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2024.05.29 04:09 ScottishF1Fan Can anyone help?

Hi everyone,
I would really appreciate your help on this.
I am 30 years old and currently work for a uk bank in the complex queries team in the call centre.
I hate it, I hate all call centre roles.
I get paid well for what I do but not enough to do what I want to, I want to be able to afford a good home for my boys and to travel and see everywhere with my family.
There is some career progression in my current job but it's very "face fits" and who you know.
I worked as a remortgage paralegal before moving to the bank as it was double the money.
I make around £30k.
I have always had an amazing interest in everything healthcare. Because of this I know much more about it than the average person, I can diagnose conditions in medical programs before the docs and recommend the medicines from my living room like a backseat driver. I also do medical quizzes for fun and do well.
I also love computers in general, I love Excel and basic coding but I would really need to brush up on that.
I also ADORE event planning.
I organise everything in our large extended family, birthday parties, holidays, help with weddings etc and I hate when I have nothing to plan because I love thinking of every little detail.
I also love Beauty and do all my own beauty treatments and love pampering others.
I also love making & designing cakes for events.
I have several business ideas that I would love to get started but have no money or idea.
You see the problem with ALL of this is, I am disabled.
I have a condition called Ehlers Danlos syndrome and honestly? It ruins my life. I am in pain 24/7 and in reality I would probably need to work at my own pace (which is not slow but odd times when I am at my best rather than set hours) and I would also like to be in control of my own work because I work really fast but I need to pick the times I work so I can do my best work due to brain fog, worsening pain, stiffness etc etc
Am I absolutely crazy? is there no opportunity that will get me where I want to be?
I'm extremely proud of my work and I like to do above and beyond always. I have worked since I was 15 and never not worked.
I am more than willing to work around my family (9 year old with ADHD, 2 year old and fiancé) to do any education, qualification, degree etc whatever is needed.
I considered PRINCE2, Fimancial Advisor, Phlebotomy, etc etc but I have no idea where to go and I would really appreciate some guidance and I don't know who to turn to. I don't have any support from anyone.
Can anyone at all guide me? Thanks
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2024.05.29 04:06 ScottishF1Fan Can anyone please help?

Hi everyone,
I would really appreciate your help on this.
I am 30 years old and currently work for a uk bank in the complex queries team in the call centre.
I hate it, I hate all call centre roles.
I get paid well for what I do but not enough to do what I want to, I want to be able to afford a good home for my boys and to travel and see everywhere with my family.
There is some career progression in my current job but it's very "face fits" and who you know.
I worked as a remortgage paralegal before moving to the bank as it was double the money.
I make around £30k.
I have always had an amazing interest in everything healthcare. Because of this I know much more about it than the average person, I can diagnose conditions in medical programs before the docs and recommend the medicines from my living room like a backseat driver. I also do medical quizzes for fun and do well.
I also love computers in general, I love Excel and basic coding but I would really need to brush up on that.
I also ADORE event planning.
I organise everything in our large extended family, birthday parties, holidays, help with weddings etc and I hate when I have nothing to plan because I love thinking of every little detail.
I also love Beauty and do all my own beauty treatments and love pampering others.
I also love making & designing cakes for events.
I have several business ideas that I would love to get started but have no money or idea.
You see the problem with ALL of this is, I am disabled.
I have a condition called Ehlers Danlos syndrome and honestly? It ruins my life. I am in pain 24/7 and in reality I would probably need to work at my own pace (which is not slow but odd times when I am at my best rather than set hours) and I would also like to be in control of my own work because I work really fast but I need to pick the times I work so I can do my best work due to brain fog, worsening pain, stiffness etc etc
Am I absolutely crazy? is there no opportunity that will get me where I want to be?
I'm extremely proud of my work and I like to do above and beyond always. I have worked since I was 15 and never not worked.
I am more than willing to work around my family (9 year old with ADHD, 2 year old and fiancé) to do any education, qualification, degree etc whatever is needed.
I considered PRINCE2, Fimancial Advisor, Phlebotomy, etc etc but I have no idea where to go and I would really appreciate some guidance and I don't know who to turn to. I don't have any support from anyone.
Can anyone at all guide me? Thanks
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2024.05.29 04:05 ScottishF1Fan Can anyone help?

Hi everyone,
I would really appreciate your help on this.
I am 30 years old and currently work for a uk bank in the complex queries team in the call centre.
I hate it, I hate all call centre roles.
I get paid well for what I do but not enough to do what I want to, I want to be able to afford a good home for my boys and to travel and see everywhere with my family.
There is some career progression in my current job but it's very "face fits" and who you know.
I worked as a remortgage paralegal before moving to the bank as it was double the money.
I make around £30k.
I have always had an amazing interest in everything healthcare. Because of this I know much more about it than the average person, I can diagnose conditions in medical programs before the docs and recommend the medicines from my living room like a backseat driver. I also do medical quizzes for fun and do well.
I also love computers in general, I love Excel and basic coding but I would really need to brush up on that.
I also ADORE event planning.
I organise everything in our large extended family, birthday parties, holidays, help with weddings etc and I hate when I have nothing to plan because I love thinking of every little detail.
I also love Beauty and do all my own beauty treatments and love pampering others.
I also love making & designing cakes for events.
I have several business ideas that I would love to get started but have no money or idea.
You see the problem with ALL of this is, I am disabled.
I have a condition called Ehlers Danlos syndrome and honestly? It ruins my life. I am in pain 24/7 and in reality I would probably need to work at my own pace (which is not slow but odd times when I am at my best rather than set hours) and I would also like to be in control of my own work because I work really fast but I need to pick the times I work so I can do my best work due to brain fog, worsening pain, stiffness etc etc
Am I absolutely crazy? is there no opportunity that will get me where I want to be?
I'm extremely proud of my work and I like to do above and beyond always. I have worked since I was 15 and never not worked.
I am more than willing to work around my family (9 year old with ADHD, 2 year old and fiancé) to do any education, qualification, degree etc whatever is needed.
I considered PRINCE2, Fimancial Advisor, Phlebotomy, etc etc but I have no idea where to go and I would really appreciate some guidance and I don't know who to turn to. I don't have any support from anyone.
Can anyone at all guide me? Thanks
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2024.05.29 04:04 ScottishF1Fan Can anyone help?

Hi everyone,
I would really appreciate your help on this.
I am 30 years old and currently work for a uk bank in the complex queries team in the call centre.
I hate it, I hate all call centre roles.
I get paid well for what I do but not enough to do what I want to, I want to be able to afford a good home for my boys and to travel and see everywhere with my family.
There is some career progression in my current job but it's very "face fits" and who you know.
I worked as a remortgage paralegal before moving to the bank as it was double the money.
I make around £30k.
I have always had an amazing interest in everything healthcare. Because of this I know much more about it than the average person, I can diagnose conditions in medical programs before the docs and recommend the medicines from my living room like a backseat driver. I also do medical quizzes for fun and do well.
I also love computers in general, I love Excel and basic coding but I would really need to brush up on that.
I also ADORE event planning.
I organise everything in our large extended family, birthday parties, holidays, help with weddings etc and I hate when I have nothing to plan because I love thinking of every little detail.
I also love Beauty and do all my own beauty treatments and love pampering others.
I also love making & designing cakes for events.
I have several business ideas that I would love to get started but have no money or idea.
You see the problem with ALL of this is, I am disabled.
I have a condition called Ehlers Danlos syndrome and honestly? It ruins my life. I am in pain 24/7 and in reality I would probably need to work at my own pace (which is not slow but odd times when I am at my best rather than set hours) and I would also like to be in control of my own work because I work really fast but I need to pick the times I work so I can do my best work due to brain fog, worsening pain, stiffness etc etc
Am I absolutely crazy? is there no opportunity that will get me where I want to be?
I'm extremely proud of my work and I like to do above and beyond always. I have worked since I was 15 and never not worked.
I am more than willing to work around my family (9 year old with ADHD, 2 year old and fiancé) to do any education, qualification, degree etc whatever is needed.
I considered PRINCE2, Fimancial Advisor, Phlebotomy, etc etc but I have no idea where to go and I would really appreciate some guidance and I don't know who to turn to. I don't have any support from anyone.
Can anyone at all guide me? Thanks
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2024.05.29 04:03 ScottishF1Fan Would anyone be able to Help please?

Hi everyone,
I would really appreciate your help on this.
I am 30 years old and currently work for a uk bank in the complex queries team in the call centre.
I hate it, I hate all call centre roles.
I get paid well for what I do but not enough to do what I want to, I want to be able to afford a good home for my boys and to travel and see everywhere with my family.
There is some career progression in my current job but it's very "face fits" and who you know.
I worked as a remortgage paralegal before moving to the bank as it was double the money.
I make around £30k.
I have always had an amazing interest in everything healthcare. Because of this I know much more about it than the average person, I can diagnose conditions in medical programs before the docs and recommend the medicines from my living room like a backseat driver. I also do medical quizzes for fun and do well.
I also love computers in general, I love Excel and basic coding but I would really need to brush up on that.
I also ADORE event planning.
I organise everything in our large extended family, birthday parties, holidays, help with weddings etc and I hate when I have nothing to plan because I love thinking of every little detail.
I also love Beauty and do all my own beauty treatments and love pampering others.
I also love making & designing cakes for events.
I have several business ideas that I would love to get started but have no money or idea.
You see the problem with ALL of this is, I am disabled.
I have a condition called Ehlers Danlos syndrome and honestly? It ruins my life. I am in pain 24/7 and in reality I would probably need to work at my own pace (which is not slow but odd times when I am at my best rather than set hours) and I would also like to be in control of my own work because I work really fast but I need to pick the times I work so I can do my best work due to brain fog, worsening pain, stiffness etc etc
Am I absolutely crazy? is there no opportunity that will get me where I want to be?
I'm extremely proud of my work and I like to do above and beyond always. I have worked since I was 15 and never not worked.
I am more than willing to work around my family (9 year old with ADHD, 2 year old and fiancé) to do any education, qualification, degree etc whatever is needed.
I considered PRINCE2, Fimancial Advisor, Phlebotomy, etc etc but I have no idea where to go and I would really appreciate some guidance and I don't know who to turn to. I don't have any support from anyone.
Can anyone at all guide me? Thanks
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2024.05.29 03:59 BAi_Embroidery 2 sets single head VS 1 set dual heads embroidery machine?

2 sets single head VS 1 set dual heads embroidery machine?
2 sets single head or 1 set dual heads? How to choose? If you also confuse, check below article, I can help you find answer.
#1 Advantages of 2 sets single head embroidery machine
1.1 Flexibility
In terms of flexibility, 2 sets single head embroidery machine are more flexible than 1 set dual heads machine. If you have 2 sets single head embroidery machine , you can finish different patterns separately. In today's custom apparel and embroidery market, small batch apparel customization has become the trend, and usually these orders will not exceed 20 pieces, at this time, 2 heads single head can help you finished orders easier.
In addition, if you are switching the type of embroidery frequently, then you can also consider purchasing two single head machines in order to save the time of switching accessories and increase the work efficiency. For example, if you need to embroider caps and garments, you can save time. Because the cap embroidery and garment embroidery device accessories are not the same, cap embroidery need to be equipped with a cap drive, clothing embroidery need to be equipped with armrests, easy to follow up the embroidery frame, if you are two single-head machine does not need to go back and forth to replace these accessories.
In terms of space layout, single head machines have many more options than dual heads machines. Compared to a single head embroidery machine, a dual heads machine is much larger in size, which puts a demand on the space in your studio. If it is difficult for your workspace to accommodate a dual heads machine, then opting for two single-head machines will suit you better. You can place them separately, in several corners of the room, and some customers even place a single-head machine in a small area in their bedroom.
1.2 Stable order production and safety guarantee
In actual use, if you encounter some problems and need to solve them, it will be safer to have two single-head machines than one dual-head machine. You can contact with engineer to get help to fix the machine issue. Meanwhile, other set single head machine also can help you continue to finish orders. At least will not delay too much.
1.3 Business Growth
Budget: Your purchasing power is often related to your budget. If your budget is a little tight, it is recommended that you start with a single head, and when your orders continue to grow in the future, add another single head, or dual heads. This will help you start your embroidery business quickly,It is also safer and more secure for your investment.
1.4 Ease of movement
Friends who own embroidery machines know that the embroidery machine itself is very heavy, the volume is not small, like a single-head machine of BAi, from the handling to the installation of two or three people, not to mention the dual heads machine, if you want to carry a dual heads machine, you may need five or six to help, but also need to rent a machine to assist, and is an additional expense. If you have the need to convert the site, then try to buy a single-head machine, which can save you a lot of labor and expenses for future handling.
#2 Advantages of 1 set dual heads embroidery machine
Dual heads machines are often used for mass production of the same embroidery design. When you have an order of 50 or more embroideries and they are all of the same design, you may want to consider getting 1 set dual heads embroidery machine.
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2.1 Price
Considering the price, the price of 2 sets single head machines is a bit higher than 1 set dual heads machine, the exact price difference depends on the brand of the machine. You can consider it according to your budget, for example, BAi's machine, a VISION V22 will cost you $6099 for self pickup and a dual heads VISION V22-2 will cost you $7799 for self pickup.
2.2 Productivity
In terms of productivity, two single-head machines require one more step of operation than one dual heads machine. For example, if you are also embroidering two garments, the dual-head machine only needs to operate one control panel to control the two embroidery heads to embroider together, whereas the two single-head machines need to operate the control panels of both machines separately.
It's worth mentioning: if your embroidery orders are struggling to be completed by a single-head embroidery machine alone, you may want to consider a dual-head machine. It is important to note here that purchasing a dual-head embroidery machine requires consideration of factors such as budget, production needs, workspace. Therefore, you should conduct a thorough research and evaluation before purchasing to ensure that you can fully utilize the advantages of a dual head embroidery machine and meet the actual needs.
If you are interested in BAi's single head and dual heads machines, you can click on the link below and you can see a detailed description of the machine. If you have any embroidery questions, you can leave a message in the comment section, we will reply to you and help you solve your embroidery problems, thanks for reading.
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2024.05.29 02:48 coreyeschweiler Corey Eschweiler On Top 5 Ways to Avoid Memorial Day Road Trip Accidents

Memorial Day weekend is a time for backyard barbecues, spending time with loved ones, and often, embarking on a road trip. But with increased traffic comes a higher risk of being involved in Memorial Day car accidents. Don’t let your Memorial Day celebration be marred by a preventable car accident. Here at ER Injury Attorneys, our car accident lawyers want you to reach your destination safely. With that in mind, here are the five top ways to stay safe during your Memorial Day road trip.

1. Be Prepared Before You Depart

A stress-free journey starts with a well-maintained car and a car emergency kit. Don’t wait until the last minute to schedule a routine checkup. Ensure your mechanic inspects vital components like:

2. Plan Your Route and Schedule

When it comes to road trips, planning is key:

3. Prioritize Safety Over Speed

Speeding is a major factor in car accidents, especially during holidays with increased traffic.

4. Buckle Up, Every Time

Seat belts are your single most effective defense against injury in a car accident. Ensure everyone buckles up. This includes yourself, all passengers, regardless of age or seating position. Make it a habit to check seat belts before you start the car.

5. Drive Distracted-Free

Distracted driving is a serious threat–especially with so much going on inside the car and on the road.
Remember: Getting to your destination safely is more important than arriving a few minutes earlier.

Injured in a Memorial Day Road Trip Accident? ER Injury Attorneys Is Here for You

The team at ER Injury Attorneys hopes that you celebrate Memorial Day safely and have a wonderful time with family and friends in the process. But if you’ve been injured in a car accident while on a Memorial Day road trip, our team is ready to help you fight for the maximum compensation in your case.
ER Injury Attorneys is here to help you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Reach us by phone at [702-878-7878](tel:7028787878) or online through LiveChat. You can also fill out an encrypted contact form. Our attorneys represent accident victims throughout Southern Nevada, including Henderson, Summerlin, Pahrump, Boulder City, Laughlin, and beyond. Contact us today to get the help you need.

The information on this blog is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to serve as legal advice for an individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship nor does viewing this material constitute an attorney-client relationship.

Memorial Day weekend is a time for backyard barbecues, spending time with loved ones, and often, embarking on a road trip. But with increased traffic comes a higher risk of being involved in Memorial Day car accidents. Don’t let your Memorial Day celebration be marred by a preventable car accident. Here at ER Injury Attorneys, our car accident lawyers want you to reach your destination safely. With that in mind, here are the five top ways to stay safe during your Memorial Day road tripMemorial Day weekend is a time for backyard barbecues, spending time with loved ones, and often, embarking on a road trip. But with increased traffic comes a higher risk of being involved in Memorial Day car accidents. Don’t let your Memorial Day celebration be marred by a preventable car accident. Here at ER Injury Attorneys, our car accident lawyers want you to reach your destination safely. With that in mind, here are the five top ways to stay safe during your Memorial Day road trip.

1. Be Prepared Before You Depart

A stress-free journey starts with a well-maintained car and a car emergency kit. Don’t wait until the last minute to schedule a routine checkup. Ensure your mechanic inspects vital components like:

2. Plan Your Route and Schedule

When it comes to road trips, planning is key:

3. Prioritize Safety Over Speed

Speeding is a major factor in car accidents, especially during holidays with increased traffic.

4. Buckle Up, Every Time

Seat belts are your single most effective defense against injury in a car accident. Ensure everyone buckles up. This includes yourself, all passengers, regardless of age or seating position. Make it a habit to check seat belts before you start the car.

5. Drive Distracted-Free

Distracted driving is a serious threat–especially with so much going on inside the car and on the road.
Remember: Getting to your destination safely is more important than arriving a few minutes earlier.

Injured in a Memorial Day Road Trip Accident? ER Injury Attorneys Is Here for You

The team at ER Injury Attorneys hopes that you celebrate Memorial Day safely and have a wonderful time with family and friends in the process. But if you’ve been injured in a car accident while on a Memorial Day road trip, our team is ready to help you fight for the maximum compensation in your case.
ER Injury Attorneys is here to help you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Reach us by phone at [702-878-7878](tel:7028787878) or online through LiveChat. You can also fill out an encrypted contact form. Our attorneys represent accident victims throughout Southern Nevada, including Henderson, Summerlin, Pahrump, Boulder City, Laughlin, and beyond. Contact us today to get the help you need.

The information on this blog is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to serve as legal advice for an individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship nor does viewing this material constitute an attorney-client relationship.

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1. Be Prepared Before You Depart

A stress-free journey starts with a well-maintained car and a car emergency kit. Don’t wait until the last minute to schedule a routine checkup. Ensure your mechanic inspects vital components like:

2. Plan Your Route and Schedule

When it comes to road trips, planning is key:

3. Prioritize Safety Over Speed

Speeding is a major factor in car accidents, especially during holidays with increased traffic.

4. Buckle Up, Every Time

Seat belts are your single most effective defense against injury in a car accident. Ensure everyone buckles up. This includes yourself, all passengers, regardless of age or seating position. Make it a habit to check seat belts before you start the car.

5. Drive Distracted-Free

Distracted driving is a serious threat–especially with so much going on inside the car and on the road.
Remember: Getting to your destination safely is more important than arriving a few minutes earlier.

Injured in a Memorial Day Road Trip Accident? ER Injury Attorneys Is Here for You

The team at ER Injury Attorneys hopes that you celebrate Memorial Day safely and have a wonderful time with family and friends in the process. But if you’ve been injured in a car accident while on a Memorial Day road trip, our team is ready to help you fight for the maximum compensation in your case.
ER Injury Attorneys is here to help you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Reach us by phone at [702-878-7878](tel:7028787878) or online through LiveChat. You can also fill out an encrypted contact form. Our attorneys represent accident victims throughout Southern Nevada, including Henderson, Summerlin, Pahrump, Boulder City, Laughlin, and beyond. Contact us today to get the help you need.

The information on this blog is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to serve as legal advice for an individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship nor does viewing this material constitute an attorney-client relationship.

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2024.05.29 01:40 Amanda7078 How did I screw up my life like this?

I have no idea where to start. It seems as if bad luck and misery followed me around like a toddler throughout my life. I, 53 female, lost both my parents at a young age. I had a stepmother from hell and I was SAed by two family members. I was adopted by my maternal grandparents. My grandfather was very militaristic with my upbringing. Corporal punishment was a regular occurrance. I grew up afraid of male adults in authority positions. I was constantly compared with my sister who was academically brighter than me. I was more interested in creativity and design.
Fast forward many years, in 1999 I married the love of my life, John (not real name). I fell pregnant in early 2000 soon after our wedding. While pregnant, I lost a good friend who was one of my bridesmaids. She was struck by lightning. Soon after that my maternal grandmother passed away. After giving birth I fell into a deep state of depression. The only thing that kept me going was my new baby girl and John. He was my rock throughout this period in my life.
Three years into our marriage my John came to me with a suggestion to spice up our marriage. I didn't know what to make of this. He wanted us to have a threesome with a friend of his. I told him he must be crazy. He would leave the subject only to bring it up again on a later stage. This happened a few times and I eventually caved. I know this makes me seem weak. I felt like a loser afterwards.
In 2004, I lost yet another good friend in a motor vehicle accident. It happened while we were travelling together. John and I saw it happen in the rear view mirror. It was a terrible shock and I had to call her loved ones with the awful news. I still get panic attacks when passing an accident scene.
In 2005 we had our second daughter four years after the first one. I was happy and content with my life. Then happened the thing I promised myself would never happen to my kids. My oldest daughter was SAed at the age of four. I went feral with rage. How could this happen to my girl? Why did nothing happen to the 14 year old pervert? I went for therapy, because I wanted the scumbag unalived.
Life was steadily improving for a while. In 2007, John started a long distance affair with a woman abroad. I only found out, because he left his computer unattended for a brief moment. The words "I love you" caught my eye, and I scanned over the words written to an unfamiliar woman. I felt crushed and blamed myself. I told myself that it was because I wasn't intimate with him often enough. That my depression must be getting unbearable for him. I confronted him with what I saw and he was very apologetic about everything. He promised me he would break it off with the woman. He sounded so sincere and I forgave him.
A few weeks later John was in the shower and a notification popped up on his phone. It was a nude pic of the woman. I felt so betrayed and lost. That day I decided to pack up everything in the house that in any way resembled me and the kids. All our clothes, all the family pictures on the walls, everything was gone. I left him a note with a permanent marker on his wooden desk. Telling him that he doesn't have to hide his affair any more. I fetched the kids from school and went to my sister's place in another town a few hours away. John tried calling me a few times but I never answered. After a few calls from him I sent him a message saying that we are safe and to stop calling.
I felt so lost, and didn't even know what I should do with the whole mess that our marriage was in. I knew that I still loved him and the kids love him dearly. I didn't have the strength to go through a divorce process. Where am I going to live with the kids? How much is a divorce going to cost? What is going to happen? It was all to much for me to handle. John then begged me to go for marriage counselling with him. We went and we talked. We realised that we still loved each other very much. I held him while he cried about breaking up the affair. Yes, I know. I'm pathetic.
Life was back to normal for a while. In January 2010 we went to the coast on holiday. While we were on the beach my oldest daughter and one of her cousins decided to climb into a tree. We still laughed and John took pictures of them in the tree. Then the unthinkable happened. We only heard a deafening scream and saw my little girl come running towards us. A small trickle of blood was running down her leg. John picked her up and we ran to the life guard station. I wanted to see how badly she was hurt and was shocked to my core. I couldn't recognise anything between her little legs. An ambulance was called and she was taken to the nearest hospital. After four hours of surgery, the surgeon told us that she was extremely lucky. The tree stump she fell into missed her major arteries by millimetres and it only scraped the side of her little womb, no intestines were pierced or damaged. They had to perform a laparotomy to get rid of bark and twigs between the intestines in her stomach cavity. She had colostomy surgery done and had a colostomy bag. She was in ICU for four days and in hospital for a total of 8 days.
We went back to our hometown. We started searching for a colorectal surgeon to repair the sphincter muscle and reverse the colostomy surgery. The whole process took about six months. Between numerous surgeries and hospital stays, my attention wasn't with my job. I received a written warning about my work attendance. That was when I decided to resign. I received a decent pension payout and started a BnB. I also started designing and making dance outfits for school plays.
Our lives were getting back to normal. I was getting therapy for my depression and started feeling a lot more confident.
Then, in the beginning of 2013 John wanted us to spice up our marriage, again. I told him, no, I don't want this. He kept on prodding me and making suggestions. I only recently recognised it as gasligting. After a few weeks, I caved... again. This was the start of a ugly, terrible and very scary relationship with a diagnosed narcissistic monster. He was extremely friendly and had a very poisonous charm. John was smitten with him. I started seeing a side of John I've never seen before. He became obsessed with this man and I didn't know what to think. It's then that John told me he was bisexual. He knew he liked both male and female people from the age of eleven. I knew that his whole family was homophobic and they will not accept him at all. A toxic triangle relationship started with the narcissist, "Scar" (not real name).
It was a sickening rollercoaster ride of ups and downs with Scar. He was playing mental games with us. It almost tore our family apart. Scar would tell John that I need to find a proper job and stop living off John's money. Scar would show up unannounced and expect us to drop everything to give him all our attention. We didn't realize how we were dragged down by him. John would go cycling with Scar and do all sorts of physical activities. In the winter of 2014 John was getting very ill with pneumonia. Scar asked John to help him with something that required a lot of physical excursion. John, even though he was very ill, didn't say no to Scar. John was diagnosed with dilated cardio myhopathy soon after. He was so weak, I was terrified that he wasn't going to survive. John was treated, but he would have to take heart medication for the rest of his life. Scar didn't care at all. He was practically living off John's money. Scar never worked since we met him. He would drop off his kids and go out, expecting us to babysit them.
In December 2014, my sister and her daughters came to stay over for a night on their way home. She caught Scar with his phone taking pictures of the girls in the bathroom. I was horrified. I went off on him and chased him of our property. But the damage was done. The welfare department was called to investigate us. The children's unit of the police service came to take statements. My sister wanted me to leave John for good. I was considering the option of leaving him, but I had nowhere to go. My BnB is on John's property, I don't have my own transport and the fear of being on my own, was terrifying. I wasn't even sure if the girls are going to be with me. So, I caved and I stayed. Yes, I know, I'm such a huge coward.
Scar didn't come round our place anymore and he was charged with child pornography. All his electronic equipment was seized, but nothing was found on any of the devices.
This is where everything went south. John's mother decided to spread a rumour about Scar sending indecent pictures to my children. I asked my girls about this and they didn't know what she was talking about. She had never liked me and was mad with jealousy about my and John's relationship. She would do anything to discredit me. My laptop was confiscated and searched. I ended up in court, because there was pictures of nude men on my laptop. John's nude men pictures. I was held accountable, because the laptop belonged to me. I was found guilty on the charge of negligence in protecting children from pornography. I was on so many anti-anxiety medication that I had no clue what was happening. All I knew was that I now had a criminal record.
This is not the end of my screwed up life story, but it's 1:35 am and I'm tired. I will post a follow up soon.
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2024.05.29 01:24 Stock_Butterscotch71 While 40 Palestinians were killed in Israeli strikes on a designated “safe zone” in Rafah, many Israelis mocked the “burnt” Palestinians and referred to the “massacre” as “the main bonfire” of the Jewish holiday of Lag B’Omer.

While 40 Palestinians were killed in Israeli strikes on a designated “safe zone” in Rafah, many Israelis mocked the “burnt” Palestinians and referred to the “massacre” as “the main bonfire” of the Jewish holiday of Lag B’Omer. submitted by Stock_Butterscotch71 to justiceforhumanity [link] [comments]


2024.05.29 00:45 meelatalha Am I too codependent in my relationship

Hi,
My [23M] girlfriend [29F] owns her flat, and I've been struggling with how to address a few key issues.
I moved in recently and learnt that the flat has been quite messy for the past 6 years, to the point where the spare room is unusable. Its not messy with food and stuff. Its more messy with things not having a designated space. I want to find a way to broach the topic with sensitivity and practicality, as I find it stressful navigating around the flat without stepping on something or hurting myself. Also I believe it's essential for our shared living space to be functional and pleasant for both of us.
Additionally, I'm uncertain about the extent of my input when it comes to furniture and decorations in the flat. I want to contribute to our living space, but I'm not sure how to navigate this given her ownership of the property.
Another issue I'm finding is dates. When she isn't a big fan of me planning but rather wants to be the one planning and wants me to tag along. I asked weeks before valentines about going to the cinema and she said OK as it's a movie I was looking forward to and kept double checking. I booked the tickets and on the day she was like how she forgot and wasn't feeling it. Whereas last week she booked tickets to a movie and said to me to go there after work.
She went on a family holiday and told me to come up near the end of it. I double checked with her if I'm actually invited as i dont like ruining events and she said yes. So i drove up (4hrs) and they seemed a bit surprised to see me. her parents find it awkward to talk to me as I'm not white and don't want to say anything offensive. Her sister ignored me cos she didn't properly got introduced to me at my girlfriends birthday. When me and my gf went for dinner at a cafe. I felt uneasy as I felt like I was being stared at. Instead of being supportive she said "get used to it". She seems to say that a lot with things I'm uncomfortable about.
Lastly, there's also been some tension surrounding holiday planning. Every time I wanna go on a weekend away there's excuses like the cat or debt. I try and be understanding. In june she is going South of the UK for a wedding and we talked about a road trip through various cities and split off and meet after the wedding. Then to jump onto the eurostar to Brussels. Again her suggestions but I was excited on the idea. Last month i did a lot of research on places to see and things to do in brussels. When showed it to her, she was saying how she doesn't want to do that cos of dept. I got a bit fed up and decided to go on a holiday with my brothers last week to morocco as they needed a break when i said that she wasnt happy and was like "everyone needs a break too", mind you, my family had a lot going on recently including homelessness. Anyways last week she was like "I wanna go on holiday, lets go Rome" and started sending me so many things. I am not as excited at all.
I am trying my best but it all feels in vain but she is saying how she may have adhd and I'm being inconsiderate. The last couple of dates were everything she planned
I feel as though my emotional state is being controlled around how she behaves and I don't know what to do. Everytime I want to clear the elephant in the room, she starts panicking I want to break up with her and won't let me finish what I wanna say cos there's pimples on my face that are distracting her
Thank you for taking the time to read and respond.
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2024.05.29 00:41 meelatalha How I let go of petty feelings caused by SO?

Hi guys,
long story, tldr at bottom.
TLDR:: There are difficulties in my relationship that make me feel bad for feeling like that. This including discomfort around her family, tension around holiday planning, and lack of support from her. How to let go of this feeling and just try again?
Hi,
My [23M] girlfriend [29F] owns her flat, and I've been struggling with how to address a few key issues.
I moved in recently and learnt that the flat has been quite messy for the past 6 years, to the point where the spare room is unusable. Its not messy with food and stuff. Its more messy with things not having a designated space. I want to find a way to broach the topic with sensitivity and practicality, as I find it stressful navigating around the flat without stepping on something or hurting myself. Also I believe it's essential for our shared living space to be functional and pleasant for both of us.
Additionally, I'm uncertain about the extent of my input when it comes to furniture and decorations in the flat. I want to contribute to our living space, but I'm not sure how to navigate this given her ownership of the property.
Another issue I'm finding is dates. When she isn't a big fan of me planning but rather wants to be the one planning and wants me to tag along. I asked weeks before valentines about going to the cinema and she said OK as it's a movie I was looking forward to and kept double checking. I booked the tickets and on the day she was like how she forgot and wasn't feeling it. Whereas last week she booked tickets to a movie and said to me to go there after work.
She went on a family holiday and told me to come up near the end of it. I double checked with her if I'm actually invited as i dont like ruining events and she said yes. So i drove up (4hrs) and they seemed a bit surprised to see me. her parents find it awkward to talk to me as I'm not white and don't want to say anything offensive. Her sister ignored me cos she didn't properly got introduced to me at my girlfriends birthday. When me and my gf went for dinner at a cafe. I felt uneasy as I felt like I was being stared at. Instead of being supportive she said "get used to it". She seems to say that a lot with things I'm uncomfortable about.
Lastly, there's also been some tension surrounding holiday planning. Every time I wanna go on a weekend away there's excuses like the cat or debt. I try and be understanding. In june she is going South of the UK for a wedding and we talked about a road trip through various cities and split off and meet after the wedding. Then to jump onto the eurostar to Brussels. Again her suggestions but I was excited on the idea. Last month i did a lot of research on places to see and things to do in brussels. When showed it to her, she was saying how she doesn't want to do that cos of dept. I got a bit fed up and decided to go on a holiday with my brothers last week to morocco as they needed a break when i said that she wasnt happy and was like "everyone needs a break too", mind you, my family had a lot going on recently including homelessness. Anyways last week she was like "I wanna go on holiday, lets go Rome" and started sending me so many things. I am not as excited at all.
I am trying my best but it all feels in vain but she is saying how she may have adhd and I'm being inconsiderate. The last couple of dates were everything she planned.
Even with food, it's hard. My only Rule is no pork base. And hers is onions,mushrooms eggs or anything spicy. I spent 4 hrs in the kitchen cooking for prep and asked her to sample, I got a response saying "lets be honest, I won't like your weird food"
Has anyone had similar issues, if so how did you resolve it?
Thank you for taking the time to read and respond.
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2024.05.29 00:12 midascomplex 15 FQ patterns?

15 FQ patterns?
I just treated myself to a fat quarter bundle of Lewis and Irene’s Celestial collection. I don’t make a habit of buying fabric without a project in mind but they had a bank holiday sale on and I just got a bonus…
So now I need a pattern for them! There are 5 white/light FQs and 10 black/dark blue ones. I’m struggling to find a pattern I think will show them off well. I considered a sawtooth star with a star per FQ and use solids as the background but I’m curious to hear if you have any suggestions. Thank you!
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2024.05.29 00:11 Sweet-Count2557 Best Babymoon Destinations in July: From Santorini to Hawaii

Best Babymoon Destinations in July: From Santorini to Hawaii
Best Babymoon Destinations in July: From Santorini to Hawaii
Ah, July – the perfect time for a babymoon! For those about to embark on parenthood, there’s no better way to celebrate this big life change than with an unforgettable getaway.
Whether you’re looking for some rest and relaxation or a once-in-a-lifetime adventure, these best babymoon destinations in July will inspire your wanderlust and help make memories to last a lifetime.
Imagine sipping cocktails on a breezy beachside terrace, exploring ancient ruins beneath the Mediterranean sun, or taking in breathtaking views from atop snow-capped mountains. These are just some of the experiences that await as you discover what makes each of these special places unique.
With so many different possibilities out there, it can be difficult to decide where to go – but fear not! Here we have rounded up some of our favorite spots around the world that offer something special for soon-to-be parents seeking freedom and adventure while they enjoy their last few months before welcoming little one into their lives.
Santorini, Greece
Santorini, Greece is an idyllic getaway for expectant parents looking to make their last vacation as a twosome extra special.
Blessed with some of the most romantic sunsets in the world and surrounded by crystal-blue waters, it's no surprise that Santorini was rated one of the best islands in Europe by Travel + Leisure Magazine four years in a row.
Exploring wineries has become a popular activity for couples visiting Santorini, and July offers balmy weather ideal for tasting local wines like Vinsanto or Nychteri.
With its stunning views, there's something truly magical about watching the sunset from a vineyard perched atop volcanic cliffs.
Of course, what better way to celebrate new life than sipping on some of nature’s finest creations?
Whether it’s your first babymoon or fortieth-anniversary trip, Santorini provides plenty of ways to create long-lasting memories together before welcoming your bundle of joy into the world.
Costa Rica
Costa Rica is a majestic babymoon destination in July and one of the most affordable options you’ll find.
It has everything newlyweds on their babymoon could want: lush nature, exotic wildlife, secluded beaches, private villas, and more—all at surprisingly low prices.
For lodgings that won't break the bank but still feel luxurious, Costa Rica delivers with its boutique beachfront hotels and family-run guesthouses situated amid stunning rainforest or coastal views.
Adventure activities abound too; from hiking volcanoes to canyoning through waterfalls and exploring cloud forests, there's something for everyone who seeks freedom and adventure during their babymoon holiday.
Plus, if you're feeling really adventurous, some operators offer white-water rafting trips down raging rivers!
This country also offers plenty of opportunities to relax. You'll find numerous spas offering all kinds of treatments (from massages to facials), as well as yoga retreats throughout the region where couples can practice mindfulness while admiring gorgeous panoramas.
With so much variety available here, it's no wonder why Costa Rica tops many people's lists when looking for an unforgettable babymoon experience in July.
Nashville, Tennessee
Nashville, Tennessee is one of the best babymoon destinations in July. A city full of music, adventure, and history makes it a great place to explore with your partner before welcoming your little bundle of joy.
Did you know that Nashville has more live musical performances than any other US city? With over 200 venues dedicated to showcasing some of the world’s greatest talent, there are endless opportunities for exploring music while discovering its fascinating past.
From free outdoor concerts to intimate clubs, every genre imaginable is represented here! Whether you prefer folk or rock, blues or country – this destination offers something for everyone. Plus, visitors can also enjoy delicious Southern cuisine and find unique shopping experiences along “Music City”'s iconic streets.
This vibrant metropolis is perfect for couples looking for an exciting getaway before their lives change forever. Its lively atmosphere will give them a much-needed break from everyday stressors and allow them time to reconnect as they celebrate their new addition on the way.
While visiting Nashville, expect plenty of fun activities that will leave lasting memories well into parenthood!
The Caribbean
The Caribbean is an ideal destination for a babymoon getaway in July.
From the stunning beaches and crystal clear blue waters to the vibrant culture of each unique island, there’s something for everyone here.
Exploring the Caribbean is sure to be an unforgettable experience that parents-to-be won't soon forget!
There are many advantages to taking a vacation in the Caribbean during this special time.
For starters, July offers some of the warmest temperatures throughout most of the region – making it perfect for sunbathing on white sand beaches or swimming in tropical turquoise seas.
Plus, with so much variety between islands, couples can find everything from luxury resorts and quaint beachside cottages to lively nightlife scenes and peaceful nature reserves.
No matter what type of atmosphere they’re looking for, they’re sure to find it in this incredible corner of paradise!
With all these amazing features, it's no wonder why the Caribbean remains one of the top spots for babymoons year after year.
Hawaii
Ah, Hawaii – the magical paradise that's perfect for a babymoon getaway. With its stunning beaches and crystal clear waters, it’s no surprise why many couples flock to this tropical haven every July.
From snorkeling spots to romantic resorts, you and your partner can find everything you need in one place.
If you're looking for quality time with your special someone, then Hawaii is definitely for you! Whether you're lounging on pristine beaches or swimming in serene lagoons, there are plenty of opportunities to create lasting memories together.
Plus, who could resist all the delicious local food? You'll be absolutely spoilt by the incredible selection of seafood dishes available throughout the islands.
And if adventure is more your thing, then explore some of Hawaii's unique rainforest trails or take a boat out into open water to view dolphins up close.
No matter whether you want relaxation or excitement, Hawaii has something for everyone.
Paris, France
With its romantic gardens, intimate cafés, and historic landmarks, Paris is an ideal destination for a babymoon.
Couples can indulge in luxury accommodations and enjoy a variety of romantic activities to make their babymoon memorable.
Romantic Activities
Paris is the perfect babymoon destination for couples looking to enjoy romantic activities together in July.
With its world-renowned architecture, iconic sights, and warm summer days, it’s easy to get swept away by the city's charm.
For those seeking a luxurious experience, there are endless opportunities to indulge in spa treatments and soaking up the sunsets on one of Paris' many rooftop bars or terraces.
You can also explore some of France's finest vineyards and take part in wine tastings from local producers – all while enjoying views that will stay with you forever!
Make your dream babymoon come true without ever having to leave the city; charming Paris has something special waiting around every corner.
Luxury Accommodations
Treat yourself to a luxurious babymoon experience at one of Paris' renowned five star hotels.
Here you can take advantage of the first-rate spa facilities and relax in style with your partner – making sure to make time for some gourmet dining experiences throughout your stay too!
If you want to go all out, why not book a private suite or rent an entire apartment?
There's something special about having privacy while being surrounded by the beauty of Paris - it adds another level of intimacy that simply cannot be matched anywhere else.
So don't wait any longer; enjoy the city's unique culture hand-in-hand as you create memories that will last forever.
Reykjavik, Iceland
Taking a babymoon in Reykjavik, Iceland is the perfect way to relax and explore before your new little one arrives. Located on the southern shore of Faxaflói Bay, this vibrant capital city offers plenty for soon-to-be parents looking for an adventure:
Exploring Icelandic Nature: From beautiful waterfalls to glaciers, volcanoes, black sand beaches and stunning mountain scenery, there are numerous opportunities to go outside and connect with nature. Don’t forget to take advantage of whale watching tours while you’re here - it’s truly a magical experience!
Local Cuisine Experiences: Spend time enjoying delicious local cuisine like freshly caught seafood or traditional dishes like skyr (Icelandic yogurt). There are also plenty of cozy cafes where couples can sit back and enjoy some coffee while they plan their next steps in life.
And if that wasn’t enough, Reykjavik has plenty of sightseeing spots such as Hallgrimskirkja Church or the iconic Harpa Concert Hall so you can create lasting memories together before your bundle of joy arrives.
The options for relaxation and exploration are endless in this captivating destination – what better place than Reykjavik for your babymoon?
Sedona, Arizona
Sedona, Arizona is an idyllic destination for a babymoon in July.
With its stunning red rock formations, awe-inspiring sunsets, and abundance of outdoor activities, this desert oasis provides the perfect escape from the chaotic hustle and bustle of everyday life – ideal for expecting couples seeking some much needed rest and relaxation before their little one arrives.
When it comes to pampering yourself during your stay in Sedona, there's no shortage of spa treatments available that will help you unwind and prepare for motherhood.
From massages to facials to mani/pedis, you can truly let go of any stress or anxieties while relaxing at one of the many spas around town.
And when you're ready to explore more than just the inside of a treatment room, take advantage of the warm weather by going on a hike up one of Sedona's picturesque trails or simply enjoy a leisurely stroll along its well-trodden paths.
Of course if exploring isn't exactly your thing then why not sample some local fare?
There are plenty of restaurants offering delicious takes on Southwest cuisine that will tantalize your taste buds (and make sure they’re well satisfied!).
No matter what activity you choose to partake in while visiting Sedona during your babymoon vacation, you'll be able to create memories with your partner that will last long after those nine months come and go.
Tuscany, Italy
Tuscany, Italy is a prime destination for couples seeking the perfect babymoon getaway.
With its rolling hills, spectacular views, and abundance of pampering spas – not to mention its delicious cuisine and world-renowned wines – it's no wonder why so many flock here each year.
The region has so much to offer; from ancient ruins in Siena and Florence that will take your breath away, to picturesque vineyards (perfect for romantic strolls) you'll never be short on things to do.
And with countless spa resorts and wellness centers offering everything from hot stone massages to yoga retreats, there’s nothing quite like indulging in some well-deserved rest before becoming parents!
New Zealand
Are you and your partner ready for a babymoon adventure unlike any other? Look no further than New Zealand in July.
With its stunning landscapes, diverse culture, and plethora of activities to explore, there’s something special about this destination that will make it the perfect backdrop for you two to relax and unwind before welcoming your bundle of joy into the world.
Planning a babymoon in New Zealand doesn't have to be complicated or expensive.
From visiting national parks like Mount Aspiring National Park for some breathtaking views, exploring one of the many charming towns around the country such as Nelson City with its vibrant arts scene, or relaxing at private beaches where you can sink your toes into soft white sand – whatever tickles your fancy, there's sure to be plenty of experiences awaiting you both!
So what are you waiting for? Get ready to start planning an unforgettable escape full of exploration and relaxation!
Frequently Asked Questions
What Is The Best Way To Travel To Each Destination?
When it comes to planning that perfect babymoon, the way you get from point A to point B can be just as important as where you're going.
Of course, packing tips and travel insurance are essential for any trip - especially when you have a little one in tow - but there's no one-size-fits-all approach when it comes to transportation.
Whether you prefer taking off on an airplane or hitting the open road in a car, each method of travel has its own unique benefits and drawbacks.
Ultimately, the best way for traveling to your destination is whatever makes you feel most comfortable and relaxed while still getting you safely to your destination!
How Much Should I Budget For A Babymoon?
Budgeting for a babymoon is no easy task.
From the packaging costs to safety concerns, there are so many factors to consider when planning your upcoming trip.
When deciding on a budget, it’s important to remember that you don't have to spend an exorbitant amount of money - but rather invest in experiences and moments that will bring joy.
There's something special about taking some time away from everyday life with your partner before welcoming your little one into the world.
With careful planning and research, you can create a unique and memorable experience without breaking the bank.
What Is The Average Temperature In Each Destination During July?
When planning the perfect babymoon, one of the most important considerations is July weather. Temperatures in many popular destinations vary greatly depending on location- from balmy beaches to cooler mountain resorts.
If you're seeking a relaxing resort with local attractions, you'll want to check out temperatures for each destination ahead of time so that you can prepare for your vacation and make sure it's as stress-free as possible.
From Caribbean islands like Aruba where the average temperature is 81℉ (27°C) to European cities like Paris where temperatures reach 77℉ (25°C), there are plenty of options if you’re looking to escape during the summer months and enjoy some freedom before welcoming your bundle of joy.
Are There Any Family-Friendly Activities Available In Each Destination?
When it comes to finding family-friendly activities for your babymoon, there's no shortage of options!
From childcare facilities to a variety of exciting and unique experiences, you can create the perfect getaway with your little bundle of joy.
Whether you're looking for educational opportunities or simply want to relax on the beach, there are plenty of activities available in each destination that will suit all ages and interests.
And when it comes to travel insurance, many places offer tailored plans specifically designed for families traveling with young children.
So whether you choose an adventurous outdoor trekking adventure or a more leisurely sightseeing tour – make sure to look into any potential childcare options and travel insurance before setting off on your amazing babymoon journey!
Is There A Language Barrier To Consider When Travelling To Each Destination?
When traveling to babymoon destinations, it's important to consider the language barrier and cultural differences that may exist.
It's essential to research each destination beforehand and be aware of local customs in order to ensure a smooth journey.
The best way to do this is by consulting travel guides or tourist websites for useful information.
Those looking for an unforgettable experience should take the time to immerse themselves in the culture and embrace any unique experiences that present themselves - all while keeping safety as a top priority!
Conclusion
It's time to start planning the perfect babymoon getaway for July. Whether you're looking for a beachy escape or an adventurous mountain retreat, there are plenty of great options available.
With a bit of research and budgeting ahead of time, you can find the ideal destination that fits your needs.
On average, destinations in Europe tend to be slightly cooler than those in other parts of the world during this time of year, with temperatures hovering around 75°F (24°C). This makes it easier to enjoy outdoor activities without having to worry about too much heat.
Additionally, many international locations offer family-friendly attractions so everyone can have fun together! Whatever you choose, make sure to take advantage of all that these amazing places have to offer - after all, memories from your babymoon will last forever.
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2024.05.29 00:05 _Revelator_ Clarkson's Columns: Cheap food — but at what cost? & PM Keir will be too busy to be radical

British farms can grow cheap food — but at what cost?
By Jeremy Clarkson (The Sunday Times, May 26)
Quite rightly there’s been a lot of brouhaha and gnashing of teeth about the Welsh government’s weed-friendly farming policy. But the problem isn’t confined to Wales. Almost every government in the civilised world seems determined to ethnically cleanse farmers from the countryside. And it’s hard to see why.
Oh sure, they all say that farming makes a lot of carbon dioxides and that they have net zero targets to meet, but obviously that’s not the reason. Because what’s the point of keeping the global temperature down if there’s nothing to eat?
So if climate change isn’t the driver, why, all across Europe and America and Australia, is life being made so wilfully and unnecessarily hard for the people who feed us? And why in England did the number of farms fall from 132,400 in 2005 to just 104,000 in 2015? Well, bear with me on this one, but it’s necessary at this point to talk about my recent weekend city break in Copenhagen.
I’ve always said that if I were forced for some reason to leave the UK and I needed to live and work somewhere else, I’d go to Copenhagen. You eat dinner at a sensible time, not four in the morning, you’re never distracted by the beach, and you can have conversations with a van driver about how the krone is controlled by the European Central Bank. I know because I did. Here I spend most of my van-based conversations trying to explain what “fragile” means.
Everywhere you go in Copenhagen there are attractive people having lunch in attractive restaurants before going back to the office to design some more attractive chairs. They put their solar farms between the motorway and the railway line, and all around the canals and docks there are no unsightly railings. If you fall in, you just get out again. And if you can’t swim, well, that’s your own silly fault.
And then there’s the business of getting about, which is done on a bicycle. Unlike here, though, no one wears a helmet or that idiotic Stasi stormtrooper combination of black tights and black shorts. Cycling is not some BLT+, pro-Hamas, kick-out-the-Tories political movement. It’s just something you do to get about, because even the crappiest little car is about a million pounds. And there are no hills.
I love pootling about on a bicycle there, stopping for a cup of coffee and a pastry, or to look in a little shop that sells nothing but lampshades made from thinly sliced ash. If Carlsberg did cities, they’d look like this.
But even here, amid all the loveliness, we find the awful Lawrence Stroll plague of Tommy Hilfiger, Prada, Chanel, Bulgari, Gucci and all those other multinational emporiums for the terminally dreadful, which now dominate every city centre, high-end Caribbean resort and airport terminal in the world. Terry Wogan once said he’d like to machinegun everyone on Henman Hill. I feel the same way when I’m presented with a branch of Boss.
I’m told that these fashion, luggage and sunglasses shops are everywhere because they are the only ones that can afford city centre rents and I’m sure that’s true. So that’s good for the city, the landlords and stupid people in white trousers who think it’s OK to spend £850 on a pair of shoes because it says Prada on the instep.
It’s not what we want, of course. We want interesting shops full of interesting things and interesting people, and we think it’s silly to spend £850 on a pair of shoes. But lots of little shops all selling different things? That’s too difficult to organise. It’s much easier to call some twat on a yacht and ask him to send over a light dusting of Hilfiger and a spot of Saint Laurent.
Which brings me back to farming. I’m sitting here now on top of a hill in the Cotswolds and I can see four other farms, all run by farmers who do things their own way. There’s a chap not too far away who produces eggs in mobile hen houses. There’s a lady who’s passionate about organic produce. Then there’s my neighbour who seems to be persevering with oil-seed rape, and down in the valley there’s a brother and sister rearing pigs. It’s all small and higgledy-piggledy and charming. And it’s comforting to know that 90 per cent of Britain’s remaining farms are family owned. But if you stand back and look at the land as a business, you’d have to say, “Er, hang on a minute. This makes no sense at all.”
So I find myself wondering. Is this really what’s going on behind the scenes? Has the agricultural equivalent of Lawrence Stroll had a quiet word with the government: “Look, if you can get these pesky family farmers to sod off, I’ll buy the countryside, put in a bit of rewilding to keep the nutters happy and then use economies of scale to make all the food we need at a nice price.”
Think about it. My tractor is currently sitting in the yard because there’s nothing for it to do. But if I owned all the land from the south coast to the Wash it’d be working 24/7. Tomorrow I could send it to Hertfordshire to uproot hedges and pull down copses to make bigger, more economically viable fields, and the day after it would be in Dorset sprinkling some nitrogen on the barley.
It would all be a model of just-in-time efficiency and hydroponic tomatoes, and soon all of Europe’s farmland would be in the hands of four or five multinationals who could use freebies and dodgy handshakes to get government ministers to pass whatever legislation the shareholders wanted.
Under the present system farmers can’t really get governments to do anything as there are too many of us and we all have different needs. It’d be like asking a classroom of kids what they want for Christmas and expecting them all to say the same thing. There’s always going to be one that wants peace and love and another who wants a subscription to Pornhub. And a Ferrari.
If the multinationals move in that would all be solved. Plus, it would be good for the global economy, good for investors and food prices will probably fall. And to make it all even more palatable fields will be full of signs saying “Monsanto Inc. Growing sustainably for hard-working families in the community”. I think for certain the world’s governments have this utopian vision in their heads. Which is why their policies are so skewed against farmers and the present system. They’d much rather have five guys who speak their language and have pit passes at the Monaco Grand Prix every year than five thousand who come into town once a blue moon to spray government buildings with their disgusting manure.
You may think they have a point. You may like the idea of cheaper food, but do you want to wave goodbye to the hedgerows and the copses? And do you want the British countryside to be owned and run by a private equity outfit in Chicago? Or let me put it to you another way: do you want a hydroponic Tommy Hilfiger tomato? Because I don’t.
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Forget Eton, Keir will be too busy with racist chairs
With the loudest voices in Labour yelling about slavery, microbes and gender, Sir Starmer won’t have the chance to be radical
By Jeremy Clarkson (The Sunday Times, May 26)
The Conservative Party’s biggest problem is that it’s no longer the Conservative Party. And that’s because it’s been listening and taking inspiration from people who are talking, not those who aren’t. And I have some evidence to suggest that this doesn’t really work.
Many years ago, when Top Gear was a swashbuckling festival of tyre smoke and innuendo that came into your living room every Sunday evening like a drunken uncle, I just sort of did what felt right every week. But then I started consulting a small but very keen fan site in America to see what they were saying. And what they were mostly saying is that they wanted more cars and less cocking about.
This meant, when it was time to start preparing the following week’s show, their views would be front and centre in my head. My gut would tell me to do one thing, but these faceless uberfans would be telling me to do something else. And I found myself more and more doing that.
It was ridiculous. We were making a show for a weekly audience of 350 million people, but I was shaping it to keep maybe 25 American car nuts happy. I dreaded their displeasure on a Sunday night, and I’d do anything to avoid it. And that brings me back to the Conservative Party.
I can’t remember how many MPs they’ve got left now and there’s no point looking it up because by the time you read this, another one will have crossed the floor or been tied up by “bad people” or divulged secret information to keep blackmailers happy or said something Islamophobic or taken drugs or invited someone to “go back to Bahrain”. The list is endless, but whatever the number is, I’m willing to bet that every single one of them signed up because they wanted to be a tub-thumping Thatcherite iron person.
But you can’t be Mrs Thatcher now because then you’d be labelled “far right”. And that’s the same as being Hitler. Better, if you want a quiet life, to be a mouse. A Liberal Democrat. A cyclist. With one eye on hard-working families in the community and the other on River to the Sea sustainable diversity. So that’s what the Conservative MPs did. They listened to the people who were speaking and never thought to think about the views of those who weren’t. And now they are screwed. Bud Lite busted. Done. Rishi’s kids are probably already down for schools in America.
This means that in a few weeks, we will have a Labour government and many of my Tory friends find this a bit scary. They worry about the future of private education and things like a wealth tax and how well we’ll fare on the world stage when most of the people in government actively hate Britain.
I’m not worried though, because while Sir Starmer has made all sorts of left-wing noises over the years, he’s not going to be able to do anything profound because he’s going to be surrounded by the people who’ve been doing all the talking these last few years. And what they’re going to be talking to him about, most of all, is penises.
Penises will be our saviour. He may be sitting there thinking about how he can alter capital gains tax or abolish Eton, but it’s going to be hard to put any of his plans into action — because every five minutes, someone’s going to run in and say they’ve seen a willy in the ladies’. And he’s going to have to break off to deal with that.
And while he’s in the ladies’, asking Big John if he wouldn’t mind maybe using the gents’ in future, someone else is going to call him and say that there’s been some misgendering in the gatehouse which means he’ll have to miss his five o’clock about sustainable development in the birthing people space.
The next day, he’s going to really want to get a grip on the non-dom issue, but at 7am he’ll get an email from someone who’s “reaching out” to say that the antique chairs used in the Cabinet Office were probably made by slaves and that to display solidarity with Palestine, the chairs should come from Gaza. This will have to be discussed in a meeting where it’ll turn out that all the chairs in Gaza are broken, which will cause the whole room to descend into a frenzied and frothing attack on Israel. The non-doms, as a result, will be able to breathe easy.
And then it’ll be lunch and Sir Keir, being a vegetablist, will order a salad. But just as he’s about to savour that first mouthful, someone with sustainable armpit hair — but possibly no penis — will lean over and ask if he understands how many beetles and microbes had to be killed before that salad could be grown. So then there will be a debate about what food can be eaten by hard-working members of the cabinet’s vegetarian community and it’ll be decided that it’d be best if, in future, everyone got their sustenance from licking the pot plants.
Foreign leaders will be calling him but he’ll be prevented from taking the calls because one of the components in his phone was made in Tel Aviv; nor will he be able to talk to the Treasury about a mansion tax because this would involve maths, and maths — as we’ve learnt — is racist.
Meanwhile, outside the corridors of power, the doctors will continue to go to work, the nurses will still get paid, the garden centres will continue to be open, the supermarkets will continue to sell food and car showrooms will still be able to provide you with a new set of wheels. It’ll all be normal.
Because the penis people who’ve been talking and talking and talking these last few years will still be talking and talking and talking. Only now they won’t be outside the building. They’ll be inside — which means, mercifully, we won’t be able to hear them as they busy themselves with the endless task of achieving absolutely nothing at all.
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And here's an excerpt from the Sun column:
Three years ago, when my farm was being battered over the head by planners at West Oxfordshire District Council, I became so desperate that I went to London to see the minister in charge of this sort of thing: Michael Gove.
I explained the problem. Farmers were being told by central government to diversify if they wanted to stay in business. But if they tried, they were stopped by the planners in local government.
Gove pulled all the right faces and made all the right noises and I left knowing full well nothing would come of it.
But blow me down with a feather, it did. And this week farmers were told they could turn their disused barns into gyms or workshops or even houses without the need for planning permission.
That’s great news for everyone in the business. Except me. Because to help win the battle to keep my farm shop, I gave up the rights to convert my barn.
I think that’s called taking one for the team.
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Clarkson's columns are regularly collected as books. You can buy them from his boss or your local bookshop.
P.S. Apologies for the delay in posting this week's columns. I was traveling on Monday (Memorial Day, a holiday in the US).
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2024.05.28 23:52 AK-R024 Squirtle embroidery design

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2024.05.28 23:42 Anstronoxity Received this in the mail. I’m thinking it’s a scam

Received this in the mail. I’m thinking it’s a scam
But I’m having trouble finding definitive answers to confirm that it is. Pretty sure it’s a scam though
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2024.05.28 22:53 thecolorfulfreak How to make a hand-embroidery pattern from a photo?

Hi everyone!
I'm super new to hand embroidery, as in have just made my first design from a kit, so I have what might be a rookie question! I wanted to make something for my mom, it'd just be on a hoop but the design I want comes from a photo of a family house. I was wondering if anyone knows either any creators or credible etsy sellers I can pay to create the pattern? I checked Etsy but I mostly found cross-stich which wasn't what i was looking for and the other ones weren't quite what I was looking for. Or is there a way to do it online? Like a software or anything?
I will take any and all tips! I have the thread/floss colors picked out and ready to go, just need help with making the pattern and any tips on stitches to use! And if anyone has experience with this and is willing to do it I'd be happy to chat with you about getting the pattern made (with payment of course)!
Thank you!!
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2024.05.28 22:39 Minute-Succotash-908 Sketched and prepped and ready to embroider!

Sketched and prepped and ready to embroider!
I was blindsided by this part of the game on my first playthrough and ended up curled up in my chair crying for two hours. It hit me at a time of my life where I apparently needed that promise, so I decided to dedicate some time and talent to creating this personal piece to hang on my wall as a gentle reminder of the good things ahead.
I struggled with the design a little until a friend helped my brain work. I wanted to use all of the seasonal forage items, as foraging is my favorite part of the game, I just couldn’t decide how to make it all cohesive. My friend suggested grouping them and making a seasonal rotation around the piece and it finally clicked! So clockwise from the top left are foragables from Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter, with a Junimo on each branch.
It’s in a 10” hoop so it’ll be a big piece when I’m finished, and I’m so ready to take it on. I will post an update when I’ve finished it (in a thousand years I’m sure 😂) It’ll be an embroidery painting which I’ve done a handful of before, but it’s my first attempt at doing text by hand… so… we’ll see how it goes!
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2024.05.28 22:00 theragco Looking at my next house purchase and could use some thoughts from homeowners.

I'm coming up on completing my project of furnishing the Ald Velothi Harborhouse. I absolutely adore it for its location, aesthetic, and coziness. That being said while I turn my attention soon to the lunar champion and sword-singer's houses which I already own I'm noticing I've got quite a bit of gold built up and want to get another house for the future. I've previewed all the currently available houses in the game and put some thoughts on the ones I liked and I was hoping some people who bought and furnished these houses could give me their thoughts to help sway my mind one way or the other. I'm avoiding manors or inn rooms as they are either too small or too big and don't interest me outside of being used for fast travel.
I'm hoping to hear if yall like or dislike these houses and if you've had good or bad experiences with furnishing them. All of the houses will be purchased with gold and I only made a list of houses currently for sale.
Amaya Lake Lodge - 1,300,000 (Large courtyard, storage/workshop area, multiple floors, somewhat near balmora wayshrine. Layout of interior leaves some to be desired though. Gorgeous and unique hlaalu style. No basement but it has a well that apparently is valuable to sell. My current goal was to buy this house but not sure if I wanna buy another morrowind house so soon after ald velothi.)
Exorcised Coven Cottage - 250,000 (adorably tiny little witch hut for witchy things like cauldrons. HUGE courtyard space for garden and other witchy furnishings. Across the water from hag fen wayshrine) Turns out its holiday only, gotta wait on this one.
Gardner House - 1,015,000 (cute small courtyard with built in stable. Space inside is pretty big and has a huge basement space. In a city but not near the wayshrine. Not sure if its worth the price though especially with such a normal design.)
Old Mistveil Manor - 1,025,000 (Decently sized, pretty courtyard with riften autumn colors, basically grymharth's woe but with a courtyard and a barn/stable. No basement still though. Right next to town)
Strident Springs Demesne - 1,280,000 (Lovely courtyard with a little dock, watchtower, and space for a stables/barn. Interior is cozy though no basement again. Could make for a cozy inn. Just outside of a town but opposite the wayshrine)
The Gorinir Estate - 780,000 (weirdly affordable for such a unique house. Its basically a very big courtyard with the neat woodelven plant huts strewn about a root walkway. The two enterable buildings are kind of small but cozy and cute enough that I don't mind. I would make this 11/10 if it had a little cave hidden in one of the walls.)
Velothi Reverie - 323,000 (a small house with lots of rooms, a courtyard, and a basement. Suffers from the same dingy dark coloring that quondam and ebonheart do but its a pretty cute dark elf house with a little bit of everything)
Water's Edge - 1,050,000 (Adore this house and its unique layout. No courtyard or basement but it comes pre-furnished with sufficient lights and fireplaces as well cute little plants out on the walkway. Opposite side of town from the wayshrine but honestly really enjoy this house. Outside of its shape though its a little plain design-wise.)
HONORABLE MENTIONS
Autumn's Gate - cute courtyard and cute size but too small all together, would rather go for old mistveil if I'm gonna get a nord house. Comes with its own fireplace though
Bouldertree Refuge - I really enjoy the aesthetic of this house, its basically Gorinir Estate Lite. Not sure if i'd pay for the smaller version though.
Cliffshade - Not a lot of houses with this style, unfortunately its just the house with a generic layout and no courtyard or any other amenities.
Cyrodilic Jungle House - Courtyard is bigger than the house, house is only 1 room big. If the house was a little bigger I wouldn't have minded paying a little extra.
Dawnshadow - Lots of courtyard, medium sized house but kinda small for the price, Has two cute balconies on the second floor but too small to fit anything on them besides torches. Not really a fan of interiors like that with the upstairs being a weird open hallway room. Bit out of the way of the wayshrine.
Domus Phrasticus - Cute courtyard area with a little shed space around back but that's a permanent fixture. House is kinda small but cute, two floors. Enough space for a bedroom above and kitchen/living space below. Out of the way
Hunding Palatial Hall - Huge courtyard area, beach, stables, little inner courtyard, interior is pretty good, no basement, many balconies with space to put chairs and stuff. Honestly feels underpriced but not sure if its my style or what to do with it.
Ravenhurst - Adorable little home with a courtyard. Has a weird tiny "shed" between the walls outside. Upstairs is surprisingly small, floors may need to be added in manually. Very afforable for the size and appearance, no basement
Sleek Creek House - Neat house on stilts. Even though it has no basement you can technically build your own beneath. Courtyard is big but kind of barren by default, lots of plants will be needed. House itself is a little disappointing interior-wise. Next to town with wayshrine and directly next to outlaw refuge.
Snugpod - Love this little thing its so cute. Its very affordable, can be bought in a regular day without extra grinding. Kinda want to use it to make a horrific daedric shrine inside its unassuming interior)
Stay Moist Manor - A bit overpriced for its actual size but has a lot of furnishing slots. Has a big courtyard, "stables, and a "tower" room assumedly for a bedroom or storage. No basement but that's to be expected. Very cute but far from everything.
The Ample Domicile - Strangely pricey for such a small house. Its cute though and has a courtyard. Very good for raising guar, i'm told.
Twin Arches - a cheap little house to quickly furnish. Can't think of much good about it, even in the redguard style it feels a little plain and small. It does have a tiny courtyard and is located near a shrine though. I'd pick it up as a weekend project at most.
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2024.05.28 21:33 Batshit-Crazy2306 accessory design

Hi people! i have ordered my first loop for a concert and id like to diy the earrings attachment ive seen a lot on tiktok. the problem ive seen are : 1. the ring clacking with the loop and it being loud 2. the dangling chain might be a safety hazard in a pit
so ive tried designing something that would hopefully solve these problems, but id like some inputs please :)
the pink thing would be made of yarn/embroidery floss bcs it wont clack with the metal (hopefully)
and the clip would go to the top of the ears and the chain on the back of the ears before being clipped onto an earring (probably not as loose as what i drew, im in no way an artist sorry) and the added charm as an added accessory to make it cute and also to maybe weigh it down enough to pull the ring on top so that it doesnt touch the loop
what do you think? does it make sense?
ps. english isnt my first language sorry im terribly sorry if my explanation is hard to understand
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2024.05.28 21:25 19892025 While 40 Palestinians were killed in Israeli strikes on a designated “safe zone” in Rafah, many Israelis mocked the “burnt” Palestinians and referred to the “massacre” as “the main bonfire” of the Jewish holiday of Lag B’Omer.

While 40 Palestinians were killed in Israeli strikes on a designated “safe zone” in Rafah, many Israelis mocked the “burnt” Palestinians and referred to the “massacre” as “the main bonfire” of the Jewish holiday of Lag B’Omer. submitted by 19892025 to gazawatch [link] [comments]


2024.05.28 20:23 MelancholyTears My new horror embroidery design

My new horror embroidery design
This spider is going to be a nightmare to stitch 🕷🕸
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