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2024.05.13 22:31 ThatOtherShore Essential for Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse: External Improvement!
We’ve talked a lot about the internal work that must be done to heal and recover from the horrors of narcissistic abuse. But what often gets left out is that the internal work, while essential, is only half of the new circle you are drawing for your life. The other half of the circle can only be drawn in by making positive external improvements to your life situation.
If your life is NOT measurably worse now, you are financially where you want to be, you are healthy and fit, your career & activities are fulfilling you with purpose, you have great friends, and you are working on actionable goals to keep growing, then this post is not for you. Great job and carry on!
If your life is measurably worse now than it was during the ‘relationship’, then I highly recommend you think about this message:
Measurable, Practical Realities of Life: What Would Actually Make Your Life Better?
If your measurable, practical realities of daily life- finances, career, health/fitness, friendships, actionable goals for the future- are worse off after leaving the relationship, you MUST take action to improve all of them by taking disciplined action consistently over time, IF you actually want to heal and recover fully.
Don’t be a perfectionist or think you can magically change it overnight. But do get on a real road to making the changes that will earn positive outcomes for yourself. Learning how to love yourself means wanting your life to go well and improve! I know it’s weird to have to say that, but people recovering from codependency really need to strengthen this muscle of self-interested action. It was so strange to notice in myself that I didn’t even know what I wanted when another person was not around telling me what I should want. It took a real change of locus to become sovereign over my own life, my own choices, and to learn what it is that I would want for myself whether anyone else is around or not!
This can start by simply allowing yourself to meditate on what it is that you DO want for your life. Not everyone’s values are the same, so there is no right or wrong answer, only YOUR answer. I just know that living in substandard, impoverished or stressful financial conditions, being unhealthy and sedentary, and not having an exciting plan for your life is a condition that will make recovery and transformation close to impossible. You can only do the best you can today without unnecessary pressure or expectation. Just start by coming up with a plan for the immediate future and exert your will to make shit happen for yourself! I mean it. It’s crucial.
You can do all of the internal work in the world to process your emotions, try to let go of anger and process your grief. You are worthy of love and respect today as you are, because you a human being with a good heart who has been treated terribly and victimized by evil behavior from someone else. But if your life objectively sucks, then I wouldn’t expect to feel better anytime soon.
Your sense of confidence, self-worth, and ability to create new successes, new relationships, new memories, and a new life that has nothing to do with your past cannot develop if you are staying stuck in a bad living situation. Be realistic and compassionate with yourself, and allow the time necessary to see some progress, but do get moving.
The Good News!
As hard as it is doing the internal work of grief, acceptance, processing anger, unwinding your own codependent patterns and family history, the good news is that you don’t need to have ‘finished’ those before you start going into the outside world and making positive changes for yourself.
You can look at your external work as a nice break from all of those heavy, sad emotions. Realize that a lot of that anger and heartbreak and sadness will sort itself out when your external life situation improves to a degree that you are now objectively BETTER OFF than you were during the relationship. The real key to healing and transformation is this combination of internal growth and external measurable success. They feed off each other in positive-reinforcement. All the little successes you pile up day-by-day start building your confidence back up, you sense of pride in work well done, your sense of worth and optimism about the future- all of it develops when you can see evidence of improvement.
So if you are finding it slow going and frustrating on the emotional front, if you’re having more trouble letting go of that person or that relationship than you expected, I know it sucks and it can improve with time and dedication to healing. But you really have nothing to lose by STILL choosing to better the other parts of your life right? How would it make it worse if you made more money so that your financial stress disappeared? How would it make it worse if you set some real world goals with your career, work, or passion projects that would improve your life and achieved them? How would it make it worse if you jumped into a disciplined fitness program of your choosing and got in the best shape of your life in the next year? I think you get my drift. If things are really sucking in your life, the best part of that is that you have not much to lose by saying FUCK IT! and just going for it in other areas.
Bottom Line
This does NOT mean that one should neglect the inner spiritual, emotional, and maturation work. Money, success, and the external trappings of life do not bring happiness on their own. But they DO matter greatly, so we need to not lie about that or become too ethereal about all of this. I’m arguing for a healthy balance that gives attention to the outer reality of your life so that you don’t get lost in never-ending therapy, an old tired story from the past, and overindulging in victimhood.
When you find a good balance between doing the internal therapeutic work and the external outer world success, you have the magic formula for transforming your life. This will help you become a new version of yourself more aligned with your inner truth, your values, your talents and gifts, so that you become someone who knows how to stand up for yourself and take action in pursuit of positive outcomes.
Letting go of anger is one of the most challenging parts I’ve found people have with the healing process. They can completely get over caring about the person, see the cold hard truth, and cut them off completely. But the anger and resentment really does burn people up inside, even years afterward, if they haven’t moved the needle on their own life. It is amazing how making your life better and succeeding in areas you used to fail in can make your anger seem unnecessary and irrelevant. Why? Because now you are stronger. You’ve built something admirable and successful for yourself and you don’t need anyone’s approval but your own and the support of those who truly care about you.
When you can sit back one day in the not-too-distant future and honestly say, ”By all measures, my life is leaps and bounds better today than it was back then,” you can tell me at that point how you are feeling emotionally and how much trouble you’re having moving forward.
Note: Just as people get themselves professional help for mental health/emotional issues, it can very wise to find a qualified person who can help you get going with your practical life issues if that is an area where you have struggled to pull it together. There are also tons of free information out there about this, so you can do your own research and find some good strategies.
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If your life is NOT measurably worse now, you are financially where you want to be, you are healthy and fit, your career & activities are fulfilling you with purpose, you have great friends, and you are working on actionable goals to keep growing, then this post is not for you. Great job and carry on!
If your life is measurably worse now than it was during the ‘relationship’, then I highly recommend you think about this message:
Measurable, Practical Realities of Life: What Would Actually Make Your Life Better?
If your measurable, practical realities of daily life- finances, career, health/fitness, friendships, actionable goals for the future- are worse off after leaving the relationship, you MUST take action to improve all of them by taking disciplined action consistently over time, IF you actually want to heal and recover fully.
Don’t be a perfectionist or think you can magically change it overnight. But do get on a real road to making the changes that will earn positive outcomes for yourself. Learning how to love yourself means wanting your life to go well and improve! I know it’s weird to have to say that, but people recovering from codependency really need to strengthen this muscle of self-interested action. It was so strange to notice in myself that I didn’t even know what I wanted when another person was not around telling me what I should want. It took a real change of locus to become sovereign over my own life, my own choices, and to learn what it is that I would want for myself whether anyone else is around or not!
This can start by simply allowing yourself to meditate on what it is that you DO want for your life. Not everyone’s values are the same, so there is no right or wrong answer, only YOUR answer. I just know that living in substandard, impoverished or stressful financial conditions, being unhealthy and sedentary, and not having an exciting plan for your life is a condition that will make recovery and transformation close to impossible. You can only do the best you can today without unnecessary pressure or expectation. Just start by coming up with a plan for the immediate future and exert your will to make shit happen for yourself! I mean it. It’s crucial.
You can do all of the internal work in the world to process your emotions, try to let go of anger and process your grief. You are worthy of love and respect today as you are, because you a human being with a good heart who has been treated terribly and victimized by evil behavior from someone else. But if your life objectively sucks, then I wouldn’t expect to feel better anytime soon.
Your sense of confidence, self-worth, and ability to create new successes, new relationships, new memories, and a new life that has nothing to do with your past cannot develop if you are staying stuck in a bad living situation. Be realistic and compassionate with yourself, and allow the time necessary to see some progress, but do get moving.
The Good News!
As hard as it is doing the internal work of grief, acceptance, processing anger, unwinding your own codependent patterns and family history, the good news is that you don’t need to have ‘finished’ those before you start going into the outside world and making positive changes for yourself.
You can look at your external work as a nice break from all of those heavy, sad emotions. Realize that a lot of that anger and heartbreak and sadness will sort itself out when your external life situation improves to a degree that you are now objectively BETTER OFF than you were during the relationship. The real key to healing and transformation is this combination of internal growth and external measurable success. They feed off each other in positive-reinforcement. All the little successes you pile up day-by-day start building your confidence back up, you sense of pride in work well done, your sense of worth and optimism about the future- all of it develops when you can see evidence of improvement.
So if you are finding it slow going and frustrating on the emotional front, if you’re having more trouble letting go of that person or that relationship than you expected, I know it sucks and it can improve with time and dedication to healing. But you really have nothing to lose by STILL choosing to better the other parts of your life right? How would it make it worse if you made more money so that your financial stress disappeared? How would it make it worse if you set some real world goals with your career, work, or passion projects that would improve your life and achieved them? How would it make it worse if you jumped into a disciplined fitness program of your choosing and got in the best shape of your life in the next year? I think you get my drift. If things are really sucking in your life, the best part of that is that you have not much to lose by saying FUCK IT! and just going for it in other areas.
Bottom Line
This does NOT mean that one should neglect the inner spiritual, emotional, and maturation work. Money, success, and the external trappings of life do not bring happiness on their own. But they DO matter greatly, so we need to not lie about that or become too ethereal about all of this. I’m arguing for a healthy balance that gives attention to the outer reality of your life so that you don’t get lost in never-ending therapy, an old tired story from the past, and overindulging in victimhood.
When you find a good balance between doing the internal therapeutic work and the external outer world success, you have the magic formula for transforming your life. This will help you become a new version of yourself more aligned with your inner truth, your values, your talents and gifts, so that you become someone who knows how to stand up for yourself and take action in pursuit of positive outcomes.
Letting go of anger is one of the most challenging parts I’ve found people have with the healing process. They can completely get over caring about the person, see the cold hard truth, and cut them off completely. But the anger and resentment really does burn people up inside, even years afterward, if they haven’t moved the needle on their own life. It is amazing how making your life better and succeeding in areas you used to fail in can make your anger seem unnecessary and irrelevant. Why? Because now you are stronger. You’ve built something admirable and successful for yourself and you don’t need anyone’s approval but your own and the support of those who truly care about you.
When you can sit back one day in the not-too-distant future and honestly say, ”By all measures, my life is leaps and bounds better today than it was back then,” you can tell me at that point how you are feeling emotionally and how much trouble you’re having moving forward.
Note: Just as people get themselves professional help for mental health/emotional issues, it can very wise to find a qualified person who can help you get going with your practical life issues if that is an area where you have struggled to pull it together. There are also tons of free information out there about this, so you can do your own research and find some good strategies.
2024.05.13 22:30 Stunned242404 ABYG for not telling my dad that my mom is cheating?
Hi Guys! STORY TIME..
Last 2022 around november-ish nagkasalubong si mama at yung ex-bf niya na childhood sweetheart niya. Around december that same year, napansin ko na napapadalas na si mama sa phone calls and texts sa taong yun.
Moving forward to year 2023, my brother and I got into a huge fight that leads us to leave house, as in move out kami both sa bahay. And feeling ko that is an advantage for her to have more time kasi wala nang nagbabantay sakanya. (To give u a bg, 4 kami magkakapatid. (28M) / (23F) / (13F) / (8M)) so may mga minor pa kami na kapatid na naiwan sa mama ko. Si papa is OFW and kakaalis alis lang niya sa PH.
Months pass by, mongth of April, birthmonth namin ng kuya, umuwi ako samin to celebrate his bday sana. Stayed sa bahay for 1 week para din makasama mga kapatid ko.
Bago ako umuwi sa partner ko, I borrowed my moms phone since wala akong cellphone that time at nakikionline lang ko.
I found out that my mom is cheating and having an affair with his childhood sweetheart. Thru calls and text messages. Sobrang akong namutla at nanghina sa mga nabasa ko. (To tell you na hindi ko to nabasa sa messages mismo. Nakalkal ko to sa recently deleted messages) naawa ako sa mga kapatid ko. Mga minor pa sila.
That same day, nung tulog na si mama nag download ako ng Life360 sa phone niya. I hide the application somewhere sa phone and turned off the notifications ng app para hindi niya makikita.
Only to find out that shes going back and forth sa location ng lalaki and nag checheck inn sila just around our city!!!
Like P@&₱) Mo, kapal ng mukha.
My dad came home around november 2023 from europe and never told him anything abt it. Natatakot ako dahil may mga kapatid pa ako na minor and ayokobg lumaki silang sira ang pamilya.
ABYG? Whenever I came home I pretend that I know nothing kahit andami kong pictures ng conversation nila ng lalaki niya?
Ps. BFF pa ang tawagan nila and yung asawa ng lalaki is close pa sa family namin. Grabe ang clown show sa family na to.
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Last 2022 around november-ish nagkasalubong si mama at yung ex-bf niya na childhood sweetheart niya. Around december that same year, napansin ko na napapadalas na si mama sa phone calls and texts sa taong yun.
Moving forward to year 2023, my brother and I got into a huge fight that leads us to leave house, as in move out kami both sa bahay. And feeling ko that is an advantage for her to have more time kasi wala nang nagbabantay sakanya. (To give u a bg, 4 kami magkakapatid. (28M) / (23F) / (13F) / (8M)) so may mga minor pa kami na kapatid na naiwan sa mama ko. Si papa is OFW and kakaalis alis lang niya sa PH.
Months pass by, mongth of April, birthmonth namin ng kuya, umuwi ako samin to celebrate his bday sana. Stayed sa bahay for 1 week para din makasama mga kapatid ko.
Bago ako umuwi sa partner ko, I borrowed my moms phone since wala akong cellphone that time at nakikionline lang ko.
I found out that my mom is cheating and having an affair with his childhood sweetheart. Thru calls and text messages. Sobrang akong namutla at nanghina sa mga nabasa ko. (To tell you na hindi ko to nabasa sa messages mismo. Nakalkal ko to sa recently deleted messages) naawa ako sa mga kapatid ko. Mga minor pa sila.
That same day, nung tulog na si mama nag download ako ng Life360 sa phone niya. I hide the application somewhere sa phone and turned off the notifications ng app para hindi niya makikita.
Only to find out that shes going back and forth sa location ng lalaki and nag checheck inn sila just around our city!!!
Like P@&₱) Mo, kapal ng mukha.
My dad came home around november 2023 from europe and never told him anything abt it. Natatakot ako dahil may mga kapatid pa ako na minor and ayokobg lumaki silang sira ang pamilya.
ABYG? Whenever I came home I pretend that I know nothing kahit andami kong pictures ng conversation nila ng lalaki niya?
Ps. BFF pa ang tawagan nila and yung asawa ng lalaki is close pa sa family namin. Grabe ang clown show sa family na to.
2024.05.13 22:30 LasVegas_DashieV 23M - The M stands for Monday. Hey! Whoever is reading this, you may have just found your next texting person! I'd like to chat to someone for more than just one day. I am an insomniac and artist with an aspiration for filmmaking.
Tell me how your day is going:) It is the afternoon for me as I live in the SWUS. I'm about to practice my drawing before going to work and I'd like to talk to you!
I've been looking for people to talk to on the daily, and today is no exception. I have found some good texting partners recently and I hope to find more since not everyone is always online especially at the times I'm up.
About me, as stated in the title, I'm an artist. I like making cool pictures and making them move, it's cool! I enjoy animated films but all kinds of films too. I do play games sometimes but I spend more time making art I could go weeks without touching the controller. Not that I'm proud of it, if anything I want to play more games since that is another way to meet people but I can't help my art obsession, not that the latter is a bad thing!
I have a kitten and I love him. Nothing else, just wanted to state that fact.
Message me if you wanna share music or something idk. Oh and if you make art, do tell me!
Bonus round: If you made it this far into the post, say "I did not read your post" in your first message.
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I've been looking for people to talk to on the daily, and today is no exception. I have found some good texting partners recently and I hope to find more since not everyone is always online especially at the times I'm up.
About me, as stated in the title, I'm an artist. I like making cool pictures and making them move, it's cool! I enjoy animated films but all kinds of films too. I do play games sometimes but I spend more time making art I could go weeks without touching the controller. Not that I'm proud of it, if anything I want to play more games since that is another way to meet people but I can't help my art obsession, not that the latter is a bad thing!
I have a kitten and I love him. Nothing else, just wanted to state that fact.
Message me if you wanna share music or something idk. Oh and if you make art, do tell me!
Bonus round: If you made it this far into the post, say "I did not read your post" in your first message.
2024.05.13 22:30 PotatoExtension2287 Sugar from hell💅🏽
B23F; Curvy. It's getting quite weird on seeking. I've had a profile review a few months ago and though I have been getting countless messages. The crowd i've attracted is notttt what i'm looking for. They would always say some weird sex joke or something about my lady parts. It's a turn offffff for me . I actually thought I found a SD (reddit) He came off as nice and respectful. Until he video chatted me while I was AT work. I answered thinking he wanted to talk and hear from me then he told me to go to the break room and model for him in my scrubs and to bend over.....I ghosted him and he keeps calling and texting me. I take my job very serious this is how I pay my bills and maintain my lifestyle. Anything that he was going to do would've been extra I make $,$$$-$,$$$ bi weekly. This was like 2 weeks of us conversing. We did discuss an allowance but I didn't even make it to the allowance :/
I should've known it wasn't gonna work when he made me do a 360 on our first call. I thought he made me do a 360 to make sure my body matches my pictures.....idk i'm annnnoyed :) I think he's in here🙂
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I should've known it wasn't gonna work when he made me do a 360 on our first call. I thought he made me do a 360 to make sure my body matches my pictures.....idk i'm annnnoyed :) I think he's in here🙂
2024.05.13 22:29 LasVegas_DashieV 23M - The M stands for Monday. Hey! Whoever is reading this, you may have just found your next texting person! I'd like to chat to someone for more than just one day. I am an insomniac and artist with an aspiration for filmmaking.
Tell me how your day is going:) It is the afternoon for me as I live in the SWUS. I'm about to practice my drawing before going to work and I'd like to talk to you!
I've been looking for people to talk to on the daily, and today is no exception. I have found some good texting partners recently and I hope to find more since not everyone is always online especially at the times I'm up.
About me, as stated in the title, I'm an artist. I like making cool pictures and making them move, it's cool! I enjoy animated films but all kinds of films too. I do play games sometimes but I spend more time making art I could go weeks without touching the controller. Not that I'm proud of it, if anything I want to play more games since that is another way to meet people but I can't help my art obsession, not that the latter is a bad thing!
I have a kitten and I love him. Nothing else, just wanted to state that fact.
Message me if you wanna share music or something idk. Oh and if you make art, do tell me!
Bonus round: If you made it this far into the post, say "I did not read your post" in your first message.
submitted by LasVegas_DashieV to DigitalFriendz [link] [comments]
I've been looking for people to talk to on the daily, and today is no exception. I have found some good texting partners recently and I hope to find more since not everyone is always online especially at the times I'm up.
About me, as stated in the title, I'm an artist. I like making cool pictures and making them move, it's cool! I enjoy animated films but all kinds of films too. I do play games sometimes but I spend more time making art I could go weeks without touching the controller. Not that I'm proud of it, if anything I want to play more games since that is another way to meet people but I can't help my art obsession, not that the latter is a bad thing!
I have a kitten and I love him. Nothing else, just wanted to state that fact.
Message me if you wanna share music or something idk. Oh and if you make art, do tell me!
Bonus round: If you made it this far into the post, say "I did not read your post" in your first message.
2024.05.13 22:29 anonymomphone AIO over my son being cast out due to my medical condition?
Hi, first time posting so not sure if it’ll go through or even be seen.
I have a 13yo son who recently struck up a friendship with another tween, who is so sweet! They had a sleepover this past Friday that went beautifully.
My family has a history of seizures. Two of my brothers have had lifelong epilepsy and I started having them in January of this year, and probably have one a month. My son and I have both been exposed to seizures since birth (my older brother had them before I was born, my son lived with my mom and I his first year and visit regularly, my younger brother also has them) so seizures are extremely common in our lives, to the point that it’s a commonplace thing and we don’t even blink an eye, just jump into take care and don’t think about it. He has always known proper seizure care and knows exactly what to do. My older brother has seizures several times a day so my son is extremely well versed in it. He makes me so proud! ❤️
When I had my first one in January, my son asked me if he could talk about seizure safety in class. Seeing as he’s been raised in a family where it’s normalized, I didn’t see an issue in it. People don’t know what to do during seizures — when I had my first one I was surrounded by strangers that did all the wrong things (held my head, yelled at me, tried to force me to sit up etc) and my son was the only one who knew what to do, which is so amazing! I’ve always been taught seizure protocol and it’s absurd to me that it isn’t a thing most people know. So when he wanted to talk about it during his class version of show and tell, I was all for it. Seizure care should be taught alongside CPR. His class does a form of “show and tell” where they talk about a topic they find important, and 13yo did his seizure care talk. It went well, his teacher even texted me to say she was impressed! He was articulate and provided so much information and I can’t keep gushing about it or I might cry lol.
On to the phone call with Other Mom after 13yo slept over and I offered to host next time: She is not allowing her son over to my home. She is afraid that I will have a seizure and therefore I am incapable of maintaining her son’s safety. I am an adult woman. I have been a mother for 13 years. It isn’t even that I need her approval of my ability to parent, but it’s the implication that I’m incapable of ensuring a child’s safety that is really hurting.
Upon asking a mutual parent friend if I was overreacting by being upset, it seems this is an ongoing issue. She told me that when my son told his classmates about my seizures, the class moms decided their kids are not safe in my home. The knowledge of every parent in the school(ish, it’s a small school) not only knowing about my medical issues but deciding that I am an incapable and unsafe caretaker sent me into a complete panic attack.
I can understand the concern. But my heart is actively aching because it makes me feel like absolute garbage that I’m the reason he can’t have friends over. They treat me like I’m a felon... I sometimes have seizures, I have no plans to hurt your kids or neglect them. They’re fucking 12-13, I am on another floor because they’re playing Smash Bros and eating pizza while I’m watching trashy reality TV away from them. It’s fucking humiliating having to face other moms knowing that they know I have a medical condition that makes them scared to leave their child near me WHILE I HAVE AN ENTIRE ASS CHILD IN MY HOME EVERY DAY AND HAVE MANAGED TO CARE FOR HIM EVERY DAY SINCE I GAVE BIRTH.
The concept of your child being in care of someone having a seizure is probably scary yeah, but to act like I’m made of glass and don’t have the ability to care for a child AS A MOTHER feels incredibly degrading. I feel incredibly hurt and further ostracized due to her implication. The parents at the school already don’t like me because I am significantly younger than them and talk down to me, so this just feels like a kick when I’m already down. I don’t have a leg to stand on for any reporting, I just feel like shit that my son’s attempt of removing the stigma of seizure care has completely ruined everything. I’m so sad that he’s being left like this because he wanted to help.
Am I overreacting by being upset that my medical issues are being treated like an act of negligence and that my son is being treated differently due to it?
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I have a 13yo son who recently struck up a friendship with another tween, who is so sweet! They had a sleepover this past Friday that went beautifully.
My family has a history of seizures. Two of my brothers have had lifelong epilepsy and I started having them in January of this year, and probably have one a month. My son and I have both been exposed to seizures since birth (my older brother had them before I was born, my son lived with my mom and I his first year and visit regularly, my younger brother also has them) so seizures are extremely common in our lives, to the point that it’s a commonplace thing and we don’t even blink an eye, just jump into take care and don’t think about it. He has always known proper seizure care and knows exactly what to do. My older brother has seizures several times a day so my son is extremely well versed in it. He makes me so proud! ❤️
When I had my first one in January, my son asked me if he could talk about seizure safety in class. Seeing as he’s been raised in a family where it’s normalized, I didn’t see an issue in it. People don’t know what to do during seizures — when I had my first one I was surrounded by strangers that did all the wrong things (held my head, yelled at me, tried to force me to sit up etc) and my son was the only one who knew what to do, which is so amazing! I’ve always been taught seizure protocol and it’s absurd to me that it isn’t a thing most people know. So when he wanted to talk about it during his class version of show and tell, I was all for it. Seizure care should be taught alongside CPR. His class does a form of “show and tell” where they talk about a topic they find important, and 13yo did his seizure care talk. It went well, his teacher even texted me to say she was impressed! He was articulate and provided so much information and I can’t keep gushing about it or I might cry lol.
On to the phone call with Other Mom after 13yo slept over and I offered to host next time: She is not allowing her son over to my home. She is afraid that I will have a seizure and therefore I am incapable of maintaining her son’s safety. I am an adult woman. I have been a mother for 13 years. It isn’t even that I need her approval of my ability to parent, but it’s the implication that I’m incapable of ensuring a child’s safety that is really hurting.
Upon asking a mutual parent friend if I was overreacting by being upset, it seems this is an ongoing issue. She told me that when my son told his classmates about my seizures, the class moms decided their kids are not safe in my home. The knowledge of every parent in the school(ish, it’s a small school) not only knowing about my medical issues but deciding that I am an incapable and unsafe caretaker sent me into a complete panic attack.
I can understand the concern. But my heart is actively aching because it makes me feel like absolute garbage that I’m the reason he can’t have friends over. They treat me like I’m a felon... I sometimes have seizures, I have no plans to hurt your kids or neglect them. They’re fucking 12-13, I am on another floor because they’re playing Smash Bros and eating pizza while I’m watching trashy reality TV away from them. It’s fucking humiliating having to face other moms knowing that they know I have a medical condition that makes them scared to leave their child near me WHILE I HAVE AN ENTIRE ASS CHILD IN MY HOME EVERY DAY AND HAVE MANAGED TO CARE FOR HIM EVERY DAY SINCE I GAVE BIRTH.
The concept of your child being in care of someone having a seizure is probably scary yeah, but to act like I’m made of glass and don’t have the ability to care for a child AS A MOTHER feels incredibly degrading. I feel incredibly hurt and further ostracized due to her implication. The parents at the school already don’t like me because I am significantly younger than them and talk down to me, so this just feels like a kick when I’m already down. I don’t have a leg to stand on for any reporting, I just feel like shit that my son’s attempt of removing the stigma of seizure care has completely ruined everything. I’m so sad that he’s being left like this because he wanted to help.
Am I overreacting by being upset that my medical issues are being treated like an act of negligence and that my son is being treated differently due to it?
2024.05.13 22:29 hadenk are these ever worth looking into/responding
 | every time i proceed it seems to be a scam. has anyone had any success from text message responses from job apps? submitted by hadenk to jobs [link] [comments] |
2024.05.13 22:29 YeehawBebop 23 northwest Georgia/Florida [TF4M] be my overwatch duo <3
Howdy everyone, I’m Artemis or Artie for short. I’m a 5’5 trans woman who is pre op everything meaning that I haven’t medically transitioned so I still am physically a guy but I’m planning on getting all the surgeries and hormones once I’m more financially stable. I’d also prefer if you live in Georgia as well, I can’t do long distance but I’m starting online college in May and then moving to Winter Park, Florida in October to be on campus! I’d really like to be friends at first and slowly develop a romantic relationship, I don’t want to rush into a relationship but hey anything can happen. I’m super bubbly, optimistic, funny, open minded, kind, clingy and hella sensitive (I’m a crybaby) and I will always try to spread positivity and kindness. I grew up around a lot of negativity and hatred so I strive to be the opposite of that and always wear my heart on my sleeve no matter how much being too nice hurts me. I want to mention I am mentally ill and that includes have BPD (borderline personality disorder) so it can be rough being with me so if you don’t think you can handle it that’s okay! I’ll text you back pretty much immediately if I’m not busy, I love music and sharing/discovering music, I absolutely love horror movies and all things Halloween/spooky, I have 6 tattoos and planning on getting a lot more. I have two cats, Salem and Beetlejuice who is but a wee kitten. I’m a huge stoner and I sometimes take acid/shrooms so I ask that you’re okay with that. I play a lot of video games but mostly overwatch. I play dead by daylight, Ghost Of Tsushima, apex legends but I desperately need to finish Sekiro. I recently got a ps5 as well! If you decide to message me please send a small introduction about yourself, it doesn’t have to be an essay, just a few sentences :) Hope to fear from you!
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2024.05.13 22:27 LasVegas_DashieV 23M - The M stands for Monday. Hey! Whoever is reading this, you may have just found your next texting person! I'd like to chat to someone for more than just one day. I am an insomniac and artist with an aspiration for filmmaking.
Tell me how your day is going:) It is the afternoon for me as I live in the SWUS. I'm about to practice my drawing before going to work and I'd like to talk to you!
I've been looking for people to talk to on the daily, and today is no exception. I have found some good texting partners recently and I hope to find more since not everyone is always online especially at the times I'm up.
About me, as stated in the title, I'm an artist. I like making cool pictures and making them move, it's cool! I enjoy animated films but all kinds of films too. I do play games sometimes but I spend more time making art I could go weeks without touching the controller. Not that I'm proud of it, if anything I want to play more games since that is another way to meet people but I can't help my art obsession, not that the latter is a bad thing!
I have a kitten and I love him. Nothing else, just wanted to state that fact.
Message me if you wanna share music or something idk. Oh and if you make art, do tell me!
Bonus round: If you made it this far into the post, say "I did not read your post" in your first message.
submitted by LasVegas_DashieV to MakeNewFriendsHere [link] [comments]
I've been looking for people to talk to on the daily, and today is no exception. I have found some good texting partners recently and I hope to find more since not everyone is always online especially at the times I'm up.
About me, as stated in the title, I'm an artist. I like making cool pictures and making them move, it's cool! I enjoy animated films but all kinds of films too. I do play games sometimes but I spend more time making art I could go weeks without touching the controller. Not that I'm proud of it, if anything I want to play more games since that is another way to meet people but I can't help my art obsession, not that the latter is a bad thing!
I have a kitten and I love him. Nothing else, just wanted to state that fact.
Message me if you wanna share music or something idk. Oh and if you make art, do tell me!
Bonus round: If you made it this far into the post, say "I did not read your post" in your first message.
2024.05.13 22:26 Dhruderg Am I reading into it too much or does she like me?
This is the first time I'm posting something like this on Reddit... but I'm pretty much lost right now.
For context: We both go to the same university, have the same major and are the same age. I've got to know her while I was still in a relationship. But we broke up and she also knows about that. Altogether I've known her for less than a year, but we talk almost everyday either in college or over messages. We also have the same friend group. (All guys, cause not a lot of girls in our major).
The good signs: • She teases only me and no one else. Whether it's about being late to class or something else, she finds a way to tease me about it. In relation to that, she also uses the "😏" emoji over text when teasing. • We talk... a lot. A lot more than she does with anyone else. She also tells me about private stuff. • She pays attention to everything I say. Like she remembers the tiniest details about what I tell her. Then surprises me later on by randomly mentioning them. • Her body language seems... inviting? Like... she's open when talking to me. Altough when we talking she seems to be always fidgeting with something. Didn't notice her doing it with our other friends. • When possible, we always sit next to each other. It's the same with walking together. • She takes my flirting/teasing/touching lightly • When walking together with others, she'd rather keep my pace than someone else's • We use a lot of emojis in our messages (mostly 😂😅😊) and she answers with longer messages • She's also more of an introvert but acts sometimes like an extrovert when with me • She also cares about me if I get sick more than others • She seems like she's searching for topics to talk about sometimes. Like goes through my Netflix list and says that she's seen this and that, etc...
There are probably more but these are the main ones that I can remember.
The bad signs: • I asked her our to the movies some weeks ago. She first said yes, but then canceled on me saying that she has a lot of things to do (wrote a long explanatory text as to what and why) and she's scared the the movie ain't that good and that it will ruin the other movies in the trilogy. I didn't specify it as a date though. Also asked her out for ice cream once because I was in the area, but she rejected saying she has to do some studying. But to be honest, we really did have a ton of stuff to do there. • She only initiates conversations over text to ask me for help (sometimes it's about something really simple, or about something I'm pretty sure she knows already) or stuff about college. • She doesn't really ask questions about me. But like I mentioned before, she remembers it if I tell her. Could that be because she's introverted/shy?
Sorry if this was on the longer side, but I kind of need advice... What do you guys think? Does she also like me or is she just overly friendly? I was thinking about telling her how I feel and asking her on a formal date.
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For context: We both go to the same university, have the same major and are the same age. I've got to know her while I was still in a relationship. But we broke up and she also knows about that. Altogether I've known her for less than a year, but we talk almost everyday either in college or over messages. We also have the same friend group. (All guys, cause not a lot of girls in our major).
The good signs: • She teases only me and no one else. Whether it's about being late to class or something else, she finds a way to tease me about it. In relation to that, she also uses the "😏" emoji over text when teasing. • We talk... a lot. A lot more than she does with anyone else. She also tells me about private stuff. • She pays attention to everything I say. Like she remembers the tiniest details about what I tell her. Then surprises me later on by randomly mentioning them. • Her body language seems... inviting? Like... she's open when talking to me. Altough when we talking she seems to be always fidgeting with something. Didn't notice her doing it with our other friends. • When possible, we always sit next to each other. It's the same with walking together. • She takes my flirting/teasing/touching lightly • When walking together with others, she'd rather keep my pace than someone else's • We use a lot of emojis in our messages (mostly 😂😅😊) and she answers with longer messages • She's also more of an introvert but acts sometimes like an extrovert when with me • She also cares about me if I get sick more than others • She seems like she's searching for topics to talk about sometimes. Like goes through my Netflix list and says that she's seen this and that, etc...
There are probably more but these are the main ones that I can remember.
The bad signs: • I asked her our to the movies some weeks ago. She first said yes, but then canceled on me saying that she has a lot of things to do (wrote a long explanatory text as to what and why) and she's scared the the movie ain't that good and that it will ruin the other movies in the trilogy. I didn't specify it as a date though. Also asked her out for ice cream once because I was in the area, but she rejected saying she has to do some studying. But to be honest, we really did have a ton of stuff to do there. • She only initiates conversations over text to ask me for help (sometimes it's about something really simple, or about something I'm pretty sure she knows already) or stuff about college. • She doesn't really ask questions about me. But like I mentioned before, she remembers it if I tell her. Could that be because she's introverted/shy?
Sorry if this was on the longer side, but I kind of need advice... What do you guys think? Does she also like me or is she just overly friendly? I was thinking about telling her how I feel and asking her on a formal date.
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Your willingness to embrace our service, provide valuable feedback, and spread the word has been nothing short of inspiring. We embarked on this journey with the hope of making a positive impact, and your engagement has turned that hope into a reality. Each one of you has played a crucial role in helping us reach this milestone, and for that, we are profoundly grateful.
This achievement is not just ours, but yours as well. Your trust in us motivates us to continue improving and offering the best possible experience. We are committed to maintaining the high standards and reliability you have come to expect from us, and we look forward to serving you and the growing community with unwavering dedication.
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2024.05.13 22:26 movingstasis Chuckling inwardly at her last text, the mechanic stared blankly at his lover's husband, reminding himself to smile and nod as the man talked endlessly about his car before paying and driving off.
Checking his phone, he re-read her last message which said Dont brake my heart, so he text back, I will make U brakefast tmrw, not ur hubby though lol.
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2024.05.13 22:25 Big_Original9347 Dating Situation Advice
Oh well, so I met this guy (27yo Im 35), January last year on grinder. Started as a hook up, then I started spending the nights (leaving inthe mornings) but Id come for a movie sometimes, we'd go out for a movie, go to the gym, dinner, I met his mom one night. we had a few altercations due to communication, I was catching feelings but he'd say he wanted to keep it casual, even though giving mixed signals sometimes (holding my hand walking on the street, introducing his to his mom, etc). At one points towards the end of the year after another altercation I decided it was hurting me and I should let that go. I spent a couple months without talking to him, we'd see each other at the gym and just pretend we didn't know each other.
Then he messages me one night (the night before Id go out of town for a month), I end up going to his place and spend the night. I thought I over it and would just do it for the sex. I go on my trip, come back and we start talking again, this time he seemed to be chasing a bit more and I had moved on. I start going to spend the night as his place once a week or every other week, hang out with him and his roomate, etc. but to me I was really getting caught up again. This whole year I was only seeing him when he reached out, I would never reach out first. (but i also never said no)
last week he texted me at 12 saying "I want cuddle sleep", which just made me feel some way about it. Like I was a cuddle uber delivery. Even thought it's kinda how we talk to each other, very direct, fast texters, etc. For the first time I said no bc it was too last minute, then he says "but you never ask me to hang either". Then I message the next day and didnt hear from him (sometimes was the reason for our past altercations but he hasnt done that this year until now). I dont say anything, then on saturday we talked he was with a friend and joked the friend wanted a 3some. That annoyed me so I kinda went off a bit, brought up how I felt about the text on wednesday etc.
We had more discussions, he tries calling me 20x to talk but I was just too upset. I tried asking the next day if he'd still like to talk, he said he was still licking his wounds but was sorry ands felt bad for making me feel bad (first time I hear him being apologetic and seemed genuinely sorry). Then 2 days later I send another text, kinda being a bit of an asshole bc I was upset, saying that if he didn't care to talk it only validated the way I felt. We then talk more, we talked on the phone that night and kinda decided we wouldn't see each other for a bit, or "text and see how it goes", something like that. After the talk he textes me this song (https://genius.com/The-japanese-house-somebody-you-found-lyrics), saying it explains better how he feels then he could. Which then just made me more confused... I texted back saying I was sorry and didn't mean the bad things I said. The next day I said I had a little something planned for his bday (end of the month) and if it would still make sense to. He said "probably not now" and that he would be out of town for his bday and that "maybe we could do something chill when he gets back".
I'm really confused. There's so much I want to ask after our last talk and that song, but Idk if i should or just go no contact again. Any advice would be helpful and thanks so much for reading all of this <3
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Then he messages me one night (the night before Id go out of town for a month), I end up going to his place and spend the night. I thought I over it and would just do it for the sex. I go on my trip, come back and we start talking again, this time he seemed to be chasing a bit more and I had moved on. I start going to spend the night as his place once a week or every other week, hang out with him and his roomate, etc. but to me I was really getting caught up again. This whole year I was only seeing him when he reached out, I would never reach out first. (but i also never said no)
last week he texted me at 12 saying "I want cuddle sleep", which just made me feel some way about it. Like I was a cuddle uber delivery. Even thought it's kinda how we talk to each other, very direct, fast texters, etc. For the first time I said no bc it was too last minute, then he says "but you never ask me to hang either". Then I message the next day and didnt hear from him (sometimes was the reason for our past altercations but he hasnt done that this year until now). I dont say anything, then on saturday we talked he was with a friend and joked the friend wanted a 3some. That annoyed me so I kinda went off a bit, brought up how I felt about the text on wednesday etc.
We had more discussions, he tries calling me 20x to talk but I was just too upset. I tried asking the next day if he'd still like to talk, he said he was still licking his wounds but was sorry ands felt bad for making me feel bad (first time I hear him being apologetic and seemed genuinely sorry). Then 2 days later I send another text, kinda being a bit of an asshole bc I was upset, saying that if he didn't care to talk it only validated the way I felt. We then talk more, we talked on the phone that night and kinda decided we wouldn't see each other for a bit, or "text and see how it goes", something like that. After the talk he textes me this song (https://genius.com/The-japanese-house-somebody-you-found-lyrics), saying it explains better how he feels then he could. Which then just made me more confused... I texted back saying I was sorry and didn't mean the bad things I said. The next day I said I had a little something planned for his bday (end of the month) and if it would still make sense to. He said "probably not now" and that he would be out of town for his bday and that "maybe we could do something chill when he gets back".
I'm really confused. There's so much I want to ask after our last talk and that song, but Idk if i should or just go no contact again. Any advice would be helpful and thanks so much for reading all of this <3
2024.05.13 22:25 BigDr0p_ This girl is confusing me
So one of my friends went to a different city for college and one time he came to visit in the weekend and we went to hang out with one of my friends so as a joke he called a girl that goes to his class and passed the phone to me i didn't wanna hang up and make things weird so i started talking to her and she was kinda cool so after sometime we hang up and she texted my friend " your friend is so fine im not kidding " so my friend showed me the text and i replied with a voice message to her and she was kinda embarrassed and said why would you let him read the text i added her on snapchat that night and in 2 days i texted and we started talking that day but she never texts first after that so i stopped texting her after about 2 weeks my friend came back to visit again and he told me that she said " your friend (which is me) have great looks and personality but i don't think i would take him as a bf" and honestly i was confused when he told me that cuz when you find a person with the looks you want and a good personality you don't wanna miss out on him so i told him to ask her why but he forgot. So one day i received a notification that she saved my snaps so i texted her and we talked for a little and i told my friend to ask her why she wouldn't take me as a bf and when he did she said "he is fine but i dont want to ive never thought about him in that way idk why" so can someone explain what does that mean cuz she was the one that said i look good first and that i have a good personality isn't this a chance for her
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2024.05.13 22:25 SpiritMushrooms Issues Deploying Unity AR experience to iPhone - Can't Verify App?
When I try deploy my AR app from a Macbook Air using Sonoma 14.4.1 to an iPhone 14 Pro, it fails at the VPN & Device Management stage. When I click 'Trust' it works but when I click 'Verify App' on my phone it fails. I've tried this while connected to wifi and while on mobile data, both when plugged into my Mac and when not but I get the same result each time.
The project itself is from Unity's AR for Mobile Pathway and is the initial trial project you download with just a spinning cube. I followed the configure instructions exactly.
I've attached the following
Domain: IDELaunchCoreDevice
Code: 0
Recovery Suggestion: Verify that the Developer App certificate for your account is trusted on your device. Open Settings on the device and navigate to General -> VPN & Device Management, then select your Developer App certificate to trust it.
User Info: {
DVTErrorCreationDateKey = "2024-05-13 20:04:50 +0000";
IDERunOperationFailingWorker = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker;
}
The request to open "com.StorySprings.ARProject" failed.
Domain: IDELaunchCoreDevice
Code: 0
Recovery Suggestion: Verify that the Developer App certificate for your account is trusted on your device. Open Settings on the device and navigate to General -> VPN & Device Management, then select your Developer App certificate to trust it.
User Info: {
IDERunOperationFailingWorker = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker;
}
The application failed to launch.
Domain: com.apple.dt.CoreDeviceError
Code: 10002
User Info: {
BundleIdentifier = "com.StorySprings.ARProject";
}
The request to open "com.StorySprings.ARProject" failed.
Domain: FBSOpenApplicationServiceErrorDomain
Code: 1
Failure Reason: The request was denied by service delegate (SBMainWorkspace) for reason: Security ("Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user").
User Info: {
BSErrorCodeDescription = RequestDenied;
FBSOpenApplicationRequestID = 0x9a0a;
}
The operation couldn’t be completed. Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user.
Domain: FBSOpenApplicationErrorDomain
Code: 3
Failure Reason: Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user.
User Info: {
BSErrorCodeDescription = Security;
}
Event Metadata: com.apple.dt.IDERunOperationWorkerFinished : {
"device_isCoreDevice" = 1;
"device_model" = "iPhone15,2";
"device_osBuild" = "17.4.1 (21E236)";
"device_platform" = "com.apple.platform.iphoneos";
"dvt_coredevice_version" = "355.24";
"dvt_mobiledevice_version" = "1643.100.58";
"launchSession_schemeCommand" = Run;
"launchSession_state" = 1;
"launchSession_targetArch" = arm64;
"operation_duration_ms" = 1340;
"operation_errorCode" = 0;
"operation_errorDomain" = IDELaunchCoreDevice;
"operation_errorWorker" = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker;
"operation_name" = IDERunOperationWorkerGroup;
"param_debugger_attachToExtensions" = 0;
"param_debugger_attachToXPC" = 0;
"param_debugger_type" = 3;
"param_destination_isProxy" = 0;
"param_destination_platform" = "com.apple.platform.iphoneos";
"param_diag_MainThreadChecker_stopOnIssue" = 0;
"param_diag_MallocStackLogging_enableDuringAttach" = 0;
"param_diag_MallocStackLogging_enableForXPC" = 1;
"param_diag_allowLocationSimulation" = 1;
"param_diag_checker_tpc_enable" = 1;
"param_diag_gpu_frameCapture_enable" = 3;
"param_diag_gpu_shaderValidation_enable" = 0;
"param_diag_gpu_validation_enable" = 1;
"param_diag_memoryGraphOnResourceException" = 0;
"param_diag_queueDebugging_enable" = 0;
"param_diag_runtimeProfile_generate" = 0;
"param_diag_sanitizer_asan_enable" = 0;
"param_diag_sanitizer_tsan_enable" = 0;
"param_diag_sanitizer_tsan_stopOnIssue" = 0;
"param_diag_sanitizer_ubsan_stopOnIssue" = 0;
"param_diag_showNonLocalizedStrings" = 0;
"param_diag_viewDebugging_enabled" = 1;
"param_diag_viewDebugging_insertDylibOnLaunch" = 1;
"param_install_style" = 0;
"param_launcher_UID" = 2;
"param_launcher_allowDeviceSensorReplayData" = 0;
"param_launcher_kind" = 0;
"param_launcher_style" = 99;
"param_launcher_substyle" = 8192;
"param_runnable_appExtensionHostRunMode" = 0;
"param_runnable_productType" = "com.apple.product-type.application";
"param_structuredConsoleMode" = 1;
"param_testing_launchedForTesting" = 0;
"param_testing_suppressSimulatorApp" = 0;
"param_testing_usingCLI" = 0;
"sdk_canonicalName" = "iphoneos17.4";
"sdk_osVersion" = "17.4";
"sdk_variant" = iphoneos;
}
System Information
macOS Version 14.4.1 (Build 23E224)
Xcode 15.3 (22618) (Build 15E204a)
Timestamp: 2024-05-13T21:04:50+01:00
submitted by SpiritMushrooms to unity [link] [comments]
The project itself is from Unity's AR for Mobile Pathway and is the initial trial project you download with just a spinning cube. I followed the configure instructions exactly.
I've attached the following
- a video of what happens on my phone
- a screenshot of the failure message on my laptop
- copied text from the 'details' section of the failure message:
Domain: IDELaunchCoreDevice
Code: 0
Recovery Suggestion: Verify that the Developer App certificate for your account is trusted on your device. Open Settings on the device and navigate to General -> VPN & Device Management, then select your Developer App certificate to trust it.
User Info: {
DVTErrorCreationDateKey = "2024-05-13 20:04:50 +0000";
IDERunOperationFailingWorker = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker;
}
The request to open "com.StorySprings.ARProject" failed.
Domain: IDELaunchCoreDevice
Code: 0
Recovery Suggestion: Verify that the Developer App certificate for your account is trusted on your device. Open Settings on the device and navigate to General -> VPN & Device Management, then select your Developer App certificate to trust it.
User Info: {
IDERunOperationFailingWorker = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker;
}
The application failed to launch.
Domain: com.apple.dt.CoreDeviceError
Code: 10002
User Info: {
BundleIdentifier = "com.StorySprings.ARProject";
}
The request to open "com.StorySprings.ARProject" failed.
Domain: FBSOpenApplicationServiceErrorDomain
Code: 1
Failure Reason: The request was denied by service delegate (SBMainWorkspace) for reason: Security ("Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user").
User Info: {
BSErrorCodeDescription = RequestDenied;
FBSOpenApplicationRequestID = 0x9a0a;
}
The operation couldn’t be completed. Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user.
Domain: FBSOpenApplicationErrorDomain
Code: 3
Failure Reason: Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user.
User Info: {
BSErrorCodeDescription = Security;
}
Event Metadata: com.apple.dt.IDERunOperationWorkerFinished : {
"device_isCoreDevice" = 1;
"device_model" = "iPhone15,2";
"device_osBuild" = "17.4.1 (21E236)";
"device_platform" = "com.apple.platform.iphoneos";
"dvt_coredevice_version" = "355.24";
"dvt_mobiledevice_version" = "1643.100.58";
"launchSession_schemeCommand" = Run;
"launchSession_state" = 1;
"launchSession_targetArch" = arm64;
"operation_duration_ms" = 1340;
"operation_errorCode" = 0;
"operation_errorDomain" = IDELaunchCoreDevice;
"operation_errorWorker" = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker;
"operation_name" = IDERunOperationWorkerGroup;
"param_debugger_attachToExtensions" = 0;
"param_debugger_attachToXPC" = 0;
"param_debugger_type" = 3;
"param_destination_isProxy" = 0;
"param_destination_platform" = "com.apple.platform.iphoneos";
"param_diag_MainThreadChecker_stopOnIssue" = 0;
"param_diag_MallocStackLogging_enableDuringAttach" = 0;
"param_diag_MallocStackLogging_enableForXPC" = 1;
"param_diag_allowLocationSimulation" = 1;
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2024.05.13 22:25 atonalpotatoes I built an online friendship with an incarcerated person, and now I have no way to contact them.
I cannot believe that I've found myself in this situation, yet here I am.
A while back, I met someone while playing (of all things) Scrabble online. We got to chatting (I never do this!), and quickly learned that this person's first language is one I have spent several years studying. Our conversations quickly turned to friendly language exchange and getting to know one another better. We began speaking daily, and it really blossomed into a delightful online friendship.
Over time, it came to light that my new friend was incarcerated, we chatted briefly about those circumstances, and I kind of assumed they were messaging me on a contraband phone. Maybe I should have cut ties there, but I didn't. We continued messaging for a few months on a separate texting app (I used a Google Voice number, to be safe). But a few days ago, they went radio silent. I know they haven't blocked me, but they haven't been online in several days.
I assume something has happened, but I've hit a dead end in figuring out a way to contact this person. All I have to go off is their phone number (nothing helpful comes of that), what they told me their first name was, and the state they are in. They're a first time offender, so their record is protected and not searchable.
I know it is probably ridiculous to be so worried over someone I barely know, but I can't stop thinking about them and hoping they are okay. I can't stop thinking about them. And I don't think I would necessarily divulge this information to any of my IRL friends, so here I am. Typing it here. What a life.
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A while back, I met someone while playing (of all things) Scrabble online. We got to chatting (I never do this!), and quickly learned that this person's first language is one I have spent several years studying. Our conversations quickly turned to friendly language exchange and getting to know one another better. We began speaking daily, and it really blossomed into a delightful online friendship.
Over time, it came to light that my new friend was incarcerated, we chatted briefly about those circumstances, and I kind of assumed they were messaging me on a contraband phone. Maybe I should have cut ties there, but I didn't. We continued messaging for a few months on a separate texting app (I used a Google Voice number, to be safe). But a few days ago, they went radio silent. I know they haven't blocked me, but they haven't been online in several days.
I assume something has happened, but I've hit a dead end in figuring out a way to contact this person. All I have to go off is their phone number (nothing helpful comes of that), what they told me their first name was, and the state they are in. They're a first time offender, so their record is protected and not searchable.
I know it is probably ridiculous to be so worried over someone I barely know, but I can't stop thinking about them and hoping they are okay. I can't stop thinking about them. And I don't think I would necessarily divulge this information to any of my IRL friends, so here I am. Typing it here. What a life.
2024.05.13 22:24 Big_Original9347 Dating Situation Advice
Oh well, so I met this guy (27yo Im 35), January last year on grinder. Started as a hook up, then I started spending the nights (leaving inthe mornings) but Id come for a movie sometimes, we'd go out for a movie, go to the gym, dinner, I met his mom one night. we had a few altercations due to communication, I was catching feelings but he'd say he wanted to keep it casual, even though giving mixed signals sometimes (holding my hand walking on the street, introducing his to his mom, etc). At one points towards the end of the year after another altercation I decided it was hurting me and I should let that go. I spent a couple months without talking to him, we'd see each other at the gym and just pretend we didn't know each other.
Then he messages me one night (the night before Id go out of town for a month), I end up going to his place and spend the night. I thought I over it and would just do it for the sex. I go on my trip, come back and we start talking again, this time he seemed to be chasing a bit more and I had moved on. I start going to spend the night as his place once a week or every other week, hang out with him and his roomate, etc. but to me I was really getting caught up again. This whole year I was only seeing him when he reached out, I would never reach out first. (but i also never said no)
last week he texted me at 12 saying "I want cuddle sleep", which just made me feel some way about it. Like I was a cuddle uber delivery. Even thought it's kinda how we talk to each other, very direct, fast texters, etc. For the first time I said no bc it was too last minute, then he says "but you never ask me to hang either". Then I message the next day and didnt hear from him (sometimes was the reaosn for our past altercations but he hasnt done that this year until now). I dont say anything, then on saturday we talked he was with a friend and joked the friend wanted a 3some. That annoyed me so I kinda went off a bit, brought up how I felt about the text on wednesday etc.
We had more discussions, he tries calling me 20x to talk but I was just too upset. I tried asking the next day if he'd still like to talk, he said he was still licking his wounds but was sorry ands felt bad for making me feel bad (first time I hear him being apologetic and seemed genuinely sorry). Then 2 days later I send another text, kinda being a bit of an asshole bc I was upset, saying that if he didn't care to talk it only validated the way I felt. We then talk more, we talked on the phone that night and kinda decided we wouldnt see each other for a bit, or "text and see how it goes", something like that. After the talk he textes me this song (https://genius.com/The-japanese-house-somebody-you-found-lyrics), saying it explains better how he feels then he could. Which then just made me more confused... I texted back saying I was sorry and didn't mean the bad things I said. The next day I said I had a little something planned for his bday (end of the month) and if it would still make sense to. He said "probably not now" and that he would be out of town for his bday and that "maybe we could do something chill when he gets back".
I'm really confused. There's so much I want to ask after our last talk and that song, but Idk if i should or just go no contact again. Any advice would be helpful and thanks so much for reading all of this <3
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Then he messages me one night (the night before Id go out of town for a month), I end up going to his place and spend the night. I thought I over it and would just do it for the sex. I go on my trip, come back and we start talking again, this time he seemed to be chasing a bit more and I had moved on. I start going to spend the night as his place once a week or every other week, hang out with him and his roomate, etc. but to me I was really getting caught up again. This whole year I was only seeing him when he reached out, I would never reach out first. (but i also never said no)
last week he texted me at 12 saying "I want cuddle sleep", which just made me feel some way about it. Like I was a cuddle uber delivery. Even thought it's kinda how we talk to each other, very direct, fast texters, etc. For the first time I said no bc it was too last minute, then he says "but you never ask me to hang either". Then I message the next day and didnt hear from him (sometimes was the reaosn for our past altercations but he hasnt done that this year until now). I dont say anything, then on saturday we talked he was with a friend and joked the friend wanted a 3some. That annoyed me so I kinda went off a bit, brought up how I felt about the text on wednesday etc.
We had more discussions, he tries calling me 20x to talk but I was just too upset. I tried asking the next day if he'd still like to talk, he said he was still licking his wounds but was sorry ands felt bad for making me feel bad (first time I hear him being apologetic and seemed genuinely sorry). Then 2 days later I send another text, kinda being a bit of an asshole bc I was upset, saying that if he didn't care to talk it only validated the way I felt. We then talk more, we talked on the phone that night and kinda decided we wouldnt see each other for a bit, or "text and see how it goes", something like that. After the talk he textes me this song (https://genius.com/The-japanese-house-somebody-you-found-lyrics), saying it explains better how he feels then he could. Which then just made me more confused... I texted back saying I was sorry and didn't mean the bad things I said. The next day I said I had a little something planned for his bday (end of the month) and if it would still make sense to. He said "probably not now" and that he would be out of town for his bday and that "maybe we could do something chill when he gets back".
I'm really confused. There's so much I want to ask after our last talk and that song, but Idk if i should or just go no contact again. Any advice would be helpful and thanks so much for reading all of this <3
2024.05.13 22:24 RedditSteadyGo1 According to the OpenAi website only plus users get the voice capability
"GPT-4o’s text and image capabilities are starting to roll out today in ChatGPT. We are making GPT-4o available in the free tier, and to Plus users with up to 5x higher message limits. We'll roll out a new version of Voice Mode with GPT-4o in alpha within ChatGPT Plus in the coming weeks. " Don't cancel just plus just yet.
Source https://openai.com/index/hello-gpt-4o/
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Source https://openai.com/index/hello-gpt-4o/
2024.05.13 22:24 Big_Original9347 Dating Situation Advice
Oh well, so I met this guy (27yo Im 35), January last year on grinder. Started as a hook up, then I started spending the nights (leaving inthe mornings) but Id come for a movie sometimes, we'd go out for a movie, go to the gym, dinner, I met his mom one night. we had a few altercations due to communication, I was catching feelings but he'd say he wanted to keep it casual, even though giving mixed signals sometimes (holding my hand walking on the street, introducing his to his mom, etc). At one points towards the end of the year after another altercation I decided it was hurting me and I should let that go. I spent a couple months without talking to him, we'd see each other at the gym and just pretend we didn't know each other.
Then he messages me one night (the night before Id go out of town for a month), I end up going to his place and spend the night. I thought I over it and would just do it for the sex. I go on my trip, come back and we start talking again, this time he seemed to be chasing a bit more and I had moved on. I start going to spend the night as his place once a week or every other week, hang out with him and his roomate, etc. but to me I was really getting caught up again. This whole year I was only seeing him when he reached out, I would never reach out first. (but i also never said no)
last week he texted me at 12 saying "I want cuddle sleep", which just made me feel some way about it. Like I was a cuddle uber delivery. Even thought it's kinda how we talk to each other, very direct, fast texters, etc. For the first time I said no bc it was too last minute, then he says "but you never ask me to hang either". Then I message the next day and didnt hear from him (sometimes was the reaosn for our past altercations but he hasnt done that this year until now). I dont say anything, then on saturday we talked he was with a friend and joked the friend wanted a 3some. That annoyed me so I kinda went off a bit, brought up how I felt about the text on wednesday etc.
We had more discussions, he tries calling me 20x to talk but I was just too upset. I tried asking the next day if he'd still like to talk, he said he was still licking his wounds but was sorry ands felt bad for making me feel bad (first time I hear him being apologetic and seemed genuinely sorry). Then 2 days later I send another text, kinda being a bit of an asshole bc I was upset, saying that if he didn't care to talk it only validated the way I felt. We then talk more, we talked on the phone that night and kinda decided we wouldnt see each other for a bit, or "text and see how it goes", something like that. After the talk he textes me this song (https://genius.com/The-japanese-house-somebody-you-found-lyrics), saying it explains better how he feels then he could. Which then just made me more confused... I texted back saying I was sorry and didn't mean the bad things I said. The next day I said I had a little something planned for his bday (end of the month) and if it would still make sense to. He said "probably not now" and that he would be out of town for his bday and that "maybe we could do something chill when he gets back".
I'm really confused. There's so much I want to ask after our last talk and that song, but Idk if i should or just go no contact again. Any advice would be helpful and thanks so much for reading all of this <3
submitted by Big_Original9347 to AskGaybrosOver30 [link] [comments]
Then he messages me one night (the night before Id go out of town for a month), I end up going to his place and spend the night. I thought I over it and would just do it for the sex. I go on my trip, come back and we start talking again, this time he seemed to be chasing a bit more and I had moved on. I start going to spend the night as his place once a week or every other week, hang out with him and his roomate, etc. but to me I was really getting caught up again. This whole year I was only seeing him when he reached out, I would never reach out first. (but i also never said no)
last week he texted me at 12 saying "I want cuddle sleep", which just made me feel some way about it. Like I was a cuddle uber delivery. Even thought it's kinda how we talk to each other, very direct, fast texters, etc. For the first time I said no bc it was too last minute, then he says "but you never ask me to hang either". Then I message the next day and didnt hear from him (sometimes was the reaosn for our past altercations but he hasnt done that this year until now). I dont say anything, then on saturday we talked he was with a friend and joked the friend wanted a 3some. That annoyed me so I kinda went off a bit, brought up how I felt about the text on wednesday etc.
We had more discussions, he tries calling me 20x to talk but I was just too upset. I tried asking the next day if he'd still like to talk, he said he was still licking his wounds but was sorry ands felt bad for making me feel bad (first time I hear him being apologetic and seemed genuinely sorry). Then 2 days later I send another text, kinda being a bit of an asshole bc I was upset, saying that if he didn't care to talk it only validated the way I felt. We then talk more, we talked on the phone that night and kinda decided we wouldnt see each other for a bit, or "text and see how it goes", something like that. After the talk he textes me this song (https://genius.com/The-japanese-house-somebody-you-found-lyrics), saying it explains better how he feels then he could. Which then just made me more confused... I texted back saying I was sorry and didn't mean the bad things I said. The next day I said I had a little something planned for his bday (end of the month) and if it would still make sense to. He said "probably not now" and that he would be out of town for his bday and that "maybe we could do something chill when he gets back".
I'm really confused. There's so much I want to ask after our last talk and that song, but Idk if i should or just go no contact again. Any advice would be helpful and thanks so much for reading all of this <3
2024.05.13 22:23 SpiritMushrooms Issues Deploying Unity AR experience to iPhone - Can't Verify App?
 | When I try deploy my AR app from a Macbook Air using Sonoma 14.4.1 to an iPhone 14 Pro, it fails at the VPN & Device Management stage. When I click 'Trust' it works but when I click 'Verify App' on my phone it fails. I've tried this while connected to wifi and while on mobile data, both when plugged into my Mac and when not but I get the same result each time. submitted by SpiritMushrooms to Unity3D [link] [comments] The project itself is from Unity's AR for Mobile Pathway and is the initial trial project you download with just a spinning cube. I followed the configure instructions exactly. I've attached the following
Domain: IDELaunchCoreDevice Code: 0 Recovery Suggestion: Verify that the Developer App certificate for your account is trusted on your device. Open Settings on the device and navigate to General -> VPN & Device Management, then select your Developer App certificate to trust it. User Info: { DVTErrorCreationDateKey = "2024-05-13 20:04:50 +0000"; IDERunOperationFailingWorker = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker; } The request to open "com.StorySprings.ARProject" failed. Domain: IDELaunchCoreDevice Code: 0 Recovery Suggestion: Verify that the Developer App certificate for your account is trusted on your device. Open Settings on the device and navigate to General -> VPN & Device Management, then select your Developer App certificate to trust it. User Info: { IDERunOperationFailingWorker = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker; } The application failed to launch. Domain: com.apple.dt.CoreDeviceError Code: 10002 User Info: { BundleIdentifier = "com.StorySprings.ARProject"; } The request to open "com.StorySprings.ARProject" failed. Domain: FBSOpenApplicationServiceErrorDomain Code: 1 Failure Reason: The request was denied by service delegate (SBMainWorkspace) for reason: Security ("Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user"). User Info: { BSErrorCodeDescription = RequestDenied; FBSOpenApplicationRequestID = 0x9a0a; } The operation couldn’t be completed. Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user. Domain: FBSOpenApplicationErrorDomain Code: 3 Failure Reason: Unable to launch com.StorySprings.ARProject because it has an invalid code signature, inadequate entitlements or its profile has not been explicitly trusted by the user. User Info: { BSErrorCodeDescription = Security; } Event Metadata: com.apple.dt.IDERunOperationWorkerFinished : { "device_isCoreDevice" = 1; "device_model" = "iPhone15,2"; "device_osBuild" = "17.4.1 (21E236)"; "device_platform" = "com.apple.platform.iphoneos"; "dvt_coredevice_version" = "355.24"; "dvt_mobiledevice_version" = "1643.100.58"; "launchSession_schemeCommand" = Run; "launchSession_state" = 1; "launchSession_targetArch" = arm64; "operation_duration_ms" = 1340; "operation_errorCode" = 0; "operation_errorDomain" = IDELaunchCoreDevice; "operation_errorWorker" = IDELaunchCoreDeviceWorker; "operation_name" = IDERunOperationWorkerGroup; "param_debugger_attachToExtensions" = 0; "param_debugger_attachToXPC" = 0; "param_debugger_type" = 3; "param_destination_isProxy" = 0; "param_destination_platform" = "com.apple.platform.iphoneos"; "param_diag_MainThreadChecker_stopOnIssue" = 0; "param_diag_MallocStackLogging_enableDuringAttach" = 0; "param_diag_MallocStackLogging_enableForXPC" = 1; "param_diag_allowLocationSimulation" = 1; "param_diag_checker_tpc_enable" = 1; "param_diag_gpu_frameCapture_enable" = 3; "param_diag_gpu_shaderValidation_enable" = 0; "param_diag_gpu_validation_enable" = 1; "param_diag_memoryGraphOnResourceException" = 0; "param_diag_queueDebugging_enable" = 0; "param_diag_runtimeProfile_generate" = 0; "param_diag_sanitizer_asan_enable" = 0; "param_diag_sanitizer_tsan_enable" = 0; "param_diag_sanitizer_tsan_stopOnIssue" = 0; "param_diag_sanitizer_ubsan_stopOnIssue" = 0; "param_diag_showNonLocalizedStrings" = 0; "param_diag_viewDebugging_enabled" = 1; "param_diag_viewDebugging_insertDylibOnLaunch" = 1; "param_install_style" = 0; "param_launcher_UID" = 2; "param_launcher_allowDeviceSensorReplayData" = 0; "param_launcher_kind" = 0; "param_launcher_style" = 99; "param_launcher_substyle" = 8192; "param_runnable_appExtensionHostRunMode" = 0; "param_runnable_productType" = "com.apple.product-type.application"; "param_structuredConsoleMode" = 1; "param_testing_launchedForTesting" = 0; "param_testing_suppressSimulatorApp" = 0; "param_testing_usingCLI" = 0; "sdk_canonicalName" = "iphoneos17.4"; "sdk_osVersion" = "17.4"; "sdk_variant" = iphoneos; } System Information macOS Version 14.4.1 (Build 23E224) Xcode 15.3 (22618) (Build 15E204a) Timestamp: 2024-05-13T21:04:50+01:00 |
2024.05.13 22:23 anarchrists Help with Warning # 4638 please!!!
Hello, I keep trying to recode into same variables using the drop down menu since I still don't know how to use syntax very well and I keep getting this message:
I don't know why it won't work since I've tried recoding other variables and it works just fine. Can someone help me please! I'm kind of losing my mind here. I saw another post referring to this same warning on SPSS and it didn't work for me. Greatly appreciate all advice.
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Warning # 4638 in column 73. Text: ( String variables being recoded differ in length. The recode may be inappropriate for some of the variables.All variables are string variables and I've tried setting their width up to 100 and it won't work, the recode isn't that large either.
I don't know why it won't work since I've tried recoding other variables and it works just fine. Can someone help me please! I'm kind of losing my mind here. I saw another post referring to this same warning on SPSS and it didn't work for me. Greatly appreciate all advice.
2024.05.13 22:23 Lo_esmeray I’m spiraling over a karen
So I (20F) worked for my dad(47M) at his small company as an assistant/HR, It’s a summer job and I was going to quit after April so I can prepare for Uni. After that we hired someone who was supposed to take over my position (50F) and immediately shit started getting weird.
She made odd comments about my family and the company. She was being very rude towards my dad, making disrespectful remarks and straight up told him she hated men and didn’t like talking to him, made weird note about the way he dress in a harassing manner- etc. She didn’t have a car and couldn’t do the task that required her to be mobile. She overall caused discomfort within the company and had problems communicating.
She ended up getting fired today because she couldn’t do her job, and she was hard to work with. She would have me run errands and check invoices for her instead of doing them herself. I would wake up with a notif of her texts where she’s screenshotted messages from her job of HER responsibilities and sent them to me for me to do them while i was no longer an employee- Simply because i was the daughter of the company’s boss.
She only worked for 8 days in total! 5 of which i sat with her for full hours demonstrating and teaching her the job. The remaining 3 was when she’d text me to do invoices from home. So basically she was only doing ~20% of her entire responsibility for what was supposed to be above average salary.
Before she left after her termination she threatened me with numerous things my reputation, legal action, she was even talking about me to the coffee shop next door basically a whole tantrum- it was mostly psychological but I’m scared she’d harm me. She’s been messaging me about the smallest details in the termination process. Like texting me after office hours demanding me to take her off the LinkedIn page? Sending 5-6 messages about how she’s still an admin…1 hour after firing. I told her I’d get to it the next day in office hours since we’re still in the process of deleting her of the database, and she demanded that I did it now because it was a “private account”
I have to talk to her again tomorrow, and she’s a complete nut-job and I’m genuinely terrified to face her. I’m scared she’d snap or do something. I’m not even a worker anymore this should not have been my business, but she has my personal contact and knows my dorm address.
I grew up in the slums where people chose violence over the tiniest thing, I moved out of it- relocated after multiple seeing a lot of crazy stuff as a kid, so I have existing trauma from that. She triggered PTSD that I haven’t even resurfaced for years. It brought me down a rabbit hole- looking for all sorts of ways this could end wrong for me.
I have my freelance gigs coming up and I can’t even focus on that nor my university in fear of her stalking or doing something. Then from the immediate termination I have to go back to my job until my dad can find a replacement so i have to do 9-6 again. Last thing i need is a crazy person over twice my age tormenting me. I have a feeling in my gut that somethings gonna go wrong. I don’t know how to calm my nerves with this one.
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She made odd comments about my family and the company. She was being very rude towards my dad, making disrespectful remarks and straight up told him she hated men and didn’t like talking to him, made weird note about the way he dress in a harassing manner- etc. She didn’t have a car and couldn’t do the task that required her to be mobile. She overall caused discomfort within the company and had problems communicating.
She ended up getting fired today because she couldn’t do her job, and she was hard to work with. She would have me run errands and check invoices for her instead of doing them herself. I would wake up with a notif of her texts where she’s screenshotted messages from her job of HER responsibilities and sent them to me for me to do them while i was no longer an employee- Simply because i was the daughter of the company’s boss.
She only worked for 8 days in total! 5 of which i sat with her for full hours demonstrating and teaching her the job. The remaining 3 was when she’d text me to do invoices from home. So basically she was only doing ~20% of her entire responsibility for what was supposed to be above average salary.
Before she left after her termination she threatened me with numerous things my reputation, legal action, she was even talking about me to the coffee shop next door basically a whole tantrum- it was mostly psychological but I’m scared she’d harm me. She’s been messaging me about the smallest details in the termination process. Like texting me after office hours demanding me to take her off the LinkedIn page? Sending 5-6 messages about how she’s still an admin…1 hour after firing. I told her I’d get to it the next day in office hours since we’re still in the process of deleting her of the database, and she demanded that I did it now because it was a “private account”
I have to talk to her again tomorrow, and she’s a complete nut-job and I’m genuinely terrified to face her. I’m scared she’d snap or do something. I’m not even a worker anymore this should not have been my business, but she has my personal contact and knows my dorm address.
I grew up in the slums where people chose violence over the tiniest thing, I moved out of it- relocated after multiple seeing a lot of crazy stuff as a kid, so I have existing trauma from that. She triggered PTSD that I haven’t even resurfaced for years. It brought me down a rabbit hole- looking for all sorts of ways this could end wrong for me.
I have my freelance gigs coming up and I can’t even focus on that nor my university in fear of her stalking or doing something. Then from the immediate termination I have to go back to my job until my dad can find a replacement so i have to do 9-6 again. Last thing i need is a crazy person over twice my age tormenting me. I have a feeling in my gut that somethings gonna go wrong. I don’t know how to calm my nerves with this one.