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2024.05.21 15:19 AlexGamr0X0 Help in Hend
From Tom Barclay
Marcus Rashford is OUT of England’s Euros squad after failing to make Gareth Southgate’s 33-man provisional selection for the tournament.
Jordan Henderson is the other big shock omission while Chelsea full-backs Ben Chilwell and Reece James have missed out too.
But Henderson’s former Liverpool team-mates Curtis Jones and Jarell Quansah have been included, as well as Crystal Palace sensation Adam Wharton.
All three are uncapped, as are Everton centre-back Jarrad Branthwaite and Burnley goalkeeper James Trafford who have also made the cut.
There was no place for Jadon Sancho, despite gearing up for a Champions League final with loan club Borussia Dortmund.
While Nick Pope, Fikayo Tomori, Levi Colwill and Kalvin Phillips also were left out.
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Marcus Rashford is OUT of England’s Euros squad after failing to make Gareth Southgate’s 33-man provisional selection for the tournament.
Jordan Henderson is the other big shock omission while Chelsea full-backs Ben Chilwell and Reece James have missed out too.
But Henderson’s former Liverpool team-mates Curtis Jones and Jarell Quansah have been included, as well as Crystal Palace sensation Adam Wharton.
All three are uncapped, as are Everton centre-back Jarrad Branthwaite and Burnley goalkeeper James Trafford who have also made the cut.
There was no place for Jadon Sancho, despite gearing up for a Champions League final with loan club Borussia Dortmund.
While Nick Pope, Fikayo Tomori, Levi Colwill and Kalvin Phillips also were left out.
2024.05.21 15:18 swine-and-dine 1 week vacation in july
Hello! My girlfriend and I are travelling to your wonderful capital in July, and would love to get some insight from the locals as to things to do. We are staying at hotel near the lion’s bridge. We are in our late 20’s, so clubbing and nightlife isn’t that interesting anymore, but if there are any clubs/discos that are worth a visit we would appreciate a recommendation. As to things we would like to do, I have listed them under. If you have any advice/recommendations we would be very grateful.
-Fine dining/high end restaurants
-Local restaurants where we can try traditional Bulgarian food
-How to best experience your culture/attractions/history in one week, what are some ‘must do’s’
-Bars/pubs for older clientele
-Any bapubs/cocktail bars you would recommend
Thank you!
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-Fine dining/high end restaurants
-Local restaurants where we can try traditional Bulgarian food
-How to best experience your culture/attractions/history in one week, what are some ‘must do’s’
-Bars/pubs for older clientele
-Any bapubs/cocktail bars you would recommend
Thank you!
2024.05.21 15:14 delightfulpedestrian I 20F and my boyfriend 21M don’t share the same interest in this but it’s taken over my life - any advice?
Tl;dr I 20F have been with my boyfriend 21M for over 2 years now. I really love him but sometimes his love for football (and all ball games) really gets to me. This might sound really selfish of me, but I am at a loss at this point. I have never been into games, matches etc. I do enjoy the eurocup and world cup but that’s pretty much it.
When we started dating we wouldn’t see each other on the weekends as we live quite far apart and were both in college then, so I didn’t know just how much he did enjoy soccer. I knew he supported man united and I started watching a few games of premier league even in my own time, I did start to enjoy it… Until i got to know him more and realized our weekends would be consumed by games.. whether that were his own matches with his club or “A REALLY BIG GAME”, every. single. weekend. I really did try to accommodate him and find a place so he can watch it or park my car somewhere so that he can prop it up on my radio and watch it.
Now and the last year and a half we only really have weekends together (we still live an hour apart), and i have started to resent football, it’s too much and it’s not just premier league anymore, it’s the FA cup, the champions league, hurling, u20s (anything), football ETC… and he’s ALWAYS on fantasy (a mobile game where these are all recorded and you play against friends etc.) then he has training on or a match on in the middle of the weekend at a really awkward time..
I love to do things with him but I feel like we need to always plan around him and his games. I have always been scared of a relationship like this because i always wanted to share common interests and passions (my problem is I don’t have any). I feel trapped and like I can’t really do what I want on a weekend. I hate that too because i’d love for him to be able to share this love with me but I have grown to just hate it so much. I was due to go on a flight on one saturday and he told me he won’t be able to drive me because there’s once again “A HUGE GAME” on that day.. this is what broke me and made me write this post..
I would love to be able to enjoy the games with him and not resent them but I am really tired of it, I don’t want to be angry with him because it’s completely not a problem to be passionate about something and he should not try to change for me but I get so angry everytime I want to do something and I get “oh sorry, xxx is on that day”. My birthday is coming up and he knows I don’t watch football, and yet, for my 21st there will once again be “A HUGE GAME” :/ so now, my (what’s meant to be a really important birthday) will be consumed by soccer.. this made me really upset, i wanted to cancel the whole thing because I really do not want to watch gd football on my night out. Any help.. any advice is really appreciated
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When we started dating we wouldn’t see each other on the weekends as we live quite far apart and were both in college then, so I didn’t know just how much he did enjoy soccer. I knew he supported man united and I started watching a few games of premier league even in my own time, I did start to enjoy it… Until i got to know him more and realized our weekends would be consumed by games.. whether that were his own matches with his club or “A REALLY BIG GAME”, every. single. weekend. I really did try to accommodate him and find a place so he can watch it or park my car somewhere so that he can prop it up on my radio and watch it.
Now and the last year and a half we only really have weekends together (we still live an hour apart), and i have started to resent football, it’s too much and it’s not just premier league anymore, it’s the FA cup, the champions league, hurling, u20s (anything), football ETC… and he’s ALWAYS on fantasy (a mobile game where these are all recorded and you play against friends etc.) then he has training on or a match on in the middle of the weekend at a really awkward time..
I love to do things with him but I feel like we need to always plan around him and his games. I have always been scared of a relationship like this because i always wanted to share common interests and passions (my problem is I don’t have any). I feel trapped and like I can’t really do what I want on a weekend. I hate that too because i’d love for him to be able to share this love with me but I have grown to just hate it so much. I was due to go on a flight on one saturday and he told me he won’t be able to drive me because there’s once again “A HUGE GAME” on that day.. this is what broke me and made me write this post..
I would love to be able to enjoy the games with him and not resent them but I am really tired of it, I don’t want to be angry with him because it’s completely not a problem to be passionate about something and he should not try to change for me but I get so angry everytime I want to do something and I get “oh sorry, xxx is on that day”. My birthday is coming up and he knows I don’t watch football, and yet, for my 21st there will once again be “A HUGE GAME” :/ so now, my (what’s meant to be a really important birthday) will be consumed by soccer.. this made me really upset, i wanted to cancel the whole thing because I really do not want to watch gd football on my night out. Any help.. any advice is really appreciated
2024.05.21 15:12 o0oJ0NESYo00 H: Melees W: Offers (no caps)
I have the below, wide ranging & well rolled (40 = Power Attack, SS = Weapon Speed) Melee weapons for trade:
LvL45 Pink Bat
AA/40/40 Hatchet
Ari/40/1S MMG
Be40PA/1S Bear Arm
Be40PA/1S Chainsaw
B/40/1S Gulper
B/40/40 Baton, Staff, Switchblade, Rolling Pin or Guitar Sword
B/25dam/40 Chainsaw
B/40/25AP Knuckles, Boxing Glove
B/SS/90 DCG
EXE/40/40 DCG
EXE/SS90 MMG
Gou40/40 Bear Arm
Inst/SS/25AP Power Fist
Jugg/40/40 Sheep’s Club
J/SS/90 DCG
J/40/25AP Boxing Glove
J/40/1S Machete or Shishkebab
MS/40/90 Chainsaw
Mut/40/1S Dagger
Supp/40/1S Power Fist
Tro/40/25AP Bear Arm
V/SS/90 Baseball Bat
V/40/90 Boxing Glove
V/SS/25AP Boxing Glove
V/40/40 Grog Axe
V/40/25AP Power Fist
All the below are SS/1S weapons:
AA - Baseball Bat, Machete
Ari - Meat Hook
B - Baton, Grognak Axe, Meat Hook, Sheep’s Club
EXE - Baseball Bat
F - MMG
Gour - Cultist Dagger
H - Walking Cane
Inst - Axe, Power Fist
Jugg - Shishkebab
Junkie - Bowie Knife, MMG
Mutants - War Drum, Knuckles, Bear Arm
NOC - Baseball Bat
Supp - Baseball Bat
Troubleshooter - Axe
Zealots - Bowie Knife, Golf Club
I'm currently looking for:
PA Pieces - T-45 Troubleshooter with combos of EXP or AP & Sent or WWR.
Melees - AASS1S Power Fist, B40PA/1S DCG & V 40PA1S or SS1S Bear Arm (will bundle for any of these or adds)
Outside of those, I'd like L&L3, G&B3 or EXP Bobbleheads offers.
I'm happy to bundle for apparel, open to negotiating 👍
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LvL45 Pink Bat
AA/40/40 Hatchet
Ari/40/1S MMG
Be40PA/1S Bear Arm
Be40PA/1S Chainsaw
B/40/1S Gulper
B/40/40 Baton, Staff, Switchblade, Rolling Pin or Guitar Sword
B/25dam/40 Chainsaw
B/40/25AP Knuckles, Boxing Glove
B/SS/90 DCG
EXE/40/40 DCG
EXE/SS90 MMG
Gou40/40 Bear Arm
Inst/SS/25AP Power Fist
Jugg/40/40 Sheep’s Club
J/SS/90 DCG
J/40/25AP Boxing Glove
J/40/1S Machete or Shishkebab
MS/40/90 Chainsaw
Mut/40/1S Dagger
Supp/40/1S Power Fist
Tro/40/25AP Bear Arm
V/SS/90 Baseball Bat
V/40/90 Boxing Glove
V/SS/25AP Boxing Glove
V/40/40 Grog Axe
V/40/25AP Power Fist
All the below are SS/1S weapons:
AA - Baseball Bat, Machete
Ari - Meat Hook
B - Baton, Grognak Axe, Meat Hook, Sheep’s Club
EXE - Baseball Bat
F - MMG
Gour - Cultist Dagger
H - Walking Cane
Inst - Axe, Power Fist
Jugg - Shishkebab
Junkie - Bowie Knife, MMG
Mutants - War Drum, Knuckles, Bear Arm
NOC - Baseball Bat
Supp - Baseball Bat
Troubleshooter - Axe
Zealots - Bowie Knife, Golf Club
I'm currently looking for:
PA Pieces - T-45 Troubleshooter with combos of EXP or AP & Sent or WWR.
Melees - AASS1S Power Fist, B40PA/1S DCG & V 40PA1S or SS1S Bear Arm (will bundle for any of these or adds)
Outside of those, I'd like L&L3, G&B3 or EXP Bobbleheads offers.
I'm happy to bundle for apparel, open to negotiating 👍
2024.05.21 15:12 deeptechsharing Beatport Exclusives Only: Week 21 (2024)
Title: Beatport Exclusives Only: Week 21 (2024) Genre: House, Indie Dance, Techno (Peak Time / Driving), Hard Dance / Hardcore / Neo Rave, Tech House, Deep House, Psy-Trance, Minimal / Deep Tech, Progressive House, Nu Disco / Disco, Afro House, Melodic House & Techno, Techno (Raw / Deep / Hypnotic), Organic House / Downtempo, Mainstage, Drum & Bass, Jackin House, Hard Techno Release Date: 2024-05-21
DOWNLOAD in 320kbps: https://sharing-db.club/djs-chart/482517_beatport-exclusives-only-week-21-2024/
Tracklist: 1. Jan Oberlaender – Drop Out (Original Mix) (5:48) 2. Latmun – Play The Music (Original Mix) (6:21) 3. Beltran (BR) – Cuerpo Pegado (Original Mix) (6:09) 4. Luca Agnelli – Game Over (Extended Mix) (5:39) 5. L Plus – Back to You (Original Mix) (3:22) 6. Felipe Gordon – My Legs Are Numb (Original Mix) (6:03) 7. Matt Sassari & BLR – Close Encounters (Original Mix) (4:48) 8. Cristoph – Give Me An Answer (Extended Mix) (6:32) 9. Traumer – Nectar (Original Mix) (6:51) 10. Mendo – I Like That (Original Mix) (5:46) 11. Sevdavision – The Old Goes (Original Mix) (2:39) 12. GMJ, Jiminy Hop – Caladan (Original Mix) (7:30) 13. Joezi, AVIVI – Obsession (Original Mix) (5:55) 14. Whitesquare – Ephemeral Eyes (Original Mix) (6:54) 15. Magenta & Skore – Dubplate (Original Mix) (4:29) 16. Zamna Soundsystem, ROZYO, Armonica – Summertime Sadness feat. Blu (Original Mix) (5:31) 17. Pirate Copy, Nicolas Caprile – All Eyes Above (Extended Mix) (6:11) 18. Romeo Louisa – For Your Love (Original Mix) (7:39) 19. Nausica, Danny Rhys, Gloria – La Flaca (Extended Mix) (5:18) 20. Kiki, Drown – Don’t Follow Me (Original Mix) (6:22) 21. Mark Knight, Darius Syrossian, James Hurr – I Got All This Love (Extended Mix) (5:58) 22. K-Lone – Give It Up (Original Mix) (6:37) 23. Adonis – Few Times (Original mix) (6:49) 24. Patrik Berg – Nothing But Love (Original Mix) (6:53) 25. Fulltone – Alba (Original Mix) (8:57) 26. Frank Storm, Francis De Simone – Quarterback (Original Mix) (6:25) 27. Decadance – Ehyah (Parallx Remix) (6:08) 28. Bruno (HU) – I Am Here (Original Mix) (6:09) 29. KRAEK – Dungeon (Original Mix) (3:21) 30. Melvin Spix – Boisterous (Original Mix) (6:11) 31. Oscar Mulero – The Sweat And The Salt (Original Mix) (5:05) 32. Jamie Stevens – Path of None (Analog Jungs Remix) (8:03) 33. Nifra, 2 Unlimited – Control Your Body (Hardwell Extended Edit) (4:22) 34. A*S*Y*S, Avis Vox – Body Mind & Soul (Original Mix) (5:23) 35. Ximena, Ali X, Pvlomo – Pastillitas (BadWolf Remix) (5:59) 36. Wingz – Ghost (Original Mix) (5:07) 37. Apparel Wax – MINI003A (Original Mix) (4:41) 38. Timboletti – Kava (Original Mix) (6:33) 39. Oliver Wickham – Let’s Go Back (Extended Mix) (7:15) 40. ATMOS, Jakes – Hypnosis (Original Mix) (4:28) 41. Michel De Hey – Hot Like That (Original Mix) (5:26) 42. dernis, the kid, Clara Jo – Let Me Go (Original Mix) (6:38) 43. Molecular – Cold Hands (Original Mix) (5:20) 44. Carlo Ruetz – Cristal (Original Mix) (7:24) 45. Marc Brauner, Maeva – Mon Numéro (Radio Mix) (3:17) 46. Alex M (Italy) – Perfect Love (Original Mix) (6:31)
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DOWNLOAD in 320kbps: https://sharing-db.club/djs-chart/482517_beatport-exclusives-only-week-21-2024/
Tracklist: 1. Jan Oberlaender – Drop Out (Original Mix) (5:48) 2. Latmun – Play The Music (Original Mix) (6:21) 3. Beltran (BR) – Cuerpo Pegado (Original Mix) (6:09) 4. Luca Agnelli – Game Over (Extended Mix) (5:39) 5. L Plus – Back to You (Original Mix) (3:22) 6. Felipe Gordon – My Legs Are Numb (Original Mix) (6:03) 7. Matt Sassari & BLR – Close Encounters (Original Mix) (4:48) 8. Cristoph – Give Me An Answer (Extended Mix) (6:32) 9. Traumer – Nectar (Original Mix) (6:51) 10. Mendo – I Like That (Original Mix) (5:46) 11. Sevdavision – The Old Goes (Original Mix) (2:39) 12. GMJ, Jiminy Hop – Caladan (Original Mix) (7:30) 13. Joezi, AVIVI – Obsession (Original Mix) (5:55) 14. Whitesquare – Ephemeral Eyes (Original Mix) (6:54) 15. Magenta & Skore – Dubplate (Original Mix) (4:29) 16. Zamna Soundsystem, ROZYO, Armonica – Summertime Sadness feat. Blu (Original Mix) (5:31) 17. Pirate Copy, Nicolas Caprile – All Eyes Above (Extended Mix) (6:11) 18. Romeo Louisa – For Your Love (Original Mix) (7:39) 19. Nausica, Danny Rhys, Gloria – La Flaca (Extended Mix) (5:18) 20. Kiki, Drown – Don’t Follow Me (Original Mix) (6:22) 21. Mark Knight, Darius Syrossian, James Hurr – I Got All This Love (Extended Mix) (5:58) 22. K-Lone – Give It Up (Original Mix) (6:37) 23. Adonis – Few Times (Original mix) (6:49) 24. Patrik Berg – Nothing But Love (Original Mix) (6:53) 25. Fulltone – Alba (Original Mix) (8:57) 26. Frank Storm, Francis De Simone – Quarterback (Original Mix) (6:25) 27. Decadance – Ehyah (Parallx Remix) (6:08) 28. Bruno (HU) – I Am Here (Original Mix) (6:09) 29. KRAEK – Dungeon (Original Mix) (3:21) 30. Melvin Spix – Boisterous (Original Mix) (6:11) 31. Oscar Mulero – The Sweat And The Salt (Original Mix) (5:05) 32. Jamie Stevens – Path of None (Analog Jungs Remix) (8:03) 33. Nifra, 2 Unlimited – Control Your Body (Hardwell Extended Edit) (4:22) 34. A*S*Y*S, Avis Vox – Body Mind & Soul (Original Mix) (5:23) 35. Ximena, Ali X, Pvlomo – Pastillitas (BadWolf Remix) (5:59) 36. Wingz – Ghost (Original Mix) (5:07) 37. Apparel Wax – MINI003A (Original Mix) (4:41) 38. Timboletti – Kava (Original Mix) (6:33) 39. Oliver Wickham – Let’s Go Back (Extended Mix) (7:15) 40. ATMOS, Jakes – Hypnosis (Original Mix) (4:28) 41. Michel De Hey – Hot Like That (Original Mix) (5:26) 42. dernis, the kid, Clara Jo – Let Me Go (Original Mix) (6:38) 43. Molecular – Cold Hands (Original Mix) (5:20) 44. Carlo Ruetz – Cristal (Original Mix) (7:24) 45. Marc Brauner, Maeva – Mon Numéro (Radio Mix) (3:17) 46. Alex M (Italy) – Perfect Love (Original Mix) (6:31)
2024.05.21 15:10 Business-Break-8668 TRADE NOW
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AFRO:
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AFRO:
- Drake - Confusion ( Keinemusik Remix )
- The Temper Trap - Sweet Disposition ( Keinemusik Remix )
- Fortress - Diplo ( Rampa Remix )
- Uncle Waffles - Tanzânia (Rampa Remix)
- Toto - Africa (Rampa Edit)
- Together - Janet Jackson (Rampa Remix)
- Zouk Machine - Maldon (Rampa Edit)
- France Gall - Ella, elle l'a (Rampa Remix)
- Busta, Rampa, Black Coffeee - Mamakusa
- Go Low L.A.X (Rampa Edit)
- &Me, Rampa - Tong 4 (Original Mix)
- Travis Scott - Butterfly (&Me Remix)
- Feel - ABRA (&ME & Sasha Tigresa Edit)
- Ilanga - Masšh (&Me Edit)
- Lakou Mizik, Joseph Ray - Samba Yo Pan Pale (&Me Remix)
- Da Africa Deep - Humans (&ME edit)
- CUT Off (&Me) (16khz)
- Marssi, Adam Port feat. Ninae - All I Got
- Joris Voorn - Homeland feat. Matthew Dear (&Me Remix) {Jinadu Vocal Edit}
- Aba - Fell (&Me remix)
- Simian Mobile Disco - Caught In A Wave (&ME Remix)
- Adam Port, Massi, Ninae - All I Got
- Adam Port, Chris IDH & Adassiya - By Myself
- Keinemusik - Muye (Enoo Napa Remix)
- Daughter of the Sun (Ankhoï Remix)
- Ankhoï - Sandiya
- Ankhoï - Clound
- Ankhoï - No sleep
- Ankhoï - Corazon
- Ankhoï - After All Night Shift
- Tato - Merah
- Tato - Juremas Flower
- Alegria - ARYMÉ & OSFUR ( Chris IDH Remix )
- Chris IDH - 7 nation
- Victor Alc - Essamina
- Victor Alc - I Know You Know
- Victor Alc - Hangin Tree
- Victor Alc - Alma
- Victor Alc - Sudamérica
- Victor Alc, Murilo Tronco - Forma De Querer
- Carlita, Mojoo - Havana
- Outkast - Ms. Jackson (Moojo Remix)
- Coco, Joezi, Pape Diouf - 7 Seconds (Moojo Remix)
- Michael Jackson - Billy Late Jean ( Moojo Edit )
- Moojo, Demeya - Hot N fun
- Moojo - Atitude
- Moojo ft Gabsy - Ze Roberto
- Moojo - I Whant Your Soul
- Moojo - GTA
- Moojo - Giant Ft. Awen
- Cairo - Here We Are (Moojo Remix)
- Moojo - Oui
- Rihana - Stay (Moojo Remix)
- Moojo ft Starving yet Full - Limitless Vocal Version
- Moojo,Da Capo - What U Desaire (Vocal Mix)
- Post Malone - I Fall Apart (Moojo Remix)
- Drake - A KEEPER (Moojo Remix)
- &friends, Joseph (CH) - Jackie Brown
- &friends, Lily’s Mandre - Blending Love
- &Friends - Oya Jo (16khz)
- Abdel Kader - Monte Rougue
- Love Me Back (Raffa Guido Remix)
- Valeron, Payment & Klaudia Touch Me (Sam (GR) Children Touch)
- Marten Lou - Better Days
- Vxision - Love Preparetions (Slow Down Edit)
- Classy 101 (Vxision, Maz Remix)
- Empire Of The Sun- Walking On A Dream Vxision Remix)
- Jovem Dionisio - Pontos de Exclamação (VXSION Remix)
- Rui Da Silva - Touch Me (Peace Control Remix)
- Drake - Sticky (Peace Control Remix)
- ROUTE 94, Jesse Glynne - My Love (Alex Wann Remix)
- FCLT - Fell It’s You (Alex Wann remix)
- Zhu - Faded (Alex Wann Remix)
- Alright - Red Carpet (Kashovski & Abel Ray Remix)
- Sérgio Mendes - Mas Que Nada (Ahmed Spins Edit)
- ANOTR, Abel Balder - Vertigo (Carlita Remix)
- Kura - Sentir Saudade (Guapo, Antdot Remix)
- Drake - Finesse (Antdot Remix)
- Peaty - 6pm In Casablanca
- Peaty - KILOSA (Afro Melodic Mix)
- Black Cofee, David Guetta - Drive (Da Capo Remix)
- Empire Of The Sun- Walking On A Dream (Da Capo Remix)
- Michael Jackson - Billy Jean (Da Capo Remix)
- Coco, Joezi, Pape Diouf - 7 Seconds (Da Capo Remix)
- Super Flu - Lovesong
- David Mackay, Dela Sur - Carnaval Breve
- Moderat, Keinemusik - More Love (Kalidon Mykonos Mashup)
- Roy Rosenfeld & Sébastien Léger - ID {Played by Keinemusik} (16khz)
- Adam Ten - Kepler
- Adam Ten - Deep Love
- Adam Ten - Carovana
- Adam Tem -3 Days (16khz)
- Quentin Harris - Warning (Adam Ten & Mita Gami Re-Edit)
- Mita Gami - Danger
- Pink Floyd - Confortably Numb (Mita Gami Sunrise Edit)
- Solique - Heat Of The Moment
- Solique - Mood In The Jungle
- Ego Maria - T Mapper Native
- Ego Maria, Toto Chiavetta - Cells Under Attack
- Tal Fussman - North
- Tal Fussaman - Sam Shure - Inferno
- Tal Fussaman - Childrem Of 95 (V3 Instrumental)
- OPUS III - It's A Fine Day (Aera's Finite Edit)
- Amê - Mifune (Dixon Acustic Edit)
- Jimi Jules - Palpitations
- Jimi Jules - Run (FT Remix)
- Schneider TM, Kptmichigan - The Light 3000 (Aera Private Edit)
- AIKON, Sobek - Burning Hats (Dixon Edit)
- Kavinsky - Nightcall (Dixon's Private Edit)
- Maind Against - Love Seeking
- Maind Against - Hydra
- Chis Bake - Ride (Mind Against Remix)
- Mathame - There Is The Light
- Mathame - Brothers
- Ae:ther, Mind Against - Black Museum
- Ae:ther, Marino Canal - White Atlas V2
- Artbat - Dark Knight
- Yet More - Don't Let Go
- MGMT - Eletric Feel (Ivory’s Eletric Reshape)
- Amber Run - I Found (Ivory's Re-Found Edit)
- Billie Eilish - Everything I Wanted (Ivory Head Underwater Remix)
- Christopher Cross - Ride Like The Wind (Ivory’s On The Run Edit)
- Ivory (IT), Tal Fussman - Labyrinth
- Ivory - Identity
- Ivory - Lovers Hymn
- Ivory - Mirrors
- Ivory - Eye Blink
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- Ivory - Acid Rain
- Ivory - Conquest Of Space
- Ivory - Upon A Time
- Fideles - Lost In Town
- Hard To Tell - No Matter
- Hard To Tell - Stranger
- Aera - Pullunder
- Aera - Puzzle Emotivo
- Echonomist - Overseas
- Skepta - Bullet from a Gun (Colyn Private Edit)
- Depeche Mode - Enjoy The Silence (Will Clark Remix)
- London Grammar - Hey Now (Cristoph Private Mix)
- Opus III- Fine Night (Cristoph's Private Edit)
- Nelly Furtado - Say it Right (Adana Twins Remix)
- RY X & Frank Wiedemann - Howling (Tinlicker Prague Edit)
- The XX - Fiction (Eagles & Butterflies Remix)
- Massive Attack - Teardrop (Antony Toga Remix)
- Cassius - The Sound Of Violence (Antony Toga Background DiscoVox Version)
- Starsailor - Four to the floor (Mångata Projekt Rework)
- Sin Cos Tan - Destroyer (Adriatique Remix)
- Anna Caragnano - Parola (Erly Tepshi Edit)
- Yotam Avni - Island Hopper (Franky & Sandrino Remix)
- Rebuke - Along Came Polly (Konstantin Sibold, Zac, Carmee Remix)
- Armin Van Buuren - Yet Another Day (8Kays Remix)
2024.05.21 15:09 lopea182 [Charania and Buha] The Lakers have held formal meetings with JJ Redick, New Orleans Pelicans associate head coach James Borrego and Boston Celtics assistant coach Sam Cassell over the past several days
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The Los Angeles Lakers have begun interviewing candidates for their next coach, according to league sources not authorized to speak publicly on the matter.
The Lakers have held formal meetings with JJ Redick, New Orleans Pelicans associate head coach James Borrego and Boston Celtics assistant coach Sam Cassell over the past several days, according to those sources.
Team officials plan to meet with Denver Nuggets assistant coach David Adelman, Minnesota Timberwolves assistant Micah Nori and Miami Heat assistant Chris Quinn as they do their due diligence on the candidate pool.
Leaguewide, Redick — a former player and media analyst — has garnered buzz for the position. The Lakers are infatuated with Redick’s potential, according to league sources, viewing him as a Pat Riley-like coaching prospect who could both help the franchise in the short term and lead it for years.
2024.05.21 15:07 mcbeardsauce Little Hug Fruit Barrels
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2024.05.21 15:05 sinkintins Sponsor Night
Hey everyone, I've just returned home from the player sponsor trivia night as representative for our adopted child, Josh Weddle. Apologies in advance as I had no idea what to expect, the comms seemed to indicate there was limited contact but the players literally sat and ate with us the whole time. Otherwise I would've banked up some questions from you all, although I did my best to ask about all sorts of things.
As for how the night went down, I literally had no idea what to expect. Walking into Glenferrie Hotel, we took our name tags and walked to our table only to walk in on virtually the whole team hanging around. The staff had us leave that area for a little bit whilst they got prepared, and whilst enjoying a nice frothie, in walks Sic, Hardwick and Watson. We gave each other the nod as they entered.
When we were allowed to go to our table, we took our seats, when a voice from behind asked us: "how are you guys going tonight?" by none other than Luke Breust. We had a good chat for 15 minutes, I congratulated him on his newborn and he told me about how he was finding fatherhood (all going great). Another person from the table started speaking to Breusty, but that's when our lord and saviour and adopted child Josh Weddle arrived. First things first, Josh Weddle is an absolute legend and we couldn't have had a more perfect player to sponsor. He was super genuine and actively engaged in conversation with the table the whole time.
I let him know how much we at /hawktalk love him and are impressed by him. I also told him he's never allowed to leave the hawks and that I'll glue him to Dingley if I have to. Weddle gave off some great vibes about how much he enjoys being at Hawthorn, so I don't think we have anything to worry about there. I also learned an interesting fact that he was originally a North supporter growing up, which shocked me as I had read he was always Hawks. He said he saw the Hawks link reported on, but wasn't sure where that came from haha.
We spoke about our heartbreaking loss, and I framed a question around whether we planned to go defensive like we did, or whether the game just went that way for us. He couldn't say much, but indicated that the team felt comfortable with the lead and just happened to fall into a defensive mindset. He also didn't appreciate the tag he received for 3 quarters haha. He also was really keen on the fact we were only a couple of wins away from the top 8. I told him I thought we played fantastic regardless of the result, and that at least this happened in a bit of a nothing H&A game rather than say a 3 point win in a prelim leading to a grand final cough cough 2014 ;) we still have that over them hahahah
We also spoke about his interests, hobbies, etc.
I was able to have another chat with Breusty, I spoke with him about his future post-AFL life and how clubs work with players to prepare them for post-AFL life.
Half way in, none other than our senior coach Sammy Mitchell made an appearance and came by every table to have a quick chat. Unfortunately I only was able to have a quick handshake and told him I love what he's done for the team. Was hoping to catch him again before he left, but sadly missed him.
Over the night I got to have quick chats with Nick Watson (told him I loved his energy on field), CJ (told him I missed him and glad he's back in the side, also to get his brother traded to us lol), Sam Frost (spoke a bit about the upcoming Brissie game and how great he's been, said he can probably leave Daniher on his own since Joe will probs kick it on the full anyway which he had a laugh about), Ethan Phillips (told him he had an awesome debut), James Blanck (told him he's going to have to fight Phillips now haha), DGB (said he sounds like he has a wrestler name, which he said he gets the same comments from the team lol), Sic (wouldn't confirm about his shoulder :( was hoping to get the inside scoop there haha reckon he got asked by everyone in the bar haha also told him to smash Charlie Cameron for us, he had a good laugh and said that'll likely be Hardwick's job haha), Cam McKenzie (told him he's been excellent), Bailey McKenzie (unfortunately only had a quick hello and hand shake), Impey (told him he's been great and I hope we get the win for him as captain), Gunner (god love him, said glad he's back at the hawks).
Finally, got to have a photo with Weddle and a whole bunch of signatures on a #23 guernsey.
All in all I had an absolute ripper night, had great interactions with majority of the team. Breust and Weddle were amazing, I wish I could've had more time with them since they were so down to earth and happy to chat. I highly recommend for anyone who thought about going, to get involved next time.
Anyone with any questions, I talked a lot that I can't fully capture in this post without writing a novel. So feel free to ask and I'll answer what I can :)
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As for how the night went down, I literally had no idea what to expect. Walking into Glenferrie Hotel, we took our name tags and walked to our table only to walk in on virtually the whole team hanging around. The staff had us leave that area for a little bit whilst they got prepared, and whilst enjoying a nice frothie, in walks Sic, Hardwick and Watson. We gave each other the nod as they entered.
When we were allowed to go to our table, we took our seats, when a voice from behind asked us: "how are you guys going tonight?" by none other than Luke Breust. We had a good chat for 15 minutes, I congratulated him on his newborn and he told me about how he was finding fatherhood (all going great). Another person from the table started speaking to Breusty, but that's when our lord and saviour and adopted child Josh Weddle arrived. First things first, Josh Weddle is an absolute legend and we couldn't have had a more perfect player to sponsor. He was super genuine and actively engaged in conversation with the table the whole time.
I let him know how much we at /hawktalk love him and are impressed by him. I also told him he's never allowed to leave the hawks and that I'll glue him to Dingley if I have to. Weddle gave off some great vibes about how much he enjoys being at Hawthorn, so I don't think we have anything to worry about there. I also learned an interesting fact that he was originally a North supporter growing up, which shocked me as I had read he was always Hawks. He said he saw the Hawks link reported on, but wasn't sure where that came from haha.
We spoke about our heartbreaking loss, and I framed a question around whether we planned to go defensive like we did, or whether the game just went that way for us. He couldn't say much, but indicated that the team felt comfortable with the lead and just happened to fall into a defensive mindset. He also didn't appreciate the tag he received for 3 quarters haha. He also was really keen on the fact we were only a couple of wins away from the top 8. I told him I thought we played fantastic regardless of the result, and that at least this happened in a bit of a nothing H&A game rather than say a 3 point win in a prelim leading to a grand final cough cough 2014 ;) we still have that over them hahahah
We also spoke about his interests, hobbies, etc.
I was able to have another chat with Breusty, I spoke with him about his future post-AFL life and how clubs work with players to prepare them for post-AFL life.
Half way in, none other than our senior coach Sammy Mitchell made an appearance and came by every table to have a quick chat. Unfortunately I only was able to have a quick handshake and told him I love what he's done for the team. Was hoping to catch him again before he left, but sadly missed him.
Over the night I got to have quick chats with Nick Watson (told him I loved his energy on field), CJ (told him I missed him and glad he's back in the side, also to get his brother traded to us lol), Sam Frost (spoke a bit about the upcoming Brissie game and how great he's been, said he can probably leave Daniher on his own since Joe will probs kick it on the full anyway which he had a laugh about), Ethan Phillips (told him he had an awesome debut), James Blanck (told him he's going to have to fight Phillips now haha), DGB (said he sounds like he has a wrestler name, which he said he gets the same comments from the team lol), Sic (wouldn't confirm about his shoulder :( was hoping to get the inside scoop there haha reckon he got asked by everyone in the bar haha also told him to smash Charlie Cameron for us, he had a good laugh and said that'll likely be Hardwick's job haha), Cam McKenzie (told him he's been excellent), Bailey McKenzie (unfortunately only had a quick hello and hand shake), Impey (told him he's been great and I hope we get the win for him as captain), Gunner (god love him, said glad he's back at the hawks).
Finally, got to have a photo with Weddle and a whole bunch of signatures on a #23 guernsey.
All in all I had an absolute ripper night, had great interactions with majority of the team. Breust and Weddle were amazing, I wish I could've had more time with them since they were so down to earth and happy to chat. I highly recommend for anyone who thought about going, to get involved next time.
Anyone with any questions, I talked a lot that I can't fully capture in this post without writing a novel. So feel free to ask and I'll answer what I can :)
2024.05.21 15:04 scottmcsaucey A/C Change well in advance
Hello,
I recently made an Avios redemption in February 2024 to fly Business Class to Tokyo at the end of January 2025.
The flight advertised was on a 777 with the new club suites and I even paid to select a seat so that I was in the smaller mini-cabin at the front.
I went on the BA App today to see what seats were still free around me to see that it’s now a 2-3-2 config with the old business class and the aircraft has been changed to a 787-8.
As it was going to be my first time ever flying business I feel somewhat a tad disappointed by this.
From anyone’s previous experience before have they experienced multiple aircraft changes on a booking before and am I entitled to any sort of refund on the seat selection?
Thanks!
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I recently made an Avios redemption in February 2024 to fly Business Class to Tokyo at the end of January 2025.
The flight advertised was on a 777 with the new club suites and I even paid to select a seat so that I was in the smaller mini-cabin at the front.
I went on the BA App today to see what seats were still free around me to see that it’s now a 2-3-2 config with the old business class and the aircraft has been changed to a 787-8.
As it was going to be my first time ever flying business I feel somewhat a tad disappointed by this.
From anyone’s previous experience before have they experienced multiple aircraft changes on a booking before and am I entitled to any sort of refund on the seat selection?
Thanks!
2024.05.21 15:02 Dazzling_Buddy_1002 TRADE
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- Drake - Confusion ( Keinemusik Remix )
- The Temper Trap - Sweet Disposition ( Keinemusik Remix )
- Fortress - Diplo ( Rampa Remix )
- Uncle Waffles - Tanzânia (Rampa Remix)
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- Together - Janet Jackson (Rampa Remix)
- Zouk Machine - Maldon (Rampa Edit)
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2024.05.21 15:02 disiradosti172 Kako su se zvali ovi bomboni i tko ih je proizvodio?
Pozdrav, neki dan sam s mamom pricala o starim slatkisima, npr. Moja prva cokolada, Runolist mini, Ledo sladoled u kartonskoj kutiji s fantasticnim punjenjem od jagode, Mozaik keksi i Milka od limete i zelenog caja. Sjetile smo se i nekih slatkisa o kojima nemamo pojma kako se zovu i tko ih je proizvodio, ali smo ih rado jele:
1) Manji bomboni, okrugli, poput spekule. Ako se dobro sjecam, imali su blagi vocni okus. Bili su pastelnih boja - zuta, narancasta, roza. Sama tekstura je bila kao da je secer u prahu presan skupa, bili su dosta tvrdi ali opet nekako praskasti. Omot je bio obican bijeli papiric, zamotano je bilo tako da je s obje strane bilo zavezano, kao npr. Bronhiji.
2) Krašovi bomboni, ali ne znamo im ime. Bili su pravokutnog oblika, rebraste teksture, zelene boje, okus jabuke, kiselkasti, mislim da su cak imali i neke tamno zelene tockice. Sjecam se da su bili puno tvrdi od obicnih Kiki bombona.
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1) Manji bomboni, okrugli, poput spekule. Ako se dobro sjecam, imali su blagi vocni okus. Bili su pastelnih boja - zuta, narancasta, roza. Sama tekstura je bila kao da je secer u prahu presan skupa, bili su dosta tvrdi ali opet nekako praskasti. Omot je bio obican bijeli papiric, zamotano je bilo tako da je s obje strane bilo zavezano, kao npr. Bronhiji.
2) Krašovi bomboni, ali ne znamo im ime. Bili su pravokutnog oblika, rebraste teksture, zelene boje, okus jabuke, kiselkasti, mislim da su cak imali i neke tamno zelene tockice. Sjecam se da su bili puno tvrdi od obicnih Kiki bombona.
2024.05.21 15:02 MusikBlog Chastity Belt - Tickets zu gewinnen 30.05.2024 Leipzig – Conne Island 31.05.2024 Berlin – Frannz Club 03.06.2024 Köln – Bumann & S...
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2024.05.21 15:01 SharkEva My wife friend-zoned me and wants a platonic “companionship”
I am not the OOP. The OOP is u/themachucajr posting in Marriage
Ongoing as per OOP
1 updates - Long
Original - 7th May 2024
Update - 15th May 2024
My wife friend-zoned me and wants a platonic “companionship”
My wife (35f) and I (35m) have been married for 15 years and we've been together for 20 years. We have two kids (12,14) we absolutely adore and work tirelessly to provide the best possible life for them. For the past 3 years, things have been somewhat bumpy. I understand that our kids are at an age where they require a ton of our attention and resources with school, band, club sports, and other extracurriculars and I'm aware of the physical and emotional toll that can have on marriages.
However, for these past 3 years, my wife and I have had very little intimacy and very little sex and we've been trying very hard to work on that aspect of our relationship. This past year has been the most difficult and by far the darkest year in our marriage. We didn’t talk very much, we essentially became roommates coparenting our kids under the same roof. It was very depressing and very demoralizing. It was to the point where we began contemplating divorce and it became very dark and gloomy in the household because of that.
We began seeking help with both individualized therapy and couples therapy and it seems to have helped some. Little by little we started to get along and started to have deeper conversations about what our marriage looks like and what we would love for it to look like. This is where it gets tough. As time passed, my wife started to tell me she no longer was "in love with me" and that she only saw me as a "best friend." That she only loved me in a very platonic way, and this was one of the main reasons she didn’t have any desire for intimacy and let alone sex.
This was very shocking to me and quite frankly, I was devastated. I because angry and depressed and I couldn't fathom the thought that I was no longer wanted or desired by the person I felt completely in love with. Things began to deteriorate again and not long after, we were back to square one. I sat down with her one afternoon and had a heart to heart and began to ask questions about where the root of this problem lies, and her answer was "I don't know" and that "I have built up resentment towards you but I don't know where it stems from." As you can imagine, this provides very little to no insight into how to approach this.
I'm puzzled, I'm frustrated and I do not know what to do at this point. Currently, we've arrived at a place where she says that she has no sex drive and no desire for intimacy or connection. She says that all she wants is simply "companionship" which basically means our coparenting roommate dynamic. I asked her what I could possibly do or what is it about me that is so unattractive or undesirable and she her response is always "I don't know." She stated that she does "love" me but its not the same. That she has been feeling disconnected for years and that our marriage just takes up too much work. Her focus is only the children for now and that my coparenting contributions are "meaningful" to her in our home.
I'm at a loss and I'm mainly venting about my frustration. It's tough to realize that the person you love has no feelings for you. I feel like at this point I'm only here to contribute financially and as a parent. I feel like what she means with "companionship" is that she's comfortable with the convenience of having a good father for our kids and my financial contribution to the household.
In regard to intimacy and/or sex, she basically told me that its not something she’s interested in or wants at this time. She mentioned that the only way to get to a point for any of that is to be intoxicated which o believe is incredibly awful and very wrong. I told her I do not think forcing herself to have sex or be intimate by drinking or smoking is good and I declined to be a part of that which to my surprise, it upset her and made her more distant.
We're both extremely honest and transparent. We've never cheated on each other and we are always free to look through each others phones, emails, socials, etc. and we hardly ever do. I asked her if there was someone else and she declined. Honestly, I believe her. We then peacefully went through each other’s things and as expected, it was clean. We've always been very forward, even with the hard topics so I don't smell nor feel any foul play or infidelity.
Am I wrong for declining to only be intimate or have sex when she’s intoxicated? (I'm firm on my stance of not partaking in this "only when I'm high or drunk" sex because it doesn’t sit well with me.) I do not know how to help our situation and I'm starting to become a bit anxious and desperate. We're both fairly young and healthy individuals and good looking. We both have good standing careers and are good parents. I'm just not sure how our lives could have driven us to this point. I'd love some outside perspective on this matter and some insight on how to address something like this. It feels so awful to be unwanted and undesired by my own spouse. I hate it.
tl;dr: My wife of 15+ years is no longer in love with me and doesn’t know way and now says she can only have sex while intoxicated or I need to settle for a platonic sexless marriage and she doesn’t know why that is but it is what it is and I'm in need of insight or advice.
Comments
Warthog__
From your comment history it looks like you are Swingers? If so, I would think that would be relevant information to consider.
failedopportunities
It’s an obvious potential issue bro… wether it be she’s enjoying herself a side piece and wants nothing to do with you in that manner anymore. Or, she just went along with you on the swinging and never wanted to do it in the first place. Hence brings resentment. Regardless, should have been included in the initial post.
BigIronBruce
Will she be your best friend if you live elsewhere and have a relationship with somebody in love you. Probably not. Which makes the whole "best friend" speech feel like self-deception on her part.
I won't lie, if it were me, I'd get a divorce. She doesn't seem willing to do the work to fix the marriage and you can't fix it alone. She might promise to fix it or beg you not to but you need to follow your gut as to whether she actually can or will fix it. She's serious that she wants you to stick around but not necessarily as her husband.
Basically withold from any unnecesary interactions and affection. This is from an infidelity forum, but principles are the same https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/documents/library/articles/discovery/the-simplified-180/
Update - 8 days later
I wanted to give you guys an update of how the therapy session with my wife went this week. Not sure if this is helpful or not but I took many of the responses/comments/suggestions from my initial post and put together some things I wanted to discuss with our couples therapist to help us navigate some of the core issues that may be affecting this situation.
One of the main things that is the "buzz word" of this has been the term "resentment" and it has been really eating me up inside knowing my wife keeps telling me she doesn't know why she's resentful or doesn't know why this is affecting her emotionally/mentally. I brought this up with our therapist once again and resurfaced the conversation about being married for so long (15yrs) and being together since we ere 14yrs old. Our long history of growing up and how having children when she was 19yrs old (me 20) significantly changed the trajectory of our lives.
We experience severe poverty and many hardships in the process and we essentially had zero social life for the past 10 years because we were so busy raising babies (2 kids now ages 12 &14). She followed up with tons of questions directly mostly at my wife about her feelings towards this and 90% of the responses were very "our kids" focused. It definitely felt like she was afraid of saying "yes it sucked" because she would feel guilt or shame because it would imply she regrets the kids.
I mentioned this in the session and the therapist encouraged her to look at this outside of the lens of being a mother and to try to view it a bit more selfishly and individually and it was very eye opening. My wife mentioned that she was very frustrated with the fact that we did miss out on many things in life. She also was very clear in saying "I do not think I missed out on other partners or dating or partying but I certainly lost all my friends." This was huge because one of the big pieces that has caused a strain in our lives is how silo'd and isolated we've been (again busy raising kids). I followed up by reminding her that it's important to have good friends and to make time for herself and her friendships.
For the past 3+ years, we've had multiple conversations about friends and how it is important to have them in life. Specially when you have similar peers that can help in many areas of life that perhaps we have no experience navigating and even simply for enjoyment. It has always been something my wife avoids, even though she's always been someone who needs that external stimuli. The main reason for her not investing in friends or even herself has always been "the kids." Like I mentioned earlier in this post, 90% of the answers have to relate to "the kids" to some degree.
At this point in our session I started to feel like there was a common denominator (the kids) in most of the frustrations and problems she was experiencing. So I simply asked her "Do you think you may be upset at me because I'm responsible for these kids in the sense that I got you pregnant so young?" I wasn't ready but she said that she was upset at me for that. She also followed up with the fact that she knows that's unreasonable because it "takes 2 to tango." I did feel like it was progress because it kind of gave us something to work on and help alleviate some of these "burdens" so we agreed to invest more time in nurturing good friendships both together and individually.
Towards the end of the session, we began to discuss what actionable items we would take from this session. At this point, it was still all very ambiguous and blurry as to what the outcomes were. I was very direct and very forward in asking my wife what her plan is moving forward. (NOTE: I had decided prior to the session that should my wife say the same thing about being a coparenting roommate that I would take the 180 approach and essentially do me) She started basically saying the same thing, that she doesn't have any desire to be intimate or sexual with me as of now and that she loves me immensely and she feels bad for not being there for me (as mentioned in my first post).
I also brought up the brief swinging that happened, to which for the 50th time said it wasn't a problem. I agree with her on this. This was something that was a "mechanical" approach for a solution to a problem that was very much in existent when we tried this. We (both) really have no issue to this. We know it happened, we tried it and mutually stopped and turned the page.
I also brought up other life events that may cause resentment and really we ended up not getting anywhere else as far as the root for resentment which was discouraging.
I then basically expressed to my wife that I will not be ok with that arrangement. I told her that I've really done everything I can and that this issue really has reached a point where it has nothing to do with me or require me to do anything that I'm currently not doing. I was very direct and saying that I will not be accepting this dynamic and that I need to be with someone who is actively involved in our marriage, works towards resolutions and is very much interested in maintaining an active intimacy and sexual relationship.
I expressed how I am not going to be a "convenience" and that there was more to life than being roommates and coparents. I made sure she knows I love her dearly and that I do want this to work for the better. I also told her that I'm fully committed to this marriage so long as she is as well and that is she wasn't, its ok, however I will not be a part of something where these efforts are not reciprocated. I told her I have no plans of leaving, and I do not want a divorce, however, I made it clear that if this dynamic continues that divorce will be the only outcome.
Of course tears were involved and it was a very bleak and sad ending to the session. Still nothing was said and I walked out very discouraged and very determined to start working on the 180 as soon as we left the room. It's painful and very difficult because much of the 180 requires you to be very short and cold and transactional. The saddest part is realizing, this dynamic already is very cold and transactional.
Here is where it gets VERY interesting. I started working on implementing many of the 180 recommendations that same day. I mentioned to my wife that, "hey, things are going to be a bit different moving forward. I'm going to honor her roommate/coparent dynamic without reproach and that it should be no mistake that I am not happy here and I am never going to be ok with it but I am done working on it if she wasn't going to work on it."
She agreed and went to bed. I started to build distance and started to basically focus on myself. Very short and transactional. She asked for help on some of her personal things to which I declined and it really shocked her. She was upset saying I was being petulant. I explained to her that, she is now fully in charge of her own life and her own issues.
We didn't talk all day and we only spoke when necessary. Few days I keep this going and she's very visibly upset and stressed. I typically react to that with gestures of help or nurturing but I didn't this time. That night she was crying telling me she's stressed and she things something is wrong with me because I'm "indifferent." I simply listened, then I told her that this is the dynamic she proposed and that I'm simply (much like her) taking care of myself and focusing on myself.
I'm not going to lie, it has been VERY hard to be cold and distant because as I mentioned before, I love her and I wish I could hold her and love on her. However, I know this is somewhat manipulative in a way just to get her way and still keep me in the friendzone. So I've been staying the course.
We're now going on a week of this 180 and let just say, there has been MANY changes on her side. I think she is starting to realize there is more to me than just "friends and coparenting." I sent her a text a few days ago essentially itemizing bills and separating the financial responsibilities 50/50 and SHE LOST HER SHIT. She basically told me it was "out of left field" to which I responded "hey, friends go in 50/50 and as your friend I expect nothing less."
This was very eye opening because it gave me a glimpse of I'm really taken for granted and how her level of comfort and convenience at my expense is really overlooked. I pushed through anyways and basically told her that this is the new dynamic she asked for and that its still a "bargain" because she would have to be 100% if she was on her own.
I'll wrap up with this. While the 180 has been working in many different areas, I am still very much sad about the overall situation. There have been MANY eye opening statements being said and realization that have not been pleasant to encounter. It has also sparked new energy and new efforts on her side as well. She's definitely seeking to talk to me more often and while its hard to turn down, I hope if things improve, this continues to happen.
I've also noticed that she's making more time for herself aside from being a mom which is HUGE because she pretty much neglected herself for years. I'm very pleased seeing her be more herself. My hope is that as we work on ourselves, the marriage improves. There really is no telling at this point where this will go. We are very much cordial and amicable even to this day and that's a very good sign.
Boundaries are set and expectations are very clear and I feel that no matter the outcome, I will be at peace with everything that has been done. We're still going to continue the couples therapist until we either rekindle our marriage or end up in divorce. I feel like having this nonbiased third party really helps as a witness and as a guide through this. No matter what I will always love my wife, however, I will not participate in a sexless, intimacy less marriage because we both deserve better.
Thank you all for all the kind words and recommendations and feedback. This will be my last post on this topic and I wish you all the best.
TL;DR: My wife friend-zoned me wants to just coparent at my expense but I started the 180 method to try and find a solution because she doesn't want to work on us which seems to be working on getting her out of her rut and helping me discover more about how she feels. Also, therapy is paramount and highly recommend to all couples.
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Complete-Old-1960
Bottom line and not to be brutal, but there is one thing you don't have infinite amount of, is TIME. This has to be resolved in a timely manner. It takes 2 to be in love and to be loved, and u only have ½ of the equation. You need to put a time limit on you being the good guy and think of you and your future. Look hope it works out for you, but listening to what you are going through and what you could be in for you can still be a good father but also be a great husband to another wife if you find that special person again.
shes_a_killer
I have to agree with this, simply because at some point, the person who has gone 180 and is waiting for the other person to decide will begin to wonder, "Wow, they're really taking their time coming around to me...did they love me at all? If they ever appreciated and cared for me, why would they keep me waiting and neglecting me for so long?" Except, in my case, it had more to do with the other person being stubborn and unable to admit their faults.
RandyPan_theGoatBoy
I think it’s interesting that in the comments of your original post you said you didn’t think she was taking you for granted but you came to realize she absolutely was. Can you give some more details on what the 180 method is?
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Original - 7th May 2024
Update - 15th May 2024
My wife friend-zoned me and wants a platonic “companionship”
My wife (35f) and I (35m) have been married for 15 years and we've been together for 20 years. We have two kids (12,14) we absolutely adore and work tirelessly to provide the best possible life for them. For the past 3 years, things have been somewhat bumpy. I understand that our kids are at an age where they require a ton of our attention and resources with school, band, club sports, and other extracurriculars and I'm aware of the physical and emotional toll that can have on marriages.
However, for these past 3 years, my wife and I have had very little intimacy and very little sex and we've been trying very hard to work on that aspect of our relationship. This past year has been the most difficult and by far the darkest year in our marriage. We didn’t talk very much, we essentially became roommates coparenting our kids under the same roof. It was very depressing and very demoralizing. It was to the point where we began contemplating divorce and it became very dark and gloomy in the household because of that.
We began seeking help with both individualized therapy and couples therapy and it seems to have helped some. Little by little we started to get along and started to have deeper conversations about what our marriage looks like and what we would love for it to look like. This is where it gets tough. As time passed, my wife started to tell me she no longer was "in love with me" and that she only saw me as a "best friend." That she only loved me in a very platonic way, and this was one of the main reasons she didn’t have any desire for intimacy and let alone sex.
This was very shocking to me and quite frankly, I was devastated. I because angry and depressed and I couldn't fathom the thought that I was no longer wanted or desired by the person I felt completely in love with. Things began to deteriorate again and not long after, we were back to square one. I sat down with her one afternoon and had a heart to heart and began to ask questions about where the root of this problem lies, and her answer was "I don't know" and that "I have built up resentment towards you but I don't know where it stems from." As you can imagine, this provides very little to no insight into how to approach this.
I'm puzzled, I'm frustrated and I do not know what to do at this point. Currently, we've arrived at a place where she says that she has no sex drive and no desire for intimacy or connection. She says that all she wants is simply "companionship" which basically means our coparenting roommate dynamic. I asked her what I could possibly do or what is it about me that is so unattractive or undesirable and she her response is always "I don't know." She stated that she does "love" me but its not the same. That she has been feeling disconnected for years and that our marriage just takes up too much work. Her focus is only the children for now and that my coparenting contributions are "meaningful" to her in our home.
I'm at a loss and I'm mainly venting about my frustration. It's tough to realize that the person you love has no feelings for you. I feel like at this point I'm only here to contribute financially and as a parent. I feel like what she means with "companionship" is that she's comfortable with the convenience of having a good father for our kids and my financial contribution to the household.
In regard to intimacy and/or sex, she basically told me that its not something she’s interested in or wants at this time. She mentioned that the only way to get to a point for any of that is to be intoxicated which o believe is incredibly awful and very wrong. I told her I do not think forcing herself to have sex or be intimate by drinking or smoking is good and I declined to be a part of that which to my surprise, it upset her and made her more distant.
We're both extremely honest and transparent. We've never cheated on each other and we are always free to look through each others phones, emails, socials, etc. and we hardly ever do. I asked her if there was someone else and she declined. Honestly, I believe her. We then peacefully went through each other’s things and as expected, it was clean. We've always been very forward, even with the hard topics so I don't smell nor feel any foul play or infidelity.
Am I wrong for declining to only be intimate or have sex when she’s intoxicated? (I'm firm on my stance of not partaking in this "only when I'm high or drunk" sex because it doesn’t sit well with me.) I do not know how to help our situation and I'm starting to become a bit anxious and desperate. We're both fairly young and healthy individuals and good looking. We both have good standing careers and are good parents. I'm just not sure how our lives could have driven us to this point. I'd love some outside perspective on this matter and some insight on how to address something like this. It feels so awful to be unwanted and undesired by my own spouse. I hate it.
tl;dr: My wife of 15+ years is no longer in love with me and doesn’t know way and now says she can only have sex while intoxicated or I need to settle for a platonic sexless marriage and she doesn’t know why that is but it is what it is and I'm in need of insight or advice.
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Warthog__
From your comment history it looks like you are Swingers? If so, I would think that would be relevant information to consider.
OOP: We did some swinging in the past. That was fun for some time. We mutually decided to stop doing it and we have established it’s not the case. When we were swinging however, our marriage seemed to be in a good place. This IS something we did disclose with our couple therapist and made sure to include it to make sure we’re not neglecting an obvious potential issue.
I will say, I did ask my wife if what she experienced during swinging is something that is affecting her view on our relationship and she said it wasn’t. Our swinging experience was always together and it was very sex driven. Nothing really emotional or “poly”. Truth is, I have to believe her at her word. I have no reason to distrust her. To date, she’s always been very forward and never afraid of dealing things head on. No matter how painful.
failedopportunities
It’s an obvious potential issue bro… wether it be she’s enjoying herself a side piece and wants nothing to do with you in that manner anymore. Or, she just went along with you on the swinging and never wanted to do it in the first place. Hence brings resentment. Regardless, should have been included in the initial post.
OOP: Swinging was her idea. Not mine. But I suppose I should have included it but I honestly believe her on it not being an issue. I don’t have any reason to distrust her. Maybe it’s something she has to accept with her therapist or our couples therapist. Can’t really approach that with a solution if she doesn’t think it was a problem. IDK
BigIronBruce
She says that all she wants is simply "companionship" which basically means our coparenting roommate dynamic.That's only a marriage if you both agree it is. You're hoping she's going to wake up one day and feel different but she's basically said that's not going to happen and doesn't want to figure out why she feels that way. It seems like you tried several different ways to get to the bottom of it and she's either deflected or is being honest that she's not in love with you.
Am I wrong for declining to only be intimate or have sex when she’s intoxicated?I wouldn't do this, either, if that makes you feel better.
Will she be your best friend if you live elsewhere and have a relationship with somebody in love you. Probably not. Which makes the whole "best friend" speech feel like self-deception on her part.
I won't lie, if it were me, I'd get a divorce. She doesn't seem willing to do the work to fix the marriage and you can't fix it alone. She might promise to fix it or beg you not to but you need to follow your gut as to whether she actually can or will fix it. She's serious that she wants you to stick around but not necessarily as her husband.
OOP: A very hard truth to accept here. Thank youInteresting-Tip-4850
"I’m ensure I do everything possible to mend our marriage to ensure my own peace of mind and excite knowing I did everything I could."you may still concider 180 method, to protect yourself and perhaps in the same time the reality that the ship is leaving may start to change your wifes perspective. If that doesnt what else would.
OOP: Can you elaborate on the “180 Method”?Interesting-Tip-4850
Basically withold from any unnecesary interactions and affection. This is from an infidelity forum, but principles are the same https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/documents/library/articles/discovery/the-simplified-180/
OOP: I bookmarked this. I’m heavily considering this.
Update - 8 days later
I wanted to give you guys an update of how the therapy session with my wife went this week. Not sure if this is helpful or not but I took many of the responses/comments/suggestions from my initial post and put together some things I wanted to discuss with our couples therapist to help us navigate some of the core issues that may be affecting this situation.
One of the main things that is the "buzz word" of this has been the term "resentment" and it has been really eating me up inside knowing my wife keeps telling me she doesn't know why she's resentful or doesn't know why this is affecting her emotionally/mentally. I brought this up with our therapist once again and resurfaced the conversation about being married for so long (15yrs) and being together since we ere 14yrs old. Our long history of growing up and how having children when she was 19yrs old (me 20) significantly changed the trajectory of our lives.
We experience severe poverty and many hardships in the process and we essentially had zero social life for the past 10 years because we were so busy raising babies (2 kids now ages 12 &14). She followed up with tons of questions directly mostly at my wife about her feelings towards this and 90% of the responses were very "our kids" focused. It definitely felt like she was afraid of saying "yes it sucked" because she would feel guilt or shame because it would imply she regrets the kids.
I mentioned this in the session and the therapist encouraged her to look at this outside of the lens of being a mother and to try to view it a bit more selfishly and individually and it was very eye opening. My wife mentioned that she was very frustrated with the fact that we did miss out on many things in life. She also was very clear in saying "I do not think I missed out on other partners or dating or partying but I certainly lost all my friends." This was huge because one of the big pieces that has caused a strain in our lives is how silo'd and isolated we've been (again busy raising kids). I followed up by reminding her that it's important to have good friends and to make time for herself and her friendships.
For the past 3+ years, we've had multiple conversations about friends and how it is important to have them in life. Specially when you have similar peers that can help in many areas of life that perhaps we have no experience navigating and even simply for enjoyment. It has always been something my wife avoids, even though she's always been someone who needs that external stimuli. The main reason for her not investing in friends or even herself has always been "the kids." Like I mentioned earlier in this post, 90% of the answers have to relate to "the kids" to some degree.
At this point in our session I started to feel like there was a common denominator (the kids) in most of the frustrations and problems she was experiencing. So I simply asked her "Do you think you may be upset at me because I'm responsible for these kids in the sense that I got you pregnant so young?" I wasn't ready but she said that she was upset at me for that. She also followed up with the fact that she knows that's unreasonable because it "takes 2 to tango." I did feel like it was progress because it kind of gave us something to work on and help alleviate some of these "burdens" so we agreed to invest more time in nurturing good friendships both together and individually.
Towards the end of the session, we began to discuss what actionable items we would take from this session. At this point, it was still all very ambiguous and blurry as to what the outcomes were. I was very direct and very forward in asking my wife what her plan is moving forward. (NOTE: I had decided prior to the session that should my wife say the same thing about being a coparenting roommate that I would take the 180 approach and essentially do me) She started basically saying the same thing, that she doesn't have any desire to be intimate or sexual with me as of now and that she loves me immensely and she feels bad for not being there for me (as mentioned in my first post).
I also brought up the brief swinging that happened, to which for the 50th time said it wasn't a problem. I agree with her on this. This was something that was a "mechanical" approach for a solution to a problem that was very much in existent when we tried this. We (both) really have no issue to this. We know it happened, we tried it and mutually stopped and turned the page.
I also brought up other life events that may cause resentment and really we ended up not getting anywhere else as far as the root for resentment which was discouraging.
I then basically expressed to my wife that I will not be ok with that arrangement. I told her that I've really done everything I can and that this issue really has reached a point where it has nothing to do with me or require me to do anything that I'm currently not doing. I was very direct and saying that I will not be accepting this dynamic and that I need to be with someone who is actively involved in our marriage, works towards resolutions and is very much interested in maintaining an active intimacy and sexual relationship.
I expressed how I am not going to be a "convenience" and that there was more to life than being roommates and coparents. I made sure she knows I love her dearly and that I do want this to work for the better. I also told her that I'm fully committed to this marriage so long as she is as well and that is she wasn't, its ok, however I will not be a part of something where these efforts are not reciprocated. I told her I have no plans of leaving, and I do not want a divorce, however, I made it clear that if this dynamic continues that divorce will be the only outcome.
Of course tears were involved and it was a very bleak and sad ending to the session. Still nothing was said and I walked out very discouraged and very determined to start working on the 180 as soon as we left the room. It's painful and very difficult because much of the 180 requires you to be very short and cold and transactional. The saddest part is realizing, this dynamic already is very cold and transactional.
Here is where it gets VERY interesting. I started working on implementing many of the 180 recommendations that same day. I mentioned to my wife that, "hey, things are going to be a bit different moving forward. I'm going to honor her roommate/coparent dynamic without reproach and that it should be no mistake that I am not happy here and I am never going to be ok with it but I am done working on it if she wasn't going to work on it."
She agreed and went to bed. I started to build distance and started to basically focus on myself. Very short and transactional. She asked for help on some of her personal things to which I declined and it really shocked her. She was upset saying I was being petulant. I explained to her that, she is now fully in charge of her own life and her own issues.
We didn't talk all day and we only spoke when necessary. Few days I keep this going and she's very visibly upset and stressed. I typically react to that with gestures of help or nurturing but I didn't this time. That night she was crying telling me she's stressed and she things something is wrong with me because I'm "indifferent." I simply listened, then I told her that this is the dynamic she proposed and that I'm simply (much like her) taking care of myself and focusing on myself.
I'm not going to lie, it has been VERY hard to be cold and distant because as I mentioned before, I love her and I wish I could hold her and love on her. However, I know this is somewhat manipulative in a way just to get her way and still keep me in the friendzone. So I've been staying the course.
We're now going on a week of this 180 and let just say, there has been MANY changes on her side. I think she is starting to realize there is more to me than just "friends and coparenting." I sent her a text a few days ago essentially itemizing bills and separating the financial responsibilities 50/50 and SHE LOST HER SHIT. She basically told me it was "out of left field" to which I responded "hey, friends go in 50/50 and as your friend I expect nothing less."
This was very eye opening because it gave me a glimpse of I'm really taken for granted and how her level of comfort and convenience at my expense is really overlooked. I pushed through anyways and basically told her that this is the new dynamic she asked for and that its still a "bargain" because she would have to be 100% if she was on her own.
I'll wrap up with this. While the 180 has been working in many different areas, I am still very much sad about the overall situation. There have been MANY eye opening statements being said and realization that have not been pleasant to encounter. It has also sparked new energy and new efforts on her side as well. She's definitely seeking to talk to me more often and while its hard to turn down, I hope if things improve, this continues to happen.
I've also noticed that she's making more time for herself aside from being a mom which is HUGE because she pretty much neglected herself for years. I'm very pleased seeing her be more herself. My hope is that as we work on ourselves, the marriage improves. There really is no telling at this point where this will go. We are very much cordial and amicable even to this day and that's a very good sign.
Boundaries are set and expectations are very clear and I feel that no matter the outcome, I will be at peace with everything that has been done. We're still going to continue the couples therapist until we either rekindle our marriage or end up in divorce. I feel like having this nonbiased third party really helps as a witness and as a guide through this. No matter what I will always love my wife, however, I will not participate in a sexless, intimacy less marriage because we both deserve better.
Thank you all for all the kind words and recommendations and feedback. This will be my last post on this topic and I wish you all the best.
TL;DR: My wife friend-zoned me wants to just coparent at my expense but I started the 180 method to try and find a solution because she doesn't want to work on us which seems to be working on getting her out of her rut and helping me discover more about how she feels. Also, therapy is paramount and highly recommend to all couples.
Comments
Complete-Old-1960
Bottom line and not to be brutal, but there is one thing you don't have infinite amount of, is TIME. This has to be resolved in a timely manner. It takes 2 to be in love and to be loved, and u only have ½ of the equation. You need to put a time limit on you being the good guy and think of you and your future. Look hope it works out for you, but listening to what you are going through and what you could be in for you can still be a good father but also be a great husband to another wife if you find that special person again.
OOP: Definitely. I think this “soft ultimatum” (180 method) has been very eye opening. I’m definitely hoping for a rekindling of our marriage but I’m also bracing for divorce. I agree on a timeline and I’ve decided on a timeline for myself privately. I don’t want to give her a timeline because I want to reduce the pressure, however, after 1-2 yrs of things don’t improve, it won’t be shocking or a surprise if we split. I think 1-2yrs is more than reasonable.
shes_a_killer
I have to agree with this, simply because at some point, the person who has gone 180 and is waiting for the other person to decide will begin to wonder, "Wow, they're really taking their time coming around to me...did they love me at all? If they ever appreciated and cared for me, why would they keep me waiting and neglecting me for so long?" Except, in my case, it had more to do with the other person being stubborn and unable to admit their faults.
OOP: I understand what you mean. I don’t think I’ll ever doubt she loved me at all. I’m certain she did and I’m certain she still does. I know it sounds crazy and I’m not at all infatuated or blinded by love. Love is far more than the intimacy and sex we’re lacking.
RandyPan_theGoatBoy
I think it’s interesting that in the comments of your original post you said you didn’t think she was taking you for granted but you came to realize she absolutely was. Can you give some more details on what the 180 method is?
OOP: Yeah, I definitely felt this way. But with this 180 method it’s happening right in front of my eyes. Actual actions and reactions taking place that clearly demonstrate that she is taking me for granted. She actually see this as well. It’s evident she’s thinking about this heavily based on her demeanor and her behavior.
Here’s what I used as a guide:
https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/
https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/documents/library/articles/discovery/the-simplified-180/
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Extracurriculars: 1. Family Responsibilities: worked at my parent's restaurant since 6th grade because child labor is awesome. Acted as a co-managecashiewaiter of the restaurant. Primary Translator and helped pay bills for the family since my parents don't know much English. Around 32 hours per week on weeks with sports. 40 hours per week during summer weeks when I have cross-country practice. This prevented me from doing any extracurriculars after school until the spring of sophomore year because of transportation and time issues. 6-12
Schools: HYPSM and other Ivies and T20s
Additional Info: I don't think my school has sent anyone to an HYPSM ever, most people just apply to local community colleges. The only student that I've heard that got into a T20 was someone who was recruited for Track for Cornell. This might make me stand out in terms of my school but idk how much that'll help. My school doesn't have a lot of resources and student interests in academics so I can't really start a club that much. I got accepted into an internship this summer but had to reject it because of my work at the restaurant and transportation issues. Overall there's not a lot of opportunities at my school and my circumstances also limited the few opportunities I had like sports. I hope my application would be evaluated based on my context and that AOs would see that I really tried to take advantage of anything I could as long as it didn't tax my family's financial situation.
Btw I’m also confident about my app becuz of my school lol. There was one Harvard applicant this year and they got waitlisted. They showed me their app and tbh it wasn’t that good. They didn’t know how to order their activities from most important to least and instead did it in a random order 💀. They also had quite a bit of B’s. They took 20 dual enrollment classes and zero AP classes. They didn’t take calculus and went test optional. They were president of like 3 clubs and was second for congressional art show. They were also very involved in band, played varsity golf for four years, and was section leader for marching band. She did come from a single parent household, but wasn’t FGLI. She applied as a bio premed major. Not saying she’s not smart (she’s definitely more talented than me) but she didn’t care about getting in that much so didn’t try as hard. She mostly applied for fun and still got waitlisted, so I think i have a decent chance tho my thinking might be flawed.
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What are my chances for Harvard?
Demographics: Asian American 😭 , Male, First Generation College student and Immigrant, low income student, 33k income, Uncompetitive and Underfunded, title 1 funded and eligible high school in fringe rural Ohio with basically no clubs and extracurriculars aside from music and sports. The school is surrounded by cornfields. School average ACT is 19. I got the highest ACT in my school and probably the only 36 in my county but idk.
ACT :36 Composite 36E 36M 35R 36S ✨
Unweighted GPA and Rank: current unweighted GPA 4.0UW / 4.622 weighted
Ranked 1/141 Coursework: 2 AP, school only offers 2, 17 dual enrollment in total by senior year, 8 Honors. Took the hardest classes available at my school.
Awards: 1. Prom Prince 💀 2. Student of the Month nominated by 3 different teachers at once and got Chick-fil-A 10th grade💀 3. Young Author Conference Award 4. Clark County Internship Award 5. Junior Homecoming Court 6. Probably NMQST Semifinalist (1480 PSAT)
Extracurriculars: 1. Family Responsibilities: worked at my parent's restaurant since 6th grade because child labor is awesome. Acted as a co-managecashiewaiter of the restaurant. Primary Translator and helped pay bills for the family since my parents don't know much English. Around 32 hours per week on weeks with sports. 40 hours per week during summer weeks when I have cross-country practice. This prevented me from doing any extracurriculars after school until the spring of sophomore year because of transportation and time issues. 6-12
- Varsity Outdoor and Indoor Track: I train off-season and in my free time for all my sports because I really like doing them, researched effective ways to train instead of only doing my coach's ineffective workouts, Varsity Cross Country: varsity junior year 11-12
- Newspaper Editor in Chief, established many new features as a founding member, junior year to senior year, the club is also becoming a class with yearbook so that too
- Club Volleyball: founding member and helped fundraised to make the team year 10-11
- Spanish Honor Society President: running for president senior year, will probably get the position 9-12
- NHS: joining junior year because the school doesn't allow sophomores to join, also running for Pres 11-12
- Teacher's Aide: helped pass around papers and students with their assignments, also helped teacher do other miscellaneous tasks, nothing much Peer Tutor: First and only peer tutor of my school's new tutoring program, barely tutored anyone since no one wanted to tutor, don't know if the program will last until next year, also help students unofficially, I also taught as a professor for a math class for fun so there’s that 10-12
- Quick Recall, I answered a lot of questions and displayed leadership in a trivia competition club
- Science Honor Society Vice President I created the club along with my friend, organized eclipse glasses project thingies
- MITES Semester (I got in haven’t done it yet tho)
Schools: HYPSM and other Ivies and T20s
Additional Info: I don't think my school has sent anyone to an HYPSM ever, most people just apply to local community colleges. The only student that I've heard that got into a T20 was someone who was recruited for Track for Cornell. This might make me stand out in terms of my school but idk how much that'll help. My school doesn't have a lot of resources and student interests in academics so I can't really start a club that much. I got accepted into an internship this summer but had to reject it because of my work at the restaurant and transportation issues. Overall there's not a lot of opportunities at my school and my circumstances also limited the few opportunities I had like sports. I hope my application would be evaluated based on my context and that AOs would see that I really tried to take advantage of anything I could as long as it didn't tax my family's financial situation.
Btw I’m also confident about my app becuz of my school lol. There was one Harvard applicant this year and they got waitlisted. They showed me their app and tbh it wasn’t that good. They didn’t know how to order their activities from most important to least and instead did it in a random order 💀. They also had quite a bit of B’s. They took 20 dual enrollment classes and zero AP classes. They didn’t take calculus and went test optional. They were president of like 3 clubs and was second for congressional art show. They were also very involved in band, played varsity golf for four years, and was section leader for marching band. She did come from a single parent household, but wasn’t FGLI. She applied as a bio premed major. Not saying she’s not smart (she’s definitely more talented than me) but she didn’t care about getting in that much so didn’t try as hard. She mostly applied for fun and still got waitlisted, so I think i have a decent chance tho my thinking might be flawed.
2024.05.21 14:54 Alderlake668 For me dating apps seem to have the opposite effect. They remind me just how unwanted I really am.
I (29M) have only been in 2 serious relationships in my life. Whenever I was a teenager for the most part girls did not like me. I had my first serious relationship when I was 18 and a senior in high school and the second one was from whenever I was 22 until I was 27 and she was extremely unstable and emotionally abusive. We lived together for 4 years and she would physically hit me. One day I had enough of it so I ended things. That was 3 years ago and ever since I’ve been using dating apps because as someone who is very introverted it’s not like I’m going to approach random women on the street and introduce myself. Or go to bars or clubs because I don’t drink. I can’t seem to get past the talking stage with anyone. Occasionally I may meet someone and it may go well, I’ll set up a date and we meet but for various reasons, they just go cold on me and reject me. So I downloaded tinder and hinge and paid for both. I don’t get many quality matches so I change my location to see what else is out there. At the same time I don’t think that’s a viable strategy because there’s a very low chance I’m actually going to meet someone who lives far from me and long distance almost never works. So honestly I don’t know what I’m supposed to do. If I can’t get matches on dating apps. Why would meeting women in person be any different?
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2024.05.21 14:53 grungey_loser I’ve had it with the way the underground treats fans
I MISS MAJOR LABELS
It sucks being a fan of underground / independent artists in this circle. The lack of appreciation manifests especially when buying merch, scamming fans should neeeeever be tolerated I mean what the fuck bromigo??
Laker - Scammed my fuckin Chevy shirt $60 - replied a bunch, but just in that heroin addict type way like ah my bad maaaaan i swear im sending it out maaaaaan, it’s just been a pain maaaan.
Joeyy - Scammed NOD Tee $60 - no reply.
And it‘s not just shed either, Full Metal Records too. Bought 2 CD’s from them ~$40. No CD‘s and no contact.
Sematary CD (yea literally don’t care about the beef im 29 aka 30 too old to care (however fuck sematary he’s a horrible person)) the CD came but was obliterated, unlistenable.
Not to mention all the trouble the suckers who buy RCB shit go through. I have not personally.
Fuck this rockstar attitude bs that motherfuckers get once they cop 500 instagram followers, at least when I buy CD’s from bands on labels the shit actually shows up.
CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE: Club Casualties are the only good guys in the underground - bought their most recent CD, and it had no sign of shipping. When I hit up Lucy about it he drove to my studio and dropped it off personally - fucking A+ stand up guy!! Nick too.
That is all.
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It sucks being a fan of underground / independent artists in this circle. The lack of appreciation manifests especially when buying merch, scamming fans should neeeeever be tolerated I mean what the fuck bromigo??
Laker - Scammed my fuckin Chevy shirt $60 - replied a bunch, but just in that heroin addict type way like ah my bad maaaaan i swear im sending it out maaaaaan, it’s just been a pain maaaan.
Joeyy - Scammed NOD Tee $60 - no reply.
And it‘s not just shed either, Full Metal Records too. Bought 2 CD’s from them ~$40. No CD‘s and no contact.
Sematary CD (yea literally don’t care about the beef im 29 aka 30 too old to care (however fuck sematary he’s a horrible person)) the CD came but was obliterated, unlistenable.
Not to mention all the trouble the suckers who buy RCB shit go through. I have not personally.
Fuck this rockstar attitude bs that motherfuckers get once they cop 500 instagram followers, at least when I buy CD’s from bands on labels the shit actually shows up.
CREDIT WHERE CREDIT IS DUE: Club Casualties are the only good guys in the underground - bought their most recent CD, and it had no sign of shipping. When I hit up Lucy about it he drove to my studio and dropped it off personally - fucking A+ stand up guy!! Nick too.
That is all.
2024.05.21 14:52 Desk_bound Wholesale beverages
I work for an office that has recently chosen to provide snacks and beverages to not only our guests but also to our employees. Currently I’ve been getting all snacks, mini sodas, mini bottled waters, and fruits all from Sam’s Club.
Does anyone know of anywhere else to purchase beverages at a better price? And if they deliver that would be amazing.
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Does anyone know of anywhere else to purchase beverages at a better price? And if they deliver that would be amazing.
2024.05.21 14:51 visuhn Utah Yeti 2024-25
 | Alternate Universe in where Utah Hockey club has been given the name Yeti, and Visuhn Sports LLC has bought out the previous name ownership, looking to bring this team a new future. submitted by visuhn to EANHLfranchise [link] [comments] The 2023-24 season was a turnover season, trading and acquiring players to fit Alan Kane’s scheme. Patrick Kane and Jake Luzon Muzzin were both signed to 1 year deals to help keep the team competitive, but not be tied to them long term. Hoglander and Guenther were given extensions at 4 and 5 years respectively. I posted the jerseys on last few slides and you guys can let me know your thoughts! |