Medyo sikat ngayon si Risa dahil kay Angela Guo na Mayor. We also know naman na sya rin nag gisa kay Quiboloy para magkaron ng arrest warrant. Ngayon na meron mga issue kay KDR eh panahon na siguro para makabawi si Risa sa gunawang pamamahiya dati ni KDR sa program nya na Get it Straight. Isang pwede naten is raise kay Risa is yung Financial Report dahil sa SEC dapat pala nagsa submit ng financial report ang mga foundation or mga nag solicit ng funds para sa mga project. Tinutukoy ko dito is yung ADD Foundation at yung Kamanggagawa Foundation na syang ginagamit ni KDR panghikayat na mas makapagbigay pa mga kapatid dahil sa charity works.
At other issues nadin naten mga ditapak. Sana makagawa tayo ng action actually panay comment na ako sa tiktok ni Sen Risa na imbestigahan nya si Daniel Razon dahil sa umanoy mga anomalya sa Iglesia. Like she did kay Quiboloy

Hi! First time posting here. Hope to get a good feedback/recommendation/advice from everyone!
I work sa isang transnational development company. Bale ang sahod namin galing sa subsidy ng ibang bansa. Boss ko Expat!
Here’s my problem, passive-aggressive na micro-manager ang boss ko. Nung una okay lang, pero ngayun lumala na. We always didn’t see each other eye to eye kasi ako lang nagtatanong sa kanya sa mga meeting, ako lang naninindigan at vocal sa suggestions ko.
Ang problema ko ay nagsimula last week. Naka work from home ako, tapos biglang gusto nyha akong pagreportin sa office para i-receive yung letter na galling sa bahayh nya. Gusto nya ipa-scan at ipa-email sa partner namin. Ang ginawa ko naman, nakiusap ako sa Admin naming na sya na mag receive at mag scan. Nasend ko naman ng maayus. Biglang nagpatawag ng Zoom meeting si Sir. Galit na galit! Di ko daw sya sinunod. Ang work from home daw pwede nya i-revoke at any time.
After, after that intentionally di nya na ko sinasama sa email loop kung minsan. Mung nagfollow up sya dun sa letter at nagalit samin ng Admin, nagpaliwanag yung Admin. Nagreply naman ng acknowledgement si Sir, pwede di nako naka cc.
Kanina sa meeting, sinabihan nya ko na mageexercise daw sya ng management prerogative, gusto nya daw LAHAT ng outgoing emails ko naka cc na sya. Kaninang hapon naman, sa meeting with one partner bigla nya nalang in-announce na admin na lang daw ang role ko. Lahat ng communication pertaining to administrative thing sakin na daw idaan. The rest sa kanya daw ideretso na. this was done without consulting me or discussing it with me first.
Ayaw ko naman mag-resign, kasi hangang next year nalang naman Expat si Sir. Konting tiis nalang. Pero anu ba sana magandang gawin? Do I have a case na pwede ilapit sa DOLE? If yes, how? Targeted harassment na kasi sya. Stressed out na din ako.
Patulong naman mga idol! Salamat

My mom died battling cancer. I have no more words, I feel like a part of me was taken away. I dont know how to express if this is grief, sadness, anger, confusion.
Kahapon nakausap pa siya then suddenly she went delirium and everything starts falling. We were told its the end of stage already and we should make our peace since nakakausap pa siya. Lord, bakit niyo po siya kinuha agad? She is only in her 50s, need niya pa laruin ang kaniyang mgs future na apo. Paano na ang future kasal na nilook forward niya? The biggest bomb dropped is nag compose siya ng letter ng december palang congratulating my sister and her fiancée sa wedding na gaganapin this december. It as if nakita niya na di siya aabot so she composed a simple yet sweet message.
I am scared hindi ko alam ano nararamdaman ko and a part of me is crying while a part of me wants to let go. Ang hirap kasi need ko maging mas matatag para sa ate at dad ko. Ako ang need maging strong para sa kanila and im scared baka dahan dahan naman ako ang mawala.

Hi! So may bibigay sana na phone sa'kin but smart-locked siya, naka postpaid kasi ako sa globe and matagal pa before matapos contract. However, yung phone na yun is bigay kasi ng work niya but fully paid na. Di ako sure if pprovide-an siya ng letter of request kasi baka mahirap din. Hingi ng tips on what to do pls huhu

WARNING: MAHABA ATE KO HEHE
My Bf (M18) and I (F18) were together for almost 2 years tapos 9 months officially in a relationship. My very first bf. Kahapon habang nasa salon ako, nakipagbreak na sya sa'kin. Nalaman ko sa iba na magkasama pala sila for three days sa isang city. Alam ko non na umalis sya kasi may tournament, pero ang hindi ko alam ay kasama pala si girl. Whole time na nasa City sya, nag uupdate ako sa kanya ng whereabouts ko, iloveyous ganyan, pero magrereply lang sya ng "yes" or "okay" or "later na lang bebe" tinaggap ko yun kasi busy sya sa laro. Pero yung "later" na sinasabi nya, it never happened. Kung hindi pa magchachat sakin mama nya, hindi ko pa alam na nakauwi na pala sya sa bahay nila at kung saan sya napunta, mama nya rin nag uupdate. Tapos hindi ko alam kung anong isasagot ko kay tita nung ini-ask nya kung okay lanh daw ba kami kaya ang sinabi ko ay okay lang kami kasi syempre ayaw ko syang mag isip. Saka anak nya yun, iniisip ko na baka hindi sya maniwala sakin. Pero okay ang rs namin ni tita, lagi akong may pasalubong everytime uuwi sya galing ibang lugar. Nag hehesitate lang talaga ako sabihin. At di ko alam kung dapat ba.
SO BACK TO THE STORY (sorry napasegway)
Kaya naman pala si girl at laging hatid-sundo lately. Sinabi ko naman sa kanya noon na uncomfortable ako na nagpapahatid sundo sa kanya tong si girl, di pa rin sya dumistansya at nagalit pa sakin kasi pinapalayo ko raw sya sa mga tropa nya. Tapos nakipagnegotiate pa sya sakin na kung okay lang daw ba ihatid yung girl kapag tatlo silang mag kakaangkas. Pumayag ako non kasi kahit papaano binigyan ko ng benefit of the doubt. E di nakipagbreak nga diba, same day nagpost ng tiktok si girl na nagsasayaw silang dalawa sa bahay ni girl (kung san sila lang ang tao). Nung inistalk ko yung girl, deleted na sya. Sa tingin nyo ba katulong nya si girl magcompose ng break up message sakin? Tapos nahuli ko rin sila sa court magkasamang nanood. Hindi ko na sya kinakausap non kasi iniisip ko magpapamiss lang ako (that same night ko nalaman na magkasama pala sila for three days). Nanlumo talaga ako tapos naiiyak iyak na ako sa court. Thankfully my friends were there. Nag usap kami ni girl kagabi kasi habang inistalk ko sya, napindot ko yung call haha malas. Tapos tinaggi nya na magkasama sila tapos sabi nya didistansya raw muna sya para wala raw ako isipin, e nakita ko sila kaninang magkaangkas. Tapos sabi pa ni girl sakin "di naman kita mapipilit e kung ayaw mo maniwala". Kaya ayun. Grabe ang betrayal na naranasan ko at hindi ko alam kung paano sya ihandle. Yung usap namin ni girl is, kontrolado ko sinasabi ko kasi she's known na mambabaliktad kaya ayaw ko na baliktarin nila ako. Anong magandang gawin? Alak lang takbuhan ko ngayon tapos iyak ako nang iyak kasi sobrang sakit.
Take note: GUY:
nasa kabilang room lang sya, athlete, mayroong detachment style, he treated me so good na hindi ako naghinala the whole time, galante, gift-giving at physical touch love language nya, sagot nya lahat ng dates namin at binibigyan nya ako ng mga gifts, sumasagot din naman ako pero mas madalas talaga ay sya at active din kami (we practice it safe) around march hindi na sya nagdadala ng cp nya around me at ang reason nya lagi ay "lowbatt naman e kaya di ko na dinala", tapos ang reason nya sa break up namin ay "ramdam nyang ayaw ko na raw" kasi siguro hindi ako nagparamdam for a day kasi yun nga yung nagpapamiss ako, at sabi nya sakin "may ginawa ka at sa iba ko pa nalaman" nung tinanong ko kung ano yun wala syang masabi. I am very confident na loyal akong gf at wala akong ginawa nyang hindi nya magugustuhan.
GIRL:
Galing sa abusive rs, nagsself harm(that's y takot akong iconfront sya kasi ayaw ko maging reason kung bat sya masasaktan), kagroup ko sa research (buhat), may record ng cheating at pambabaliktad, play bunny sya ng circle of friends ng ex ko, ex nya ay tropa ni guy tapos yung ex na rin nya na yun ay galing sa tropa nya
GINAWA KO WHILE KAMI: constant reassurance kasi madalas sya mag overthink, I dress the way he wants (di na nag sasando or tube sa labas, palaging oversized), ginagawa ko mga academic tasks nya since parehas kaming STEM at pareho naman ang subject teachers namin, binilhan ko sya ng skincare at tinuturuan manamit kung bagay ba or what, alagang alaga ko sya ate, nag ayos-ayos na sya nung naging kami. I like handicrafts kaya ipinaccrochet ko sya ganyan, mga love letter coz im a very sentimental person.
ewan ko rin ba kung paano kami napunta sa gantong sitwasyon, akala ko kami na talaga

stated sa title, isa din akong tao na matagal nang mahal ang best friend niya. (close friend lang pala) 6 years na, naks malapit nang maka-tie yung pitong taon ni carson 🥰
little backstory: (let's call him j)
J was just an acquaintance at first, a friend of a friend. we met when we were in senior high school, fresh from break up ako noon from my biggest nightmare of an ex, iba kami ng school pero classmates niya childhood friends ko, kaya ayon naging close din kami. we meet up every fiesta dito samin, yes every fiesta lang kasi hindi ako pinapayagan gumala. we message every day tapos we do phone call every night. then, biglang hindi na niya ako kinausap, nalaman ko he was dating one of my closest friends. ayon, natigil. for more than a year, J and i didn't talk with each other. i had a little crush on him that time na talaga but i pushed that attraction away kasi nga syota niya isa sa mga kaibigan ko.
one day he reached out to me, begging me to help him reconcile with my friend kasi blinock siya, they broke up. he was in shambles that time, he did everything for her. as a concerned friend kinausap ko din yung kaibigan ko about him, ayaw na niya talaga. wala naman ako magagawa, he confided on me. and foolish din ako to help him, siya yung tipo na gagawin niyang mundo yung syota niya kaya he was friendless. i made urged him to go back skate boarding, play basketball and coninue playing ML kasi he enjoyed those things pero pinagbawalan siya ng kaibigan ko. i made him slowly reconcile with our friends, i help him sa school works niya kahit wala akong alam sa I.T hahahaha. i brought him food sa campus nila kahit na 1hr away siya from my place. he's funny, gentle, may depth and masipag, he'd usually tuck my hair behind my ear, pill shrimp for me, tie my schoelaces, punas pawis, its the littlest of things talaga. ewan, after a year of those things, he asked permission to court me pero ni-reject ko siya kahit hulog na ako kasi ex siya ng kaibigan ko.
don't get me wrong, my friend and him both confided in me when the break up happened, siguro kasi nurturer talaga akong type of person hahahaha kahit ako napapagod noon sa gitna nila hinayaan ko lang kasi break ups are hard. (tanga moments)
tapos after a few months he courted me again, hindi na siya nagpaalam kasi sabi niya he'll court me whether i say yes or no kasi he wants to prove himself. pero i was adamant na ayaw ko. kahit umiiyak ako everytime he told me he likes me, everytime i rejected him, my heart bleeds out for us. wala akong magawa but to say no dahil nirerespeto ko yung kaibigan ko. tapos nalaman ko pa na sinabihan niya si J na to never talk to me kasi iba daw ugali ko. i was hurt, kasi naiipit ako sa sitwasyon na hindi ko naman ginusto pero alam ko na pinili ko. after that rejection naging mailap na siya, sabi niya he needed space to cope with the heartbreak. hanggang sa ilang buwan na kaming hindi nagkausap kasi iniiwasan niya ako. tapos ayon, nalaman ko may girlfriend na siya. no apologies, i understand naman kasi he didn't owe me one. so i acted like nothing happened, we remained good friends. we still talk, we still hangout, we're still confidants of each other.
yesterday was his and his girl's 3 year anniversary. i congratulated him.
I'm a hypocrite, lagi ko sinasabi na reason ay dahil sa trauma ko sa last ex ko, o kaya naman ay hindi pa ako ready, o kaya naman ay i enjoy being single. pero ang totoo mahal ko parin siya. i still think of him whenever i eat kwek-kwek, remember his face when i listen to the songs he used to play on his guitar, i remember him from every laugh that i let out. he's everywhere from the very nook and crannies of my heart. mahal na mahal ko siya.
i don't cling to this love because of what ifs and the idea of him, but i just love him. hindi ko wini-wish na maghiwalay sila ng jowa niya because nakikita ko naman na mahal niya yung tao. i can see the way his eyes lit up sa tuwing napag-uusapan o nababanggit niya yung pangalan ng mahal niya. i hope he knows he's loved, unknowingly. ayon lang shuta napahaba na, iiyakan ko nanaman 'to mamaya.

hello, konting background lang
nakabili ako ng H&L sa isang subdv around metro manila, ang problema after less than a year nagkaron ng leak sa 2nd floor. inayos naman nila pero pabalik balik na umabot ng 9 mos ang problem. ngayon inayos ulit nila and nagbigay sila ng letter na kapag 1 week wala na leak ay hindi na sila liable sa any damages. tama lang ba yun or unfair samin? what if lumabas ang leak after 1 month? H&L cost around 9M kaya dissapointed ako sa mga ganitong damages. ito pala laman ng letter for reference. thanks

Subject: Resolution of Leak Complaint
We like to inform you that we have addressed and fixed the issue you reported
regarding the leak in your bathroom. Our team has completed the necessary repairs,
and we believe the problem has been resolved.
To ensure that the repair is effective and that there are no further issues, we kindly
request that you monitor the bathroom for any signs of leaking over the next week. This
period will allow us to confirm the effectiveness of our repair work.
If you notice any further leaks or related issues during this time, please do not hesitate
to contact US immediately SO we can address them promptly. B However, if there are no
complaints or feedback from you after one week, we will consider the matter resolved
and the problem fully fixed.
We appreciate your cooperation and understanding in this matter. Please feel free to
reach out to Us if you have any questions or require further assistance,
Thank you for your attention to this matter.

Hello. I have a reserved unit with Fiesta Prime na binayaran namin last year. Now po, naghihingi na sila ng documentary requirements for Pag-ibig loan processing and property turnover. May problema nga lang po yung ibang documents kaya hindi ko maipasa kaagad.
Now, 2 times na nagpadala ng letter ang Fiesta na my payments will be forfeited if I am not able to submit the requirements within a few days. One of the documents needed kasi is the birth certificate of my co-borrower which is my father. May name discrepancy kasi sya sa bc. Nagpunta na kami sa Fiesta last week para sabihin ito. At binigyan kami hanggang bukas para ipa-annotate ang bc ng father ko. Alam naman po nating lahat kung gaano kabilis ang proseso sa mga ganitong case. Wala rin silang binigay na alternative document na pwede namin ipasa in lieu of the annotated bc like affidavit.
Wala na po ba talaga kaming laban if iforfeit nila ang payments namin dahil lang dito? Nakikiusap rin naman kami ng maayos sa kanila.

Hello. Itatanong ko lang sana kung entitled pa din ba ako sa separation pay na makukuha ko sa huling company na pinasukan ko. 9 days na akong awol at ayoko na talagang bumalik due sa health issue at mababang pasahod nila at di na din ako nakapag file ng resignation letter sa HR namin. Ngayon kasi inaasahan ko na may mapapasok pang sahod ko sa huling cut off namin pero pag check ko wala. Makukuha ko pa din ba yun? Kinausap ko na din yung HR so far wala pa din silang reply. Itatanong ko na din po kung ano pa yung dapat gawin? TIA.

i am a passer po for march 2024 mtle and currently working at a free standing lab po for exactly 1 month po, pero i tried to apply po in a government hospital. I sent my resume, tor, and prc license sa email nila and they immediately responsed, saying na i may personally submit my application to the office of the provincial governor. they require me to submit a personal data sheet, cover letter, and certificate of eligibility.
i heard that certificate of eligibility is given to those who took and passed the civil service exam, ibig sabihin po ba need ko po muna magtake ng CSE before applying? or are there any alternatives like yung certificate of registration etc?

I don't know what else to do. Sabi ng friends ko ipa check up daw namin yung sister ko sa speech therapist but we don't have the money for it. Tinuturuan ko siya magsalita ng words na hindi niya ma pronounce (14 letters) na napanood ko lang sa youtube pero I can't be here with her everyday dahil may job ako and minsan umuuwi na akong pagod so wala na talaga akong time. Hindi siya maturuan ng parents ko dahil wala rin silang time. Hindi ako maka ipon para sa pang pa check up niya dahil may binabayaran pa ako sa school and tumutulong ako sa house bills.
Sanay na kami sa words niya so kami naiintindihan namin pero kapag ibang tao, mapagkakamalan mong nagsasalita siya ng ibang language. She can't pronounce C, F, G, H, J, K, L, Q, R, S, V, W, X, Z
Ramdam ko yung embarrassment niya kapag pinagsasalita siya in public place, naiiyak nalang ako kasi I don't what else to do. Ayokong habang buhay ma-bully yung kapatid ko dahil dito. Sa school niya binully siya before pero ngayon hindi na raw dahil napagsabihan na ng teacher. I love my sister so much, ayokong tumanda siyang nilolook down ng ibang tao.
Kanina nilapitan niya ko and nagpapaturo siya sakin magsalita, even though pagod na ko nanood kami ng youtube videos and tinuruan ko siya magsalita. Kahit siya gusto na rin matuto.
If you have any suggestions please please let me know, she's turning 11 this November. I literally don't know what to do na

This account is not for vulnerability but let me be vulnerable once in a while because it fucking hurts so much. "In the Stars" by Benson Boone keeps on repeat, I want to wallow myself in sadness and tears even just for a while until I accepted the fact that you're gone, FOR REAL.
Remember June 2012 when I decided to change career, the career that I am passionate. You're welcoming freshman, transferees and unit earners that time, naisip ko na lang bigla "Ay!Shuding ites!" because your feminine side was screaming, but boy I was wrong personality mo lang talaga pala yun. You're a 3rd year student, and I was a 2nd year irregular student that time. May mga subjects kayo na nakuha ko kasi masyado kong inoverload ang sarili ko non since I wanted to finish it as much as possible, masyado akong nagdwell sa pressure na I am getting older to have my dream career. I never thought na magiging kaklase kita given na magkaiba tayo ng major, nasa English ka, nasa Mathematics naman ako. Sinasabi nila whenever your block has someone new you entertain them dahil ayaw mo na naoOP (out of place) sila, which is doon lahat nagstart.
From chikka to talking to being my confidant. Maraming nangyari sa buhay natin non, hindi natin akalain na yung mga vacant periods ko is magiging vacant periods mo din noon kaya kahit magkaiba ang major natin we still have the time catch-up, exchange ideas and even help one another sa mga plans for the school activities. And then June 2013 came, you even asked me kung pwepwede ba akong sumali sa organization ninyo for our department dahil you love may suggestions and even you admire my creativity (pakulo) sa department natin. I said yes, kahit wala akong bilib noon sa sarili ko, you were running for President and I am for Vice-President. At sa di inaasahang pagkakataon, tayong dalawa yung napasama sa organization na yun. Alam mo mga panahon na yun, nagkakaroon na ako ng tiwala sa sarili ko kasi kaya ko pala. Doon pa lang ang laki na ng pasasalamat ko sayo kasi ikaw yung naging bridge towards what I am now. Sa tambalan natin, doon naimpress at naging active ang department natin dahil sa mga pinaggagagawa nating mga trip. Perfect couple nga daw kung magiging tayo man, but we were committed that time kaya we respect our boundaries.
Halos malapit na ang graduation non, so I have to handle most of the task. Nahirapan but still you find time to help me kahit yung pumunta sa bahay namin in the middle of the night para lang matapos yung mga reports and plans. Halos ikaw na nga ang kilala ng nanay ko na bf ko that time, tinawanan lang natin 'to. In that short amount of time, we've became bestfriends. Graduation mo noon, I even gave you flowers to congratulate you hindi mo ineexpect pero kinilig ka. First time nilang makakita ng babae ang nagbibigay ng flower sa lalaki. Though, you were busy having your career you consistently checking-up on me, there was no single day na hindi mo ako itetext, and sharing your life for that day. That's when I knew I am falling for you but I choose our friendship over that petty feelings.
Busy tayo having our own careers pero we do friendly dates, and a lot of sharing life updates. One night, you called and was crying, I knew something was up, so, pinapunta kita sa bahay to tell me everything. Nabuntis mo yung gf mo that time and wala kang magawa kundi pakasalan yung gf mo. There's a lot in your mind pero comfort ko lang yung ibinigay sayo and a few solutions. The day of your wedding came, wala akong ganap pero I attended dahil you requested na umattend ako. I wouldn't miss the wedding of my bestfriend. Tinawag ka ng parents mo para you'll walk down the aisle na pero that time you choose to hug me and say this fucking word that put me into tears during your wedding and my "what ifs" for months. "Alam mo bang mahal na kita simula pa nung niligawan kita to be the Vice-President of our org? Sorry hindi ko inamin because I choose to respect our boundaries and commitment, pinangako ko na bago ako pumasok sa buhay kong ito masabi ko man lang yan sayo."
After that, we parted ways, iniwasan na kita as much as possible because you have to divert you feelings for me to your wife and to your kids and masaya ako na you're building your dream family with her, having you career and such. The last hug I received from you was nung dumalaw ako at nasa hospital ka pa. Telling me pagod ka na and you wanted to rest, I cried, I wanted to confess everything to you but I heldback. Nakakapangsisi pala no? Alam ko nasa gilid kita ngayon para icheck 'tong letter ko sayo. Please hug me because I do not know what to do - selfish, I know pero paano ko 'to tatanggapin? Ngayon alam kong alam mo na ngayon kung ano nararamdaman ko para sayo, na hindi ko na masasabi ito ng buhay ka pa. Albeit it fucking hurts but the thought of no more sufferings na for you, makes me at ease. Guide your loved ones Ken until we meet again. I love you!

Hi Z! I hope you're doing well. I know you frequent this sub, since dito din tayo nagkakilala sa reddit I know if ever man dumaan to sa NF mo, babasahin mo. Last I heard, you were doing okay na! I'm so proud of you! I saw din yung posts mo sa IG, you named your cat Elijah, that was gonna be the name of our kid diba? I almost cried when I saw that.
I know we didn't get the proper closure, but we had good time right? I will always treasure the memories of you laughing, you almost falling off the stairs just because I said na we will going on that trip sa Batanes that we always wanted. I'm sorry for not being enough Z, I really thought I was doing everything I can to help you but in the end, I ended up pushing you away because of my problems and insecurities.
But knowing you, pag Nakita mo akong nagpost ng ganto, you'd say "Ano ba yan, delete mo nga yan, balikan kita sige ka, charoott," you always had this sense of humor that made me really fall for you. I just wanted to say I miss you. I miss our gaming nights, I miss our daily updates, I miss talking to your family din, say hi to tita for me, as she said "the son na di ko inire" HAHAHAHA.
I know you're in a better state na din. You have taken so much better of your body na din, since Nakita ko na active ka na ulit. No more bedridden days! Pero not too much Z ah! baka mamaya biglang tumawag si tita ulit, babatukan talaga kita.
I'm writing this not to see if we can get back together, or something. This is me reminiscing the time that could've been. If only I had the guts back then, If I wasn't so much of a coward to help you and I stood my ground when you told me that you had a heart condition, that made you really sick. even going up the stairs can trigger a reaction. That made you feel like being a burden to me, you were not, but due to some reason, you had to step away. If I only knew. I would've fought for us.
This is my last letter for you. This has been in my drafts for a few months na.
Eli, take care of your mommy okay? don't let anyone get in the way of her happiness. Kalmutin mo mga kupal na nanlalandi sa mommy mo. HAHAHA. Make sure na she finds the right one, I'll leave all these to you.

We met in 2014 while I was in college, he is 8yr older than me and he was my TL back then, nagworking student kasi ako sa isang fastfood kasi gusto ng sarili kong pera. Ff naging official kami October same year, and sya ang literal na first official BF ko. First everything and anything basta yung story on how we met and paano kami naglandian next time na. Hahaha
Ff, pagkagraduate ko nagwork ako sa Manila then he stayed sa province as fastfood manager. We were okay naman nag effort sya lumuwas minsan nung time na pang gabi and syempre ako nagcompromise din kapag off matic umuuwi ako kasi malapit lang naman. Naging dayshift din ako 4/11 and mas madalas na ang uwi ko non. Sobrang okay lahat, walang bahid ng cheating problem and dahil malaki tiwala ko sa kanya alam mo hindi nya gagawin.
2017, magstaycation kami non while ako nagcheck in na sya busy sa phone sa may parking then ff nung gabi naglalaro sya ng something sa phone then I borrowed it pag open ko messages “babe” tawagan nila ng crew nya with iloveyou pa. I was so mad kasi inaway ko sya kinuha number ng girl and syempre nagdeny sya. Ang press release ng ex ko he is sort of comforting the girl kas binubugbog daw ng bf which is crew nya rin. Ako naman si gaga alam ko naman deep inside pero sige pinatawad ko.
2018, ibang babae na to crew nya rin pangalanan natin syang Cat, nakita ng friend ko si ex na may angkas na ibang babae then nagdahilan nalang ako na baka pinsan but I can feel na may something kasi the girl and her friends keeps on adding me sa socmed. Like what for? Ang dami kong resibo pero never ko naconfirm kung ano meron sa kanila.
Ff 2023, nag abroad si ex, initial plan is susunod ako sa kanya so I stopped processing my student visa kahit malaki nadin nagastos ko kasi mas mura if kukunin ako ng ex plus work na ako agad. While cleaning the house her sister saw a letter na sulat ni Cat with callsign na “Love” then that hit me, nagprocess ako ng papers para puntahan sya but I cant start a new chapter with him ng may naiiwang tanong sakin from years ago. So I messaged Cat and sent her the letter, then vhoooogss mga mima fuck buddies sila from 2017 or 2018 until 2021. Like WTF?! She said sorry and shit. I confronted him, he denied at first syempre. I felt so betrayed I cant even talk to him nakikipaghiwalay ako ayaw nga eversince naging kami never sya pumayag sa hiwalayan. Weeks pass di kami nagkakausap ng maayos, wala man lang ding effort. Pabago bago narin sya ng plan. That hit me kasi ang tagal na namin wala man lang ako singsing, ni hindi sya nagpropose bago sya umalis. Hindi ko naman kailangan ng fancy ring or what pero wala. And have I mentioned na before sya umalis ako pa nagyaya magpakasal ayaw nya rin. According to him deserve ko daw ang mahal na ring at bonggang kasal kaya sya mag iipon abroad. Talaga ba? Ni hindi nga ako mamyday yun pala may pinoprotektahang feelings ng iba. Pisting yawa!
Dec 2023 binigyan nya akong dog but di parin kami okay, while browsing messenger may dummy acct na nagchat sakin saying na matagal na daw karelasyon ni ex yung isang pinay na kasama nila don. Based sa chat kasama rin nila sa bahay yung nagsplook sakin. In a longterm rs din si girl and engaged pa. Hindi pako nakakamove on sa 3yrs nyang fuckbuddy habang kami may bago na naman. Syempre he denied pero mga ati may resibo ako. Nakita ko pa jacket nya suot ni girl. Same na same kay Cat before, shirt jacket at cap ni ex gamit nya. Napakadami kong proof. Pero dahil tanga ang ati nyo sige lang. Pero umabot na ako sa sukdulan. Noon nagvideocall kami kahit nasaan sya sa bahay then pansin ko di na sya natawag di narin ako chinachat plus ayaw na magvideocall kapag hindi sa room nya.
Grabe yung trauma, napa ER ko na sarili ko kasi di nako nakakatulog plus may panick attacks ako di nako makahinga. Hanggang sa huli pinilit ko syang tanggapin kasi sabi nya walang sila. Binigyan ko chance and asked him bakit sya nagbago. He said na torn sya between keeping me pero wala na syang mukhang maihaharap sakin or letting me go pero nagagalit sa idea na magkakaron akong iba. He also said pressured sya sa life. Pero hello, ilang araw kang di magparamdam man lang sabi nya di na raw nakakahawak phone kasi pagod at busy. Bullshit.
Lahat ng decision ko nakarely sa kanya even yung sa work ayoko magpapromote noon kasi baka mawalan kami ng time and ulitin nya yung cheating issues nya and now I feel so lost. Totoo pala yung wag mong gawing mundo ang isang tao. Hindi na kami nag uusap. Ako naghandle ng bills nya here sa Pinas pero pina auto debit ko na sa acct nya para wala na reason to contact him. And si girl panay post sa tiktok halata naman sinong nagpicture.
I was with him nung walang wala sya. Literal na thru ups and down. Sinuportahan ko sya sa lahat ng decisions nya. We helped each other financially. We are each others support system. Even nung nag apply sya abroad ako ang katulong nya sa lahat lahat and literal na kaming dalawa lang ang gumastos non. Pakiramdam ko pinagpalit nya ako sa pera at sa snow lol. Palagi nya sinasabi na ginagawa nya yun para samin, did I mention na solo parent sya? But sabi ko no, ginagawa mo yan para lang sayo. Meron ka syang joke before na offend ako, kapag daw nagloko ako dito kawawa ako kasi sya Citizen na don by that time like are you for real?
And what broke me more is when her daughter messaged me saying sorry sa mga ginawa ng Daddy nya. Okay kami ng bata and ako rin taga pay ng tuition nya, ako din nag transfer sa family nila ng padala nya kasi gusti ni ex ako maghandle ng finances and shit.
For now, all I am wishing is complete healing. And sana lahat ng pain ko mafeel nila ng x10 pa. Up to this day ang dami ko pa nalalaman re cheating issues nya noon. Sobrang bait at responsible na tao ang tingin ng family ko sa kanya. Hindi ko pa kayang sabihin sa kanila kasi ayokong magbreakdown sa harap ng family ko pero sobrang bigat na. Its been months and the trauma is still haunting me. Umabot pa ako sa point na nagpa tarot reading nako and its says na umaasa parin ako somehow.
Wasted 10yrs of my life for nothing, and now Im pressured na baka di na ako magka asawa plus yung trust issues ko pa. And I, thank you.

Naranasan niyo rin ba ito? When we were in our 20s almost same ang sahod namin kaya pareho kaming matipid when looking for accommodations and spending sa travels.
10 yrs later marami nang nagbago sa buhay namin. Mahirap makahanap ng kasama sa travels dahil may responsibilidad na sila sa pamilya or maraming binabayaran like house and/or car
Kapag nagkakataon naman na we travel together, as a childfree tita na may 6 figure monthly salary, I can afford to splurge, pero yung mga kaibigan ko usually hindi
Masaya ako to spend time with them, yun naman ang point why I go with them. Pero minsan I end up planning to return to that destination, solo, to book the fancy hotel na may pool and spa and do the activities I wasn't able to do before.
Hindi nila alam how much I earn. Low key lang ako dahil walang gusto ng mayabang. Isa pa ayoko na may mangutang sa akin. But the income gap is one of the reasons I travel solo.
What if on a friend's birthday, I invite her to go somewhere, tapos sagutin ko na yung accommodations and maybe a nice tour na magugustuhan niya as a gift? Para walang burden sa kanya at ma-enjoy ko ang comfortable travel na hindi puro tipid. Has anyone tried this?
How do you deal with income gap and enjoy your trip with loved ones?
Edit: Maraming salamat sa lahat na nagshare ng kanilang experiences and advice!
Nagstand-out yung mga nagtanong kung ano ba ang priority ko
If the goal is to spend quality time with my friends, then what's important is for us to catch up with each other's lives. Whether we do it during dinner at a restaurant or out of town, ang importante is we maintain our relationship
If the goal is to explore a destination, pwede kami magkaroon ng free for all day or I could stay behind for a few days
So during a long trip, halimbawa, on the first few days ang priority is having fun with friends, and then later I can splurge and do activities na hindi kayang gawin with them
If it's a short trip, I can offer to shoulder the cost of accommodation para mas kumportable kami
I've met a few travel buddies naman, pero clingy ako sa old friends ko haha. Mas matagal na kaming magkakakilala after all. At pagdating sa exploration, iba talaga ang freedom ng solo travel

I have a group of friends na eventually palaging hindi na pumapasok sa kahit anong subjects namin. We have 8 members sa group of friends namin. 3 yung palaging hindi pumapasok sa amin partida pa naka dorm pa sila. 3 din kaming pumapasok consistently, yung 2 sa amin is malayo yung bahay and also babae kami lahat.
1st sem hindi sila ganon pero nung kalagitnaan na ng 1st sem napapansin ko ang tatamad na nila, mahilig na sila mag-clutch, nagtuturuan sila kung sino yung gagawa nito. Parang nagiging pabigat na sila sa grupo. 2nd sem na, ayun naglalabasan na ng true colors, partida hindi na kami block section kaya kami group of friends lang talaga naka-stick sa lahat ng courses. Ang dahilan nila bakit hindi pumapasok. Tinatamad, wala naman daw gagawin sa subject na yun at hindi naman nag check ng attendance yung prof. Malalaman ko pa sa gc namin na gising na si ganito habang nag video call sa jowa niya sa sa dorm sa time ng umabsent siya.
Ang ending yung 3 hindi pumapasok magtatanong palagi sa gc na ano daw yung mga topics na diniscuss, may quiz ba daw sa ganitong araw, ano daw mga fa na ipinagawa etc. Minsan kapag awang awa na ako sa kanila or nasa mood ako maging mabait dahil kaibigan ko naman sila sinasabi ko kung ano mga gagawin next meeting at yung FA na kailangan ipasa next meeting onsite. Pero diba responsibilidad mong pumasok para malaman yun? Hindi na kayo bata para i-remind sa ganitan attitude niyo. Palagi silang kumakapit sa amin pero nung nanghingi lang ako ng favor sa isa sa kanila, hindi man lang mabigay super simple lang nun ate.
Ang unfair lang kasi minsan sila pa yung mas mataas yung letter grade. Yes, alam ko naman na may individual grading pero ang unfair for me na consistenly present ta's ganoon lang scores tapos sila hihilata lang sa kama buong time na class na hindi nila pinasukan at magtatanong ano mga gagawin sa subjects na yun. One time din, before mag monday ina-nounce na may quiz sa thursday at 3 kami lang pumasok sa amin group of friends that day. Kaya ako todo kinig naman sa discussion, at talagang na-gets ko siya. Before kasi kapag nandiyan sila wala talaga ako na-gets sa lesson stats pero nung wala sila gurl grabe parang doon ko na-realized na hindi pala ganoon ka-hirap stats lalo na yung prof namin is ineexplain talaga detailed yung lesson. Kaya na-motivate ako mag-review, as in inintindi ko from the top lahat sa bahay. Eto na thursday quiz na, pumasok yung 2 pala-absent kasi alam nilang may quiz e, yung isa hindi na pumasok. Habang nag quiz kami, etong isa tinitignan niya yung sagot ko ako naman na todo takip kasi pinaghirapan ko yun tas ikaw parang ganon mo lang makukuha? Wala siyang nakuha sa akin kaya nangopya siya sa harapan namin. Grabe mas mataas pa lamang niya sa amin na nag review.
Sinusubukan ko hindi mahawa sa mga ugali nilang ganon pero alam kong hindi ko ma-control yung subsconciously behaviour ko kaya siguro ang solution is change na ako ng group of friends next sem. Kayo guys, what do you think is the best solution? dahil ayokong masanay na maging ganyan din ugali ko sa susunod na taon. Selfish ba ako kung pinagdadamutan ko sila sa mga answers at output na dapat sila ka-grupo ko?

Hello everyone! I just want to ask if normal lang ba na naaapektuhan ako sa nagiging mood ng boyfriend ko? Halimbawa malungkot siya then parang malulungkot din ako kapag badtrip siya badtrip din ako. What am i supposed to do kaya?

As you guys know, walang kasiguraduhan sa freelancing so eto nanaman ako ngayon naghahanap ng bagong client/agency/company. For context, I used to have one client earlier this year (from Upwork) and we had a very easy partnership but nagkaron siya ng personal issues so I was offboarded ng April 30. Right after the I found out nagstart agad ako maghanap ng clients and companies I could apply to and so far ito ang breakdown ng mga application na pinagdaanan ko.

1. Upwork - Since dito ko nahanap young last client ko, dito rin ako nagstart ulit maghanap. I have a Top Rated badge in upwork so naisip ko why not use it as much as I can. I sent out 12 proposals and bought 200 connects (around 100 lang nagamit ko) which got me 2 interviews and 1 contract after a week.
   
2. CoconutVA - I've heard lots of good things about this agency so I sent in my application along with a video recording of myself through loom. Di naman mahirap yung application process, medyo time consuming lang kasi kailangan maligo (lol) and mag-ayos for the recording. Di naman required, pero syempre best foot forward. I asked ChatGPT to give me a sample script and used it as an outline for the one that I actually used. After three days (I think) I got an email back saying they included me in their potential talent pool but no guarantees pa that I'll get matched so they encourage entertaining other offers for the meantime - which is a great sign na di sila nangggatekeep ng opportunities.
   
3. FlexJobs - I found a Remote Office Assistant role from a US-based digital marketing agency na yung rate is around $2k/month. May exam din silang pinagawa and excel skill test na medj mahirap. Haven't heard from them so far pero if you guys want to apply rin (I think they're still pooling) send me a DM for the link haha.
   
4. FreeUp - The thing with FreeUp is it's like a cross between an agency and a freelancing platform. Medyo lengthy rin ang application process nila kasi maraming questions na need sagutan in paragraph form. And then I was sent an email with a module and a super easy short quiz, tapos nung pasado na they sent me an interview invite with one of their reps. After pumasa, proceed na sa account creation (just received this email an hour ago and di ko pa ginagawa so mag update ako after)
   
5. VirtualElves - I sent in an initial application and I got an email back after a few days asking me to fill out a Candidate Profile Form pero I don't think I'll be proceeding with the application at this time kasi parang di ko siya priority right now and ang dami ko pang hinihintay to hear back from.
   
6. Athena - This was one of the most grueling application process I've ever experienced, but everything was quite quick after I passed the exam last week. The interview was scheduled kaninang umaga then a few hours later I received another invitation for a training offer at 10PM tapos this coming Monday start na daw ng training. Medyo surprising lang kasi form what I've seen and heard, this process usually takes weeks prior to training.
   

Special mentions: OLJ - First time kong icheck tong platform na to just to see kung magkano ang usual rates na inooffer nila doon, tapos nanlumo ako sa nakita ko so di na ko nagaksaya pa ng oras sa site na to.
This pinned thread dito sa BuhayDigital subreddit. Pakiramdam ko ang daming nagooverlook into pero is a to as mga una kong chineck na resource when I started looking for jobs. Jan ko nahanap yung FreeUp and FlexJobs. Very useful!
One thing that I like to do is to use ChatGPT as much as I can, but I do heavy editing to not make it sound like it's written by an AI because I'm always deathly afraid that the recruiters might find out - because THEY WILL and bestie that's going to be embarassing.
The biggest tip I can give to anyone who is looking for clients right now is learn how to OPTIMIZE EVERYTHING. Optimize your resume, optimize your cover letters, optimize your online profiles, and most importantly, optimize your skills. Check mo kung among pinaka in-demand na skills and industries, then pivot accordingly.
Good luck sa mga kasabay kong naghahanap ng clients, wag tayo papa-lowball!

Hello!
I’ve been reading thru posts here and would like to confirm if it’s true na hanggang Batch 3 na lang ang aaccept ng UERM for the incoming SY? I tried inquiring din sa kanila through email but wala pang response.
Also to those na for interview pa rin ang portal, have you started submitting recon letters? :(
Thank you very much in advance!

Good evening, I'm new here in Reddit and I discovered this app on tiktok so allow me to release my frustrations and pains here.
I'm 22 yrs old (F) and I'm currently working na. I decided to share my story here because no one really knows what I feel since then.. esp i don't have my own circle of friends.
First year HS when I met J and we're not on the same section, I saw him everyday because some of my classmates were his friends, I don't like him at first.. kasi medyo maingay sila na mag babarkada and hate ko talaga ang maingat esp na natutulog talaga ako during vacant namin. I didn't mind them and months had passed at intramurals na namin.
J joined the basketball team at ako? Wala, I'm not sporty kaya taga nood lang ako at sumasali lang sa class dance presentation. I'm fan of basketball that's why I chose to watch it and cheer to our year level. He's good in basketball.. can't deny that. I cheered him in silence since we're on the same year level naman. I was really amazed of how he play...
Months had passed again and i guess my classmates noticed me looking at him and they started to teased me towards him, Syempre indenial tayo. Lol.
I thought everything will just be normal after but when i opened my facebook i found out that he added me on facebook and so I accepted him and he sent a lot of like sticker and btw it happened last 2013. So i got upset and chatted him what was that for and he said "Na pindot ko lang" so i didn't mind him then nag m-manual type ata sya ng emoji kasi nag send sya ng [[Midfing] at basta nag away kami don and i told him na "Bakit nag add kapa at mag sisinuplado ka?" And he answered me "Kung pwede lang sana ma undo (Unfriend)" Sabi ko pwede naman ah at pwede mo rin ako ma block and since HS pa ako at eme-eme pa so ako nag block sa kanya.
FF. 2nd year HS were just normal, we don't talk it's like we're totally strangers.. idk if he knows me kasi sabi niya napindot niya lang naman ang add sa Facebook. Despite what happened to us (Sa chat) i was still cheering him every intrams namin. Minsan nagkaka eye contact kami pero hindi ako nag aassume, but yes i know na crush ko na sya.
All of our teachers knew that i was into him that's why every time na dadaan sya samin pinapapasok sya sa room and they will tease us. Sa room din sya namin nag tatambay every vacant since friends nya classmates ko.
3rd year HS at hindi ko na ma isa isa memories namin basi for me happy ako na kahit minuto lang yon ay napasaya niya puso ko at don na ako nababahala kasi parang hindi na normal, Nag seselos na ako, na iinis na ako at nalulungkot ako pag wala sya. I tried to divert my feelings to someone kay CJ 4th year HS sya and he was a nice guy and very gentlemen. Sa months na pag uusap namin i can say that we're in good terms but i know to my self na si J parin gusto ko.
Alam ko na mali na parang pinapaasa ko si CJ but i told him everything naman at inaccept niya din reason ko kasi nararamdaman din naman daw niya. I lost contact with CJ and tried to stop my feelings for J pero it's not easy.
FF.
4th year HS and it will be the last year na makita ko sya because we will be studying in different university na sa college. As what i said i really tried to forget him but it's really not easy.. so go with the flow nalang ako. Hindi ako na iimik everytime na tinutukso kami. One time naka charge phone ko and my classmate which is his friend took my phone and tried to unlock my phone but they couldn't guess the pattern so my classmate ask him "J_______ ano ang pattern?" I just watched them and he grabbed my phone from my classmate and tried to connect the dots and formed letter J .. like wth? but that wasn't the pattern of my phone.
2 months before our graduation was our town fiesta and we're all busy practicing our dance presentation again and as usual samin sya naka tambay. Hapon noon ng pumasok sya na lasing nahh.. tipsy nalang at dumeretso sila sa classroom namin. Sa tabi ko sya pinaupo ng classmate ko at vinideohan kami nila. Some of his classmates were also there and teased us.
Ayon nalang year after nalaman ko na may girlfriend na sya at ang girlfriend nya ay isa rin sa tumutukso samin.
I thought infatuated lang ako, I thought crush ko lang talaga sya. Pero 11 yrs na at ang hirap niyang kalimutan. Gusto ko din naman maging masaya kahit hindi na sana SYA, Okay lang. He's happy now and i think deserve ko din naman maging masaya. I really tried to forget him, I really tried to move on kahit walang kami pero kung saan na medyo hindi ko na sya na iisip diyan naman sya nag papakita sa panaginip ko. TANGINA ANG HIRAP. PARANG BINABANGUNGOT AKO. GUSTO KO LANG NAMAN MAGING MASAYA.
ANONG GAGAWIN KO.

question po!
umabot yung GWA ko sa laude, wala po ako 5.0/INC, regular student also, does this mean, sure na sure na ako makaka receive ng cumlaude sa letter ng graduation? di na ba babawiin yun?

Sa mga nakareceive na ng notice of acceptance sa CPU for this upcoming s.y. and waiting pa sa result ng ibang medschool (e.g., WVSU, IDC), magpapasa na ba kayo ng letter of intent at magbabayad na ng reservation fee? If ever ba, pwede pa magwithdraw kahit nakapagpasa na ng letter of intent in case na pumasa sa ibang medschool? Thank you so much.