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Idiots Nearly Dying
2016.12.26 22:29 God_loves_irony Idiots Nearly Dying
Almost dying . . . almost. No actual death, dismemberment, or gore; this sub is for close calls or things that could have gone much worse. This is a Safe For Work sub.
2019.01.24 07:46 KsbjA Im15AndThisIsYeet
When you are 15 years old, and something is yeet
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2024.05.15 12:50 AndrewSiachos Some thoughts on Nightwish
In most chapters of my life echoes the music of Nightwish. I was 14 years old when I discovered them and since then they have been my comfort and my refuge. To me, they are the only band whose whole discography I adore. I enjoy every song. When life was good, they were my joy and when life was bad they provid me with the ultimate Escapism.
As I listened to their music, album after album, I wanted to learn more about the band members. Soon I was captivated by Tuomas’ personality and creativity. He became my idol and the inspiration that led me learn the piano by myself and write stories.
What I wanted to say, though, is that I realized how lucky and grateful I am that I got to live in the Nightwish Era. From the moment they were formed until they created their own musical constellation. Previous generations that are no longer in this world perhaps never heard of Nightwish. Future generations will know that there was once a band called Nightwish which made music that speaks to the soul, caresses the senses and connects so many people around the world.
But we… all of us are here to witness with anticipation the birth of each new album. We are given the chance to argue about every song, what we like and what we don’t, whether it meets our expectations etc. The departures of loved band members left us with a heavy heart, wondering what the future holds and if this could be a potential end of the band. But Nightwish went on. New members came and, no matter how big were the shoes they had fill, they did it in their own way. In the end it’s all about the music. We have the privilege to witness the history of Nightwish in the making, to watch them in their Greatest Show on Earth.
And that makes us the lucky ones!
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As I listened to their music, album after album, I wanted to learn more about the band members. Soon I was captivated by Tuomas’ personality and creativity. He became my idol and the inspiration that led me learn the piano by myself and write stories.
What I wanted to say, though, is that I realized how lucky and grateful I am that I got to live in the Nightwish Era. From the moment they were formed until they created their own musical constellation. Previous generations that are no longer in this world perhaps never heard of Nightwish. Future generations will know that there was once a band called Nightwish which made music that speaks to the soul, caresses the senses and connects so many people around the world.
But we… all of us are here to witness with anticipation the birth of each new album. We are given the chance to argue about every song, what we like and what we don’t, whether it meets our expectations etc. The departures of loved band members left us with a heavy heart, wondering what the future holds and if this could be a potential end of the band. But Nightwish went on. New members came and, no matter how big were the shoes they had fill, they did it in their own way. In the end it’s all about the music. We have the privilege to witness the history of Nightwish in the making, to watch them in their Greatest Show on Earth.
And that makes us the lucky ones!
2024.05.15 12:50 Beginning_Present_24 Fun boomer story
I just read a post that reminded me of this story and thought I would share. For context my Mom is 65 and I love her a lot but she is a born again Christian and a MAGA nut... although unlike most she actually respects me when I told her that her beliefs are not my beliefs and if she tries pushing them on me I will quit talking to her. So we don't discuss religion or politics. Our relationship mostly focuses around football (Chiefs Kingdom!).
Anyway, growing up I was not what you would call a good student. Hated school with a passion, hated homework, rarely did it. Up through middle school it was fine, I did well on tests and generally passed classes with a C, with the exception of math which I actually had to work on and barely passed.
Obviously according to my parents I was lazy, stupid, and just not applying myself. I told them it was boring and I hated doing it and it was stupid because I could pass the tests.
High school rolls around, more of the same. Junior year I learn I can leave the school at lunch and they will not notify my parents. Hard to pass when you aren't actually there so I failed most of my classes that year. Due to this I had to take extra classes my senior year so I could graduate with my class.
3 extra classes both semesters. These were all college level classes. I spent my senior year an honor roll student. School was actually a challenge now.
Before the school year started my Mom told me that if she was going to pay for the extra classes then I had better apply myself. I said okay, and I did. Halfway through the school year she looks at me and out of nowhere asks "Are you gay?". I look at her gob smacked and tell her no and ask why. Her reasoning was that I didn't go out with any of my female friends any more and I only hung out with a male friend who rode to a night class with me.
So that was bad enough. Cut to earlier this year we were talking about that period of time and I brought up her asking if I was gay. She now swears that never happened. Even with my sister backing me up because she was there my Mom swears up and down she never thought I was gay and never asked that.
According to her I also don't have ADHD, I'm not bi-polar, it's my fault I deal with depression. She does however agree that I have PTSD from my first marriage.
I love her but sometimes I just have to shake my head.
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Anyway, growing up I was not what you would call a good student. Hated school with a passion, hated homework, rarely did it. Up through middle school it was fine, I did well on tests and generally passed classes with a C, with the exception of math which I actually had to work on and barely passed.
Obviously according to my parents I was lazy, stupid, and just not applying myself. I told them it was boring and I hated doing it and it was stupid because I could pass the tests.
High school rolls around, more of the same. Junior year I learn I can leave the school at lunch and they will not notify my parents. Hard to pass when you aren't actually there so I failed most of my classes that year. Due to this I had to take extra classes my senior year so I could graduate with my class.
3 extra classes both semesters. These were all college level classes. I spent my senior year an honor roll student. School was actually a challenge now.
Before the school year started my Mom told me that if she was going to pay for the extra classes then I had better apply myself. I said okay, and I did. Halfway through the school year she looks at me and out of nowhere asks "Are you gay?". I look at her gob smacked and tell her no and ask why. Her reasoning was that I didn't go out with any of my female friends any more and I only hung out with a male friend who rode to a night class with me.
So that was bad enough. Cut to earlier this year we were talking about that period of time and I brought up her asking if I was gay. She now swears that never happened. Even with my sister backing me up because she was there my Mom swears up and down she never thought I was gay and never asked that.
According to her I also don't have ADHD, I'm not bi-polar, it's my fault I deal with depression. She does however agree that I have PTSD from my first marriage.
I love her but sometimes I just have to shake my head.
2024.05.15 12:49 SufficientShift6057 Herid Fel
At the end of Lord of chaos, in the prologue, herid fel is ravaged by a gholam, whatever that is.
Given that Herid was searching for information on the seals of the DOs prison, this leads me to believe that whoever sent the gholam is trying to hide information about seals and if so, one of two things
a) they are not very competent. Why would you make it that obvious that you want the information to remain obscure? That would make rand want to pursue more. I could never see the forsaken being this stupid, and they dont seem very interested in the seals so far. Of course, they might be feigning disinterest to not make rand pursue them.
b) they want rand to pursue them so he can find them, they will be destroyed.
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Given that Herid was searching for information on the seals of the DOs prison, this leads me to believe that whoever sent the gholam is trying to hide information about seals and if so, one of two things
a) they are not very competent. Why would you make it that obvious that you want the information to remain obscure? That would make rand want to pursue more. I could never see the forsaken being this stupid, and they dont seem very interested in the seals so far. Of course, they might be feigning disinterest to not make rand pursue them.
b) they want rand to pursue them so he can find them, they will be destroyed.
2024.05.15 12:49 Inside_Sorbet2959 DAY AFTER TOMORROW - Literally the best Chernarus VANILLA+ Experience on PC - EU Hosted
I'm 15,000 hours deep on dayz, a lot of that on official on console, moved to PC about a year ago, proper fan boy but I struggled to find a server on PC that really gives me that dayz buzz without the cheaters of official. You know, the thing we all fell in love with dayz for, the adrenaline, that knowledge that when you're playing a server with 1 other guy on it and you're still bricking it at Tisy while you find that one magazine you need.
I wanted a server that gave me that buzz, that kept me guessing, wasn't easy, didn't give me all the guns, the food, the armour on a plate and most importantly had the longevity. Vanilla for me is just too plain now, there's nothing to do on a quiet server when its too easy to get geared.
But, I think I have found the ONE. The best Vanilla+ server I've found is DAT (Day After Tomorrow) - it's not too old so the pop is still low but for anyone who is a proper dayz fan boy but wants a little extra, it's quality, the pop doesn't matter when there is always something to keep your attention, to find, to avoid, to shoot.
I've played loads on places like spaggies, zero, basically vanilla, northmens etc etc but none of them hit that mark - either because they're too vanilla and theres no longevity, or they have things like markers, traders, easy food, too many guns, too many types of clothing, ammo, armour or in game maps that make life too easy for the autorunners or just have skyscraper bases and stuff that is just too un-dayz, for me anyway.
The best parts about DAT is the AI, the grind, the underground proper secret squirrel bases and the tiered loot system that doesn't give you everything on a plate, literally took 5 days of solid looting to find the materials to build my tier 1 base, quality stuff and I still have not seen at least 50% of the guns, armour and attachments I know exist - somewhere.
The bad points are the pop being 2/3 during the weekdays, 5/6 in evenings and 8/10 at the weekends, and there are probably a few too many POI's but other than that, it is honestly the best Vanilla plus server I have ever played, it keeps you guessing, gives you things to go 'wow' at all the time and isn't easy to get the best stuff. I'm probably 100 hours in now, in a squad of 3 and haven't seen so many items, still find stuff we didn't know existed and still amazed by the AI, the work that's gone in and the way the admins actually listen to feedback and implement.
Hoping the pop will grow, but honestly even with a few people on, the random AI encounters and the fact the EVERYONE has to keep on their toes looting to grow means interaction is never far away.
FYI, I play the server but not affiliated in any way. Just want more people to know and play on a server that is trying to fill the big void between boring vanilla and the current batch of "vanilla+" servers that just lose that Dayz feel we all fell in love with.
Here's the BLURB:
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I wanted a server that gave me that buzz, that kept me guessing, wasn't easy, didn't give me all the guns, the food, the armour on a plate and most importantly had the longevity. Vanilla for me is just too plain now, there's nothing to do on a quiet server when its too easy to get geared.
But, I think I have found the ONE. The best Vanilla+ server I've found is DAT (Day After Tomorrow) - it's not too old so the pop is still low but for anyone who is a proper dayz fan boy but wants a little extra, it's quality, the pop doesn't matter when there is always something to keep your attention, to find, to avoid, to shoot.
I've played loads on places like spaggies, zero, basically vanilla, northmens etc etc but none of them hit that mark - either because they're too vanilla and theres no longevity, or they have things like markers, traders, easy food, too many guns, too many types of clothing, ammo, armour or in game maps that make life too easy for the autorunners or just have skyscraper bases and stuff that is just too un-dayz, for me anyway.
The best parts about DAT is the AI, the grind, the underground proper secret squirrel bases and the tiered loot system that doesn't give you everything on a plate, literally took 5 days of solid looting to find the materials to build my tier 1 base, quality stuff and I still have not seen at least 50% of the guns, armour and attachments I know exist - somewhere.
The bad points are the pop being 2/3 during the weekdays, 5/6 in evenings and 8/10 at the weekends, and there are probably a few too many POI's but other than that, it is honestly the best Vanilla plus server I have ever played, it keeps you guessing, gives you things to go 'wow' at all the time and isn't easy to get the best stuff. I'm probably 100 hours in now, in a squad of 3 and haven't seen so many items, still find stuff we didn't know existed and still amazed by the AI, the work that's gone in and the way the admins actually listen to feedback and implement.
Hoping the pop will grow, but honestly even with a few people on, the random AI encounters and the fact the EVERYONE has to keep on their toes looting to grow means interaction is never far away.
FYI, I play the server but not affiliated in any way. Just want more people to know and play on a server that is trying to fill the big void between boring vanilla and the current batch of "vanilla+" servers that just lose that Dayz feel we all fell in love with.
Here's the BLURB:
- Bases have been simplified. There is no vanilla building and no crazy monstrous bases built by massive groups. Our bases are underground, that’s right, find a shovel and start digging. Think of them as just big stashes OR someplace to wait out the cold night if you're afraid of the dark!
- Modded guns, but NO tappers (unless you’re poorly geared of course the everything is a tapper). We aim to keep the DayZ feel but also have some fun toys to play with.
- Chernarus, in our opinion, is a beautiful map but it was always too clean, and not apocalyptic enough. We have modded the map to give it a different feel.
- We are adding custom areas to the map, some of which you will know about, and others that you will have to explore and find on your own. Our goal is to give people a reason to veer off the “usual” loot route a little. There are parts of the map that people literally have never seen because there is no reason to go there!
- Server Name: Day After Tomorrow 1PP Only
- Map: Chernarus
- IP: 45.143.198.24
- Port: 2732
- Location: EU
- Day/Night: 5+Hours/20 Mins
- Server Restart: Every 4 Hours
2024.05.15 12:49 Last_Radish2739 Just got a call of HR or a Scam
So I just got a call from an HR agency which generally happens if you are searching job like me 😁😁😁. Ok so main story is she asked me what was my highest qualification, what role I wanted what was my expected CTC and after that she said that they were a third party HR agency which were helping with the recruitment of various companies.
I was okay until this part then she goes with like there will be two rounds one will be online test and other will be telephonic interview after that you will get your offer letter and that too of HDFC bank now I became suspicious since hiring is never this simple and that too at HDFC.
Then she goes on like we are giving your reference so you will have to pay amount of 1850 which will be refunded once you get selected and also if not selected.
Wait a minute then why are you asking for money. So long story short I started to inquire from where they got my details what is there office website and location and you know what I can't there website and location.
Two things the claim there website is hrsolutions.in/com and it is located in Borivali. Couldn't find it.
And the last part for caution I guess if it is a scam the UPI no they told for payment was someone yadav. I will confirm it just in case.
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I was okay until this part then she goes with like there will be two rounds one will be online test and other will be telephonic interview after that you will get your offer letter and that too of HDFC bank now I became suspicious since hiring is never this simple and that too at HDFC.
Then she goes on like we are giving your reference so you will have to pay amount of 1850 which will be refunded once you get selected and also if not selected.
Wait a minute then why are you asking for money. So long story short I started to inquire from where they got my details what is there office website and location and you know what I can't there website and location.
Two things the claim there website is hrsolutions.in/com and it is located in Borivali. Couldn't find it.
And the last part for caution I guess if it is a scam the UPI no they told for payment was someone yadav. I will confirm it just in case.
2024.05.15 12:48 Man32945273 External hard drive detection problems
I have 4 external hard drives that I use. From time to time, normally right after start up, my computer will not detect the hard drives, and sometimes even there is a notification saying the drive has encountered a problem.
If i click on the notification it says i can scan and fix the drive which i do, sometimes it does nothing, sometimes it says it cant be fixed, and sometimes it fixes the drive.
Up until now the problem has never been permanent, i always eventually get the hard drives to show back up by restarting my computer or waiting a bit.
This time I got 3 of 4 external hard drives back and I tried to get the 4th hard drive back and i've maybe also made the problem worse. The drive that didn't connect had the character G:
https://imgur.com/a/hard-drive-problems-8MivO4l here are some screenshots.
First is disk management, disk 5 i believe is the disk in question and then idk what disk 1 is. I was clicking around trying to get it to work and i think that may have messed up the data on the hard drive or something?
Second is crystal disk info that shows what i think is the disk in question. I've circled it in blue. Previous to the aforementioned clicking around in disk management, it would not show up in file explorer. Now it does but its named "Local Disk" and "J:" and is just the name and the icon with no bar or text saying how full it is. Also clicking on it, it says "You need to format the disk in drive J: before you can use it." which i haven't done cuz that seems like it would erase all the data.
Third is me running diskpart which i read from somewhere and it shows two 2TB hard drives, one of which is the hard drive with them problem but im not sure which one. The total number of disks and the fact i only have two 2TB hard drives confirms this even though the names are all generic.
Fourth is me running sfc /scannow cuz i also read to do that somewhere.
I have tried switching USB ports, I have tried switching hard drive cables, none of this has done anything.
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If i click on the notification it says i can scan and fix the drive which i do, sometimes it does nothing, sometimes it says it cant be fixed, and sometimes it fixes the drive.
Up until now the problem has never been permanent, i always eventually get the hard drives to show back up by restarting my computer or waiting a bit.
This time I got 3 of 4 external hard drives back and I tried to get the 4th hard drive back and i've maybe also made the problem worse. The drive that didn't connect had the character G:
https://imgur.com/a/hard-drive-problems-8MivO4l here are some screenshots.
First is disk management, disk 5 i believe is the disk in question and then idk what disk 1 is. I was clicking around trying to get it to work and i think that may have messed up the data on the hard drive or something?
Second is crystal disk info that shows what i think is the disk in question. I've circled it in blue. Previous to the aforementioned clicking around in disk management, it would not show up in file explorer. Now it does but its named "Local Disk" and "J:" and is just the name and the icon with no bar or text saying how full it is. Also clicking on it, it says "You need to format the disk in drive J: before you can use it." which i haven't done cuz that seems like it would erase all the data.
Third is me running diskpart which i read from somewhere and it shows two 2TB hard drives, one of which is the hard drive with them problem but im not sure which one. The total number of disks and the fact i only have two 2TB hard drives confirms this even though the names are all generic.
Fourth is me running sfc /scannow cuz i also read to do that somewhere.
I have tried switching USB ports, I have tried switching hard drive cables, none of this has done anything.
2024.05.15 12:47 Inside_Sorbet2959 DAY AFTER TOMORROW - Literally the best VANILLA+ Experience on PC
I'm 15,000 hours deep on dayz, a lot of that on official on console, moved to PC about a year ago, proper fan boy but I struggled to find a server on PC that really gives me that dayz buzz without the cheaters of official. You know, the thing we all fell in love with dayz for, the adrenaline, that knowledge that when you're playing a server with 1 other guy on it and you're still bricking it at Tisy while you find that one magazine you need.
I wanted a server that gave me that buzz, that kept me guessing, wasn't easy, didn't give me all the guns, the food, the armour on a plate and most importantly had the longevity. Vanilla for me is just too plain now, there's nothing to do on a quiet server when its too easy to get geared.
But, I think I have found the ONE. The best Vanilla+ server I've found is DAT (Day After Tomorrow) - it's not too old so the pop is still low but for anyone who is a proper dayz fan boy but wants a little extra, it's quality, the pop doesn't matter when there is always something to keep your attention, to find, to avoid, to shoot.
I've played loads on places like spaggies, zero, basically vanilla, northmens etc etc but none of them hit that mark - either because they're too vanilla and theres no longevity, or they have things like markers, traders, easy food, too many guns, too many types of clothing, ammo, armour or in game maps that make life too easy for the autorunners or just have skyscraper bases and stuff that is just too un-dayz, for me anyway.
The best parts about DAT is the AI, the grind, the underground proper secret squirrel bases and the tiered loot system that doesn't give you everything on a plate, literally took 5 days of solid looting to find the materials to build my tier 1 base, quality stuff and I still have not seen at least 50% of the guns, armour and attachments I know exist - somewhere.
The bad points are the pop being 2/3 during the weekdays, 5/6 in evenings and 8/10 at the weekends, and there are probably a few too many POI's but other than that, it is honestly the best Vanilla plus server I have ever played, it keeps you guessing, gives you things to go 'wow' at all the time and isn't easy to get the best stuff. I'm probably 100 hours in now, in a squad of 3 and haven't seen so many items, still find stuff we didn't know existed and still amazed by the AI, the work that's gone in and the way the admins actually listen to feedback and implement.
Hoping the pop will grow, but honestly even with a few people on, the random AI encounters and the fact the EVERYONE has to keep on their toes looting to grow means interaction is never far away.
FYI, I play the server but not affiliated in any way. Just want more people to know and play on a server that is trying to fill the big void between boring vanilla and the current batch of "vanilla+" servers that just lose that Dayz feel we all fell in love with.
Here's the BLURB:
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I wanted a server that gave me that buzz, that kept me guessing, wasn't easy, didn't give me all the guns, the food, the armour on a plate and most importantly had the longevity. Vanilla for me is just too plain now, there's nothing to do on a quiet server when its too easy to get geared.
But, I think I have found the ONE. The best Vanilla+ server I've found is DAT (Day After Tomorrow) - it's not too old so the pop is still low but for anyone who is a proper dayz fan boy but wants a little extra, it's quality, the pop doesn't matter when there is always something to keep your attention, to find, to avoid, to shoot.
I've played loads on places like spaggies, zero, basically vanilla, northmens etc etc but none of them hit that mark - either because they're too vanilla and theres no longevity, or they have things like markers, traders, easy food, too many guns, too many types of clothing, ammo, armour or in game maps that make life too easy for the autorunners or just have skyscraper bases and stuff that is just too un-dayz, for me anyway.
The best parts about DAT is the AI, the grind, the underground proper secret squirrel bases and the tiered loot system that doesn't give you everything on a plate, literally took 5 days of solid looting to find the materials to build my tier 1 base, quality stuff and I still have not seen at least 50% of the guns, armour and attachments I know exist - somewhere.
The bad points are the pop being 2/3 during the weekdays, 5/6 in evenings and 8/10 at the weekends, and there are probably a few too many POI's but other than that, it is honestly the best Vanilla plus server I have ever played, it keeps you guessing, gives you things to go 'wow' at all the time and isn't easy to get the best stuff. I'm probably 100 hours in now, in a squad of 3 and haven't seen so many items, still find stuff we didn't know existed and still amazed by the AI, the work that's gone in and the way the admins actually listen to feedback and implement.
Hoping the pop will grow, but honestly even with a few people on, the random AI encounters and the fact the EVERYONE has to keep on their toes looting to grow means interaction is never far away.
FYI, I play the server but not affiliated in any way. Just want more people to know and play on a server that is trying to fill the big void between boring vanilla and the current batch of "vanilla+" servers that just lose that Dayz feel we all fell in love with.
Here's the BLURB:
- Bases have been simplified. There is no vanilla building and no crazy monstrous bases built by massive groups. Our bases are underground, that’s right, find a shovel and start digging. Think of them as just big stashes OR someplace to wait out the cold night if you're afraid of the dark!
- Modded guns, but NO tappers (unless you’re poorly geared of course the everything is a tapper). We aim to keep the DayZ feel but also have some fun toys to play with.
- Chernarus, in our opinion, is a beautiful map but it was always too clean, and not apocalyptic enough. We have modded the map to give it a different feel.
- We are adding custom areas to the map, some of which you will know about, and others that you will have to explore and find on your own. Our goal is to give people a reason to veer off the “usual” loot route a little. There are parts of the map that people literally have never seen because there is no reason to go there!
- Server Name: Day After Tomorrow 1PP Only
- Map: Chernarus
- IP: 45.143.198.24
- Port: 2732
- Location: EU
- Day/Night: 5+Hours/20 Mins
- Server Restart: Every 4 Hours
2024.05.15 12:47 Low-Traffic4467 If you can go into a massive tantrum just from being on TikTok live is the reason why you shouldn’t be on it in the first place. You have drug induced erotic episodes that include you doing, and saying whatever to get attention on you. You will never take accountability for anything you ever do.
That is why he will remain the horrible disgusting human being. You are. On the inside you were nothing but ugly filled with hate and rage. You are violent, psychotic, scary, and the most vile person that I’ve ever had a chance of coming along on TikTok. No matter what you say and how you handled yesterday shows who you really are. Not only did you not take accountability but you decided to blame tick-tock and the parents and your mom and said that it’s their fault you are 20 years old and you live by yourself you are an adult and you make your own decisions nobody else comes to make your decisions for you you’re not a baby, nor you a child. You’re a fucking an adult you make your own decisions nobody else influences your decisions you make your own decisions because you are in control of everything you do, and in control of everything you say no one was holding a gun to your head. No one was forcing you to do this or say horrible things during the knife situation. It was your time to actually take accountability but honestly I knew you weren’t. I just never knew you were gonna blame the parents TikTok and your mom. You are nothing but disgrace and embarrassment to human kind. You will literally get nowhere in life have fun party five nights out of the week every week with no real friends and nobody who actually cares about you! What a great life I’m so jealous of your life
Excuse me while I go to the sandbar like I do every weekend with my boyfriend who loves me so much! Oh 0 sorry you don’t know what that feels like because you will never have a boyfriend.
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Excuse me while I go to the sandbar like I do every weekend with my boyfriend who loves me so much! Oh 0 sorry you don’t know what that feels like because you will never have a boyfriend.
2024.05.15 12:47 SatisfactionMental21 Stayed in Hyderabad for 2 years
M24, Born and bought up in Ahmedabad. In year 2022, i got placed in one of the big4 & got an opportunity to stay in hyderabad. Recently left my job and moved back to Ahmedabad. Here are my observations :
Positives
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Positives
- South Indian breakfast - Growing up i never really enjoyed dosa & idli. However, they quickly became my go to food once i moved to hyd. It's cheap, tasty and miles healthier compared to fast food options available in ahmedabad.
- Pleasant weather - The weather in hyderabad is all-round balanced. Summers are not too hot, winters are not too cold & monsoon is just perfect. (If you feel hyd gets hot in Summer, Ahmedabad is a notch above it :)
- Almost all the people i met in my office and outside were quite chill and helpful. Even when cycling around the city and travelling through public transports, i never saw people creating any unwanted nuisance. Everyone were quite civil.
- I can't help but notice how passionate south indians are about their local cinema. I met people from Tamil Nadu, Karnataka, kerala and everyone were soo drawn to their local cinema & movies. Also I found out that alot my favourite Bollywood movies are actually remakes of south indians movies :(
- I absolutely cannot stand people celebrating their birthday and anniversaries outside in public. Not only it's batshit stupid but it disturbs public peace. These people will pollute the nearby area and will take no responsibility to clean it. The concerning part is, these are not homeless or poor people. They will come in their expensive cars, will pollute the whole area and will leave without a drop of guilt.
- I might be wrong here but, i feel the way hyd police handles the traffic is insane. In my area, Almost all the the u-turns are barricaded. It takes almost 45 mins to go from point A to point B, which naturally should take 10 mins. I don't know what must be done to improve this, I'm sharing what i went through.
- Being a vegetarian, i found it hard to find any cheap food places except dosa & idli. Don't get me wrong, i absolutely loved dosa & idlis. However, when i wanted to try something different for a change, either I'm paying premium money for it or I'm travelling to old city, i.e. 20-25 km from where i lived.
- Lack of public parks - In ahmedabad, you can easily find 3-4 free public parks in 4 km diameter. No matter where u are, one can easily walk and find a park in matter of minutes. I was surprised to find out, how few public parks are there in hyderabad. On top of that, not all of them are free.
2024.05.15 12:46 piu_21 Dear maa,
Mom, when I'm gone... be happy for me
Cause your little daughter is finally free
She isn't short of breath,
She isn't sweating, isn't in pain
Maa, she's free... floating through the air
Light as a feather
Your child is free mom
You will never have to worry about her
You will never have to see her weep
She won't call you wailing
She will rest, rest and rest
Maa, I promise she tried, and she tried her best
Her best was just not enough
And she just lost to the world
And to herself
Maa, I promise I'll be a better daughter in my next life
Please, be my mother again next time and I will do better
I promise, I will be a better daughter in my bext life maa
Forgive me and love me the same
Maa...
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Cause your little daughter is finally free
She isn't short of breath,
She isn't sweating, isn't in pain
Maa, she's free... floating through the air
Light as a feather
Your child is free mom
You will never have to worry about her
You will never have to see her weep
She won't call you wailing
She will rest, rest and rest
Maa, I promise she tried, and she tried her best
Her best was just not enough
And she just lost to the world
And to herself
Maa, I promise I'll be a better daughter in my next life
Please, be my mother again next time and I will do better
I promise, I will be a better daughter in my bext life maa
Forgive me and love me the same
Maa...
2024.05.15 12:46 TheHandThatFeeds18 Which movie describes your NParent?
I just saw the movie “The Iron Claw” and the actor (Holt McCallany) who played the dad (Fritz von Erich) absolutely floored me with his performance of a narcissistic father.
Short synopsis: 4 boys raised to compete in a brutal sport for the father’s approval and affection. Anyone who deviates from their dad’s plans for them is a disappointment and an outcast.
The dad even says at one point who his favorite kids are, and tells them that “the rankings can change” is they’re willing to win his approval. And the mother is an Uber-religious enabler who turns a blind eye to the abuse because it inconveniences her.
I never cry in movies, but the memories it triggered brought tears to my eyes.
Even when the dad’s narcissism destroys his family, it’s everyone else’s fault for being weak—not his.
I feel like Zac Efron’s character, because I’m the only one who got out.
Has anyone else seen their family in a movie before? I love movies and watch them all the time but I was totally caught off guard. Even typing this out makes me want to cry again.
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Short synopsis: 4 boys raised to compete in a brutal sport for the father’s approval and affection. Anyone who deviates from their dad’s plans for them is a disappointment and an outcast.
The dad even says at one point who his favorite kids are, and tells them that “the rankings can change” is they’re willing to win his approval. And the mother is an Uber-religious enabler who turns a blind eye to the abuse because it inconveniences her.
I never cry in movies, but the memories it triggered brought tears to my eyes.
Even when the dad’s narcissism destroys his family, it’s everyone else’s fault for being weak—not his.
I feel like Zac Efron’s character, because I’m the only one who got out.
Has anyone else seen their family in a movie before? I love movies and watch them all the time but I was totally caught off guard. Even typing this out makes me want to cry again.
2024.05.15 12:45 Late-Let-4221 My (21F) GF (28F) is cheating on me but I am stuck living at her place. What would be a right course of action?
To preface one thing - this is in Singapore, I am half singaporean and half thai, I have no close friends or family members around here, but I study here.
So after many years of dating and many quite one sided and manipulative relationships with guys and after 3 months of being single I finally got into relationship with my GF. First time trying lesbian dynamic. I felt it would be very different, she would understand me more and was less demanding of me and of course less physical and simply more harmonious, since, you know it's a fellow woman.
I was also taking it slow and we had like dozen dates before getting entangled officially couple months ago. She is quite lovely and well educated, slightly older than me, somewhat exotic looking around here and it felt we are becming good friends.
When we finally hooked up she had to guide me a lot because it's indeed quite different dynamic than with a guy but that was fine, I guess and she seemed to even enjoyed and would joke about how I was lesbian virgin and she can shape me to be suited for her. Which I thought at the time was cute.
Long story short I recently finally moved in with her and that was a mistake. I've been at her place most of the time we would hang out because my place was really tiny. Right after I moved in I was just in a span of week introduced to basically a laundry list of chores I should do and at the time I thought alright we pull this together right, but we didn't. After next couple weeks I realised (for the first time ever) that I am doing the same chores I would be doing for my former boyfriends and I started to feel, yet again, more as a maid with benefits. This time I had courage to voice that to my GF and she would apologise and be all sweet about how she didn't realise and that would coo me for another week, but no changes would actually happen. Only now I think it's been manipulative.
Since I am a university student and a "gym bunny" I have less free time than one would expect and suddenly it was filled mostly by coming home doing chores before going to gym and then coming from gym and my GF would be still up and then she would be demanding for attention, mostly in bedroom. This is when I've also noticed that while guiding me in bedroom she never seemed eager to pleasure me in return unless I would specifically ask and so for days I tried not to ask and suddenly it was super one sided bedroom stuff and she seemed perfectly fine with that. That stung because it immedaitelly reminded me of my last 3 boyfriends where it was the same.
I held a lot of this in, trying to keep being disciplined and do all she'd like me to do and chores and everything more and better in hopes of her seeing more value in me. But it simply didn't happen, not over course of two plus weeks.
Well this weekend I was using her ipad, where she always logged off out of all social and communication apps when she wasn't using. I always thought it's a like... internet safety thing in case the device gets hacked or something. But this time her whatsapp and wechat was logged in and I simply discovered that while I am at school and she's "working" from home she's hooking up at least once a week with guys. Or at least mostly with guys I wasn't in the mood to read into too much detail, seeing texts of your presumeably loved sending very intimite and heartfelt texts to guys and reacting to their D pics and sending stuff back... I felt betrayed but so far I haven't said anything and the routine contiues to my own detrement.
From doing gymnastics on higher level for 10+ years I'm used to some discipline and manners that would now be probably consider abuse, but what I learnt from that was to be quiet a lot not to cause conflict and please people. Despite my previous relationships with guys being basically abusive it was eventually always them to dump me, I never had the guts to do it yet (not counting middle school lol). This time I recognize the problem and I would like to end things but at the same time I moved too soon (in hindsight) and have nowhere to go at the moment.
And so for weeks I felt like maid and for 4-5 days now I feel more like bang maid who's also stupid and naive and I couldn't contemplate a good .. like escape plan, that's why I am making this post. In the meanwhile I continue the same old routine unable to almost meet my GF's eyes, yet she seem strangely not noticing any change and looking quite happy. On top of that you probably can guess how I feel being at school, knowing there's a decent change she's out hooking up. It just all crushing my selfesteem yet I feel stuck in the routine and my head.
TLDR: GF is cheating, doesn't know I know, because I am scared to confront her since I have nowhere to go if I'd move out.
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So after many years of dating and many quite one sided and manipulative relationships with guys and after 3 months of being single I finally got into relationship with my GF. First time trying lesbian dynamic. I felt it would be very different, she would understand me more and was less demanding of me and of course less physical and simply more harmonious, since, you know it's a fellow woman.
I was also taking it slow and we had like dozen dates before getting entangled officially couple months ago. She is quite lovely and well educated, slightly older than me, somewhat exotic looking around here and it felt we are becming good friends.
When we finally hooked up she had to guide me a lot because it's indeed quite different dynamic than with a guy but that was fine, I guess and she seemed to even enjoyed and would joke about how I was lesbian virgin and she can shape me to be suited for her. Which I thought at the time was cute.
Long story short I recently finally moved in with her and that was a mistake. I've been at her place most of the time we would hang out because my place was really tiny. Right after I moved in I was just in a span of week introduced to basically a laundry list of chores I should do and at the time I thought alright we pull this together right, but we didn't. After next couple weeks I realised (for the first time ever) that I am doing the same chores I would be doing for my former boyfriends and I started to feel, yet again, more as a maid with benefits. This time I had courage to voice that to my GF and she would apologise and be all sweet about how she didn't realise and that would coo me for another week, but no changes would actually happen. Only now I think it's been manipulative.
Since I am a university student and a "gym bunny" I have less free time than one would expect and suddenly it was filled mostly by coming home doing chores before going to gym and then coming from gym and my GF would be still up and then she would be demanding for attention, mostly in bedroom. This is when I've also noticed that while guiding me in bedroom she never seemed eager to pleasure me in return unless I would specifically ask and so for days I tried not to ask and suddenly it was super one sided bedroom stuff and she seemed perfectly fine with that. That stung because it immedaitelly reminded me of my last 3 boyfriends where it was the same.
I held a lot of this in, trying to keep being disciplined and do all she'd like me to do and chores and everything more and better in hopes of her seeing more value in me. But it simply didn't happen, not over course of two plus weeks.
Well this weekend I was using her ipad, where she always logged off out of all social and communication apps when she wasn't using. I always thought it's a like... internet safety thing in case the device gets hacked or something. But this time her whatsapp and wechat was logged in and I simply discovered that while I am at school and she's "working" from home she's hooking up at least once a week with guys. Or at least mostly with guys I wasn't in the mood to read into too much detail, seeing texts of your presumeably loved sending very intimite and heartfelt texts to guys and reacting to their D pics and sending stuff back... I felt betrayed but so far I haven't said anything and the routine contiues to my own detrement.
From doing gymnastics on higher level for 10+ years I'm used to some discipline and manners that would now be probably consider abuse, but what I learnt from that was to be quiet a lot not to cause conflict and please people. Despite my previous relationships with guys being basically abusive it was eventually always them to dump me, I never had the guts to do it yet (not counting middle school lol). This time I recognize the problem and I would like to end things but at the same time I moved too soon (in hindsight) and have nowhere to go at the moment.
And so for weeks I felt like maid and for 4-5 days now I feel more like bang maid who's also stupid and naive and I couldn't contemplate a good .. like escape plan, that's why I am making this post. In the meanwhile I continue the same old routine unable to almost meet my GF's eyes, yet she seem strangely not noticing any change and looking quite happy. On top of that you probably can guess how I feel being at school, knowing there's a decent change she's out hooking up. It just all crushing my selfesteem yet I feel stuck in the routine and my head.
TLDR: GF is cheating, doesn't know I know, because I am scared to confront her since I have nowhere to go if I'd move out.
2024.05.15 12:45 Demagogue999 AITA for taking out time to meet a friend while my in laws visited us.
Recently my wife (32F) told me(35M) that her parents would be visiting us for three days. We live in a god forsaken place which has no tourist attraction or even a shopping mall. The town has a small market which caters for the requirement of locals.mm
Their train was suppose to arrive in the morning at 1000 hrs so i excused myself from my work place and went to recieve them at the station. I drove them home and we settled them in the guestroom. After dropping them home i left for office as i had to finish some work and then came back home in the evening . I spent 2-3 hours with my in laws chit chatting and discussing life in general.
The next day i asked her if she had plans any for her parents that day and she said there was nothing do in the town so she had not made any plans. I suggested her to take her parents to a well known shop in the city which is somewhat popular amongst visitors, but she refused saying her parents are coming from the capital and they don't need anything from that shop. Then somewhere around 1400 hrs in the afternoon i recieved a text from a friend who had returned from the US and was in town that day and was scheduled to leave at 2200 hrs the same day. He asked if we could meet for an hour or so. Now this person was a school friend of mine and it had been almost 17 yrs since i had met him.
So i again asked my wife if she has any plans with her parents and she said no. I told my friend that i'll meet him for an hour but then i'd to leave cus my in laws are in town. He was cool with it. We were suppose to meet at 1800 hrs so i left for the rv at around 1745 hrs and met my friend. It felt great meeting my classmate after such a long time and we started reminiscing about school days n what not. 15 mins into our conversation and i get a call from my wife that she was planning to go to the local golf course with her parents but now that i am not there she can't go. I told her i'll be free in some time and she can take her parents to the golf course and i'll meet them directly at the course. To which she responded that i should have never gone to meet my friend as her parents are there for only 3 days and i should have been there. I told her i'll meet her at the golf course as my frind was sitting right in front of me and could probably make out what was being said.
Within minutes i recieved a number of text msgs from my wife (few of them deleted before i could read them) staing that i haven't been paying attention to her parents and i should have been and what not. I had just told my friend that maybe i'll leave in 15 mins and be back with my wife before he leaves so he could meet her as well. But after reading her nasty text msgs i just canclled the plan and stayed with my friend for the pre decided hours duration. Once i reached home wifey was in bad mood and won't talk to me.
My in laws are sweet people and i don't mind spending time with them. But they are not very talkative and most of my conversations with them are filled with awkward silences.
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Their train was suppose to arrive in the morning at 1000 hrs so i excused myself from my work place and went to recieve them at the station. I drove them home and we settled them in the guestroom. After dropping them home i left for office as i had to finish some work and then came back home in the evening . I spent 2-3 hours with my in laws chit chatting and discussing life in general.
The next day i asked her if she had plans any for her parents that day and she said there was nothing do in the town so she had not made any plans. I suggested her to take her parents to a well known shop in the city which is somewhat popular amongst visitors, but she refused saying her parents are coming from the capital and they don't need anything from that shop. Then somewhere around 1400 hrs in the afternoon i recieved a text from a friend who had returned from the US and was in town that day and was scheduled to leave at 2200 hrs the same day. He asked if we could meet for an hour or so. Now this person was a school friend of mine and it had been almost 17 yrs since i had met him.
So i again asked my wife if she has any plans with her parents and she said no. I told my friend that i'll meet him for an hour but then i'd to leave cus my in laws are in town. He was cool with it. We were suppose to meet at 1800 hrs so i left for the rv at around 1745 hrs and met my friend. It felt great meeting my classmate after such a long time and we started reminiscing about school days n what not. 15 mins into our conversation and i get a call from my wife that she was planning to go to the local golf course with her parents but now that i am not there she can't go. I told her i'll be free in some time and she can take her parents to the golf course and i'll meet them directly at the course. To which she responded that i should have never gone to meet my friend as her parents are there for only 3 days and i should have been there. I told her i'll meet her at the golf course as my frind was sitting right in front of me and could probably make out what was being said.
Within minutes i recieved a number of text msgs from my wife (few of them deleted before i could read them) staing that i haven't been paying attention to her parents and i should have been and what not. I had just told my friend that maybe i'll leave in 15 mins and be back with my wife before he leaves so he could meet her as well. But after reading her nasty text msgs i just canclled the plan and stayed with my friend for the pre decided hours duration. Once i reached home wifey was in bad mood and won't talk to me.
My in laws are sweet people and i don't mind spending time with them. But they are not very talkative and most of my conversations with them are filled with awkward silences.
2024.05.15 12:44 Much-Recognition-426 There’s no part of me that believes I will ever get better; or understands how to get out of this
That’s my problem - I never believed I would get out of this from day one. I’ve been held hostage for 2 years and I’ve lost all hope. I can’t foresee a future where I feel real and normal again, where I don’t think about this, where I’m just me & living life. I don’t see how that’s possible after how much I’ve suffered. I loved life, even through all the trauma and anxiety, I still wanted to be here.
I have no sensory input (smell, touch, taste) and my body is completely numb. I don’t feel anything internally, even my own heartbeat. My body doesn’t feel like it’s mine and I don’t even feel like I’m in it. I have no goals, ambitions, plans, ability to think of a future. I had my whole life ahead of me and then this happened, I’ve never been so hopeless and wanting to end it in my life. This has brought me to my lowest point. The music in my head 24/7, the constant stress of living like this, the emotional pain and inability to function. I feel like I’m destroyed and there’s no part of me that believes I will ever get better, I don’t know how. I’ve been trying to so hard to listen to recovery stories, and focus on other things. So many people say you just forget you have it and go on with life, I can’t understand that. It’s my every waking moment, it’s in my dreams, it invades every part of me. It has become me. I don’t know how I could go on with life when I can’t feel anything, when I have no sensory experience of the world, when I’m detached from my own body. I don’t even have any physical anxiety, and DPDR is what causes my mental anxiety. I don’t feel safe in the world because of how detached I am. I cannot connect with myself, or anyone around me. I’m cut off from it all. And sleep doesn’t even give me a break, because my dreams are insane vivid and I get them every night.
I never thought my life could end up like this. I didn’t even know DPDR was a thing until it happened to me. Ever since that panic attack, my life has never been the same. I woke up that next morning and this hell began. I know people need me, and want me here. But I don’t see how I can continue on like this; I’ve never been so numb and exhausted in my entire life. I see no point to anything. I’ve lost my memory, my emotions and myself into a dark abyss of nothing. My mind doesn’t believe there’s anything that will help, or get me out of this. I think back on how I used to experience life; with such vividness, with such emotion, with such a carefree attitude. I felt such passion for my career, I connected and loved my friends, family and dog. I knew even in hard times, the sun would always come out again. I knew I had purpose and value to bring to life. I wanted to get out of bed each day.
For the last 2 years, I’ve lost all of that. Every single thing. I don’t know how I’m even still here. I have no concept of time, I’m stuck in the same moment since this began. I have no concept of the world and what reality is; I can’t comprehend seasons, time, traveling, humans - all of it makes no sense. I want to live a life of value and purpose - and this has taken all that from me. I’m trapped. I feel like I can’t breathe, I’m drowning.
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I have no sensory input (smell, touch, taste) and my body is completely numb. I don’t feel anything internally, even my own heartbeat. My body doesn’t feel like it’s mine and I don’t even feel like I’m in it. I have no goals, ambitions, plans, ability to think of a future. I had my whole life ahead of me and then this happened, I’ve never been so hopeless and wanting to end it in my life. This has brought me to my lowest point. The music in my head 24/7, the constant stress of living like this, the emotional pain and inability to function. I feel like I’m destroyed and there’s no part of me that believes I will ever get better, I don’t know how. I’ve been trying to so hard to listen to recovery stories, and focus on other things. So many people say you just forget you have it and go on with life, I can’t understand that. It’s my every waking moment, it’s in my dreams, it invades every part of me. It has become me. I don’t know how I could go on with life when I can’t feel anything, when I have no sensory experience of the world, when I’m detached from my own body. I don’t even have any physical anxiety, and DPDR is what causes my mental anxiety. I don’t feel safe in the world because of how detached I am. I cannot connect with myself, or anyone around me. I’m cut off from it all. And sleep doesn’t even give me a break, because my dreams are insane vivid and I get them every night.
I never thought my life could end up like this. I didn’t even know DPDR was a thing until it happened to me. Ever since that panic attack, my life has never been the same. I woke up that next morning and this hell began. I know people need me, and want me here. But I don’t see how I can continue on like this; I’ve never been so numb and exhausted in my entire life. I see no point to anything. I’ve lost my memory, my emotions and myself into a dark abyss of nothing. My mind doesn’t believe there’s anything that will help, or get me out of this. I think back on how I used to experience life; with such vividness, with such emotion, with such a carefree attitude. I felt such passion for my career, I connected and loved my friends, family and dog. I knew even in hard times, the sun would always come out again. I knew I had purpose and value to bring to life. I wanted to get out of bed each day.
For the last 2 years, I’ve lost all of that. Every single thing. I don’t know how I’m even still here. I have no concept of time, I’m stuck in the same moment since this began. I have no concept of the world and what reality is; I can’t comprehend seasons, time, traveling, humans - all of it makes no sense. I want to live a life of value and purpose - and this has taken all that from me. I’m trapped. I feel like I can’t breathe, I’m drowning.
2024.05.15 12:44 GraceMorgan12 What Are the Top Services Offered by NYC Escorts?
 | https://preview.redd.it/miev44lnkk0d1.jpg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4ff35a007716812e237e0d92a81528a76c0531f submitted by GraceMorgan12 to u/GraceMorgan12 [link] [comments] While escort services vary in a broad spectrum, they still offer a truly unique and unforgettable experience to the most demanding clients. From quality company to special needs care, you will experience the highest level of service when you spend time with NYC escorts. Next, we will explore the various services offered by escorts and escorts, highlighting the diversity of experiences they can offer to those interested. On the other hand, these NY elite escorts provide professional services in companionship relations and are characterized by their vast experience involving men. Hiring them allows you to enjoy time with them for a few hours to two days, thus making it possible to be accompanied to events, conferences, or parties in NY. 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2024.05.15 12:44 Other-Cantaloupe4765 “Do your job right this time… that’s what I DESERVE.” Sir, I think you deserve to have my foot crammed up your ass.
So in our reservation system, you can either make multiple reservations separately or simultaneously. Oftentimes making them simultaneously is the option that makes the most sense. You only need to get the guest’s personal information and CC number once as opposed to however many times. There is, however, a quirk with this shitty reservation system that’s started happening in the last week. When you make multiple reservations simultaneously, you have to send the confirmation emails individually. And when you do that, for whatever reason, the system lists the total for ALL the rooms on EACH confirmation email. So if each room is $100 and someone has three rooms, each confirmation email will show one room, but the total on each of them will show as $300. Might be enough to make you go, “wtf? That ain’t right.” and call the hotel, right? Totally understandable. And those phone calls involve the guest explaining the problem and asking why the total for all the rooms is showing for each individual room. And I politely explain that making multiple reservations simultaneously produces that result in the automated emails, and I assure them that each room is still the same price. And they say thank you, they appreciate the explanation, and we say goodbye. Pretty simple, right? A shitty bug in the system, but it’s not our fault, and it’s not our hotel’s fault. It’s the reservation system itself. The call this post is about is, what, the second call I’ve had about it, though apparently my GM was already aware of the issue earlier in the week and didn’t say anything until I brought it up. Of course.
So this lady calls me to make two reservations over the phone. Okay, no problem! I make them simultaneously and send the emails. She calls back, and she explains the issue. I’d said each room is $100, but the confirmation emails each say $200. I apologize and explained the issue that’s cropped up and assured her that each room was still only $100. She asked if I’d be able to resend the confirmation emails with the correct totals on each. I hesitated before telling her it wasn’t possible with the way the reservations were made, but I’d be happy to manually send her an email confirming the price if she wanted documentation. She didn’t say anything for a few seconds, so I asked if it was for an employer that would need proof in order to compensate her. She said, “just a second, my boyfriend wants to talk to you.”
Of course he does. Gotta get The Man on the phone to Set Things Straight, huh. Right away, he was a lil bitch. Actually a huge bitch, but y’know. “YOU told me those rooms were each $100 but then YOU sent two emails saying they were $200.”
“And I explained that th-“
“I HEARD your explanation, but obviously you don’t know how to do your JOB.”
“Uh, excuse me?”
“I want you to do your job right.”
“Okay? Well I can do my job just fine without you being rude.”
“I WANT two separate emails with the right totals on each. Because THAT’S WHAT I DESERVE.”
I actually, audibly, scoffed when he said that. Because, sir, what you deserve is to have my foot crammed up your ass.
“I’d have to cancel both and remake them separately to do what you’re asking, which is fine, b-“
“I don’t care what you have to do, just do your job right this time. If I find out you’ve charged my card the wrong amount, it’s not going to end well.”
“Oh, would you like to come in for your rooms tomorrow night and yell at me then, also?”
Now HE’S scoffing in disbelief because I said something unprofessional over the phone. Well suck my dick, sir, because you’re a Grade-A piece of shit.
“Oh I won’t be yelling at you. I’d be speaking to your manager and telling them to fire you for lying.”
“Great! I’m going to go ahead and cancel your two reservations and you can stay somewhere else. Feel free to call tomorrow morning from 7am to 3pm to discuss this with the manager.”
Dude didn’t even say anything for a second. And then he said, “isn’t there a manager there RIGHT NOW?”
“Nope… I hope you have a night as lovely as you are, sir.” and then I hung up on his ass. And yes, I shamelessly ripped that suggestion from people on this sub. That’s what came to mind. Well, that’s what came to mind after I reminded myself that I couldn’t call him a motherfucking cocksucker and hang up on him. I was at the desk waiting for him to call back and bitch at me. To my surprise, he never did.
God, he pissed me off so much that I was shaking with anger for half an hour afterwards. I went back into the office and texted my manager about the whole conversation followed by a string of profanity. My GM was accepting of the situation. My FOM was like “what an asshole. I would’ve said worse before hanging up on his ass. DNR him.”
I did. The best part was, he went online and made two reservations for our hotel that way. Like a few hours after the phone call ended. And I cancelled both of those ones too. Sent the cancellation emails and everything. He didn’t try to rebook. He tried to bitch at the manager the next day, but he was told he was put on the DNR list and would be escorted off the property by police if he came in.
What a fucking prick.
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So this lady calls me to make two reservations over the phone. Okay, no problem! I make them simultaneously and send the emails. She calls back, and she explains the issue. I’d said each room is $100, but the confirmation emails each say $200. I apologize and explained the issue that’s cropped up and assured her that each room was still only $100. She asked if I’d be able to resend the confirmation emails with the correct totals on each. I hesitated before telling her it wasn’t possible with the way the reservations were made, but I’d be happy to manually send her an email confirming the price if she wanted documentation. She didn’t say anything for a few seconds, so I asked if it was for an employer that would need proof in order to compensate her. She said, “just a second, my boyfriend wants to talk to you.”
Of course he does. Gotta get The Man on the phone to Set Things Straight, huh. Right away, he was a lil bitch. Actually a huge bitch, but y’know. “YOU told me those rooms were each $100 but then YOU sent two emails saying they were $200.”
“And I explained that th-“
“I HEARD your explanation, but obviously you don’t know how to do your JOB.”
“Uh, excuse me?”
“I want you to do your job right.”
“Okay? Well I can do my job just fine without you being rude.”
“I WANT two separate emails with the right totals on each. Because THAT’S WHAT I DESERVE.”
I actually, audibly, scoffed when he said that. Because, sir, what you deserve is to have my foot crammed up your ass.
“I’d have to cancel both and remake them separately to do what you’re asking, which is fine, b-“
“I don’t care what you have to do, just do your job right this time. If I find out you’ve charged my card the wrong amount, it’s not going to end well.”
“Oh, would you like to come in for your rooms tomorrow night and yell at me then, also?”
Now HE’S scoffing in disbelief because I said something unprofessional over the phone. Well suck my dick, sir, because you’re a Grade-A piece of shit.
“Oh I won’t be yelling at you. I’d be speaking to your manager and telling them to fire you for lying.”
“Great! I’m going to go ahead and cancel your two reservations and you can stay somewhere else. Feel free to call tomorrow morning from 7am to 3pm to discuss this with the manager.”
Dude didn’t even say anything for a second. And then he said, “isn’t there a manager there RIGHT NOW?”
“Nope… I hope you have a night as lovely as you are, sir.” and then I hung up on his ass. And yes, I shamelessly ripped that suggestion from people on this sub. That’s what came to mind. Well, that’s what came to mind after I reminded myself that I couldn’t call him a motherfucking cocksucker and hang up on him. I was at the desk waiting for him to call back and bitch at me. To my surprise, he never did.
God, he pissed me off so much that I was shaking with anger for half an hour afterwards. I went back into the office and texted my manager about the whole conversation followed by a string of profanity. My GM was accepting of the situation. My FOM was like “what an asshole. I would’ve said worse before hanging up on his ass. DNR him.”
I did. The best part was, he went online and made two reservations for our hotel that way. Like a few hours after the phone call ended. And I cancelled both of those ones too. Sent the cancellation emails and everything. He didn’t try to rebook. He tried to bitch at the manager the next day, but he was told he was put on the DNR list and would be escorted off the property by police if he came in.
What a fucking prick.
2024.05.15 12:44 Cerebral_Kortix The Nasuverse isn't Real - A Full Analysis
The Nasuverse isn't real. Tsukihime, Fate/Extra, Mahoyo - they're all lies.
Heed my words, people. Let the FGO agenda mislead ye not.
Let me show you the truth.
Think about what everyone says. It doesn't line up. Shiki Tohno, main character. But why isn't he in FGO? Why isn't he in any other game? Would anyone really write a main character who's a serial killer with a lack of respect for consent? Of course not.
Arcueid? Yeah, of course they tell you she's a great heroine and totally well-written and whatever. She's just Archetype Earth! FGO players are so obsessed with their waifu they pretend an entire other game exists for her. Don't buy it.
Who the hell even is Ciel? Akiha? Roa? Hisui? Kohaku? They're not in any other stories. What proof does anyone have Tsukihime exists?
Would any REAL visual novel have THREE different characters named Shiki?!
Melty Blood is just an Under Night In Birth spin off. It even has Eltnam from UNIB. It's also a fighting game. Fighting games don't have stories. Tsukihime can't exist. It's a story.
This so called Tsukihime is not even on Steam. It's on Nintendo? Of course, but do we know it's actually there? It's Japanese, both the game and the Nintendo. I don't own a Nintendo, so clearly no one else does either. Who's to say it isn't just a big prank by Japanese people?
Nasu is even an FGO player himself. "Ritsuka Fujimaru is the life I'd like to have led," he says. He's a self-inserter. We can't trust a word out of his lips. He's compromised. Remember, he's the one who wrote this totally unrelated Artoria who's completely in love with the Fujimaru who now has a personality which totally isn't just Nasu writing his own personality into the game, no siree!
THINK ABOUT IT! "Oh man, I sure love Tsukihime's main character Shiki Tohno"- LOOK AT SHIKI'S TRAITS!
It's FGO propaganda! There is NO Tsukihime! They just want to go on a date with Archetype Earth and are making up a fanfiction about it! And tricking YOU, an innocent victim of the FGO agenda into believing it!
Does the FGO agenda ever end???! It's a Guda x Servant child fanfic!!! It isn't real! Of course it isn't!
AND NO ONE WOULD WRITE A FRANCHISE WITH FOUR SHIKIS!
No self respecting story would name the character who goes around shooting gods with a gun, GUN GOD! That's so stupid it's not even funny! It can't be real!
FGO players were so mad that no one took their dumb stupid idiotic moronic blasphemous inhumane failure of an event story seriously that they collectively decided to pretend it was the origin of the Nasuverse! Down with the FGO agenda!
Look on me, GrandOrder! Don't let them brainwash you!
The PSP does not exist! There can't be games for it! And spare just a single brain cell to think about the alleged 'plot'! Some totally normal guy who has no special qualities, is a piss poor mage (but he's brunette so he's totally not Ritsuka) contracts with TOTALLY NOT Artoria, TOTALLY NOT Archer or a new fan-service character who's just Morgan if she was a fox-girl and genki! And wouldn't you know it, all of them fall in love with him!
Oh, and Rin is also in the game and she also falls in love with the protagonist! She also just so happens to look identical to Ereshkigal! They even have an homunculus who falls in love with the totally not Fujimaru! They literally added Indian Sitonai!
The main villain is just Kirschtaria if he was young! That's how unoriginal the FGOminatti is!
Secondly, it's literally just the FGO players simping for BB in that one SERAPH event! They're gaslighting you into thinking there's an entire game where BB wants to date Totally Not Ritsuka to the point of trapping them in a school! They even added Kiara from FGO into this dumb agenda creation!
Oh, and wouldn't you know it! The true ending of the game has the protagonist and BB kiss as if it wasn't enough that they added FOUR Sakuras all of whom are in love with the Not Fujimaru! They even re-added Rin and Indian Illya/Sitonai to simp for their self-insert!
Young Kirsch even has a clear gay crush on the main character! They couldn't stop with shipping all the girls with their horse shit cardboard cutout, now they're adding Kirschtaria Wodime Lily to their harem under a different name!
...
The FGO AGENDA IS BAITING YOU INTO THEIR SHIPS! DON'T BELIEVE IT!
What proof is there? I don't have money to buy this game, so how can you show it exists?! It's not on my PC then it doesn't exist, PERIOD.
Similarly, Baldur's Gate is not actually real because I don't own it.
The FGO Agenda has invented some dumb fake character who's a homunculus and has super duper powers while having zero personality.
It's so that they can point to this imaginary cardboard to make their own self insert look better by comparison!
DON'T BE BRAINWASHED, VICTIMS OF FGO!
They claim there's TOTALLY a longer than Bible sized visual novel with OH SO GREAT themes! What proof do we have it's real?! None! Have you ever seen Fate/Stay Night on Steam? On the PS4? On the Xbox? On any online retailer?
Even the backstory they make up for their protagonist is bullshit! "He saw everything burn down in Fuyuki and came out of it wanting to save the world-" THAT'S LITERALLY JUST SINGULARITY-F! They're not even trying to be original!
The main character is literally Muramasa but young! Look at his dumb accomplishment list because FGO agenda keepers couldn't stop wanking their husbando!
FGO LIARS ARE PRETENDING AND RECOMMENDING A NOVEL WHERE MURAMASA AND HIS DAUGHTER ENGAGE IN THE VAPOREON COPYPASTA BUT WITHOUT THE FURRY PARTS AND WITHOUT VAPOREON TO YOU!
It doesn't end there! FGOminatti can't stop with that amount of degeneracy! They added RASPUTIN, and made him their main character's love interest! The FGOminatti WANT TO HAVE MELUSINE'S TIME PARADOX WITH THE MAN WHO MURDERED DA VINCI!
And even that isn't enough for their disgusting selves! They added Fujimaru Ritsuka again but named him Issei, and then implied that he and Muramasa have frequent Persona 5 references by having him quickly strip for Muramasa Lily! Not only are FGOtards so disgusting they ship Castoria with her father, they're so ravenous they're still shipping Guda even there!
And look! LOOK! Muramasa- Shirou- he's literally just gender swap Gudako!
Can such a stupid, BABOON-BRAINED game or visual novel really exist?! NO! IT CANNOT! THEY'RE LYING TO YOU! IT IS NOT REAL! DON'T LET THE FGOminatti GASLIGHT YOU!
At approximately 7 PM in the US West Coast, the FGOminatti will launch a rocket ship to space. This rocket will contain a neurotoxin that will *trick all people into believing that the Nasuverse is real. *
They have also replaced the President with Fujimaru Ritsuka after developing sufficient technology to teleport him into reality.
Take my hand. We need to stop them.
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Heed my words, people. Let the FGO agenda mislead ye not.
Let me show you the truth.
Tsukihime
Firstly, Tsukihime was never real. People who say otherwise are trying to gaslight you. Don't fall for it. Have you ever seen someone play Tsukihime? I've never heard about it.Think about what everyone says. It doesn't line up. Shiki Tohno, main character. But why isn't he in FGO? Why isn't he in any other game? Would anyone really write a main character who's a serial killer with a lack of respect for consent? Of course not.
Arcueid? Yeah, of course they tell you she's a great heroine and totally well-written and whatever. She's just Archetype Earth! FGO players are so obsessed with their waifu they pretend an entire other game exists for her. Don't buy it.
Who the hell even is Ciel? Akiha? Roa? Hisui? Kohaku? They're not in any other stories. What proof does anyone have Tsukihime exists?
Would any REAL visual novel have THREE different characters named Shiki?!
Melty Blood is just an Under Night In Birth spin off. It even has Eltnam from UNIB. It's also a fighting game. Fighting games don't have stories. Tsukihime can't exist. It's a story.
This so called Tsukihime is not even on Steam. It's on Nintendo? Of course, but do we know it's actually there? It's Japanese, both the game and the Nintendo. I don't own a Nintendo, so clearly no one else does either. Who's to say it isn't just a big prank by Japanese people?
Nasu is even an FGO player himself. "Ritsuka Fujimaru is the life I'd like to have led," he says. He's a self-inserter. We can't trust a word out of his lips. He's compromised. Remember, he's the one who wrote this totally unrelated Artoria who's completely in love with the Fujimaru who now has a personality which totally isn't just Nasu writing his own personality into the game, no siree!
THINK ABOUT IT! "Oh man, I sure love Tsukihime's main character Shiki Tohno"- LOOK AT SHIKI'S TRAITS!
- Black hair (just like Fujimaru)
- Japanese (just like Fujimaru)
- Teenager (just like Fujimaru)
It's FGO propaganda! There is NO Tsukihime! They just want to go on a date with Archetype Earth and are making up a fanfiction about it! And tricking YOU, an innocent victim of the FGO agenda into believing it!
Kara no Kyoukai- Garden of Sinners? It doesn't exist either!
Hoo boy! Look! It's Shiki Ryougi - literally just that FGO character they're not even trying to hide it now - and she fell in love with that completely average Japanese teenager who's totally not just Ritsuka with glasses and a different name, and now they have kids together and are married!Does the FGO agenda ever end???! It's a Guda x Servant child fanfic!!! It isn't real! Of course it isn't!
AND NO ONE WOULD WRITE A FRANCHISE WITH FOUR SHIKIS!
Notes? NOTES?
Yeah, it's literally FGO's Servantverse! It even has Mysterious Heroine X renamed Ado Edem!No self respecting story would name the character who goes around shooting gods with a gun, GUN GOD! That's so stupid it's not even funny! It can't be real!
FGO players were so mad that no one took their dumb stupid idiotic moronic blasphemous inhumane failure of an event story seriously that they collectively decided to pretend it was the origin of the Nasuverse! Down with the FGO agenda!
Look on me, GrandOrder! Don't let them brainwash you!
Fate/Extra
Of COURSE, they'd say it exists! Those filthy FGO agenda keepers are gaslighting you!The PSP does not exist! There can't be games for it! And spare just a single brain cell to think about the alleged 'plot'! Some totally normal guy who has no special qualities, is a piss poor mage (but he's brunette so he's totally not Ritsuka) contracts with TOTALLY NOT Artoria, TOTALLY NOT Archer or a new fan-service character who's just Morgan if she was a fox-girl and genki! And wouldn't you know it, all of them fall in love with him!
Oh, and Rin is also in the game and she also falls in love with the protagonist! She also just so happens to look identical to Ereshkigal! They even have an homunculus who falls in love with the totally not Fujimaru! They literally added Indian Sitonai!
The main villain is just Kirschtaria if he was young! That's how unoriginal the FGOminatti is!
Fate/Extra CCC
Firstly, that's a stupid name. What idiotic story would be named the same as the previous entry but with CCC slapped on? Imagine if Nintendo created a sequel to the Nintendo Wii and named it the Wii U.Secondly, it's literally just the FGO players simping for BB in that one SERAPH event! They're gaslighting you into thinking there's an entire game where BB wants to date Totally Not Ritsuka to the point of trapping them in a school! They even added Kiara from FGO into this dumb agenda creation!
Oh, and wouldn't you know it! The true ending of the game has the protagonist and BB kiss as if it wasn't enough that they added FOUR Sakuras all of whom are in love with the Not Fujimaru! They even re-added Rin and Indian Illya/Sitonai to simp for their self-insert!
Young Kirsch even has a clear gay crush on the main character! They couldn't stop with shipping all the girls with their horse shit cardboard cutout, now they're adding Kirschtaria Wodime Lily to their harem under a different name!
Mahoyo
What do you want me to say?! It's Aoko from FGO, Soujuuro from FGO, Alice from FGO and all of them are in a strange polycule....
The FGO AGENDA IS BAITING YOU INTO THEIR SHIPS! DON'T BELIEVE IT!
Samurai Remnant
IT NEVER STOPS! "Oh there's a game where Iori from FGO is the main character"-What proof is there? I don't have money to buy this game, so how can you show it exists?! It's not on my PC then it doesn't exist, PERIOD.
Similarly, Baldur's Gate is not actually real because I don't own it.
Fate/Apocrypha
Astolfo, Mordred, Sieg- all characters from FGO.The FGO Agenda has invented some dumb fake character who's a homunculus and has super duper powers while having zero personality.
It's so that they can point to this imaginary cardboard to make their own self insert look better by comparison!
DON'T BE BRAINWASHED, VICTIMS OF FGO!
Fate/Stay Night
This is even worse than any of the others! The FGO Agenda has gone too far!They claim there's TOTALLY a longer than Bible sized visual novel with OH SO GREAT themes! What proof do we have it's real?! None! Have you ever seen Fate/Stay Night on Steam? On the PS4? On the Xbox? On any online retailer?
Even the backstory they make up for their protagonist is bullshit! "He saw everything burn down in Fuyuki and came out of it wanting to save the world-" THAT'S LITERALLY JUST SINGULARITY-F! They're not even trying to be original!
The main character is literally Muramasa but young! Look at his dumb accomplishment list because FGO agenda keepers couldn't stop wanking their husbando!
- Actually he's Archer EMIYA the Counter Guardian (literally just the guy from FGO)
- Raised by totally not Counter Guardian Assassin EMIYA
- Has the super duper ultra Noble Phantasm which just so happens to be the perfect counter to THE STRONGEST HERO to ever EXIST!
- Rapidly grows faster than actual accomplished mages!
And look at his bullshit romances! "Oh, his soul mate is Artoria-" The FGOminatti couldn't keep their disgusting fetishes to themselves! They're literally shipping MURAMASA AND HIS DAUGHTER NOW! THOSE DAMN AKIHA ROUTE FANS!
FGO LIARS ARE PRETENDING AND RECOMMENDING A NOVEL WHERE MURAMASA AND HIS DAUGHTER ENGAGE IN THE VAPOREON COPYPASTA BUT WITHOUT THE FURRY PARTS AND WITHOUT VAPOREON TO YOU!
It doesn't end there! FGOminatti can't stop with that amount of degeneracy! They added RASPUTIN, and made him their main character's love interest! The FGOminatti WANT TO HAVE MELUSINE'S TIME PARADOX WITH THE MAN WHO MURDERED DA VINCI!
And even that isn't enough for their disgusting selves! They added Fujimaru Ritsuka again but named him Issei, and then implied that he and Muramasa have frequent Persona 5 references by having him quickly strip for Muramasa Lily! Not only are FGOtards so disgusting they ship Castoria with her father, they're so ravenous they're still shipping Guda even there!
And look! LOOK! Muramasa- Shirou- he's literally just gender swap Gudako!
Can such a stupid, BABOON-BRAINED game or visual novel really exist?! NO! IT CANNOT! THEY'RE LYING TO YOU! IT IS NOT REAL! DON'T LET THE FGOminatti GASLIGHT YOU!
At approximately 7 PM in the US West Coast, the FGOminatti will launch a rocket ship to space. This rocket will contain a neurotoxin that will *trick all people into believing that the Nasuverse is real. *
They have also replaced the President with Fujimaru Ritsuka after developing sufficient technology to teleport him into reality.
Take my hand. We need to stop them.
REJECT THE FGO AGENDA!
2024.05.15 12:44 Apprehensive-Score87 How do I make this financially viable?
I’m 31 years old and about a year and a half ago I had to move back in with my parents and start a new career. I also had to junk my truck and have been riding a bike 10 miles everyday to work, even through the Minnesota winters.
I started working in an office (38k salary) for the first time and at about a year got moved up to management (42k salary). In that year I was able to pay off 9k credit card debt, put the 5% that my company matches into a 401k and 2% into a Roth. I’m working on paying off my last 8k in debt which is mostly school loans.
While I’m working on my debt I’m also trying to save 3k to move into an apartment with my dog and get out of my parents house.
After all of my benefits I take home about $1150 and realistically my rent will be between $1300-$1500 a month. I’ve been renting since I was 18 (in 2011) and I’ve never had so much trouble figuring out how to make just surviving work. Rent will be around 50%-60% of my take home pay. My plan at this point is to join the electricians union once I can get a car but I’m wondering if there’s any way to make my current job work?
Would also appreciate any advice on getting my bosses to pay me more, they’re good people but it’s a small business. They have said they would like to get me up to 50k by the end of the year.
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I started working in an office (38k salary) for the first time and at about a year got moved up to management (42k salary). In that year I was able to pay off 9k credit card debt, put the 5% that my company matches into a 401k and 2% into a Roth. I’m working on paying off my last 8k in debt which is mostly school loans.
While I’m working on my debt I’m also trying to save 3k to move into an apartment with my dog and get out of my parents house.
After all of my benefits I take home about $1150 and realistically my rent will be between $1300-$1500 a month. I’ve been renting since I was 18 (in 2011) and I’ve never had so much trouble figuring out how to make just surviving work. Rent will be around 50%-60% of my take home pay. My plan at this point is to join the electricians union once I can get a car but I’m wondering if there’s any way to make my current job work?
Would also appreciate any advice on getting my bosses to pay me more, they’re good people but it’s a small business. They have said they would like to get me up to 50k by the end of the year.
2024.05.15 12:44 plokm4 I finally won my lawsuit against C0INBASE and recovered 300k
 | I fucking won my lawsuit against coinbase and recovered almost 300k from them submitted by plokm4 to u/plokm4 [link] [comments] So long story short about one year ago i thought my seedphrase was compromised (fell into a scam) When i realised that i quickly moved all my ETH BTC ,SOL ,basically all my assets to CoinBase in order to avoid getting my wallet emptied. I was planning to quickly move to CB , make a new Ledger and move them back onto ledger But guess fucking what? Coinbase decided to lock all my funds because of some Anti Money Laundring BS So i avoided one scam and fell into a corporate scam lol. As soon as i moved my funds to CB they locked it and asked me to make an AML Report Which i said fine ,i've nothing to hide. I did what it was asked of me and to my surprise it came that my funds were dirty I knew i've done nothing wrong so i hired a lawyer and started a lawsuit. If i'd get into the whole case this post would be 34158135713513513 pages long so i'll give you guys the TL;DR My lawyer hired some blockchain analysts which managed to prove the AML report flagged my wallet because i interacted with some scammers
regardless if you know or not. And based on that report any CEX will freeze your funds. Took me almost 1 year to get my funds back from them. I did not get any compensation for my lost time except my funds back and court fees covered. I am still very happy about it ofc. Thanks for reading,i would like to leave you guys with 2 advices.
The only difference is if you do it independently they do not have the power to seize anything. And if it comes dirty for the love of god don't move to a cex ,it will 100% get your funds frozen and you will spend over an year to recover them. I will attach a copy of my report below for you guys to see. https://preview.redd.it/0v2y0wczkk0d1.jpg?width=754&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=37f9a205eaf72625a983e74a11df05ecfc55599c |
2024.05.15 12:44 bmgxoxoxo how to get over your ex rebounding with someone he met while we were together?
hi, i'm looking for some advice as to how to get over this situation and what has happened and how i've been treated throughout it.
pretty much my ex broke up with me the day after saying he really wanted things to work for us, saying how much he cares for me, was clingy intimate with me, saying we'd never break up again etc. (see my previous post for more backstory)
i was pretty blindsided and hurt, but he's also no stranger to changing his mind just like *that*. he blocked me a week later and not even two weeks later he posted a date with a girl that he became friends with and was hanging out with while we were together.
i'm convinced there was overlap/emotional cheating considering the circumstances, even though i will never know how much exactly, i just don't understand how someone can say all those things and be intimate with you only to post someone new a week later (also something he never really did while we were together).
he had broken up with me earlier in february and we got back together early april, however i don't believe he really told any of his friends that we were back together apart from maybe one or two of his best friends. it almost feels like he did this so he had an easy out if he wanted it which i guess he took, and it's so incredibly frustrating knowing no one his holding him accountable, the new girl he's with probably doesn't even know he was intimate with me barely a week and a half before their date, and i can't say anything because it only sacrifices my image of 'being the bigger person' and just makes me look like the crazy ex girlfriend. it feels like he's just getting away with everything, doesn't even think he has done anything wrong and couldn't even give me any explanation or apology for any of it.
how can he have such little regard for me after acting like he never wanted to lose me?
when he ended his previous relationship before me he wouldn't even hang out with me for at least 3 months because he knew the healthy thing to do was to process his previous relationship (which was only 4 months and long distance the entire time) before starting anything new, yet after breaking up with me is able to be dating someone new two weeks later (and coming into where we used to work together to brag about it to people i still work with).
anyway it's all incredibly hurtful and i don't understand how someone who said they loved me so much can do something like this with no remorse. my self esteem has really taken a hit and i find myself wondering what she has that i didn't, and why he would act like he loved me and move on in a heartbeat. i really just want to message him and ask what i did to deserve this and how long it had been going on for but i know i shouldn't give him the satisfaction of hearing from me.
the worst part of all is that i still love him despite everything and want him back very badly.
if anyone has any advice as to how to move forward from this it would be much appreciated <3 thank you in advance!
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pretty much my ex broke up with me the day after saying he really wanted things to work for us, saying how much he cares for me, was clingy intimate with me, saying we'd never break up again etc. (see my previous post for more backstory)
i was pretty blindsided and hurt, but he's also no stranger to changing his mind just like *that*. he blocked me a week later and not even two weeks later he posted a date with a girl that he became friends with and was hanging out with while we were together.
i'm convinced there was overlap/emotional cheating considering the circumstances, even though i will never know how much exactly, i just don't understand how someone can say all those things and be intimate with you only to post someone new a week later (also something he never really did while we were together).
he had broken up with me earlier in february and we got back together early april, however i don't believe he really told any of his friends that we were back together apart from maybe one or two of his best friends. it almost feels like he did this so he had an easy out if he wanted it which i guess he took, and it's so incredibly frustrating knowing no one his holding him accountable, the new girl he's with probably doesn't even know he was intimate with me barely a week and a half before their date, and i can't say anything because it only sacrifices my image of 'being the bigger person' and just makes me look like the crazy ex girlfriend. it feels like he's just getting away with everything, doesn't even think he has done anything wrong and couldn't even give me any explanation or apology for any of it.
how can he have such little regard for me after acting like he never wanted to lose me?
when he ended his previous relationship before me he wouldn't even hang out with me for at least 3 months because he knew the healthy thing to do was to process his previous relationship (which was only 4 months and long distance the entire time) before starting anything new, yet after breaking up with me is able to be dating someone new two weeks later (and coming into where we used to work together to brag about it to people i still work with).
anyway it's all incredibly hurtful and i don't understand how someone who said they loved me so much can do something like this with no remorse. my self esteem has really taken a hit and i find myself wondering what she has that i didn't, and why he would act like he loved me and move on in a heartbeat. i really just want to message him and ask what i did to deserve this and how long it had been going on for but i know i shouldn't give him the satisfaction of hearing from me.
the worst part of all is that i still love him despite everything and want him back very badly.
if anyone has any advice as to how to move forward from this it would be much appreciated <3 thank you in advance!
2024.05.15 12:44 ImJustMe72 Diagnosed with Graves waiting to see Endocrinologist
Diagnosed with graves March 27 but waiting to see an endocrinologist so dealing with the fatigue, heart fluttering and nausea, muscle aches ,weight loss of 40 lbs no appetite also think I’m going through menopause and also waiting for a lip biopsy from an ENT for Sjögren’s Syndrome . I feel like absolute sh*t . I was told nothing about it by my GP other then my thyroid testing showed I have Graves & he will schedule me an appointment with the Endocrinologist but I’m in Canada and the waitlist to see a specialist is crazy long . I’m lost I don’t know how to fight this the only info I have is from reading from here or googling or FB support Groups . Usually everyone is already on medication etc It’s starting to affect my job I care for my mother in law (84)who has Alzheimer’s and when a flare up or whatever is happening at the time it takes me out the fatigue I can sleep for 2 days . I’m weak from not eating ( can’t force myself I’ve tried ) . And what really makes me angry is my 85 year old mother passed April and I was at her service and had to leave because I felt the flare up coming on ( it was already starting) I started to fall asleep while I was driving my daughter home .Ive never ever in my life done that ! I’m lost I don’t know what to do while I wait to see specialists ☹️ Sorry if I’m all over the place with this I haven’t had a single person to talk to about it My hubby ( bf of 11 years ) doesn’t seem to want to learn more about it which I mention to him so he can get some kinda of understanding. Sick Tired Frustrated
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2024.05.15 12:42 thisisfun091 My bestfriend (m) doesn't treat me (f) the same way he does his new bestfriend.
I met my best friend four years ago, and we're really close. Even though we live in the same city, we don't see each other much. Lately, he met a girl at work who he thought liked him because she did nice things for him, like bringing him coffee and getting jealous when he was late. When he told her he liked her, she said mean things to him, calling him sensitive and a fuckboy and saying he couldn't take care of himself how will he takecare of her. He was extremely hurt and talked to me about what happened and also showed me the gifts he got her for her birthday, which made me sad because he's never gotten me anything for my birthday or any other day for four years. When I talked to him about it, he said we don't see each other much, so he never got me anything. It feels like he doesn't try to make any effort because he knows I'll always be there for him. I also found out that the way he spoke about me was the same way he spoke about her to others. I've been by his side for four years, but talking to him about it doesn't seem to help because I don't want to make it all about me when he's hurting and he always just says how I will also leave when I talked to him about it. Also i being stupid and overreacting? I dont have feelings for him and i am in a happy relationship.
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