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2024.05.29 05:05 exgxrx Do I need to include a prior suspension on my license when shopping for car insurance?

I’m 22f, currently on my parent’s car insurance but just bought a new car today in my name and will be paying my own insurance on it, also in my name.
Two years ago I got a speeding ticket and didn’t have the money to pay it off at the time and eventually forgot about it, which resulted in my license being suspended for about a week until I got my poop in a group and paid it off. This made parents insurance go up a bit but I helped pay.
Currently shopping around for the cheapest collision insurance for my car and when I opened the first website, it asked if the driver (myself) has “had an accident, claim, loss, moving violation or driver license suspension/revocation in the last 5 years” to which the answer would be yes, I had my license suspended. But do I need to include that in my new insurance since I was under my parent’s insurance when it happened?
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2024.05.29 04:57 International-Cup890 Something is wrong.

Was in a car accident last week. Went to doctor today. Finger broken and BP was 217/120 for over an hour.
Heart rate was not like this before going to the doctor this morning. First time I've driven a long distance since the accident, and I was on edge the entire time. Everyone kept asking me the same questions over and over and making me relive the experience of my car accident which was very traumatic. A 17-year-old tried to rabbit across the intersection and I t-boned her. Everyone is fine but I've never had an accident like this and I've been doing driving jobs since I was 15 and 1/2 and I'm 33 now. I told the doctor I've been having very aggressive and traumatic dreams about the crash or falling or just things like out of control weather like tornados, along with pain on my left side keeping me from sleeping. I've slept maybe a total of 10 hours this past week, but they said that they didn't think that that was attributing to my high blood pressure. I don't have any insurance at the moment and so they refused to give me anything at the hospital to lower my heart rate because of it. As soon as I hit 179/119 they sent me home. I just don't really even know what to do from here.
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2024.05.29 04:45 hearteyeddoll I’m 26, my mom just had a car accident recently and I’m unemployed indefinitely following this… I don’t know what to do anymore

It's been ... 9 months since my mom got into life altering car accident . And we all lost our only car forever. I have no means of reliable public transportation near me anymore as I used to (I live in Puerto Rico) and getting a job near me is nearly impossible to do. My neighborhood is not walkable and most of the hiring places are near the metropolitan areas far far away from where I currently live in. Applying to remote jobs is also a dead end. I don't wanna be in anymore debt with school so I'm trying to avoid studying another things that I hate so I don't feel the need to pressure myself to like it. I just wanna have a car to move around and get a job and move out of my abusive grandmothers house for once. I'm sick and tired of living like this. I also stopped talking to my fp due to him being flaky and unwilling to let me go since he didn't want anything to do with me romantically anymore but sometimes we'd both still be sexually attracted to one another. I can't just be friends with someone who doesn't love me anymore, I told him this a thousand times and he didn't want to listen to me and leave me alone until another huge argument about an offensive racist joke he made just because I sent him a song to listen to and it was made by a South Korean dj on YouTube and I just split on him again. And even tho my anger was justified I still feel like crap. I still love him. I know he doesn't deserve me. But I feel like I'm not an easy person to love either. I don't know what to do. I feel like I keep trying to have friends and new love interests but I'm not made for casual ones nowadays. I'm intense. I love love and I love caring about others and helping people and being of service to anybody because if I don't feel like I'm helping anyone I feel I have no purpose in my life and I hate that because I know I'm just as important to look after myself but I wanna be part of caring community for once in my life, I want it to be permanent. I'm tired of temporary people and things. I have a big mouth. I don't just stay quiet and pretty for everyone to look at only. I'm not just a doll everyone can use and abuse. I'm a real person. I have feelings. I have every given right to live my life as unapologetically me. But I'm so tired of being alone and misunderstood unprovoked. I have no close friends anymore and the only person I had considered close revealed they were a pedo preying on a child years ago. I feel so angry cuz it doesn't matter how much time I spent with people they will somehow always disappoint me and boy do I have such simple boundaries with friendships (such as not being an awful person to me and others) which is incredibly hard for many to do. I can't stand living on my own anymore. Just the other day my mom and brother ganged up verbally on me and I just had a brief flashback on how they did the same when my moms ex did that to me with him putting my own family against me. All because he hated me standing up for myself against his racist behavior. I've had enough of this. I'm trying and trying to find a job a solution to get myself out of this and to make sure my family are safe and healthy. But when everyone and everythings against me it's when I don't even feel safe in my own room. There's always something. Don't even get me started with the state of the world right now. I'm already depressed as is due to COVID/Birdflu/etccxx spreading around and about Palestine, Sudan, DRC and many other nations are in a crisis right now and we're just supposed to keep living like this forever? I don't WANT THIS ANYMORE. Why do any of us have to deal with this? Jesus Christ I just wanna live normally. I don't ask for much and yet that's apparently a lot to ask for. I'm tired. I'm restless. Everyday !!!! ITS EVERYDAY!!!!! I don't feel safe in my own home, neighborhood, town, island or anywhere actually!!!! I don't wanna be a doomer. I want good things. I want a good life, and I want to be happy. But there's so much misery. I'm trying so hard to look at the bigger picture but I cannot ignore myself and others dismay over everything that's been happening over the last 5 years. How do I even do this without losing myself and my love for life? I've done everything and yet I'm still horrified I may not be able to live long enough to enjoy the seeds I've planted and have plans to plant more. This is unfair.
I’m deleting this soon but for now I feel way better letting this out of my system after a culmination of 5+ years of this ruminating in me.
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2024.05.29 04:41 fishermantrucker Am I the asshole for getting home late

I 29 male and married to 29 female. I planned to go to my nieces and grandparents grave sites with my mom and cousin. I am also a truck driver and only have a few days off at a time. My wife had the day off but didn't go. I went with my family in my cousin's car. There was an accident and we went to the ER so I didn't get home until 10pm. I didn't drive my car to the sites as I obviously didn't know something like this would happen. Am I the ass hole?
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2024.05.29 04:40 SellingIs4Pussies Thinking of buying an infinity qx50 2017

I’ve pretty much made up my mind about buying a 2017 qx50. I found the premium model ( the one that comes with the more modern screen and 360 back up camera ), 115,000km ( 71k miles ), HOWEVER there is accident report in the car fax but its only for 1500$. It does seem like a minor accident but should I be more concerned? Let’s say I get it checked out and everything looks good. Should I get it?
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2024.05.29 04:26 d6897cunni Divorce & transfer of car title. Can I avoid sales tax?

In the final stages of divorce, and my stbx husband and I own 2 PA registered vehicles. We agreed that we‘ll both keep our respective cars that we considered ours during the marriage, our settlement just states that we must initiate a title transfer once the divorce is final - which makes sense.
What I cannot get a clear answer on is whether we‘ll have to pay sales tax when we go to AAA to request the transfers. I was initially advised that as long as we request the transfer while we‘re still married, that there was no tax due. However, when I called in to AAA to ask general questions (along with this one about the tax), the lady very rudely told me off along the lines that no one is exempt from sales tax in PA, even if I position the transfer as a gift. Anyone know a loophole around this? I just think it‘s absurd that I have to pay taxes on something I already own (and paid taxes on before!)…
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2024.05.29 04:26 Majestic-Peach-8647 He made me think he was going to “bye bye” himself for fun…literally

He made me think he was going to “bye bye” himself for fun…literally
Guy(27M) I’ve been on and off talking too(we used to be serious but decided we both don’t ant to date atm) texted me this…knowing his depression history, I got really scared when he started not responding. I texted him 7 consecutive texts(slide 1-2) and no responce. I called him in total 12 times. No responce so I called 911. He finally text me back with the “I’m sorry can I call you back” and you can read the rest of our convo. This whole thing caused me to have a panic attack thinking he was gonna bye bye himself or something else.
Here’s the kicker. He finally called me the next day afternoon saying that he’s ok and now that he has to explain what happened he sounds like an ahole. He said that he wanted to get my attention somehow. And the punch line was supposed to be like he was dying from hunger but he jumped in the shower after he send the first few messages which is why he didn’t respond. Then he said he didn’t want me to think he was bye bying himself so he said he just got into a car accident. As you can see in the text, I was on the phone with the 911 operator and they said there were no reports. He said I over reacted but I told him that if anyone received those texts and then no responce, they would freak too. Now he has bye bye hotline calling him all day.
I’m mad and upset that he put me through all that emotional distress. I’m going to tell him this but what else should I tell him.
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2024.05.29 04:23 Standard_Wing8888 In Brunei, what does the law rely on if the Deed of settlement agreement & evidence are rejected by the court?

I hope our His Majesty or the higher authority can investigate this matter seriously about all my submissions and the facts that I stated here, to prevent the same problem from occurring again, & also to prevent more victims like me from being treated unfairly by the judicial system in Brunei.
The purpose of writing this article is to awaken & raise awareness about the judicial system in Brunei. And I think people have the right to know the facts & inappropriate judicial system in Brunei. My case number is HCCS 136 of 2009 & Appeal no. COACV/4/2023. I hope people can read through the judgment, & I hope the court will not remove the judgment from their website following the publication of this article.
After the partial profits of $195,300.00 paid to me by the plaintiffs, the plaintiffs & I entered into a Deed of Settlement Agreement to resolve all our disputes. A few months after signing the Deed of Settlement Agreement, the plaintiffs filed the proceeding against me, they also made up 2 major evidence a fraudulent payment voucher of $195,300.00 & a confirmation letter, accusing me of owing $195,300.00. However, the Court didn’t rely on our Deed of Settlement Agreement in this suit. Then, what does the law rely on if the Deed of Settlement Agreement is rejected in Brunei?
I stated in my pleadings & substantiated it with a laboratory report issued by the Ministry of Health Brunei, that the plaintiffs forged my signature on 24 copies of Standard Chartered Bank transaction forms to transfer $352,456.68 from our joint name account to their personal account. However, the court made no mention of this key fact in the judgment. Can the court cove conceal the pleadings & the facts that were submitted by the party in the judgment in Brunei?
As stated in the judgment, the court admitted & regretted that the court is unable to provide the hearing audio recording as the court did not arrange the audio recorder & a transcriber for our hearing ( 1 week of hearing), as a result, the correction of the inaccurate hearing transcription (notes of proceeding) provided by the court is therefore impossible. Thus, I applied for a retrial, but I was forced by the court of appeal to proceed with the appeal. Isn’t the hearing audio recording & accurate hearing transcription (notes of proceedings) are significant/ important evidence when it comes to appeal in Brunei?
In the judgment, the court of appeal rejected all 2 major evidence the fraudulent payment voucher & the confirmation letter submitted by the plaintiffs as the plaintiffs failed to comply with the Court Order to surrender the original Payment Voucher of $195,300.00 to the Ministry of Health Brunei for forensic examination (the plaintiffs told the court that they had lost the original Payment Voucher of $195,300.00), the court also rejected the Deed of Settlement Agreement & evidence submitted by me. Nevertheless, the court deemed the $195,300.00 as a loan to me without specifying any reason/ ground in the judgment. Isn’t it the judge’s obligation to specify the reason/ ground of their decision when it comes to judgment? Can the judge make a decision without giving any reason/ ground for the judgment in Brunei?
One of my counterclaims that I clearly stated in my pleadings against the plaintiffs, is that the plaintiffs will surrender all business accounts that they hid from me, & pay the balance of my profits from 2006 onwards as clearly stipulated in our Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 6. However, the court made no mention of this specific counterclaim in the judgment. Does the court have the right to simply waive/ delete/ conceal the counterclaim that was submitted by the party in the judgment in Brunei?
I am the defendant in the news that was published by the Borneo Bulletin on 28th Dec 2023. The most crucial sentence of the article stated that “Chief Justice Dato Seri Paduka Steven Chong, sitting with Justice Michael Lunn and Sir Peter Gross, rejected Tan’s appeal, addressing issues regarding inaccurate notes of proceedings, reliance on the Deed of Settlement, credibility concerns, and the absence of forensic evidence for a payment voucher”. Apparently, this news was published a few months ago, but, the higher authority did not take any action to rectify the problems.
This is a business dispute between the 2 plaintiffs (my business partners) and me. The 2 plaintiffs, Foo & Lai had hidden the business accounts from me & refused to pay my profits of around a few hundred thousand since 2006 onwards, as a result, we had frequent quarrels, & our partnership turned sour. Sometime in December 2008, I again quarrelled with the plaintiffs over the profits they owned me, the plaintiffs didn’t have a choice but to pay my partial profit amounting to $195,300.00 subsequently, we entered into a Deed of Settlement Agreement in April 2009 prepared by our lawyer to resolve all our disputes & my resignation from the company. All agreed terms had been clearly stipulated in our Deed of Settlement Agreement. Therefore, the court should rely on our Deed of Settlement Agreement in this suit.
In our Deed of Settlement Agreement, the partial payment of $195,300.00 was not mentioned it was a loan to me, on the contrary, the amount of $195,300.00 will be reinvested equally by 3 of us, which is $65,100 per person, to furnish the balance commitments/ outstanding bills of the company upon my resignation from the company, which is clearly stated in Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 4a, and the plaintiffs have to pay me the balance of the profits that they hid from me from 2006 onwards after the auditor finalizes the business account as clearly stated in Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 6. After we entered the Deed of Settlement Agreement, I complied with the term Clause 4a, I reinvested $20,000 from the part of the $65,100 & I asked the plaintiffs to surrender all business accounts to the auditor as agreed in Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 6, so that they could pay the balance of my profits. The plaintiffs then told me they had lost all business accounts, apparently, the plaintiffs do not want to surrender all the business accounts & pay me the balance of my profits. A few months later, the plaintiffs forged my signature on a fraudulent payment voucher of $195,300.00 & a confirmation letter, filed a proceeding against me & accused me of owing them $195,300.00
The plaintiffs’ case/ allegation is, they claimed that the $195,300.00 is a loan to me, and the $20,000.00 that I reinvested is a part payment of the loan, and thus I owe them $175,300.00. The plaintiffs submitted their 2 major evidence in this suit, a fraudulent payment voucher of $195,300.00 & a confirmation letter. I told the court that the plaintiffs forged my signature on the alleged payment voucher of $195,300.00 & the confirmation letter, subsequently, the Court Order was issued, ordering the plaintiffs to surrender the original Payment Voucher of $195,300.00 to the Ministry of Health Brunei for forensic examination, the plaintiffs then told the court that they had lost the original Payment Voucher of $195,300.00 & therefore failed to comply with the Court Order. Despite the court of appeal rejected the 2 major evidence the fraudulent payment voucher of $195,300.00 & the confirmation letter that the plaintiffs submitted, the court of appeal also found no evidence showed in the Deed of Settlement Agreement that the $195,300.00 was a loan to me, BUT, the court of appeal deemed the $195,300.00 to be a loan to me without giving any reason/ ground in the judgment.
My case to the court of appeal is,
1. As the trial judge, Judge Faisal didn’t arrange for an audio recording & a transcriber during our hearing (1 week of hearing), and he also provided an inaccurate hearing transcription (notes of proceeding) to us, as a result, the correction of the inaccurate hearing transcription ( notes of proceeding) is therefore impossible. This is clearly a BIG mistake made by the court. I told the court of appeal that only the hearing audio recording can prove lots of lies made by the plaintiffs & all the answers gave by both parties during the 1 week of hearing. Since the court is not able to provide the hearing audio recording, accurate hearing transcription & other grounds substantiated, I applied for a retrial. However, my application was rejected, & I was forced to proceed with the appeal by the court of appeal regardless of the absence of the important evidence the hearing audio recording & accurate hearing transcription.
  1. The $195,300.00 was not a loan, & it was not stated in our Deed of Settlement Agreement. I told the court of appeal that the plaintiffs would have stated this in our Deed of Settlement Agreement if the $195,300.00 was a loan to me. In fact, the $195,300.00 was a partial payment paid to me, & the balance shall be paid to me after the plaintiffs surrenders all the business accounts to the auditor as stipulated in our Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 6. Moreover, if the fraudulent Payment Voucher of $195,300.00 that the plaintiffs submitted (their major evidence) was duly signed by me, the plaintiffs would not have told the court that they had lost the Payment Voucher of $195,300.00 when the Court Order ordered them to surrender the original Payment Voucher of $195,300.00 to forensic examination.
  2. I substantiated with the laboratory report issued by the Ministry of Health Brunei that the plaintiffs forged my signature on the 24 copies of the Standard Chartered Bank transaction forms to transfer $352,456.68 from our joint name account to their personal accounts. I have filed this proceedings against the Standard Chartered Bank & the plaintiffs Foo & Lai, which the case HCCS 78 of 2012 is currently handling by the judge, Judge Soefri, & police case Ref. BKS/C116/2011 Is currently handling by Commercial Crime Investigation of Royal Brunei Police since 2011 ( it’s been 13 years). It is clearly submitted in my pleadings. However, the court simply waived & made no mention this specific critical point in the judgment. The court covered up/ concealed the facts in the judgment.
4. My counterclaim against the plaintiffs is, a payment of the dump truck, the plaintiffs failed to submit the evidence, whereas I submitted a solid evidence, the clearance letter & payment history issued by Baiduri Finance which was clearly stated that I fully paid for the said dump truck, and the said dump truck is clearly stated in our Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 4d. However, the court rejected my evidence which was issued by Baiduri Finance & ignored the term stipulated in our Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 4d.
5. My other counterclaim is also, a Toyota Land Cruiser. It is clearly stipulated in our Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 5 that, the said Toyota Land Cruiser belongs to me, & thus the plaintiffs shall pay the proceeds to me after they sold the vehicle. But the court rejected & ignored the Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 5 & evidence.
6. My other counterclaim is, the plaintiffs will surrender all business accounts that they hid from me & pay the balance of my profits from 2006 onwards as clearly stipulated in our Deed of Settlement Agreement Clause 6. But the court simply waived & made no mention this specific counterclaim in the judgment.
I have written several letters to alert the court about all the legal points as mentioned above, BUT, I was ignored by the court.
Lastly, I do not know what would happen to me after the publication of this article, one thing is for sure, at least one man must have the courage to step out & tell the facts about flaws/ deficiencies in our judicial system in Brunei, make things change & improve, in order to prevent more victims suffering from the false judicial system & injustice. I am confident that our His Majesty, as a kind & fair Sultan, would investigate this case thoroughly & make rakyat feel safe again with the judicial system in Brunei.
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2024.05.29 04:18 roadtoMD25 Falsely accused of hitting another vehicle with company car

My manager at my job randomly contacted me a few months ago and asked me if I a remember hitting another vehicle with a the company car. She tried to manipulate me by saying I told her about the situation when it happened, which is completely false. I denied the allegations. She told me that the person that was hit has my information and it’s not coming from her. After doing my own research, I found out a coworker of mine gave my name to the person that was hit. Instead of my manager doing her due diligence, she added my name to the insurance claim. I asked her the provide me with the claim document and she has not yet. What do I do in this case? This allegation is completely not true and there is an insurance report that has my information submitted in a claim that I wasn’t apart of. I remember she told me that nothing would affect me because this a claim against her insurance. Regardless of that I know I wasn’t involved in it and I want my name to be cleared. Also my manager is saying she will send the claim but she has been ignoring my request.
EDIT: The day my manager contacted me about this situation, I reached out to the local police to see if they have a record of the accident and if there was anything linked to me. The police department said they couldn’t find anything.
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2024.05.29 04:18 Salt-Woodpecker-7847 Abandoned car

Posting for my Fiance. I'm hoping this won't be too complicated to explain. Also sorry for the length. Location: Phoenix, AZ
About 3 years ago my fiance cosigned on a vehicle for a former gf (he's heard many times how dumb of a decision that was after the fact). Shortly there after they broke up and he had to file a restraining order on her.
She has been making payments ever since, until a few months ago when he started getting phone calls from the lenders about late payments. He wasn't given any more information about it from the lenders. He reached out to her through email to ask if everything was okay, and she emailed back telling him to fuck off and mind his own business.
Fast forward to yesterday, he received an email from her, from the day prior saying, "car died while driving it, it's all yours, go fuck yourself", it took an additional hour after to even get the cars location. She left it abandoned, unlocked, on the side of the road in one of the more shittier parts of Phoenix, but was surprisingly not gone through.
We were able to get the car towed to our house and upon inspecting it we found bags of garbage, drug paraphernalia and residue and her notary ledgers, and her clients information, and a mess load of personal mail and child support papers.
The car itself is also in horrible condition, multiple accidents, seats are ripped up, dash cracked, smoke damage, etc.... We asked her for the key, and she once again told us no and to go fuck ourselves and it's our problem now.
My question is, what do we do from here? We called the lender and found out she's 3 months past due payment wise, there's still 22k left on the loan and there's no way in hell the car will sell to cover that.
Can we get her off the loan if we take responsibility for payments, or make it so she can't come back for it? We have email proof of her abandoning it.
Can we sue her for the amount owed on the loan or past due?
Is this something we should get the police involved in?
I'm sorry for the wall of text, we are just really unsure of what the next steps should be.
Thank you .
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2024.05.29 04:17 spideyyy82 First DUI single vehicle accident

Hi,
I was charged with impaired driving after I hit the middle dividers curb (posisbly hit the light post as well), car spun around and side air bag deployed.
I got out of the far and there were some drivers that stopped and checked if I was ok.
Cops came after a bit of time, asked me if I had drinks I said yes 2 beers and gave me a screener breatherlizer test which I failed.
The two tests I took at the station readings were 110 and 100.
My lawyer is trying to reduce this down to careless driving. He said my advantages are:
But it is tougher because I did hit something.
I was wondering if anyone here was charged with DUI with a single vehicle collision and what were their outcome?
Thank you so much in advance.
I am in Ontario Canada. Court will be in Brampton accident happened in Mississauga.
I am happy to provide more details if needed.
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2024.05.29 04:14 D3ad_Cup1d10 Rental Reimbursement?

Context for question, I had a driver collide with my car,and I filed a not at fault claim, as well as get a police report for the accident. The driver of the other vehicle is also covered by USAA. My car was in the shop for a month and I got a rental car 12 days prior to the car being fixed, and returned it the same day repairs on my vehicle were finished. I was reimbursed for the deductible I paid for the collision repair itself, but they only covered for half the price of the rental vehicle. I paid roughly $480~ out of pocket for a rental car.
A close relative of mine and a manager I work under are both veterans and utilize USAA auto insurance; They have told me to contact them regarding the claim, which I have done. I'm being told I shouldn't have paid anything out of pocket for my rental because I wasn't at fault, and I have rental reimbursement on my insurance. The adjuster is telling me they don't cover what I paid. I requested a statement but reading over it doesn't explain what was covered and what wasn't, it just gives me the details of when I got the car, the car information itself, and the price of the car versus what USAA covered and what I paid. I'm guessing the statements are normally limited like that so I'm not surprised, but was hoping for a more explained breakdown on the fees.
I'm just trying to understand if this is normal with anyone else's insurance through them? It doesn't seem like the adjuster for the claim want to deal with me, despite trying to be polite just getting answers, I felt rushed off the phone while trying to understand what in my insurance wouldn't cover this.
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2024.05.29 04:13 findinginsight How can I manage my relationship with my potentially sociopathic sister and repair our now-broken family?

I’m feeling quite helpless and am hoping for some advice on how to navigate these family problems.
TL;DR: My sister Emily, who has a history of lying, claimed our stepmom Christie was accusing her of dropping out of college and other things, which led to a lot of family stress. Christie recently committed suicide, and it turns out she was right about Emily not being in school. Now, I’m worried about my dad’s emotional state, and my sister’s ongoing lies are making family life toxic. I can’t even stay in the same house as her because I fear for my safety.
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For perspective, my immediate family overview:
My mom and dad divorced when my mom was pregnant with me. My dad left her for my two older brothers' babysitter. I grew up with her as my step mom. There was always some tension between my brothers and her growing up, while I was more of a neutral observer. To be honest, she wasn't the best person but I did come to love her in the end. My dad and stepmom, Christie had one child together, Emily. When I was in high school my older brother passed away in a car accident, which was needless to say devasting for my parents. My oldest brother struggle with extreme drug addiction after that, going to rehab twice. He's doing very well now, with two kids and a wife in Florida. I'm in Chicago with my partner; gay, came out in high school.
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Emily’s always been the golden child, spinning tales that often cast her as the victim or star. Last year, she started telling me these intense stories about her mom / my stepmom Christie, who was truly going through a rough depressive patch mentally. Emily used this depression and painted her as delusional and abusive. Then, Christie tragically took her own life, a decision we believe was heavily influenced by the stress of Emily’s lies about attending college—lies that we only recently discovered were actually true.
At Christie’s funeral, Emily’s behavior was off. She looked like she was dressed for a TV show rather than a funeral, and her emotional breakdown during a speech she barely prepared for felt staged. It was like she enjoyed the drama.
Her past is a complex web of claimed abuses and sexual assaults, many of which have been proven untrue. She’s excellent at manipulating narratives and even now boasts about becoming a CEO from a supposed buy-out of her PR firm (really she's just a freelancer), dropping names like Pauly D and Blake Lively as if they’re everyday business contacts.
The lies escalated in the days following her mother’s death. She claimed she was graduating a year early, was getting her diploma overnighted, that she had been named valedictorian, and that she was supposed to speak at the graduation ceremony. After her diploma didn't show up after a few days and she had excuse after excuse, had us drive 45 minutes to a friend’s house to pick up her 'diploma', only to receive a last-minute call from a random girl claiming it wasn't there after all. Random lie anyway, because why would a friend have her new diploma!?
This pattern of deceit was further confirmed when my brother and I checked with the National Student Clearinghouse and found out she wasn’t enrolled since last year and has no diploma from her university, contrary to her claims. Rather than coming clean, Emily’s response was to weave even more complex lies.
On top of all this, she’s lying about big financial moves involving my dad’s friends, like apartments in NYC and buying new houses, which just isolates us more when we can’t follow up on these claims without risking embarrassment.
Our dad is devastated. He’s always been private and protective, and these events have hit him hard. He’s still defending Emily and seems in denial, despite everything. It feels like everything’s falling apart because of Emily’s fabrications. My brother and I aren't speaking with my sister right now, and not speaking to my dad much, after we gave them ultimatums that they ignored.
I suggested family therapy, but that got shut down. I’m at a loss. I want to help my dad and find some way to bridge the gap, but Emily’s presence makes it impossible to even think about staying at his house. I’m genuinely scared of what she might do next given her track record and intensity.
So, what should I do? Is there a way to get through to my dad or to arrange some kind of intervention for Emily without making things worse? How do I find someone who can help us navigate this incredibly tough situation? I'm also open to some questions and perspectives on her outrageous lies.
And before you ask, yes, I know about What Jennifer Did, let's not bring that up!
Thanks for letting me vent. I just want to find some way to bring honesty and peace back to our family.
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2024.05.29 04:13 SituationBig4206 Cyclist-Car Accident

Hope that guy that got cut off by that car at the ARC is okay. That fall looked like it hurt. Also those headphones took a beating. I caught it on my dash cam so let me know if you need proof that the car did not have its turn signal on.
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2024.05.29 04:09 SBLK Sainz P3 Red Flag Situation

I hate to bring it up again and make another post about it, but hey... what else do we have to talk about during a non-race week??!!
So the reasoning for resetting the grid at the restart, as we all know, was because not all of the cars had made it through Sector 1 by the time the red flag came out. That lone car was Zhou who still had not made it to Massenet (turn 3) even though the leaders had already gone through the Nouvelle Chicane (turn 10), Sainz had made it to the hairpin with three tyres and Ocon was almost through the tunnel after his mess.
I understand that the accident was ahead of him, he was being careful and also trying to avoid running over a piece of debris, but HE EVEN GOT PASSED BY THE SAFETY CAR and had to wait for the guys in the safety car to get out his way!!!
I get it that rules are rules and technically it was the right decision, BUT if you are going to be so stringent on the rules, maybe put in a rule that if the only guy not making it through the last checkpoint gets passed by the damn safety car, he doesn't count.
Sorry, the whole thing was just really infuriating to me and when I saw the onboard of Zhou just crawling along I was blown away. It SHOULD HAVE been a McLaren double podium. Especially since Sainz had already received one bonus for not getting a penalty in Qualifying.
https://x.com/f1/status/1795469577884692635?t=Y0LYn-oZwO8OQIP1q4X69A
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2024.05.29 04:06 kaynist help with stella relationship/friendship?

if you saw me in the discord no you didn't
so i wanted to do an identical rerun of my very first playthrough but with a different living situation (i require the evil cat truck), so i had to start a fresh run from the beginning. however, i'm having trouble getting the same outcomes as i did the first time around
right now, i'm specifically having issues getting stella to tell me about the accident at the end of episode 4, and considering i have to fully complete the game in order to get there, i'm getting a little drained so i could use some help. i really could have sworn i did everything basically identical to my first game, but with how complex and subtle the game is, clearly i've done something different somewhere. and google/reddit searches have not been helpful
SO. in simplest terms, what is needed to get a good relationship with stella? i'm not romancing her, and i focus a lot on tabitha (i.e. returning to the estate on night 1, hanging out with her in ep 3), so this comes down mostly to the main game dialogue choices bc i'm not going to be spending extra time with her. i also had taken the car ride with kaneeka to the mines in ep 2.
the only thing i can think that i had done differently was suggesting at dinner that dr kelly might be poisoning reese, which i was told does have a negative impact with her (and after reflection i can see why stella in particular wouldnt like it). i also saw an old post by the devs that texting stella 1-on-1 on day 3 and then not hanging out can have a negative impact, so i'll make sure I don't do that. just looking for more minor things I can do to get the outcome i somehow managed to get with no assistance on my very first run lol
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2024.05.29 04:04 iNotThinkOfaNams Car Accident - Thoughts

Car Accident - Thoughts
Sister says she was driving in the middle lane, and a car made a last second change into her from the right lane. She says the front of their car hit her car on a diagonal. My parents want to know if this is a realistic story given the damage shown here, or if it’s more likely that she ran into something. Thanks guys.
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2024.05.29 04:02 a_m_k2018 Finally got into a accident...

I got t-boned on my passenger's side on a four-way stop intersection while I was 75% through the intersection. I'm fine, though. My elbow is sore a little bit, but everything else is fine. Before you ask, yes, I told insurance that I was doing Instacart, which sucks, and honestly, a tiny bit of me wished I had lied 😂. I had two orders in my car, the first one of which was for a regular, and he literally drove to where I was stopped in the middle of the road and got his stuff, which was really convenient and super nice of him while I was trying to contact the 2nd customer. 2nd customer was, frankly put, a bitch. Only asked about, "How did you get in an accident?" And "When am I getting my stuff?" Like, lady, you ordered one bag of potatoes, you are fine; I'm the one that isn't 😂. Anyway, I got batch pay for both orders, so that was great. I also managed to pull my car over to the side of the road, and a tow truck wasn't needed.
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2024.05.29 04:01 Jbjcjuly Driving anxiety

Hello group! This is my first post . I previously joined my first Reddit group earlier this year for my flying anxiety and was able to cure it and go on a 12 hour flight in March. I am hoping I can overcome my driving anxiety. Where should I start? I used to be able to drive before on the highway etc. about 7 years ago I got into a bad accident and it changed my life you can say for the bad. I suffer from ptsd and anxiety and health issues. I had to get back surgery and it was brutal. Well I was not driving at all until last year very short distances around my home via back streets. Taking my kids to school and going to the supermarket. It’s a major thing because I was not able to drive at all but I feel I just been restricted to around my home. I am terrified to drive on the Main Street and even worst the highway. I just don’t trust myself. I’m scared I will get into another accident. I am able to be in cars as a passenger with people. I can even drive with a someone with me on the Main Street and if I’m feeling brave the highway but not alone. This is my main issue. I work from home due to not being able to drive far places. I get my bachelors degree in December and would really like a job in my fear. This would cause me to drive. This is something I want to do. I do get therapy and I have been able to drive around my home but I’m to scared. Does anyone have a good recommendation for a get over your driving anxiety? If you mad it this far, thank you.
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2024.05.29 03:58 sewkrates Help navigating being non-renewed

So last year I had the worst luck of my life. I’ve driven For 30 years without any accident, then got into two within 8 months of each other. Unfortunately I was at fault for both.
At first my insurance renewed and it only went up $100 a month, so I bought a new car based off of what I thought my future payments would be like.
6 months later and Now progressive dropped me for having two at fault incidents in a 36 month period. I wasn’t expecting this because I was already renewed once after the last accident.
I found a broker and they quoted me almost $700 a month. I can’t afford that and a car payment.
I don’t know anything about car insurance other than to always have it. Up until the last year I never had to deal with it.
What are my options? I’m financing so I need full coverage. Is there an option that I don’t have insurance and just don’t drive it while I pay my car off?
Am I able to trade a car your financing in? And pay for a little peddle pusher with cash so I can get liability only?
Could I possibly put my car on someone else’s insurance? I have a couple people who offered to do that but idk what the reality of that would end up looking like.
I am so lost with how any of this works. Any help would be appreciated.
I’m in Nevada.
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2024.05.29 03:57 findinginsight How can I manage my relationship with my potentially sociopathic sister and repair our now-broken family?

Hi advice,
I’m feeling quite helpless and am hoping for some advice on how to navigate these family problems.
TL;DR: My sister Emily, who has a history of lying, claimed our stepmom Christie was accusing her of dropping out of college and other things, which led to a lot of family stress. Christie recently committed suicide, and it turns out she was right about Emily not being in school. Now, I’m worried about my dad’s emotional state, and my sister’s ongoing lies are making family life toxic. I can’t even stay in the same house as her because I fear for my safety.
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For perspective, my immediate family overview:
My mom and dad divorced when my mom was pregnant with me. My dad left her for my two older brothers' babysitter. I grew up with her as my step mom. There was always some tension between my brothers and her growing up, while I was more of a neutral observer. To be honest, she wasn't the best person but I did come to love her in the end. My dad and stepmom, Christie had one child together, Emily. When I was in high school my older brother passed away in a car accident, which was needless to say devasting for my parents. My oldest brother struggle with extreme drug addiction after that, going to rehab twice. He's doing very well now, with two kids and a wife in Florida. I'm in Chicago with my partner; gay, came out in high school.
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Emily’s always been the golden child, spinning tales that often cast her as the victim or star. Last year, she started telling me these intense stories about her mom / my stepmom Christie, who was truly going through a rough depressive patch mentally. Emily used this depression and painted her as delusional and abusive. Then, Christie tragically took her own life, a decision we believe was heavily influenced by the stress of Emily’s lies about attending college—lies that we only recently discovered were actually true.
At Christie’s funeral, Emily’s behavior was off. She looked like she was dressed for a TV show rather than a funeral, and her emotional breakdown during a speech she barely prepared for felt staged. It was like she enjoyed the drama.
Her past is a complex web of claimed abuses and sexual assaults, many of which have been proven untrue. She’s excellent at manipulating narratives and even now boasts about becoming a CEO from a supposed buy-out of her PR firm (really she's just a freelancer), dropping names like Pauly D and Blake Lively as if they’re everyday business contacts.
The lies escalated in the days following her mother’s death. She claimed she was graduating a year early, was getting her diploma overnighted, that she had been named valedictorian, and that she was supposed to speak at the graduation ceremony. After her diploma didn't show up after a few days and she had excuse after excuse, had us drive 45 minutes to a friend’s house to pick up her 'diploma', only to receive a last-minute call from a random girl claiming it wasn't there after all. Random lie anyway, because why would a friend have her new diploma!?
This pattern of deceit was further confirmed when my brother and I checked with the National Student Clearinghouse and found out she wasn’t enrolled since last year and has no diploma from her university, contrary to her claims. Rather than coming clean, Emily’s response was to weave even more complex lies.
On top of all this, she’s lying about big financial moves involving my dad’s friends, like apartments in NYC and buying new houses, which just isolates us more when we can’t follow up on these claims without risking embarrassment.
Our dad is devastated. He’s always been private and protective, and these events have hit him hard. He’s still defending Emily and seems in denial, despite everything. It feels like everything’s falling apart because of Emily’s fabrications. My brother and I aren't speaking with my sister right now, and not speaking to my dad much, after we gave them ultimatums that they ignored.
I suggested family therapy, but that got shut down. I’m at a loss. I want to help my dad and find some way to bridge the gap, but Emily’s presence makes it impossible to even think about staying at his house. I’m genuinely scared of what she might do next given her track record and intensity.
So, what should I do? Is there a way to get through to my dad or to arrange some kind of intervention for Emily without making things worse? How do I find someone who can help us navigate this incredibly tough situation? I'm also open to some questions and perspectives on her outrageous lies.
And before you ask, yes, I know about What Jennifer Did, let's not bring that up!
Thanks for letting me vent. I just want to find some way to bring honesty and peace back to our family.
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