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2015.11.29 18:55 This is my life meow

Cats accepting their lives.
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2019.01.16 18:27 Kowalski-FishingTV Fishing memes

A meme community dedicated to most amazing sport in the world: FISHING!
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2014.05.30 23:37 indieheadscirclejerk

Reddit? What are you some kind of loser? https://youtu.be/9FLRHejWAo8
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2024.05.14 11:11 Hmpx98 Is my best friend being controlled? Is this normal behaviour?

My best friend and I have been close since school so for around 10 years now, we’ve seen eachother through a couple of awful relationships, been in single girl phases and spent pretty much every weekend together. Until we both got into relationships again, we don’t see eachother as much anymore which is fine we’re both busy.
Unfortunately my friend was coerced to move in with her long term boyfriend, as his tenancy was coming to an end and he insisted she joined him on his next one, and if she didn’t he’d of been really upset. She exclusively told me that she’d love to live with a friend before a boy, but that she couldn’t do this because he’d be upset.
This is now a theme in their relationship, they live together and spend every weekend together, and eat dinner together every night. They don’t have friends over to their place, he has had a tantrum when she said I was coming over for lunch and he refused to let me come as it was ‘messy’. She can’t even go to the cinema or the gym alone, he insists that they have to do things together and she just goes along with it! She won’t see films in the cinema because HE doesn’t want to see them! He’s also said before that they can’t go to the gym seperately because they need to ‘support eachother’ and go on the journey together…every time I hear a story it’s piecing more things together in my brain and I don’t feel good about it. I can’t believe she’s actually happy and wanting to be with this person long term? He’s attended gathering at my house where I have warned her it’s just girls and no guys are attending, and then made her leave early because he was bored.
He also gets annoyed at her whenever she makes plans with me (maybe once every month) because HE wanted to have plans with her on that day too. I’ve noticed her become a shell of herself, she doesn’t take care in her appearance like she used to. She doesn’t seem happy when we meet up and he’s just smothered her entire life outside of work. I thought maybe the change was just because she’s settled down, but the stories she tells me of him getting annoyed at her for making plans with me just make me think differently…
So she fought her corner and said I don’t care if you’re annoyed at me, I want to see my friend and have a day out so I’m going to do that. We went on a road trip, I drove there and back probably around 100 miles round trip. I didn’t ask for fuel money, and I didn’t ask for money for the car park when we were there. But she didn’t even give me a ‘thank you’ or offer to contribute anything towards fuel or parking. This has left a bitter taste in my mouth, and I also hate the situation she’s in with her relationship. It’s making me not feel so loving towards her, the fact she was ungrateful and not helpful, and the fact she’s losing her personality, and not doing anything about the blood sucking man in her life. I have so much anger towards him and this situation and I want to go the fuck off on him but I can’t.
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2024.05.14 11:11 blackpp808 When do you need to shift?

I’m currently having motorcycle driving lessons but I don’t understand when to shift, especially when to down shift, when do you know you’re going the correct speed to up/down shift? Can someone explain pls
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2024.05.14 11:10 IndicationAcademic64 DCR-TRC16E camcorder. Charging, retrieving the tape.

https://imgur.com/a/3sS8fWc
Hello, techsupport community.
This is my parents’ old camcorder. I want to make it work to shoot fun videos on it. I remember turning it on like year ago, so it definitely works.
However, there are several problems. - I don’t know what kind of DC cable I need to use to turn it on. - I don’t know where to get the new battery and how to charge the battery. - Tape does not come out. When I push on the ‘push button’, tape won’t eject.
Please let me know if you would need more photos. Thanks a lot.
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2024.05.14 11:10 stargirl7777777 How do I become an agent for Crown Asia?

Hi everyone! I’m interested in becoming an agent for Crown Asia but I don’t know how. I’m also not sure if there’s a ph real estate sub here. Hope someone can help! Thank you
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2024.05.14 11:10 IcedOatCappuccino How long did you / can you exclusively breastfeed for?

My bubba is 5.5 months and is EBF, I have no intention of starting him on solids any time soon. No particular reason, I just don’t want to 🤷🏽‍♀️ how long did you EBF your baby or how long can you before you should introduce food?
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2024.05.14 11:10 Femboy_Yugioh 26[M4M]Texas/USA-Femboy looking for a serious connection/let’s be nerdy!

Just A femboy looking for a serious ltr , so I’ll get to the point 🤗. I’m not here for the games , or ghosting . I’m here for something long term. Dating apps don’t work for me sadly.
Located: Texas . Willing to move to another state or have my future partner live with me .
Appearance :
A thick black femboy who loves dressing up sometimes . Height : 5’3. I wear glasses to read manga . My style is mostly goth/casual clothes from mostly anime shirts and chokers.
💙My hobbies:
🩷What im looking for in a Relationship🩷
▶️MY TYPE:
TALL (taller than my own height) , very communicative, masculine(mostly beards and body hair) gamers/anime nerds. These are just preferences not a deal breaker .
✅Ps: for compatibility reasons I’m a 100% bottom.
If you made it this far, please message me an introduction about yourself. This is extremely important as it tells me alot about you and for me to give you a well detailed response. Mostly a name to call you , hobbies, location (state wise) and what you’re looking for . You may send pics in the first message if you may like 😊
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2024.05.14 11:10 pgproductionshd Need Help: One of My Spotlight Plus Cameras Won’t Connect to WiFi

Hello everyone,
I purchased three Spotlight Plus cameras last Black Friday and got them all set up just before Christmas. They were functioning flawlessly until March 19, 2024. As of now, two of the cameras are still working perfectly, but the third one can’t connect to the WiFi anymore.
Here’s what I’ve tried so far:
My WiFi is working perfectly, and the signal strength is strong. I’ve restarted my WiFi router numerous times with no success in resolving the issue. I also tried restarting the problematic camera by unplugging and replugging it multiple times. I removed the camera from the Ring app, performed a factory reset, and then added it back. However, it still shows stuck at the 19/03/2024 screen. Does anyone have any tips or has anyone faced a similar issue? I’d appreciate any advice or suggestions you could provide!
Thank you in advance!
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2024.05.14 11:10 Spider_Girl-2451 Is “I like your wig” a compliment?

I’ve been wearing this bright purple wig for a few months now. It makes me feel pretty and it’s now kind of my signature look?? I get compliments on it. I feel gorgeous in it.
A couple days ago, at same friend’s party, I was nervous about seeing her and was planning on avoiding her. She said, “Hey, I love the wig 😊” and I politely said thank you and hugged her. It felt kinda awkward though. I don’t know. Is it weird that she said “wig” instead of “hair”?
Idk if she has the right intentions lol or am I just overthinking?
Background: There’s this girl who I feel I have an issue with but I’m not sure. It’s a long story and I don’t know if just in my head. She gives off this vibe like she secretly doesn’t like me. I swear, she treats me differently than everyone else and I confronted her about it but she continues to treat me differently. I keep wondering what is wrong me. I am always respectful and friendly towards her. We have a lot in common and I wanted to be friends but she didn’t seem interested. She acts excited and open to others but not me.
I caught her once staring me up and down.
She always has such amazing stories to tell but when I share or just attention happens to come to me, she stares seriously and acts quiet than usual. She’s usually loud and open. Idk if just in my head but that’s the vibe I get.
I ended up stopped trying so hard to be her friend so at a friend’s party after not seeing her for a while, I ignored her presence as if she was just another face in the crowd. It’s almost like she could tell I was. When she first saw me, she just kept STARING dead at me. The first thing that popped in my head was she didn’t expect or want me there. I acted like I didn’t give a fuck and was in my element. I ended up unfollowing her on social media because I didn’t want to follow someone who doesn’t seem interested in being friends with me.
There was a time I was at same friend’s gathering a while back. I forgot stupidly what day my friend’s birthday was and the girl was right behind us staring dead at us as if she was hyper focused and interrupted after I asked when friend’s birthday was. She immediately interrupted saying, “MARCH 2! IM ALREADY PLANNING IT 😠” as if she thought I was thinking of planning a birthday for her…
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2024.05.14 11:10 Truth-or-Death1988 There Will Be Trouble and Calamity for Everyone Who Keeps on Doing What Is Evil

Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the Lord and depart from evil. It will be health to your flesh, And strength to your bones. - Proverbs 3:7-8
For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. - Ephesians 5:5
To whom shall I speak and give warning,
That they may hear?
Indeed their ear is uncircumcised,
And they cannot give heed.
Behold, the word of the Lord is a reproach to them;
They have no delight in it. – Jeremiah 6:10
“There is no fear of God before their eyes.” - Romans 3:18
The fear of the LORD leads to life, And he who has it will abide in satisfaction; He will not be visited with evil. - Proverbs 19:23
The fear of God is what leads to life, and this is why there are so many passages both in the OT and the NT which are meant to impart that fear of God into us. But the modern church seemingly sees the fear of God as a reproach to them, indeed they seem to only talk about the free gift, but also seem to reject that gift.
For God has not called us to live in sin. He has called us to live a holy life
Therefore he who rejects this does not reject man, but God, who has also given us His Holy Spirit. – I Thessalonians 4:7-8
Anyone who continues to live in him will not sin. But anyone who keeps on sinning does not know him or understand who he is.
Dear children, don’t let anyone deceive you about this: When people do what is right, it shows that they are righteous, even as Christ is righteous. But when people keep on sinning, it shows that they belong to the devil, who has been sinning since the beginning. But the Son of God came to destroy the works of the devil. Those who have been born into God’s family do not make a practice of sinning, because God’s life is in them. So they can’t keep on sinning, because they are children of God.
So now we can tell who are children of God and who are children of the devil. Anyone who does not live righteously and does not love other believers does not belong to God. - I John 3:6-10
The churches should be imparting the fear of God into the wicked, so that they may turn from the ways of death and truly begin to know Jesus Christ. But they only seem to preach that which fills seats and wallets, as scripture warned us about:
But there were also false prophets in Israel, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will cleverly teach destructive heresies and even deny the Master who bought them. In this way, they will bring sudden destruction on themselves.
Many will follow their evil teaching and shameful immorality. And because of these teachers, the way of truth will be slandered.
In their greed they will make up clever lies to get hold of your money. But God condemned them long ago, and their destruction will not be delayed. – II Peter 2:1-3
Rather than fear God and convey that to others, they come up with every high-minded, theological retort that they can possibly think of in an effort to rid themselves of the very thing that leads to life.
‘For among My people are found wicked men;
They lie in wait as one who sets snares;
They set a trap;
They catch men.
As a cage is full of birds,
So their houses are full of deceit.
Therefore they have become great and grown rich.
They have grown fat, they are sleek;
Yes, they surpass the deeds of the wicked;
They do not plead the cause,
The cause of the fatherless;
Yet they prosper,
And the right of the needy they do not defend.
Shall I not punish them for these things?’ says the Lord.
‘Shall I not avenge Myself on such a nation as this?’
“An astonishing and horrible thing
Has been committed in the land:
The prophets prophesy falsely,
And the priests rule by their own power;
And My people love to have it so.
But what will you do in the end? – Jeremiah 5:26-31
“Behold, you trust in lying words that cannot profit.
Will you steal, murder, commit adultery, swear falsely, burn incense to Baal, and walk after other gods whom you do not know,
and then come and stand before Me in this house which is called by My name, and say, ‘We are delivered to do all these abominations’?
Has this house, which is called by My name, become a den of thieves in your eyes? Behold, I, even I, have seen it,” says the Lord. – Jeremiah 7:8-11
“Therefore you shall speak all these words to them, but they will not obey you. You shall also call to them, but they will not answer you.
“So you shall say to them, ‘This is a nation that does not obey the voice of the Lord their God nor receive correction. Truth has perished and has been cut off from their mouth. – Jeremiah 7:27-28
But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty,
lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away!
For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. Now as Jannes and Jambres resisted Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, disapproved concerning the faith; but they will progress no further, for their folly will be manifest to all, as theirs also was. - I Timothy 3:3-9
What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun. - Ecclesiastes 1:9
Timothy was told to rebuke those who sin in the presence of all so that the rest may fear (I Timothy 5:20), but many leaders in modern churches seek to comfort the wicked in their sin instead. Comfort should be given to those who are remorseful for their sins, not to those who need a swift rebuke before they perish in their sins.
But what are souls compared to dollars these days?
Shall I not punish them for these things?’ says the Lord.
‘Shall I not avenge Myself on such a nation as this?’ - Jeremiah 5:10
For the congregation of hypocrites shall be desolate, and fire shall consume the tabernacles of bribery. - Job 15:34
I truly hope that even those who take part in turning people away from the way of life will repent, and soon.
The Lord Almighty says that disaster is coming on one nation after another, and a great storm is gathering at the far ends of the earth. On that day the bodies of those whom the Lord has killed will lie scattered from one end of the earth to the other. No one will mourn for them, and they will not be taken away and buried. They will lie on the ground like piles of manure.
Cry, you leaders, you shepherds of my people, cry out loud! Mourn and roll in the dust. The time has come for you to be slaughtered, and you will be butchered like rams. There will be no way for you to escape. You moan and cry out in distress because the Lord in his anger has destroyed your nation and left your peaceful country in ruins. The Lord has abandoned his people like a lion that leaves its cave. The horrors of war and the Lord's fierce anger have turned the country into a desert. - Jeremiah 25:32-38
To think that God treated His first love in such a way over their wickedness, but will spare this lukewarm, money-hungry monstrosity for doing the same things is utterly insane.
But because you are stubborn and refuse to turn from your sin, you are storing up terrible punishment for yourself. For a day of anger is coming, when God’s righteous judgment will be revealed. He will judge everyone according to what they have done. He will give eternal life to those who keep on doing good, seeking after the glory and honor and immortality that God offers. But he will pour out his anger and wrath on those who live for themselves, who refuse to obey the truth and instead live lives of wickedness.
There will be trouble and calamity for everyone who keeps on doing what is evil—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile. But there will be glory and honor and peace from God for all who do good—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile. For God does not show favoritism. - Romans 2:5-11
God does not change. When the people who are supposed to be His are the ones leading others to hell, His fury is just, and it will be vented.
Be watchful, and strengthen the things which remain, that are ready to die, for I have not found your works perfect before God. Remember therefore how you have received and heard; hold fast and repent. Therefore if you will not watch, I will come upon you as a thief, and you will not know what hour I will come upon you. - Revelation 3:2-3
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2024.05.14 11:10 Long_Independent_287 It’s 5 AM Tuesday— I having a panic attack

Please help for WHAP. It is in about 27 hours. What do I study? I’m going to cram Heimler’s history YouTube videos (taking notes), memorizing those notes. Then, I will borrow my friends’ textbook notes, memorizing anything NOT in Heimler’s History. After, I will watch all the college board videos, taking notes on what I don’t already know (while reviewing other materials). Then, I will do practice MCQs,SAQs,DBQs,and LEQs. What should I do with the 6-8 hours I have remaining?
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2024.05.14 11:09 Truth-or-Death1988 There Will Be Trouble and Calamity for Everyone Who Keeps on Doing What Is Evil

Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the Lord and depart from evil. It will be health to your flesh, And strength to your bones. - Proverbs 3:7-8
For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. - Ephesians 5:5
To whom shall I speak and give warning,
That they may hear?
Indeed their ear is uncircumcised,
And they cannot give heed.
Behold, the word of the Lord is a reproach to them;
They have no delight in it. – Jeremiah 6:10
“There is no fear of God before their eyes.” - Romans 3:18
The fear of the LORD leads to life, And he who has it will abide in satisfaction; He will not be visited with evil. - Proverbs 19:23
The fear of God is what leads to life, and this is why there are so many passages both in the OT and the NT which are meant to impart that fear of God into us. But the modern church seemingly sees the fear of God as a reproach to them, indeed they seem to only talk about the free gift, but also seem to reject that gift.
For God has not called us to live in sin. He has called us to live a holy life
Therefore he who rejects this does not reject man, but God, who has also given us His Holy Spirit. – I Thessalonians 4:7-8
Anyone who continues to live in him will not sin. But anyone who keeps on sinning does not know him or understand who he is.
Dear children, don’t let anyone deceive you about this: When people do what is right, it shows that they are righteous, even as Christ is righteous. But when people keep on sinning, it shows that they belong to the devil, who has been sinning since the beginning. But the Son of God came to destroy the works of the devil. Those who have been born into God’s family do not make a practice of sinning, because God’s life is in them. So they can’t keep on sinning, because they are children of God.
So now we can tell who are children of God and who are children of the devil. Anyone who does not live righteously and does not love other believers does not belong to God. - I John 3:6-10
The churches should be imparting the fear of God into the wicked, so that they may turn from the ways of death and truly begin to know Jesus Christ. But they only seem to preach that which fills seats and wallets, as scripture warned us about:
But there were also false prophets in Israel, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will cleverly teach destructive heresies and even deny the Master who bought them. In this way, they will bring sudden destruction on themselves.
Many will follow their evil teaching and shameful immorality. And because of these teachers, the way of truth will be slandered.
In their greed they will make up clever lies to get hold of your money. But God condemned them long ago, and their destruction will not be delayed. – II Peter 2:1-3
Rather than fear God and convey that to others, they come up with every high-minded, theological retort that they can possibly think of in an effort to rid themselves of the very thing that leads to life.
‘For among My people are found wicked men;
They lie in wait as one who sets snares;
They set a trap;
They catch men.
As a cage is full of birds,
So their houses are full of deceit.
Therefore they have become great and grown rich.
They have grown fat, they are sleek;
Yes, they surpass the deeds of the wicked;
They do not plead the cause,
The cause of the fatherless;
Yet they prosper,
And the right of the needy they do not defend.
Shall I not punish them for these things?’ says the Lord.
‘Shall I not avenge Myself on such a nation as this?’
“An astonishing and horrible thing
Has been committed in the land:
The prophets prophesy falsely,
And the priests rule by their own power;
And My people love to have it so.
But what will you do in the end? – Jeremiah 5:26-31
“Behold, you trust in lying words that cannot profit.
Will you steal, murder, commit adultery, swear falsely, burn incense to Baal, and walk after other gods whom you do not know,
and then come and stand before Me in this house which is called by My name, and say, ‘We are delivered to do all these abominations’?
Has this house, which is called by My name, become a den of thieves in your eyes? Behold, I, even I, have seen it,” says the Lord. – Jeremiah 7:8-11
“Therefore you shall speak all these words to them, but they will not obey you. You shall also call to them, but they will not answer you.
“So you shall say to them, ‘This is a nation that does not obey the voice of the Lord their God nor receive correction. Truth has perished and has been cut off from their mouth. – Jeremiah 7:27-28
But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty,
lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away!
For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. Now as Jannes and Jambres resisted Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, disapproved concerning the faith; but they will progress no further, for their folly will be manifest to all, as theirs also was. - I Timothy 3:3-9
What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun. - Ecclesiastes 1:9
Timothy was told to rebuke those who sin in the presence of all so that the rest may fear (I Timothy 5:20), but many leaders in modern churches seek to comfort the wicked in their sin instead. Comfort should be given to those who are remorseful for their sins, not to those who need a swift rebuke before they perish in their sins.
But what are souls compared to dollars these days?
Shall I not punish them for these things?’ says the Lord.
‘Shall I not avenge Myself on such a nation as this?’ - Jeremiah 5:10
For the congregation of hypocrites shall be desolate, and fire shall consume the tabernacles of bribery. - Job 15:34
I truly hope that even those who take part in turning people away from the way of life will repent, and soon.
The Lord Almighty says that disaster is coming on one nation after another, and a great storm is gathering at the far ends of the earth. On that day the bodies of those whom the Lord has killed will lie scattered from one end of the earth to the other. No one will mourn for them, and they will not be taken away and buried. They will lie on the ground like piles of manure.
Cry, you leaders, you shepherds of my people, cry out loud! Mourn and roll in the dust. The time has come for you to be slaughtered, and you will be butchered like rams. There will be no way for you to escape. You moan and cry out in distress because the Lord in his anger has destroyed your nation and left your peaceful country in ruins. The Lord has abandoned his people like a lion that leaves its cave. The horrors of war and the Lord's fierce anger have turned the country into a desert. - Jeremiah 25:32-38
To think that God treated His first love in such a way over their wickedness, but will spare this lukewarm, money-hungry monstrosity for doing the same things is utterly insane.
But because you are stubborn and refuse to turn from your sin, you are storing up terrible punishment for yourself. For a day of anger is coming, when God’s righteous judgment will be revealed. He will judge everyone according to what they have done. He will give eternal life to those who keep on doing good, seeking after the glory and honor and immortality that God offers. But he will pour out his anger and wrath on those who live for themselves, who refuse to obey the truth and instead live lives of wickedness.
There will be trouble and calamity for everyone who keeps on doing what is evil—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile. But there will be glory and honor and peace from God for all who do good—for the Jew first and also for the Gentile. For God does not show favoritism. - Romans 2:5-11
God does not change. When the people who are supposed to be His are the ones leading others to hell, His fury is just, and it will be vented.
Be watchful, and strengthen the things which remain, that are ready to die, for I have not found your works perfect before God. Remember therefore how you have received and heard; hold fast and repent. Therefore if you will not watch, I will come upon you as a thief, and you will not know what hour I will come upon you. - Revelation 3:2-3
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2024.05.14 11:09 aeronauticalingrid AITA if I refuse to take care of my financially irresponsible father in his old age

My mum married my broke father on the premise of his ‘potential’ - surprise surprise potential is only of value when it translates into reality. She also foolishly choose to be a housewife and birth 3 kids which definitely didn’t make things any better.
Both of them argued a lot about money when my siblings and I were growing up, often shouting at us that it was our fault they were poor because of having to provide for us. (I mean that’s what you sign up for when you choose to have kids?)
They’re both now old (mid 60s) and still poor by my dad’s foolish financial decisions - whenever he would come into any little money as a sales agent, he would immediately go out and spend it on dumb things (just some of the examples are when he bought a car to donate to charity, or fruit baskets for the entire neighbourhood) just so he can bask in admiration of others and appear as successful and generous rather than saving and investing in tangible assets. He’s been heavily in debt all his life, bankrupt twice, and still hasn’t learnt his lesson.
My pitiful mother is reliant on him to throw any little pennies her way, and he does so while sneering at her for not dressing better nor beautifying herself for him - with what money? To go where? He has some audacity to talk when he’s fat, balding, has lost half his teeth and has his protruding belly hanging out. Although he doesn’t work now, he still orders my mum around the house ‘get me a glass of water’ ‘get me my shoes’ while he sits on the couch watching TV all day.
I’ve told myself that when my dad starts to deteriorate, he’s on his own cos I couldn’t care less. After all, if he’s not even bothered to have the initiative for himself, why should anybody else.
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2024.05.14 11:09 KimchiKarma Period stopped and then started again three days later?

I’m 21F and I have always had regular cycles. I took birth control (pill) in high school but stopped after a couple of months, so I haven’t been on it in a few years. My periods usually last 5-6 days, but this last cycle was from May 3-8. During this time my boyfriend came to visit and we had sex and I took a plan B, he left on the 8th but then I started my period again on the 11th. It’s not heavy or light, it’s a regular flow. I don’t really know what’s going on, I have never had period sex until recently and I took a plan B so I’m thinking that this may have caused it, but I’m also scared it might indicate something more serious. This has never happened to me before so any thoughts or experiences would be appreciated, thank you!
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2024.05.14 11:09 Krymianic Doing a CPU vs CPU career mode, in this particular match against Millwall, my team decided to score 6 goals in the first half, and completely ghosted in the second half.

Doing a CPU vs CPU career mode, in this particular match against Millwall, my team decided to score 6 goals in the first half, and completely ghosted in the second half.
The title and images explain themselves.
And also, if you happen to know, why and how does this occur, because I don’t, mind telling me!
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2024.05.14 11:08 DryWaltz6621 I’m excited for 3 too but I’m scared they’re gonna mess it up…

I’ve loved Downton abbey for nearly a decade and I can’t be the only one who liked the first Downton abbey movie significantly more than the second one. The first one just felt like a special - not too much changed from the end of the show but Tom found a new love interest, Thomas got a “happy ending” and majorly all the characters were allowed happiness that didn’t deviate to much from a normal follow-up to the end of the show. However, now that Violet’s gone, Thomas is supposedly gone, Mary has admitted that her relationship with her husband will never mirror her past one, Cora & Robert are thriving and not dying, and Tom has a complete family, I really don’t know what’s left for them to do? And I’m scared it’ll deviate so extremely from the end of the show and beyond the character’s endings that it’ll change everything for the worse. Does anyone else feel this way?? If so, what are you most worried about them messing up? :,)
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2024.05.14 11:08 OutsideScore990 Large momma and ~6-7 wk old juvenile trapped on my balcony and no longer have a nest. How can I help?

I live on the 12th/top floor of my apartment. Today I noticed a very large squirrel chewing my wicker bench for nesting material. She kept running to the opposite side of my balcony. She’s a black squirrel, but you can see big pink splotches on her sides. I assume these are her nipples and that she’s still nursing? A much smaller squirrel, which I assume is around 7 weeks old, was following her back and forth.
My partner thinks she accidentally disturbed their nest when she was cleaning on the balcony yesterday. Tbh it’s kind of a mess out there, so it makes sense that she wouldn’t have noticed (depression sucks). She didn’t remove anything though.
Momma can usually climb the brick outside our building, but I don’t know if she can right now. She’s so so fat and she honestly looked exhausted today. (She kept taking breaks and laying down in one of her usual spots under a bench). I don’t think baby can climb either. So they’re stuck on my balcony.
I put out some shelled/unsalted peanuts, an apple, water, and some of my guinea pig’s orchard grass hay (she loved this) for nest material.
Normally I wouldn’t feed her at all, but I’m worried that she doesn’t have a way to access food right now.
Taking her to a wildlife rehab is a possibility - but what if I can’t trap her and baby at the same time? Plus I feel some responsibility here because I think we ruined her nest and maybe her stash and I don’t know if she can get food on her own
I don’t want to acclimate her to humans, but I’m really at a loss for how to help her or if what I’m doing is okay. I’m pretty sure my neighbors are feeding her and I don’t know if she knows how to live off a high rise.
My wife has volunteered with wildlife rehab and has experience, but we’re really unsure about how to proceed
Any and all advice is seriously appreciated.
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2024.05.14 11:08 Stock_Bar5551 Question about residuals

Hi everybody,
First post! I have a question related to a small residual check I receive every year for a co-star role I had on a netflix show a few years back. I am no longer acting full time, nor do I live in the US anymore (I moved to the UK). I get a check once a year of about USD 300-400. This is great obviously, except it makes my tax situation extremely complicated. I now have California income every year, which means I need to file a CA state return (I wouldn't otherwise, not having any other CA-sourced income), plus that counts as foreign income as far as the UK tax authorities are concerned (not a huge deal, but still something to be cognizant of).
My question is -- and I can't believe I'm asking this -- *is there a way for me to ask to stop receiving these checks*? After manageagent fees (not more than 50 ish), taxes, and tax software for filing state return is taken out, I am left with barely USD 100, which is not worth the time it takes to manage this headache.
I would imagine there isn't, because my manager is obviously entitled to a portion of this income going forward. It's basically a nice dinner every year for her at this point.
Does anybody have any advice on how to proceed?
Thank you!
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2024.05.14 11:08 TheNSA922 Dating

Alright so I’m a 26 year old straight guy and I’d like some advice or just experiences with dating. Doesn’t have to be men, all advice is greatly appreciated.
Basically I don’t get many dates for a variety of reasons including EDS symptoms. But when I do it’s always awkward because often we’ll do something and I get fatigued fairly easily which leads to them being confused or irritated that a fairly young person has to take a break every now and then while doing something like going for a short hike or a walk through a large park etc.
I also have issues with sex, specifically that simply being in certain positions fucking hurts and saying so usually leads to the same irritation that taking a break elsewhere might.
I should also mention I’m very socially awkward and don’t really know what to say when, often talking about very specific topics a date would likely have no clue what I’m talking about. I am currently seeing a psychiatrist for social and general anxiety who is also working as my therapist which it’s super helpful for it to be the same person. We can talk about medications and such and he can prescribe things unlike a licensed therapist.
Anyway, more background, I’ve never had a serious or even friends with benefits relationship. It’s always been a date, sometimes sex afterward which I in no way expect, it’s a nice bonus though, and then we usually never do anything again.
I know a lot of this is me, I kissed a girl for the first time and lost my virginity when I was 22. I don’t really put myself out there and have a hard time with “selling” myself. I’m rambling at this point.
To sum this up, what do other people with EDS and crippling social anxiety do to find a partner? I may be an extreme introvert but I also have a strong desire for a romantic relationship and it sucks.
Thank you all in advance.
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2024.05.14 11:07 poder100 Hello!

I joined a pool with coins I already had. The pool have really high APR at the moment. How can I see if my LP is growing? It should be growing really fast. I get some emission fee in aero etc that I can collect but they are not high. I also don’t really get the staking bit? How can you see the APR on that part? I mean is it sufficient to just join a pool and get the pool APR or do you have to stake it as well? And if the pool have really high APR is it better to just pool an LP without staking it? I watched some videos about Aerodrome but none of them got into this pooling and staking. I have just used Trader Joe before and they mainly just have pools atm no staking and there I can easily see how many $ I collected per day in the pools I have- even though they are auto compounded. Thankfull for any enlightenment on the issue! Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.14 11:07 AWannaBeZ Need friends for all Vivillon please!

Please add! Active player, sends gifts daily, hunting for XP, and will send gifts daily until max gifts sent! Need Friends that send gifts daily, all requests welcome but if you are in any of the following regions in which I can get help getting a Vivillon that I don’t have your presence is greatly appreciated!
Friend code: 758990202557 (CtownMF)
Vivillon needed (Regions):
If you have read this far you are greatly appreciated!! If you do add me please comment below where you’re from, your favorite pokemon and why! Would love to hear all the feedback if any! Thank you for your time ❤️
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2024.05.14 11:07 Primary_Interview585 My(26F) Partner (25M) is unsupportive of me working, what do I do?

Hello, my partner and I have 3 children together ages 5, 3 and 1.
As a mother, it is difficult for me to find and sustain work as I don’t have childcare for my youngest, I left my long standing Job in August of 2023 as they were refusing to be flexible and understanding of my circumstances. I then acquired another job in November 2023 but this wasn’t sustainable for me as it was around the clock constant and I didn’t have the energy for it.
My partner is self employed, I would say he has a lot of flexibility as he chooses his own schedule, however I would say I don’t know what his set schedule is because he chops and changes it.
Since not having a job I’ve been struggling financially, I pay all the bills in our home and he pays for the grocery shopping. I am in a large amount of debt that I’ve accumulated over the years due to poor money management because of either depression or my diagnosed ADHD (I am working on this) so the little money I do get from the government mainly goes towards that
I couldn’t tell you how much my partner earns, or if he is comfortably earning money, he does not share this with me openly. He could be broke. He could be loaded.
My long standing job I had to leave because he refused to be with our youngest for an extra day, which is what they wanted from me, he would also routinely ‘threaten’ not to be look after our child so that I could work whenever we had a disagreement and he didn’t like how I was acting.
I’ve recently acquired a job nearby which is incredibly convenient for me ! I am so happy, it doesn’t pay the best but it’s something! I sensed he wasn’t that excited about it, didn’t really celebrate with me at all.
Last night we both went to sleep late, I don’t usually, but I did yesterday, because I was up with him, I see he wasn’t doing any work at all, he was watching YouTube videos and just like every other morning, I was alone getting the kids ready and making breakfast whilst he slept in. I’ve expressed to him how upset this makes me to no avail, he will sleep in whenever he wants. I will say that when I am ill he will get up and be with the kids ( provided we didn’t argue leading up to me asking him to)
I woke him up this morning after I had taken my eldest to school, he got out of the bed 20 mins later, came into the living room said hi to our kids and went back into the bedroom, in bed on his phone, I went in and asked him ‘is this what you do? Just get out of bed and go back in on your phone?’ I can admit it was pure frustration but I can’t help it sometimes.
He responds with ‘yup’ then proceeds to ask me why I woke him up, I told him I’ve already expressed how him sleeping in every single day makes me feel, I told him that his behaviour is not working for me and after a bit of back and forth he then got irate and said ‘WHATEVER’ like a pre-teen and I then told him to ‘act like a man’ to which he told me to ‘act like a woman’ He believes women should be doormats basically , from what I have gathered. Anytime a speak up whether it’s ‘gentle’ (his alleged preferred tone) or harsh he will react the same way MOST of the time.
He then said ‘Carry on and we’ll see what happens’ this was a direct threat to my job, he was saying if I didn’t stop calling him out he will not be here to look after our youngest so I can work.
I haven’t even started yet. He threatened me for my first day.
He has shared with me he thinks me working is a waste of time and wants me to be with the kids mainly, he says it takes away from him working , claims he can earn more money than I make in a day. The problem is whether this is true or not I don’t see the money like how I should. He doesn’t give me money at all unless I practically beg and convince him. Doesn’t pay the bills as mentioned before and generally is very very stingy.
How do I go about this? He is my only form of childcare for my daughter and I feel stuck on what to do.
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