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2024.05.14 00:28 hannahhbleu weird situation. im not sure if my intolerance for people is the problem or not??
about 6 months ago, i was in a very toxic and filthy living situation with a childhood friend (i am f21 and he was m22). I became desperate on my roommate search, and moved in with a girl (f21) off facebook university roommate search. I met her a few times, found her to be really well put together and mentally stable (which i really needed to live with given my mental health issues.) this apartment is kind of expensive, we both pay 750-800 a month, and its some of the cheapest stuff you can find in my city unless you want to live in a shit hole. for a while, she was an ideal roommate. i prefer being alone, and she is basically using this apartment for storage and to lie to her parents (she is EXTREMELY CATHOLIC) while she stays at her boyfriend every single night and day. I maybe see her a couple times a week in passing, or she is here when i am at work or busy. I like to be energy efficient, i keep lights off when im not in the room, i do not use the air unless im warm or the heat unless im freezing. like i said, she was ideal for a while. then i started realizing things. she comes in and leaves all the lights on in the apartment, she organizes things of mine in my drawers and cabinets without asking, she nails pictures of jesus up on the wall and leaves ugly bible quote's everywhere (i am alternative and collect clowns, do taxidermy, and have pet spiders) so its a strange juxtaposition, she writes her to do lists on my calenders and weekly planners on the wall, she comes in and adjusts the air to insane conditions that she doesnt even realize because shes never here, and has the room with lots of space and sunlight that is almost twice of mine yet never spends time in it.(picture is comparison of our room, she lives door open so no i didnt go in there to take picture) idk what to do! she really wants to move with me when our lease is up (i would much rather stay here because i plan to move out of state next year) and she is refusing to negotiate a plan that works out for both of us, and is practically begging me to move with her. am i the problem?!? should i be more tolerable of people?! (first pic is her room second is mine)
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2024.05.13 22:53 ThrowRA_holygrav3 I (24F) broke up with my boyfriend (26M) over a CD. But what was the best way to go through it?
Hi everyone! I (24F) was in a relationship for almost 6 months with my ex-boyfriend (26M). For a context, I like to buy CDs but mostly it’s only one artist that I like or some k-pop groups. I have a separate shelf for all this, sometimes I like to open and look through albums but I don’t listen to them. We rarely discussed music and everything related to it, since we had quite different musical preferences but this never bothered me or him. Before our breakup I received a new CD and I was very happy, so I decided to send a pic of it to him. He replayed with “Yayyy” and that was it. I thought everything was fine after thar.
Later that evening we were having dinner at my apartment and when he walked past the shelf of CDs he asked where my CD player was? I replied that I don’t listen to CDs and that’s why I don’t have one. Well that escalated quickly.
He said that it was weird to buy CDs but not listen to them, to which I replied that I prefer streaming music and buy albums just for the collection. He looked at me strangely and asked how much the CDs cost. I said that they are usually around 12-25$. He laughed and said it was a stupid waste of money. At first I decided to let it go and began explain to him that I didn’t see anything stupid about it. That it’s my choice how to spend my money and I have the right to do what I want with what I buy, even if it’s basically not to do anything. He got angry and said that by my age I should have understood that there is no need to waste money on some bullsh7t like that. He compared me to a child who doesn't know what she wants and said that it’s like buying branded clothes but not wearing it. After that we got into a fight and I asked him to leave my apartment. The next day I texted him that we fought over something silly and dumb, so we can just get over it but I would like him to apologise for calling me a child. He replayed with, and I quote, «The reason for the fight wasn’t dumb, the only dumb thing is the fact that you buy CDs but don’t listen to them😂» Few hours later we broke up.
We had some mutual friends and few days later one of them texted me «Did you actually dump him cause he wasn’t happy about your Taylor Swift new CD?? Are you dense?» So I guess he had a different perspective on our breakup.
Anyway maybe I shouldn’t be that quick to end everything with him over this topic? Maybe we should have had another conversation? But idk I felt weird after everything he said. Sorry for any typos and long text, I’m kinda still going through this, it’s only been few days.
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Later that evening we were having dinner at my apartment and when he walked past the shelf of CDs he asked where my CD player was? I replied that I don’t listen to CDs and that’s why I don’t have one. Well that escalated quickly.
He said that it was weird to buy CDs but not listen to them, to which I replied that I prefer streaming music and buy albums just for the collection. He looked at me strangely and asked how much the CDs cost. I said that they are usually around 12-25$. He laughed and said it was a stupid waste of money. At first I decided to let it go and began explain to him that I didn’t see anything stupid about it. That it’s my choice how to spend my money and I have the right to do what I want with what I buy, even if it’s basically not to do anything. He got angry and said that by my age I should have understood that there is no need to waste money on some bullsh7t like that. He compared me to a child who doesn't know what she wants and said that it’s like buying branded clothes but not wearing it. After that we got into a fight and I asked him to leave my apartment. The next day I texted him that we fought over something silly and dumb, so we can just get over it but I would like him to apologise for calling me a child. He replayed with, and I quote, «The reason for the fight wasn’t dumb, the only dumb thing is the fact that you buy CDs but don’t listen to them😂» Few hours later we broke up.
We had some mutual friends and few days later one of them texted me «Did you actually dump him cause he wasn’t happy about your Taylor Swift new CD?? Are you dense?» So I guess he had a different perspective on our breakup.
Anyway maybe I shouldn’t be that quick to end everything with him over this topic? Maybe we should have had another conversation? But idk I felt weird after everything he said. Sorry for any typos and long text, I’m kinda still going through this, it’s only been few days.
2024.05.13 21:12 bananabear24 Dumpers who lost feelings and everything was perfect... it was a healthy relationship... did you later regret it? Were you wrong about your gut feeling, and it was something else? Thoughts/advice please???
My bf (24M) and I (23F) broke up a little over a week ago. We dated for almost exactly 1 year, but we were truly together for 1.5 years. It was more so him breaking up with me (even though I pushed him to admit he felt it was the best decision in the moment) because he recently told me out of the blue that for the past couple of months, he was waking up feeling unhappy and just didn’t know why. I was completely blindsided and had NO idea he was feeling this way at all… he hid it so well and acted like normal for 2 months. He said he had absolutely no idea why he was feeling this way and felt guilty for feeling this way. He said that he didn’t think it had anything to do with me at all because everything about me was great (I’m pretty, funny, smart, etc.), and nothing between us had changed (i.e. our routine or dynamic). He was in a 3-year LTR before me and said he knows what it’s like to be comfortable in a relationship, but this feeling was different and something he had never felt before… he said his gut was telling him it wasn’t going to work out.
To preface, our relationship was very healthy, which is why I’m asking for help since most relationships on Reddit truly have obvious problems… I just didn’t think ours did. We RARELY ever argued (every couple does, and even then I could honestly get away w/ saying we never truly did), we did fun stuff together, we were there for each other during hard times, we are both introverted, so we are respectful of each other’s alone time and needing space… we cooked dinner together, did marching band together... I truly believed he was a very mature guy. He has always dated intentionally (I was dating him intentionally too), he is incredibly loyal, very respectful, has an amazing family, has always listened to me and any concerns I ever had, it was all there… and I was the same for him... which is why I’m just so confused.
It ultimately became a mutual decision (if that’s what you would call it) but only because I didn’t really see another way out of it… what choice do you have if someone says they feel they’ve fallen out of it? I guess I figured if he had lost romantic feelings that, well… that was that. I felt like I couldn’t do anything to change that. I don’t think he wanted to break up and wanted to give it a few days to truly think it over, but I pushed it along and asked him if he felt this was the right choice deep down. He said he thought so, so I figured, well, I guess it should just end now then? I don’t think he wanted to hurt me or regret making that decision.
He told me he was so scared of regretting this and losing something really great and that he was scared of making the wrong decision. He said he didn’t know what was wrong with him. He wasn't sure if he could see it being us in the end, but do you necessarily have to especially when we’re both so young? I’m nowhere NEAR ready for marriage and I don’t think he is either, but I could’ve seen it with him a few years down the road… I don’t think you always have to know right away or have the love at first sight moment (?).
I don’t know anything about losing feelings or falling out of love, but the past few months I will say have been a more difficult time in life. We had both been searching for jobs and internships, and I know that was a stressful time for him. He applied to over 75+ positions and was constantly getting rejected. After a few months, he finally did land one, but this was a week or 2 before things ended. Things were a little stagnant between us, but we still did things to keep some excitement going. He wasn’t sure if the spark had died or what… idk. I consider this dead period a contributor, but I don’t know. I truly 100% do not believe it had to do with another girl though… he truly is a loyal and mature boyfriend.
Another thought I had was the fact that maybe this was a result of his previous relationship. We became FWB a little over a month after his 3-year LTR ended. Us hooking up was completely unexpected for both of us… he was not intentionally seeking out a rebound or anything, and I wasn’t intentionally trying to get with him either. It just happened (for backstory, we also knew each other for about 3 years already through a mutual activity, but we were never close friends).
We got drunk one night at a mutual friend’s place, went downtown, and we hooked up that night. We both just wanted something casual and did not want to date, so we stayed FWB for a few months. We both soon developed feelings 5-6 months later. We dated for almost a year after that. During those early months, he told me he felt like he was over his ex before we got together because she cheated on him and did him really wrong. I asked him over and over if he was sure, and he said yes (this was still during us just wanting to be FWB, so it didn’t feel like a bad thing. Neither of us had intentions of dating).
I wonder if he is having this loss of feelings or weird feelings because he never allowed himself time to heal after his last relationship, but I figured if our relationship was a rebound, it would not have lasted nearly as long (maybe a couple of months). I do think he truly loved me and loved dating and being with me, but sometimes I just wonder if this is where it came from? His ex was nothing great… she didn’t like his family, she complained a lot, and emotionally cheated on him with a few different guys for months. She broke up with him because quote “she didn’t feel loved.”
The only issue I really had resonated a little with this ^^^ (the “not feeling loved” part). I was lacking affection and for longer than the 2 months he had been feeling this way. I just figured this was an easy fix because it was things like “hey, I’d love it if you would call me first or call me more, maybe hold my hand more, maybe offer to pay for dinner more or offer to take me out on a planned date.” He has kind of always been like this and has admitted he’s never been great at doing those things… I just thought he needed to be more mindful of this and put in a little more effort, but I wonder if he got spooked when I asked him for these things and became afraid I would also “not feel loved” and leave?? Just a thought, but I don’t know.
Can anyone make any sense of this?? Do y’all think it was because of the internship stress, or maybe it could be problems he has to figure out on his own? Was it too good to be true?? (I’ve heard this before in a previous relationship, and they regretted leaving me back then). I don’t mean to boast, but I truly thought I was so good to him and for him and him for me. We were the perfect duo and truly related to each other through our passion for band and music. I did so much for him and (still) love him to pieces. We were fun and weird together. I love his family. Our relationship was amazing, and that’s what makes this hard. I just can NOT make sense of it.
I do really think he’s going to regret it… I believe he truly lost a really great relationship and person. He told me if it’s right, we’ll find each other again. I know this is possible but only after we each heal and work on ourselves. We’ve been in no contact, and I believe no contact will ultimately give each of us the best outcome, whether it’s together in the end or allowing ourselves to fully heal and move on. I truly believe everything happens for a reason, and if it's meant to be, it'll be. Is it bad to think it could work out after a few months of NC? I don’t want to have false hope, but because it’s only been a week and it’s the breakup is so fresh, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have some small sliver of hope because the relationship was just so good and healthy (trust me, I’ve been in an emotionally abusive relationship and know when it’s time to absolutely step away). My mindset is ultimately to focus on myself during this time and learn from the relationship.
Can anyone give some insight on this? Can people TRULY just lose romantic feelings if the relationship was great, or is it him being comfortable/maybe an external factor causing this? Maybe someone can tell me what goes through a guy’s mind with this or what you think could have happened? Have you ever had a gut feeling and your feeling was right, or was it not right and potentially an external factor?
Tl;dr: My ex and I had a very healthy and loving relationship, but he said he’s been waking up feeling unhappy the past couple of months. I was blindsided and just cannot make sense of the situation. He’s very loyal, so I don’t think it was another girl at all. I don’t know what made him start feeling this way… I think he is going to regret this decision.
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To preface, our relationship was very healthy, which is why I’m asking for help since most relationships on Reddit truly have obvious problems… I just didn’t think ours did. We RARELY ever argued (every couple does, and even then I could honestly get away w/ saying we never truly did), we did fun stuff together, we were there for each other during hard times, we are both introverted, so we are respectful of each other’s alone time and needing space… we cooked dinner together, did marching band together... I truly believed he was a very mature guy. He has always dated intentionally (I was dating him intentionally too), he is incredibly loyal, very respectful, has an amazing family, has always listened to me and any concerns I ever had, it was all there… and I was the same for him... which is why I’m just so confused.
It ultimately became a mutual decision (if that’s what you would call it) but only because I didn’t really see another way out of it… what choice do you have if someone says they feel they’ve fallen out of it? I guess I figured if he had lost romantic feelings that, well… that was that. I felt like I couldn’t do anything to change that. I don’t think he wanted to break up and wanted to give it a few days to truly think it over, but I pushed it along and asked him if he felt this was the right choice deep down. He said he thought so, so I figured, well, I guess it should just end now then? I don’t think he wanted to hurt me or regret making that decision.
He told me he was so scared of regretting this and losing something really great and that he was scared of making the wrong decision. He said he didn’t know what was wrong with him. He wasn't sure if he could see it being us in the end, but do you necessarily have to especially when we’re both so young? I’m nowhere NEAR ready for marriage and I don’t think he is either, but I could’ve seen it with him a few years down the road… I don’t think you always have to know right away or have the love at first sight moment (?).
I don’t know anything about losing feelings or falling out of love, but the past few months I will say have been a more difficult time in life. We had both been searching for jobs and internships, and I know that was a stressful time for him. He applied to over 75+ positions and was constantly getting rejected. After a few months, he finally did land one, but this was a week or 2 before things ended. Things were a little stagnant between us, but we still did things to keep some excitement going. He wasn’t sure if the spark had died or what… idk. I consider this dead period a contributor, but I don’t know. I truly 100% do not believe it had to do with another girl though… he truly is a loyal and mature boyfriend.
Another thought I had was the fact that maybe this was a result of his previous relationship. We became FWB a little over a month after his 3-year LTR ended. Us hooking up was completely unexpected for both of us… he was not intentionally seeking out a rebound or anything, and I wasn’t intentionally trying to get with him either. It just happened (for backstory, we also knew each other for about 3 years already through a mutual activity, but we were never close friends).
We got drunk one night at a mutual friend’s place, went downtown, and we hooked up that night. We both just wanted something casual and did not want to date, so we stayed FWB for a few months. We both soon developed feelings 5-6 months later. We dated for almost a year after that. During those early months, he told me he felt like he was over his ex before we got together because she cheated on him and did him really wrong. I asked him over and over if he was sure, and he said yes (this was still during us just wanting to be FWB, so it didn’t feel like a bad thing. Neither of us had intentions of dating).
I wonder if he is having this loss of feelings or weird feelings because he never allowed himself time to heal after his last relationship, but I figured if our relationship was a rebound, it would not have lasted nearly as long (maybe a couple of months). I do think he truly loved me and loved dating and being with me, but sometimes I just wonder if this is where it came from? His ex was nothing great… she didn’t like his family, she complained a lot, and emotionally cheated on him with a few different guys for months. She broke up with him because quote “she didn’t feel loved.”
The only issue I really had resonated a little with this ^^^ (the “not feeling loved” part). I was lacking affection and for longer than the 2 months he had been feeling this way. I just figured this was an easy fix because it was things like “hey, I’d love it if you would call me first or call me more, maybe hold my hand more, maybe offer to pay for dinner more or offer to take me out on a planned date.” He has kind of always been like this and has admitted he’s never been great at doing those things… I just thought he needed to be more mindful of this and put in a little more effort, but I wonder if he got spooked when I asked him for these things and became afraid I would also “not feel loved” and leave?? Just a thought, but I don’t know.
Can anyone make any sense of this?? Do y’all think it was because of the internship stress, or maybe it could be problems he has to figure out on his own? Was it too good to be true?? (I’ve heard this before in a previous relationship, and they regretted leaving me back then). I don’t mean to boast, but I truly thought I was so good to him and for him and him for me. We were the perfect duo and truly related to each other through our passion for band and music. I did so much for him and (still) love him to pieces. We were fun and weird together. I love his family. Our relationship was amazing, and that’s what makes this hard. I just can NOT make sense of it.
I do really think he’s going to regret it… I believe he truly lost a really great relationship and person. He told me if it’s right, we’ll find each other again. I know this is possible but only after we each heal and work on ourselves. We’ve been in no contact, and I believe no contact will ultimately give each of us the best outcome, whether it’s together in the end or allowing ourselves to fully heal and move on. I truly believe everything happens for a reason, and if it's meant to be, it'll be. Is it bad to think it could work out after a few months of NC? I don’t want to have false hope, but because it’s only been a week and it’s the breakup is so fresh, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have some small sliver of hope because the relationship was just so good and healthy (trust me, I’ve been in an emotionally abusive relationship and know when it’s time to absolutely step away). My mindset is ultimately to focus on myself during this time and learn from the relationship.
Can anyone give some insight on this? Can people TRULY just lose romantic feelings if the relationship was great, or is it him being comfortable/maybe an external factor causing this? Maybe someone can tell me what goes through a guy’s mind with this or what you think could have happened? Have you ever had a gut feeling and your feeling was right, or was it not right and potentially an external factor?
Tl;dr: My ex and I had a very healthy and loving relationship, but he said he’s been waking up feeling unhappy the past couple of months. I was blindsided and just cannot make sense of the situation. He’s very loyal, so I don’t think it was another girl at all. I don’t know what made him start feeling this way… I think he is going to regret this decision.
2024.05.13 20:07 drown-down09 I'm getting so fed up
TW : This is kinda like a vent
I'm a bi girl, christian, have a Christian boyfriend aswell. ( Side note. Not many ppl know that I'm bi as I'm having hard time accepting myself and I don't usually tell ppl unless they're really close )
While I was crushing on him, before we started dating, I knew he had a problem against LGBT community bc he mentioned many mean things Abt them to me, also mentioned how he thought it was a sin and I was really nervous bc of that. However, at the time I thought that I didn't have a chance w him anyway so that kinda comforted me. But we ended up dating anyways. We've been together for like 4-5 month now. Sometime into the relationship I met his best friend, and it turned out he was bi too. I was really shocked bc given the situation I didn't think my bf would have any gay friends. That gave me some kind of a push to come out to him but I was still terrified asf..
anyways I ended up coming out. At the time he took it well but recently it hasn't been like that Last night during an argument he mentioned how he didn't think being attracted to the same gender was normal and he was, I quote, 'tired of hiding it'. He said really hurtful things, he also told me "well you're dating me now and will Marry me eventually so you're practically straight" and that really pissed me off. I don't think he'd dare to talk to his best friend like that? And today he accused me of cheating js bc I called a girl( my best friends crush matter of fact ) beautiful. He then claimed it was a joke but it still stressed me out because he's been doing it frequently lately and it sometimes feels like he doesn't trust me.
Idk what to do. I want to talk to him Abt this but I don't want him to get mad or upset over this.
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I'm a bi girl, christian, have a Christian boyfriend aswell. ( Side note. Not many ppl know that I'm bi as I'm having hard time accepting myself and I don't usually tell ppl unless they're really close )
While I was crushing on him, before we started dating, I knew he had a problem against LGBT community bc he mentioned many mean things Abt them to me, also mentioned how he thought it was a sin and I was really nervous bc of that. However, at the time I thought that I didn't have a chance w him anyway so that kinda comforted me. But we ended up dating anyways. We've been together for like 4-5 month now. Sometime into the relationship I met his best friend, and it turned out he was bi too. I was really shocked bc given the situation I didn't think my bf would have any gay friends. That gave me some kind of a push to come out to him but I was still terrified asf..
anyways I ended up coming out. At the time he took it well but recently it hasn't been like that Last night during an argument he mentioned how he didn't think being attracted to the same gender was normal and he was, I quote, 'tired of hiding it'. He said really hurtful things, he also told me "well you're dating me now and will Marry me eventually so you're practically straight" and that really pissed me off. I don't think he'd dare to talk to his best friend like that? And today he accused me of cheating js bc I called a girl( my best friends crush matter of fact ) beautiful. He then claimed it was a joke but it still stressed me out because he's been doing it frequently lately and it sometimes feels like he doesn't trust me.
Idk what to do. I want to talk to him Abt this but I don't want him to get mad or upset over this.
2024.05.13 20:03 throw-me-awaiii AITAH for reacting negatively to my boyfriend telling me I’m replaceable?
My boyfriend is a die hard fan of a certain UK football club and from the beginning of our relationship he told me with absolute seriousness that his club will always be above me no matter what. I just accepted this fact and moved on; I watched nearly every match with him, got him merch and supported him and his club throughout.
Until today, when I sent him an Instagram reel of a gf telling her bf to change clubs because of how bad the club has been performing and I mistakenly joked ‘I would never say this to you (out loud)’ followed with immediate clarification that my comment is a joke and I don’t mean it.
He still took offense and reminded me that I am below his club and said with his whole heart that ‘he can easily replace me with another woman (unlike replacing his club’. He reminded me of this twice and backed it up with a famous footballer, Eric Cantona’s quote: ‘You can change your wife, your politics, your religion, but never, never can you change your favourite football team’.
I apologized for offending him and making a joke about his club while he firmly stands with what he said to me.
Die hard sports fans, feel free to answer on my boyfriend’s behalf.
AITAH for reacting negatively and being hurt after my boyfriend verbatim tells me that I am replaceable?
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Until today, when I sent him an Instagram reel of a gf telling her bf to change clubs because of how bad the club has been performing and I mistakenly joked ‘I would never say this to you (out loud)’ followed with immediate clarification that my comment is a joke and I don’t mean it.
He still took offense and reminded me that I am below his club and said with his whole heart that ‘he can easily replace me with another woman (unlike replacing his club’. He reminded me of this twice and backed it up with a famous footballer, Eric Cantona’s quote: ‘You can change your wife, your politics, your religion, but never, never can you change your favourite football team’.
I apologized for offending him and making a joke about his club while he firmly stands with what he said to me.
Die hard sports fans, feel free to answer on my boyfriend’s behalf.
AITAH for reacting negatively and being hurt after my boyfriend verbatim tells me that I am replaceable?
2024.05.13 19:58 No_Possibility_5625 Life After College: Money Struggles & Career Goals
I 22F graduated college in December 2023 with a B.S in Animal Science. Right now, I'm working as a product evaluation tech, pulling in $17 an hour. Recently, I got a small raise of 2 cents. My car broke down, and as a first-time car buyer, I ended up financing a used 2021 Honda Civic for 72 months with an APR of 21%, resulting in a monthly payments of $394.40. I'm exploring options to refinance to hopefully lower my APR and monthly payment. Additionally, I'm on the hunt for car insurance, but the initial quote from Progressive was steep—around $400. I've been in two car accidents previously, in October 2019 and May 2021, which might be impacting the quotes.
My sister has been covering my phone bill, but since I got a new phone, I'm planning to start paying my share, which I believe is around $40. I have a credit card with a limit of $700, but I try not to exceed $400, with an absolute max of $500. I use it primarily for gas ($40 a week), groceries ($100 a week), and personal expenses, including dates with my boyfriend, which could be around $200 a week. The only subscriptions I pay for are Spotify ($15) and Apple (99 cents).
My boyfriend helped me create this budget, but I feel like there might be room to trim expenses or optimize it further to save more. Moreover, I'm keen on leveraging my degree more effectively. While I enjoy my current job, it leans more towards food science, and I feel like I'm lagging behind in terms of career advancement opportunities. Also, my parents have been subtly suggesting that it's time for me to move out, so that's another aspect I'm considering or pay rent which I am unsure how much they will charge.
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My sister has been covering my phone bill, but since I got a new phone, I'm planning to start paying my share, which I believe is around $40. I have a credit card with a limit of $700, but I try not to exceed $400, with an absolute max of $500. I use it primarily for gas ($40 a week), groceries ($100 a week), and personal expenses, including dates with my boyfriend, which could be around $200 a week. The only subscriptions I pay for are Spotify ($15) and Apple (99 cents).
My boyfriend helped me create this budget, but I feel like there might be room to trim expenses or optimize it further to save more. Moreover, I'm keen on leveraging my degree more effectively. While I enjoy my current job, it leans more towards food science, and I feel like I'm lagging behind in terms of career advancement opportunities. Also, my parents have been subtly suggesting that it's time for me to move out, so that's another aspect I'm considering or pay rent which I am unsure how much they will charge.
2024.05.13 19:09 Wonderful-Round-7261 Confession
Honestly no idea why i'm sharing this but basically i used to make fake AmItheAsshole posts for the sole purpose of making them become extremely popular, whether this was by ragebaiting or 'am i the angel'ing. i would make alts every time for each post so i wouldn't get caught. i had about 3 go 'viral' quote unquote, one with 7k upvotes, the other two had 2-3k. Couldn't find them if i tried but i do recall the most viral one was something about a boyfriend who lived with me but had hypochondria??... Not quite sure i remember properly
I was just 13 too which is so funny to me. Anyways just putting that out there!! Peace
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I was just 13 too which is so funny to me. Anyways just putting that out there!! Peace
2024.05.13 17:17 SunnyDrop19 My bf M27 broke up with me F22 bc I reported him for something he did at work and he got fired for it. How do I fix things and what should I do?
I f22 and my bf m27 were in a relationship for a year and a half. He moved into my apartment with me after a couple of months so we could save so we had been living with each other for the majority of the relationship. A few months ago, I recently bought a house and me and him moved into it. Things have been really difficult since buying the house. Before I bought the house, I had gotten a promotion at a new building that was closer to where we lived. Starting this new position, I had no experience whatsoever and really have been struggling with it. I have been having a hard time with a lot of things that have been happening in my life and have been struggling with a lot of depression and anxiety, which I have recently started taking medication for.
After getting the promotion, I was moved to a different shift and he was working for a different company. Due to the promotion, I did not have any control over what shift I would be working, so I suggested that he come work at the same place as me so we could be on the same schedule. After making the suggestion he applied and got accepted for the new building. Starting off, things were pretty OK, but after a while, things started going downhill. Due to my depression and the extreme amount of stress that I was placed under due to my new job, I wasn’t interested in leaving my house or doing activities that he liked doing which put strain on our relationship. We also had a great deal of debt and money issues that also contributed to the strain.
Onto the issue that caused the break up:
At break time we always eat lunch together so when I sat down, I checked my phone and messages. At work me ,him and a bunch of other coworkers were a part of a group chat and in the group chat he posted two pictures of himself replying to the group chat. At work, we have safety policies and one of those policies is to not be on our phones while driving machinery or while being on the floor because people can die, kinda like texting and driving . At work, phones can only be used in the break rooms or in other designated areas. If caught the end result is always termination.
Because of my position at work and him being my boyfriend, I have had multiple conversations with him about this because I did not want anything to happen and even one of our previous coworkers got fired for this exact reason as well. So when I found out what he did, I confronted him and when I did, he acted nonchalant about the entire thing and acted like it was no big deal. He said and I quote no one cares. I do not care. I will find another job. I was really upset by the way he acted and what he said, and I sat there in the break room for 30 minutes debating on what to do.
At my job if we see something unsafe, we report it especially when everyone knows the rules and deliberately chooses not to follow them. And this wouldn’t have been the first time that he did something, and didn’t care about it after I had coached him about it. Previous times when I would have to coach him, it was always met with an eye roll and no respect and I would have to go to my superior to ask them to coach him properly because he would not listen.
In the end, I decided to report to my superior which resulted in him losing his job and Me having a breakdown at work and having to talk to a counselor for over an hour. After this, he was dead silent and would not talk to me and the one day when I went to work and he did not, he moved some of his stuff out and moved back in with his mom without any discussion.
Now we are currently talking and hanging out and have discussed everything that has happened and he admits that he did something wrong and that he would not have cared if someone else had reported him, but because it was me and because I was his girlfriend I wasn’t supposed to report him.
He says that he forgives me, but does not accept what happened. he says that I broke his trust and can’t trust me and he kinda wants to get back together but everyone else is telling him not to bc of what happened. He blames me for the entire thing.
I still love him and I still see a future with him and want a future with him and I don’t know what to do to fix it. I have decided to take a leave of absence from my job due to all the stress and I am actively seeking out a therapist to help me with how I have been feeling. I have apologized for how things turned out and I did not want to report him, but I did. I don’t know what to do now. Any advice?
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After getting the promotion, I was moved to a different shift and he was working for a different company. Due to the promotion, I did not have any control over what shift I would be working, so I suggested that he come work at the same place as me so we could be on the same schedule. After making the suggestion he applied and got accepted for the new building. Starting off, things were pretty OK, but after a while, things started going downhill. Due to my depression and the extreme amount of stress that I was placed under due to my new job, I wasn’t interested in leaving my house or doing activities that he liked doing which put strain on our relationship. We also had a great deal of debt and money issues that also contributed to the strain.
Onto the issue that caused the break up:
At break time we always eat lunch together so when I sat down, I checked my phone and messages. At work me ,him and a bunch of other coworkers were a part of a group chat and in the group chat he posted two pictures of himself replying to the group chat. At work, we have safety policies and one of those policies is to not be on our phones while driving machinery or while being on the floor because people can die, kinda like texting and driving . At work, phones can only be used in the break rooms or in other designated areas. If caught the end result is always termination.
Because of my position at work and him being my boyfriend, I have had multiple conversations with him about this because I did not want anything to happen and even one of our previous coworkers got fired for this exact reason as well. So when I found out what he did, I confronted him and when I did, he acted nonchalant about the entire thing and acted like it was no big deal. He said and I quote no one cares. I do not care. I will find another job. I was really upset by the way he acted and what he said, and I sat there in the break room for 30 minutes debating on what to do.
At my job if we see something unsafe, we report it especially when everyone knows the rules and deliberately chooses not to follow them. And this wouldn’t have been the first time that he did something, and didn’t care about it after I had coached him about it. Previous times when I would have to coach him, it was always met with an eye roll and no respect and I would have to go to my superior to ask them to coach him properly because he would not listen.
In the end, I decided to report to my superior which resulted in him losing his job and Me having a breakdown at work and having to talk to a counselor for over an hour. After this, he was dead silent and would not talk to me and the one day when I went to work and he did not, he moved some of his stuff out and moved back in with his mom without any discussion.
Now we are currently talking and hanging out and have discussed everything that has happened and he admits that he did something wrong and that he would not have cared if someone else had reported him, but because it was me and because I was his girlfriend I wasn’t supposed to report him.
He says that he forgives me, but does not accept what happened. he says that I broke his trust and can’t trust me and he kinda wants to get back together but everyone else is telling him not to bc of what happened. He blames me for the entire thing.
I still love him and I still see a future with him and want a future with him and I don’t know what to do to fix it. I have decided to take a leave of absence from my job due to all the stress and I am actively seeking out a therapist to help me with how I have been feeling. I have apologized for how things turned out and I did not want to report him, but I did. I don’t know what to do now. Any advice?
2024.05.13 14:18 SentenceUnique2625 House decisions support
My boyfriend and I will be staying at his parents house shortly as his parents are moving to their retirement house out of town. A realtor came to quote it at 100k. The house is very old and has lots of damage but with okay property.
Initially my boyfriend said we could stay here and cover the bills (800$/month) between the two of us. Now he wants to buy the properly over 8 years through his parents, without financing via bank. He wants me to buy it with him, but I don’t want to be screwed over and pay for a property I might not get if things don’t go well. He told me to think of it as rent then, well 1000$ a month for his parents house is a lot, meanwhile he will be getting the property and house for sure in 8 years from now. It doesnt sound fair that I have to pay for rent and he doesn’t and/or that I should pay for a property that I will not get. Not sure if there is a legal way for me to secure half the equity. Very skeptical about this. Rent is very high for a decent apartment in town and we don’t want to give up on our parking here, laundry/drier and other amenities. But the house is old with leaks, mold, carpet floor, wild front and backyard and needs lots of renovation.
My bf says that he wants to help out his parents financially because they are giving us this house to live in and it would be a great investment for him and he does not want to go through the bank because financing costs 50k plus
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Initially my boyfriend said we could stay here and cover the bills (800$/month) between the two of us. Now he wants to buy the properly over 8 years through his parents, without financing via bank. He wants me to buy it with him, but I don’t want to be screwed over and pay for a property I might not get if things don’t go well. He told me to think of it as rent then, well 1000$ a month for his parents house is a lot, meanwhile he will be getting the property and house for sure in 8 years from now. It doesnt sound fair that I have to pay for rent and he doesn’t and/or that I should pay for a property that I will not get. Not sure if there is a legal way for me to secure half the equity. Very skeptical about this. Rent is very high for a decent apartment in town and we don’t want to give up on our parking here, laundry/drier and other amenities. But the house is old with leaks, mold, carpet floor, wild front and backyard and needs lots of renovation.
My bf says that he wants to help out his parents financially because they are giving us this house to live in and it would be a great investment for him and he does not want to go through the bank because financing costs 50k plus
2024.05.13 09:00 Wonderful-Bottle7193 Venting about BD
Hey y’all, I just need to rant because I don’t know if I’m being crazy or not. So, I’m 21F, will be 22 next week. I am 8 weeks pregnant, this is my first child. I have been out of a job in my home state for the past 2 1/2 months, and in that time my boyfriend (the BD) has been supporting me. I decided to go to the neighboring state where my dad lives to visit him because my birthday is next week. I also wanted to come back to my job that I have secured here to make a little bit of money. I thought I was only staying for a couple of weeks, but now BD tells me to not come home until I find a job back home. He said, and I quote, “I am sick of always supporting you. You need to get a job that pays minimum of 18/hour, or you need to make a minimum of 1K per week. Unless you get a job like that, don’t come home.” Now, I get it, we’re new parents and need to be taking in income to support our child. However, I have worked in multiple multi-billion dollar corporations for the past four years (supporting myself btw) and have never made more than I currently do, which is 16/hr. The most I have ever made in a single week is ~700, working overtime, which I cannot do while pregnant. I also live in the middle of nowhere in a state filled with cornfields, where everyone is paid less than they would be in the cities. I have zero qualifications, no college degree, and my only work experience is leadership in the food industry. The comment he made about “being sick of supporting me” made me realize: if he is so annoyed that he had to support me for only two months, how upset will he be when the baby is born, and we have to constantly support them (emotionally, physically, and financially) up until they are 18, and in some cases, even longer than that? Also, how upset will he be when I no longer can work due to the complications of pregnancy? Am I correct in thinking that these expectations set upon me are unrealistic? It is also unfair of him to force me to stay at my dad’s. He didn’t ask for this, and he has been out of the workforce for almost a year. He has been applying left and right, but nothing comes through for him. He should not be stuck with the burden of supporting me and a child when he already did everything for me until I turned 18.
Also: BD only makes 12/hr. Sure, he has an interview soon for a big processing plant that would pay very well, but landing an interview does not mean you have secured the job.
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Also: BD only makes 12/hr. Sure, he has an interview soon for a big processing plant that would pay very well, but landing an interview does not mean you have secured the job.
2024.05.13 03:52 K-a-ii JD's plan was awful
So I haven't seen this being brought up before, but I think that JD's plan for blowing up the school was not thought out well enough and he would not have gotten away with it if he achieved his goal. Now, don't quote me on this as I haven't rewatched the entire musical in awhile and have just been listening to the soundtrack on loop for like a week. Ok so, to recap JD's plan was to first set up packs of thermals in the gym for during the pep rally, secondly have Veronica write a suicide note saying that the students bombed the school as an act of protest and third use a much smaller bomb to set the thermals off during the pep rally. Of course, this didn't work out because Veronica suddenly realized it was morally wrong and stopped him. While yes, the original three murders framed as suicides did fool the police, it would be quite suspicious that the only two survivors would be the girl with motive to kill the whole school, including for the first three "suicides", and her traumatized boyfriend who has gotten into fights before. Idk though as that's just my thought process.
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2024.05.13 03:01 _xtines Isn't it weird that having a baby is seen as the 'default' and not just an option?
I'm currently reading a book by Aussie podcast-comedian Toni Lodge and am up to the chapter called 'I hate children' (PS she doesn't really hate kids, but likes being able to hand them back). I think it's fantastic to see more people in the spotlight taking a stance, sharing their views and making more people consider their life choices.
Quote "We're breaking away from the traditions that our parents' generation had thrust onto them. Like, we live with our partners before we get married, we change careers and go to uni later in life, we take time off to avoid burnout - all the things they never did. So, why would having someone dependent on me for eighteen years still be the default!?"
I recently caught up with my baby obsessed Nan and she told me she remembered me saying when I was 5 years old "I'm never having kids" and I've never strayed from that path (35 years and counting!). It was nice that she's always respected that choice. Unlike some other relatives with the constant bingos "you'll change your mind when you're older, meet the right guy, that's just a phase, etc" which led to me keeping some distance and only ever bringing home serious boyfriends to avoid the barrage of "oh, you two will make beautiful babies".
It's really frustrating that people still try and put pressure on others to live up to their outdated expectations. But it's nice that there are more open minds and hopefully we can shift the point of view that having kids is just a given part of life.
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Quote "We're breaking away from the traditions that our parents' generation had thrust onto them. Like, we live with our partners before we get married, we change careers and go to uni later in life, we take time off to avoid burnout - all the things they never did. So, why would having someone dependent on me for eighteen years still be the default!?"
I recently caught up with my baby obsessed Nan and she told me she remembered me saying when I was 5 years old "I'm never having kids" and I've never strayed from that path (35 years and counting!). It was nice that she's always respected that choice. Unlike some other relatives with the constant bingos "you'll change your mind when you're older, meet the right guy, that's just a phase, etc" which led to me keeping some distance and only ever bringing home serious boyfriends to avoid the barrage of "oh, you two will make beautiful babies".
It's really frustrating that people still try and put pressure on others to live up to their outdated expectations. But it's nice that there are more open minds and hopefully we can shift the point of view that having kids is just a given part of life.
2024.05.13 00:11 nossbass My boyfriend cheated on me. His buddies also cheated on their girlfriends. Should I tell them?
My [24F] boyfriend [26M] cheated on me with hookers on his friend’s bachelor trip. I found out a month later, right after the wedding. I’m in therapy but have not recovered psychologically months later. It affects my quality of life every day.
On the bachelor trip three other men cheated on their girlfriends (call them Moe, Larry, and Curly). I have proof that Moe and Larry definitely cheated. My boyfriend told me that Curly “picked” a hooker and backed out at the last minute and also alleges the groom didn’t cheat. Like with everything nowadays, I’m taking anything he’s said with a grain of salt in the absence of proof. However, one thing I do know is that Moe’s girlfriend is now pregnant by Moe.
I am not close with the girlfriends of Moe, Larry, and Curly but did get to know them at the wedding and exchanged instagrams, numbers, photos etc. Most of them went on the bachelorette trip (I was just a wedding guest). Along with the bride, this group has casually invited me out which I’ve found excuses to decline. Keeping their friendship is not a priority though they seem really great.
Despite the daily insecurity, anxiety, and paranoia I feel, I am glad I found out about my boyfriend. I think this is materially important information to have about your partner and it has informed my choices today. For these reasons, I want to tell these girls about their cheating boyfriends and share the proof with them and what my bf said about Curly.
My therapist thinks I should not disclose this as it’s not my place. Some (female if relevant) friends think I shouldn’t because, to quote unfaithful pig J Cole, “what’s done in the dark will always find a way to shine.” I assume that if I tell one girl, the rest will find out. Although it may instill doubt in the relationships including between bride and groom, I also feel that the men are at fault for any doubt instilled if they haven’t already let their partners know, half a year later, what happened.
This is something I have prayed and thought about every day for over half a year. I feel like I have to come to them “as a woman” and already failed that duty by not speaking up sooner. But I also know how painful it is to learn of your life partner’s infidelity and the ensuing doubt. I also wonder if I want this for the right reasons - is this vengeance? Is this to selfishly relieve my burden? What does that say about me, to me? I feel like I will let my fellow woman down by not disclosing what I know. I have a lot of shame about this and don’t know what to do. Reddit generally leans towards disclosure but in this case I’d like some other perspectives especially considering the pregnancy part and that we’re not close.
Is there anything I am not considering? Any advice is appreciated. Thank you for reading.
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On the bachelor trip three other men cheated on their girlfriends (call them Moe, Larry, and Curly). I have proof that Moe and Larry definitely cheated. My boyfriend told me that Curly “picked” a hooker and backed out at the last minute and also alleges the groom didn’t cheat. Like with everything nowadays, I’m taking anything he’s said with a grain of salt in the absence of proof. However, one thing I do know is that Moe’s girlfriend is now pregnant by Moe.
I am not close with the girlfriends of Moe, Larry, and Curly but did get to know them at the wedding and exchanged instagrams, numbers, photos etc. Most of them went on the bachelorette trip (I was just a wedding guest). Along with the bride, this group has casually invited me out which I’ve found excuses to decline. Keeping their friendship is not a priority though they seem really great.
Despite the daily insecurity, anxiety, and paranoia I feel, I am glad I found out about my boyfriend. I think this is materially important information to have about your partner and it has informed my choices today. For these reasons, I want to tell these girls about their cheating boyfriends and share the proof with them and what my bf said about Curly.
My therapist thinks I should not disclose this as it’s not my place. Some (female if relevant) friends think I shouldn’t because, to quote unfaithful pig J Cole, “what’s done in the dark will always find a way to shine.” I assume that if I tell one girl, the rest will find out. Although it may instill doubt in the relationships including between bride and groom, I also feel that the men are at fault for any doubt instilled if they haven’t already let their partners know, half a year later, what happened.
This is something I have prayed and thought about every day for over half a year. I feel like I have to come to them “as a woman” and already failed that duty by not speaking up sooner. But I also know how painful it is to learn of your life partner’s infidelity and the ensuing doubt. I also wonder if I want this for the right reasons - is this vengeance? Is this to selfishly relieve my burden? What does that say about me, to me? I feel like I will let my fellow woman down by not disclosing what I know. I have a lot of shame about this and don’t know what to do. Reddit generally leans towards disclosure but in this case I’d like some other perspectives especially considering the pregnancy part and that we’re not close.
Is there anything I am not considering? Any advice is appreciated. Thank you for reading.
2024.05.12 23:52 nossbass My [24F] boyfriend [26M] cheated on me on a bachelor trip. Other men did too. What do I do with this information?
Throwaway my [24F] boyfriend [26M] cheated on me with hookers on his friend’s bachelor trip. I found out a month later, right after the wedding. I’m in therapy but have not recovered psychologically months later. It affects my quality of life every day.
On the bachelor trip three other men cheated on their girlfriends (call them Moe, Larry, and Curly). I have proof that Moe and Larry definitely cheated. My boyfriend told me that Curly “picked” a hooker and backed out at the last minute and also alleges the groom didn’t cheat. Like with everything nowadays, I’m taking anything he’s said with a grain of salt in the absence of proof. However, one thing I do know is that Moe’s girlfriend is now pregnant by Moe.
I am not close with the girlfriends of Moe, Larry, and Curly but did get to know them at the wedding and exchanged instagrams, numbers, photos etc. Most of them went on the bachelorette trip (I was just a wedding guest). Along with the bride, this group has casually invited me out which I’ve found excuses to decline. Keeping their friendship is not a priority though they seem really great.
Despite the daily insecurity, anxiety, and paranoia I feel, I am glad I found out about my boyfriend. I think this is materially important information to have about your partner and it has informed my choices today. For these reasons, I want to tell these girls about their cheating boyfriends and share the proof with them and what my bf said about Curly.
My therapist thinks I should not disclose this as it’s not my place. Some (female if relevant) friends think I shouldn’t because, to quote unfaithful pig J Cole, “what’s done in the dark will always find a way to shine.” I assume that if I tell one girl, the rest will find out. Although it may instill doubt in the relationships including between bride and groom, I also feel that the men are at fault for any doubt instilled if they haven’t already let their partners know, half a year later, what happened.
This is something I have prayed and thought about every day for over half a year. I feel like I have to come to them “as a woman” and already failed that duty by not speaking up sooner. But I also know how painful it is to learn of your life partner’s infidelity and the ensuing doubt. I also wonder if I want this for the right reasons - is this vengeance? Is this to selfishly relieve my burden? What does that say about me, to me? I feel like I will let my fellow woman down by not disclosing what I know. I have a lot of shame about this and don’t know what to do. Reddit generally leans towards disclosure but in this case I’d like some other perspectives especially considering the pregnancy part and that we’re not close.
Any and all advice is appreciated. Thank you for reading.
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On the bachelor trip three other men cheated on their girlfriends (call them Moe, Larry, and Curly). I have proof that Moe and Larry definitely cheated. My boyfriend told me that Curly “picked” a hooker and backed out at the last minute and also alleges the groom didn’t cheat. Like with everything nowadays, I’m taking anything he’s said with a grain of salt in the absence of proof. However, one thing I do know is that Moe’s girlfriend is now pregnant by Moe.
I am not close with the girlfriends of Moe, Larry, and Curly but did get to know them at the wedding and exchanged instagrams, numbers, photos etc. Most of them went on the bachelorette trip (I was just a wedding guest). Along with the bride, this group has casually invited me out which I’ve found excuses to decline. Keeping their friendship is not a priority though they seem really great.
Despite the daily insecurity, anxiety, and paranoia I feel, I am glad I found out about my boyfriend. I think this is materially important information to have about your partner and it has informed my choices today. For these reasons, I want to tell these girls about their cheating boyfriends and share the proof with them and what my bf said about Curly.
My therapist thinks I should not disclose this as it’s not my place. Some (female if relevant) friends think I shouldn’t because, to quote unfaithful pig J Cole, “what’s done in the dark will always find a way to shine.” I assume that if I tell one girl, the rest will find out. Although it may instill doubt in the relationships including between bride and groom, I also feel that the men are at fault for any doubt instilled if they haven’t already let their partners know, half a year later, what happened.
This is something I have prayed and thought about every day for over half a year. I feel like I have to come to them “as a woman” and already failed that duty by not speaking up sooner. But I also know how painful it is to learn of your life partner’s infidelity and the ensuing doubt. I also wonder if I want this for the right reasons - is this vengeance? Is this to selfishly relieve my burden? What does that say about me, to me? I feel like I will let my fellow woman down by not disclosing what I know. I have a lot of shame about this and don’t know what to do. Reddit generally leans towards disclosure but in this case I’d like some other perspectives especially considering the pregnancy part and that we’re not close.
Any and all advice is appreciated. Thank you for reading.
2024.05.12 22:34 Safe_Village_1886 AITA for telling my step mother "You can get another husband but i can't get a new father"
Hi everyone, this is my first time ever posting so please be gentle. There is a lot to read as this is a story of about a month.
FIRSTLY TRIGGER WARNING… TALK OF SUICIDE
Before the story let me give some background info: I am 20F, my parents got divorced when I was around 8. They both remarried. My father married my “step mom” in 2016. I put “step mom” in quotes because that woman was never motherly to me in any way.
She had her own daughter who is a couple months older than me. Her daughter (I’ll call her Sara, also 20F) has some behavioral issues, mainly autism. But we never got along because she would hit, kick, bite, anything, to me. Both in school and at home, and I was told she couldn’t control herself. But when you are in a private school of 20 kids. You can’t get away from each other. None the less, her daughter was never kind to me, and as a 8-12 year old kid you can’t quite understand why someone, Sara specifically, would treat you in such a manner.
As for my “step mom” who we will call sally, was never nice to me. She was very strict, and I was a hard to control raging kid because my parents got divorced and I had no control over anything in my life. I was mainly mouthy. (We tried therapy and that never helped anyone get along). Sally was very strict and blunt and often showed no emotion. Throughout the years I felt like my dad and sally got married for money and convinence. Their relationship was very business casual. Sally did not like me and would target me, I had more chores, I had higher expectations, and I soon had no alone time with my father. After my father and her announced their marriage I soon ended my 50/50 custody split and ignored my father. As did all of my siblings because no one liked Sally.
After i moved out and about a year and a half after their marriage, my dad and I reconnected and slowly built a bond, my step mother was never around when i would go for visits etc. she was never there to be around me ever again.
Now for the story….
I live on the west coast and moved approximately a year ago. I moved for work and to get a fresh start, as I am a RN. My family still lives in a small town on the east coast where no body leaves, and they live there their wholes lives.
My father was faced in February of 2023 to put his father who lived with him for 5 years into a nursing home. My grandparents, his parents, moved from idaho as they were in their 80s and were needing some extra care and not to live by themselves. My grandmother is still alive. My grandfather passed in November 2023. Which I went back to the east coast for a week to say my goodbyes, visit with my dad, etc.
January 23 It was 1030 in the morning and I got a phone call from a family friend. The conversation went like this “are you alone?”
“No im here with my boyfriend”
“okay, are you sitting down”
“yes what is wrong, who is dead”
“your dad died this morning”
“how did he die”
“He hung himself this morning. I’m so so so sorry baby. He loved you kids so much.”
I got on a plane 4 hours later. My worry was my brother and grandmother who lived in the house with him. This whole time, silence from my step mother. No comments. No answers. I got back to the west coast by midnight and got to hug my siblings. My mother’s side of the family (divorced) came to the house and had been sitting with my brother and grandmother all day. Cooking. Forcing people to eat. Comforting. It was the first time since my mom left the family home that it felt warm and full of life despite tragedy. My step mom was no where to be found. He killed himself on a tuesday, she had left for a business trip on sunday. I had spoked to my dad over the weekend. There were no signs. My brother and grandmother who lived with him noticed no signs.
My father texted my step mother, a neighborhood friend, and a family friend (our life long babysitter who everyone loves) that he loved us and to take care of my siblings and his mother. The family friend lives 20 minutes away, called the neighborhood friend, she went to the house and found his body. My family never saw the body, they saw him wheeled out of the yard in a body bag.
My stepmother came back to the east coast, (DC our airports are approximately 2.5 hours away.) she did not return home to the house for 4 days after his death. Her reasoning "she didnt want to come home to an empty house". Me, my 3 siblings, and their spouses were all waiting for her.
After sally returned home she banned my mothers side of the family from coming over and said if they stepped foot on the property, she would call the police for trespassing. After this comment I went to stay with my mother, and would visit during the day, but I refused to spend the night there. Come to find out, so did my step mother. She rented a hotel room down the street. After her return there was no funeral talk, just talk about switching the bills to her name and accounts to her name so she could still pay bills.
During this time she was cold and callace, showing no emotion. No tears, no emotion, actually she stayed in her room ignoring all of us. Lots of tears were shared between me and my siblings and my grandmother, friends etc. At this point, I had already taken off a week of work and had to send my boyfriend back to the west coast. About a week and a half we went to the funeral home to arrange for a funeral. The date was decided for 2 weeks after the date we went for the planning. I had to return home, i could not stay that long. Sally promised she would pay for me to come back for the funeral.
During this time my siblings and I were trying to get a hold of his will, lots of legal stuff, blah blah blah. We finally get a hold of the will, everything was left to sally. EVERYTHING. several lawyers told us so and there was no way to fight it.
I did not go back for the funeral, but was emailed approximately a week after the funeral, which was post poned again because everyone got COVID. I could not stand to be around her anymore. She made promises to take care of us, promised to give us some of his ashes, promised to let my brother keep living in the house, promised to take care of my grandmother. LIES ALL LIES.
she emailed all the siblings about a month later, telling us to clean out the house by March 31, get all of our stuff. etc. and stated we would all get some money from his personal accounts, and 1 life insurance policies. We get there, she refused to give us family heirlooms that belonged to my father, and refused to give us ashes. this is where I may be the asshole.
I was at my fathers house for basically a day to clean and get items that belonged to my dad. EVERYTHING I WANTED NO ONE GOT. We were all told no we couldnt take it. My step mom was burning some documents and by the fire and I walked over to her and ask about the ashes. She said "I am not giving you any. No one is getting them, that is the one thing I am keeping for myself." I sat there is silence, tears starting to form in my eyes and said "You know, you can always get a new husband, I will never get my father back" she said "that is uncalled for, you can leave before I call the police." I packed up and left. admittedly Sally is "hurting" too even if she never shows it. I can understand that the jab was mean, however I had been nice, let her hurt everyone around me and had kept my mouth shut for long enough. She deserved no more kindness in my heart.
Further background, she received everything, the house, cars, tools, tractor, golf cart, side by side, boat, trailers, camper. Just the house was listed for 620,000$. So she is loaded from his assets and plans to get rid of everything and keep nothing. ( house was paid off) She also makes a 6 figure salary, as did my father.
I went to contact her and apologize for my comment but I am blocked, blocked via phone, facebook, emails, everything. Needless to say months later I have received nothing but the items I managed to grab.
There is so much more but I want to keep it condensed as this is already long.
SHORT STORY:
My father committed suicide and my evil step mother kept everything for herself. When I asked for some of the ashes she told me no, so I responded with "you can always get a new husband, I cant get another father."
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FIRSTLY TRIGGER WARNING… TALK OF SUICIDE
Before the story let me give some background info: I am 20F, my parents got divorced when I was around 8. They both remarried. My father married my “step mom” in 2016. I put “step mom” in quotes because that woman was never motherly to me in any way.
She had her own daughter who is a couple months older than me. Her daughter (I’ll call her Sara, also 20F) has some behavioral issues, mainly autism. But we never got along because she would hit, kick, bite, anything, to me. Both in school and at home, and I was told she couldn’t control herself. But when you are in a private school of 20 kids. You can’t get away from each other. None the less, her daughter was never kind to me, and as a 8-12 year old kid you can’t quite understand why someone, Sara specifically, would treat you in such a manner.
As for my “step mom” who we will call sally, was never nice to me. She was very strict, and I was a hard to control raging kid because my parents got divorced and I had no control over anything in my life. I was mainly mouthy. (We tried therapy and that never helped anyone get along). Sally was very strict and blunt and often showed no emotion. Throughout the years I felt like my dad and sally got married for money and convinence. Their relationship was very business casual. Sally did not like me and would target me, I had more chores, I had higher expectations, and I soon had no alone time with my father. After my father and her announced their marriage I soon ended my 50/50 custody split and ignored my father. As did all of my siblings because no one liked Sally.
After i moved out and about a year and a half after their marriage, my dad and I reconnected and slowly built a bond, my step mother was never around when i would go for visits etc. she was never there to be around me ever again.
Now for the story….
I live on the west coast and moved approximately a year ago. I moved for work and to get a fresh start, as I am a RN. My family still lives in a small town on the east coast where no body leaves, and they live there their wholes lives.
My father was faced in February of 2023 to put his father who lived with him for 5 years into a nursing home. My grandparents, his parents, moved from idaho as they were in their 80s and were needing some extra care and not to live by themselves. My grandmother is still alive. My grandfather passed in November 2023. Which I went back to the east coast for a week to say my goodbyes, visit with my dad, etc.
January 23 It was 1030 in the morning and I got a phone call from a family friend. The conversation went like this “are you alone?”
“No im here with my boyfriend”
“okay, are you sitting down”
“yes what is wrong, who is dead”
“your dad died this morning”
“how did he die”
“He hung himself this morning. I’m so so so sorry baby. He loved you kids so much.”
I got on a plane 4 hours later. My worry was my brother and grandmother who lived in the house with him. This whole time, silence from my step mother. No comments. No answers. I got back to the west coast by midnight and got to hug my siblings. My mother’s side of the family (divorced) came to the house and had been sitting with my brother and grandmother all day. Cooking. Forcing people to eat. Comforting. It was the first time since my mom left the family home that it felt warm and full of life despite tragedy. My step mom was no where to be found. He killed himself on a tuesday, she had left for a business trip on sunday. I had spoked to my dad over the weekend. There were no signs. My brother and grandmother who lived with him noticed no signs.
My father texted my step mother, a neighborhood friend, and a family friend (our life long babysitter who everyone loves) that he loved us and to take care of my siblings and his mother. The family friend lives 20 minutes away, called the neighborhood friend, she went to the house and found his body. My family never saw the body, they saw him wheeled out of the yard in a body bag.
My stepmother came back to the east coast, (DC our airports are approximately 2.5 hours away.) she did not return home to the house for 4 days after his death. Her reasoning "she didnt want to come home to an empty house". Me, my 3 siblings, and their spouses were all waiting for her.
After sally returned home she banned my mothers side of the family from coming over and said if they stepped foot on the property, she would call the police for trespassing. After this comment I went to stay with my mother, and would visit during the day, but I refused to spend the night there. Come to find out, so did my step mother. She rented a hotel room down the street. After her return there was no funeral talk, just talk about switching the bills to her name and accounts to her name so she could still pay bills.
During this time she was cold and callace, showing no emotion. No tears, no emotion, actually she stayed in her room ignoring all of us. Lots of tears were shared between me and my siblings and my grandmother, friends etc. At this point, I had already taken off a week of work and had to send my boyfriend back to the west coast. About a week and a half we went to the funeral home to arrange for a funeral. The date was decided for 2 weeks after the date we went for the planning. I had to return home, i could not stay that long. Sally promised she would pay for me to come back for the funeral.
During this time my siblings and I were trying to get a hold of his will, lots of legal stuff, blah blah blah. We finally get a hold of the will, everything was left to sally. EVERYTHING. several lawyers told us so and there was no way to fight it.
I did not go back for the funeral, but was emailed approximately a week after the funeral, which was post poned again because everyone got COVID. I could not stand to be around her anymore. She made promises to take care of us, promised to give us some of his ashes, promised to let my brother keep living in the house, promised to take care of my grandmother. LIES ALL LIES.
she emailed all the siblings about a month later, telling us to clean out the house by March 31, get all of our stuff. etc. and stated we would all get some money from his personal accounts, and 1 life insurance policies. We get there, she refused to give us family heirlooms that belonged to my father, and refused to give us ashes. this is where I may be the asshole.
I was at my fathers house for basically a day to clean and get items that belonged to my dad. EVERYTHING I WANTED NO ONE GOT. We were all told no we couldnt take it. My step mom was burning some documents and by the fire and I walked over to her and ask about the ashes. She said "I am not giving you any. No one is getting them, that is the one thing I am keeping for myself." I sat there is silence, tears starting to form in my eyes and said "You know, you can always get a new husband, I will never get my father back" she said "that is uncalled for, you can leave before I call the police." I packed up and left. admittedly Sally is "hurting" too even if she never shows it. I can understand that the jab was mean, however I had been nice, let her hurt everyone around me and had kept my mouth shut for long enough. She deserved no more kindness in my heart.
Further background, she received everything, the house, cars, tools, tractor, golf cart, side by side, boat, trailers, camper. Just the house was listed for 620,000$. So she is loaded from his assets and plans to get rid of everything and keep nothing. ( house was paid off) She also makes a 6 figure salary, as did my father.
I went to contact her and apologize for my comment but I am blocked, blocked via phone, facebook, emails, everything. Needless to say months later I have received nothing but the items I managed to grab.
There is so much more but I want to keep it condensed as this is already long.
SHORT STORY:
My father committed suicide and my evil step mother kept everything for herself. When I asked for some of the ashes she told me no, so I responded with "you can always get a new husband, I cant get another father."
2024.05.12 20:21 Secure_Comparison654 Am I the a-hole for not taking my friends advice?
Hi Charlotte, I just wanna say I love your videos and I hope I can get your input for this story!
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and some change, when just a couple days ago he came out to me and told me he was cheating. He told me that there was more than 3 other girls that he was dating before he got with me. Of course I told him that I would need a break to process all of that and I immediately called up my homegirls. They comforted me and all the good stuff while I just sat on the phone with Niagara falls making a new location on my face and then one of my friends let's call her plankton, spoke up. I remember her exact words to this day, "yall just need to break up at this point because I'm tired of hearing you lying and crying playing victim, I feel bad for him". The call goes silent as she starts yapping her trap and then my ride or dies let's call her Patrick tells her in a non kid safe way to be quiet. She starts to go on about how I'm hurting her "best friend" (they rarely talk) and how I just need to leave him alone. Plankton continues to talk about how we need to break up and she finally finishes her rant with my favorite quote from her "I'm only saying this as your friend and I'm looking out for you". I quickly thank all my friends and hang up when Patrick calls me. She goes on to tell me how she feels like plankton likes my boyfriend, we'll call him Gary. I then start to speak out to her about how I feel and how I agree with her. We eventually get off the topic and after a bestie report otherwise known as a 3 hour phone call, we part ways as I have other things to worry about. I talk to Gary and he tells me that he has soul ties to the other girls as he has known them for years but he will try to get rid of them. I've decided that I would give him a chance, even though I have trust issues from past relationships (guys cheating) I decide to give him a chance bc I really like him. I tell my friends and all of my friends get frustrated but plankton is the most. They tell me that he could be playing with my heart but I don't know what to do. I feel like he is a nice guy buy at the same time I feel like he is trying to play me.
I will try to update this whenever I get anymore drama for this.
So am I the a-hole for not taking their advice?
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Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and some change, when just a couple days ago he came out to me and told me he was cheating. He told me that there was more than 3 other girls that he was dating before he got with me. Of course I told him that I would need a break to process all of that and I immediately called up my homegirls. They comforted me and all the good stuff while I just sat on the phone with Niagara falls making a new location on my face and then one of my friends let's call her plankton, spoke up. I remember her exact words to this day, "yall just need to break up at this point because I'm tired of hearing you lying and crying playing victim, I feel bad for him". The call goes silent as she starts yapping her trap and then my ride or dies let's call her Patrick tells her in a non kid safe way to be quiet. She starts to go on about how I'm hurting her "best friend" (they rarely talk) and how I just need to leave him alone. Plankton continues to talk about how we need to break up and she finally finishes her rant with my favorite quote from her "I'm only saying this as your friend and I'm looking out for you". I quickly thank all my friends and hang up when Patrick calls me. She goes on to tell me how she feels like plankton likes my boyfriend, we'll call him Gary. I then start to speak out to her about how I feel and how I agree with her. We eventually get off the topic and after a bestie report otherwise known as a 3 hour phone call, we part ways as I have other things to worry about. I talk to Gary and he tells me that he has soul ties to the other girls as he has known them for years but he will try to get rid of them. I've decided that I would give him a chance, even though I have trust issues from past relationships (guys cheating) I decide to give him a chance bc I really like him. I tell my friends and all of my friends get frustrated but plankton is the most. They tell me that he could be playing with my heart but I don't know what to do. I feel like he is a nice guy buy at the same time I feel like he is trying to play me.
I will try to update this whenever I get anymore drama for this.
So am I the a-hole for not taking their advice?
2024.05.12 18:16 SmaugMeister HP/PCP contract confusion please help!
Hello! I've recently looked at my car contract and I've already put in a complaint for miss selling but since I can't attach images I'm wondering if anyone can make heads and tails of this thats more legal savvy then I am. So I got my car a year and 1 month ago and its just too expensive now so I was looking at my options. I know there's a 50% pay off return HP clause or early settlement so got my quote letter from my finance what this would be. However upon checking my docs from lookers I'm extremely confused.
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- The lookers options of finance discussed section you have to sign says I've opted for pcp though I went for Hp as I didn't want any final huge payments which i told the broker so that confused me
- My credit agreement with redline says hire purchase though states final payment of 4140. Which I did not know about granted shouldve read it first but I thought it would be well.. correct. My boyfriend at the time was present and also confirmed we weren't told this and thought it was HP with no balloon same as i did.
- The agreement says Hire purchase with a hire purchase charge listed on the credit breakdown too has no mention of it being a pcp yet has no clause about 50% mark return nor does it have pcp features such as gmfv value, no mention of part exchange or other options or purchase fees just listed as 49months final payment before owning the goods, i cannot sell the car under this agreement (though i guess maybe i can just ask long as finance is paid). So im extremely confused by all this. It does have mileage costs though which HP isn't supposed to have.
- Either way if its pcp or hp I never discussed a large final payment and was grossly unaware of it and the information seems confusing and contradictory both verbally and written. I've lodged a complaint and see where I get. I'm not looking for compensation I just simply want to give it back without getting myself in large financial trouble for months.
2024.05.12 09:11 DropsOfChaos How to sell a car in the UK?
Hi all,
I'm looking for advice on how to proceed with selling a used Lexus Rh450si with about 110k on it. I'm selling it because my boyfriend has brain cancer and can't drive anymore, so we're switching it out for one on the Motability scheme because they simply take care of everything (it's going to be a rough few years ahead of us, I don't want to deal with car maintenance etc).
The Lexus passed its MOT in January with an advisement for new brake pads, and has no other issues besides some basic body work (dings and scratches, one front panel is loose, etc).
I'm looking for a relatively hassle free method of selling, if possible, because I'm busy caring for my partner and car care isn't my top priority, but I certainly don't want to leave money on the table.
First of all, do I get it cleaned up first? If so, a basic detailing job (about £50) or do I go for the full £300 that the chaps at the garage near me quoted to do a full clean up including body work.
That same garage gave me an offer to take it off my hands: £4,000. That's my fall back offer with no clean up or effort (literally walk over and give them the keys).
I'm sure I can do better. How much better? I'd love to get thoughts or examples, and suggestions of where else to post, what to include in a posting, examples of a great car posting (do I need to include certain photos or info?) etc.
Anything we get over the £4k goes a long way in helping us cover the costs with this cancer shite, so advice is much much appreciated 🫠
Thanks all!
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I'm looking for advice on how to proceed with selling a used Lexus Rh450si with about 110k on it. I'm selling it because my boyfriend has brain cancer and can't drive anymore, so we're switching it out for one on the Motability scheme because they simply take care of everything (it's going to be a rough few years ahead of us, I don't want to deal with car maintenance etc).
The Lexus passed its MOT in January with an advisement for new brake pads, and has no other issues besides some basic body work (dings and scratches, one front panel is loose, etc).
I'm looking for a relatively hassle free method of selling, if possible, because I'm busy caring for my partner and car care isn't my top priority, but I certainly don't want to leave money on the table.
First of all, do I get it cleaned up first? If so, a basic detailing job (about £50) or do I go for the full £300 that the chaps at the garage near me quoted to do a full clean up including body work.
That same garage gave me an offer to take it off my hands: £4,000. That's my fall back offer with no clean up or effort (literally walk over and give them the keys).
I'm sure I can do better. How much better? I'd love to get thoughts or examples, and suggestions of where else to post, what to include in a posting, examples of a great car posting (do I need to include certain photos or info?) etc.
Anything we get over the £4k goes a long way in helping us cover the costs with this cancer shite, so advice is much much appreciated 🫠
Thanks all!
2024.05.12 08:30 woofallin Why can't I(25F) get over my boyfriend/ex-fiance(25M) telling me to kill myself?
So, for context; I need to get this off my chest, I can't go to anyone in my family because they all trust him more than me...
I had a huge "fight" on Tuesday with my boyfriend. I quote fight because it was just me trying to understand his behaviour and trying to get him to see that the things he says and the things he does don't coincide. He'll tell me he loves me, but ignores and neglects me in every possible (except sexually). I always start these talks with "Can you help me understand something?" and get an annoyed sigh, or just silence.
Anyway, I told him that ever since I broke off our engagement, he's been love bombing and doing shit he hasn't done in the entirety of our 8 years together. (Complimenting me, acknowledging I exist, letting me have friends, and taking an interest in my hobbies.) And I'm confused, that I really can't things at face value from him anymore.
He wasn't having it, shaking his head and trying to dismiss the conversation saying "I don't know what you're talking about." And "I just can't do anything to make you happy anymore." I wanted to cry, but didn't. (I used to cry in front of him just to have him stare at me and say "Are you done" so many times that I just feel foolish crying in front of him at this point.) So, Instead I told him, his behaviour these past years have hurt me so much emotionally, that my self-esteem is so damaged that I latch onto any attention I get from anyone. I expressed that his neglect made me feel impossible to be seen so I contemplated suicide for a long time. He told me, "Maybe you should just do it, just go and do it. Just leave me and do it."
I was shocked... I asked him three times, "Did you tell me to kill myself?" Which he would shut down and shrug. I just couldn't believe what I was hearing... When it finally dawned on me what just happened, something in me snapped. I started yelling and screaming at him, "Why? Why are you so fucking cruel?" While losing my shit and crying. He just sat there and smiled at me. I grabbed my phone and called the cops. I felt like I was losing every part of me and all he was doing was smiling. I told the operator I needed them to remove him from our apartment...
The police showed up for the first time and it was like a kettle overflowing, I told them all the shit that's been happening to me. All the outbursts he would have (The Tuesday before that, we got drunk together and he accused me of cheating with my new friends, didn't matter who, if they were male I was "cheating on him". So when I told him to leave me alone, he dragged me by the hair from our bedroom to the living room.) to the police officer that was with me.
I needed to use the bathroom, so they allowed me back in the building. And when I walked in I heard my boyfriend being hysterical, saying that I was mentally unwell, that I misunderstood him and he never told me to kill myself per se... And they believed him. They took him to my mother's and I never felt so defeated, unheard, and alone. I don't know how to handle any of this...
It's been nearly a week after that incident. He's back in our apartment because my mother said "He loves you, my girl. You're just unwell..." I've been putting on a mask, but in reality I'm dying on the inside. I feel so terribly alone and the moment I try to reconcile, I remember screaming at him to stop pulling me by the hair, crying and asking why he's so cruel... It's taken a toll on our relationship and I just don't understand why this time I can't get over it.
I keep trying to ask him, "Why did you say that?" and "I didn't deserve that, why did you do it?" And I'm met with "I said I was sorry, I don't know why you're making a big deal out of it." "Why can't you just move on?" I just... need some clarification if it's okay to question this? I don't know. I haven't had a mind of my own in years.
TLDR; my boyfriend told me to kill myself when I tried to understand his motives. I wasn't able to process anything he said and I'm just taking it day by day and he's fed up why I can't get over it.
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I had a huge "fight" on Tuesday with my boyfriend. I quote fight because it was just me trying to understand his behaviour and trying to get him to see that the things he says and the things he does don't coincide. He'll tell me he loves me, but ignores and neglects me in every possible (except sexually). I always start these talks with "Can you help me understand something?" and get an annoyed sigh, or just silence.
Anyway, I told him that ever since I broke off our engagement, he's been love bombing and doing shit he hasn't done in the entirety of our 8 years together. (Complimenting me, acknowledging I exist, letting me have friends, and taking an interest in my hobbies.) And I'm confused, that I really can't things at face value from him anymore.
He wasn't having it, shaking his head and trying to dismiss the conversation saying "I don't know what you're talking about." And "I just can't do anything to make you happy anymore." I wanted to cry, but didn't. (I used to cry in front of him just to have him stare at me and say "Are you done" so many times that I just feel foolish crying in front of him at this point.) So, Instead I told him, his behaviour these past years have hurt me so much emotionally, that my self-esteem is so damaged that I latch onto any attention I get from anyone. I expressed that his neglect made me feel impossible to be seen so I contemplated suicide for a long time. He told me, "Maybe you should just do it, just go and do it. Just leave me and do it."
I was shocked... I asked him three times, "Did you tell me to kill myself?" Which he would shut down and shrug. I just couldn't believe what I was hearing... When it finally dawned on me what just happened, something in me snapped. I started yelling and screaming at him, "Why? Why are you so fucking cruel?" While losing my shit and crying. He just sat there and smiled at me. I grabbed my phone and called the cops. I felt like I was losing every part of me and all he was doing was smiling. I told the operator I needed them to remove him from our apartment...
The police showed up for the first time and it was like a kettle overflowing, I told them all the shit that's been happening to me. All the outbursts he would have (The Tuesday before that, we got drunk together and he accused me of cheating with my new friends, didn't matter who, if they were male I was "cheating on him". So when I told him to leave me alone, he dragged me by the hair from our bedroom to the living room.) to the police officer that was with me.
I needed to use the bathroom, so they allowed me back in the building. And when I walked in I heard my boyfriend being hysterical, saying that I was mentally unwell, that I misunderstood him and he never told me to kill myself per se... And they believed him. They took him to my mother's and I never felt so defeated, unheard, and alone. I don't know how to handle any of this...
It's been nearly a week after that incident. He's back in our apartment because my mother said "He loves you, my girl. You're just unwell..." I've been putting on a mask, but in reality I'm dying on the inside. I feel so terribly alone and the moment I try to reconcile, I remember screaming at him to stop pulling me by the hair, crying and asking why he's so cruel... It's taken a toll on our relationship and I just don't understand why this time I can't get over it.
I keep trying to ask him, "Why did you say that?" and "I didn't deserve that, why did you do it?" And I'm met with "I said I was sorry, I don't know why you're making a big deal out of it." "Why can't you just move on?" I just... need some clarification if it's okay to question this? I don't know. I haven't had a mind of my own in years.
TLDR; my boyfriend told me to kill myself when I tried to understand his motives. I wasn't able to process anything he said and I'm just taking it day by day and he's fed up why I can't get over it.
2024.05.11 22:43 shaneka69 Chrisean Rock Astrology Forecast As Of May 11, 2024
Chrisean Rock Astrology Forecast As Of May 11, 2024
With Mother's Day tomorrow and Chrisean Rock being a new mom, let's just do an updated astrology reading for her by checking her birth chart.As we know, Chrisean was born in Baltimore and is known for her appearance on Baddies with Natalie Nunn and her own show she had with Blueface.
We know that she is a Pisces which is her sun sign/zodiac sign. She has a Cancer Moon which rules your emotions and emotional state.
Uranus is currently sextile Chrisean Rock's sun which means that she will be openly showing unpredictability and will likely be shocking people and even herself.
Uranus is in her 12th house which is the house of the unknown and blind spots as well. This can mean that she will have breakthroughs and insights. Could even result in premonitions and informative dream states.
Pluto is the planet known for exposing and causing change and this planet is currently opposing her North Node which shows that there will be a gradual process in her doing what she is supposed to be doing and going in the right direction. Pluto isn't making any connections with her personal planets yet, so she isn't expected to be going through anything too major right now.
Jupiter sextile her sun is giving her the expanding energy for her sports endeavor. Her Aries Mars will always see her through naturally though.
Let's go forward to the following month, June on this day to see what she may be experiencing.
Jupiter is the ruler of her 7th and 10th house and on June 11, 2024, she will have Jupiter squaring her Venus and Mercury which means that there can be issues with points getting across or communication issues between her and family or her and Blueface. She is likely to be intuitive around this time with Jupiter making a trine to her natal Neptune.
Since Jupiter will be squaring her Mercury and Venus, let's put focus on the fact that Mercury rules her ascendant and 4th house which is why there can be a link with family or her lover if it isn't about her mindset. Virgo being in her 4th house though makes it more tangible. Venus rules her 12th house and 5th house of romance and children. Basically this whole Jupiter aspect transit could be connected to her family. Let's see what happens.
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2024.05.11 22:01 thr0waway345562 Would I be an asshole if I told my best friends girlfriend that she’s been obsessively flirting with a guy.
My (16F) bestfriend (16F) who I'll call Kaitlyn has been really obsessed with this guy (16M) who I'll call Cooper for 2 years now. They flirted back and forth a little back in 2022, but it was mostly her and he wasn't very interested. At some point in the summer, he started playing games with her every now and then and then completely dipped. She never got completely over him.
Fast forward to now, Kaitlyn is in a relationship with a girl (15F) who I'll call Lea. Everything was going well until she started talking to Cooper again. Originally he was just sending her shirtless pics and she was freaking out. Then, she spent the day at his school to try and find him and was shaking and crying afterwards when she found out he had been looking for her too. After that, they had a phone call one on one where he was very overtly flirting and she ended up posting about 6 different tiktoks and instagram stories quoting him, posting his name with hearts and "The Boy is Mine" by Brandy in the background. Just overall freaking out and being very obvious about her adoration for him.
Lea has been damn near perfect to Kaitlyn this whole time and really doesn't deserve to be strung along while Kaitlyn chases this other guy. The problem is, Kaitlyn refuses to admit how big of a problem this is and thinks "well if it was gonna happen, it would've already happened". This would be true if it wasn't for the fact that A. it's already happening and B. he got out of a long term relationship (the one he was in when she started liking him) 2 months ago. The timing makes perfect sense.
I hate watching this happen and i genuinely feel so bad for Lea. It's already escalating and i have no doubt it will continue to do so. If I don't say anything or do anything, then I feel like an awful person for just standing by and letting someone get hurt. If I do something, then I'm betraying my best friend and it could very much flip back on me.
Kaitlyn thinks that because there's a chance he's just messing with her, it's okay for her to flirt with him and obsess over him behind Lea's back. I disagree.
Additional Info: This is not the first time this has happened, she ended up leaving her ex boyfriend for Cooper trying to get him, all while Cooper was in a relationship. I have threatened to tell Lea what's going on but was more of an empty threat.
Would I be the Asshole if i snitched?
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Fast forward to now, Kaitlyn is in a relationship with a girl (15F) who I'll call Lea. Everything was going well until she started talking to Cooper again. Originally he was just sending her shirtless pics and she was freaking out. Then, she spent the day at his school to try and find him and was shaking and crying afterwards when she found out he had been looking for her too. After that, they had a phone call one on one where he was very overtly flirting and she ended up posting about 6 different tiktoks and instagram stories quoting him, posting his name with hearts and "The Boy is Mine" by Brandy in the background. Just overall freaking out and being very obvious about her adoration for him.
Lea has been damn near perfect to Kaitlyn this whole time and really doesn't deserve to be strung along while Kaitlyn chases this other guy. The problem is, Kaitlyn refuses to admit how big of a problem this is and thinks "well if it was gonna happen, it would've already happened". This would be true if it wasn't for the fact that A. it's already happening and B. he got out of a long term relationship (the one he was in when she started liking him) 2 months ago. The timing makes perfect sense.
I hate watching this happen and i genuinely feel so bad for Lea. It's already escalating and i have no doubt it will continue to do so. If I don't say anything or do anything, then I feel like an awful person for just standing by and letting someone get hurt. If I do something, then I'm betraying my best friend and it could very much flip back on me.
Kaitlyn thinks that because there's a chance he's just messing with her, it's okay for her to flirt with him and obsess over him behind Lea's back. I disagree.
Additional Info: This is not the first time this has happened, she ended up leaving her ex boyfriend for Cooper trying to get him, all while Cooper was in a relationship. I have threatened to tell Lea what's going on but was more of an empty threat.
Would I be the Asshole if i snitched?
2024.05.11 22:00 thr0waway345562 Would I be the Asshole if i told my best friend’s girlfriend that she’s been obsessively flirting with a guy?
My (16F) bestfriend (16F) who I'll call Kaitlyn has been really obsessed with this guy (16M) who I'll call Cooper for 2 years now. They flirted back and forth a little back in 2022, but it was mostly her and he wasn't very interested. At some point in the summer, he started playing games with her every now and then and then completely dipped. She never got completely over him.
Fast forward to now, Kaitlyn is in a relationship with a girl (15F) who I'll call Lea. Everything was going well until she started talking to Cooper again. Originally he was just sending her shirtless pics and she was freaking out. Then, she spent the day at his school to try and find him and was shaking and crying afterwards when she found out he had been looking for her too. After that, they had a phone call one on one where he was very overtly flirting and she ended up posting about 6 different tiktoks and instagram stories quoting him, posting his name with hearts and "The Boy is Mine" by Brandy in the background. Just overall freaking out and being very obvious about her adoration for him.
Lea has been damn near perfect to Kaitlyn this whole time and really doesn't deserve to be strung along while Kaitlyn chases this other guy.
The problem is, Kaitlyn refuses to admit how big of a problem this is and thinks "well if it was gonna happen, it would've already happened". This would be true if it wasn't for the fact that A. it's already happening and B. he got out of a long term relationship (the one he was in when she started liking him) 2 months ago. The timing makes perfect sense.
I hate watching this happen and i genuinely feel so bad for Lea. It's already escalating and i have no doubt it will continue to do so. If I don't say anything or do anything, then I feel like an awful person for just standing by and letting someone get hurt. If I do something, then I'm betraying my best friend and it could very much flip back on me.
Kaitlyn thinks that because there's a chance he's just messing with her, it's okay for her to flirt with him and obsess over him behind Lea's back. I disagree.
Additional Info: This is not the first time this has happened, she ended up leaving her ex boyfriend for Cooper trying to get him, all while Cooper was in a relationship. Difference is, this time she’s not leaving. She’s stringing Lea along. I have threatened to tell Lea what's going on but was more of an empty threat.
Would I be the Asshole if i snitched?
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Fast forward to now, Kaitlyn is in a relationship with a girl (15F) who I'll call Lea. Everything was going well until she started talking to Cooper again. Originally he was just sending her shirtless pics and she was freaking out. Then, she spent the day at his school to try and find him and was shaking and crying afterwards when she found out he had been looking for her too. After that, they had a phone call one on one where he was very overtly flirting and she ended up posting about 6 different tiktoks and instagram stories quoting him, posting his name with hearts and "The Boy is Mine" by Brandy in the background. Just overall freaking out and being very obvious about her adoration for him.
Lea has been damn near perfect to Kaitlyn this whole time and really doesn't deserve to be strung along while Kaitlyn chases this other guy.
The problem is, Kaitlyn refuses to admit how big of a problem this is and thinks "well if it was gonna happen, it would've already happened". This would be true if it wasn't for the fact that A. it's already happening and B. he got out of a long term relationship (the one he was in when she started liking him) 2 months ago. The timing makes perfect sense.
I hate watching this happen and i genuinely feel so bad for Lea. It's already escalating and i have no doubt it will continue to do so. If I don't say anything or do anything, then I feel like an awful person for just standing by and letting someone get hurt. If I do something, then I'm betraying my best friend and it could very much flip back on me.
Kaitlyn thinks that because there's a chance he's just messing with her, it's okay for her to flirt with him and obsess over him behind Lea's back. I disagree.
Additional Info: This is not the first time this has happened, she ended up leaving her ex boyfriend for Cooper trying to get him, all while Cooper was in a relationship. Difference is, this time she’s not leaving. She’s stringing Lea along. I have threatened to tell Lea what's going on but was more of an empty threat.
Would I be the Asshole if i snitched?