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I (29F) and my (18M) Brother's girlfriend (16F) are pissed at each other. I have no one to talk to about this and I'm starting to think I'm in the wrong. I know I have things to apologize for but she thinks the whole thing is my fault.
So me and the girlfriend who l'll call Heaven were sitting at the dinner table with my sister Mimi (25F) and her boyfriend Rob (27M). Mimi and Rob came to visit our parent's house. Heaven is always super exciting to talk to Mimi; so it wasn't surprising that when my brother went upstairs for something she excitedly told Mimi about the gift she was giving to my brother for graduation. Not thinking of getting, mind you. Activity already got. Heaven got my brother a puppy.
I was instantly upset for a huge number of reasons. Some include: my brothers leaving for college, there are already 4 dogs in the house and my parents are really struggling, he doesn't do much for his current two dogs. Often complaining when he has to take them out more than once or pick up his other dogs seizure medication. My parent do 95% of the dog care with me helping when I can. I would have to be the one to help train this dog, since again my parents are already having a hard time keeping up. They're getting older.
Heaven's argument is my brothers dog needs a playmate since the other dogs doesn't like to play with him. He's a big doodle and plays rough. Not sure what she expects a tiny puppy to do. I was honest and I told her no absolutely not, that she can't do that. To please buy him another gift. Mimi tired to be the voice of reason, but Heaven said it wasn't my decision to make and I lost it. This is where I might be the AH. I told her we'd most likely rehome the puppy as soon as my brother left for college, and if I saw it I would introduce my fist to her in the face. Not my proudest moment and I know I shouldn't have said that but I let my temper get the best of me.
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my boyfriend and I have been together for one year. There have been two times where I have caught him downloading a dating app while we were still together. I say while we were still together because we have also broken up two times in the span of the year but both times were very short. I have had a weird feeling lately, although he has been really sweet, he never really has time to talk to me anymore. He’s always on discord with his friends when I’m here.(his house) and occasionally turns to give me a Kissy face or cuddle for a few minutes. The only time we ever really get to talk is in the car or going to get food somewhere. Every single time I’ve tried to plan a date in the past few months, he has either slept in too late or just not wanted to go. We were supposed to go on a date today to the museum but we both slept in. we just stayed home and he gamed all day, we barley talk just short moments of affection. now it’s 3 am and He fell asleep on his living room couch. Normally I would wake him up to come to bed but I don’t feel like it now after what I’ve seen on his phone. I know it’s bad to go through his phone but every time I do I find something. I can’t help following that gut feeling sometimes, unfortunately mostly to my demise. I saw that he had deleted a chat with this girl that he had previously dated. I don’t think they were ever serious, but I have caught him texting her once before. he simply said “hey hope you’re doing well.” She hadn’t texted him first, he texted her out of the blue. “coincidentally” the same night that we had a conversation about how i felt he had been kind of dismissive towards me lately. she responded” thanks same to you” he hearted the message and that’s all I could see from the conversation. I’m not sure if he deleted the rest or if they called. i don’t know my minds racing with possibilities. during this relationship, my anxiety has grown so much and physically i’m trembling in his bed right now over the situation. I don’t know how to handle this. I’m comfortable with him. I feel safe and happy, but at the same time I’m constantly scared that he’s gonna hurt me (emotionally). I don’t know how to describe the feeling without sounding crazy. I need a therapist, but I can’t afford it. my best friend is there for me, but all she says is “screw him just find someone” like in a hyping me up type way, she doesn’t really know how to give me the advice i need. I love him so much, he’s s the one of the few people i feel comfortable being myself around. I adore and care for him so so much . I just wish he would stop hurting me and just be honest with me. i don’t know how to handle the situation, i was thinking of confronting him when we see eachother again on wednesday. i just want him to understand where i’m coming from. because most of the time when this happens it just ends in me apologizing for going through his phone. he gets angry before he even has a chance to hear how i feel. i was thinking if twisting it on him, saying “babe i have to tell you… i texted (ex he’s jealous of) the other day… nothing serious i just felt like texting him.” and seeing how he reacts. sort of turning the tables so he feels how i feel for a second. then if course i tell him it’s not true and that i actually caught him texting the girl. i don’t know that sounds a bit much. i just need actual advice on how to move forward.

my boyfriend and I have been together for one year. There have been two times where I have caught him downloading a dating app while we were still together. I say while we were still together because we have also broken up two times in the span of the year but both times were very short. I have had a weird feeling lately, although he has been really sweet, he never really has time to talk to me anymore. He’s always on discord with his friends when I’m here.(his house) and occasionally turns to give me a Kissy face or cuddle for a few minutes. The only time we ever really get to talk is in the car or going to get food somewhere. Every single time I’ve tried to plan a date in the past few months, he has either slept in too late or just not wanted to go. We were supposed to go on a date today to the museum but we both slept in. we just stayed home and he gamed all day, we barley talk just short moments of affection. now it’s 3 am and He fell asleep on his living room couch. Normally I would wake him up to come to bed but I don’t feel like it now after what I’ve seen on his phone. I know it’s bad to go through his phone but every time I do I find something. I can’t help following that gut feeling sometimes, unfortunately mostly to my demise. I saw that he had deleted a chat with this girl that he had previously dated. I don’t think they were ever serious, but I have caught him texting her once before. he simply said “hey hope you’re doing well.” She hadn’t texted him first, he texted her out of the blue. “coincidentally” the same night that we had a conversation about how i felt he had been kind of dismissive towards me lately. she responded” thanks same to you” he hearted the message and that’s all I could see from the conversation. I’m not sure if he deleted the rest or if they called. i don’t know my minds racing with possibilities. during this relationship, my anxiety has grown so much and physically i’m trembling in his bed right now over the situation. I don’t know how to handle this. I’m comfortable with him. I feel safe and happy, but at the same time I’m constantly scared that he’s gonna hurt me (emotionally). I don’t know how to describe the feeling without sounding crazy. I need a therapist, but I can’t afford it. I just need someone to talk to. my best friend is there for me, but all she says is “screw him just find someone” like in a hyping me up type way, she doesn’t really know how to give me the advice i need. I love him so much, he’s s the one of the few people i feel comfortable being myself around. I adore and care for him so so much . I just wish he would stop hurting me and just be honest with me. i don’t know how to handle the situation, i was thinking of confronting him when we see eachother again on wednesday. i just want him to understand where i’m coming from. because most of the time when this happens it just ends in me apologizing for going through his phone. he gets angry before he even has a chance to hear how i feel. i was thinking if twisting it on him, saying “babe i have to tell you… i texted (ex he’s jealous of) the other day… nothing serious i just felt like texting him.” and seeing how he reacts. sort of turning the tables so he feels how i feel for a second. then if course i tell him it’s not true and that i actually caught him texting the girl. i don’t know that sounds a bit much. i just need actual advice on how to move forward.

I need advice. I’m living with her for 1 1/2 years now and it’s only us two in the flat. For context: My boyfriend lives 3 hours away from me and I’m living near my family’s home. I love to visit my family and my hometown, and obviously my boyfriend. In my opinion, during uni you have more freedom than at any other point in life, why I am not in our flat that often. So, my flatmate always tells me subliminally that she hates being alone (“I have no motivation to cook just for myself”, “I had pms and didn’t want to socialize but nobody was at home and I cannot stand the silence”) And she always makes me feel so bad about visiting other people. But tbh she is not the center of my life and I don’t even like her really. She sits in her room all day and does NOTHING. She doesn’t even go to uni. I mean, why doesn’t she invite friends? Idk. PLUS she gave me side eye because I want to finish my degree next year in standard period of study because I go to my classes and not just waste my life away. Anyways, I told her that I do have the opinion to move out but we didn’t really come to a solution and just talked about other stuff. Every time I see her or get a text from her my anxiety gets so bad I cannot do anything except spiraling. Each day I have to spend with her is a day I like her less. What should I do pls help

I lost a significant amount of weight 4 years ago (around 15 kgs/ 30lbs - I’m very short!) by eating 2 meals a day. At this time I was single and totally in control of my lifestyle. I kept the weight off for 2.5 years and it felt so easy and I didn’t really have to think about it anymore and I wasn’t obsessing over my weight or over food.
Fast forward to getting into a relationship with my boyfriend 1.5 years ago and obviously my lifestyle changes slightly due to us spending a lot of time at each other’s apartments. He eats a lot more than me. He eats 3 meals a day and snacks and I’ve basically ended up the same way now and put all the weight back on.
It started off with him eating my snacks. That sounds petty as shit… but I used to buy snacks in my weekly shop and they would last me the whole week because I didn’t need to eat them? I didn’t have the desire to eat them all in one go and so they’d last me until my next shop. But I found that I was buying snacks and then I’d never get to eat them because he would eat them all before I had the chance! I ended up getting into the habit of eating them with him purely because I wanted to be able to enjoy MY snacks and I also didn’t want to be an ass that told my boyfriend he couldn’t eat the snacks I had in the house if he was hungry (because he needs more food than me so I get that).
Next was breakfast. He can’t function without it. Me on the other hand, I probably function better on just a cup of tea and waiting till lunch. However, he would get SO hungry in the morning when he stayed at mine because I didn’t stock breakfast food and then he would end up complaining and having to buy food on our way into work (we go together as we work in the same part of town). So I got sick of it and started buying breakfast foods which he would then make us BOTH breakfast with in the morning. Also if I stayed in his apartment he would relentlessly offer me breakfast food in the morning because he “couldn’t understand why I wasn’t hungry” and quite honestly I don’t have the will power to keep refusing him and so, as I’m sure you’ve guessed, now I eat breakfast. I don’t even like eating in the morning? It makes me feel bloated and honestly kind of nauseous.
I want to go back to my old lifestyle but struggle with how to navigate this in my relationship. This post probably sounds silly but I know others gain weight in relationships so I can’t be the only one that has similar struggles. What do I do? The easy answer is just to stop eating snacks and breakfast - I know. It’s not that I’m struggling with, it’s the fact that I now have extra obstacles (I.e. my boyfriend). I could avoid snacks and breakfast easily on my own. But I feel like I need to exert extra will power to do it now because there’s someone I have to keep refusing food from and also I can’t buy snacks around otherwise I don’t get to eat them when I actually want them.
P.s. I’m not trying to bash my boyfriend haha, he’s wonderful, I’m just venting here hoping someone else can relate and possibly help.

I made a post on May 3 how badly I was beaten by my boyfriend. While I tried to dial 911 on his phone and was unsuccessful to make a call go thru because he was fighting me. I never made a a report. It’s May 14. I also am on the hyper frequency list. As in the police in my neighborhood visit me bi weekly and ask me if there is something I need to report on my abuser. The dv officers came like a few days after the attack. Obviously I didn’t report anything. I’ve gotten a recent amount of new information from my abuser that has completely made me walk away. He has been cheating on me a lot and contracted an std. I cannot put my health at risk any more from this man who beats the day lights out of me on a daily basis and forces me to do these unwanted things.
Is it too late to report any of this? Or is it better for me to just have him leave my life completely and not peruse any of this legally? It took me 6 years but I finally want out of this completely. This would be my second time attempting to leave. I’m so unsure what to do. I already know the lash back I will face from the police for not reporting this right when it happened. And for the fact I kept seeing him and lying to the cops when they came to my door every two weeks. I’m so confused and lost on what’s the proper way to move on from here is. I told him we are done. And now obviously he’s begging to stay and to not contact the police. I’m disgusted with this individual but maybe this is what had to happen in order for me to finally have the strength to leave.
I thankfully do not rely on him for any housing or money. So leaving him now won’t be hard as I’m already emotionally detached from this person.
What I’m asking humbly from this group is any help and advice. I hate to be a burden but I really do need some advice. Thank you so much in advance!

Hi all. I’m 34 female and I grew up in very rural Illinois. I’ve experienced a lot of close death in last 4 years, so a little heads up and trigger warnings. They’ve all seemed to build up and crescendo into this current wave I find myself under and I guess this is me reaching for some help. In 2019, a close friend who I had been traveling and working with was killed by random gun violence. I had been with him the day before, said ’see you tomorrow’ and then he was gone. Besides grandparents, at the age of 29, I hadn’t experienced a close death of someone my age and loosing this friend rocked me hard. It seems since this moment, death really latched o to me. Two years later, one of my very best friends passed from a fentanyl overdose only days after we had spent 3 months side by side. We traveled the United States in his Van living together, went separate ways for less than a week, and then I was getting a call from his friend who found him. I had to notify all his friends and family. At the end of last year, my best friend of 27 years, truly my sister and closest companion in this worlds, unexpectedly ended her life. There was never a single sign I saw as her closest friend. She was dating someone new, I found the circumstances suspicious as he was there when her death occurred, but I could not convince her family to pursue an investigation. Her boyfriend then died over an overdose one month later, so whatever answers he had remain forever gone. On Christmas Day, a little over 2 months after the death of my best friend, my 72 year old father told me he had pancreatic cancer. I put my grief for my best friend in the back burner, moved home, and threw myself into being my father’s main caretaker. On March 1st, my father passed away. I’m now caring for his 15 acres of property and packing up his home alone to eventually sell it.
My best friend and I used to talk about how we’d be there for each other our entire lives, especially through the loss of our parents. Now that my dad has been gone over 2 months and the shock of a new diagnosis turned to hospice caretaking to death has settled in, all the grief is hitting me like a wave. I miss my best friend more than ever, like I pushed away her death to care for my dad and now it’s fully surfacing.
Grief has wrung me dry. It took who I was and twisted it into a million knots that I don’t know how to begin to untangle. I would like to seek therapy but I feel I need more than the ‘what stage of grief are you in’ approach because it’s all become so complicated. Most days I feel ok staying busy packing my dads home and then nights alone, I fall apart. I am living for them and would never harm myself, for them, but the majority of my support system was wiped out in the last 6 months and everything seems so hard.

Context: I (23F) live with my sister (21F) in a city about four hours away from our parental home. We’re 18 months apart and always had phases in our childhood of being at each others necks, I know I’m partly to blame but recently I’ve been feeling different and want perspective.
(Last bit of context: I’ve lived out of home now nearly 5 years with many different roommates and she’s only had 2 years with only me)
So a big catalyst I believe is that in Jan of 2023 I got a boyfriend. He is the absolute love of my life. He’s also partly responsible for my maturity in how I see chores and things around the house. I have adhd and really struggled with keeping a clean and tidy area but I found being around someone who can easily do those chores clicked something in my brain, that they’re not these massive things to overcome, it’s simply the dishes, or the laundry.
All this to say I’ve been really trying to upkeep the apartment and one of the big fights my sister and I keep having is about the cleanliness of the unit. She won’t clean up after herself, her things are everywhere all the time and it seems that I’m going crazy picking things up. And when I go to her trying to get a chore list or something similar together, she’s not interested at all. So I’m at the point now just exhausted.
She’s so angry, the way she speaks to people is not nice at all, even her friends, she won’t apologise, doesn’t take initiative, has no empathy, and part of me just thinks of how big of an awakening she’ll get when she lives with other people.
I need help reaching her and I’ve tried literally everything, I’m this close to letting everything go. I’m always the level headed one in arguments, apologising for what I’ve done, speaking in a clear and direct way making it about the facts and not poking her, and I don’t get that respect back.
This is also to add that she’ll hardly do anything just out of kindness. But I have to be there at her beck and call because I have a car. She has poor spending habits, poor work ethic and I’m starting to form contempt, I’m literally at the point of asking advice from randoms on the internet.
So please help me talk to her in a way that’ll be able to get through to her.

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My Ex-Boyfriend chose his adopted cats over his unborn child
My boyfriend (39) and I (29) decided to live together last year.
Everything seemed fine. Before he met me, he knew I had a 5-year-old child and that I wasn't married. He also had a cat. We moved in together, but he left his cat with his family.
In our new place, a stray cat started visiting us regularly, and we fed it often. I noticed he became attached to the stray, so we decided to adopt it to help him miss his cat less. I suggested we keep the cat indoors because my child often gets sick and got admitted a few times, but he got upset because the stray wasn’t used to living inside. So, I let it be even though the cat sometimes caught mice and climbed on the table. I'm not a cat person, but I tried to adjust.
When we started living together, I even adjusted my life and my son's needs. My son used to have S26 milk, but we had to switch to Bear Brand. Meanwhile, I saw my boyfriend ordering boxes of food and never buying new toys for my son ever. These red flags made me feel neglected and unimportant. We decided to merge all our salaries and split the bills. He managed the money and everything.
The stray cat gave birth to four kittens, and he was very excited and put in a lot of effort to take care of them. I wanted to rehome them because we were both busy as I have two jobs and a child to care for. We barely go out since there's a cats in our home, and he feels uneasy every time we go out for long periods.
As the kittens grew, they made a mess and smelled bad, especially during meals. The litter box besides our table. I couldn’t stand it. His behavior changed, and he told me he'd rehome them once they were older and no longer nursing. But when the time came, he showed no intention of doing so. When his sibling asked if we needed to adopt out the cats, he said he planned to keep them without consulting me.
I was shocked and we argued, making me feel like the bad guy.
Our relationship deteriorated, and every time I went downstairs, the smell made me angry. I felt like I had no say in our home. I told him that if he didn’t rehome the new cats, we would leave. I asked for at least two weeks to find a place and prepare the house I had bought. He responded, "The cats stay no matter what." That’s when I realized he chose the cats over us.
Three days after our conversation, we had a heated argument because the cats made a mess and smelled bad. He yelled at me, "When are you leaving?" He was furious. So, my child and I left immediately.
We moved far away. A few weeks later, he visited me in our new home and tried to reconcile, expressing regret for what happened. Despite everything, I loved him, so I gave him another chance. I decided to give it another try, hoping he might change his principles since we weren't living together anymore. He visited me once a week, but every time he was here, he constantly checked his phone to see how his cats were doing in CCTV. One time, while we were out grocery shopping, he seemed so rushed and preoccupied with his cats at home that it irritated me. At that time, I didn't know I was pregnant.
When I found out I was pregnant, I shared the news with him but kept my condition the same: he must rehome the cats and keep only one. He still refused. His plan was to live in my house while his cats stayed in his house. Instead of resolving things, he accused me of being an attention seeker and insecure. The stress has been overwhelming, and I've even experienced bleeding.
Also, my ex-boyfriend is quite tight on budget and has a lot of credit card debt that he is still paying off. I only found this out after we started living together. One reason I decided to live together was to help him financially. I also bought a house that I'm waiting to be turned over. I thought the additional expenses for the cats would be manageable if it was just one not 5, but with a baby on the way, it’s a different story. He is very firm in his decision. This has made me question everything even more.
So ABYG for asking my exbf to rehome his cats?

It all started on 7th of May when one of the discord servers I was in got hacked, then I noticed i was added in multiple 18+ discord servers and somehow someone changed my discord profile name and profile photo. Then, I left all those servers(including the one that I think got hacked) and everything seemed fine. After a couple of minutes people that I dont have in my contacts started calling me asking for dr*gs saying I gave my number on a telegram group( I have to mention im only in football groups to watch live goals and clips) but those people who called me were from the same country as I am so I’m not sure if it has anything to do with that discord server. The next day and for the rest of the week no one called me. On sunday night I used my pc to do a history project and the next day someone tried hacking into all of my accounts and he managed to change some of my passwords but I got all my accounts back except my tik tok account(because he changed the email and the phone number in the app so I cant log in using my personal email and phone number). I found out he was doing this from a S22 Ultra and I saw his location(he was at my friend’s school; so I suppose my friend is involved in this too). He also sent me an email saying that my family is in danger if I dont send him 100 dollars. The emails name which he sent this message to me is “pavlonozbuisness@gmail.com”. I searched pavlonoz on google and I found him on unknown cheats(from this site my friend sent me a gta hack saying its safe but windows defender spotted it as a trojan;I deleted all the folders that had to do with the hack and the notifs from windows defender stopped ) and I also found this guy on reddit(he is in Romania comunity(which means he is romanian as me) and in S22ultra comunity(his phone).In the same day people from the telegram group started to call me again and one of them sent me a photo of the guy that put my name on the telegram group. I wasnt able to contact him on telegram as i needed his phone number. And now he stopped since my parents called my friend’s parents so I suppose my friend and pavlonoz are in the same school or class. I changed my passwords to all of my accounts but im still scared he can still log in into them. Anyways today Im going to the police maybe they can track him down. Now the only account I cant get back is my tik tok account(i explained upper why) so if there is any solution of getting it back please help me. Or maybe the police will find him and he will log out with his account. What should I do?

Six years together. 2024 has been quite a year so far. My boyfriend has been out of work for almost 5 months, which is yearly occurrence since his main source of income is from doing gig work with a local transportation company. He has been applying to jobs with an out of date resume, he hasn't had that much luck in finding work. When I suggested taking on a temporary job at a grocery store or cafe to stay afloat until his main job starts up again, he became extremely upset and said that those jobs were beneath him.
In these past 5 months he has been playing video games, smoking weed in my bathroom, randomly leaving at all hours to hang out with his friends. He doesn't help with any chores, out of fear for my safety I purchased him a new phone when he broke his, paid for two months worth of phone bills, purchase work boots, and allowed him to shake me down for cash to buy weed.
Even though he tries to gaslight me but saying that this is first year that he hasn't been without work, it hasn't been. Every year since he quit his job during covid(2020)and moved into my apt. he has had periods of no work and very little to no money. He just games and smokes those months away. He berates me for not cooking or cleaning when I was working two jobs and he was working none. When he finally did get a new job thanks to his dad helping him, he refused to contribute financially even though he saw how physically and mentally exhausted I was from working 6 days a week. He said I didn't deserve help. He treats me terribly whenever I help him out. He has forced me to pay his taxes, give him one of my stimulus bills, buy him food. He becomes irate if things aren't exactly how he wants it. He loves to make plans only to cancel at the last minute and then gaslight me about it. He would refuse to go out with me to events but then drop everything to go hang out with his friends.
I always told him that if he can't contribute financially due to not having enough or having work, it's fine but he should contribute by doinf household chores. He refuses.
I think what is going on is that my mind is trying to protect me by compartmentalizing and lessen the gravity of the situation and of what occurred this past weekend. I see the signs of being in an abusive relationship but I don't fully believe that I am in one because it doesn't fit what we all have been told are the signs of an abusive relationship.
In February he pushed some storage bins into me, one of which broke and cut me in my back because I told his parents that he hadn't been working for the past two months.
This past weekend which we were walking through a soon to be closed mall, I had been recording the beautiful 80's/90's architecture when he said wait, I instinctively turned around and he was scratching himself. I laughed a little bit and turned back and continued walking. Since I had my phone in my hand he thought I had recorded him, he rushed down the hallway angrily asking me if I recorded him and to give him my phone. I said I didn't and kept walking,I was wearing a hoodie and he grabbed my hood and pulled, angrily telling me to give him my phone, I told him to let go that he was hurting me. I tried to keep on walking but he was still holding onto and pulling my hood. He then proceeds to try to grab the phone out of my hands. You know when someone tries to grab something out of your hands and both of you start grappling over the item, that's what happened. My phone is brand new and did not have a case yet and I was worried he would smash it into the ground. I know my personal safety is more important than a phone but I couldn't let go even if I wanted to, he had grabbed onto me and was in the process of pushing me into the wall when a guy rounded the corner.
He didn't step in nor call the police as far as I know. I took the opportunity to get away from my boyfriend as quickly as I could.
I ran to the train station, he kept on yelling at me "Are you really going to act like this", I didn't answer. My neck and throat burned from where his was pulling back on my hoodie. I started to cry. There was a lady who seemed to notice that something was going on and nodded her head in approval when she saw me rushing past to get into the station.
When he finally did catch up to me and when he texted and called me afterwards, he kept on blaming me for what happened. He said that I shouldn't have walked away from him when he grabbed onto my hood and that I should have told him that I was playing around and pretending to record him( which is what I said to placate him). When I said that he shouldn't have grabbed my hoodie and pulled he retorted with the so now it's my fault, as if I made him pull my hoodie and react like that.
I wanted to go home but I didn't have my keys on me, so I went down to a nearby marina and watched the boats for awhile.
I ultimately ended up at his parents house. I did not tell them what happened. In the past he would become enraged when he found out that I had told his sisters or mom about what was really going on, and would forbade me to either go to a family function or to say anything. His dad then proceeded to have a conversation about selling his house and giving us the proceeds to buy a house but we should have two kids. His parents have been pressuring me have a child with him even though we aren't married. I want to get married and have a small church wedding but according to my boyfriend I don't deserve a wedding. He also shared with us the importance that both people in a relationship need to contribute financially and pay bills, I told him he should tell that to his son, not me. It would be insanity to have a child with a man like him. I know that he will not change who he is if a child came along.
My friends are aware of the general situation (not of this latest incident), some of my family is aware of the general situation( I don't want them to worry and I don't want to bring unnecessary drama into their lives). His family is aware, one of his older sister's told me to call her for help when I wanted to end things with him and she would come over but when I actually did reach out to her, she said that I was an adult and would need to handle things on my own. I think she feigned concerned in order to get information to gossip with the rest of their family.
I am scared of him. Scared of how he would react if I stand firm in him needing to leave. Scared that he will harm my friends, family, himself and me. He has threaten suicide before. He has threaten to harm my pet. He has threaten to steal my mom's ashes. I have asked him to leave before and either he refuses or he simply ignores me.Him leaving is not that simple. He has nothing to lose yet at the same time everything to lose. He doesn't want to go back to his parents house because they will make him find a full time job and then won't let him do what he wants, he would have less freedom( couldn't smoke weed)...and those are his words not mine. He has never agreed to a break or even a temporary visit because he would "come back madder". He knows if he does leave, I will try to end things with him.
He comes across as a calm, chill guy when he is around my friends and family because he is high all or most of the time. That calm, chill guy is not who he really is. He is angry, volatile, and cruel. Yes, he has his moments of kindness(or niceness) and sweetness. Is it "nice" to have someone around to talk with, yes. Who seemingly care about when you will be back home, yes. but do those niceties outweigh everything else that has happened.
There is so much more that I could add to this post, but I am exhausted and I have blocked several incidents out. He constantly tries to gaslights me. He lied about his background and education. He has gotten physical several other times as well as verbally/emotionally. He has engaged in several sexting relationships, most notably with his ex Christy and his "friend" Lore. When I expressed how hurtful his cheating was he stated that is who he is, that he's the kind guy but since he didn't sleep with them, it's fine, it's not cheating. These girls also do not see anything wrong with what they have done.
I do not have any immediate family ie siblings or parents. Therefore, I cannot go and stay with family until he leaves or have a family member accompany me while he moves out. I do have extended family in the area but life has taught me that there is no guarantee that they will help you even if you desperately need it. It's the American way to find your own way out of problems and pull yourself up by your bootstraps ( I say this sarcastically).
The apt. is in my name and I'm pretty sure there is a clause in it that states that if there are domestic disturbances I would have to move out. As stated above I don't have anywhere else to go, so he must leave.
Sometimes I think that this is my lot in life and that I should just accept it. I find myself questioning if what happened on Saturday really is abuse or if it was just a misunderstanding that got a little bit out of hand. Sometimes I just don't know anymore.

I mean she was a neglectful meth head, but when my grandfather let me see her behind my grandmothers' back she seemed to really want to foster a relationship with me.
I was already very eclectic but she introduced me to so many concepts and art and seemed to be supportive of me being openly queer in my teens.
We used to watch scary movies and go to metal shows together, dumpster diving, etc. She really should've never had a kid. She's a big kid herself and I'm not mad about that. She's always cared about animals more than herself too, often having dozens of dogs at a time that she'd find homes for.
In 2019 I let her move in with me when I still had my old home because my aunt committed probate fraud against the both of us and made her homeless. I took her and 15 dogs in because my aunt was driving back and forth past my house trying to intimidate me and I was terrified to be home alone.
My mom wasn't perfect but at least she wasn't like her mother, the conservative nut who raised me...or so I thought.
Lockdown happens and she lost it. She was already up all the time but I'd constantly hear her in these chat rooms with these weird ass men and what made it cringy was how much of a pick-me she was with them.
One time she invited one of her qanon friends over so they could roast me because I don't believe the earth is flat. She literally laughed at me and said ________ has always been ...impressionable hahaha.
She began talking shit about Trans people and started thinking everyone is actually a man. It wasn't long until she was vocal about her disdain for me being gay too. She was never so hateful before, and by her own logic she's probably a man too. She's definitely got the arms of a navy seal and the jawline of someone participating in the fellatio Olympics.
She began inviting all these other awful people to my house, and her meth dealer boyfriend who carried a cross for two years in our town. Even he gets sick of her rants on nasa, vaccines, and transwomen even though he partially agrees her.
I haven't seen her or sent a picture since before my 30th birthday. I'm 31 now and it's because everytime she calls its because she needs to borrow my ID or social security for some bs reason. She ruined my credit and it's taken me years to fix it.
I didn't bother to bring up top surgery to her because I didn't want to hear her vitriol or bronze age mythology references stating that jahovah had a "special role" for me as a "helper" to some scrote. She's already larping like that with breaking bad over there.
Not to mention She's been on the vaccines cause autism train for years, despite the fact that her brother and mother are both on the spectrum and there's a high possibility she is too. I have audhd, the adhd part most likely being from her smoking meth during pregnancy.
I think her homophobia towards me stems from her wanting to be a grandmother but best I can do is four legged cuties.
But on a lighter note I've figured out what I want to send her as a Christmas card:
Me, with my top surgery scars, holding my cat like a baby, by a 5g tower, a NASA hat and a vest that says AUTISM RULES, while I sodomize my equally genderfluid lover while they hold up our vaccine cards.
Whatcha think

Notes: sorry for the bad English or wrong grammar since English is not my first language
I’m 23 (F) and my fiancé 24 (M) has been engaged for 3 months now. We are exes back at high school but only in relationship for few months. After 5 years, we met again and he propose after few months after we met. Everything was fine before, he took care of my well-being, fulfil my cravings and needs. He has an ex before, she is a cheater and gold digger (from what he told me) he really loved her that he bought the girl almost everything she wanted, an iPhone, iPad, shopping spree, expensive dining and even install the air conditioner and bought furniture at the girl familys house. To the point where the girls family is using him for money. Eventually after 2 years, they broke up.
Back to my story, he changed by time. He doesn’t really pay attention to me like he used to, he plays his phone a lot and no longer fulfil my needs like he used to. I checked his phone few times since I know all his passwords an got access to his social media but theres nothing suspicious, he just scrolling his media social most of the time. The wedding is less than 3 months away and we havent start to prepare anything yet. Just a small talk like where the venue and how many guests we want to invite and that`s all. Every time I try bring him to discuss more about the wedding he keeps saying “whatever u wanted, it will be just fine with me”. At this time, I feel like I am the only one who excited about this wedding. You must be guessing oh he must be working really hard right now to pay the wedding expenses. He is not, his dad lending his money to pay for our wedding expenses and he agreed to pay it back every month after the wedding. I don’t know how to feel about this.
Related to the story of his ex, the girl is jobless and basically his ex-boyfriend who is my fiancé now is the one who provide anything for her. I am working, but the salary is not that much but enough, I notice my fiancé don’t have that much money like he used to so I helped him to cover some expenses using my savings for us to survive. But this is where my hate grew, because just later I know he actually not that broke like what I thought. Few weeks ago, I thought we are facing financial problem that he only bought one meal for me and he refuse for us to share the meal. I, once again use my saving so none of us have to feel hungry and to cover some expenses. He bought a 400 bucks car rims the very next day and told me he wants to join competing a car event that is one month away. As the fiancée I keep thinking why he can`t treat me the way he treated his ex before, she is jobless + cheat on him but he just fine with it and still love and did everything she wanted to just to please her. But when we are together, I am treated this way. I tried confront him few times but he keeps denying and tell me sad story about his previous life. It’s not that I want to be his next gold digger but I sense the injustice in all these issues. Mind that he like to lie with no reason, like just a small inconvenient thing asked and he will pretty much lie.
I don’t know how to feel, what I should do or talk to. because people around me supporting him, saying he is a nice guy whatsoever and it is me who over react all this things.

It all started on 7th of May when one of the discord servers I was in got hacked, then I noticed i was added in multiple 18+ discord servers and somehow someone changed my discord profile name and profile photo. Then, I left all those servers(including the that I think got hacked) and everything seemed fine. After a couple of minutes people that I dont have in my contacts started calling me asking for dr*gs saying my I gave my number on a telegram group( I have to mention im only in football group to watch live goals and clips) but those people who called me were from the same country as I am so I’m not sure if it has anything to do with that discord server. The next day and for the rest of the week no one called me. On sunday night I used my pc to do a history project and the next day someone tried hacking into all my accounts and he managed to change some of my passwords but I got all my accounts back except my tik tok account(because he changed the email and the phone number in the app so I cant log in using my personal email and phone number). I found out he was doing this from a S22 Ultra and I saw his location(he was at my friend’s school; so I suppose my friend is involved in this too). He also sent me an email saying that my family is in danger if I dont send him 100 dollars. The emails name which he sent this message to me is “pavlonozbuisness@gmail.com”. I searched plavonoz on google and I found him on unknown cheats(from this site my friend sent me a gta hack saying its safe but windows defender spotted it as a trojan;I deleted all the folders that had to do with the hack and the notifs from windows defender stopped ) and I also found this guy on reddit(he is in Romania comunity(which means he is romanian as me) and in S22ultra comunity(his phone).In the same day people from the telegram group started to call me again and one of them sent me a photo of the guy that put my name on the telegram group. I wasnt able to contact him on telegram as i needed his phone number. And now he stopped since my parents called my friend’s parents so I suppose my friend and pavlonoz are in the same school or class. I changed my passwords to all of my accounts but im still scared he can still log in into them. Anyways today Im going to the police maybe they can track him down. Now the only account I cant get back is my tik tok account(i explained upper why) so if there is any solution of getting it back please help me. Or maybe the police will find him and he will log out with his account. What should I do?

I have never had this happen before and I was wondering how I could possibly cope or fix this.
I have been in a loving and wonderful relationship for 8 months. Shortly before my current relationship, I was with Ryan (pseudonym) for 9 months ish.
Before Ryan and I got together, he was my friend and pretty quickly became my FP and I fixated on him, we got together and it was a toxic relationship (he wasnt very mature and i have a lot of trauma and cant regulate very well), but my fixation and attachment to him never left.
I love my current boyfriend so much and this is legitimately my first healthy relationship. But I find myself looking up my ex all the time, and when I see him online or following new people I get so anxious I feel like I'm going to throw up even though we've been no contact for 8 months.
I don't know how to stop him from being my FP. I also don't know why I haven't formed this attachment to my current boyfriend, but I'm also grateful for it because I know it would probably become toxic and obsessive if I did.
Tl;dr: I need advice on how to stop my ex (no contact 8 months) being my fp while I'm in a good relationship now.

Hi All, I've tried to make bitlocker enabling on our MDT server so that it encrypts C:\ , backs up key to AD, but somehow not working. Read through articles, but seems like the settings mentioned there are not working for my setup.
This is my deployment share rules :
[Settings]
Priority=Default
Properties=MyCustomProperty
[Default]
SkipBDDWelcome=YES
KeyboardLocale=en-US
OSInstall=Y
SkipCapture=YES
SkipAdminPassword=YES
SkipProductKey=YES
SkipComputerBackup=YES
SkipBitLocker=NO
SkipTaskSequence=NO
SkipSummary=YES
TimeZoneName=W. Europe Standard Time
SkipLocaleSelection=YES
SkipTimeZone=YES
SkipComputerName=NO
OSDComputerName=!MUST-FILL-IN
SkipDomainMembership=YES
DomainAdmin=SVC-xx
DomainAdminDomain=xx.com
DomainAdminPassword=pwhere
JoinDomain=xx.com
MachineObjectOU=OU=WDS,OU=The Netherlands,OU=Europe,DC=xx,DC=com
HideShell=YES
EventService=http://mdtserver:9800
SkipFinalSummary=NO
BDEInstall=TPM
BDERecoveryKey=AD
BDEInstallSuppress=NO
OSDBitLockerCreateRecoveryPassword=AD
OSDBitLockerMode=TPM
OSDBitLockerWaitForEncryption=NO
SkipBitLocker=NO
During deployment it doesn't seem to try enabling it at all, after finish, no sign of bitlocker.
What other settings do I need to set?

I'm afraid I'm going to lose my boyfriend and fp. I just had a long episode and it ended when he gave me a little bit of wake up call kind of forced myself to snap out of it. It's difficult and I'm trying really hard to stop all the emotions from coming out. But he said something that can't leave my mind and I know he needs space and he tells me that everything is alright with us and it might even be but for some reason I keep think bcs I messed up this relationship its going to take the exact same turn as the last long term one which ended terribly. He's perfect for me and I don't want to lose him any advice or tips on how to control my rapidly spiraling thoughts and emotions

I have been with my boyfriend about 8 months. Things for the most part have been so much fun. We have great banter and chemistry, he is family oriented, educated, good job, helpful, thoughtful. My issue is I feel he is not very emotionally mature. On multiple occasions, when I have brought up things that bother me, he gets defensive. He never yells, but he speaks a bit coldly and may say something like "why are you making this a big deal." It seems that if he himself understands why something bothers me, he can react properly. However, if he does not understand / agree why something upsets me, he does not react the best, when all I need is for him to react in a way that shows he cares about my feelings.
I have tried to talk to him about the importance of communication in these instances even if he disagrees with me, but it feels like he just doesn't get it. He says he is trying and it may take time to figure out. I also feel sometimes he struggles to have / gets awkward about having very deep conversations, while I can easily have both lighthearted and more deep convos. I have been struggling because I really like him so much, but this is definitely something important to me and I am not sure what to do. It has made me feel like I don't know if this is right for me, even though I would have loved for it to be. Any advice?
TL;DR: My boyfriend and I have a great connection, but he lacks the emotional maturity I desire. Any advice?

I am trying to improve my cybersecurity habits while finding solutions that work for me. I have three main devices that I use to login to various sites, namely my phone, my laptop and my desktop PC. I use Google Password Manager and let it generate secure and unique passwords for most sites and I unlock it via the fingerprint reader on my phone and laptop, which works super well for me. I might buy a fingerprint reader for my desktop PC as well soon, because it is my preferred method of logging into sites and into Windows. I have tried Bitwarden after several people suggested it to me, but I did not like the user experience and want to stick to Google Password Manager. I have two topics I would like some advice on:
a) To better secure some of my more important accounts I want to add an additional layer of security by installing a 2FA app on my phone. I'm currently trying out 2FAS but I am willing to switch to Aegis if it works better for my use case. Since my password manager is tied to my main google account I do not feel comfortable with backing the 2FA tokens up to that same account and decided to back it up to my secondary google account. That one can be recovered using my primary google account, but I thought it would still be better to keep it on separate accounts. It is also encrypted with a password that I keep on a piece of paper in my house and will also probably keep it at a close family members house. I am building an unRAID server soon that will be running nextcloud among other applications, so I would also like to keep a second backup of the 2FA tokens there, so that the one on google drive isn't my only backup. Is it possible to just somehow mirror the one from google drive to nextcloud? Or somehow create a separate backup once a day that automatically uploads to nextcloud? Would this be secure enough or do I need to also directly print out 2FA backup codes and physically store them somewhere? Also: I saw that 2FAS lets me sync 2FA tokens to a browser extension to also be used on my laptop and desktop PC, but I wonder if this would just defeat the purpose of using a 2FA app in the first place?
b) I currently only use local admin accounts for both my laptop and desktop PC, both running Windows 11. I heard that it's a lot safer to use separate admin and user accounts, so I had the idea to tie both the user account and the admin account to Windows Hello with my fingerprint readers. That way I use my finger print to login to my user account, to unlock Google Password Manager, and to confirm actions in windows that require admin rights. Is this okay to do or am I overlooking something here? I do sometimes install cracked software, and while I'm trying to do my due diligence in only using trusted sources for that, the risk of infecting my Windows computers with malware is non-zero.
I understand that my cybersecurity habits aren't perfect, but I'm trying to not let perfect be the enemy of good here.

Hello everyone, I’m seeking advice and support regarding a critical issue we’ve been facing with our Meta Business Manager account. In January 2023, our CEO’s account and our Business Manager were compromised. We immediately reported this to Meta, and in August 2023, we received guidance on securing our accounts and getting refunds for fraudulent purchases. We followed all the recommended steps, including updating our passwords and enabling two-factor authentication. While we have regained access to our Facebook Page and Instagram account, we still do not have access to our Business Manager. This is severely impacting our ability to manage centralized ad accounts, access analytics, and use third-party apps. We have repeatedly reached out to Meta, opening multiple cases, but all have been marked as resolved without providing an actual solution. We are in urgent need of an update on the refund process for the fraudulent charges and the expected timeline for completion, clear steps we need to follow to recover access to our Business Manager account, and any additional security measures to prevent future compromises. We are prepared to settle any unpaid dues for the Business Manager once we regain access and have all necessary legal documents for our business. Has anyone else experienced something similar? Any advice or contacts within Meta who could help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

Today I (F25) was talking with this guy (M21) who we are in a romantic situation (not a couple, we’ve been talking for a couple months now) and today he sent me a picture of a girl (instagram ss) in a bikini asking me if “I knew her” I answered with “no, what about her?” And he said “oh she’s my future wife. Just kidding, she’s a famous football player’s girlfriend” and honestly I don’t know what the fuck. Like I can’t understand why he would say that and on the moment we just didn’t kept on talking about it but it bothered be.
Then a bit later I mentioned something about my best friend and he said “oh she’s really pretty” and if that’s not enough he then said “she looks like a model. She’s completely out of my league” 🥴 what the fuuuuck. He knows her bc she’s my best friend and it’s not like he is talking to her or looking for the opportunity to meet her but like ? I need some insight I’m not even sure how I feel about the situation. In a way it bothers me because I tend to take those comments in a way where I start to compare myself and i put myself down because I don’t look and will never be as pretty as them. On the other hand I understand it is very human to be attracted to other people and it’s okay to discuss it with your partner but it just doesn’t sit right with me.
For more context, the reason I think it bothers me more is because at the very beginning of our relationship we had a discussion because of some pictures I have in the cloud with my ex boyfriend. He got so jealous, we spent like 3 weeks fighting over that and that “I was not over him”, “that wasn’t right”, “it’s not okay to still have pictures with him when I’m seeing someone else” and now he comes up with that… like why I can’t but he can make those comments? I feel like he’s doing it to push me into being jealous but I need some input. I don’t know how to handle the situation.