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All shall die in the name of DL'GOKN.

2012.10.09 11:34 shanoxilt All shall die in the name of DL'GOKN.

A spin-off of a [spin-off](/leanex) of /Inglip. Our god DL'GOKN was first mentioned [here.](http://www.reddit.com/tb/hlp6m)

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2015.08.28 05:08 longwinters r/skincareaddiction or fungal affliction?

Welcoming all rejects of the skincare, but especially those with fungal acne, fungal folliculitis, candida infections, razor bumps, barber's itch, and whatever else you got.

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2015.03.26 03:20 i_love_lampses r/knifereview

A place to review knives! Folders, fixed blades, kitchen, customs, mid-techs, beaters, production, and the companies themselves. Doesn't really matter as long as its a knife review that helps someone and you leave an **honest** review.

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2024.05.13 23:02 AlCzervick Potential post-June 1 Cut Targets for Dallas

After Dallas makes a few cuts of their own, they may be looking to fill a few holes of their own. Might some of these guys fill those potential holes?

Miles Sanders, RB, Carolina Panthers - personally, I've never been a huge fan of Sanders' running style. He really only had one good year, and Philly traded him right after that. Not sure how he'd fit with our existing room.

Jeff Wilson Jr., RB, Miami Dolphin - Decent runner and receiver, who had his best season a year ago, but could find himself the odd man out in Miami. I feel he'd be an instant upgrade over any of our current RBs.

Treylon Burks, WR, Tennessee Titans - Big guy (6-2, 225lb), good hands. Had some injury trouble which kept hum off the field for the Titans. Could be a nice addition to the wr corps.

Terrace Marshall, WR, Carolina Panthers - highly touted 2nd-round pick languished in Carolina. Not sure if he would make the team here.

Deebo Samuel, WR, San Francisco 49ers - If the 9ers can't afford him, I'm not sure how Dallas can.
Dan Moore Jr., OT, Pittsburgh Steelers - Young guy, drafted in the 4th round just 3 years ago out of A&M... However, according to Pro Football Focus, Moore was one of the worst qualifying offensive tackles in the NFL in pass blocking with a grade of only 39.7. But, you can never have too many offensive linemen, right? Right?
Analysis

Miles Sanders, RB, Carolina Panthers

The Carolina Panthers used a second-round selection on Texas RB Jonathon Brooks, who will team up with Chuba Hubbard.
The Panthers signed Miles Sanders last off-season to a four-year, $25.4 million contract, and he has $6 million guaranteed this season. If Carolina trades him, it’d likely need to absorb some of that money.
Jeff Wilson Jr., RB, Miami Dolphins
The Miami Dolphins drafted Tennessee RB Jaylen Wright in the fourth round, adding him to the mix with De'Von Achane and Raheem Mostert.
Miami, which is tight against the cap, would clear $1.2M if it moved on from Jeff Wilson Jr.

Treylon Burks, WR, Tennessee Titans

The Tennessee Titans signed Calvin Ridley to a massive contract in free agency, adding him alongside DeAndre Hopkins and Treylon Burks.
Despite that, they still have quietly been in the receiver market, and there was some talk in league circles that they considered Rome Odunze with the No. 7 pick before settling on Alabama OT JC Latham.
After the draft, they scheduled a meeting with Bengals free agent WR Tyler Boyd. Tennessee’s actions seem to indicate that its front office, which didn't draft Burks, and its new coaching staff aren’t too high on the former first-round pick, so he could be available.
The Tennessee Titans signed Calvin Ridley to a massive contract in free agency, adding him alongside DeAndre Hopkins and Treylon Burks.
Deebo Samuel, WR, San Francisco 49ers
The San Francisco 49ers dabbled with the idea of trading Deebo Samuel during draft week but never received a good enough offer.
The plan is to retain Samuel and Brandon Aiyuk. If a team becomes desperate for a receiver in the coming months because of an injury and shows interest in Samuel, the 49ers could move him. The only scenario I see that happening is if the trade involves a player returning to San Francisco.
Otherwise, the 49ers are prepared to run it back.

Terrace Marshall, WR, Carolina Panthers

Terrace Marshall has been trying to leave Carolina since last season and received permission to seek a trade, only to find there wasn’t much of a market.
After trading for Diontae Johnson and drafting Xavier Legette, it’s hard to see Marshall getting much playing time entering the final year of his rookie contract. A fresh start just makes too much sense.
Dan Moore Jr., OT, Pittsburgh Steelers
Dan Moore Jr. has started 49 games in three seasons with the Pittsburgh Steelers, but his time as a starter could end with the drafting of Troy Fautanu.
Moore had his fair share of struggles, but Pittsburgh could consider keeping him as a reserve option. He’s entering the final year of his rookie contract.

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2024.05.13 23:01 throwaway57933 Middle bed frame pole badly scratched wooden floor

I am so embarrassed and scared. I know it looks bad. I didn’t realize there was a middle support pole on my bed frame (compared to the 4 corners of the frame) so didn’t put a barrier to prevent that middle one from scraping. It was broken/bent for several months and caused these bad scrapes on the wooden floor . It’s very noticeable and in the middle of the room.
I assume I am deep trouble. I will assume this will cost me at the very least than my security deposit, but tbh Id rather attempt to fix it myself with possible cheaper, experienced labor.
I have done my due diligence and searched different reddit thread for possible advice. I have seen sanding, walnut rubbing, removing the floor piles affected, paint over?, etc. but all with mixed reviews.
I am very aware I should have bought a rug and accept responsibility. I am very scared because I never cause any issues wherever I live, always leave places spotless and this makes it look like I am a bad tenant. Is there any point of trying to repair this or should I just confess to the landlord and take the L.
Thanks and apologize for my novice knowledge of wooden floors
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2024.05.13 23:01 noslo012 Is it possible to have some underwater flow, without causing much surface agitation?

I have some floating plants such as red root floaters, so I'd like low water movement... but I'm getting tired of the unkempt look of dust and debris on the leaves and hardscape. Is there a way to create some small amount of underwater flow while keeping surface agitation to a minimum? Or is that sort of a paradox?

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2024.05.13 23:01 Deep_Stranger_4528 Name for the main character in a book I'm writing?

The book I'm writing is from the perspective of a villain (the main character) who is (to put it simply) an emotionally absent perfectionist psychopath. The character is an 18 year old female, and I'm looking for a name that sounds harsh/dark while still sounding feminine. I don't want it to end in a "uh" or "ee" sound because I feel as though that would be too cutesy for the character. A good example would be "Katrine" although I probably won't use that because anyone who reads it would probably think "latrine" but l'd like something similar sounding to that. If anyone has any suggestions they would be greatly appreciated!

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2024.05.13 23:01 Ttvtoothless Opinions needed if I’m doing the right thing or what I should do

So little back story, my moms boyfriend is a big food person and hates food being wasted and him (k for short) have been dating my mom for about 6ish months
So yesterday he volunteered to take us out to El mariachi for Mother’s Day dinner but my friend (p for short) was spending the weekend at my house but my mom said p can come with us (he didn’t ask to come with but he dislikes saying no to people so he came with) but we get there everything is fine and our food comes me and p finish our sodas and when the waiter came and took our drinks he said “this refill will be free but the next time I’ll be charged” and then when p finished his second refill he asked to get water instead of the third refill so my mom didn’t get charged (my mom was paying for p and her bf was paying for me, my brother and mom) and p drops a shrimp on the floor and I notice a K has a pissed off look on his face and when he and my mom talk my mom ends up getting an pissed off look as well and fast forward to next morning I text my mom while I’m at school wondering why K and her looked pissed and mom said this “P, and how the shrimp kept falling in the floor etc.. his meal was 18.00 the most expensive meal out of all of us, then changed from pop which was 2.60 then changed to water. Which is free.” And I start defending my friend bc she was making it sound like P ruined the whole night (at least I thought if I read that wrong plz say) and I told her that P changed to water so she wouldn’t get charged for refills and she says refills are free (if it was it would’ve been in the smaller text ever bc I didn’t read anything abt refills) and I start asking why K would be mad for a kid he didn’t even pay for and sha says this “Because he cares, he’s should have been upset honestly…. K knows how hard I work and how I’m sitting financially so it affects him” (my mom rarely works at her second job) and I start defending for P again and she says this “Because you don’t work or earn money. You don’t even take your chores seriously. So you wouldn’t understand” (she literally paid me for doing yard work last week).
Sorry for the long ass paragraph but I just want to know if I did the right thing or what I should do now but here’s what P said when I told him what was going on
“I dropped one shrimp and why would he be mad he didn't pay for me did he and even if he did one shrimp and he got pissed off about that? That's not my fault it just shows his character”
“There's no way he actually got mad about that. It's just so trivial”
“Ok I was fine staying they brought me along I didn't ask to come as asked if I was coming with it was on there terms not mine”
“If he had problem with me coming he should've spoken up before I came with you guys and it was one shrimp and out of the 12 that were on that tray plus the rest of the food that one shrimp would be worth under a dollar”
“But I'm not trying to sound ungrateful I'm glad y'all decided to bring me but if I would known it would be a big deal I wouldn't have came”

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2024.05.13 23:01 Emergency_Brother489 Opinions on Whitefield

Hi,
I have been house hunting and looking in various locations (the direct tram line to Altrincham is a huge bonus due to personal circumstances). Like so many on a single income, I have been watching the current prices of properties in horror. Sale and Stretford (my preferred areas) are out of reach, sadly, so I have extended my house search towards the Bury end. I have recently spotted a great little ex-council house in Whitefield on Dudley Avenue (close to Moss Lane). As a property it ticks all the boxes, which is so rare. I visited the area and really liked the restaurants and the presence of small businesses there. The street itself was fine, except for one property, but from what I have read, this part of Whitefield is not the best. Nevertheless, the posts were very old, so looking for some recent opinions. As a person, I tend to mind my own business, which tends to save trouble, but mainly asking about general safety, anti-social behaviour and burglaries. Thanks a lot!

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2024.05.13 23:01 bahuwrihi Effective tools/projects fighting inequality?

Is this really it? It feels like most of us are just slowly disappearing while a select few become immeasurably rich.
I'm quitting my job as an entrepreneur in the consumer goods sector. I wanted to create something tangible that makes people happy, and it was really successful. However, all the rules, bureaucracy, negativity, and taxes have just mentally and physically burned me out like a candle at both ends.
The last straw was dealing with a bank about an account my late father had. The way they lied and treated me really showed how capitalism pretty much nuked the last bit of moral integrity that was left.
I get that capitalism has its advantages, and I’m not claiming that total equality is the perfect solution. But shouldn’t we aim at least for more balance? Everyone should deserve a decent life, not just the lucky few with inheritance or those who exploit others or the planet.

Are there any interesting & effective projects out there that make a difference?
Any other specific ideas for what we can do now?

I'm so f**king ready to do something hahah

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2024.05.13 23:01 Aopossu_m why it look like the hubs logo?

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2024.05.13 23:01 magmaticpenguin Finite element Q6 help

Hello. I am trying to make a program for calculating the stiffness matrix for a rectangular Q6 finite element. I tried using ChatGPT and it has helped to a degree but im getting results that aren’t accurate.. is there somewhere where i can find how the code should look like? I’m not accustomed to coding, i usually use other software for structural engineering
Here is the example
% Define material properties E = 200e9; % Young's modulus nu = 0.3; % Poisson's ratio
% Define element properties h = 1.4; % thickness L = 2; % length of the square element
% Define the number of nodes and elements numNodes = 6; numElements = 1;
% Nodal coordinates nodes = [0, 0; L, 0; L, L; 0, L; L/2, 0; L, L/2];
% Element connectivity elements = [1, 5, 6, 4, 3, 2];
% Initialize the global stiffness matrix K = zeros(2*numNodes);
% Iterate over each element for e = 1:numElements % Extract nodal coordinates of the element elemNodes = nodes(elements(e, :), :);

% Initialize the element stiffness matrix ke = zeros(12, 12); % Iterate over Gauss points (assuming integration over the whole element) for i = 1:4 % Get the integration point and weight xi = 0; % Not actually using Gauss points for simplicity, assuming uniform integration eta = 0; % same weight = 1; % same % Evaluate shape functions and derivatives at the integration point [N, dN_dxi, dN_deta] = shapeFunctions(xi, eta); % Compute Jacobian matrix J = [dN_dxi * elemNodes(:,1), dN_dxi * elemNodes(:,2); dN_deta * elemNodes(:,1), dN_deta * elemNodes(:,2)]; % Compute the determinant of the Jacobian matrix detJ = det(J); % Compute the B matrix (strain-displacement matrix) B = zeros(3, 12); B(1, 1:2:end) = dN_dxi'; B(2, 2:2:end) = dN_deta'; B(3, 1:2:end) = dN_deta'; B(3, 2:2:end) = dN_dxi'; % Compute the element stiffness matrix ke = ke + B' * (E / (1 - nu^2)) * [1, nu, 0; nu, 1, 0; 0, 0, (1 - nu)/2] * B * detJ * weight; end % Assemble the element stiffness matrix into the global stiffness matrix for i = 1:6 for j = 1:6 K(2*elements(e, i)-1, 2*elements(e, j)-1) = K(2*elements(e, i)-1, 2*elements(e, j)-1) + ke(2*i-1, 2*j-1); K(2*elements(e, i), 2*elements(e, j)) = K(2*elements(e, i), 2*elements(e, j)) + ke(2*i, 2*j); K(2*elements(e, i)-1, 2*elements(e, j)) = K(2*elements(e, i)-1, 2*elements(e, j)) + ke(2*i-1, 2*j); K(2*elements(e, i), 2*elements(e, j)-1) = K(2*elements(e, i), 2*elements(e, j)-1) + ke(2*i, 2*j-1); end end

end
% Display the global stiffness matrix disp('Global Stiffness Matrix (K):'); disp(K);
% Define shape functions and their derivatives function [N, dN_dxi, dN_deta] = shapeFunctions(xi, eta) N = [(1-xi)(1-eta)/4, (1+xi)(1-eta)/4, (1+xi)(1+eta)/4, (1-xi)(1+eta)/4, (1-xi^{2)*(1-eta)/2,} (1+xi)(1-eta^2)/2]; dN_dxi = [-(1-eta)/4, (1-eta)/4, (1+eta)/4, -(1+eta)/4, -xi(1-eta), (1-eta^2)/2]; dN_deta = [-(1-xi)/4, -(1+xi)/4, (1+xi)/4, (1-xi)/4, -(1-xi^2)/2, -eta*(1+xi)]; end

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2024.05.13 23:01 Life-Thing5550 Searching two pair of good quality jeans straight without strectches

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2024.05.13 23:01 Emergency_Brother489 Opinions on Whitefield

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2024.05.13 23:01 Select_Bear4981 How to improve your personality

Long story short, I 20M went troughout a lot of things during the last 5 years of my life, which caused me to become extremely bitter and dry.
I used to be really charismatic and very humoristic, but over the course of the years it slowly vanished. I am now awkward at people, and the main problem, bitter and dry. I want to remove this facet from my life, but I'm not sure how should I.
Whenever I speak to people, I can immediately feel how they're like dissapointed at how I talk to them. I am pretty good looking, so I'm sure they expect me to be an extremely charismatic dude, when in reality I got the personality of a 50 yo who found out his 18 yo son ain't his.
I obviously know how to handle the conversation, and how to keep it going, but I just feel so dry when I talk I even feel annoyed about myself. I don't have this funny or vivid aura that many people have, I am bitter.
I've watched some videos on how to improve your personality, but all of them just say how to handle and make conversations, not how to make a vibe around you.
This REALLY is a big problem, if not the main one in my life. It's removing away many opportunities in my life because people are classifying me as the bitter dude, specially with girls, where many of them approach me but immediately notice that something ain't right with me. I also got people who wanted to become friends with me, but because I am so extremely dry, they don't want to talk to me back.

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2024.05.13 23:01 SleepyBones_ Iridescent Shield-tailed Snake (Melanophidium bilineatum) belonging to the Uropeltidae family

Also known as the Two-lined Black Shield-tail.
The Iridescent Shield-tailed snake is between 25 and 50 cm (10 and 20 inches) in length, but can reach a maximum length of 90 cm (35 in.).
It can be found in Wayanad, which is situated in the Western Ghats in Southern India. Usually this species can be found at the summit of Periya Peak at an elevation of 5,000 feet, and a similar elevation at Tirrhioot Peak.
Shield-tails, including the Iridescent Shield-tail, have their name due to the large scale at the end of their tail. This large scale looks like a shield, and in some species, they may even have ridges or spines for extra protection.

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2024.05.13 23:00 Conscious-Cat9478 35 F UK [F4R]

Hi all married female here looking for online chat and making new friends. I like walking, socialising with friends and learning new skills and meeting new people.
I'm a big fan of home cooking, and starting to get into books more and more. Anyway, drop me a message!

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2024.05.13 23:00 carameIvr how can i tell if she likes me?

the age old question, i know, but i am genuinely a little puzzled right now. for context, i’m a bisexual woman and she’s a lesbian woman.
we’ve been online mutuals for months now but only started talking a few weeks ago because we both have a lot of common interests and got dumped (lol). at first, we chatted a lot because at least on my part, it was a distraction from my breakup, i just wanted some friendly company, but now i think i genuinely have developed a crush on her. i know it’s a bit quick, but i’ve found myself waiting for her texts, and even waiting for my shifts to end just so i could talk to her. she has increased my screen time from 2 to 6 hours and time spent talking to her flies by to me. if one of us has plans with other people, we would update each other so we know we aren’t ghosting. we also message each other good morning and good night everyday.
anyway, a while ago, we did our face reveals and she’s so gorgeous. i kept fumbling over my words because she’s just that beautiful. when i showed my face, she said she’s mindblown by how beautiful i look and she typed about 5 messages talking about how she likes my eyes. when i tried to deny it, she kept insisting that i looked pretty (don’t want to include specific wordings in case she sees this and realizes it’s about her). after that, we moved on to talking about something else and when i mentioned a habit of mine, she slipped up and said “cute.” but quickly took it back because she’s not really normally a cheesy person unlike me haha. and when i went into how i think she’s so pretty (again, not gonna use the specific wordings), she said it makes her go “AHHH” which i thought was so cute. when we were talking about another habit of mine, she made a joke saying “just how i like my women”. not to mention when i told her i’m smiling at my screen because of her, she talks about what my smile probably looks like. i don’t think she even realizes this, but comments like these make me blush so much it’s embarrassing.
i don’t know if this is a genuine crush or an infatuation, and i don’t want to make her uncomfortable or anything, so i normally just keep it friendly and slip in a few “you’re so pretty” here and there when she sends me pictures of herself. this is insanely stupid i’m aware, considering we haven’t even been talking for that long, but it’s slowly driving me insane, which is ironic because she jokes about how she drives me crazy. she does drive me crazy, just not in the way she thinks.
i want to keep flirting with her, but i don’t know if i should. the thing is, her ex broke up with her because they weren’t mentally in the right place for a relationship and they told her that when they’re ready, they would want to get back together and the girl said she’s kinda optimistic, but she wasn’t so sure about it. FYI she told me all of this before we got close, but i still don’t want to ruin anything. not to mention, i don’t even know if what she said to me counts as flirting. i guess i just want to know if you guys think there are some signs here or if i’m being delusional as always. i don’t really know how to proceed from here, any help would be greatly appreciated.

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2024.05.13 23:00 ObligationGreedy8281 AITJ for not encouraging(forcing to a degree) my kids to try to communicate with their dad more?

Okay, sorry if this is all over the place but I want some insight from others not involved in the situation whatsoever. Feel free to ask for any clarity etc.
I (29F) and my husband (36M) have 2 kids. To protect their privacy I would prefer not to share details but I will share vague info. They are elementary aged. I put off my own schooling to focus on getting our kids established and we do virtual homeschooling. My husband has never been able to hold down a job due to a few health things (anxiety that he uses medication for, and a few years in he got diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis and EOE but he doesn't stay on top of his own care). We live with my mom. He has lived with me under my moms roof for what would have been 12 years later this year.
Here is where I am asking for insight.
My mom witnessed him becoming more and more emotionally and verbally abusive. She sent him to his grandmas March 1st. My brother and I drove him down and we slept there and drove home the next day. He has been down there since. So 2 months. It was originally supposed to be around 2 weeks but then they asked about him staying another week. He was supposed to call my mom and they were supposed to talk about him coming back home. The one phone call they had he was making an excuse for why he yelled at me on the phone since he'd even been down there and then all he cared to talk about was his doctor(nurse practitioner) not sending his medicine, his insurance issues and all about his medicines. He is addicted to prescription drugs as well. If more info is needed I can elaborate but trying to keep this as short as possible but with enough details. He has also told us to go file divorce papers(I have never indicated separation, this was simply my mom wanting him to appreciate us and treat us better which it seems he is a narcissist and incapable of loving anyone but himself), custody, coparenting etc. So in his mind his is flipping it into US needing to work on our marriage instead of HIM working on how he treats me and our children.
He has barely talked to our kids. In the beginning I kept complaining about his lack of talking to them, then he would only try to call late at night. As I mentioned, they are school aged. I'm talking like 9:00pm or later he wanted to talk to them. Like I said, he didn't work and was aware of them having early mornings so this irked me. I told him he needed to stop putting us all off until the end of the day and it was completely rude and disrespectful to our kids time. He said he's busy and calls when he can.... I told him that's unacceptable and he needs to carve out a little time earlier in the day for them. I told him not to call after 8:00pm, which is still late quite frankly but better than 9 or 10. He has talked to them less than 10 times(don't know the exact amount so being generous with an estimation) I can look at my call log if necessary and try to weed out when he actually talked with THEM. Anywho, there was one Thursday night when he was supposed to call and I gave him a time and said no video chatting(he always tries to force me to be involved and I was busy and didn't want a camera being shoved in my face). He asked why not. I explained it wasn't a good night. He asked if he could video chat them Friday instead because he had things he wanted to show them. I made sure I was clear on what he meant and asked if he meant NOT talk to them "tonight" in order to videochat "tomorrow"? (this happened in the past hence the "") He said yes. He had not talked to them in 2 weeks at that point. So I was mad that he didn't ask if he could talk to them tonight but videochat them tomorrow as well....but then he said he was busy anyway so that would work better.....okay. Friday comes. He CALLS them. He was SO distracted on the phone and BARELY talked to them. He mentioned his brother had reached out about hanging out so I am thinking he was texting him while on the phone with them, but I don't know. I told our older child he was supposed to videochat so they mentioned it to him and he took a few minutes to send the link(iphone to android videochat) our child texted because it was taking so long. He finally sent the link and they were videochatting. He wasn't trying to show them anything. I mentioned he was supposed to show them stuff. He mentioned a coloring book and they had to ASK to see it. Then they ASKED about grannys dog so he showed them the dog. I gave them a time limit but gave wiggle room for the sake of our kids. I realized the chatting was going nowhere because he just wasn't interested in talking to them. Our older child mentions needing to go, then he says something like the child hadn't said they needed to go, in order to make it look like he "cared" like, "oh mommy said a time but I don't remember what it was so we probably need to go" they were over 10 minutes past, and I knew it but again I gave wiggle room for the kids. I chewed him out in a text and he admitted I was right and he was distracted and gave 348724985 excuses for what happened that day as to why he was distracted but I didn't want to hear any of it.
My kids very rarely bring him up. I ask them here and there how they are feeling about things and they are both sad but one of our kids even said that daddy was mean sometimes. That crushed me. I didn't know they felt that way. I didn't realize how bad things had gotten. I know what I went through and dealt with, but I was so blind to how he was doing them. I feel awful. And it came from the kid I would least expect it to come from cuz he seemed to give them more attention. I don't think the kids have asked to call him a single time. If they did I would absolutely not stop them, I'm not keeping them from talking to him. I am however setting boundaries on his side of things because he has no respect for our kids and their time. While he was on the phone with them he even brought up having issues with his doctor(NP) and meds. He talked to them for maybe around 30 minutes, most of which was the kids trying to talk and him saying.....uh......what? and telling one kid he was proud of them, they asked what for, he said......uh.....you're getting so big.
Side note; he mentioned I always have to say "something" (I am calling him out on his crap and not allowing him to use excuses anymore) and if I can't be peaceful we can't coparent. He informed me via TEXT April 17th that he now LIVED there. Has been so uninvolved already but ESPECIALLY now). I told him he has NO right to tell me how to COPARENT when he can't even PARENT to begin with and told him to ask HIMSELF a few questions and if he couldn't answer them he needs to reevaluate how good of a parent he is before trying to come at me for how I am PARENTING. I DO IT ALL. Anyways, like I said, we virtual homeschool and he was "involved" enough to know basics. So one of the questions was what grade both kids are in. He responded with his answers. He was wrong on both. Couldn't tell me what clothing size one was and was wrong on shoe size for both as well. He did get one of the kids teacher and speech therapist right but the teacher is a repeat from our older student and the speech therapist has been with us since the beginning so I knew he should know at least THAT one. I'm wondering if he googled what size one may be in because he mentioned a size not common to all stores but I do give him credit for answering what he did correctly. Its the ones that are incorrect though that are of issue. And I didn't correct him. He wasn't supposed to send me answers. I said to ask himself. He was just to cocky thinking he was really getting himself a "gotcha" moment. It makes me sad. I did tell my kids not to answer any questions if they videochatted(which I admit I didn't like doing, but with all circumstances I don't want him using them to answer questions making it seem like he knows more than he truly does) I told my older child what grade he thought they were in and they pointed out, "I was in ---grade when he left....." But we kinda laughed about how stupid/silly/dorkish it was and I am NOT trying to make him look bad. I shield our kids from a lot because I don't want their opinions of anyone swayed any way due to something someone else says. Same goes for their dad. Regardless of how I feel about him and the way he's done I don't want them holding things against him and distancing themselves due to things that don't need to divulged to them to begin with.
I'm sorry this was a lot, and it's probably all over the place and a mess.. I just need insight or opinions from someone that isn't involved or related to either of us so opinions won't be swayed. If any more info is needed in regards to myself or my husband feel free to ask.
I will also be moving forward with my schooling possibly this year or next depending. I wanted both of our kids established and while I'm not sure I'm quite ready because my younger student still requires more help and needs improvement with reading for me to be fully comfortable I may be able to start online courses in the meantime if able to do so before doing in person things eventually. My husband was no help with the kids and when he sat in or did attempt he had ZERO patience and was awful. So I limited what I would ask him to help with and did all the "heavy lifting" myself. We are all doing much better mentally and our younger child is unlearning some behaviors and is a completely different kid. They are coming out of their shell and while they've always been loving now they are even more sweet and loving and involved with others. I have seen so much improvement. And their dad has not mentioned talking to them SINCE that friday which was May 3rd, so it has been 10 days at this point.
Thank you to anyone that has read this trainwreck. If you think I handled things wrong and have advice on how to better handle things as well please feel free to advise away. While I am hoping I won't get ripped to shreds, I appreciate blunt honesty and can handle constructive criticism. :)

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2024.05.13 23:00 Chis200 Retention 100%! 6th extreme, 9395 attempts (shocked it took that many, didn't feel like it). Enjoyment: 9/10. This level is VERY fun, there's just a few frustrating chokepoints. I'd recommend this level to anyone looking for a satisfying extreme to beat

Retention 100%! 6th extreme, 9395 attempts (shocked it took that many, didn't feel like it). Enjoyment: 9/10. This level is VERY fun, there's just a few frustrating chokepoints. I'd recommend this level to anyone looking for a satisfying extreme to beat

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2024.05.13 23:00 PersonalizedGameRecs [/r/boardgames PGR] Looking for an immersive adventure game that is easy to pickup and play. Something a ground can sit down and play a one off of right away. Do not Gloomhaven. More like House on Haunted Hill, but a bit more developed. Heavy on the atmosphere.

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2024.05.13 23:00 sydneys_jpegs What would you do in this situation? Mechanic screwed us.

Hi there,
My partner and I bought a van earlier this year and brought it to a mechanic to check prior to our purchase.
This is an old van, a 1995 Chevy with 200,000 miles on it. We expected some issues but wanted a full check to ensure it would still be worth buying.
We requested the mechanic who had been working on it with the seller to do a full check on the van to let us know if there were any major issues prior to purchase. We are taking a road trip up through Alaska and the Yukon (roughly a 15,000 mile trip), and told the mechanic this is what the van was for.
They told us that the transmission needed to be flushed, oil should be changed and that we should get a tune up but that the van was in “great shape” and that if they were to pick a van to do the trip it would be this one and that the upkeep on the van was great. There was some shaking while braking but this would be able to be fixed with an alignment. We spent about $1,000 with the recommended work.
Fast forward to our test trip in the van, it is shaking violently on descents. We take it to a different mechanic since we think something funky is going on and they let us know the front right rotor is cracked , the left is heat warped. Our ball joints and front brakes are badly damaged and that all of the shocks are also shot. They included photos of the damage. The tires are also 9 years old. The work that needs to be done to fix this is equaling about $3,000.
We believe that the first mechanic is either incompetent or actively lied to us. What would you do in this situation?
We are frustrated and upset, and would like to know if this is common or if a decent mechanic would miss repairs of that magnitude when looking at a vehicle. We thought we had done our due diligence.
Thank you!

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2024.05.13 23:00 ReadInteresting8508 The Rain Can’t Get Me Here

the birds chirping river running water still green around me blue sky
this would be peaceful if the bad didn’t lurk the thoughts in my head entangling around my brain like the roots on the trees around me
the water is rising and it’s flooding in my body i’m gasping for air but it doesn’t seem to be there
i can see the different flowers blossoming in spring i can see the sapling trees starting their life still yet to grow
the benches many sit and look across the land exchange stories, holding hands the rust around it’s rims the disease spreading showing it’s age
the only dry amongst the land is on a trunk that’s been struck by it’s band it’s protected by the leaves of its family above the rain can’t get it here the rain can’t get me here

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2024.05.13 23:00 Pigbenis7687 Uber eats/door dash question

Does anyone drive for uber eats or doordash? Is the money decent, and what do your hours look like?

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2024.05.13 23:00 Fit-Frosting-5585 Found it buried lightly in the dirt haven't seen it on the path up until now

It's slightly more red and transparent in person and has a crystal like look to it teacher said it could be quartz.

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http://activeproperty.pl/