protestors set up an unauthorized tent encampment in the Quad on our Seattle campus more than two weeks ago. The encampment involves a small fraction of our 50,000 students and of our 700-acre campus. The space initially did not substantially disrupt the learning, activities and operations of our University. Some of our largest events, including a night market, Engineering Discovery Days and a Meany performance for elementary and high school students from across the city and state, were joyously celebrated on campus. Nonetheless, some of the rhetoric and language used in chants and signs within the Quad and at protests, while protected speech, was and is vile and antisemitic.
I strongly support the right of protected free expression and understand that protest by its very nature is structured to be uncomfortable and bring attention to a cause. Institutions of higher education have been at the center of important social and political movements through the course of history. I also know that this issue is deeply personal to many in our community and, in many cases, is not only a matter of political perspective but of their core identity.
Consistent with our long-standing commitment to dialogue with students during protest actions, we believe that engaging in dialogue is the most productive path to a resolution that can see the encampment voluntarily depart. Indeed, even before the encampment started, we were meeting with a cross section of students who are deeply moved by the humanitarian crisis.
University leaders, including myself, have held multiple, ongoing discussions with representatives of the encampment to find common ground with the expectation that the encampment peacefully and voluntarily disband. We have been consistently clear we will not engage in an academic boycott of Israel or “cut all ties” with Boeing. Both run counter to academic freedom, a core value of the academy. We’ve made clear there is an established Board of Regents process for endowment divestment decisions. We had them meet with a member of the University of Washington Investment Management Company (UWINCO), and we let them know that we have no direct investments in Boeing or weapons manufacturers. We’ve also heard their concerns about support for Palestinian and other Muslim and Middle Eastern students, and offered tangible actions to improve our campus culture and deepen our commitment to their education.
We have engaged sincerely and openly. The representatives of the encampment have presented a series of changing and escalating demands, including most recently demanding the creation of a new department that would have an “anti-Zionist” litmus test for faculty hiring; granting a student group oversight of awarding new, religion-based University scholarships; and a blanket amnesty for all violations of the law and student code, including not solely camping, among other demands. Many of these demands, especially the most recent, are contrary to academic freedom and/or to state or federal law.
This morning our campus community arrived to their classrooms and work spaces to see offensive graffiti across multiple buildings all over campus, some quite clearly both antisemitic and violent, creating an unwelcome and fearful environment for many students, faculty and staff, especially those who are Jewish. Much to my dismay, given the relatively cordial tone of many of our discussions, the representatives also said the new graffiti is an intentional escalation to compel the University to agree to their demands.
While I strongly support free speech and peaceful protest, I also strongly support the rights of all our community members to live, learn and work without fear. I want to thank our Office of Campus Community Safety, UW Facilities and state and local partners for supporting our community despite challenging circumstances, including two very tense counter-protests. But every day the encampment remains, safety concerns escalate for our UW community and for the people in the encampment itself. We again call on members to dismantle the encampment voluntarily for everyone’s safety, end the vandalism to our campus and continue constructive engagement with us on the issues of concern.
I have been a member of this community for nearly forty years. This is my home and my extended family. I have always led through engagement. The situation now is untenable. I’ll reiterate: The University’s response to students’ calls for change will not be based on an encampment — there are many ways for voices to be heard that don’t require tents, violent rhetoric and vandalism. Change will be through constructive engagement on issues that are important and meaningful to our students and broader campus community.
EDIT: Including source link for validation! President Statement
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