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Will be dropping the name somewhere sa gitna ng post. Pero recently my friend saw a hiring from her previous work. Isang SG Law firm ito. Pero nawala din yung hiring post. Probably meron na siyang nakitang for interview na potential candidate. Sorry kung super haba but I want to want people na hindi worth it yung sweldo kung sobrang bulok ng management and parang hindi ka tao itrato.
I really don't know where to start kasi sobrang redflag ng firm na ito and even though hindi ako ang directly nag work for this firm, I saw first hand kung anong nangyayari sa firm. From internal problems sa firm hanggang sa kind ng service na na pprovide nila sa mga clients bagsak na bagsak.
Simulan ko siguro dito...MICROMANAGER ANG LAWYER (MAY ARI NG FIRM). He constantly reiterates na he's not a micromanager and he doesnt like to meddle in the work of his people. Boy you're in for a pleasant surprise. Micromanager na napaka OC. Sa sobrang pagka micro manager niya, bubusisiin niya pati message na issend mo sa client. "We'll get back to you soonest" sabihin mo sa client, he will call you out and say "we dont say soonest. We say 2-3 days." Tapos only authorized to stick to the "script" ng auto replies sa clients, do not deviate daw. (so kahit hindi appropriate hanap ka nalang ng close) And then when you do send that holding message to the client he will say "Use your brain and think if it's appropriate"
Delayed sweldo. Ang sabi papasweldo tuwing katapusan, you'd have to follow up pa sa kanya para mag pa sweldo siya. Tapos magagalit siya na nag follow up ka. next time no need to follow up daw. Pero same pa din sa susunod na month delayed pa din and mahihiya ka mag follow up.
If I remember correctly, my friends said he only started hiring PH remote paralegals last october 2023, 4 initial hires and by january parang 5 or 6 na sila daw. Ung isang kasamahan nila, bigla nalang daw inalisan ng access sa outlook and sa dropbox without even saying anything sa tao na yun. Tapos nung kinausap bakit walang access, ang sabi matigas daw ang ulo kaya tatanggalin na siya.
He isn't just a micromanager, bully din siya. Ilang beses ko nakita umiyak ung friend ko sa sobrang pagka frustrated dahil pag sumunod ka (which mali mali naman ang utos kaya ang pangit ng firm) tapos pangit outcome galit sayo. And pag d ka sumunod and ginawa mo ung tama kahit ok outcome galit pa din sayo kasi hindi ka sumunod. Ang hirap lumugar. Sobrang trauma na ung friend ko bago mag message sa client mag tatanong pa muna saming barkada if tingin ba namin appropriate ung issend niya tapos sobra anxiety niya everyday kasi baka bigla siyang icall out. Nakakaawa mga tao don. Even their on site staff nakakaawa. That's just scratching the surface. Sobrang daming BS sa Tembusu Law na yan. Jonathan Wong ang poster sa OLJ.
As to the services they provide sa clients, Una sa lahat, bulok ang services nila. Sa sobrang sabog nila they miss deadlines and meetings and court hearings and then proceed to blame the paralegals who didnt "remind" or put the hearing dates on the calendar. When in fact these paralegals don't even have access to those dates. Kung saan makikita or mahahanap. How the hell will they know diba. Bukod dyan, I remember one story about a client na nag terminate ng service nila. Crim client daw ito and may investigation ata na naka sched na kailangan humarap sa police ng client. Sa sobrang sabog ng firm d nila alam ano uunahin so the weren't able to prep the client for that scheduled thingy. You know what the lawyer said? "Fake an illness get a certificate" para daw ma excuse and siguro ma resched. Nagalit ung nanay nung client anong klaseng advice daw yun.
Bukod diyan, since ang gulo nga internally, the don't respond to clients. They usa whatsapp and have GCs with the clients, it takes them days - weeks to respond to a simple yes or no questions. Pag nagalit ang client ang sisi nasa paralegals bakit hindi nag ssend ng "auto messages".
The pay sa OLJ na nakalay is 35k-45k, pero they're only actually offering 20,000 pesos lang as compensation sa Advertised rate sa OLJ is 35k-65k pesos. Scammer tlga. May inalis ata sila eh tapos papalitan kasi para mas mababa ang ipapasahod kaya ata nag hahanap.
Also found out he'll be interviewing someone tonight. Good luck sayo. Mag isip ka maigi and wag magpadala sa narcissist na yan.

I was in a relationship for 4 years yes "was" kasi hiwalay na kami ngayon thankfully.
It was the worst 4 months of my life because during sa review nang board exam ko ay nagloko jowa ko and take note, same kami ng course, sabay kami nag review, same kami ng nirentahang boarding house but with my two male and female friends. Unang dating namin sa place kung saan kami mag re-review since malayo siya sa province namin everything is okay pa naman our relationship is still okay we read our review materials, attend classes and gala din sa place since bago kami dun if may vacant time to relax.
One time nasa bed ko lang ako and I was reading some notes since may pa quiz kami kinabukasan, nagtaka ako kasi lumabas siya and nanibago ako kasi ang porma niya yung suot niya is panglakad na tshirt, shorts and medyas tapos slippers and nagpabango siya. Like??? ano boy ingame sa papogian?? Tinanong namin siya kasi lahat kami na weirdohan kasi wala naman kaming lakad and hapon na yun, tinanong namin siya "saan punta mo" sabi niya "sa labas lang papahangin" natawa ako na nagtaka kasi papahangin pero naka porma hahahaha yun palaaaa bet niya yung babae na nagrerenta sa kabilang kwarto, nalaman ko lang yun through tiktok kasi nakita ko post nung best friend nang bet niya grabe yung mga comment niya dun haha.
Another one is kukuha kami ng TOR namin at magpapafile na rin for board exam so along with my friends umuwi kami sa province namin so 6 or 7 hours na byahe yun, so since hindi na ako makakauwi sa bahay namin since gabi na kami dumating, doon nalang ako natulog sa bahay nang friend ko and since siya is malayo rin inaya ko siya na doon nalang din siya matulog pero ang sabi niya "ay sa bahay nalang ako ng uncle ko kasi na miss ko yung motor ko" sabi ko nalang "ah okay, kita nalang tayo bukas sa school" nung gabi na yun is tumawag siya pero hindi ko nasagot kasi nakain ako and sabi ko call siya ulit pero sabi niya tulog na daw uncle niya and naka off na daw yung mga ilaw, yun pala tulog na side chick niya kakatapos lang nila mag seggs. (that night hindi ko pa nalaman lahat he acts as if walang nangyari)
Fast forward, pagdating namin sa school dumating yung TOR nila and sa akin lang wala, nakapag file sila ng board exam and ako that time wala so bumalik ako sa place kung saan kami nag review na walang napala but after ilang weeks dumating yung TOR ko and need kung umuwi ALONE kasi aabot pa naman ako sa last day nang filing. To cut the story short nakapagfile ako thankfully and that days na nasa bahay ako is doon ko lang din nalaman na my boyfriend is cheating on me kasi nag chat sakin yung babae niya tinanong if kami pa ba daw kasi may nangyari daw sa kanila ng ex ko and sinabi daw nang ex ko na pagkatapos nang review magsasama daw sila sa iisang boarding house. It happened nung unang uwi namin, that's why ayaw niya matulog sa bahay nang friend ko kasi kukunin niya pala yung babae niya sa workplace neto at mag checheck in sila, during the time na tumawag siya is kasama niya pala babae niya, that time na kinuha niya ko sa bahay nang friend ko kasama niya pala babae niya at hinatid sa workplace niya. I was so devastated and nagdalawang isip ako if mag tetake pa ba ako ng board exam kasi parang lahat nang pinag-aralan ko nawala napalitan nang kababoyan nila. Ayaw ko na sana bumalik sa place kung saan kami nag review since nandun siya but i need to, need kung ipagpatuloy for my parents. Bumalik ako at hindi siya kinausap since malapit naman kami umuwi at patapos na yung review namin, iniusad ko nalang talaga but gabi gabi ako umiyak and wala talagang pumapasok sa isip ko na mga lesson. I broke up with him, ayaw niyang pumayag (ang kapal ng mukha). After matapos yung review namin umuwi ako and i tried to focus or magbasa again para sa upcoming board exam pero wala talagang pumapasok, everytime may e memorize ako yung ginawa niya yung maaalala ko, cried every night, tinatanong kung saan ba ako nagkulang, i questioned my worth and everything. I tried to focus but sobrang hirap talaga. During the board exam days, nasa isip ko na hindi ako papasa kasi even during the board exam gusto kung umiyak. But, thankfully nakapasa po ako and I was so proud of myself kasi despite sa ganun ang nangyari hindi pa rin ako pinabayaan ni lord.
I am working now, happy and blessed. Naka moved on na rin, thank you.

Will be dropping the name somewhere sa gitna ng post. Pero recently my friend saw a hiring from her previous work. Isang SG Law firm ito. Pero nawala din yung hiring post. Probably meron na siyang nakitang for interview na potential candidate. Sorry kung super haba but I want to want people na hindi worth it yung sweldo kung sobrang bulok ng management and parang hindi ka tao itrato.
I really don't know where to start kasi sobrang redflag ng firm na ito and even though hindi ako ang directly nag work for this firm, I saw first hand kung anong nangyayari sa firm. From internal problems sa firm hanggang sa kind ng service na na pprovide nila sa mga clients bagsak na bagsak.
Simulan ko siguro dito...MICROMANAGER ANG LAWYER (MAY ARI NG FIRM). He constantly reiterates na he's not a micromanager and he doesnt like to meddle in the work of his people. Boy you're in for a pleasant surprise. Micromanager na napaka OC. Sa sobrang pagka micro manager niya, bubusisiin niya pati message na issend mo sa client. "We'll get back to you soonest" sabihin mo sa client, he will call you out and say "we dont say soonest. We say 2-3 days." Tapos only authorized to stick to the "script" ng auto replies sa clients, do not deviate daw. (so kahit hindi appropriate hanap ka nalang ng close) And then when you do send that holding message to the client he will say "Use your brain and think if it's appropriate"
Delayed sweldo. Ang sabi papasweldo tuwing katapusan, you'd have to follow up pa sa kanya para mag pa sweldo siya. Tapos magagalit siya na nag follow up ka. next time no need to follow up daw. Pero same pa din sa susunod na month delayed pa din and mahihiya ka mag follow up.
If I remember correctly, my friends said he only started hiring PH remote paralegals last october 2023, 4 initial hires and by january parang 5 or 6 na sila daw. Ung isang kasamahan nila, bigla nalang daw inalisan ng access sa outlook and sa dropbox without even saying anything sa tao na yun. Tapos nung kinausap bakit walang access, ang sabi matigas daw ang ulo kaya tatanggalin na siya.
He isn't just a micromanager, bully din siya. Ilang beses ko nakita umiyak ung friend ko sa sobrang pagka frustrated dahil pag sumunod ka (which mali mali naman ang utos kaya ang pangit ng firm) tapos pangit outcome galit sayo. And pag d ka sumunod and ginawa mo ung tama kahit ok outcome galit pa din sayo kasi hindi ka sumunod. Ang hirap lumugar. Sobrang trauma na ung friend ko bago mag message sa client mag tatanong pa muna saming barkada if tingin ba namin appropriate ung issend niya tapos sobra anxiety niya everyday kasi baka bigla siyang icall out. Nakakaawa mga tao don. Even their on site staff nakakaawa. That's just scratching the surface. Sobrang daming BS sa Tembusu Law na yan. Jonathan Wong ang poster sa OLJ.
As to the services they provide sa clients, Una sa lahat, bulok ang services nila. Sa sobrang sabog nila they miss deadlines and meetings and court hearings and then proceed to blame the paralegals who didnt "remind" or put the hearing dates on the calendar. When in fact these paralegals don't even have access to those dates. Kung saan makikita or mahahanap. How the hell will they know diba. Bukod dyan, I remember one story about a client na nag terminate ng service nila. Crim client daw ito and may investigation ata na naka sched na kailangan humarap sa police ng client. Sa sobrang sabog ng firm d nila alam ano uunahin so the weren't able to prep the client for that scheduled thingy. You know what the lawyer said? "Fake an illness get a certificate" para daw ma excuse and siguro ma resched. Nagalit ung nanay nung client anong klaseng advice daw yun.
Bukod diyan, since ang gulo nga internally, the don't respond to clients. They usa whatsapp and have GCs with the clients, it takes them days - weeks to respond to a simple yes or no questions. Pag nagalit ang client ang sisi nasa paralegals bakit hindi nag ssend ng "auto messages".
The pay sa OLJ na nakalay is 35k-5k, pero they're only actually offering 20,000 pesos lang as compensation. Scammer tlga. May inalis ata sila eh tapos papalitan kasi para mas mababa ang ipapasahod kaya ata nag hahanap.
Also found out he'll be interviewing someone tonight. Good luck sayo. Mag isip ka maigi and wag magpadala sa narcissist na yan.

Just getting this off my chest. It happened last month, galit na galit mama ng bf ko dahil di rako ako naka pagsabi sa bf ko na magdahan dahan kung magddrive. Lol always ko kaya sinasabihan bf ko na wag bilisan kase nga traumatized na ako. Before kase muntik na kami ma aksidente ng bf ko kase bigla syang nag overtake sa 6 wheeler truck, buti nalang andun parents nya sa likod namin nakamotor din kaya naka busina agad sila. After ng pangyayaring yun, kahit city ride lang pinagsasabihan ko na talaga bf ko na wag mag overtake at wag bilisan yung pagddrive. So back to the story, galit na galit yung mama nya sakin at ako yung pinagtataasan nya ng boses sa harap ng mga pamangkin at kapatid nya which became so inappropriate kase nababastosan ako sa ginawa nya. Sobrang hiyang hiya ako. Okay lang naman sakin na pagtaasan nya ko ng boses kung kami lang dalawa kase nagawa na nya sakin yan nuon pero sa harap pa talaga ng pamilya nila? Nagrreason out pa sya na para na din daw akong pamilya nila nung sinabihan sya ng kapatid nya na wag akong pagtaasan ng boses.
Until now di pa din ako pinapansin ng nanay nya. Sabi ng bf ko magsorry daw ako para matapos na e wala naman akong kasalanan. Nagbigay na ko ng cake sakanya for peace offering pero di nya tinanggap.
PS. Yung bf ko po pinagtanggol nya po ako sa nanay nya.

hello! gusto ko lang maglabas ng sama ng loob. for the past 3 days, para na kong mababaliw kakaisip pano ko mababawi or may pag asa pa bang mabawi ung pera namin. sounds stupid and crazy, pero talagang nabaliw ata talaga ko para maniwala.
for context, someone in WhatsApp chatted me and offered a wfh daw, magha-heart lang daw ng products sa ebay ganun. so ako naman, sige nga, try ko nga, wala naman akong ginagawa. so i followed the instructions, and for the 3 products na na-heartan ko i received 90php. inaadd na ko dun sa gc and para doon imomonitor ung tasks eme. to cut the story short, umabot na ko sa task 12, and prepaid task daw un, may option ng amount na isesend mo then ung cash back. since naka 900 naman na ko sakanila, sabe ko, sige I'll try nga. bumalik naman ung 900 ko plus 180. para macomplete pa ung task 12, another bracket of prepaid tasks are posted. 2.9k, 12k, 38k. and guess what? nagsent ako lahat nyan! for me to get the 2.9k, another bracket which is ung 12k, and another bracket to get the whole amount, nagsent ako ng 38k. AND AFTER KO MASENT lahat nyan, one last order bracket ang kelangan for me to get everything, they are asking for 88k!!! and from that point, nabreakdown na ko at walang tigil na umiyak. doon ko lang na realize na pot4h, nascam ba talaga ko???!!! i know, i was desperate, been on rough roads since march. been asking the person na nakausap ko, pero hindi niya daw alam pano mawiwithdraw ung pera.
nakakalungkot na para gusto ko nalang maglaho. tambak ang bills, at ung pera na sanang maipapambayad, nawala dahil sa katangahan ko. sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, alam ko wala akong pwedeng malapitan. pero tanqin4, di ko na alam ang gagawin ko. di ko alam kung makaaahon pa ba ko.

Hi, everyone! This is my first time posting here so please try to be nice to me. hehe char lang! so just like sa title of this post, I got married with my girlfriend, now wife, 6 months after we first met. Why am i posting? What's the catch?
It's because we got married in secret.
So ano ngayon if we got married in secret you say? Wala lang. I'm just really happy but I can't share it with the world just yet. I just want the world to know that I am now married with the woman I want to share my lifetime with and luckily I found this group so maybe I can share it here, this world right here.
I, 32F met my wife 25F in my workplace. To cut the story short, it wasn't all rainbows. She was in a long term relationship with a guy when we started going out and meron akong, sabihin nating fubu from the same workplace dati but i immediately ended it when I met her (wife). I know sasabihin niyo mga cheater, okay gets and totoo naman, some may even say na deserve ng wife ko yung narereceive niya na blackmail from her ex about posting their R18 photos and videos, and ako na aabangan daw niya ako (open for interpretation). Ang di ko lang magets, my then gf caught her ex-boyfriend cheating months bago kami nagmeet pero nag-aastang malinis yung ex-bf? Mmmm. I know may plan na sila dapat to get married this year, but not yet engaged. They were together for 5 years and alam kong baliw na baliw yung guy sakanya so diko gets kung bakit siya nagcheat. Also, my wife is out of my league, some people can't believe na pinatulan niya ako. She's really pretty, to say the least, a head-turner, bonus lang yun kasi super nice pa niya and matalino. Madami ding nagulat na hindi pala siya straight. Hindi kasi halata. My fubu? crush niya si wife. Even my gay-guy friend crush niya si wife. And I know a lot from our workplace e gusto siya, siguro from the day I met her hindi lang 10 guys yung halatang gumugusto sakanya.
Bakit kami kinasal in secret? Takot siyang icut-off siya ng parents niya. She's 25 but due to our chosen profession, she'll definitely need her parents' support pa muna and I admit diko pa kayang ibigay din yun. Sabihin niyo nalang na baliw kami. Hahahaha Sakin, I wanted to tell my parents, but since di pa niya masabi sa side niya, ganon nalang din sakin para fair so gets niyo na ba san ako nanggagaling? Only my sister and my trusted-workmate lang ang nakakalaam kasi sila yung witnesses sa wedding namin. Utah Online wedding pala just incase may curious.
Wala lang. Gusto ko lang i-share kasi I'm really happy. Also, if nadeads ako bigla tapos biglang tunugang may foul play, yung ex yung primary suspect. hahahah thank you! Cheers!

prior to this post may post pa ako tungkol kay guy
this - https://www.reddit.com/OffMyChestPH/s/LdBK3YlU1f
LONG STORY POST (sorry)
natatawa ako. nalulungkot. naiinis— hindi ko alam anong mafifeel ko actually, kung kailan tinapos ko na lahat tsaka naka-buo!
so, siya pa nagtanong last time kung dinatnan na daw ba ako kasi kung hindi bibili na siya ng pregnancy test. tapos napaisip at napabilang nga ako, tangina. oo nga. parang isang buwan na akong hindi nagkaka mens. tapos right after nag PT na ako lahat faint line, 6 PTs yun pero may isang medyo malinaw na 2 lines tapos the rest faint lines na. nagpa book na din ako sa GP and refered me to do a ultrasound which is hindi pa ako nakakapag pa book due to 6 days ang work ko and supeeeer busy. ini insist naman niyang samahan niya ako and siya na mag book but kako ako na bahala sa lahat.
nung sinabi ko sakanya to, galit ako. minessage ko siya ng sobrang haba nanaman at masasakit na words lol. na kako pagod na akong maging parausan niya kung yun man intention niya at kung hindi niya makita worth ko i said leave me fucking alone, find someone and get a bitch he'll going to mess with! lol
eto ang reply niya na paisa isang text haha — "I never think that you will think like that. Thats horrible way of thinking i never want any side chicks. Believe me i loved you and it is still there because i told my sis too about u that how you took care of me. Fucking you are rude. How many times you attempt to falsely make me a bad person? I never underestimate you but you do a lot to me. you are a short tempered person!"
after niyan tumatawag siya but hindi ko sinasagot at blinock ko. pati sa whatsapp umabot siya na kausapin ko daw siya hindi ko din nirereplyan then kagabi, nagutom kasi ako pag-uwi nag toast ako ng bread tapos sabi niya "why don't you want to atleast communicate?" kako "what for?" sabi niya ang tigas daw ng ulo ko. tapos sabi ko "you know my last resort is to go back in the philippines." sabi niya "no. you can't take the baby like that, i will come with you if ever." which is sinabi niya ulit kaninang umaga. kako impossible, kasi ang ganda ng trabahong iiwan niya dito. engineer siya dito tas iiwan niya? no way. sabi pa niya happy daw siya if ever man, tapos hahanap na daw siya ng house for us to rent ng kami lang. ang sabi ko sakanya "i don't want you to decide such things just because this situation happened. i am fine, you don't have to worry cos i can handle things." sabi niya lang "no."
ayun, nag-usap ulit kami kaninang umaga, at siya pa mismo nag iinsist ng conversation. sabi niya saakin ulit kung gusto ko daw ba magpasama sa doctor humindi ulit ako. and based on him feeling ko for citizenship na yung papers niya kaya sabi niya kailangan niya pang mag work ng 2 years for visa conditions and all good na siya kaso daw, hindi nga daw planned tong nangyari kaya hindi kami ready financially and emotionally. kako sakanya, naiiyak ko na to lahat. na inexpect ko ng magiging single mom ako, tinanggap ko na yung fate ko, nag desisyon na akong kaya ko to dahil may trabaho naman ako at sinabi ko nga din sakanya sa msg before na kahit kailan hindi ko kailangan ng support at kahit anong tulong niya.
panay ang text, kamusta daw pakiramdam ko, gusto ko daw ba dalhan ako ng food, uminom ng madaming tubig, wag masyado maglalalakad and such. ngayon pa siya nag gaganito kung kailan pawala na yung pagmamahal ko sakanya. ako ngayon ang cold at petty saaming dalawa. hindi ko din alam. sa pamilya ko walang nakaka alam ng sitwasyon ko ngayon for sure madi-disappoint sila saakin though right age to marry and build a family naman na din ako pero hindi lang nila din ine expect kung sakali na hindi pala ako mag eend up sa ex fiancé ko. (which is different story to tell lol)
to be honest hindi pa din nag sisink in saakin mga nangyayari ngayon, basta lagi lang akong nahihilo malalang cravings and bugnutin. wala akong magather na thoughts ngayon, sobrang blangko ko.
matalino naman ako, may magandang work, hindi naman ako chaka, pero bakit pagdating sa pag-ibig sobrang bobo ko? sobrang bobo sa totoo lang.

Hello im new here, nag suggest lang mga friends ko i-try to kase ewan ko mga nag momove on pa mga tao sa bumble. So anyway sawa kanaba mag isa? Gusto mo ba ng tunay na pag ibig? Murang mura! Sa size na hindi mo kaya sa presyong abot kaya! Ilang beses ko na tinalo ung laro ng panahon. Kaya tulad nila im very strong in many ways pero sa pag-ibig ang aking kahinaan. Kelangan ko rin ng mwa mwa!
About me:

• 3 years na kong taga “ayie” sa lovelife ng iba. Lord anak mo rin ako baka nakalimot eh hello im still here po.
  
• We can play games! Pc or sa playstation.
  
• Pwede rin anime so sawadeeka.
  
• Kdrama rin sige.
  
• Taga good morning, night, afternoon etc mo. Kahit 3 am mag gogood night ako kase ka late night talks kita yieee! Eme
  
• Babatiin kita sa lahat ng occasion kahit hindi sia related. Kahit hindi mo birthday mag cocompose pa rin ako ng birthday greetings.
  
• Sobrang hilig ko sa documentaries. Tawagin mo akong kuya kim Kase may kaalaman akong pwedeng i-share pag mag ka date tayo. Back to you jugs and teddy!
  
• If we ever date, you tell no one that we met on the internet. Our story is, we met saving a catto from a burning building.
  
• Cat person. Shoutout sa asong humabol sakin habang nag babike ako nung bata, sana masaya ka ngayon.
  
• Pet peeve: yung mga tanong na “Kara David diba influencer yun?”
  
• Pinalo at kinaldag rin ako ng parents ko nung bata. Hanger, walis , sinturon choose your weapon nalang.
  
• Hindi Non-chalant
  
• Kung mahilig ka sa pogi. HAAHA! D ako yon! 3/10 generous na yan! Kung sapiosexual ka im the perfect dude for you dahil dun lang tayo may asset.
  
• Color blind. I cant see red flags.
  
• Takot sa multo kaya hindi nang-ghoghost
  
• Rebelde rin ako hindi ko binabasa ung T&C. “I agree” nalang agad.
  
• Mabilis ako mag reply. Pwede rin calls.
  
• Taga Quezon city ako dont worry hindi SM north half way natin xD
  
• May trabaho at registered rin ung diploma ko sa ched. Kung i-checheck mo wala akong record na nag cheat ako sa exams so hindi rin ako mag checheat sayo. Pero nag cutting ako nung college. HAHAHHAA
  
• Maliit lang ako 5’6 pero wait! Men under 6ft emit less co2 and dates with us are subsidized under the green new deal. !!!
  

About you:

• May cellphone

No flings please if youre ready sa seryosong relationship dun ako interesado.
So habang tinatype ko to hinihingal na ko. Kaya i chat mo na si tito! Kung nakarating ka man dito tayo rin magkakatuluyan sa dulo charot. I mean andito kana lang rin! Chat mo na ko may substance naman ako kausap.

I was at work and pagpasok ko sa virtual meeting nung monday naging topic agad yung Mother's Day.
For context, my father left us when we were young. Nonetheless, I didnt really feel any void or emptiness with his absence because my mom was more than enough. She raised us all three siblings alone and as cliche as it sounds, I felt complete. However, she died 4 years ago so we're on our own.
Tatlo kami sa meeting. Habang nagkwekwentuhan sila abt how they had spent their time with their moms, sa isip isip ko sanaall tapos kasi kakaiyak ko lang din kahapon nun because I was missing my mom. E yun biglang tinanong ako ng "how did you spend the day with your mom?", which really put me in an uncomfortable spot. I work at US pa kasi so imagine ang hirap mag-english at magexplain hahahahaha. I didnt wanna tell my story because I feel like it will ruin the mood, kaya sabi ko na lang "yeah" tapos a long awkward silence. Feeling ko cinutoff ko yung boundary, which I didn't mean to. After nung meeting umiyak ako.
And you know everytime na may topic abt parents, naiinggit talaga ako tapos I try to avoid speaking up abt my situation. Pero this time kasi as in harap harapang tanong. Wala lang 4 years ago na sya, pero still feels like a fresh wound.
I'm confident about a lot of things but when it comes to the topic of parents, I feel very inferior na parang may bumubulong sa akin na: "ahh wala ka ng family so pano yan, you're broken, you'll be forever incomplete, you'll never be happy again"
Wala lang naiiyak lang talaga ako. Kung may chance lang na maresurrect yung tao, gagawin ko lahat e pero wala e. I'm still healing pero narealize ko lang na I still have a long way to go :(

Hello!! Badly need your opinion.
What should I do? Should I accept the offer or not?
Sobrang nastress ako na walang trabaho pero I don't think I am fit for the position or masyado ko lang minamaliit sarili ko??
I have a background in HR naman because I have worked as an HR Coordinator for almost 5 years and my job was pretty chill lang, but being in a Managerial position is a different story.
Please help me decide. Huhu
Thank youu

So long story short— ASE ako dito for 10 months, ECE graduate so i had to learn coding from scratch pero still managed magpabida sa bootcamp. Naging junior dev na ako sa dating project ko at genuinely na enjoy ko yun kasi coding talaga ginagawa ko dun, kaso na roll off ako due to budget cuts. Di pa ako experienced that much tas na roll off nalang biglaan so parang feel ko napapalayo ako sa dev dreams ko haha
Noong nasa bench ako nag papaskikat ako kuha ng certi exams and trainings, hangga’t sa na notice ako ng bench POC at binigyan ako ng new project. Kaso ang new project is a support role, not aligned with dev, since currently no open roles for dev na aligned sa skillset ko as a newbie.
Sinaabihan nila ako na wala talaga dito growth as a developer, which devastated me since gustong gusto ko talaga maging developer. But since super luwag ng workload dito, nag plan ako mag take ng trainings & exams while working here. Free naman lahat ng yan sa ACN so take advantage nlg diba?
Natatakot lang ako baka di mag work yung plan na yun at stuck ako sa role na hnd ko gusto, since gusto ko talaga maging dev. Baka kahit na nakakapag aral and certify talaga ako as a dev, hnd ako marecognize as a developer since self-paced learning lg ako sa lahat and mas solidified talaga if project experience yung kapit.
May mga advice po ba kayo dito? Pls be kind. Huhu thank you.

I'm not the type of person na nanghihila pababa. I am not that type of person na masaya kapag may bumabagsak. Really. All my life I tried to encourage and help my friends to be successful. Sabay sabay kami aangat sa buhay. But things changed last March 1, 2024.
Maghahang out sana kami ng 2 friends ko that day. Our friend called me, let's Call her friend A, and my other friend, let's call him Friend B, kasi she needs emotional support from us and we agreed. But, unfortunately, I am unable to attend because I was hospitalized due to panic attack. So, natuloy lang silang dalawa, sabi ko pa hahabol ako kapag pinauwi na ako ng doktor. And yung friend namin na nag-aya said oo humabol daw ako if kaya. Kasi hindi na talaga kaya kasi 7na ako nakauwi.
Fasr forward tk next week, nagkita kami ni Friend B sa megamall. He's doubting if tama ba na ikwento niya raw yung sinabi ni Friend A or hindi. So ako sabi ko, naopen na niya sakin so sabihin na niya. Aftee that, he told me na "Sabi ni Friend A, hindi niya raw magets bakit inaatake ka ng panic attack, eh you habe good things in life na raw. May pamilya ka, may jowa ka, parang wala nang dahilan para don" nahurt ako na nanggaling yon sa friend ko. Really, nahurt ako. I was diagnosed with Depression, and I had panic attack that time kasi naging trigger ng mental instability ko yung workplace ko (which is another story to tell). I got really hurt, naunahan ng judgment nung friend koyung nangyari sakin instead of asking kung kumusta na ako. We're all psych graduates. Ako, at si friend 1, we took board exam, and friend 1 did not pass. As mentioned, hindi ako type ng person na masaya sa lost ng mga tao sa paligid ko, but after that, one thought came to my mind. Deserve niyang hindi pumasa. Wala siyang empathy,masyado siyang priveleged, kawawa ang mga magiging future clients niya.
It has been 2 months since that thing happened pero nasaktan talaga ako. Aftee that, mga ilang days after non, nagchat siya sakin na miss niya na raw ako, and nagreact lang ako. I'm not in a mood the be friendly with her. As of now, I'm slowly cutting her in my life. There's no room for friends who does not understand that we all have different capacity to handle things.
To that friend of mine, I hope someday, you'll met the same person as you are, para magreflect ka from what you did sa past.

i’ve always been told na malambing ako. then there’s this one guy na attached talaga ako and eventually naging kami. like both sets of parents knew about us, we attend family events and all. grabe sobrang effort namin sa isa’t isa, until i discovered his porn addiction. that i could forgive and help him curb the addiciton. hindi ako nanghihinayang sa virginity ko, i enjoy intimacy with the person i love. pero umabot kasi sa point na nag-add siya ng escorts “kahit hindi ko naman ichachat” he says (ulol).
from this sweet caring girl na willing pa maging catholic at legion of mary member dahil sobrang mahal ko si tita— i was reduced to this nervous wreck that i am now. hindi ako violent but i did curse him sa condo hallway and slammed the door. that’s about it. anything else i just wept. i regret being violent that way though. i really do. i shared to his parents (the only people i trust to help him) the story and screenshots. nagalit siya. oo, mali rin ako but i had no one to turn to. na hindi siya ijujudge. it was so heavy for me to bear alone.
so when he said na na-turn off daw siya sa akin (sa reactions ko precisely), that’s when i lost it. tangina nya ako na itong willing to forgive and compromise, already apologized sa outburst ko pa. sa akin pa siya may issue when i was reactive to what he did lang? na beyond my non-negotiables, na beyond any trusting relationship? fuck him bro. magsawa siya kakajakol sa vivamax at SOPs that leave him empty emotionally anyway.
sometimes i miss him. but mostly, i miss how i gave my love so freely. how sweet i was. how ready i was to share this life with him and his family. i miss how i loved.
minsan din nalilimutan ko paano ba ibuhos na lang itong paghahangad at pagmamahal sa sarili ko. it sucks. my mind wills it, pero the heart? it just wants to ache for a while.
hindi ako religious or what, but i have faith. i pray when genuine love graces my life again, i hope i am already healed. i hope maniwala na ako.

• Instead of Bandai Namco, Sega and Capcom, the new main line up will be Square Enix, Konami and SNK, with exceptions.
• The main co-protagonists will be Sonic the Hedgehog and Miles "Tails" Prower.
• Is a KoF/DBFZ/MvC-style tag team fighting game. With two buttons, attack and special. And each team will consist of five members and one assist.
• There will be no story
• Make it an Xbox-exclusive

Now PxZ is ruined and gets dormant again.

Hello!! Badly need your opinion.
What should I do? Should I accept the offer or not?
Sobrang nastress ako na walang trabaho pero I don't think I am fit for the position or masyado ko lang minamaliit sarili ko??
I have a background in HR naman because I have worked as an HR Coordinator for almost 5 years, but being in a Managerial position is a different story.
Please help me decide. Huhu
Thank youu

There's this girl that I confessed my feelings for, I've liked her since last year and ngayon lang ako nagconfess kase kakatapos lang ng school and want ko maka focus sa kanya (kung sinagot nyako haha). Nung nag confess ako hindi sya nagbigay ng sagot, tumawa lang sya. I waited for a few days, medyo kinausap ko sya kase I wanted to give her space para di nya feel na pressured sya, then just now nakita ko story nya and may nai-soft launch syang iba. I'm just keeping it together rn kase nasa event ako and I don't know kung anong mali saken para magawa saken yon haha. I just feel na I'm here to make everyone happy pero no one really wants to be close to me

Hello!! Badly need your opinion.
What should I do? Should I accept the offer or not?
Sobrang nastress ako na walang trabaho pero I don't think I am fit for the position or masyado ko lang minamaliit sarili ko??
I have a background in HR naman because I have worked as an HR Coordinator for almost 5 years and my job was pretty chill lang, but being in a Managerial position is a different story.
Please help me decide. Huhu
Thank youu

I feel that I’m not a cheesy person when it comes to love. Siguro dahil di ko pa naeexperience yung ganon? Or siguro dahil busy lang sa life.
But whenever I see my friends with their Significant Others and the things that they do for each other, bigla ko nalang nasasabi na “ah, ganito pala mainlove.”
Yung love na hindi laging perfect but you’ll endure anything together kind of love. Yung love na hindi niyo susukuan yung isa’t isa kahit minsan nakakapagod na. The love that is not all about sunshine and rainbows, but also the love that rages through the storms kind of love.
Natutuwa din ako kapag nakakapag basa ako ng stories about meeting their partners. Yung iba ang random ng meeting, yung iba mutual friends, sa fb, sa church etc. But what piqued my interest talaga is yung mga pinagdaanan nila as a couple.
Sana ako din maexperience ko to. Di naman ako naiingit (as of now) pero napapaisip lang ako when will I meet someone and say na “so this is love”.

post ko sana 'to sa AkoBaYungGago kaso mahina loob ko HAHAHAHAHA
anyways i (16M) feel bad, sarili kong tatay hindi ko pinapaniwalaan, pero here's the story.
we've been residing in an apartment from imus, cavite since june 2023. mag-o-one year na kami dito next month. just recently gusto na agad umalis ng tatay ko dito kasi hinaharass daw siya ng landlady dito. to my eyes, i don't think she'd do that.
base sa claims niya, indirectly daw siyang inaasar, pero mabait naman 'yung landlady, nakausap ko na siya dati nung ako nagbayad ng rent namin. as in sobrang bait. her aura felt inhostile. wala akong masyadong alam regarding this issue kasi ang tatay ko lang nakakaalam ng lahat, however there's lack of proof, sinasabi niya lang sa'kin. may mga kwento pa nga sakin tatay ko na binabati naman siya tuwing lumalabas siya ng bahay, so something doesn't add up here.
unfortunately pati ako nadadamay sa recent family argument nila. i've been hanging out with my friends since summer vacation naman na. i've also been minding my business so ayoko rin makisawsaw sa kung ano mang issue meron sila dad, pero kahit ilang beses akong tanungin ng relatives ko wala talaga akong alam and my grandma was so pissed at me she was trying to squeeze information out of me nung tinawagan ako, so i had to give the phone to my dad para maliwanagan lola ko. pati tita ko hindi na rin naniniwala.
even though i hang out with my friends through online, i also make sure to observe my surroundings. wala naman nangyayari samin dito. parang self-contained neighborhood dito. mahilig nga lang magslam ng pinto which is one of my dad's pet peeves. sabi rin ng tatay ko (base sa usapan nila ng lola ko kanina) dati pa raw 'tong issue na 'to, which is something na hindi niya sinabi sakin dati.
'di ko na alam, gusto ko nalang makahinga ng maluwag. this family beef has me on a chokehold for a few days na, naooverwhelm ako. it's either i'm the blind one here, or my dad is actually making up things.

Long post ahead i guess? So I once have my spaylater and lazpaylater. By the time that this story transpired, both accounts have huge amount of credit. So yung sa spaylater ko ginagamit ko lng sya sa mga liit liit na transaction generally like 100-500 peso items lang. Then at the time, yung spaylater ko is being used to purchase aan android phone worth 12k (si gf nagbabayad non, account ko lng ginamit since malaki credit). May last year when i started to struggle financially since I'm still a student and hindi ko inexpect yung sunod sunod na gastos would really get a toll to me (ojt, grad fee, etc) i got overdue at my spaylater bill for 3 months. Nabayaran ko naman siya but by that time i was already "banned" na daw from using their services. Ang mahirap pa, pati lazpaylater ko na ban din even though wala naman delay yon since si gf and fam niya nagbabayad EVERY MONTH. Yung spaylater lang talaga nadelay. I know naman na this a consequence of my actions. But is there a way to amend this? I was just in a really bad spot at the time and I'm certain na hindi na mauulit yon since i have my business and my own job na ngayon. It just frustrates me na ni hindi ako makagamit ng ganong service even when i really need it. Thank sa sasagot!

Shooting my shot again. Trying to find my person, maybe my future partner. Let's share stories and secrets. Let’s get to know each other and then see where things go.
Few details about me:
Corporate gurlie from the south (IV-A)
Works in the metro
Gym rat so yes I’m into fit guys
Adventurous
Loves to travel! Beach trips? G!
157 cm short
A listener who’s into smart guys (hihi)
Review by a friend: mabango and funny
About you:
Preferably 25-32 y/o
Athletic
Weakness ko yung mga matalino and physically batak
Working professional
Taller than me pls
May sense kausap
Hopefully we share the same humor
Let’s make this fun, answer this: What’s your ideal first date?

Hello, just want to share this story of mine where I lost almost 50k at our own house.
This happened recently (February), My father gave me 40k for my savings. While I have my own savings, emergency money, and ofcourse my budget money. Since I was working that time, and I was super busy. I just put that 40k on my wallet together with my 10k+ own savings, 10k+ emergency fund. My budget money was in seperated wallet.
Iniiwan ko yong wallet na yon since natatakot ako na baka mawala sa work. So ang lagi ko lang dala is yong another wallet ko na kung saan andon yong pang budget on my daily basis. And kampante naman ako iwan sa bahay yon since nasa cabinet ko naman and lagi naman may naiiwan sa bahay. Which is my mother and my sister. Yong sister ko di naman siya the whole day nasa bahay pero everytime na papasok ako, andon pa siya. At pagkauwi ko from work, ay andon na siya.
Fast forward, ang daming dumadating na order ng kapatid ko from orange app which is normal naman na since maluho talaga siya (make-ups, skincares, clothes, and other staff). Pero may part saken na nagtataka na kasi almost everyday may nadating na parcel, and take note.. some of things are worth 600+ which is nakakapagtaka dahil ang allowance niya lang naman per week is less that 1k. How come she able to pay for that, +she always eating at fastfood, every weekend may gala, and she always angkas app.
While my mother, napakadaming utang. And for me, it’s not my responsibility to pay for that dahil unang una my father doesn’t know about her debts. And yong inuutang niyang pera is not for us dahil nagpapadala ang father ko weekly para budget samin sa bahay. All those inuutangan niya ay impluwensya lang sakanya ng mga kaibigan niya na sumali sa mga lendings. I talked to her many times about that dahil naso-short yong budget money sa bahay dahil pinangbabayad niya sa weekly hulugan niya na hindi alam ng father ko. And he always insist me na wag kong sabihin sa father ko, and sa takot ko naman na wag sila mag away hindi ko din sinasabi.
Fast forward again, almost a week na yong dumaan and never ko pa chineck wallet ko na nasa cabinet. But one time, parang inagaw yong atensyon ko ng wallet ko. Parang may nagsasabi saken na icheck ko. Edi kinuha ko, and bogsh! Bawas na. 6k yong nawala. So nanlumo ako, tinanong ko yong mother ko and hindi niya daw pinapakealaman wallet ko. Hindi ko natanong yong kapatid ko dahil tulog pa.
So pinalagpas ko, a day after 2k naman yong nawala. Hinayaan ko ulit. Dinala ko nalang yong wallet ko na yon after that. Hanggang sa nawalan ako ulit ng almost 8k. Na hindi ko na kinaya, umiyak na ko sa sobrang galit. Tinatanong ko yong mother ko while crying dahil sobrang sama na ng loob ko. Sinabi ko pa sakanya na, “Pwede naman kayo magsabi saken kung kailangan nyo ng pera, hindi yong ganyan.” Then, pinalipas ko ulit yon. Hanggang sa di talaga natigil. Yong bag ko kung nasan yong wallet ko na nasa tabi ko lang matulog, nakukuhaan padin. Chinat ko yong kapatid ko, pero hindi daw siya. Pero yong kinausap ko siya personally, sinasabi niya saken na wala nga daw syang pera.
FF ulit, nagsumbong na ko sa father ko. And nag away yong parents ko. Nag away din kami ng mother ko dahil sinisisi ko daw siya. Umabot pa sa point na nagsalita siya saken na, “Manang mana ka sa papa mo, ang yayabang nyo porket may pera kayo” “Sasabihan mo pa kong magnanakaw” na which is hindi ko sinabi, ang sinabi ko lang sa father ko ay nawalan ako ng pera. Grabe iyak ko non at sobrang sama ng loob ko. Nalaman ko pa na sinanla ng mother ko yong alahas na hindi naman samin. At ako pa yong nagtubos.
Nong gabi na yon, grabe sama ng loob ko. Naglayas ako. Halos 1k nalang pera ko non.