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2008.06.15 19:41 Fast food news, reviews, and discussion

The /FastFood subreddit is for news, reviews, and discussions of fast food (aka quick-service), fast casual, and casual restaurants -- covering everything fast food from multinational chains, regional and local chains, independent and chain cafeterias and all-you-can-eat restaurants, independent and chain diners, independent hole-in-the-wall restaurants, convenience store and gas station prepared food, food trucks and food carts, the neighborhood taqueria, street vendors, etc.
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2015.07.02 18:17 somanyquestions51 A place to ask advice and gain support

This is a discussion and advice group. Do not beg or soft-beg for cash, donations, etc.
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2013.05.22 02:48 Knuls Hungry Howie's Pizza

Hungry Howie's Pizza home of flavored crust
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2024.05.16 15:23 Icy-G3425 About new photos and season 2 😁

I loved the photos, and I'm excited. It looks like it's going to be 98% faithful to the game again, which is great but a little disappointing as I was hoping for more content to be added, but we'll have to wait and see. I don't know how they're going to handle the story, since a lot of the impact comes from the fact that you as a player are doing things you don't want to do and that's very difficult to translate to TV. So, such a faithful adaptation might bring problems, but we'll see.
How excited are you?
P.S: can we stop posting about Bella? Okay, I agree that she doesn't seem to have aged, but now it's just turning into unnecessary hate against an actress who has already proven herself to be excellent.
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2024.05.16 15:22 happy-little-puppy Some Progress, but not as much as I'd hoped. Six months of changed diet, light exercise.

Welp, first, here's my previous post, but you can see my old numbers in the attached lab report to this update post. https://www.reddit.com/Cholesterol/s/ALBJxAYVyR
My l biggest problems (although there are others) are LDL cholesterol, triglycerides, and insulin resistance. I improved all of those numbers (and some other baddies), but not as much as I'd hoped, given my diet changes.
In November of 2023, I learned I have terrible LDL cholesterol and triglyceride numbers. I immediately changed what I eat. I stopped butter; I cook with olive oil now. I stopped eating candy, pastries, etc. I have eaten four pieces of bacon (a favorite) in the last six months. I stopped eating fried food.
I do enjoy a gourmet dessert at a restaurant on occasion; if I'm going to have it, it better be super special. I was eating so much candy before. Not only is it bad for triglycerides, but once I started checking labels, I saw the tremendous amount of saturated fat in even one Lindt milk chocolate candy. I stopped drinking Coke or any other soda. I drink smoothies sometimes, and I add ground flax seed. Otherwise, I drink only water and some coffee in the morning. I do include a splash of 2% milk and a teaspoon of sugar.
I eat red meat once a week at most. My protein is coming from chicken, fish, and beans. Every weekday, I eat a giant salad with tons of fresh vegetables or I do a stir fry of vegetables with brown rice and add grilled chicken. It's usually the salad, though. I only use Newman's Own Family Italian dressing and use it sparingly. I roast vegetables after coating in olive oil and seasoning. I feel I'm not eating enough protein overall.
I have added long walks twice a week, but I am still not getting the kind of exercise I need. Working on that.
I've lost about 25 pounds in the last 6 months, and am now just barely at a normal BMI (from 28.2 down to 24.8). Yes, BMI is flawed, but I don't have an amount of muscle mass that would make it extremely off. I have not remeasured my waist-to-hip ratio; however, I have gone down several sizes in clothing based on decreased waist size.
My insulin resistance score and triglycerides are the best improvements, I think. Triglycerides went from 176 down to 99. In my first test, the insulin resistance score was off the chart at 65; it is now 43, which is just kind of in the middle of insulin sensitive versus insulin resistant.
I'm still very high with the LDL-P number. It should be under 1000. Previously, I had 2507, but it is now 1622. I understand that might be a test that is not very helpful in assessing my health. I'm an overachiever, though, so I want all these numbers in normal range.
In my original post, folks said I'd probably get put on a statin. I will discuss with my doctor. They are not super keen on statins, but back in November, they said they would prescribe something if I want them to. I believe they mentioned Repatha; it was something with an R. In November, I chose to avoid the med and see what I can do with changes in eating and slightly increased exercise alone. These are the results after five/six months.
Things I think I could do to improve: I started out eating oats a lot, but fell off. I could get back in that daily habit.
I did not stop drinking alcohol. I could cut back. I don't want to, though. 🤷‍♀️ I drink alcohol twice a week, and I do have about 4 drinks each time, which is not ideal and can be considered binge drinking. This may be my weakest spot. My understanding is that alcohol will affect triglycerides the most. Is that understanding accurate to your knowledge?
I still enjoy a delicious meal at a restaurant twice a week. I could cut back, but I truly enjoy dining like that. I choose a fish or chicken option now, instead of pasta, beef, or pork.
I could take a statin or other suitable med.
I could exercise more.
I have a bad heart-health history on my dad's side. Dad had a heart attack and a quadruple bypass in his 50s. His own father died of a heart attack at 42. I am in my mid 40s.
Any other changes you think could help? Am I doing a little better now? I could use some encouragement, because I thought I'd see more improvement. I do not plan on ever going back to my old way of eating, the new way makes my body feel nourished. But I am kind of wondering if this is as good as it'll get without a med.
I appreciate any suggestions, comments, or encouragement. I am feeling down about the level of improvement, so please try to be kind. I have fpund that this sub is usually kind, though. Thanks!
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2024.05.16 15:22 dorcus_maximus When maintainers abandon / ignore their gems...can anything be done?

I'm sure this has been addressed multiple time but I didn't easily find what I was looking for...
A little while ago I fixed a gem that was broken. It was broken in the sense that it was no longer compatible with a large number of other gems that would be used alongside it and for which it shared dependencies. It hadn't seen any meaningful maintenance in 7 or 8 years. Using it meant using (very) old versions of a lot of other gems. In my case, not using it would require a lot more dev time than simply fixing it would. Not a good situation. Anyway, I fixed it. In this case, the owner of the gem at least made me a maintainer of the repo, though I'm still not the owner of the gem (can't push new versions). At least they haven't completely abandoned all responsibility and still published my fixes as a new gem. No problem.
I've now run into a similar situation again. Simple code that is a plugin for a gem that has 20+M downloads. But the thing that it is a plugin for has moved on with a major version release which happened almost five years ago. This plugin hasn't kept up. There doesn't seem to be any other gem out there that does the same job. I fixed the plugin and submitted a PR. In a case like this, is there any recourse at all if the maintainer / owner is completely unresponsive or inactive? Other than just releasing it as a new gem with a new name?
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2024.05.16 15:22 guccigrandad RAV4 vs Land Cruiser vs Land Cruiser with 35’s and snorkel

Hi all, I’ll be in Iceland for 11 days in mid June. My girlfriend and I have booked a Rav4 months ago. I’m wanting to go to the highlands and this rental seems like the most economical choice, although now I’m having second guesses. The advice that I’m looking for is based around the amount of stress that I’ll be putting on the vehicle vs the cost of the rental.
We live in BC Canada and are no strangers to dirt tracks and gravel roads. I’m confident in my ability to navigate safely over most things and can make the call at what is out of the scope of the vehicles capability. If we take the Rav4 I won’t have any problems saying “No this is too risky for this vehicle”. With that being said however, I’m wondering if anyone has experience or insight into just how necessary a stronger engine and bigger tires will be.
Making river crossings will be doable in the Rav4 but of course the crossings will need to be shallow and not have a strong current. It would be uncomfortable for me to do any river crossings that go past 75% of the tires height. River crossings sound exciting and that’s something I would be interested in having the capability of doing.
I’m now also thinking of the stress on the Rav4’s engine while making longer uphill drives in the highlands on less maintained roads. I don’t imagine to be able to drive every road and take on every challenge in 11 days but I would adjust our itinerary based on the vehicle’s capabilities.
This trip is once in a lifetime for us and I can justify spending a little more money on the rental if it means that the memories and fun are that much more exciting. However the costs are a little shocking to say the least. I also need to keep in mind the cost of gas, and the rest of our trip. We’re booking with Blue Car Rentals and the following is our pricing. Any, and all advice is welcome.
Rav4 - $2623.14 (Pre - Booked but not Prepaid)
Land Cruiser - $4410.96
Land Cruiser with 35in Tires and Snorkel - $4862.27
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2024.05.16 15:22 GerglyShmergs Find me a job I don’t hate based on my experience

So I’ve been doing materials engineering work for a good chunk of my career and recently landed a quality engineering job. Turns out, I hate engineering. The stress, taking the work home with me, the constant pressure to fix every new problem that arises… I’m burnt out! I’ve been an engineer for almost 10 years now, with a good resume and degree
So tell me, what’s a good job that I can get with the following targets:
Simple - I want something where I know what’s going to be required day in and day out, that doesn’t take a stressful amount of physical or mental effort.
Good Pay - if I can get something that pays $70k in a small to medium sized city I’d be very happy. I’d be taking a pay cut, but it would be worth it.
Little to no public or customer interface - I’m tired of dealing with angry customers
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2024.05.16 15:20 Background-Tough-263 Should I tell her how I feel?

I (M24) have this little happy crush on someone. We met last year (2023) during the ber months but we never really got close until this one event where we spent an entire week with each other and after that we've been getting along really well. Our personalities match well and we have a good vibe naman when we see each other. After that we started talking almost everyday. Sometimes sobrang funny ng conversation and sometimes may dry days rin where we don't have much to talk about.
I started developing this happy crush after spending time with her and having messaged her everyday. There's something about her that I find really cute lang. She's not my type per say but she exudes charm and everything about her is so attractive whether her physical looks or her personality. I was completely fine keeping this as a secret nalang to myself since I was happy where we were as friends and I didn't mind if walang mangyari samin but due to recent events, we're being paired up na with each other ng external forces by people around us. Basically, na real talk ako and they gave decent advice naman. I admit na I do think of her alot and I tell her most of my daily activities.
The problem though? This little happy crush has a boyfriend. Yup, she's taken and ayoko naman maging home wrecker. So you guys might be wondering "bakit kapa nag tatanong?". Well, the same people na nag real talk sakin noticed that happy crush isn't really happy sa current relationship nya and I think it's true naman since it has been going around na she asks for relationship advice alot.
To be honest, I'm confused on what I should do. Should I admit na I am developing feelings knowing na may boyfriend sya? Eh how could I? That's not who I am naman but it's tempting. Should I wait it out and see if she'll just break up with her boyfriend? Somebody please help me.
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2024.05.16 15:16 ookamizu_sama "Rationalizing Suicide". Is this normal?

I discovered this subreddit, and I did propose the same question in another trying to get some advice on the matter.
I had some suicidal thoughts throughout my life. Sometimes they get dark, but have never done anything about it. In the past 2 years Im actually getting better in some aspects of my life, because of therapy, unfortunately I had to stop it due to some financial problems. Still, it seems this feeling of wanting to end it all It never stopped. Even though im doing better mentally (not totally but better for sure) I just feel tired of living in general.
I can't be productive. Sometimes I can't even do the bare minimum, specially in stressful seasons. I always try the best I know, but I just feel tired, and see everyone doing much better, even in similar situations as I am. They have so much more resilience and capability to surpass their different challenges as I don't feel I have that capability as sharp. And because of that Im throughout the year in a state of doom, while they can be productive and enjoy the rest they can get, as they can conciliate rest, friends, work, even if they have a difficulty, they always manage to do some balance. I feel like I never achieve that balance. Between managing relationships, work, exercise, rest, etc. And Im always insisting and trying but always fail in some way. I try, some minor stressing thing happens, I stop, I fail. Its a cycle.
Im in my middle 20s and never had a job, I have been in university for 6 years and still in the 3rd year of my bachelors. I tried to have a job but Its hard to conciliate with my university for me. And thats the main reason of writing my last paragraph.
I am losing joy over many things in life. I cant enjoy the same way certain hobbies I loved because I feel they are to tiring to do at this point. I even would like to get in other hobbies that make me enjoy life more, if it makes sense, or to enrich my life or learn. But I don't feel the passion to learn or the desire. I don't know if it makes sense but thats how I feel and also I feel lazy to admit this.
All of this culminated in me thinking that if I can't find joy in life and Im to tired to live or that Im to lazy or incapable to be a proper adult, productive, and if I can't take advantage of the opportunities I have that I should just end it before my laziness and uselessness makes me so unsuccessful in life and leads me into paths that wild burden or sadden the people I love the most.
So, until I can go back to having a more personal approach to this matter I would like to know if this is a normal feeling and how can I deal a little better with this feeling if possible.
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2024.05.16 15:14 sharkbabe69 Found the solution for poor dental hygiene

It's a little bit embarrassing to admit having a problem with that. But brushing teeth is something I tend to forget in the evening and in the morning i am in a rush so i don't do it properly. And i don't reach all my biters. And it's annoying and meh..
But a week ago I did an impulse buy and I need to share that because I am hyped. Bought a 360° electronic toothbrush. Tbh sensorywise it's a little odd and it's not cheap as well. But it only takes 1 minute (!), and my teeth feel soo clean.
I know my drawing looks like sth you really don't want to put into your mouth. But I didn't want to post a photo because I don't want to advertise one special brand. I just wanted to share my find
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2024.05.16 15:13 lSlUlNlNlYl What can we do? (Alberta, Canada)

What can we do? (Alberta, Canada)
Moved into a non-legal basement suite in YEG five years ago with family, one family member owns it. As per regulations, the previous owner had black mold and was responsible for removing previous mold in the bathroom and into part of the bedroom/closet (my bedroom) before family member buys it. Get the all clear from the home inspector and family member and moved in. The day we moved in I immediately found that was a lie and that the previous owner placed a loose shelf over it to hide some of it in the connecting wall, as well as the pipes are covered in something suspiciously like mold. Brought this up with family member (owner) and they just basically said "well what do you want me to do with it? Don't touch it."
Fast forward a few years later and we've noticed that our shower curtain doesn't stay up. (Based on tension) and cracked the tile. Figuring it was just cheap tile or too much tension on my end, I moved it to another and it just became worse from there. I suspect there is a leaking pipe or toilet in the bathroom above (I hear water and have further suspicion that it's what caused the problem in the first place) The crack has grown much bigger, going into the wall and a few beads of water roll down the tile from the source.
I realize this is a big problem but I'm unsure as to how to approach this. We have no where else to live (as to why we are living with family) and my family member is cheap, seriously. I know it's going to cause a big problem, as they believe one thing is piling on top of another thing that they need to buy or fix.
What can we do? Should we just go ahead and call someone for inspection or abatement out of our pocket? RTDRS? Oue broker?? We don't have a yearly lease and can move, if given the finances and time.
(Also, in case anyone asks, the boxes are meant to discourage my cat from exploring, she's a little ceiling goblin 😮‍💨)
Thank you so much for anything you can offer.
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2024.05.16 15:11 Witty-Location-5368 Husband texted coworker

My husband and I are married for 4 years now. I am 29, he is 28 and we have a son who is now 15 months old. When he was born it was all ok until husband started having some problems at work and when he would come home we didn’t interact so much. He would be frustrated and angry, i didn’t have help around house and the baby was a bit difficult, screaming so much every day, didn’t want to sleep in his crib for some time, only when i was holding him. So my husband and i didn’t have much time together so that became frustrating also. Meanwhile he changed the job and that’s when the biggest problem happened. First of all after the job interview he just called me to say he accepted the job without coming home and talking about stuff like that like we always did with each other. So he started dating and i noticed he started acting differently. There was this one female colleague that he would mention a lot, look at schedule to see when they are together on the shift and so he started texting her, i saw different behavior, hiding phone when i was around, excitedly jumping to answer the texts and i got very suspicious, this was going on for 2 weeks. So one day when baby was asleep i confronted him and he confessed everything and showed me all the messages and i had a lot to read. He was texting saying they could go walk her dog before or after shift together, the could go to a movie and stuff like that, there were some intimate things too. All in all not the thing you want to text someone outside of your marriage. He says he did it because he missed me because our marriage got a bit cold because of the baby, which was true, it’s our first baby and it’s been really difficult. The type of texts were just like he texted me at the beginning of our relationship. So he said he will stop with that and he did, after that we were ok for 2 weeks but then something else happened. He went to work a bit too early and i had i strong gut feeling that something is happening that shouldn’t be. So i did something i feel very bad for, i did it for the first time ever in my life and i feel like a piece of shit but it was so much stronger than me. We are connected onto the find my app so i saw he went to her home to pick her up before work which was completely unnecessary because she literally lives 3 minutes of walking distance from their job so i texted him about it, he lied to me when he came home he said signal was bad. He drove her home after work and the next day too. The next day he confessed again that he lied about driving her. He promised he wouldn’t do that again but guess what he did it few days later again. He said he couldn’t say no because he was asking and she very well what kind of problem she was for us and she was asking again even though he told her he wouldn’t do that anymore. So anyway we went to therapy in November 2023, and all this happened in august/September 2023. Due to stress i lost so much weight i was almost anorexic, i couldn’t function normally, i was barely able to hold it together to take care of our baby. There was never anything physical with them but i can’t help to think would happen if i didn’t find out. I told him this was emotional affair and that he cheated on me, he doesn’t think the same. He was and still is sorry about everything, and there a lot more of little details and things that happened but this is already so much to write.
He promised he wouldn’t drive her anymore, he says they are just friends, it’s really good to work with her because she is responsible, they still talk to each other every day but i am so much bothered by that still almost a year after. There has been so much fighting, crying, feeling so bad mentally and physically and i still feel like that most of the time on the inside but we are good in a sense that our relationship is just like it was before we had a baby. Am i crazy that i despise their friendship and the fact that they still work together? I am so hurt that he doesn’t realize why that friendship is so bad. Everything gave me so much anxiety that sometimes all I would do is cry every day all day. I was even thinking about divorce for a really long time. We talked about it only with marriage counselor, we never said anything to our parents or friends even though they were asking questions because of the weight i lost and they sensed something was off. I still sometimes feel like i have to talk about it but i don’t want to talk about it with him until completely figure out my feelings and thoughts so i can be clear about everything to him and so i can tell my side calmly without causing us to fight because i am so tired of fighting. I was thinking about going to therapy myself to take care of me because i feel so much resentment, i despise so many things, i am frustrated and angry but i don’t show it because our relationship is really good like the way it was but on the inside i am still hurting and i am still not over it. I am so full of anxiety still, sometimes can’t sleep, i sometimes fear he will drive her again after he promised he wouldn’t do that anymore. I noticed i now react so much differently when we have a typical marriage argument. It sets me into panick mode, i just cry, i can’t talk, i feel so out of place like i am not myself anymore like i can’t function in situations like that. I have the need to put up a wall between me and him. He tries to calm me down and talk to me about what’s happening but i just can’t make myself to talk because of some fear and so he gets frustrated. He also started saying he would love to have a second child but all of this is a very big reason for me not to have the second one. I can’t put myself emotionally in that place again, our baby was just 6 months old when all of this started happening. Maybe in a few years… I also feel so weird to bring this up to him again after almost a year after everything. We love each other so much, he really is a good husband and dad and he really tries. I know it sounds so awful written like this but i know us and how we are, this happened probably for a reason because some thing did get better with us, with our marriage and our communication but some other thing i wrote i still bothering and make me feel bad and i don’t have anyone to talk to about this. Talking to parents or friends is a no go because there would be taking sides and even more drama and i just can’t take it anymore.
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2024.05.16 15:11 Slow-Lifeguard4104 Yes, we do believe thst rainbow capitalism is a major problem that ruins tons of franchises. Very astute, Krayt.

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2024.05.16 15:10 Pycho20 Server Not Starting

Hello Everyone
Yesterday i reinstaled octoprint and i had a little fun installing the plugins and doing some configs, and trying out some things. I left and i unpluged everything from the wall and now my server wont start, only one light shows up on my pi I saw access to pi through ssh, i used angryscanner and i cant see my pi ip address I am a bit confused now, i dont know what is the problem, unpluged all usb´s and nothing Can i get some help please? Setup Ender 3 Pro pluged 5V 2A charger Pi 3B V1.2 Etherner cable Wifi Dongle 8Gb sd card
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2024.05.16 15:10 Barnegat16 Relationships and our minds

So I’m having issues with my fiancee. We are in counseling which works a little, but not when really deep issues bubble up.
Ex: I own/operate a marketing business on the verge of growth where things are getting very stressful and burning me out. Add in a toddler plus dogs. My super brain is on fire.
We never co-mingled finances. She asked for passwords in a way that I felt threatened. She is a stay at home mom, first time never working, feels super issolated and sub human.
I figured out how to get her a pw for her sub account I made, but it was too late. Shit spooled, I got loud.
Feels like everything is lost. We are both emotionally sensitive too.
Fast forward to the bigger issue: Im not nice enough. Or caring enough.
I personally have problems seeing the value in halmark gestures. Why should flowers = sex kinda thing.
Why isnt a home, actually 2, doing almost anything we want, not being abusive, etc not enough.
Oh, and I help around the house, do a lot with our son. I feel like my efforts are taken for granted and she always wants more.
I guess you shouldnt be a people pleaser but you have to please your partner.
And of course I want sex and she could care less for all of the reasons above and more. So i guess I have to change yet again.
Anyone else fed up?
I wasn’t disgnosed till last year. Im 43 male. Nothing is perfect but we have a good life. Im not hyperactive, mostly executive function, organization stuff
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2024.05.16 15:06 sea-aitch 13wk unicorn has suddenly revolted

As the title says, our almost 13wk old unicorn baby has suddenly revolted and we are struggling. I think she may be hedging into the 4 month regression a little early. Her first week of life was a little difficult as we all adjusted but from week 2 til now, she’s been amazing with few exceptions. But… because she’s been such a stellar sleeper until now, I think it’s even harder for us to cope with this rapid regression 😵‍💫
Until the last week or so, she was regularly sleeping 9-10 hours a night, usually with 6-7 of those in one good stretch for the first part of the night and would go right back down after a diaper change and quick feed. Amazing. And we knew it was rare and we were grateful for the sleep, trust me. The problem is that we took it for granted in the sense that we now have virtually zero idea how to cope with all the wakings and how to get her back to sleep now that she’s fighting it so hard.
We’ve already been fighting the battle of her refusing a bottle and pacifier completely, so I’m trying to avoid nursing her to sleep because I know it’s a bad habit we’re trying to break. Unfortunately sometimes it’s the only way she’ll calm down. My husband can sometimes get her to sleep by walking around and carrying her, but she doesn’t stay asleep during transfer and if even she does, she wakes up a few minutes later.
She’s sleeping in a pack and play in our room but this week has made me finally consider moving her to her nursery. “Drowsy but awake” is absolutely no-go at this point, but I think it might just be too early to start that? If she’s awake at all, she’s flailing the SECOND her head touches the mattress. Even when she’s fully asleep going in, she often wakes up anyway.
I know she’s still a little too young to start sleep training, but I’m hoping there’s something we can do to begin working with her and hopefully make the transition easier? I’m waking up at 4am and not getting to sleep til after 11pm most days and it just is not sustainable. Any advice is appreciated.
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2024.05.16 15:06 sk716theFirst Updated Case Long Timeline

Updated with autopsy results.
Morphew Case Map - Google My Maps - Barry's iPhone Data - Google My Maps - Barry's Truck Events - Google My Maps
August 5, 1994 – Suzanne Moorman marries Barry Morphew The Alexandria Times-Tribune Alexandria, Indiana 05 Jan 1994, Wed • Page 4
December 1999 – Barry and Suzanne Purchase 26040 Cal Carson Rd, Arcadia, IN This is the house where he dug a hole in the yard and buried everything he didn't want to move to Colorado. (AA ft 55 page 53)
November 2013 – Suzanne Inherits $208,000 upon the Passing of her Mother. MB provided documents that Suzanne inherited approximately $208,000 in 2013 at the passing of her mother.
August 2016 – Suzanne inherits $217,000 upon the death of a grandmother. Suzanne’s grievance list included multiple references to Barry controlling the finances.
April 12, 2018 – The Morphew’s Purchase 19057 Puma Path Barry and Suzanne Morphew purchase 19057 Puma Path for $1,575,000.
June 1, 2018 – The Morphews move to Colorado. (PH – Harris) SA Harris: Yeah, they moved in 2018. I believe they left around June 1st, 2018. to move to Colorado. So roughly a year and a half of the time is what Sheila originally said in that.
September 2018 – Suzanne sends “Howdy stranger” message to JL First contact since high school.
Fall 2018 – Libler’s daughter sees messages from Suzanne on his phone. Libler breaks it off.
Thanksgiving 2018 – Barry obsessive/possessive. While Suzanne was at the Oliver’s house, she had stepped away from her cell phone to use the restroom, and Barry tried calling her several times within a few minutes, then tried calling Sheila, then tried calling Darin.
Holidays 2018 – Suzanne finds Libler’s LinkedIn Page. Relationship Rekindled
January 2019 – The Mexico trip where Barry took Suzanne’s phone Mexico trip mentioned in the grievances list where Barry took Suzanne's phone.
February 11 – 14, 2019 – Suzanne in New Orleans with Libler Barry admitted to questioning Suzanne about the New Orleans trip, further evidence he suspected the affair.
April 2019 – Suzanne meets up with Libler in Indiana She does not see SO on this trip.
July 2019 – Suzanne and Libler meet up in Michigan Barry called SO while Suzanne was in MI visiting her fatheJL, wanting to know why Suzanne wasn't returning his calls.
September 2019 – Barry stalks Suzanne and Shelia Oliver, creeping through woods. Barry stalked Suzanne and Sheila at the Puma Path house in September 2019. This is upon his early return from a trip to Arizona.
October 2019 – Libler and Suzanne in Dallas Suzanne and Libler spend two nights at the Galleria.
September – November 2019 – Barry aggressively pursues KW around Salida. From the first time KW met Barry, she said it felt like "he was putting his tentacles out."
Holidays 2019 – Suzanne and Libler stop talking on the phone because she is afraid Barry will find out. They shift to more covert ways to communicate. Barry's second device makes its first appearance.
January/February 2020 – Suzanne in Florida, gets spy pen, sees Libler Suzanne in Florida, SO gives her the spy pen during this trip. Suzanne records a conversation with Libler on this trip.
Late February 2020 – Suzanne in Florida, sees father and Libler. Suzanne skips out on time with her father to see Libler. Barry goes to Florida.
March 2020 – Spy pen records argument between Suzanne and Barry. “It’s money. It’s about money.” “… I have lived for years being told how I should feel, how I should act, how I should look, what I should drink, what I shouldn’t drink, what I should put in my body, what I shouldn’t put in my body … ”
March 20, 2020 – Jekyll and Hyde text exchange between Suzanne and SO, MM2 suggests restraining order. "It’s Jekyl and Hyde again … Pretty much told him I can’t be healthy and stay in this."
March 22, 2020 – Spy pen records Barry listening to Forensic Files episodes, call with Suzanne on drive to Pueblo Coincidentally one of the episodes involved a woman "disappearing" after a bike ride.
April 21, 2020 – Messages between Suzanne and Libler “I want to be with you,” “I can only be me with you,” I love you,” “I need you.” “You know I was born to love you.”
May 4, 2020 16:05 – Barry makes 3 second outgoing call to Suzanne This was the first logged call in Barry’s phone to or from Suzanne since February 7, 2020.
May 5, 2020 – Suzanne drives MM2 to Gunnison Suzanne drives Macy to Gunnison, CO to meet MM1 for a road/camping trip through Utah and Idaho with MM1's best friend.
May 6, 08:44 – Suzanne sends MM2 a text “Good morning! I miss you already!”
May 6, 10:13 – Suzanne: “I’m done. I could care less what you’re up to and have been for years.” From 14:43 to 17:00 Barry replied, “When I’m dead,” “Going to see my savior,” and “This life on earth is a mear (sic) grain of sand compared to eternity.”
May 6, 2020 – 14:43 – From Barry to Suzanne: “I’m sorry if things went the way they did. I have a problem dealing with the way you accused me of hiding checks. If you think I’m as terrible of a person to hide our accounts and have ones you don’t know about you don’t know me. All I do is for you and the girls. All. When I'm dead, which won't be long, you guys will be taken care of. Please stop being angry. If I can control my hurt heart I think I can overcome your distant unlovingness toward me. Honey, I swear it's the hardest thing I've had to do. I love you I always will.”
May 6, 2020 – 15:51 – Barry to Suzanne: “I promise you were wrong about all the crazy thoughts about me. I have always been faithful. Always. Why would I ever want another when I'm married to the most beautiful, sweet, kind, loving, woman as you? Only a fool would stray from an angel like you.”
May 07, 2020 – Suzanne messages Libler about how magical past days had been. Barry wants a new truck. 16:43 - “Been studying all afternoon. I’m gonna bike now. I’ve got veggie soup on for supper.”
May 7, 2020 – SB puts new tires on Suzanne’s bike Bike mechanic was interviewed by law enforcement.
May 7, 17:13:52 – Barry Works Out at GD’s House Truck log files place Barry at GD's home at 5:13 pm.
May 7, 2020 23:00 – “I finally got the job” text from MM1 goes unanswered. Q (Lindsey): Anything on May 6th that didn’t seem normal? Was there a text from Mallory to Mr. Morphew? A (Grusing): I believe that’s the night of May 7th. Mallory, Macy, and their friend Holly are out on a trip towards Utah and Mallory is sending pictures to both Suzanne and Barry but I was ... Read more
May 08, 07:03 – The Grievance List: Suzanne’s phone backs up a list of 50 reasons why she wanted to leave marriage on “Notes” Not safe alone with you. Can’t be trusted - Oppressive - Slam on brakes when angry - Threaten to jump out of car - Gun ...
May 08, 08:43 – “I will continue to do your invoicing when you need to.” "When FBI Agents showed Barry these texts during interviews in 2021, he said he did not think Suzanne was serious."
May 08, 09:28 – Suzanne texts sister about Barry’s abuse. “It’s hard dealing with the harsh abrasiveness and having to show respect. He’s also been abusive, emotionally and physically. There’s so much … I went thru a period of acceptance and I feel more angry now. Anger at what I’ve allowed.”
May 08, 10:55 Barry: “I Love You, Suzanne.” “But, in the afternoon, it (the text fight) was like it never happened. She texted me back and it was just like, ‘Hey, what time are you coming home? Hey, this or that. Just pick this up or pick that up.'”
May 08, 13:18 – Barry texts Salida Stove and Spa about getting the hot tub fixed. "Asking when he could come out to the home."
May 08, 15:43 – Barry’s iPhone receives an SMS message associated with the unknown device This second device was first used on November 30,2019 and was associated with Barry’s iPhone 91 times since then, compared to 1,701 associations with the primary User ID since November 2019.
May 8, 19:06 – Moonlight Pizza and Phone Calls Barry convinces Suzanne to meet him at the Tailwinds site before going to pick up Moonlight Pizza together.
May 08, 21:04 – 20 Facebook friend requests, 3 men named “Jeff.” Barry’s lurking at the River. Barry was asked about his phone pinging down by the river during the Facebook posts on Friday night and asked if he was outside. Barry said, “I could have been. I don’t remember. I chase critters around the house all the time.”
May 09, 00:02 – Incoming call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST) Incoming call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST)
May 09, 02:07 – Outgoing call on Suzanne’s phone (PH CAST) 02:07 am outgoing call on SM’s phone (PH CAST)
May 09, 06:00 – Barry’s phone received call (PH CAST) 06:00 am BM’s phone received call (PH CAST)
May 09, 06:46 – Barry’s phone registered “Power On” Comes out of Airplane mode.
May 09, 07:19 – Barry’s cell received signal (PH) Barry’s cell received signal (PH)
May 09, 07:22 – 07:39 – Barry at “Tailwinds” worksite Barry’s phone registered locations at his “Tailwinds” work site near Poncha Springs.
May 09, 07:35 – Suzanne texting SO Discussing Sheila's daughters wedding on Sunday.
May 09, 08:00 – MG was with Barry working on the rock beach site until 10am(?). Gentile: “He said that he had to go make the wife happy – do some hiking or biking.”
May 9 – Morning – Suzanne messaging Jeff “He’s still wanting Arizona.”
May 09, 09:50 – Barry to Suzanne: Want to go on hike? *Text Exchange\* Barry to Suzanne: Want to go on hike?
May 9, 2020 – 11:14 – Suzanne received a second password reset message from Facebook Previous reset was while Barry was down by the river on the evening of the 8th.
May 09, 11:15 est. – Barry tells Morgan Gentile he could “bury a body” and it “would never be found.” Gentile: “He seemed stressed. He definitely seemed weird on Saturday.”
May 09, 11:55 – Dead Turkey Hunt or Barry Takes Down His Trail Cameras Barry said he was looking for a turkey that Mallory had shot previously with a bow, but they had never found.
May 09, 13:35 – Barry leaves home again. Checked on job at Kim Gyms
May 9, 13:40(?) – Suzanne texts Libler Guess who is alone again?
May 09, 13:46 – Barry and the backhoe After texting, Barry drove by TK's house to see the backhoe, but did not get back in touch to buy it. In 2018, Barry used a backhoe to dig a large hole in his front yard, fill it with items to include furniture, and cover it over, planting alfalfa on top.
May 09, 13:51 – 14:13 – Barry at DSI, replacing Bobcat blade He was wearing a blue t-shirt and khaki shorts.
May 09, 14:03 – Suzanne sends sunbathing pic to Libler, last proof of life. “Well, look at her. She’s obviously drunk. Look at her eyes. Do you know what drunk eyes look like?
May 09, 14:11 – Suzanne sends last LinkedIn message to Libler: “I’m on wa.” Libler sent response messages at 2:39PM, 2:46PM and 2:47PM that Suzanne did not answer.
May 09, 14:26 – Barry texts Suzanne, “Done headed back.” He texted Suzanne that he was done and was headed home.
May 09, 14:31 – Barry texted Suzanne, “Did you leave.” At 2:31 PM, Barry texted Suzanne, “Did you leave.”
May 09, 14:39 – Libler messages Suzanne, she does not respond. First unread. Messages from LinkedIn show they were talking about how Suzanne is in love with Jeff before she went missing.
May 09, 14:43 – Barry’s phone and F-350, per telematics, arrive at the Morphew residence. "The photo is shown in the courtroom, Suzanne smiling. Truck GPS coordinates show Barry’s truck goes into park at 2:43:59. Phone coordinates show he walks around the house. You can hear a pin drop in the courtroom as tension is high." - Carol McKinley, PH Tweet
May 09, 14:44 – Shooting Chipmunks? Barry had a .22 in the moments when Suzanne ceased the communicate with everyone she loved in the world. Shooting Chipmunks? Barry had a .22 in the moments when Suzanne ceased the communicate with everyone she loved in the world. (See: https://www.reddit.com/SuzanneMorphew/comments/17lfboz/barry_and_the_chipmunks_aa_excerpts/ )
May 09, 14:46 – Libler messages: “Hey … your weather looks great” Second unread. No response from Suzanne.
May 09, 14:47 – Jeff sends another messages to Suzanne with no response. Third unread. Jeff sends last message if the day to Suzanne with no response.
May 09, 16:00 – 17:30 – Defense says Barry was at Salida Stove and Spa Salida Stove and Spa's posted hours have the store closing at 2pm on Saturday. Telematics show Barry's truck in his garage during the time he was supposedly at Salida Stove and Spa.
May 09, 16:44 – Barry parks his truck in the garage. Barry claims to have been loading his truck and cleaning off his workbench. (See: https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?hl=en&mid=1FSqlFRrywR8FkytAYkNM-bdSxvKVK5MP&ll=39.173623131314%2C-105.63244&z=8)
May 09, 17:33 – Barry’s truck system manually rebooted Barry attempted to disable the trucks GPS and SYNC features.
May 09, 18:40, 18:46 – SO sends two Snapchats to Suzanne that were never opened SO sends two Snapchats to Suzanne that were never opened
May 09, 21:25 – Barry’s truck goes into reverse, backs 96.8 feet down driveway Barry backs 96 feet out of the garage.
May 09, 22:17 – Barry’s Phone Exits out of Airplane Mode Barry's phone comes out of airplane mode at the Morphew residence.
May 10, 02:53 – Outgoing call on Suzanne’s phone Possible glitch.
May 10, 03:25 – 03:48 – Barry’s truck door opened and closed "SA Hoyland noted over eighty events involving the F350 during this timeframe."
May 10, 03:58 – Barry’s phone moves from home to near where Suzanne’s bike found 3:58 am BM cell moves from home to near 225/50 where bike found Carol McKinley PH Tweets (read from bottom tweet up): 431 am 5/10 Barry’s phone goes back into airplane mode at the his home. 5:37 am – morphew turns into buena vista & heads towards broomfield. 538 he texts his mom “happy ... Read more
May 10, 04:10 – 04:23 – Last Activity from Suzanne’s iPhone Sergeant Mullenax asked dispatch to ping the number given for Suzanne’s cell phone. Dispatch informed Mullenax that the cell phone appeared to be off and last known activity was at 4:23AM on the present date, with a general location about 11.5 miles west of a cell tower in Poncha Springs, CO.
May 10, 04:32 – Barry’s Phone Goes Back into Airplane Mode Barry's Phone Goes Back into Airplane Mode
May 10, 04:32 – 05:14 – Chasing Elk, or Staging Evidence? Barry's trip to Garfield adds an approximate five miles each way to his morning trip, and places Barry and his vehicle in the direction the helmet was discarded - west from the bicycle.
May 10, 05:00 – Morgan Gentile Hears Barry’s Truck on Hwy 50 Gentile stated she did not see the truck but that his truck has a very distinctive exhaust.
May 10, 05:14 – 06:56 – Barry on the road to Broomfield. Barry phone exits airplane mode while heading towards Buena Vista, CO.
May 10, 08:10 – Trash Dump #1 – RTD Bus Stop Hwy 36 Agent Grusing: "Yes. He would have time -- with the passenger door opening and closing -- like it would say passenger door opened at 8:10:36 am and then passenger door closed at 8:12:13 am. So it took about a minute and a half and that trash can is only 10 to 15 steps away from where the truck was parked."
May 10, 08:14 – 08:20 Holiday Inn Express, Broomfield. Trash Dump #2 Grusing: "He said he parked there because he hoped someone would come out and he could go in the hotel before checking in and get a free breakfast." (Note: It was mid-COVID lockdown, building capacities were down to single digits.)
May 10, 08:41 – 08:46 – “I made it to Broomfield call me when you get a chance” Barry texts Suzanne.
May 10, 08:46 – Barry carries items into the Holiday Inn Express “If there’s clothes in my truck, there was probably old clothes I threw away.”
May 10, 10:06 – Barry exits hotel room. He's carrying a charcoal long-sleeved shirt, two white bags, and a pair of boots.
May 10, 10:20 – 10:41 – McDonald’s – Trash Dump #3 SA Grusing said Barry had a small item in his hand and used one arm to push it down, then both to push it further down as Barry was shown the photos.
May 10, 10:47 – 11:18 – Men’s Wearhouse Trash Dump #4 Barry was told he was there for about 40 minutes and asked if he remembered what he was doing there. Barry said, “I think I was still cleaning my truck, umm, yeah, yeah I mean, like I said, I just uh, I would, I was probably getting crap out of my truck like I said, which I’ve done my whole entire life.”
May 10, 11:18 – Barry calls MG "Barry called he was out of breathe (sic) panting but fatigue, kind a like hungover but he doesn’t drink, honestly when I hung up I thought to myself he sounded like he had the worst night of his life.” - MG
May 10, 11:23 – 11:36 – Barry back at the HIE Barry carries in disorganized papers in a binder. Carries out an organized binder.
May 10, 11:57 – 12:25 – Barry at the worksite Barry spent 28 minutes removing a few blocks from the wall.
May 10, 12:28 – 12:41 – HIE Trash Dump #5 A camera recorded Barry throwing away: a small item, one white trash bag, larger in size than the previous bags in one hand, a black container, along with a piece of clothing, possibly a camouflage coat.
May 10, 12:42 – 18:03 – Barry remains in his HIE room. ”At 3:30PM, Barry sent an outgoing message to Suzanne 'Call me'"
May 10, 2020 (Time Unknown) – Libler wishes Suzanne a Happy Mother’s Day Commented that it would be a hard day because she missed her own mother.
May 10, 2020 – 15:30 – Barry texts Suzanne from his hotel room. At 3:30PM, Barry sent an outgoing message to Suzanne “Call me”
May 10, 15:50 – 17:45 – Suzanne is discovered “missing” “I’m just so sad and REDCATED and I texted mom for Mother’s Day and she still hasn’t answered and I’m scared her and dad probably got in a big fight and I don’t even know it just made me want to be gone even more because I don’t want to be around them it hurts me and I know if REDACTED is working I might have to be home a lot more and it’ll probably be the worst summer of my life.”- MM2 text.
May 10, 17:55 – 19:10 – Barry leaving Broomfield 6:10 pm - Barry entered the lobby carrying two shovels and placed them beside the front desk. He made subsequent trips, placing more tools in the same spot.
May 10, 19:31 – Chaffee County finds the bike “Something is up with the front tire,” Deputy Brown
May 10, 20:42 – Barry arrives at CR 255 & US 50 "Barry is heard asking if deputies saw any “cats” on the road and a deputy says not recently."
May 10, 21:37 – CCSO Commander Avila brings Barry into the house for scent items. Barry does not call out or look for his wife in the home.
May 10, After 21:47 – Barefoot prints in the Bobcat Bucket Deputy Brown was walking in the driveway when Deputy Defurio told him that there were barefoot marks inside of the bucket on the Bobcat. Deputy Brown went with him to examine and found that the cutting blade on the bucket of the Bobcat appeared to be newly replaced, along with the nuts and bolts.
May 10, 22:00 – MG and JP smell chlorine and have the wrong tools in Broomfield. “It looked like Barry had removed top caps that was it. We also did not have the tools we need like a packer or gravel.”
May 11, 2020 – First Interviews, Puma Path Searched "On May 11, 2020, at about 7:00AM, Barry called Morgan and said that Suzanne was missing and he thought a mountain lion may have attacked her. Morgan explained that Barry was initially crying but then abruptly shifted to the specifics about the Broomfield job."
May 11, 2020 – 14:47 – Libler sends last message to Suzanne. Wishing her well for her scheduled final cancer treatment that day.
May 12, 2020 – 20:00 – Barry found digging in the trash at Poncha Market “He went to write down a description of maybe what she was wearing,” Butala said. “I just thought it was weird because he didn’t explain what the color of her eyes were or her hair or anything about her, like how tall she was or anything.”
May 13, 2020 – Deputy Carricato took photos of scratches on Barry’s left arm and hands. These injuries appeared to be healing, several days old scratches.
May 13, 2020 – Fundraiser created $33,552 raised
May 17, 2020 – 11:13 – Barry’s “plea” video is released on Facebook. “Oh Suzanne, if anyone is out there and can hear this, that has you, please, we’ll do whatever it takes to bring you back. We love you, we miss you, your girls need you. No questions asked, however much they want – I will do whatever it takes to get you back. Honey, I love you, I want you back so bad.”
May 19, 2020 – Interviews, Pneu-Darts, Range Rovers "CCSO Deputy Scott Himschoot was present during the search at 19057 Puma Path, in the laundry room, and was asked to collect a “pneu-dart box, empty,” one plastic hypodermic cover, one Pneu-dart book from safe in garage, one dart from box under bench in garage, among other items. The plastic cover was located by evidence search teams in the dryer, inside of the sheets belonging to REDACTED bed." (At some point we had confirmation of a to-do list Suzanne left including MM1s bedding in hopes that the older girls would spend the night. Cannot remember the source.)
May 20, 2020 – Spy Pen found. "The pen was located in a cloth bin amongst women’s bras. The cloth bin and pen were inside the walk-in closet in the master bedroom, located on the ground level of the residence. Detective Hysjulien located, with the pen, the controller and headphones for playback and a USB cable."
June 1, 2020 – Barry files for guardianship. Within a month of Suzanne’s disappearance, Barry began to liquidate assets.
June 1, 2020 – TD interviews Barry on camera. "So, uh -- we uh --. We had two daughters that were coming home from a trip. And I got a job in Denver that I wanted to get started on on Sunday. Set it up for my work because my rookies are coming in Sunday night. (Unintelligible) Monday but I, being the owner, I wanted to get everything lined up so that (Unintelligible).
June 6, 2020 – Barry closes on IN home. Pockets $750,000
June 25, 2020 – Barry purchases the Longhorn Ranch property for $165,000 Property Address 8366 LONGHORN DR
July 13, 2020 – Barry sells Suzanne’s Range Rover. Leaves Suzanne's sunglasses in the car.
Aug 20, 2020 – Lauren Scharf Interviews Barry “People don’t know the truth, so they’re gonna think what they’re gonna think.”
October 05, 2020 – Barry lists Puma Path home for sale. Originally listed for $1,759,000.
November 2020 – Barry Commits Voter Fraud Barry filled out Suzanne's ballot and mailed it in.
February 17, 2021 – Barry Sells Longhorn Ranch property for $150,000 A $15,000 loss. Same property sold on 04/21/2021 for $175,000, indicating Barry needed the money fast.
March 3, 2021 – 19057 Puma Path sells for $1,625,000. Barry and Suzanne Morphew purchased the home on April 12, 2018 for $1,575,000.
May 4, 2021 – Warrant Issued for the Arrest of Barry Lee Morphew CRS/CHARGE: 18-3-102 (1), (a) Murder in the First Degree, a class 1 Felony, 18-8-610. Tampering with Physical Evidence, a class 6 felony, 18-8-306, Attempt to Influence a Public Servant, a class 4 Felony.
May 5, 2021 – 09:15 – Barry Lee Morphew Arrested for the murder of Suzanne Renee Moorman Morphew "Morphew was arrested around 9:15 a.m. on Wednesday, May 5 near his home in Poncha Springs. FOX31 News has obtained video of the arrest, which shows his truck stopped on the side of the road near several police vehicles. He can be seen standing just off the road with an officer." AA: https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/21065843-21cr78-morphew-redacted-affidavit
August 9-12, 2021 – Preliminary Hearing. Day One: https://docs.google.com/document/d/15wZ86C3zQ6kh9VGOUCJcr0ipCoFeaXkdowmwyaruiIQ/edit?usp=drive_link
Day Two: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1QKa1jcH2dAqe9Wezew-KbLCDuicrm1HgfwC4oGwM8Dg/edit?usp=drive_link
Day Three got corrupted so it's gone.
People's exhibit images: https://imgur.com/a/hgvlBUt Defense exhibit images: https://imgur.com/a/VC3ZfUZ
April 19, 2022 - Case against Barry Morphew Dismissed Without Prejudice. Prosecution asked for the case to be dismissed.
May 2, 2023 – Barry files $15,000,000 lawsuit against Chaffee County, et.al. https://www.9news.com/article/news/local/barry-morphew-lawsuit/73-3cea50c2-cdae-4338-8de9-9e113d33db6c
May 8, 2023 – Fraud Lawsuit filed against Barry in Indiana. Property dispute. https://denvergazette.com/news/courts/barry-morphew-sued-fraud-allegations-land-dispute/article_1c7cd90e-f4f5-11ed-9778-47c9c303d16d.html
September 22, 2023 – Suzanne's Remains Found Near Moffat in Saguache County While SCSO was searching for another (unrelated) missing woman. https://www.cbsnews.com/colorado/news/suzanne-morphew-remains-found-colorado-missing-mother-barry-chaffee-county-disappearance/
Sept. 27, 2023 – Autopsy Completed. Awaiting Toxicology. https://cbi.colorado.gov/news-article/suzanne-morphew-autopsy-results-cbi-update-0https://www.cbsnews.com/colorado/news/autopsy-complete-remains-missing-colorado-mom-suzanne-morphew/
April 29, 2024 – Toxicology finds BAM in Suzanne's bone marrow. “Homicide by undetermined means in the setting of butorphanol, azaperone, and medetomidine intoxication.” https://www.scribd.com/document/727780041/Suzanne-Morphew-autopsy-results https://www.cpr.org/2024/04/29/suzanne-morphew-died-by-homicide-with-tranquilizer-chemicals-present-in-body-according-to-autopsy-report/
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2024.05.16 15:05 Hawk_Man117 Im 21 year old Autistic Man and im in fights often with my Mother and Grandmother. I think my Mother is Gaslighting me and my Grandmother is a Hypocritical Fuse-Head but i cant defend myself properly due to my memory issues.

I, My Sister, My Mother and My Grandmother live together in a big house. My Father left when i was 2, My Grandpa is alive but has never been in my life and my Grandmas Second Lover who i consider to be my grandpa died in 2011 to Lung Cancer.
So heres what hapened today. Tell me if ive been gaslighted or not but it sure feels like it:
My pet bearded dragon got a wierd lump on her upper lip that she flinches from whenever i touch it so its obviosly painful. I told my mother who said she whoudnt bring her to a vet because shes tired and it costs money. (Mind you ive told her many times in the past 3 months to take her to a vet). I told my grandmother and she just chucked about it and said shes fine and she whoudnt be doing it.
I offered to pay the vet fees and my Sister even offered to pay them but they still refuse.
We argued untill my grandma walked in. We spoke back and forth untill my Grandma insulted me. I insulted her back with a way less bad insult and then she called me a Moron and i called her stupid.
My mother came between us and looked at me and told that i had to stop even tho my grandma started it by insulting me first. Now both are angry at me and my mother told me im scary when im mad (even tho i havent even touched them in 4 Years when ive been mad and last time i did i just grabed my mother by her shoulders gently and said please lissen to me, i havent actually hit anyone in anger for 10+ years and im 21 yet im still too scary i guess) and my mother said i had to think about what i said. I asked what was the wrong thing i said. She dodged the question like 3 times and started to speak about someting else.
When she finaly answeared she said 'Do you think what you said will make things better or change someting?' I said 'I guess not.' (Since me and my grandmas fight end the same way everytime where my mother picks her side and im left on my own to make the whole thing be my fault). I told her 'How did my Grandmother insulting me help?' She said 'You shouldnt insult her and i should respect my elderly.' I said now in anger 'I dont respect her nor you right now and i cant believe what im hearing' she then left to the balcony to smoke like she allways does after these fights.
I was so angered and annoyed but then my Sister came to me and started calming me down and said she agreed me. We talked back and forth till i wasent as angry anymore and i just walked into the bathroom and cooled off there.
I hate these 2 women and how my mother is such a coward to allways take my grandmas side. ( Couple times she has spoken to me later to tell me she agreed with me and that she didint want to fight with her mother. But apearently her son isint off the limits even tho acording to her im scary when mad and when i told her so was Grandma she just said no she isint. So wtf. )
Not to mention my mother told me i ruined her day afterwards. Is this gaslighting? If it is its been hapening since i was a little kid.
I wonder what it takes for them to finaly go and bring her to a vet... they preasured me to get her in the first place. I said i wasent sure if i was responsible enough and that its an exotic pet that needs medical check ups. They told me that someone else was trying to buy her and that this might be my only change so i got her. Yet when i complained to them about that they both looled angry or very annoyed and refused to answear that.
I feel bullied due to my Autism and memory problems causing me to often forget things i or they said wich makes this even more annoying. I allways apologise for these since i see things better that way than us being mad at each other. My grandma even has said to me that if i fought with her like this again she whould leave. That was years ago so obviosly she wasent being serious but still.
This time? No i refuse to apologise i did nothing wrong. Mayby i shoudnt have insulted my grandma back but at that point them seemingly seeing my pet as some toy made me so angry i did insult her back. And now i remember what i called her and what she called me. She called me a Log-Head and i called her a Car Jack. After wich she called me a moron and i called her stupid. Thats how it went and that was the worst thing i did in this.
This isint the first time all this hapened. This is like the hundred time. My family well...
My Sister is Timid and doesent want to take part in these fights but she often messages to me or just tells me later that i was in the right when all is over. (i dont blame her for being timid, shes had a rough childhood in being depressed, bullied and loosing half her hearing to infection.)
My Mother is Scared of her mother clearly but even when our Grandma isint involved she never has said to me she was wrong. For example yesterday she said 'Coffee doesent corrode your teeth.' I called bs and googled and i was correct and coffee is acidic and can corrode your teeth. I told her to admid she was wrong like 5 times and she never did. This was a minor thing but upon reflecting now i dont think she has ever apologised for being wrong ever.
My grandmother if im being honest is a Hypocritical, Fuse-Headed, Short Minded, Self-Apathetic, Hard working old Woman. I love her and i care for her but shes just so infuriating. I often for fun mimic my Sister, Mother and Grandmothers speech to joke around but when my grandma hears me mimic them its okay, but if i mimic her im the bad guy. Worst of all shes mimiced me many times and ive not been offended by it.
So there. What do you think? Mayby it is really me whos the problem and in my autistic mind i just dont understand.
TL:DR: ( Too Long Didint Read)
My Mother takes my Grandmas side in everything even if its obvious shes in the wrong and they both gaslight me into thinking i was in the wrong in our fights and now i dont know what to do.
I was sugested to come here from Relationships
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2024.05.16 15:04 CrayyZGames Change

300 years ago citizens would take to the streets in Town square to spread news opinions and perceptions of current events.
Not everybody benefits from news being spread. People would be arrested or worse for spreading the "wrong" news.
When the United States of America was founded along with its constitution, One of the most sacred rights was the freedom of speech and it was not to be infringed, allowing these people to take to the streets ans Town squares without the fear of arrest or death.
Fast forward 300 years and The majority of people no longer ride slow-moving horse and buggies through busy streets and town squares, people no longer go to Town square markets to get their daily goods or meet their friends, as a result, The news is no longer spread on the streets or Town squares.
Where is news spread now a days? We have modernized, the information space has modernized, the government has modernized, yet the protections of the people have not.
People drive in their cars and listen to the podcast/daily news of their choosing.
They watch YouTube, they chat to their friends at work who also listened to the same regulated news outlets etc.
We are right back where we started.
People are deplatformed or charged for "misinformation" (information that the powedominate doesn't want reported)
Almost Everything you see or read has been filtered so as to not let your easily deceived mind be tricked and confused by all the "misinformation" like you are a little child needing to be coddled due to a disability/inability to process real world information. This is how you are treated every time you let the government or corporations control what information/comments/news gets to you. And it is justified because it's not a direct infringement on our first amendment solely because at the time of its founding, the internet And what the information space has become, could have never been imagined, And it is not the government directly (publicly) involved.
Of course how would we know if they EVEN WERE since any news reporting that information would be regulated and de-platformed?
What needs to change ? What CAN change without interfering in a private companies equally as important right and freedom to regulate What is and isn't allowed to be represented on their platform?
This is a serious question/problem that our current generation is faced with, let it not be too late before a solution is found.
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2024.05.16 15:04 CrayyZGames Change

300 years ago citizens would take to the streets in Town square to spread news opinions and perceptions of current events.
Not everybody benefits from news being spread. People would be arrested or worse for spreading the "wrong" news.
When the United States of America was founded along with its constitution, One of the most sacred rights was the freedom of speech and it was not to be infringed, allowing these people to take to the streets ans Town squares without the fear of arrest or death.
Fast forward 300 years and The majority of people no longer ride slow-moving horse and buggies through busy streets and town squares, people no longer go to Town square markets to get their daily goods or meet their friends, as a result, The news is no longer spread on the streets or Town squares.
Where is news spread now a days? We have modernized, the information space has modernized, the government has modernized, yet the protections of the people have not.
People drive in their cars and listen to the podcast/daily news of their choosing.
They watch YouTube, they chat to their friends at work who also listened to the same regulated news outlets etc.
We are right back where we started.
People are deplatformed or charged for "misinformation" (information that the powedominate doesn't want reported)
Almost Everything you see or read has been filtered so as to not let your easily deceived mind be tricked and confused by all the "misinformation" like you are a little child needing to be coddled due to a disability/inability to process real world information. This is how you are treated every time you let the government or corporations control what information/comments/news gets to you. And it is justified because it's not a direct infringement on our first amendment solely because at the time of its founding, the internet And what the information space has become, could have never been imagined, And it is not the government directly (publicly) involved.
Of course how would we know if they EVEN WERE since any news reporting that information would be regulated and de-platformed?
What needs to change ? What CAN change without interfering in a private companies equally as important right and freedom to regulate What is and isn't allowed to be represented on their platform?
This is a serious question/problem that our current generation is faced with, let it not be too late before a solution is found.
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2024.05.16 15:03 Waste-Ad5176 What do I need to make great commercial pages?

For context, I am a student. I know html, css, js, sql barebones. I also had classes in UI, UX and general design.
I am a wordpress beginner, meaning I haven't done any serious project as of now.
Long story short, I need to make 5 commercial sites for someone I know but I kinda got lost when I got in the builders rabbit hole.... What to choose, what plugins I need other than builders, themes, blocks etc.
3 sites are gonna be static, 2 of them webshops/ecommerce.
As of now I'm leaning towards Guttenberg, Kadence, Bricks or Oxygen.... Any other suggestions? Again, code is not new to me so I think solutions that are a little bit more technical are not a problem.
I also saw Generate Press + Generate Blocks is an option as well, ACF etc.
Also what do I need other than builders? For example security cache management etc.
Sorry if this all sounds like a mess, and thanks in advance
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2024.05.16 15:03 Stonermaturity Aita for holding a grudge against my mom?

I f17 and my mom f35 have a rocky relationship, and it has gotten worse since my abúser finally left. Growing up I never had a good relationship with my mom, she was barely around when I was a child. But when she was we always argued, or she would scream in my face and beat me with a belt until I was bruised. She was a lesbian most of my life until I became a teenager. My mom and my grandmother made me out to be a bad, bratty, and lazy child just because I didn't want to clean my room or would argue back. My mom had taken me to a doctor because of my "bad behavior" and I got diagnosed with ADHD. The first time I had ever seen my mom get in a relationship with a man, let's call him "Jim" it went well for maybe the first year. He was like a father figure to me. Because my parents had separated before I was born due to my dad's schizophrenia. But after a while, Jim started showing his true colors. And had went off on me for the first time when I borrowed his old phone without asking. Due to the fact that the only entertainment I had were books. The phone had a radio app on it and I would listen to music. I had come home from school to find my room torn up where they had been looking for it. When I went into their room he was rolling cigarettes and I hugged him saying I'm sorry. He threw me off of him and started screaming at me, so I went back to my room. It got worse over time, and I was convinced that it was normal for parents to discipline their child like he was me, it had normally consisted of, screaming, hitting me, even giving me a small concussion. They had put locks on the fridge, freezer, and pantry, along with taking the nobs off of the stove so I couldn't turn it on and make something for myself. My mom didn't cook everyday and a lot of the times I had to go off of just what the school gave me. The day before Halloween when I was 13 I took a candy bar out of my moms purse because I hadn't had anything sweet in a long time, so my mom called the cops on me for theft. Then when Jim came home he screamed at me again. Instances like that happened a lot more. We later found out Jim was on hardcore drùgs and it had caused what we thought was his bipolar. So when he would argue with my mom he would find a reason to bring me into it and punish me. Or he would take something of his and put it in my room when I wasn't in there, or in the garage where my stuff was and take pictures of it before taking it out and showing my mom the picture so he could find a reason to get mad at me and take it out on me. He was with us for around five years and even if it isn't that long, it still left a scar nonetheless. He and my mom had my little brother who is now 4 years old. When my mom finally got rid of him she found a new man to bring around. Let's call him "James". James has been my mom's saving grace. He took care of our financial problems and added stuff to our house we never would've thought we'd have. But after a while he started trying to act like my dad, I didn't mind it at first but it became overbearing after a while. My mom ended up favoring James and my little brother. It was small things, like when she went shopping shed but a lot of food for the three of them and buy me one thing, expecting it to last me for 3 weeks. That one thing usually being a small bag of pizza rolls. My relationship with my mom got worse and worse as time went on and it got to the point where an incident happened and she sent me to a residential therapy facility for 5 months. When I came back things were better until I noticed her favoring them getting worse. This new years of 2024 I got into an argument with James. Which led to him packing his stuff. I locked my door so I could calm down and my mom came banging on my door saying she would never be happy as long as I was around. And hearing her say that made me do something that lead me going to a mental hospital. When it was the last day before I came back. My mom wouldn't let me come home and I had to stay with a family member until I was accepted to go to a trade school where I would live on the campus. I later found out it was because James said he would leave if I came back and she once again chose him over me. I'm now going to this trade school and sometimes go home on weekends for doctors appointments. My mom's best friend who's like a second mom to me told me that if I got terminated from here my mom was going to put me in states custody. That broke my heart, and since then I'll never look at my mom the same, I pretend to be nice, I respect her, and pretend we have a good relationship now, but when I turn 18 I'm going to move in with her best friend and her wife. The only thing keeping me from cutting her off is my little brother. I will never forgive my mom for chosing her son and boyfriend that's only been around for 2 years over me. And even her best friends sife with me and see what she's doing wrong. But my grandmother still makes me out to be the problematic child and saying that I shouldn't hold a grudge because she was just doing her best. So aita for holding a grudge?
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2024.05.16 15:02 Mhtherapist2890 Nose piercing bump won’t go away-help!

Nose piercing bump won’t go away-help!
Help! Nose piercing bump won’t go away
Had a nose piercing for three months. When I got the piercing it bled more than normal but then I seemed to have no problems with it until a month in when I developed a bump. I’ve had the bump for two months, cleaned online with saline, did LITHA and didn’t change so I tried some tea tree oil, then stopped after doing a little more research. I went to my piercer and she gave me horrible advice so I asked a second shop. They suggested hot saline compress and to change the jewelry when the bump went down because it was too long (I have the original titanium post still in; my piercer never told me I needed to downsize). So I did the compress and it went away after about a week and I’ve made an appointment to get the jewelry changed to something smaller, but it immediately came back, like it was gone in the morning and came back the same size by the night. Anyone have any advice/idea what’s going on? I see a lot on here about bumps so I’m hoping someone can steer me in the right direction.
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2024.05.16 15:02 QuinLucenius I hope Bethesda goes back to make certain missions less terrible

Or, at least provide some extra tools that would make it easy for modders to do so. Not sure how that would work exactly, but I know Bethsoft devs don't have infinite time and money.
Disclaimer: I don't think most missions in Starfield need substantive revision—linearity isn't really the issue in my view, because Bethesda has never made it a point of giving every mission more than one outcome (or different flavors of the same ultimate outcome). But, quite often, how exactly you do things, what you say about what you're doing/have done, how you express yourself through dialogue, etc. provides a simulacrum of the choice that would exist if the quest simply had branching paths. Perhaps an ideal version of this game would go further and embrace the reactivity of your average Obsidian entry, but I don't expect that (and neither should you). Just some simple revisions (which I know design-wise are never really that simple) would do some wonders.
Viz., Bethsoft should make "small" edits to some specific missions that really interfere with the ability to feel immersed in the setting. I'll mention two of the worst offenders (in my limited view of having played the game one and a half times), but I know there are others that could benefit from similar (and likely even smaller) revisions.
The Hammer Falls (the last mission in the Freestar Rangers questline) was the first mission I did where I hated even bothering with the questline because of it. Learning from Paxton Hull (who I wish you could join or otherwise not be forced to kill, but that's not that big of a deal) that Ron Hope was behind everything should open up options to at least talk with others about what to actually do before being sent to your ultimate goal.
The fact that the game railroads you into immediate confrontation without, like, checking with anyone feels like an oversight. I know sheriffs are supposed to be kind of independent, but this guy (Hope) is like one of the twelve or so most powerful people in the Collective. I can't even talk with Marshal Blake or whomever about him before confronting him in a deadly shootoff? I can't even ask for backup? Where's the sheriff-fantasy where I call up my buddies to take down a crook?
I imagine a better designed version of this quest might involve first returning to Akila City and having a tense conversation with Blake (or some other Freestar representative) where you argue the apparent conflict of interest (the Collective's ruling body funds/supercedes the Rangers) and what that compels you to do, if anything. It could really help thematically resolve the underlying themes of the questline as a whole (the law as a just ideal/the law as an instrument of powecontrol). Not that this needs to have two wildly different paths where you confront Hope versus explicitly cover up his crimes, but it could at least affect your status as a ranger if you deliberately decided to confront Hope without convincing Blake. (Just an imperfect idea demonstrating the limitations of the current quest.)
The fact that you can't say anything about Hope before confronting him would be something I would've made a note on in QA. It's such a basic point of interrogation for ensuring that a quest in an open-world RPG fits seamlessly and immersively into the world. There are plenty of missions/quests in other Bethsoft games that don't do this, usually because the impact is really minor. But as the final mission of one of the two major factions' questlines, predicated on a reveal that recontextualizes all past missions in the questline, it works really poorly in my view to railroad you directly into confronting Ron Hope with no consultation with Marshal Blake or anyone else. Just the addition of a simple conversation would make this problem so much less glaring. Give the player an option of expressing their discomfort or anger at what's going on, or extend the final conversation with Marshal Blake. Or, ideally, give good reason mechanically (in the very quest's context) as to why things are as linear as they are.
When you trap Odahviing during The Fallen, he approaches you to talk, then you set him free after a conversation, then you ride atop him to Skuldafn, thus starting The World-Eater's Eyrie. But accounting for the eventuality of you leaving the courtyard before he reaches you to talk (or you exit conversation) is unreasonable, because a dangerous dragon, Odahviing, is right there, the way to Skuldafn is right there, and the end of the quest is right there. There's no design incentive to return to the open world if you're doing this quest at this exact moment, and I'm willing to bet exactly one person has ever done that (me, once, to deliberately see if it messed up the script). And once you fly to Skuldafn, the next couple hours are entirely linear (which is good!). It makes the end-game work really well because it feels and is seamless.
Confronting Hope doesn't have the same sense of urgency not because it isn't important but because the various design elements that encourage urgency in a mechanical sense aren't there. Imagine confronting Paxton (or whoever) in the reception area of the Hope factory (or somewhere equally close). There'd be basically nothing incentivizing you to not go confront Hope right then, for the same reasons as with Odahviing in Dragonreach's courtyard. Not accounting for leaving the reception area becomes just as reasonable of a design decision as not accounting for leaving Odahviing trapped without talking to him. When you leave Arcturus II, though, it doesn't really feel at all dissimilar from leaving a planet after clearing a random POI. Imagine if, after trapping Odahviing, he only gave you directions to Skuldafn which you had to travel yourself. This would have a similar effect, I feel, to what we experience at the end of First to Fight, First to Die and the beginning of The Hammer Falls. I imagine plenty of people would take detours to do x or y before finally going to Skuldafn, despite the quest's written urgency. If you want urgency in a practical sense, make the progression from objective-to-objective urgent by design. Reflect the urgency in the very way the game is played (i.e., make it weird to even consider leaving the Dragonsreach Courtyard while Odahviing is there and ready to take you to Skuldafn).
First Contact (the Paradiso mission with the colony ship) is honestly the single worst mission in the game for how little ability you have to do anything other than what the game explicitly tells you are your only options, often against the intuition of the writing. I think Bethsoft wanted to give a potentially intriguing moral dilemma that ends up being needlessly forced and ultimately not intriguing because of how poorly forced it is. The result is a quest that, while potentially interesting, is completely ruined by its implementation. Even creating a fail-state where you kill the executives (which the ECS Constant's crew could react to) could be an option which would involve considerably less scripting than creating entire new paths from scratch.
Because, again, the problem with these quests isn't necessarily that they're linear. It's that they're linear in such a way that makes it impossible for it to feel organic or emergent in the setting. Could you imagine a Season Unending type quest in the Paradiso boardroom where instead of the two options we have now, you would instead have to use specific dialogue choices to ensure a particular deal could be reached between both parties (with you as the Constant's (possibly ostensible) advocate? Maybe allow for some backgrounds or skill checks to automatically succeed some particularly challenging persuasion/intimidation checks for either the ECS crew or the Executives. It's a lot more work, but it's the ideal version of this particular mission, in my view, and it could happen without the other two options even existing. You could make the quest more linear and have it be more engaging for the player.
I've seen this articulated before but not in quite these terms: it is better to allow a player options in how they experience a single choice then to give them two forced bad choices.
The version we're left with feels like the type of Bethsoft quest that has a faster, dummy way to do a mission that people would only really choose if they were roleplaying a specific way, or just wanted to get an achievement (e.g., Destroy the Dark Brotherhood!). It's like there's two clearly worse/less developed options that are available for specific types of players, yet are ultimately meant to highlight the ultimately superior and lengthier third option, which in this case doesn't exist. I hate to say that it's just lazy (as designing any quest is a large undertaking), but it certainly feels really lazy the way that this quest forces these two options onto you with especially poor justification. And even then, there being only two options isn't that big of a deal—implement a fail-state where you kill the executives (or something equally unhinged), which I could see plenty of players doing, including me. Or maybe convince them to stand down by strapping grenades to your spacesuit, I don't know! Something that plays more to the player's ability to impose their will on NPCs rather than being powerless.
As for said powerlessness, being powerless isn't bad, but in this case it isn't really justified. There's no obstacle in terms of difficulty when it comes to this quest, it's just a barrier to choice that feels extremely artificial. At least in High Price to Pay, you can't be in two places at once and you know that there's danger in two places that you can't control for. Your powerlessness is earned by the game at this point, because you actually feel, given the context of the plot to this point, that you're up against something that you can't defend everyone else against at all times. It still feels a bit forced, perhaps, but it isn't nearly as egregious.
I honestly dread doing First Contact again because it frustrates me far more than any other mission, because of how it forces frustratingly restrictive options upon you. But it doesn't require huge overhauls to fix, even if an overhaul would make it a lot better.
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