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2024.05.16 11:02 Shecrazy87 John-Paul Miller killed Mica Miller and hereâs how.
This is the most plausible answer. I think this is exactly how he did it using facts from sermons, emails, texts, news, interviews, maps, and extensive experience with parasitic Narcissistic sitic abuse. If there is anything that I am incorrect on please let me know and I will recalculate. After typing this up two days ago, I stumbled upon Micaâs fatherâs interview, and it completely solidified it to the point where I started violently shaking. I think this is what happened.
I was told Winslowâs property backs up against that state forest. 200 acres. Right down the road. Now remember. Somebody on his staff was told to go and trim back the overgrowth on that specific property shortly before all of this happened,
I think Mica at some point had conversation with Winslow and agreed to come and talk to him at his property, a âsafe place JP wouldnât know.â, thinking she could trust him. I think mica went to winslows and JP was waiting there for unknowingly.
I think Winslow has JPâs phone and I think JP has Winslowâs phone so theyâre not gonna ping the towers. All they saw was the license plate they never verified He was actually there.
I think JP and Winslow met at a undisclosed location and swapped vehicles. JP went up to Winslowâs NC property with Winslowâs vehicle and cell phone, and Winslow went down south with JP cell phone and truck. I canât quite place the girlfriend, but she is an alibi therefore she is aware that something has happened or is going on. I cannot figure out whether or not Winslow was with JP and she took the vehicle down south either or we need to find out the location of where the girlfriend was and where Winslow was. That could all be found by bank financial records of the days in question. Nobody uses cash in 2024 for an entire getaway.
Didnât they say he got a new truck? There was something new about the truck? Did he get a new one so it wouldnât have any of Winslowâs DNA inside of it? If Winslow drove it, his DNA/finger prints on the steering wheel would easily be on the steering wheel. Why else would he need to drive Winslowâs vehicle if there were indications, he was driving the vehicle. Now remember one of them is a lawyer he knows what they look for. JPâs and Winslowâs vehicles both need to be tested for gunpowder residue.
Mica shows up to Winslowâs property, JP is there with Winslowâs vehicle, ambushes her OR Winslow is there too and the girlfriend took her phone and truck south. He already has a plan of where heâs going to take her to unalive her before she arrives. JP drives Micaâs car with Mica in it to the final location parking lot, walks her into the woods kills her, puts her stuff down and walks back to Winslow property through the woods. Girlfriend says she was with him, I think she stayed at the property or she drove a vehicle to come get him after he was done if she was there. either way Winslow or girlfriend somebody picked him up or was waiting or he went back to the property and gotten Winslowâs vehicle and left. Remember itâs not that far away..
Now, after reviewing the 911 recording again, I do not think it is AI. The biggest reason why I know it wasnât AI is because if you listen to the fast response when asked for the phone number, there wasnât enough time to record that and send it at the same time. So she replied too fast. Now, when have you ever heard a 911 operator asking somebody for their phone number? That never would have been written. You still have the type stuff in the AI creators. Also, she delayed pause between every number, how would she have replied in half the time it would have taken to type all of that out. Think about it, he would have had to type a number hit space type a number hit space over and over. In a rush I know I mess up you donât think he would have messed up? He never would have been able to get that recorded smoothly quickly in the time it took for her to respond. Again, when have you ever heard of 911 asking for your phone number?. I believe he is in the car with her after they just left Winslows property. I believe heâs sitting right next to her in the car and allows her to make the call thinking itâs going to cover up everything and benefit him. She was sending out the whistle to her family and Sheâs trying to buy time for them to locate her. He knew to turn off the location because she mentioned She turned it on notice how it ended at that?. My point with this is at the end.
Logically speaking if she was purposely driving to that park, she would have known the name to GPS it. She wouldâve known the name of the park to give the operator. Thatâs why she was pausing, probably looking to him to see where theyâre at. Thatâs why she says âyes thatâs itâ cause he nodded. he had enough time to process what the operator was saying before Mica was able to answer thatâs why she was able to reply quickly because the operator was speaking slowly. He heard the first word and nodded. She didnât know, but now suddenly she knew? If she was going to purposely take her own life, and she really wanted her body found, why wouldnât she have found the name of the park before she called to give them proper location?
She would have seen oh look itâs a park and read the sign and pulled into it. She didnât know the sign because she was terrified because he was with her. She just knows sheâs in a park.
I would possibly look to see if there was any dirt roads that led to where her vehicle is at back to Winslowâs property. That might be why she didnât see a sign. I havenât looked too much into that part but itâs a suggestion if anybody wants to do any homework.
SO Thatâs why the phone was put on airplane mode so cops wouldnât track them into the woods at the site of the incident and he would be able to get away in time into the woods without being seen.
Also airplane mode was turned on while in the car, at the end of the 911 call, I think he took the phone put the airplane mode on which is why the airplane mode was put on because she mentioned it out loud specifically, he knew the cops were coming time to MOVE, canât follow us to the woods though. THATS why thereâs no bird sounds, they did it in the car after they got to the parking lot. I think subconsciously she thought knew this was going to happen. Kinda like I told my family this was going to happen, and then it clicked what she needed to do. He brought the phone with them to paint the picture. Why would she turn off her location herself if she wanted to be found? She was already going to enter her life right? She was obviously not going to wait a long time right? Listen to her voice when it got emotional when she said she was going to kill herself. If she was unsure, why did she skip up in the exact moment? She was almost free, she had fought so hard. When youâre almost free, what would make you think she would want to stop now? Listen to me clearly, he was in the car. She needed to send out a dog whistle to the people she had told she she told him she would admit to the suicide if she could have her body found. She knew she was going to die and she knew she needed to make sure her family could piece this together. Therefore the only plausible answer is he was in the car with her. She was emotionless probably because the gun was already on her, the phone was removed from her because she mentioned the airplane mode specifically he thought they canât trace us out to the woods, airplane mode goes on. He walked out to the woods. He needed Time to get away and couldnât have them knowing exactly where he was to go to first so he could escape right after.
Now he goes into the woods by possibly dragging her which is why she has a bruised wrist. That might be why she started crying. She might have tried to get away when she knew what was going to happen or that it was happening hence why thereâs multiple rounds. This led to possible yanking, and then the gunshot, which is why the fisherman heard the crying. Then it was over. Put her in the water he placed her belongings and Then he walked back towards Winslowâs property. I want to know if thereâs a phone call between mica and Winslow, was this drive scheduled day of or days prior and gave enough time for it to be planned. I believe at that time he got back into Winslowâs vehicle met somewhere with Windlow switched vehicles again. JP going to his home and Winslow going back to his home. The funeral and everything was already preplanned and scheduled due to the fact they already knew what was going to happen and already had it pre-planned and needed to make sure it was swift and left no room for delay. Her family, knowing they would want to see her, he manipulated them into signing the cremation holding her body over their heads. Taunting them via text message blaming them to create the narrative. Otherwise, what would be the big deal of allowing them to see the body without needing something in exchange? He knew they would have questions afterwards. At that time all they had was the 911 call and a body, sometimes you need time to process. You know when something happens and then later on youâre like wait what? He wanted to make sure that body had no stop on the cremation process to get rid of all evidence before thosequestions inevitably came. He got ahead of it so there was no hiccup in delays because he knew he had to allow them to see the body to the public that would be the moral right thing to do. Not allowing them to see the body would be suspicious. He figured out how to make it work for both. He talks about laying with her body four times and trying to raise her from the dead, was this guilt or was it like when somebody puts a deer head on the wall?
Now remember, she has already been predisposed to trust Winslow. He mentions Winslow in an email to her previously, obviously showing that he & his wife were a trusted friend of hers as well. Itâs 100% a possibility that Winslow told her to come up and talk where she was protected and JP wouldnât find them, and Winslow left with the truck and met with JP and they switched. Winslow south, JP north. Winslow had asked his staff to clean up that overgrowth on the property. It being a wooded area, was this done so that the roadway was assessable for the plan? she probably drove down some type of dirt road, and he ambushed her in some manner. North Carolina Woods are dense, therefore easily to hide when she pulls over.
Now, how do I think that JP convinced Winslow to help, I believe JP convinced Winslow , Mica was going to tell on all of them and ruin their lives. This could have been backed up by the fact that all the documentation that she had previously collected had gone missing, and was brought to Winslow to paint Mica as an enemy so this was enough for him to convince Winslow that their future and freedom was inJeopardy. When JP was actually afraid she was going to tell on his abuse and life and ruin him. So they killed her to protect their life.
They said something yesterday about breaking news how they found that the notary was forged? Thats enough for me to draw speculation because it was done by Winslow that he is now in on the dirty dealings. He is a part of the actual dirty dealings against mica He knows something is being done wrong and he is condoning it.
That notary that was done on the power of attorney from mica was falsely notarized. Mica was not present for the notary. There was an article on earlier I was looking at but I was in information overload. I just know It was not legally notarized. This shows that Winslow does not have integrity. How far is he willing to go to protect JP and all of their secrets?
I think she told JP she just wanted her body to be found for her family and she would go without a fight. I believe that it was a dog whistle to her family. The clue they would need to know this wasnât suicide. She told them and now she needed them to remember. She knew she was going to die and everybody needed to know about the gunshot specifically that she warned everyone about days prior. He didnât know she told people close to her that that. Thatâs why her voice broke up when she said she was going to unalive herself. She did not want to die. She just wanted people to be able to solve the crime. She manipulated him into thinking he was going to get away with this because she is admitting to it being a suicide. Not knowing She had whistled what was going to happen, she needed people to listen. She offered up no extra information during the 911 call which then delayed the process hoping they would find her location. She told her dad days prior sheâs getting a gun for protection. I think she got it before she drove up there just incase and the bruises on her hand may be him wrestling it from her. Maybe at arrival.
A search and rescue dog can smell from weeks to months after somebody has left the area, and if anybody can get something of his and be able to place him there in the woods, you have convincing beyond a reasonable doubt.
After writing this up yesterday when I was complete, I got super sick to my stomach. I was shaking. I could see it completely out in my head where all the facts completely aligned. I believe tthis is the only plausible theory there is.
What people need to realize at the end of the day the good attention and bad attention is still attention to a narcissist. He is enjoying the intention is getting from this primarily from getting away with it. Thatâs why I believe he visited her body four times after she was deceased. Because he already had a girlfriend, he already talked about going and getting a hot wife and then after she dies, he does an interview about how sheâs the most incredible wife and supportive. He made the obituary about how awesome he thought she was to still collect her validation and the validation he got from being her husband because she was good. She was light and he was jealous of that. He wanted that thatâs why he had that position. She loved him so much he claimed and how she was so wonderful he claimed yet she didnât want him when she had a no contact order and wanted a divorce obviously, he wasnât that. and if you guys donât think he groomed her go to the memorial of life sermon and listen to the poem again. Now switch the words, âschoolâ and âchurch.â And follow the story line.
He killed Mica Miller.
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I was told Winslowâs property backs up against that state forest. 200 acres. Right down the road. Now remember. Somebody on his staff was told to go and trim back the overgrowth on that specific property shortly before all of this happened,
I think Mica at some point had conversation with Winslow and agreed to come and talk to him at his property, a âsafe place JP wouldnât know.â, thinking she could trust him. I think mica went to winslows and JP was waiting there for unknowingly.
I think Winslow has JPâs phone and I think JP has Winslowâs phone so theyâre not gonna ping the towers. All they saw was the license plate they never verified He was actually there.
I think JP and Winslow met at a undisclosed location and swapped vehicles. JP went up to Winslowâs NC property with Winslowâs vehicle and cell phone, and Winslow went down south with JP cell phone and truck. I canât quite place the girlfriend, but she is an alibi therefore she is aware that something has happened or is going on. I cannot figure out whether or not Winslow was with JP and she took the vehicle down south either or we need to find out the location of where the girlfriend was and where Winslow was. That could all be found by bank financial records of the days in question. Nobody uses cash in 2024 for an entire getaway.
Didnât they say he got a new truck? There was something new about the truck? Did he get a new one so it wouldnât have any of Winslowâs DNA inside of it? If Winslow drove it, his DNA/finger prints on the steering wheel would easily be on the steering wheel. Why else would he need to drive Winslowâs vehicle if there were indications, he was driving the vehicle. Now remember one of them is a lawyer he knows what they look for. JPâs and Winslowâs vehicles both need to be tested for gunpowder residue.
Mica shows up to Winslowâs property, JP is there with Winslowâs vehicle, ambushes her OR Winslow is there too and the girlfriend took her phone and truck south. He already has a plan of where heâs going to take her to unalive her before she arrives. JP drives Micaâs car with Mica in it to the final location parking lot, walks her into the woods kills her, puts her stuff down and walks back to Winslow property through the woods. Girlfriend says she was with him, I think she stayed at the property or she drove a vehicle to come get him after he was done if she was there. either way Winslow or girlfriend somebody picked him up or was waiting or he went back to the property and gotten Winslowâs vehicle and left. Remember itâs not that far away..
Now, after reviewing the 911 recording again, I do not think it is AI. The biggest reason why I know it wasnât AI is because if you listen to the fast response when asked for the phone number, there wasnât enough time to record that and send it at the same time. So she replied too fast. Now, when have you ever heard a 911 operator asking somebody for their phone number? That never would have been written. You still have the type stuff in the AI creators. Also, she delayed pause between every number, how would she have replied in half the time it would have taken to type all of that out. Think about it, he would have had to type a number hit space type a number hit space over and over. In a rush I know I mess up you donât think he would have messed up? He never would have been able to get that recorded smoothly quickly in the time it took for her to respond. Again, when have you ever heard of 911 asking for your phone number?. I believe he is in the car with her after they just left Winslows property. I believe heâs sitting right next to her in the car and allows her to make the call thinking itâs going to cover up everything and benefit him. She was sending out the whistle to her family and Sheâs trying to buy time for them to locate her. He knew to turn off the location because she mentioned She turned it on notice how it ended at that?. My point with this is at the end.
Logically speaking if she was purposely driving to that park, she would have known the name to GPS it. She wouldâve known the name of the park to give the operator. Thatâs why she was pausing, probably looking to him to see where theyâre at. Thatâs why she says âyes thatâs itâ cause he nodded. he had enough time to process what the operator was saying before Mica was able to answer thatâs why she was able to reply quickly because the operator was speaking slowly. He heard the first word and nodded. She didnât know, but now suddenly she knew? If she was going to purposely take her own life, and she really wanted her body found, why wouldnât she have found the name of the park before she called to give them proper location?
She would have seen oh look itâs a park and read the sign and pulled into it. She didnât know the sign because she was terrified because he was with her. She just knows sheâs in a park.
I would possibly look to see if there was any dirt roads that led to where her vehicle is at back to Winslowâs property. That might be why she didnât see a sign. I havenât looked too much into that part but itâs a suggestion if anybody wants to do any homework.
SO Thatâs why the phone was put on airplane mode so cops wouldnât track them into the woods at the site of the incident and he would be able to get away in time into the woods without being seen.
Also airplane mode was turned on while in the car, at the end of the 911 call, I think he took the phone put the airplane mode on which is why the airplane mode was put on because she mentioned it out loud specifically, he knew the cops were coming time to MOVE, canât follow us to the woods though. THATS why thereâs no bird sounds, they did it in the car after they got to the parking lot. I think subconsciously she thought knew this was going to happen. Kinda like I told my family this was going to happen, and then it clicked what she needed to do. He brought the phone with them to paint the picture. Why would she turn off her location herself if she wanted to be found? She was already going to enter her life right? She was obviously not going to wait a long time right? Listen to her voice when it got emotional when she said she was going to kill herself. If she was unsure, why did she skip up in the exact moment? She was almost free, she had fought so hard. When youâre almost free, what would make you think she would want to stop now? Listen to me clearly, he was in the car. She needed to send out a dog whistle to the people she had told she she told him she would admit to the suicide if she could have her body found. She knew she was going to die and she knew she needed to make sure her family could piece this together. Therefore the only plausible answer is he was in the car with her. She was emotionless probably because the gun was already on her, the phone was removed from her because she mentioned the airplane mode specifically he thought they canât trace us out to the woods, airplane mode goes on. He walked out to the woods. He needed Time to get away and couldnât have them knowing exactly where he was to go to first so he could escape right after.
Now he goes into the woods by possibly dragging her which is why she has a bruised wrist. That might be why she started crying. She might have tried to get away when she knew what was going to happen or that it was happening hence why thereâs multiple rounds. This led to possible yanking, and then the gunshot, which is why the fisherman heard the crying. Then it was over. Put her in the water he placed her belongings and Then he walked back towards Winslowâs property. I want to know if thereâs a phone call between mica and Winslow, was this drive scheduled day of or days prior and gave enough time for it to be planned. I believe at that time he got back into Winslowâs vehicle met somewhere with Windlow switched vehicles again. JP going to his home and Winslow going back to his home. The funeral and everything was already preplanned and scheduled due to the fact they already knew what was going to happen and already had it pre-planned and needed to make sure it was swift and left no room for delay. Her family, knowing they would want to see her, he manipulated them into signing the cremation holding her body over their heads. Taunting them via text message blaming them to create the narrative. Otherwise, what would be the big deal of allowing them to see the body without needing something in exchange? He knew they would have questions afterwards. At that time all they had was the 911 call and a body, sometimes you need time to process. You know when something happens and then later on youâre like wait what? He wanted to make sure that body had no stop on the cremation process to get rid of all evidence before thosequestions inevitably came. He got ahead of it so there was no hiccup in delays because he knew he had to allow them to see the body to the public that would be the moral right thing to do. Not allowing them to see the body would be suspicious. He figured out how to make it work for both. He talks about laying with her body four times and trying to raise her from the dead, was this guilt or was it like when somebody puts a deer head on the wall?
Now remember, she has already been predisposed to trust Winslow. He mentions Winslow in an email to her previously, obviously showing that he & his wife were a trusted friend of hers as well. Itâs 100% a possibility that Winslow told her to come up and talk where she was protected and JP wouldnât find them, and Winslow left with the truck and met with JP and they switched. Winslow south, JP north. Winslow had asked his staff to clean up that overgrowth on the property. It being a wooded area, was this done so that the roadway was assessable for the plan? she probably drove down some type of dirt road, and he ambushed her in some manner. North Carolina Woods are dense, therefore easily to hide when she pulls over.
Now, how do I think that JP convinced Winslow to help, I believe JP convinced Winslow , Mica was going to tell on all of them and ruin their lives. This could have been backed up by the fact that all the documentation that she had previously collected had gone missing, and was brought to Winslow to paint Mica as an enemy so this was enough for him to convince Winslow that their future and freedom was inJeopardy. When JP was actually afraid she was going to tell on his abuse and life and ruin him. So they killed her to protect their life.
They said something yesterday about breaking news how they found that the notary was forged? Thats enough for me to draw speculation because it was done by Winslow that he is now in on the dirty dealings. He is a part of the actual dirty dealings against mica He knows something is being done wrong and he is condoning it.
That notary that was done on the power of attorney from mica was falsely notarized. Mica was not present for the notary. There was an article on earlier I was looking at but I was in information overload. I just know It was not legally notarized. This shows that Winslow does not have integrity. How far is he willing to go to protect JP and all of their secrets?
I think she told JP she just wanted her body to be found for her family and she would go without a fight. I believe that it was a dog whistle to her family. The clue they would need to know this wasnât suicide. She told them and now she needed them to remember. She knew she was going to die and everybody needed to know about the gunshot specifically that she warned everyone about days prior. He didnât know she told people close to her that that. Thatâs why her voice broke up when she said she was going to unalive herself. She did not want to die. She just wanted people to be able to solve the crime. She manipulated him into thinking he was going to get away with this because she is admitting to it being a suicide. Not knowing She had whistled what was going to happen, she needed people to listen. She offered up no extra information during the 911 call which then delayed the process hoping they would find her location. She told her dad days prior sheâs getting a gun for protection. I think she got it before she drove up there just incase and the bruises on her hand may be him wrestling it from her. Maybe at arrival.
A search and rescue dog can smell from weeks to months after somebody has left the area, and if anybody can get something of his and be able to place him there in the woods, you have convincing beyond a reasonable doubt.
After writing this up yesterday when I was complete, I got super sick to my stomach. I was shaking. I could see it completely out in my head where all the facts completely aligned. I believe tthis is the only plausible theory there is.
What people need to realize at the end of the day the good attention and bad attention is still attention to a narcissist. He is enjoying the intention is getting from this primarily from getting away with it. Thatâs why I believe he visited her body four times after she was deceased. Because he already had a girlfriend, he already talked about going and getting a hot wife and then after she dies, he does an interview about how sheâs the most incredible wife and supportive. He made the obituary about how awesome he thought she was to still collect her validation and the validation he got from being her husband because she was good. She was light and he was jealous of that. He wanted that thatâs why he had that position. She loved him so much he claimed and how she was so wonderful he claimed yet she didnât want him when she had a no contact order and wanted a divorce obviously, he wasnât that. and if you guys donât think he groomed her go to the memorial of life sermon and listen to the poem again. Now switch the words, âschoolâ and âchurch.â And follow the story line.
He killed Mica Miller.
2024.05.16 11:00 Astor_Yuri The Power Moves (long review)
Long story short:
* Like everyone else, I had doubts before purchasing any of his courses, so Iâll mention the main points that were important to me before buying it (more on this when I talk about the four main problems I faced in my journey of self-development and attraction):
* Is the course worth it? Considering the impact it has had on my life, my answer is a resounding YES.
* Is there a cost-benefit balance? Absolutely yes.
* Will it help me in all areas of my life? Yes, especially with power dynamics. This course will offer you valuable insights that you can apply in any area of your life.
* Do the techniques and strategies really work? Yes, they do. However, like any course, the key is to you apply what you've learned and it also depends on the time and effort you're willing to invest to achieve lasting changes
Important note: I don't have any kind of relationship with Lucio or anyone on his team, and no one paid me to do this review, much less to share such intimate details. I am doing this of my own free will because I want to thank him for all the knowledge he has provided me, and I believe this could be useful for him and for anyone looking to determine whether what he teaches is useful or not. This review is not going to be directly about his courses; it is going to be about all the resources on TPM (The Power Moves), and specifically about the impact they have had on my life. Consider it more of a testimonial and also a personal opinion.
The following review is quite detailed, and really long. I really believe that writing less would strip away a lot of depth and context. I donât expect everyone to read it entirely, but maybe it can offer some perspective to someone interested in buying the course. Iâm not a special person (I mean like someone famous, or with a lot of academic titles, or any of that); Iâm just a regular guy looking to improve the quality of my life and achieve enough economic prosperity to help the people I love most live the life they want, help those in need, people, animalsâŚand if possible, gain valuable knowledge that helps me in my work as a psychologist. Nothing satisfies me more than seeing the faces of people when, with some time and effort, they realize they can do things they never thought possible and feel proud of themselves for achieving it. I also havenât had it easy in my romantic life, and Iâd like to find a healthy person who is also motivated to be a better human being and have a peaceful love. Learning about power will just be a means to contribute my little bit to this world. Iâm not a writer, but Iâll try to outline what I consider to be the most important points to give you another perspective to consider, if you want to buy this course. My native language is Spanish, so due to the length of the text and my lack of skill in âspeakingâ another language, I decided to use ChatGPT as a translator (since I feel it does a better job than Google Translator), and Iâll make the necessary adjustments to make myself better understood.
For most of my life, I lived in deep loneliness and experienced a lot of abuse from people. I never understood why, no matter how many good things I did for others, I received mistreatment in return. My social programming whispered to me, âDo good things for others, and they will be good to youâ, âGive to others what you would like to receive,â among many other things. But as time went by, I slowly fell into despair. Since I was 8 years old, Iâve had suicidal thoughts, strongly influenced by my social/romantic life. Eventually, I began to harbor unhealthy beliefs that took root in my way of thinking. For example, I thought I had to make enormous efforts to maintain the âaffectionâ and âacceptanceâ people âhadâ for me. I also believed that if no one, not a single person, treated me with respect, it was because that was what I deserved. If no one was interested in who I was, it was because I was worth so little that I couldnât ask for more from life and should be grateful for the crumbs of âloveâ I received. Regarding my love life, during my first 19 years, not a single person showed interest in me. Iâm not extremely attractive, but based on social feedback, Iâd say Iâm slightly above average. Perhaps my short height would be the one physical trait that works against me, as Iâm 1.63 meters or, as you might better understand, Iâm 5â4â. As for internal traits related to girls, I treated them well, was respectful, showed interest in them, helped them, dedicated a lot of my time, and was unconditionally there for them through good and bad times. I was many things that, according to movies and the opinions of many girls (based solely on what they said they wanted), I thought would bring me plenty of women, and yet, not a single soul wanted to be with me. What I did achieve with the girls I liked was becoming their best friend. And so, I spent my days and nights listening to the girls I liked cry over aggressive men who mistreated them physically and emotionally and/or cheated on them with other girls. I didnât understand it; I had a good set of values and not just with them but with everyone. I considered myself a good guy, competent in some areas, and was unconditionally there for them, and yet they preferred to be with clearly violent men. In one of the moments when I felt most miserable, the following happened: I liked a girl and expressed it to her, and although she initially reciprocated, a month later, she left me for someone else and started dating that person. In something very similar to therapy, I ended up helping her for almost three years to improve her relationship with her aggressive partner.
Here, Iâd like to say something (nothing to do with the situation, but anyway, I wanted to share those thoughts with you): two of the worst things I was made to believe were: âYou donât have to change; someone will come and love you just as you are,â and âRomantic love is something that just happens naturally, stop looking for it. It will come to you.â Neither of these things ever happened, and both are awful, unempathetic and limiting mindsets.
Eight years ago, after spending some time in a psychiatric hospital due to suicidal ideation, I decided to completely change my life and committed to my personal growth. Every day without exception, I studied and applied the concepts I was learning in my spare time, while studying to one day become a psychologist. I bought books, courses (even from very prominent figures in the world of seduction and self-development that you would easily recognize). When I didnât even have money to eat, I downloaded them from pirate sources, but I always found a way to keep progressing. I had many virtual teachers who helped me grow in different aspects, and Iâm very grateful for the knowledge they provided me that helped me climb out of that black hole. Like many who embark on this journey, I reached a point where, no matter how much I read and took courses, there was nothing new to pull me out of my stagnation. Everything was the same. I had to constantly review new resources and listen to endless hours of videos to find a needle in a haystack. For me, it was no longer worth paying for a full course if what I was going to found was something I had likely already learned (a lot of times for free). Although I sought to develop on all levels, here I will emphasize the romantic part more. Generally, these learning resources had a couple of problems: the first is that Iâve never been the kind of person who wants to date multiple girls; Iâm more the type of guy who seeks a stable partner. The second problem was that many people who teach dating skills ask you to have a very high energy level and Iâm a very calm and rather introverted person (not shy, introverted). I donât want to pretend to be excited or become friends with everyone around me to increase my social value (itâs very exhausting and not worth it as a long-term strategy). The third problem is that the advice of many people who want to promote healthy relationships (some of them psychologists), although well-intentioned, makes any spark that generated attraction nonexistent, generating very predictable behavior (in the bad way) among other things. â certainly, those tools are important for a healthy relationship, but they wonât necessarily make someone feel attracted to you (I find it unlikely). They are more of a positive complement that can help increase value when there is already attraction. After a while and thanks to Lucioâs reflections, I realized the problems and limitations that these gurus or psychologists, basically they are very âpolitically correctâ. Finally, the last problem I found is that none of them addressed the true root of my problem. No matter how much I improved in all aspects, I still didnât see results with girls. Yes, the number of girls approaching me increased slightly, but none wanted to be with me for a long-term relationship. That missing ingredient is called âpower,â and although briefly mentioned in those courses, videos, books, etc., it was never sufficiently well explained to understand why I wasnât achieving results. My problem was that my balance between warmth and power was enormously unbalanced. I was completely warm with people, but I didnât have a clue about power dynamics (what Lucio would call âThe Kingâs Servant). I ended up in the âgood guyâ category, a good guy who wanted to be bad and wanted to treat women poorly to see if he got results, but whose moral values never allowed him to do anything that would hurt or could hurt another person, even if it meant remaining alone (which, far from making me feel good or proud at the moment, it only increased my self-hate). I wanted to remain good, but being good got me nowhere. Adding to that, due to my upbringing, I developed an anxious attachment style (something I also hated for a long time because, objectively speaking, itâs certainly easier for an avoidant man to have more power in a relationship thanks to his natural tendency to fear emotional closeness and natural behavior to protect his independence; quick note: I think that behavior is far from perfect but from what Iâve seen at least they get more results with girls). I have been always considered too clingy and dependent.
Many girls who felt initial attraction to me after a while wanted me to stay in their lives, but never as their partner, only as a good friend. When I turned 20, I found my first partner. This girl was incredibly attracted to me at first, but as soon as I started prioritizing her and seeking closeness, when I set aside my power to be âtruly myself,â she began to lose attraction and started to disrespect me. At some point along that path, I came across TPM, and I must say it was a pleasant surprise after years of stagnation.
Human beings are very complex, and because of this, itâs unlikely that a single teacher will âsaveâ you from your social and/or romantic situation. But for me, the person who has influenced my life for the better the most is Lucio. Since I started this journey, Iâve been gathering bits of knowledge from each person that has contributed to who I am, but there have been two things that have totally changed my social life, and for me, both are equally important. The first would take a long time to explain and is more about inner work and pure reflection, but in terms of knowledge, if I had to erase those eight years and start over, Iâd like it to be with the knowledge Lucio provides. Seduction University was the last course I bought a long time ago, and Power University will probably be the last course Iâll buy (for several years). I bought Seduction University quite some time ago (about two or three years) and am still learning; Iâm just over 73% through the course. This amount of time might surprise many, but those who seek lasting changes in themselves and who are truly committed to deeply learning and integrating everything there until it becomes second nature, know it will likely take several months and probably years.
Having knowledge is not a magic cure; knowing something doesn't make you good at it. Changing deep aspects of one's identity is not as easy as many people seem to forget; it's slow, very slow, and also requires conscious and constant effort. The path of personal growth is not easy, but personally I don't expect it to be. It may take me several years of practice to consolidate all that knowledge, but I know with absolute certainty that it will be a great investment for my future. Going back to the main point, in my opinion, Seduction University and very likely Power University will give you much more value than what you'd get from a more well-known person's course, and at an incredibly affordable price. I know this, because I've been consuming content from many authors for 8 years (every day, each day of the past 8 years without fail). Honestly, I'm fortunate that it is priced so affordably. To be completely honest with you I don't earn much money, and, in my country, there is not much economic prosperity, there is significant inequality, and for me, paying for a course in dollars is comparatively much more expensive than for people who earn in dollars or other stronger currencies. And still, I believe it's totally worth investing in these courses.
One important thing I've learned over the years is that there are things your mind will not be ready to understand, and the good thing about that is as long as you commit to your learning, you will keep growing and progressing, and at some point when you revisit the material, you might understand those things you didn't âgraspâ initially, or you might achieve more advanced things that your novice self couldn't properly do the first time you went through the material. You'll pay a price for one of these courses the day you decide to buy it (if you decide to do so), but the truth is that by the time you truly learn everything, so much time will have passed that, if you look at it from a very distant perspective (all the required time for you to really learn), you'll find that the benefits you will get will be arguably greater than those that Lucio and his team will have gotten. Another thing to keep in mind is that either Seduction University or Power University, if used well, will likely help you achieve more economic prosperity; on the other hand, Lucio makes sure to improve the course content, which guarantees even more growth over time. For me this justifies the annual payment to access the material again, which brings me to the next point: Lucio gives you a full year to access the learning material, and if you want to keep having access, he significantly reduces the price (probably in gratitude to those who trusted him and decided to buy the course). Also, keep in mind what I said about how it's very likely that the second or third time you take the course, you'll probably learn new things you were not prepared for before. Finally, it's a price that, in my opinion, supports all his work. He has spent a lot of time and effort reading books, articles, reviewing courses, making videos, writing in his blog, and much more, all for free. Even if you decided not to buy any of his courses, believe me, just by reading his articles, watching his videos, and reading the book reviews he recommends for specific issues, you'd already be avoiding wasting time on reading useless or unnecessarily complex things. For my part, I'm glad he was able to provide me with a way out of the stagnation I had; I really like that he also considers people who are looking for a stable relationship and not just those seeking to have more sexual partners (which is also very valid and respectable); I like that he teaches the "general rules and mindsets," allowing for personality flexibility since that way I don't feel compelled to be (or rather pretend to be) a very energetic and super sociable person to achieve good results with girls; I like that he is a person who does not seek or promote the use of the knowledge he has to harm people but focuses on teaching how to generate relationships that promote a win-win dynamic. Since I started to consume his content, my life has changed quite a bit. I definitely feel more respected, and all my relationships have improved on all levels, romantically, although I have not yet found a person with whom there has been enough compatibility to want to have that person as a stable partner, and I still have much to improve, I definitely feel that I have become more attractive to people. In my last job, considering there weren't many staff members (about 30-35 workers including supervisors and the manager), I ended up being (romantically/sexually) liked by 14 people (8 women, 6 men), and in that job, I dated my second partner. I still make many mistakes, and there are deeper issues that require professional help, but the truth is that my life has undoubtedly improved a lot. I am a person who really takes the time to learn and truly integrate into myself what I have learned, and it has taken me years to consolidate the knowledge in Seduction University. As I said before, I haven't finished it, and it will probably take me many more months (maybe years) to consolidate the information there and what I still have not read yet in the course (not to mention the hyperlinks he provides to dig really deep in some topics). I want to improve even more in my life, and thatâs why I decided to buy Power University. From lesson one, I already started finding very valuable knowledge; I haven't gone far into the course, and it would be dishonest to give my opinion, but I feel that, like Seduction University, Power University will also be very worthwhile. The book "Ultimate Power" also has hidden gems (at the moment, I am reflecting a lot on what it explains about cultivating an antifragile ego). I decided not to buy more courses or books because it will probably take me more than a year to consume all the content and much longer to make it my second nature. Although I like to diversify my knowledge and will continue learning about synergistic topics about personal growth, I would like to prioritize finishing both courses (at least "the reading part" the "superficial effort part"), besides dedicating the rest of my efforts to deep-reflective inner work, developing a physique that I feel happy with, and creating my own business that will allow me to help more people and animals in the future.
I hope the knowledge you find in any of TPMâs resources changes your life as much as it changed mine. Of course, itâs important to learn from different people and not become obsessed with a single philosophy. There are things you wonât find in Lucioâs material that could be very useful in your life and your specific problems/challenges, and you shouldnât overlook them. Additionally, learning from different people with different perspectives will help you be more flexible and have a better chance of achieving the things you want in life. Find someone who shares their knowledge with you and who makes you reflect, and when you notice that that person starts repeating ideas, it's time to move on and look for new people who can help you out of your stagnation. Remember, every piece is important along the way, and it's important to be grateful to every person you meet because everyone has a valuable lesson to teach you (especially when that person has a different perspective than yours).
I'll probably spend many more years learning from Lucio until I finish integrating the knowledge he offers (although as he will most likely keep adding more content and learning things on his own, I will surely visit his blog or YouTube channel from time to time like visiting an old and dear friend and teacher whom I admire and respect).
I would like to make a final mention to John from customer service. He is a charming person and attended to me very well every time I contacted customer service. It feels like talking to a good friend; the service is fast, he is respectful, he has manners, and from start to finish he was very attentive in keeping his word every time he told me he would respond within a certain time frame. You can't really get to know a person in customer service, but from all the times I talked to him, he seemed competent, warm, and generous. John deserves a raise; heâs a really great guy :)
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* Like everyone else, I had doubts before purchasing any of his courses, so Iâll mention the main points that were important to me before buying it (more on this when I talk about the four main problems I faced in my journey of self-development and attraction):
* Is the course worth it? Considering the impact it has had on my life, my answer is a resounding YES.
* Is there a cost-benefit balance? Absolutely yes.
* Will it help me in all areas of my life? Yes, especially with power dynamics. This course will offer you valuable insights that you can apply in any area of your life.
* Do the techniques and strategies really work? Yes, they do. However, like any course, the key is to you apply what you've learned and it also depends on the time and effort you're willing to invest to achieve lasting changes
Important note: I don't have any kind of relationship with Lucio or anyone on his team, and no one paid me to do this review, much less to share such intimate details. I am doing this of my own free will because I want to thank him for all the knowledge he has provided me, and I believe this could be useful for him and for anyone looking to determine whether what he teaches is useful or not. This review is not going to be directly about his courses; it is going to be about all the resources on TPM (The Power Moves), and specifically about the impact they have had on my life. Consider it more of a testimonial and also a personal opinion.
The following review is quite detailed, and really long. I really believe that writing less would strip away a lot of depth and context. I donât expect everyone to read it entirely, but maybe it can offer some perspective to someone interested in buying the course. Iâm not a special person (I mean like someone famous, or with a lot of academic titles, or any of that); Iâm just a regular guy looking to improve the quality of my life and achieve enough economic prosperity to help the people I love most live the life they want, help those in need, people, animalsâŚand if possible, gain valuable knowledge that helps me in my work as a psychologist. Nothing satisfies me more than seeing the faces of people when, with some time and effort, they realize they can do things they never thought possible and feel proud of themselves for achieving it. I also havenât had it easy in my romantic life, and Iâd like to find a healthy person who is also motivated to be a better human being and have a peaceful love. Learning about power will just be a means to contribute my little bit to this world. Iâm not a writer, but Iâll try to outline what I consider to be the most important points to give you another perspective to consider, if you want to buy this course. My native language is Spanish, so due to the length of the text and my lack of skill in âspeakingâ another language, I decided to use ChatGPT as a translator (since I feel it does a better job than Google Translator), and Iâll make the necessary adjustments to make myself better understood.
For most of my life, I lived in deep loneliness and experienced a lot of abuse from people. I never understood why, no matter how many good things I did for others, I received mistreatment in return. My social programming whispered to me, âDo good things for others, and they will be good to youâ, âGive to others what you would like to receive,â among many other things. But as time went by, I slowly fell into despair. Since I was 8 years old, Iâve had suicidal thoughts, strongly influenced by my social/romantic life. Eventually, I began to harbor unhealthy beliefs that took root in my way of thinking. For example, I thought I had to make enormous efforts to maintain the âaffectionâ and âacceptanceâ people âhadâ for me. I also believed that if no one, not a single person, treated me with respect, it was because that was what I deserved. If no one was interested in who I was, it was because I was worth so little that I couldnât ask for more from life and should be grateful for the crumbs of âloveâ I received. Regarding my love life, during my first 19 years, not a single person showed interest in me. Iâm not extremely attractive, but based on social feedback, Iâd say Iâm slightly above average. Perhaps my short height would be the one physical trait that works against me, as Iâm 1.63 meters or, as you might better understand, Iâm 5â4â. As for internal traits related to girls, I treated them well, was respectful, showed interest in them, helped them, dedicated a lot of my time, and was unconditionally there for them through good and bad times. I was many things that, according to movies and the opinions of many girls (based solely on what they said they wanted), I thought would bring me plenty of women, and yet, not a single soul wanted to be with me. What I did achieve with the girls I liked was becoming their best friend. And so, I spent my days and nights listening to the girls I liked cry over aggressive men who mistreated them physically and emotionally and/or cheated on them with other girls. I didnât understand it; I had a good set of values and not just with them but with everyone. I considered myself a good guy, competent in some areas, and was unconditionally there for them, and yet they preferred to be with clearly violent men. In one of the moments when I felt most miserable, the following happened: I liked a girl and expressed it to her, and although she initially reciprocated, a month later, she left me for someone else and started dating that person. In something very similar to therapy, I ended up helping her for almost three years to improve her relationship with her aggressive partner.
Here, Iâd like to say something (nothing to do with the situation, but anyway, I wanted to share those thoughts with you): two of the worst things I was made to believe were: âYou donât have to change; someone will come and love you just as you are,â and âRomantic love is something that just happens naturally, stop looking for it. It will come to you.â Neither of these things ever happened, and both are awful, unempathetic and limiting mindsets.
Eight years ago, after spending some time in a psychiatric hospital due to suicidal ideation, I decided to completely change my life and committed to my personal growth. Every day without exception, I studied and applied the concepts I was learning in my spare time, while studying to one day become a psychologist. I bought books, courses (even from very prominent figures in the world of seduction and self-development that you would easily recognize). When I didnât even have money to eat, I downloaded them from pirate sources, but I always found a way to keep progressing. I had many virtual teachers who helped me grow in different aspects, and Iâm very grateful for the knowledge they provided me that helped me climb out of that black hole. Like many who embark on this journey, I reached a point where, no matter how much I read and took courses, there was nothing new to pull me out of my stagnation. Everything was the same. I had to constantly review new resources and listen to endless hours of videos to find a needle in a haystack. For me, it was no longer worth paying for a full course if what I was going to found was something I had likely already learned (a lot of times for free). Although I sought to develop on all levels, here I will emphasize the romantic part more. Generally, these learning resources had a couple of problems: the first is that Iâve never been the kind of person who wants to date multiple girls; Iâm more the type of guy who seeks a stable partner. The second problem was that many people who teach dating skills ask you to have a very high energy level and Iâm a very calm and rather introverted person (not shy, introverted). I donât want to pretend to be excited or become friends with everyone around me to increase my social value (itâs very exhausting and not worth it as a long-term strategy). The third problem is that the advice of many people who want to promote healthy relationships (some of them psychologists), although well-intentioned, makes any spark that generated attraction nonexistent, generating very predictable behavior (in the bad way) among other things. â certainly, those tools are important for a healthy relationship, but they wonât necessarily make someone feel attracted to you (I find it unlikely). They are more of a positive complement that can help increase value when there is already attraction. After a while and thanks to Lucioâs reflections, I realized the problems and limitations that these gurus or psychologists, basically they are very âpolitically correctâ. Finally, the last problem I found is that none of them addressed the true root of my problem. No matter how much I improved in all aspects, I still didnât see results with girls. Yes, the number of girls approaching me increased slightly, but none wanted to be with me for a long-term relationship. That missing ingredient is called âpower,â and although briefly mentioned in those courses, videos, books, etc., it was never sufficiently well explained to understand why I wasnât achieving results. My problem was that my balance between warmth and power was enormously unbalanced. I was completely warm with people, but I didnât have a clue about power dynamics (what Lucio would call âThe Kingâs Servant). I ended up in the âgood guyâ category, a good guy who wanted to be bad and wanted to treat women poorly to see if he got results, but whose moral values never allowed him to do anything that would hurt or could hurt another person, even if it meant remaining alone (which, far from making me feel good or proud at the moment, it only increased my self-hate). I wanted to remain good, but being good got me nowhere. Adding to that, due to my upbringing, I developed an anxious attachment style (something I also hated for a long time because, objectively speaking, itâs certainly easier for an avoidant man to have more power in a relationship thanks to his natural tendency to fear emotional closeness and natural behavior to protect his independence; quick note: I think that behavior is far from perfect but from what Iâve seen at least they get more results with girls). I have been always considered too clingy and dependent.
Many girls who felt initial attraction to me after a while wanted me to stay in their lives, but never as their partner, only as a good friend. When I turned 20, I found my first partner. This girl was incredibly attracted to me at first, but as soon as I started prioritizing her and seeking closeness, when I set aside my power to be âtruly myself,â she began to lose attraction and started to disrespect me. At some point along that path, I came across TPM, and I must say it was a pleasant surprise after years of stagnation.
Human beings are very complex, and because of this, itâs unlikely that a single teacher will âsaveâ you from your social and/or romantic situation. But for me, the person who has influenced my life for the better the most is Lucio. Since I started this journey, Iâve been gathering bits of knowledge from each person that has contributed to who I am, but there have been two things that have totally changed my social life, and for me, both are equally important. The first would take a long time to explain and is more about inner work and pure reflection, but in terms of knowledge, if I had to erase those eight years and start over, Iâd like it to be with the knowledge Lucio provides. Seduction University was the last course I bought a long time ago, and Power University will probably be the last course Iâll buy (for several years). I bought Seduction University quite some time ago (about two or three years) and am still learning; Iâm just over 73% through the course. This amount of time might surprise many, but those who seek lasting changes in themselves and who are truly committed to deeply learning and integrating everything there until it becomes second nature, know it will likely take several months and probably years.
Having knowledge is not a magic cure; knowing something doesn't make you good at it. Changing deep aspects of one's identity is not as easy as many people seem to forget; it's slow, very slow, and also requires conscious and constant effort. The path of personal growth is not easy, but personally I don't expect it to be. It may take me several years of practice to consolidate all that knowledge, but I know with absolute certainty that it will be a great investment for my future. Going back to the main point, in my opinion, Seduction University and very likely Power University will give you much more value than what you'd get from a more well-known person's course, and at an incredibly affordable price. I know this, because I've been consuming content from many authors for 8 years (every day, each day of the past 8 years without fail). Honestly, I'm fortunate that it is priced so affordably. To be completely honest with you I don't earn much money, and, in my country, there is not much economic prosperity, there is significant inequality, and for me, paying for a course in dollars is comparatively much more expensive than for people who earn in dollars or other stronger currencies. And still, I believe it's totally worth investing in these courses.
One important thing I've learned over the years is that there are things your mind will not be ready to understand, and the good thing about that is as long as you commit to your learning, you will keep growing and progressing, and at some point when you revisit the material, you might understand those things you didn't âgraspâ initially, or you might achieve more advanced things that your novice self couldn't properly do the first time you went through the material. You'll pay a price for one of these courses the day you decide to buy it (if you decide to do so), but the truth is that by the time you truly learn everything, so much time will have passed that, if you look at it from a very distant perspective (all the required time for you to really learn), you'll find that the benefits you will get will be arguably greater than those that Lucio and his team will have gotten. Another thing to keep in mind is that either Seduction University or Power University, if used well, will likely help you achieve more economic prosperity; on the other hand, Lucio makes sure to improve the course content, which guarantees even more growth over time. For me this justifies the annual payment to access the material again, which brings me to the next point: Lucio gives you a full year to access the learning material, and if you want to keep having access, he significantly reduces the price (probably in gratitude to those who trusted him and decided to buy the course). Also, keep in mind what I said about how it's very likely that the second or third time you take the course, you'll probably learn new things you were not prepared for before. Finally, it's a price that, in my opinion, supports all his work. He has spent a lot of time and effort reading books, articles, reviewing courses, making videos, writing in his blog, and much more, all for free. Even if you decided not to buy any of his courses, believe me, just by reading his articles, watching his videos, and reading the book reviews he recommends for specific issues, you'd already be avoiding wasting time on reading useless or unnecessarily complex things. For my part, I'm glad he was able to provide me with a way out of the stagnation I had; I really like that he also considers people who are looking for a stable relationship and not just those seeking to have more sexual partners (which is also very valid and respectable); I like that he teaches the "general rules and mindsets," allowing for personality flexibility since that way I don't feel compelled to be (or rather pretend to be) a very energetic and super sociable person to achieve good results with girls; I like that he is a person who does not seek or promote the use of the knowledge he has to harm people but focuses on teaching how to generate relationships that promote a win-win dynamic. Since I started to consume his content, my life has changed quite a bit. I definitely feel more respected, and all my relationships have improved on all levels, romantically, although I have not yet found a person with whom there has been enough compatibility to want to have that person as a stable partner, and I still have much to improve, I definitely feel that I have become more attractive to people. In my last job, considering there weren't many staff members (about 30-35 workers including supervisors and the manager), I ended up being (romantically/sexually) liked by 14 people (8 women, 6 men), and in that job, I dated my second partner. I still make many mistakes, and there are deeper issues that require professional help, but the truth is that my life has undoubtedly improved a lot. I am a person who really takes the time to learn and truly integrate into myself what I have learned, and it has taken me years to consolidate the knowledge in Seduction University. As I said before, I haven't finished it, and it will probably take me many more months (maybe years) to consolidate the information there and what I still have not read yet in the course (not to mention the hyperlinks he provides to dig really deep in some topics). I want to improve even more in my life, and thatâs why I decided to buy Power University. From lesson one, I already started finding very valuable knowledge; I haven't gone far into the course, and it would be dishonest to give my opinion, but I feel that, like Seduction University, Power University will also be very worthwhile. The book "Ultimate Power" also has hidden gems (at the moment, I am reflecting a lot on what it explains about cultivating an antifragile ego). I decided not to buy more courses or books because it will probably take me more than a year to consume all the content and much longer to make it my second nature. Although I like to diversify my knowledge and will continue learning about synergistic topics about personal growth, I would like to prioritize finishing both courses (at least "the reading part" the "superficial effort part"), besides dedicating the rest of my efforts to deep-reflective inner work, developing a physique that I feel happy with, and creating my own business that will allow me to help more people and animals in the future.
I hope the knowledge you find in any of TPMâs resources changes your life as much as it changed mine. Of course, itâs important to learn from different people and not become obsessed with a single philosophy. There are things you wonât find in Lucioâs material that could be very useful in your life and your specific problems/challenges, and you shouldnât overlook them. Additionally, learning from different people with different perspectives will help you be more flexible and have a better chance of achieving the things you want in life. Find someone who shares their knowledge with you and who makes you reflect, and when you notice that that person starts repeating ideas, it's time to move on and look for new people who can help you out of your stagnation. Remember, every piece is important along the way, and it's important to be grateful to every person you meet because everyone has a valuable lesson to teach you (especially when that person has a different perspective than yours).
I'll probably spend many more years learning from Lucio until I finish integrating the knowledge he offers (although as he will most likely keep adding more content and learning things on his own, I will surely visit his blog or YouTube channel from time to time like visiting an old and dear friend and teacher whom I admire and respect).
I would like to make a final mention to John from customer service. He is a charming person and attended to me very well every time I contacted customer service. It feels like talking to a good friend; the service is fast, he is respectful, he has manners, and from start to finish he was very attentive in keeping his word every time he told me he would respond within a certain time frame. You can't really get to know a person in customer service, but from all the times I talked to him, he seemed competent, warm, and generous. John deserves a raise; heâs a really great guy :)
2024.05.16 10:58 ShadowChateau Devised a preliminary idea for the origin of my magic system. Sorry for the long read.
Fae are powerful magical beings who write contracts to keep the flow of magic steady. Without the fae focusing the will of magic, it becomes chaotic and unpredictable.
In the beginning, the fae lords wrote the dictums, powerful writings that control nature in a small sphere of influence. They tell the trees to grow and how tall. The rivers to run and how fast. The mountains to stand and for how long. The dictums are laws not to be broken.
However, there were so many dictums written for every subject that dictums could overlap and contradict, causing warping in reality when two spheres of influence could not fluidly collide. This led to infighting as the fae lords tried to force their personal dictums through as the primary dictum. However, they found no solution in butting heads.
Instead, the fae turned to humanity to reinforce the dictums, not through will, but through group belief, an equally powerful magic. With simple adjustment and careful observation, sensible reform was made to create more cohesive laws of nature. Thus, the great dictums were forged.
Humanity needs to continue to have cohesive belief in the laws of nature to ensure the continued existence of such laws.
Vermin tongue is a specific magic that stems from the dictums that are powered by connection. Another powerful magic.
The premise of this system is that witches can speak in certain animal dictums, Vermin tongue, to create the effects one might expect from encountering the animals the dictum corresponds to. (Maggot tongue eats the rot and illness in the body. Spider tongue will drain the victim of body fluids. Viper tongue will poison someone to death.)
I don't have many ideas yet, but perhaps there are multiple dictums for the same animals that cause different effects as well. (Viper tongue spoken one way may poison someone to death, but another way may restrain and crush them like being constricted. )
The trick is that if you speak in Vermin tongue for too long, your body will contort and break as it is warped into that of the creature you are speaking about. This is often fatal as the body destroys its internal organs but has led to the creation of werewolves and other monstrous creatures. And once you transform far enough, you lose your ability to think like a human and become a beast.
Maybe your body will slowly revert to normal if you speak a human dictum, if you are still able to, but it is always possible to go too far.
I also had the thought that maybe after generations of slowly warping their bodies, the witches have descendants that can maintain their minds, to some degree, and survive shape-shifting due to casting these spells. They eventually can shape-shift with only minor or major pains and embrace the power it gives them.
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In the beginning, the fae lords wrote the dictums, powerful writings that control nature in a small sphere of influence. They tell the trees to grow and how tall. The rivers to run and how fast. The mountains to stand and for how long. The dictums are laws not to be broken.
However, there were so many dictums written for every subject that dictums could overlap and contradict, causing warping in reality when two spheres of influence could not fluidly collide. This led to infighting as the fae lords tried to force their personal dictums through as the primary dictum. However, they found no solution in butting heads.
Instead, the fae turned to humanity to reinforce the dictums, not through will, but through group belief, an equally powerful magic. With simple adjustment and careful observation, sensible reform was made to create more cohesive laws of nature. Thus, the great dictums were forged.
Humanity needs to continue to have cohesive belief in the laws of nature to ensure the continued existence of such laws.
Vermin tongue is a specific magic that stems from the dictums that are powered by connection. Another powerful magic.
The premise of this system is that witches can speak in certain animal dictums, Vermin tongue, to create the effects one might expect from encountering the animals the dictum corresponds to. (Maggot tongue eats the rot and illness in the body. Spider tongue will drain the victim of body fluids. Viper tongue will poison someone to death.)
I don't have many ideas yet, but perhaps there are multiple dictums for the same animals that cause different effects as well. (Viper tongue spoken one way may poison someone to death, but another way may restrain and crush them like being constricted. )
The trick is that if you speak in Vermin tongue for too long, your body will contort and break as it is warped into that of the creature you are speaking about. This is often fatal as the body destroys its internal organs but has led to the creation of werewolves and other monstrous creatures. And once you transform far enough, you lose your ability to think like a human and become a beast.
Maybe your body will slowly revert to normal if you speak a human dictum, if you are still able to, but it is always possible to go too far.
I also had the thought that maybe after generations of slowly warping their bodies, the witches have descendants that can maintain their minds, to some degree, and survive shape-shifting due to casting these spells. They eventually can shape-shift with only minor or major pains and embrace the power it gives them.
2024.05.16 10:45 Shecrazy87 John-Paul Miller Killed Mica Miller & hereâs how.
This is the most plausible answer. I think this is exactly how he did it using facts from sermons, emails, texts, news, interviews, maps, and extensive experience with parasitic Narcissistic sitic abuse. If there is anything that I am incorrect on please let me know and I will recalculate. After typing this up two days ago, I stumbled upon Micaâs fatherâs interview, and it completely solidified it to the point where I started violently shaking. I think this is what happened.
I was told Winslowâs property backs up against that state forest. 200 acres. Right down the road. Now remember. Somebody on his staff was told to go and trim back the overgrowth on that specific property shortly before all of this happened,
I think Mica at some point had conversation with Winslow and agreed to come and talk to him at his property, a âsafe place JP wouldnât know.â, thinking she could trust him. I think mica went to winslows and JP was waiting there for unknowingly.
I think Winslow has JPâs phone and I think JP has Winslowâs phone so theyâre not gonna ping the towers. All they saw was the license plate they never verified He was actually there.
I think JP and Winslow met at a undisclosed location and swapped vehicles. JP went up to Winslowâs NC property with Winslowâs vehicle and cell phone, and Winslow went down south with JP cell phone and truck. I canât quite place the girlfriend, but she is an alibi therefore she is aware that something has happened or is going on. I cannot figure out whether or not Winslow was with JP and she took the vehicle down south either or we need to find out the location of where the girlfriend was and where Winslow was. That could all be found by bank financial records of the days in question. Nobody uses cash in 2024 for an entire getaway.
Didnât they say he got a new truck? There was something new about the truck? Did he get a new one so it wouldnât have any of Winslowâs DNA inside of it? If Winslow drove it, his DNA/finger prints on the steering wheel would easily be on the steering wheel. Why else would he need to drive Winslowâs vehicle if there were indications, he was driving the vehicle. Now remember one of them is a lawyer he knows what they look for. JPâs and Winslowâs vehicles both need to be tested for gunpowder residue.
Mica shows up to Winslowâs property, JP is there with Winslowâs vehicle, ambushes her OR Winslow is there too and the girlfriend took her phone and truck south. He already has a plan of where heâs going to take her to unalive her before she arrives. JP drives Micaâs car with Mica in it to the final location parking lot, walks her into the woods kills her, puts her stuff down and walks back to Winslow property through the woods. Girlfriend says she was with him, I think she stayed at the property or she drove a vehicle to come get him after he was done if she was there. either way Winslow or girlfriend somebody picked him up or was waiting or he went back to the property and gotten Winslowâs vehicle and left. Remember itâs not that far away..
Now, after reviewing the 911 recording again, I do not think it is AI. The biggest reason why I know it wasnât AI is because if you listen to the fast response when asked for the phone number, there wasnât enough time to record that and send it at the same time. So she replied too fast. Now, when have you ever heard a 911 operator asking somebody for their phone number? That never would have been written. You still have the type stuff in the AI creators. Also, she delayed pause between every number, how would she have replied in half the time it would have taken to type all of that out. Think about it, he would have had to type a number hit space type a number hit space over and over. In a rush I know I mess up you donât think he would have messed up? He never would have been able to get that recorded smoothly quickly in the time it took for her to respond. Again, when have you ever heard of 911 asking for your phone number?. I believe he is in the car with her after they just left Winslows property. I believe heâs sitting right next to her in the car and allows her to make the call thinking itâs going to cover up everything and benefit him. She was sending out the whistle to her family and Sheâs trying to buy time for them to locate her. He knew to turn off the location because she mentioned She turned it on notice how it ended at that?. My point with this is at the end.
Logically speaking if she was purposely driving to that park, she would have known the name to GPS it. She wouldâve known the name of the park to give the operator. Thatâs why she was pausing, probably looking to him to see where theyâre at. Thatâs why she says âyes thatâs itâ cause he nodded. he had enough time to process what the operator was saying before Mica was able to answer thatâs why she was able to reply quickly because the operator was speaking slowly. He heard the first word and nodded. She didnât know, but now suddenly she knew? If she was going to purposely take her own life, and she really wanted her body found, why wouldnât she have found the name of the park before she called to give them proper location?
She would have seen oh look itâs a park and read the sign and pulled into it. She didnât know the sign because she was terrified because he was with her. She just knows sheâs in a park.
I would possibly look to see if there was any dirt roads that led to where her vehicle is at back to Winslowâs property. That might be why she didnât see a sign. I havenât looked too much into that part but itâs a suggestion if anybody wants to do any homework.
SO Thatâs why the phone was put on airplane mode so cops wouldnât track them into the woods at the site of the incident and he would be able to get away in time into the woods without being seen.
Also airplane mode was turned on while in the car, at the end of the 911 call, I think he took the phone put the airplane mode on which is why the airplane mode was put on because she mentioned it out loud specifically, he knew the cops were coming time to MOVE, canât follow us to the woods though. THATS why thereâs no bird sounds, they did it in the car after they got to the parking lot. I think subconsciously she thought knew this was going to happen. Kinda like I told my family this was going to happen, and then it clicked what she needed to do. He brought the phone with them to paint the picture. Why would she turn off her location herself if she wanted to be found? She was already going to enter her life right? She was obviously not going to wait a long time right? Listen to her voice when it got emotional when she said she was going to kill herself. If she was unsure, why did she skip up in the exact moment? She was almost free, she had fought so hard. When youâre almost free, what would make you think she would want to stop now? Listen to me clearly, he was in the car. She needed to send out a dog whistle to the people she had told she she told him she would admit to the suicide if she could have her body found. She knew she was going to die and she knew she needed to make sure her family could piece this together. Therefore the only plausible answer is he was in the car with her. She was emotionless probably because the gun was already on her, the phone was removed from her because she mentioned the airplane mode specifically he thought they canât trace us out to the woods, airplane mode goes on. He walked out to the woods. He needed Time to get away and couldnât have them knowing exactly where he was to go to first so he could escape right after.
Now he goes into the woods by possibly dragging her which is why she has a bruised wrist. That might be why she started crying. She might have tried to get away when she knew what was going to happen or that it was happening hence why thereâs multiple rounds. This led to possible yanking, and then the gunshot, which is why the fisherman heard the crying. Then it was over. Put her in the water he placed her belongings and Then he walked back towards Winslowâs property. I want to know if thereâs a phone call between mica and Winslow, was this drive scheduled day of or days prior and gave enough time for it to be planned. I believe at that time he got back into Winslowâs vehicle met somewhere with Windlow switched vehicles again. JP going to his home and Winslow going back to his home. The funeral and everything was already preplanned and scheduled due to the fact they already knew what was going to happen and already had it pre-planned and needed to make sure it was swift and left no room for delay. Her family, knowing they would want to see her, he manipulated them into signing the cremation holding her body over their heads. Taunting them via text message blaming them to create the narrative. Otherwise, what would be the big deal of allowing them to see the body without needing something in exchange? He knew they would have questions afterwards. At that time all they had was the 911 call and a body, sometimes you need time to process. You know when something happens and then later on youâre like wait what? He wanted to make sure that body had no stop on the cremation process to get rid of all evidence before thosequestions inevitably came. He got ahead of it so there was no hiccup in delays because he knew he had to allow them to see the body to the public that would be the moral right thing to do. Not allowing them to see the body would be suspicious. He figured out how to make it work for both. He talks about laying with her body four times and trying to raise her from the dead, was this guilt or was it like when somebody puts a deer head on the wall?
Now remember, she has already been predisposed to trust Winslow. He mentions Winslow in an email to her previously, obviously showing that he & his wife were a trusted friend of hers as well. Itâs 100% a possibility that Winslow told her to come up and talk where she was protected and JP wouldnât find them, and Winslow left with the truck and met with JP and they switched. Winslow south, JP north. Winslow had asked his staff to clean up that overgrowth on the property. It being a wooded area, was this done so that the roadway was assessable for the plan? she probably drove down some type of dirt road, and he ambushed her in some manner. North Carolina Woods are dense, therefore easily to hide when she pulls over.
Now, how do I think that JP convinced Winslow to help, I believe JP convinced Winslow , Mica was going to tell on all of them and ruin their lives. This could have been backed up by the fact that all the documentation that she had previously collected had gone missing, and was brought to Winslow to paint Mica as an enemy so this was enough for him to convince Winslow that their future and freedom was inJeopardy. When JP was actually afraid she was going to tell on his abuse and life and ruin him. So they killed her to protect their life.
They said something yesterday about breaking news how they found that the notary was forged? Thats enough for me to draw speculation because it was done by Winslow that he is now in on the dirty dealings. He is a part of the actual dirty dealings against mica He knows something is being done wrong and he is condoning it.
That notary that was done on the power of attorney from mica was falsely notarized. Mica was not present for the notary. There was an article on earlier I was looking at but I was in information overload. I just know It was not legally notarized. This shows that Winslow does not have integrity. How far is he willing to go to protect JP and all of their secrets?
I think she told JP she just wanted her body to be found for her family and she would go without a fight. I believe that it was a dog whistle to her family. The clue they would need to know this wasnât suicide. She told them and now she needed them to remember. She knew she was going to die and everybody needed to know about the gunshot specifically that she warned everyone about days prior. He didnât know she told people close to her that that. Thatâs why her voice broke up when she said she was going to unalive herself. She did not want to die. She just wanted people to be able to solve the crime. She manipulated him into thinking he was going to get away with this because she is admitting to it being a suicide. Not knowing She had whistled what was going to happen, she needed people to listen. She offered up no extra information during the 911 call which then delayed the process hoping they would find her location. She told her dad days prior sheâs getting a gun for protection. I think she got it before she drove up there just incase and the bruises on her hand may be him wrestling it from her. Maybe at arrival.
A search and rescue dog can smell from weeks to months after somebody has left the area, and if anybody can get something of his and be able to place him there in the woods, you have convincing beyond a reasonable doubt.
After writing this up yesterday when I was complete, I got super sick to my stomach. I was shaking. I could see it completely out in my head where all the facts completely aligned. I believe tthis is the only plausible theory there is.
What people need to realize at the end of the day the good attention and bad attention is still attention to a narcissist. He is enjoying the intention is getting from this primarily from getting away with it. Thatâs why I believe he visited her body four times after she was deceased. Because he already had a girlfriend, he already talked about going and getting a hot wife and then after she dies, he does an interview about how sheâs the most incredible wife and supportive. He made the obituary about how awesome he thought she was to still collect her validation and the validation he got from being her husband because she was good. She was light and he was jealous of that. He wanted that thatâs why he had that position. She loved him so much he claimed and how she was so wonderful he claimed yet she didnât want him when she had a no contact order and wanted a divorce obviously, he wasnât that. and if you guys donât think he groomed her go to the memorial of life sermon and listen to the poem again. Now switch the words, âschoolâ and âchurch.â And follow the story line.
He killed Mica Miller.
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I was told Winslowâs property backs up against that state forest. 200 acres. Right down the road. Now remember. Somebody on his staff was told to go and trim back the overgrowth on that specific property shortly before all of this happened,
I think Mica at some point had conversation with Winslow and agreed to come and talk to him at his property, a âsafe place JP wouldnât know.â, thinking she could trust him. I think mica went to winslows and JP was waiting there for unknowingly.
I think Winslow has JPâs phone and I think JP has Winslowâs phone so theyâre not gonna ping the towers. All they saw was the license plate they never verified He was actually there.
I think JP and Winslow met at a undisclosed location and swapped vehicles. JP went up to Winslowâs NC property with Winslowâs vehicle and cell phone, and Winslow went down south with JP cell phone and truck. I canât quite place the girlfriend, but she is an alibi therefore she is aware that something has happened or is going on. I cannot figure out whether or not Winslow was with JP and she took the vehicle down south either or we need to find out the location of where the girlfriend was and where Winslow was. That could all be found by bank financial records of the days in question. Nobody uses cash in 2024 for an entire getaway.
Didnât they say he got a new truck? There was something new about the truck? Did he get a new one so it wouldnât have any of Winslowâs DNA inside of it? If Winslow drove it, his DNA/finger prints on the steering wheel would easily be on the steering wheel. Why else would he need to drive Winslowâs vehicle if there were indications, he was driving the vehicle. Now remember one of them is a lawyer he knows what they look for. JPâs and Winslowâs vehicles both need to be tested for gunpowder residue.
Mica shows up to Winslowâs property, JP is there with Winslowâs vehicle, ambushes her OR Winslow is there too and the girlfriend took her phone and truck south. He already has a plan of where heâs going to take her to unalive her before she arrives. JP drives Micaâs car with Mica in it to the final location parking lot, walks her into the woods kills her, puts her stuff down and walks back to Winslow property through the woods. Girlfriend says she was with him, I think she stayed at the property or she drove a vehicle to come get him after he was done if she was there. either way Winslow or girlfriend somebody picked him up or was waiting or he went back to the property and gotten Winslowâs vehicle and left. Remember itâs not that far away..
Now, after reviewing the 911 recording again, I do not think it is AI. The biggest reason why I know it wasnât AI is because if you listen to the fast response when asked for the phone number, there wasnât enough time to record that and send it at the same time. So she replied too fast. Now, when have you ever heard a 911 operator asking somebody for their phone number? That never would have been written. You still have the type stuff in the AI creators. Also, she delayed pause between every number, how would she have replied in half the time it would have taken to type all of that out. Think about it, he would have had to type a number hit space type a number hit space over and over. In a rush I know I mess up you donât think he would have messed up? He never would have been able to get that recorded smoothly quickly in the time it took for her to respond. Again, when have you ever heard of 911 asking for your phone number?. I believe he is in the car with her after they just left Winslows property. I believe heâs sitting right next to her in the car and allows her to make the call thinking itâs going to cover up everything and benefit him. She was sending out the whistle to her family and Sheâs trying to buy time for them to locate her. He knew to turn off the location because she mentioned She turned it on notice how it ended at that?. My point with this is at the end.
Logically speaking if she was purposely driving to that park, she would have known the name to GPS it. She wouldâve known the name of the park to give the operator. Thatâs why she was pausing, probably looking to him to see where theyâre at. Thatâs why she says âyes thatâs itâ cause he nodded. he had enough time to process what the operator was saying before Mica was able to answer thatâs why she was able to reply quickly because the operator was speaking slowly. He heard the first word and nodded. She didnât know, but now suddenly she knew? If she was going to purposely take her own life, and she really wanted her body found, why wouldnât she have found the name of the park before she called to give them proper location?
She would have seen oh look itâs a park and read the sign and pulled into it. She didnât know the sign because she was terrified because he was with her. She just knows sheâs in a park.
I would possibly look to see if there was any dirt roads that led to where her vehicle is at back to Winslowâs property. That might be why she didnât see a sign. I havenât looked too much into that part but itâs a suggestion if anybody wants to do any homework.
SO Thatâs why the phone was put on airplane mode so cops wouldnât track them into the woods at the site of the incident and he would be able to get away in time into the woods without being seen.
Also airplane mode was turned on while in the car, at the end of the 911 call, I think he took the phone put the airplane mode on which is why the airplane mode was put on because she mentioned it out loud specifically, he knew the cops were coming time to MOVE, canât follow us to the woods though. THATS why thereâs no bird sounds, they did it in the car after they got to the parking lot. I think subconsciously she thought knew this was going to happen. Kinda like I told my family this was going to happen, and then it clicked what she needed to do. He brought the phone with them to paint the picture. Why would she turn off her location herself if she wanted to be found? She was already going to enter her life right? She was obviously not going to wait a long time right? Listen to her voice when it got emotional when she said she was going to kill herself. If she was unsure, why did she skip up in the exact moment? She was almost free, she had fought so hard. When youâre almost free, what would make you think she would want to stop now? Listen to me clearly, he was in the car. She needed to send out a dog whistle to the people she had told she she told him she would admit to the suicide if she could have her body found. She knew she was going to die and she knew she needed to make sure her family could piece this together. Therefore the only plausible answer is he was in the car with her. She was emotionless probably because the gun was already on her, the phone was removed from her because she mentioned the airplane mode specifically he thought they canât trace us out to the woods, airplane mode goes on. He walked out to the woods. He needed Time to get away and couldnât have them knowing exactly where he was to go to first so he could escape right after.
Now he goes into the woods by possibly dragging her which is why she has a bruised wrist. That might be why she started crying. She might have tried to get away when she knew what was going to happen or that it was happening hence why thereâs multiple rounds. This led to possible yanking, and then the gunshot, which is why the fisherman heard the crying. Then it was over. Put her in the water he placed her belongings and Then he walked back towards Winslowâs property. I want to know if thereâs a phone call between mica and Winslow, was this drive scheduled day of or days prior and gave enough time for it to be planned. I believe at that time he got back into Winslowâs vehicle met somewhere with Windlow switched vehicles again. JP going to his home and Winslow going back to his home. The funeral and everything was already preplanned and scheduled due to the fact they already knew what was going to happen and already had it pre-planned and needed to make sure it was swift and left no room for delay. Her family, knowing they would want to see her, he manipulated them into signing the cremation holding her body over their heads. Taunting them via text message blaming them to create the narrative. Otherwise, what would be the big deal of allowing them to see the body without needing something in exchange? He knew they would have questions afterwards. At that time all they had was the 911 call and a body, sometimes you need time to process. You know when something happens and then later on youâre like wait what? He wanted to make sure that body had no stop on the cremation process to get rid of all evidence before thosequestions inevitably came. He got ahead of it so there was no hiccup in delays because he knew he had to allow them to see the body to the public that would be the moral right thing to do. Not allowing them to see the body would be suspicious. He figured out how to make it work for both. He talks about laying with her body four times and trying to raise her from the dead, was this guilt or was it like when somebody puts a deer head on the wall?
Now remember, she has already been predisposed to trust Winslow. He mentions Winslow in an email to her previously, obviously showing that he & his wife were a trusted friend of hers as well. Itâs 100% a possibility that Winslow told her to come up and talk where she was protected and JP wouldnât find them, and Winslow left with the truck and met with JP and they switched. Winslow south, JP north. Winslow had asked his staff to clean up that overgrowth on the property. It being a wooded area, was this done so that the roadway was assessable for the plan? she probably drove down some type of dirt road, and he ambushed her in some manner. North Carolina Woods are dense, therefore easily to hide when she pulls over.
Now, how do I think that JP convinced Winslow to help, I believe JP convinced Winslow , Mica was going to tell on all of them and ruin their lives. This could have been backed up by the fact that all the documentation that she had previously collected had gone missing, and was brought to Winslow to paint Mica as an enemy so this was enough for him to convince Winslow that their future and freedom was inJeopardy. When JP was actually afraid she was going to tell on his abuse and life and ruin him. So they killed her to protect their life.
They said something yesterday about breaking news how they found that the notary was forged? Thats enough for me to draw speculation because it was done by Winslow that he is now in on the dirty dealings. He is a part of the actual dirty dealings against mica He knows something is being done wrong and he is condoning it.
That notary that was done on the power of attorney from mica was falsely notarized. Mica was not present for the notary. There was an article on earlier I was looking at but I was in information overload. I just know It was not legally notarized. This shows that Winslow does not have integrity. How far is he willing to go to protect JP and all of their secrets?
I think she told JP she just wanted her body to be found for her family and she would go without a fight. I believe that it was a dog whistle to her family. The clue they would need to know this wasnât suicide. She told them and now she needed them to remember. She knew she was going to die and everybody needed to know about the gunshot specifically that she warned everyone about days prior. He didnât know she told people close to her that that. Thatâs why her voice broke up when she said she was going to unalive herself. She did not want to die. She just wanted people to be able to solve the crime. She manipulated him into thinking he was going to get away with this because she is admitting to it being a suicide. Not knowing She had whistled what was going to happen, she needed people to listen. She offered up no extra information during the 911 call which then delayed the process hoping they would find her location. She told her dad days prior sheâs getting a gun for protection. I think she got it before she drove up there just incase and the bruises on her hand may be him wrestling it from her. Maybe at arrival.
A search and rescue dog can smell from weeks to months after somebody has left the area, and if anybody can get something of his and be able to place him there in the woods, you have convincing beyond a reasonable doubt.
After writing this up yesterday when I was complete, I got super sick to my stomach. I was shaking. I could see it completely out in my head where all the facts completely aligned. I believe tthis is the only plausible theory there is.
What people need to realize at the end of the day the good attention and bad attention is still attention to a narcissist. He is enjoying the intention is getting from this primarily from getting away with it. Thatâs why I believe he visited her body four times after she was deceased. Because he already had a girlfriend, he already talked about going and getting a hot wife and then after she dies, he does an interview about how sheâs the most incredible wife and supportive. He made the obituary about how awesome he thought she was to still collect her validation and the validation he got from being her husband because she was good. She was light and he was jealous of that. He wanted that thatâs why he had that position. She loved him so much he claimed and how she was so wonderful he claimed yet she didnât want him when she had a no contact order and wanted a divorce obviously, he wasnât that. and if you guys donât think he groomed her go to the memorial of life sermon and listen to the poem again. Now switch the words, âschoolâ and âchurch.â And follow the story line.
He killed Mica Miller.
2024.05.16 10:44 bonjourmarlene From vegetarian to pescetarian
Hi all, I was wondering about some input from other people.
I'm 27 years old, female, I'm 168cm (5'6") and due to a recent mental health slump, I gained a lot of weight. I was never slim to begin with, but I'm currently at around 93kg (205lbs) and not happy with that. Ideally, I'd like to be below 75kg (165 lbs).
I often find myself having cravings and can't tell what I want/need. I eat a lot of carbs and still feel hungry so I'm pretty sure I'm lacking some essentials (most likely proteins), and as many other women, I've also had iron deficiency in the past. I haven't had it checked in a while but wouldn't be surprised if that's still the case.
I've really enjoyed being vegetarian for ethical reasons, often I wish I could become vegan but I'm finding it difficult to eat healthily and still feel full. I feel like I should include more protein in my diet but I feel really conflicted about going back to eating meat and/or fish. Are there any other people on here who have gone from a vegetarian diet to a pescetarian diet? If yes, how long did you not have fish/meat before and how did your body react to it?
I'm still really on the fence so input for or against it would be appreciated. I haven't posted on vegetarian because the subreddit doesn't want posts/comments that might encourage people to lay off a veggie diet.
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I'm 27 years old, female, I'm 168cm (5'6") and due to a recent mental health slump, I gained a lot of weight. I was never slim to begin with, but I'm currently at around 93kg (205lbs) and not happy with that. Ideally, I'd like to be below 75kg (165 lbs).
I often find myself having cravings and can't tell what I want/need. I eat a lot of carbs and still feel hungry so I'm pretty sure I'm lacking some essentials (most likely proteins), and as many other women, I've also had iron deficiency in the past. I haven't had it checked in a while but wouldn't be surprised if that's still the case.
I've really enjoyed being vegetarian for ethical reasons, often I wish I could become vegan but I'm finding it difficult to eat healthily and still feel full. I feel like I should include more protein in my diet but I feel really conflicted about going back to eating meat and/or fish. Are there any other people on here who have gone from a vegetarian diet to a pescetarian diet? If yes, how long did you not have fish/meat before and how did your body react to it?
I'm still really on the fence so input for or against it would be appreciated. I haven't posted on vegetarian because the subreddit doesn't want posts/comments that might encourage people to lay off a veggie diet.
2024.05.16 10:42 penelope_procrasts Living with regret
I (18F) lost my dad (57M) to pancreatic cancer on August 9th, 2015. He was diagnosed when I was five and held on far longer than the six months he was expected to, for my sake.
I wish I had more memories. I wish I asked him more questions. I wish I wasnât forgetting his face. I wish we had more pictures and videos. I wish my parents hadnât divorced because then I wouldâve had more than just weekends with him. I wish I hadnât been so focused in stuff like toys and the iPad he gave me when he entered hospice. I wish I had payed more attention to him. I wish I hadnât been so fascinated by YouTube. I wish I had been less self-absorbed. I wish I hadnât sometimes cancelled visiting him in hospice for selfish and/or unimportant reasons. I wish I had snuggled with him more. I kind of wish I was told about his death when it happened so I could have the chance to say goodbye, even just to his bodyâI wasnât told for a week, because I had a sleep away camp trip planned the day after he died and my mom decided to let me enjoy that and tell me after picking me up when I got back. I donât even remember much from it and what I do remember arenât great memories. I wish I spent more time with him. I wish he wasnât so stubborn and prideful that he refused to use a wheelchair, fell, hit his head and accelerated his death.
The regret I think about most often though, is one I actually could have gone my whole life without knowing⌠if my therapist at the therapeutic boarding school I went to a few years later didnât randomly decide to do a stupid âand how does that make you feel?â with something my mom told her in confidence:
I blew off the scheduled visit that would have been the last one before his death.
I hate knowing this. My mom was furious when I told her a year or two later that my therapist had shared it. I cry when I think about this. Iâm very aware that I had no way of knowing it would have been the last time, but I still hate my younger self for this. I was his only blood relative; excluding my mom, his ex-wife whom he shared a kid with, I was his only family.
I donât remember what my last interaction with him was. I donât remember the last goodbye. For all I know, I could left the room after a quick hug and wave and rushed out so I wouldnât hear him and my mom talking. For all I know, I might had the iPad with me and had been more focused on it than him. I donât know if it was a happy or sad goodbye. I donât know anything about his death. Only as Iâm typing this did it it occur to me to wonder how he must have felt when I cancelled on him, not just the last time but every time I did. It canât have been too many times but still. I hate imagining it.
I have insomnia and once my mom has gone to sleep a couple times every month or so I spend a while quietly sobbing. When I think about this. When I think about how heâll never get to walk me down the isle or meet a grandchild, whom Iâm sure he wouldâve loved so, so much; he had an awful childhood and had been determined to make sure I had the best one he could give, and I bet he wouldâve done the same with a grandchild.
My advice for anyone, cancer or not, patient or family, would be to make as many memories as possible and document it when you can. But probably most importantly, treat every single goodbye as if itâs the last one youâll ever have, because thereâs always a chance it is. Hug your loved ones as long as theyâll let you. Remember how their body feels when you hug them, the scratchiness of beard stubble, the chemo port under their skin standing out because they got thinner. Cup their face in your hands and look at it, really taking it in, memorizing every feature. If itâs the last time you see them, youâll remember how they looked, and if itâs the last time they see you, theyâll think back on how you held and studied their face before goodbyes and feel the love you had for them in how you tried to commit their face to memory.
Thatâs all from me. My eyes hurt from crying and my throat hurts from sobbing. I have class tomorrow (aka later today), to make art heâll never get to see. I donât know what comes after death. I try to believe thereâs something, anything. If there is, and itâs miraculously something that lets me meet him again, I wonât turn it down this time. I want to apologize. I want him to know me and me to know him.
I love you, Myeh. Forever and for always.
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I wish I had more memories. I wish I asked him more questions. I wish I wasnât forgetting his face. I wish we had more pictures and videos. I wish my parents hadnât divorced because then I wouldâve had more than just weekends with him. I wish I hadnât been so focused in stuff like toys and the iPad he gave me when he entered hospice. I wish I had payed more attention to him. I wish I hadnât been so fascinated by YouTube. I wish I had been less self-absorbed. I wish I hadnât sometimes cancelled visiting him in hospice for selfish and/or unimportant reasons. I wish I had snuggled with him more. I kind of wish I was told about his death when it happened so I could have the chance to say goodbye, even just to his bodyâI wasnât told for a week, because I had a sleep away camp trip planned the day after he died and my mom decided to let me enjoy that and tell me after picking me up when I got back. I donât even remember much from it and what I do remember arenât great memories. I wish I spent more time with him. I wish he wasnât so stubborn and prideful that he refused to use a wheelchair, fell, hit his head and accelerated his death.
The regret I think about most often though, is one I actually could have gone my whole life without knowing⌠if my therapist at the therapeutic boarding school I went to a few years later didnât randomly decide to do a stupid âand how does that make you feel?â with something my mom told her in confidence:
I blew off the scheduled visit that would have been the last one before his death.
I hate knowing this. My mom was furious when I told her a year or two later that my therapist had shared it. I cry when I think about this. Iâm very aware that I had no way of knowing it would have been the last time, but I still hate my younger self for this. I was his only blood relative; excluding my mom, his ex-wife whom he shared a kid with, I was his only family.
I donât remember what my last interaction with him was. I donât remember the last goodbye. For all I know, I could left the room after a quick hug and wave and rushed out so I wouldnât hear him and my mom talking. For all I know, I might had the iPad with me and had been more focused on it than him. I donât know if it was a happy or sad goodbye. I donât know anything about his death. Only as Iâm typing this did it it occur to me to wonder how he must have felt when I cancelled on him, not just the last time but every time I did. It canât have been too many times but still. I hate imagining it.
I have insomnia and once my mom has gone to sleep a couple times every month or so I spend a while quietly sobbing. When I think about this. When I think about how heâll never get to walk me down the isle or meet a grandchild, whom Iâm sure he wouldâve loved so, so much; he had an awful childhood and had been determined to make sure I had the best one he could give, and I bet he wouldâve done the same with a grandchild.
My advice for anyone, cancer or not, patient or family, would be to make as many memories as possible and document it when you can. But probably most importantly, treat every single goodbye as if itâs the last one youâll ever have, because thereâs always a chance it is. Hug your loved ones as long as theyâll let you. Remember how their body feels when you hug them, the scratchiness of beard stubble, the chemo port under their skin standing out because they got thinner. Cup their face in your hands and look at it, really taking it in, memorizing every feature. If itâs the last time you see them, youâll remember how they looked, and if itâs the last time they see you, theyâll think back on how you held and studied their face before goodbyes and feel the love you had for them in how you tried to commit their face to memory.
Thatâs all from me. My eyes hurt from crying and my throat hurts from sobbing. I have class tomorrow (aka later today), to make art heâll never get to see. I donât know what comes after death. I try to believe thereâs something, anything. If there is, and itâs miraculously something that lets me meet him again, I wonât turn it down this time. I want to apologize. I want him to know me and me to know him.
I love you, Myeh. Forever and for always.
2024.05.16 10:41 Sweet-Count2557 15 Fun Things to Do in Long Branch
 | 15 Fun Things to Do in Long Branch Looking for some fantastic fun in Long Branch? Look no further! We've rounded up 15 fabulous activities and attractions that are sure to keep you entertained during your visit.From beach activities that will make a splash, to dining and shopping options that will tantalize your taste buds, there's something for everyone.And that's not all - we've got thrilling entertainment, outdoor adventures, and historical sites that will transport you to another time.But wait, there's more! We'll even give you the inside scoop on the Oceanfest Celebration, the Long Branch Public Library, Wave Resort & Spa, and Lezamas Pizza.So get ready to embark on an unforgettable journey through Long Branch - the fun awaits!Key TakeawaysLong Branch offers a beautiful beach with over 2 miles of coastline.Pier Village is a great spot for dining and boutique shopping along the boardwalk.There are various entertainment options including free summer concerts at Pier Village and family-friendly performances at the New Jersey Repertory Company.Outdoor activities such as playing at Tonys Place playground and taking a stroll on the Long Branch Boardwalk are popular options for families.Beach ActivitiesWhen it comes to beach activities in Long Branch, there's no shortage of fun and excitement for everyone to enjoy. With over 2 miles of beautiful beach, Long Branch offers the perfect setting to relax and play in the surf and sand. One popular destination is Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park, where you can indulge in various beach activities. Build sandcastles with your kids, take a refreshing dip in the ocean, or simply soak up the sun while enjoying the breathtaking views.But the fun doesn't stop there. Long Branch also offers a vibrant dining and shopping scene. Along the boardwalk at Pier Village, you can explore a variety of eateries and boutique shops. Treat yourself to some coastal cuisine with the kiddos at Surf Taco, or try one of the 220 varieties of omelettes at Amy's Omelette House. And if you're craving a juicy burger, head over to Jrs, which is considered the best on the Shore. Don't forget to satisfy your sweet tooth at Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory or indulge in a delicious ice cream cone at Nicholas Creamery or Coney Waffle.For entertainment and shows, you'll find plenty of options in Long Branch. Axelrod Performing Arts Center offers children's programming, while Pier Village hosts free summer concerts. In August, don't miss the annual Long Branch Jazz and Blues Festival. And if you're up for some friendly competition, challenge the kids in skee ball at the Boardwalk Fun and Games arcade.Long Branch also boasts outdoor activities that the whole family will enjoy. Take the little ones to Tonys Place playground at Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park, or go skating at Skateplex, which is open year-round and free of charge. And of course, a leisurely stroll on the Long Branch Boardwalk is always a great way to spend time together.With its rich history, Long Branch offers some fascinating historical sites to explore. Visit the historic Church of Presidents, where seven presidents spent time, and learn more about its significance.Throughout the year, Long Branch hosts various events that are perfect for families. Experience the annual Oceanfest celebration on the 4th of July, filled with fun activities and fireworks.When it comes to family-friendly attractions, Long Branch has you covered. Take your little ones to enjoy storytime at the Long Branch Public Library, where they can immerse themselves in the joy of reading.After a day filled with beach activities and exploration, you'll need a comfortable place to rest. Consider a beachfront stay at Wave Resort & Spa or Ocean Place Resort & Spa, where you can rejuvenate and unwind.And for those craving some mouthwatering pizza, make sure to try the renowned pizza at Lezamas on Broadway. And if you're in the mood for some delicious fries, Windmill has got you covered with their award-winning fries, voted the best in the state.In Long Branch, there's truly something for everyone. Whether you're looking for beach fun, delicious food, entertainment, or historical sites, this vibrant city in New Jersey has it all. So pack your bags, gather your loved ones, and get ready to create unforgettable memories in Long Branch.Dining and ShoppingAs we explore the vibrant dining and shopping scene in Long Branch, prepare to indulge in a delightful array of culinary delights and discover unique boutiques along the boardwalk at Pier Village.Long Branch offers a variety of dining options that will satisfy every craving. Whether you're in the mood for coastal cuisine or a mouthwatering burger, you'll find it here. Surf Taco is a popular spot for families, where you can feast on delicious tacos while enjoying the ocean breeze. For breakfast lovers, Amy's Omelette House is a must-visit, with over 220 varieties of omelettes to choose from. And if you're in the mood for the best burgers on the Shore, Jrs is the place to go.After satisfying your taste buds, it's time to explore the unique boutiques along the boardwalk. Pier Village is a shopper's paradise, offering a wide range of shops to suit every style. From trendy clothing boutiques to artisanal chocolate stores, there's something for everyone. Indulge in chocolates, candy, and caramel apples at Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory, or treat yourself to a delicious ice cream cone at Nicholas Creamery or Coney Waffle.As you stroll along the boardwalk, you'll be captivated by the lively atmosphere and the stunning views of the ocean. Take your time to browse through the shops, and don't forget to stop by the local artisans selling their handmade crafts. From unique jewelry to one-of-a-kind artwork, you'll find treasures that will make your visit to Long Branch truly memorable.Entertainment and ShowsGet ready to be entertained and delighted with an exciting lineup of shows and activities in Long Branch. Whether you're a fan of music, theater, or family-friendly events, Long Branch offers something for everyone.One of the highlights of the entertainment scene in Long Branch is the Axelrod Performing Arts Center. They offer a variety of children's programming, including theater performances and workshops. It's a great opportunity for your kids to explore their creativity and develop a love for the arts.If you're a music lover, you won't want to miss the free summer concerts at Pier Village. These concerts feature a wide range of musical genres, from rock and pop to jazz and blues. It's the perfect way to spend a summer evening, enjoying great music with the ocean as your backdrop.For jazz and blues enthusiasts, the annual Long Branch Jazz and Blues Festival in August is a must-attend event. This festival brings together talented musicians from all over the country for a weekend of soulful performances. It's a celebration of the rich musical heritage of Long Branch and a great opportunity to dance and groove to some amazing tunes.If you're looking for some family-friendly fun, head to the Boardwalk Fun and Games arcade. Challenge your kids to a game of skee ball or try your luck at the various arcade games. It's a great way to bond with your family and create lasting memories.For theater lovers, the New Jersey Repertory Company is a must-visit. They offer a range of family-friendly performances that are sure to captivate audiences of all ages. From comedies to dramas, their shows are known for their high-quality performances and engaging storytelling.In addition to these activities, Long Branch also offers Bands by the Beach in West End Park on Sunday evenings. It's a great way to relax and enjoy live music in a beautiful outdoor setting. And during the summer, you can catch family-friendly movies on the beach with Movies at the Pier.With such a diverse range of entertainment options, Long Branch truly has something for everyone. So get ready to be entertained and have a great time exploring all that this vibrant city has to offer.Outdoor ActivitiesNow let's shift our focus to the exciting world of outdoor activities in Long Branch, where you can enjoy the fresh air and beautiful scenery while engaging in fun and active pursuits.Beach Activities:Long Branch offers over 2 miles of beautiful beach where you can soak up the sun and play in the surf and sand at Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park. It's the perfect spot for a day of relaxation and beach games with family and friends.Outdoor Recreation:If you're looking for some active fun, head to Tonys Place playground at Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park. This playground is a paradise for kids, with slides, swings, and climbing structures that will keep them entertained for hours.Skateplex at Seven Presidents is a haven for skateboarders and rollerbladers. It's open year-round and free to use, so grab your board and show off your skills on the ramps and rails.Long Branch is a haven for outdoor enthusiasts, offering a wide range of activities to satisfy your adventure cravings. Whether you prefer relaxing on the beach, playing in the sand, or getting active with playgrounds and skate parks, there's something for everyone.Soak up the sun, breathe in the fresh air, and let the freedom of the outdoors invigorate your spirit in Long Branch.Historical SitesLong Branch is home to several historical sites that offer a glimpse into the rich history of the area. One of the must-visit sites is the historic Church of Presidents. This beautiful church has a unique connection to American history, as it was frequented by several U.S. presidents during their time in office. It's a fascinating place to explore, with its stunning architecture and peaceful atmosphere.Another site worth visiting is the location where seven presidents spent their time. This area isn't only historically significant but also offers a beautiful view of the ocean. Imagine standing in the same spot where these influential leaders once stood, contemplating the decisions they made and the impact they had on our nation.As you wander through these historical sites, you'll be transported back in time, imagining what life was like during the eras of these presidents. You'll gain a deeper understanding of the rich history that shaped Long Branch and the United States as a whole.Visiting these historical sites isn't only educational but also a way to honor the past and appreciate the sacrifices made by those who came before us. It's a reminder of the freedoms we enjoy today and the importance of preserving our history for future generations.EventsAs we continue our exploration of Long Branch, let's turn our attention to the exciting world of events that take place in this vibrant city. Long Branch is known for its lively atmosphere and there's always something happening to keep you entertained. Here are some of the top events that you don't want to miss:Annual Oceanfest Celebration: Long Branch knows how to throw a party, and the annual Oceanfest celebration on the 4th of July is the perfect example. This event draws thousands of people each year with its live music, delicious food vendors, and spectacular fireworks display. It's a true celebration of summer and freedom.Free Summer Concerts at Pier Village: Imagine sitting on the beach, listening to live music and feeling the cool ocean breeze. That's exactly what you can experience at the free summer concerts at Pier Village. From local bands to nationally recognized artists, these concerts offer a wide range of musical genres that will have you dancing all night long.Long Branch Jazz and Blues Festival: If you're a fan of jazz and blues music, then mark your calendar for the annual Long Branch Jazz and Blues Festival in August. This festival brings together some of the best local and national talent for a day of soulful music and good vibes. Grab a blanket, relax on the grass, and let the music wash over you.Movies at the Pier: During the summer months, Long Branch offers family-friendly movie nights on the beach. Bring your beach chairs or blankets and settle in for a night under the stars, watching some of your favorite films. It's a unique and memorable way to enjoy a movie with your loved ones.Bands by the Beach: Every Sunday evening, West End Park comes alive with the sounds of live music as part of the Bands by the Beach series. Grab a picnic blanket, bring some snacks, and enjoy the tunes while the sun sets over the ocean. It's the perfect way to end the weekend and start the new week on a high note.Long Branch is a city that knows how to have a good time, and these events are just a taste of what you can expect. Whether you're a music lover, a film buff, or simply enjoy being part of a lively crowd, there's an event for you in this vibrant city. So grab your friends, embrace the freedom, and get ready to make some unforgettable memories.Family-Friendly AttractionsWith an abundance of family-friendly attractions, Long Branch offers an array of options for entertaining and enjoyable activities for all ages. Whether you're looking for outdoor adventures, cultural experiences, or simply a day of fun at the beach, Long Branch has something for everyone in the family.To make it easier for you to plan your family outing, here is a table highlighting some of the top family-friendly attractions in Long Branch:AttractionDescriptionSeven Presidents Oceanfront ParkPlay in the surf and sand at this beautiful beach park, perfect for picnics and building sandcastles.Pier VillageEnjoy dining, shopping, and entertainment along the boardwalk.Surf TacoFeast on delicious coastal cuisine with the kids.Boardwalk Fun and Games arcadeChallenge the kids in skee ball and other arcade games.Long Branch Public LibraryEnjoy storytime for toddlers at this welcoming library.At Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park, you can spend the day playing on the playground at Tonys Place or go skating at Skateplex, which is open year-round and free. The Long Branch Boardwalk offers a leisurely stroll with beautiful ocean views, perfect for quality family time.For those looking for cultural experiences, the Axelrod Performing Arts Center offers children's programming, and the New Jersey Repertory Company features family-friendly performances. You can also catch free summer concerts at Pier Village or attend the annual Long Branch Jazz and Blues Festival in August.Long Branch truly knows how to entertain families, with events like Movies at the Pier, where you can watch family-friendly movies on the beach during the summer. Bands by the Beach in West End Park on Sunday evenings is another great option for enjoying live music with the family.With so many family-friendly attractions to choose from, Long Branch guarantees a memorable and enjoyable experience for all. So pack your bags, gather the family, and get ready for a fun-filled adventure in Long Branch!AccommodationsFor a beachfront stay in Long Branch that offers both relaxation and luxury, look no further than Wave Resort & Spa and Ocean Place Resort & Spa. These accommodations provide the perfect escape for those seeking a peaceful retreat by the ocean.Wave Resort & Spa:Nestled on the shores of Long Branch, Wave Resort & Spa offers breathtaking views of the Atlantic Ocean. With its modern design and upscale amenities, this resort is the epitome of luxury. Indulge in a rejuvenating spa treatment or soak up the sun by the infinity pool. The resort also offers a variety of dining options, from a beachfront restaurant serving fresh seafood to a rooftop bar with panoramic views.Ocean Place Resort & Spa:Situated on a pristine stretch of beach, Ocean Place Resort & Spa is a haven for relaxation. The spacious rooms and suites feature elegant decor and plush furnishings, providing a comfortable and inviting atmosphere. Take a dip in the outdoor pool or unwind in the whirlpool spa. The resort also offers beach cabanas and a beachfront bar, allowing guests to fully enjoy the coastal ambiance.With their prime beachfront locations, Wave Resort & Spa and Ocean Place Resort & Spa offer the perfect accommodations for those looking to escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Whether you're seeking a romantic getaway or a fun-filled family vacation, these resorts provide the ultimate blend of relaxation and luxury. So pack your bags and get ready to experience the freedom and tranquility of a beachfront stay in Long Branch.Best PizzaWhen it comes to finding the best pizza in Long Branch, prepare your taste buds for a mouthwatering journey through the renowned flavors of Lezamas on Broadway. This beloved pizzeria is a local favorite, known for their delicious pies that are sure to satisfy any pizza lover's cravings.Lezamas on Broadway offers a wide variety of toppings and crust options, allowing you to customize your pizza to your liking. Whether you prefer classic toppings like pepperoni and cheese or more adventurous options like buffalo chicken or barbecue pulled pork, Lezamas has got you covered. Their crust is the perfect balance of crispy and chewy, providing a satisfying bite with every slice.But it's not just the pizza that keeps people coming back to Lezamas on Broadway. The cozy and inviting atmosphere makes it the perfect place to gather with friends and family for a casual meal. The staff is friendly and attentive, ensuring that your dining experience is top-notch.In addition to their delicious pizzas, Lezamas also offers a variety of other Italian dishes, such as pasta, calzones, and salads. So if pizza isn't your thing, there are still plenty of options to choose from.Whether you're a local looking for your go-to pizza spot or a visitor in search of a memorable meal, Lezamas on Broadway is a must-try. So grab a seat, indulge in a slice (or two), and experience the mouthwatering flavors that have made this pizzeria a beloved staple in Long Branch.Best FriesAfter savoring the mouthwatering flavors of Lezamas on Broadway's renowned pizza, it's time to indulge in another culinary delight that will leave your taste buds craving for more: the delicious fries at Windmill, a local favorite voted as the best in the state.Perfectly Crispy: Windmill's fries are a crispy masterpiece. Each fry is cooked to golden perfection, with a satisfying crunch that will have you reaching for more. Whether you prefer thin and crispy or thick and hearty, Windmill has you covered. These fries are the ideal balance of soft on the inside and crispy on the outside, making them the perfect accompaniment to any meal.Irresistible Seasonings: Windmill takes their fries to the next level with their irresistible seasonings. From classic salt and pepper to bold and flavorful options like garlic Parmesan or Cajun, there's a seasoning to satisfy every craving. Each bite is bursting with flavor, elevating these fries from ordinary to extraordinary. You won't be able to resist the urge to keep reaching for more.Generous Portions: At Windmill, you definitely get your money's worth. The portions of fries are generous, ensuring that you won't leave hungry. Whether you're enjoying them as a side to your burger or as a standalone snack, you'll be impressed by the amount of fries you receive. It's no wonder they've been voted the best in the state.Local Favorite: Windmill's fries have gained a loyal following among locals and visitors alike. Their reputation for serving up the best fries in the state has made them a must-visit spot for food enthusiasts. The friendly atmosphere and incredible flavors make Windmill a favorite among both young and old. Don't miss out on the opportunity to taste these fries for yourself.Indulging in Windmill's delicious fries is an experience you won't want to miss. With their perfect crispiness, irresistible seasonings, generous portions, and local popularity, these fries are truly the best in the state. So, make sure to stop by Windmill during your visit to Long Branch and treat yourself to a fry-tastic experience. Your taste buds will thank you.Church of PresidentsLocated in Long Branch, the Church of Presidents holds a rich historical significance as the place where seven presidents spent time. This beautiful church, officially known as the St. James Episcopal Church, stands as a testament to the important role Long Branch played in American history. As you step inside, you can't help but feel a sense of awe and reverence for the presidents who once graced these very pews.To give you a glimpse into the remarkable history of the Church of Presidents, here is a table showcasing the seven presidents who visited this hallowed place:PresidentYears Spent in Long BranchUlysses S. Grant1869-1877Rutherford B. Hayes1877-1881James A. Garfield1881Chester A. Arthur1881-1885Benjamin Harrison1889-1893William McKinley1897-1901Woodrow Wilson1913-1921Imagine sitting in the same space where these influential leaders sought solace and found inspiration. The Church of Presidents not only offers a glimpse into the past, but it also serves as a reminder of the enduring values that have shaped our nation.When visiting Long Branch, make sure to carve out time to explore the Church of Presidents. Whether you have a deep appreciation for history or simply want to experience a place that has witnessed the presence of greatness, this iconic landmark is a must-see. As you walk through its doors, you'll be transported back in time, connecting with the spirit of the presidents who once graced this sacred space.Oceanfest CelebrationEvery year, Long Branch comes alive with the vibrant and exciting Oceanfest Celebration. This annual event celebrates the 4th of July in the most spectacular way, drawing people from near and far to the beautiful shores of Long Branch. Here's why you don't want to miss out on this unforgettable celebration:Fireworks Extravaganza:The highlight of Oceanfest is undoubtedly the breathtaking fireworks display. As the sun sets, the sky becomes a canvas of vibrant colors, illuminating the ocean and creating a magical atmosphere. It's a spectacle that will leave you in awe and remind you of the freedom we cherish.Live Music and Entertainment:Oceanfest offers non-stop live music and entertainment throughout the day. From local bands to renowned artists, the diverse lineup caters to all musical tastes. So, grab a blanket, find a spot on the beach, and let the music move your soul as you celebrate freedom with fellow revelers.Delicious Food and Refreshing Drinks:Indulge in a wide array of culinary delights at the Oceanfest food vendors. From mouthwatering barbecue to fresh seafood, there's something to satisfy every craving. Sip on ice-cold beverages, tropical cocktails, or even a refreshing beer as you enjoy the festivities and embrace the carefree atmosphere.Oceanfest Celebration is the perfect way to experience the freedom and joy that Long Branch has to offer. So mark your calendars, gather your loved ones, and join us for a day filled with laughter, music, food, and, of course, fireworks. Let the spirit of freedom ignite your soul at Oceanfest Celebration in Long Branch.Long Branch Public LibraryIf you're looking for a place to dive into a world of books and knowledge, the Long Branch Public Library is the perfect destination. Located in the heart of Long Branch, this library is a haven for book lovers and knowledge seekers of all ages. As you step inside, you'll be greeted by the cozy atmosphere and the inviting scent of books.The library offers an extensive collection of books, ranging from classic literature to contemporary novels, non-fiction to poetry. Whether you're into mystery, romance, or science fiction, you're sure to find something that captures your interest.But the Long Branch Public Library isn't just about books. It also provides a range of services and programs that cater to the needs and interests of the community. From book clubs and writing workshops to children's storytime and technology classes, there's always something happening at the library. The knowledgeable staff is always ready to assist you in finding the perfect book or answer any questions you may have.In addition to the impressive collection and programs, the library also offers a comfortable reading area where you can curl up with a good book and lose yourself in its pages. The peaceful ambiance and natural light streaming through the windows make it the ideal spot to relax and enjoy a quiet moment of solitude.Wave Resort & SpaWhen planning a beachfront getaway in Long Branch, one can't resist the allure of Wave Resort & Spa. Nestled along the Jersey Shore, this luxurious resort offers the perfect blend of relaxation and excitement. Here's why Wave Resort & Spa should be at the top of your list:Unparalleled accommodations:Stay in spacious, modern rooms with breathtaking ocean views.Indulge in ultimate comfort with plush bedding and state-of-the-art amenities.World-class dining options:Savor delectable cuisine at the resort's signature restaurant, serving fresh seafood and farm-to-table dishes.Enjoy casual dining at the beachfront grill, where you can feast on juicy burgers and refreshing cocktails.Exciting activities for all ages:Dive into the sparkling infinity pool and soak up the sun on the expansive deck.Pamper yourself at the luxurious spa, where you can indulge in rejuvenating treatments and massages.Keep the kids entertained at the resort's kids club, offering a variety of fun-filled activities.Wave Resort & Spa provides the perfect backdrop for a rejuvenating beach vacation. Whether you're looking to relax by the pool, indulge in gourmet dining, or explore the vibrant Long Branch area, this resort has it all.Lezamas PizzaLezamas Pizza is a hidden gem in Long Branch, offering mouthwatering slices that will satisfy even the pickiest of pizza connoisseurs. Located on Broadway, this local pizza joint is a must-visit for anyone craving a delicious and satisfying meal.When you step inside Lezamas, you'll be greeted by the aroma of freshly baked pizza. The cozy and inviting atmosphere makes it the perfect place to gather with friends or enjoy a meal with your family. The friendly staff are always ready to take your order and make sure you leave with a smile on your face.One of the things that sets Lezamas Pizza apart is their attention to quality. Each slice is made with the freshest ingredients, from the homemade dough to the flavorful sauce and generous toppings. Whether you prefer classic cheese, pepperoni, or a specialty pizza like the BBQ chicken or Margherita, you can trust that every bite will be bursting with flavor.Not only is the pizza at Lezamas delicious, but they also offer a variety of other menu items to satisfy any craving. From crispy chicken wings to hearty pasta dishes, there's something for everyone. And if you're in the mood for something sweet, don't forget to try their homemade desserts like cannoli or tiramisu.Lezamas Pizza isn't just a place to grab a quick bite to eat, it's an experience. So next time you're in Long Branch, make sure to stop by and indulge in a slice of their mouthwatering pizza. You won't be disappointed.Frequently Asked QuestionsWhat Are Some Other Popular Beach Activities in Long Branch Besides Playing in the Surf and Sand at Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park?There are plenty of other popular beach activities in Long Branch besides playing in the surf and sand at Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park.You can take a leisurely stroll on the Long Branch Boardwalk, go skating at Skateplex at Seven Presidents, or enjoy the playground at Tony's Place.And if you're looking for some outdoor fun, check out the annual Oceanfest celebration on the 4th of July.Long Branch has something for everyone to enjoy by the beach!Are There Any Family-Friendly Events or Shows Happening at the Axelrod Performing Arts Center in Long Branch?Yes, there are family-friendly events and shows happening at the Axelrod Performing Arts Center in Long Branch. You and your loved ones can enjoy a variety of children's programming at this venue.It's a great way to introduce your kids to the world of performing arts while having a fun and entertaining time together. Whether it's a play, a musical, or a dance performance, the Axelrod Performing Arts Center offers something for everyone in the family to enjoy.Where Can I Find a Playground for My Kids to Play at in Long Branch?You can find a playground for your kids to play at in Long Branch at Tonys Place, located in Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park.This playground offers a fun and safe environment for children to enjoy. They can climb, slide, and have a great time while you relax and soak up the beautiful beach views.It's the perfect spot for some family fun in Long Branch!What Are Some Other Historical Sites to Visit in Long Branch Besides the Church of Presidents?There are a few other historical sites to explore in Long Branch, besides the Church of Presidents. One interesting spot is the location where seven presidents spent their time. It's a fascinating piece of history to discover.Additionally, you can visit the Long Branch Public Library for storytime for toddlers. It's a great way to engage with the little ones and foster a love for reading.These historical sites and family-friendly attractions add depth to the city's charm and offer something for everyone to enjoy.Are There Any Other Annual Events or Celebrations in Long Branch Besides Oceanfest?There are indeed other annual events and celebrations in Long Branch besides Oceanfest.One exciting event is the Long Branch Jazz and Blues Festival in August, where you can enjoy live music and soak up the vibrant atmosphere.Additionally, Bands by the Beach in West End Park on Sunday evenings offers fun for the whole family.And don't forget about the family-friendly movies on the beach during the summer with Movies at the Pier.Long Branch has something for everyone!ConclusionIn conclusion, Long Branch offers a plethora of fun-filled activities and attractions for the whole family.From enjoying the beach activities and indulging in delicious dining options to experiencing thrilling entertainment and exploring historical sites, there's never a dull moment in this vibrant coastal town.So pack your bags and get ready for an unforgettable adventure in Long Branch, where you can make lasting memories with your loved ones.Don't miss out on the excitement and charm that this town has to offer! submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] |
2024.05.16 10:34 rob_cornelius Mental health makes us feel like we cannot do anything right - Exercise shows us we can
A huge part of my personal mental health issues is anxiety about "doing things right". My mother has spent 50 plus years telling me "You are doing it wrong" in one way or another. I don't want to go into details here but I am sure many of you can fill in the gaps.
Exercise and sport allows me to do things right and on my own terms too. When I was playing rugby and cricket and had a good game I was doing things right. I wasn't very good at either of them really but its a hell of a feeling walking off the pitch with your team mates patting you on the back and saying well played when things go your way. My mother hates me lifting weights and every rep and set proves to my that I can do things right. I keep going and I get stronger. When I am sweating on my rowing machine or slogging round a parkrun in the mud I am doing it right. No one can take that away from me.
What inspired me to write this was something that happened last night at the archery range. I was shooting and doing quite well but more or less keeping myself to myself although it was quite busy. Eric was giving Annie a lesson in shooting a longbow and I loaned David one of my longbows so he could join in the lesson. After a while I wandered over to see how they were getting on. We chatted for a bit and then David and Annie started shooting and I carried on talking to Eric. Just for fun while I was there I pulled an arrow from my quiver took very careful aim and hit the exact dead centre of the gold. My mind was clear and I focussed 100% on my aim. My body was in perfect alignment to make the arrow go where I aimed, my release of the string was perfect. Literally a perfect shot.
For one moment though, one wonderful moment, I did everything right. Not just right but perfect. I don't think I have felt that good for years. That one shot will stay with me for a long time. When I am shooting in the middle of winter and its cold and wet that shot will inspire me to keep trying. When I am struggling at work or with any other part of my life I can look back at that shot. It will inspire me to overcome the ways of thinking that my mother has drilled into me my entire life, that I can't do anything right and that I can't get better. I can. I know I can.
This is what exercise and sport can do. It can change your whole way of thinking.
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Exercise and sport allows me to do things right and on my own terms too. When I was playing rugby and cricket and had a good game I was doing things right. I wasn't very good at either of them really but its a hell of a feeling walking off the pitch with your team mates patting you on the back and saying well played when things go your way. My mother hates me lifting weights and every rep and set proves to my that I can do things right. I keep going and I get stronger. When I am sweating on my rowing machine or slogging round a parkrun in the mud I am doing it right. No one can take that away from me.
What inspired me to write this was something that happened last night at the archery range. I was shooting and doing quite well but more or less keeping myself to myself although it was quite busy. Eric was giving Annie a lesson in shooting a longbow and I loaned David one of my longbows so he could join in the lesson. After a while I wandered over to see how they were getting on. We chatted for a bit and then David and Annie started shooting and I carried on talking to Eric. Just for fun while I was there I pulled an arrow from my quiver took very careful aim and hit the exact dead centre of the gold. My mind was clear and I focussed 100% on my aim. My body was in perfect alignment to make the arrow go where I aimed, my release of the string was perfect. Literally a perfect shot.
For one moment though, one wonderful moment, I did everything right. Not just right but perfect. I don't think I have felt that good for years. That one shot will stay with me for a long time. When I am shooting in the middle of winter and its cold and wet that shot will inspire me to keep trying. When I am struggling at work or with any other part of my life I can look back at that shot. It will inspire me to overcome the ways of thinking that my mother has drilled into me my entire life, that I can't do anything right and that I can't get better. I can. I know I can.
This is what exercise and sport can do. It can change your whole way of thinking.
2024.05.16 10:31 omegaMKXIII 31 [M4F] Austria/Europe - Looking for my forever lady
I am looking for a lady between 25 and 35 years old, for a committed monogamous childfree relationship. My goal is to become a true team, supporting each other, caring for each other, nurturing each other and helping each other grow and realise our goals and dreams as much as possible. I'm hoping to find someone that values a relationship as much as I do and takes it seriously. It's not the only thing my life revolves around, but it's also not just something 'nice to have' for me.
I am 186cm tall, slim/fit built, dark brown hair, brown eyes. Both my arms are tattooed (full sleeve), as are my calves and the areas above my ankles. Regarding pictures see below. I am a runner, training multiple times a week. I'm also vegan. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. While I am mostly securely attached, withdrawing from me triggers anxiety and I have made a horrible experience with an avoidant partner in the past, so that is something I fear I cannot deal with again.
I am also an atheist.
I am a very warm, soft and sensitive person, I think I am humorous, I am self reflecting a lot and I can also be really passionate and romantic. Those are traits that also are really important to me in a woman.
I can be quite social, I am a good talker, but also love to listen to really get to know someone on a deeper level. I can enjoy an evening out with friends just as much as the silence of sitting at the shores of the river and watching the sunset in solitude (although I've been craving to watch it together with a partner for a really long time now). I can be out in a pub, at a rave, a metal show or at a football game and have the time of my life, but I cannot do these things every day; I need recharge time (on the sofa, in the woods for a run, a lazy Sunday staying in bed etc.). This should give you an idea; basically, I am a homebody that thoroughly enjoys going out in moderation.
I won't say too much about hobbies; suffice it to say I am into the dark, the obscure, the macabre, the occult, the mysterious, the erotic. It won't surprise you that I had a gothic phase in my youth, bonus points if you did too!
What I'm looking for
Although similar hobbies and interests are a plus, emotional and intimate compatibility are more important to me. I am a very sensitive and emotional person (I do cry easily and by this point I don't think I'll ever be able to change that, sorry), so if you're too, we will definitely understand each other. I need someone who I can open up to (which I do rather quickly, anyway), be myself, bare my soul to and I need these things from you, too. I've had my share of emotionally unavailable women who were afraid of intimacy so I know I can't deal with that again because of the way how those things affect me. I am always emotionally invested with the woman I pursue and in those cases that was to my detriment. But my ability to feel so deep is also something I wouldn't want to change because as of yet, although it's getting harder, I haven't given up on finding someone.
With those emotional needs come two requirements that I found to be vital over the years: First, being able to be silly and cutesy together and to accept each other's inner child and care for it. I am not talking about having to deal with another person's immaturity or inability to perform basic adult skills, rather with the way sadness, hurt, anxiety and being overwhelmed manifests for me (and maybe for you, too?). I need someone who is able to comfort me, to hold me, to allow me to be weak and needy for a while until I've calmed down, and I'm more than ready to offer the same. Your inner child can come out for a while, no problem (: Also in a positive way: Thankfully, today everyone seems to be understanding of the cuteness overload cats (or any animal baby, really) can cause; I need that with a partner. I also still have plushies as comfort animals and ideally, you do too.
Apparently in every relationship, one person is the stronger one. In the past, I have been with women who obviously were stronger than me, but that doesn't mean they always had to be strong, far from it. I certainly need to be able to feel protected, but it's not like I'm a particularly needy partner, like everyone, I have my ups and downs, but I can pull my weight and have been told by past partners that I am very caring and that they felt safe and understood with me, and providing that for my partner is really important for me as well.
Second, intimate compatibility. I am rather insatiable and love to experiment when it comes to the bedroom, so you should, too, in order that we can explore and enjoy together. I found out how fulfilling living out those fantasies can be after years of never being able to try and in a relationship, this kind of fulfillment for both partners is a must for me. I found the term 'filthy best friends and partners' to be a perfect description.
I'm looking for a balance between healthy independence and being emotionally present. A relationship where we 'get' each other; we're both each other's number one and treat each other like royalty. Where a disagreement leads to more intimacy between us as we understand better, not to resentment. Where we're comfortable baring our souls to each other, becoming a safe haven and secure base for each other. I don't like the modern notion that you 'should never feel too safe in a relationship' because that sounds like running from the mafia (and believe me, I love mafia movies); you should always put in effort, yes, but safety is one of the things I always want to experience and provide in a relationship. We shouldn't fear that a disagreement leads straight to breakup. I know âself-sufficiencyâ is trending right now, but I feel like as partners, weâre partly responsible for each other and not our own but also each otherâs happiness. Being dependant and dependable at the same time is important; making each otherâs wellbeing a priority. If youâre not able to healthily depend on someone and their support while youâre having a hard time, look elsewhere. If I have to be afraid youâll run at the first major problem that surfaces, even if itâs a âyouâ-problem, itâs not going to work. I think that all things can and need to be talked about. If you think ignoring someone for days is a form of communication, please look elsewhere.
I am looking for someone real. We all have our problems, I don't want or need a 'perfect' person. You don't have everything figured out or 'all your shit' together. Be imperfect. Admit when you feel sad and angry, lonely, hopeless or even helpless â it's all relatable. Don't hide it. Be quirky, be dorky, be witchy, opinionated, be yourself. Don't pretend.
I'm looking for someone to share romance with. Not great gestures, but small, meaningful ones. Poems for each other, expressing our feelings; cards with heartfelt messages that we put our perfume/cologne on, and a symbol that means something to us only, the print of your lips with lipstick, the way I sign and seal my letters for you.
Just as important to me is agreeing on living a healthy life, staying in shape both for ourselves and for each other, regularly working out and eating healthy. I am drug and disease-free and expect the same of you. I do drink as I love a good beer or glass of wine, rum or whiskey, but I've never really been drinking much and especially during the past year have further reduced it. One vice I have is that I enjoy a couple of cigars a year, but I can definitely accommodate you in this regard.
Another important point is aligned life goals: I value safety more than adventure. I want to build a home together with my partner, a safespace for the both of us, where we always feel loved and protected, a place that we create together, make it cozy together so we just love to get back home there wherever we might have been, a home we decorate together for Halloween (my favourite holiday) or Christmas or Springtime, as we live in tune with the seasons, enjoying nature on a walk or the rain outside, reading in our cozy home. I value stability and harmony.
Appearance-wise, I am into ladies on the smaller side), so I'm looking for someone petite/slim/skinny/healthy-fit. Likewise, I am not really muscular and don't have visible abs; like I said, I'm a runner, so if you're more into the gym-type, I'm not a good fit.
Iâd prefer to move from text to voice calls, videochat and then meeting up, all of that rather sooner than later. Not that thereâs a need to rush anything, but Iâd rather see earlier if weâre compatible or not; as someone who catches feelings fast I need to protect myself.
Caveats
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I am 186cm tall, slim/fit built, dark brown hair, brown eyes. Both my arms are tattooed (full sleeve), as are my calves and the areas above my ankles. Regarding pictures see below. I am a runner, training multiple times a week. I'm also vegan. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. While I am mostly securely attached, withdrawing from me triggers anxiety and I have made a horrible experience with an avoidant partner in the past, so that is something I fear I cannot deal with again.
I am also an atheist.
I am a very warm, soft and sensitive person, I think I am humorous, I am self reflecting a lot and I can also be really passionate and romantic. Those are traits that also are really important to me in a woman.
I can be quite social, I am a good talker, but also love to listen to really get to know someone on a deeper level. I can enjoy an evening out with friends just as much as the silence of sitting at the shores of the river and watching the sunset in solitude (although I've been craving to watch it together with a partner for a really long time now). I can be out in a pub, at a rave, a metal show or at a football game and have the time of my life, but I cannot do these things every day; I need recharge time (on the sofa, in the woods for a run, a lazy Sunday staying in bed etc.). This should give you an idea; basically, I am a homebody that thoroughly enjoys going out in moderation.
I won't say too much about hobbies; suffice it to say I am into the dark, the obscure, the macabre, the occult, the mysterious, the erotic. It won't surprise you that I had a gothic phase in my youth, bonus points if you did too!
What I'm looking for
Although similar hobbies and interests are a plus, emotional and intimate compatibility are more important to me. I am a very sensitive and emotional person (I do cry easily and by this point I don't think I'll ever be able to change that, sorry), so if you're too, we will definitely understand each other. I need someone who I can open up to (which I do rather quickly, anyway), be myself, bare my soul to and I need these things from you, too. I've had my share of emotionally unavailable women who were afraid of intimacy so I know I can't deal with that again because of the way how those things affect me. I am always emotionally invested with the woman I pursue and in those cases that was to my detriment. But my ability to feel so deep is also something I wouldn't want to change because as of yet, although it's getting harder, I haven't given up on finding someone.
With those emotional needs come two requirements that I found to be vital over the years: First, being able to be silly and cutesy together and to accept each other's inner child and care for it. I am not talking about having to deal with another person's immaturity or inability to perform basic adult skills, rather with the way sadness, hurt, anxiety and being overwhelmed manifests for me (and maybe for you, too?). I need someone who is able to comfort me, to hold me, to allow me to be weak and needy for a while until I've calmed down, and I'm more than ready to offer the same. Your inner child can come out for a while, no problem (: Also in a positive way: Thankfully, today everyone seems to be understanding of the cuteness overload cats (or any animal baby, really) can cause; I need that with a partner. I also still have plushies as comfort animals and ideally, you do too.
Apparently in every relationship, one person is the stronger one. In the past, I have been with women who obviously were stronger than me, but that doesn't mean they always had to be strong, far from it. I certainly need to be able to feel protected, but it's not like I'm a particularly needy partner, like everyone, I have my ups and downs, but I can pull my weight and have been told by past partners that I am very caring and that they felt safe and understood with me, and providing that for my partner is really important for me as well.
Second, intimate compatibility. I am rather insatiable and love to experiment when it comes to the bedroom, so you should, too, in order that we can explore and enjoy together. I found out how fulfilling living out those fantasies can be after years of never being able to try and in a relationship, this kind of fulfillment for both partners is a must for me. I found the term 'filthy best friends and partners' to be a perfect description.
I'm looking for a balance between healthy independence and being emotionally present. A relationship where we 'get' each other; we're both each other's number one and treat each other like royalty. Where a disagreement leads to more intimacy between us as we understand better, not to resentment. Where we're comfortable baring our souls to each other, becoming a safe haven and secure base for each other. I don't like the modern notion that you 'should never feel too safe in a relationship' because that sounds like running from the mafia (and believe me, I love mafia movies); you should always put in effort, yes, but safety is one of the things I always want to experience and provide in a relationship. We shouldn't fear that a disagreement leads straight to breakup. I know âself-sufficiencyâ is trending right now, but I feel like as partners, weâre partly responsible for each other and not our own but also each otherâs happiness. Being dependant and dependable at the same time is important; making each otherâs wellbeing a priority. If youâre not able to healthily depend on someone and their support while youâre having a hard time, look elsewhere. If I have to be afraid youâll run at the first major problem that surfaces, even if itâs a âyouâ-problem, itâs not going to work. I think that all things can and need to be talked about. If you think ignoring someone for days is a form of communication, please look elsewhere.
I am looking for someone real. We all have our problems, I don't want or need a 'perfect' person. You don't have everything figured out or 'all your shit' together. Be imperfect. Admit when you feel sad and angry, lonely, hopeless or even helpless â it's all relatable. Don't hide it. Be quirky, be dorky, be witchy, opinionated, be yourself. Don't pretend.
I'm looking for someone to share romance with. Not great gestures, but small, meaningful ones. Poems for each other, expressing our feelings; cards with heartfelt messages that we put our perfume/cologne on, and a symbol that means something to us only, the print of your lips with lipstick, the way I sign and seal my letters for you.
Just as important to me is agreeing on living a healthy life, staying in shape both for ourselves and for each other, regularly working out and eating healthy. I am drug and disease-free and expect the same of you. I do drink as I love a good beer or glass of wine, rum or whiskey, but I've never really been drinking much and especially during the past year have further reduced it. One vice I have is that I enjoy a couple of cigars a year, but I can definitely accommodate you in this regard.
Another important point is aligned life goals: I value safety more than adventure. I want to build a home together with my partner, a safespace for the both of us, where we always feel loved and protected, a place that we create together, make it cozy together so we just love to get back home there wherever we might have been, a home we decorate together for Halloween (my favourite holiday) or Christmas or Springtime, as we live in tune with the seasons, enjoying nature on a walk or the rain outside, reading in our cozy home. I value stability and harmony.
Appearance-wise, I am into ladies on the smaller side), so I'm looking for someone petite/slim/skinny/healthy-fit. Likewise, I am not really muscular and don't have visible abs; like I said, I'm a runner, so if you're more into the gym-type, I'm not a good fit.
Iâd prefer to move from text to voice calls, videochat and then meeting up, all of that rather sooner than later. Not that thereâs a need to rush anything, but Iâd rather see earlier if weâre compatible or not; as someone who catches feelings fast I need to protect myself.
Caveats
- I don't like travelling as it stresses me out; I don't mind being somewhere else for a week or two, but the organisation part of it drains my energy very quickly and dealing with stuff that doesn't work out is overwhelming to me. Smaller trips are ok, but I'm not the right person to travel the world with.
- I am not the most awake person in the morning (i.e. I identify as nightowl)
- I don't want children and had a vasectomy
- I need space for my own projects/time to recharge after social interaction.
- While I feel like I am in tune with my inner child and working on/with it through therapy, I realise this is something that could be a turn-off for people.
- I have been diagnosed with depressive episodes in the past and am taking anti-depressants right now. I realise that I am a work in progress, maybe more so than in times past, but I manage and the fact that I'm putting myself out here is based on me being ready to get to know someone new.
- I want to create a home together here, as I'm firmly rooted where I was born; I realise this is a lot to ask, but I have seen many people here being open to moving, so I want to at least try reaching out to them.
2024.05.16 10:27 omegaMKXIII 31 [M4F] Austria/Europe - Looking for my forever lady
General
I am looking for a lady between 28 and 35 years old, for a committed monogamous childfree relationship. My goal is to become a true team, supporting each other, caring for each other, nurturing each other and helping each other grow and realise our goals and dreams as much as possible. I'm hoping to find someone that values a relationship as much as I do and takes it seriously. It's not the only thing my life revolves around, but it's also not just something 'nice to have' for me.
I tried to be as concise as possible while still providing what details I think are crucial to know; I realise this post turned out very long, but I prefer those because I can get as good an idea as possible with detailed descriptions, bar actually talking to the person, and find that very valuable, so if that also applies to you, that would be awesome.
Basics
I am 186cm tall, slim/fit built, dark brown hair, brown eyes. Both my arms are tattooed (full sleeve), as are my calves and the areas above my ankles. Regarding pictures see below. I am a runner (ranging from 5k to full marathon), training multiple times a week. I'm also vegan. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. While I am mostly securely attached, withdrawing from me triggers anxiety and I have made a horrible experience with a fearful avoidant partner in the past, so that is something I fear I cannot deal with again.
I am also an atheist.
I am a very warm, soft and sensitive person, I think I am humorous, I am self reflecting a lot and I can also be really passionate and romantic. Those are traits that also are really important to me in a woman.
I can be quite social, I am a good talker, but also love to listen to really get to know someone on a deeper level. I can enjoy an evening out with friends just as much as the silence of sitting at the shores of the river and watching the sunset in solitude (although I've been craving to watch it together with a partner for a really long time now). I can be out in a pub, at a rave, a metal show or in the stadium watching football and have the time of my life, but I cannot do these things every day; I need recharge time (on the sofa, in the woods for a run, a lazy Sunday staying in bed etc.). This should give you an idea; basically, I am a homebody that thoroughly enjoys going out in moderation.
I won't say too much about hobbies; suffice it to say I am into the dark, the obscure, the macabre, the occult, the mysterious, the erotic. It won't surprise you that I had a gothic phase in my youth, bonus points if you did too!
What I am looking for
Although similar hobbies and interests are a plus (and there have to be at least a couple things we have in common), emotional and sexual compatibility are more important to me. I am a very sensitive and emotional person (I do cry easily and by this point I don't think I'll ever be able to change that, sorry), so if you're too, we will definitely understand each other. I need someone who I can open up to (which I do rather quickly, anyway), be myself, bare my soul to and I need these things from you, too. I've had my share of emotionally unavailable women who were afraid of intimacy so I know I can't deal with that again because of the way how those things affect me. I am always emotionally invested with the woman I pursue and in those cases that was to my detriment. But my ability to feel so deep is also something I wouldn't want to change because as of yet, although it's getting harder, I haven't given up on finding someone.
With those emotional needs come two requirements that I found to be vital over the years: First, being able to be silly and cutesy together and to accept each other's inner child and care for it. I am not talking about having to deal with another person's immaturity or inability to perform basic adult skills, rather with the way sadness, hurt, anxiety and being overwhelmed manifests for me (and maybe for you, too?). I need someone who is able to comfort me, to hold me, to allow me to be weak and needy for a while until I've calmed down, and I'm more than ready to offer the same. Your inner child can come out for a while, no problem (: Also in a positive way: Thankfully, today everyone seems to be understanding of the cuteness overload cats (or any animal baby, really) can cause; I need that with a partner. I also still have plushies as comfort animals (some of which in quite a litteral sense as they make for really amazing pillows) and ideally, you do too.
There is a saying that in every relationship, one person is the stronger one. In the past, I have been with women who obviously were stronger than me, but that doesn't mean they always had to be strong, far from it. I certainly, like I said, need to be able to feel protected, but it's not like I'm a particularly needy partner, like everyone, I have my ups and downs, but I can pull my weight and have been told by past partners that I am very caring and that they felt safe and understood with me, and providing that for my partner is really important for me as well â this just to put the picture I'm (somewhat haphazardly) trying to paint into perspective.
Second, sexual compatibility. I have a high libido and I have kinks, so you should, too, in order that we can explore and enjoy them together. I found out how fulfilling living out those fantasies can be after years of never being able to try and in a relationship, sexual fulfillment for both partners is a must for me. Someone on here has coined the term 'filthy best friends and partners' which I have no shame to be stealing because it's such an apt description.
I'm looking for a balance between healthy independence and being emotionally present. A relationship where we 'get' each other; we're both each other's number one and treat each other like royalty. Where a disagreement leads to more intimacy between us as we understand better, not to resentment. Where we're comfortable baring our souls to each other, becoming a safe haven and secure base for each other. I don't like the modern notion that you 'should never feel too safe in a relationship' because that sounds like running from the mafia (and believe me, I love mafia movies); you should always put in effort, yes, but safety is one of the things I always want to experience and provide in a relationship. We shouldn't fear that a disagreement leads straight to breakup. I know âself-sufficiencyâ is trending right now, but I feel like as partners, weâre partly responsible for each other and not our own but also each otherâs happiness. Being dependant and dependable at the same time is important; making each otherâs wellbeing a priority. I love the relationship model outlined in Stan Tatkinâs âWired for Loveâ and you should, too. If youâre not able to healthily depend on someone and their support while youâre having a hard time, look elsewhere. I know codependency is the latest thing everyoneâs afraid of, but experiencing someone youâve grown very attached to just bailing because theyâre counterdependent and canât stand working on themselves while simultaneously letting you in is something Iâd rather not go through again. If I have to be afraid youâll run at the first major problem that surfaces, even if itâs a âyouâ-problem, itâs not going to work. I think that all things can and need to be talked about. If you think ignoring someone for days is a form of communication, please look elsewhere. If you thinkâs itâs okay to lovebomb someone and then leave after a couple of months with the minimum amount of information and no proper conversation because youâre not ready to own up to whatâs happening to you emotionally, please look elsewhere.
I am looking for someone real. We all have our problems, I don't want or need a 'perfect' person. You don't have everything figured out or 'all your shit' together. Be imperfect. Admit when you feel sad and angry, lonely, hopeless or even helpless â it's all relatable. Don't hide it. Be quirky, be dorky, be witchy, be opinionated, be yourself. Don't pretend.
I'm looking for someone to share romance with. Not great gestures, but small, meaningful ones. Poems for each other, expressing our feelings; cards with heartfelt messages that we put our perfume/cologne on, and a symbol that means something to us only, the print of your lips with lipstick, the way I sign and seal my letters for you.
Just as important to me is agreeing on living a healthy life, staying in shape both for ourselves and for each other, regularly working out and eating healthy. I am drug and disease-free and expect the same of you. I do drink as I love a good beer or glass of wine, rum or whiskey, but I've never really been drinking much and especially during the past year have further reduced it. One vice I have is that I enjoy a couple of cigars a year, but I can definitely accommodate you in this regard.
Another important point is aligned life goals: many childfree people seem to be adventurous, but that is a trait I don't associate with myself at all. I value safety more than adventure. I want to build a home together with my partner, a safespace for the both of us, where we always feel loved and protected, a place that we create together, make it cozy together so we just love to get back home there wherever we might have been, a home we decorate together for Halloween (my favourite holiday) or Christmas or Springtime, as we live in tune with the seasons, seeing them change around us, enjoying nature on a walk or the rain outside, reading in our cozy home. I value stability and harmony.
Appearance-wise, I am into ladies on the smaller side (albeit not regarding height), so I'm looking for someone petite/slim/skinny/healthy-fit. Likewise, I am not really muscular and don't have visible abs; like I said, I'm a runner, so if you're more into the gym-type, I'm not a good fit.
The natural progression for me would be to move from text to voice calls, videochat and then meeting up, all of that rather sooner than later. Not that thereâs a need to rush anything, but having my heart broken because I already developed feelings due to a longer timeframe and then everything unexpectedly turning to shit is not something I want to have to live through again. Iâd rather see earlier if weâre compatible or not; as someone who catches feelings fast I need to protect myself, I unfortunately had to learn that
Caveats/Possible red flags
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I am looking for a lady between 28 and 35 years old, for a committed monogamous childfree relationship. My goal is to become a true team, supporting each other, caring for each other, nurturing each other and helping each other grow and realise our goals and dreams as much as possible. I'm hoping to find someone that values a relationship as much as I do and takes it seriously. It's not the only thing my life revolves around, but it's also not just something 'nice to have' for me.
I tried to be as concise as possible while still providing what details I think are crucial to know; I realise this post turned out very long, but I prefer those because I can get as good an idea as possible with detailed descriptions, bar actually talking to the person, and find that very valuable, so if that also applies to you, that would be awesome.
Basics
I am 186cm tall, slim/fit built, dark brown hair, brown eyes. Both my arms are tattooed (full sleeve), as are my calves and the areas above my ankles. Regarding pictures see below. I am a runner (ranging from 5k to full marathon), training multiple times a week. I'm also vegan. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. While I am mostly securely attached, withdrawing from me triggers anxiety and I have made a horrible experience with a fearful avoidant partner in the past, so that is something I fear I cannot deal with again.
I am also an atheist.
I am a very warm, soft and sensitive person, I think I am humorous, I am self reflecting a lot and I can also be really passionate and romantic. Those are traits that also are really important to me in a woman.
I can be quite social, I am a good talker, but also love to listen to really get to know someone on a deeper level. I can enjoy an evening out with friends just as much as the silence of sitting at the shores of the river and watching the sunset in solitude (although I've been craving to watch it together with a partner for a really long time now). I can be out in a pub, at a rave, a metal show or in the stadium watching football and have the time of my life, but I cannot do these things every day; I need recharge time (on the sofa, in the woods for a run, a lazy Sunday staying in bed etc.). This should give you an idea; basically, I am a homebody that thoroughly enjoys going out in moderation.
I won't say too much about hobbies; suffice it to say I am into the dark, the obscure, the macabre, the occult, the mysterious, the erotic. It won't surprise you that I had a gothic phase in my youth, bonus points if you did too!
What I am looking for
Although similar hobbies and interests are a plus (and there have to be at least a couple things we have in common), emotional and sexual compatibility are more important to me. I am a very sensitive and emotional person (I do cry easily and by this point I don't think I'll ever be able to change that, sorry), so if you're too, we will definitely understand each other. I need someone who I can open up to (which I do rather quickly, anyway), be myself, bare my soul to and I need these things from you, too. I've had my share of emotionally unavailable women who were afraid of intimacy so I know I can't deal with that again because of the way how those things affect me. I am always emotionally invested with the woman I pursue and in those cases that was to my detriment. But my ability to feel so deep is also something I wouldn't want to change because as of yet, although it's getting harder, I haven't given up on finding someone.
With those emotional needs come two requirements that I found to be vital over the years: First, being able to be silly and cutesy together and to accept each other's inner child and care for it. I am not talking about having to deal with another person's immaturity or inability to perform basic adult skills, rather with the way sadness, hurt, anxiety and being overwhelmed manifests for me (and maybe for you, too?). I need someone who is able to comfort me, to hold me, to allow me to be weak and needy for a while until I've calmed down, and I'm more than ready to offer the same. Your inner child can come out for a while, no problem (: Also in a positive way: Thankfully, today everyone seems to be understanding of the cuteness overload cats (or any animal baby, really) can cause; I need that with a partner. I also still have plushies as comfort animals (some of which in quite a litteral sense as they make for really amazing pillows) and ideally, you do too.
There is a saying that in every relationship, one person is the stronger one. In the past, I have been with women who obviously were stronger than me, but that doesn't mean they always had to be strong, far from it. I certainly, like I said, need to be able to feel protected, but it's not like I'm a particularly needy partner, like everyone, I have my ups and downs, but I can pull my weight and have been told by past partners that I am very caring and that they felt safe and understood with me, and providing that for my partner is really important for me as well â this just to put the picture I'm (somewhat haphazardly) trying to paint into perspective.
Second, sexual compatibility. I have a high libido and I have kinks, so you should, too, in order that we can explore and enjoy them together. I found out how fulfilling living out those fantasies can be after years of never being able to try and in a relationship, sexual fulfillment for both partners is a must for me. Someone on here has coined the term 'filthy best friends and partners' which I have no shame to be stealing because it's such an apt description.
I'm looking for a balance between healthy independence and being emotionally present. A relationship where we 'get' each other; we're both each other's number one and treat each other like royalty. Where a disagreement leads to more intimacy between us as we understand better, not to resentment. Where we're comfortable baring our souls to each other, becoming a safe haven and secure base for each other. I don't like the modern notion that you 'should never feel too safe in a relationship' because that sounds like running from the mafia (and believe me, I love mafia movies); you should always put in effort, yes, but safety is one of the things I always want to experience and provide in a relationship. We shouldn't fear that a disagreement leads straight to breakup. I know âself-sufficiencyâ is trending right now, but I feel like as partners, weâre partly responsible for each other and not our own but also each otherâs happiness. Being dependant and dependable at the same time is important; making each otherâs wellbeing a priority. I love the relationship model outlined in Stan Tatkinâs âWired for Loveâ and you should, too. If youâre not able to healthily depend on someone and their support while youâre having a hard time, look elsewhere. I know codependency is the latest thing everyoneâs afraid of, but experiencing someone youâve grown very attached to just bailing because theyâre counterdependent and canât stand working on themselves while simultaneously letting you in is something Iâd rather not go through again. If I have to be afraid youâll run at the first major problem that surfaces, even if itâs a âyouâ-problem, itâs not going to work. I think that all things can and need to be talked about. If you think ignoring someone for days is a form of communication, please look elsewhere. If you thinkâs itâs okay to lovebomb someone and then leave after a couple of months with the minimum amount of information and no proper conversation because youâre not ready to own up to whatâs happening to you emotionally, please look elsewhere.
I am looking for someone real. We all have our problems, I don't want or need a 'perfect' person. You don't have everything figured out or 'all your shit' together. Be imperfect. Admit when you feel sad and angry, lonely, hopeless or even helpless â it's all relatable. Don't hide it. Be quirky, be dorky, be witchy, be opinionated, be yourself. Don't pretend.
I'm looking for someone to share romance with. Not great gestures, but small, meaningful ones. Poems for each other, expressing our feelings; cards with heartfelt messages that we put our perfume/cologne on, and a symbol that means something to us only, the print of your lips with lipstick, the way I sign and seal my letters for you.
Just as important to me is agreeing on living a healthy life, staying in shape both for ourselves and for each other, regularly working out and eating healthy. I am drug and disease-free and expect the same of you. I do drink as I love a good beer or glass of wine, rum or whiskey, but I've never really been drinking much and especially during the past year have further reduced it. One vice I have is that I enjoy a couple of cigars a year, but I can definitely accommodate you in this regard.
Another important point is aligned life goals: many childfree people seem to be adventurous, but that is a trait I don't associate with myself at all. I value safety more than adventure. I want to build a home together with my partner, a safespace for the both of us, where we always feel loved and protected, a place that we create together, make it cozy together so we just love to get back home there wherever we might have been, a home we decorate together for Halloween (my favourite holiday) or Christmas or Springtime, as we live in tune with the seasons, seeing them change around us, enjoying nature on a walk or the rain outside, reading in our cozy home. I value stability and harmony.
Appearance-wise, I am into ladies on the smaller side (albeit not regarding height), so I'm looking for someone petite/slim/skinny/healthy-fit. Likewise, I am not really muscular and don't have visible abs; like I said, I'm a runner, so if you're more into the gym-type, I'm not a good fit.
The natural progression for me would be to move from text to voice calls, videochat and then meeting up, all of that rather sooner than later. Not that thereâs a need to rush anything, but having my heart broken because I already developed feelings due to a longer timeframe and then everything unexpectedly turning to shit is not something I want to have to live through again. Iâd rather see earlier if weâre compatible or not; as someone who catches feelings fast I need to protect myself, I unfortunately had to learn that
Caveats/Possible red flags
- I don't like travelling as it stresses me out; I don't mind being somewhere else for a week or two, but the organisation part of it drains my energy very quickly and dealing with stuff that doesn't work out is overwhelming to me. Smaller trips are ok, but I'm not the right person to travel the world with.
- I am not the most awake person in the morning (i.e. I identify as nightowl)
- I need space for my own projects/time to recharge after social interaction.
- While I feel like I am in tune with my inner child and working on/with it through therapy, I realise this is something that could be a turn-off for people.
- I have been diagnosed with depressive episodes in the past and am taking anti-depressants right now. I realise that I am a work in progress, maybe more so than in times past, but I manage and the fact that I'm putting myself out here is based on me being ready to get to know someone new.
- I want to create a home together here, as I'm firmly rooted where I was born; I realise this is a lot to ask, but I have seen many people here being open to moving, so I want to at least try reaching out to them.
2024.05.16 10:26 No-Long-2537 IF, workout routine and diet.
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Hello guys!
Thank you for the overwhelmingly positive feedback I got on my last post. If there is any grammar mistakes on this post I want to say sorry in advance and that english is not my first language.
I got many comments and messages about my diet, caloric intake and workout routine so I figured I will make a detailed post about what I did to hit my goals instead.
I am 29 years old, 179cm tall, starting weight was 85 kg and my current weight is hovering between 68-69 kgs.
Workout routine:
At the beginning of my journey, I first focused on being able to maintain my fasting window. Even 16 hours was very hard for me and I was very hungry all the time. My body got used to it after 3 weeks or so I would say. I started with working out with a 8 kg kettlebell, 3 times a week and has managed to work myself up to using a 20 kg kettlebell.
At the beginning I focused on kettlebells monday-wednesday-friday. These sessions were around 30 minutes average and are very time efficent and should be possible for people with tight schedules as well.
If you want to start kettlebell workouts I recommend this fullbody complex 3 times a week:
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeCnqFJ .
Walking/ Running:
I have worked my way up to be able to run 10-15 km at will now but at the start I struggled to even hit 1 km before stopping and wanting to pass out. I think if you are looking into start running as well you should start slow and build up your mileage. There is no shame to stop and walk and run slowly. Remember to warm up and stretch after runs, I had to learn this the hard way because I would constantly get injured after longer runs so I had to take breaks from training which sucked.
If running is not for you I really recommend going for a walk to keep your body moving, I dont really have a step goal but I do walk my dog every day.
Diet and fasting protocol(16/8):
I cannot stress this enough but this is the most important aspect of the whole lifestyle change. Replace procressed foods with more whole foods. I had to force myself to eat more fruits and vegetables. But with time I started finding these foods delicious (thank god).
Monday - Friday:
I break my fast with 4 scrambled eggs, kimchi, a whole avocado every single day without fail.
This is the purpose of delaying carbs so my insulin level will not spike for the majority of the day.
I finish my first meal with either a protein shake, protein yoghurt and some fruits (oranges, berries, banana).
I have my last and biggest meal of the day around 7-8 pm.
These meals on the weekdays usally consist of meat(pork, chicken, beef) with either rice, potato or sweet potatoes and veggies (cooked broccoli is my favorite).
I finish this meal with protein pudding (which satisfy my sweet tooth) and some fruits.
I try to do this as consistently as possible, if theres days where I have to be social or go out for dinner. I forgive myself and move on, and remind myself that if I am able to be consistent 80% of the time, I am proud of myself
Remember!! Perfect is the enemy of good.
Treat yourself and be kind to yourself here and there!!
Saturday-Sunday:
I honestly eat whatever here. I try to not go overboard of course but I usally eat waffles with my fiance for breakfast.
For dinner I eat whatever I crave but its usally pizza or pasta haha.
I love haribo gummy bears so its usally a pack of that too during the weekends.
Sleep:
Another thing I want to add is how important sleep is. I dont think it is a secret that sleep is important but I think we neglect it too much nowadays. Please give your body time to rest, and sleep enough so your body get to regenerate!!
Last note:
Lastly I just want to say that I am proud of us all for being in this sub looking for ways to change our health and lifestyle for the better.
Please do not treat food as the enemy but fuel for your body so you can function and live a long healthy life.
I see so many people going overboard with eating 1000 kcal a day and such and in the long run it is unsustainable. Our body needs food. But treat your body like a temple and eat food that will make you feel great!!
Thank you so much again, I am so happy I found this sub.
Have a nice day :)
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Hello guys!
Thank you for the overwhelmingly positive feedback I got on my last post. If there is any grammar mistakes on this post I want to say sorry in advance and that english is not my first language.
I got many comments and messages about my diet, caloric intake and workout routine so I figured I will make a detailed post about what I did to hit my goals instead.
I am 29 years old, 179cm tall, starting weight was 85 kg and my current weight is hovering between 68-69 kgs.
Workout routine:
At the beginning of my journey, I first focused on being able to maintain my fasting window. Even 16 hours was very hard for me and I was very hungry all the time. My body got used to it after 3 weeks or so I would say. I started with working out with a 8 kg kettlebell, 3 times a week and has managed to work myself up to using a 20 kg kettlebell.
At the beginning I focused on kettlebells monday-wednesday-friday. These sessions were around 30 minutes average and are very time efficent and should be possible for people with tight schedules as well.
If you want to start kettlebell workouts I recommend this fullbody complex 3 times a week:
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGeCnqFJ .
Walking/ Running:
I have worked my way up to be able to run 10-15 km at will now but at the start I struggled to even hit 1 km before stopping and wanting to pass out. I think if you are looking into start running as well you should start slow and build up your mileage. There is no shame to stop and walk and run slowly. Remember to warm up and stretch after runs, I had to learn this the hard way because I would constantly get injured after longer runs so I had to take breaks from training which sucked.
If running is not for you I really recommend going for a walk to keep your body moving, I dont really have a step goal but I do walk my dog every day.
Diet and fasting protocol(16/8):
I cannot stress this enough but this is the most important aspect of the whole lifestyle change. Replace procressed foods with more whole foods. I had to force myself to eat more fruits and vegetables. But with time I started finding these foods delicious (thank god).
Monday - Friday:
I break my fast with 4 scrambled eggs, kimchi, a whole avocado every single day without fail.
This is the purpose of delaying carbs so my insulin level will not spike for the majority of the day.
I finish my first meal with either a protein shake, protein yoghurt and some fruits (oranges, berries, banana).
I have my last and biggest meal of the day around 7-8 pm.
These meals on the weekdays usally consist of meat(pork, chicken, beef) with either rice, potato or sweet potatoes and veggies (cooked broccoli is my favorite).
I finish this meal with protein pudding (which satisfy my sweet tooth) and some fruits.
I try to do this as consistently as possible, if theres days where I have to be social or go out for dinner. I forgive myself and move on, and remind myself that if I am able to be consistent 80% of the time, I am proud of myself
Remember!! Perfect is the enemy of good.
Treat yourself and be kind to yourself here and there!!
Saturday-Sunday:
I honestly eat whatever here. I try to not go overboard of course but I usally eat waffles with my fiance for breakfast.
For dinner I eat whatever I crave but its usally pizza or pasta haha.
I love haribo gummy bears so its usally a pack of that too during the weekends.
Sleep:
Another thing I want to add is how important sleep is. I dont think it is a secret that sleep is important but I think we neglect it too much nowadays. Please give your body time to rest, and sleep enough so your body get to regenerate!!
Last note:
Lastly I just want to say that I am proud of us all for being in this sub looking for ways to change our health and lifestyle for the better.
Please do not treat food as the enemy but fuel for your body so you can function and live a long healthy life.
I see so many people going overboard with eating 1000 kcal a day and such and in the long run it is unsustainable. Our body needs food. But treat your body like a temple and eat food that will make you feel great!!
Thank you so much again, I am so happy I found this sub.
Have a nice day :)
2024.05.16 10:25 GunslingerEX Basingstoke Comic Con releases statement on their disasterous event
 | Statement from Basingstoke Comic Con posted on their website / Facebook: submitted by GunslingerEX to Stargate [link] [comments] BASINGSTOKE COMIC CON STATEMENT, 16 MAY 2024 The Basingstoke Senior Team are heartbroken by the events of this weekend. Having spent over 10 months putting the event together, we were hit by the perfect storm of problems that led to an event causing people to feel let down. It also left two members of staff physically attacked, some physically threatened, and almost all verbally abused. We truly apologise to everyone, whether a customer or staff member, who came away from the weekend unhappy. So, what happened? The vast majority of the problems we have heard loud and clear and came down to the fact that we unexpectedly lost 30% of our staff. We donât use volunteers; all our staff are paid. We expect natural fall out and losing 10% of our staff in the week running up to the event was manageable, however on the day another 25% just didnât turn up. They didnât email or call to advise us of this, they just simply didnât turn up. I am not one for conspiracy theories, but it was so odd as anyone who runs events know losing 35% of staff unexpectedly is the perfect way to damage any event. On top of this, with what the staff faced on Saturday, a number couldnât face returning on Sunday. We ran Sunday on the barest minimum of staff that we thought was safe and I am so proud of them, as they faced overwhelming odds as we had to juggle and firefight throughout the day for the event, we had worked so hard for. Yes, there were members of staff who didnât know things, but most likely they had been pulled from the areas they had been trained for, to deal with areas they didnât. Because we had lost so many key team members such as runners, radio operators and actor handlersâ people had to move to other areas to interface with visitors. Thank you to everyone who has messaged us with positive feedback about our staff. I know they all greatly appreciate it. QUEUING COMMUNICATION Communication is key, and we hear you loud and clearly. We had a communication plan in place to manage queues and give people the chance to enjoy other areas of the event rather than spend time queuing. As you may have seen every ticket was numbered, except for the ones which were brought on the day and they were, for example, 1-50 Orange VIP or 51-251 for the Stargate VIP. Our intention was to call people in batches. We were planning to accomplish this by the Tannoy system, the stage, and staff carrying white boards with the latest information who would also be able to deal with queries and questions. They would cover all the areas which the speaker system didnât including the marquee. With the lack of staff, we lost the ability to do this. AUTOGRAPH QUEUING People who attended our event last year will remember we had a huge area for autographs. Some visitors commented they felt it was just too big. So based on the feedback we received we tried to make better use of the arena and clearly made the mistake of going the other way and unfortunately making it too small. This smaller area for groups of 50 plan, not the amount who ended up queuing. Added to that the barriers were laid out incorrectly and I am currently investigating to see how that occurred. It all amounted to a gridlock in the autograph area. With hindsight, we should have cleared the whole area, sent everyone away with times for each group to come back, but again because we were lacking the staff, we did not make this happen. We know people queued for hours and were hot and squashed and we are so deeply sorry. It was absolutely not the plan and devastating for us. The very last thing we wished to see is people who have looked forward to an event, saved for it and travelled long distances not having an enjoyable time. We are also aware the queue sizes led to far from ideal accessibility, something we take seriously. After the problems on Saturday, we created room by reducing the space of Artisan Alley, but this could not solve the problem by itself. On Sunday, because we had so few staff, we were very limited in what else we could put in place. Staff members were having to fulfil a dual role of actor handler and queue management. And because of the events of the day before, people were fearful of getting their autos, which I completely understand, and it meant many people were not prepared to leave the queue and come back later which led to more crowding and people standing for long hours. Please do not feel like we are blaming anyone here, I understand why. Losing the ability to communicate with attendees and each other made things incredibly challenging as it meant we were unable to respond quickly to issues as they happened. THE HEAT We watched the forecast, and we planned for warm weather and some rain. What we didnât expect was for it to be 25c plus. I am aware that people were complaining that we didnât provide water until later in the day and the simple explanation was, we didnât have any. The hotel was unable to provide us with any, so we went out to buy bottled water and also tried to fill the gaps with jugs of water. We went out and brought fans and tried to think of every way we could to improve things for people with the event space we had available. I would like to give my absolute assurance that we were not ignoring peopleâs issues and concerns and we felt so bad that there were times when we just couldnât give people the answers which they wanted. MORE I wish to address other points we have been receiving with the same openness and honesty. Not for sympathy or as an excuse, but I believe everyone deserves to know the truth. We had to sack two members of staff, one was behaving improperly with guests and the other, well I donât know where to start. This person stole items and lied about his presence at the event, getting photos and autos when he should have been working. The same person is now spending time in Reddit spreading lies and misinformation. We will be taking action against this person. Regarding Richard Dean Anderson, we were advised in advance of the event that he was a slow signer and as such we limited the number of autos sold and calculated his signing time based on that. What we didnât expect was for him to take 4/5 mins per auto. It would take him over 13 hours to sign 200 autos. Based on his actual signing time we should have only sold 45 autos a day which would have left many fans upset. We also did not force him to stay and asked: Could he sign faster If heâd like us to cut the queue and. If he was happy to continue at current pace and we would find the staff and security willing to stay while he continued signing. Regarding Jason Momoa, we have read a number of comments left by people saying Jason said that we changed his attendance to one day and also that we messed up his flight so he couldnât stay two days. This is completely untrue; we would have loved Jason to attend two days. Also, if other actors made negative comments regarding the event, none of them came to me and wished that they had, so I would have been able to address it directly. Some people commented that they saw the Police attend the event and speculated that it down to us, this is incorrect. The reason why they attended was because people were walking around Basingstoke Town Centre and swords. These weapons may have been fake, but members of the public didnât know that, and they rang the Police worried and concerned. We spoke to the police and addressed this immediately via social media and Tannoy announcements. People have also speculated about numbers and said that we oversold, this again is incorrect, as while some areas were overcrowded due to queues, others were completely empty. When we put the Stargate VIP ticket on sale, it only had 7 actors on it and people were happy to purchase it at the advertised price. We should not have added so many guests as we now realise it created a logistical problem for people to get them all. We also should have dictated which day people went for autos rather than leaving it at the attendeeâs choice. REFUNDS If you have a ticket stub for an auto you were unable to get, please send a photo of that auto with your details and an order number to info@basingstokecomiccon.com to accelerate replies and make refunds as efficient as possible so we can get money back to you. If your auto was part of the Stargate package, you will get a percentage refund based on the number of tickets included in the pass. We will not refund those who missed flights, had visa issues, or were delayed getting to our event as per our terms. We have detailed records of which tickets belonged to whom and who did and didnât attend. All other refund requests will be considered on their merits, and we will be replying to those as quickly as we can in the coming days and weeks. We aim to complete this process by the 30th of June and will not respond to chaser emails, or those trying to FastTrack any request via other channels as we want to be fair and diligent in our replies to everyone. We are aware that some people are encouraging people to get a chargeback, and while they are entirely entitled to do so, it does complicate things and may delay any refund request. FINAL WORDS We are deeply sorry that people didnât get the experience they deserved. This was not the Comic Con we planned to run. To all those who have sent messages of support via email and social channels, it means the world to me, and weâll be back stronger and better next time. |
2024.05.16 10:25 No-Farm-2186 still struggling with my identity
I can't tell if I'm trans or just trying to find somewhere to belong. I know if you think you're faking it you're probably not, but in my case it's not "faking" it might just be coping from a lack of identity?
I don't know what to think but I'll try to explain my life story (sorry it's gonna be long, ik my posts are usually long but this one is going to be stupid long) in case anyone can help (also sorry for being so annoying I know a lot of ppl have super trans-related problems and my problems are like 1/2 trans if I'm too much just tell me and I'll stop). Just finished typing it and yeah this is stupid long and I probably shouldn't post this anymore cuz it's dumb but at this point I have nothing left to lose so I'm gonna anyways.
TW: Suicidal ideation + mentions of death + mentions of self harm
When I was in elementary I was friendly and social with everyone, and part of a close friend group of 2 females and 1 enby (they didn't know at the time). I felt comfy in that group but summer came and I didn't talk to them bc I didn't have a phone. When I started middle school I didn't get in any of their classes, so I told myself I'd focus on my studies. So then the people i met in middle school who were my "friends" were only because I wanted someone to talk to but I had lost my personality so I kinda just shaped my personality around them. But that's also around the same time I realized I kinda really hated everything about myself. Uncertain about what I want to do with my life. Hated my appearance (had just constantly gotten buzz cuts my whole life) + I hate my face and body. I assumed it was body dysmorphia after looking up how I felt and accepted that I was just depressed. Come high school I just kept feeling worse, then we had to put my dog down and I didn't cry a single tear when he got injected. I realized I was really fucked up from that and that night when I was alone I completely shattered. All sense of self left me and I realized that I felt completely alone. I even started SHing myself around that time (though nothing too intense, was mostly just with a broken utensil, only a razor once which freaked me out a ton since my shoulder kept bleeding and after that I stopped and just started hitting myself instead). I decided to try piece myself together and the first thought was to figure myself out. I determined I was probably aroace since I had never "liked" anyone (still dunno if i have) even though I want to. Thought that was it but then when I started working after high school I saw a Coolyori meme after getting into DDLC. The meme wasn't even from egg irl but id assume it has been posted there. I don't remember exactly what it was but it was something along the lines of looking like Sayori. Then I found egg irl and realized that yeah I think if I had been born a girl and had a girl childhood I probably wouldn't have been depressed. I mean, girls are pretty and I might've been able to hold onto my friends and not fuck everything up. But now I just wonder if I actually want to be a girl, or if I just think it would solve my problems. I also wonder if I just wanna be more feminine because I have 2 sisters, no brothers, my dad never hung out with me, all of my friends that I've been close to growing up were girls (except that one enby + an enby online I met), and the people I played with in the summer were girls. I'm struggling to figure out if I'm just depressed or actually trans and I care too much about not burdening others to be able to ask for help + I developed really bad social anxiety as well. I just am tired of living in a state of anxiousness and self-hatred at this point. At this point I just wish some outside force could set me free cuz I'm too tired. If anyone actually read of this thank you but I'm also sorry I wasted so much of your time. đ
Any input/advice/insight is appreciated and much needed đŤ
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I don't know what to think but I'll try to explain my life story (sorry it's gonna be long, ik my posts are usually long but this one is going to be stupid long) in case anyone can help (also sorry for being so annoying I know a lot of ppl have super trans-related problems and my problems are like 1/2 trans if I'm too much just tell me and I'll stop). Just finished typing it and yeah this is stupid long and I probably shouldn't post this anymore cuz it's dumb but at this point I have nothing left to lose so I'm gonna anyways.
TW: Suicidal ideation + mentions of death + mentions of self harm
When I was in elementary I was friendly and social with everyone, and part of a close friend group of 2 females and 1 enby (they didn't know at the time). I felt comfy in that group but summer came and I didn't talk to them bc I didn't have a phone. When I started middle school I didn't get in any of their classes, so I told myself I'd focus on my studies. So then the people i met in middle school who were my "friends" were only because I wanted someone to talk to but I had lost my personality so I kinda just shaped my personality around them. But that's also around the same time I realized I kinda really hated everything about myself. Uncertain about what I want to do with my life. Hated my appearance (had just constantly gotten buzz cuts my whole life) + I hate my face and body. I assumed it was body dysmorphia after looking up how I felt and accepted that I was just depressed. Come high school I just kept feeling worse, then we had to put my dog down and I didn't cry a single tear when he got injected. I realized I was really fucked up from that and that night when I was alone I completely shattered. All sense of self left me and I realized that I felt completely alone. I even started SHing myself around that time (though nothing too intense, was mostly just with a broken utensil, only a razor once which freaked me out a ton since my shoulder kept bleeding and after that I stopped and just started hitting myself instead). I decided to try piece myself together and the first thought was to figure myself out. I determined I was probably aroace since I had never "liked" anyone (still dunno if i have) even though I want to. Thought that was it but then when I started working after high school I saw a Coolyori meme after getting into DDLC. The meme wasn't even from egg irl but id assume it has been posted there. I don't remember exactly what it was but it was something along the lines of looking like Sayori. Then I found egg irl and realized that yeah I think if I had been born a girl and had a girl childhood I probably wouldn't have been depressed. I mean, girls are pretty and I might've been able to hold onto my friends and not fuck everything up. But now I just wonder if I actually want to be a girl, or if I just think it would solve my problems. I also wonder if I just wanna be more feminine because I have 2 sisters, no brothers, my dad never hung out with me, all of my friends that I've been close to growing up were girls (except that one enby + an enby online I met), and the people I played with in the summer were girls. I'm struggling to figure out if I'm just depressed or actually trans and I care too much about not burdening others to be able to ask for help + I developed really bad social anxiety as well. I just am tired of living in a state of anxiousness and self-hatred at this point. At this point I just wish some outside force could set me free cuz I'm too tired. If anyone actually read of this thank you but I'm also sorry I wasted so much of your time. đ
Any input/advice/insight is appreciated and much needed đŤ
2024.05.16 10:18 GottaChangeMyName Coop Guide
Hereâs a guide for Coop Mode:
Captain Ability: Every Captain is a 4.5x boost of their Color (base effect) up to 6x (max lvl) and a rainbow Captain from 4.25x to 5.75x including a HP boost
Captain Action: Applies a 30% Resistance down of Characters 1st class for 2 turns and a 20% Resistance down of Characters 2nd class. Use this when you need that extra push in damage, for example on the boss. The effect is triggered by swiping down (like EX, Switch or Captain Action)
Captain Special: This is by far the most important aspect of your Captain, as this can hab the Tide of battle, when deciding who you wish to use, you should focus on this criteria. The Ability of the Captain is only based off of Rumble Style the Character has. Hereâs the Breakdown: - RCV-Style: Reduces unfavorable status icons on you and partner by 1-2 turns and heals all players (this does not include Hunger or status effects like bind, despair etc.) - DBF-Style: Delays all enemies (not bypassing immunity) by 1-3 turns and removes all enemy effects by 1 turn - DEF-Style: Reduces damage taken by 50%-90% for all players 1-2 times and heals all players - SPT-Style: Changes all playerâs (including block) slots to Favourable and reduces special charge by 1-2 turns and extends beneficial effects by 1-2 turns - BAL-Style: Reduces 1 enemyâs HP by 15%-25%, heals all players (up to 2x Hp pool) and reduces everyoneâs Bind/Despair by 1-2 turns - ATK-Style: 250â000-2â000â000 Damage (bypassing everything) to all enemies, changes both playersâ type slots to own type and reduces all playersâ Special charge by 2 turns
This is because the 2 turns effect removal is OP. bleed? pain? Not with this special. Healing is also essential for playing with randoms, because you can make sure they survive so that you can clear the rest of the stage. Second is DBF, because they remove all enemy buffs by 1 turn, which allows you to save a special On the mob-stages or reduce damage limiter. The delay is also good, because if you donât manage to kill, you wouldnât get their atk damage. Next is DEF for its survivability SPT for extension and possibly special charge reducer (however, this character isnât immune to it BAL is situational, could be useful, but they donât reduce effects more than a simple support does. Donât use ATK-Style, the damage is a fucking joke, so only the special cooldown is useful, but SPT already does this
If you play with a teammate, I recommend using 1 DBF Style for the fodder stages (reducing def up) and one RCV Style for survivability and reducing of annoying effects like Pain, Bleed etc.
Generally, you want to have a Team that is capable of: - Regular medium Damage Output (switch Characters with some type of ATK boosting effects) - Bind/DespaiParalysis Remover (this should be done via Captain and Supports) - Poison remover (as support Character, very important) - Enemy Buff Remover (I recommend 2 characters to be able to remove up to 10 turns of all 3 main buffs) - If you are unable (because of missions or other reasons) to be capable of all these things,focus on survivability and debuff removers, so that you can kill the fodder stages and can skip your turn at the boss to have your teammate clear it. - You want to use a Captain that removes some type of debuff on your crew passively, if they remove 2 thatâs even better (e.g Yamato Ace, G5 6* Luffy, Vegapunk)
Psy Luffy G5 6* RCV-Style Coop Captain (preferably a Straw Hat) STND Sanji / Zoro Straw Hat that removes Def Up (Nami Carina for example)
Yamato Unit (e.g Yace for resilience) Debuff Remover (e.g Psy Cerebral Chopper)
Add some supports that remove Despair (Whitebeard on Yace, Luffy has V1 INT Reileigh) Add a Support that removes Poison
With this team you can Solo Infinitum, as long as your Parnter doesnât die and skips their turn if they canât defeat the boss this turn.
This team is OP, because with Luffyâs EX you bypass all barriers, only needing to deal with Def Up. Zoro/Sanji give you amazing attack boosting effects, and a STND for even more damage. They also remove Def zip, but you should use this only on the boss stage. All other characters are more or less free to use what you want, but you want to make sure to have some debuff removers, Def Up removers and make sure to be able to trigger STND every turn (so someone like Yamato/Ace is amazing, as their burn bypasses resilience and they change their slot (including block), which can then be switched by Zoro/Sanji
Luck is only affected by your Coop Captain and your Partnersâ Coop Captain. You will get 1 luck every 5 levels and 1 luck for each rr of the same evolution tree and 2 luck for a sr for the same evolution tree. Your luck maxes at 100, meaning with your Partner the maximum luck you can have is 200. Boosted Units give you extra drops (similar to PKA or Blitz). However, different to those modes, you donât need them in your crew, simply having the character unlocked is sufficient.
Please. Use. Your. Skip. At. The. Boss, especially when your teammate tells you âlet me handle thisâ.
If there are any infos missing or wrong, please let me know so I can update this guide. Iâm also open for questions
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Coop Captain:
How does Coop Captain work?
Coop Captain is any character that is either lvl 150 or you use a Coop Tome on. These Characters have predefined specials, Captain Abilities and Actions, which will apply to both teams. Rare Recruits (rr) or sugo rares (sr) have the identical coop abilities, so it doesnât matter which one you pick. Since these Captains have predefined abilities, Donât use OP Captains as Coop Captains (e.g any new SR or characters like G5 Luffy). It is better to use Rr or old legends, as those donât have Captain Abilities you might want to use.What do the Coop Captains do?
The Abilities of Coop Captains are predefined, working as follows:Captain Ability: Every Captain is a 4.5x boost of their Color (base effect) up to 6x (max lvl) and a rainbow Captain from 4.25x to 5.75x including a HP boost
Captain Action: Applies a 30% Resistance down of Characters 1st class for 2 turns and a 20% Resistance down of Characters 2nd class. Use this when you need that extra push in damage, for example on the boss. The effect is triggered by swiping down (like EX, Switch or Captain Action)
Captain Special: This is by far the most important aspect of your Captain, as this can hab the Tide of battle, when deciding who you wish to use, you should focus on this criteria. The Ability of the Captain is only based off of Rumble Style the Character has. Hereâs the Breakdown: - RCV-Style: Reduces unfavorable status icons on you and partner by 1-2 turns and heals all players (this does not include Hunger or status effects like bind, despair etc.) - DBF-Style: Delays all enemies (not bypassing immunity) by 1-3 turns and removes all enemy effects by 1 turn - DEF-Style: Reduces damage taken by 50%-90% for all players 1-2 times and heals all players - SPT-Style: Changes all playerâs (including block) slots to Favourable and reduces special charge by 1-2 turns and extends beneficial effects by 1-2 turns - BAL-Style: Reduces 1 enemyâs HP by 15%-25%, heals all players (up to 2x Hp pool) and reduces everyoneâs Bind/Despair by 1-2 turns - ATK-Style: 250â000-2â000â000 Damage (bypassing everything) to all enemies, changes both playersâ type slots to own type and reduces all playersâ Special charge by 2 turns
Which Coop Captain is the best / should you focus on?
Assuming you are playing with randoms, it is exactly in this Order: 1. RCV-Style 2. DBF-Style 3. DEF-Style 4. SPT-Style 5. BAL-Style 6. ATK-StyleThis is because the 2 turns effect removal is OP. bleed? pain? Not with this special. Healing is also essential for playing with randoms, because you can make sure they survive so that you can clear the rest of the stage. Second is DBF, because they remove all enemy buffs by 1 turn, which allows you to save a special On the mob-stages or reduce damage limiter. The delay is also good, because if you donât manage to kill, you wouldnât get their atk damage. Next is DEF for its survivability SPT for extension and possibly special charge reducer (however, this character isnât immune to it BAL is situational, could be useful, but they donât reduce effects more than a simple support does. Donât use ATK-Style, the damage is a fucking joke, so only the special cooldown is useful, but SPT already does this
If you play with a teammate, I recommend using 1 DBF Style for the fodder stages (reducing def up) and one RCV Style for survivability and reducing of annoying effects like Pain, Bleed etc.
Coop Teams
What are the requirements for Coop Teams?
This Text is focusing on Infinitum Sea Difficulty:Generally, you want to have a Team that is capable of: - Regular medium Damage Output (switch Characters with some type of ATK boosting effects) - Bind/DespaiParalysis Remover (this should be done via Captain and Supports) - Poison remover (as support Character, very important) - Enemy Buff Remover (I recommend 2 characters to be able to remove up to 10 turns of all 3 main buffs) - If you are unable (because of missions or other reasons) to be capable of all these things,focus on survivability and debuff removers, so that you can kill the fodder stages and can skip your turn at the boss to have your teammate clear it. - You want to use a Captain that removes some type of debuff on your crew passively, if they remove 2 thatâs even better (e.g Yamato Ace, G5 6* Luffy, Vegapunk)
General best use Crew
The Best General Team you can build is:Psy Luffy G5 6* RCV-Style Coop Captain (preferably a Straw Hat) STND Sanji / Zoro Straw Hat that removes Def Up (Nami Carina for example)
Yamato Unit (e.g Yace for resilience) Debuff Remover (e.g Psy Cerebral Chopper)
Add some supports that remove Despair (Whitebeard on Yace, Luffy has V1 INT Reileigh) Add a Support that removes Poison
With this team you can Solo Infinitum, as long as your Parnter doesnât die and skips their turn if they canât defeat the boss this turn.
This team is OP, because with Luffyâs EX you bypass all barriers, only needing to deal with Def Up. Zoro/Sanji give you amazing attack boosting effects, and a STND for even more damage. They also remove Def zip, but you should use this only on the boss stage. All other characters are more or less free to use what you want, but you want to make sure to have some debuff removers, Def Up removers and make sure to be able to trigger STND every turn (so someone like Yamato/Ace is amazing, as their burn bypasses resilience and they change their slot (including block), which can then be switched by Zoro/Sanji
What do you play for?
Every month there will be a Coop Event, where you can grind for Stones for that specific 3 month period. After 3 months there will be the Grand Feast Sugo Fest, where you can pull with the Stones you have grinded over the past 3 months. Here, a multi pull costs 100 gems, and at the end of the event you will only get 5 multipulls out of all the pulls youâve done. Based on the rarity (and how recent the character is) your get points for the ranking, which will give you even more rewards (Rainbow Gems, SR Tickets) The Grand Feast Sugo Fest will have all normal banner legends from before the 1st month event period started (right now this means all legends up until and including QCK Slasher Momo)How does Luck / Boosted Units work?
Luck affects which drops you get while clearing a Coop Quest. Drops you can get are (not exclusive as I will probably forget something uninteresting): - Feast Stones - Cotton Candy - Special Level Tomes (including Sugo Rare) - Proof of FriendshipLuck is only affected by your Coop Captain and your Partnersâ Coop Captain. You will get 1 luck every 5 levels and 1 luck for each rr of the same evolution tree and 2 luck for a sr for the same evolution tree. Your luck maxes at 100, meaning with your Partner the maximum luck you can have is 200. Boosted Units give you extra drops (similar to PKA or Blitz). However, different to those modes, you donât need them in your crew, simply having the character unlocked is sufficient.
Communication
Lastly, but very important is communication. While the current ways to communicate are very limited, thee are a few messages you can use, which will allow you to more easily power through the content. Hereâs how Iâve used and interpreted the ones Iâm using: - Help Me: You are unable to clear this stage. This can mean either a debuff on you, or you canât remove all enemy buffs. If the issue is that you have debuffs, try to stall while taking as little damage as possible and dealing as much as possible. If you simply canât remove all enemy buffs, either a) itâs the boss: remove as many as you can, then skip your turn (top left next to the partnerâs HP) b) fodder stage: Simply skip your turn - Let me Handle this: Mainly use this on the boss or if your teammate uses Help Me. This tells your Teammate to skip their turn, and let you kill all enemies - Please Remove that: Mainly used at the boss, letting your partner know they should remove enemy buffs as much as possible and then skip to you, because except for this enemy buff your can clear the stage - Iâm sorry: Apologize if you didnât manage to clear your stage, this is solely to be a good person and upkeep moral - Thank you / My thanks: Thsnking your teammate for something theyâve done, this is to upkeep moral and being a good person - Usopp Burn Emoji: Something fucked up. Very vague, I donât recommend using this to properly communicate with your teammate - Wait! Stay strong: This tells your Partner they should stall, so for example only killing one enemy, or keeping the enemy left on low HP - We need a few more Communication Emojis, for example that you need debuffs removedUse Skip
You can only skip your turn once in a row, and if you have skipped your partner cannot skip in that exact turn. When skipping, you do not lose a turn on the effects you have, so when you have a debuff on you and you skip your turn, youâll not reduce any turns of debuff thatâs currently on you. Skip is overpowered as fuck, especially on the boss stage, because it is the other playerâs turn without the boss doing anything. Take a boss like Luffy. He does a lot of debuffs on you, so you remove as much def as you can, and then simply skip to your partner. Assuming you have cleared all stages prior, your Partner will now have nearly all specials and no debuffs on a boss with about 50mil HP. That is very easy. If you canât defeat the current stages enemies, donât forget you have a skip buttonPlease. Use. Your. Skip. At. The. Boss, especially when your teammate tells you âlet me handle thisâ.
If there are any infos missing or wrong, please let me know so I can update this guide. Iâm also open for questions
2024.05.16 10:14 tinybeetch Weirdos in Myrtle Beach
I contemplated sharing all of these since the first two happened so long ago, but theyâre eerie enough that I think that they should be shared. I have two stories from when I was young, when I was around age 5-6. Though they were over 20 years ago, the first one I remember vividly and the other occurred later yet I canât recall that one much at all. However, my mom tells that story like it was yesterday so Iâm pretty sure my brain blocked it out or something.
So for context, my mom had me when she was 20 and was a single parent for a while. My father was completely out of the picture, so we lived with her childhood best friend in different apartments when I was young. So one night, it was dark but not extremely late (like 7-8) and I was coloring in the kitchen while my mom was in another room. I vividly remember a knock coming from the sliding glass door only a few feet away from where I was. I turned to see a middle aged man with a sinister smile, pointing at the handle to let him in. I immediately screamed, which scared this guy off, and my mom ran in and called the cops. My mom later told me he was peeping at my her and her best friend for a while but this was the first time I had seen him and that he attempted to come in. Apparently he had left⌠evidence that he was there a couple of times but I donât think the cops ever got him. But the rest of the time we lived there, my mom had security from her job (House of Blues) sleep over a lot for protection.
The next encounter is one I donât remember happening but the story still terrifies me because of what might be out there and how easily these things can happen. It was a different apartment, like a townhouse, but only a few blocks away from where the other thing happened. There was a couple that lived across the street and my mom always got very strange vibes from them. The man would openly stare at me (around age 6) and my momâs best friendâs niece (who was 11) when she would stay over, which would prompt my mom to angrily yell at him for being creepy for staring at us the way he was, calling him a perv. My momâs best friend thought she was being paranoid but then at some point, I was playing outside, and that same man lured me over into his apartment with his dog. It didnât take long for my mom to notice I was gone⌠it wasnât even 10 minutes before she ran over to come get me. The couple acted like nothing was wrong and that I just wanted to see their dog but she freaked out on them. When we were home, I told her that he took pictures of me with their dog and she called the cops. They were kicked out but the pictures were never found⌠which creeps me the hell out to this very day.
The most recent creepy encounter was also with my mom but it was about 6 months ago. Iâm still not sure if this was us being paranoid or if we were being followed but it felt wrong. We went to the mall looking for shoes for my wedding and started at Belk. My mom had to use the restroom so I went off on my own and while I was browsing, I got annoyed with this guy wearing a baseball hat because he seemed to be constantly in my way or hovering. It struck me as odd that he kept ending up around me in the womenâs shoes section and I got annoyed with him quickly, shooting him a glare that seemed to back him off a bit. The aisles for shoes are short so I noticed him walking toward another man with a newsboy cap on the other side of the section with his arms crossed. I wouldnât have thought much of it except the two spoke briefly before baseball cap guy made another round through the section. Iâm not sure how to put it but they seemed out of place, like almost dirty or something, and I felt weirded out so I pulled out my phone to text my husband and pretended to look busy until my mom came back. She eyed the baseball cap guy lingering around but I felt much safer when she arrived, and I loudly complained a bit about the selection and âsurroundingsâ so we headed somewhere else. We went into a bunch of different stores and when we were on the other side of the mall at an Earthbound (trendy hippie store if youâre unfamiliar), my mom made a loud comment how she kept seeing a guy in the same stores we were in. In the moment, even though I did have a strange feeling, I waved it off to keep browsing since I donât go to the mall often and wanted to enjoy the day with my mom. She said she must be going crazy when I blew it off but the next store was when my momâs suspicions grew into a serious full blown anxiety attack. I honestly was still oblivious to this guy but I saw how she was looking around a lot, had us weaving through people and quickly going down aisles. Like I said, I still wasnât paying attention to the people around us so I bought a couple of things but as soon as I had my bags, my mom yanked me and rushed us out. While we were walking, she grew serious, kept glancing behind us and told me how she didnât feel right about this guy with a newsboy cap and thought we were being followed. I took a look back for myself and sure enough, the man she described, and I finally recognized him as the same guy I briefly saw in Belk an hour or so ago, just left the same store we did and was walking toward us. He was by himself, looking down, carrying no shopping bags. We ducked into the first store we came across and the employees picked up on our frantic and nervous energy. When asked if we were okay, we told them what was going on and they stood in front of us, hiding us from view and assured us that we were safe. We didnât see him (or the other guy with the baseball cap) after that but it spooked us to the point where we couldnât even enjoy our day out anymore so we went home.
This same mall is known to be unsafe and honestly, this whole city is rampant with human trafficking so even though it could have been just paranoia, we anticipated the worst. Interestingly enough, this same mall recently posted a policy that visitors under 18 need to be accompanied by an adult after 4pm on Friday and Saturdays along with safety guidelines on how to stay safe. So thereâs that.
Stay alert and aware of your surroundings. Trust your gut. I donât walk alone without my phone in my hand, and I call someone anytime Iâm in a parking lot or gas station. Itâs sad but itâs always been hard to ever feel safe when Iâm alone.
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So for context, my mom had me when she was 20 and was a single parent for a while. My father was completely out of the picture, so we lived with her childhood best friend in different apartments when I was young. So one night, it was dark but not extremely late (like 7-8) and I was coloring in the kitchen while my mom was in another room. I vividly remember a knock coming from the sliding glass door only a few feet away from where I was. I turned to see a middle aged man with a sinister smile, pointing at the handle to let him in. I immediately screamed, which scared this guy off, and my mom ran in and called the cops. My mom later told me he was peeping at my her and her best friend for a while but this was the first time I had seen him and that he attempted to come in. Apparently he had left⌠evidence that he was there a couple of times but I donât think the cops ever got him. But the rest of the time we lived there, my mom had security from her job (House of Blues) sleep over a lot for protection.
The next encounter is one I donât remember happening but the story still terrifies me because of what might be out there and how easily these things can happen. It was a different apartment, like a townhouse, but only a few blocks away from where the other thing happened. There was a couple that lived across the street and my mom always got very strange vibes from them. The man would openly stare at me (around age 6) and my momâs best friendâs niece (who was 11) when she would stay over, which would prompt my mom to angrily yell at him for being creepy for staring at us the way he was, calling him a perv. My momâs best friend thought she was being paranoid but then at some point, I was playing outside, and that same man lured me over into his apartment with his dog. It didnât take long for my mom to notice I was gone⌠it wasnât even 10 minutes before she ran over to come get me. The couple acted like nothing was wrong and that I just wanted to see their dog but she freaked out on them. When we were home, I told her that he took pictures of me with their dog and she called the cops. They were kicked out but the pictures were never found⌠which creeps me the hell out to this very day.
The most recent creepy encounter was also with my mom but it was about 6 months ago. Iâm still not sure if this was us being paranoid or if we were being followed but it felt wrong. We went to the mall looking for shoes for my wedding and started at Belk. My mom had to use the restroom so I went off on my own and while I was browsing, I got annoyed with this guy wearing a baseball hat because he seemed to be constantly in my way or hovering. It struck me as odd that he kept ending up around me in the womenâs shoes section and I got annoyed with him quickly, shooting him a glare that seemed to back him off a bit. The aisles for shoes are short so I noticed him walking toward another man with a newsboy cap on the other side of the section with his arms crossed. I wouldnât have thought much of it except the two spoke briefly before baseball cap guy made another round through the section. Iâm not sure how to put it but they seemed out of place, like almost dirty or something, and I felt weirded out so I pulled out my phone to text my husband and pretended to look busy until my mom came back. She eyed the baseball cap guy lingering around but I felt much safer when she arrived, and I loudly complained a bit about the selection and âsurroundingsâ so we headed somewhere else. We went into a bunch of different stores and when we were on the other side of the mall at an Earthbound (trendy hippie store if youâre unfamiliar), my mom made a loud comment how she kept seeing a guy in the same stores we were in. In the moment, even though I did have a strange feeling, I waved it off to keep browsing since I donât go to the mall often and wanted to enjoy the day with my mom. She said she must be going crazy when I blew it off but the next store was when my momâs suspicions grew into a serious full blown anxiety attack. I honestly was still oblivious to this guy but I saw how she was looking around a lot, had us weaving through people and quickly going down aisles. Like I said, I still wasnât paying attention to the people around us so I bought a couple of things but as soon as I had my bags, my mom yanked me and rushed us out. While we were walking, she grew serious, kept glancing behind us and told me how she didnât feel right about this guy with a newsboy cap and thought we were being followed. I took a look back for myself and sure enough, the man she described, and I finally recognized him as the same guy I briefly saw in Belk an hour or so ago, just left the same store we did and was walking toward us. He was by himself, looking down, carrying no shopping bags. We ducked into the first store we came across and the employees picked up on our frantic and nervous energy. When asked if we were okay, we told them what was going on and they stood in front of us, hiding us from view and assured us that we were safe. We didnât see him (or the other guy with the baseball cap) after that but it spooked us to the point where we couldnât even enjoy our day out anymore so we went home.
This same mall is known to be unsafe and honestly, this whole city is rampant with human trafficking so even though it could have been just paranoia, we anticipated the worst. Interestingly enough, this same mall recently posted a policy that visitors under 18 need to be accompanied by an adult after 4pm on Friday and Saturdays along with safety guidelines on how to stay safe. So thereâs that.
Stay alert and aware of your surroundings. Trust your gut. I donât walk alone without my phone in my hand, and I call someone anytime Iâm in a parking lot or gas station. Itâs sad but itâs always been hard to ever feel safe when Iâm alone.
2024.05.16 10:11 RedSiren2 Parent's Day is full of woe (fanscript/fanepisode) (spoilers) (part 1)
heyo :) Didn't think I could, but I scripted an entire episode :D I like it - hope you too ^ Enjoy :)
(this episode is set in season 2 and based on theories and assumptions - and also starring some OCs XD for this episode, the entourage of Vincent Thorpe aka his bodyguards Cedric and Barnes and butler Davis)
Scene: Weathervane. Lucas is working behind the counter when he notices a lot of traffic noise. He looks out the side window front and sees a queue of cars heading for Nevermore. He sighs tristly, and turns back to his work with a somber expression.
Cut to the courtyard of the school. The group is already seated at their table â around them, the long ones for parent day are already being arranged.
Wednesday: I didnât think theyâd do another parent day so soon.
Enid: Well, they probably think the students can use seeing their families right now.
Bianca: (gloomy, not looking up from her phone) Most of them for sure.
Xavier: (looks at her, compationaletly) Is your mother coming?
Bianca: (coldly) I guess I really misjudged her. (her face twitches a little, as if she was holding back tears to some degree)
Xavier: (looks at her for another moment) Well⌠I can keep you company for sure today, since dad wonât show up. He didnât even bother with a text this time.
Bianca: (looking up from her phone) Thatâs weird.
Xavier: (shrugs) I guess he decided Iâm old enough now to know how things go. (he chuckles snidely) But I guess he really does have an appointment ⌠maybe business partners, maybe some... pretty company. Who knows. (snorts) Do you know the difference between the two?
Ajax: (cringes) Please no.
Wednesday: (not looking up from her book) The pretty company have limits what they do for money.
The table takes a moment, then breaks down in giggles. Wednesday smiles a little.
Xavier: (smirks, points at her, approving this punchline) Hm. Itâs actually their outfits when they try to get on his lab.
They chuckle a little again.
Xavier: (sighs) Heâd rather have someone else sitting on his that place his own behind on a bench at this stupid school for sure.
Bianca: (warningly) Xavier.
Xavier: (angrily) What? Itâs true! Anythingâs more important that his useless sonâs dumb parent day.
A voice behind him: Oh, I would never put it this way, dear boy.
Xavier freezes. He slowly turns around to where the others are looking. His father is standing at a gateway nearby, flanked by two bodyguards, smiling at him.
Xavier: What�
Vincent: My son.
He gets up and walks over to the trio, bewildered. Around him, some other parents are eyeing his father, strangely concerned.
Xavier: Why are you here?
Vincent: (chuckles) Why, itâs parent day. I came to see you.
Xavier: (stuttering) Y-yeah, I ⌠I guess ⌠b-butâŚ
Vincent wants to say something more, but his phone rings â itâs the overture of Swan Lake. He sighs and takes the call.
Vincent: (stepping away) Excuse me.
He leaves with one of his bodyguards. The other and Xavier stay behind as he walks away, looking after him until heâs far enough away and busy talking. Then they turn to each other, hugging briefly, but tightly.
Xavier: Ced!
Cedric: (chuckles) How are you slugger.
Xavier: (smiles, pats his back as he lets go) Pretty good, I suppose.
Cedric: (turning to their table) Is this the new crowd?
Xavier: Yeah, erm â thatâs Enid (she waves), Eugene (waves too) and Wednesday (doesnât move, just stares at him).
Cedric: Yes, letâs see â (pointing at them) the nice new roommate, and Ajaxâ girlfriend, and (chuckles) Addams, of course.
Xavier: (rolls his eyes) Come on now.
Cedric: What? I know who she is.
Wednesday: Does he talk about other things currently?
Cedric: (shrugs) You know how boys his age are.
Xavier: (groans) Why?
Cedric: Still not saying anything. You wonât be this lucky with your dad.
Xavier: (looks at him, concerned) ⌠Iâm in trouble, right?
Cedric: (sighs) You think?
Bianca: This isnât our fault, if he asks. We try to keep him out of it.
Wednesday: Itâs true.
The others nod. Xavier rolls his eyes.
Cedric: I figured that, donât worry. (smiles at them)
Him and Xavier exchange a look, Cedric shaking his head at him a little, but his expression remains gentle.
Xavier: (shurgs) Boys my age do dumb things, right? Who would hold that against me?
Vincent: (calls from the hallway) Xavier!
Cedric: (looks over at him, then back at Xavier) You know who.
Xavier sighs, then walks over to his father with Cedric. Before he can say anything however, Vincent interrupts.
Vincent: Iâd like to see your new art.
Xavier: (sighs) Sure.
They walk away.
The group looks on. Enid leans over to Bianca and Ajax.
Enid: Itâs bad, right?
They nod slowly.
Esther Sinclair: (calling from nearby) Enid!
Enid: (sighs)
Thing: (pats her hand)
Esther: (walks into the courtyard, smiling) Thereâs my little she-wolf!
Enid: (gets up, smiling â Ajax follows her)
Gomez: (coming in next to her) We must have the same daughter. (to Wednesday) Mia lupita!
Wednesday: (smiles a little as her parents and Pugsley enter the courtyard, and gets up to greet them as well)
Esther hugs Enid tightly. She eyes Ajax as he greets Enidâs father Murray, shaking his hand. Ajax turns to her as well as Enid hugs her dad â she smiles, but before he can say anything, his phone buzzes.
Ajax: Oh, my moms will be at the parking lot in a minute. (he kisses Enid on the cheek and walks off) Excuse me. Was a pleasure to meet you. (nods to them) Ma'am. Sir.
Enidâs parents smile at him, but Estherâs drops very quickly after heâs left.
Eugene: (sighs, turns to Bianca, whoâs looking at her phone tristly) You wanna get another coffee from the cafeteria before the big storms?
Bianca: (sighs) Why not. Maybe itâll be bitter enough today to give us a proper gastritis. Or just make us sick. We could use that, right?
They chuckle a little, then get up to leave.
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(this episode is set in season 2 and based on theories and assumptions - and also starring some OCs XD for this episode, the entourage of Vincent Thorpe aka his bodyguards Cedric and Barnes and butler Davis)
Cut to the courtyard of the school. The group is already seated at their table â around them, the long ones for parent day are already being arranged.
Wednesday: I didnât think theyâd do another parent day so soon.
Enid: Well, they probably think the students can use seeing their families right now.
Bianca: (gloomy, not looking up from her phone) Most of them for sure.
Xavier: (looks at her, compationaletly) Is your mother coming?
Bianca: (coldly) I guess I really misjudged her. (her face twitches a little, as if she was holding back tears to some degree)
Xavier: (looks at her for another moment) Well⌠I can keep you company for sure today, since dad wonât show up. He didnât even bother with a text this time.
Bianca: (looking up from her phone) Thatâs weird.
Xavier: (shrugs) I guess he decided Iâm old enough now to know how things go. (he chuckles snidely) But I guess he really does have an appointment ⌠maybe business partners, maybe some... pretty company. Who knows. (snorts) Do you know the difference between the two?
Ajax: (cringes) Please no.
Wednesday: (not looking up from her book) The pretty company have limits what they do for money.
The table takes a moment, then breaks down in giggles. Wednesday smiles a little.
Xavier: (smirks, points at her, approving this punchline) Hm. Itâs actually their outfits when they try to get on his lab.
They chuckle a little again.
Xavier: (sighs) Heâd rather have someone else sitting on his that place his own behind on a bench at this stupid school for sure.
Bianca: (warningly) Xavier.
Xavier: (angrily) What? Itâs true! Anythingâs more important that his useless sonâs dumb parent day.
A voice behind him: Oh, I would never put it this way, dear boy.
Xavier freezes. He slowly turns around to where the others are looking. His father is standing at a gateway nearby, flanked by two bodyguards, smiling at him.
Xavier: What�
Vincent: My son.
He gets up and walks over to the trio, bewildered. Around him, some other parents are eyeing his father, strangely concerned.
Xavier: Why are you here?
Vincent: (chuckles) Why, itâs parent day. I came to see you.
Xavier: (stuttering) Y-yeah, I ⌠I guess ⌠b-butâŚ
Vincent wants to say something more, but his phone rings â itâs the overture of Swan Lake. He sighs and takes the call.
Vincent: (stepping away) Excuse me.
He leaves with one of his bodyguards. The other and Xavier stay behind as he walks away, looking after him until heâs far enough away and busy talking. Then they turn to each other, hugging briefly, but tightly.
Xavier: Ced!
Cedric: (chuckles) How are you slugger.
Xavier: (smiles, pats his back as he lets go) Pretty good, I suppose.
Cedric: (turning to their table) Is this the new crowd?
Xavier: Yeah, erm â thatâs Enid (she waves), Eugene (waves too) and Wednesday (doesnât move, just stares at him).
Cedric: Yes, letâs see â (pointing at them) the nice new roommate, and Ajaxâ girlfriend, and (chuckles) Addams, of course.
Xavier: (rolls his eyes) Come on now.
Cedric: What? I know who she is.
Wednesday: Does he talk about other things currently?
Cedric: (shrugs) You know how boys his age are.
Xavier: (groans) Why?
Cedric: Still not saying anything. You wonât be this lucky with your dad.
Xavier: (looks at him, concerned) ⌠Iâm in trouble, right?
Cedric: (sighs) You think?
Bianca: This isnât our fault, if he asks. We try to keep him out of it.
Wednesday: Itâs true.
The others nod. Xavier rolls his eyes.
Cedric: I figured that, donât worry. (smiles at them)
Him and Xavier exchange a look, Cedric shaking his head at him a little, but his expression remains gentle.
Xavier: (shurgs) Boys my age do dumb things, right? Who would hold that against me?
Vincent: (calls from the hallway) Xavier!
Cedric: (looks over at him, then back at Xavier) You know who.
Xavier sighs, then walks over to his father with Cedric. Before he can say anything however, Vincent interrupts.
Vincent: Iâd like to see your new art.
Xavier: (sighs) Sure.
They walk away.
The group looks on. Enid leans over to Bianca and Ajax.
Enid: Itâs bad, right?
They nod slowly.
Esther Sinclair: (calling from nearby) Enid!
Enid: (sighs)
Thing: (pats her hand)
Esther: (walks into the courtyard, smiling) Thereâs my little she-wolf!
Enid: (gets up, smiling â Ajax follows her)
Gomez: (coming in next to her) We must have the same daughter. (to Wednesday) Mia lupita!
Wednesday: (smiles a little as her parents and Pugsley enter the courtyard, and gets up to greet them as well)
Esther hugs Enid tightly. She eyes Ajax as he greets Enidâs father Murray, shaking his hand. Ajax turns to her as well as Enid hugs her dad â she smiles, but before he can say anything, his phone buzzes.
Ajax: Oh, my moms will be at the parking lot in a minute. (he kisses Enid on the cheek and walks off) Excuse me. Was a pleasure to meet you. (nods to them) Ma'am. Sir.
Enidâs parents smile at him, but Estherâs drops very quickly after heâs left.
Eugene: (sighs, turns to Bianca, whoâs looking at her phone tristly) You wanna get another coffee from the cafeteria before the big storms?
Bianca: (sighs) Why not. Maybe itâll be bitter enough today to give us a proper gastritis. Or just make us sick. We could use that, right?
They chuckle a little, then get up to leave.
2024.05.16 10:11 adulting4kids Emotional Words
- Sonder - the realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own.
- Ănouement - the bittersweetness of having
arrived in the future and seeing how things turned out differently than expected. - Chrysalism - the amniotic tranquility of being inside during a thunderstorm.
- Monachopsis - the subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place.
- Liberosis - the desire to care less about things
- Anecdoche - a conversation in which everyone is talking, but nobody is listening.
- Jouska - a hypothetical conversation that you compulsively play out in your head.
- Nighthawk - a recurring thought that only seems to strike you late at night.
- Occhiolism - the awareness of the smallness of your perspective.
- Lachesism - the desire to be struck by disaster, to survive a plane crash or to lose everything in a fire.
- Rubatosis - the unsettling awareness of your own heartbeat.
- Exulansis - the tendency to give up trying to talk about an experience because people are unable to relate to it.
- Wanderlust - the desire to explore the world and meet new people.
- Limerence - the intense, involuntary emotional state where a person feels infatuated with another person.
- Altschmerz - weariness with the same old issues that you've always had.
- Chiasmus - a figure of speech in which the order of terms in the first of two parallel clauses is reversed in the second.
- Hiraeth - a homesickness for a home you can't return to, or that never was.
- Xenization - the feeling of being alienated or out of place when in a foreign country.
- Petrichor - the pleasant, earthy scent produced when rain falls on dry soil.
- Ineffable - too great or extreme to be expressed or described in words.
- Resfeber - the nervousness and excitement felt before a journey.
- Avenoir - the desire that memory could flow backward.
- Adronitis - frustration with how long it takes to get to know someone.
- Sillage - the lingering scent left behind by someone's perfume.
- Utepils - the first beer enjoyed outdoors in the sunshine.
- Lalochezia - the emotional relief gained by using strong language.
- Furtive - attempting to avoid notice or attention.
- Mnemophobia - the fear of memories.
- Clinomania - excessive desire to stay in bed.
- Agog - very eager or excited.
- Vagary - an unexpected and inexplicable change in a situation or in someone's behavior.
- Ephemeral - lasting for a very short time.
- Thalassophile - a lover of the sea.
- Psithurism - the sound of rustling leaves or wind through trees.
- Obfuscate - deliberately make something unclear or difficult to understand.
- Scintilla - a tiny trace or spark of a specified quality or feeling.
- Sapiosexual - finding intelligence sexually attractive or arousing.
- Dissemble - conceal one's true motives, feelings, or beliefs.
- Mellifluous - (of a voice or words) sweet or musical; pleasant to hear.
- Vicissitude - a change of circumstances or fortune, typically one that is unwelcome or unpleasant.
- Disparate - essentially different in kind; not allowing comparison.
- Plenitude - an abundance.
- Perfidious - deceitful and untrustworthy.
- Sycophant - a person who acts obsequiously toward someone important in order to gain advantage.
- Ennui - a feeling of listlessness and dissatisfaction arising from a lack of occupation or excitement.
- Supercilious - behaving or looking as though one thinks one is superior to others.
- Juxtapose - place or deal with close together for contrasting effect.
- Ineffable - too great or extreme to be expressed or described in words.
- Quixotic - extremely idealistic; unrealistic and impractical.
2024.05.16 10:07 Thin_Crazy_3685 SheraSeven notes
Someone here about a month ago asked for a summary or notes on Sheras teachings and I cant seem to find it anymore, so I will list here some of the things I have noted.
⢠Have a goal in mind
⢠Stay feminine
⢠Dont talk about your personal business, family/exes/private personal life heavy on the exes!
⢠if he tries to have sex immediately and heâs all sex sex sex just tell them âOkay maybe this isnât going to work out, but I have the perfect friend for you who likes your type. Her name is Alexa, Iâll send her number to you. She is soo free spiritedâ or just blatantly ask for money if heâs that rude.
⢠if he asks for your body count, ask about his bank account (only dusties ask this)
⢠He needs to like you more than you like him
⢠Spend his money
⢠Allow him to cheat, dont try to control any man
⢠All men are the same, their income isnât
⢠Whatever comes out of a mans mouth, reverse it
⢠If you want him to love you, love yourself not him
⢠Men want what they cant have
⢠Emotions and fighting. Treat him like your boss in that sense, you dont get messy with your boss either.
⢠Emotions are better if you act them
⢠Laugh at his jokes
⢠Let him do the talking, and dont correct him. You want to make him feel good about himself around you.
⢠Tell them you dont have sex outside of relationships
⢠Exculisivity costs money, youâre not 3rd graders with post-it cards asking to be their girlfriend.
⢠If they say something you dont like give them an ugly look
⢠If he doesnt fix his issues within a week heâs a dusty. (E.g car breaks down etc.)
⢠âI donât deal with men who cant keep their word and are secretly brokeâ
⢠Dusties run away on their own if given a financial burden
⢠Always have a financial problem as a reason why you havent texted back or are unable to see them.
⢠Donât be too available
⢠I look for what a man can do for me, offer me. I make him feel good, and elevate him
⢠When he makes time for you, you make time for him. And make sure that your time is being compensated, wheter itâs experience or material, or money
⢠Have several options
⢠Itâs all about him stroke his ego
⢠You are the prize !!!!
⢠Ask him for help for free stuff first then he doesnât have a problem with problems that cost
⢠Pay attention to details and make mental notes about him
⢠Dont sleep on the first date
⢠You cant change a dusty, a dusty will change themselves
⢠Be their weakness
⢠Say âIâm very attracted to youâ to ugly men
⢠Be emotionally reclusive
⢠Let him pick the place for the date but know in advance so you can ghost if itâs a cheap coffee shop
⢠Believe the red flags
⢠Talk slow and sensual
⢠Act like you dont need him at all
⢠Only being sexual, giving sex, talking about sex, initiating sex is being a pickmeisha. Use your other assets, such as voice, eyes, body language, humor, appearance
⢠If you want to be a pickmeisha, be one to a bank account
⢠Confidence and being the prize is in your mind, there is no tutorial for it
⢠Dont outshine him in gift giving
⢠If youâre talking and heâs not listening, ask âDo you hear me? I want your opinion on this youâre so smart after allâ you train him subconciously to listen and react to you while giving him a compliment
⢠Everytime you stress about a man, wheter heâs seeing other people etc. Reverse it. Why isnât he stressed about you?
⢠You can be a pickmeisha to get their attention if you immediatly go back to yourself
⢠Dont carry the conversation
⢠Men tend to be seduced by looks, women by words. Be careful heâs not all talk, but actions too.
⢠When they give you the silent treatment, you act like they arent giving you the silent treatment because youre not talking to him anyway and that way it wont work on you
⢠âOh baby yeah I cant wait itâs just going to be so great, but I have to get to know you a little better first. It makes it more passionate for me, and I know you want to please me, right? I cant just sleep with anybody I barely know, itâs not exciting for me.â
⢠He should have more than 1 income
⢠Date dusties and for fun when young, start dating for funds at 23
⢠If he tries to come back, have a list of things you want and make him complete all of them.
⢠Play dumb
⢠If you playing the game correctly you shouldnât be worried about commitment
⢠âHow you doing?â âOh I was doing bad but now that you called Iâm feeling much betterâ
⢠Being unbothered holds actual power
⢠If a man ghosts you or has other options you dont care
⢠Dont approach men, but you can always pass them the ball
â˘In order to take things slow with a man you need to have high values
⢠My brain doesnt understand less
⢠âItâs been a while since I met a handsome succesful man thatâs not afraid to impress a womanâ
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⢠Have a goal in mind
⢠Stay feminine
⢠Dont talk about your personal business, family/exes/private personal life heavy on the exes!
⢠if he tries to have sex immediately and heâs all sex sex sex just tell them âOkay maybe this isnât going to work out, but I have the perfect friend for you who likes your type. Her name is Alexa, Iâll send her number to you. She is soo free spiritedâ or just blatantly ask for money if heâs that rude.
⢠if he asks for your body count, ask about his bank account (only dusties ask this)
⢠He needs to like you more than you like him
⢠Spend his money
⢠Allow him to cheat, dont try to control any man
⢠All men are the same, their income isnât
⢠Whatever comes out of a mans mouth, reverse it
⢠If you want him to love you, love yourself not him
⢠Men want what they cant have
⢠Emotions and fighting. Treat him like your boss in that sense, you dont get messy with your boss either.
⢠Emotions are better if you act them
⢠Laugh at his jokes
⢠Let him do the talking, and dont correct him. You want to make him feel good about himself around you.
⢠Tell them you dont have sex outside of relationships
⢠Exculisivity costs money, youâre not 3rd graders with post-it cards asking to be their girlfriend.
⢠If they say something you dont like give them an ugly look
⢠If he doesnt fix his issues within a week heâs a dusty. (E.g car breaks down etc.)
⢠âI donât deal with men who cant keep their word and are secretly brokeâ
⢠Dusties run away on their own if given a financial burden
⢠Always have a financial problem as a reason why you havent texted back or are unable to see them.
⢠Donât be too available
⢠I look for what a man can do for me, offer me. I make him feel good, and elevate him
⢠When he makes time for you, you make time for him. And make sure that your time is being compensated, wheter itâs experience or material, or money
⢠Have several options
⢠Itâs all about him stroke his ego
⢠You are the prize !!!!
⢠Ask him for help for free stuff first then he doesnât have a problem with problems that cost
⢠Pay attention to details and make mental notes about him
⢠Dont sleep on the first date
⢠You cant change a dusty, a dusty will change themselves
⢠Be their weakness
⢠Say âIâm very attracted to youâ to ugly men
⢠Be emotionally reclusive
⢠Let him pick the place for the date but know in advance so you can ghost if itâs a cheap coffee shop
⢠Believe the red flags
⢠Talk slow and sensual
⢠Act like you dont need him at all
⢠Only being sexual, giving sex, talking about sex, initiating sex is being a pickmeisha. Use your other assets, such as voice, eyes, body language, humor, appearance
⢠If you want to be a pickmeisha, be one to a bank account
⢠Confidence and being the prize is in your mind, there is no tutorial for it
⢠Dont outshine him in gift giving
⢠If youâre talking and heâs not listening, ask âDo you hear me? I want your opinion on this youâre so smart after allâ you train him subconciously to listen and react to you while giving him a compliment
⢠Everytime you stress about a man, wheter heâs seeing other people etc. Reverse it. Why isnât he stressed about you?
⢠You can be a pickmeisha to get their attention if you immediatly go back to yourself
⢠Dont carry the conversation
⢠Men tend to be seduced by looks, women by words. Be careful heâs not all talk, but actions too.
⢠When they give you the silent treatment, you act like they arent giving you the silent treatment because youre not talking to him anyway and that way it wont work on you
⢠âOh baby yeah I cant wait itâs just going to be so great, but I have to get to know you a little better first. It makes it more passionate for me, and I know you want to please me, right? I cant just sleep with anybody I barely know, itâs not exciting for me.â
⢠He should have more than 1 income
⢠Date dusties and for fun when young, start dating for funds at 23
⢠If he tries to come back, have a list of things you want and make him complete all of them.
⢠Play dumb
⢠If you playing the game correctly you shouldnât be worried about commitment
⢠âHow you doing?â âOh I was doing bad but now that you called Iâm feeling much betterâ
⢠Being unbothered holds actual power
⢠If a man ghosts you or has other options you dont care
⢠Dont approach men, but you can always pass them the ball
â˘In order to take things slow with a man you need to have high values
⢠My brain doesnt understand less
⢠âItâs been a while since I met a handsome succesful man thatâs not afraid to impress a womanâ
2024.05.16 10:07 AdamantAce The New Titans #9 - War Dove
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Issue Nine: War Dove
Written by AdamantAce, GemlinTheGremlin & PatrollinTheMojave
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âRaven!â
Sladeâs gruff voice pierced through the deafening, wave-like roars in Ravenâs head, but the rage was too much to bear. Her hands sizzled as hellfire danced in her palms, her body readying for another attack. She locked eyes with a reptilian soldier, dismounting his simian steed and charging on foot, but as she lunged forwards to strike him, she watched a man fly into her path. Slade Wilson caught the young Titanâs hand and pushed, throwing Raven backwards.
âCome on, kid, snap out of it!â But as Sladeâs words fell on deaf ears, he felt the familiar sting of a fist to his jaw, a crack echoing in his ears. He recoiled from the attack but powered through his injury and stood his ground. Sinking his heels into the ground, he locked eyes with the girl before him. Her face seemed contorted and uncanny, as if all of the rage she was feeling was pouring out of her. She groaned angrily as she thrusted her head downwards, her forehead making contact with Sladeâs teeth, before pulling her head back up again in preparation for another attack.
Before she could make one, however, one of the lizardmen had almost reached the warring duoâs sides, and as he lunged forward with his long spear, he made contact with Ravenâs side. A small rip formed in the side of Ravenâs outfit, which seemed to only anger her further. However, it did seem to distract her enough; Marâi fired off a single Starbolt which struck only the ground - a warning shot.
âRaven! Please!â the half-Tamaranean cried out. But the Raven she knew was buried under unfathomable amounts of fury; she ignored her teammateâs call and instead flew forwards and swung out at the reptiloid. The strike glowed with red flame, sending the creature skidding across the floor, barely conscious. Slade spotted a flash of something else on her face, as if she was finally able to fight back against the endless rage - pain, perhaps, or anguish. But in an instant, it was gone.
That flicker of something other than white-hot anger was enough for Slade.
He clutched his side as his still open wound began to ache, the bandages feeling wet with fresh blood. His jaw felt crooked, and as he gritted his teeth, it felt as though they sat differently atop each other. And yet, he clutched his staff tightly in one hand, and with the other he beckoned to Raven.
âKid, youâre fighting it, I know you are!â Slade felt his mouth filling with blood rather than saliva.
Within a moment, Ravenâs attention was locked on the white-haired man once again. She fired bolt after bolt of black and red flame, but Slade was still dextrous despite his pain. He dodged and dived, weaving through the fire, until he finally managed to make contact with his opponent. He drove his staff into her chest and pushed his weight against the weapon, forcing her backwards. She rose into the air, a black mist pouring from her arms and over her face, a large ghostly corvid taking her place. He felt the deathly cold shadow of the birdâs wing fall over him, his feet leaving the ground as she scooped him into the air.
He looked down at the ground far beneath him. A fall from this height would kill anyone, he thought, let alone someone beaten half to death.
Then, as a verdant bolt of energy struck it in the side, Ravenâs Soul Self shrieked and the shadows retreated inwards. Slade felt himself falling through the air for a second, then two, before he felt his back collide with something soft and cushioned. As he looked up, he met the gaze of Conner, who soared to the ground in an instant, placing the snow-haired man on the ground and giving a swift nod.
Raven let out a pained, frustrated yell as she returned to the ground, aided by a grappling line expertly positioned by Tim, and in response, Conner jetted off towards the sound of her cries. Sladeâs feet faltered beneath him, and he stumbled to keep his balance. His breathing was laboured and his vision was becoming fuzzy. It felt as though, he realised, all the blood loss and violence he had suffered over the past few hours were finally catching up to him. Was this what dying felt like?
âSlade!â shouted a voice, followed by the dulled drumming of hurried footsteps. Slade pulled his hand across his face to wipe away the mental haze and drops of blood. It was Don, sprinting towards him. When Slade felt Don clasp him by shoulders, he realized just how slowed he was by his injuries. âPlan?,â Slade coughed out.
âYouâve seen what she can do. I only see one way out of these without one of the kids getting hurt. Iâd do it myself, but Iâm out of practice and this is too important to leave to chance.â Don looked around anxiously, his face betraying that he had a lot on his mind. âIâm giving you the powers of a god.â Slade opened his mouth to ask a question, a million came to mind. He glanced across the battlefield. Through a blurry film, he saw Ravenâs Soul Self bat Conner away with its wing. He careened into the trunk of a thick tree, uprooting it with a deep crunch. âAre you sure?,â Slade asked, breathless.
âIâm not losing another Titan.â Don squeezed his eyes shut. His grip on Slade tightened as pale, almost blinding light enveloped them. It felt warm. No, better than that: it felt peaceful. With his enhanced senses, Slade could hear his erratic heartbeat slow. Fleeting visions bubbled up in his mind, opening up his awareness beyond the wildest dreams of Project Veritas. He felt rivers of magical energy flowing through the air and earth. Each of them spiralled towards a depression. Towards Raven, he knew instinctively. Iridescent blue light spread outward from his shoulders. It washed over his body armor, bleaching the jet black panels until his entire body shone with radiance. The pain from wounds old and new faded, replaced by serenity - and power. Don opened his eyes again and sighed gently; a concoction and joy, relief, and quiet mourning.
âThere,â Don remarked. Slade felt lighter, less angry, less burdened. He looked down at the iridescent light enveloping his body. Magical energy buzzed against the surface of his skin. âThe powers of the Dove - officially yours.â
Slade sucked in a nervous breath. âDonâŚâ Even rejuvenated, he was still lost for words.
âTheyâre yours now,â Don smiled weakly. âNow go earn them. Thereâs a Titan in dire need of our help.â
Conner floated out of the dense jungle, rubbing his forehead. âIs Slade glowing or do I have a concussion?â
Slade looked over at Raven. She seemed less erratic, her movements driven by her brain rather than her gut. Timâs staff batted fiercely against her, each strike buffeting her back more and more, but it was clear to Slade that Raven was not any weaker physically - her mind, however, was another story.
Slade began marching towards her, the ache in his side dulled. âRaven. Youâre strong. Fight this rage inside of you.â Raven glared at him, a spark of something in her eyes, as she swooped in towards him at top speed. As she neared him, however, Slade readied his staff, stretching it out in front of him. As the tip of the weapon struck Raven, a beam of white energy coursed through her, as if she had been struck by lightning, and her body was flung backwards across the dirt.
Slade danced a hand over his rifle, but something felt different. He pulled it into his hands and inspected it swiftly; nothing seemed out of order. Raven rose slowly from her supine position, snarling softly to herself. Her movements had slowed, the expression on her face becoming closer to horror than rage. She was doing it.
âYouâre nearly there, kid,â Slade soothed, his words suddenly like butter. He watched Ravenâs shoulders start to relax. âThatâs it. Just fight this, Raven. Youâre almost there.â
Despite her tremendous progress, Ravenâs blistering fury won out once more, and she charged a large bolt of hellfire in her hands. Slade fiddled with his rifle and crossed his fingers. There was a standstill between the two. Slade analysed his rifle again; there was something different about the barrel, as if it had been swapped out for another similar model. The stock felt lighter, too, as if the weight had beenâ
Raven roared at him, swiping wildly with glowing fists, and in an instant Slade instinctively pulled the trigger.
What fired from the gun was not a silvery bullet, but a familiar glowing bolt of white light, cloud-like in appearance. As it struck Raven, she sucked in a deep breath, the energy engulfing her. Her face softened and her posture relaxed. Then she swung out for the manâs weakened side, his bandages poking through the aura of light. And yet, as he stayed steadfast, not even attempting to dodge the attack. Sparks flew from the point of contact. Slade just readied another shot and fired.
Her body swayed with the blow. Slade closed the gap between them and focused on the new warmth he felt, concentrating it into his staff as best he could. Then, as he held it out in front of him at armâs length, he swiped at Raven and struck her in the side of the shoulder. Each blow seemed to be more effective than the last, but as Ravenâs movements continued to slow, Slade held fire.
âYouâre doing it, Raven,â Slade encouraged. He watched as the other Titans surrounded Raven, each of them ready for any further attacks. Everyone watched with bated breath as their teammate and friend thrashed and recoiled from the hit. Her breathing was rapid, although it felt closer to panic than unabashed fury. She clasped her hands over her head, groaning. Then, suddenly, she stopped.
Her face had softened completely, her jaw slack, and tears filled her vision. She looked up at Slade with a comfort in her eyes. The aura emanating from him was pervasive and contagious, and although she had felt lost in a sea of impossibly vast emotions, its warmth and comfort cut through. The anger was still there somewhat, the last remaining dregs still working its way out of her system, but the comfort, the peace that Slade was providing was the anchor for her to stabilise herself. She had only ever seen this kind of power when DonâŚ
Ravenâs eyes widened as she realised what that meant. She collapsed to her knees, suddenly feeling the bone-deep fatigue her rage had suppressed. Her teammates rushed in around her. Marâi dropped to a knee by her side and put a hand on her shoulder. âItâs OK. Youâre safe. Everyoneâs OK.â
âDon Iâmââ She wiped away a stream of tears, stumbling her way out of the emotional vortex sheâd been sucked into. âIâm so sorry. I donât know what happened. Iâve lost control before, but never like this.â
Don looked older. Creases ran across his forehead and around his eyes. His smile hadnât changed. âRaven, my brother and I got those powers when I was a kid. We didnât ask for them. We werenât ready for them. We didnât know how to use them, let alone control them.â He laughed dryly, recalling Hank. âI donât regret anything. Giving my powers to Slade is the best thing Iâve done with them in years. I know Hank would feel the same way.â
In the moment of silence that followed, Raven rose to her feet and pulled her cloak tightly around herself. She was still shaking. Timâs eyes drifted from her to Slade. âSomethingâs gnawing at me. Kestrelâs powers are weakened in Skartaris. DonâsâŚâ He coughed, âSladeâs powers are amplified. If this place is what affected youââ
Marâiâs face flashed with recognition, ââyour powers must be tied to the Lords of Order and Chaos!â
Tim furrowed his brow. âMaybe.â He hardly had time to consider further when a thundering crack tore open the sky. Two bolts of swirling energy - one red and one blue - met above them, forming a swirling portal at their vertex. The Titans readied their weapons, expecting the worst.
âItâs them.â Slade murmured, still put off by his uncanny awareness. Terataya and TâCharr descended from the sky, one wreathed in mist, the other, magma. The two elementals stopped a few feet above the ground, hovering.
Terataya was the first to speak. Even at a whisper, her voice reverberated through the air. âI donât usually care for surprises, Don, but this was a pleasant one.â A thin smile appeared on her face.
âSlade Wilson.â Teratayaâs neck turned at an unnatural angle to face him. âYou wield the powers of Order with great skill. Who understands the dangers of unchecked War better than a soldier. Become my champion. Protect the balance.â
Slade took a step back, then glanced at Don.
âSheâs right.â Don said, with only a hint of hesitation. âIt took me years to use the powers like you used them today. Youâre a natural.â
Slade looked at his hands, still gently pulsing with pale blue light. âThanks.â He allowed himself a weak smile. âBut no thanks.â
âWhat.â TâCharrâs voice boomed.
âIt doesnât take Zatanna to realize an old soldier like me makes a piss-poor Avatar of Peace. I fight for a living, and Iâm not deluded enough to think that makes me good at anything but fighting. If you want someone who understands the need for balance, Don just sacrificed everything special about him for it.â
Don raised an eyebrow. âNone taken.â
âHis actions today were noble, but they do not make up for years spent squandering the gift.â
âSquandering? The Titans wouldnât exist today if he hadnât pulled them together. Everything theyâve done. Everything theyâve achieved for your balance wouldnât have happened without him, including stopping that monster you made.â
âWatch your tone, mortal.â TâCharr threatened.
âThere may be a vein of truth to his words, lover.â Terataya said. âBut *if we were to restore Don Hallâs power, we would need assurances. His indecision led down this path.â*
Rocks ground against each other as TâCharr landed beside Don. âYou would have weeks, not years, to select a counterpart and return to your duties.â
Donâs response was instantaneous. âIâve made a decision.â
âYouâve decided if youâll take up the mantle of Dove again?â
Don nodded. âAnd who should be the new Hawk.â
Terataya giggled. âFull of surprises today. TâCharr?â
âWe should discuss this.â He said. âIn private.â
The three of them vanished, leaving the Titans and Slade alone on a battlefield riddled with bits of dino meat and ape fur.
ââ â ââ
âYou donât think theyâre gonna come back in like, 200 years, right?â Conner asked. He sat beside the depowered Slade Wilson, who was downing aspirin to make up for the sudden deficit in peace energy.
âI donât know.â Tim said. âBut we should give them more than fifteen minutes.â
As if on cue, the skies opened again. Again, the chromatic energy lit the sky and again a portal opened its swirling maw. This time, however, it wasnât two elemental Lords to descend. Raven squinted to make the figures out.
âOh my god.â Conner said, having a far easier time with his super-vision.
âWhat? Who is it?â Tim asked.
âDonna!â Marâi shouted. She shot off the ground towards her. Her black combat armor was replaced with a crimson and white bodysuit studded with stars that seemed to twinkle as the light shifted around her. The sword at her side was gone too, replaced with a coiled loop of rope suffused with the same brilliant energy. The two collided into an embrace, spinning through the air as they held each other tightly.
Don was the first to land, restored with the powers of Dove. He looked stronger than ever, and maybe more importantly, happier. Even Timâs typical thoughtful brooding has been pierced by an unimpeachable joy.
âI donât understand,.â Raven said. âS-Sheâs alive. How is this possible?â
âI knew there was only one person who could be trusted with the powers of War, with Hankâs abilities.â He scratched the back of his neck, a bit guilty. âAnd sheâd been staring me in the face for years. It took some doing, but eventually TâCharr and Terataya saw that too.â
Donna landed beside him, Marâi only a step behind. By now Conner had stepped forward. He tried not to choke over his words. âIâm sorry. If Iâdââ
Donna didnât let him get the words out before pulling him into a grapple-turned-hug that quickly grew as the rest of the team piled in. Slade flicked another aspirin into his mouth.
âDanyah!â A voice called out from over the ridge. It was Travis, mounted atop a fanged reptilian creature in the vague shape of a horse and flanked on either side by his gold-armored honor guard. He broke into a gallop, stopping just short of the Titans. âWhen I saw the skies, I feared the worst. Is it really you? Has sorcery brought you back to us?â
âItâs me, Travis. A Lord of Chaos brought me back.â
âNot to interrupt,.â Slade said, still nursing his wounds. âBut did either of you ask them to bring us back to Chicago?â
âIâŚâ Don grimaced. âDonna, how do we get home?â
âHow did you get here? Surely you could return the way you came.â Travis said.
âNo, we canât.â Tim said, pressing a few buttons on his wristâs holographic display. âWhatever magic pervades Skartaris is also causing some extreme time dilation. I canât guarantee weâd return to the 21st century, or even to Earth.â
âI spent a decade in Skartaris and returned to Earth nearly two centuries later. Itâs the influence of Chaos. Weâd need a Skartaran mage of overwhelming power to stabilize our return.â She spat the word mage with disgust. Travisâs expression seemed to confirm the reputation of Skartaran spellcasters.
Before their anxiety could spiral, the sky above began to churn. Moments later, the ground shook as a violent bolt of lightning cleaved the air, striking with such ferocity that all but Conner and Donna were flung backward. Mar'i skidded across the damp undergrowth, her senses overwhelmed by the acrid scent of ozone. Her mind was racing; their victory was hard fought, and she doubted they had much left in the tank for another confrontation. She dug her hands into the ground and pushed herself up as she choked from the smell. The Warlord Morgan and his military guards snapped to attention, forming a protective ring around the crater that now marred the earth.
From the smoking pit, a figure rose, unfolding from a crouch like something out of Terminator. Adorned in a red and white jumpsuit that accentuated his lithe build, the young man's appearance was marked by a red cowl and goggles, with sandy brown hair rebelliously spilling out.
Conner squinted through the dissipating smoke, murmuring under his breath, âA speedster?â The Flashes had had a variety of different sidekicks and other allies over the years, but none of them recognised this one
With a nonchalant flair that seemed at odds with the charged atmosphere, the newcomer greeted them. âHey, everyone chillax. I'm here to get you guys back home.â
Donna, ever the leader, stepped forward and spoke with a commanding curiosity, now emboldened with the war aura of Hawk. âAnd who are you exactly? Why should we trust you with such a claim?â
Flashing a cheeky grin, he tilted his head and responded, âWell, Iâm a speedster for one. Nameâs Impulse. If I run fast enough, then I can⌠well, I guess bend time.â
Behind Donna, the group exchanged sceptical glances. Raven's face remained shadowed by recovery, Mar'i and Conner braced for action, and Tim discretely checked his gadgets, no doubt for something that he could use on a speedster should the need arise.
âYeah, we figured that much,â Don cut through the tension, his voice calm yet insistent. âWho sent you?â
Impulse chuckled, his demeanour remaining unfazed by their scrutiny. âLook, the details aren't the fun part. Trust me, I can get us back.â
As a silence thick with doubt and scepticism settled over the group, Impulse seemed to realise his casual assurances weren't sufficient. With a theatrical sigh, he reached up and removed his mask, revealing a face familiar to both Mar'i and Raven.
âBrody!?â Mar'i exclaimed, her surprise echoing through the clearing as she stared at the boy who had once hobbled through their college classes with his leg in a cast.
The young manâs grin widened, his eyes sparkling with mischief and a hint of pride. âActually, itâs Bart.â
ââ â ââ
When Slade emerged from the shower, his skin was glistening with moisture, the water tracing the contours of his scars. He wrapped a stark white towel around his waist, and crossed the plush carpet to sit on the edge of the hotel room bed. He released a slow, deep breath; it was a good job the speedster kid arrived when he did. The notion of being stranded in an alien land or, worse, a different time had gnawed at him with a ferocity that was hard to admit. Without Bartâs intervention, every one of Sladeâs meticulously crafted plans would have been utterly dashed.
Facing him, a wall-mounted mirror caught his rugged reflection. Drawn to his own image, Slade studied the scars that mapped his trials, the slick white hair that crowned his head, and the deep lines etched into his face. A familiar discomfort nagged at him, focusing his attention on his right eye. Unable to alleviate the irritation through the skin, Slade exhaled heavily and carefully removed the eye altogether. The movement, fluid and practised, spoke of years of adaptation.
He placed the prosthetic gently on the bed beside him and as he massaged the socket, a decades-old habit, his mind wandered. He wasn't accustomed to keeping the prosthetic in for extended periods. Showering with it had been an uncomfortable experiment in necessity - he didn't like it, but understood the importance of maintaining the facade. The Slade he would have people believe he was would have never lost an eye, because that Slade had led a life far from by the darker paths Slade had truthfully trodden.
His thoughts wandered to his brief time wielding the potent powers of Dove, and Slade felt a twinge of regret at their loss. The clarity and strength those powers had provided were intoxicating, yet he recognised that he had a more important goal, one he couldnât compromise. His current role demanded not the accumulation of power but the perfection of his deceit, ensuring that all believed he was not the Slade Wilson they knew, but a Reawakened, more innocent doppelganger.
Now, with the glass eye resting beside him, Slade stared at his unmasked visage. Maintaining the myth of the noble Slade was critical. The ruthless mercenary, the Worldâs Deadliest Killer - those identities had to remain buried. The Titans had believed him enough to entrust him with divine powers, their faith a testament to his performance, but the game was far from over; in fact, it was entering its most critical phase.
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THE NEW TITANS
In Shadow of KestrelIssue Nine: War Dove
Written by AdamantAce, GemlinTheGremlin & PatrollinTheMojave
Edited by Deadislandman1 and Voidkiller826
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âRaven!â
Sladeâs gruff voice pierced through the deafening, wave-like roars in Ravenâs head, but the rage was too much to bear. Her hands sizzled as hellfire danced in her palms, her body readying for another attack. She locked eyes with a reptilian soldier, dismounting his simian steed and charging on foot, but as she lunged forwards to strike him, she watched a man fly into her path. Slade Wilson caught the young Titanâs hand and pushed, throwing Raven backwards.
âCome on, kid, snap out of it!â But as Sladeâs words fell on deaf ears, he felt the familiar sting of a fist to his jaw, a crack echoing in his ears. He recoiled from the attack but powered through his injury and stood his ground. Sinking his heels into the ground, he locked eyes with the girl before him. Her face seemed contorted and uncanny, as if all of the rage she was feeling was pouring out of her. She groaned angrily as she thrusted her head downwards, her forehead making contact with Sladeâs teeth, before pulling her head back up again in preparation for another attack.
Before she could make one, however, one of the lizardmen had almost reached the warring duoâs sides, and as he lunged forward with his long spear, he made contact with Ravenâs side. A small rip formed in the side of Ravenâs outfit, which seemed to only anger her further. However, it did seem to distract her enough; Marâi fired off a single Starbolt which struck only the ground - a warning shot.
âRaven! Please!â the half-Tamaranean cried out. But the Raven she knew was buried under unfathomable amounts of fury; she ignored her teammateâs call and instead flew forwards and swung out at the reptiloid. The strike glowed with red flame, sending the creature skidding across the floor, barely conscious. Slade spotted a flash of something else on her face, as if she was finally able to fight back against the endless rage - pain, perhaps, or anguish. But in an instant, it was gone.
That flicker of something other than white-hot anger was enough for Slade.
He clutched his side as his still open wound began to ache, the bandages feeling wet with fresh blood. His jaw felt crooked, and as he gritted his teeth, it felt as though they sat differently atop each other. And yet, he clutched his staff tightly in one hand, and with the other he beckoned to Raven.
âKid, youâre fighting it, I know you are!â Slade felt his mouth filling with blood rather than saliva.
Within a moment, Ravenâs attention was locked on the white-haired man once again. She fired bolt after bolt of black and red flame, but Slade was still dextrous despite his pain. He dodged and dived, weaving through the fire, until he finally managed to make contact with his opponent. He drove his staff into her chest and pushed his weight against the weapon, forcing her backwards. She rose into the air, a black mist pouring from her arms and over her face, a large ghostly corvid taking her place. He felt the deathly cold shadow of the birdâs wing fall over him, his feet leaving the ground as she scooped him into the air.
He looked down at the ground far beneath him. A fall from this height would kill anyone, he thought, let alone someone beaten half to death.
Then, as a verdant bolt of energy struck it in the side, Ravenâs Soul Self shrieked and the shadows retreated inwards. Slade felt himself falling through the air for a second, then two, before he felt his back collide with something soft and cushioned. As he looked up, he met the gaze of Conner, who soared to the ground in an instant, placing the snow-haired man on the ground and giving a swift nod.
Raven let out a pained, frustrated yell as she returned to the ground, aided by a grappling line expertly positioned by Tim, and in response, Conner jetted off towards the sound of her cries. Sladeâs feet faltered beneath him, and he stumbled to keep his balance. His breathing was laboured and his vision was becoming fuzzy. It felt as though, he realised, all the blood loss and violence he had suffered over the past few hours were finally catching up to him. Was this what dying felt like?
âSlade!â shouted a voice, followed by the dulled drumming of hurried footsteps. Slade pulled his hand across his face to wipe away the mental haze and drops of blood. It was Don, sprinting towards him. When Slade felt Don clasp him by shoulders, he realized just how slowed he was by his injuries. âPlan?,â Slade coughed out.
âYouâve seen what she can do. I only see one way out of these without one of the kids getting hurt. Iâd do it myself, but Iâm out of practice and this is too important to leave to chance.â Don looked around anxiously, his face betraying that he had a lot on his mind. âIâm giving you the powers of a god.â Slade opened his mouth to ask a question, a million came to mind. He glanced across the battlefield. Through a blurry film, he saw Ravenâs Soul Self bat Conner away with its wing. He careened into the trunk of a thick tree, uprooting it with a deep crunch. âAre you sure?,â Slade asked, breathless.
âIâm not losing another Titan.â Don squeezed his eyes shut. His grip on Slade tightened as pale, almost blinding light enveloped them. It felt warm. No, better than that: it felt peaceful. With his enhanced senses, Slade could hear his erratic heartbeat slow. Fleeting visions bubbled up in his mind, opening up his awareness beyond the wildest dreams of Project Veritas. He felt rivers of magical energy flowing through the air and earth. Each of them spiralled towards a depression. Towards Raven, he knew instinctively. Iridescent blue light spread outward from his shoulders. It washed over his body armor, bleaching the jet black panels until his entire body shone with radiance. The pain from wounds old and new faded, replaced by serenity - and power. Don opened his eyes again and sighed gently; a concoction and joy, relief, and quiet mourning.
âThere,â Don remarked. Slade felt lighter, less angry, less burdened. He looked down at the iridescent light enveloping his body. Magical energy buzzed against the surface of his skin. âThe powers of the Dove - officially yours.â
Slade sucked in a nervous breath. âDonâŚâ Even rejuvenated, he was still lost for words.
âTheyâre yours now,â Don smiled weakly. âNow go earn them. Thereâs a Titan in dire need of our help.â
Conner floated out of the dense jungle, rubbing his forehead. âIs Slade glowing or do I have a concussion?â
Slade looked over at Raven. She seemed less erratic, her movements driven by her brain rather than her gut. Timâs staff batted fiercely against her, each strike buffeting her back more and more, but it was clear to Slade that Raven was not any weaker physically - her mind, however, was another story.
Slade began marching towards her, the ache in his side dulled. âRaven. Youâre strong. Fight this rage inside of you.â Raven glared at him, a spark of something in her eyes, as she swooped in towards him at top speed. As she neared him, however, Slade readied his staff, stretching it out in front of him. As the tip of the weapon struck Raven, a beam of white energy coursed through her, as if she had been struck by lightning, and her body was flung backwards across the dirt.
Slade danced a hand over his rifle, but something felt different. He pulled it into his hands and inspected it swiftly; nothing seemed out of order. Raven rose slowly from her supine position, snarling softly to herself. Her movements had slowed, the expression on her face becoming closer to horror than rage. She was doing it.
âYouâre nearly there, kid,â Slade soothed, his words suddenly like butter. He watched Ravenâs shoulders start to relax. âThatâs it. Just fight this, Raven. Youâre almost there.â
Despite her tremendous progress, Ravenâs blistering fury won out once more, and she charged a large bolt of hellfire in her hands. Slade fiddled with his rifle and crossed his fingers. There was a standstill between the two. Slade analysed his rifle again; there was something different about the barrel, as if it had been swapped out for another similar model. The stock felt lighter, too, as if the weight had beenâ
Raven roared at him, swiping wildly with glowing fists, and in an instant Slade instinctively pulled the trigger.
What fired from the gun was not a silvery bullet, but a familiar glowing bolt of white light, cloud-like in appearance. As it struck Raven, she sucked in a deep breath, the energy engulfing her. Her face softened and her posture relaxed. Then she swung out for the manâs weakened side, his bandages poking through the aura of light. And yet, as he stayed steadfast, not even attempting to dodge the attack. Sparks flew from the point of contact. Slade just readied another shot and fired.
Her body swayed with the blow. Slade closed the gap between them and focused on the new warmth he felt, concentrating it into his staff as best he could. Then, as he held it out in front of him at armâs length, he swiped at Raven and struck her in the side of the shoulder. Each blow seemed to be more effective than the last, but as Ravenâs movements continued to slow, Slade held fire.
âYouâre doing it, Raven,â Slade encouraged. He watched as the other Titans surrounded Raven, each of them ready for any further attacks. Everyone watched with bated breath as their teammate and friend thrashed and recoiled from the hit. Her breathing was rapid, although it felt closer to panic than unabashed fury. She clasped her hands over her head, groaning. Then, suddenly, she stopped.
Her face had softened completely, her jaw slack, and tears filled her vision. She looked up at Slade with a comfort in her eyes. The aura emanating from him was pervasive and contagious, and although she had felt lost in a sea of impossibly vast emotions, its warmth and comfort cut through. The anger was still there somewhat, the last remaining dregs still working its way out of her system, but the comfort, the peace that Slade was providing was the anchor for her to stabilise herself. She had only ever seen this kind of power when DonâŚ
Ravenâs eyes widened as she realised what that meant. She collapsed to her knees, suddenly feeling the bone-deep fatigue her rage had suppressed. Her teammates rushed in around her. Marâi dropped to a knee by her side and put a hand on her shoulder. âItâs OK. Youâre safe. Everyoneâs OK.â
âDon Iâmââ She wiped away a stream of tears, stumbling her way out of the emotional vortex sheâd been sucked into. âIâm so sorry. I donât know what happened. Iâve lost control before, but never like this.â
Don looked older. Creases ran across his forehead and around his eyes. His smile hadnât changed. âRaven, my brother and I got those powers when I was a kid. We didnât ask for them. We werenât ready for them. We didnât know how to use them, let alone control them.â He laughed dryly, recalling Hank. âI donât regret anything. Giving my powers to Slade is the best thing Iâve done with them in years. I know Hank would feel the same way.â
In the moment of silence that followed, Raven rose to her feet and pulled her cloak tightly around herself. She was still shaking. Timâs eyes drifted from her to Slade. âSomethingâs gnawing at me. Kestrelâs powers are weakened in Skartaris. DonâsâŚâ He coughed, âSladeâs powers are amplified. If this place is what affected youââ
Marâiâs face flashed with recognition, ââyour powers must be tied to the Lords of Order and Chaos!â
Tim furrowed his brow. âMaybe.â He hardly had time to consider further when a thundering crack tore open the sky. Two bolts of swirling energy - one red and one blue - met above them, forming a swirling portal at their vertex. The Titans readied their weapons, expecting the worst.
âItâs them.â Slade murmured, still put off by his uncanny awareness. Terataya and TâCharr descended from the sky, one wreathed in mist, the other, magma. The two elementals stopped a few feet above the ground, hovering.
Terataya was the first to speak. Even at a whisper, her voice reverberated through the air. âI donât usually care for surprises, Don, but this was a pleasant one.â A thin smile appeared on her face.
âSlade Wilson.â Teratayaâs neck turned at an unnatural angle to face him. âYou wield the powers of Order with great skill. Who understands the dangers of unchecked War better than a soldier. Become my champion. Protect the balance.â
Slade took a step back, then glanced at Don.
âSheâs right.â Don said, with only a hint of hesitation. âIt took me years to use the powers like you used them today. Youâre a natural.â
Slade looked at his hands, still gently pulsing with pale blue light. âThanks.â He allowed himself a weak smile. âBut no thanks.â
âWhat.â TâCharrâs voice boomed.
âIt doesnât take Zatanna to realize an old soldier like me makes a piss-poor Avatar of Peace. I fight for a living, and Iâm not deluded enough to think that makes me good at anything but fighting. If you want someone who understands the need for balance, Don just sacrificed everything special about him for it.â
Don raised an eyebrow. âNone taken.â
âHis actions today were noble, but they do not make up for years spent squandering the gift.â
âSquandering? The Titans wouldnât exist today if he hadnât pulled them together. Everything theyâve done. Everything theyâve achieved for your balance wouldnât have happened without him, including stopping that monster you made.â
âWatch your tone, mortal.â TâCharr threatened.
âThere may be a vein of truth to his words, lover.â Terataya said. âBut *if we were to restore Don Hallâs power, we would need assurances. His indecision led down this path.â*
Rocks ground against each other as TâCharr landed beside Don. âYou would have weeks, not years, to select a counterpart and return to your duties.â
Donâs response was instantaneous. âIâve made a decision.â
âYouâve decided if youâll take up the mantle of Dove again?â
Don nodded. âAnd who should be the new Hawk.â
Terataya giggled. âFull of surprises today. TâCharr?â
âWe should discuss this.â He said. âIn private.â
The three of them vanished, leaving the Titans and Slade alone on a battlefield riddled with bits of dino meat and ape fur.
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âYou donât think theyâre gonna come back in like, 200 years, right?â Conner asked. He sat beside the depowered Slade Wilson, who was downing aspirin to make up for the sudden deficit in peace energy.
âI donât know.â Tim said. âBut we should give them more than fifteen minutes.â
As if on cue, the skies opened again. Again, the chromatic energy lit the sky and again a portal opened its swirling maw. This time, however, it wasnât two elemental Lords to descend. Raven squinted to make the figures out.
âOh my god.â Conner said, having a far easier time with his super-vision.
âWhat? Who is it?â Tim asked.
âDonna!â Marâi shouted. She shot off the ground towards her. Her black combat armor was replaced with a crimson and white bodysuit studded with stars that seemed to twinkle as the light shifted around her. The sword at her side was gone too, replaced with a coiled loop of rope suffused with the same brilliant energy. The two collided into an embrace, spinning through the air as they held each other tightly.
Don was the first to land, restored with the powers of Dove. He looked stronger than ever, and maybe more importantly, happier. Even Timâs typical thoughtful brooding has been pierced by an unimpeachable joy.
âI donât understand,.â Raven said. âS-Sheâs alive. How is this possible?â
âI knew there was only one person who could be trusted with the powers of War, with Hankâs abilities.â He scratched the back of his neck, a bit guilty. âAnd sheâd been staring me in the face for years. It took some doing, but eventually TâCharr and Terataya saw that too.â
Donna landed beside him, Marâi only a step behind. By now Conner had stepped forward. He tried not to choke over his words. âIâm sorry. If Iâdââ
Donna didnât let him get the words out before pulling him into a grapple-turned-hug that quickly grew as the rest of the team piled in. Slade flicked another aspirin into his mouth.
âDanyah!â A voice called out from over the ridge. It was Travis, mounted atop a fanged reptilian creature in the vague shape of a horse and flanked on either side by his gold-armored honor guard. He broke into a gallop, stopping just short of the Titans. âWhen I saw the skies, I feared the worst. Is it really you? Has sorcery brought you back to us?â
âItâs me, Travis. A Lord of Chaos brought me back.â
âNot to interrupt,.â Slade said, still nursing his wounds. âBut did either of you ask them to bring us back to Chicago?â
âIâŚâ Don grimaced. âDonna, how do we get home?â
âHow did you get here? Surely you could return the way you came.â Travis said.
âNo, we canât.â Tim said, pressing a few buttons on his wristâs holographic display. âWhatever magic pervades Skartaris is also causing some extreme time dilation. I canât guarantee weâd return to the 21st century, or even to Earth.â
âI spent a decade in Skartaris and returned to Earth nearly two centuries later. Itâs the influence of Chaos. Weâd need a Skartaran mage of overwhelming power to stabilize our return.â She spat the word mage with disgust. Travisâs expression seemed to confirm the reputation of Skartaran spellcasters.
Before their anxiety could spiral, the sky above began to churn. Moments later, the ground shook as a violent bolt of lightning cleaved the air, striking with such ferocity that all but Conner and Donna were flung backward. Mar'i skidded across the damp undergrowth, her senses overwhelmed by the acrid scent of ozone. Her mind was racing; their victory was hard fought, and she doubted they had much left in the tank for another confrontation. She dug her hands into the ground and pushed herself up as she choked from the smell. The Warlord Morgan and his military guards snapped to attention, forming a protective ring around the crater that now marred the earth.
From the smoking pit, a figure rose, unfolding from a crouch like something out of Terminator. Adorned in a red and white jumpsuit that accentuated his lithe build, the young man's appearance was marked by a red cowl and goggles, with sandy brown hair rebelliously spilling out.
Conner squinted through the dissipating smoke, murmuring under his breath, âA speedster?â The Flashes had had a variety of different sidekicks and other allies over the years, but none of them recognised this one
With a nonchalant flair that seemed at odds with the charged atmosphere, the newcomer greeted them. âHey, everyone chillax. I'm here to get you guys back home.â
Donna, ever the leader, stepped forward and spoke with a commanding curiosity, now emboldened with the war aura of Hawk. âAnd who are you exactly? Why should we trust you with such a claim?â
Flashing a cheeky grin, he tilted his head and responded, âWell, Iâm a speedster for one. Nameâs Impulse. If I run fast enough, then I can⌠well, I guess bend time.â
Behind Donna, the group exchanged sceptical glances. Raven's face remained shadowed by recovery, Mar'i and Conner braced for action, and Tim discretely checked his gadgets, no doubt for something that he could use on a speedster should the need arise.
âYeah, we figured that much,â Don cut through the tension, his voice calm yet insistent. âWho sent you?â
Impulse chuckled, his demeanour remaining unfazed by their scrutiny. âLook, the details aren't the fun part. Trust me, I can get us back.â
As a silence thick with doubt and scepticism settled over the group, Impulse seemed to realise his casual assurances weren't sufficient. With a theatrical sigh, he reached up and removed his mask, revealing a face familiar to both Mar'i and Raven.
âBrody!?â Mar'i exclaimed, her surprise echoing through the clearing as she stared at the boy who had once hobbled through their college classes with his leg in a cast.
The young manâs grin widened, his eyes sparkling with mischief and a hint of pride. âActually, itâs Bart.â
ââ â ââ
When Slade emerged from the shower, his skin was glistening with moisture, the water tracing the contours of his scars. He wrapped a stark white towel around his waist, and crossed the plush carpet to sit on the edge of the hotel room bed. He released a slow, deep breath; it was a good job the speedster kid arrived when he did. The notion of being stranded in an alien land or, worse, a different time had gnawed at him with a ferocity that was hard to admit. Without Bartâs intervention, every one of Sladeâs meticulously crafted plans would have been utterly dashed.
Facing him, a wall-mounted mirror caught his rugged reflection. Drawn to his own image, Slade studied the scars that mapped his trials, the slick white hair that crowned his head, and the deep lines etched into his face. A familiar discomfort nagged at him, focusing his attention on his right eye. Unable to alleviate the irritation through the skin, Slade exhaled heavily and carefully removed the eye altogether. The movement, fluid and practised, spoke of years of adaptation.
He placed the prosthetic gently on the bed beside him and as he massaged the socket, a decades-old habit, his mind wandered. He wasn't accustomed to keeping the prosthetic in for extended periods. Showering with it had been an uncomfortable experiment in necessity - he didn't like it, but understood the importance of maintaining the facade. The Slade he would have people believe he was would have never lost an eye, because that Slade had led a life far from by the darker paths Slade had truthfully trodden.
His thoughts wandered to his brief time wielding the potent powers of Dove, and Slade felt a twinge of regret at their loss. The clarity and strength those powers had provided were intoxicating, yet he recognised that he had a more important goal, one he couldnât compromise. His current role demanded not the accumulation of power but the perfection of his deceit, ensuring that all believed he was not the Slade Wilson they knew, but a Reawakened, more innocent doppelganger.
Now, with the glass eye resting beside him, Slade stared at his unmasked visage. Maintaining the myth of the noble Slade was critical. The ruthless mercenary, the Worldâs Deadliest Killer - those identities had to remain buried. The Titans had believed him enough to entrust him with divine powers, their faith a testament to his performance, but the game was far from over; in fact, it was entering its most critical phase.
Next: Return to normality in The New Titans #10
2024.05.16 10:04 flowertaemin Anyones nmon take out their own feelings of pain out on everyone else? While downplaying others pain?
My mom's ankle is hurting.
Currently having to stay with her due to my apartment being under renovations.
She's once again taking the pain she feels out on me and everyone else. Lashing out. Being annoyed at everything. Having the worsbt attitude. Scowling at everything. Being dramatic.
Trying to make others feel bad for her by mentioning the pain all the time even when it isn't related to the current issue or thing.
Wailing how she is in so much pain and still has to be at work!!
How she can't do anything!!
But whenever I tell her to get the ankle checked out or even put something to support it she lashes out that SHE JUST CAN'T GO due to her work!! How she needs to be at work!!! And how I as an unemployed disabled person just will never understand the need and want to be at work.
Okay. Then don't complain if you're not ready to do anything.
It is even more hypocritical because she never believes when I am in pain.
I have chronic migraines (during the worst times befome my current meds I could have 20 migraine days in a month) and during them she used to put on the lights, yell at me, do the dishes while slammng all the plates to make as much noice she could and how I was just faking to get out of stuff. She never took me to the doctorâs either as a child. Because she thougtt i was faking. Now she says how I waste the money of my insurance company on my meds as they âdonâtâ help me (I think she thinks they should cure meâŚ) as I still get attacks a few times a week.
Yeah Iâm just casually having to inject myself with a stinging liquid every month. For no reason! Obviously. đŹ
Always telling me how the migraine attacks would always come whenever I had something to do that she wanted me to do (which was honestly 24/7 like every single day⌠Yeah? How come the attacks come when I have something to do which is daily?)
I also have dysautonomia which causes my heartbeat to shoot up to 130+ when I stand and causes me to feel like Iâm going to to faint and canât breathe.
Whenever I mention that I feel sick and need to sit down or lay down, she makes fun of me for just being âout of shape and fatâ (fun thing to add is that I have a past with an ED, which she also still just downplays and tells me how Iâve never had one due to never being underweightâŚ) and how she also feels dizzy daily and doesnât complain!!!!!
How she feels so bad!!!! But how she is actually ill and not me as Iâm a young person and apprently we canât be chronically ill and disabled lmao.
I feel like Iâm going crazy!!!
Like I get it! She's in pain. Understandably she's not cheery and happy and all. No one is when they're in pain.
But normal people also do not lash out on everyone due to them being in pain.
This has been happening my whole life. Whenever she had backpain whrn I was a child she made me do extra housework and was extremely mean. And later would apologize with tears that she was just in so much pain that she couldn't stop being mean and how she was so sorry đ
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Currently having to stay with her due to my apartment being under renovations.
She's once again taking the pain she feels out on me and everyone else. Lashing out. Being annoyed at everything. Having the worsbt attitude. Scowling at everything. Being dramatic.
Trying to make others feel bad for her by mentioning the pain all the time even when it isn't related to the current issue or thing.
Wailing how she is in so much pain and still has to be at work!!
How she can't do anything!!
But whenever I tell her to get the ankle checked out or even put something to support it she lashes out that SHE JUST CAN'T GO due to her work!! How she needs to be at work!!! And how I as an unemployed disabled person just will never understand the need and want to be at work.
Okay. Then don't complain if you're not ready to do anything.
It is even more hypocritical because she never believes when I am in pain.
I have chronic migraines (during the worst times befome my current meds I could have 20 migraine days in a month) and during them she used to put on the lights, yell at me, do the dishes while slammng all the plates to make as much noice she could and how I was just faking to get out of stuff. She never took me to the doctorâs either as a child. Because she thougtt i was faking. Now she says how I waste the money of my insurance company on my meds as they âdonâtâ help me (I think she thinks they should cure meâŚ) as I still get attacks a few times a week.
Yeah Iâm just casually having to inject myself with a stinging liquid every month. For no reason! Obviously. đŹ
Always telling me how the migraine attacks would always come whenever I had something to do that she wanted me to do (which was honestly 24/7 like every single day⌠Yeah? How come the attacks come when I have something to do which is daily?)
I also have dysautonomia which causes my heartbeat to shoot up to 130+ when I stand and causes me to feel like Iâm going to to faint and canât breathe.
Whenever I mention that I feel sick and need to sit down or lay down, she makes fun of me for just being âout of shape and fatâ (fun thing to add is that I have a past with an ED, which she also still just downplays and tells me how Iâve never had one due to never being underweightâŚ) and how she also feels dizzy daily and doesnât complain!!!!!
How she feels so bad!!!! But how she is actually ill and not me as Iâm a young person and apprently we canât be chronically ill and disabled lmao.
I feel like Iâm going crazy!!!
Like I get it! She's in pain. Understandably she's not cheery and happy and all. No one is when they're in pain.
But normal people also do not lash out on everyone due to them being in pain.
This has been happening my whole life. Whenever she had backpain whrn I was a child she made me do extra housework and was extremely mean. And later would apologize with tears that she was just in so much pain that she couldn't stop being mean and how she was so sorry đ
2024.05.16 10:01 still99percent Visiting my grandma is so draining!!!
Visiting my grandma is so draining!!!
Hello! I am female, 25. My grandma is 77 and lives in a retirement home.
Backstory: I spent most of my childhood days with my grandma. I really loved her and still do. My mom was always working so my grandma took care of me. She is really goofy and sweet and nice.
She has been sick as long as I can remember. Different things like renal insufficiency, arthritis, canât walk, immense pain in her legs,..
My mom always complained that visiting her was so draining and she hated it because my grandma always told her about her pain 10 times and then she complained about everything else. When I was a kid, she never talked to me about it so I always thought like 'why does mom say such mean things grandma is so nice'
My mom has died 2 years ago. My grandma had to move to a retirement home because her health deteriorated quickly. She almost died but somehow made it through. I was always by her side because I am the only one left in the family. I visited her multiple times a week when she was in the hospital. She was always full of drugs and she couldnât hear a thing so I always wrote on paper and she answered.
When she moved to where she is now, I tried to visit once a week. Iâm pretty busy because of work. I also adopted my moms dog and always have a lot to do. Now that I am the only person my grandma can talk to, other than the people in her home that 'behave like they are 150 years old', she always complains to me about her pain and everything else she is mad about like doctors, men she sees on tv, war, kids behaving badly, other people complaining(yes, really),âŚ
Usually, I enter her room, sit down and then she talks for like 2-3 hours straight without letting me talk. I try but then give up after some time and just listen. When she talks about her pain, she always says it in like 10 different ways, 10 different times. Again and again. I know that she is suffering especially since my mom died and I get that she needs to talk about her pain but I canât hear it anymore! It is chronic pain so it never changes and I KNOW that she has it. She doesnât need to tell me again and again. Also, since my mom died it seems like she has beginning stages of dementia. So everything she tells me, she tells me several times.
I love visiting her when we talk about positive things or new changes in my life or a nice movie she has seen. But that almost never happens. Itâs like she loads her negativity onto me and I take it back home when I leave.
Itâs hard to explain but after listening to her complain for an hour, my body starts to feel as if I am going to pass out. It gets stressful to listen and I feel like I canât sit straight anymore I get dizzy and get a headache. I am extremely sensitive and empathic, so listening to someone talk about negative things or them suffering is always stressful for me. But with her itâs so bad that my body reacts to it.
This has lead to me not visiting once a week but once every 2-3 weeks. I feel SO bad about it!!! I feel guilty and ashamed. I know I am the only one who visits her and I know how much she loves me and loves seeing me but I just canât.
Today is week 3 of not visiting her and I know I should visit her today and Iâm fighting with myself.
I donât know what to do. Talking to her about it is not an option. She is extremely sensitive so it would be very hurtful to her. She would take it as me not wanting to hear it and then she would never talk about her feelings again and just stay silent the entire visit.
I try to lead the conversation in different directions but she always ends up complaining again. Most of the time I leave after 1-2 hours because I feel like she sucked out all my energy.
TL;DR Has anyone else experienced something like this? Why is it so hard to listen to someone complain? What can I do to not feel so drained? Whatâs an appropriate amount of visiting someone in a retirement home?
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Hello! I am female, 25. My grandma is 77 and lives in a retirement home.
Backstory: I spent most of my childhood days with my grandma. I really loved her and still do. My mom was always working so my grandma took care of me. She is really goofy and sweet and nice.
She has been sick as long as I can remember. Different things like renal insufficiency, arthritis, canât walk, immense pain in her legs,..
My mom always complained that visiting her was so draining and she hated it because my grandma always told her about her pain 10 times and then she complained about everything else. When I was a kid, she never talked to me about it so I always thought like 'why does mom say such mean things grandma is so nice'
My mom has died 2 years ago. My grandma had to move to a retirement home because her health deteriorated quickly. She almost died but somehow made it through. I was always by her side because I am the only one left in the family. I visited her multiple times a week when she was in the hospital. She was always full of drugs and she couldnât hear a thing so I always wrote on paper and she answered.
When she moved to where she is now, I tried to visit once a week. Iâm pretty busy because of work. I also adopted my moms dog and always have a lot to do. Now that I am the only person my grandma can talk to, other than the people in her home that 'behave like they are 150 years old', she always complains to me about her pain and everything else she is mad about like doctors, men she sees on tv, war, kids behaving badly, other people complaining(yes, really),âŚ
Usually, I enter her room, sit down and then she talks for like 2-3 hours straight without letting me talk. I try but then give up after some time and just listen. When she talks about her pain, she always says it in like 10 different ways, 10 different times. Again and again. I know that she is suffering especially since my mom died and I get that she needs to talk about her pain but I canât hear it anymore! It is chronic pain so it never changes and I KNOW that she has it. She doesnât need to tell me again and again. Also, since my mom died it seems like she has beginning stages of dementia. So everything she tells me, she tells me several times.
I love visiting her when we talk about positive things or new changes in my life or a nice movie she has seen. But that almost never happens. Itâs like she loads her negativity onto me and I take it back home when I leave.
Itâs hard to explain but after listening to her complain for an hour, my body starts to feel as if I am going to pass out. It gets stressful to listen and I feel like I canât sit straight anymore I get dizzy and get a headache. I am extremely sensitive and empathic, so listening to someone talk about negative things or them suffering is always stressful for me. But with her itâs so bad that my body reacts to it.
This has lead to me not visiting once a week but once every 2-3 weeks. I feel SO bad about it!!! I feel guilty and ashamed. I know I am the only one who visits her and I know how much she loves me and loves seeing me but I just canât.
Today is week 3 of not visiting her and I know I should visit her today and Iâm fighting with myself.
I donât know what to do. Talking to her about it is not an option. She is extremely sensitive so it would be very hurtful to her. She would take it as me not wanting to hear it and then she would never talk about her feelings again and just stay silent the entire visit.
I try to lead the conversation in different directions but she always ends up complaining again. Most of the time I leave after 1-2 hours because I feel like she sucked out all my energy.
TL;DR Has anyone else experienced something like this? Why is it so hard to listen to someone complain? What can I do to not feel so drained? Whatâs an appropriate amount of visiting someone in a retirement home?