What sites can you get on at school to listen to music
I got an ear training question that I wanna get some opinions on.
2024.05.15 09:36 grandstankorgan I got an ear training question that I wanna get some opinions on.
So essentially for most of my bass journey I’ve been self taught and had teachers here and there. My technique , speed, and general theory has advanced significantly in comparison to my ability to play by ear and learn by ear. I used tabs a lot for majority of my song learning. So now I’m at the point where I desperately want to train my ear to be on par with my other skills. However at times when I try and learn parts from songs by ear whether it be the bassline, chords, melody or anything. I’m confident with what I transcribed by ear to be correct due to it being very pronounced in the mix. However there comes times in the song when the line I’m learning gets a bit more buried in the mix and I’m not as confident with what I transcribed or if even not even being able to tell at all what’s being played. If you have ran into this same situation what have you done to figure it out? On the contrary in today’s age there are software options that can extract basslines and other parts from a song to show exactly what it is. While this makes transcribing much easier I’m cautious if this would ultimately defeat the purpose of me being able to train my ear correctly and hear parts within music that are buried deep in the mix.
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2024.05.15 09:34 some_random_name1519 Pre-Finale thoughts on Fantasy High: Junior Year
Since it's almost the time for the finale, I have to get my thoughts out there about Fantasy High: Junior Year. Prefacing this by saying that I'm really enjoying the season as-is, and have enjoyed most other D20 seasons as well. Let's just call this whole thing from here on out a spoiler. Spoilers/potential spoilers for all seasons and one-shots of Fantasy High, as well as The Seven, and possibly Pirates of Leviathan (though probably not the latter since it's fairly peripheral).
1) Problems with the timeline
There are massive timeline issues with the overlap of all of the in-world seasons, primarily The Seven, but also FHSY for some aspects. • The Seven takes place in this same year (Junior year for Zelda, Danielle, and Ostentatia), beginning with the first day of classes (Brennan narrates that it has been "about a year and a half" since the events of the Prompocalypse, so that works out to Junior Year for the Bad Kids too) • In The Seven, Sam establishes (multiple times) that Zelda has a current boyfriend, and that it is Gorgug; this makes the whole "here's a box of your stuff, I'm breaking up with you" thing makes no sense
2) Arthur Aguefort
Augefort being on a time-travel holiday with Ayda presents and causes all sorts of problems. • Arthur is present and reachable at the school at the beginning of The Seven's Junior year, as well as multiple times throughout, so how is it possible that he is not present while The Bad Kids complete this same year in time? • If the answer to that is Chronomancy, and he just redid a year then this brings up its own set of issues.
3) The Night Yorb
Really? They just...sealed it in the roof of the van and that's it? It feels like that was too convenient and abrupt.
4) Pretty much everything school-related this year
Seriously...why is the major focus on academics and downtime? Don't get me wrong, I'm still enjoying the season, but it seems like a really odd thing to focus on so heavily, specifically with regard to all the other related seasons.
5) Porter & Jace
OK, I'll admit that I do really enjoy this twist. However, as much as Brennan has said that he has been planning this for 5 years, it seems odd that he would deviate from whatever plan he originally had so heavily. Now, certainly they had no way of knowing if Dimension 20 would take off, so I can understand if the next 3 years of school weren't fleshed out in his world building, however there are very clear breadcrumbs throughout Freshman Year that lead to things which happen in Sophomore Year (eg. the Nightmare King is referred to by Fig in a very early episode - possibly episode 1? - not just at the end when the Crown goes missing). With this all being said, and taking into account that things will never be 100% concrete until the cast actually interacts with a session, it seems odd that an entire BBG would be axed in favor of a couple of teachers who are only bad because Emily hyperfocused on one of them.
6) What I think is actually going on
I think we are dealing with something dimensional/alternate-life related. Something à la "The Inner Light" from TNG. I'm guessing that the Night Yorb situation didn't actually happen the way we think/have been told, and that this has essentially been a "teachable moment"/potential end of life/what might have been thing.
I guess I'll find out if I'm totally hearing zebras instead of horses soon. See y'all at Bazrar's
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1) Problems with the timeline
There are massive timeline issues with the overlap of all of the in-world seasons, primarily The Seven, but also FHSY for some aspects. • The Seven takes place in this same year (Junior year for Zelda, Danielle, and Ostentatia), beginning with the first day of classes (Brennan narrates that it has been "about a year and a half" since the events of the Prompocalypse, so that works out to Junior Year for the Bad Kids too) • In The Seven, Sam establishes (multiple times) that Zelda has a current boyfriend, and that it is Gorgug; this makes the whole "here's a box of your stuff, I'm breaking up with you" thing makes no sense
2) Arthur Aguefort
Augefort being on a time-travel holiday with Ayda presents and causes all sorts of problems. • Arthur is present and reachable at the school at the beginning of The Seven's Junior year, as well as multiple times throughout, so how is it possible that he is not present while The Bad Kids complete this same year in time? • If the answer to that is Chronomancy, and he just redid a year then this brings up its own set of issues.
3) The Night Yorb
Really? They just...sealed it in the roof of the van and that's it? It feels like that was too convenient and abrupt.
4) Pretty much everything school-related this year
Seriously...why is the major focus on academics and downtime? Don't get me wrong, I'm still enjoying the season, but it seems like a really odd thing to focus on so heavily, specifically with regard to all the other related seasons.
5) Porter & Jace
OK, I'll admit that I do really enjoy this twist. However, as much as Brennan has said that he has been planning this for 5 years, it seems odd that he would deviate from whatever plan he originally had so heavily. Now, certainly they had no way of knowing if Dimension 20 would take off, so I can understand if the next 3 years of school weren't fleshed out in his world building, however there are very clear breadcrumbs throughout Freshman Year that lead to things which happen in Sophomore Year (eg. the Nightmare King is referred to by Fig in a very early episode - possibly episode 1? - not just at the end when the Crown goes missing). With this all being said, and taking into account that things will never be 100% concrete until the cast actually interacts with a session, it seems odd that an entire BBG would be axed in favor of a couple of teachers who are only bad because Emily hyperfocused on one of them.
6) What I think is actually going on
I think we are dealing with something dimensional/alternate-life related. Something à la "The Inner Light" from TNG. I'm guessing that the Night Yorb situation didn't actually happen the way we think/have been told, and that this has essentially been a "teachable moment"/potential end of life/what might have been thing.
I guess I'll find out if I'm totally hearing zebras instead of horses soon. See y'all at Bazrar's
2024.05.15 09:34 Alarmed-Meeting-2926 AITA? Tw-miscarriage
This will be a long post but I’m going to try my hardest to make it shorter!
I (30F) have been with my partner (28M) for 10 years. I fell pregnant 3 years into the relationship and we now have a 7 year old boy with autism. During the newborn stage my partner worked A LOT and went to college to learn a new trade to support us (he is now an electrician that works 12 hour shifts, 7 days on 4 days off, days and nights), so I have always been on my own a lot. During the newborn stage my partner never got up with our son, never fed him, bathed him etc. I devolved post natal depression, I have a history of mental health issues so this wasn’t a surprise to me, I just expected a bit more help. I went back to work once my MAT leave was up and started to feel better and more “Mel.
Fast forward to 3 years ago, I had a miscarriage and was in hospital with sepsis and needed a D&C due to the hospital missing “remains” I had in my womb. This then led to a mental breakdown and I was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder, PTSD, anxiety and OCD. During this time I was still on my own a lot despite begging not to be, still caring for my child on my own whilst hallucinating and being paranoid. I was still getting up and doing everything around the home and all the childcare despite now being on antipsychotics, the last time I had a lay in was 3 years ago when I was in hospital. My partner stays in bed till 10:30/11 on the days he’s not working, I do everything around the home, cooking, cleaning, school lunches, ironing, walking the dog, supporting and bringing up my autistic child, food shopping, baths etc. Every single thing you can think of apart from going to work I do. I get my nails done once a month, which I can’t really afford time wise, them 2 hours I’m out the home I could be doing the jobs I need to do around the home, he won’t do them just because I’m out, he’ll leave them for me to do when I’m home, including walking the dog. He won’t cook dinner, he wouldn’t even know what to put in his child’s packed lunch box and he refuses to feed the dog because it’s raw meat and won’t touch it.
Whilst I agree that me not going to work is a luxury (I was made redundant and recovering from a mental breakdown; I would not have been able to work), I feel more overwhelmed now than I did before I went to work. He says me not working is why I should do everything around the home, but I also done everything around the home when I worked?
He is always so irritated, shouts at our child if he is having a meltdown or sensory issues, struggles to keep his patience with him and doesn’t have much of a relationship (I never get time on my own to have a bath etc because I am my sons comfort and soul carer). He will either sit on his phone or sit on his PlayStation in the bedroom, eventually be irritated with that, shout and scare my dog and just ruin the mood in the home. I bring all of this up to him but he is like a petulant child and tbh I end up ignoring him because I cannot be bothered with it.
As someone who experiences MH issues I have asked him if he feels depressed and he says no, I ask for a reason as to why he’s to angry all the time and he says he’s just tired (understandable, I mean so am I but I’m not angry and I’m still able to parent).
The last 2 weeks I feel like I’ve logged out mentally in terms of my relationship and I told him this. On top of everything I do around the home, he finds it “weird” that we don’t have sex. I am treated like a maid, a cook, a cleaner, a child care provider and a dog walker, I’m not adding a sex worker to the list. There is no romance, no date nights as he is always working, and the odd occasion he isn’t working our date nights include me, him and his phone. I refuse to have sex with someone that doesn’t care about me enough to help me ease the load I have on top of me, who is irritated all the time and lazy when it comes to parenting and his home.
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I (30F) have been with my partner (28M) for 10 years. I fell pregnant 3 years into the relationship and we now have a 7 year old boy with autism. During the newborn stage my partner worked A LOT and went to college to learn a new trade to support us (he is now an electrician that works 12 hour shifts, 7 days on 4 days off, days and nights), so I have always been on my own a lot. During the newborn stage my partner never got up with our son, never fed him, bathed him etc. I devolved post natal depression, I have a history of mental health issues so this wasn’t a surprise to me, I just expected a bit more help. I went back to work once my MAT leave was up and started to feel better and more “Mel.
Fast forward to 3 years ago, I had a miscarriage and was in hospital with sepsis and needed a D&C due to the hospital missing “remains” I had in my womb. This then led to a mental breakdown and I was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder, PTSD, anxiety and OCD. During this time I was still on my own a lot despite begging not to be, still caring for my child on my own whilst hallucinating and being paranoid. I was still getting up and doing everything around the home and all the childcare despite now being on antipsychotics, the last time I had a lay in was 3 years ago when I was in hospital. My partner stays in bed till 10:30/11 on the days he’s not working, I do everything around the home, cooking, cleaning, school lunches, ironing, walking the dog, supporting and bringing up my autistic child, food shopping, baths etc. Every single thing you can think of apart from going to work I do. I get my nails done once a month, which I can’t really afford time wise, them 2 hours I’m out the home I could be doing the jobs I need to do around the home, he won’t do them just because I’m out, he’ll leave them for me to do when I’m home, including walking the dog. He won’t cook dinner, he wouldn’t even know what to put in his child’s packed lunch box and he refuses to feed the dog because it’s raw meat and won’t touch it.
Whilst I agree that me not going to work is a luxury (I was made redundant and recovering from a mental breakdown; I would not have been able to work), I feel more overwhelmed now than I did before I went to work. He says me not working is why I should do everything around the home, but I also done everything around the home when I worked?
He is always so irritated, shouts at our child if he is having a meltdown or sensory issues, struggles to keep his patience with him and doesn’t have much of a relationship (I never get time on my own to have a bath etc because I am my sons comfort and soul carer). He will either sit on his phone or sit on his PlayStation in the bedroom, eventually be irritated with that, shout and scare my dog and just ruin the mood in the home. I bring all of this up to him but he is like a petulant child and tbh I end up ignoring him because I cannot be bothered with it.
As someone who experiences MH issues I have asked him if he feels depressed and he says no, I ask for a reason as to why he’s to angry all the time and he says he’s just tired (understandable, I mean so am I but I’m not angry and I’m still able to parent).
The last 2 weeks I feel like I’ve logged out mentally in terms of my relationship and I told him this. On top of everything I do around the home, he finds it “weird” that we don’t have sex. I am treated like a maid, a cook, a cleaner, a child care provider and a dog walker, I’m not adding a sex worker to the list. There is no romance, no date nights as he is always working, and the odd occasion he isn’t working our date nights include me, him and his phone. I refuse to have sex with someone that doesn’t care about me enough to help me ease the load I have on top of me, who is irritated all the time and lazy when it comes to parenting and his home.
2024.05.15 09:33 Alieninvasi0n Our (preadoptive) daughter grew 3 grade levels in reading in one year!
Pretty much what the title says. I just need to tell our story to people who might be able to relate to hers and our situation a little bit. I often feel so alone and like nobody understands the intensity of what we have been experiencing over the past year.
Our daughter is in 6th grade and has been with us just over a year. We have no other children --we knew her from when my sister had fostered her a few years ago, and we just loved her. When we heard she hadn't been able to reunify with her mom we decided to go through the process to get licensed so we could adopt her. She's lived in 8 different foster homes, and her last placement made it very clear they would not be adopting her. She is definitely bonding to us, she's very affectionate, and soaks up all the snuggles and love she can get, which can be a lot at 12 years old but we know she needs it.
A little back story though--we have been going through hell for the past 6 months with anger and emotional outbursts during which she sometimes becomes unsafe and physically aggressive. After her outbursts she cries, tells us she's so sorry and she doesn't want to be this way, we talk through it, forgive and repair, only for her to turn around and do it again the next day. She has told us that she knows she's not going anywhere but when she gets upset, something inside tells her that we are just going to get rid of her anyways so she might as well just ruin it (by screaming, making messes, throwing things, etc). She doesn't act like this at school or treat anyone else this way. She does argue with teachers and classmates some but that's about it. We've had so many people tell us that she obviously feels safe with us to feel her feelings and let it all out, but that's not much consolation when you're being screamed at, sworn at, hit, etc. by someone that you've poured your heart into. It's really easy to get discouraged and feel like there is no point and that she's getting nowhere.
So back to the school thing..She's always been years behind grade level in all her subjects. She also has iq scores in the low 80s, is diagnosed with ADHD, learning disability, PTSD, ODD, and RAD. I've often thought that her low scores had a lot to do with her struggling with all aspects of testing and were not a true reflection of her abilities. At home we see how depending on her emotional stability and mood at any given moment she can be more or less logical, focused, etc. and on a good day, she often surprises us with the things she says and does. She still avoids reading at all costs but I've been noticing that when we are baking/following a recipe or she reads a sign or whatever, she is doing much better.
Well, low and behold, yesterday she had a great morning, went to school and took her through year NWEA reading assessment, and gained 36 points from her winter assessment. She went from a 1st-3rd grade level at the beginning of the year depending on who you ask to (for the first time in her life) meeting state standards for her grade level!!! Words cannot describe how proud I am I literally start sobbing again every time I think about it. She needed this win so much, she came home so confident and we had such an amazing day!!
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Our daughter is in 6th grade and has been with us just over a year. We have no other children --we knew her from when my sister had fostered her a few years ago, and we just loved her. When we heard she hadn't been able to reunify with her mom we decided to go through the process to get licensed so we could adopt her. She's lived in 8 different foster homes, and her last placement made it very clear they would not be adopting her. She is definitely bonding to us, she's very affectionate, and soaks up all the snuggles and love she can get, which can be a lot at 12 years old but we know she needs it.
A little back story though--we have been going through hell for the past 6 months with anger and emotional outbursts during which she sometimes becomes unsafe and physically aggressive. After her outbursts she cries, tells us she's so sorry and she doesn't want to be this way, we talk through it, forgive and repair, only for her to turn around and do it again the next day. She has told us that she knows she's not going anywhere but when she gets upset, something inside tells her that we are just going to get rid of her anyways so she might as well just ruin it (by screaming, making messes, throwing things, etc). She doesn't act like this at school or treat anyone else this way. She does argue with teachers and classmates some but that's about it. We've had so many people tell us that she obviously feels safe with us to feel her feelings and let it all out, but that's not much consolation when you're being screamed at, sworn at, hit, etc. by someone that you've poured your heart into. It's really easy to get discouraged and feel like there is no point and that she's getting nowhere.
So back to the school thing..She's always been years behind grade level in all her subjects. She also has iq scores in the low 80s, is diagnosed with ADHD, learning disability, PTSD, ODD, and RAD. I've often thought that her low scores had a lot to do with her struggling with all aspects of testing and were not a true reflection of her abilities. At home we see how depending on her emotional stability and mood at any given moment she can be more or less logical, focused, etc. and on a good day, she often surprises us with the things she says and does. She still avoids reading at all costs but I've been noticing that when we are baking/following a recipe or she reads a sign or whatever, she is doing much better.
Well, low and behold, yesterday she had a great morning, went to school and took her through year NWEA reading assessment, and gained 36 points from her winter assessment. She went from a 1st-3rd grade level at the beginning of the year depending on who you ask to (for the first time in her life) meeting state standards for her grade level!!! Words cannot describe how proud I am I literally start sobbing again every time I think about it. She needed this win so much, she came home so confident and we had such an amazing day!!
2024.05.15 09:32 Suzuki-3 Am I just an autistic ISFP? (Aspie INTJ, sx5)
TL;DR, mental health conditions messing with cognitive functions?
In 2012, I was diagnosed with Asperger's at age 8 right before DSM-5 was published. Currently, I also feel like I am dealing with undiagnosed DPDR (Depersonalization-Derealization Disorder), as well as a minor form of DPD (Dependent Personality Disorder). (Asperger's only diagnosed). ...annnd an EXTRA, I am also thinking if Cyclothymia is also involved.
I am completely certain with all of my typology, except my tritype and MBTI. Some bonuses are Melancholic-Phlegmatic, rXUA[I] It's often said everywhere I look that an INTJ can not have EII and FELV.
(Probably a mess below, so please prepare)
When I was 11-12, I was a lot more extroverted and looked like a type 8, when my friend got into fights in school, I took the "You need to get through me, before you get to him." type of role. (Se inconsistency?)
I am inside my room basically 24/7, I have a bit of a sugar addiction, I struggle with exercise, general physical activity and I am still for most of the day. Though I am starting to pick up going for walks. (Se-grip or secondary Se?). I jump at random loud sounds from my family, and sometimes struggle to sleep when our neighbours play music, even when it's extremely quiet because the bass really gets to me, however back in 2022(?), I slept on a bed with no blanket, with a running truck right outside my room.
When I have disagreements with someone, I can be a prude and despise them based on their lack of morality, and it eithers leads me to withdrawing or stealing the INFJ door slam, though I notice myself occasionally letting them back into my life, and I don't know why I do that, it's like I just do it without thinking on it, only to regret it or continue to resent the person.
I can struggle coming to conclusions with my decisions, and often have someone else do it for me (DPD?), I am socially anxious, and get my friend or family to buy things at shops in place for me, so I can avoid interacting with shopkeepers, etc, to stop me from being anxious. When anxious, it's more of a feeling than thought. Because of Asperger's, I can't look at people in the eyes, including most of my family members too, it feels like my soul is being pierced with my subconsciousness telling me to look away at all costs. When I seek help, I tend feel like my family is incompetent, except for my friends or former counsellor.
I always look down, walking or sitting, with either a poker face or death stare, everyone would always ask me randomly if something was up, I would always be indecisive of what to answer, often it going unanswered, but this has led to me being comfortable with opening up, and asking for help, (DPD, or sx5?)
On the inside, I am often guided by my emotional atmosphere inside my head, inner world even. When listening to a song that gets to me, I just can't sit still, internally I can be in the moment, excited and inspired, without showing it at all on the outside, like a robot. I have some impulsive sides to me (Asperger's?), which has lead me thinking my tritype is 471, mixed with the idealism and high morality, this has got me thinking on Cyclothymia. Also a touch of OCPD included with the 1 fix... overall Cluster C.
Within the realm of empathy, I often offer logical solutions, offering guides instead of emotional support, though I offer emotional support about the times out of 3/10, it's occasional. It often feels heavily embarrassing and exposing to me when I try to be emotionally supportive, it's also the same when I want to show my gratitude, I would rather text a thank you, than say it in person because of how difficult it feels to do so, but deep down I know I would really like to, I am slowly but surely making progress on this.
I really feel like I am an INXX, but at the same time I think about how I am a very emotional, and intense INTJ who romanticizes things, or a robotic Feeler type. the cognitive functions of INTJ and ISFP are the same, and I relate to them them the most compared to every other cognitive function stacks. If I could invent my MBTI type, it would be: Fi, Ni, Te, Se.
If someone read this big mess, I really appreciate it, this has been eating at me. I hope this all made sense.
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In 2012, I was diagnosed with Asperger's at age 8 right before DSM-5 was published. Currently, I also feel like I am dealing with undiagnosed DPDR (Depersonalization-Derealization Disorder), as well as a minor form of DPD (Dependent Personality Disorder). (Asperger's only diagnosed). ...annnd an EXTRA, I am also thinking if Cyclothymia is also involved.
I am completely certain with all of my typology, except my tritype and MBTI. Some bonuses are Melancholic-Phlegmatic, rXUA[I] It's often said everywhere I look that an INTJ can not have EII and FELV.
(Probably a mess below, so please prepare)
When I was 11-12, I was a lot more extroverted and looked like a type 8, when my friend got into fights in school, I took the "You need to get through me, before you get to him." type of role. (Se inconsistency?)
I am inside my room basically 24/7, I have a bit of a sugar addiction, I struggle with exercise, general physical activity and I am still for most of the day. Though I am starting to pick up going for walks. (Se-grip or secondary Se?). I jump at random loud sounds from my family, and sometimes struggle to sleep when our neighbours play music, even when it's extremely quiet because the bass really gets to me, however back in 2022(?), I slept on a bed with no blanket, with a running truck right outside my room.
When I have disagreements with someone, I can be a prude and despise them based on their lack of morality, and it eithers leads me to withdrawing or stealing the INFJ door slam, though I notice myself occasionally letting them back into my life, and I don't know why I do that, it's like I just do it without thinking on it, only to regret it or continue to resent the person.
I can struggle coming to conclusions with my decisions, and often have someone else do it for me (DPD?), I am socially anxious, and get my friend or family to buy things at shops in place for me, so I can avoid interacting with shopkeepers, etc, to stop me from being anxious. When anxious, it's more of a feeling than thought. Because of Asperger's, I can't look at people in the eyes, including most of my family members too, it feels like my soul is being pierced with my subconsciousness telling me to look away at all costs. When I seek help, I tend feel like my family is incompetent, except for my friends or former counsellor.
I always look down, walking or sitting, with either a poker face or death stare, everyone would always ask me randomly if something was up, I would always be indecisive of what to answer, often it going unanswered, but this has led to me being comfortable with opening up, and asking for help, (DPD, or sx5?)
On the inside, I am often guided by my emotional atmosphere inside my head, inner world even. When listening to a song that gets to me, I just can't sit still, internally I can be in the moment, excited and inspired, without showing it at all on the outside, like a robot. I have some impulsive sides to me (Asperger's?), which has lead me thinking my tritype is 471, mixed with the idealism and high morality, this has got me thinking on Cyclothymia. Also a touch of OCPD included with the 1 fix... overall Cluster C.
Within the realm of empathy, I often offer logical solutions, offering guides instead of emotional support, though I offer emotional support about the times out of 3/10, it's occasional. It often feels heavily embarrassing and exposing to me when I try to be emotionally supportive, it's also the same when I want to show my gratitude, I would rather text a thank you, than say it in person because of how difficult it feels to do so, but deep down I know I would really like to, I am slowly but surely making progress on this.
I really feel like I am an INXX, but at the same time I think about how I am a very emotional, and intense INTJ who romanticizes things, or a robotic Feeler type. the cognitive functions of INTJ and ISFP are the same, and I relate to them them the most compared to every other cognitive function stacks. If I could invent my MBTI type, it would be: Fi, Ni, Te, Se.
If someone read this big mess, I really appreciate it, this has been eating at me. I hope this all made sense.
2024.05.15 09:32 Bloom-ing-9502 How i revamped my style with a little inspiration and a dash of creativity
Hey fashion enthusiasts! I've got a story that I think a lot of you can relate to. So, for the longest time, I felt like my wardrobe was a bit... meh. You know the feeling, right? Every morning was like a rerun of 'What Not to Wear,' and I was the uninspired star of the show. 😅 But then, something changed. I stumbled upon this subreddit and it was like a breath of fresh air for my stale closet. The stylegrids here are nothing short of art, and they inspired me to experiment with my own outfits.
I started laying out my clothes the night before, mixing and matching pieces I'd never dared to pair before. I even threw in some accessories I'd forgotten I had! The results? Let's just say I've been getting compliments left and right, and my confidence is through the roof. But here's the kicker – as I was curating my outfits, I realized I had an eye for this sort of thing. It sparked an idea, and before I knew it, I was working on a little project of my own. It's called Dashy.so, and while it's not a fashion site, it's definitely a product of the creativity and inspiration I found right here in this community.
So, for anyone feeling stuck in a style rut, my advice is to dive into the grids, play with your wardrobe, and let your creativity lead the way. You never know where it might take you – it took me to starting my own project! And if you're curious, you can check it out at https://dashy.so. Who knows, maybe it'll inspire your next big idea too! Keep slaying with those stylegrids, folks!
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I started laying out my clothes the night before, mixing and matching pieces I'd never dared to pair before. I even threw in some accessories I'd forgotten I had! The results? Let's just say I've been getting compliments left and right, and my confidence is through the roof. But here's the kicker – as I was curating my outfits, I realized I had an eye for this sort of thing. It sparked an idea, and before I knew it, I was working on a little project of my own. It's called Dashy.so, and while it's not a fashion site, it's definitely a product of the creativity and inspiration I found right here in this community.
So, for anyone feeling stuck in a style rut, my advice is to dive into the grids, play with your wardrobe, and let your creativity lead the way. You never know where it might take you – it took me to starting my own project! And if you're curious, you can check it out at https://dashy.so. Who knows, maybe it'll inspire your next big idea too! Keep slaying with those stylegrids, folks!
2024.05.15 09:30 KrizzyPeezy I 30M been usually finding people like 22F in PH online who fall in love with me the more I don't talk? And gets mad if I don't say "I love you?" Even though I stated clearly I am not their BF and no feelings.
I was making friends with a girl 22F from the Philippines in an app where you meet global friends. I am 30M. It's not really for dating but it can be. She 22F told me she recently broke up with a guy she hates because he cheated on her with other women and assumes every guy is like that.
In the first time we video called as friends which was the first day I talked to her after moving apps, her mother randomly grabbed her phone and ended up talking to me. I was being nice and respectful and then the mother was like "where do you live? What do you do? Can I see what your house looks like?" I told her it's very late it's 4am it's very dark I can't right now I'm about to sleep. Blah
After I responded with those questions a bit nervously, the mother stopped talking and she told her mom that I'm just her friend. After that I got turned off from that... I told the girl that it was pretty rude and that I don't like that.
Then after that she been calling me cute and handsome in tagalog non-stop. Her moms been asking about me a lot too. She been talking to me like I'm her boyfriend and future husband. I'm just her friend and I keep telling her that I don't have feelings for her. I barely talk to her yet she fills my dm's with messages iloveyou iloveyou iloooooveyouuuuu and paragraphs saying how much she'll wait for me to fall in love with her and that she is willing to wait to meet me. She doesn't even know what she wants to do in life and doesn't even go to school.. which makes it even harder because there's no way I'm going to meet her soon. I am not able to go there either. She said her mother is controlling her saying that she doesnt want her to go to school and in the phone call that day her mom said "shes staying here" even though I didn't say anything. Keep in mind I'm an introvert so I didnt ask anything to the mom. Lol
After that I haven't been speaking much but slowly less and less each day so she will probably lose interest. I just only want to be friends...
She told me she doesn't do anything right now. She is very poor and just stays at home. Gets really mad if I'm online and I don't message her back. Gets clingy if she sees another girl comment my photos or post and questions it. She even says "I know youre not my boyfriend and just a friend but I looooove you"... then gets mad at me if I don't say it back and forces me to say it. Then she unsends her messages if I don't say the same thing back to her.
She is really nice to me but I don't want to make her cry. I don't have the same feelings for her and I don't want to force it on myself to love someone I don't know. I already told her. She gets mad if I'm talking to others even old friends even dudes! Gets mad I'm not giving her my whole attention even though I'm single.
It seems like the less I talk the more she falls for me???
She keeps telling me she doesnt want to be hurt by me and she wants to not be an option. She keeps repeating herself. I keep telling her how I am feeling and I don't want to say I love you because I only want to be friends. She gets mad. She wants me to tell her everything I'm going to do every day even though I am not her boyfriend and gets mad when I don't.
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In the first time we video called as friends which was the first day I talked to her after moving apps, her mother randomly grabbed her phone and ended up talking to me. I was being nice and respectful and then the mother was like "where do you live? What do you do? Can I see what your house looks like?" I told her it's very late it's 4am it's very dark I can't right now I'm about to sleep. Blah
After I responded with those questions a bit nervously, the mother stopped talking and she told her mom that I'm just her friend. After that I got turned off from that... I told the girl that it was pretty rude and that I don't like that.
Then after that she been calling me cute and handsome in tagalog non-stop. Her moms been asking about me a lot too. She been talking to me like I'm her boyfriend and future husband. I'm just her friend and I keep telling her that I don't have feelings for her. I barely talk to her yet she fills my dm's with messages iloveyou iloveyou iloooooveyouuuuu and paragraphs saying how much she'll wait for me to fall in love with her and that she is willing to wait to meet me. She doesn't even know what she wants to do in life and doesn't even go to school.. which makes it even harder because there's no way I'm going to meet her soon. I am not able to go there either. She said her mother is controlling her saying that she doesnt want her to go to school and in the phone call that day her mom said "shes staying here" even though I didn't say anything. Keep in mind I'm an introvert so I didnt ask anything to the mom. Lol
After that I haven't been speaking much but slowly less and less each day so she will probably lose interest. I just only want to be friends...
She told me she doesn't do anything right now. She is very poor and just stays at home. Gets really mad if I'm online and I don't message her back. Gets clingy if she sees another girl comment my photos or post and questions it. She even says "I know youre not my boyfriend and just a friend but I looooove you"... then gets mad at me if I don't say it back and forces me to say it. Then she unsends her messages if I don't say the same thing back to her.
She is really nice to me but I don't want to make her cry. I don't have the same feelings for her and I don't want to force it on myself to love someone I don't know. I already told her. She gets mad if I'm talking to others even old friends even dudes! Gets mad I'm not giving her my whole attention even though I'm single.
It seems like the less I talk the more she falls for me???
She keeps telling me she doesnt want to be hurt by me and she wants to not be an option. She keeps repeating herself. I keep telling her how I am feeling and I don't want to say I love you because I only want to be friends. She gets mad. She wants me to tell her everything I'm going to do every day even though I am not her boyfriend and gets mad when I don't.
2024.05.15 09:30 propertylisthubseo City Center Apartments - Property List Hub
City center apartments are frequently considered the greatest buy-to-lets, City center apartments are frequently considered the greatest buy-to-lets, but are they still a wise investment? Here, we’ll examine the benefits and drawbacks of this specific property type.
Are City Center Apartments Still The Best Btl Investments In 2023? 8
Although many people prefer to relocate to a city, only some are suited to city living. It goes considerably quicker and significantly differs from life in a small town or the suburbs. Before leaving the suburbs for the big city lights, you must weigh the benefits and drawbacks of living in a major metropolis, as with any place.
Are City Center Apartments Still The Best Btl Investments In 2023? 9
benefits of residing in a city
Although city life has drawbacks, it makes up for them with all it offers. Large cities are important cultural hubs with thriving music and art scenes, a vast range of cuisine, additional attractions like museums, sporting events like ball games and concerts, and a diverse population sharing the urban lifestyle.
2. Activities/ Night Life. You probably know your town very well and have done about everything there is to do if you have lived there for ten or more years. Even if you live in a major city for ten years, you won’t be able to take advantage of everything it has to offer. In a big city, there is always something to do to keep individuals from growing bored with their diverse interests. Most cities provide exciting nightlife, various cuisines to sample, shows of all kinds, museums, landmarks, parks, festivals, sporting events, and more. There are many options in big cities to join the scene if you are a musician, visual artist, or performer.
3. Public Transportation. The public transportation system is a decent alternative to driving your own vehicle and navigating big cities’ traffic and parking issues. You can go where you need to go using trains, subways, buses, taxis, and ride-sharing vehicles in cities. You can avoid the hassle of driving by using one of the many relatively reasonable public transit options, such as the bus or train. In most big cities, it’s possible to live without a car.
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4. Big Events. Major cities host the largest events, including sporting competitions, concerts, festivals, and art openings. You don’t need to make the long commutes to and from the suburbs to attend a concert or a baseball game.
5. Share Experience. The fact that everyone in a large metropolis with millions of residents comes from varied backgrounds and experiences city life similarly can be incredibly reassuring. Large cities are friendlier than most people think, and if you frequent the same spots and engage in the same pursuits, you’ll rapidly meet new individuals who share your interests and likely move there for similar reasons to yours.
7. Free Activities. There are numerous free things to do when planned effectively, even if many activities are normally more expensive due to the greater overhead costs. You can spend the entire day keeping occupied for free by going to the park, window shopping, touring museums on free days, and taking in the sights downtown. Even though you won’t be spending any money, you will undoubtedly spend time at these breathtaking locations and maximize your urban experience.
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8. Higher Salary. Employers are typically prepared to pay extra despite the high cost of living in the city. This is why many suburban residents commute into the city for a better wage while still taking advantage of the low cost of living.
9. More Jobs Available. Companies dominate city towers, so going without a job is difficult. However, locating one that pays your high rent could be challenging. But a city with many businesses also has many job prospects. You’re likely to find one you adore. According to statistics, those who live in major cities have access to more job prospects than those who live in the suburbs or smaller towns.
10. Close to Restaurants. In cities, there is always a need for fine dining. Within a mile or two, you can find a cuisine you appreciate, from fast food franchises to fine dining restos.
Although the city’s dining cost is typically greater due to increased rent, many restaurants offer lunch and supper deals and have food vendors available. You’ll need to research to take advantage of the best bargains.
1. High Cost of Living. When people consider moving to a city, the increased cost of living is usually the first drawback they consider. Ordinary living costs like rent and utilities tend to be higher in big cities, and you can have additional costs like parking permits and laundry that you wouldn’t have in the suburbs. Major cities also have higher prices for gasoline, alcohol, food, and tobacco items.
2. Noise. Major cities typically have higher noise levels than the suburbs. Cities produce greater noise due to increased traffic, more people, trains, and neighboring airports with noisy jets flying in and out. A neighborhood may become noisier and more crowded due to special events like concerts and sporting events.
3. Limited Space. Downsizing your living area is nearly always required when moving from the suburbs to the city. Most people reside in flats in big cities; in some places, the apartments might be smaller. Having an outdoor area like a patio or yard is also uncommon. Homes with decent-sized yards are available in big cities but are significantly more expensive than homes in the suburbs. If you want to live in a city, you must be okay with your neighbors being on the other side of your walls in an apartment complex.
4. Limited Parking Space. Parking in a big city is an enormous nuisance compared to the suburbs. In the suburbs, parking is permitted in driveways and on residential streets, and most companies offer parking lots for patrons to utilize. Parking is only sometimes guaranteed in large cities. Streets with free parking quickly fill up because certain residential streets only allow permit parking, which requires you to purchase a permit. Some apartments have a designated parking place, albeit they are uncommon. Also, it is uncommon for businesses to have parking lots, so you will probably have to pay to park somewhere on the street, possibly even a few streets from where you need to go.
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5. Higher Auto-Vehicle Insurance Premiums. Congested city life will increase your chance of accidents if you must have a car and live in a city. As a result, city residents will pay a greater insurance premium than those who live in the suburbs.
6. Increasing Crime Rates. You can bet on urban locations to be riskier than smaller communities, even if some cities have higher crime rates than others. Crime increases with population.
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Why City Center Apartments (Can’t) Make Great Investments
Here are the primary factors that have contributed to new city center flats making excellent buy-to-let investments over time:Are City Center Apartments Still The Best Btl Investments In 2023? 8
- City center apartments are frequently affordable. Apartments in metropolitan areas are frequently less expensive per square foot than comparable homes in suburban areas.
- Apartments in the city center frequently have high letting yields. Even though city apartments frequently have higher rentals than suburban homes, the yields can still be higher.
- Those that prefer to live in urban areas and have easy access to public transportation, as opposed to commuting, frequently have a high demand for city-center apartments. People frequently rent rather than buy in city centers since they may want to stay there for a while.
- In city centers, there are many different renting options. Apartments in the city center can be rented to professionals, roommates, and students. They can also be used as short-term rentals or serviced lodging.
- Renting in the city center is a simple buy-to-let venture to own and manage. These may qualify as “hands-free” investments. A managing agent is responsible for the building’s upkeep, common areas, and grounds. (There are typically service fees to pay.)
- Investing in a city-center apartment development offers a variety of options. Compared to houses on the resale market, new flats are much simpler to find and purchase. Another scalable investment possibility is new construction. You can purchase one, a few, or several brand-new apartments.
- Newly constructed flats in city centers are frequently seen in areas undergoing regeneration and renovation. These neighborhoods frequently receive investments, which can raise property values as the area develops.
- More space to build new structures in some city centers, such as old ones. The potential for price growth is good, and any newly available properties may be in high demand. As implied by the name, new-build apartments are brand-new. They are frequently highly well-liked by tenants because they contain the newest amenities and cutting-edge designs. Also, new homes require little to no care in the future, saving investors money on ongoing expenses.
- The most energy-efficient properties are typically newly constructed. They are also well-liked by renters due to their cheap operating expenses. The minimal energy efficiency standards for buy-to-let properties should be readily met by investors purchasing brand-new apartments, both now and in the future.
Residing Outside of Burbs and Small Towns
Many people who have always wanted to live in a big city eventually give in to its pull and discover themselves in a much more populated and concentrated location than they did in the suburbs.Although many people prefer to relocate to a city, only some are suited to city living. It goes considerably quicker and significantly differs from life in a small town or the suburbs. Before leaving the suburbs for the big city lights, you must weigh the benefits and drawbacks of living in a major metropolis, as with any place.
Are City Center Apartments Still The Best Btl Investments In 2023? 9
benefits of residing in a city
Although city life has drawbacks, it makes up for them with all it offers. Large cities are important cultural hubs with thriving music and art scenes, a vast range of cuisine, additional attractions like museums, sporting events like ball games and concerts, and a diverse population sharing the urban lifestyle.
The Benefits of Living in a City
1. Meeting New Faces. Everywhere you go, you will meet new people. Nevertheless, in a metropolis, where a variety of people come from all over the world, the experience is different. A city also has a larger population. Thus you will frequently run into new people. It can be energizing and enlightening to meet and converse with new people who have had very diverse life experiences from your own.2. Activities/ Night Life. You probably know your town very well and have done about everything there is to do if you have lived there for ten or more years. Even if you live in a major city for ten years, you won’t be able to take advantage of everything it has to offer. In a big city, there is always something to do to keep individuals from growing bored with their diverse interests. Most cities provide exciting nightlife, various cuisines to sample, shows of all kinds, museums, landmarks, parks, festivals, sporting events, and more. There are many options in big cities to join the scene if you are a musician, visual artist, or performer.
3. Public Transportation. The public transportation system is a decent alternative to driving your own vehicle and navigating big cities’ traffic and parking issues. You can go where you need to go using trains, subways, buses, taxis, and ride-sharing vehicles in cities. You can avoid the hassle of driving by using one of the many relatively reasonable public transit options, such as the bus or train. In most big cities, it’s possible to live without a car.
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4. Big Events. Major cities host the largest events, including sporting competitions, concerts, festivals, and art openings. You don’t need to make the long commutes to and from the suburbs to attend a concert or a baseball game.
5. Share Experience. The fact that everyone in a large metropolis with millions of residents comes from varied backgrounds and experiences city life similarly can be incredibly reassuring. Large cities are friendlier than most people think, and if you frequent the same spots and engage in the same pursuits, you’ll rapidly meet new individuals who share your interests and likely move there for similar reasons to yours.
7. Free Activities. There are numerous free things to do when planned effectively, even if many activities are normally more expensive due to the greater overhead costs. You can spend the entire day keeping occupied for free by going to the park, window shopping, touring museums on free days, and taking in the sights downtown. Even though you won’t be spending any money, you will undoubtedly spend time at these breathtaking locations and maximize your urban experience.
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8. Higher Salary. Employers are typically prepared to pay extra despite the high cost of living in the city. This is why many suburban residents commute into the city for a better wage while still taking advantage of the low cost of living.
9. More Jobs Available. Companies dominate city towers, so going without a job is difficult. However, locating one that pays your high rent could be challenging. But a city with many businesses also has many job prospects. You’re likely to find one you adore. According to statistics, those who live in major cities have access to more job prospects than those who live in the suburbs or smaller towns.
10. Close to Restaurants. In cities, there is always a need for fine dining. Within a mile or two, you can find a cuisine you appreciate, from fast food franchises to fine dining restos.
Although the city’s dining cost is typically greater due to increased rent, many restaurants offer lunch and supper deals and have food vendors available. You’ll need to research to take advantage of the best bargains.
The Disadvantages of Living in a City
Those who frequently travel to or work in a big city are aware of how troublesome they may be. Large cities might be more challenging to navigate because of the increased population, traffic, and neighborhood density. The biggest drawbacks of living in a big metropolis are as follows:1. High Cost of Living. When people consider moving to a city, the increased cost of living is usually the first drawback they consider. Ordinary living costs like rent and utilities tend to be higher in big cities, and you can have additional costs like parking permits and laundry that you wouldn’t have in the suburbs. Major cities also have higher prices for gasoline, alcohol, food, and tobacco items.
2. Noise. Major cities typically have higher noise levels than the suburbs. Cities produce greater noise due to increased traffic, more people, trains, and neighboring airports with noisy jets flying in and out. A neighborhood may become noisier and more crowded due to special events like concerts and sporting events.
3. Limited Space. Downsizing your living area is nearly always required when moving from the suburbs to the city. Most people reside in flats in big cities; in some places, the apartments might be smaller. Having an outdoor area like a patio or yard is also uncommon. Homes with decent-sized yards are available in big cities but are significantly more expensive than homes in the suburbs. If you want to live in a city, you must be okay with your neighbors being on the other side of your walls in an apartment complex.
4. Limited Parking Space. Parking in a big city is an enormous nuisance compared to the suburbs. In the suburbs, parking is permitted in driveways and on residential streets, and most companies offer parking lots for patrons to utilize. Parking is only sometimes guaranteed in large cities. Streets with free parking quickly fill up because certain residential streets only allow permit parking, which requires you to purchase a permit. Some apartments have a designated parking place, albeit they are uncommon. Also, it is uncommon for businesses to have parking lots, so you will probably have to pay to park somewhere on the street, possibly even a few streets from where you need to go.
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5. Higher Auto-Vehicle Insurance Premiums. Congested city life will increase your chance of accidents if you must have a car and live in a city. As a result, city residents will pay a greater insurance premium than those who live in the suburbs.
6. Increasing Crime Rates. You can bet on urban locations to be riskier than smaller communities, even if some cities have higher crime rates than others. Crime increases with population.
The Current Situation of City Center Apartments
The majority of people concur that the real estate market has altered recently. Thus, it’s crucial to take into account a few factors when determining if new city center flats are still wise investments:- The real estate sector, notably the market for apartments in cities, has been impacted by Covid. People’s preferences for where to live (and rent) and what kinds of properties have been impacted. Nowadays, more people are working remotely. Some workers no longer require access to an office. Hence, renting or buying a home in the city center or living there is no longer necessary.
- Some business offices in the city center have scaled back on their floor space. Less demand for city center flats may result from fewer individuals working in urban areas. The practice of hybrid working, where people work partially from home and partially from the office, is becoming more widespread. The same goes for flexible working, which allows employees to choose how much time they spend in the office each week. Often, newly constructed flats in city centers are small and need more space for working from home. In the so-called “race for space,” some city dwellers emigrated to the suburbs and the countryside to find more space.
- People became aware of the value of outdoor space for health and well-being because of Covid. Outdoor space is uncommon in newly constructed residences in city centers. Many people need easy access to public parks and other outdoor areas.
- Currently, some things could be improved regarding the direction of the economy. There may be less demand for housing in city centers if businesses that employ people there cut their workforces. In certain cities, proposals exist to develop thousands of additional brand-new apartments in the city center. Apartments in these places may be harder to lease due to high levels of new supply and low projected demand. It could imply that their worth has not increased as much as it would have (or they might even fall in value).
- Due to economic worries, apartment developers in the city center might opt to cut back their plans. Supplies could decrease. Future shortages of this kind of real estate may occur.
- Renters and builders compete. In some cities, build-to-rent, or BTR, is growing in acceptance. Large developers and financial entities fund and construct flats to be rented out rather than sold. Build-to-rent apartment buildings give private landlords in the city center additional competition in the rental market.
- Co-living projects, where investors construct towers of studio apartments with shared facilities, are starting to pop up in several city centers. They may increase the level of competition for apartment rentals.
- but are they still a wise investment? Here, we’ll examine the benefits and drawbacks of this specific property type.
Why City Center Apartments (Can’t) Make Great Investments
Here are the primary factors that have contributed to new city center flats making excellent buy-to-let investments over time:2024.05.15 09:29 Various_Diamond5933 I (23F) worked in an unsanitary dental office for 3 years and had no idea how bad it truly was, advice on what to do..
I 23(F) worked for an 80(M) Dentist for about 3 years, and what I observed and endured as an employee during that time traumatized me and made me quit dental assisting in general, not because I didn't like it but because I loved it just not the dentist and I'm going to just break it down the best I can.
Starting off this specific dentist is really well known in my city, he has been practicing for 50 years now. However not much has changed in that 50 years. His office is so old that patients will come in from 1989 and say how not a single thing has been updated or changed. The floor is carpeted with rotting wood underneath and he just doesn't care. He has like creepy dolls all around the office and creepy clowns. I almost feel like he won't change anything because he wants to still feel like he's in his prime like it's the 80's/90's still.
He denies the fact that he's getting older, he says he is 44 years old when physically and literally he is not. So maybe this is some type of symptoms of a disorder. This is just some background so you can understand the full picture.
So he only hires women of lighter complexions, also certain body size, small not to skinny but curvy but not too big. You have to have long blown out hair that's always fixed, his old rule used to be that you could not wear your hair up bc it's not appealing to him. Also you can't wear glasses for the same reason. If you were trying to get a girl to work there he would have to see a picture of her first and she couldn't have tattoos or "bad teeth" even though he would put braces on staff members for free and I witnessed that, if it was "too much" the person would be a no for him. Even having a simple nose ring was against his rules.
I started working for him when I was 19 turning 20. So I was pretty young and didn't really realize until later that all of this was just so toxic and it gets worse.And so when I found out my pregnancy was healthy I announced it and they decided to not train me on patients for pretty much my entire pregnancy because they thought i would just have my baby and leave
After being post partum and working while also being a first time mom to a baby, I begin to lose a lot of weight because I guess I was stressed. I went from being my normal weight 135 to 116 pounds.
The doctor would comment on my body and say things about my weight loss in front of patients. It made me very insecure and uncomfortable two things I have never felt in my life at a job. I started to have body dysmorphia from working for this man. When he looked at me it felt as if he was staring through me and picking me apart. And no one should I have to feel like that in the work place.
I fell into a deep depression because feeling like I can't go find a new job because as terrible as it sounds, I was attached to the toxic abuse cycle there. He would love bomb and compliment you so heavily that you almost felt bad for thinking of leaving cuz he was so old. He would say things like how much he loved your personality, you were the best employee, best with patients. It was definitely creepy. Also I felt as if I were to try to leave he would be upset or it felt like I was breaking a trusted bond. So I continued working and things...got worse
Enough about my personal experience but now for the patients.The doctor treated each patient nothing more than a dollar sign. Unless they were a known person in the community, a family friend, he would give them treatment but if they had questions or concerns about their teeth he would be very dismissive, and if they argued back he would pretty much belittle them and make them feel like they were stupid for asking a question. Saying what they wanted was "impossible" because that's "the way their teeth were". I watched him take braces off of patients and their teeth were still not aligned properly, I watched him accidentally set a patient on fire, I watched him give a girl bone loss, she lost her tooth because of something he did incorrectly.
Not to mention his entire staff has not been to any type of dental school, every single person hired basically with no experience. I was told because he couldn't "afford it", yet the man has multiple million dollar homes and luxury cars....
To even scam us further he sent us to take a super lax unsupervised "test" that he said would make us certified assistants. Came to find out that was nothing more than a piece of paper.
Not to mention probably more things he has done, like practicing half blind, also urinating on himself daily and it being reported and nothing done about it.The sterilization was absolutely horrifying. Their method is not to use an autoclave but to throw all dirty instruments in a basket and throw them in an old machine that had sterilization and water and put them through an oven baking them.
Also cold sterile which was not monitored properly, and did not soak for 24 hours. Sometimes 5-10 minutes. I just got so tired of not only him being misogynistic, but not caring for health and safety of patients, or even staff members.
And the rest of the current staff members, my heart does hurt for them for them to be in this kind of abusive cycle for so long and not want to remove themselves and realize they deserve better. This kind of environment should not be normalized. And I've watch him say god awful things about every single one of them behind their back and it's honestly sad. Why would you stand by this especially for the incredibly low amounts of pay.
Making yourself look weak to him while he sits back and laughs. It's really sad and I pray for them. And I'm telling the truth and stand by it on everything I say. No I did not get fired, I quit the job. Because I couldn't take the negativity any longer. But the more I think about it the more it angers me for people that give their money to this man.
Im currently enrolled in the Dental Hygiene program at a college. I'm really excited to become a an RDH but the thing is I'm scared working for him and just cold quitting will ruin my career. Also My question is should I report him to OSHA?
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Starting off this specific dentist is really well known in my city, he has been practicing for 50 years now. However not much has changed in that 50 years. His office is so old that patients will come in from 1989 and say how not a single thing has been updated or changed. The floor is carpeted with rotting wood underneath and he just doesn't care. He has like creepy dolls all around the office and creepy clowns. I almost feel like he won't change anything because he wants to still feel like he's in his prime like it's the 80's/90's still.
He denies the fact that he's getting older, he says he is 44 years old when physically and literally he is not. So maybe this is some type of symptoms of a disorder. This is just some background so you can understand the full picture.
So he only hires women of lighter complexions, also certain body size, small not to skinny but curvy but not too big. You have to have long blown out hair that's always fixed, his old rule used to be that you could not wear your hair up bc it's not appealing to him. Also you can't wear glasses for the same reason. If you were trying to get a girl to work there he would have to see a picture of her first and she couldn't have tattoos or "bad teeth" even though he would put braces on staff members for free and I witnessed that, if it was "too much" the person would be a no for him. Even having a simple nose ring was against his rules.
I started working for him when I was 19 turning 20. So I was pretty young and didn't really realize until later that all of this was just so toxic and it gets worse.And so when I found out my pregnancy was healthy I announced it and they decided to not train me on patients for pretty much my entire pregnancy because they thought i would just have my baby and leave
After being post partum and working while also being a first time mom to a baby, I begin to lose a lot of weight because I guess I was stressed. I went from being my normal weight 135 to 116 pounds.
The doctor would comment on my body and say things about my weight loss in front of patients. It made me very insecure and uncomfortable two things I have never felt in my life at a job. I started to have body dysmorphia from working for this man. When he looked at me it felt as if he was staring through me and picking me apart. And no one should I have to feel like that in the work place.
I fell into a deep depression because feeling like I can't go find a new job because as terrible as it sounds, I was attached to the toxic abuse cycle there. He would love bomb and compliment you so heavily that you almost felt bad for thinking of leaving cuz he was so old. He would say things like how much he loved your personality, you were the best employee, best with patients. It was definitely creepy. Also I felt as if I were to try to leave he would be upset or it felt like I was breaking a trusted bond. So I continued working and things...got worse
Enough about my personal experience but now for the patients.The doctor treated each patient nothing more than a dollar sign. Unless they were a known person in the community, a family friend, he would give them treatment but if they had questions or concerns about their teeth he would be very dismissive, and if they argued back he would pretty much belittle them and make them feel like they were stupid for asking a question. Saying what they wanted was "impossible" because that's "the way their teeth were". I watched him take braces off of patients and their teeth were still not aligned properly, I watched him accidentally set a patient on fire, I watched him give a girl bone loss, she lost her tooth because of something he did incorrectly.
Not to mention his entire staff has not been to any type of dental school, every single person hired basically with no experience. I was told because he couldn't "afford it", yet the man has multiple million dollar homes and luxury cars....
To even scam us further he sent us to take a super lax unsupervised "test" that he said would make us certified assistants. Came to find out that was nothing more than a piece of paper.
Not to mention probably more things he has done, like practicing half blind, also urinating on himself daily and it being reported and nothing done about it.The sterilization was absolutely horrifying. Their method is not to use an autoclave but to throw all dirty instruments in a basket and throw them in an old machine that had sterilization and water and put them through an oven baking them.
Also cold sterile which was not monitored properly, and did not soak for 24 hours. Sometimes 5-10 minutes. I just got so tired of not only him being misogynistic, but not caring for health and safety of patients, or even staff members.
And the rest of the current staff members, my heart does hurt for them for them to be in this kind of abusive cycle for so long and not want to remove themselves and realize they deserve better. This kind of environment should not be normalized. And I've watch him say god awful things about every single one of them behind their back and it's honestly sad. Why would you stand by this especially for the incredibly low amounts of pay.
Making yourself look weak to him while he sits back and laughs. It's really sad and I pray for them. And I'm telling the truth and stand by it on everything I say. No I did not get fired, I quit the job. Because I couldn't take the negativity any longer. But the more I think about it the more it angers me for people that give their money to this man.
Im currently enrolled in the Dental Hygiene program at a college. I'm really excited to become a an RDH but the thing is I'm scared working for him and just cold quitting will ruin my career. Also My question is should I report him to OSHA?
2024.05.15 09:28 Yurii_S_Kh Nikola, the only student at his school: “I mind the goats and play chess”. Travel notes from Kosovo and Metohija.
 | Nikola Stankovic submitted by Yurii_S_Kh to SophiaWisdomOfGod [link] [comments] “Have a good trip! Will you be so kind to bring me a chess set the next time you come? A deal?” This is what Nikola Stankovic told us when we parted the last time as we were leaving Slivova near Pristina. This is the place we return to once the opportunity presents itself. It’s true that we come here often—to the suburb of the once glorious city of Pristina, once the intellectual, industrial, and cultural center of our Kosovo… People used to come here from everywhere, as the city attracted professors, engineers, writers, and artists. Before, Pristina was known for its flourishing cultural life, just as today it’s buzzing with commercial and shopping activity—full of intrusive and aggressive advertising by foreign companies, probably the only ones who benefit from the war. “Nuk ka me Pristine” (Albanian)—“Pristina is no more!” was the title of a novel published on the twentieth anniversary of the “March pogrom“ of Serbs. Serbs remember how yesterday’s neighbors, colleagues, and friends chased them out of their then Serbian city. Things are no better in the suburbs of Pristina; they are completely cut off from the city. The nearby villages are dying out, standing isolated from the outside world and kept away from the blessings of civilization. Many Serbs were forced to leave or flee their homes. Many of them have died. Many of their houses were burned down… The tiny village of Slivova is a place where you can still hear people speak Serbian. A Serbian school for a single student “It used to be so wonderful here before the war! People worked in factories and in agriculture. Our village was bustling with life and there were a lot of children. I had more than twenty students in my class, and we are talking about a village school! But these days, after the war… Consider it a desert; everyone has moved or fled away,” Nikola's father tells us. He speaks of Serbs when he says “everyone,” as with every passing day, more and more Albanians settle into Slivova. For a long time now, the village is more than half Albanian. They come from the city in search of a quiet life and clean air, and they firmly settle here. I asked if there were any clashes. No, he replies, not yet, but who knows. Basically, why would they want clashes when Serbs are already on the move, leaving their homeland behind. “Soon we will be left all alone. Our children have no future here. My older sons, for example, have long been living and working elsewhere.” Nikola, the third son and the only school student in Slivova, is in seventh grade. We ask our old friend how he is doing. “I mind the goats and play chess. Sometimes I look after Dragan, my younger brother (there are four brothers in his family), but he doesn't always listen to me!” A young shepherd. A kind one We are walking with our seventh-grader to his school, now located in a house left behind by a Serb. Since 1999, Serbian children never returned to their classes in their old school. It is the result of the “optimization of Serbian education,” the Kosovar way. We “snatched” Nikola for a short while—pulling him away from his herd. His youngest brother Dragan worthily replaced his brother in the line of shepherd duty. We sat down with him on a bench nearby to play a game of chess, Nikola’s favorite pastime. He admitted, embarrassed, that he sometimes played chess with his teacher at his “new” school, as well. But once he entered high school grades, he played against the computer, his main rival. It is not much of a conversation partner, but at least it offers an interesting game of chess. We met Nikola for the first time three years ago. He won’t make friends with you lightly, or for no reason at all; it took him a while to grow accustomed to us. Village folk are like that. But once they get to know you, you can’t find a better friend. It was the same this time. When he saw us, he didn't say much, but his eyes shone with such joy that no words were necessary. And he is always trying to give us gifts. “I recently went to a soccer game in Gracanica; my dad took me there. It was really great! Teachers come to the village every day, well, to teach me. So, I'm learning. What else can I do?” Nikola Nikola is one of our “trailblazers”. He took part in the summer school camp organized last year for Serbian children from Kosovo and Metohija by our charity organization called “Kosovo Pomoravlje.” Everything went well, but, as we have noticed, these children couldn’t get enough of playing soccer with their peers from other ghettos. For them, soccer is an important thing, a way to interact, no matter how you cut it. We asked him if he’s going to attend our summer school this year. “I sure will! Only if you have more soccer time!” We finish the chess game and say our goodbyes. We leave Nikola with his herd, kings and queens, and a chessboard under his armpit. We already know what we’ll bring him when, God willing, we come here next time: soccer cleats and a football. We wave and honk… and hope that we will be able to bring together the boys and girls from the enclaves of Kosovo and Metohija in our summer school. And yes, they’ll have more soccer time there—we’ve learned our lesson well. Maria Vasic Kosovo and Metohija Prepared by Peter Davydov |
2024.05.15 09:23 GreedyPersonality390 7 days Powerful Wazifa for Marriage
 | The fact of wedding and the celebration of marrying a life partner are the main events of the life of almost everyone. However, the probability of finding the ideal partner is not always the case. There are people who only find a boyfriend or a girlfriend for a long time to get married or live with them. If you have been searching for a life companion for a long time and failed, doing a 7 days wazifa for marriage may be the way to a potential life partner you always wanted. submitted by GreedyPersonality390 to u/GreedyPersonality390 [link] [comments] 7 days wazifa for marriage What is a Wazifa? A wazifa is a form of Islamic prayer or spiritual chant which is recited uninterrupted for a certain period of time to make one's desires or wishes be realized. Wazifa is a work of the prophets that has been approved by Allah and the continuous recitation of Quranic verses and prayers for a long time is included. The repetition of the concentration, belief and sincerity is the reason why the divine blessings and mercy are given and thus, it is possible to achieve the genuine wishes and intentions. 7 days wazifa for marriage is a big task which needs a lot of studying and hard work. Since this wazifa relies on the spiritual power of prayer, you need to prepare yourself adequately before beginning it:This vuaca is based on the spiritual strength of pray, thus, it is imperative that you get well prepared before you begin it.
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2024.05.15 09:23 midnitedesperadoIV I Don’t think I can move for love
I know I should be talking with my partner about this but I like to lurk on the internet. So my current predicament needs some background. Roughly two years ago I was in a serious relationship for 7 years and my gf at the time (I’m a male) came out to me as gay and moved across the country not too soon after telling me ( we shared a house together and we weren’t married). I think we ended amicably at the end but it still hurt me. During that time I owned a home and hated my job. All of the above occurred in the summer of 2022. As soon as I quit my job and sold my house I started to an accelerated medical program also in 2022. This is where my issue starts. A girl I know we’ll say her name is “Tamara” asked me to be FWB.
Tamara knew me from the previous job but in process of her moving up in the company she moved to South Carolina. I currently live up north in the US. So she got in contact with me and wanted to come to the place I moved back to, to come and visit. I said sure because we were pretty good friends. (I want to add the medical program I’m in gives me the ability to work anywhere in the US so I can chose where I complete my clinical hours. This comes into play later).
The first visit nothing happened between us. In between visits she asks to be FWB I say yes but tells me it can be messy. I agree. This goes on for a year and a half. Mid way point last year because our relationship was just exclusively FWB we discussed at the beginning that we were free to seek other people out. So I went on few dates. Tamara was not happy with me so I ended up stopping the dates in between her visits. At the point when I stopped the dates I was about to start my clinical rotations and I had an interview for a site coming up. I was unable to get matched in an area near South Carolina which is what Tamara wanted so we could be close. I matched at a place up North an hour from me. So throughout my clinical rotation Tamara has been “gently” encouraging me to move in with her in South Carolina.
I have some concerns about moving because I know the area is saturated for the medical job I have and it’s damn near impossible for new grads to get work. So I press on through the program. 1/3 of the way through. I get a message saying we need to talk. I get a phone call from Tamara saying she has an STD and I should get checked. Needless to say I was not happy. A week later I got checked and had it also. I was beside myself. I knew I was being an idiot and I know people make mistakes but I definitely got checked after our encounters but I digress. After this things seemed to have cooled a little. With news of the STD I told her fuck it I’ll just move down after I graduate but I’m still struggling with the idea of fully committing to moving there because of the struggles I will face. Now currently I have a few weeks left of my program and I want to change my mind about moving down and I know it will break her heart but I was doing what was right for her and not for myself. So would I be the asshole for calling things off and staying put to get work experience?
TLDR: I ended a long term relationship. I got into medical school that allows me to work anywhere in the US. An old co-worker hits me up to hang but we live in different states. We become FWB. I get an STD from our interactions which soured my mood a little. I tell her I will move down to be closer to date but now I want to take it back because I know how hard it will be to get a job where she lives currently and I’m not sure I can commit to the things she wants.
Thanks for reading and sorry for any typos! I am writing this pretty late at night.
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Tamara knew me from the previous job but in process of her moving up in the company she moved to South Carolina. I currently live up north in the US. So she got in contact with me and wanted to come to the place I moved back to, to come and visit. I said sure because we were pretty good friends. (I want to add the medical program I’m in gives me the ability to work anywhere in the US so I can chose where I complete my clinical hours. This comes into play later).
The first visit nothing happened between us. In between visits she asks to be FWB I say yes but tells me it can be messy. I agree. This goes on for a year and a half. Mid way point last year because our relationship was just exclusively FWB we discussed at the beginning that we were free to seek other people out. So I went on few dates. Tamara was not happy with me so I ended up stopping the dates in between her visits. At the point when I stopped the dates I was about to start my clinical rotations and I had an interview for a site coming up. I was unable to get matched in an area near South Carolina which is what Tamara wanted so we could be close. I matched at a place up North an hour from me. So throughout my clinical rotation Tamara has been “gently” encouraging me to move in with her in South Carolina.
I have some concerns about moving because I know the area is saturated for the medical job I have and it’s damn near impossible for new grads to get work. So I press on through the program. 1/3 of the way through. I get a message saying we need to talk. I get a phone call from Tamara saying she has an STD and I should get checked. Needless to say I was not happy. A week later I got checked and had it also. I was beside myself. I knew I was being an idiot and I know people make mistakes but I definitely got checked after our encounters but I digress. After this things seemed to have cooled a little. With news of the STD I told her fuck it I’ll just move down after I graduate but I’m still struggling with the idea of fully committing to moving there because of the struggles I will face. Now currently I have a few weeks left of my program and I want to change my mind about moving down and I know it will break her heart but I was doing what was right for her and not for myself. So would I be the asshole for calling things off and staying put to get work experience?
TLDR: I ended a long term relationship. I got into medical school that allows me to work anywhere in the US. An old co-worker hits me up to hang but we live in different states. We become FWB. I get an STD from our interactions which soured my mood a little. I tell her I will move down to be closer to date but now I want to take it back because I know how hard it will be to get a job where she lives currently and I’m not sure I can commit to the things she wants.
Thanks for reading and sorry for any typos! I am writing this pretty late at night.
2024.05.15 09:21 carlos3rcr 26[M4F]US scientist that likes trashy reality tv, running, and imessage games
hey!
here’s what I look like
I’m in the midwest, in the middle of my phd, using the sacred few hours of sleep I got to scroll reddit while binging on the trashiest reality TV and early 00s MTV music videos
tbh, since moving here I’ve been aching to meet people that aren’t related to my professional or academic sphere, and rarely got the time to do much outside the lab, so, here I am, it seems meeting people online could be good bet :o
some random trivia
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here’s what I look like
I’m in the midwest, in the middle of my phd, using the sacred few hours of sleep I got to scroll reddit while binging on the trashiest reality TV and early 00s MTV music videos
tbh, since moving here I’ve been aching to meet people that aren’t related to my professional or academic sphere, and rarely got the time to do much outside the lab, so, here I am, it seems meeting people online could be good bet :o
some random trivia
- my work is on machine learning and proteins
- love running and cycling, pretty much any heavy cardio activity
- love playing soccer but suck at it
- love signing but suck at it
- love drawing but suck at it
- I only sing in spanish, because I got a thiccc accent and feel a bit self-conscious singing in english
- expert in early 00s shitty pop music
- best disney movie is ratatouille
- most overrated disney movie is up
- love dancing cumbia and bachata… and actually do not suck at it! lmao
- can move my ears on command
- have lived in 4 countries, 6 cities, 2 continents
- I’m trying to get into video games. help? I have a swtich, xbox, and pc
- not a fan of scifi or fantasy :(
- once got jump-scared by a possum while riding my bike
- knows two and a half languages
- love crafts (specially origami) and playing the accordion
- I was personally invited to a fancy rooftop party by a google hotshot, but bailed on it
- a mexican bill saved my life while I was stranded in serbia
- I was suspended from middle school for burning a whiteboard with body spray and a lighter
2024.05.15 09:19 Boring-Rutabaga5319 What You Need To Know About Famous Khushali Kumar
Everyone is interested in khushali kumar‘s life story. Most of the people who are interested in her personal life details. She has been, for a long time, a “star.” As we know, she is one of the well-known persons in Bollywood. Have you ever heard about khushali kumar relationships? Let’s find out what’s unique and essential about her.
One of the most loved and respected actors in Hindi films is khushali kumar. Her beautiful photo shoots and public performances have won fans’ hearts and attention. You can see the famous actress for the first time in “Dhokha: Round D Corner.” She will soon be in the romance thriller movie “Starfish.”The video for the movie looked excellent, and Khushali Kumar, Ehan Bhat, Tusharr Khanna, and Milind Soman all did great jobs.
Before, the actress talked to Tellychakkar about how she would go in and out of character and cry in the middle of the night. Khushali has already talked about how she took on the task and learned how to scuba dive. Now, we have a video that shows how hard it was for the actress to prepare for her part.
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amily and birth
Are you interested to know what khushali kumar age is? She was born on December 19, 1988, in Mumbai. Her family is from Punjab, and they are Hindu. Do you know who khushali kumar parents are? Ganesh Kumar Dua and Sudesh Kumari Dua are her parents. Two of her siblings are named Tulsi Kumar Dua and Bhushan Kumar Dua. Most people want to know khushali kumar husband name.Career
Khushali Kumar‘s first music video was for the song “Mainu Ishq Da,” which came out in 2015. Her sister Tulsi Kumar sang a “Mere Papa” music video for Gulshan Kumar the following year. She was in the video. She was in a 2017 video song with Tulsi Kumar called “Highway Star.” In 2021, Tusli Kumar and Jubin Nautiyal sang the song “Pehle Pyaar Ka Pehla Gham” in a music video with Parth Samthaan. Khushali’s first movie was the award-winning short crime movie Jeena Mushkil Hai Yaar, where she played a reporter. She gave the best performance as a Hindi news reporter who has to make the death of a celebrity seem shocking. She will play a lawyer in the movie Dahi Cheeni with R. Madhavan.Some facts about Khushali Kumar that not many people know
- Khushali is the daughter of Gulshan Kumar, who started T-Series.
- She completed her schooling at G.D. Goenka Public School and Delhi Arya Vidya Mandir in Mumbai.
- She graduated from NIFT, Delhi, with a degree in fashion design. After that, she made clothes that famous singers like Shakira, Leann Rimes (two Grammy Awards), Jenna Dewan Tatum, Melanie C, Carmen Electra, and others wore. She also did the art for the music video for “Wait For a Minute” by Justin Bieber.
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- There were a few short films that Kumar was in in 2018. One of them, Jeena Mushkil Hai Yaar, was chosen to be shown in advance at the Life of Film Maker’s Session, Pinewood Studio’s UK, and the 9th Dada Saheb Phalke Film Festival, where it won the Honourable Jury Mention Award.
- She started her career in the Bollywood song video Mainu Ishq Da in 2015. Since then, she has been in hit songs like Highway Star, Raat Kamaal Hai, Mere Papa, and Ik Yaad Purani.
- In April 2017, she was in the “Mera Highway” pop song with Raftaar and her sister Tulsi Kumar.
Making it in Bollywood and music videos
She started her career in the entertainment business with the Bollywood song video “Mainu Ishq Da” in 2015. This was the start of a great job in music videos. With roles in hit songs like “Highway Star,” “Raat Kamaal Hai,” “Mere Papa,” and “Ik Yaad Purani,” she solidified her place in the business even more. Her charm and skill wowed audiences.Debut as an actor and praise
Khushali Kumar doesn’t like to stay in one area, so she’s about to make a name for herself in Bollywood with her first movie, “Dahi Cheeni,” which stars R. Madhavan. The part she plays in this movie is a lawyer, which will show off her acting skills and add to her wide range of skills.Notable Achievements
Many important things have happened in Khushali Kumar’s life; she is well-known in the entertainment business. Reviews of her work in short films like “Jeena Mushkil Hai Yaar” have been very positive. The movie has won awards at essential film festivals like the Dada Saheb Phalke Film Festival and the Druk International Film Festival. For her role in “Jeena Mushkil Hai Yaar,” she won the Critic’s Choice Award, which shows her talent and dedication. This indicates that she has a bright future in movies.Personal Life and Family
Even though khushali kumar is busy and becoming a giant star, she stays grounded and values her family and roots. Her siblings, Bhushan Kumar and Tulsi Kumar, are well-known in the music business and very close to her. Her upbringing in a creative and loving setting has made her the dynamic and bright person she is now. Khushali Kumar’s preparation for the part where she can handle anything.One of the most loved and respected actors in Hindi films is khushali kumar. Her beautiful photo shoots and public performances have won fans’ hearts and attention. You can see the famous actress for the first time in “Dhokha: Round D Corner.” She will soon be in the romance thriller movie “Starfish.”The video for the movie looked excellent, and Khushali Kumar, Ehan Bhat, Tusharr Khanna, and Milind Soman all did great jobs.
Before, the actress talked to Tellychakkar about how she would go in and out of character and cry in the middle of the night. Khushali has already talked about how she took on the task and learned how to scuba dive. Now, we have a video that shows how hard it was for the actress to prepare for her part.
Conclusion
In conclusion, Khushali Kumar‘s rise from a skilled fashion designer to a potential Bollywood actress shows how hard work, love, and imagination can pay off. Because of her natural ability, hard work, and drive, she will make a lasting effect on Indian entertainment, inspiring other artists and winning admiration from people worldwide. Keep an eye on this growing star because she still shines brightly in movies and fashion. Hopefully, her fan followers will want to know khushali kumar net worth.2024.05.15 09:19 kimikupkake Cat heart failure
I've just got home from having to put down my cat with unexpected heart failure. This is my third cat to pass in 6 months.
Last September I woke up to my special guy having passed overnight. Given his position, it was fast and I was heartbroken. He had many conditions but we thought he was stable however he wasn't expected to live a long life.
Last November, another one of my cats was hiding under my bath panting. In the 90 minutes it took me to get to an emergency vet, she deteriorated considerably and she was put to sleep due to bring in end stages of heart failure. She was absolutely fine up until that day.
In January, I took my remaining cat to the vet for a full check up, with a specific instruction to listen to his heart. He passed with flying colors, just needed to lose a little weight. I took him in for a recheck last week as he had lost weight. He was a bit wheezy and had fast heart rate but he was also stressed from the travel. Blood test came back fine, but he was given prednil for IBS. His second dose was 6am today. By 10am he was breathing 60x a minute. He was happy, eating, purring, sitting in the sun. I brushed him and he looked fine. No blue gums or panting. Could make it from the bedroom to the dining room and up gps scratching post. Vet advised to monitor. No change by 11. At 130 vet recommended I bring him in in case steroids have affected a previously hidden heart murmur.
In the 30 minutes it took me to drive him to the vet, he went downhill fast and there was no time to even remove him from his cage. He had very low blood pressure and it barely took 2ml to work. He was retching, foaming and spasming and it was the kindest thing to do.
I'm not sure what I expect out of posting this. I just need to get it out. I'm absolutely heartbroken. I feel like I should have done more, like I'm a bad cat mum because I'm at 3 for 3 now. It's so scary how it can progress in hours. Please if you comment, go easy on me. I'm beating myself up as it is.
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Last September I woke up to my special guy having passed overnight. Given his position, it was fast and I was heartbroken. He had many conditions but we thought he was stable however he wasn't expected to live a long life.
Last November, another one of my cats was hiding under my bath panting. In the 90 minutes it took me to get to an emergency vet, she deteriorated considerably and she was put to sleep due to bring in end stages of heart failure. She was absolutely fine up until that day.
In January, I took my remaining cat to the vet for a full check up, with a specific instruction to listen to his heart. He passed with flying colors, just needed to lose a little weight. I took him in for a recheck last week as he had lost weight. He was a bit wheezy and had fast heart rate but he was also stressed from the travel. Blood test came back fine, but he was given prednil for IBS. His second dose was 6am today. By 10am he was breathing 60x a minute. He was happy, eating, purring, sitting in the sun. I brushed him and he looked fine. No blue gums or panting. Could make it from the bedroom to the dining room and up gps scratching post. Vet advised to monitor. No change by 11. At 130 vet recommended I bring him in in case steroids have affected a previously hidden heart murmur.
In the 30 minutes it took me to drive him to the vet, he went downhill fast and there was no time to even remove him from his cage. He had very low blood pressure and it barely took 2ml to work. He was retching, foaming and spasming and it was the kindest thing to do.
I'm not sure what I expect out of posting this. I just need to get it out. I'm absolutely heartbroken. I feel like I should have done more, like I'm a bad cat mum because I'm at 3 for 3 now. It's so scary how it can progress in hours. Please if you comment, go easy on me. I'm beating myself up as it is.
2024.05.15 09:19 Strange-Library9722 Mother stuck in abusive home
 | Hello everyone , I’m going to be explaining my mother’s situation and I would really appreciate any updated advice that I can get to help her and let her know her options. She has already seen a lawyer , but she has some things that she is afraid of that I’ll list below. I appreciate any help I can get. submitted by Strange-Library9722 to legal [link] [comments] My mother has been married to this man for 16 years , she has two children with him. One is 7 and the other is 16. He has a history of abuse from hitting her years ago , he threw her down the stairs and bruised her up but she decided to stay but we already know that this cannot be used in court because it isn’t recent. He hasn’t been coming home at decent hours and we believe he is cheating , when this was brought up he went from 0-100 and threatened to kick me out for asking him if he was cheating on her while he was gone so I know it must be true but he has cheated before as well. There was an incident a few months ago , he was in the bedroom alone and the 7yr old went upstairs to check on him. He was laying there cold lips pale as he took something and was OD’ing. As the paramedics arrived they asked questions but we had no clue what he took , he OD’d on fent. They asked him if he took anything but he kept getting upset with them and lied and said no but they let my mom know he did take something because the Narcan revived him. He has a history of hiding lighters , and bongs around the house. He doesn’t think clearly and operates like a child and cannot communicate healthy for the life of him. She fears she won’t be able to make it because he pays all the bills while she takes care of things at home but he sends her nasty texts. I’ll include everything. She knows she can get alimony and child support but what she wants is to be guaranteed full custody of her children , he’s not responsible and only cares for himself. She takes the children to school everyday and is in need of new brakes and car maintenance but he took care of his first even though she let him know. He’s an ugly person and wanted to kick out her SISTER for having a good time. My sister and mother were both having a drink at home and he knows the sister was intoxicated he obviously doesn’t care if she is safe or not. I just would like any advice to get rid of this ugly man. If anything needs to be elaborated on feel free to ask I’m tired of seeing her lose her life in front of my eyes. Thank you all |
2024.05.15 09:18 carlos3rcr 26[M4F]#US#online scientist that likes trashy reality tv, running, and imessage games
hey!
here’s what I look like
I’m in the midwest, in the middle of my phd, using the sacred few hours of sleep I got to scroll reddit while binging on the trashiest reality TV and early 00s MTV music videos
tbh, since moving here I’ve been aching to meet people that aren’t related to my professional or academic sphere, and rarely got the time to do much outside the lab, so, here I am, it seems meeting people online could be good bet :o
some random trivia
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here’s what I look like
I’m in the midwest, in the middle of my phd, using the sacred few hours of sleep I got to scroll reddit while binging on the trashiest reality TV and early 00s MTV music videos
tbh, since moving here I’ve been aching to meet people that aren’t related to my professional or academic sphere, and rarely got the time to do much outside the lab, so, here I am, it seems meeting people online could be good bet :o
some random trivia
- my work is on machine learning and proteins
- love running and cycling, pretty much any heavy cardio activity
- love playing soccer but suck at it
- love signing but suck at it
- love drawing but suck at it
- I only sing in spanish, because I got a thiccc accent and feel a bit self-conscious singing in english
- expert in early 00s shitty pop music
- best disney movie is ratatouille
- most overrated disney movie is up
- love dancing cumbia and bachata… and actually do not suck at it! lmao
- can move my ears on command
- have lived in 4 countries, 6 cities, 2 continents
- I’m trying to get into video games. help? I have a swtich, xbox, and pc
- not a fan of scifi or fantasy :(
- once got jump-scared by a possum while riding my bike
- knows two and a half languages
- love crafts (specially origami) and playing the accordion
- I was personally invited to a fancy rooftop party by a google hotshot, but bailed on it
- a mexican bill saved my life while I was stranded in serbia
- I was suspended from middle school for burning a whiteboard with body spray and a lighter
2024.05.15 09:16 Exact-Anybody1734 My brother has turned into a pretentious jerk
Hi Reddit, so I’ll try to keep this as concise as possible while still giving you all the facts. Let us start from the beginning, my at the time 21 y.o. step-brother, was going through his first big break up. Instead of confiding in others or taking time to understand his emotions he instead picked up a book about the stages of love. Let me also explain that my brother has never been the smartest guy and mainly gets by on his good looks and charm in his life. Anyway this book gave the usual “love requires fighting to work it shows that you care about the other” you know stuff everyone already knows. I’m guessing because it came from a book ,or because it was plainly saying what he was too naive to understand about what he was feeling, he became infatuated with every line. Anytime I would have relationship problems he would quote the self help books he had read since and recommend me ones to read. This went on for while but eventually I finished nursing school and moved out of my family’s house (which is my mother’s house, this is important for later) to start working.
Now fast forward to four years later. I’m living on my own with my the love of my life, working the night shift in the hospital like I’ve always wanted. On my way home on night I called my mom to catch up on my drive home. We started talking and eventually I asked about my step-brother. She explained that he was still living at home and had no plans on getting a job or moving out (for context my brother graduated with a master’s degree a year ago). I found that odd and asked what he is doing now. My mom explained that he just makes music and does podcasts with his friends. He apparently says he wants to be an entrepreneur. Which is fine everyone wants to make it big doing what they love doing however. My mother also explained that he constantly invites people she doesn’t know to her house to hangout and when she gets off of work she comes home to strangers that expect her to cook for them. My mother then started tearing up saying “I don’t feel like it’s my house anymore”. That’s when I got upset. I asked her why doesn’t she kick him out or at least start asking for rent so he has to get a job. She explained that she wanted to do that but my step father wouldn’t allow it. My mother and step father have a wonderful marriage and never fight, but because my stepbrother is his son he has attachment to him. My mom recently had to kick her daughter (my blood related sister) into the camper as well since my step sister (19 y.o.) lets her boyfriend stay on weekends in what used to be the girls room. My mother keeps explaining that all of these situations are putting stress on their marriage and by kicking out her daughter she feels like she betrayed her just so my stepfather’s kids can get their way in her house.
After this phone call I was livid so I called my step brother to confront him. After asking the normal “hi how are you” I asked if he has started looking for a job and he said “why would I?”. I responded “so you can work and move out”. Then he said “im in my 20s this is the time you are supposed to chase your dreams” he then pointed out that I always wanted to be a YouTuber or streamer and I should go for it. I then said you know I have a job now and I have to give that job a lot of my time in order to afford the life I live. He basically laughed and explained that there is always enough time. Not much important was said after that.
Now fast forward a few weeks later I see posts from his Instagram talking about how “social media is poison, take back your life, put down your phone, etc.” (Crazy to post that on social media btw). I have also come across his podcast which are just him and his friend who both have the combined IQ of a beheaded chicken explain that the universe is big and has like billions of stars and stuff. 0.0 his entire personality now is saying basic facts at the surface level and then acting like it’s deep as fuck. Furthermore the constant insistence on following your passion mixed with the complete ineptitude of being able to comprehend how smug and pretentious he is during any interaction has breed some real distain from anyone who can see through his act.
All of these posts about self help combined with the complete ignorance of how his actions putting a negative effect on our family has really put a barrier between us. I really don’t think I can take it anymore and I want to either try to explain that he has become a pretentious douche who only keeps around yes men who all think a fact for 5th graders they learn at the zoo makes them better than everyone else, but I honestly think he will just say I don’t understand or maybe I should read this book about stress. I’ve went over the situation with friends of mine and they all laugh when they see his posts and hear him talk now. For God sake he held his 25th birthday party recently and said for everyone to bring a book to exchange knowledge to one another and wear business casual.
I just want my mom to feel like the home she worked tirelessly as a single mother all those years to afford for our family is hers. I have always been so close to my brother and I want him back as a friend. I want my sister to be able to live in the house she was raised in instead of in a camper.
Well that’s everything as of now left out a lot of stories about him being directly wrong about facts he tells us or times he got called out and embarrassed about shit but I think I’ll just leave it here. I plan on confronting him soon I just don’t know what to say. Thank you for your time.
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Now fast forward to four years later. I’m living on my own with my the love of my life, working the night shift in the hospital like I’ve always wanted. On my way home on night I called my mom to catch up on my drive home. We started talking and eventually I asked about my step-brother. She explained that he was still living at home and had no plans on getting a job or moving out (for context my brother graduated with a master’s degree a year ago). I found that odd and asked what he is doing now. My mom explained that he just makes music and does podcasts with his friends. He apparently says he wants to be an entrepreneur. Which is fine everyone wants to make it big doing what they love doing however. My mother also explained that he constantly invites people she doesn’t know to her house to hangout and when she gets off of work she comes home to strangers that expect her to cook for them. My mother then started tearing up saying “I don’t feel like it’s my house anymore”. That’s when I got upset. I asked her why doesn’t she kick him out or at least start asking for rent so he has to get a job. She explained that she wanted to do that but my step father wouldn’t allow it. My mother and step father have a wonderful marriage and never fight, but because my stepbrother is his son he has attachment to him. My mom recently had to kick her daughter (my blood related sister) into the camper as well since my step sister (19 y.o.) lets her boyfriend stay on weekends in what used to be the girls room. My mother keeps explaining that all of these situations are putting stress on their marriage and by kicking out her daughter she feels like she betrayed her just so my stepfather’s kids can get their way in her house.
After this phone call I was livid so I called my step brother to confront him. After asking the normal “hi how are you” I asked if he has started looking for a job and he said “why would I?”. I responded “so you can work and move out”. Then he said “im in my 20s this is the time you are supposed to chase your dreams” he then pointed out that I always wanted to be a YouTuber or streamer and I should go for it. I then said you know I have a job now and I have to give that job a lot of my time in order to afford the life I live. He basically laughed and explained that there is always enough time. Not much important was said after that.
Now fast forward a few weeks later I see posts from his Instagram talking about how “social media is poison, take back your life, put down your phone, etc.” (Crazy to post that on social media btw). I have also come across his podcast which are just him and his friend who both have the combined IQ of a beheaded chicken explain that the universe is big and has like billions of stars and stuff. 0.0 his entire personality now is saying basic facts at the surface level and then acting like it’s deep as fuck. Furthermore the constant insistence on following your passion mixed with the complete ineptitude of being able to comprehend how smug and pretentious he is during any interaction has breed some real distain from anyone who can see through his act.
All of these posts about self help combined with the complete ignorance of how his actions putting a negative effect on our family has really put a barrier between us. I really don’t think I can take it anymore and I want to either try to explain that he has become a pretentious douche who only keeps around yes men who all think a fact for 5th graders they learn at the zoo makes them better than everyone else, but I honestly think he will just say I don’t understand or maybe I should read this book about stress. I’ve went over the situation with friends of mine and they all laugh when they see his posts and hear him talk now. For God sake he held his 25th birthday party recently and said for everyone to bring a book to exchange knowledge to one another and wear business casual.
I just want my mom to feel like the home she worked tirelessly as a single mother all those years to afford for our family is hers. I have always been so close to my brother and I want him back as a friend. I want my sister to be able to live in the house she was raised in instead of in a camper.
Well that’s everything as of now left out a lot of stories about him being directly wrong about facts he tells us or times he got called out and embarrassed about shit but I think I’ll just leave it here. I plan on confronting him soon I just don’t know what to say. Thank you for your time.
2024.05.15 09:15 deseyfashion Top 10 Corporate Photoshoot Services in Singapore 2024
 | Corporate photography is essentially about taking photos for businesses to help them showcase their brand, products, and services. These photos play a crucial role in building the company's image and promoting what it offers to its audience. They're used across various platforms like company websites, brochures, social media, and press releases. Additionally, they serve individuals who want to build a professional portfolio to highlight their skills and expertise. submitted by deseyfashion to u/deseyfashion [link] [comments] Within the realm of corporate photography, there's a diverse range of styles and purposes. The most common type is corporate portraits, which include professional headshots and outdoor portraits. These portraits are often featured on company websites, employee profiles, and corporate directories, giving a face to the company's workforce and conveying a sense of professionalism. Another popular style is capturing 'business-in-action' shots, which provide a glimpse into the daily operations of the company. These photos showcase employees at work, giving viewers an inside look into the company's culture, values, and working environment. They help to humanise the brand and build connections with the audience. Group portraits are also prevalent in corporate photography, highlighting teamwork and camaraderie among employees. These photos often feature the entire workforce together, conveying a sense of unity and collaboration within the company. In addition to indoor studio settings, environmental or outdoor portraits are gaining popularity in corporate photography. These photos are taken outside of the traditional office environment and often tell a story or evoke a specific mood. They provide a more relaxed and natural look while still conveying the desired message or brand image. In Singapore, the corporate photography scene is thriving, with numerous photo studios offering specialised services tailored to business needs. However, with so many options available, choosing the right studio can be overwhelming. To assist in this process, we've compiled a curated list of the top studios in Singapore for corporate photography, each renowned for their expertise, creativity, and professionalism. Whether you require headshots, product photography, or event coverage, these studios excel in delivering high-quality images that meet the standards of Corporate Photoshoot Singapore. Read on to learn more about the Top 10 Corporate Photoshoot Services in Singapore 2024. 1. Mount Studio In Singapore's bustling photography scene, Mount Studio stands out for its reliability and creativity. Embarking on its journey in 2017 within the cosy confines of a 1,300-square-foot studio, Mount Studio soon found itself outgrowing its original space, prompting a move to a more expansive locale capable of housing both photo and video studios under one roof. They offer a wide range of photography services, including corporate, wedding, fashion, and event photography. They also allow others to rent their studios for their own projects. Key Features: ❖ Mount Studio now operates three studios within a spacious 2,400-square-foot facility. ❖ With over 15 years of combined experience, the founders ensure top-quality service. ❖ Conveniently located near Marymount MRT station, Mount Studio is easily accessible to clients across Singapore. ❖ They have worked with prestigious clients like OCBC Bank, Visa, IBM, Klook, and Philip Morris. Corporate Photography Services: ● Corporate Portraits - Professional photography at Mount Studio includes retouching three selected photos per person and the option for one backdrop. All photos are provided in low-resolution JPEG format for selection, with the final edited high-resolution JPEGs sent via Dropbox within 7-10 working days. ● On-location Photography Service: Their services include sending a professional photographer and assistant to the client's chosen location. Clients get up to three carefully retouched photos per person, with professional lighting and various backdrop options. All photos are provided in low-resolution JPEG format for easy viewing, and the final edited high-resolution JPEGs are delivered via Dropbox within 7 to 10 working days. ● Outdoor Photoshoots: At your preferred Singapore location, you'll get professional photography with editing. Expect around 30-60 edited photos per hour, all delivered in high-resolution JPEG format via Dropbox within 7-10 working days. Contact Information: Address: Foo Wah Industrial Building, 45 Jalan Pemimpin #07-04 Singapore 577197 Phone: +65 8875 8092 Email: [contact@mountstudio.com.sg](mailto:contact@mountstudio.com.sg) 2. Firefly Photography Firefly Photography is a photo studio in Singapore that offers various services like corporate, family, and wedding photography. It started in 2012 with a partnership with a tech company and introduced outdoor family photoshoots, which were unique at the time. Over the years, it grew, securing contracts with big names like Nestle and Wildlife Reserves Singapore. Since 2014, it's been part of the National Day Parade. Key Features: ❖ With 10 years of experience, Firefly Photography handles corporate projects for various clients, from government agencies to small businesses and multinational corporations. ❖ They have a fully-equipped studio for corporate headshots, group photos, and commercial shoots. You can also choose to shoot at your preferred location. ❖ Their professional team ensures a comfortable experience during the shoot. ❖ They offer a 360 Virtual Tour service to enhance your brand's online presence. Corporate Photography Services: ● Professional Corporate Photoshoots: Tailored photography sessions designed to meet the specific needs and branding of corporate clients, ensuring high-quality images for marketing and promotional materials. ● Corporate Headshots: Expertly captured portraits focused on individuals within the corporate environment, ideal for professional profiles, websites, and marketing materials. ● Group Corporate Photoshoots: Sessions designed to capture teams and groups within the corporate setting, promoting unity and teamwork through visually engaging images. ● Lifestyle Photography: Photography sessions that capture the essence and atmosphere of the corporate environment, showcasing the culture, values, and daily life of the organisation. ● Commercial and Stock Photography: High-quality images suitable for commercial use, including advertising, marketing, and editorial purposes, available for licensing or purchase. ● 360 Virtual Tour: Immersive virtual tours that provide an interactive and engaging experience, allowing viewers to explore corporate spaces remotely and gain a comprehensive understanding of the environment. ● Corporate Video Production: Professional video production services tailored to corporate clients, including promotional videos, training videos, interviews, and corporate event coverage. Contact Information: Address: 1 Yishun Industrial Street 1, A'Posh Bizhub, #07-19, Singapore 768160 Phone: +65 9147 3301 Email: [info@fireflyphotographysg.com](mailto:info@fireflyphotographysg.com) 3. Memoire Photography https://preview.redd.it/0xonmzusij0d1.jpg?width=597&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b10c8765aaf3d1e91cc009f1e37c8d7b3c7ea6c1 In the dynamic world of corporate photoshoot, where professionalism meets creativity, Memoire Photography emerges as a beacon of innovation and excellence. Nestled in the heart of Singapore, Memoire Photography isn't just a studio; it's a testament to the fusion of artistry and business acumen. Specialising in corporate photo shooting, as one explores what makes Memoire unique, they invite you on a journey where every picture tells a powerful story of corporate identity and success. Key Features: ❖ Strategically situated in the bustling heart of Singapore, Memoire Photography enjoys a prime location easily reachable for clients from all corners of the city. ❖ Memoire Photography has a really advanced studio with the latest technology. They're great for corporate headshots, team photos, and commercial shoots. ❖ At Memoire Photography, clients can expect a seamless and enjoyable experience, From initial consultation to the final delivery, they prioritise client comfort and satisfaction, ensuring a stress-free and productive photo session. ❖ With a keen eye for detail and mastery of post-production techniques, they ensure that every image is meticulously edited to perfection, resulting in polished and professional visuals that truly stand out. ❖ Prior to the shoot, clients receive personalised style consultations to ensure that the visual aesthetic aligns seamlessly with their brand identity and objectives. Corporate Photography Services: ● Tailored Corporate Photoshoots: Professional photo shoots are available to encapsulate the essence of any company, ranging from the dynamics of office spaces to discussions in boardrooms, aiming to generate imagery that enhances marketing materials. ● Executive Portraits: Catering to companies seeking to exhibit their team's professionalism, expertly captured executive portraits offer an ideal solution, suitable for incorporation into websites, profiles, and promotional materials. ● Team Building Sessions: Fostering unity and collaboration, interactive group photoshoots encapsulate the collaborative spirit, whether involving the entire team or specific departments. ● Company Culture Photography: Lifestyle photography sessions breathe life into corporate culture by capturing its values, ethos, and daily activities, providing a window into the core of the organisation. ● Commercial Imagery: Premium-quality product photoshoot commercial imagery boosts brand visibility, serving various purposes ranging from advertising to editorial requirements, poised to augment marketing endeavours. Contact Information: Address: 246 MacPherson Road #02-01 (Betime Building) Singapore 348578 Phone: +65 9686 9665 Email: [contact@memoire.sg](mailto:contact@memoire.sg) Website : https://www.memoire.sg 4. The Beautybox Studio Since its establishment in 1998, The Beautybox Studio has been a premier destination for creative and personalised photography services. With a focus on both studio and location photography, the team at The Beautybox Studio is committed to delivering exceptional portrait photography and image styling. With a collective experience of 25 years, they aim to maintain their position as one of Singapore's top makeover and photography studios. The Beautybox Studio offers a comprehensive experience, combining a sense of luxury, visual appeal, and exceptional service. Key Features: ❖ Their experienced photographers take the time to understand each client's needs, ensuring a tailored experience. ❖ Beautybox constantly explores new angles and expressions to make each image special. ❖ With full-time makeup artists and hairstylists, they offer convenience and expertise to enhance clients' appearance for the shoot. ❖ Their beauty professionals have at least five years of experience, guaranteeing top-notch service and confidence in front of the camera. Corporate Photography Services: ● Headshot Passport: The Beautybox Studio takes professional headshot photos that are great for resumes, applications, and company IDs. ● Half-Body Photoshoots: They specialise in half-body photos that show off your personality for business purposes. They offer makeup and hairstyling to make you look your best. ● Lifestyle Photography: They also do lifestyle photos that are more casual and friendly, perfect for social media or professional profiles. ● Black+White Photoshoots: They offer classic black and white photos that focus on your expressions and presence. ● Premiere Photography: With professional makeup and hairstyling, they ensure you look confident in every photo. They take high-quality photos for business use. ● Group Photoshoots: They take photos of corporate teams for internal or external use, showing unity and professionalism. ● Cabin Crew Photoshoots: They provide studio-quality photos at your office, with expert lighting and backgrounds, perfect for cabin crew and other corporate needs. Contact Information: Address: 452 North Bridge Road #02-00 Chan Brothers Bldg, Singapore 188733 Phone: +65 6835 3012 Email: [enquiry@beautyboxstudio.com.sg](mailto:enquiry@beautyboxstudio.com.sg) Website : https://www.beautyboxstudio.com.sg/ https://preview.redd.it/fbluzv5vij0d1.jpg?width=597&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=103db6dc180c00ee3aaf2d74789e2ba7d6ceef34 5. Shoot You SG Highly recommended for budget-friendly professional photo sessions, Shoot You SG was founded in 2017, specialising primarily in corporate photography. Alongside corporate services, the studio extends its expertise to family, wedding, and event photography. Adding to its offerings, Shoot You SG provides photo booth rentals for corporate gatherings. Key Features: ❖ Collaborations with renowned corporate entities like AIA, BreadTalk, Smollan, Great Eastern, and IPP. ❖ Flexibility for off-site shoots at locations of your choice. ❖ Esteemed for its prompt and expert photography services. ❖ Spacious and cosy studio setup, including a dedicated area for outfit changes. ❖ The photographer team prides itself on being affable, approachable, and supportive, guiding clients with poses and angles." Corporate Photography Services: ● Corporate Full-Body: Up to 20 images to choose from. 1 selected softcopy (retouched/edited) in full-body & head-crop (from same image) (3600px by 2400px), only applicable for 1 (white, grey & black) backdrop. ● Corporate Half-Body: Up to 20 images to choose from. 1 selected softcopy (retouched/edited) in half-body & head-crop (from same image) (3600px by 2400px), only applicable for 1 (white, grey & black) backdrop. ● Half-Body Portfolio: Up to 50 images to choose from. 1 selected softcopy (retouched/edited) in half-body & head-crop (from same image) (3600px by 2400px), only applicable for 1 (white, grey & black) backdrop. ● Corporate Group Photography: Expertly composed and lit portraits that showcase the unity and professionalism of your corporate team. ● Event Photography: High-quality portraits of attendees, speakers, and VIP guests, showcasing their engagement and participation in the event. ● Photo Booth for Events: The team begins its process once clients reserve the photo booth session. They tailor logos, fonts, and designs to ensure each one possesses its unique flair, aligning seamlessly with the chosen theme. The team suggests maintaining simplicity and minimalism in the designs to ensure guests remain the focal point of the event. Contact Information: Address: Wintech Centre, 6 Ubi Road 1, #06-01 Singapore 408726 Phone: +65 9382 8465 Email: [reachus@shootyou.sg](mailto:reachus@shootyou.sg) 6. Dato Photograph For over a decade and a half, Dato Photograph has been the go-to destination for diverse photography needs in Singapore. With a rich history of fifteen years, they've solidified their reputation as a trusted provider of top-notch photography services. Founded by a collective of seasoned professionals with backgrounds spanning photography, modelling, magazine editorial, and event coordination, Dato Photograph brings a wealth of expertise to every project they undertake. Key Features: ❖ Dato Photograph's portfolio includes collaborations with renowned publications like the esteemed corporate magazine, AsiaX. ❖ Clients enjoy the perk of unlimited shots during their sessions, ensuring every angle and moment is captured flawlessly. ❖ Need to spice up your shoot? Dato Photograph provides a selection of complimentary accessories and themed costumes to add that extra flair. ❖ Convenience is key, as the studio extends complimentary transportation services for location shoots, making the entire process hassle-free for their clientele. Corporate Photography Services: ● Passport Photo: Passport photos serve as a visual identification tool, capturing the essence of an individual in a standardised format, ensuring seamless border crossings and official documentation worldwide. ● Corporate Headshot: Skilfully captured portraits spotlighting individuals within the corporate realm, tailored for enhancing professional profiles, websites, and marketing collateral with a distinctive touch. ● Location or Outdoor Photoshoot: Capture the essence of your story amidst nature's canvas. Let Dato Photography frame your moments in the breathtaking backdrop of the great outdoors. Contact Information: Address 1: 12 Arumugam Road, Singapore 409958 Address 2: 115C Canberra Walk, Singapore 753115 Phone: +65 9484 4344 Email: [datophotograph@gmail.com](mailto:datophotograph@gmail.com) 7. Our Momento Our Momento, a family-operated photography collective based in Singapore, specialises in providing a range of photography and videography services since its establishment in 2023. Their focus lies in outdoor photography, including corporate portraits, led by Jori Goh and Cynthia Lim, the studio's principal photographers. Key Features: ❖ Our Momento offers straightforward pricing without hidden fees or extra charges per photo. They also give discounts for regular business collaborations. ❖ Specialising in outdoor shoots, they provide a fresh perspective for corporate portraits, alongside traditional studio options. ❖ Clients can discuss their ideas freely in an initial consultation at no extra cost. ❖ With a turnaround time of 7 to 10 days, clients receive edited photos promptly for their projects. Corporate Photography Services: ● Professional Headshots: Let your team's professionalism shine with expertly captured headshots, highlighting their confidence and approachability. ● Team Photoshoots: Showcase your team's unity and spirit with group portraits that capture the essence of collaboration. ● Company Events Coverage: Preserve the excitement and success of your company events with comprehensive photo coverage. ● Environmental Portraits: Tell your company's story with portraits that incorporate your workspace or industry, adding authenticity to your brand. ● Candid Photos: Capture genuine moments of connection and laughter with candid snapshots that reflect your company culture. Contact Information: Address: Jurong West Street 42, Block 419, Singapore 640419 Phone: +65 8020 2902 Email: [contact@ourmomento.sg](mailto:contact@ourmomento.sg) 8. White Room Studio Looking to capture a memorable moment? Look no further than White Room Studio. This family-owned establishment has been a fixture in the photography world since 2009. Their studio is a one-of-a-kind space flooded with natural light, ensuring your photos stand out. Whether it's a corporate event, a family gathering, or a glamorous photoshoot, their creativity and spacious studio are ready to bring your vision to life. Key Features: ❖ Step into their studio, a quaint shophouse filled with natural light. The absence of harsh studio lighting creates a soft, welcoming atmosphere that enhances every photograph, ensuring a natural and captivating feel. ❖ Their studio isn't your typical sterile environment. It's a space meticulously designed to ignite creativity. Offering a variety of backgrounds and settings, clients can bring their unique visions to life. Whether it's a rustic backdrop or a modern setting, their studio serves as a versatile canvas for creative expression. ❖ Their studio offers a variety of photoshoot options to suit every story. Whether it's a romantic couple shoot or a playful family portrait, they've got something for everyone. Their team works closely with clients to ensure each session reflects their unique style and personality. Corporate Photography Services: ● Headshot: White Room Studio offers corporate headshot photography that's redefining the industry. They specialise in creating professional images that enhance clients' presence on platforms like LinkedIn and within their professional networks. From CEOs and small business owners to fitness instructors, musicians, life coaches, doctors, and recent graduates, White Room Studio crafts headshots that exude confidence and professionalism for individuals from diverse backgrounds. ● Corporate Branding: They prioritise listening to clients of all sizes and industries. Whether it's in recruitment, shipping, insurance, construction, hospitality, healthcare, aviation, financial services, or banking, they ensure that every corporate portrait reflects the message represented by the business. ● Personal Branding: showcases your unique personality. Whether you aim for a warm and professional attitude or a vibrant and approachable vibe, they tailor your approach to suit your style. Contact Information: Address: 219 River Valley Road . Level 2, Singapore 238277 Phone: +65 6235 7037 Email: [enquiry@whiteroomstudio.com.sg](mailto:enquiry@whiteroomstudio.com.sg) 9. Lumiere Photography Pte Ltd Meet Lumiere Photography – the premier option for partnering with leading corporations, global VIPs, and governmental dignitaries. Renowned for their prowess in crafting striking corporate photo shoot in Singapore, this team is adept at leaving a memorable mark. Their skilled crew, consistently attired with finesse and fluent in English, adds a layer of elegance to each endeavour. Lumiere Photography has adeptly captured prestigious occasions featuring influential personalities, ensuring prompt delivery of impeccable images ideal for urgent press releases. Key Features: ❖ Lumiere Photography gets your press photos to you quickly, helping you meet your media deadlines without hassle. ❖ They create impressive videos and photos that tell your corporate story in a visually stunning way, ensuring your content stands out. ❖ With a talented team dressed to impress, Lumiere Photography not only captures amazing shots but also upholds your company's image at every event. Corporate Photography Services: ● Portrait Photography: Are you always rushing to find a good photo for your LinkedIn, resume, or Facebook? No need to worry anymore! With lots of experience taking pictures for big companies, Lumiere Photography Pte Ltd will make sure you look great in your suit and tie. ● Studio Photoshoot: Lumiere Photography Pte Ltd offers clients the opportunity to indulge their friends and/or family in a delightful one-hour photoshoot experience within the comfort of their studio. They ensure a bug-free, sweat-free environment, allowing everyone to enjoy the session to the fullest. Contact Information: Address: 1 Yishun Industrial Street 1, A, #07-19/22 Posh Bizhub, Singapore 768160 Phone: +65 9023 8794 Email: [info@LumierePhotographySg.com](mailto:info@LumierePhotographySg.com) 10. Oh Dear Studio Established in 2010, Oh Dear Studio in Blair Plain, Singapore, offers expert photography services capturing the city's timeless charm. Led by founder Melody Lin, the studio specialises in corporate and personal portraits, blending professionalism with artistic flair. 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2024.05.15 09:13 Beautiful_Location76 How do you interpret these bars from Kendrick's America Has a Problem verse?
Say Bey, yes, America got a problem Geeked up, choosy love, well, they chose violence Universal, please don't play possum I'm a businеssman doin' as followsI noticed at least six or seven bars in Kendrick's recent diss tracks opposing the music industry, from very simple bars like "I'll crash out like fuck rap," "fuck you n***** and fuck the industry too," and "the industry can hate me, fuck em all and they mama," to what feels like a foreboding line in "the industry's cooked as I pick the carcass apart," and then obviously the more detailed demonization that makes up a lot of the second verse of Meet the Grahams. I've honestly really been wondering if these could be hints that his upcoming project will further explore corruption and depravity in the music industry and if his criticism of Drake was just a precursor, but that question could have a whole thread to itself.
With these themes in mind though, these bars stuck out to me when I listened to America Has a Problem again recently, but I'm honestly not sure what to make of them.
The most obvious line to consider is "Universal, please don't play possum." Were there any specific events going on at the time of this track's release that he might be referring to? Do you think he was already planning to go against Drake or the music industry at the time of writing this, and this will be one of those bars that is a lot more interesting down the line than it was initially? Anything else I or other fans might not be aware of here?
He sets interesting context for this line by referencing the title of the track and declaring that America indeed has a problem, and then elaborating that an ambiguous "they" have chosen violence. (Who is they? America as a whole? Pop culture? The music industry again? Universal specifically?) Then he follows up with the businessman line, which I also don't really know what to make of. Maybe the "doing as follows" bit is meant to be read as him having issues with the industry, but also recognizing the need for him to play the game (do as follows) to a certain extent in order to maintain his influence.
Who knows, maybe a few of these lines just weren't meant to be looked into that deeply, and he was just flowing, but Kendrick has conditioned me to really investigate what he might have in mind when he writes, and given the context of his recent songs and his attitude about the music industry, I'd be really curious to see if anyone has any extra thoughts about these lines that might give them more context or fill us in on what Kendrick is getting at here.
Do you think his next project will expand further on his issues with the music industry? I think that could be a fascinating angle to hear Kendrick's perspective on, especially considering again that there seems to be a lot of behavior going on behind the scenes that he takes issue with.
Edit: Right as I posted this, I considered that "doing as follows" may actually reference his next few lines:
Truthfully, I be lyin' in my rap song 'Cause I always fail to mention I'd slap homiе His career didn't come with no life insurance Hope his day one fans got some facts on himMaybe this was also a hint that he was going to go at Drake and potentially others soon. He's acknowledging that he has built a very peaceful persona, but wants to remind us that he'll still slap homie if necessary, as he has clearly proven in the past couple of weeks. Those last two bars could even be taken as directly talking about Drake, saying that his career isn't big enough to protect his life itself (either from literal death or from fucking his life up by messing with minors and/or sex traffickers), and that he hopes Drake's biggest fans come to realize what he's actually been doing. Those same bars don't just have to reference Drake though, the same could be said for any big artists who Kendrick is anticipating being convicted of awful stuff down the line. So perhaps "doing as follows" was meant to prepare us for this brief exploration of how/why he'll slap homie.
2024.05.15 09:11 Sweet-Count2557 15 Things to Do on a New Paltz Family Day Trip
 | 15 Things to Do on a New Paltz Family Day Trip Are you looking for a perfect family day trip destination near New York City? Well, you might be surprised to learn that New Paltz, located just 90 miles north of the bustling city, offers a plethora of activities for the whole family to enjoy.From picturesque hiking trails to fascinating museums, this charming town has something for everyone.So, whether you're an outdoor enthusiast, history buff, or simply looking to indulge in delicious food, join us as we uncover the 15 things you can do on a New Paltz family day trip.Trust us, you won't want to miss out on the exciting options that await you!Key TakeawaysOutdoor activities in New Paltz include hiking, rock climbing, biking, and canoeing/kayaking.There are various indoor activities such as visiting museums, attending performances, and playing at indoor parks.Educational activities include visiting art museums, learning about history, and exploring science centers.Families can enjoy dining at family-friendly restaurants, visiting parks and playgrounds, and exploring farms in the area.Outdoor ActivitiesWhen it comes to outdoor activities in New Paltz, there's no shortage of options for adventure and exploration. The town is surrounded by beautiful natural landscapes, making it the perfect destination for hiking and rock climbing enthusiasts.New Paltz is home to numerous hiking trails that cater to all skill levels, offering breathtaking views and the opportunity to connect with nature. One popular hiking destination is the Mohonk Preserve, which boasts over 8,000 acres of stunning scenery. Here, you can choose from a variety of trails that wind through forests, meadows, and along the Shawangunk Ridge. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced hiker, there's a trail for everyone to enjoy.For those seeking a more adrenaline-fueled adventure, rock climbing at The Gunks is a must. The Shawangunk Mountains are renowned for their world-class rock climbing routes, attracting climbers from all over the world. With its challenging cliffs and unique rock formations, The Gunks offer an exhilarating experience for climbers of all levels.Whether you're a nature lover or an adrenaline junkie, New Paltz has something to offer for everyone. The hiking trails and rock climbing opportunities in the area are unparalleled, providing endless possibilities for outdoor exploration. So, grab your hiking boots and harness, and get ready to embark on an unforgettable adventure in the heart of New Paltz.Indoor ActivitiesIndoor activities in New Paltz offer a diverse range of options for families looking to escape the elements and enjoy some quality time together. Whether you're looking for a little friendly competition or a chance to unleash your creativity, there's something for everyone.For those who love a good challenge, there are plenty of indoor games to keep you entertained. Head to the local arcade and try your hand at classic games like skee-ball and air hockey. Or, if you're feeling a bit more adventurous, check out the escape room where you can put your problem-solving skills to the test. With a variety of themes and difficulty levels, it's sure to be a thrilling experience for the whole family.If you're in the mood for something a bit more hands-on, why not try a creative workshop? There are several places in New Paltz where you can learn a new skill or craft. From pottery classes to painting workshops, there's no shortage of opportunities to let your imagination run wild. Not only will you have a blast creating something unique, but you'll also have a special keepsake to take home with you.No matter what your interests may be, New Paltz has plenty of indoor activities to keep you entertained. So, why not gather the family and escape the elements for a day of fun and adventure? Whether you're competing in indoor games or getting creative in a workshop, you're sure to make memories that will last a lifetime.Educational ActivitiesNew Paltz offers a wide range of educational activities that will engage and inspire the whole family. Here are three hands-on workshops and interactive exhibits that are sure to captivate your curiosity and expand your knowledge:The Dorsky Museum of Art: Step into a world of artistic expression as you explore the thought-provoking exhibits at the Dorsky Museum. From contemporary installations to classic masterpieces, this museum showcases a diverse collection that will ignite your imagination. Engage in interactive workshops where you can create your own artwork and experiment with different mediums.The Samuel Dorsky Museum of Art: Located on the SUNY New Paltz campus, the Samuel Dorsky Museum of Art offers a unique opportunity to delve into the world of contemporary art. Immerse yourself in thought-provoking exhibits that challenge societal norms and spark conversations. Participate in hands-on workshops led by professional artists, where you can learn new techniques and unleash your creative potential.The Science Discovery Center: Embark on a journey of scientific exploration at the Science Discovery Center. Engage with interactive exhibits that bring the wonders of science to life. From experimenting with electricity to exploring the mysteries of the natural world, this center offers a captivating experience for all ages. Participate in hands-on workshops where you can conduct experiments and discover the scientific principles that shape our world.As you embark on your New Paltz family day trip, these educational activities won't only provide valuable learning experiences but also foster a sense of wonder and curiosity. So, embrace the freedom to explore, discover, and expand your knowledge as you engage with these immersive hands-on workshops and interactive exhibits.Family-Friendly RestaurantsLet's dive into the delicious world of family-friendly restaurants in New Paltz, where you can indulge in mouthwatering meals that cater to all tastes and preferences. New Paltz is home to some of the best family-friendly restaurants, offering a wide range of cuisines that will satisfy even the pickiest eaters. Whether you're craving Italian, Mexican, or just a good old-fashioned burger, the restaurants in New Paltz have got you covered. Here are some of the top places to eat with kids in New Paltz:RestaurantCuisineHighlightsMain Course Catering & RestaurantAmericanOffers a kids' menu with options for all agesP&G's RestaurantItalianWood-fired pizza that will leave you craving for moreMexicali BlueMexicanColorful and flavorful dishes that kids will loveMoriello's GelatoDessertsHomemade gelato that will satisfy your sweet toothMain Course Catering & Restaurant is a popular choice for families, with its diverse menu that includes everything from burgers and sandwiches to pasta and seafood. They even have a kids' menu with options that will please even the pickiest eaters.If you're in the mood for some authentic Italian cuisine, P&G's Restaurant is the place to be. Their wood-fired pizza is a favorite among locals, and their pasta dishes are cooked to perfection.For a taste of Mexico, head to Mexicali Blue. Their colorful and flavorful dishes will transport you straight to Mexico, and they offer a variety of options for kids.And of course, no family day trip is complete without dessert. Stop by Moriello's Gelato for some homemade gelato that will satisfy your sweet tooth. With a wide range of flavors to choose from, there's something for everyone.These are just a few of the best family-friendly restaurants in New Paltz. Whether you're looking for a quick bite or a sit-down meal, you're sure to find something that the whole family will enjoy.Parks and PlaygroundsAs we continue our exploration of family-friendly activities in New Paltz, let's venture into the world of outdoor fun and discover the parks and playgrounds that offer endless adventures for kids of all ages. New Paltz is home to some of the best parks for picnics and family-friendly playgrounds. Here are three must-visit outdoor destinations that will provide a sense of freedom and joy for the whole family:Hasbrouck Park: This park is a perfect spot for a family picnic. Spread out your blanket on the lush green grass and enjoy a delicious meal while surrounded by the beauty of nature. The playground in Hasbrouck Park offers a variety of equipment for kids to climb, slide, and swing, ensuring hours of fun and excitement.Sojourner Truth Park: With its basketball court and picnic area, Sojourner Truth Park is a fantastic place for families to gather and enjoy outdoor activities. Let the kids shoot some hoops while you relax and soak up the sun. Pack some snacks and have a delightful picnic in the shaded picnic area, creating lasting memories together.Nyquist-Harcourt Wildlife Sanctuary: For a peaceful and serene picnic experience, head to the Nyquist-Harcourt Wildlife Sanctuary. This hidden gem is a haven for nature lovers and families alike. With its beautiful trails, lush greenery, and abundant wildlife, it offers the perfect backdrop for a relaxing picnic. Let the kids explore the surroundings and discover the wonders of the natural world.New Paltz's parks and playgrounds provide a sense of freedom and adventure for families seeking outdoor fun. Whether you're enjoying a picnic, playing on the playground, or simply exploring the beauty of nature, these destinations offer endless opportunities for family bonding and creating cherished memories. So grab your picnic basket, gather the family, and embark on an exciting day of outdoor exploration in New Paltz.Family-Friendly FarmsFamily-Friendly Farms in New Paltz offer a unique and educational experience for families looking to connect with nature and learn about farm life. These farms provide a variety of family-friendly farm activities that are both fun and educational.One popular activity is visiting farm petting zoos, where children can interact with and learn about different farm animals. At Kelder's Farm, families can enjoy a petting zoo experience like no other. You can pet and feed a wide range of animals, including goats, sheep, pigs, and even llamas. Kids will love getting up close and personal with these friendly animals, and it's a great opportunity for them to learn about animal care and farm life.Saunderskill Farms is another great option for families looking for a farm experience. In addition to their fresh produce and baked goods, they also have a petting zoo where kids can meet and greet farm animals. From chickens and ducks to rabbits and goats, children can learn about different animal species and their roles on the farm.Apple Hill Farm is a must-visit for families interested in learning about farm animals. They offer guided tours where kids can see cows, horses, pigs, and more. The knowledgeable staff will explain the importance of each animal and how they contribute to the farm's operations.Family-friendly farms in New Paltz provide a hands-on experience that allows children to learn about farm life in a fun and engaging way. Whether it's petting and feeding animals at a farm petting zoo or taking a guided tour to learn about different farm animals, these activities are sure to create lasting memories for the whole family.Family-Friendly EventsAfter exploring the family-friendly farms in New Paltz and learning about farm life, it's time to discover the exciting and entertaining world of family-friendly events in this vibrant town. New Paltz offers a variety of events that are perfect for the whole family. Here are three events that are sure to evoke joy and create lasting memories:New Paltz Regatta and Rubber Duck Race: Join in the fun at the annual New Paltz Regatta and Rubber Duck Race. Watch as colorful rubber ducks race down the Wallkill River, and cheer for your favorite as they compete for the finish line. This event is filled with laughter, excitement, and friendly competition.New Paltz Winter Carnival: Embrace the winter season at the New Paltz Winter Carnival. This event features a range of activities for all ages, including ice skating, sledding, snowman building, and even a snowball fight. Warm up with hot cocoa and enjoy the festive atmosphere as you make memories with your loved ones.New Paltz Halloween Parade: Get into the spirit of Halloween at the New Paltz Halloween Parade. Dress up in your favorite costume and join the community in a lively parade filled with music, dancing, and plenty of candy. This event is perfect for families who love the thrill of Halloween and want to celebrate together.These family-friendly events in New Paltz provide an opportunity to bond with loved ones, embrace the joy of community, and create cherished memories. Whether it's cheering on rubber ducks, enjoying winter activities, or celebrating Halloween, these events offer something for everyone.Historical SitesNew Paltz is home to a rich tapestry of historical sites that offer a glimpse into the town's fascinating past. From the Huguenot Street Historic District to the Deyo House Historic Site, there are many places to explore and learn about the town's history. Take a step back in time with historical walking tours and immerse yourself in the past with historical reenactments.Here is a table showcasing some of the historical sites in New Paltz:Historical SitesDescriptionHuguenot Street Historic DistrictA National Historic Landmark that preserves the unique history and culture of the Huguenots who settled in New Paltz in the 17th century.Deyo House Historic SiteExplore this historic house museum that showcases the lifestyle of a wealthy 19th-century family in New Paltz.Historic Huguenot Street CemeteryDiscover the final resting place of the Huguenot settlers and learn about their lives and contributions.Historical walking tours provide a great opportunity to explore these sites and gain a deeper understanding of New Paltz's history. Knowledgeable guides will lead you through the streets, sharing interesting anecdotes and stories along the way. You'll feel as if you've traveled back in time as you walk in the footsteps of those who came before.For an even more immersive experience, don't miss the chance to witness historical reenactments. These events bring history to life as actors dress in period costumes and recreate significant moments from New Paltz's past. Whether it's a battle reenactment or a colonial market, you'll be transported to a different time and gain a newfound appreciation for the town's history.New Paltz's historical sites offer a window into the past and provide a unique and educational experience for the whole family. So, grab your walking shoes and prepare to be captivated by the rich history that awaits you in this charming town.Nature CentersAs we continue our exploration of New Paltz, let's now turn our attention to the fascinating world of nature centers. These centers offer a unique opportunity to connect with nature, learn about wildlife, and engage in hands-on activities.Here are three exciting nature center activities that are sure to captivate the whole family:Wildlife Education Programs: Immerse yourself in the wonders of the natural world through engaging wildlife education programs. From interactive exhibits to live animal presentations, these programs provide a chance to learn about local ecosystems, animal behavior, and conservation efforts. Get up close and personal with fascinating creatures and gain a deeper appreciation for the delicate balance of our planet's biodiversity.Guided Nature Walks: Embark on a guided nature walk led by knowledgeable naturalists who'll introduce you to the diverse flora and fauna of the region. Explore scenic trails while learning about the unique features of the local ecosystem. Observe birds in their natural habitats, identify different plant species, and discover the hidden wonders of the natural world. These walks offer a chance to reconnect with nature and experience the serenity of the great outdoors.Nature-themed Workshops: Participate in nature-themed workshops that foster creativity and appreciation for the environment. From art classes inspired by the beauty of nature to hands-on activities focused on sustainability, these workshops provide an opportunity to learn new skills while deepening your connection with the natural world. Engage in eco-friendly crafts, explore nature-inspired photography, or try your hand at creating nature journals. These workshops are a perfect blend of education and fun.Nature centers offer a wealth of opportunities to learn, explore, and connect with the natural world. Engage in wildlife education programs, join guided nature walks, and participate in nature-themed workshops to create lasting memories and foster a sense of wonder and appreciation for our planet's incredible biodiversity.Water ActivitiesTo make the most of your family trip to New Paltz, immerse yourselves in a world of water activities that offer fun and adventure for everyone.New Paltz is surrounded by beautiful bodies of water, providing plenty of opportunities for water sports and boat tours.If you're looking for some excitement, try your hand at water sports on the Hudson River. You can rent paddleboards or kayaks and explore the scenic river at your own pace. Feel the rush as you paddle through the gentle currents and take in the breathtaking views of the surrounding mountains.For a more relaxing experience, consider taking a boat tour on the Hudson River. Hop aboard a comfortable vessel and let the knowledgeable guides show you the sights. Cruise along the river while learning about the history and wildlife of the area. Keep your eyes peeled for bald eagles soaring above and maybe even catch a glimpse of a playful seal.No matter which water activity you choose, be sure to pack sunscreen, towels, and a sense of adventure. Remember to stay hydrated and respect the environment by practicing responsible water sports and leaving no trace behind.Arts and CraftsLooking to unleash your creativity and explore the world of arts and crafts in New Paltz? You're in luck! This vibrant town offers a variety of opportunities for art workshops and handmade crafts that will inspire and delight. Here are three exciting options to consider:Mud and Fire Pottery Studio: Step into the world of pottery and get your hands dirty at Mud and Fire Pottery Studio. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced artist, their pottery classes cater to all skill levels. Learn the art of throwing clay on a wheel, hand-building techniques, or glazing and firing your creations. The studio provides a supportive and encouraging environment where you can let your imagination run wild and create unique, one-of-a-kind pieces.Fiber Flame Studio: If textile arts are more your style, then Fiber Flame Studio is the place to be. This cozy and inviting studio offers a wide range of classes and workshops, including fiber arts, mixed media, and collage. Dive into the world of fabric, yarn, and paper as you explore various techniques such as weaving, knitting, and needle felting. Let your creativity flow as you create beautiful and intricate pieces that reflect your personal style.Wallkill River School of Art: Immerse yourself in the world of painting at the Wallkill River School of Art. This art school and gallery offers a variety of painting classes for all ages and skill levels. From acrylics to watercolors, landscapes to portraits, there's something for everyone. Learn from experienced instructors who'll guide you through the process, helping you develop your skills and unleash your artistic potential. Whether you're a seasoned painter or just starting out, the Wallkill River School of Art is the perfect place to express yourself and create masterpieces.With these art workshops and handmade crafts, New Paltz provides the perfect opportunity to explore your creative side. Let your imagination soar as you engage in these artistic endeavors and discover the freedom of self-expression. Whether you choose pottery, textile arts, or painting, you're sure to have an unforgettable experience that will leave you inspired and fulfilled.Sports and RecreationNew Paltz offers a wide range of exciting sports and recreational activities that are sure to keep the whole family entertained and active. Whether you're looking for outdoor adventures or indoor fun, there's something for everyone in this vibrant town.For those who enjoy outdoor activities, New Paltz is a paradise. You can explore the numerous hiking trails in Mohonk Preserve, where breathtaking views and serene nature await. If rock climbing is your thing, head to The Gunks, a world-renowned climbing destination. Biking enthusiasts can pedal along the Wallkill Valley Rail Trail, while water lovers can canoe or kayak on the Hudson River.If you prefer indoor activities, there are plenty of options as well. Visit the Children's Museum of the Hudson Valley, where kids can learn and play at the same time. Explore the Historic Huguenot Street, a living museum that takes you back in time. You can also catch a performance at the McKenna Theatre or bounce around at the indoor trampoline park, Bounce!New Paltz is also home to family-friendly sports facilities. Play a round of mini-golf at the Apple Greens Golf Course or try horseback riding at the Payne Farm Too. The SUNY New Paltz Tennis Courts are perfect for a friendly game of tennis, and the New Paltz Golf Course offers a beautiful setting for a round of golf. If you're visiting during the colder months, don't miss the opportunity to go ice skating at the Kiwanis Ice Arena.No matter what your interests are, New Paltz has something for everyone. So gather your family and get ready for a day filled with excitement and adventure in this charming town.Day TripsEmbark on a day trip from New Paltz and immerse yourself in the beauty and culture of the surrounding areas. There are plenty of nearby towns to explore, each offering its own unique attractions and landmarks. Here are three options that are sure to evoke a sense of adventure and freedom:Visit the Walkway Over the Hudson in Poughkeepsie: Take a stroll across the longest elevated pedestrian bridge in the world and soak in breathtaking views of the Hudson River and surrounding landscapes. Feel the wind in your hair as you walk along the expansive bridge, enjoying the freedom of being suspended high above the water.Explore the Mohonk Mountain House in New Paltz: Step back in time as you explore this historic Victorian castle nestled in the heart of the Shawangunk Mountains. Wander through lush gardens, hike scenic trails, or relax by the lake. Immerse yourself in the natural beauty of the area and revel in the freedom of being surrounded by nature.Discover the Storm King Art Center in New Windsor: Lose yourself in the vast outdoor sculpture park that spans over 500 acres of rolling hills and fields. Marvel at the impressive collection of large-scale sculptures by renowned artists. As you wander through the expansive landscape, you'll feel a sense of freedom and liberation as you explore the intersection of art and nature.These day trips offer the perfect opportunity to escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life and indulge in the freedom of exploration. So pack your bags, hit the road, and let the adventure begin!ShoppingWhen it comes to shopping in New Paltz, there's no shortage of unique and charming stores to explore. Whether you're looking for local boutiques or artisan markets, this town has it all.One of the must-visit places for shopping in New Paltz is the Water Street Market. This picturesque market is home to a variety of shops that offer everything from handmade jewelry to vintage clothing. You can spend hours browsing through the quaint stores and discovering one-of-a-kind treasures.Another great shopping destination in New Paltz is the New Paltz Plaza. This shopping center offers a wide range of stores, including popular retail chains and local businesses. You can find everything you need, from clothing and accessories to home decor and electronics. The plaza also has plenty of dining options, so you can grab a bite to eat after a day of shopping.If you're looking for unique and handmade crafts, the Unframed Artists Gallery is the place to go. This gallery features the work of local artists and artisans, offering a wide range of handmade items such as pottery, paintings, and sculptures. It's the perfect place to find a special gift or a piece of artwork to decorate your home.For fresh and local produce, don't miss the New Paltz Farmers Market. This market is held every Sunday and features a variety of vendors selling fruits, vegetables, dairy products, and more. It's a great place to support local farmers and enjoy the flavors of the Hudson Valley.In addition to these shopping destinations, Main Street in New Paltz is lined with charming antique shops. You can browse through a wide selection of vintage furniture, clothing, and collectibles, and maybe even find a hidden gem.With its local boutiques, artisan markets, and charming antique shops, New Paltz is a shopper's paradise. Whether you're searching for unique gifts, handmade crafts, or fresh produce, you're sure to find it in this vibrant town. So grab your wallet and get ready to explore the wonderful world of shopping in New Paltz.Seasonal ActivitiesAs the seasons change in New Paltz, there are a variety of activities that offer something for everyone to enjoy. From winter wonderlands to festive markets, here are three seasonal activities that will ignite your sense of adventure and create lasting memories:Christmas Tree Farms: Immerse yourself in the spirit of the holiday season by visiting one of the charming Christmas tree farms in New Paltz. Bring your family along and wander through rows of beautifully decorated trees, breathing in the crisp winter air as you search for the perfect centerpiece for your home. The joy of finding and cutting down your own Christmas tree is an experience that will bring smiles to faces of all ages.New Paltz Winter Farmers Market: Embrace the cozy atmosphere of the winter season by visiting the New Paltz Winter Farmers Market. This vibrant market showcases an array of local vendors offering fresh produce, artisanal goods, and homemade treats. Stroll through the market, savoring the scents of warm apple cider and freshly baked bread. Engage with the friendly vendors, supporting their small businesses and discovering unique treasures that will delight your taste buds and nourish your body.New Paltz Spring Clean-Up Day: As the winter months transition into spring, join the community in a day of rejuvenation and restoration. Participate in the New Paltz Spring Clean-Up Day, where families come together to beautify their town by cleaning up parks, streets, and public spaces. This hands-on activity not only promotes a sense of civic pride and environmental stewardship but also fosters a deeper connection with the community. Pitch in with your loved ones, rolling up your sleeves and making a tangible difference in the place you call home.Celebrate the changing seasons in New Paltz with these engaging and family-friendly activities. Whether you're searching for the perfect Christmas tree, exploring a winter farmers market, or giving back to your community, there's always something special to do in this vibrant town. So, embrace the freedom of the seasons and create unforgettable memories with your loved ones.Frequently Asked QuestionsAre There Any Nearby Wineries or Vineyards to Visit During a New Paltz Family Day Trip?Yes, there are nearby wineries and family-friendly vineyards to visit during a New Paltz family day trip. You can explore the Robibero Family Vineyards, where you can enjoy wine tastings and beautiful views of the vineyards.Another option is the Whitecliff Vineyard & Winery, which offers a variety of award-winning wines and a picnic area for families to relax and enjoy.These wineries provide a perfect opportunity to unwind and experience the local wine culture while spending quality time with your loved ones.What Are Some Family-Friendly Hiking Trails in the New Paltz Area?When it comes to family-friendly hiking trails in the New Paltz area, there are plenty of options to choose from.Take a leisurely stroll through the beautiful Mohonk Preserve, where you can enjoy scenic views and picnic spots along the way.Or, explore the trails at Minnewaska State Park, which offer a mix of easy and moderate hikes suitable for all ages.These local attractions for kids are the perfect way to connect with nature and create lasting memories as a family.Are There Any Family-Friendly Museums or Art Galleries in New Paltz?Yes, there are family-friendly museums and art galleries in New Paltz.The Dorsky Museum of Art is a great place to explore various art exhibits and learn about different artistic styles.The Samuel Dorsky Museum of Art is another museum that showcases contemporary art and offers educational programs for families.These museums provide a fun and educational experience for all ages, making them perfect destinations for a family day trip in New Paltz.Where Can Families Go for Swimming or Water Activities in New Paltz?For families looking for swimming spots or water activities in New Paltz, there are some great options to choose from.You can swim in the beautiful Lake Minnewaska, go fishing in the Wallkill River, or even try paddleboarding on the Wallkill River.Additionally, you can enjoy a boat tour on the Hudson River or have a picnic at the scenic Rosendale Trestle, which overlooks the Rondout Creek.There are plenty of opportunities for water fun in New Paltz!What Are Some Options for Family-Friendly Lodging in New Paltz for an Overnight Stay?When it comes to family-friendly lodging in New Paltz for an overnight stay, there are plenty of options to choose from. From cozy bed and breakfasts to spacious vacation rentals, there's something for every family's needs and preferences.These accommodations offer comfortable amenities and a welcoming atmosphere, ensuring a memorable and enjoyable stay for both parents and kids.With a range of kid-friendly activities in New Paltz, families can explore the outdoors, visit museums, and indulge in delicious meals, creating lasting memories together.ConclusionAs the sun sets on our family day trip to New Paltz, we carry with us memories that sparkle like the stars in the night sky.From soaring high on hiking trails to immersing ourselves in art and history, we discovered the beauty and wonder of this charming town.With bellies full of delicious meals and hearts full of joy, we bid farewell to New Paltz, knowing that our adventure will forever be etched in the tapestry of our family's story. submitted by Sweet-Count2557 to worldkidstravel [link] [comments] |
2024.05.15 09:09 LucarioOfLegends [100 Girlfriends] No, body swapping is not an excuse to bypass consent.
100 Girlfriends is a series that I think is pretty neat, considering its been my hyperfixation for the past couple of years. It's very much a solid riff at the genre of harem romcoms and takes at lot of time to actually break down each member of its cast and really ask how their character quirks really affect them, eventually transforming into world's weirdest group dynamic, where more attention is given towards how each girl interacts with each other as the cast expands ever further. Though that doesn't stop the showcases of sheer love and dedication that Rentarou is willing to convey every time he gets the spotlight. Also its funny as hell.
Hardly means its perfect though, as people have pointed out the many flaws of the story, including its pacing, the questionable nature of its relationships due to the age gaps and familial relations, as well as a general dislike of the whole 100 soulmates plot device. I'd love to discuss and refute these point in a later post (particularly the last one boy do I have counterarguments to certain objections) but this prelude is long enough as is, so let's get talking about the main subject of this rant: Chapter 119 aka Fondle Festival 2.
Momiji Momi is the 15th girlfriend introduced, and she has a naturally contentious main quirk. She is a training masseuse with a fascination for soft things, a fascination that spreads specifically to the body parts of others. This results in a penchant towards groping both the girls and Rentarou alike, usually with no direct ask to do so from Momiji.
This is a questionable trait and runs the natural risk of turning her into a Mineta, but a few different factors keep it decently justifiable. The main point here is she is constantly giving out massages to Rentarou's Family and others, usually before any sort of inappropriate gropage. Hell, her first interaction was Rentarou finding her after massaging the school's entire tennis team, who had literally collapsed from the sheer pleasure and relief of the massage, and in her introduction to the group proper she straight up offers to massage the rest of the cast first and foremost, and only after is the cast willing to offer up their bodies for feeling up. It takes on a sort of transactional exchange, the cast gets free massages from Momiji, and Momiji gets to indulge in her urge to touch where she wants (sans probably the d and the v). And the entire cast seems pretty fine with it, not really reacting after a while most of the time.
Momiji also isn't just focused on the fanservice bits; her penchant for soft things stretches to bouncy house, hot buns, bread dough, and Nami boob mouse pads. Even just looking at the human body she is interested is far from boobs and butts, going to cheeks, stomachs, hands, arms, and backs. While she still is there to highlight the goods when the time comes, Momiji comes off much more than a character exclusively meant to justify fanservice, even if she is debatably the simplest and flattest girl of the main cast so far.
Enter Fondle Festival 2, generally considered one of the series few actual misses chapter wise alongside the obnoxious introductory chapters of Chiyo as well as Beef Tongue, which I could write an entire other rant about so help me god. But Fondle Festival 2 has its status for a reason, as it very much murks up the ideas of consent.
To keep things brief, Momiji ends up swapping bodies with Rentarou through the powers of a convenient drug brewed up by resident ridiculous scenario causer Kusuri, and immediately goes to grope the boobs of every single girl on the rooftop with her new boy hands without the girls realizing its Momiji for a significant amount of time and absolutely without them giving a clear thumbs up.
Consent is a bit of a grey area in 100 Girlfriends more generally, mainly because as a gag series it does have a status quo that it needs to maintain for its cast. Usually most characters are pretty good about their ridiculous demands in terms of directly asking about it, but no matter how many times the characters say no or tell them to stop, such questions and actions will of course continue in the next chapter simply due to wanting to be able to pull out those traits for jokes again. Momiji herself is a perpetrator considering how often her groping is considered a gag in a panel even if it is making the characters uncomfortable, though she is far from the worst offender (looking at you Hahari). For the most part characters are willing to call out stuff that is actively bad and say in pretty uncertain terms that its terrible, but this stuff still does happen due to the nature of the genre and how characters are defined.
In the context of Fondle Festival 2, the girls in question are...mostly okay with it? They acknowledge that this is a weird situation and bunch actually take advantage of said situation to fulfill their less than kosher desires, and by the end its revealed that basically all of them caught onto what had happened and were totally taking advantage of it.
The problems start with only most of the girlfriends being okay with it. Uto completely breaks her chuuni bard persona and is left frozen in shock at such an event, unclear if she was okay with it. Several girls try to get Momiji to stop and get an unwanted grope because of it, and Mimimi straight up slaps Momiji (who Mimimi assumed was Rentarou) and insinuates for them to stop, but Momiji continues undetered. Multiple girls very clearly and explicitly give a sign that they are not okay with this and they need to stop, yet Momiji continues to make them feel uncomfortable.
My largest problem, however, is when you realize that Momiji is using Rentarou's body for this. Rentarou is a bastion of chastity in essentially every regard, going to frankly ridiculous length to prevent any sexual advances from the girls or himself. He straight up does not allow himself to think of the girls in a sexual if he can allow it, as he sees it as demeaning of the girls themselves and that would be a failure on his part. Is it a kind of ridiculous belief? Yes. Is it still his own belief that he holds up to the best of his ability? Also yes, and that needs to be respected.
Fondle Festival 2, in my humble opinion, does not respect that belief in a really frustrating way. I can't say for certain what good body swapping etiquette is, but I don't imagine that going off in someone else body and doing something that stands directly against their characterization, especially since Rentarou was knocked out for most of this, and Momiji even ends up groping Rentarou/her own chest, which makes this even murkier.
Momiji does end up getting some level of comeuppance by the end of the chapter through a taste of her own medicine and she fully apologizes to the girls about the whole incident in the bonus page of the chapter, but I'd argue the damage has been done and it doesn't stop the gross feeling I got when reading the chapter, either the original japanese raws or the translated version.
While I can shrug off a lot about this series, this flagrant ignoring of both the girls and Rentarou in this situation for the sake of a bit did not jive with me. Consent is important y'all.
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Hardly means its perfect though, as people have pointed out the many flaws of the story, including its pacing, the questionable nature of its relationships due to the age gaps and familial relations, as well as a general dislike of the whole 100 soulmates plot device. I'd love to discuss and refute these point in a later post (particularly the last one boy do I have counterarguments to certain objections) but this prelude is long enough as is, so let's get talking about the main subject of this rant: Chapter 119 aka Fondle Festival 2.
Momiji Momi is the 15th girlfriend introduced, and she has a naturally contentious main quirk. She is a training masseuse with a fascination for soft things, a fascination that spreads specifically to the body parts of others. This results in a penchant towards groping both the girls and Rentarou alike, usually with no direct ask to do so from Momiji.
This is a questionable trait and runs the natural risk of turning her into a Mineta, but a few different factors keep it decently justifiable. The main point here is she is constantly giving out massages to Rentarou's Family and others, usually before any sort of inappropriate gropage. Hell, her first interaction was Rentarou finding her after massaging the school's entire tennis team, who had literally collapsed from the sheer pleasure and relief of the massage, and in her introduction to the group proper she straight up offers to massage the rest of the cast first and foremost, and only after is the cast willing to offer up their bodies for feeling up. It takes on a sort of transactional exchange, the cast gets free massages from Momiji, and Momiji gets to indulge in her urge to touch where she wants (sans probably the d and the v). And the entire cast seems pretty fine with it, not really reacting after a while most of the time.
Momiji also isn't just focused on the fanservice bits; her penchant for soft things stretches to bouncy house, hot buns, bread dough, and Nami boob mouse pads. Even just looking at the human body she is interested is far from boobs and butts, going to cheeks, stomachs, hands, arms, and backs. While she still is there to highlight the goods when the time comes, Momiji comes off much more than a character exclusively meant to justify fanservice, even if she is debatably the simplest and flattest girl of the main cast so far.
Enter Fondle Festival 2, generally considered one of the series few actual misses chapter wise alongside the obnoxious introductory chapters of Chiyo as well as Beef Tongue, which I could write an entire other rant about so help me god. But Fondle Festival 2 has its status for a reason, as it very much murks up the ideas of consent.
To keep things brief, Momiji ends up swapping bodies with Rentarou through the powers of a convenient drug brewed up by resident ridiculous scenario causer Kusuri, and immediately goes to grope the boobs of every single girl on the rooftop with her new boy hands without the girls realizing its Momiji for a significant amount of time and absolutely without them giving a clear thumbs up.
Consent is a bit of a grey area in 100 Girlfriends more generally, mainly because as a gag series it does have a status quo that it needs to maintain for its cast. Usually most characters are pretty good about their ridiculous demands in terms of directly asking about it, but no matter how many times the characters say no or tell them to stop, such questions and actions will of course continue in the next chapter simply due to wanting to be able to pull out those traits for jokes again. Momiji herself is a perpetrator considering how often her groping is considered a gag in a panel even if it is making the characters uncomfortable, though she is far from the worst offender (looking at you Hahari). For the most part characters are willing to call out stuff that is actively bad and say in pretty uncertain terms that its terrible, but this stuff still does happen due to the nature of the genre and how characters are defined.
In the context of Fondle Festival 2, the girls in question are...mostly okay with it? They acknowledge that this is a weird situation and bunch actually take advantage of said situation to fulfill their less than kosher desires, and by the end its revealed that basically all of them caught onto what had happened and were totally taking advantage of it.
The problems start with only most of the girlfriends being okay with it. Uto completely breaks her chuuni bard persona and is left frozen in shock at such an event, unclear if she was okay with it. Several girls try to get Momiji to stop and get an unwanted grope because of it, and Mimimi straight up slaps Momiji (who Mimimi assumed was Rentarou) and insinuates for them to stop, but Momiji continues undetered. Multiple girls very clearly and explicitly give a sign that they are not okay with this and they need to stop, yet Momiji continues to make them feel uncomfortable.
My largest problem, however, is when you realize that Momiji is using Rentarou's body for this. Rentarou is a bastion of chastity in essentially every regard, going to frankly ridiculous length to prevent any sexual advances from the girls or himself. He straight up does not allow himself to think of the girls in a sexual if he can allow it, as he sees it as demeaning of the girls themselves and that would be a failure on his part. Is it a kind of ridiculous belief? Yes. Is it still his own belief that he holds up to the best of his ability? Also yes, and that needs to be respected.
Fondle Festival 2, in my humble opinion, does not respect that belief in a really frustrating way. I can't say for certain what good body swapping etiquette is, but I don't imagine that going off in someone else body and doing something that stands directly against their characterization, especially since Rentarou was knocked out for most of this, and Momiji even ends up groping Rentarou/her own chest, which makes this even murkier.
Momiji does end up getting some level of comeuppance by the end of the chapter through a taste of her own medicine and she fully apologizes to the girls about the whole incident in the bonus page of the chapter, but I'd argue the damage has been done and it doesn't stop the gross feeling I got when reading the chapter, either the original japanese raws or the translated version.
While I can shrug off a lot about this series, this flagrant ignoring of both the girls and Rentarou in this situation for the sake of a bit did not jive with me. Consent is important y'all.