Hello! My boyfriend and I are traveling from Houston, Tx to Northern Ohio. We are more than likely taking the southern route through Louisiana, Mississippi, Alabama. Probably stopping through Florida, Georgia and up through Tennessee and Kentucky.
Was looking for suggestions on places to stop and visit for attractions/food/stay. I’ve made this trip a few times before but always a straight through. It’ll be my boyfriend’s first time traveling through some of these states.
It’s our first kid free trip. Looking to have fun. We’ve planned about a week for travel.
Thanks in advance!

TL;DR - My father has a loan of over 1cr (again). We (me, my wife) earn about 1 lakh a month. Don't know if I (late 30s) should prioritise myself, my kid or my father.
Sorry this is going to be a very long post, as I feel like giving you a 40 year background and TBH, I don't even have right questiona to ask.
Part 1 - Background
My father started his first business (1980s) before even I was born. As he didn't have any capital, he took heavy loans to begin. Although he was running a successful wholesale agency (among top 10 in my state as per the company accounts), our expenses+interest was huge. By 1995 his interest was about 10 lakhs per month vs ~8L he made. By 1998, we got bankrupt and he had to sell everything, even his shop, my mother's ornaments and the house where we lived. As per the agreements court ordered us to pay 50% or principal to each lender (all of them had already got 10x via interests earlier). We did that, but not all money was owned by noble men, some of it was from loan sharks and they wanted last penny so they threatened and kept on taking money till today.
In 2000, after the shame of bankruptcy went little bit down, my father restarted the business as a retailer, with just 8000 that he earned doing petty things. With his contacts and dedication he grew enough to support our family, but 2005-2010 hit him hard. I went to college, my sibling wanted badly to go to Kota, all savings went down coz of 2008 crash and he took loans again.
Since then his expenses vs earning is constantly negative and loans have soared to 1 CR again. With zero assets this bubble will burst in maximum 1-2 years.
He has ZERO assets, just a 2007 Activa that he bought for me.
Part 2 - My story.
I (late 30s) along with my wife earn ~1.5 LPM. We spend about 80k in Rent, grocery, shopping, insurance etc. give 30k to my father for their expenses, rest saving in FDs/RDs for down payment to buy us a home.
My father loved us like anything and despite of him not having anything fulfilled all our naive wishes. Now all I wish is same like Babu Bhai from Hera pheri. I want to see my father sit in his own home debt free and take a sip of tea.
But this would be at stake of me not building anything for my future and can seriously jeopardize my kid's future too.
Part 3 - Questions

1. Should we consider him closing his business and shifting with us? His account says business earns about 1Lpm with average expenses of 80k. But his interests some of it from suppliers cause it go negative.
   
2. Should I send more money home to help him repay his loans?
   
3. How do I plan for my kid (~3 yo).
   
4. For my case does saving even matter?
   

P.S. Serious answer only Don't need upvotes, just need genuine advice, so rather share with someone who you think can really help.

Hello, I graduated with my ADN last week, I'm currently studying for the NCLEX and have a job secured in the ICU at the school's hospital where I recently graduated. I would like to further my education in a year or two and would like to be either a Pysch NP or CRNA but the issue is I've been looking at some Universities such as Columbia and NYU and noticed that they require their upcoming classes to have a GPA of 3.5 but my GPA was a 3.44 ADN and I hopefully will be applying for my RN-BSN but I was just wondering has anyone gotten into their Uni with a GPA lower than a 3.5? Also what else can I do for my application to look better when I start applying for the DNP programs? My school didn't offer any extracurricular activities since its such a small college. I plan on getting as many certifications such as my CCRN as possible and maybe try to volunteer whenever I'm free but what else?

Imagine this scenario
I the developer made the website website
I have a freelancer workspace
I transferred the website to the client
The client can invite me to his workspace
The client has the free starter workspace
All i can do i edit and not design the website ????
This is what it says in the docs The Agency or Freelancer guest role can access:
Workspace sites to which they have access2 Workspace settings: Integrations and TemplatesThe Editor
The Agency or Freelancer guest role can’t access:
All other Workspace settings (Workspaces, Members, Plans, Billing, and Partner Settings)
Now the client has to upgrade his workspace to at least a freelancer workspace to invite me to design?
No the client should pay for the workspace plan and sites life cycle?
I want to ask , can i just ask the client to duplicate his site then transfer ownership of the unhosted duplicate back to me so i design and edit the changes then transfer back the site to the client workspaceand after all of this the client should transferhosting to the new updated duplicate I see that this is the only way to avoid upgrading the client's workspace to save money from his side

Intended major: biochem or neuro (only neuro bc I have done research in neuro, had bad migraines for a bit missed about 20% of sixth grade, researched the mutated gene that is thought to cause migraines, have a couple of neuro doctor mentors, wrote book on brain, genuinely really really love!!) and then coupled with a minor or double concentration in writing (have always adored writing, want to pursue in some aspect, think I could combine science and writing to have a difference in making scientific concepts more comprehensible to all). Genuinely am very passionate about both like a lot! If I do not pursue writing will definitely pursue it in ecs in college.
I genuinely love everything I do and could talk about it for forever.
1) co-president of an international 501c3 writing competition nonprofit that receives over 200 submissions from all continents (and >15 countries) and reaches up to 70k people through marketing; started a science platform for kids to submit their work (since beginning of sophomore year). Have insta, TikTok, website, podcast, and newsletter platforms. Started middle of sophomore year.
2) international 501c3 health nonprofit founder and president. post blogs to teach kids about health and medicine (over 300 posts by submissions). additionally have 25 international club chapters from 10 states and 6 countries (3 continents), will have raised more then $10k for our internationally known partner, affiliated w a t10, by college apps through our chapters and donations. Starting chapters at two t25 universities, trying to establish more at others. Also talking to two more people from 2 other countries (and one other continent) to start chapters. Have website and instagram platforms (reaching over 5k different users from 18 countries). Started summer going into junior year. Over 1k followers on Instagram. Selected for innovation internship with ivy league alumni. Started chapter at my school (founder and president), helped partner teens w doctor mentors and secured them shadowing opportunities.
3) Founded and president of a biology club at school to redistribute resources only given to certain students. have over 130 members and 50 active members. host seminars with 4 professionals (including renowned doctor that worked with one of the people who discovered dna structure), four free dissections so far (since beginning of sophomore year). provide academic to ap bio classes with testing treats (during midterms, finals, ap exams, and national science day). established bulletin board at school to post all science opportunities. started resource hub for kids at my school (~600 enrolled students).
4) Executive manager of school newspaper, started a science column to explore themes in science (head writer and editor), expanded distribution to whole district and local businesses, wrote over 26 articles (basically almost every edition since my first month of freshman year). Participated all four years of high school, heavily involved. Went from writer to small leadership role to exec board (4 selected) for 2 years (first to be a 2 year exec).
5) EMT - EMT certified, hoping to work over 100 hours by submissions. Completed >20 hours of shadowing, completed 40-module course with an A. Created online website resource hub for people trying to become an EMT. Inspired to try to start an AP Anatomy course at the high school (currently working to integrate). Started middle of junior year.
6) Research - cold emailed over 20 research professors from universities to find opportunities. assisted an ivy league doctor with a literature review (published and listed in acknowledgments), wrote and published (in peer-reviewed academic journals) two review papers on migraines and hemophilia (under mentorship of T30 PhD student and T10 pharmaceutical company doctor). Additionally attending research program over the summer (~8% acceptance rate) where I will continue to research. Through research, discovered education barrier, influenced to begin creatively writing (start science blog to explain complex topics?????). Started research pub platforms bc hard to find free ones! Started all research beginning of junior year.
7) Curriculum Council (started beginning of junior)- chosen by admin and staff as one in four (out of >1200) to represent student body in council of school board and admin. led an initiative to start a science research course at school (which will be implemented next year). Part of committee since beginning of junior year.
8) Student government (all 4 years of hs) - chosen as one of fifteen (out of 350 in class) to be student rep, as one in ten (out of 350 in class) to directly advise the principal in event and school planning matters in Principal advisory committee, and as one in eight (out of ~1000) to be on the Student ambassador exec board. Participated in all three of them since 9th grade (4 years).
9) three season varsity athlete. Have participated in every fall season of field hockey since second grade (11 seasons) and play for my high school and in middle school. Have additionally played field hockey in club for eight seasons (total of 19 seasons). Varsity defensive starter. Led clinics for youth to learn field hockey. Also, varsity track and field runner for spring and winter seasons (have participated all four years of high school, 8 seasons by the end of high school).
10) service: do not know which to include,
Girl Scouts - earned Silver award and earning gold award. have earned over 150 service hours and over 50 badges. Girl Scout for ten years.
Service club - leadership in a club that raises over $100,000 for cancer research (small role)
other:

• wrote and published a children’s book on how the brain works (read more in awards section)
  
• service (earned congressional award gold medal so 400+ hours)
  
• horticulture: intern at one of the most renowned botanical gardens for a year, have a garden, wrote blog abt it (essay related to flowers/gardening)
  

We had one project in the works with a local architect and for a variety of reasons, had to shelve the original plan- mostly because he gave us wildly inaccurate construction cost estimates so we were thinking we could do more than we could after we got the concept worked out and floated it by some contractors.
It hasn’t been a great relationship- and we kind of regretted our choice halfway into that original plan. We are now rebooting the project to be an attached ADU, and I’m trying to decide whether to stick with that architect or try someone new.
Does anyone have a recommendation for local architects who have done ADU plans? Rough cost? Feel free to PM me if preferred.

If you read this, thank you in advance.
I'm the third one of 5 siblings. I've been taking care of both my parents since 2016 till my dad passed away at 90 y.o. during the pandemic. A year before it, my older sister also passed away, which was a big blow for my parents. Now it's mom and me. Younger brother lives close, but won't even call mom to check how she's doing. Younger sister lives in another country and tries to be in touch through video calls, but most of the times mom is not in the mood or something happens. My older brother takes care of all the paperwork and makes sure all bills get paid and tries to come see her after work a couple of times during the week. Since January, after my mom needed surgery (colostomy), I have a live-in nurse, 5 days a week.
The main thing is that I never got along very well with my mom. I realized life was getting harder for my parents, some kind of accident was bound to happen any day (kettle on the fire, open gas, falls, you name it) so as I was single, I decided to move in with them. I was renting at that time, but between my job (+12 hours/day Tuesday thru Sunday, plus every other Monday) and getting groceries, cooking and keeping company to my parents, I barely spent time in my place. It was like a big and expensive storage unit.
For a while it was ok. I wasn't home a lot, they had someone who "helped" with the house chores (and managed to steal a lot of stuff in the meantime) and they didn't need assistance to walk, bathe and we're pretty independent. That was till they discovered the "help" was stealing and she resigned (after blaming me for stealing?).
Then the pandemic had us all locked up at home and my dad started to decline fast. So basically, it was just mom and me watching him going down at a very fast pace. He would come and go to and from the hospital several times during that process and once he didn't return.
The next day of my dad's passing, I was called back to go to work. And that's when this all started. My mom (about to turn 92 now) started calling me on the phone several times a day, asking me to return home, which I couldn't till my shift was over. That went on for about a year. I had the chance to retire with 30 years of service and at the (sort of) young age of 51. All was good for a couple of months. But my mom has always been a bit controlling and she demands that I tell her everything I'm doing. She sees me walking into the kitchen and she asks Where are you going? I go to the bathroom? She wants to know what for. I admit sometimes I don't answer properly. What am I supposed to say when she asks me what I'm going to do in the bathroom?
If I tell her I'll go get some groceries, when I return, she's pissed off because I took too long. The shop is around the corner, so the longest it takes me is 15 minutes, if it's crowded. My social interactions are when I go out for groceries or meds. If I went out for a coffee (God forbid!) she wanted to know where I'd be, with whom, how long it'd take... Maddening!! I told her that after being on this planet for more than half a century, I deserved some space for myself, without needing my mom's permission to breathe. She went on pestering me, so I stopped going out almost completely.
But that's not the problem. Like I said, we never got along very well. So when I didn't live with her 24/7/365, I could tolerate her criticism. I would laugh it off and leave. But now it seems that she's determined to break me. Nothing I do is good enough, everything could be improved. She keeps finding new ways to humiliate me and make me feel stupid. Some days I don't mind, but others I just can't take it and blow out. She's mean on purpose. She says nasty things and keeps going till I leave the room. Then she's satisfied and joyfully says: "Oh! That bothered you? Come on! I was joking!". Why is she doing that? Jealousy. Because she thinks I took better care of my dad. But he was almost blind, almost deaf, bedridden and had trouble swallowing, so all his meals needed to be prepared very carefully.
Except for the colostomy, mom's health is better than mine. She has no dietary restrictions, her heart works great, no lung issues, nothing. Before the colostomy she was independent. Now she refuses to walk. And yes, she can do it when she wants. It's just that she doesn't want to get better. She said that if she does, she won't have the attention she's getting now.
She knows I had plans for my retirement years, but she told me she's entitled to my company since " You don't have a life like your siblings". I know, for some people the only life worth living is if you have a family. I chose to be alone. But I don't think I should be punished for my life choices.
Anyway, despite her being so judgemental, I don't neglect her. Each time I go out, I get her something she'd like. Chocolates, sweets, pastries, whatever I know she enjoys. She says she'd like to have something, before the week is gone, she gets whatever she asks for and she's happy, at least for a few moments... But of course, once she has it, she doesn't want it anymore. And wants something else. I cook whatever she asks me to prepare. I thonestly try my best to have her happy. But I feel it's useless. She always finds something to complain.
Having to clean her and change the colostomy bag doesn't bother me. I did it for my dad, so it's fine. Anyway it's only a couple of days a week now. I'm ok with it. What drives me nuts is the neverending nagging. I told her that if she keeps bothering me, I'll leave and she knows that my brothers won't give up their lives to come live with her and she'll end up in a nursing home. I've talked to my brothers and they tell me to be "more!" patient and to brush off what she says. Yeah! Easy when they don't have to deal with it 24/7. They don't come and stay with her for a few hours when they're free. They just make a short visit and leave. And I just want to scream when I hear them telling me to "be more patient".
I'm absolutely worn out, depressed, overwhelmed, angry and defeated. Why do I stay? Because the other option is a nursing home and she won't last long there.
Sometimes I think that I should just pack my bags and let things happen.
I know I made a mistake when I moved back with them. But I was spending so much time here, that it seemed the natural thing to do. Wrong! I'm a loner. I've always been independent. If I wanted to travel, I would just pack and leave. I enjoy being by myself and not talking to anyone for several days, and having to live with someone permanently and taking care of their needs is like Hell.
Now I feel like I'm stuck here and there's not much I can do without jeopardizing my mom's last years. But I don't know how long I'll be able to live like this. Each day I feel more drained and hopeless.
Sorry, it's too long, but I needed to get this out. Thanks for reading.

So, my friend isn’t able to go to the concert with me as planned so I’m trying to sell my ticket. If you need 2 seats next to each other I think he’s also selling his ticket and I can get that arranged. Our seats are for floor M row 7. Feel free to message me if you’re interested!

(New account cause I’m not sure if people know my main account)
Alright, so I’m 18 ftm, been out for 3 years, 2 years on T, 4 months post op top surgery (yay!). Throughout my entire journey, I’ve always struggled with my name. Even before I came out, I hated my dead name, and it’s just gotten worse since coming out. For nearly a year after coming out, I struggled finding a name that I felt worked for me and I liked. I’ve tried a bunch, and my family kinda got sick of it. Eventually, my mom came up with the idea of “Sullivan” after her mother’s maiden name. I liked it enough at the time, I’ve gone by “Sully” for a bit now, but I just don’t like it enough to be stuck with it for my life (despite what my mom says, I refuse to be “stuck” with a name I don’t like enough). I feel like I struggle with finding a name because I never liked my name growing up and it’s put a lot of pressure on me to find the “perfect” name.
I’ve started working on legally changing my name, but the issue is, I don’t have a name I want to be my first. Sullivan would be my middle name, but I have yet to find a first name I like enough.
Recently I thought of the name Danvers. I know it’s more of a last name (guess that’s kinda my thing) and the name is more likely to out me, but I personally am not stealth, and I don’t plan to be stealth, I like to be open about my identity and who I am, in case it can help other people be who they are, cause you never know. The name Danvers comes from a show that end up being my first introduction into the LGBTQ community. Before seeing this couple get together, I knew nothing of it, I didn’t even know it was or could be a thing and it blew my mind and opened up so many doors for me that lead me to discovering myself.
I don’t have much of a sounding board when it comes to names, and trying to find one. My mom wants me to stick with Sully, my dad would be no help at all, and my sisters are helpful in a way that only sisters could be, and find ways to make fun of any potential name and ways I could be bullied for having that name (lol). So to my fellow guys, enbys and anyone else on this sub, what are your honest thoughts on the name Danvers? Or feel free to drop some name suggestions if you’re willing.
Thanks in advance for any advice :) (Also thanks for reading if you made it this far lol)

Is it just me, or is Luna super annoying and dumb? I'm on Chapter 15 when you wake up back in Seren, and I don't understand Luna's motivations at all.
She plans to join the Lucian Army to fight Rasharn, her hometown gets invaded and brutally attacked by Rasharn, she watches her childhood friends get blown up by Rasharn, then what does she do?
Joins up with Rasharn for "free tuition", becomes their warlord's right hand, and starts referring to Rasharn as "us" and saying things like "our culture was being destroyed". Girl, you grew up as a Lucian, quit acting like you're a Rasharnian, they kidnapped you and killed your friends. And acting like the whole "Lucium stopped our children from becoming Magni" thing is equivalent to a genocide is absurd IMO. They just took away your weapons. You're in a war and the enemy found a way to weaken your army without actually killing people. They just stop them from becoming powerful soldiers in the first place.
I don't know, maybe I'm missing something, but I have zero sympathy for Rasharn or Luna where I am in the story right now.

Saw a text come in yesterday morning in a hen do chat asking people to confirm if they can definitely come... Didn't open it til tonight and of course it has all been booked and the venue is now full so they can't add me in.
I'm getting married myself in a month and I'm not even having a hen do because I procrastinated until it was too late. Maid of honour tried to organise it but it didn't work out, because by the time I gave her a list of people basically no one was free the weekend she'd planned to do it.
Sorry to be a miserable bastard just really hate ADHD sometimes. I've caused myself to miss out on so much over the years

Pardon formatting, I’m on my mobile device. Also this is a bit of a long one.
Like the title says, I’m trying to find out if I’m totally out of touch and expecting too much from my husband or if my expectations are reasonable. I’ll try to explain this the best I can.
So this week my mother asked for help moving things to a new storage locker. At first she just assumed my husband would help and didn’t properly ask him, to which he was irritated. He said he doesn’t like anyone to assume his help without asking, and that a majority of time he won’t do anything unless it’s on his time. Which I can somewhat understand. However in my family growing up I was just expected to help family when they need it. So he did say he would help, mostly because he didn’t want me being stuck doing all that.
Small details to add are that my mom has been unmarried and alone for most of my life. We are close-nit. And sometimes she has projects she’s doing that are kind of spur of the moment and spontaneous. To which I have gotten used to and I don’t mind jumping up and helping her when she needs it. So for the storage locker issue she had a time constraint to get all of her stuff out of the old one and into the new one as soon as possible.
So this week my husband and I said we’d help her yesterday, to which we ended up not being able to due to rain and poor weather conditions. So she didn’t reschedule but I figured she’d be asking for help again this week. To which she did this morning. I of course said yes. And it was spontaneous of her I’ll admit, but my husband was planning to spend the day with me today so I woke up and texted him that I was going to be helping my mom today and asked if he was still able to help her out? Well he slept in late and I couldn’t get ahold of him (we aren’t currently living together but trying to work on our marriage), so my mom had promised us a free meal if we helped her. Since I couldn’t get ahold of him and expected him to sleep a long time and my mom needed to get this done, we went ahead and went to the restaurant to eat. He woke up and messaged me while I was there and I asked him if he was going to help and if there was something I could order for him. He said he’d be on his way in 30 minutes, but then he was like “so what, I’m helping out for cold food?”. Super rude and entitled and I called him to get more details because I thought maybe we were miscommunicating. He basically said “we were supposed to do that yesterday and now you want me to do it on my time and I don’t even get a meal out of it now” and hung up on me. I didn’t call back nor did he nor have I received an apology for how he spoke to me.
He hasn’t said anything to me all day. So I guess I’m wondering if this is normally how men treat their wives? Even if it’s something they absolutely loath to do and it isn’t on their schedule (oh another side note is he in not employed right now and hasn’t been for about 2 months) wouldn’t a husband that loves his wife want to do heavy lifting for her if he had the chance? I would do it for my partner even if it was kind of a somewhat last minute thing.
I feel a little let down and like he doesn’t care about me. Am I overreacting? Asking for too much? I can’t help but think a real MAN would jump at the opportunity to make his wife’s life easier.
If you’ve made it this far thanks for reading!

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About Me

My name is Shelbion and I've been an avid League of Legends player for over a decade. In Season 4, I reached Challenger for the first time and even considered pursuing a professional career. However, after much reflection, I decided to pursue other challenges within the game.
Some of my notable achievements as a player include:

• Reaching Challenger on multiple positions.
• Participating and winning in numerous SR and 1v1 tournaments.
• Playing for various teams(Amateur and Semi-Professional).

Coaching

With over 7.000 hours of coaching experience, I fall into the category of one of the most experienced individuals in the field. My experience, passion, and ability to identify your flaws and tailor each session to your needs make me stand out as a Coach.
I've studied the techniques of renowned coaches, such as LS, MagiFelix, and others, and I've developed my unique coaching approach. So far, my approach has helped countless individuals, and over 20 teams advance their competitive play, across 5 different continents, including members of various College and University eSport Teams.
Some of my notable achievements include:

• Assisting a Diamond 2 player reach Challenger in just five weeks.
• Helping a Silver 2 player climb to Platinum in three weeks.
• Guiding a Diamond 3 player to Grandmaster in six weeks.

I am dedicated to continuously honing my skills and providing the best coaching experience possible to all of my clients, regardless of their rank or location.

Subscription Based Coaching

• One Individual Session (Monthly)
• Group Sessions (Weekly) x2
• Priority Coaching - Price: 99.99 > 49.99$.

Verifications & Certifications

• Certified IFOEC (International Federation of eSport Coaches) Educator & Coach.
• Certified EHPI (eSports Health & Performance) Professional.
• University of Irvine eSport Specialization
• Verified Coachify & Metafy Partner.

Community

In addition to my experience as a Player, I am also the Founder of Noxus Coaching - a rapidly growing, educational community on Discord. Our community is a great place to find new friends to play with, have a good time, and most importantly, improve your skills.
We hold various events on a weekly basis, including 1v1 & 5v5 tournaments, meme contests, and more. There are plenty of rewards to be won, including free coaching sessions with me. To join our community, visit https://discord.gg/RHW9BMxRd5 and message me upon joining to receive your role.

Podcast

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How Does it Work?

We will schedule an initial Interview during which we can discuss your goals and I can provide a more detailed explanation of my coaching services. This interview will typically last for 3-5 minutes.
The First Session is designed to assess your current level of gameplay and identify areas for improvement. After conducting an analysis, I will create a Personalized Coaching Plan tailored to your specific needs. This plan will outline a series of sessions designed to maximize your improvement.
The Coaching Plan may include various session types, such as:

• Theory sessions: These sessions will cover key concepts such as wave management, vision, decision making, and more.
• Practical sessions: These sessions will either be VOD reviews or live games, and will be used to put theoretical knowledge into practice and analyze gameplay.
• Reviews: These sessions will occur periodically and will be used as checkpoints to track your progress and identify any additional areas for improvement.

All sessions will be personalized and created specifically for each student's needs. By following this plan, you can feel confident that you are taking the most effective steps to achieve your goals.

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About Me

My name is Shelbion and I've been an avid League of Legends player for over a decade. In Season 4, I reached Challenger for the first time and even considered pursuing a professional career. However, after much reflection, I decided to pursue other challenges within the game.
Some of my notable achievements as a player include:

• Reaching Challenger on multiple positions.
• Participating and winning in numerous SR and 1v1 tournaments.
• Playing for various teams(Amateur and Semi-Professional).

Coaching

With over 7.000 hours of coaching experience, I fall into the category of one of the most experienced individuals in the field. My experience, passion, and ability to identify your flaws and tailor each session to your needs make me stand out as a Coach.
I've studied the techniques of renowned coaches, such as LS, MagiFelix, and others, and I've developed my unique coaching approach. So far, my approach has helped countless individuals, and over 20 teams advance their competitive play, across 5 different continents, including members of various College and University eSport Teams.
Some of my notable achievements include:

• Assisting a Diamond 2 player reach Challenger in just five weeks.
• Helping a Silver 2 player climb to Platinum in three weeks.
• Guiding a Diamond 3 player to Grandmaster in six weeks.

I am dedicated to continuously honing my skills and providing the best coaching experience possible to all of my clients, regardless of their rank or location.

Subscription Based Coaching

• One Individual Session (Monthly)
• Group Sessions (Weekly) x2
• Priority Coaching - Price: 99.99 > 49.99$.

Verifications & Certifications

• Certified IFOEC (International Federation of eSport Coaches) Educator & Coach.
• Certified EHPI (eSports Health & Performance) Professional.
• University of Irvine eSport Specialization
• Verified Coachify & Metafy Partner.

Community

In addition to my experience as a Player, I am also the Founder of Noxus Coaching - a rapidly growing, educational community on Discord. Our community is a great place to find new friends to play with, have a good time, and most importantly, improve your skills.
We hold various events on a weekly basis, including 1v1 & 5v5 tournaments, meme contests, and more. There are plenty of rewards to be won, including free coaching sessions with me. To join our community, visit https://discord.gg/RHW9BMxRd5 and message me upon joining to receive your role.

Podcast

• Podcast Appearance > https://youtu.be/4jn4FXOaOlE?si=98POLUJdJeSNnbiW

How Does it Work?

We will schedule an initial Interview during which we can discuss your goals and I can provide a more detailed explanation of my coaching services. This interview will typically last for 3-5 minutes.
The First Session is designed to assess your current level of gameplay and identify areas for improvement. After conducting an analysis, I will create a Personalized Coaching Plan tailored to your specific needs. This plan will outline a series of sessions designed to maximize your improvement.
The Coaching Plan may include various session types, such as:

• Theory sessions: These sessions will cover key concepts such as wave management, vision, decision making, and more.
• Practical sessions: These sessions will either be VOD reviews or live games, and will be used to put theoretical knowledge into practice and analyze gameplay.
• Reviews: These sessions will occur periodically and will be used as checkpoints to track your progress and identify any additional areas for improvement.

All sessions will be personalized and created specifically for each student's needs. By following this plan, you can feel confident that you are taking the most effective steps to achieve your goals.

Personalized Support (Available 24/7)

In addition to the structured coaching sessions, I offer personalized support to my clients on a 24/7 basis. Whether you have a specific question or just want to debrief after a tough game, I am always available to help. Simply message me and I will respond as quickly as possible.

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I am able to cover any server and any timezone! Rates for both Private and Team coaching are negotiable. We will easily get the sessions to fit your budget and your needs.
Payments are usually done through PayPal, however other forms of Payment such as Direct Transfer can be discussed.

Contact

Main form of contact is Discord on which you can find me at shelbion (Or Shelbion#8832)
Feel free to message me either on Discord or through a Direct Message on Reddit and I will come back to you as quickly as possible.

would anyone be interested in joining a discord server for custom tournaments our plan is to create a amateur pro league with plans to also implement prime tournaments as well the discord is FREE. if you are please let me know

Wonderland was once known as a land that was dictated under the rule of the infamous Queen of Hearts, who managed to seize the throne from the original royal family of Wonderland, the White King and Queen. Even so, Wonderland has always been looked to as a land where magic itself originated and can be found within its purest form, and this was all thanks to the Heart of Wonderland, which was what allowed for magic to freely flow as it saw fit, even beyond Wonderland’s boundaries. Essentially, without this heart, magic would cease to exist, not only for Wonderland, but also across all of the fairytale lands.
There was coup orchestrated by all the fairytale kingdoms, one that sealed all fairytale villains, sidekicks, and those not befitting of the new order of the realm both big and small onto a small island encased within a magical barrier, known as the Isle of the Lost. The Queen of Hearts was one of these individuals to be discarded, and to say that she was noncompliant would be an understatement, but is this really a surprise? I mean really, you try being dethroned after years of giving your people everything, and just because of a few strict rules and mild outbursts, you’re made enemy number one. Regardless, all villains and misfits were imprisoned onto the isle, and naturally some actions needed to be taken in order to preserve the order of Wonderland. As such, the infamous Alice, was elected as the New Queen of Wonderland, many praising her for her courage, humility, kindness, and blah…blah… blah. She was no princess, nor savior, especially within the eyes of the Queen of Hearts who vowed vengeance upon all that banished her to this wretched isle, especially Alice and the citizens of Wonderland. Naturally all the villains were seeking a way off the isle, but given the barrier preventing any usage of magic or even WiFi, there was no way off, or so we thought.
20 years had passed since the Isle of the Lost was founded, and many of the villains had their own offspring who were said to be the next hope of seeking their revenge. The daughter of the Queen of Hearts was known by many as Rosaria Hearts, the true princess of Wonderland. Similar to her mother she had immense beauty and a temper like no other when provoked, but she had a good head on her shoulders, unlike her mother. Many on the isle bowed to her, and she took advantage when she could, because at the end of the day, this was her playground until freedom came. She aligned herself with other notable villain offspring, 3 specifically: (To be determined). These four misfits ruled the Isle of the Lost, and their terror was so notable that they were the first in line for the Rehabilitation project. The Rehabilitation project was a decree that the son of Alice, also known as the Prince of Wonderland, Alistar Wonderland, put in place as a way to give the villain offspring a chance at redemption. There was finally true glee on the Isle, but for all the wrong reasons.
The Queen of Hearts desired for Rosaria and her friends to play along with this idea, given it would be the fuel the villains needed to stage a coup of their own. The plan was to rob Wonderland of the Heart they so cherished. Once taken, it would be used to break the break the barrier surrounding the isle, thus freeing the villains and allowing for evil to reenter each and every kingdom across Wonderland and Auradon. Naturally, Rosaria couldn’t deny her mother of this request, simply because this was Rosaria’s one true chance to prove to her mother that she was ready and willing to do whatever it took to rise to power. With a heavy heart she held her head up high, prepared to take on this task, and hopefully by the end, balance would be as it rightfully should, with the villains coming out on top.
Hey there, hope you enjoyed your read through. This role itself is one that is meant to be based on the Disney film known as Descendants. If you are unfamiliar with the franchise I would recommend looking up a summary, but the basis that I can say is that it is based on all the villains and any criminal being booted off to an isle as punishment for their crimes against the fairytale heroes and their “righteous” society. For my version, it would stray away from the Disney fluff and would be a lot more realistic in the approach, and it should be noted that this is non canon, so I would prefer if you have a character of your own creation ready.
I am more than open to twisting around the story if you have any specific ideas in mind, and you don’t have to play the son of Alice if you don’t desire to, you could play as a different Disney hero or even be apart of Rosaria’s crew of misfits, the choice is honestly yours and I enjoy creativity, so just be aware of that.
Either way, just give me a PM or DM, so we can discuss. I would love to know your name, age, and what Disney villain or hero you would like to be the descendant of.

Wonderland was once known as a land that was dictated under the rule of the infamous Queen of Hearts, who managed to seize the throne from the original royal family of Wonderland, the White King and Queen. Even so, Wonderland has always been looked to as a land where magic itself originated and can be found within its purest form, and this was all thanks to the Heart of Wonderland, which was what allowed for magic to freely flow as it saw fit, even beyond Wonderland’s boundaries. Essentially, without this heart, magic would cease to exist, not only for Wonderland, but also across all of the fairytale lands.
There was coup orchestrated by all the fairytale kingdoms, one that sealed all fairytale villains, sidekicks, and those not befitting of the new order of the realm both big and small onto a small island encased within a magical barrier, known as the Isle of the Lost. The Queen of Hearts was one of these individuals to be discarded, and to say that she was noncompliant would be an understatement, but is this really a surprise? I mean really, you try being dethroned after years of giving your people everything, and just because of a few strict rules and mild outbursts, you’re made enemy number one. Regardless, all villains and misfits were imprisoned onto the isle, and naturally some actions needed to be taken in order to preserve the order of Wonderland. As such, the infamous Alice, was elected as the New Queen of Wonderland, many praising her for her courage, humility, kindness, and blah…blah… blah. She was no princess, nor savior, especially within the eyes of the Queen of Hearts who vowed vengeance upon all that banished her to this wretched isle, especially Alice and the citizens of Wonderland. Naturally all the villains were seeking a way off the isle, but given the barrier preventing any usage of magic or even WiFi, there was no way off, or so we thought.
20 years had passed since the Isle of the Lost was founded, and many of the villains had their own offspring who were said to be the next hope of seeking their revenge. The daughter of the Queen of Hearts was known by many as Rosaria Hearts, the true princess of Wonderland. Similar to her mother she had immense beauty and a temper like no other when provoked, but she had a good head on her shoulders, unlike her mother. Many on the isle bowed to her, and she took advantage when she could, because at the end of the day, this was her playground until freedom came. She aligned herself with other notable villain offspring, 3 specifically: (To be determined). These four misfits ruled the Isle of the Lost, and their terror was so notable that they were the first in line for the Rehabilitation project. The Rehabilitation project was a decree that the son of Alice, also known as the Prince of Wonderland, Alistar Wonderland, put in place as a way to give the villain offspring a chance at redemption. There was finally true glee on the Isle, but for all the wrong reasons.
The Queen of Hearts desired for Rosaria and her friends to play along with this idea, given it would be the fuel the villains needed to stage a coup of their own. The plan was to rob Wonderland of the Heart they so cherished. Once taken, it would be used to break the break the barrier surrounding the isle, thus freeing the villains and allowing for evil to reenter each and every kingdom across Wonderland and Auradon. Naturally, Rosaria couldn’t deny her mother of this request, simply because this was Rosaria’s one true chance to prove to her mother that she was ready and willing to do whatever it took to rise to power. With a heavy heart she held her head up high, prepared to take on this task, and hopefully by the end, balance would be as it rightfully should, with the villains coming out on top.
Hey there, hope you enjoyed your read through. This role itself is one that is meant to be based on the Disney film known as Descendants. If you are unfamiliar with the franchise I would recommend looking up a summary, but the basis that I can say is that it is based on all the villains and any criminal being booted off to an isle as punishment for their crimes against the fairytale heroes and their “righteous” society. For my version, it would stray away from the Disney fluff and would be a lot more realistic in the approach, and it should be noted that this is non canon, so I would prefer if you have a character of your own creation ready.
I am more than open to twisting around the story if you have any specific ideas in mind, and you don’t have to play the son of Alice if you don’t desire to, you could play as a different Disney hero or even be apart of Rosaria’s crew of misfits, the choice is honestly yours and I enjoy creativity, so just be aware of that.
Either way, just give me a PM or DM, so we can discuss. I would love to know your name, age, and what Disney villain or hero you would like to be the descendant of.

Hello, I'm a senior in undergrad, and I'm planning on applying to PhD programs in physics next semester. I plan to apply to a bunch of American universities, but I'm also interested in applying to schools in Canada, such as the University of Toronto, the University of British Columbia, McGill, and maybe the University of Victoria. Is there anything I should know about how they do things differently in Canada? Should I apply to a master's program before PhD? Does it matter that I'm applying while still completing my degree in undergrad? Should I begin seeking a PhD advisor right now throughout the summer? Feel free to fill me in on everything you think is relevant.

Wonderland was once known as a land that was dictated under the rule of the infamous Queen of Hearts, who managed to seize the throne from the original royal family of Wonderland, the White King and Queen. Even so, Wonderland has always been looked to as a land where magic itself originated and can be found within its purest form, and this was all thanks to the Heart of Wonderland, which was what allowed for magic to freely flow as it saw fit, even beyond Wonderland’s boundaries. Essentially, without this heart, magic would cease to exist, not only for Wonderland, but also across all of the fairytale lands.
There was coup orchestrated by all the fairytale kingdoms, one that sealed all fairytale villains, sidekicks, and those not befitting of the new order of the realm both big and small onto a small island encased within a magical barrier, known as the Isle of the Lost. The Queen of Hearts was one of these individuals to be discarded, and to say that she was noncompliant would be an understatement, but is this really a surprise? I mean really, you try being dethroned after years of giving your people everything, and just because of a few strict rules and mild outbursts, you’re made enemy number one. Regardless, all villains and misfits were imprisoned onto the isle, and naturally some actions needed to be taken in order to preserve the order of Wonderland. As such, the infamous Alice, was elected as the New Queen of Wonderland, many praising her for her courage, humility, kindness, and blah…blah… blah. She was no princess, nor savior, especially within the eyes of the Queen of Hearts who vowed vengeance upon all that banished her to this wretched isle, especially Alice and the citizens of Wonderland. Naturally all the villains were seeking a way off the isle, but given the barrier preventing any usage of magic or even WiFi, there was no way off, or so we thought.
20 years had passed since the Isle of the Lost was founded, and many of the villains had their own offspring who were said to be the next hope of seeking their revenge. The daughter of the Queen of Hearts was known by many as Rosaria Hearts, the true princess of Wonderland. Similar to her mother she had immense beauty and a temper like no other when provoked, but she had a good head on her shoulders, unlike her mother. Many on the isle bowed to her, and she took advantage when she could, because at the end of the day, this was her playground until freedom came. She aligned herself with other notable villain offspring, 3 specifically: (To be determined). These four misfits ruled the Isle of the Lost, and their terror was so notable that they were the first in line for the Rehabilitation project. The Rehabilitation project was a decree that the son of Alice, also known as the Prince of Wonderland, Alistar Wonderland, put in place as a way to give the villain offspring a chance at redemption. There was finally true glee on the Isle, but for all the wrong reasons.
The Queen of Hearts desired for Rosaria and her friends to play along with this idea, given it would be the fuel the villains needed to stage a coup of their own. The plan was to rob Wonderland of the Heart they so cherished. Once taken, it would be used to break the break the barrier surrounding the isle, thus freeing the villains and allowing for evil to reenter each and every kingdom across Wonderland and Auradon. Naturally, Rosaria couldn’t deny her mother of this request, simply because this was Rosaria’s one true chance to prove to her mother that she was ready and willing to do whatever it took to rise to power. With a heavy heart she held her head up high, prepared to take on this task, and hopefully by the end, balance would be as it rightfully should, with the villains coming out on top.
Hey there, hope you enjoyed your read through. This role itself is one that is meant to be based on the Disney film known as Descendants. If you are unfamiliar with the franchise I would recommend looking up a summary, but the basis that I can say is that it is based on all the villains and any criminal being booted off to an isle as punishment for their crimes against the fairytale heroes and their “righteous” society. For my version, it would stray away from the Disney fluff and would be a lot more realistic in the approach, and it should be noted that this is non canon, so I would prefer if you have a character of your own creation ready.
I am more than open to twisting around the story if you have any specific ideas in mind, and you don’t have to play the son of Alice if you don’t desire to, you could play as a different Disney hero or even be apart of Rosaria’s crew of misfits, the choice is honestly yours and I enjoy creativity, so just be aware of that.
I will be playing as the Rosaria Hearts, daughter of the Queen of Hearts, just so you’re aware.
Also, I am F21, just so you are aware.
Either way, just give me a PM or DM, so we can discuss. I would love to know your name, age, and what Disney villain or hero you would like to be the descendant of.

In a desolate corner of West Texas, Anton Chigurh, a man known for his cold, calculating demeanor and ruthless efficiency, wandered a remote desert road. The sun had just dipped below the horizon, painting the sky in hues of orange and purple. He walked with the unhurried pace of someone who knew exactly where he was headed, though anyone who observed him would struggle to discern his purpose. His eyes, dark and inscrutable, scanned the empty landscape.
As he neared an abandoned gas station, Chigurh heard a soft sobbing. His instincts sharpened, and he approached the source of the sound. There, sitting on the cracked steps of the station, was a maiden with a tear-streaked face illuminated by the fading light. Her small frame shook with each sob, and she wore a faded pink dress, her dark hair tangled and dusty.
Chigurh's initial impulse was to ignore the girl, but something stopped him. He crouched down, his imposing figure casting a long shadow over her.
"What's wrong?" he asked, his voice low and controlled.
The girl looked up, her wide eyes filled with fear and sadness. "I-I can't find my mother," she stammered.
For a moment, Chigurh felt an unfamiliar sensation—a flicker of empathy. He reached into his pocket and pulled out a handkerchief rather than his usual coin, and offered it to her. "What's your name?" he asked.
"Eliza," she replied, taking the handkerchief and wiping her tears.
"Eliza," he repeated, as if testing the sound of it. "I'm Anton. I'll help you find your mother."
Eliza nodded, her fear slowly giving way to a tentative trust. Chigurh stood and extended his hand to her. She took it hesitantly, and they began to walk together down the desolate road.
Days turned into weeks as Chigurh and Eliza traveled together. They moved through small towns and empty landscapes, always searching, always moving. Chigurh, who had once been a solitary figure driven by his own dark code, found himself changed by the presence of the young woman. He protected her, fed her, and even taught her to read and write with a small notebook he had taken from an abandoned store.
Eliza, in turn, grew to adore him. She clung to him for safety, her trust in him unwavering despite his grim appearance and the aura of danger that surrounded him. She laughed and played, her joy a stark contrast to the grimness of their surroundings.
As the months passed, their bond deepened. Chigurh's ruthless nature remained, but it was tempered by his affection for Eliza. He would still eliminate threats with cold precision, but now, he did it to protect her.
One day, they found themselves in a small town where a woman recognized Eliza. She ran to them, tears streaming down her face as she scooped Eliza into her arms.
"Mom!" Eliza cried, clinging to the woman.
Chigurh watched the reunion with an inscrutable expression. The woman looked up at him, gratitude and fear mingling in her eyes. "Thank you," she whispered.
Chigurh nodded once, a gesture of acknowledgment. Eliza, however, was not ready to let him go. She broke free from her mother's embrace and ran back to Chigurh, hugging him tightly. "Anton, please don't leave me!"
He placed a hand on her shoulder. "You need to stay with your mother, Eliza. You'll be safe with her."
Tears filled her eyes as she looked up at him. "But I want you to stay with us. Can't you stay, Anton?"
Chigurh's gaze softened as he considered her words. The idea of leaving her now seemed impossible. He looked at Eliza's mother, who was watching the interaction with a mixture of emotions.
The woman stepped forward, her voice tentative but hopeful. "You can stay with us, if you want. Eliza talks about you all the time. You've taken care of her...and I can't thank you enough."
Chigurh hesitated, the conflict clear in his eyes. He had always been a lone wolf, a man who thrived in solitude and darkness. But now, there was something different—someone different—who had changed him in ways he couldn't have imagined.
Finally, he nodded. "I’ll stay," he said, his voice resolute.
Eliza's face lit up with joy, and she threw her arms around him. Chigurh felt a warmth in his chest, a sensation that was becoming familiar yet still surprising.
As the days turned into weeks, Chigurh settled into a new kind of life. He stayed close to Eliza and her mother, helping them in ways he never thought he could. He protected them, but he also learned to find small moments of peace and joy in their presence.
In the quiet moments of the night, as Eliza slept peacefully, Chigurh would watch over her, a silent guardian who had found something he thought he had lost forever—a sense of purpose, a connection, and perhaps even a semblance of redemption.

I know that planetscale no longer provide the free tier plan, and have been digging in the code to see if would matter if a different host was used for the database. Currently i am looking at this as a replacement, as it is a generous free tier, that can be used with prisma.: https://xata.io/blog/prisma-postgres-xata-integration
However i am not a coder, so do not really know what to look for, and whether simply replacing the url with one for xata will be sufficient, given the steps required.
Has anyone else managed to successfully self host now planetscale is not free? I don't have a db to migrate, so will be a fresh db.
Cheers :)

The Great Horned Rat has been officially recognized as the 5th Chaos God by Archaon through a deal that the two have made. What this deal is has not been elaborated upon, not yet anyways. So I have 2 theories: . 1.) The deal is about the invasion of Azyr that Archaon is planning, about how GHR will use his rats to make something that can lead Archaon to victory.
Or
2.) The deal is about Archaon's TRUE goal of destroying chaos and being free from being the everchosen (I don't really know if this is Archaon's plan since I vaguely remember reading this info, so correct me of I'm wrong please).
Of course this is just my own theories, and I want to know what other people's theories are the deal. So if you guys have other theories about this supposed deal that finally gave the Great Hornet Rat the recognition he deserves, feel free to tell it in the comments.