Unblocking gamertag
They just get worse with time
2024.01.10 06:13 Classic_Calendar_506 They just get worse with time
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2023.12.10 22:44 lm_NER0 December Giveaway
It's my my birthday this month, and I'm hitting that downhill slide to 40. To help mourn celebrate the occasion, I decided to do a giveaway that should be easily accessible to just about everyone.
To win the Super Hellcat, you need to deal exactly 3636 damage (or as close as possible)
One random non-winning entry will receive a private war chest.
EDIT: I'm also deleting all the happy birthday comments so nobody gets tempted to game the sort system. Thanks to all!
Further edit: I'm stupid. Sort by old won't work due to making a better entry than your original. Might as well unblock all the other comments.
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So what are your prizes?
An Era 2 Super M48 or a Tier 7 Super Hellcat.What do you have to do?
To win the Super M48, you need to assist exactly 3636 damage (or as close as possible).To win the Super Hellcat, you need to deal exactly 3636 damage (or as close as possible)
One random non-winning entry will receive a private war chest.
What are the rules?
- Make a single
postcomment with a screenshot of your game which must be dated December 10 or later, showing as close as possible to the numbers listed above. - You may edit up that
postcomment until the end of the competition. I will close it at some point on Wednesday, December 20, probably after work, and I'm in US Eastern time zone. IMPORTANT - I will sort by oldest first and look for your first entry and that is the one I will use, so don't make multiple entries. - You can only win both competitions if you win them in the same game. That means dealing and assisting 3636 damage in one match. If this happens, you can pick which of the two tanks you want and get either the Krampus skin for the Maus or a war chest as your second prize. WG rules say we can't give one person two tanks.
- If you already own the tanks listed, I can credit you the Krampus skin or a war chest instead.
- As always, you MUST be willing to give me your gamertag/PSN name so I can enter it on a spreadsheet that WG will credit giveaways from. You don't have to include it in the post, but it will make crediting easier. If we have to do it after the fact and you don't get back to me in time, you will forfeit your prize.
What if there is a tie?
I will break ties in the following order:- The Price is Right: closest without going over (3635 beats 3637)
Whomever posts their screenshot first (I'm sorting by old, so it'll be the first 3636 I find.)This isn't going to work. I'll think of something.
EDIT: I'm also deleting all the happy birthday comments so nobody gets tempted to game the sort system. Thanks to all!
Further edit: I'm stupid. Sort by old won't work due to making a better entry than your original. Might as well unblock all the other comments.
2023.11.22 00:41 Destruction4999 People randomly becoming unblocked from my block list?
Hey everyone. Recently noticed something weird on xbox concerning the block list. I have players that I have blocked due to toxicity and other reasons (welcome to the gaming world) but I have noticed that for some reason some of the people who I have blocked in the past have somehow gotten removed from the list and when I go to their gamertag to see the block status it doesnt say “unblock” like it normally would if someone was blocked it simply has the option to block them as if I have never done it previously and I never touch my block list. Is this an Xbox glitch or is there a reason for this? Not sure what the point of a blocklist is if people are just gonna randomly become unblocked without my doing. If anyone knows about this or experienced something similar or as to why this is happening please share!
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2023.10.02 18:19 coip To Improve Halo 5 Matchmaking Odds, Consider Cleaning Up Your 'Blocked Player' List
Since blocking people on Xbox prevents you from matchmaking against them in online games, for those who want to increase their odds of fast matchmaking in Halo 5, you may consider going back through your list of blocked players and giving some people on it a second chance.
Obviously, if you had a valid reason for blocking someone (e.g. harassment, repeated betrayals, etc.), absolutely keep them blocked, but from talking with people in my Spartan Company, in the nearly 8 years since Halo 5 came out, there could've been all sorts of reason why you blocked someone--e.g. smurf account, team shooting or betrayals (perhaps some that maybe weren't even intentional), didn't like their play style, perhaps they got in your way and it irked you, maybe they went AFK and it cost you a win, maybe they were too good and you were tired of getting stuck playing against them, or maybe you just thought their gamertag was stupid.
Regardless of the reason, if you'd like to unblock people now that the matchmaking population isn't as robust, you can do this on your Xbox console via the following steps described in this article:
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Obviously, if you had a valid reason for blocking someone (e.g. harassment, repeated betrayals, etc.), absolutely keep them blocked, but from talking with people in my Spartan Company, in the nearly 8 years since Halo 5 came out, there could've been all sorts of reason why you blocked someone--e.g. smurf account, team shooting or betrayals (perhaps some that maybe weren't even intentional), didn't like their play style, perhaps they got in your way and it irked you, maybe they went AFK and it cost you a win, maybe they were too good and you were tired of getting stuck playing against them, or maybe you just thought their gamertag was stupid.
Regardless of the reason, if you'd like to unblock people now that the matchmaking population isn't as robust, you can do this on your Xbox console via the following steps described in this article:
- Press the Xbox button on your controller to bring up the guide.
- Go to your profile, select it, and choose to view your full profile.
- Right bumper over to the Social tab, and then scroll down on the left menu to 'Following', and from there, where it says 'Everything' in the middle of the screen, the drop-down menu and choose 'Blocked'.
- From there you will see a list of every player you've ever blocked on Xbox. You can then select each person's gamertag that you want to unblock and press 'A' to go to their profile.
- Once there, choose the 'More' drop-down menu to the right sidebar and then select 'Unblock'.
- Press 'B' twice to get back to the block list and repeat Step #4 and #5 as you wish.
2023.07.16 22:48 ChromedBunny This game is literally unplayable on my series x
Like I said, I’ve been trying SINCE THIS GAME CAME OUT to get past the first fucking cutscene. Literally have not played a second of this game since it’s release. Game freezes 20 seconds into the main menu or 5 into the first cutscene. I have literally done everything to fix this issue. Factory reset my Xbox and redownloaded the game for like my 20th time this morning and now instead of just sending me to the Xbox home menu the game completely crashes my Xbox. It just shuts down and when I turn it back on I get a warning saying to make sure my airflow is unblocked and that the Xbox automatically shuts off whenever it’s about to overheat. Funny thing is I literally took apart and cleaned my series x two weeks ago. The air holes are clean as could be and my Xbox isn’t hot. When my wife plays COD it gets so much hotter than Jedi survivor makes it. Even filed a complaint with the BBB over this with no response. Also before anybody asks, I don’t have any games in my quick resume, nothing plugged into my Xbox other than the power cord, HDMI and Ethernet cable, no custom gamertag pic, HDR is turned off, performance mode is on, and everything on my Xbox is up to date. Please help:(
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2023.06.02 02:00 Formal_Vast_9271 I keep trying to get away but they keep coming back, I don't know what to do
About 2 years ago I decided to cut all contact with someone who I will refer to throughout this story as "P" for convenience. I decided to cut contact because he was effecting my mental health in a very negative way, he'd exploit any insecurity I had/have, he'd berate me constantly about whatever he could think of that would make me feel down about myself. I should mention that all of my interactions with P were online.
P was someone who essentially thought that his "freedom of speech" meant he could be an insensitive AH to whoever he wanted without consequence. He'd commonly use slurs, even if the people he was talking were very clearly uncomfortable with him saying them. he was very integrated with my friend group so I felt like I had to put up with him and accept the mental and emotional tole his bullying was taking whenever me and my friends would talk online, he would commonly be invited on with us. He essentially used "freedom of speech" as an excuse to bully/harass people without consequence.
I often felt like I needed to hide my feelings about him from my friends as usually I was just told I was being "petty" or that "he just likes edgy humor" whenever I tried to bring up my problems with him to my friends. There's a line between edgy humor and genuine harassment and to him that line didn't exist. Usually in edgy humor it's not personally directed at someone day after day after day picking at all the insecurities they didn't even know they had, but according to whatever twisted definition he had, his actions were not only acceptable but excusable.
Eventually my feelings boiled over, the emotional and mental tole this had taken on me lead to me trying to harm myself. I'm fine now, luckily one of my close friends talked me out of it and got me help. I spoke to a counsellor about P and she suggested that I block him and cut contact since the mental tole was beginning to get to this extent. I spoke to my friends about it and due to the severity of the situation they agreed. The following days were hell, there was a lot of pushback from my friends about my previous decision to block P. Since he was integrated into my friend group the main conflict was trying to schedule online calls, if he was on, I wouldn't be on and if I was on, I'd leave the second he joined the call.
I reluctantly agreed to be in a call with him in our discord server, I had him muted. I was dead silent during that call, I was afraid to speak just knowing P was there, I eventually left the call without saying a word, I said about 2 at most. Due to discords abysmal blocking feature he could still hear me even after being blocked. He could still @ me, he could still see messages I posted, he could still get in a call with me on a server with no problems. Blocking on discord essentially restricts you more than it restricts the person you're blocking.
After I left the call one of my friends messaged me, concerned, asking what happened, I told them I couldn't be in a call with them due to the anxiety I felt knowing he was there. Fortunately my friend understood, I didn't have to be in a call with him, they said that they'd work out what works best. Meanwhile, according to one of my friends, he called me a "schizo" essentially saying that I was making it all up. I should probably mention that the initial arguments I had about him and why I blocked him were mainly built on emotion, and since a lot of the bullying happened mostly over call I didn't have any evidence aside from a few screenshots of a few messages he sent, messages which weren't nearly as bad as the bullying I experienced on call with him.
My friends right before I blocked him were planning to start a co-op Minecraft world on Minecraft Bedrock. It included everyone in our friend group, including him. We agreed that it could work, as long as I wasn't in a call with him. They all went in a call with him and I was on my own, messaging my friend every now and again. I went away from spawn and noticed someone following me, I thought nothing of it and set up a small base a bit away from spawn and continued on. A while later my friend messages me repeatedly "blood for the blood god" on discord, I see P's gamertag through the wall of the cave I had set up in. He tunneled through and I exited the game.
In any other context, if that had been any other person tunneling through my wall, I would have found it really funny and laughed it off, even if I had to start from nothing. The fact it was him, immediately after I'd made it clear I didn't want any more interaction with him, it just upset me. I know it sounds petty, especially considering it's Minecraft of all games, but it was more than just that. It was the idea that no matter what boundaries I set, no matter what I say, he's still there. After that I was done, I set my heels into the ground, HARD! I explained to my friend that, for the sake of my mental wellbeing, I did not want any more interactions with P, he understood, and for a while after that things seemed good. I built another base on the Minecraft world, went in calls with my friends when P wasn't online and it seemed to work out. There didn't appear to be any problems...
Until a few months later.. My close friend who originally got me help (who I'll refer to as "M" for the remainder of the post for the sake of convenience) started insinuating that I made up all the stuff about P and that maybe I'm overreacting. At that point I felt the worst I'd ever felt, I felt like I had no one left to trust. On top of that, P started coming into the calls when I was in them to taunt me and essentially exploit the fact that I didn't want to be in a call with him to bully me out of a call. He was essentially setting up an ultimatum, either I stay in the call, anxious and wait for him to leave, or I leave and let him successfully make me leave the call. Some of my friends were also arguing for him, saying that I was overreacting and that I should unblock him. I felt like everything was coming apart, the situation I'd set up for myself for my mental health was being threatened from multiple angles, and it sucked.
That lasted for about 2 weeks to a month and eventually I managed to once again drive my heels into the ground and explain that there is no way in hell I'm ever talking to P again. After that, Most of my friends either supported that decision and didn't attempt to interfere with it anymore, or they reluctantly agreed that this is for the best. From then on, for about 2 years, things went well, aside from a few minor instances and a few arguments here and there, things were pretty well, I didn't have to talk to him, my mental health slowly started getting better, and things looked bright, I could finally rest knowing I got through it.
That brings us to present day, me and my friends have a small discord server mainly for us to make shitposts, organize calls, set up plans for whatever game we're playing at that time, etc. Basically just a group chat, but with different channels and a music bot. Things were going well, I felt way better than I did when I was talking to P, I was going through some personal stuff but I still felt better than I did back then. A few days ago P was added to the server by one of my friends, and everyone seems to just accept that now. that's the current position I'm in, a group that I took comfort in and that I could post whatever dumb joke/meme in for my friends to enjoy, is now somewhere I feel unsafe, vulnerable, due to this AH. I'm too scared to bring it up to my friends because I don't what to go through the hell that the first time trying to convince them was again.
It feels like I've gotten nowhere, thankfully my mental health is still good, I haven't posted anything in the server since he joined, I haven't joined any calls since either. I decided to distract myself with other hobbies and interests I have for now, but I know eventually this situation will come up, and I don't know what to do. My friends, as much as they may come off as assholes in this story, are my friends, and aside from this situation they're honestly amazing people, and I don't want to lose them over this AH, but I also don't want to lower the boundaries I have set up with P because setting those boundaries up was the best decision I've ever made, not only for my mental health but also for my own confidence in setting boundaries like that in other situations.
It should also be mentioned that M never stopped defending P, whenever I'd try to vent to her about him and how I feel it'd usually end in some lecture about how I'm the bad guy for blocking him and holding all this against him, and it sucks because she was one of my closest friends, and I feel like I've lost the trust I once had in her all because of P. It feels like no matter what I do he always finds some angle to play this, some way to get at me, I feel powerless, like no matter what I do, he keeps coming back!! I don't know what to do, and I guess that's the sentiment in this entire post, I don't know what to do. I don't want to rebuild a bridge just to have to burn it again, but I feel like he's trying to make that my only option, and I feel trapped.
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P was someone who essentially thought that his "freedom of speech" meant he could be an insensitive AH to whoever he wanted without consequence. He'd commonly use slurs, even if the people he was talking were very clearly uncomfortable with him saying them. he was very integrated with my friend group so I felt like I had to put up with him and accept the mental and emotional tole his bullying was taking whenever me and my friends would talk online, he would commonly be invited on with us. He essentially used "freedom of speech" as an excuse to bully/harass people without consequence.
I often felt like I needed to hide my feelings about him from my friends as usually I was just told I was being "petty" or that "he just likes edgy humor" whenever I tried to bring up my problems with him to my friends. There's a line between edgy humor and genuine harassment and to him that line didn't exist. Usually in edgy humor it's not personally directed at someone day after day after day picking at all the insecurities they didn't even know they had, but according to whatever twisted definition he had, his actions were not only acceptable but excusable.
Eventually my feelings boiled over, the emotional and mental tole this had taken on me lead to me trying to harm myself. I'm fine now, luckily one of my close friends talked me out of it and got me help. I spoke to a counsellor about P and she suggested that I block him and cut contact since the mental tole was beginning to get to this extent. I spoke to my friends about it and due to the severity of the situation they agreed. The following days were hell, there was a lot of pushback from my friends about my previous decision to block P. Since he was integrated into my friend group the main conflict was trying to schedule online calls, if he was on, I wouldn't be on and if I was on, I'd leave the second he joined the call.
I reluctantly agreed to be in a call with him in our discord server, I had him muted. I was dead silent during that call, I was afraid to speak just knowing P was there, I eventually left the call without saying a word, I said about 2 at most. Due to discords abysmal blocking feature he could still hear me even after being blocked. He could still @ me, he could still see messages I posted, he could still get in a call with me on a server with no problems. Blocking on discord essentially restricts you more than it restricts the person you're blocking.
After I left the call one of my friends messaged me, concerned, asking what happened, I told them I couldn't be in a call with them due to the anxiety I felt knowing he was there. Fortunately my friend understood, I didn't have to be in a call with him, they said that they'd work out what works best. Meanwhile, according to one of my friends, he called me a "schizo" essentially saying that I was making it all up. I should probably mention that the initial arguments I had about him and why I blocked him were mainly built on emotion, and since a lot of the bullying happened mostly over call I didn't have any evidence aside from a few screenshots of a few messages he sent, messages which weren't nearly as bad as the bullying I experienced on call with him.
My friends right before I blocked him were planning to start a co-op Minecraft world on Minecraft Bedrock. It included everyone in our friend group, including him. We agreed that it could work, as long as I wasn't in a call with him. They all went in a call with him and I was on my own, messaging my friend every now and again. I went away from spawn and noticed someone following me, I thought nothing of it and set up a small base a bit away from spawn and continued on. A while later my friend messages me repeatedly "blood for the blood god" on discord, I see P's gamertag through the wall of the cave I had set up in. He tunneled through and I exited the game.
In any other context, if that had been any other person tunneling through my wall, I would have found it really funny and laughed it off, even if I had to start from nothing. The fact it was him, immediately after I'd made it clear I didn't want any more interaction with him, it just upset me. I know it sounds petty, especially considering it's Minecraft of all games, but it was more than just that. It was the idea that no matter what boundaries I set, no matter what I say, he's still there. After that I was done, I set my heels into the ground, HARD! I explained to my friend that, for the sake of my mental wellbeing, I did not want any more interactions with P, he understood, and for a while after that things seemed good. I built another base on the Minecraft world, went in calls with my friends when P wasn't online and it seemed to work out. There didn't appear to be any problems...
Until a few months later.. My close friend who originally got me help (who I'll refer to as "M" for the remainder of the post for the sake of convenience) started insinuating that I made up all the stuff about P and that maybe I'm overreacting. At that point I felt the worst I'd ever felt, I felt like I had no one left to trust. On top of that, P started coming into the calls when I was in them to taunt me and essentially exploit the fact that I didn't want to be in a call with him to bully me out of a call. He was essentially setting up an ultimatum, either I stay in the call, anxious and wait for him to leave, or I leave and let him successfully make me leave the call. Some of my friends were also arguing for him, saying that I was overreacting and that I should unblock him. I felt like everything was coming apart, the situation I'd set up for myself for my mental health was being threatened from multiple angles, and it sucked.
That lasted for about 2 weeks to a month and eventually I managed to once again drive my heels into the ground and explain that there is no way in hell I'm ever talking to P again. After that, Most of my friends either supported that decision and didn't attempt to interfere with it anymore, or they reluctantly agreed that this is for the best. From then on, for about 2 years, things went well, aside from a few minor instances and a few arguments here and there, things were pretty well, I didn't have to talk to him, my mental health slowly started getting better, and things looked bright, I could finally rest knowing I got through it.
That brings us to present day, me and my friends have a small discord server mainly for us to make shitposts, organize calls, set up plans for whatever game we're playing at that time, etc. Basically just a group chat, but with different channels and a music bot. Things were going well, I felt way better than I did when I was talking to P, I was going through some personal stuff but I still felt better than I did back then. A few days ago P was added to the server by one of my friends, and everyone seems to just accept that now. that's the current position I'm in, a group that I took comfort in and that I could post whatever dumb joke/meme in for my friends to enjoy, is now somewhere I feel unsafe, vulnerable, due to this AH. I'm too scared to bring it up to my friends because I don't what to go through the hell that the first time trying to convince them was again.
It feels like I've gotten nowhere, thankfully my mental health is still good, I haven't posted anything in the server since he joined, I haven't joined any calls since either. I decided to distract myself with other hobbies and interests I have for now, but I know eventually this situation will come up, and I don't know what to do. My friends, as much as they may come off as assholes in this story, are my friends, and aside from this situation they're honestly amazing people, and I don't want to lose them over this AH, but I also don't want to lower the boundaries I have set up with P because setting those boundaries up was the best decision I've ever made, not only for my mental health but also for my own confidence in setting boundaries like that in other situations.
It should also be mentioned that M never stopped defending P, whenever I'd try to vent to her about him and how I feel it'd usually end in some lecture about how I'm the bad guy for blocking him and holding all this against him, and it sucks because she was one of my closest friends, and I feel like I've lost the trust I once had in her all because of P. It feels like no matter what I do he always finds some angle to play this, some way to get at me, I feel powerless, like no matter what I do, he keeps coming back!! I don't know what to do, and I guess that's the sentiment in this entire post, I don't know what to do. I don't want to rebuild a bridge just to have to burn it again, but I feel like he's trying to make that my only option, and I feel trapped.
2023.01.01 06:01 tparavani Make a New Friendship on Xbox / Gain a New Follower on Xbox January 2023 Community Missions
Add me on Xbox Live and I'll add you back!
My GamerTag is TParavani (profile pic is my avatar wearing Halo Armor).
To those who have already added me before, I blocked then unblocked you all so it is possible to complete this mission again for both of us.
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My GamerTag is TParavani (profile pic is my avatar wearing Halo Armor).
To those who have already added me before, I blocked then unblocked you all so it is possible to complete this mission again for both of us.
2022.12.07 19:08 tparavani Make a New Friendship on Xbox / Gain a New Follower on Xbox December 2022 Community Missions
Add me on Xbox Live and I'll add you back!
My GamerTag is TParavani (profile pic is my avatar wearing Halo Armor).
To those who have already added me before, I blocked then unblocked you all so it is possible to complete this mission again for both of us.
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My GamerTag is TParavani (profile pic is my avatar wearing Halo Armor).
To those who have already added me before, I blocked then unblocked you all so it is possible to complete this mission again for both of us.
2021.12.01 13:17 BBaddah I can’t tell if she was a catfish or not with me
I’ve told the story before but I met a girl on discord who def had a troubled past. She pretended to be a man online so no guy would harras her due to a random who was abusive according to her and was hacking her this where things got confusing. I think she always had a good heart with me and she meant well she just wanted a escape from reality she was abused when she was younger and her mother is bipolar as well as her father abusing her and she was in homeless shelters she def had low self esteem according to her.
She never wanted to vc with me but she did with other people is what I didn’t get eventually we did voice call and she was a girl. We never did video call.
Eventually she caught feelings for me and she didn’t mean to she always just wanted to be friends and same with me I just wanted to be friends however our conversations was so deep we eventually caught them naturally. We was alike both had troubled past. I remember when she took a break she gave me a bunch of mental health hotlines and she never judged me for my mental health. We got close in June and decided to do a long distance relationship. 4 days in she called it off and said some red flags but wanted to remain friends a week later we got back together and we exchanged photos and mobile number. She deleted photos instantly because she didn’t want me to screenshot but I did just to make sure she was a catfish or not and I ran reverse image search and 0 results. I was in the clear or so I thought. I found out she gave me a fake name and address to her P.O. Box to send gifts too and phone number she accused me she had a bad dream I would leak her number so she changed it. Previous to this she made multiple phone number changes. She’s made multiple accounts in the past. Her response was genuine tho she admitted she has troubled past and wanted to refund me the money for the gifts I sent to her fake address.
This where things got fishy she gave me a gamertag and I searched it up on google and it had a different name and different girl on her pfp on tumblr. I reverse image searched and it was 0 results aswell. I then spoke to someone who knew her and he called her crazy and how she flew to see her ex. She told me the stranger who hacked her was a random turned out she knew him for a year which she later admitted and so her stories didn’t add up and she also gave tha t person a different name.
I still remained friends with her because she was there for me when I was struggling and supporting me. Later she be came toxic and constantly blocked and unblocked every arguement and she became distant to the point she was taking a whole week to reply, I messsed up by sending too many texts here because I panicked something happened to her and she completely went ghost and deleted her account. I knew things where weird when she never FaceTimed or social medias . The constant changing of phone numbers. However I still cared for her deeply because of the conversations we had when we was friends I think she just wanted a friend and never meant to get close with me
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She never wanted to vc with me but she did with other people is what I didn’t get eventually we did voice call and she was a girl. We never did video call.
Eventually she caught feelings for me and she didn’t mean to she always just wanted to be friends and same with me I just wanted to be friends however our conversations was so deep we eventually caught them naturally. We was alike both had troubled past. I remember when she took a break she gave me a bunch of mental health hotlines and she never judged me for my mental health. We got close in June and decided to do a long distance relationship. 4 days in she called it off and said some red flags but wanted to remain friends a week later we got back together and we exchanged photos and mobile number. She deleted photos instantly because she didn’t want me to screenshot but I did just to make sure she was a catfish or not and I ran reverse image search and 0 results. I was in the clear or so I thought. I found out she gave me a fake name and address to her P.O. Box to send gifts too and phone number she accused me she had a bad dream I would leak her number so she changed it. Previous to this she made multiple phone number changes. She’s made multiple accounts in the past. Her response was genuine tho she admitted she has troubled past and wanted to refund me the money for the gifts I sent to her fake address.
This where things got fishy she gave me a gamertag and I searched it up on google and it had a different name and different girl on her pfp on tumblr. I reverse image searched and it was 0 results aswell. I then spoke to someone who knew her and he called her crazy and how she flew to see her ex. She told me the stranger who hacked her was a random turned out she knew him for a year which she later admitted and so her stories didn’t add up and she also gave tha t person a different name.
I still remained friends with her because she was there for me when I was struggling and supporting me. Later she be came toxic and constantly blocked and unblocked every arguement and she became distant to the point she was taking a whole week to reply, I messsed up by sending too many texts here because I panicked something happened to her and she completely went ghost and deleted her account. I knew things where weird when she never FaceTimed or social medias . The constant changing of phone numbers. However I still cared for her deeply because of the conversations we had when we was friends I think she just wanted a friend and never meant to get close with me
2021.12.01 08:10 BBaddah was it me or her i got ghosted after a year
hi everyone,
ive never been close with anyone before i never had much family or friends growing up so not sure if this is normal in a relationship and i need some advice. i met someone a year ago online who i connected with so much to the point we could talk for hours. she was very talkative at the start she would send me 40 texts by the time i woke up my phone was blown up to most people its annoying but i loved it it showed intrest in me and i actually enjoyed her company.
Long story short, someone started harrasing her she told me and she kept making multiple accounts, she would begin by calling everyone crazy and told me some random dude she didnt know kept hacking her then she told me some other dude sexually harassed her online ill get back to this later.
me and her began getting close and we exchanged number instead of communicating on app, 2 days later i noticed the phone number stopped working and i never brought it up but we continued contacting on app. eventually 6 months in, i asked her to be my long distance girlfriend and i found out she had a huge crush on me and i was so happy to find out. we began long distance dating, 4 days in she broke it off saying "you love too much" ngl i was devastated however we continued being friends. a week later she came back running in my dms wanting to be my girlfriend again and so we did. 2 days in she started accusing me of making alts and threatened to break up with me and i told her it wasnt me doing that i dont know whats going on. she eventually apologised and on that day we exchanged names, po box, and phone numbers again. she didnt want to give me social media which was fine and she didnt want to do facetime or voice calls maybe only twice we voice called at this point. she kept flaking on plans so i told her forget about it. 2 days later she changes her phone number without telling me and accuses me that i will leak her number and on dark web which i dont even use and she basically accuses me based off a dream she had. a week later i sent her some flowers and a teddy bear to her po box and it turns out to be fake. she said shes sorry for all the trouble shes caused and she has a history and blamed me for moving too fast and so we broke it off. we agreed to just be friends like before however she told me to be affectionate still. she kept blocking and unblocking every arguement and eventually september came and everything was back to normal. we was on good terms again however i began falling for her again and i messed up. she became very distant and stopped replying to my messages and i panicked something had happened to her and she didnt like i sent multiple messages and she completely went ghost and deleted her account. now im trying to wrap my head around who was this person. she never gave me her socials however she gave me a gamertag and that same one is unique i found her tumblr and it was a different girl than who showed me she is, she also gave another person a fake name. i dont think she catfished me however i think she catfished others. idk im very inexperienced and im drained from it all yet i miss her. those memories we had was great before all this went down. i miss the friendship most.
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ive never been close with anyone before i never had much family or friends growing up so not sure if this is normal in a relationship and i need some advice. i met someone a year ago online who i connected with so much to the point we could talk for hours. she was very talkative at the start she would send me 40 texts by the time i woke up my phone was blown up to most people its annoying but i loved it it showed intrest in me and i actually enjoyed her company.
Long story short, someone started harrasing her she told me and she kept making multiple accounts, she would begin by calling everyone crazy and told me some random dude she didnt know kept hacking her then she told me some other dude sexually harassed her online ill get back to this later.
me and her began getting close and we exchanged number instead of communicating on app, 2 days later i noticed the phone number stopped working and i never brought it up but we continued contacting on app. eventually 6 months in, i asked her to be my long distance girlfriend and i found out she had a huge crush on me and i was so happy to find out. we began long distance dating, 4 days in she broke it off saying "you love too much" ngl i was devastated however we continued being friends. a week later she came back running in my dms wanting to be my girlfriend again and so we did. 2 days in she started accusing me of making alts and threatened to break up with me and i told her it wasnt me doing that i dont know whats going on. she eventually apologised and on that day we exchanged names, po box, and phone numbers again. she didnt want to give me social media which was fine and she didnt want to do facetime or voice calls maybe only twice we voice called at this point. she kept flaking on plans so i told her forget about it. 2 days later she changes her phone number without telling me and accuses me that i will leak her number and on dark web which i dont even use and she basically accuses me based off a dream she had. a week later i sent her some flowers and a teddy bear to her po box and it turns out to be fake. she said shes sorry for all the trouble shes caused and she has a history and blamed me for moving too fast and so we broke it off. we agreed to just be friends like before however she told me to be affectionate still. she kept blocking and unblocking every arguement and eventually september came and everything was back to normal. we was on good terms again however i began falling for her again and i messed up. she became very distant and stopped replying to my messages and i panicked something had happened to her and she didnt like i sent multiple messages and she completely went ghost and deleted her account. now im trying to wrap my head around who was this person. she never gave me her socials however she gave me a gamertag and that same one is unique i found her tumblr and it was a different girl than who showed me she is, she also gave another person a fake name. i dont think she catfished me however i think she catfished others. idk im very inexperienced and im drained from it all yet i miss her. those memories we had was great before all this went down. i miss the friendship most.
2021.12.01 07:48 BBaddah Not sure if her (20f) acting like this with me (22m) is normal
hi everyone,
ive never been close with anyone before i never had much family or friends growing up so not sure if this is normal in a relationship and i need some advice. i met someone a year ago online who i connected with so much to the point we could talk for hours. she was very talkative at the start she would send me 40 texts by the time i woke up my phone was blown up to most people its annoying but i loved it it showed intrest in me and i actually enjoyed her company.
Long story short, someone started harrasing her she told me and she kept making multiple accounts, she would begin by calling everyone crazy and told me some random dude she didnt know kept hacking her then she told me some other dude sexually harassed her online ill get back to this later.
me and her began getting close and we exchanged number instead of communicating on app, 2 days later i noticed the phone number stopped working and i never brought it up but we continued contacting on app. eventually 6 months in, i asked her to be my long distance girlfriend and i found out she had a huge crush on me and i was so happy to find out. we began long distance dating, 4 days in she broke it off saying "you love too much" ngl i was devastated however we continued being friends. a week later she came back running in my dms wanting to be my girlfriend again and so we did. 2 days in she started accusing me of making alts and threatened to break up with me and i told her it wasnt me doing that i dont know whats going on. she eventually apologised and on that day we exchanged names, po box, and phone numbers again. she didnt want to give me social media which was fine and she didnt want to do facetime or voice calls maybe only twice we voice called at this point. she kept flaking on plans so i told her forget about it. 2 days later she changes her phone number without telling me and accuses me that i will leak her number and on dark web which i dont even use and she basically accuses me based off a dream she had. a week later i sent her some flowers and a teddy bear to her po box and it turns out to be fake. she said shes sorry for all the trouble shes caused and she has a history and blamed me for moving too fast and so we broke it off. we agreed to just be friends like before however she told me to be affectionate still. she kept blocking and unblocking every arguement and eventually september came and everything was back to normal. we was on good terms again however i began falling for her again and i messed up. she became very distant and stopped replying to my messages and i panicked something had happened to her and she didnt like i sent multiple messages and she completely went ghost and deleted her account. now im trying to wrap my head around who was this person. she never gave me her socials however she gave me a gamertag and that same one is unique i found her tumblr and it was a different girl than who showed me she is, she also gave another person a fake name. i dont think she catfished me however i think she catfished others. idk im very inexperienced and im drained from it all yet i miss her. those memories we had was great before all this went down. i miss the friendship most.
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ive never been close with anyone before i never had much family or friends growing up so not sure if this is normal in a relationship and i need some advice. i met someone a year ago online who i connected with so much to the point we could talk for hours. she was very talkative at the start she would send me 40 texts by the time i woke up my phone was blown up to most people its annoying but i loved it it showed intrest in me and i actually enjoyed her company.
Long story short, someone started harrasing her she told me and she kept making multiple accounts, she would begin by calling everyone crazy and told me some random dude she didnt know kept hacking her then she told me some other dude sexually harassed her online ill get back to this later.
me and her began getting close and we exchanged number instead of communicating on app, 2 days later i noticed the phone number stopped working and i never brought it up but we continued contacting on app. eventually 6 months in, i asked her to be my long distance girlfriend and i found out she had a huge crush on me and i was so happy to find out. we began long distance dating, 4 days in she broke it off saying "you love too much" ngl i was devastated however we continued being friends. a week later she came back running in my dms wanting to be my girlfriend again and so we did. 2 days in she started accusing me of making alts and threatened to break up with me and i told her it wasnt me doing that i dont know whats going on. she eventually apologised and on that day we exchanged names, po box, and phone numbers again. she didnt want to give me social media which was fine and she didnt want to do facetime or voice calls maybe only twice we voice called at this point. she kept flaking on plans so i told her forget about it. 2 days later she changes her phone number without telling me and accuses me that i will leak her number and on dark web which i dont even use and she basically accuses me based off a dream she had. a week later i sent her some flowers and a teddy bear to her po box and it turns out to be fake. she said shes sorry for all the trouble shes caused and she has a history and blamed me for moving too fast and so we broke it off. we agreed to just be friends like before however she told me to be affectionate still. she kept blocking and unblocking every arguement and eventually september came and everything was back to normal. we was on good terms again however i began falling for her again and i messed up. she became very distant and stopped replying to my messages and i panicked something had happened to her and she didnt like i sent multiple messages and she completely went ghost and deleted her account. now im trying to wrap my head around who was this person. she never gave me her socials however she gave me a gamertag and that same one is unique i found her tumblr and it was a different girl than who showed me she is, she also gave another person a fake name. i dont think she catfished me however i think she catfished others. idk im very inexperienced and im drained from it all yet i miss her. those memories we had was great before all this went down. i miss the friendship most.
2021.11.25 05:14 Hardyz1000 was I (22M) in the wrong or her (20F) i keep blaming myself
im so depressed right now my long distance girlfriend completely disappeared and idk if anything was real. I wil begin by saying we met on discord and we started off as friends, this girl gave me so much attention something i never expected and everyday talking to her was great. she was nerdy like me but also could talk to her about anything without being judged. couple months later i found out she had a crush and she disappeared for a few days, when she found out someone else was talking to me.
i eventually found out this and i told her about my feelings for her, she was so excited we both had feelings for each other. we began a long distance relationship, 4 days in she broke it off, 1 week later she came back and wanted to give it another go. she started accusing me of stalking 2 days in which i never did, someone added her on another account and blamed me. she apologised and we gave each other phone number to communicate over phone up until this point shes only voice called me twice. we would watch her shows and mine until we would meet in december. we agreed to send gifts to each other. i sent her some flowers and teddy bear and i found out the po box she gave me was fake. she told me this later on she lied about her po box, name and phone number and we only lasted a week. we agreed to be friends however she became very toxic she started blocking me after every arguement and unblocks. she never wanted to voice call or video call me. she wanted to still be friends but be affectionate for each other so i did just that and then she backed out and said we arent together why are you showing affection after she told me to do so. she blames me for everything, she literally ghosted me for a month because she had a nightmare of me stalking her. i dont get what shes even talking about i get someone harrassed her a year ago but why did she agree to be in a relationship with me if she was gonna act like this. i found out some information too she gave me her gamertag and accidently found a tumblr with the exact same name, and it was her with a different picture of another girl she was pretending to be and different full name. was she being honest me about who she was. i never confronted her however a month ago she became extremely distant and i messed up. we usually would speak everyday and she suddenly didnt reply for a week and i got concerned for her since she doesnt answer calls i could only text her on discord so i did that and i might of sent too many messages when i had a panic attack next thing is i was blocked and she deleted her account shes gone forever now. i admit i messed up by sending too many messages saying im concerned for her and if i did something aswell. however, our only form of communication was text and she never answered phone calls, she also kept me on edge i wasnt sure if we was a couple still or not. i dont even know if she was really who she was. she never showed me any socials or anything about her. im beating myself up everyday because i miss her compnay still despite all this i never had anyone growing up.
tl;dr - she basically lied about information about herself, hot and cold and would only use text as a form of communication. it was long distance we was friends for a few months and eventually became long distance. she eventually ghosted me. she would frequently give me silent treatment and block and unblock.
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i eventually found out this and i told her about my feelings for her, she was so excited we both had feelings for each other. we began a long distance relationship, 4 days in she broke it off, 1 week later she came back and wanted to give it another go. she started accusing me of stalking 2 days in which i never did, someone added her on another account and blamed me. she apologised and we gave each other phone number to communicate over phone up until this point shes only voice called me twice. we would watch her shows and mine until we would meet in december. we agreed to send gifts to each other. i sent her some flowers and teddy bear and i found out the po box she gave me was fake. she told me this later on she lied about her po box, name and phone number and we only lasted a week. we agreed to be friends however she became very toxic she started blocking me after every arguement and unblocks. she never wanted to voice call or video call me. she wanted to still be friends but be affectionate for each other so i did just that and then she backed out and said we arent together why are you showing affection after she told me to do so. she blames me for everything, she literally ghosted me for a month because she had a nightmare of me stalking her. i dont get what shes even talking about i get someone harrassed her a year ago but why did she agree to be in a relationship with me if she was gonna act like this. i found out some information too she gave me her gamertag and accidently found a tumblr with the exact same name, and it was her with a different picture of another girl she was pretending to be and different full name. was she being honest me about who she was. i never confronted her however a month ago she became extremely distant and i messed up. we usually would speak everyday and she suddenly didnt reply for a week and i got concerned for her since she doesnt answer calls i could only text her on discord so i did that and i might of sent too many messages when i had a panic attack next thing is i was blocked and she deleted her account shes gone forever now. i admit i messed up by sending too many messages saying im concerned for her and if i did something aswell. however, our only form of communication was text and she never answered phone calls, she also kept me on edge i wasnt sure if we was a couple still or not. i dont even know if she was really who she was. she never showed me any socials or anything about her. im beating myself up everyday because i miss her compnay still despite all this i never had anyone growing up.
tl;dr - she basically lied about information about herself, hot and cold and would only use text as a form of communication. it was long distance we was friends for a few months and eventually became long distance. she eventually ghosted me. she would frequently give me silent treatment and block and unblock.
2021.01.06 04:39 xaluun_ Oh Dear old friend Alfie from Scotland. (Alek665)
Hello there people that are reading my post. First of all, I have to ask you guys to forgive my bad grammar and potentially miss spelled a word.
I want to start this off with some information about me that could help finding my old friend. As i was just a child three or four I cant really remember my parents decided to immigrate to a different country as the situation in Poland wasn’t the best at the time. As we got to Ireland, we didnt know anyone. Absolutely no one. My parents tell me stories now that for first month or couple of weeks we had to sleep in a car because they couldnt afford to rent a apartment. As I’m telling you the story I just realized you dont even know my name. My name is Aleks and my gamertag back in the day was “Alek665” or “master of sk1l”. I know kinda cringe but i was young (2003 birth). Anyways coming back to my anecdote of emigrating to Ireland you realize i had nothing. I was too young to start school and for the first two years I was super bored. When i finally got to school, I got picked on and made fun off as I was from another country. Slowly but surely I got depressed. Yes indeed I call it depression as the only thing I could think off is going home and falling asleep. I was a really good student so that made it even worse as I preferred to study instead of going out for meetups with class or field trips. That made the class reputation about me even worse. Going through juniors and seniors with best marks my parents decided to buy me a xbox 360 for christmas. As I didnt see a world beside learning I got really excited. My first game was some fifa. I absolutely loved it and every christmas I asked for the new versions. At around ending of second class Gaming Online was getting big and i asked my parents to buy me xbox gold and help me with all the technical stuff as I didnt know how to do anything. Of course they said no but after long time of being pain in the ass they agreed. If you seen my face as they “okay show me it” you wouldve melted. It took my parents a week to setup everything but I only thought of Gaming. I cant really remember what gamertag I got at first so lets skip that part but I got really pissed. After like 1 year of playing online. I saved up for a microphone. As the community was really toxic it wasnt the best move by me but it actually was. The first match on fifa ultimate team or some other mode I’ve met my probably best friend through primary school. At first we didnt like each other as we played against each other and after a tough match we decided to hate each other a little bit by sending voice thing that were on xbox back in the day. Anyway after some time we decided to jump on xbox party and talk. This was like third class so we were really really young but we got on really well. I remember the first call of duty we played together was cod 4. OMG that were beautiful times. We both sucked ass but we still had fun. I remember we played 1v1 like 80% times and argue that someone cheated or something. We got our first prestiges together and basically he helped me get on my feet and have a reason to live. Finally I had someone to talk to and share my feelings about. Its really sad typing this everything out as its how i became who i became. We played everything together. At times we even had plans to meet but unfortunately he lived in Scotland and I in Ireland. After a couple of years of playing we started to have other friends online. They were mutual but eventually we got different friends. I knew Polish so I met some Poles and talked to them in our language so my friend wasn’t a option to play with us. Don’t get me wrong we still played 90% of the time together but somethings we had enough of each other. Then the worst day of my “gaming” childhood happened. It started of all well got on to play with bestie but after like 5,6 hours of trickshotting on cod:bo2 he had to get off and I was still in the mood of playing. It was the weekend so i could play till 20:00. I forgot to mention this night was like 6th class so last of primary school. Coming back to the story my polish friends wrote to me if I wanted to play and of course I agreed. After playing with them like 2 hours or so i get a message from bestie and asks me if I want to play. I didnt want to choose with friends so i replied that im playing with poles as they asked me to. Suddenly he started sending me alot of messages cursing me out and everything (we used to punchline each other as hell so I was used to it) but this time it was so much that i couldnt handle and got super annoyed because this little box was popping up and couldnt let me focus so i decided to do the one thing i regret to this day. I had blocked him and told myself that i will unblock him tomorrow. If you wouldve seen my face when I couldnt unblock him and neither could i add him. Literally I was trying to get to him for 6 months or so and I couldn’t. Writing this now makes me want to cry as he was the only real friend I could really trust with everything and with one dumb decision I lost it. I couldnt find him so I gave up but after nearly 5 years of living later I decided to find him so im writing this here. Of course i tried to find him during those 5 years but not as much as now. I know i didnt give alot of information about him but i just dont really remember. I can say that his name is Alfie o B.. (I dont want to give all information) and is born and raised in Scotland. He is close up to my age so born in 2003 or 2004. I would really appreciated if someone helped me find him and would be really thankful. He was my best friend and I wont dont let him just go. Thank you for reading my “lecture” and hope you all will find your old friends just as I am planing too. Again thank you Aleksy “Alek665” “Master of skil” L.....
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I want to start this off with some information about me that could help finding my old friend. As i was just a child three or four I cant really remember my parents decided to immigrate to a different country as the situation in Poland wasn’t the best at the time. As we got to Ireland, we didnt know anyone. Absolutely no one. My parents tell me stories now that for first month or couple of weeks we had to sleep in a car because they couldnt afford to rent a apartment. As I’m telling you the story I just realized you dont even know my name. My name is Aleks and my gamertag back in the day was “Alek665” or “master of sk1l”. I know kinda cringe but i was young (2003 birth). Anyways coming back to my anecdote of emigrating to Ireland you realize i had nothing. I was too young to start school and for the first two years I was super bored. When i finally got to school, I got picked on and made fun off as I was from another country. Slowly but surely I got depressed. Yes indeed I call it depression as the only thing I could think off is going home and falling asleep. I was a really good student so that made it even worse as I preferred to study instead of going out for meetups with class or field trips. That made the class reputation about me even worse. Going through juniors and seniors with best marks my parents decided to buy me a xbox 360 for christmas. As I didnt see a world beside learning I got really excited. My first game was some fifa. I absolutely loved it and every christmas I asked for the new versions. At around ending of second class Gaming Online was getting big and i asked my parents to buy me xbox gold and help me with all the technical stuff as I didnt know how to do anything. Of course they said no but after long time of being pain in the ass they agreed. If you seen my face as they “okay show me it” you wouldve melted. It took my parents a week to setup everything but I only thought of Gaming. I cant really remember what gamertag I got at first so lets skip that part but I got really pissed. After like 1 year of playing online. I saved up for a microphone. As the community was really toxic it wasnt the best move by me but it actually was. The first match on fifa ultimate team or some other mode I’ve met my probably best friend through primary school. At first we didnt like each other as we played against each other and after a tough match we decided to hate each other a little bit by sending voice thing that were on xbox back in the day. Anyway after some time we decided to jump on xbox party and talk. This was like third class so we were really really young but we got on really well. I remember the first call of duty we played together was cod 4. OMG that were beautiful times. We both sucked ass but we still had fun. I remember we played 1v1 like 80% times and argue that someone cheated or something. We got our first prestiges together and basically he helped me get on my feet and have a reason to live. Finally I had someone to talk to and share my feelings about. Its really sad typing this everything out as its how i became who i became. We played everything together. At times we even had plans to meet but unfortunately he lived in Scotland and I in Ireland. After a couple of years of playing we started to have other friends online. They were mutual but eventually we got different friends. I knew Polish so I met some Poles and talked to them in our language so my friend wasn’t a option to play with us. Don’t get me wrong we still played 90% of the time together but somethings we had enough of each other. Then the worst day of my “gaming” childhood happened. It started of all well got on to play with bestie but after like 5,6 hours of trickshotting on cod:bo2 he had to get off and I was still in the mood of playing. It was the weekend so i could play till 20:00. I forgot to mention this night was like 6th class so last of primary school. Coming back to the story my polish friends wrote to me if I wanted to play and of course I agreed. After playing with them like 2 hours or so i get a message from bestie and asks me if I want to play. I didnt want to choose with friends so i replied that im playing with poles as they asked me to. Suddenly he started sending me alot of messages cursing me out and everything (we used to punchline each other as hell so I was used to it) but this time it was so much that i couldnt handle and got super annoyed because this little box was popping up and couldnt let me focus so i decided to do the one thing i regret to this day. I had blocked him and told myself that i will unblock him tomorrow. If you wouldve seen my face when I couldnt unblock him and neither could i add him. Literally I was trying to get to him for 6 months or so and I couldn’t. Writing this now makes me want to cry as he was the only real friend I could really trust with everything and with one dumb decision I lost it. I couldnt find him so I gave up but after nearly 5 years of living later I decided to find him so im writing this here. Of course i tried to find him during those 5 years but not as much as now. I know i didnt give alot of information about him but i just dont really remember. I can say that his name is Alfie o B.. (I dont want to give all information) and is born and raised in Scotland. He is close up to my age so born in 2003 or 2004. I would really appreciated if someone helped me find him and would be really thankful. He was my best friend and I wont dont let him just go. Thank you for reading my “lecture” and hope you all will find your old friends just as I am planing too. Again thank you Aleksy “Alek665” “Master of skil” L.....
2020.06.14 10:55 TheGamemage1 My bad choice in friends part 2
This one I didnt really consider a friend more of a friend of a friend, and someone i really didnt like, they friends i made in middle school who didnt stick after middle school insisted that i play with him on xbox along with them. Though i must admit in middle school i was kind of a jerk and had alot of issues that i only started to realize were issues in highschool after reflecting on my time in middle school and made me hate that time even more. But yeah i first met this friend in cub scouts which was about around the 1st grade so ive known him from then, to when the guy popped back up in my IT class in college and recognized him and I quote “hey are you fruityman(I said his actual name but this was one of his many gamertags he made)” he respond with a yeah so i said “I remember you, your a jerk”. But back to the story from my time in cub scout one of the building we used there was a little stage and he pushed me off it and i had bruised my knee from the fall and i wanted to kick his butt afterward and as a kid i was a kid that held grudges i held that grudge for multiple years before dropping it. But yeah jump forward to middle school, and since he was friends with my friends and his mom knew my mom one day he decided to Call my house, wake me up, just to play xbox. He was a bit of a whiny child that annoyed the ever living hell out of me, and when i was doing a solo bot battle to get better at black ops 2 he joined the enemy team and started to kill me without my knowledge he joined my game just to annoy me. He also hunted me down in minecraft multiple times to just kill me over and over to the point when i made worlds to this day in the game i make secret bases to avoid other people. He also sounded like a douche and when ever i insulted him he told his mom and she would tell my mom. My other friends have told me to unmute and unblock the bastard multiple times. After middle school i hadnt heard a peep from the guy till about the middle of high-school when low and behold im in the middle of playing gta5 online on Xbox one. Him and a creepy kid from middle school that wouldnt leave me alone that really creeped me out joined my game because they remember my gametag that i still had from middle school when i got it. And they decided hey lets kill him over and over so being douchebags that ruin other peoples experience of a potentially fun game. After that i didnt hear anything till later in highschool when a kid walked up to me that knew so people that went to the school fruityman went to, and i hadnt told anyone about fruityman so he would only know that i know him from that douche. And he said he was spreading rumors he broke my leg when he pushed me off a stage. So yeah consider that grudge reignited. When i was in my first year of college and first day into classes I saw that douche and he looks like a generic douche bag. I wanted to punch him but i have learned anger management and that i didnt want to get in trouble at college.
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2020.02.02 04:37 Uber_Driver68 I hate it when people act like wings of redemption with their friends
This person I am referring to will be called jack for the rest of this post. Jack isnt the most stable person, I will admit, but the way he acted was unacceptable. I may have talked shit about him last year, but I haven't since then because he told me his situation, and I have genuinely tried to be nice. He gets banned from a discord server in which we constantly had to remind him we did not hate him. It was clear he didnt mesh well with us, but he wanted to stay, so we obliged. After which, he started complaining that we made him feel like shit 24/7. He gets banned because he refuses to better himself as a person, and would be doing more damage to us and himself in the server than out. About a month later I send him a joke and block him. I of course, feel bad, and unblock him. He sends me another fr and asks why I'd unfriended him. I plead the fifth, because there was really no reason. I was just dicking around. He says he broke up with his girlfriend, she's another story, and apologizes for being "a bitch" when we make jokes. I tell him I dont mind and that some people are like that. He takes offence to that and starts talking about how everyone made him feel like shit, again, and I tell him that's not what it is, and that we constantly had to remind him that no one hated him. He tells me that no one wants him around and I tell him that the mind set of "nobody like me" is the reason. He then tells me "fuck you" and then I bring up the fact that he asked another one of my friends if I, the most consistently nice person to him, was talking shit. He says he wouldn't have been surprised and I tell him I haven't said a damn thing about him since fucking December. Fucking December. I may have been a dick in December, but after then, I've given him advice on how to interact with other people, I've told him that I will be there for him if someone decides to fucking pick on him, after the second time he departed from the server. Mind you, he left twice before his ban. I have tried everything I could to help him, and he just accuses me of shit talking him. If I wanted to talk shit about him, by the point, I would have done it to him directly. After all my fucking effort trying to help him, he compares me to his new friends and says they dont treat him like shit. I tell him he's not wanted because he believes he isnt, causing him to act as if no one wants him. I tell him he would have heard about my talking shit because, unlike him, I am totally willing to change if I want to. He then blocks me because apparently I'm in the wrong for trying to just be a more mature person than previously and trying to be nice. All I was trying to do was tell him he needs to work on himself as a person, but noooooo, I just make him feel like a piece of shit now. It's like I'm woody's gamertag and he's wings of redemption, hence the title. Instead of looking physically hurt when talking about this, I'm just fucking angry. I've spent the past hour and a half trying to write this down, finding the right words. If anyone wants any information regarding this subject, I'll stay on reddit for a few minutes.
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2020.01.08 23:38 fredbarbosa69 Blocked
HELP my account got blocked by modders can someone unblock me gamertag: fredbarbosa69
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2019.12.07 00:06 PD2CWE I think the ''343 VS The World'' event was poorly executed; here's why.
First of all, let me address the fact that this event was nothing serious and the prizes were nameplates. Do nameplates matter, are they a big deal? Ofcourse not, however I find it interesting to examine this event regardless.
So, as some of you may know, there was an event with two nameplates as potential rewards. The event was 343 developers jumping into MCC matchmaking, and if you happen to be lucky and match against them, you were granted one nameplate, and if you won the matchup, you would be granted another nameplate.
Now, lets look at some issues first;
Now, how could the event have been handled better? Lets address all of the above issues one by one to come up with a better solution.
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So, as some of you may know, there was an event with two nameplates as potential rewards. The event was 343 developers jumping into MCC matchmaking, and if you happen to be lucky and match against them, you were granted one nameplate, and if you won the matchup, you would be granted another nameplate.
Now, lets look at some issues first;
- 343 is located in the US, cutting out the entire EU playerbase by utilizing matchmaking
- 343 played 4v4's with a full group of 4, meaning that only 4 nameplates would be given per match, or roughly 16-20 per hour.
- 343 had all gamemodes in 4v4's enabled at the same time, making it impossible for the event viewers to focus on one gamemode for a higher chance of a matchup
- Most people had no idea this event happened while over 100k players were online, meaning that mathematically speaking it is extremely unlikely for a viewer to end up matched against 343, and thus it's possible that most, if not all of the awarded nameplates went for players who had no idea this event was taking place
- Lastly, this isn't always the case but generally speaking gamers are better at games than game developers themselves are, especially when half of their attention is at speaking on stream, I have witnessed this in dev-streams across many different games and yesterday's stream was no exception. Therefore, the inclusion of a nameplate awarded for beating 343 at a matchup doesn't work as an extra reward to show off, rather, it becomes a situation where if you were unlucky enough to be matched against 343 with bad teammates and lost, then you would have one nameplate less compared to other matchups. Essentially, this system doesn't offer an extra reward for the skilled, it punishes the unlucky and the casual playerbase
Now, how could the event have been handled better? Lets address all of the above issues one by one to come up with a better solution.
- Using invites rather than matchmaking would allow the EU playerbase a chance at the prize nameplates
- Filling up a maximum-sized party with only 1 developer would almost quadruple the amount of nameplates given per match and per hour
- So since point 3 above focused on increasing chances for viewers to join in, lets add onto the idea of using an invite system; the active dev account's gamertag should be public in order to enable friend requests. There should be two central people handling the event - one developer is talking on stream and playing the game, and another developer should be accepting friend requests to let players join the matchup. After a player joins, remove the player so that they cannot join a second time, and subsequently block said player's gamertag so that they cannot cheat with another friend request. After one invite-filled match is played, the developer quits the match and now the lobby can be filled with brand new players once more. After the event is over, unblock all players for future events, as it only served a temporary purpose
- 343's approach to use matchmaking ultimately ended up with most nameplate winners likely having no idea the event took place, however a invite-system would reward only those who wanted to participate in the event. In either scenario there are people who will be left out, but ultimately putting your focus on the actual viewerbase makes more sense than giving the advantage to random players, and by having your focus on the viewerbase you directly involve the core community far more than you otherwise could have
- Lastly, I've been thinking a lot about how to solve the two-nameplate dilemma. You can't really have a system that gives an extra nameplate for winners when most players will win, because if most players will win it is no longer an extra reward - it is sort of a punishment for those that did not win. I considered the idea of giving the second nameplate to those who managed to get a kill on the developer but then it would turn every lobby into a witchhunt and said developer wouldn't be able to enjoy playing the game when they'd be everyone's target. Unfortunately I couldn't come up with a solution to this last issue, other than excluding the second nameplate entirely and saving it up for another event
2019.06.15 00:59 luckyfivenine [BEDROCK] My son is looking for a buddy
We told our son he could finally use a mic when he turned 8, which he did recently. He’s found some kids around his age, but the communication is not going well. They take turns getting mad at each other and block and unblock each other constantly. Bullying him, laughing at him. Maybe we should have waited til he was 9. I’m reaching to reddit for a last ditch effort to find him some players to help him play some Minecraft and chat in a non-toxic way. You don’t have to be his age. Older would probably be better because then you’re mature enough to understand he’s a kid. If anyone is willing to make my sons night by playing with him for a while and chatting with him nicely please send me a message and I’ll send his gamertag. He’s on Xbox.
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2019.05.12 20:29 LondonDispersions Arrogant, Ill-Informed Newcomers have blocked the Obelisks on my longtime official PvE Server
I need to vent and ask for ideas. I've been playing on an Xbox One Official PvE Ragnarok Prim+ server for 2 years. We've had the general good fortune of being a very chill, very fun, very reasonable server community. All of us who have been there for a long time get along and don't get in each other's way. We help one another often, in fact. We play PvE bevause we want a community, not an authoritarian hierarchy of tribes & we want to build, breed, and tame - not fight or get our bases, tames, and work destroyed.
A week or two ago newcomers have arrived. I get a strong feeling they come from PvP because they're acting militant, defensive, and they're asking who the alpha tribes are. Smh. This is what many of us on our server hate.
But that's not truly a problem, so be it - it's an official server.
The problem is we already have no drops because Wildcard largely ignores Prim+ and things often disappear (recently it was our Wyverns, then our Coal, now it's drops and artifacts). We do have our obelisks working, though, and this is how we bring in outside tames and items into our egalitarian community.
One of these newcomers has taken it upon himself to use what is apparently a PvP tactic and block access to all of our obelisks' terminals with Rock Golems and Carbonemys. This person may be a troll (the newcomers claim it may be legit, though, & I'll get to that) because they seem to only come online to feed said Rock Golems and Carbonemys and ensure they don't disappear -- I think they've created a tribe solely to block the obelisks & we don't know their gamertag(s). They never come online to allow any access to the obelisks.
Now to the other newcomers: they think this is a good idea because "we don't want our server lagging when PvP tribes come from 'Cerb' or 'Server 1' to use our server as a manufacturing hub to ship out to their PvP servers". The one I was talking to said he's not the one blocking them because he would "allow" us to use the obelisks when he was online. We've been on this server for 2 years; he admitted he joined 6 days ago. How kind of him that he would allow us to use the obelisks.
As far as we originals think, there's no way to transfer tames between PvP and PvE. They claim there's a server called 'Cerb' or 'Server 1' that allows this. But it's irrelevant because: I told him I've been on this server for years with open obelisks and that has never happened. It kind of quieted him a little when he found out I (and many others) have been on the same server for so long.
Then the newcomers began asking who the Alpha Tribe is. We have no such tribe, we are a community. We explained this. They say we need to set up a tribal council. Smh again. And besides, if there were an Alpha Tribe or a Tribal Council it would be all of us originals -- the powerful tribes who work as a community (and every single one of us want the obelisks unblocked and open all the time).
I primarily came here to vent out my frustration at what I see as arrogance on the part of these newcomers. Thank you if you took the time to read all of that, lol.
The number one issue is finding out who is blocking the obelisks and how to get them to stop.
TL;DR
Someone on our server has used Rock Golems & Carbonemys to block all 3 Obelisk terminals and they never come online, save to feed them. I'm venting and asking for ideas. Who knows if Wildcard will pay us any attention & if they do I don't know if they can do anything about it as per their own rules. Any ideas wise players of Ark?
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A week or two ago newcomers have arrived. I get a strong feeling they come from PvP because they're acting militant, defensive, and they're asking who the alpha tribes are. Smh. This is what many of us on our server hate.
But that's not truly a problem, so be it - it's an official server.
The problem is we already have no drops because Wildcard largely ignores Prim+ and things often disappear (recently it was our Wyverns, then our Coal, now it's drops and artifacts). We do have our obelisks working, though, and this is how we bring in outside tames and items into our egalitarian community.
One of these newcomers has taken it upon himself to use what is apparently a PvP tactic and block access to all of our obelisks' terminals with Rock Golems and Carbonemys. This person may be a troll (the newcomers claim it may be legit, though, & I'll get to that) because they seem to only come online to feed said Rock Golems and Carbonemys and ensure they don't disappear -- I think they've created a tribe solely to block the obelisks & we don't know their gamertag(s). They never come online to allow any access to the obelisks.
Now to the other newcomers: they think this is a good idea because "we don't want our server lagging when PvP tribes come from 'Cerb' or 'Server 1' to use our server as a manufacturing hub to ship out to their PvP servers". The one I was talking to said he's not the one blocking them because he would "allow" us to use the obelisks when he was online. We've been on this server for 2 years; he admitted he joined 6 days ago. How kind of him that he would allow us to use the obelisks.
As far as we originals think, there's no way to transfer tames between PvP and PvE. They claim there's a server called 'Cerb' or 'Server 1' that allows this. But it's irrelevant because: I told him I've been on this server for years with open obelisks and that has never happened. It kind of quieted him a little when he found out I (and many others) have been on the same server for so long.
Then the newcomers began asking who the Alpha Tribe is. We have no such tribe, we are a community. We explained this. They say we need to set up a tribal council. Smh again. And besides, if there were an Alpha Tribe or a Tribal Council it would be all of us originals -- the powerful tribes who work as a community (and every single one of us want the obelisks unblocked and open all the time).
I primarily came here to vent out my frustration at what I see as arrogance on the part of these newcomers. Thank you if you took the time to read all of that, lol.
The number one issue is finding out who is blocking the obelisks and how to get them to stop.
TL;DR
Someone on our server has used Rock Golems & Carbonemys to block all 3 Obelisk terminals and they never come online, save to feed them. I'm venting and asking for ideas. Who knows if Wildcard will pay us any attention & if they do I don't know if they can do anything about it as per their own rules. Any ideas wise players of Ark?
2019.04.16 08:13 Rainbowhead3 Fizzlybear help.
I'm trying to get 100% in TIP so i'm slowly getting every piñata but i can't get the fizzlybear to appear (i mean appear as in actually show up in the garden i have already unblocked him with the sweetooths) it seems as if the game just fails to load its existance, other piñatas have stopped appearing usually getting a resident with gretchen makes them start appearing again but i can't do this with fizzlybear because i've never made it a resident so if anyone could send a fizzlybear i'd be really grateful.
gamertag: wheelkirby
EDIT: Issue solved.
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gamertag: wheelkirby
EDIT: Issue solved.
2019.04.01 04:41 Sneaker679 My traumatizing experience with a toxic player.
!!!! Sorry for the long text and the possible mistakes as I am not a native english speaker. Thanks for your understanding. !!!!
I am writing this post to share my experience with a toxic player I just encountered. First match I encountered him, I was playing highlander and he was playing BP. As you know, highlander kit is kinda simple, his viable options are the front dash into side heavy, crushing counter, if you can do it lol, and the grab/kick followed with a heavy. You can try to feint some unblockable heavy but its hard. The main tactic with HL is to grab or side dash the ennemy's attack into a kick. So I was playing with the moves I just told you for the first round.
At the end of the round, he spammed "Thanks!". I simply replied with a "Good fight!" and didn't do any emote to prevent toxic behavior from him as he seemed already mad. I finished the game 3-0. He then wrote in the chat that I was basically trash for using one move (more like 3 but whatever) and that I suck and bla bla bla. Because I'm not a fan of toxic people, I tried to reason with him. So I rematch, saying for example that "if im spamming the save move, how come you get hit everytime? Roll away or dodge at the right time, adapt ". I then proceed to taking HL again so he would maybe try to take my advice. What I didn't expect is that he really didn't care and proceeded to taking Tiandi which is a hard counter because of his fast undodgeble attacks. No suprise, I tried my best but lost 0-3. This dude was still spamming "Thanks" at the end and at the last round he said started to emote spam. I wrote in the chat that Tiandi was a hard counter to HL and it was normal for him to destroy me. (BTW the guys had twice the rep of me).
From now on, I'll will save the details of how toxic he suddenly became. I basically played with him 6 times (DUELS), trying as hard as I can to reason with him but no matter what I said, it always came down to him calling me all sort of things including trash (let's admit it, you are trash, you suck, etc..) , kid (which I am no longer xD), and more... At that point, I just started playing with my main warden but I wasn't going to try and win, because firstly, he is not worth the effort and secondly, I am too tired from my day at work (my reflexes are worst than bad when im tired). Not gonna lie, he is a good player, I told him more than once, trying to convince him that the point he is trying to make which is being a better player is true, but the fight is no where near fair because of my lower play time (= lower skill) and me being a normal humain that is tired. (he is still really really really really really angry about my HL earlier)
Now I usually don't care about insults but I regret staying that long with him. Saying that much hurtful insults can get to you after some time and I actually felt really sad. I thought I was doing the right job but nothing worked. All his arguments made no sense and yet he was still thinking he was winning the argument which ironically makes him win it because you can't reason with a mad man, can you? He was supposedly playing with his "worst" characters and beating me, laughing and constantly saying how trash I am and how much superior he is. And oh boi he was having a good time when he beat me with my main (I wasn't trying for the same reasons I said earlier).
I stayed with him for 40 minutes when I shouldn’t of had.
I know some of you guys reading this will either don't care, call me a sensitive person, saying how dumb I am for staying that long, etc...
What I want to say to all toxic people out there is : Do you realise how much you can hurt somebody with words? even online?
Imagine for one second if the person playing had a mental illness and that much insult could lead him into such a dark state of the mind. I have a semi-friend that has autism and everytime someone tells him an insult (depends on severity), he has to go see his personal school psychologist because of how wrong he takes insults. That same person plays Overwatch, rainbow six, CSGO, etc... He is exposed to mountains of insults.
In my case, I admit that I am sensitive, I didn't cry, no worries, but I still feel troubled by this experience. Never, in years of video games have I encounter such a toxic player. I did report the guy but it will probably be lost in the mountains of reports ubisoft has. And I didn't have a recording software on my pc to film. And In my dumbness I forgot to take a picture of his gamertag to directly report him.
My final words: Its okay to be toxic times to times. We all have bad days. But remember how much you can hurt people. Think about what you are doing. Don't add to the salt. And most importantly, don't get mad for such little things...go right to the next match whitout getting mad and you will see that in your calmer state, you are better and stronger. Defeat those who cross your path and salute your encounters and their kindness if they seem like nice people!
Thanks to anyone who read this and pass on the message to everyone, stop the salt!
(Again, sorry for the mistakes :3 )
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I am writing this post to share my experience with a toxic player I just encountered. First match I encountered him, I was playing highlander and he was playing BP. As you know, highlander kit is kinda simple, his viable options are the front dash into side heavy, crushing counter, if you can do it lol, and the grab/kick followed with a heavy. You can try to feint some unblockable heavy but its hard. The main tactic with HL is to grab or side dash the ennemy's attack into a kick. So I was playing with the moves I just told you for the first round.
At the end of the round, he spammed "Thanks!". I simply replied with a "Good fight!" and didn't do any emote to prevent toxic behavior from him as he seemed already mad. I finished the game 3-0. He then wrote in the chat that I was basically trash for using one move (more like 3 but whatever) and that I suck and bla bla bla. Because I'm not a fan of toxic people, I tried to reason with him. So I rematch, saying for example that "if im spamming the save move, how come you get hit everytime? Roll away or dodge at the right time, adapt ". I then proceed to taking HL again so he would maybe try to take my advice. What I didn't expect is that he really didn't care and proceeded to taking Tiandi which is a hard counter because of his fast undodgeble attacks. No suprise, I tried my best but lost 0-3. This dude was still spamming "Thanks" at the end and at the last round he said started to emote spam. I wrote in the chat that Tiandi was a hard counter to HL and it was normal for him to destroy me. (BTW the guys had twice the rep of me).
From now on, I'll will save the details of how toxic he suddenly became. I basically played with him 6 times (DUELS), trying as hard as I can to reason with him but no matter what I said, it always came down to him calling me all sort of things including trash (let's admit it, you are trash, you suck, etc..) , kid (which I am no longer xD), and more... At that point, I just started playing with my main warden but I wasn't going to try and win, because firstly, he is not worth the effort and secondly, I am too tired from my day at work (my reflexes are worst than bad when im tired). Not gonna lie, he is a good player, I told him more than once, trying to convince him that the point he is trying to make which is being a better player is true, but the fight is no where near fair because of my lower play time (= lower skill) and me being a normal humain that is tired. (he is still really really really really really angry about my HL earlier)
Now I usually don't care about insults but I regret staying that long with him. Saying that much hurtful insults can get to you after some time and I actually felt really sad. I thought I was doing the right job but nothing worked. All his arguments made no sense and yet he was still thinking he was winning the argument which ironically makes him win it because you can't reason with a mad man, can you? He was supposedly playing with his "worst" characters and beating me, laughing and constantly saying how trash I am and how much superior he is. And oh boi he was having a good time when he beat me with my main (I wasn't trying for the same reasons I said earlier).
I stayed with him for 40 minutes when I shouldn’t of had.
I know some of you guys reading this will either don't care, call me a sensitive person, saying how dumb I am for staying that long, etc...
What I want to say to all toxic people out there is : Do you realise how much you can hurt somebody with words? even online?
Imagine for one second if the person playing had a mental illness and that much insult could lead him into such a dark state of the mind. I have a semi-friend that has autism and everytime someone tells him an insult (depends on severity), he has to go see his personal school psychologist because of how wrong he takes insults. That same person plays Overwatch, rainbow six, CSGO, etc... He is exposed to mountains of insults.
In my case, I admit that I am sensitive, I didn't cry, no worries, but I still feel troubled by this experience. Never, in years of video games have I encounter such a toxic player. I did report the guy but it will probably be lost in the mountains of reports ubisoft has. And I didn't have a recording software on my pc to film. And In my dumbness I forgot to take a picture of his gamertag to directly report him.
My final words: Its okay to be toxic times to times. We all have bad days. But remember how much you can hurt people. Think about what you are doing. Don't add to the salt. And most importantly, don't get mad for such little things...go right to the next match whitout getting mad and you will see that in your calmer state, you are better and stronger. Defeat those who cross your path and salute your encounters and their kindness if they seem like nice people!
Thanks to anyone who read this and pass on the message to everyone, stop the salt!
(Again, sorry for the mistakes :3 )
2018.12.07 00:54 The76Overseer Un-Official Overseers Notes
TL;DR: Scroll down to the bottom for the listed glitches/bugs and suggestions.
Content (Use CTRL+F and type the title to jump to that section quickly):
Explanation: Explains the purpose of the threadOverseers Notes: Short stories explaining players glitches/bugs in a lore-friendly way
Least Important Suggestions: Suggestions submitted that are least important to the players and myself
Fairly Important Suggestions: Suggestions submitted that are fairly important to the players and myself
Most Important Suggestions: Suggestions submitted that are most important to players and myself
Added Suggestions: Suggestions that where added into the game
Minor Bugs/Glitches: A list of on-going minor bugs/glitches
Moderate Bugs/Glitches: A list of on-going moderate bugs/glitches
Major Bugs/Glitches: A list of on-going major bugs/glitches
Fixed Bugs/Glitches: A of bugs/glitches that have been reported as being fixed
Additional Notes: A lore-friendly conclusion
Conclusion: A not-so lore-friendly conclusion
Social Medias: A list of social media accounts you can contact me at -more to come-
Special Thank You: A big thank you to EVERYONE that helps me with this
Explanation:
In this thread I will be compiling a list of player made suggestions and bug/glitch reports to make things easier for the developers as well as the players. I understand there is an "official" Megathread for this but I dislike how it is set up and this one will be "lore friendly" after the explanation section is finished. I made a post on the official forums that looked extremely similar to this one but it didn't go anywhere, hopefully this one will. I will be updating this as more suggestions and bugs/glitches are posted. Without further ado, I give you the "un-official" overseers notes! Made lore-friendly by yours truly, The 76 Overseer.Overseers Notes:
Miss Adventures
Dear Vault-Tech,I have received multiple reports from our fellow vault dwellers about the wild wastelands of Appalachia! Here is one of the first reports that had been sent to me:
*Loading Holotape -Miss-adventures-*
" Hello fellow vault dwellers! Like many of you, I have left the vault relatively recently and have found this world to be....odd to say the least. I knew from the Vault-Tech leaflets that this would be a dangerous and unforgiving life we would lead but I could never expect what I experienced and I am positively certain that you all might agree! I found relatively early on, after leaving the vault, that a C.A.M.P. may not be necessary but man would it be helpful! As I built my structure I found that things just didn't add up. I created a Stash in order to hoard more materials and expand as Vault-Tech had instructed but for some reason the Stash given to me must have been defective as it couldn't hold everything! Thankfully I found something called a footlocker and found out how to make it, this should be extremely useful to store more items. Gee willikers, Vault-Tech is going to get an earful when I speak to the Rep. that will surely show up....wait just a minute.....the footlocker shares a storage space with my Stash from Vault-Tech.....how is this even possible?!?!? Well, that's fine I guess, time to go outside and scrounge for more material....What was that noise? Radscorpians?!?!? Attacking my base?!?!? I have to defeat them before they destroy my C.A.M.P.!
*BANG BANG BANG*
HA! Got one of you irradiated freaks! Now I just have to shoot the re....OUCH! Wait, what's hitting me? My VATS system is telling me the dead radscorpian is still alive? It's hitting me but it's body has to be at least fifty feet away from me! I'm going to die! NOOOOOOO.....*Silence*....
Wait, so I just re-spawn right at my C.A.M.P.? On top of that, me getting killed had no negative consequences towards my physical being.....NEAT-O! Time to kill the rest of those little crawlers to secure my C.A.M.P.! Ooooohhh I wonder what they taste like?! Okay, they're dead now, time to fix my C.A.M.P. and cook this delicious looking meat! What, you thought I'd try eating it raw? I'm not a savage for God's sake. *Says whilst violently ripping into the radscorpian to acquire meat* Hang on, I just repaired everything through my C.A.M.P., why do my walls look like they're about to fall down?.....Hmmmm must be just an illusion, I'm sure Vault-Tech would make it so that it repairs everything, not just broken items HAHAHA!"
*End Holotape Recording*
Like a Bird
Dear Vault-Tech,I just had another vault dweller send me a Holotape with an amazing story! When I heard of this wacky story I simply had to assume he had developed wacky wasteland fever, but it turns out other players have reported this too! Here's the tape:
*Loading Holotape -Like a Bird-*
"Hello vault dwellers! It is important to note that I have been highly irradiated and have developed a few mutations along the way. These mutations have seemingly given me the ability to run forever even when my body tells me I shouldn't be able to anymore! I also discovered that while jumping I seem to be able to stand in mid-air in certain circumstances. If that wasn't weird enough, when I use a jetpack I have the ability to fly so high I feel as though I'm out of this world!
The Overseer has instructed me to report my physical abilities and mutations in order to give the Vault-Tech lab junkies all the information they may need to help me keep my feet on the ground. Or at the very least, on this planet!
Strength: 12
Perception: 6
Endurance: 6
Charisma: 7
Intelligence: 11
Agility: 8
Luck: 6
When I checked my automated Pip-Boy medical scanner it told me I had developed the following mutations:
Adrenal
Bird bones
Chameleon
Eagle eye
Electrically charged
Empath
Grounded
Healing factor
Herbivore
Herd mentality
Marsupial
Plague walker
Scaly skin
Speed demon
Twisted muscles
I certainly hope this helps the doctors cure my inability to stay in the wasteland! Let me know if you need any more information.
-Dowhatsimonsayz"
I hope this message finds you Vault-Tech, we could really use your help fixing this case!
-All stories will be removed when the correlating bug/glitches are fixed as not to spam this page-
As you can see by the reports, these poor dwellers simply were not prepared for what they were forced to face in the wastelands! Unfortunate as it may be, these are not the only reports like this either. I have been given over three hundred hours worth of footage and recordings that my team and I have evaluated and here is what seems to be the most pressing of matters:
Least Important Suggestions:
- Make limited time items in the Atom Shop last a week instead of a day, when you have a sale do a one day flash sale
- Allow players to favorite their gas mask and power armors, or give the ability to save them in a preset preset
- Make the fast-travel cost to traders cheaper or free
- Allow the ability to preview items in the Atomic Shop with your currently selected character
- PC players would like the ability to change different options even if the servers are down so that they can customize more while waiting
- Display name should be the characters name
- A notification for resource mining in workshops being maxed
- Ability to display misc. items that are collected such as magazines/comics, bobble heads, etc.
- Make it possible to display power armor without worrying about someone taking it
- Make a container players can put down that anyone can loot with no repercussions; this allows players to get rid of their junk without simply dropping it and giving them a chance at helping others
- Allow the ability to create multiple items at once, create 5 X 12 .308 bullets instead of clicking create five times
- Allow the player to be able to flag items so they cannot be scrapped by accident
- Allow players to re-craft essential junk so that if it gets scrapped they can re-make the item; important for item recipes that call for a specific junk item
- Allow players to rename their items, name reverts back to the original item name if dropped or traded (to prevent inappropriate naming or offending other layers)
- Armor and weapons should have the original name followed by the names of the mods attached, this makes finding things a lot easier
- Names of junk should be consistent, screws are screws NOT loose screws loose springs etc.
- Add a loot-all button to the stash (in general or by category)
- Make holotapes you have already listened to a different color in your inventory, like higher level equipment is
- Eliminate some of the categories by putting them in misc. and giving the misc. category sub categories for holotapes, notes, etc.
- If not the bellow, add the ability to sort the category in this way
- Allow sub categories in menus such as weapons having a sub for melee and ranged and aid having chems, ingredients, etc.
- Show total weight of each category so players know what is weighing them down the most instead of fumbling through ten categories of items
- Allow players different options for sorting, such as by the weight of the item or by the weight of the total stack of items if they are stacked
- PC players would like the ability to use their mouse wheel to bring up their favorited items
- PC players would like more freedom with keybinds, allow them to have a separate key to throw a grenade instead of holding "E" for instance
- Players want the ability to have different buttons for the menu and for the map, this way you don't have to go through your map to get to you menu
- Have teammates and friends show up as a different color on the map than everyone else
- Allow players to make multiple perk deck combinations to quick select from
- Re-work the Atom Shop prices to better reflect what the items are (Nearly $20 for a paint job or $10 for a cosmetic costume is a little ridiculous)
- Add more FREE paint jobs (We want our armor to be slightly unique, maybe even add a custom paint maker like in Call of Duty?)
- Add companions that follow you and have a SMALL storage capacity to the Atom Store and a possible rare drop from events (Classics are welcome, new dog/cat/wolf/animal breads would be welcome, etc.)
Fairly Important Suggestions:
- Anything that is able to be bought in the shops should be able to be sold to the shops; you currently cannot sell scrapped junk, ammo, plans, recipes, etc.
- Allow players to put armor on their hazmat suits
- Give players the ability to use some fist weapons in power armor, the hands are not that much bigger than the players hands
- Remove the requirement to take the armor off of the chassis in order to pick it up if you don't have the level to wear it
- PC players would like more options to configure, such options being FOV, V-Sync, etc.
- If you are wanted and killed, you should be forced to spawn at vault 76 or your C.A.M.P. and not be given the rights for revenge
- When in a team, give the entire team the notification that the workshop is under attack
- Reduce the budget cost of items in the C.A.M.P. or drastically increase the budget limit; we are suppose to be rebuilding the Appalachia's right?
- Make your building budget only affected by the items you have placed not those that are stored
- Make a way to pack up your C.A.M.P. so you don't have to pay to have it moved
- Make a quest line that helps players understand the new C.A.M.P. features such as storing and blueprinting, not simple stuff like making a generator or purifier
- Make the amount of materials used to repair items less the less damaged it is
- Allow scrapping of legendary item with a percent chance of getting that legendary as a mod, the percent could be increased with a new luck perk
- Give players the ability to scrap ammo to get lead, gunpowder, and steel
- You should be able to use whatever water you have while cooking, make each water add a different effect; purified water create clean food, boiled water makes less rad, dirty waters gives increased rads
- On the map, include the time remaining for the events so we know if it's worth fast-traveling to
- When your fusion core runs out in power armor, it should be replaced with the lowest powered core in your inventory not the highest
- Have something that shows equipped items conditions on screen like like it does in power armor, this could be a toggled option in the options menu
- If you're tracking a quest, that quests items should have a quest indicator next to them in your inventory instead of all quest items having one, this makes it easier to find what you need for the quest you're on
- Cosmetic items shouldn't have a weight and should have their own separate category that doesn't count towards your stash weight
- Give players the ability to see what armor is on which chassis without having to put it down
- If someone on a team owns a workshop, anyone on that team should be able to fast travel to it (the owned workshop should act as a C.A.M.P.)
- When in a team, experience for everything should be shared; even if that means getting less experience overall everyone gets something
- Give players the ability to disassemble their upgraded perk cards
- Increase the amount of caps the vendors have on them
- Make other containers have a separate storage from the Stash (possibly make containers loot-able as appose to Stashes being safe in order to work around any stash storage issues (this would also encourage PVP a little))
- Make bobby pins weigh a LOT less (Currently weighs more that 50 caliber ammunition)
- Re-work the weights for all the ammo (50 caliber ammunition weighs less than .308 ammunition for instance)
- Re-work gun weights (Hunting rifle (with mods) currently weighs more that a cryolator)
- Re-work some of the weapon modifications (why does a silencer DECREASE condition where as a bulky drum mag INCREASES it?)
- Make loot more sensible (If I kill a ghoul hitting me with a fireman's axe it shouldn't drop a spear....)
- If the arena or designated PVP area is added, release PVP exclusive gear (Could be something as simple as a unique re-skin (paint) or as advanced as a reaper-styled armor that displays your kill count)
- Allow players to set up a shop inside, or outside, of their C.A.M.P.S. that they can sell X amount of items at set prices
- Lower prices in the shops or increase the amount of caps you get for items (3-4 caps offered for a legendary item that has a value of 104?)
- Add the ability to ignore teammates active quests, it gets annoying having your entire right side clustered with quests
Most Important Suggestions:
- Make the Scorched Queen scale based on total level instead of total players; if not possible, only make level fifty players and above count towards her scale (currently scales in difficulty based on total players)
- Make a poll for community content, let us vote on what we want in the game
- Create an in-game newspaper that comes out each time there is an update detailing what changed in the wild wasteland (To make a lore friendly way of telling your players what has changed in the game and for players that don't use computers (Newspaper heading would be the Pip-boy with the thumbs up as well as the date, version number, ect.))
- Especially while wielding a melee weapon, VATs should target the closest enemy
- If flagged as a pacifist, VATs should never target a player
- PVP needs reworked completely, we need a designated area for it, a way to toggle it, or a specific server just for it
- Make turrets more useful, maybe make them like items you have plans for; the turret costs more to make but it's a higher level, does more damage, has better range, etc.
- Re-work repairing for armor so that it takes items that are used to make them instead of additional ones that make no sense
- Allow us to see our sights while cloaked if they have been modified (reflex sight, glow sight, etc.)
- Fridge containers should be separate from the stash and should keep your foods condition from dropping or drops the condition a lot slower; can be locked and if it's not players can loot it like any other container and uses one power
- Any quest item you cannot get rid of should NOT have a weight
- Players would like if buttons didn't do the same thing in different instances, example being if you have the Cannibal perk and you try to jump and eat a corpse instead or reloading over a dead body and lagging into the transfer screen during combat
- Have blocked players be a permanent thing instead of by session, but create a list for blocked players so we can unblock them if we choice to
- Friends and blocked players should not be able to co-exist, someone on your friends list should not be able to be blocked
- Have perception increase range damage, intelligence increase energy damage, etc. like strength does for melee
- Buff the Makeshift Warrior and Gunsmith perk to 90% or reduce the rank to three to better suit the rank
- Allow the scrapper perk to give you springs and screws from various things such as guns and certain junk, even if it's an upgraded version of the perk
- Make a chat option that allows you to hear your team AND the people in your area at the same time
- Add items to the Atom shop people actually want (New Vegas themed C.A.M.P. plans, Brotherhood of Steel C.A.M.P. plans, increased C.A.M.P. budget, etc.)
- Add a community event where the players come up with a quest that will be released in-game (literally free content for you, might have to be done here or on the official forums)
- Add an arena somewhere and make it a constant PVP event area (Like the arena you see in NV? or even Fo4?)
- Add a raid system with unique loot to each raid area (mining area could have a power armor that emits black smoke, forest area could have power armor that has a tree growing on its shoulder and a birds nest on it's other shoulder, etc.)
- Simplify your trading system.....I can't even explain how frustrating it is (It's easier to do the "trusted" drop trade option!)
- Diversify each area by making the enemies spawn locationally instead of randomly (This Fallout has the most unique enemies in the game but you don't even get to see half of them!)
- Lower the amount of C.A.M.P. attacks (It seems as though every time I go to my C.A.M.P. to Stash stuff or repair something I am getting attacked by Anglers or radscorpians (in some cases scorched beasts!))
- Add locational bosses to nuke zones; Cranberry Bog to have Scorchbeast Queen, Savage Divide to have Giant Super Mutant Behemoth, Toxic Valley to have Toxifed Grafton Monster, The Forest to have Mutated Rag Stag Herd, The Mire to have Radiation Absorbing Fog Crawler, Ash Heap to have Mole Miner Leader (See this for more information)
Added Suggestions:
Increase the storage capacity of the Stash(Done Dec. 4, 2018, but would like to see a larger increase (in-the-works))
[Minor] Bugs & Glitches (on-going):
- Sometimes, when loading into a new area, your teammate will appear to be naked
- Stash will not be used until you access it for the first time after logging in
- Inconsistent stability with voice chat in-game, sometimes it's fine and sometimes it's hard for players to hear eachother
- Sometimes audio is delayed or looped
- Players continuously getting the "You have reached level 5" message as well as the PVP warning
- Flip lighter gives you a spring whereas the gold plated flip lighter does not
- Team invites have been reported as being occasionally bugged and do not go through nor do they display an error message
- Crosshair turns red and shows an enemies health but they are no where near you
- Scrap all junk feature doesn't always scrap all of your junk
- Some players a reporting the perk packs as being delayed sometimes by one to three levels
- While in a team, server lag has been reported to be worse
- Some players report the team menu as being unresponsive at times
- Many players report their friends are displayed as offline when they are not
- Strange in Numbers perk seems to bug mutations when leaving a team, fixed when unequipped
- While using chameleon, whatever gear you swap will become visible while the rest of you remains invisible
- Class Freak breaks multiple other perks
- Protectron Horde will give you a quest marker in the ground instead of the actual quest location
- While doing Personal Matters, if Evan is already dead you have to switch to a server that he is not dead on
- Players are reporting the ability to go over stash and carry weight limit which could cause stability issues
- PlayStation players are reporting not being able to get the trophy for Killing the Scorched Queen and Breach and Clear
- Some players are reporting the sun shining is lovely rays through mountains and trees
- With certain mutations, some players have reported the ability to fly with a jetpack infinitely
- With certain mutations, some players have reported the ability to have infinite AP
- The movement of your C.A.M.P. costs more than advertised for some players
- Serums have been reported as being bugged , serums are considered food and are affected by certain mutations
- Sometimes, while looting, the items disappear and refresh with something different
- A SMALL amount of ammunition is taken out of the players inventory and they get a message "X amount of X round was removed"
- Whilst trying to fast travel it will tell you there are enemies near by even if there aren't any every now and then
- Vertabots randomly fly into the ground
[Moderate] Bugs & Glitches (on-going):
- Leveled enemies being stronger than average for listed level; players have reported level sixteen enemies being as strong as level sixty enemies and vise versa
- When in a team, your teammate sometimes randomly becomes invisible with no gamertag; player is still there but cannot be seen and can still see the other player
- Many players have reported random graphical glitches such as rain not being removed after it has finished raining and seemingly "burnt" textures
- If the player does not have scrap steel the game will occasionally scrap other items such as mods and misc. items instead
- The lever action rifle reloads five rounds no matter what
- Anything that gives your items bonus durability seems to go away in one use no matter how far it is over the base durability
- PC players have reported that, while selling or scrapping an item, if your mouse hovers over a different items while confirming the action it will select that item instead of the one you originally selected
- Some players have reported the Barn Set plan sometimes gives the player a random set instead
- All fast-travel points being removed from your map upon death, player either has to re-log or spawn at vault 76
- Players randomly take a small amount of damage when there is nothing around them and they did not fall
- Players have reported occasionally showing up naked, deformed, or invisible after entering an area that requires a loading screen which can usually only fix itself
- PC players are reporting that quitting to your desktop takes longer than loading the game and getting into a server
- Some PC players report their keybinds not being saved between gaming sessions
- When using quick view feature for the pip-boy, holotapes do not play properly and you have to manually reload them from the menu
- Some players have reported Rose stopping mid-sentence and blocking progress which can only be fixed by reconnecting which resets any progress you had
- Workshop quests sometime report enemies as being there that aren't and restrict progression
- No matter where you are in the quest, dailies will reset if you disconnect for any reason
- Some players have reported, while doing Earth Mover, if you try to craft an ignition core whilst having one in your inventory it will take the resources used to make it but not give you the ignition core
- Some players have reported quest markers not showing up on the map or compass when in teams, even if the quest is active
- The event at Fort Defiance, Line in the Sand, seems to glitch for some players and they are told to fix a working generator preventing the event from starting
- Plague Walker perk appears to make friendly animals aggressive and prevents the ability to fast-travel without killing the animal
- Players have reported the Weapon Artisan and the Luck of the Draw perks to not work properly, it displays that they repaired weapon/gave extra condition but it doesn't
- Some players are reporting the inability to share perk cards with one another
- When spawning into a server, weapons glitch and don't show up for a while and sometimes spawn in unloaded
- When spawning into a server, the "last weapon" hot key sometimes does not work and you must re-equip both items through the pip-boy/favorite shortcut
- Players have found a few supply drops to not be lute-able, red smoke was still coming off of the box and the player was trying to loot for a few minutes
- Server lags randomly, this has gotten better but is still prevalent
- Having multiple power armor chassis made the armor on one of them vanish, the armor is not in the players inventory or the chassis
- The "repair all" function on the C.A.M.P. only repairs fully broken items
- Multiple power armor chassis in the Stash lead to some disappearing/duplicating
- Some events (Specifically the civil war reenactment) glitch and wont let you complete it
[Major] Bugs & Glitches (on-going):
- Players have reported RANDOM players being invisible (See invisible teammate note) which is abused in PVP
- Players have reported their bag not having a quest marker on it after dying
- During the event Scorched Earth, the disconnection rate is bad; multiple players have reported disconnects between two to five times during the event
- When fighting the Scorched Queen FPS drops are extremely bad
- Gatling Plasma has been reported to not hit enemies that are too close to the player no matter what
- Sneak doesn't seem to be affected by buffs, enemies still sometimes spot you from far away with multiple multipliers
- VATS seems to have a few seconds delay when first using it and can often miss even with a high percentage
- Some players have reported getting into a power armor that has multiple cores in it makes the cores disappear when the player leaves the armor, there is no fix for this
- PC players are still reporting an occasional infinite loading screen which can only be fixed by completely reloading the game
- All active quests completely disappear and can only be fixed by reloading the game
- Enemies occasionally do not respond to players at all until the player is right on top of them
- During the event Feed the People if PC users hit the "E" button too quickly it can put your equipment into the hopper, which cannot be accessed to re-obtain your items
- Various things in the game not working correctly being fixed by reconnecting, even on the same server
- While in a team, if your teammate does a step to a quest you are both on before you it can glitch the quest and make it so you can no longer progress
- Assaultrons seem to use their charge attack repeatedly and do not have to actually charge the attack
- Some players report that when the Scorched Queen uses Forward-Burst attack and ends up in a tree it messes with server stability extremely bad
- Some players are reporting items duplicating in their stash
- When moving your C.A.M.P. your placed items sometimes duplicate or disappear
- Players are still reporting not being able to get out of power armor
- Sometimes enemies are invincible or their health regenerates after damage is done being dealt
- Invisible enemies appear after you killed them and cannot be hit or seen
- Enemies scale to the highest level player in the area, may not be a glitch but it makes leveling hard for newer players/alt players
- While doing certain quests, if you are disconnected or log out of the server the quest resets; one such quest being "Belly of the Beast"
- While using the hunting rifle with a scope, the scope does not lower after the shot is fired and causes aiming issues and lag
- Shooting quickly or while aiming can cause serious FPS issues and/or character model glitches
- After the reload animation has finished if you are hit it sometimes still cancels the reload action and you have to reload again
- High leveled enemies spawning on-top of low level players C.A.M.P. players had two Level 50 Scorched beasts spawn on their C.A.M.P. at once when they were level 27
- Level 50 Scorched Beasts spawning on player right after spawning into the server
Fixed:
A SMALL amount of my junk is missing from my stash(fixed?)Moving player C.A.M.P. without blueprinting objects makes them disappear instead of being stored(fixed?)
Additional Notes:
In conclusion, I would like to extend my gratitude to all of you! Without these reports from my dwellers, and the representatives from Vault-Tech, we would not be able to make the wasteland into the West Virginia we know and love! We shall continue to wait patiently for a reply from your company and look forward to working with you more in the future. If any of you dwellers out there are getting this, please add anything you can think of to this and lets see if we can't make THIS post "official" to add a little fun and lessen the tension that seems to be growing between us and Vault-Tech!Regards,
The 76 Overseer
Conclusion:
I would like to add an additional note, I am very new to reddit so I apologize for anything that I don't understand about the site and the community. I really hope this helps both the players and the developers by having a little fun with it all. There is a lot of animosity between the community and Bethesda right now due to several different events that have happened, but I hope that if we can get them to participate in this thread it would make it more fun and allow them to communicate better with the community. I will update the thread further and post when I do so whenever possible! Please, lets make this big!
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