Present for 17 year old son

My son is 9 years old and is in the 3rd grade currently. He has been diagnosed with ODD, ADHD, and low IQ. We have had him in school for 3.5 years. He went to a preschool to help him with his learning. He was always such a sweet kid; he always listened, and the teachers loved him. Recently, we have had increasing issues, which started when he started at a new school. I have him in counseling and have him medicated. It seems as if it's only escalating. I never do any physical punishment; my husband and I try to talk to him, and I also have him in counseling to help with the behaviors. I have his teacher reaching out to me almost on a daily basis about his behavior, including his being banned from eating in the lunchroom due to vandalism. We really don't know what to do anymore, and the only thing that has recently changed is the fact that his father has come back into his life recently and demands time with him and his brother every single weekend. There is nothing I can do to stop these visits right now without legal repercussions. Has anyone else dealt with this, my husband and I are so lost and I feel like we are trying everything we can think of.

My wife was granted asylee status through her mother's case. Her mother's was granted about 10 years ago and my wife's a year later. She was single and 20 years old at the time. Ever since she applied and obtained a green card, and after 5 years of green card applied for citizenship. The citizenship was denied because apparently the green card was wrongfully issued. The problem was that she applied for her green card less than one year after being physically in the US. Her green card was approved and issued by USCIS, but apparently wrongfully and it now became a problem. A lawyer recommended to reapply for the green card. Another lawyer told us that she lost her asylee status when she got married. I know that you cannot age out of your asylee status. Can you please help.

I want to preface this question that it may offend some of you and I’m truly sorry but I need to ask, I’m using a throwaway and I’m prepared that many of you fine people who have been through enough trauma in your lives may take offence (maybe rightly so) to my question about my own.

Ok so I do have a question but going to give a TLDR so you see why I’m asking. Similar to many of you since a young age (4/5) I’ve felt like I’m in the wrong body. Dreamt, wished, prayed I’d been born female, considered death many many times throughout my life as maybe reincarnation is a thing and I might get lucky. Managed to supress these feelings of hatred and anger with SSIs.
I made it to 33 years old, happily married, small house, ok job. Period of high stress, few family deaths in a row. Bang! Eggcracked (unsure if this is correct use as opinions vary from whether its when you think it, and others say when you admit it). Our life goals still align, we want the house in the country, the decent jobs, the dog and the kids.
Booked in with a therapist to talk through and discuss these issues as my brain started killing my body off (lost 3 stone in 3 weeks, no sleep for days, raised white bloodcell count, reduced liver and kidney function) and decided if I don’t deal with this now it’s just going to get worse.
My question is broken down into a few parts
Firstly- On these forums the majority of what I read is that without transitioning you are not being true to yourself and living that lie is unbearable to the point that transition is the only option. Has anyone here, or is anyone aware of people who have successfully managed to make peace with their lot in life and “power through”? Other than this I have a very good life and a lot to lose. It’s obviously been a very stressful time for myself and my wife but this is the only secret I’ve kept from her, and honestly I was ok with taking it to my grave until my brain betrayed me. But she is understandably not prepared to live with a female presenting person as that’s not what she signed up for but also wants me to be happy and fulfilled and do what’s right for me.
Second to this, I’m very emotionally weak, I can barely handle the stresses of life presenting as a cis male and the social stigma would not be something I could handle.
Thirdly I’m very happy for all of you who have transitioned and this is probably going to be a point of contention and while I have no intention to offend any of you it is a very real consideration for me, the aesthetic is not something I can get behind, I 100% would not pass and while for some of you who are true to yourselves this is not an issue, it would be for me. Yes I’m aware that if your concern is being an ugly girl, you’re still a girl. Not the question.
Lastly, again back to my wife. I’ve always felt and said that I’d die for her, I could not live without her and I think that If I can’t come to terms with this, I could maybe die a little inside for her, to live out our lives and hope for another go round when this body is done.

Number 1:

1. Initiation: Represents new beginnings, leadership, and individuality.
2. The Magician: Tarot card associated with the number 1, symbolizing creativity, manifestation, and willpower.
3. Independence: Signifies self-reliance, originality, and taking the lead.
4. Potential and Possibility: Embodies the start of a journey or a project.
5. Unity: Reflects the oneness, the start of something unique and singular.

Number 2:

1. Duality: Signifies balance, partnerships, and cooperation.
2. The High Priestess: Associated with intuition, wisdom, and hidden knowledge in tarot.
3. Harmony: Represents the need for balance and diplomacy.
4. Relationships: Emphasizes partnerships, teamwork, and cooperation.
5. Choice: Reflects decisions, choices, and the need for balance.

Number 3:

1. Creativity: Symbolizes self-expression, communication, and creative endeavors.
2. The Empress: Tarot card embodying fertility, creativity, and abundance.
3. Optimism: Represents joy, enthusiasm, and social interaction.
4. Expansion: Signifies growth, self-improvement, and broadening horizons.
5. Manifestation: Reflects the power of thoughts, words, and actions in creating reality.

Number 4:

1. Stability: Signifies structure, order, and a solid foundation.
2. The Emperor: Tarot card embodying authority, stability, and structure.
3. Security: Represents practicality, reliability, and building a strong base.
4. Endurance: Symbolizes persistence, hard work, and discipline.
5. Materialization: Reflects the manifestation of ideas into tangible results.

Number 5:

1. Change: Represents adaptability, versatility, and transformation.
2. The Hierophant: Tarot card symbolizing tradition, guidance, and spiritual growth.
3. Freedom: Signifies exploration, adventure, and embracing diversity.
4. Shifts and Challenges: Reflects unexpected changes and the need for flexibility.
5. Versatility: Embodies adaptability, resourcefulness, and embracing new experiences.

Number 6:

1. Harmony: Signifies balance, responsibility, and nurturing relationships.
2. The Lovers: Tarot card representing love, harmony, and choices in relationships.
3. Service: Reflects selflessness, compassion, and community involvement.
4. Healing: Symbolizes peace, empathy, and creating harmonious environments.
5. Balance: Embodies equilibrium, diplomacy, and a harmonious lifestyle.

Number 7:

1. Spirituality: Signifies introspection, wisdom, and spiritual growth.
2. The Chariot: Tarot card embodying willpower, determination, and progress.
3. Seeking Truth: Reflects introspection, seeking answers, and inner wisdom.
4. Analysis: Symbolizes deep thinking, research, and intellectual pursuits.
5. Inner Guidance: Embodies intuition, mysticism, and inner awareness.

Number 8:

1. Achievement: Represents success, abundance, and material prosperity.
2. Strength: Tarot card symbolizing inner strength, resilience, and determination.
3. Power and Success: Reflects ambition, authority, and material wealth.
4. Karma: Symbolizes cause and effect, balance in action and consequence.
5. Manifestation: Embodies material gains, business acumen, and financial stability.

Number 9:

1. Completion: Signifies endings, spiritual fulfillment, and humanitarianism.
2. The Hermit: Tarot card embodying introspection, wisdom, and spiritual enlightenment.
3. Universal Love: Reflects compassion, service to humanity, and global consciousness.
4. Wisdom and Leadership: Symbolizes altruism, leadership, and guiding others.
5. Transformation: Embodies closure, spiritual awakening, and a broader perspective.

These tidbits offer symbolic insights into each number and its corresponding tarot cards, highlighting the thematic elements and interpretations associated with numerology and the tarot.

Number 10:

1. Completion and Renewal: Signifies endings and new beginnings simultaneously.
2. Wheel of Fortune: Tarot card representing cycles, destiny, and unforeseen changes.
3. Wholeness: Reflects fulfillment, achievement, and cycles coming to fruition.
4. Transformation: Symbolizes change, fate, and the cyclical nature of life.
5. Karmic Balance: Embodies the law of cause and effect, the balance of energies.

Number 11:

1. Master Illuminator: Signifies spiritual awakening, intuition, and enlightenment.
2. Justice (or Strength in some decks): Tarot card embodying fairness, balance, and divine guidance.
3. Enlightenment: Reflects intuition, inspiration, and high spiritual awareness.
4. Higher Calling: Symbolizes spiritual guidance, psychic abilities, and divine insights.
5. Visionary Leadership: Embodies visionary ideas, inspiration, and spiritual mentorship.

Number 12:

1. Harmonious Union: Signifies partnerships, cooperation, and balanced relationships.
2. The Hanged Man: Tarot card symbolizing surrender, perspective shift, and sacrifice for enlightenment.
3. Sacrifice for Growth: Reflects letting go, patience, and seeing things from a different angle.
4. Adaptability: Symbolizes flexibility, suspension, and altering perspectives.
5. Transformational Insight: Embodies spiritual growth through surrender and acceptance.

Number 13:

1. Transformation and Rebirth: Signifies change, transition, and new opportunities.
2. Death: Tarot card representing transformation, endings, and profound change leading to renewal.
3. Transition and Renewal: Reflects release, transformation, and the start of something new.
4. Renewed Perspective: Symbolizes rebirth, regeneration, and shedding old patterns.
5. Power of Endings: Embodies closure, regeneration, and the birth of something new.

Number 14:

1. Practical Manifestation: Signifies grounded action, stability, and accomplishment.
2. Temperance: Tarot card embodying balance, moderation, and spiritual harmony.
3. Moderation and Balance: Reflects harmony, patience, and blending opposites.
4. Alchemy: Symbolizes transformation, adaptation, and spiritual equilibrium.
5. Integration of Duality: Embodies combining elements to create a harmonious whole.

Number 15:

1. Change and Transformation: Signifies shifts, transitions, and adaptability.
2. The Devil: Tarot card representing materialism, bondage, and self-limiting beliefs.
3. Personal Freedom: Reflects breaking free from limitations, temptations, or restrictions.
4. Inner Exploration: Symbolizes shadow work, self-awareness, and breaking unhealthy patterns.
5. Choice and Liberation: Embodies freeing oneself from restrictions or unhealthy attachments.

Number 16:

1. Spiritual Awakening: Signifies spiritual growth, divine intervention, and new beginnings.
2. The Tower: Tarot card embodying sudden change, upheaval, and revelation leading to transformation.
3. Sudden Change: Reflects upheaval, awakening, and revelation.
4. Awakening to Truth: Symbolizes enlightenment, liberation, and profound insights.
5. Transformational Crisis: Embodies breaking down old structures for spiritual evolution.

Number 17:

1. Manifestation and Power: Signifies success, authority, and material abundance.
2. The Star: Tarot card representing hope, inspiration, and spiritual guidance.
3. Optimism and Healing: Reflects hope, faith, and finding inner guidance.
4. Divine Intervention: Symbolizes grace, blessings, and spiritual renewal.
5. Illumination and Guidance: Embodies finding direction and renewed faith.

Number 18:

1. Karmic Completion: Signifies accomplishment, fulfillment, and achievement.
2. The Moon: Tarot card symbolizing intuition, illusion, and the subconscious mind.
3. Unveiling the Unseen: Reflects mystery, intuition, and subconscious revelations.
4. Inner Reflection: Symbolizes introspection, dreams, and hidden truths.
5. Transition to Higher Wisdom: Embodies uncovering hidden aspects for spiritual evolution.

Number 19:

1. Fulfillment and Success: Signifies attainment, completion, and reaching goals.
2. The Sun: Tarot card embodying joy, success, and positive outcomes.
3. Abundance and Vitality: Reflects happiness, vitality, and illumination.
4. Inner Child: Symbolizes innocence, playfulness, and embracing the joy of life.
5. Celebration of Achievement: Embodies success, happiness, and realization of dreams.

Number 20:

1. Integration and Fulfillment: Signifies completion of a cycle and a sense of wholeness.
2. Judgment: Tarot card embodying spiritual awakening, renewal, and rebirth.
3. Rebirth and Redemption: Reflects resurrection, spiritual awakening, and inner calling.
4. Transformational Shift: Symbolizes a new phase, karmic retribution, and self-reflection.
5. Resolution and Clarity: Embodies closure, resolution, and a fresh start.

Number 21:

1. Unity and Completion: Signifies the combination of wisdom and fulfillment.
2. The World: Tarot card representing fulfillment, completion, and mastery of life's cycles.
3. Wholeness and Integration: Reflects achievement, fulfillment, and a sense of accomplishment.
4. Mastery and Enlightenment: Symbolizes mastery over life's lessons and embracing new beginnings.
5. Culmination and Success: Embodies achievement, fulfillment, and a broader perspective.

Number 22:

1. Master Builder: Signifies the capacity to turn dreams into reality, a powerful force.
2. The Fool (in some decks): Tarot card embodying unlimited potential, new beginnings, and the journey of life.
3. Visionary Potential: Reflects the potential for extraordinary achievements and spiritual awakening.
4. Manifesting Dreams: Symbolizes materializing ambitions, power, and the ability to create.
5. Transformational Journey: Embodies spiritual growth, leadership, and a higher purpose.

Number 23:

1. Creative Expression: Signifies creative pursuits, artistic talents, and innovative thinking.
2. The King of Swords (in some decks): Tarot card representing intellect, clarity, and communication.
3. Mental Clarity: Reflects clear thinking, sharp intellect, and diplomatic communication.
4. Ambitious Vision: Symbolizes ambitious plans, strategic thinking, and leadership qualities.
5. Intellectual Authority: Embodies mental strength, assertiveness, and logical reasoning.

Number 24:

1. Nurturing Stability: Signifies caring, support, and creating a secure environment.
2. The Queen of Cups (in some decks): Tarot card symbolizing emotional intelligence, compassion, and intuition.
3. Compassionate Care: Reflects empathy, sensitivity, and nurturing qualities.
4. Emotional Balance: Symbolizes emotional stability, harmonious relationships, and intuitive insights.
5. Supportive Energy: Embodies nurturing abilities, empathy, and creating emotional security.

Number 25:

1. Adaptability and Curiosity: Signifies versatility, exploration, and adaptability to change.
2. The Knight of Pentacles (in some decks): Tarot card representing reliability, dedication, and practicality.
3. Steadfast Dedication: Reflects commitment, reliability, and a methodical approach.
4. Practical Solutions: Symbolizes a practical mindset, dedication to tasks, and diligent work ethic.
5. Resourceful Nature: Embodies a disciplined attitude, reliability, and readiness to adapt.

Number 26:

1. Diplomatic Harmony: Signifies balance, cooperation, and creating harmony in relationships.
2. The Two of Swords (in some decks): Tarot card embodying decision-making, balance, and compromise.
3. Balancing Choices: Reflects decisions, seeking balance, and finding middle ground.
4. Peaceful Resolutions: Symbolizes diplomacy, compromise, and finding solutions.
5. Harmonious Choices: Embodies choices made with consideration, balance, and peace.

Number 27:

1. Wisdom and Compassion: Signifies understanding, spiritual insight, and empathy.
2. The Nine of Cups (in some decks): Tarot card representing emotional fulfillment, contentment, and satisfaction.
3. Emotional Satisfaction: Reflects happiness, emotional contentment, and spiritual fulfillment.
4. Inner Contentment: Symbolizes emotional well-being, satisfaction, and contentedness.
5. Gratitude and Fulfillment: Embodies gratitude for blessings, emotional satisfaction, and harmony.

Number 28:

1. Achievement and Ambition: Signifies success through hard work, determination, and ambition.
2. The Ten of Pentacles (in some decks): Tarot card embodying wealth, abundance, and family legacy.
3. Abundance and Legacy: Reflects material success, family prosperity, and ancestral influence.
4. Fulfillment of Goals: Symbolizes the accomplishment of long-term goals and material stability.
5. Establishing Foundations: Embodies securing foundations, prosperity, and financial stability.

Number 29:

1. Wisdom and Intuition: Signifies spiritual wisdom, intuition, and heightened awareness.
2. The High Priestess (in some decks): Tarot card symbolizing intuition, mystery, and inner knowledge.
3. Intuitive Insights: Reflects hidden knowledge, psychic abilities, and heightened perception.
4. Mystical Awareness: Symbolizes esoteric wisdom, inner guidance, and spiritual depth.
5. Spiritual Illumination: Embodies divine knowledge, inner mysteries, and esoteric understanding.

These tidbits continue to explore the symbolic meanings associated with each number and its corresponding tarot cards, offering insights into the diverse themes and interpretations within numerology and the tarot.

So i moved to a new place (because of my family) and got a new job as a autoglass technician and detailer for minimum wage. But my employer keeps sending me home early.(even tho he is paying me minimum wage) And im the only employee working there and doing all the work.(rest 2 are 80year old owner and his son who dont know shit/bad quality workers) So should i leave this job?Or how should i handle this situation coz before i was making 30$per hour in same role at different company.😭😭

Hi I’m planning on renting a house in Houston for 1 month for the month of August and would like to have my doughter attend a safe and recommend summer camp. So basically the location of the rental depends on where the camp is located.
Appreciate any advice

For those of you who are divorced, how long after filing/finalizing did the desire for connection come back? And how long did it take for you to actually take steps towards meeting people again?
My divorce was finalized last year and I’ve felt so averse to anything dating related since. I don’t plan on dipping my toes back into the dating pool until next year if I’m honest. When the topic comes up, most people ask when I’m gonna start dating again or if I’m seeing anyone. If I tell them I’m just not interested right now, they often suggest that it’s normal to feel that way but I should try anyways.
I’ve never been one to be “casual”, even to my former friends with benefits. I’ve always been very present and connected with people as it comes naturally to me. So the thought of “just hooking up” doesn’t work for me. My hook up partners are generally like a good friend dynamic that just happens to dip into intimacy too. Also considering that I am heavy into leather, I don’t just jump into relationships or pick up play. Due to the nature of the things I’m into, I need that deeper trust with someone in order to feel comfortable topping and being in that space.
My divorce was largely due to severe betrayal and I’m still feeling numb to it all most days, even though I don’t think about my ex-wife specifically. It’s like sitting with emotional whiplash that severed my metaphorical spine. The cherry on top was her attempting to stay friends after it was all said and done (I declined) like do you not remember what you did to me lol
Sorry for the long post y’all lmao. I don’t have many friends that are in my situation right now, or if they are, they deal with it in drastically different ways. I joke that I am in my boring and healing era but there is definitely desire to be in community again one day. Just don’t have the capacity for it yet 🥲
In the meantime, I am enjoying the love and support from my long time platonic friendships that are filling my emotional cup 🩷 The people that get it have been so understanding and I know I’ll never forget their support during the last year.

Hi, everybody. I've been holding off on writing a post on here due to being busy with school, but now that finals are over, I have the time to write this and give somebody my undivided attention.
For some information about me, I'm physically a bit taller than average. 5'7" (170cm) to be exact. I'm quite skinny, but I am very fit (I'm a cyclist). As I am sure you saw in the title, I am a trans woman. However, I have been out and medically transitioned for several years and pass 100% of the time. That being said, I have not had and do not plan to have any surgeries. I generally present as a masc lesbian; I wear my hair short and don't particularly dress femininely or wear makeup. I am also a Buddhist and a vegan and autistic. I will share pictures once we get to know each other a little bit since I'm not comfortable with having pictures publicly available. I expect you to do the same as well.
The biggest thing I value from a potential partner is communication. I am very open about what I am feeling and that is very important to me.
I'm not very picky with who I am physically attracted to, but the main thing is that I want somebody who is able to keep themselves healthy/in shape (not overweight). I also have a really big soft spot for short femmes and futches (I love y'all!), but I'm really not picky. I am dominant/top though, so I would like to find someone who is a sub/bottom and looking for someone like me. (I can switch, but I really just prefer to top.) I am open to dating trans women too, but I expect you to pass like I do.
I would really appreciate it if you could send an intro with a little bit about yourself and what you are looking for. I'm looking forward to hopefully hearing from some of you! <3

i work 2 weeks of 12 hour shifts and got home Saturday at 2 am, spent another hour or two relaxing before bed. at 11 am i woke up to three pounds on the door and before i could get out of bed and down stairs my door was kicked off its frame and my 17 year old brother was hit with the door when he was going to open it and on the ground with a taser pointed at him. i was half asleep and was getting screamed at to get on the ground and my mother was ripped out of her bed while the dog got loose and ran outside. all this for my roommate who had the warrant for a firearm discharge in Napoleon while i'm in steele. the reason i'm suing is the warrant was for him alone yet my brother WHO IS A MINOR was thrown to the ground after trying to open the door and got hit with it and the both of us were placed in cuffs. the warrant did not give them the ability to use forced entry, they refused to talk to us until the logan county cleared the house and even when the firearm and person was in custody they were still going through everything in the house. they asked why my brother wasn't in school when i yelled at them It's sunday, and i later found out they were searching for drugs while inside without a probable cause. My roommate was released outside while my brother and i were still in cuffs for being in my goddamn house and i was told since its logan counties raid he had to give the go to take them off. My formal roommate got an apology for "jumping the gun" while my mother, brother and i the homeowner got nothing. i don't want the money, i want to hurt their pride. i want a public apology to myself and family for the piss poor performance and now the rumor mill next door spinning stories of it being a drug raid. anyone got a lawyer they'd suggest, the only money coming out of it would be legal fees.

As you can probably guess by the title I ended up doing a sexual thing with my old friends partner.
My old friend let's call L. His partner, let's call R. I got a call from L who I hadn't spoke to or met in years, it was 7am and he was drunk and on drugs, he asked me to come round to his home so we could get drunk together. I did. So we got very drunk and even snorted ecstacy. We were very fucked up.
He passed out and as I was walking to go the the bathroom R put his hand on my shoulders and lowered me down to my knees and pulled out his penis... And yeah. It was over before it begun. I know no one will believe my but there was no intention on my part, I did not initiate, nor was I wanting to do anything, I was completely mindless throughout, so messed up on drugs and it was like autopilot (I know this sounds like an attempt to shirk responsibility but it is 100% the truth).
R gave me a lift home. I blocked my L and R the next day on my mobile, because of cowardice and because after what happened I do not deserve to be L's friend.
I've been feeling really guilty. It's been about 1.5/2 years since it happened. I never told L or spoke to him after that day, I don't know if he knows or not. I thought about telling him but I had justifications not too.
The justifications for keeping this to myself were: - they have both cheated on eachother before - I'm terrified of confrontation, but honestly if L punched me in the face I'd understand - I figured that it's been quite some time and telling L would be selfish, to relieve my own guilt even if it was the right thing to do - I don't want to be a homewrecker
Other justifications and concerns. And of course, because I'm a coward.
I made a FB account today and thought about sending L a message and telling him. Then I see R proposed to him a few months ago and they are engaged. That made me pause. If these two get married they will say vows, promising to be the best for eachother, promising to honour eachother, etc and their relationship will hopefully become something more, based on truth and their vows, or maybe I'm just telling myself that to avoid telling L. Either he knows and has forgiven R or he doesn't and ought to know. Yet even if he deserves to know it still feels selfish to tell him as it would relieve some of my guilt.
I have been a piece of shit, I know. I regret it all.

So, I've been playing on android since almost a year now, shortly after the Hatsune Miku collab ended last year. I've been playing mostly casual, but logging in almost daily and doing my day tasks I managed to achieve work lvl 30 on most my idols, diamond league and lvl 140-141 for my girls.
Unfortunately, my phone started acting up today, and the app reset. I was certain my data had been linked with my google account, but when I tried to recover it, the new blank account wants to link itself, instead of downloading my old data.
After almost a year, having spent my first in game birthday on the second this month, having collected a sizable amount of title tags, including the "Onigiri" one, having finally collected the last idol I needed to have at least one of each, having even collected one Mana, I truly dread the prospect of losing all that and think that an entire year got wasted because my phone and google decided to act up... Does anyone know a way for me to recover what is lost?

Tl;Dr The day before I propose to my girlfriend, she told me that she is still in love with her ex and is now conflicted and that she had recently saw him in person and they shared the same feelings.
Me: 34M Her: 34F Her son: 12M
Hello everyone, I'm new in this community.... However, I have a bit on my plate right now and I need advice.
In 2010. I was with someone whom I had gotten married to and as of this last year had gotten a divorce.
During that time I had a good friend of mine from high school, whom me and her had been just chatting. Trying to keep in touch. As far as I had known, it was purely platonic, although I did in high school have a crush on her. Earlier this year me and her decided to give it a shot and go out after she had broken up with someone she was with for 5 years not married. Someone who had stressed her out and her son, been emotionally abusive, indecisive on their future together, and at one point told her that he didn't even know if he wanted to be with her.
Now....
Me and her, we've been together for about 4 and 1/2 months now. And to be honest, I was ready to propose as of this Monday, I actually went as far as getting in contact with my old school to go and propose at the same place me and her used to eat lunch at.
.... And then.... The day before, she has me sit down to tell me when still loves her ex. And that she has recently talked to him...in person .. about that ...and they both still have feelings for each other
Now I've become close with the family and her son enjoys spending time with me and I enjoy spending time with the entire family...
So literally the day before I proposed.... She dropped that on me. And honestly I have no idea what to do now.
Her son actually went and talked to her about it, him going into tears... Gushed that I've treated her better than anybody has ever, and that he loves me in the way that his own dad (not the ex mind you), doesn't give him a fraction of the father-like figure that apparently I present to him. Her own father actually went out of his way wanting to be there when I proposed, so the whole family stands behind me on this.
Yet here I am....
She knows that she needs to cut off contact with her ex, however, she's kept line of communication open " so that he can get mail", however, after my divorce I cut ties to my ex not only for myself but respectfully for her, and I went as far as removing all the photos and everything off my Facebook in remembrance of it
The conversation as is right now is that she wants until this next Monday to think what she wants to do, whether it's to go back to him, to stay with me, or to go a whole year just by herself so she can figure out what she wants.
Regardless of which I stand behind her because I just want her happy. And yes it would be a lie to say I wouldn't want her to pick me.... But I know that a hurting heart is not something that you can demand to be fixed.
I leave this to you guys.... As I really don't know what to do at this point. I'm at work right now. Trying not to think about it but it's... it's eating me up.... And I don't want to keep talking about it with her because I need her to feel like she has the time to work on it. I'm just getting tired of the games that people tend to play with each other's hearts.... Especially when I moved in with her to help her out with finances... And now I'd have to consider possibly moving out and finding my own place within a couple weeks if she decides against me.
What would you recommend that I do in this situation? Give her the time she needs? Should I move out? ;Dr The day before I proposed My girlfriend told me she's still in love with her ex and now is unsure who she wants to be with even if the past couple of years have been rough between them.

I have been with my partner for almost 10 years. We don't live together yet. I sleep over during the weekends at his house and it irritates me how his mom stays cleaning his room like his a child. Mind you he is pushing 30. She does his laundry and the clothes I have from mine in the closet she pushes them in the back. I told my partner how she needs boundaries. I dont feel confortable of being intimate or even having my personal stuff in his room knowing she comes in and searches the whole room. He tells me that in their culture is disrespectful to tell parents to have boundaries. We go out during the night and its past 11 she starts calling him. Her husband is never home and leaves for literally the whole month for "work" and I feel she is jealous of my relationship with her son cause shes unhappy. When shes cleaning she literally bends down and does not wear a braw in front of my boyfriend. I know this is not normal for a mother to do I feel like she seduces him. She leaves her clothes and bras in the bathroom.The fact she got a BBL to look young. She always used to tell me that her son looks exactly like his dad when he was young. Im like okay? cool. I just think how its odd how she does eveything for my boyfriend knowing she has another son and she dont do half the stuff to him. His family is soon moving to another state and she told us that we are coming with them, my partner said No we are not. She was all like "your my son i cant leave having you far away from me." I tell my boyfriend his mother is enmesh and is not healthy. I honestly feel she thinks shes my partners wife.I honestly can't stand her and i wish she leaves me and my partner live our life's as we want.

Hi all, my car is around 8 years old and still running fine. Currently have no issues with it and am not in a position where I need a new car. However, I was thinking about it from a financial sense and wondered if it was worth considering selling in the near future.
So, to pose a hypothetical scenario, my car is worth around 15-17k. If I sold it around that range, I could purchase a newer car (2022) and have to pay $10k. Or I could just keep driving it until I am in a position where I have to sell, but when then have to fork out more for the newer car.
Is there a general rule as to which is the better option? Obviously I understand that there are many factors involved and I have only given brief information of the situation. But, I'd be curious to see if there was any weight towards selling earlier vs later. Cheers all!

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Hi everyone! I’m here looking for some advice regarding a situation I encountered at work. I (20f) am an international student here and work a part time job at big supermarket chain here. A few days ago I had a conversation for the first time with a minor coworker (15f), which left me very concerned… I honestly don’t know why she told me all of this since it was the first time talking to her. She told me that she’s currently in a relationship with a 35 year old man, that has at least two kids and is a family friend as far as I understood… I don’t know how long they have been together, but I know that this man knows her family, his mother is apparently very good friends with her mom, and they spend a lot of time together. She told me that they smoke weed together very often and see each other every day. The overall conversation was very weird, and they told me more and more personal details which I also found concerning. This is the first time I’m dealing with something like this, so I am not sure what to do. I was thinking of talking with our manager singer she’s pretty young too and quite open, but I am also thinking to maybe make a claim myself, but I’m not sure where. Any advice of how I could deal with this is more than welcome! And maybe getting an insight from Dutch people who know how situations like this are dealt by here. Thank you!

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Hello.
So, me (25M) and my girlfriend (20) are talking about the future. I said I'd want to settle down as soon as possible (because, you know, I'm getting old) and she has said that, if and when she comes over, she'd want to settle down with me. That means children and a house (both are currently living with our parents).
She has said that she wants to become a teacher and that, obviously, would mean she would have to go to university. I don't have a problem with that. I'm currently in university myself.
She said, after I said why, "Because I love you and I’ve never had this deep of a connection with anyone before. I know that u are my forever.".
However, I think I'm self sabotaging it. I said that I was concerned. I said, when pressed, "Such as housing, your family and friends, what if we break up? What if one of us falls for another person? I'd need to get a job, work long(ish) hours to cover child support, everything like that...".
Fyi, I know I'd have to work.
She has reassured me quite a lot by the way.
Am I overthinking? We have never met in real life, and I'm scared that things will go south, like a year afterwards. And then I'd have to pay, like I said before, child support.
This is a short post. What do I do