Hey guys!
Meri chachi ki beti, who just got over with her 12th boards & various entrance exams, finally has some free time on her hands. She wants to undertake some physical activity, preferably sports. I have suggested her badminton, basketball, swimming, etc.
Now I grew up in Dehradun and at that time Parade Ground used to be open to everyone. You could just take your sports equipment & start playing/practicing. I also remember seeing cricket coaches training the players.
However I think this is not the case anymore. I mean the ground's still open to everyone but they've made a park out of it. My cousin also went there to inquire about the sports facilities & coaching options but the person there sent her back and told her to inquire after the elections are over. (smh)
I have been living in another Tier 2 now city due to my job since the last 8 years.Idhar ek mast PSU township hai. There are numerous children parks, 2 sports stadiums, swimming pools, coaches for tennis, basketball, boxing, karate, dance, you name it! The best thing is that these parks & coaches are available to everyone (not just the PSU employees) and the charges are also affordable for us, in the Rs.700-1500/month range.
Are there similar opportunities for adult recreation available to the general public without hefty charges in Dehradun as well? Maine khud to kabhi aisi cheejo me hissa nahi liya, tab utni suvidha nahi thi, but I presume in the posh areas of Dehradun such as Vasant Vihar, Kaulagarh, etc, these facilities must have been always available.
While searching, I came across Doon Club's website (near Survey Chowk) which is very near to my house, so perfect location from the commute regard. However there is a hefty membership fee (Rs.20K), plus you need a proposer and a seconder in your application who's already a club member. We don't know anybody who's a member. Seemed not so welcoming.
So guys, those who take/took swimming, or any other sports classes, what options does she have? Please share your experiences regarding the location, coaches available, monthly fee, etc
Thanks for your input!

haan bhai failure hi ginva deta hu achievement to kuch nahi h
dekho shurwat hoti 3-4th class se tab se vo olympiad shuru hote h (scam like SOF,etc.)
aajtak kisi olympiad m school level par bhi nahi kuch kar paya bas aise hi moj masti m jeevan kaat diya (na koi sports seekha na koi hobby banayi bas aise hi time chala gaya) aab 8-9th m poch gaye ghar valo n jee related coaching m enroll karwa hi tha lockdown aagaya aab bas tab starting m padhna shuru kiya tha but dheere device p time kahi aur hi jaane lag gaya youtube, internet surfing and much more bas sapne kabhi kam nahi hue bhailog tbh mtlb sala har vakt delusion m rehta hu aab bhi device p time waste karta hu kyunki reality se bachna h aab ye sab face nahi kar sakta m
nahi ho sakta bhai kuch bhi mera
phir 9 th m IOQJS diya IOQM diya (fail shayad -ve m hi marks the)
10 th ayi 10th m bhi bas aisa hi raha kuch nahi kiya somehow 10th nikal gayi aa gaya aage
aab poch chuke the 11th m bhai socha nayi shuruwat karenge badhiya aab 2-4 din baad vahi ghode vahi maidan koi badlaav nahi starting m josh tha sahi chalne lagi aab 3-4 hafto baad tab kaam badhne laga tab sahi m JEE vala hone laga tab bhaishaab n solutions se tapne internet se solution nb m chaap lena aise kafi kaam choriya kari ki bas ye chapter agle chapter se khud karunga mtlb aise bura to lagta tha but phir bhi karta raha sala ghanta kuch sikha 11th 12th dono chale gaye boht exams bhare josh m kuch to karlunga varna aukaat dikh jayegi to kya pata padhne lag jau NSEP NSEC PRMO sab bhare dono saal par bhai kuch nahi hua tbh tab bande n ques solve hi nahi kiye exam m kya ghanta kuch karleta
classes attent kari but bc ghanta kuch ho paya kuch nahi ho paya aise time chala gaya regret karta raha par koi step nahi liya bhai har cheez m fail hua hu (even aisa raha h total no. of sudnts appeared in exam 2382 and your rank 2382 batao kuch ho sakta tha kabhi baat ya reality jor se stuck hui toh 2-3 din padh liya varna kya sab kuch chal raha h na ghar wale roti de hi rahe h mst internet mil raha h AC m beth k unhe dikhata pah raha hu aur mein bas bc samay kharab kar raha)
aab bc shuru hue entrances toh unme bhi kuch nahi sabhi exams fill kiye ghar walo n ek baar mana nahi kiya (mene unka sara trust tod diya uske siva koi dukh nahi h tbh haan time waste kiya vo h ki sala kitni choti zindagi thi aur kuch nahi kar paya itna precious time waste kardiya regrets hi h bas)
JEE MAINS (fai bhai dono session b tech b arch b planning sab m fail kisi m dhanga ka nahi h)
UGEE (hona hi nahi tha kuch fail)
VITEEE kuch nahi mil raha dhanga ka
ISI bhai kuch nahi hua sadly (last hope thi par just abhi ans key match kari sala 30 no. toh bina kuch attempt kiye mil jate yaha attempt karke 24 ban rahe h)
JEE ADV (cutoff hi nahi clear hui 5 lakh rank h)
CUET (hanta kuch ho jayega)
BOARDS (haan bc 75% hi aye bas aur kuch nahi hua)
aab bhi kayi exams h bhai sab bhare mene kisi m kuch nahi hua sala kahi luck factor bhi nahi chamka kehr vo hona bhi nahi kabhi mst enjoy karo guys kuch nahi hona mera
bc tbh koi kuch nahi kehta keheya bhi kya sala m hi chutiya hu kuch nahi kar sakta
hope thi ghar walo ko bhi sab kharab hi kardi
AAB AAGE KYA KARUNGA BC MUJHE KHUD NAHI PATA PAR SALE SAPNE BOHT BADE THE SARE TUT GAYE MARUNGA TOH NAHI AISE HI ABHI FILHAL BUT WHO KNOWS KEHR AAB KHAK OPTIONS NAHI H KAL EXAM DIYA KUCH NAHI HONA DROP LEKE GHANATA KUCH KARLUNGA MEHNAT KARNA HI NAHI AATA SALA DIMAG BHI TOH NAHI H MERE PASS BC CHUTIYA HU M SABSE BADA
IDK UCH SAMJH NAHI AA RAHA BAS TIME JAATE JAA RAHA H AUR KUCH NAHI HO RAHA FAILURE KA TAG LEKE KESA BHI NAHI LAG RAHA NA AAB BHI SUDHAR RAHA MTLB BHAI KOI FARAK AHI PADA SALA ITNA CHUTIYA HU M
KOI CLG NAHI MILNA UPAR SE PARENTS KA TRUST GAYA VO DUKHI KARTA H AUR KUCH NAHI TIME GAYA VO BHI MTLB BAS REGRETS H SALA KUCH TO KARLIYA HOTA AAJ SHAYAD YAHA NA HOTA
KOI FUTURE NAHI DIKH RAHA H BC

so basically i was a medicore more than avg student since my childhood use to be in top 5 of my class (haan top 5 like seriously scoring 87 or 89 at 7th or 8th people get in 4th or 5th rank ) since my childhood like jab mei 1st mei tha tab sey sochta tha doctor banunga and all my mama is a radiologist and is from one of the prestigious college of india so i thought i will also do this and will make my parents proud 9th -10th mei lockdown laga pata nahi kya hua 10th starting mei covid hua june waste hogya july end tk pata chala ki mei ghanta kuch nahi ukhad paunga sept oct mei naya system agya term 1 term 2 term 1 mei apprx mera half of syllabus khatam hua tha fir boards agaye term 1 result aya feb mei tab tk full masti thi codm pubgm and every thing that can be possible i done like doing chatting with random person on feb mei result aya ki sahabzade ke 70 bane hai term 1 mei ghar wale mere bilkul nahi kahete ek chez nahi bolte par i was depressed a lot march mei recover hua aur april mei boards kese bhi karke syllabus kiya reivision kiya thanks to edumantra and adda247 ki one shot marathon 88 percentage aya total boards mei term 1 term 2 milake i was disappointed a lot pata nahi kyu par tha fir mene jese normally ek bachpan sey sochtte aya hua insan ki doctor banna hai toh leliya medical pcb despite ki mere sst aur maths mei jyada interest tha finance mei like i used to handel my bauji ( dada ji ) demat account since 7th aur bahut interest tha ki yeh sab fascinate karta tha fir 11th start hua aur mei acha kar rha tha fir sept mei kuch isue ke karan mera discontinuity hogya coaching mei aur dusri cheezon mei dhyan dene laga 11th khatam hua aur i scored 58 percentage apprx coaching ka mock test diya starting of 12th sey pahele jo hota aur scored 150 it was my worst phase of my journey aur 12th start hua and suddenly merko anxiety attacks start hogaye matlab shivering and all i dk kya hota fir june over hua july ate ate sab normal hua par fir neet ka padhai coaching jana fir sey start kara propr study fir school pre boards practical agaye and coulnt make it to neet usme expected 450 hai boards mei 84 percentage hai expected jyada tha par sahi hai par i dont want pursue neet again and that trrauma of scoring less aur dost ke itna jyada marks a rahe i am done merko stock market related kuch karna finance related i have some startup idea par abhi ghar par financial issue chal rahe toh cant ask parent for funds and papa kahe rahe drop lene ka i know ki mei isko nahi kar paunga par smjha nahi pa rha batch start hone wala 20th tarikh sey par merko age pcb continue nahi karna aur agey smjh nahi a rha kya karu papa ne bola hai ek try dene ko par mera bikul himmat nahi agey isko karne ka
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So basically, I used to be a mediocre student, slightly above average since my childhood. I would usually rank in the top 5 of my class, scoring around 87 or 89 in 7th or 8th grade. I always had this ambition to become a doctor ever since I was in 1st grade. My uncle is a radiologist who graduated from one of the prestigious colleges in India, so I thought I could follow in his footsteps and make my parents proud.
During 9th and 10th grade, the lockdown happened, and I don't know what went wrong. COVID struck right at the beginning of my 10th grade, wasting June away until it was finally understood by the end of July that I wouldn't be able to accomplish much. A new system was introduced in September-October with terms 1 and 2. By the end of term 1, I had barely covered half of my syllabus. Then came the board exams, and in February, the results of term 1 were out. Until then, I was completely carefree, indulging in CODM, PUBGM, and all sorts of distractions, even chatting with random people. But when the term 1 results showed only 70 marks, my family didn't say a word, but I was deeply depressed. I managed to recover in March and revised the syllabus rigorously in April, thanks to resources like Edumantra and Adda247. I scored 88% in total in the board exams, but I was still disappointed for some reason. Nonetheless, I took up the medical stream (PCB) despite my greater interest in subjects like Social Studies and Mathematics, especially in finance. I used to handle my grandfather's demat account since 7th grade, and I was fascinated by all of it.
Then came 11th grade, and I was doing well until I faced some issues in September, resulting in discontinuity in my coaching classes, and I started focusing on other things. I completed 11th grade, scoring approximately 58%. Before the beginning of 12th grade, I took a mock test conducted by my coaching center and scored 150, which was my worst phase. When 12th grade started, I began experiencing anxiety attacks suddenly—shivering and all—and I don't know what was happening. June passed, July came, and everything became normal again, but then I had to prepare for NEET. I resumed my coaching classes, studied properly, then had school pre-board exams and practicals. I couldn't make it to NEET; I am expecting around f450 marks, I scored 84% in the boards, which was okay, but I don't want to pursue NEET again. The trauma of scoring less and seeing my friends scoring so much more has left me exhausted. I want to do something related to the stock market or finance; I have some startup ideas, but currently, there are financial issues at home, so I can't ask my parents for funds. My dad suggests taking a drop, but I know I won't be able to do it. The new batch is starting from the 20th, but I'm not sure whether to continue with PCB or what to do next.
so before posting it was asking to add a tag of qualifications so i have cleared my 12th with 84 this year

Khush rha kro yrr...kya rkha h bekar me udaas hoke...masti mazak nhi rukna chahiye kesi bhi situation ho...hn kisi ki death wagera pe thoda udaas hona bnta h pr faltu me ese post dal re ho jese duniya khatam hone wali ho

kuuteh saleh bhen ke laudeh teri maa ki chut bosdiwaleh teri mayiaa ka bur chodu badwa salaa madar chood ka pilla randi ka baal machr ki jhaat chipkili ke taate gobar putr kuttiya ka pila baapchoda betichod chachi chod mama chod randi ka aulaad sala haram zada suur jahnt ke baal bakri chod chua chod randhwa raand ja jaamai chut marikeh lavda lavdeh ke baal kutaa ke luli bakri ki chut chipkili ke aand randi baaz kukur chod maai ka choda tera bhen ka choda bur phtleh chud ke 100 baap ka chuda hua kutta ka pila hua naali ka keeda taateh massina bur ke chatel chodu bhagat chut mari ka chut ka pilaa gaand ka sodagar chucci chusneh waleh jhaat ka bhaaji land peh chdeh ja kuuteh saleh bhen ke laudeh teri maa ki chut bosdiwaleh teri mayiaa ka bur chodu badwa salaa madar chood ka pilla randi ka baal machr ki jhaat chipkili ke taate gobar putr kuttiya ka pila baapchoda betichod chachi chod mama chod randi ka aulaad sala haram zada suur jahnt ke baal bakri chod chua chod randhwa raand ja jaamai chut marikeh lavda lavdeh ke baal kutaa ke luli bakri ki chut chipkili ke aand randi baaz kukur chod maai ka choda tera bhen ka choda bur phtleh chud ke 100 baap ka chuda hua kutta ka pila hua naali ka keeda taateh massina bur ke chatel chodu bhagat chut mari ka chut ka pilaa gaand ka sodagar chucci chusneh waleh jhaat ka bhaaji land peh chdeh ja kuuteh saleh bhen ke laudeh teri maa ki chut bosdiwaleh teri mayiaa ka bur chodu badwa salaa madar chood ka pilla randi ka baal machr ki jhaat chipkili ke taate gobar putr kuttiya ka pila baapchoda betichod chachi chod mama chod randi ka aulaad sala haram zada suur jahnt ke baal bakri chod chua chod randhwa raand ja jaamai chut marikeh lavda lavdeh ke baal kutaa ke luli bakri ki chut chipkili ke aand randi baaz kukur chod maai ka choda tera bhen ka choda bur phtleh chud ke 100 baap ka chuda hua kutta ka pila hua naali ka keeda taateh massina bur ke chatel chodu bhagat chut mari ka chut ka pilaa gaand ka sodagar chucci chusneh waleh jhaat ka bhaaji land peh chdeh ja kuuteh saleh bhen ke laudeh teri maa ki chut bosdiwaleh teri mayiaa ka bur chodu badwa salaa madar chood ka pilla randi ka baal machr ki jhaat chipkili ke taate gobar putr kuttiya ka pila baapchoda betichod chachi chod mama chod randi ka aulaad sala haram zada suur jahnt ke baal bakri chod chua chod randhwa raand ja jaamai chut marikeh lavda lavdeh ke baal kutaa ke luli bakri ki chut chipkili ke aand randi baaz kukur chod maai ka choda tera bhen ka choda bur phtleh chud ke 100 baap ka chuda hua kutta ka pila hua naali ka keeda taateh massina bur ke chatel chodu bhagat chut mari ka chut ka pilaa gaand ka sodagar chucci chusneh waleh jhaat ka bhaaji land peh chdeh ja kuuteh saleh bhen ke laudeh teri maa ki chut bosdiwaleh teri mayiaa ka bur chodu badwa salaa madar chood ka pilla randi ka baal machr ki jhaat chipkili ke taate gobar putr kuttiya ka pila baapchoda betichod chachi chod mama chod randi ka aulaad sala haram zada suur jahnt ke baal bakri chod chua chod randhwa raand ja jaamai chut marikeh lavda lavdeh ke baal kutaa ke luli bakri ki chut chipkili ke aand randi baaz kukur chod maai ka choda tera bhen ka choda bur phtleh chud ke 100 baap ka chuda hua kutta ka pila hua naali ka keeda taateh massina bur ke chatel chodu bhagat chut mari ka chut ka pilaa gaand ka sodagar chucci chusneh waleh jhaat ka bhaaji land peh chdeh ja kuuteh saleh bhen ke laudeh teri maa ki chut bosdiwaleh teri mayiaa ka bur chodu badwa salaa madar chood ka pilla randi ka baal machr ki jhaat chipkili ke taate gobar putr kuttiya ka pila baapchoda betichod chachi chod mama chod randi ka aulaad sala haram zada suur jahnt ke baal bakri chod chua chod randhwa raand ja jaamai chut marikeh lavda lavdeh ke baal kutaa ke luli bakri ki chut chipkili ke aand randi baaz kukur chod maai ka choda tera bhen ka choda bur phtleh chud ke 100 baap ka chuda hua kutta ka pila hua naali ka keeda taateh massina bur ke chatel chodu bhagat chut mari ka chut ka pilaa gaand ka sodagar chucci chusneh waleh jhaat ka bhaaji land peh chdeh ja kuuteh saleh bhen ke laudeh teri maa ki chut bosdiwaleh teri mayiaa ka bur chodu badwa salaa madar chood ka pilla randi ka baal machr ki jhaat chipkili ke taate gobar putr kuttiya ka pila baapchoda betichod chachi chod mama chod randi ka aulaad sala haram zada suur jahnt ke baal bakri chod chua chod randhwa raand ja jaamai chut marikeh lavda lavdeh ke baal kutaa ke luli bakri ki chut chipkili ke aand randi baaz kukur chod maai ka choda tera bhen ka choda bur phtleh chud ke 100 baap ka chuda hua kutta ka pila hua naali ka keeda taateh massina bur ke chatel chodu bhagat chut mari ka chut ka pilaa gaand ka sodagar chucci chusneh waleh jhaat ka bhaaji land peh chdeh ja

I've already made a detailed post on all the Punjabi words for More/GreateZyaadaa
This post is for words that mean A lot/Many/Very/Enough
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Vaahvaa / واہوا / ਵਾਹਵਾ
Urdu/Hindi: Boht / Kaafii / K'haasaa
^{Used in both Punjabs and is used throughout most dialects. A few Jatki areas may not use it, but as you will see, throughout Jatki/Shahpuri this word is common North West-Punjabi dialects use it. I have first-hand experience from Hindko/Pothohari/Dhanni In the East this is treated as a Majhi word \}Malvais and Doabis, please confirm])
Jatki Punjabi Drama: "Vaahvaa Saara Gohst SaTaa Lai-ni, Changgi BaryaaNi PakaavNi Ae" Sargodha Punjabi Vlogger: "Vaahvaa DihaaRay Ho Gaye No" (Kaafi Din Ho Gaye Hai'n) Mandi Bahudin: "Video Vaahvaa Koi Doo'nh-Triiu'nh DihaaRay Diiyaa'n Vehda Pyaa'n" Hafizabad Jatki Punjabi: "Jitthay Aah Vaahvaa PinDaa'n De Chhohr KabaDDi-ShabaDDi KheyDday Paye Haaye" (0:56) Sahiwal Jatki Punjabi: "Gobhi Taa'n Vaahvaa Phull Chaaii-KhaLii Ae" (Chakkii-KhaRii) Mandi Bahudin: "Eh Gall Ae Jado'n Pakkhnu Gallaa'n Karday Haan, Vaahvaa PuraaNi Gall" Eastern Punjabi: "Tey Sukkhaa (Bhangg) Peetaa Hovay Vaahvaa Saaraa" Eastern Punjabi: "Aah Taa'n Vaahvaa Changga Ho Gyaa BhaiNay!" (Boht Achhaa)
Some Phrases:

1. Vaahvaa Changgaa Hoya! (Sarcasm: HuN Aayii Chass!?)
2. Vaahvaa Chir Ho Gyaa Vaa (Boht Der Ho Gyii Hai)

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Western Punjabi: Bateyraa / بتیرا / ਬਤੇਰਾ Eastern Punjabi: Batheyra / بتھیرا / ਬਥੇਰਾ
Urdu/Hindi: Boht / Kaafii / K'haasaa
Mandi Bahudin Jatki Punjabi: "Aah Chhohr-Chhaahr Bateyray Ne" (3:12) Hafizabad Jatki Punjabi: "Unj Taa'n Inhaa'n Kammaa'n Ch Bateyraa Mall Honda Ae" (3:00) Jhangochi Punjabi Drama: "Bateyraa Keetaa Ae, HuN Nhi Meray Kolo'n Honda" Eastern Punjabi, Satinder Sartaaj: "Asii'n Rabb To'n Batheyrii-Vaari Manggay" (Boht Dafa) Sargodha Punjabi Comedy Reel: "Mein Bateyraa Kookyaa Aa'n"
A good phrase:

1. Bateyrii-Vaarii (Kaafi Dafa/Boht Martaba)

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Western Punjabi: Bahoo'n / بہُوں / ਬਹੂੰ Eastern Punjabi: Boh / بوہ / ਬਹੁ
Urdu/Hindi: Boht
Jhangochi Punjabi: "Bahoo'n Keetaa Ee?" (Boht Kiiya Hai?) Jhangochi Punjabi: "Ohnu Na Pata Laggay, Oh Bahoo'n DaahDa Ae" Sargodha Punjabi: "Bahoo'n Dukkh Laggaa" Sargodha Punjabi: "Bahoo'n Bhalla Hovay!" Chakwal Punjabi: "Tey Bhukkh Bahoo'n DaahDii Laggi Ae" (Boht Zyaada) Chakwal Punjabi: "Gall SuNo...Bahoo'n Koi Pesay Pichhay Lagg Gaye O?" Pothohari Punjabi: "Oh Yraa Jul! Bahoo'n Gallaa'n Na Kar!" Pothohari Punjabi: "Mein Bahoo'n DaahDaa Pareyshaan Yaa'n, Samjh Nhi AsNi!" Jhang legend Mansoor Malangi: "Bahoo'n Pyaara Lagnaa Ai'n Shafqat Nu!" Coke Studio Famous Song: "Keetaa Mein Tenu Bahoo'n Pyaar Ae" Chachi Attock Dialect: "Bahoo'n SohNaa" (Boht K'hoobsurat) Punjabi Drama: "Tenu Taa'n MuRHkay (Paseenaa) Bahoo'n Lahnday Payin!"
East Majhi Good Speaker: "Social Media Da Jamaana Vaa Gall Boh Shheyti Pheldi Aa" Eastern Punjabi Singer Nirvair Pannu: "Boh Vaddhiiya!" (Boht Khoob) Eastern Punjabi: "Boh Boh Svaagat Aa Saaryaa'n Bhraavaa'n Nu" (Theth Punjabi is not Svaagat, it's Jee-Aayaa'n-Nu, used in both Punjabs)

Mera friend circle bohot kam hai. Bas 3 dost hai. Usme se ek female friend hai. Wo meri THE closest friend hai. Ham ek sath apne problems share karte hai, masti karte hai. We do not have any intention of dating each other aur hamne pehle hi ek dusre se iss ke baare mai baat ki thi. Par abhi she is acting weird. Wo mujhe hints drop karti hai aur bohot flirt karne lage hai. Haa itna ladkiyo se bol chuka hu ki flirting and friendship mai farak samajne laga hai. Wo ab mujhe ek sath gym karne ke liye bula rahi hai. Bohot beg kar Rahi hai aane ko. And ab mostly she doesn’t talk to me like a friend. She now always gets shy when talking to me. Nahi chaiye mujhe gf. Relationship tutne ka bohot Khatra hai. She isn’t even my type. Par mujhe dost nahi khona. Pehle hi life mai father nahi hai. Upar se dost chale jayenge to bohot dikkat ayegi.

So like everybody, I also dreamt for the top iims, abcilksm to be precise, didn't study, scored an avg percentile, only had call from IIM Mumbai sm, won't convert.
Life is very unfair tbh, I was always someone who was more into sports and "mauj masti". Didn't score well in 10/12. I thought kya hi faraq padta hai inn marks se, now I know kya faraq padta hai. My parents being overachievers, bachpan se mere dimaag me IIT/upsc ki cheez daali gayi thi, either you go to a top IIT/become ias, or you fail. I hated this, lekin ab dimaag me tw ghus gaya, now Aaj cap results aane vaale hai, I won't get into top cap IIMs as well kyunki na percentile hai, na acads, I am thinking of joining kashipur as I think I ll get it. Jagah achhi hai, uttarakhand me hai, it's a nice college with good avg pckgs and community, but some part of me cannot accept this fact that i won't join an old IIM. Because this time I gave cat without any prep, i kinda feel I can get a good score if I study well, but the uncertainty of this exam and my poor profile just says to me ki "bhai jo milra hai lele aur udhr mehnat karle". Idk, i really don't know how to get rid of this feeling that I won't get into an old IIM. Maybe it'll stay with me forever kyunki bachpan se sirf yehi suna h ki top IIT/IIM/upsc vrna zindagi khatam. But isn't it wrong? Kaafi zyada affect ho rha hai, samajh nahi Ara kya kru, I don't have a job, I turned 21 a few weeks back, so it's not like ki age bhot zyada hogyi hai, it's not like ki I can't repeat, mom is saying repeat krle aur iss baar padhke Jaa, dad is saying jo milra hai lele (Amity bhi), I'm so confused. Maybe IIM Mumbai ho jata tw shayad itna nahi rota, but start se hi I knew I was out of the game, considering the cut throat competition.
Though thanks to God, our family is all good (in all aspects), things have been a bit rough I feel, in terms of friendship or relationship, things haven't really gone my way, anyways that i feel is a part of life.
Anyways I feel logon me ye cheez daalna chahiye, ki itna craze mat kro kisi cheez ka, ki jab vo na mile, zindagi ka maqsad hi khatam hota dikhe. I mean don't get me wrong, all the students who achieved this are actually going to live my dream. It's just I should be happy with whatever I ll be getting right? It's not that I'm going to a bad college or something? Idk, I just want to get rid of this feeling. Anyways, ALL THE BEST TO THOSE WHO ACHIEVED IT and ALL THE BEST TO THOSE WHO LL BE GETTING INTO ALL THE B SCHOOLS AND FOR CAP RESULTS, I hope you all won't get disappointed like me and get your dream colleges.
Sorry for this, I was just feeling empty and didn't know how to escape this feeling :)

Yaar mene sach bolu to zyada hi di books padi nahi Par abhi padhna start karna chata hoon
Koi aisi book recommend karo ki moj masti ho jaye padh kar!
My fav eng books are george orwell, kafka, yuval noah
Ps: premchand mat bolna wo to padha hai mene😆

Meko Darr kyu ni lgraaa abbbbbb
Bhai paper to kaise bhi AA skte hai , 2023 jese bhi or 2016 jese bhi
2016 jese aagye toh kya hoga meraa
Selection to 2023 wale m bhi ni hoga aisa lgra
Fuck 2016 kya pata 2024 hardest neet paper ka record bnale , possible to yebhi hai
Pr possible to ye bhi hai ki mere 650 aajaye
Or ye bhi ki mai 200 bhi cross na kru
Padhai kru ? test du? Sojaun?
Agar exam se ek din pehle mai bomb fek du apne centre p toh kya hmara exam postponed hoga ?
Bas exam khtm hojaye fas fas moj masti krungi Pr paper bura gya toh moj masti kr paungi? Actually ab thoda dar lgra hai 🤡

Delhi ki subah aur gym ki daud, ek ladki ka safar, masti bhari bheed, traffic ka jhamela, sabko hai apni fitness ka khayal, par sadakon pe hai pollution ka dher, din ki shuruaat hai horn bajane se, aur metro mein hai safar ke sukh dukh, bas yahi hai Delhi ki subah ki kahani, jahan har kadam par hai thoda drama, par fir bhi hum hain fit, mast aur zinda! How are you fellow delhi peeps?

So, a couple of days ago I (23M) went for an outing with the first love of my life :) A girl (my classmate) whom I used to like when I was in 10th back in 2015-2016 (basically we both were in a kind of a situationship, before situationship was even a term).
Things went wrong as our 10th std boards were approaching and she got committed to some other guy. Then boards hue and we both got into different schools etc. It took me 3-4 yrs to move on tbh. She went to some different city for her college. The last time I met her was on the last day of the boards paper. That's it. Just to let you know... I was the only one, among her exes/the guys who liked her, to be in her close friends and private account. When we were in First or Second Year ig she added me. Deep down there was always a sense of respect and friendship between us. We hardly talked during all these years.. just birthday wishes and some small talk on 2 instances. That's it.
NOW. After 7 years she happened to be here in my city as her college is over and she's gearing up for higher studies. 1.5-2 months back I got to know she's here and I decided to ask her if she's comfortable meeting me or not. And she said YES! She was okay meeting me and we met in one of the parks in our area. 3 hours! We were together for 3 hours! Bhai aisa bilkul nahi laga ki 7 saal baad mil rahe h. We were talking normally and sharing what all happened in these 7 years etc etc. Btw..... She happens to be committed and she's now in a LDR as cllg khatam hua unka. From my side and even from her side it's nothing like that. I have lost majority of my feelings and vo to pasand karti hi nahi shayad. Anyways.
That day we met and I thought this will be the only meet. But that's not the case. In these 1.5-2 months we met like 6-7 times now. Hanging out together. Eating pancakes and having hot chocolate (she likes these things and loves visiting cafes). And during all these times I made sure not to flirt with her and even she didn't. Physical touch bhi NIL. Nothing. Cauz she's committed and I don't think she's interested in me. Which is a good thing imo. Usually we meet in the park and cafes but one day I asked her to come with me to the ISKCON.. And she was like this is the first time I'm going to a temple with someone other than my mom (something like that. Idr)
When I used to like her me hamesha sochta tha ki I want to hang out with her... Go on dates... Talk to her outside school... Know her better... And God have me these things after 7 years! Nd a couple of days ago.... We both went to Marine Drive! It was like a dream for me to go out with at Marines! We took a train and train me kaafi non stop baate. We both fight a lot btw. Continue bakwaas baate and fights (mazak masti wali). I was afraid ki 1 ghante ka CSMT tak ka raasta kaise katega? But it was smooth. We spent like 6-7 hrs together that day.
Marines pe ek chapri insta/YouTube wala Mila btw. I'll make a seperate post for this one cauz this shit ruined our mood for some time. But apart from this it was all good. We also ate Aram ka vada pav sitting at the Marines and she loves vada pav. Kabhi nahi socha tha I'll get to live these moments with my first love. I don't have feelings in that way for her... I consider her a good friend of mine and so does she.. but ik that fact that not everyone gets to live these moments with their first love right? :)
After Marines we went to a cafe cauz she wanted to go there and I had some of the finest desserts of my life ❤️😂 Thanks to her. Idk aur kitne baar milne ka mauka milega iske saath. Mostly it's her who asks me out.. I usually don't ask her out first for obvious reasons. But I do wait for her text.
I just wanted to vent this out somewhere. Not keeping any expectations. Not thinking about it in any other way other than friendship. Nothing. It's just me living my 10th std dream maybe? Bachkand baate, cute fights, troubling each other etc. All this is short-lived btw. She's here for the next 3 months and I'm here for the next 1.5 months as I'll be going for my MBA from some IIM. Just making memories! All platonic. Nothing else. And deep down ... I thank God for giving me these chances...

Hi, I know it is not relevant but I just wanted to share that feeling, I started with this pen in 10th std in pressure of boards, accha result aaya, isse fir dhoom dham se 11th me NEET prep shuru ki, 11th ka effect tha, sab kuch asaan lag raha tha, jidhar friends masti kar rahe the, life jee rahe the, kehte the ki this education system is a rat race, yeh jab teens ko life experience karni chahiye tab unhe race me bhagaate hai, maine yeh bilkul nahi suna, samjha ki yeh sab hai hi pagal...
main bina soche padhta raha with a satisfaction ki mera social circle future me inse zyada accha hoga,
12th aayi, maturity aayi, sab cheeze samajh aane lagi, realize hua ki GEN me to Govt college gudd ka pua nahi hai, lagne laga ki dost jo kar rahe the usme kuch galat nahi tha, regret ki unke saath khulkar jeena chahiye tha, memories banti, but still I am happy for what happened in 12th, I would like to forget 11th but mesmerise 12th, mocks me marks above 600 nahi aa paa rahe the depress hua, jab pata chala ki mera AFMC me nahi ho sakta because my eye condition, thoda roya bhi,
NEETARD dost ke jab Mains me 80 perc, usne society ki vajah se suici*de karli, vo to ch*tiya tha hi ki NEET ki prep karke mains ke result par dukh mana raha hai, par mujhe bhi dukhi chodke chala gaya,
after a whole fkin year I realize what my friends in 11th said, I lost my mental health, physical health, social circle friends etc, to this race,
10 days me NEET hai, posted with this pen, ki jisse ye rat race start kari thi, ussi se khatam karenge, whether iss race me jeetenge ya haarenge,
https://preview.redd.it/g8tlep5icgwc1.png?width=470&format=png&auto=webp&s=6d3d924fdc30da0f3654b0cc9209070188931444

saiya ke sath madhaiya mein madhaiya mein bada maja aaye rajaiya mein saiya ke sath madhaiya mein madhaiya mein bada maja aaye rajaiya mein
tut gayi chudi kalaiyan mein kalaiya mein tut gayi chudi kalaiyan mein kalaiya mein bada maja aaye rajaiya mein
hey saiya ke sath madhaiya mein madhaiya mein bada maja aaye rajaiya mein
mushkil se mauka mere hath aaye haan mushkil se mauka mere hath aaye kar ke bahana kahin dur jaye
bedardi kabse padaa mere pichhe bahiya pakad ke jabardasti khinche
lapak jhapak ki ladiyan mein ladiyan mein bada maja aaye rajaiya mein
haan saiya ke sath madhaiya mein madhaiya mein bada maja aaye rajaiya mein
najuk badi hai jawani ki dori najuk badi hai jawani ki dori maane na kehna badi jora jori
nas nas me masti chadhe haule haule mausam suhana jiya mora dole
jab jugnu chamke talaiya me Talaiya mein bada maja aaye rajaiya mein saiya ke sath madhaiya mein madhaiya me bada maja aaye rajaiya mein
tut gayi chudi kalaiya mein kalaiya mein tut gayi chudi kalaiya mein kalaiyan mein bada maja aaye rajaiya mein
saiya ke sath madhaiya mein madhaiya me bada maja aaye rajaiya mein
haan bada maja aaye rajaiya me bada maja aaye rajaiya mein

8th mein aaya tha coding ka shauk. Kyunki future is technology. Thoda websites mein python seekhne ki koshish ki (yt nahi tha mere paas). Kuchh khaas seekha nahi, utna junoon bhi nahi tha seekhne ka. Socha koi na, mains clear, adv clear, IIT-B CSE -> Harvard -> Google. 10th ke baad socha tha IIIT-H jaunga, CSE se placement hoga kahi, andha paisa. Mera 11th 12th mein bifocal subject CS hi tha (maha hsc). Lund subject bhai. Object variable pointer function inke 34 prakaar, phir 200 symbols, functions andar lo bahar lo bulao g maro, 3-4 languages hai sabki alag masti, isme bhi code jaldi banana hai chhota banana hai dimaag lagana hai... hatt bc. Mujhe nahi karna ye.
Lekin jaise jee gaya hai (27s1 89%ile, 6s1 118) cse toh vaise bhi nahi milne wala. Socha ece kar lunga. Mujhe uska bhi khaas pata nahi, par cse se zyada bearable hai (ye bhi tha 11th 12th mein hume). Mujhe interest hai research, art, chemistry, linguistics etc. Lekin inka scope hi nahi hai yaha. Dost bola graphic designer ban ja... vo kamate kaha hai.
main kya karu ab? mhtcet ka prep toh chal hi raha hai.

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For me, Shaan's ten songs would be:

1. Dastaan-E-Om Shanti Om
2. Jab Se Tere Naina, mere nainon se lage re
3. Chaand Sifarish
4. Behti Hawa sa tha woh
5. Tere Naina Maar Hi Daalenge
6. All izz well
7. Aaj unse milna hai hame / Murli ki taanon si
8. Bum Bum Bole Masti Me dole
9. Chaar Kadam bas Chaar Kadam Chal do na saath mere
10. Tanha dil

What would you replace in this list?

Iike in today's Eidi vlog, he was taunting ammi ki pehli bar paise Dene k liye excited dekha h..
Uske baad ammi k face par camera dal dal k har ek ki eidi ka amount puch rha tha..ammi was completely looking uncomfortable and she didn't want to reveal on camera..
But janab forced her to speak up and then she told that eidi amount for janab is 2000 rs.
Though ammi gave only 1000 rs to dabba for eidi. Which actually shows that ammi and saba's bond has more understanding and warmth..
Ammi knows that dabba would completely understand why she couldn't give her more..
I think she was running out of cash or something or maybe ammi also had to massage janab's ego that he deserves more eidi than dabba..
But she couldn't dare to give janab less eidi because she knows that janab ka muh ban jayega
Janab Masti usko bolte h jisme dono side se Masti ho.. usko Masti nhi bolte jisme ek jana chhichorapan krre or dusra jana dara sehma khada rhe.
Masti wo hoti h jo dabba and ammi krte h..jisme ammi dabba ko on-camera Kai bar suna deti h ya daant deti h but she doesn't mind..
Janab aap pehle thodi maturity lao...dimag me gobar bhara hua h..