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2024.05.15 17:59 constantly_frosty60 I’ve been confused about my sexuality for ages now I’m thinking I might be demisexual.
I’m female I considered myself straight up until about 14 when I watched oitnb and thought the lesbian relationships were hot. I then started finding women hot and thought I was an attracted to them too but as time went on I have become unsure about my sexuality.
I have a boyfriend and know I’m attracted to him. I look at him and I want to have sex with him. We have had this conversation a few times where he will point out a girl is is hot and I asked him if he just noticed random women on the street are hot and wants to have sex with them and he said yes. This is fine with me but when I told him I never really notice hot guys when out or imagine having sex with them he almost didn’t believe me, he was like “yeah sure” but I don’t.
Sometimes I will notice a guy and think “oh yeah he is nice” but if think about even touching him I feel uncoformtable. I also check out women a lot but it’s more in a way of “yeah she looks nice I like her curves” then again imagining being with them I’m not interested. I will however imagine hot people I see having sex with other people just not me.
When I have fantasied about people in the past it’s been characters of tv shows or ones I have made up. If I fantasied about the celebrity I’m uncomfortable. I would normally create a whole story and think mostly about the parts leading up to the sex than the actual act. I have watched porn in the past but over time found it made me uncomfortable so stopped and prefer my imagination which is usual just thinking about my boyfriend. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 20, my boyfriend when we were getting to know each other didn’t even mention sex and think that helped. I was desperate to lose it but then again had loads of chances before and never did. I put it down to social anxiety but now thinking about it I just don’t think I’d ever have a casual thing, even though sometimes I feel like maybe I could or I missed out.
So yeah I don’t know I stay awake at night sometimes thinking about it all and wondering if there is something wrong with me.
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I have a boyfriend and know I’m attracted to him. I look at him and I want to have sex with him. We have had this conversation a few times where he will point out a girl is is hot and I asked him if he just noticed random women on the street are hot and wants to have sex with them and he said yes. This is fine with me but when I told him I never really notice hot guys when out or imagine having sex with them he almost didn’t believe me, he was like “yeah sure” but I don’t.
Sometimes I will notice a guy and think “oh yeah he is nice” but if think about even touching him I feel uncoformtable. I also check out women a lot but it’s more in a way of “yeah she looks nice I like her curves” then again imagining being with them I’m not interested. I will however imagine hot people I see having sex with other people just not me.
When I have fantasied about people in the past it’s been characters of tv shows or ones I have made up. If I fantasied about the celebrity I’m uncomfortable. I would normally create a whole story and think mostly about the parts leading up to the sex than the actual act. I have watched porn in the past but over time found it made me uncomfortable so stopped and prefer my imagination which is usual just thinking about my boyfriend. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 20, my boyfriend when we were getting to know each other didn’t even mention sex and think that helped. I was desperate to lose it but then again had loads of chances before and never did. I put it down to social anxiety but now thinking about it I just don’t think I’d ever have a casual thing, even though sometimes I feel like maybe I could or I missed out.
So yeah I don’t know I stay awake at night sometimes thinking about it all and wondering if there is something wrong with me.
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2024.05.15 17:51 UpsetWay8 There was so many signs that AK was obviously lying and tryna spin the narrative in his favor.
 | Nobody who is speaking truthfully, has to say "I'm not gonna lie" as many times as he did. submitted by UpsetWay8 to DJAkademiks [link] [comments] A clear sign he was lying, he kept providing irrelevant information when telling this story, nobody needed to know you have a mansion or how big your pool is. Just deflection from the main point. Also, if he was completely innocent and has nothing to hide like he claims, why would he conveniently leave out the fact that he had sex with her that night as well? And if he was so sure it was consenual, why would he feel the need to ask her the next morning if she was ok with everything that happened? He obviously felt something happened and some type of guilt so he was checking the temperature. AK is a sick individual, his whole argument was he was sleeping when the rape occurred. I believe it's more likely that he was awake and watched the whole thing happen in real time on his security cam and just pretended to be asleep to not be held accountable. Lastly, this sick mf told her she should get tested for stds bc his boys fucked her raw but AK thinks it was a smart idea to fuck her raw right after them? |
2024.05.15 17:37 cylluxx an erotic romance novel in a medieval setting with a traumatized protagonist and an angry male lead
I’ve read this book pretty much a decade ago, so i don’t remember much about the story, only a couple facts from the start of the book
So, if I’m not mistaken, the MC is a girl married to an abusive nobleman who messed her up, gave her hell and made her think that sex was something scary, always painful
then, i don’t remember how exactly she escapes his clutches but i think one day she has had enough and attacks him and kills him? almost kills him? something like that? and i think there’s something about an escape through the window, but i might be wrong, im not sure
well, following up she meets the ML and i’m pretty sure his name is Gabriel (don’t take that as the absolute truth, my brain might be misleading me) and I think he, at first, goes looking for MC because she may or may not have something to do with the fact his family was ruined, or his brother’s death, honestly I’m not sure which, but I think that’s how they come to meet… I know this is vague, but I think it starts off as some sort of revenge on his part, only he ends up not being able to kill her for some reason. An enemies-to-lovers sort of trope?
Also, i clearly remember a scene in a lake where they swim naked and basically fuck in the water? and she’s scared, because she thinks it will hurt but it ends up being good and all that
after that they go their separate ways or she runs away, not sure also, maybe something about the fact he’s not a noble or he’s a mercenary and kinda rough around the edges, but she ends up pregnant because of their lake shenanigans
thing is, he is in love with her and goes about searching for her, untill eventually he finds her and brings her and their child to his castle which he gained by, idk, being a mercenary or some shit, and he lives there with his men, kinda like Riftan from the novel/manhwa Under the Oak Tree, the vibe is actually crazy similar, although this book is much older
And that’s basically what I remember from this book, please can someone help me find it??
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So, if I’m not mistaken, the MC is a girl married to an abusive nobleman who messed her up, gave her hell and made her think that sex was something scary, always painful
then, i don’t remember how exactly she escapes his clutches but i think one day she has had enough and attacks him and kills him? almost kills him? something like that? and i think there’s something about an escape through the window, but i might be wrong, im not sure
well, following up she meets the ML and i’m pretty sure his name is Gabriel (don’t take that as the absolute truth, my brain might be misleading me) and I think he, at first, goes looking for MC because she may or may not have something to do with the fact his family was ruined, or his brother’s death, honestly I’m not sure which, but I think that’s how they come to meet… I know this is vague, but I think it starts off as some sort of revenge on his part, only he ends up not being able to kill her for some reason. An enemies-to-lovers sort of trope?
Also, i clearly remember a scene in a lake where they swim naked and basically fuck in the water? and she’s scared, because she thinks it will hurt but it ends up being good and all that
after that they go their separate ways or she runs away, not sure also, maybe something about the fact he’s not a noble or he’s a mercenary and kinda rough around the edges, but she ends up pregnant because of their lake shenanigans
thing is, he is in love with her and goes about searching for her, untill eventually he finds her and brings her and their child to his castle which he gained by, idk, being a mercenary or some shit, and he lives there with his men, kinda like Riftan from the novel/manhwa Under the Oak Tree, the vibe is actually crazy similar, although this book is much older
And that’s basically what I remember from this book, please can someone help me find it??
2024.05.15 17:33 Spiritual-Fee9875 Is he cheating?
Me (F, 33) and husband (M, 33) have known each other for nearly 8 years, married for 4 years. We both share a son who is turning 2. Since the start of my pregnancy, we have slept on the same bed but not had sex, at all. We could count the times we had sex in one hand.
I once talked to him about it, and he told me that we either got too tired from work or he was terrified about the idea having sex while a baby was in my stomach.
Long story short, I realised recently that he often eye-balled at massage parlours with sexual services. One night, I went through his phone and realised that he even went to facebook search A parlour nearby our home. I confronted him about it and he told me that he did think of visiting one for reasons that he was very stressed out at work and couldn't find anyone to confide in. Also, he felt that I often disregarded his feelings. When I pushed further, he told me that he was checking these parlour out of curiosity.
Is he mind-fucking me? Did he already frequent them? Did he cheating on me? I am on the verge of initiating a divorce but am at a loss on what to do next. I don't want my son to live without his father at this age. What are the repercussions if we really went through a divorce?
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I once talked to him about it, and he told me that we either got too tired from work or he was terrified about the idea having sex while a baby was in my stomach.
Long story short, I realised recently that he often eye-balled at massage parlours with sexual services. One night, I went through his phone and realised that he even went to facebook search A parlour nearby our home. I confronted him about it and he told me that he did think of visiting one for reasons that he was very stressed out at work and couldn't find anyone to confide in. Also, he felt that I often disregarded his feelings. When I pushed further, he told me that he was checking these parlour out of curiosity.
Is he mind-fucking me? Did he already frequent them? Did he cheating on me? I am on the verge of initiating a divorce but am at a loss on what to do next. I don't want my son to live without his father at this age. What are the repercussions if we really went through a divorce?
2024.05.15 17:29 cylluxx [TOMT][BOOK] a romance novel in a medieval setting with a traumatized protagonist and an angry male lead
I’ve read this book pretty much a decade ago, so i don’t remember much about the story, only a couple facts from the start of the book
So, if I’m not mistaken, the MC is a girl married to an abusive nobleman who messed her up, gave her hell and made her think that sex was something scary, always painful
then, i don’t remember how exactly she escapes his clutches but i think one day she has had enough and attacks him and kills him? almost kills him? something like that? and i think there’s something about an escape through the window, but i might be wrong, im not sure
well, following up she meets the ML and i’m pretty sure his name is Gabriel (don’t take that as the absolute truth, my brain might be misleading me) and I think he, at first, goes looking for MC because she may or may not have something to do with the fact his family was ruined, or his brother’s death, honestly I’m not sure which, but I think that’s how they come to meet… I know this is vague, but I think it starts off as some sort of revenge on his part, only he ends up not being able to kill her for some reason. An enemies-to-lovers sort of trope?
Also, i clearly remember a scene in a lake where they swim naked and basically fuck in the water? and she’s scared, because she thinks it will hurt but it ends up being good and all that
after that they go their separate ways or she runs away, not sure also, maybe something about the fact he’s not a noble or he’s a mercenary and kinda rough around the edges, but she ends up pregnant because of their lake shenanigans
thing is, he is in love with her and goes about searching for her, untill eventually he finds her and brings her and their child to his castle which he gained by, idk, being a mercenary or some shit, and he lives there with his men, kinda like Riftan from the novel/manhwa Under the Oak Tree, the vibe is actually crazy similar, although this book is much older
And that’s basically what I remember from this book, please can someone help me find it??
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So, if I’m not mistaken, the MC is a girl married to an abusive nobleman who messed her up, gave her hell and made her think that sex was something scary, always painful
then, i don’t remember how exactly she escapes his clutches but i think one day she has had enough and attacks him and kills him? almost kills him? something like that? and i think there’s something about an escape through the window, but i might be wrong, im not sure
well, following up she meets the ML and i’m pretty sure his name is Gabriel (don’t take that as the absolute truth, my brain might be misleading me) and I think he, at first, goes looking for MC because she may or may not have something to do with the fact his family was ruined, or his brother’s death, honestly I’m not sure which, but I think that’s how they come to meet… I know this is vague, but I think it starts off as some sort of revenge on his part, only he ends up not being able to kill her for some reason. An enemies-to-lovers sort of trope?
Also, i clearly remember a scene in a lake where they swim naked and basically fuck in the water? and she’s scared, because she thinks it will hurt but it ends up being good and all that
after that they go their separate ways or she runs away, not sure also, maybe something about the fact he’s not a noble or he’s a mercenary and kinda rough around the edges, but she ends up pregnant because of their lake shenanigans
thing is, he is in love with her and goes about searching for her, untill eventually he finds her and brings her and their child to his castle which he gained by, idk, being a mercenary or some shit, and he lives there with his men, kinda like Riftan from the novel/manhwa Under the Oak Tree, the vibe is actually crazy similar, although this book is much older
And that’s basically what I remember from this book, please can someone help me find it??
2024.05.15 17:29 viridian_moonflower Strongly disagree with client's take on a situation. How to proceed?
Male therapists (and others who work with a lot of men) of therapists: I am seeking your opinion! What would you do if a male client of yours was trying to convince his female partner to get an abortion? Female partner really wants the baby. They did not talk about this ahead of time and had unprotected sex, with predictable results. Female partner is also older and may not have another chance to have a baby. She is a professional and could financially care for the baby on her own, but wants him to be involved. He has said he won't abandon the child but feels like she is in the wrong for setting a boundary asking him to stop trying to convince her to terminate. He does accept responsibility for the decision making around unprotected sex, and does not believe she "trapped" him. Male client is centering his own feelings around not wanting to give up free time etc, and has said he hopes she miscarries. I feel like he is in the wrong and I am struggling to empathize so I may refer out after I consult.
How would you best approach someone in this situation? I feel like he is lacking empathy for his partner and that his position of trying to convince her to change her mind is wrong and borderline abusive. He does not see it that way. I said you have made your case to her about your wishes but this is what is happening. There is also a whole lot more to this story that I am leaving out intentionally due to confidentiality but I hope it is enough to get the picture. Am I reacting from my own bias as a woman in believing that he should step up and take responsibility and also not get in the way of her choice? Is there something I am missing?
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How would you best approach someone in this situation? I feel like he is lacking empathy for his partner and that his position of trying to convince her to change her mind is wrong and borderline abusive. He does not see it that way. I said you have made your case to her about your wishes but this is what is happening. There is also a whole lot more to this story that I am leaving out intentionally due to confidentiality but I hope it is enough to get the picture. Am I reacting from my own bias as a woman in believing that he should step up and take responsibility and also not get in the way of her choice? Is there something I am missing?
2024.05.15 17:26 ondobi98 I (29M) have feelings for a coworker (32M), and don't know if they feeling is mutual
Before I start, this story is long, and I'll repeat myself a lot; my first goal is to get what's inside me out and vent, so please be patient and if you respond be respectful, please.
I (29M) came out of the closet about two years ago, but living in the environment I live in, I couldn't be as open as I would have liked until recently. During that time, I lost a lot of weight and gained confidence in myself, which made it easier for me to open up to the world that interested me. I'm not someone with much experience when it comes to sex, but I've had my adventures, mostly with women, but once I accepted who I am, my experiences shifted towards men. In recent years, I've had fleeting relationships and two relationships that lasted more than four months, but in recent months, I've been puzzled by a situation I've had to live through, and that's why I'm writing this here, to see if the perspective of strangers helps me clarify my thoughts a bit.
I don't consider myself ugly; I can even be attractive, both physically and in personality, but insecurities have affected me since I was very young. This story begins in September of last year when I started working at a new company. The workgroup consists of about 30 colleagues, some of whom I knew from before. But the story focuses on a guy (32M), let's call him Stephen. I must mention that he didn't attract me at first; he's not my physical type. But around November, as I got to know him, I was attracted to his personality, which surprised me because I'm usually a very superficial person (I know I need to work on that), and it's not very common for me to be attracted to someone because of their personality.
Over time, I formed a very close group of friends, who told each other everything that happened in our daily lives, so it was only a matter of time before I mentioned to them that I was attracted to Stephen. The three colleagues, Anna (37F), Violet (36F), and Lily (20F), were happy for me and told me that the interest seemed mutual because they thought the guy was getting very close to me. I liked that because I had already noticed that the jokes or comments I made to him received the same response, or at least he played along.
We reached December, we organized a dinner with some colleagues, and both he and I attended. By then, my colleagues had been pressuring me a lot to tell him something, but since we only had a relationship at work, I didn't dare to take the step; it didn't seem right to me. I also mentioned my situation to my friends, who could give me another point of view, but they all told me that not seeing the relationship we had made it difficult for them to evaluate it. I must mention that all this was happening while I was seeing another guy, John (27M), in a stable relationship for 6 months.
At the dinner and at the after-party, Stephen didn't leave my side. If I went out to smoke, he came out with me even though he doesn't smoke; if I had a drink, he accompanied me to the bar. My colleagues were ecstatic because they saw that this was the night something was going to happen. Well, it didn't. Between my relationship with John and the nerves of the moment, I didn't dare to do anything. But I already saw clearly that with those ideas in my head, the relationship with John was unfeasible; he was no longer my priority. We broke up during the following week.
I was already going all out for Stephen; I was attracted to his personality, to what he could offer me in a relationship. The week before Christmas arrived. We had a one-week break from work, and I didn't want to leave with doubts on vacation. On Tuesday of that week, I went to talk to him about the subject, determined, but when I started talking, I saw that we weren't alone, and I didn't dare to continue. I didn't dare again until Friday; he insisted that I finish saying what I had to tell him, which excited me even more because in my head, what I wanted to tell him seemed obvious.
Friday came, the last day for me to tell him something. When there was an hour left to finish the workday, I saw that we were alone, and I approached him. I was very nervous, I even stuttered, but I practically told him that I found him a very interesting guy and that I would like to get to know him outside of work, to which he responded that he was flattered but that he was not homosexual. It crushed me. I tried to disguise it by saying that he had become a very important support at work and that I wouldn't want this to ruin that relationship; he accepted it.
I left there as quickly as possible, holding back tears as best I could (yes, very teenage everything). I met up with my colleagues and told them what had happened. They supported me, but they kept saying that they didn't believe Stephen, that the relationship we had wasn't just friendship. I didn't give importance to that; at that moment I just wanted to forget what had happened. It was one of the toughest Christmases I've ever had. My family didn't know anything, my friends outside of work didn't understand it, and my work colleagues kept insisting that I needed to clarify things even more with him. My head was spinning.
I decided that I was going to fulfill what I said to Stephen, that the work relationship would continue as it had until that moment. The first week was weird and tough, I won't deny it, but I handled it quite well. I insisted that my colleagues avoid the subject, but it was impossible not to see the looks every time Stephen and I talked. Over time, we've returned to jokes, and although there's attraction on my part, I've come to understand that nothing will ever happen between us. Or so I thought. The last month I've had abrupt changes in my life. My grandmother died, I started dating Parker (33M), I got promoted at work, and I moved out on my own. It's important to mention, I think, that Stephen was my superior, and now, with the promotion, he's my immediate superior, I have to answer to him. So we spend much more time together, and we've come to know each other more intimately. I know about his problems with family, his friends, his plans for the weekend... But he never talks to me about relationships. We have a colleague who lives in the same city as Stephen, who has known him for years, and my colleagues, being the gossips they are, interrogated her about Stephen, and she managed to find out that he has never had a known relationship, nor has he had relationships with anyone, which surprised us all because, even though he's not my type, he's an athletic and quite attractive man.
Meanwhile, physical contact has emerged; he touches my shoulder when speaking, he hugs me when greeting me in the mornings... That was what I was missing. Just when I was rebuilding my life after the Christmas fiasco, to doubt again because of physical contact, once more when I was in a relationship that seemed perfect on the surface. More doubts on the subject. I had been with Parker for three months; I met him at a party with friends, in early February, falling back into the same old mistakes, focusing on the physical and then on the personality, luckily we were compatible, until feelings for Stephen surfaced again. The relationship faded, literally, no sex, no affection, no compatibility. My work colleagues didn't accept Parker, they were still insisting on Stephen. We come to yesterday, I broke up with Parker last week, and I really felt bad because it seemed to me that I was making the same mistakes as with John, obsessing over a relationship that didn't exist, that I had already received rejection for. But I moved to my new house, perfect for me, and liked by everyone, even Stephen. Today I received the comment that led me to speak here. I have organized a dinner next weekend at my house, Stephen is coming, he has asked to stay the night, I only have one bed, he has said we will share with a wink. I got excited, but I don't want to. I couldn't bear another fiasco. My work colleagues are already on cloud nine.
So I ask, do I have reasons to be excited?
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I (29M) came out of the closet about two years ago, but living in the environment I live in, I couldn't be as open as I would have liked until recently. During that time, I lost a lot of weight and gained confidence in myself, which made it easier for me to open up to the world that interested me. I'm not someone with much experience when it comes to sex, but I've had my adventures, mostly with women, but once I accepted who I am, my experiences shifted towards men. In recent years, I've had fleeting relationships and two relationships that lasted more than four months, but in recent months, I've been puzzled by a situation I've had to live through, and that's why I'm writing this here, to see if the perspective of strangers helps me clarify my thoughts a bit.
I don't consider myself ugly; I can even be attractive, both physically and in personality, but insecurities have affected me since I was very young. This story begins in September of last year when I started working at a new company. The workgroup consists of about 30 colleagues, some of whom I knew from before. But the story focuses on a guy (32M), let's call him Stephen. I must mention that he didn't attract me at first; he's not my physical type. But around November, as I got to know him, I was attracted to his personality, which surprised me because I'm usually a very superficial person (I know I need to work on that), and it's not very common for me to be attracted to someone because of their personality.
Over time, I formed a very close group of friends, who told each other everything that happened in our daily lives, so it was only a matter of time before I mentioned to them that I was attracted to Stephen. The three colleagues, Anna (37F), Violet (36F), and Lily (20F), were happy for me and told me that the interest seemed mutual because they thought the guy was getting very close to me. I liked that because I had already noticed that the jokes or comments I made to him received the same response, or at least he played along.
We reached December, we organized a dinner with some colleagues, and both he and I attended. By then, my colleagues had been pressuring me a lot to tell him something, but since we only had a relationship at work, I didn't dare to take the step; it didn't seem right to me. I also mentioned my situation to my friends, who could give me another point of view, but they all told me that not seeing the relationship we had made it difficult for them to evaluate it. I must mention that all this was happening while I was seeing another guy, John (27M), in a stable relationship for 6 months.
At the dinner and at the after-party, Stephen didn't leave my side. If I went out to smoke, he came out with me even though he doesn't smoke; if I had a drink, he accompanied me to the bar. My colleagues were ecstatic because they saw that this was the night something was going to happen. Well, it didn't. Between my relationship with John and the nerves of the moment, I didn't dare to do anything. But I already saw clearly that with those ideas in my head, the relationship with John was unfeasible; he was no longer my priority. We broke up during the following week.
I was already going all out for Stephen; I was attracted to his personality, to what he could offer me in a relationship. The week before Christmas arrived. We had a one-week break from work, and I didn't want to leave with doubts on vacation. On Tuesday of that week, I went to talk to him about the subject, determined, but when I started talking, I saw that we weren't alone, and I didn't dare to continue. I didn't dare again until Friday; he insisted that I finish saying what I had to tell him, which excited me even more because in my head, what I wanted to tell him seemed obvious.
Friday came, the last day for me to tell him something. When there was an hour left to finish the workday, I saw that we were alone, and I approached him. I was very nervous, I even stuttered, but I practically told him that I found him a very interesting guy and that I would like to get to know him outside of work, to which he responded that he was flattered but that he was not homosexual. It crushed me. I tried to disguise it by saying that he had become a very important support at work and that I wouldn't want this to ruin that relationship; he accepted it.
I left there as quickly as possible, holding back tears as best I could (yes, very teenage everything). I met up with my colleagues and told them what had happened. They supported me, but they kept saying that they didn't believe Stephen, that the relationship we had wasn't just friendship. I didn't give importance to that; at that moment I just wanted to forget what had happened. It was one of the toughest Christmases I've ever had. My family didn't know anything, my friends outside of work didn't understand it, and my work colleagues kept insisting that I needed to clarify things even more with him. My head was spinning.
I decided that I was going to fulfill what I said to Stephen, that the work relationship would continue as it had until that moment. The first week was weird and tough, I won't deny it, but I handled it quite well. I insisted that my colleagues avoid the subject, but it was impossible not to see the looks every time Stephen and I talked. Over time, we've returned to jokes, and although there's attraction on my part, I've come to understand that nothing will ever happen between us. Or so I thought. The last month I've had abrupt changes in my life. My grandmother died, I started dating Parker (33M), I got promoted at work, and I moved out on my own. It's important to mention, I think, that Stephen was my superior, and now, with the promotion, he's my immediate superior, I have to answer to him. So we spend much more time together, and we've come to know each other more intimately. I know about his problems with family, his friends, his plans for the weekend... But he never talks to me about relationships. We have a colleague who lives in the same city as Stephen, who has known him for years, and my colleagues, being the gossips they are, interrogated her about Stephen, and she managed to find out that he has never had a known relationship, nor has he had relationships with anyone, which surprised us all because, even though he's not my type, he's an athletic and quite attractive man.
Meanwhile, physical contact has emerged; he touches my shoulder when speaking, he hugs me when greeting me in the mornings... That was what I was missing. Just when I was rebuilding my life after the Christmas fiasco, to doubt again because of physical contact, once more when I was in a relationship that seemed perfect on the surface. More doubts on the subject. I had been with Parker for three months; I met him at a party with friends, in early February, falling back into the same old mistakes, focusing on the physical and then on the personality, luckily we were compatible, until feelings for Stephen surfaced again. The relationship faded, literally, no sex, no affection, no compatibility. My work colleagues didn't accept Parker, they were still insisting on Stephen. We come to yesterday, I broke up with Parker last week, and I really felt bad because it seemed to me that I was making the same mistakes as with John, obsessing over a relationship that didn't exist, that I had already received rejection for. But I moved to my new house, perfect for me, and liked by everyone, even Stephen. Today I received the comment that led me to speak here. I have organized a dinner next weekend at my house, Stephen is coming, he has asked to stay the night, I only have one bed, he has said we will share with a wink. I got excited, but I don't want to. I couldn't bear another fiasco. My work colleagues are already on cloud nine.
So I ask, do I have reasons to be excited?
2024.05.15 17:23 Fit-Fisherman-4138 The truth behind the AK allegations
I’m interested in the trust and not whatever narrative each side is pushing. I’m not an AK hater who’s here to spam Kendrick Lyrics or a AK simp who believes anything he says. I don’t want a victim getting no justice or an innocent man unjustly punished.
Hearing both sides, I think the girl got too drunk with AK’s homies and did some shit she seems to have regretted. It’s clear she didn’t remember everything that happened that night and whether she only lost memory vs lost consciousness is what separates if she was SA’d by his friends vs willingly participated and felt badly afterwards. The police seem to believe the latter but that doesn’t mean it didn’t happen either.
Alcohol reduces your inhibition, so you might do shit you may not normally do or do shit consciously but have no memory afterwards but that doesn’t mean you were raped. However, if you become unconscious or to the point that you can’t consent, that’s a whole other story. We need more info than a still photo to determine that, and shit could have started concentually and became not consensual later.
I believe AK definitely had sex with her in the morning before he found out what happened at his pool. This is clear from the text message saying he will get tested and also from the alleged recorded phone call where he accuses her of being loose. He omitted this when telling the story for whatever reason, but also never explicitly denied it. He might be embarrassed by being the last to board a train he thought he was the conductor of and basically being humiliated in his own house, or if you believe the lawsuit he was the mastermind behind it.
From the actual evidence provided sofar, I believe he was not a part of it and whatever sexual contact they had was consensual. In the text messages afterwards, He sounds salty and and in his feelings which is consistent with someone who did not approve of what took place. She sounds remorseful and regretful and more upset she is losing a relationship than at an alleged assault. Moreover, not once did she accuse him of doing anything to her, and all her anger is towards his friends. In fact it seems like she wasn’t even aware of what happened until he confronted her and showed her the same picture she is using to sue him with. Why would you assault someone and then confront them with the evidence that you assaulted them?
Of coarse my opinion can change if more evidence comes out. I would love to see her statement to the police and that recorded wire conversation with AK. Did she at any point accuse AK of SA too in the days following? Her words right after the incident mean more than what some lawyer cooked up in a civil suit 2 years later.
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Hearing both sides, I think the girl got too drunk with AK’s homies and did some shit she seems to have regretted. It’s clear she didn’t remember everything that happened that night and whether she only lost memory vs lost consciousness is what separates if she was SA’d by his friends vs willingly participated and felt badly afterwards. The police seem to believe the latter but that doesn’t mean it didn’t happen either.
Alcohol reduces your inhibition, so you might do shit you may not normally do or do shit consciously but have no memory afterwards but that doesn’t mean you were raped. However, if you become unconscious or to the point that you can’t consent, that’s a whole other story. We need more info than a still photo to determine that, and shit could have started concentually and became not consensual later.
I believe AK definitely had sex with her in the morning before he found out what happened at his pool. This is clear from the text message saying he will get tested and also from the alleged recorded phone call where he accuses her of being loose. He omitted this when telling the story for whatever reason, but also never explicitly denied it. He might be embarrassed by being the last to board a train he thought he was the conductor of and basically being humiliated in his own house, or if you believe the lawsuit he was the mastermind behind it.
From the actual evidence provided sofar, I believe he was not a part of it and whatever sexual contact they had was consensual. In the text messages afterwards, He sounds salty and and in his feelings which is consistent with someone who did not approve of what took place. She sounds remorseful and regretful and more upset she is losing a relationship than at an alleged assault. Moreover, not once did she accuse him of doing anything to her, and all her anger is towards his friends. In fact it seems like she wasn’t even aware of what happened until he confronted her and showed her the same picture she is using to sue him with. Why would you assault someone and then confront them with the evidence that you assaulted them?
Of coarse my opinion can change if more evidence comes out. I would love to see her statement to the police and that recorded wire conversation with AK. Did she at any point accuse AK of SA too in the days following? Her words right after the incident mean more than what some lawyer cooked up in a civil suit 2 years later.
2024.05.15 17:13 honestyandhoes Was it wrong of me (25F) to make this comment to him (28M) about his intentions with me?
I ruminate on this TOO much because I have a hard time finding dates. Long story short - I (25F) was on a 3rd date with a guy (28M) and I was drunk and we kissed for the first time that night and I invited him up to my place because I wanted to kiss him more. I wasn't thinking about sex cuz I was dumb and drunk (I even had to throw up a little bit after we got to my place), so I had to stop us in the middle of doing stuff to say no to sex and I explained to him my boundaries (I wait till I'm in a relationship to have sex and I'd need him to get an STD test for oral sex).
He said it didn't make sense to do other things but not sex BUT he was respectful and didn't push for more. At one point, he didn't seem to get why I didn't think a condom was protective enough, and made what sounded like a passive aggressive comment about blue balls (he said something like "What do you think is going to happen after? I'm going to get blue balls but that's okay, right?"). This sorta rubbed me the wrong way, so a little bit later, I said "you say you don't do casual but you're willing to go all the way with me and you don't even know me yet".
He said we've been chatting 3 weeks (it had only been a week since we were meeting up though) and I was like "okay, so what's my favorite food?" He responded that he didn't see me casually and hasn't been talking to others, but he was "feeling me". I haven't had the best experiences with guys in the past and I know it wasn't valid for me to project that on to him so I tried explaining that but I was drunk and not doing a very good job. Things were really awkward when he left and I reached out the next day to "patch things up" and I texted him saying "Hey I'm feeling better about things now, last night ended weird but I was having a lot of fun before that". He sent a text back shutting things down with me and that was that. Did I handle things badly?
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He said it didn't make sense to do other things but not sex BUT he was respectful and didn't push for more. At one point, he didn't seem to get why I didn't think a condom was protective enough, and made what sounded like a passive aggressive comment about blue balls (he said something like "What do you think is going to happen after? I'm going to get blue balls but that's okay, right?"). This sorta rubbed me the wrong way, so a little bit later, I said "you say you don't do casual but you're willing to go all the way with me and you don't even know me yet".
He said we've been chatting 3 weeks (it had only been a week since we were meeting up though) and I was like "okay, so what's my favorite food?" He responded that he didn't see me casually and hasn't been talking to others, but he was "feeling me". I haven't had the best experiences with guys in the past and I know it wasn't valid for me to project that on to him so I tried explaining that but I was drunk and not doing a very good job. Things were really awkward when he left and I reached out the next day to "patch things up" and I texted him saying "Hey I'm feeling better about things now, last night ended weird but I was having a lot of fun before that". He sent a text back shutting things down with me and that was that. Did I handle things badly?
2024.05.15 17:02 Weird-Possible3540 What do i do? Stay till he is everything i wanted or have self respect and leave? Me 21F, bf 23M
Well, to make a long story short. I had a relationship with a guy for 2 years. Before him, I had a relationship where I was abused. This guy really helped me out of a difficult time and was so good to me. I wasn't in love with him right away, but after a while of dating, there were definitely feelings, and it got serious. After 4 months, I found out he was cheating with his stepsister. He claims they didn't have sex or anything, just sexual text contact. I forgave him for this because I saw that he was remorseful and very insecure. Eventually, we continued our relationship. It was very difficult, but I saw a future husband in him, and he was so sweet and good to me. Since the incident with his stepsister, his stepfather really doesn't like me. There's a tense atmosphere when I'm there, and he doesn't talk to me. Also, my partner has a drinking problem. Not that he drinks every day, but when he does drink, he doesn't know how to stop, and it always ends up in terrible fights.
Two weeks ago, it happened again. We talked it out, and he promised never to drink again. Last week, he was with his friends and started drinking again. Because of this, I broke up with him. I couldn't keep giving him chances and forgiving him for everything. This is the first time in 2 years, after all the fights and chances, that I ended it. And it seems like this time he realizes what he's losing and what he needs to do to prevent it from happening.
There are a few things I'm struggling with. I really love him a lot, but that family issue is a problem. He is a very simple person and not very emotionally intelligent. I am very loving and give him all the love I have, and he gives it to me too, but in a very different way than I would like. I've mentioned this many times, but nothing changes. The only thing holding me back from ending it for good is that I really see him as someone who would be a good father, someone who only has eyes for me. Despite his initial infidelity, I am 100000% sure he would never do that again. I'm just afraid I'm letting someone go and will never find someone like him who is so sweet and only has eyes for me. I'm really at my wit's end and don't know what to do. Also a very important thing is that he is not educated, i myself am almost finishing my bachelors. I forced him to start school again and now that i broke up with him he is finally taking action to go back to school, but still doesnt sit right with me.
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Two weeks ago, it happened again. We talked it out, and he promised never to drink again. Last week, he was with his friends and started drinking again. Because of this, I broke up with him. I couldn't keep giving him chances and forgiving him for everything. This is the first time in 2 years, after all the fights and chances, that I ended it. And it seems like this time he realizes what he's losing and what he needs to do to prevent it from happening.
There are a few things I'm struggling with. I really love him a lot, but that family issue is a problem. He is a very simple person and not very emotionally intelligent. I am very loving and give him all the love I have, and he gives it to me too, but in a very different way than I would like. I've mentioned this many times, but nothing changes. The only thing holding me back from ending it for good is that I really see him as someone who would be a good father, someone who only has eyes for me. Despite his initial infidelity, I am 100000% sure he would never do that again. I'm just afraid I'm letting someone go and will never find someone like him who is so sweet and only has eyes for me. I'm really at my wit's end and don't know what to do. Also a very important thing is that he is not educated, i myself am almost finishing my bachelors. I forced him to start school again and now that i broke up with him he is finally taking action to go back to school, but still doesnt sit right with me.
2024.05.15 17:01 Fluid_Tie_7523 Heat turned into hurt
I was supposed to delete this account after posting my first story since meron naman ako main. But I realized na I want to keep my main for my r4r and personal posts and this one mainly to share stories. So here’s another one.
Yes, I’ve been cheated on. Honestly hindi ako selosa. I may get downvoted for this pero ever since for some reason hindi black and white sa ‘kin ang cheating. I know may kanya kanya tayong needs and siguro alam ko di ko kaya offer lahat sa partner ko kaya may possibility for them to look for that feeling somewhere else. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t condone cheating kapag nakikita ko. Di ako pumapasok sa may sabit na situation or ineencourage yung friends to do it. I’ve never cheated din. Personally lang, i know i wouldn’t be hurt if nalaman ko na yung partner ko kumasta ng iba. Not until i experienced a different kind of cheating — emotional cheating. Na in love ex ko sa iba.
Mas masakit pala yun. Knowing na buong pagkatao mo yung kulang and di lang physical. Long story short, nakipag break ako pero wala akong galit. Tinanggap ko na hindi ko kaya offer yung hinahanap niya.
Fast forward, minaximize ko na naman pagiging single ko and looked for adventures. May na meet ako na couple and asked for a 3some. Tbh hindi ko sila type dahil parang di kami same vibes pero when I saw one of the couples, god damn kamukha niya yung babae ng ex ko (hindi siya yun tho). Tangina nanlamig ako. So pumayag ako. Siguro sa utak ko, aba makaganti manlang. Parang revenge sex yung feeling ko na gagawin ko.
Eventually we decided to meet. In fairness naman very hot ng session umpisa pa lang. Sorry to disappoint you pero hindi ko ma detalye kung ano ginawa namin. Kasi 10 mins in, sumuko na ako. While kissing si girl, I felt a lump in my throat. Naiiyak ako. Na imagine ko my ex and her kissing. Inisip ko ano yung mali sa ‘kin kung bakit siya yung pinili. I just couldn’t continue and nag chikahan na lang kami after. Nagkwento ako sa kanila and they comforted me and we still enjoyed the night.
Matagal na ‘to and naka move on na ako. I asked them if they wanted to try it again and game naman sila. So my next story will be more juicy and steamy. 😌
Well, ayun lang. Been seeing a lot of posts about “cheating kink” and I know we all seek thrill and pleasures pero sana naman hindi cost ang sanity ng ibang tao and we don’t intend to hurt innocent people.
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Yes, I’ve been cheated on. Honestly hindi ako selosa. I may get downvoted for this pero ever since for some reason hindi black and white sa ‘kin ang cheating. I know may kanya kanya tayong needs and siguro alam ko di ko kaya offer lahat sa partner ko kaya may possibility for them to look for that feeling somewhere else. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t condone cheating kapag nakikita ko. Di ako pumapasok sa may sabit na situation or ineencourage yung friends to do it. I’ve never cheated din. Personally lang, i know i wouldn’t be hurt if nalaman ko na yung partner ko kumasta ng iba. Not until i experienced a different kind of cheating — emotional cheating. Na in love ex ko sa iba.
Mas masakit pala yun. Knowing na buong pagkatao mo yung kulang and di lang physical. Long story short, nakipag break ako pero wala akong galit. Tinanggap ko na hindi ko kaya offer yung hinahanap niya.
Fast forward, minaximize ko na naman pagiging single ko and looked for adventures. May na meet ako na couple and asked for a 3some. Tbh hindi ko sila type dahil parang di kami same vibes pero when I saw one of the couples, god damn kamukha niya yung babae ng ex ko (hindi siya yun tho). Tangina nanlamig ako. So pumayag ako. Siguro sa utak ko, aba makaganti manlang. Parang revenge sex yung feeling ko na gagawin ko.
Eventually we decided to meet. In fairness naman very hot ng session umpisa pa lang. Sorry to disappoint you pero hindi ko ma detalye kung ano ginawa namin. Kasi 10 mins in, sumuko na ako. While kissing si girl, I felt a lump in my throat. Naiiyak ako. Na imagine ko my ex and her kissing. Inisip ko ano yung mali sa ‘kin kung bakit siya yung pinili. I just couldn’t continue and nag chikahan na lang kami after. Nagkwento ako sa kanila and they comforted me and we still enjoyed the night.
Matagal na ‘to and naka move on na ako. I asked them if they wanted to try it again and game naman sila. So my next story will be more juicy and steamy. 😌
Well, ayun lang. Been seeing a lot of posts about “cheating kink” and I know we all seek thrill and pleasures pero sana naman hindi cost ang sanity ng ibang tao and we don’t intend to hurt innocent people.
2024.05.15 16:53 shaneka69 CANCER ZODIAC - UNEXPECTED INCOME! TAROT READING MAY 2024
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2024.05.15 16:47 BillydeFatman420 Reported My Ex and her Friends to CPS and the police AITAH
Hello, I (28M) am making this post because I need to get this crazy story off my chest. I met a girl on Tinder (22F) at the beginning of this year and I thought we really hit it off. She had recently broken up with a long term boyfriend and was actually couch surfing between different family and friends. I work a lot and I really liked her so I offered to let her stay at my apartment. I also asked her to be in a relationship with me. At first she declined, but on Valentines I managed to pull out all the stops and tried my best to be romantic. (took her out, giant teddy bear, candy all that) I asked again if she wanted to be in a relationship with me and she agreed and moved into my apartment. Everything was good for a couple of months, we really didn't argue and the sex was great.
Her birthday was in April and I asked what she wanted for her birthday. She said she wanted to go on a camping trip and invite a bunch of friends. I was good with that plan and made arrangements to be off from work and spent a couple of hundred dollars on the supplies needed for the trip. She invited a ton of people but the only ones that ended up coming were here best friend, her best friends boyfriend, her brothers, her mom, and two other friends that were neighbors of her best friend. They only showed up at the end of the trip but, I was happy somebody else came for her.
Her best friend also brought her toddler. I had said before we went on the trip that bringing the toddler was not a good idea considering the plan for the weekend was to get drunk and smoke the whole time and that probably wasn't the best place for a two year old. I got ignored and my concerns were dismissed.
Anyway, on 4/20 we all end renting canoes and kayaks from the outfitters at the campground to float down the river. Halfway through; one of my then girlfriends brothers gets sick from to much to drink and ends up falling in the river multiple times. The river is still really cold and we end up having to split up and she takes her brother to get a ride back to the campsite at the halfway point. Then I was stuck with her friends that I didn't really know; to get back to the campsite with the canoes. I had met these friends about a half dozen times and they had struck me as rude and irresponsible but I hadn't spent much time with them. The boyfriend actually had never spoken directly to me at this point even though we had met several times.
I had been told by my ex over and over again how the boyfriend was abusive and how terrible he was to her friend. I told her since I hadn't seen anything I didn't want to be involved. On the second half of the trip her best friend and her boyfriend get into an argument over something. To this day I have no idea what either of them were upset about. This argument keeps escalating but only to yelling and throwing stuff and essentially a temper tantrum on the part of the boyfriend. We get back to the campsite and reunite with my ex, and they keep arguing and yelling at each other. Keep in mind the girl has been carrying around a two year old for this entire ordeal.
Eventually the boyfriend is in his vehicle shouting obscenities' and my exes friend goes to his vehicle and what happens next is the only point of disagreement between myself and my ex. I say he hit her, my ex says he pushed her out of the way. Tomato, tomato, it was still most definitely physical assault of a dating partner and since she had the toddler it was also child abuse. My exes mom then intervenes and they separate, I go over to the girl to ask if she's is alright and she starts asking me to fight her boyfriend. Then the boyfriend threatens to shoot me!!!?????
Keep in mind this guy has never spoken to me directly. As a side note I have trained MMA for over five years at this point and it is well known that I can fight. Normally fighting/sparring is very fun for me but if this dude is actually upset and not wanting to wrestle around for fun then I was going to need him to sign a waiver before I administered the beat down. Besides the dude had a gun and had threatened to shoot me so I'm not just going to attack him?
I tried to tell my ex that we needed to leave but she refused and said that if I wanted to leave I was more than welcome but that she would be staying. I decide to stay, and the rest of the night essentially consisted of her best friend wandering around the campground crying hysterically and the boyfriend posted in his vehicle between us and the exit in some kind of sad attempt to be intimidating. At one point while my ex and her friend attempt to console the boyfriend they essentially left the child unsupervised with me and her friends neighbors.
Both of the neighbors were under 21 and definitely to intoxicated to supervise a toddler. To be honest no one there was sober enough to care for a two year old at that time. At one point I actually stopped the toddler from running into the fire while my ex and her friend made the boyfriend food. (which I bought by the way) Literally the guy assaulted his girl, threatened to shoot me, and put his child in danger and my girlfriends reaction was to make him a hamburger. I was thrown.
Towards the end of the night its starting to calm down and I was coming back from collecting firewood. The boyfriend had moved his vehicle closer to the campsite but was still not interacting with the rest of the group. When I get back my exes friend is blocking my chair so I grab another from my trunk and offer it to her so I can sit down next to my girlfriend. Apparently the boyfriend was offended by this and actually spoke to me directly for the first time by stating that I needed to pay attention to my girl and if I talked to his again he would shoot me.
I had no idea how to react; this is now the second time this dude has threatened my life with a firearm and both times with no reaction from anyone. I tell my ex again that we need to leave and I was once again dismissed. Keep in mind there is no signal at this campground; so we are completely cut off from the outside world. It was already late so everyone turned in for the night shortly after. The next morning we pack up the campsite to go home.
When we get back to my apartment, I confirm with my ex everything that happened. She did confirm that the boyfriend had threatened to shoot me twice. Like I said earlier; I say he hit his girl my ex says he pushed her out of the way. Whatever; same difference. She also confirmed she understood that because the toddler was there it made everything that happened an act of child abuse. My goal for the conversation was to get my ex to report what happened so I could sit in the background and just confirm what she was saying was true.
However, my ex just kept trying to say that this was normal behavior by her friends boyfriend and that she wasn't going to do anything. I tried to reiterate over and over that this was not "Normal" behavior and that by not reporting what happened we could be considered liable if something worse happened in the future. I am not a mandated reporter but, I clearly understood that if I was; what happened would have been a mandatory report.
My ex then blew up at me and accused me of being and asshole and trying to isolate her from her friend. This was the farthest thing from the truth; since when I was told the boyfriend was abusive, I told my ex since I hadn't seen anything I couldn't do anything but, if her friend had no where to go and wanted to leave she was more than welcome to crash in my spare room. I had to go to work to get ready for the upcoming week so I couldn't keep arguing with her and started getting ready to head out. I told her we would discuss it when I got back and left for work. While I was showering I did consider kicking her out for not taking what happened more seriously but, I decided against it because overall I still liked her at that point and I didn't want her not to have anywhere to go.
While I am at work I text her an apology because admittedly I was mean at the end when she wouldn't take what happened seriously. I told her I still didn't know exactly what I needed to do but that the boyfriends behavior was completely unacceptable. She texts me back that she was breaking up with me and going to stay with her brother. I was a little shocked by this as we had not had any disagreements up until this point and I pressed her to figure out why. At first she lied and tried to say it had nothing to do with the argument and was because she wasn't ready for a relationship. I moved past the fact we had already been in a relationship for two months, she had me in her phone as daddy, was living with me, and had started receiving mail at my apartment and just accepted that she wanted to leave.
When I got back to my apartment a couple of hours later she had already packed her stuff and left. I was sad but I have been through a lot of breakups with women I liked so this wasn't new to me. I started going through my apartment to make sure all my stuff was still there and her stuff was gone. I did reach out to here that night because I wanted her to come get the stuff she had left and at least give me the opportunity to speak my peace in person. At this point I still thought she left because she wasn't ready for a relationship and that she was at her brothers.
At the end of the night, I called her expecting her to be at her brothers, she answered and instead I found out she was at her friends? Yes the one with the boyfriend who had just threatened to shoot me, had assaulted her friend, and put his child in clear danger due to his emotional tantrum. This was the only time I truly snapped at her because I couldn't believe she would do something like that. Two things became clear to me 1.) She never cared about me and was just using me for a free place to stay and free food. Which honestly I wouldn't have cared about if she had just been honest about it. And 2.) She was no longer a witness to what had happened, she was an accessory as she was actively trying to deter me from reporting the behavior.
My understanding of the statues around child abuse is that any action taken in an attempt to conceal child abuse makes you an accessory to said child abuse. Because of all that the feelings I had for her immediately died. I decided to sleep on everything and the next day I wrote out everything that happened and emailed it myself to time stamp the report. I gave it to a coworker that I trusted just to confirm I wasn't crazy. She is a mandated reporter and her words to me were that I absolutely did need to report what happened and that if I didn't she would. So I got the number that I needed to call from my coworker and filed a police report at my local police station. A few days later CPS did pay them a visit and I received a lot of nasty texts accusing me of filing the report because she broke up with me and intentionally trying to get the child taken by child services.
She even tried to say she wanted to get back together later when she was "in a better headspace" I called bullshit because to me and everyone I have told this story to she broke up with me in order to avoid the confrontation and distract me from making the report. Her admission confirmed that her plan was to come back when I had forgotten about what had happened. I quickly told her coming back was not an option for her and that I was not interested in her anymore. AITAH?
Also an update that happened last week, some different friends of my ex reached out to me on FB. I had only met these friends once so I was suspicious as to why they reached out. They did invite me over and looking back I think they were just wanting to get the full scoop on what happened as my ex had told them virtually nothing and had been overly vague as to why we had broken up.
I told them the full story to the best of my ability and they confirmed that similar incidents had happened in the past with the couple and that they do not associate with my exes friends due to the boyfriends behavior. I also learned that apparently one of my exes brothers was on my side and thought his sister was a "fucking idiot."
My exes friends apologized to me and expressed their support and agreed I did the right thing. NGL finding that out did really validate me because it was clear to me my ex was trying to protect her friends abuser but I still didn't understand why. What I have tried to believe, in order to not have so much negative emotion towards my ex, is that in her mind she feels like if she is there with her friend she will be safe. Also if anybody asks the neighbors would be shit witnesses to what happened, they were both under 21, highly intoxicated, and while I'm not sure what they are on narcotics wise. I am 90% sure they get it from the boyfriend. I apologize if this was to long of a read but AITAH?
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Her birthday was in April and I asked what she wanted for her birthday. She said she wanted to go on a camping trip and invite a bunch of friends. I was good with that plan and made arrangements to be off from work and spent a couple of hundred dollars on the supplies needed for the trip. She invited a ton of people but the only ones that ended up coming were here best friend, her best friends boyfriend, her brothers, her mom, and two other friends that were neighbors of her best friend. They only showed up at the end of the trip but, I was happy somebody else came for her.
Her best friend also brought her toddler. I had said before we went on the trip that bringing the toddler was not a good idea considering the plan for the weekend was to get drunk and smoke the whole time and that probably wasn't the best place for a two year old. I got ignored and my concerns were dismissed.
Anyway, on 4/20 we all end renting canoes and kayaks from the outfitters at the campground to float down the river. Halfway through; one of my then girlfriends brothers gets sick from to much to drink and ends up falling in the river multiple times. The river is still really cold and we end up having to split up and she takes her brother to get a ride back to the campsite at the halfway point. Then I was stuck with her friends that I didn't really know; to get back to the campsite with the canoes. I had met these friends about a half dozen times and they had struck me as rude and irresponsible but I hadn't spent much time with them. The boyfriend actually had never spoken directly to me at this point even though we had met several times.
I had been told by my ex over and over again how the boyfriend was abusive and how terrible he was to her friend. I told her since I hadn't seen anything I didn't want to be involved. On the second half of the trip her best friend and her boyfriend get into an argument over something. To this day I have no idea what either of them were upset about. This argument keeps escalating but only to yelling and throwing stuff and essentially a temper tantrum on the part of the boyfriend. We get back to the campsite and reunite with my ex, and they keep arguing and yelling at each other. Keep in mind the girl has been carrying around a two year old for this entire ordeal.
Eventually the boyfriend is in his vehicle shouting obscenities' and my exes friend goes to his vehicle and what happens next is the only point of disagreement between myself and my ex. I say he hit her, my ex says he pushed her out of the way. Tomato, tomato, it was still most definitely physical assault of a dating partner and since she had the toddler it was also child abuse. My exes mom then intervenes and they separate, I go over to the girl to ask if she's is alright and she starts asking me to fight her boyfriend. Then the boyfriend threatens to shoot me!!!?????
Keep in mind this guy has never spoken to me directly. As a side note I have trained MMA for over five years at this point and it is well known that I can fight. Normally fighting/sparring is very fun for me but if this dude is actually upset and not wanting to wrestle around for fun then I was going to need him to sign a waiver before I administered the beat down. Besides the dude had a gun and had threatened to shoot me so I'm not just going to attack him?
I tried to tell my ex that we needed to leave but she refused and said that if I wanted to leave I was more than welcome but that she would be staying. I decide to stay, and the rest of the night essentially consisted of her best friend wandering around the campground crying hysterically and the boyfriend posted in his vehicle between us and the exit in some kind of sad attempt to be intimidating. At one point while my ex and her friend attempt to console the boyfriend they essentially left the child unsupervised with me and her friends neighbors.
Both of the neighbors were under 21 and definitely to intoxicated to supervise a toddler. To be honest no one there was sober enough to care for a two year old at that time. At one point I actually stopped the toddler from running into the fire while my ex and her friend made the boyfriend food. (which I bought by the way) Literally the guy assaulted his girl, threatened to shoot me, and put his child in danger and my girlfriends reaction was to make him a hamburger. I was thrown.
Towards the end of the night its starting to calm down and I was coming back from collecting firewood. The boyfriend had moved his vehicle closer to the campsite but was still not interacting with the rest of the group. When I get back my exes friend is blocking my chair so I grab another from my trunk and offer it to her so I can sit down next to my girlfriend. Apparently the boyfriend was offended by this and actually spoke to me directly for the first time by stating that I needed to pay attention to my girl and if I talked to his again he would shoot me.
I had no idea how to react; this is now the second time this dude has threatened my life with a firearm and both times with no reaction from anyone. I tell my ex again that we need to leave and I was once again dismissed. Keep in mind there is no signal at this campground; so we are completely cut off from the outside world. It was already late so everyone turned in for the night shortly after. The next morning we pack up the campsite to go home.
When we get back to my apartment, I confirm with my ex everything that happened. She did confirm that the boyfriend had threatened to shoot me twice. Like I said earlier; I say he hit his girl my ex says he pushed her out of the way. Whatever; same difference. She also confirmed she understood that because the toddler was there it made everything that happened an act of child abuse. My goal for the conversation was to get my ex to report what happened so I could sit in the background and just confirm what she was saying was true.
However, my ex just kept trying to say that this was normal behavior by her friends boyfriend and that she wasn't going to do anything. I tried to reiterate over and over that this was not "Normal" behavior and that by not reporting what happened we could be considered liable if something worse happened in the future. I am not a mandated reporter but, I clearly understood that if I was; what happened would have been a mandatory report.
My ex then blew up at me and accused me of being and asshole and trying to isolate her from her friend. This was the farthest thing from the truth; since when I was told the boyfriend was abusive, I told my ex since I hadn't seen anything I couldn't do anything but, if her friend had no where to go and wanted to leave she was more than welcome to crash in my spare room. I had to go to work to get ready for the upcoming week so I couldn't keep arguing with her and started getting ready to head out. I told her we would discuss it when I got back and left for work. While I was showering I did consider kicking her out for not taking what happened more seriously but, I decided against it because overall I still liked her at that point and I didn't want her not to have anywhere to go.
While I am at work I text her an apology because admittedly I was mean at the end when she wouldn't take what happened seriously. I told her I still didn't know exactly what I needed to do but that the boyfriends behavior was completely unacceptable. She texts me back that she was breaking up with me and going to stay with her brother. I was a little shocked by this as we had not had any disagreements up until this point and I pressed her to figure out why. At first she lied and tried to say it had nothing to do with the argument and was because she wasn't ready for a relationship. I moved past the fact we had already been in a relationship for two months, she had me in her phone as daddy, was living with me, and had started receiving mail at my apartment and just accepted that she wanted to leave.
When I got back to my apartment a couple of hours later she had already packed her stuff and left. I was sad but I have been through a lot of breakups with women I liked so this wasn't new to me. I started going through my apartment to make sure all my stuff was still there and her stuff was gone. I did reach out to here that night because I wanted her to come get the stuff she had left and at least give me the opportunity to speak my peace in person. At this point I still thought she left because she wasn't ready for a relationship and that she was at her brothers.
At the end of the night, I called her expecting her to be at her brothers, she answered and instead I found out she was at her friends? Yes the one with the boyfriend who had just threatened to shoot me, had assaulted her friend, and put his child in clear danger due to his emotional tantrum. This was the only time I truly snapped at her because I couldn't believe she would do something like that. Two things became clear to me 1.) She never cared about me and was just using me for a free place to stay and free food. Which honestly I wouldn't have cared about if she had just been honest about it. And 2.) She was no longer a witness to what had happened, she was an accessory as she was actively trying to deter me from reporting the behavior.
My understanding of the statues around child abuse is that any action taken in an attempt to conceal child abuse makes you an accessory to said child abuse. Because of all that the feelings I had for her immediately died. I decided to sleep on everything and the next day I wrote out everything that happened and emailed it myself to time stamp the report. I gave it to a coworker that I trusted just to confirm I wasn't crazy. She is a mandated reporter and her words to me were that I absolutely did need to report what happened and that if I didn't she would. So I got the number that I needed to call from my coworker and filed a police report at my local police station. A few days later CPS did pay them a visit and I received a lot of nasty texts accusing me of filing the report because she broke up with me and intentionally trying to get the child taken by child services.
She even tried to say she wanted to get back together later when she was "in a better headspace" I called bullshit because to me and everyone I have told this story to she broke up with me in order to avoid the confrontation and distract me from making the report. Her admission confirmed that her plan was to come back when I had forgotten about what had happened. I quickly told her coming back was not an option for her and that I was not interested in her anymore. AITAH?
Also an update that happened last week, some different friends of my ex reached out to me on FB. I had only met these friends once so I was suspicious as to why they reached out. They did invite me over and looking back I think they were just wanting to get the full scoop on what happened as my ex had told them virtually nothing and had been overly vague as to why we had broken up.
I told them the full story to the best of my ability and they confirmed that similar incidents had happened in the past with the couple and that they do not associate with my exes friends due to the boyfriends behavior. I also learned that apparently one of my exes brothers was on my side and thought his sister was a "fucking idiot."
My exes friends apologized to me and expressed their support and agreed I did the right thing. NGL finding that out did really validate me because it was clear to me my ex was trying to protect her friends abuser but I still didn't understand why. What I have tried to believe, in order to not have so much negative emotion towards my ex, is that in her mind she feels like if she is there with her friend she will be safe. Also if anybody asks the neighbors would be shit witnesses to what happened, they were both under 21, highly intoxicated, and while I'm not sure what they are on narcotics wise. I am 90% sure they get it from the boyfriend. I apologize if this was to long of a read but AITAH?
2024.05.15 16:43 Pingu1990 ADHD or OCD
I’ll keep it breif as no one here wants to read an essay lol! I have both conditions, both diagnosed I question EVERYTHING but not in a curious way in an obsessive way. I know some of my themes are ocd related , But could any of it also be the adhd ? I’m medicated for the ocd but not the adhd as there’s a whole back story there and I will be medicated this year sometime. Couple of examples would be; are you happy right now, is your sex life normal or abnormal. But they are obsessive to the point I can’t focus on anything else: so really I just wondered is there a way to distinguish which condition is causing the overthinking
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2024.05.15 16:32 mysecret52 My friend said this was misleading and I feel bad. I (25F) keep regretting that I didn't tell him (28M) my boundaries in advance because I have a hard time finding dates and I feel like I messed up a good thing
I need help letting this go. Long story short - I (25F) was on a 3rd date with a guy (28M) and I was drunk and we kissed for the first time that night and I invited him up to my place because I wanted to kiss him more. I wasn't thinking about sex cuz I was dumb and drunk (I even had to throw up a little bit after we got to my place), so I had to stop us in the middle of doing stuff to say no to sex and I explained to him my boundaries (I wait till I'm in a relationship to have sex and I'd need him to get an STD test for oral sex).
After this, we talked about other normal stuff in between. We also tried making out here and there in between and at some point, he made what sounded like a passive aggressive comment about blue balls. This bothered me so I made a couple comments later that came off quite rude. I tried saving the situation by explaining myself and my boundaries (I told him I haven't had the best dating experiences in the past but didn't go in more detail). I was having a hard time trying to fix things because I was drunk. Things were super awkward and when he was leaving, I could tell how annoyed he was by his face.
The next day, I sent him a lighthearted message that I was feeling better about things and still had fun before the night ended weirdly and he sent a text back to shut things down with me right after. I feel TERRIBLE about this still cuz things seemed to be going really well before and I have a hard time finding dates in my city. Man, I screwed things up and I keep thinking that we still could have been talking if I just hadn't invited him up or told him my boundaries much more in advance.
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After this, we talked about other normal stuff in between. We also tried making out here and there in between and at some point, he made what sounded like a passive aggressive comment about blue balls. This bothered me so I made a couple comments later that came off quite rude. I tried saving the situation by explaining myself and my boundaries (I told him I haven't had the best dating experiences in the past but didn't go in more detail). I was having a hard time trying to fix things because I was drunk. Things were super awkward and when he was leaving, I could tell how annoyed he was by his face.
The next day, I sent him a lighthearted message that I was feeling better about things and still had fun before the night ended weirdly and he sent a text back to shut things down with me right after. I feel TERRIBLE about this still cuz things seemed to be going really well before and I have a hard time finding dates in my city. Man, I screwed things up and I keep thinking that we still could have been talking if I just hadn't invited him up or told him my boundaries much more in advance.
2024.05.15 16:27 indecisiverambutan Guilty as a Sin
Im writing this to get off it off my chest cuz ive been carrying it for so long.
Ok so, im slowly falling out of love again with by boyfriend. lol i find it funny cuz we already broke up about a year ago then got back together after 6months kasi namiss ko siya. Well long story pa rin naman why we got back together, thats another story to tell. Anyway going back, yes I wanna get out of this relationship again, why? Kasi its the same shit as beforelike gago i felt like he doesn't have plans for me or for our relationship. I already talked to him about this, pero ewan ko feels like the same shit after a year of getting back together. I hope he's not here in this subreddit cuz he'll know na its me.
Not to mention about the sex!!!!!! The sex issssss boring (like fucking boring) there's no dominance at all!!! Yeh fine he knows that I am kinda dom pero tangina sana konting dominance naman????? In fact I already communicated this to him but still the same routine during sex pota!!!!! I wanna be fucked like a puta at the same time like a baby (baby puta lol)
Tangina baka if ill choose to stay ill still end up cheating????? Idk i hate cheating pero tangina nakukulangan ako. Puro imagination na lang pinapagana ko!!!! Im so bored of this relationship tangina.
I know being in a relationship is a choice pero right now im feeling it as a chore.
Fuck im fucking fucked up
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Ok so, im slowly falling out of love again with by boyfriend. lol i find it funny cuz we already broke up about a year ago then got back together after 6months kasi namiss ko siya. Well long story pa rin naman why we got back together, thats another story to tell. Anyway going back, yes I wanna get out of this relationship again, why? Kasi its the same shit as beforelike gago i felt like he doesn't have plans for me or for our relationship. I already talked to him about this, pero ewan ko feels like the same shit after a year of getting back together. I hope he's not here in this subreddit cuz he'll know na its me.
Not to mention about the sex!!!!!! The sex issssss boring (like fucking boring) there's no dominance at all!!! Yeh fine he knows that I am kinda dom pero tangina sana konting dominance naman????? In fact I already communicated this to him but still the same routine during sex pota!!!!! I wanna be fucked like a puta at the same time like a baby (baby puta lol)
Tangina baka if ill choose to stay ill still end up cheating????? Idk i hate cheating pero tangina nakukulangan ako. Puro imagination na lang pinapagana ko!!!! Im so bored of this relationship tangina.
I know being in a relationship is a choice pero right now im feeling it as a chore.
Fuck im fucking fucked up
2024.05.15 16:18 Adorable_Leader_1004 Lost Dramione fic - details inside post
I’m looking for a fic I read on AO3 and I didn’t bookmark it and I can’t remember the name. I searched through my history with no luck. I wonder if the author deleted it 🥺
Here are all the details I can immediately recall:
Hermione is the minister and she uses her political power to set Draco free when he expects to get the kiss, but he has to live as a muggle and of course doesn’t have a wand.
Draco meets a muggle guy at a bar and ends up becoming flatmates with him and another guy.
Draco sits with an old lady who has Alzheimer’s and periodically thinks Draco is her husband. He plays along when it happens
Hermione ends up having sex with the roommate of Draco’s that he had met in the bar and she ends up obliviating herself from his memory.
There’s a new threat and Hermione asks Draco to infiltrate the group and she gives him an insane black market wand. He does as she asks but she doesn’t hear from him for months. He killed the leader and polyjuiced as him almost the entire time he was away. He brings them to the ministry during a gala or something like that and Draco kills all the followers.
Draco has what appears to be mental issues, but it’s something darker than that. Kind of like dementors, but not that… they follow him around and it doesn’t bode well for his mental state.
Draco finds a 3 year old a boy named Leo by the lions at the zoo that had been abandoned. Hermione had gone to the bathroom and Draco is asking what his mother looks like and when he sees Hermione, he points to her.
Draco performs magic in front of Leo. Like making a 3 story slide and tent type thing.
Draco loves Leo and Hermione can’t bond with the little boy. Hermione goes into the boy’s memories and he was neglected and the mother was on drugs and the father was abusive to the mom (I think) and the mom ends up killing the dad and she’s the one who took Leo to the zoo and left him there. Draco is extremely protective of Leo.
Ron is NOT a good person and ends up with the R word carved into his forehead by Draco with the wand Hermione had given him after he does something horrible to her while Draco was out walking with Leo and comes back when it’s happening.
Harry and Ron are both Aurors and Ron is suspended after what happens.
Draco ends up wiping the boy’s memory of all magic and him and Hermione and calls to have the boy picked up and placed with a loving family. He did it for Hermione, but she thought he wiped out the painful things the boy experienced, which she knows will make him into who he is supposed to be, just like all of it made Draco into who he was.
The old lady that Draco sits with is actually a witch (a Hufflepuff I think and her husband was pretty much how Draco was to Hermione at Hogwarts) and she knows what’s actually wrong with Draco and she has to do some memory magic to help get rid of them and she accidentally completely wipes Hermione out of his mind in the process.
Hermione is pregnant and for some reason Draco goes to the hospital I think the old lady told him to go and talks to Ron outside after being inside and asks who Hermione had been with or something like that… and at some point Ron lifts up his hair that he grew out to cover what Draco carved into his forehead and told him that he was the one who did that.
The ending is in Hermione’s minister office and her secretary is a muggle and she says she tried to keep them from coming in just as Draco and their children come running in to Hermione’s office.
I hope that’s enough to help it be recognized! I think it was from like 2010-2015…
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Here are all the details I can immediately recall:
Hermione is the minister and she uses her political power to set Draco free when he expects to get the kiss, but he has to live as a muggle and of course doesn’t have a wand.
Draco meets a muggle guy at a bar and ends up becoming flatmates with him and another guy.
Draco sits with an old lady who has Alzheimer’s and periodically thinks Draco is her husband. He plays along when it happens
Hermione ends up having sex with the roommate of Draco’s that he had met in the bar and she ends up obliviating herself from his memory.
There’s a new threat and Hermione asks Draco to infiltrate the group and she gives him an insane black market wand. He does as she asks but she doesn’t hear from him for months. He killed the leader and polyjuiced as him almost the entire time he was away. He brings them to the ministry during a gala or something like that and Draco kills all the followers.
Draco has what appears to be mental issues, but it’s something darker than that. Kind of like dementors, but not that… they follow him around and it doesn’t bode well for his mental state.
Draco finds a 3 year old a boy named Leo by the lions at the zoo that had been abandoned. Hermione had gone to the bathroom and Draco is asking what his mother looks like and when he sees Hermione, he points to her.
Draco performs magic in front of Leo. Like making a 3 story slide and tent type thing.
Draco loves Leo and Hermione can’t bond with the little boy. Hermione goes into the boy’s memories and he was neglected and the mother was on drugs and the father was abusive to the mom (I think) and the mom ends up killing the dad and she’s the one who took Leo to the zoo and left him there. Draco is extremely protective of Leo.
Ron is NOT a good person and ends up with the R word carved into his forehead by Draco with the wand Hermione had given him after he does something horrible to her while Draco was out walking with Leo and comes back when it’s happening.
Harry and Ron are both Aurors and Ron is suspended after what happens.
Draco ends up wiping the boy’s memory of all magic and him and Hermione and calls to have the boy picked up and placed with a loving family. He did it for Hermione, but she thought he wiped out the painful things the boy experienced, which she knows will make him into who he is supposed to be, just like all of it made Draco into who he was.
The old lady that Draco sits with is actually a witch (a Hufflepuff I think and her husband was pretty much how Draco was to Hermione at Hogwarts) and she knows what’s actually wrong with Draco and she has to do some memory magic to help get rid of them and she accidentally completely wipes Hermione out of his mind in the process.
Hermione is pregnant and for some reason Draco goes to the hospital I think the old lady told him to go and talks to Ron outside after being inside and asks who Hermione had been with or something like that… and at some point Ron lifts up his hair that he grew out to cover what Draco carved into his forehead and told him that he was the one who did that.
The ending is in Hermione’s minister office and her secretary is a muggle and she says she tried to keep them from coming in just as Draco and their children come running in to Hermione’s office.
I hope that’s enough to help it be recognized! I think it was from like 2010-2015…
2024.05.15 16:14 quasiprofesh Am I (46M) leaving her (36F) for good reason? Home massages from a former lover, lies.
I'm mostly asking for reinforcements, honestly. I know my reasons are solid.
TLDR: see title. wife of a very short time was seeing a massage therapist / former lover behind my back. is that alone enough reason for me to leave her?
I met someone last year in August. It was an intense courtship, we moved in together in December and married at the courthouse on Valentine's day. Now it's not even June, and already I have enough reason to pack up and go. There are several other issues, but there was one that was the last straw.
That was how after we'd only been married about two months, she arranged for a private massage therapist to come to our house. He was going to come while I was at work, I only heard about it when he had to reschedule for a time when I might be home. She described him just as 'this guy'. LONG story short, several weeks later, she eventually admitted (after lying about it, at first) that he wasn't just a good friend but also a former lover! From "many years ago", sure, but they began as dating, had sex, broke it off and became friends. I was absolutely livid. Nearly divorced her. She cried, apologized, begged me not to go. I forgave her and we stayed together.
'Many' in this circumstance is maximum 7, by the way. That's when she moved here originally.
Then I realized when reading my journal and looking at old messages; he'd come to her house before. Way back after we'd only been dating a couple months - but were definitely exclusive - I came over one afternoon and there was a guy on her block loading a massage table into his car. He had asked me to come a bit later, was taking a shower - among other signs. It was clear that he'd been there to see her. She has few neighbors and all of them are very poor (this is in Mexico), they couldn't afford it. Once I jogged my memory enough, I realized it was the same guy. Same car, same bag, same table. I had asked her about it that day, wasn't upset, just curious. She got mad at me for asking and called it an 'accusation'.
She still hasn't admitted that she was having him over back then. I no longer trust her at all, and I'm assuming they were probably doing more than professional massages. (They couldn't have been professional, by the way. All massage therapists learn in their first term of school about ethics, and how you should never take on a client you've had a relationship with, especially involving sex, before.)
So, now, I've found an apartment and am planning on moving June 1st. She can't afford the house we're in, but she has family on the US side (we're in a border town) who can help. What really sucks is that she has to take care of her disabled mother who will be recovering from surgery. I'm going to pay the rent for June at this place and my new apartment, just to help her out.
I keep trying to remind myself that I'm being kinder about this than I have to be. What she did was cheating. It doesn't matter if there was no sex or kissing, or even romance. She did something she knew I would be uncomfortable with, multiple times, lied about it, and still is.
There are multiple other reasons, but those issues alone were manageable. I'm just looking for some backup on if this issue alone is enough reason to break it off and go. My reasoning is that since she's refusing to come clean and be honest, after all this, means that I shouldn't trust her in the future. You can't have true love without trust, and it's a shaky bridge made of thin ice I shouldn't cross. I need to get out before this goes any further, definitely before we have a child.
So, what do you think? Am I right, or should I just get over it and move on.
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TLDR: see title. wife of a very short time was seeing a massage therapist / former lover behind my back. is that alone enough reason for me to leave her?
I met someone last year in August. It was an intense courtship, we moved in together in December and married at the courthouse on Valentine's day. Now it's not even June, and already I have enough reason to pack up and go. There are several other issues, but there was one that was the last straw.
That was how after we'd only been married about two months, she arranged for a private massage therapist to come to our house. He was going to come while I was at work, I only heard about it when he had to reschedule for a time when I might be home. She described him just as 'this guy'. LONG story short, several weeks later, she eventually admitted (after lying about it, at first) that he wasn't just a good friend but also a former lover! From "many years ago", sure, but they began as dating, had sex, broke it off and became friends. I was absolutely livid. Nearly divorced her. She cried, apologized, begged me not to go. I forgave her and we stayed together.
'Many' in this circumstance is maximum 7, by the way. That's when she moved here originally.
Then I realized when reading my journal and looking at old messages; he'd come to her house before. Way back after we'd only been dating a couple months - but were definitely exclusive - I came over one afternoon and there was a guy on her block loading a massage table into his car. He had asked me to come a bit later, was taking a shower - among other signs. It was clear that he'd been there to see her. She has few neighbors and all of them are very poor (this is in Mexico), they couldn't afford it. Once I jogged my memory enough, I realized it was the same guy. Same car, same bag, same table. I had asked her about it that day, wasn't upset, just curious. She got mad at me for asking and called it an 'accusation'.
She still hasn't admitted that she was having him over back then. I no longer trust her at all, and I'm assuming they were probably doing more than professional massages. (They couldn't have been professional, by the way. All massage therapists learn in their first term of school about ethics, and how you should never take on a client you've had a relationship with, especially involving sex, before.)
So, now, I've found an apartment and am planning on moving June 1st. She can't afford the house we're in, but she has family on the US side (we're in a border town) who can help. What really sucks is that she has to take care of her disabled mother who will be recovering from surgery. I'm going to pay the rent for June at this place and my new apartment, just to help her out.
I keep trying to remind myself that I'm being kinder about this than I have to be. What she did was cheating. It doesn't matter if there was no sex or kissing, or even romance. She did something she knew I would be uncomfortable with, multiple times, lied about it, and still is.
There are multiple other reasons, but those issues alone were manageable. I'm just looking for some backup on if this issue alone is enough reason to break it off and go. My reasoning is that since she's refusing to come clean and be honest, after all this, means that I shouldn't trust her in the future. You can't have true love without trust, and it's a shaky bridge made of thin ice I shouldn't cross. I need to get out before this goes any further, definitely before we have a child.
So, what do you think? Am I right, or should I just get over it and move on.
2024.05.15 16:05 Hour_Ad_7038 Advice with porn..
So, I have been married for 28 years to an amazing man. We always had an exciting sex life and we both have high libidos. I have always been SO attracted to my husband because he has always told me that he saves all his “looks” for me, that he doesn’t do all the stuff online most guys do. He says he always saves his orgasms for me and that hella made him sexy in my eyes!! I wanted him all the time and he was the hottest guy in the world and I threw myself at him constantly!! Long story short, of course I find out about his porn. He has hid it our whole marriage, lied to my face and started gaslighting me about it and we went through a really rough patch. So now I know what he looks at and that he is just the same as all the other guys and it’s just not attractive to me anymore. He can tell everything is different because I don’t initiate anymore, I but I never tell him no if he wants to be intimate. Nothing feels special about our sex life anymore and it’s hard for me to orgasm. I actually found myself faking it the other day which is something I’ve never had to do in my life! It makes me feel better when I think that every women deals with this and they are still having beautiful, fulfilling partnerships. I really want to get back to that!! I did start therapy but it is a slow go.. I would love any advice from all the beautiful women here on how to be graceful about this and accept and love intimacy again!! *just a side note for anyone suggesting that I start watching it myself, I was molested by a family member growing up in which porn was a huge part of so I don’t have any good feelings towards it and it will not be a part of my life ever..
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2024.05.15 16:04 bland_hand Best Hookup Websites for Online Dating in 2024?
I'm looking for the best hookup websites in 2024. I know there are a lot of options out there, and I'm looking for recommendations on which ones are the most reliable and active.
I've tried a bunch of them that I found online. These include Tinder, AdultFriendFinder, and Pure, but I didn't have much luck with them. Here is my opinion about them:
Best hookup sites reddit recommends?
How to find hook ups near me?
Are these apps for sex meet-ups?
Has anyone had good experiences with certain sites or apps? What features do you like about them? Any success stories or tips would be appreciated!
Thanks!
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I've tried a bunch of them that I found online. These include Tinder, AdultFriendFinder, and Pure, but I didn't have much luck with them. Here is my opinion about them:
- Tinder: One of the most popular dating apps, known for its swiping feature. It has a large user base, making it easy to find matches. However, it can be hit or miss for casual hookups. Sometimes it feels more like a regular online dating app than a hookup website.
- AdultFriendFinder: Specifically geared towards casual encounters and adult dating. It has many features like live chats and videos, which sounds great, but my experience with it wasn't that impressive. Maybe I was using it wrong, or maybe it's just not as effective as it seems.
- Pure: An app designed for quick, no-strings-attached meetups. It's straightforward and to the point, but I didn't have much success with it. It promises quick hookups, but in reality, it seemed harder to actually arrange a meet-up.
Best hookup sites reddit recommends?
How to find hook ups near me?
Are these apps for sex meet-ups?
Has anyone had good experiences with certain sites or apps? What features do you like about them? Any success stories or tips would be appreciated!
Thanks!
2024.05.15 15:57 xbox_mac Seeking fulfillment due to emotional and sexual incompatibility
39m here, separating from my second wife after seven years together (my first wife and I were together for nine years). Long story short, I've always gone out of my way to make my most recent wife feel pleasure. Orgasm after orgasm, physical touch, just showing her how much I love her and think she's beautiful when we are intimate together.
I get these fantasies in my head that she will do the same for me, but she just uses no effort or passion. She had a lot of things go wrong growing up, and i'm very sensitive to that and being there for her... sometimes her view of sexuality is a bit different. It's not as high on her priority list and more or less doesn't get into it with any effort to make me feel pleasure or reciprocate.
Anyway, so I'm bi of course, and when we are intimate, I always seem to put toys in her butt. Whether it's my fingers, a plug, or a dildo, it's something she enjoys once in a blue moon. My problem is that when I want the same things (as a verse bottom), she gets too squeamish about butts in general, and well... it doesn't happen, even though promises of some-day or a different night... usual excuses for any sex acts... or even quitting her addictions... oh next time, oh next week, oh after the holidays....blah...
I want to enjoy her touching me that way. It makes me really depressed, and I mean, other things wrong in the relationship aside, this really bothers me. I don't get my basic intimate needs considered ever. Whether I want a HJ, BJ, or even just PIV, it is emotionless and cold, and she's never concerned about my needs and desires or what I really want out of intimacy. Heck, she puts a hand on my leg and I practically fall asleep because I don't get touched like that very often. I just want hands all over me and passionate kisses. I just crave that. someone i can make out with on the couch without even thinking about other stuff in the world, just freaking get LOST in me... thats all i ever wanted from her.
I mean, financially she's a mess, emotionally unavailable, addictions galore... just a hard person to be married to. enabled a lot of things that i look back and realize was wrong.
I feel so guilty separating and wanting more out of life... someone who doesn't taste like cigarettes or abuse drinking/Adderall, etc. Someone who can look at me and touch me and really want to give me pleasure and love and make me feel like I deserve it and I don't need to fight for my basic reciprocal intimacy. someone who wants to sexually explore eachother more, even though comfortable, i never want to stop being creative or trying things like threesomes or other exploratory stuff.
Anyway... we separated a few months ago, and I met a nice guy friend who I actually bottomed with (first time). I really enjoyed myself (riding on top, the other angles didn't work for me). Granted, I'm not emotionally attached to men, but the way he puts his hands on me and fucks me is just... meaningful and incredible and attentive. He just makes me melt.
I want that with a woman someday, but I'm grateful to know that greater love and intimacy and self-care are out there with other people in the world. Even though he's a hookup friend, it's nice to know people care about the things I desire.
i'm sorry if i come across as insensitive, i have really tried to be good and loving to her, and sensitive to her needs emotionally, physically, and in every which way... i just want that in return from someone again some day... who can look at me and just want to make me feel good and care about my needs and not just getting it over with and half-assed.
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I get these fantasies in my head that she will do the same for me, but she just uses no effort or passion. She had a lot of things go wrong growing up, and i'm very sensitive to that and being there for her... sometimes her view of sexuality is a bit different. It's not as high on her priority list and more or less doesn't get into it with any effort to make me feel pleasure or reciprocate.
Anyway, so I'm bi of course, and when we are intimate, I always seem to put toys in her butt. Whether it's my fingers, a plug, or a dildo, it's something she enjoys once in a blue moon. My problem is that when I want the same things (as a verse bottom), she gets too squeamish about butts in general, and well... it doesn't happen, even though promises of some-day or a different night... usual excuses for any sex acts... or even quitting her addictions... oh next time, oh next week, oh after the holidays....blah...
I want to enjoy her touching me that way. It makes me really depressed, and I mean, other things wrong in the relationship aside, this really bothers me. I don't get my basic intimate needs considered ever. Whether I want a HJ, BJ, or even just PIV, it is emotionless and cold, and she's never concerned about my needs and desires or what I really want out of intimacy. Heck, she puts a hand on my leg and I practically fall asleep because I don't get touched like that very often. I just want hands all over me and passionate kisses. I just crave that. someone i can make out with on the couch without even thinking about other stuff in the world, just freaking get LOST in me... thats all i ever wanted from her.
I mean, financially she's a mess, emotionally unavailable, addictions galore... just a hard person to be married to. enabled a lot of things that i look back and realize was wrong.
I feel so guilty separating and wanting more out of life... someone who doesn't taste like cigarettes or abuse drinking/Adderall, etc. Someone who can look at me and touch me and really want to give me pleasure and love and make me feel like I deserve it and I don't need to fight for my basic reciprocal intimacy. someone who wants to sexually explore eachother more, even though comfortable, i never want to stop being creative or trying things like threesomes or other exploratory stuff.
Anyway... we separated a few months ago, and I met a nice guy friend who I actually bottomed with (first time). I really enjoyed myself (riding on top, the other angles didn't work for me). Granted, I'm not emotionally attached to men, but the way he puts his hands on me and fucks me is just... meaningful and incredible and attentive. He just makes me melt.
I want that with a woman someday, but I'm grateful to know that greater love and intimacy and self-care are out there with other people in the world. Even though he's a hookup friend, it's nice to know people care about the things I desire.
i'm sorry if i come across as insensitive, i have really tried to be good and loving to her, and sensitive to her needs emotionally, physically, and in every which way... i just want that in return from someone again some day... who can look at me and just want to make me feel good and care about my needs and not just getting it over with and half-assed.