I'm currently working on a fangan and reviewing a later case I've created where the victim is killed within Chapter 3, and is discovered ~9-12 days later in Chapter 5. Chapter 3's motive allows one person to leave at the expense of everyone's death for a ludicrous number of Monocoins, which the victim was going to take using a loophole. However, the blackened ends up killing them before they could do so to prevent everyone dying at nighttime. They also don't want to start a trial so they bury the body and hope nobody finds it so they aren't executed.
Because of the time lapse between the murder and body discovery, I've found that alibis and motives at the time are thrown out of the window, and any evidence for the victim's murder would've been confused with Chapter's 3 case and discarded. I want to use this idea, but struggling to think of any clues to leave besides something more obvious like the change in the blackened's attitude. Any suggestions are appreciated

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Startling fact: as high as 80% of users who sign up for your product end up never coming back after the first day.

This means only 20% of top-of-funnel users come back to use your product in a meaningful way.
It also denotes the importance of first impressions — which are paramount to converting, retaining, and expanding your customer base.
And where first impressions typically form is within your initial onboarding experience.
But despite this, onboarding is frequently overlooked as a one-time checklist – often becoming stale as your product, messaging, and GTM tactics evolve.
And we’ve been guilty of this too at Supademo, where we struggled with a pattern of less-than-ideal customer activation, slow time-to-value, and low onboarding completion.
In an effort to improve these metrics, we focused on hypothesizing and implementing a series of tactics to reduce friction and accelerate time-to-value.

Ultimately, these: - Increased onboarding completion rate by ~10% - Increased activation rate by ~20%; - Decreased time it took to achieve the "aha! moment" by ~39%

Here’s an actionable guide on the five tactics we implemented to improve our product onboarding:

1) Reverse trial directly into our highest-tier plan

Companies often find themselves wrestling with the choice between offering a Trial or adopting a Freemium model. As Elena Vera says: “opt for neither, because Reverse Trials are simply.. better.”
A reverse trial lets the product do the talking rather than gatekeeping with marketing lingo. It also helps customers test-drive plans that best fit their use case — without the paradox of choice.
What we did:

• Avoid overwhelming users by focusing on only highlighting core features up-front
• Nudge users to try premium features based on usage or time-based triggers
• Clearly indicate what happens at the end of the reverse trial (i.e. downgrade to freemium with limited features)

2) Use social proof everywhere

Communicate benefits through customers' voices – not just your own. This helps build trust, credibility and authority, which are crucial to their willingness to invest time and complete onboarding.
What we did:

• Added social proof throughout our entire product onboarding flow
• Tied specific social proof to specific pages (team-based testimonial on “invite your team” page)
• Linked use cases emails with case studies that map directly to the one mentioned

3) Force users to experience our "aha moment"

When building a complex product with many bells and whistles, it can be challenging to surface key features intuitively. Since our “aha” moment is tied to creating a Supademo, we “forced” users to as one of their first onboarding steps.
What we did:

• Make the first recording semi-mandatory during onboarding, removing paradox of choice
• Automatically enable and apply features meant to “wow” users or drive virality by default. You have limited time to impress new users!
• Added templates and Supademo examples everywhere — in-app, personalized onboarding emails, etc

4) Push for invites ASAP

It's commonly accepted that team-based, collaborative SaaS platforms like Slack tend to have higher retention and lower churn. Lateral usage in the org = wider surface area for penetration, more use cases and higher odds of reaching an internal champion.
What we did:

• Automatically show matching workspaces based on domain – with an option to request access, auto-join “open” workspaces
• Encourage users to invite right during onboarding — with the goal of converting them while at peak interest (i.e. initial onboarding)

5) Personalized, action-triggered onboarding emails

Instead of dripping a handful of generic email sequences to every signup, we decided to add personalization via dynamic Supademos and product-triggered onboarding emails. With little effort, we get notified of our highest potential/most engaged leads while personalizing at scale.
What we did

• Welcome email with a personalized product tour at scale, using dynamic variables
• Automated, plain text founder emails to drive responses and feedback
• Emails when success metrics are met – with encouragement and clear next steps to guide to deeper adoption
• Short, two-sentence feature tips weekly - spacing them out so it's less intrusive and helps us stay top-of-mind — while increasing odds of catching users at the right timing

Hopefully, this helps other founders here iterate on and improve their product onboarding experience!

so I met this guy who had just changed his major to the same major that I was starting in. So technically we were both freshers and we had a few courses together. We got along quite well immediately. In a month of knowing each other, we went to a concert together because we happened to share the same favourite artist who was quite local. following that we became inseparable; where I was, he was, and where he was I was. He introduced me to all of his different friend groups and we also shared post time activities together. This cost us to spend at least five hours together every single day. As I am well a hetero female and he is an attractive tall man who loves me understands me and shares interests with me. You can guess that I might have fallen in love. The problem is that he is homosexual. during the holidays of that year we were apart for three weeks for the first time I need to make me realise how much we meant for each other. So my feelings just grew. That spring we continued to really really really just having this codependent symbiotic relationship where we spent most of our time together. I acknowledged that this might not be healthy, so I tried to date other guys but it did not work. During the summer, he want to work in another town so he was in town only on his days off and all, though he has plenty of friends in town, he would only for the hang out with me because well, I was that one person who was like family like a partner to him; someone who was company but also just a part of him really. My feelings were really strong at this point, and we basically lived like a couple and I think this is the part where he also realised that we are soulmates. I've always struggled with empathy I don't really feel it properly, but for him I felt it for the first time like actually and that was crazy.
we've faced some difficulties in our relationship since then and it has felt bad so this February after two years, I finally decide to just tell him and he agrees that we are soulmates. We are meant for each other. Neither one of us have ever had this kind of connection with anyone else. But the code harsh truth is that we can never be together because he's gay and I'll never be a man. I decided to take a bit of distance from him and it actually worked quite well because I started dating another person who I guess. I had some kind of feelings for though I do think it was just because of sexual connection but still. But that didn't work out. Obviously nothing will ever work out as long as I have these feelings, but I had distance myself from those feelings from him, but now we recently had a period of time where we were together very closely and all of the old feelings just came back. I am jealous of all of his other friends and of anyone close to him. We are soulmates and we both know it but we can never be together and I do not know how to move on from this. This has been going on for multiple years and I'm not sure if I can ever get over this. My soulmate the love of my life is right there but I can never have a fulfilling relationship with him. It breaks my heart. Sometimes I'm quite sure that I'll never find happiness or love.

So when I was about 10 years hold, I began hanging out with this kid (I'm gonna use his real name cause fuck him) his name was Sawyer, we met through me friend Luis, and I don't really remember how we first met or talked too each other cause apparently after the first time we met he blocked me, but ended up unblocking me, me him, Luis and Josh (The kid from the other story) used too hang out a lot and play fortnite or minecraft, I remember he used too complaint about the dumbest shit and had the dumbest opinions on things, like he said new minecraft sucked cause you could emote, but after about 3 months of playing with him, he became a dick, but not too me, but too Luis and Luis only, he would always start shit with him for no reason and brag about random things, and for some reason he just praised me, we confronted him like 5 times about this but he never changed, that's when I was 10, when I was 11 me and Luis got r6 on playstaion and we began playing that a lot soon after we got it, it was on sale and Luis was gonna give Sawyer a gift card for him too buy it, but were still not sure about this, but Luis said his dad's card got charged for $300 and someone was trying too buy a vr headset, he blamed Sawyer and when Luis confronted him, he didn't deny it, when me and Luis started playing on xbox, Sawyer also had an xbox and would be on a lot, soon after we me Jack, after a while it was clear Jack and Sawyer didn't get along which we were ok with cause we started too hate Sawyer
So like back in August Sawyer heard me say the n-word he had known I was biracial, he saw a picture of me soon after (He had always know what I looked like, my skin is more white than brown) so when I got off the next day, Luis told me that he called me racist after that we just made fun of him cause he said some real stupid shit, now the funniest thing is.......HE WAS A FUCKING RACIST Luis is Pacific islander and knowing this he made a lot of racist jokes about Asian people, and had also scream the n-word, (I wasn't around when that happened) and said a lot of racist things about Mexicans
The most recent thing that happened with him, is from the pov of Jack and Luis, so they were playing with this guy who was friends with Sawyer, and Sawyer joined, they were ignoring him cause they were playing warzone, but soon Luis just said "Y'know gggamer9000 got a girlfriend earlier this month" and Sawyer said "Is that a good thing or a bad thing" and also said "I'm fresh out of a relationship bro" This man get's no bitches, he looks like Ethan gamer, but after that we've never spoke too him again

Hi all. 36 / F / Canada / 160lbs. I’m an active and healthy person for the most part. I had some health issues last year that caused extreme stress and all my muscles locked up. This was back in Sept/Oct 2023. It’s now May 2024 and most of my body feels good again except my left foot. I have a really annoying pain in the ball of my foot that I think is sesamoiditis. It’s been one and off since Oct 2023. I’ve been doing physio, stretching and strengthening, stopped running, got wide toe runners with Superfeet insoles, etc. tomorrow I have a chiro appointment to do a foot scan and consider custom orthotics. In July I have a follow up with my family doc and I’m going to advocate for some imaging tests.
Right now I’m looking for some success stories on sesamoiditis. How long did it take to heal, what worked for you, and have you been able to run again? Sometimes it seems like it’ll never get better and I need some optimism. 💕

idk if something similar has been posted here before but i felt compelled to do some research into the effects of solar flares on the human body (also called heliobiology). I've seen a lot of posts here recently from people claiming they are the cause of the recent ramp up in chaos and physical/mental/emotional/spiritual health challenges. I became quite curious so decided to dive a little deeper.
These are the studies I have found so far that indicate this might actually be true and scientifically proven at least to some degree. Please note I've not entirely corrected my search for my own personal bias and it was a quick search but nevertheless i found these articles quite interesting.
Scientific papers that suggest solar flares may have an effect on human health:
Collective studies: These 3 studies are basically a research into the research that already has been done, quite interesting. If you want to explore this rabbit hole for yourself i suggest to look at the studies referenced in these studies.
https://biomedscis.com/fulltext/the-effects-of-solar-activity-and-geomagnetic-disturbance-on-human-health.ID.000203.php
https://www.mdpi.com/2073-4433/12/12/1613
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10712-006-9010-7
Some individual studies:
https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/proceedings-of-the-international-astronomical-union/article/possible-heliogeophysical-effects-on-human-physiological-state/83EFECE23119ED72243FCF294B71E31D
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0273117708005073
Added for conveniencevv

• Website to check recent solar flare activity: https://www.spaceweatherlive.com/en/solar-activity/solar-flares.html

If anyone would like to add studies that are on either side of this feel free to add them below.

I didn’t experience abuse growing up, I didn’t hate school, I navigated social situations relatively easily (until I had a couple of big changes in my life consecutively) and even then my struggles with socializing, anxiety and executive functioning and burnout began when I was 15 and it got worse in university.
I don’t know a single person around me who’s diagnosed. In my culture/family, mental health issues are not dealt with, just swept under the rug and washed over via toxic positivity and religion and discipline… I’m the first in my entire extended family to take interest in psychology as a career and passion. Even then it took me until failing classes in university and feeling exhausted the moment I woke up every single day… to wonder about being neurodivergent.
I’m getting assessed for adhd currently. And I stronglyyy suspect I’m autistic. I definitely have PDA. I will seek assessment for autism as well, once the adhd diagnosis (or not) is out of the way.
My life up until I was 14, was very active and social and I had an elaborate routine filled with music and dance and swimming and chess classes OUTSIDE of school. In school I also did all that and more (sports) and loved going just to be around my friends. I hobby skipped a lot. I felt lonely occasionally and was known to be moody and sensitive and I was constantly daydreaming. I was well mannered (a little too much, I remember kind of policing my friends too, so they didn’t get in trouble lol) I followed the rules to a T. I had a love for reading and singing and dancing and dated people (middle school, mind you) who I hyper fixated on until it crashed and burned. But i was pretty satisfied with my life (I don’t think 13 year old me would make that particular statement but looking back it feels like that was the last time I felt at semi-peace.)
I only started to unravel when my parents moved us away to another country (I had just turned 14) and my ‘routine’ basically dissolved. Then I completely lost my sense of identity.
Anyway, a lot of people I’ve read about who said they internalized a lot of their symptoms due to abuse or neglect or social difficulties. But I don’t identify with any of that and yet I fell through the cracks.
At this point, I’m still not sure I’m neurodivergent … and everything I read about diagnostic criteria for adhd and autism, says that symptoms have to be present at 12. I’m afraid there weren’t many obvious signs at that point, at least none that I can remember. And unfortunately my parents are not very good at paying attention to that sort of thing and until very recently my dad was vehemently against the very idea of me getting assessed so they’re not going to be a reliable source.
Has anyone else experienced symptoms showing up in major ways only well after they turned 12?
I’m just curious about myself and how to access help and community so I’d love your advice/insight/story!
Thanks for reading ❤️

Hiya,
I was wondering if there’s any resources on learning the fretboards in other tunings. Don’t know if this seems like a noob question for some but I don’t really play in E standard tuning anymore. I was in D standard for a while and now use open and lower tunings. Mainly DADGAD variations but downtuned to B.
All the online resources and the caged system etc refers to e standard tuning.
I’m well aware that if I knew more about theory I could do the transpositions quicker in my head but I’m also changing tunings a lot and would like to focus on writing rather than constantly doing music maths in my brain 😅
Thanks!

Hello, I'm in a bit of a unique situation here in Kentucky and could really use some guidance on how to navigate this. I'm planning to consult with an attorney soon, but I'm hoping to gain some insights or advice from this community first.
Here's the situation: I am the step-grandson in this scenario. My grandfather, after divorcing my grandmother, remarried in the 1980s. He owned a house with his first wife (my biological grandmother), and despite their divorce, the house remained in both their names. My grandfather passed away in 2008, and at that time, my dad negotiated with my step-grandmother to pay $10,000 to my biological grandmother (his mom) to buy out her share and transfer the house solely into my step-grandmother's name.
Fast forward to now, my step-grandmother, who has no biological children, and is not on good terms with my father wishes to leave the house to me. She's in poor health, hasn't lived in the house for over two years, and has accumulated a significant amount of personal debt (around $13k in car loans, $35k-$40k in credit card debt, and some medical debt). My question is, is there a way for her to legally transfer the house to me without the risk of her creditors seizing the property to cover her debts?
I understand the importance of handling this matter delicately and legally, especially considering the debt involved. I'm looking for advice on how to proceed and what potential legal mechanisms could be used to protect the property from being claimed by creditors, ensuring it passes to me as intended.
Any advice, insights, or recommendations on steps to take or specific legal provisions in Kentucky law that could be relevant to this situation would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance for your help!

Hello, I purchased the AVP on day two of its release and so far have mixed but predominantly positive opinions about the device. I don’t think it’s currently up to its potential, but I’m hoping the software ecosystem evolves to where the hardware is.
I wish there was a way, when using travel mode, to keep the stock elastic/plastic cover over the front glass of the AVP. I really want to travel with this thing on airplanes, but I always like picking the window seat. I picked the window seat mostly because I can, lean against it and get some semblance of a pillow situation even if I’m sitting in economy.
If I want to be immersed in video or gaming or productivity, I personally don’t care if I see the outside world. I understand that the AVP has a bunch of cameras viewing and inferring what my hands are doing, but at least for passive content consumption, I wish there was a way for me to turn that off with a switch and let me watch media with the cover on.
If only because this would help me deal with my social anxiety of actually wearing this on an airplane, being able to cover the glass might be nice.
It would also make me much more comfortable with leaning my head (wearing a Vision Pro) against the cabin framing.

for privacy i'm disguising names
so me and my friend group are all 14 years old, and I'd say that over the past couple of years we've been really close with eachother. ofc people have came and went, and the group has evolved, but there's always been around 10 of us that have stayed together.
one of my friends is called Lily. in the nicest way possible, she isn't really like the rest of us. she's very much a tomboy whereas the rest of my friends like "girlish" stuff but Lily doesn't really like those things. she loves sports and athletics and people used to make fun of her and compare her to a boy.
the issue is this: Lily is friends with a couple of people that gossiped/spoke behind the back of one of my other friends, natasha. natasha is so so kind and one of the sweetest people i know and she didn't deserve it at all. lily knows this and she doesn't like that her friends did it, but she was still friends with them.
my whole group used to sit together at lunch, but over the past couple of weeks, Lily just stopped sitting with us and never told us why. there's another girl in my group, Leanna, who doesn't like lily at all. they're always having arguments and things. so when lily stopped sitting with us, Leanna and a couple of other girls started talking about kicking lily from our groupchat.
I didn't think this was fair. like, I get that she stopped sitting with us and kind of ditched us but in my opinion it's not nice to just remove someone from a groupchat and not tell them why. I wanted to talk to lily first.
So a couple nights ago, we made a groupchat with only a couple of us in it that we would use for plans. In the group was me, natasha, Leanna, and a couple of other girls. Lily wasn't in it.
We were talking about having a picnic sometime before the summer, and I was wondering who we should invite because lately there's been a couple of new people sitting with us. Somebody (I don't remember who) said "don't invite Lily" and i wondered why. Then Leanna and another girl said "we don't want her to come".
I was getting stressed by this point. Leanna and the other girl are best friends and they have been for years, and they're the type of people that will talk shit about you if you do something they don't like. And imo lily hasn't done anything so I didn't want that to happen.
In Lily's defence, I said "I know she ditched us but Lily told me once that she thinks we hate her" and then everybody started screaming. Like actually screaming.
They were saying things like "if she thinks we don't like her, that's her problem" and "she's the one that ditched us". Something that really got on my nerves was when this other girl Grace said "it's not our fault she thinks we don't like her".
I was getting really upset by this point. I won't lie, Lily is very prone to starting arguments over little things and she can be quite annoying. But I don't think it's an excuse to talk badly about her on a groupchat.
I tried to make the situation a little better, so I said "what if i try and talk to her and find out why she doesn't want to sit with us anymore?" and they said okay. So I wrote a small paragraph which basically said "We're sorry if we made you feel like we were excluding you. We never meant to do that."
And then I started getting yelled at because I was apologising.
"why are you apologising????" "we haven't done anything wrong" "don't apologise"
I tried to get them to see things from Lily's perspective.
"Even though we don't hate her, she thinks we do and that's why she doesn't want to sit with us anymore" but they weren't listening. To make matters worse, they wanted me to send the paragraph to Lily on our big groupchat with all our friends. At that point I put my foot down and said "no way."
But unfortunately I had to send the paragraph the way they wanted it to be sent otherwise they'd send it on the groupchat. My reasoning for not wanting it on the groupchat is that pretty much everybody felt the same way, and I didn't want Lily to feel like she was being attacked.
So i sent lily the paragraph, and she responds kindly. She said that she doesn't feel comfortable in a big group where everything is loud (which I get). Then I asked her if she wanted to talk to the group, or just me. She said just me.
So i told the rest of the girls that she didn't want to talk to them.
The same thing happened last night. We were talking about plans and someone said "make a new gc, don't invite Lily" and i felt like dog crap. They were saying "if she wanted to come she'd ask" even though she didn't know we were making plans.
The things that Grace was saying hurt especially because she's experienced bullying before so I didn't think she'd say stuff like this.
"like we’ve told her over and over again that we like her and we enjoy her company, but clearly shes got it in her head that we dont and shes decided to take herself away to a group she personally feels good in and thats good for her. but i dont see a reason to why we have to prove time and time again that we’re good friends. we’ve been nothing but nice to her and shes the one who decided that we hated her, and shes the one who decided to sit with another group that she knows multiple people in our group have problems with those people yet she still decided to sit with them."
From my perspective, I don't think we've proven that we're good friends. And I don't think we've been nothing but nice to her. Everybody in my group apart from like three people has DEFINITELY said something that could've hurt Lily before.
I told Grace again, that we don't hate her but Lily thinks we do and that's not her fault. Grace just said "why should we have to apologise though". And when I said "we spoke about this earlier" she just replied "YOU'RE the one bringing up her feelings about an imaginary groupchat".
At this point I was on the verge of having a panic attack. like I'd never seen my friends act this way before and it wasn't even towards me. but at this point it felt like it was towards me even though I was just trying to stick up for my friend.
I had this convo with grace on the gc.
g: why should we have to apologise though
me: omg we had this convo last night 😭
g: you are the one who’s bringing up all her feelings about an imaginary group chat
me: i'm js trying to make sure nobody gets hurt
g: hurt from what?
m: because lily thinks that we all dgaf about her 😭
g: but we took the time out of our day to send her that message clearly we do gaf about her and if she still thinks we don’t then thats something going on in her head
After that I was too stressed and upset to continue the conversation so I just settled things and went to bed. I'm really hurt and really pissed. I can't believe that someone I thought was really sympathetic and kind and mature would say "if she thinks we don't like her it's probably in her head".
I don't even know if I want to be friends with grace or Leanna anymore. Especially because afterwards Leanna put on the groupchat "Does anyone even like Lily? If you want her to come put a thumbs up"
I'm so hurt. I'm so hurt for Lily. It's so unfair. I don't know what to do. Everybody keeps telling me that it's not my job to to fix it, even Grace was telling me that. But it made me more angry. They want me to sit back and watch them talk shit about somebody I care about and I won't do it.
I don't know how to handle this or how to make it better. Any advice would be soo greatly appreciated 🫶

I am currently living in my friend's house due to a situation that occurred a year ago. As I lived with my friend I came to find out that they were a false Christian (I'm a Christians as well). My friend does not live by God's wisdom. In the past they have disrespected me twice in a way that goes against the Golden Rule of the Bible, “Do unto others what you want others do to you (Matt. 7).” I have confronted them about their sinful behavior multiple times but they still refuse to confess their sin (They refuse to admit that what they did to me was sin according to God's command). Their pride irritates me, and it only irritates me more that they truly believe they love and obey God. “If we say, ‘We have fellowship with him,’ and yet we walk in darkness, we are lying and are not practicing the truth (1Jhn. 1:6).” I have prayed to God about this and he has been working in a way I did not see coming!
My friend and I go to the same church, I attend a bible study session before church. After bible study I was requested to be an usher at the church by an elder (this isn't my first time ushering in the church, I basically stand at one of the entrances handing out pamphlets). I accepted his request. During the service Psalm 84:10 was quoted, specifically parts of the verse reads, “I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God than dwell in the tents of wickedness.” This is my first time hearing this verse so I didn't think much of it. After service me and my friend got into another argument (we argue occasionally). And during the argument they said to me that they can help me find another place to live (this isn't the first time they offered). And then eventually it suddenly hit me that God was showing me something. I approached my friend with how this is not a coincidence and that this is a sign from God. They rejected the sign by saying, “My house is not wicked.”
My friend still refuses to acknowledge their sins and does not believe in the sign. I know I can't force my friend to repent (change their mind), but it frustrates me how this person continues their foolish and disrespectful behavior. I have no choice but to tolerate them because I'm living in their house. Can anyone give me any tips or Bible verses as to how I can deal with my friend better? Thank you and God bless.

Java Survival SMP Server
Java Survival is a multiplayer server dedicated to providing a legitimate Minecraft experience. Every block you see has been mined and placed by hand! Moderators and admins play the game just like everyone else: you'll never see them using commands for personal gain!
We don't use the same old plugins you're tired of seeing such as Essentials or GriefPrevention. We've got our own custom plugins for basic commands and land protections, so we've got our own unique feel.
Server address: mc.javasurvival.com
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So I tried to call one of my friends earlier today just to have a chat with him for fun and the guy literally just attacked me from the start. He answered the phone saying " What does your bitter incel butt want now ? ". I immediately went into defensive mode and told him " What is wrong with you and why are you starting off the call by answering like this ?". He then said "I'm just tired of your constant complaining, bit*hing about your ex, so what if she left you ? Doesn't give you the right to try to ruin her career as a rising musician.". I don't think he understands how much my ex hurted me. She outright used me for my money and then left me after I ran out of money and couldn't afford to buy plane tickets to visit her often. She is a vietnamese singer and I am sick of seeing her stuck up face everywhere I go. She thinks she's all cool and that when she is just an abu*ive sack of shicks. Everytime when I listen to the song "Big Shot" by Billy Joel, it reminds me of her in a funny way because I can imagine myself singing that song to her cause of the way she is acting right now. As a matter of fact, I'm thinking about making a music video cover for that song in honor of her. I'm thinking about doing that in combination of my Taken 3 remake. My friend has no idea of how much she has put me through and I don't get why he thinks it gives him the right to insult me like this. I told my friend that if he doesn't have anything nice to say then I won't call him anymore and that he can just screw off. He then said "Whatever loser incel.". It just gets me so mad because I don't get why everyone thinks it is ok to treat me this way. Does it make me a jerk for firing back at my friend cause he insulted me ??

Hey Two Hot Takes sub Reddit! I am a huge fan of this podcast (binged watched all your videos) and I can’t believe it’s come to this and I am writing Reddit for help. But need advice in figuring out what is considered normal as I’m so confused at this point. I tend to overthink and get in my head a lot, always wondering “maybe I’m just crazy” and this community gives really solid advice so I have a lot of trust.
Context: my boyfriend and I both relocated to a different country so we can live together. I have two cats 1 10y old that I had before I met my boyfriend and one 2y old that I got while we were together.
When we started dating he knew I had a cat that I really love and when I relocated to Europe to be able to be with him I took her with me. While we were dating he would help out occasionally (scoop litter, feed, play, ect) and he got along very well with her. As my work took up a large portion of my day (and sometimes I had to go in business trips), I felt bad that my cat was often left alone to play with herself so after a year and a half or so of living together the three of us I got another cat to help keep my cat company. She didn’t like him at first but now they are so cute together and keep each other busy all day. My partner initially complained that scooping litter sucked (I agreed) so we bought an automatic litter box that needs to be changed once a week. It’s been some time now and the only thing I ask him to do is empty out the litter’s storage bin (as his chore is also to take out the trash so I guessed the two were related). He also mentioned he preferred this activity over feeding them as I like to feed my cats wet food and he hates the smell and to prepare it.
Recently he’s been saying he never wanted cats, would’ve never owned cats if it was his decision and does not think he should be expected to help out with their care. He can help if he wants to but disagrees with it being expected of him. I’m quite shocked at this as this only started recently in our 4 year relationship and I’ve had cats before I met him. I’m also under the assumption that if you date someone with a pet (dog,cat,rabbit, ect) that’s it’s normal to help out with the care of it. Also I view having a pet as a great way to see how someone will be as a parent / capable of taking care of other things. He disagrees, he thinks just because you date someone with a pet, does not mean you help out. The pet belongs to that person and is the sole responsibility of that person. I’m so confused and am starting to feel like the way I think must not be normal. I am not super experienced when it comes to serious relationships… Any help here? Also as a plus where do I go from here?
TLDR: my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. I had a cat before we got together that I relocated with when our relationship started and he recently started saying since he never wanted cats he should not be expected to help out at all in taking care of them. The pet belongs to the owner and the owner has sole responsibility over it. My thoughts are that if you get into a relationship with someone with a pet, as a partner you want to be involved in the pet and help out, it’s only normal. Help? What is considered normal?

How are you this dumb? You think people don't see you trying to convince Daniel that he is not crazy? Getting scared there little buddy? This investigation is coming in real hot and you idiots are in damage control mode.
You need Daniel to say he is not crazy so you don't get in trouble for taking advantage of a very clearly mentally handicapped person. You need him to say he simply was tricked and it all falls on him. Here is one thing you forgot somehow, his mental state is thoroughly documented.
You think this hasn't been in consideration? In this case, a psych evaluation is simply days away, coupled with the years of documented manic episodes, it is the logical conclusion that Daniel is not going to receive the time a lot of people think he is simply because you and "Management" share the blame as well as him..
I hope your parents have good lawyers kid. If you think you've been "working" with the FBI, you actually are a part of the investigation. Maybe next time you shouldn't be taking advantage of the weak and vulnerable. You can't cause people to commit crimes no matter how shitty of a person Daniel is.
Time stamp: 20:30 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QImkXsjkOtQ

I joined the DEP around June last year while going into my senior year of high school. I joined so early because I was promised to get any job that I qualified for. I chose AG contract, which I got and was happy with. Saw my name and social on the contract with my ship date. As of 2 1/2 weeks ago the recruiting office Gunny pulled me into the office after a PT and told me my contract was changed as well as my ship date for reasons unknown. And I told them to fix it or I won’t ship. And they said no problem we should get it fixed in the next week or two. Fast forward now, just got off the phone with my recruiter and he said it hasn’t changed. And that the best course of action is to go to MEPS on my ship date and refuse to sign unless they give me AG. Or go talk to the Sergeant Major. I would much rather get it sorted before going to MEPS and being peer pressured into signing some contract I don’t want. And I’m also worried cause he said I would be kicked out of the DEP if I did refuse. I’m not sure what to do. We have a DI function in two weeks that they say is mandatory and i have been thinking as using that as a bargaining chip. What do you guys think?

I'm currently trying to get the 4 Plasma Weapon challenge, and since there are almost no Plasma weapons it is already difficult enough. If you don't get one on level 5 you have to reset, fine, but the worst is not getting the 4th one and your run is over. This is where it pisses me off the most but it is true in general:
Weapon reroll does not work
When I have 3 weapons on offer, reroll for 15 Gold, and then get THE SAME 3 WEAPONS something is wrong. Especially since this is not a one-time freak accident, it is absolutely the norm. Even if you reroll 3-4 times, it is not unlikely that you see only 5 or 6 different weapons. The very least I expect is that I cannot get any of the 3 weapons I currently have on my next reroll. If I have a chance of getting the first ones again on the second reroll that's fine. But something in this feature seems so obviously broken to me. That's what I want to believe anyway, because if it's intentional I don't understand why the hell you would design it that way. It's easily the worst thing about the game right now, which is really great otherwise.
I also do not believe that changing this feature would remove variety in the weapons you choose. Getting shit weapons because of the non functional reroll mostly causes my runs to end anyway. If you're concerned about this make it 20 Gold or something, but I don't think it would negatively affect anything.

I work in IT. I have been using chatgpt to help me with my work tasks for almost 8 months now, I am careful not to submit proprietary information. On Friday, my boss asked me if I use chatgpt at work. I told them yes for some of my tasks. They said I should not be using it, I should be using our own company LLM. I said I will no longer use it and asked them if everything was alright. They reassured me everything was fine but my company has been having a lot of layoffs recently.
Are they reassuring me to not cause issues so that its easier to let me go?
I am very worried.

Suppose Hello Games decided to change the weather for all lush worlds with storms, and rather than superheated rain, they all had blizzards or a hypothetical superchilled rain instead. Would you live in them? I personally would.
Otherwise, suppose you want to live in an Earth-like (green grass, blue skies) lush world, very badly, but you could only choose between any of the following options. Which would you choose?

Option 1

• Bodies of water
• No storms
• Aggressive Sentinels

Option 2

• Bodies of water
• Normal or extreme storms (superheated rain)
• No sentinels

Option 3

• No bodies of water
• No storms
• No sentinels
• Hard to traverse terrain (very tall mountains)

Option 4

• Bodies of water
• No storms
• No sentinels
• It's infested! (Xeno-Colony, etc.)

Personally I'd stay with Option 1 if these were the only choices I had. Sentinels aren't that big of a deal anyway. So yeah those are your options, explain your choices if you wish!

Disclaimer: This is part Cry-For-Help, part New-User-Warning, and part Complaint. If you're the type of person who gets emotionally charged when others complain, you should probably ignore the ego and click the "Back" button.
I'm starting to feel a little worried about using TiddlyWiki to house my 'Personal Knowledge Database'. It is reminding me of software that used to have a good deal of support, but doesn't anymore? Examples:

1. Whenever I check this reddit, there are 2 people 'online', and almost no one making posts.
2. talk.tiddlywiki.org (TiddlyWiki Main Help Site?) appears to be just as dead.
3. Googling issues returns results from 5-16 years ago.
   1. When I google "tiddlywiki how to insert comments" the first result is: https://groups.google.com/g/tiddlywiki/c/O0AvfwN6ByM, (which is from 2008!) and is just a bunch of people NOT answering that question. "How to insert comments" should be an extremely simple answer. Yes I know it is listed elsewhere - that's not the point.
4. The Help Documentation on the Main Site (tiddlywiki.com) often completely lacks true example code, or has such incomplete code that it makes me think they made a "first pass" and then never actually went back to flesh it out. Documentation should always include various Use-Case examples to get people started. TiddlyWiki documentation basically just tells you the syntax, and the accepted parameters/options, and maybe 1 or 2 extremely basic examples that do not depict any real use-cases.
5. To top it all off, the few guides/tutorials that seem to exist on various topics are written by people who assume you already know what you're doing. Either that, or they just aren't very good at giving packaged examples. Here is one issue I had to google, and the corresponding poor 'How To" guide that didn't help:
   1. Wrapping Images: https://talk.tiddlywiki.org/t/floating-images-howto/7393 - this 'tutorial' includes code, but assumes you already know what to do. It may not be completely obvious why this "How To" is terrible, but, if it were a cooking recipe, it would look like this:

BAD Tutorial
So you want to bake a cake? Here's how to make that happen:

1. eggs and whisking are a part of the process.
2. you can use different types of eggs
3. have fun! ~Mario

That's not a tutorial. That is a person named Mario spending 5 minutes to throw out some code that will only help people who already know what they're doing. The ridiculous part is, I am familiar with programming (python, javascript, LUA, HTML, CSS) - but even with that advantage compared to a completely new user, I still don't magically know how to combine Mario's haphazard code blocks into TiddlyWiki's structure.
Tutorials SHOULD be written like recipes:
Intro: If you want to include one tiddler in the text body of another tiddler, follow the steps below:

1. Create a Tiddler note
   
2. Name it "My_Test_Note"
   
3. Copy and Paste the following text into it:
   This is some example text. Paste me directly into the Tiddler you just created named "Test".
   
4. Save that Tiddler (Ctrl+Enter) or click Check Mark button.
   
5. Create another new Tiddler note
   
6. Name it "My_Output"
   
7. Copy and Paste the following code into it:
   {{My_Test_Note}}
   
8. Save that Tiddler too.
   

Explanation: Notice how the text from My_Test_Note is 'transcluded' into the Tiddler named "My_Output". This is called "Transclusion".
Even the Grok TiddlyWiki suffers from the problem of having too many words and not enough copy-paste-able examples.
CONCLUSION
I'm going to try sticking with TiddlyWiki if I can, but I just thought it was useful for new users to be warned about what they're getting into here:

I believe TiddlyWiki has a huge amount of potential (for power-users who already know how to use it), but if you aren't familiar with programming, or don't want to google every single tiny issue and sift through post after post from 16 years ago, or read tutorials written by people who can't explain how to bake a cake, then it may not be right for you.