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2024.05.13 22:47 TouchComfortable1497 ANY TWC employee with answers/Rant/Current Situation
im honestly baffled and confused at how shitty a program made to help people when they get unemployed is so ass.
i have been waiting for 5 weeks, no contact from my examiner or twc. i have called every week and told same thing " we do not need anything at this time" yea no shit idiots i already know yall dont but i know yall GOING to call me EVENTUALLY so lets get this shit taken care of NOW and ask the damn template questions your supposed too and put it in.
im sorry for the foul language but i just got to rant at this point. a program made to help people when they down bad shouldnt take more than 4 weeks to get an application processed AND even that is a long time. i understand if this was pandemic and there was backlog but its not. there are people who got laid off with no warning who need financial assistance while they look for more jobs. my fiancial situation is crazy bad rn and i know thats on me. but man it just sucks when you are told the option is available just for you to try it and figure out its piss poor.
i have called (877)915-6400, and all the other numbers and the people say same thing but whats crazy to me is this. these so called reps who cant do shit can supposedly open my case, tell me EVERYTHING thats happened so far for my case, and than end it off with there is nothing we can do at this point. like your telling me yall have all my info in front of yall but because my slacker examiner hasn't processed the info he got from my employer, i get burdened with the wait.
not to mention the WEBSITE itself even told me i would have decision NO LATER than May 9th, yet here we fucking are. i should have screenshotted it as proof because it dissappeared and when i tell the twc rep that they say "idk why it told you that it should be 4-6 weeks". and ive called ENOUGH times to realize these people reading scripts all day and not one wants to break it and say " you know what im getting paid right now anyways lets go ahead and get these questions asked and answered so we have it and can get case filed more quickly than it would IF left alone."
i have the email and text proof of layoff but cant do anything with it because apparently it takes weeks to process what my employer sent. i can only imagine how long it takes AFTER i send MY information, another 6 weeks? because if my employer gets all that time i should too right? bullshit. from what i seen here they take WEEKS to review employer information but once you submit your information they only take 2 days to review and make a decision.
TLDR: im out of luck, out of money, and out of patience. if you read all of this, thanks. if you didnt, thanks anyways im sure we all struggling in some way.
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i have been waiting for 5 weeks, no contact from my examiner or twc. i have called every week and told same thing " we do not need anything at this time" yea no shit idiots i already know yall dont but i know yall GOING to call me EVENTUALLY so lets get this shit taken care of NOW and ask the damn template questions your supposed too and put it in.
im sorry for the foul language but i just got to rant at this point. a program made to help people when they down bad shouldnt take more than 4 weeks to get an application processed AND even that is a long time. i understand if this was pandemic and there was backlog but its not. there are people who got laid off with no warning who need financial assistance while they look for more jobs. my fiancial situation is crazy bad rn and i know thats on me. but man it just sucks when you are told the option is available just for you to try it and figure out its piss poor.
i have called (877)915-6400, and all the other numbers and the people say same thing but whats crazy to me is this. these so called reps who cant do shit can supposedly open my case, tell me EVERYTHING thats happened so far for my case, and than end it off with there is nothing we can do at this point. like your telling me yall have all my info in front of yall but because my slacker examiner hasn't processed the info he got from my employer, i get burdened with the wait.
not to mention the WEBSITE itself even told me i would have decision NO LATER than May 9th, yet here we fucking are. i should have screenshotted it as proof because it dissappeared and when i tell the twc rep that they say "idk why it told you that it should be 4-6 weeks". and ive called ENOUGH times to realize these people reading scripts all day and not one wants to break it and say " you know what im getting paid right now anyways lets go ahead and get these questions asked and answered so we have it and can get case filed more quickly than it would IF left alone."
i have the email and text proof of layoff but cant do anything with it because apparently it takes weeks to process what my employer sent. i can only imagine how long it takes AFTER i send MY information, another 6 weeks? because if my employer gets all that time i should too right? bullshit. from what i seen here they take WEEKS to review employer information but once you submit your information they only take 2 days to review and make a decision.
TLDR: im out of luck, out of money, and out of patience. if you read all of this, thanks. if you didnt, thanks anyways im sure we all struggling in some way.
2024.05.13 22:47 renegado938 [TX] Do I need to fill out an ADA from my HR department just to request more/full training at my job?
Hi I'm someone with ADHD currently taking prescribed medication for it, I started working at new hospital a year ago hospital as a technician and due to short staffing in my shift I haven't gotten my full training yet, however other coworkers have. Everytime I ask to be trained/get experience on something new I've only gotten runaround answers like "we need you doing so and so work until we figure things out in the department"
I know how I when it comes to learning new things I need some adequate time and patience to remember and fully understand everything not 1 or 2 times in certain areas of my job or else I will forget or screw something up. I'm never had/thought to go to my doctor or HR to use ADA at a workplace ever in my life so I'm a bit lost. If I go to my HR department about this do I meet the requirements for ADA just to get trained in my department or will HR simply call/email my managers about my ADHD and having me trained fully? Thanks
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I know how I when it comes to learning new things I need some adequate time and patience to remember and fully understand everything not 1 or 2 times in certain areas of my job or else I will forget or screw something up. I'm never had/thought to go to my doctor or HR to use ADA at a workplace ever in my life so I'm a bit lost. If I go to my HR department about this do I meet the requirements for ADA just to get trained in my department or will HR simply call/email my managers about my ADHD and having me trained fully? Thanks
2024.05.13 22:47 No-Consequence4263 The Tree of knowledge and humanities " mockery" of the trinity
So this is something I have thought for a while, and began building a hypothesis for it roughly three years ago. To summarize for those not interested in the details I believe the reasoning the tree of knowledge, and its counter parts within other religions were off limits to humans other than it is knowledge unwanted/unneeded; is that it was a trinity. The three parts that would make this up are religion,philosophy, and science. To clarify and specify I will give differing examples as to why I came to this conclusion.
The first thing that made me think of this was the interchangeable aspects, as well as the balancing of these three. Religious beliefs are what filled the ancient times, and allowed for the first steps of science to flourish. A good example is Egyptian building techniques they had were given to them by the God thoth. Due to its sacred attachments it was able to survive as a form of study scientist use to this day. Now turning towards the interconnectedness of philosophy with religion an example can be; in one of the earliest religious sites is dedicated to that of skulls and the nature of death. The religion itself doesn't have much knowledge other than the age old testament of why we die, but its still a profound question we ask ourselves to this day. You can take this same method of interconnectedness in reversal with the other two forms of knowledge being compared to the others. Now the contrasting factors are just as interesting. Such as the inability for a comprehensive understanding of miracles through the scientific lense. There are examples of this "mockery," being there as a core part of our being in all three forms of study as well. With that we will start with the examples within science.
We must first discuss the beginning of our existence as science describes, in an instantaneous expansion/expulsion of energy we gained space, time, and matter as a result. Now in order for any researcher to make a proper conclusion and or factual statement they must be able apply these three elements to their work. They must use a means of recording the information aka time. They must provide a place in which this experiment occured aka space finally; they must use the effects of physical objects, actions, and or numerical data to provide evidence. There are also examples of its interconnectedness to the other two despite oppositional standings. One such example is that; rituals such as bloodletting, ripping of hearts out, mummification, and potion making allowed for the transcendence of medicine, anatomy, and many more medical practices. Another example, but for philosophy is; when we used philosophy as a means to question the commonly believed scientific practices of multiple eras including the present. This allows/ed for the progression of ethics within the medical field, as well as create fields such as psychology. In essence science is the raw form of "mind," within our trinity; the physical representation of what can not be deciphered by the other two methods.
The next of the three we will delve into is that of philosophy. Philosophy has its connections within the other two methods of knowledge in a multitude if not the most ways out of the three. The following examples are just a few that I have chosen. One great example not yet discussed is; science, and its impact upon the understanding of the cosmos has made the philosophical question of "are we alone," and "what's my significance within it all." Another example but that of religious connectivity is the rise and fall of religions themselves. The best example is the change of pantheism into monotheism, the idea that; if there is a being of higher status, power, wisdom, intelligence etc. than others of its kind are the others truly within the same class or even the same kind of being. Philosophy in itself has trinities within their study as the other two do. One example is the Greek philosopher Pythagoras believed that the number 3 was the most significant number as it was that of perfection and represented harmony wisdom and understanding. In its representations philosophy can be Interpreted as the embodiment of " heart, " within the trinity; as it is what bridges the two methods with greatest disparity, and makes one think insightful as well as outwardly speak beyond the confines of scientific, and spiritual traditions.
The third representation of this " mocked ," trinity we have carved into the very code of our being is religion. Despite the contradictions religious, and scientific consensus there is over arching connections that can not be denied. One such example of their intertwining relationship is that of cosmic and mathematical studies. As mentioned before the Egyptians believed they gained their ability to use math from the God thoth, bit the belief isn't sufficient evidence for their true connection through math, and astrology. The mapping of celestial bodies were due to their relations with yhe divine such as their place of origin, the heavens, or even the physical embodiment of the gods themselves such of the planetary system and its connection with the Roman pantheon. Religion is also responsible for humanities and consequently sciences grasp of time and the recording of it. A great example is that ancient people would base their rituals around the natural rhythm of differing seasons, spacial phenomeno, and that of recording important cultural events. The impact of religion onto science is deep just as the other way around but their bridging partner philosophy; has very intimate connections as well. Though tons of examples are present for the twos intertwined relations a few examples are; that along of philosophers would use their religious beliefs to help shape, and nurture their philosophical ideals. It was also religion that began our want and urge to began asking ourselves what our origins are, what is our purpose as a species etc. Religion and its position within this " mockery ," could be best described as the soul of our markings. Though it is the most criticized part of knowledge for its lack of " evidence ," just like that of souls themselves. It still holds reverence and importance as without it we as humanity would've never asked ourselves those first important questions of internal insight as well as; did those physical rituals allowing for the progression into the many sciences' we have today.Throughout this I have quoted, and maintained this finding as a " mockery ," and there are many contradictions within the studies of the three themselves; this I will explain the reasoning behind in the following paragraph.
The term mockery as I use it; is the expression not of negative means such as we intend to offend anything such as a creator or ourselves as a species. In this sense the term is applied due to the very contradictions and disparities between the three. The three following tend to have arguments and disagreements within the studies; typically this discrepancy is the action cause by the want for truth. There are also fundamental contradictions as well such as; the process in which one conducts their actions in life, and the way in which one may perceive or be influenced within their daily ongoings. However; at the core without each of these three being accessible to humanity there would've been no virtual, or actual progression within our species. The reasoning it is a mockery rather than a true trinity is through the very definition of opposition the three have. A true trinity would be that of perfect balance however; due to all the differing factors said prior and the elements not seamlessly falling into one another there is an imbalance one that can sway what a humans progression through life may be.
In conclusion it's this authors opinion that we have a trinity one that is a mere mockery of what the truth we all are ferociously debating amongst ourselves is. until we are able to come to that one universal consensus we will be plagued with this mark of knowledge and its endless sea of questions.
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The first thing that made me think of this was the interchangeable aspects, as well as the balancing of these three. Religious beliefs are what filled the ancient times, and allowed for the first steps of science to flourish. A good example is Egyptian building techniques they had were given to them by the God thoth. Due to its sacred attachments it was able to survive as a form of study scientist use to this day. Now turning towards the interconnectedness of philosophy with religion an example can be; in one of the earliest religious sites is dedicated to that of skulls and the nature of death. The religion itself doesn't have much knowledge other than the age old testament of why we die, but its still a profound question we ask ourselves to this day. You can take this same method of interconnectedness in reversal with the other two forms of knowledge being compared to the others. Now the contrasting factors are just as interesting. Such as the inability for a comprehensive understanding of miracles through the scientific lense. There are examples of this "mockery," being there as a core part of our being in all three forms of study as well. With that we will start with the examples within science.
We must first discuss the beginning of our existence as science describes, in an instantaneous expansion/expulsion of energy we gained space, time, and matter as a result. Now in order for any researcher to make a proper conclusion and or factual statement they must be able apply these three elements to their work. They must use a means of recording the information aka time. They must provide a place in which this experiment occured aka space finally; they must use the effects of physical objects, actions, and or numerical data to provide evidence. There are also examples of its interconnectedness to the other two despite oppositional standings. One such example is that; rituals such as bloodletting, ripping of hearts out, mummification, and potion making allowed for the transcendence of medicine, anatomy, and many more medical practices. Another example, but for philosophy is; when we used philosophy as a means to question the commonly believed scientific practices of multiple eras including the present. This allows/ed for the progression of ethics within the medical field, as well as create fields such as psychology. In essence science is the raw form of "mind," within our trinity; the physical representation of what can not be deciphered by the other two methods.
The next of the three we will delve into is that of philosophy. Philosophy has its connections within the other two methods of knowledge in a multitude if not the most ways out of the three. The following examples are just a few that I have chosen. One great example not yet discussed is; science, and its impact upon the understanding of the cosmos has made the philosophical question of "are we alone," and "what's my significance within it all." Another example but that of religious connectivity is the rise and fall of religions themselves. The best example is the change of pantheism into monotheism, the idea that; if there is a being of higher status, power, wisdom, intelligence etc. than others of its kind are the others truly within the same class or even the same kind of being. Philosophy in itself has trinities within their study as the other two do. One example is the Greek philosopher Pythagoras believed that the number 3 was the most significant number as it was that of perfection and represented harmony wisdom and understanding. In its representations philosophy can be Interpreted as the embodiment of " heart, " within the trinity; as it is what bridges the two methods with greatest disparity, and makes one think insightful as well as outwardly speak beyond the confines of scientific, and spiritual traditions.
The third representation of this " mocked ," trinity we have carved into the very code of our being is religion. Despite the contradictions religious, and scientific consensus there is over arching connections that can not be denied. One such example of their intertwining relationship is that of cosmic and mathematical studies. As mentioned before the Egyptians believed they gained their ability to use math from the God thoth, bit the belief isn't sufficient evidence for their true connection through math, and astrology. The mapping of celestial bodies were due to their relations with yhe divine such as their place of origin, the heavens, or even the physical embodiment of the gods themselves such of the planetary system and its connection with the Roman pantheon. Religion is also responsible for humanities and consequently sciences grasp of time and the recording of it. A great example is that ancient people would base their rituals around the natural rhythm of differing seasons, spacial phenomeno, and that of recording important cultural events. The impact of religion onto science is deep just as the other way around but their bridging partner philosophy; has very intimate connections as well. Though tons of examples are present for the twos intertwined relations a few examples are; that along of philosophers would use their religious beliefs to help shape, and nurture their philosophical ideals. It was also religion that began our want and urge to began asking ourselves what our origins are, what is our purpose as a species etc. Religion and its position within this " mockery ," could be best described as the soul of our markings. Though it is the most criticized part of knowledge for its lack of " evidence ," just like that of souls themselves. It still holds reverence and importance as without it we as humanity would've never asked ourselves those first important questions of internal insight as well as; did those physical rituals allowing for the progression into the many sciences' we have today.Throughout this I have quoted, and maintained this finding as a " mockery ," and there are many contradictions within the studies of the three themselves; this I will explain the reasoning behind in the following paragraph.
The term mockery as I use it; is the expression not of negative means such as we intend to offend anything such as a creator or ourselves as a species. In this sense the term is applied due to the very contradictions and disparities between the three. The three following tend to have arguments and disagreements within the studies; typically this discrepancy is the action cause by the want for truth. There are also fundamental contradictions as well such as; the process in which one conducts their actions in life, and the way in which one may perceive or be influenced within their daily ongoings. However; at the core without each of these three being accessible to humanity there would've been no virtual, or actual progression within our species. The reasoning it is a mockery rather than a true trinity is through the very definition of opposition the three have. A true trinity would be that of perfect balance however; due to all the differing factors said prior and the elements not seamlessly falling into one another there is an imbalance one that can sway what a humans progression through life may be.
In conclusion it's this authors opinion that we have a trinity one that is a mere mockery of what the truth we all are ferociously debating amongst ourselves is. until we are able to come to that one universal consensus we will be plagued with this mark of knowledge and its endless sea of questions.
2024.05.13 22:47 ohimfinereally Is she(38F) really into me(39M)?
We've been together for 10 years. Wasn't always good. My fault. Her fault. Anyway, when things got really bad (she was sleeping with our daughter(7F) in a seperate bedroom) I one day clicked with a colleague from work. When she noticed I was seeing someone else she turned 180 degrees. That turning lasted for a few weeks/maybe months but in the end it all went back to the same shit. Later she said it wasn't for me that she turned 180 degrees, but to keep the family together.
1,5 years later she left me. Got a proper job, a car, and a house. Didn't hear anything from her for the last 8 months besides when she needed technical assistance or when it was about our daughter. Business like contact. Nothing else going on.
Maybe you guessed it but for a small amount of time I'm now in a relationship with someone else (26F). At first she was angry AF when she heared from our daughter that I went to a school thing with my new GF and my daughter.
Result: I couldn't pick our daughter up from school anymore. And no more visits to my father.
Later she wanted to talk. I didn't want anything else besides the agreement we had at first. (I pick her up from school on tuesday to friday and on friday she sleeps with me and sometimes on saturday also) Ex didn't want to give in so nothing came from it.
We had some contact and now it seems it was all about my new GF that I couldn't see my daughter anymore. Well that's no completely true, I was allowed to visit my ex her house to spend time with our daughter but I see that as manipulation/being forced to bent to her rules and that was too much for me.
Last time I was there she(ex) hugged me out of nowhere. She was almost to tears. Later I got a message that it was very hard/confusing/nice for her.
Grand finale: Ex now told me she wants me back. I made a list with conditions to where I might consider it, but TBH I fear for the same situation as two years ago. That she wants me back out of jealousy and that IF I would come back it will last for a few weeks/months again and then it dies off again.
Besides that I have a new GF and while it's pretty new and fresh I don't have to put in a lot of effort to make it work. I just comes naturally. Besides that she's living in the same house as I do AND she came from abroad so it's pretty unfair to her to break up the lease on the house and start living with my ex again. Besides that I'm hosting a refugee in my house and that person would have to relocate as well before I do anything.
So... does my ex really want me back or is she just jealous AF? Or does she since she left 8 months ago suddenly want to keep the familiy together for real? Is she even into me?
For the love of god I can't even make this shit up. I'm not going back just for my daughter, it's been 8 months apart now anyway so she's used to the new situation. Minor detail; daughter is very much into the new GF what of course makes my ex even more jealous.
No throwaway since I'm lazy.
TL:DR; Ex is jealous AF because I have a new GF and now she wants me back. I don't know what wisdom is.
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1,5 years later she left me. Got a proper job, a car, and a house. Didn't hear anything from her for the last 8 months besides when she needed technical assistance or when it was about our daughter. Business like contact. Nothing else going on.
Maybe you guessed it but for a small amount of time I'm now in a relationship with someone else (26F). At first she was angry AF when she heared from our daughter that I went to a school thing with my new GF and my daughter.
Result: I couldn't pick our daughter up from school anymore. And no more visits to my father.
Later she wanted to talk. I didn't want anything else besides the agreement we had at first. (I pick her up from school on tuesday to friday and on friday she sleeps with me and sometimes on saturday also) Ex didn't want to give in so nothing came from it.
We had some contact and now it seems it was all about my new GF that I couldn't see my daughter anymore. Well that's no completely true, I was allowed to visit my ex her house to spend time with our daughter but I see that as manipulation/being forced to bent to her rules and that was too much for me.
Last time I was there she(ex) hugged me out of nowhere. She was almost to tears. Later I got a message that it was very hard/confusing/nice for her.
Grand finale: Ex now told me she wants me back. I made a list with conditions to where I might consider it, but TBH I fear for the same situation as two years ago. That she wants me back out of jealousy and that IF I would come back it will last for a few weeks/months again and then it dies off again.
Besides that I have a new GF and while it's pretty new and fresh I don't have to put in a lot of effort to make it work. I just comes naturally. Besides that she's living in the same house as I do AND she came from abroad so it's pretty unfair to her to break up the lease on the house and start living with my ex again. Besides that I'm hosting a refugee in my house and that person would have to relocate as well before I do anything.
So... does my ex really want me back or is she just jealous AF? Or does she since she left 8 months ago suddenly want to keep the familiy together for real? Is she even into me?
For the love of god I can't even make this shit up. I'm not going back just for my daughter, it's been 8 months apart now anyway so she's used to the new situation. Minor detail; daughter is very much into the new GF what of course makes my ex even more jealous.
No throwaway since I'm lazy.
TL:DR; Ex is jealous AF because I have a new GF and now she wants me back. I don't know what wisdom is.
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2024.05.13 22:42 Ok_Winner_4698 Chance me very low gpa health issue
Gender: male
Race/Ethnicity: Nigerian
Residence: east coast US
Type of School: regular public school
Intended Major: computer science, information technology
Academics GPA (UW/W): 1.7/2.2( currently redo classes I passed with low marks , estimated gpa by end of junior year is a 2.0 UW)
Rank (or percentile): 157/271
SAT/ACT: 1040 SAT
AP/IB: i took 3 ap classes partly but switched out(ap environmental,ap us government,ap world history)
Extracurriculars/Activities:
-Breadth of Life Experiences: Trip to Owerri, Nigeria reconnecting with my culture/relatives and lifelong memories , and impact of a medical condition
Additional info : I had a serious health issue for years that impacted my attendance and my gpa since I was just trying to pass rather than excel
Essay : In the essay I talk about - [ ] when it started - [ ] The sadness it brought - [ ] Opportunities I lost due to it - [ ] Reason gpa took a hit - [ ] How I persevered - [ ] Opportunities where I won - [ ] Reason for my ambitious goal - [ ] And what I learned
ask and I’ll send it ,
The schools Im applying to : Towson
Umd
Umbc
Morgan state
Virginia state
Salisbury
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Race/Ethnicity: Nigerian
Residence: east coast US
Type of School: regular public school
Intended Major: computer science, information technology
Academics GPA (UW/W): 1.7/2.2( currently redo classes I passed with low marks , estimated gpa by end of junior year is a 2.0 UW)
Rank (or percentile): 157/271
SAT/ACT: 1040 SAT
AP/IB: i took 3 ap classes partly but switched out(ap environmental,ap us government,ap world history)
Extracurriculars/Activities:
- Future Business Leaders of America (FBLA): I won first in my district going to states for graphic design
- Science Bowl: Achieved first place in multiple STEM competitions, showcasing prowess in the field.
- Coding: I have a certification in basics of computer science and I made small coding projects like a personalized calculator
- Writing: I have certification from the black Writers Guild of state (certified by youth showcase program chair, & and president of black Writers Guild) I have a certificate of recognition from City (certified by Mayor )
- Art: Acknowledged for outstanding accomplishments in the 2018 Maea Student Exhibition. Hosted at Walter art museum
- Varsity Lacrosse I won the unsung hero award as goalie of my team
- Student Government Association (SGA)
- DECA( 1st place in regionals , honorable mention at nationals and 3rd in state for business law and ethics)
- Varsity football junior year
- Volunteer Tutoring
- Battle of the Books: • I won first place in battle of the books in 2017
- ASSISTED LIVING: I became cpr certified I was the head volunteer for the group of volunteers that cleaned and organized the yard, i gave out tasks regarding maintenance and monitored the completion of them , (24 hours/week , 1248 hours/year, for summer)
- Upward Bound: I completed the academic and summer program certified by j sanghi
- Peer Mediation: Certified Peer Mediator Completed Peer Mediation Training with commendation.
- jv Wres*tling
- I am a part of Asa of my school (African Student Association)
- OPA: I am one of the youth leaders of the owerri people accociation (city branch) Participated and organized events that connects and worked with international group during their political season, Made financial contributions to disfranchised and less fortunate, Worked with the Nigerian government during the boko haram crisis
- black saga: I was a black saga(black history competition) finalist placing in 2nd place, (certified by John L. Billingslea, director of social studies)
-Breadth of Life Experiences: Trip to Owerri, Nigeria reconnecting with my culture/relatives and lifelong memories , and impact of a medical condition
Additional info : I had a serious health issue for years that impacted my attendance and my gpa since I was just trying to pass rather than excel
Essay : In the essay I talk about - [ ] when it started - [ ] The sadness it brought - [ ] Opportunities I lost due to it - [ ] Reason gpa took a hit - [ ] How I persevered - [ ] Opportunities where I won - [ ] Reason for my ambitious goal - [ ] And what I learned
ask and I’ll send it ,
The schools Im applying to : Towson
Umd
Umbc
Morgan state
Virginia state
Salisbury
2024.05.13 22:42 mssschneider [Hire Me] Hire the Best of the Best in Writing Services ✓
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2024.05.13 22:41 Tea7ay_ Dear Tank players:
Don’t come near the Lord.
Unless u are the jungler there is no need for u to be near the Lord if the rest of the team is taking it… ESPECIALLY IF THE ENEMY BARATS IS STILL ALIVE , I mean if the enemy jungle is still alive.
Please please please stop hitting the Lord and instead zone the enemy jungle out. That is your job, no one else can do it but you. Isn’t that amazing? Only you can do it, all those defence items u bought finally come in handy, and your cc skills that no one follows up on? Doesn’t matter! Use them anyway! All u need to do is distract them and buy time.
No enemies around? Check the bushes. Still no enemies? Check the bushes again Still can’t find them? CHECK.THE.BUSHES. AGAIN. CHECK THEM 50 TIMES IF U HAV TO!!!
“B…But OP, I’m not the roamer, I’m playing EXP lane”. IT DOESNT MATTER U ARE THE TANK!!!! CHECK THE DAMN BUSHES
If the enemy jungle pops up on the map. Go say hello! Show them your shiny defence items that u definitely built to counter them and not just a random mismatch of whatever comes first in the shop. It’s even better if u hit them w a few of your skills to keep them occupied, oh? They’re hitting u back? FANTASTIC! Keep it up!
“B…But OP, now the entire team is on me and they are bursting me down. I’m gonna die and hav nothing to show for it”.
Ah my sweet, sweet little punching bag, hav u ever heard of a post objective team fight? It’s this bizarre occurrence that happens after a neutral objective is taken where one or both teams start fighting each other even though the objective has already been taken. Usually it is initiated by the team that loses the objective in order to justify the time they wasted contesting it and also to hopefully give them an advantage when the enemy lord spawns. The correct play for the victorious team would be to disengage and wait for the Lord to spawn in order to increase map pressure, but 99% of the time they will retaliate for no apparent reason. This is where u come in my chunky hunkey. U see right before the POTF they would hav used at least a few skills/ults/spells in order to bust u down. This drastically increases the chances of your team to not get totally wiped out and waste a lord. See? Even in death u are impacting the game.
So please, for all that is holy, get away from the Lord.
Today I beg, tomorrow I will not.
Thank u
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Unless u are the jungler there is no need for u to be near the Lord if the rest of the team is taking it… ESPECIALLY IF THE ENEMY BARATS IS STILL ALIVE , I mean if the enemy jungle is still alive.
Please please please stop hitting the Lord and instead zone the enemy jungle out. That is your job, no one else can do it but you. Isn’t that amazing? Only you can do it, all those defence items u bought finally come in handy, and your cc skills that no one follows up on? Doesn’t matter! Use them anyway! All u need to do is distract them and buy time.
No enemies around? Check the bushes. Still no enemies? Check the bushes again Still can’t find them? CHECK.THE.BUSHES. AGAIN. CHECK THEM 50 TIMES IF U HAV TO!!!
“B…But OP, I’m not the roamer, I’m playing EXP lane”. IT DOESNT MATTER U ARE THE TANK!!!! CHECK THE DAMN BUSHES
If the enemy jungle pops up on the map. Go say hello! Show them your shiny defence items that u definitely built to counter them and not just a random mismatch of whatever comes first in the shop. It’s even better if u hit them w a few of your skills to keep them occupied, oh? They’re hitting u back? FANTASTIC! Keep it up!
“B…But OP, now the entire team is on me and they are bursting me down. I’m gonna die and hav nothing to show for it”.
Ah my sweet, sweet little punching bag, hav u ever heard of a post objective team fight? It’s this bizarre occurrence that happens after a neutral objective is taken where one or both teams start fighting each other even though the objective has already been taken. Usually it is initiated by the team that loses the objective in order to justify the time they wasted contesting it and also to hopefully give them an advantage when the enemy lord spawns. The correct play for the victorious team would be to disengage and wait for the Lord to spawn in order to increase map pressure, but 99% of the time they will retaliate for no apparent reason. This is where u come in my chunky hunkey. U see right before the POTF they would hav used at least a few skills/ults/spells in order to bust u down. This drastically increases the chances of your team to not get totally wiped out and waste a lord. See? Even in death u are impacting the game.
So please, for all that is holy, get away from the Lord.
Today I beg, tomorrow I will not.
Thank u
2024.05.13 22:41 ineedleads-simon How the New GPT-4.0 Transforms AGENT AI Chat Bot for Users
How the New GPT-4.o Transforms AGENT AI Chat Bot for Users
Highlights AGENT Ai Chat Bot Updates May 13, 2024•4 min readAs technology evolves, so does the way we interact with it. AGENT AI Chat Bot, found at www.theineedagent.ai, is at the forefront of this evolution. Powered by the new GPT-4.0, this chatbot offers an incredibly advanced and human-like conversational experience. Let's explore what GPT-4.0 brings to the table and how it enhances AGENT AI Chat Bot from a user's perspective.
What’s New with GPT-4.o?
GPT-4.0, the latest version of OpenAI’s language model, comes with several impressive upgrades:- Smarter Conversations: GPT-4.o can understand and remember the context of your conversations much better than before. This means it can keep up with longer chats without losing track of what you were talking about.
- More Detailed Responses: With a higher number of parameters (think of these as the brain cells of the AI), GPT-4.o can provide more detailed and nuanced answers. This makes your interactions with AGENT AI Chat Bot feel more natural and engaging.
- Easier Customization: Developers can fine-tune GPT-4.o more effectively, which means businesses can tweak the chatbot to better match their needs. For users, this translates to a more tailored and relevant experience.
- Seeing and Understanding: One of the coolest features of GPT-4.o is its ability to handle not just text but also images. This opens up new ways for you to interact with the bot, making it even more versatile.
How This Benefits You
Here’s how these new features make a difference in your day-to-day interactions with AGENT AI Chat Bot:Better Conversations
With GPT-4.o, AGENT AI Chat Bot can maintain more coherent and context-aware conversations. Whether you're chatting about a product, asking for support, or just having a casual conversation, the bot understands the context better and provides relevant responses. This makes the interaction smoother and more satisfying.Personalized Experience
Thanks to improved fine-tuning, the chatbot can be customized to fit the specific needs of different businesses. This means when you interact with AGENT AI Chat Bot, it feels like it truly understands and responds according to the unique style and requirements of the business you're dealing with.More Than Just Text
Imagine you’re having trouble with a product and need to show a picture of it to get help. With GPT-4.0’s multimodal capabilities, AGENT AI Chat Bot can now understand and respond to images. This makes troubleshooting and getting support much easier and faster.Natural Understanding
GPT-4.o’s enhanced natural language processing skills mean the chatbot can handle a wider variety of questions and phrases. You don't have to phrase things in a specific way for the bot to understand you. This makes your interactions feel more natural and less robotic.Scalable and Reliable
Even during busy times, GPT-4.o ensures that AGENT AI Chat Bot can handle many users simultaneously without a drop in performance. Whether you’re interacting with the bot during peak hours or late at night, you can expect the same high-quality responses.Real-World Applications
Let’s see how these features play out in different scenarios:Shopping Online
Imagine you're shopping online and need help finding the right product. AGENT AI Chat Bot can offer personalized recommendations based on your preferences, answer detailed questions about products, and even help you complete your purchase smoothly.Healthcare Assistance
In healthcare, the chatbot can help you schedule appointments, provide information about medical conditions, and offer preliminary assessments of symptoms. With its ability to understand context and detail, the bot makes sure you get accurate and helpful information every time.Financial Services
When dealing with finances, you might have questions about your account, transactions, or need financial advice. AGENT AI Chat Bot can interpret and respond to a wide range of financial queries, providing you with the information you need quickly and accurately.Educational Support
For students, AGENT AI Chat Bot can be a valuable resource, offering information on courses, schedules, and campus services. Its ability to understand both text and images means it can assist with a variety of queries, making it a handy tool for navigating academic life.Conclusion
GPT-4.0 takes AGENT AI Chat Bot to new heights, making it smarter, more versatile, and more user-friendly. By providing more accurate, personalized, and engaging interactions, the chatbot ensures that your experience is as seamless and enjoyable as possible. Whether you’re shopping, seeking healthcare advice, managing your finances, or studying, AGENT AI Chat Bot, powered by GPT-4.o, is here to help.To experience these advancements firsthand, visit www.theineedagent.ai.How the New GPT-4.0 Transforms AGENT AI Chat Bot for Users
2024.05.13 22:40 zida_a cal vs ucsd public health
hi everyone I’m a recent transfer and got into cal and ucsd for public health, waitlisted at ucla 😔💔! i am extremely grateful, however am not sure which I should pick. i’ve always imagined myself in socal but didn’t expect to get into berkeley. don’t want to regret letting go of an opportunity like this. both schools are extremely strong for my major so I’d love to hear your input!
Cal: Public Health B.A. major
Pros: - cheaper than UCSD by 5-7k - name and prestige - Global Poverty Practice (GPP) minor ^ can relate my own practice tailored to public health - 4+1 program (able to get masters in 1 year after undergrad, if i get accepted) - location! also has a joint program w UCSF - connections (great for networking and have multiple doctors I can shadow and gain experience from) - a lot of public health grads are able to land a job before they graduate - has a children’s hospital nearby (want to do pediatrics in the future) - research is great - feel like this school would rlly challenge me and make me grow - more premeds get into medical school - “feeder” school for UCSF, most students also go to UCLA for med Cons: - gloomy weather bc of bay - close to home - grade deflation - worried I won’t have a high enough GPA to apply to med school - no med school on campus - academic environment - housing prices are expensive 😭 - safety (as a girl) - anchor housing is 2k with no meal plan (i think) - i’m taking a summer class which is on quarter system and cal starts on a semester system
UCSD: Public Health with Concentration in Medicine Science
Pros: - la jolla! great location and would feel relaxed going to the school - nicer weather - 3 hospitals on campus and many other facilities - easier on GPA - amazing for premeds - tution is expensive - far from home - people are more friendly - safer than cal ? - research is great - feeder school for ucsd med ?
Cons: - ucsd use to be my dream school but it changed to ucla - not really sure if i’ll feel challenged enough to grow academically - housing crisis? - not too sure if sd is my vibe - heard it’s socially dead - heard their public health program is less premed and more health
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Cal: Public Health B.A. major
Pros: - cheaper than UCSD by 5-7k - name and prestige - Global Poverty Practice (GPP) minor ^ can relate my own practice tailored to public health - 4+1 program (able to get masters in 1 year after undergrad, if i get accepted) - location! also has a joint program w UCSF - connections (great for networking and have multiple doctors I can shadow and gain experience from) - a lot of public health grads are able to land a job before they graduate - has a children’s hospital nearby (want to do pediatrics in the future) - research is great - feel like this school would rlly challenge me and make me grow - more premeds get into medical school - “feeder” school for UCSF, most students also go to UCLA for med Cons: - gloomy weather bc of bay - close to home - grade deflation - worried I won’t have a high enough GPA to apply to med school - no med school on campus - academic environment - housing prices are expensive 😭 - safety (as a girl) - anchor housing is 2k with no meal plan (i think) - i’m taking a summer class which is on quarter system and cal starts on a semester system
UCSD: Public Health with Concentration in Medicine Science
Pros: - la jolla! great location and would feel relaxed going to the school - nicer weather - 3 hospitals on campus and many other facilities - easier on GPA - amazing for premeds - tution is expensive - far from home - people are more friendly - safer than cal ? - research is great - feeder school for ucsd med ?
Cons: - ucsd use to be my dream school but it changed to ucla - not really sure if i’ll feel challenged enough to grow academically - housing crisis? - not too sure if sd is my vibe - heard it’s socially dead - heard their public health program is less premed and more health
2024.05.13 22:39 zida_a berk vs ucsd public health
hi everyone I’m a recent transfer and got into cal and ucsd for public health, waitlisted at ucla 😔💔! i am extremely grateful, however am not sure which I should pick. i’ve always imagined myself in socal but didn’t expect to get into berkeley. don’t want to regret letting go of an opportunity like this. both schools are extremely strong for my major so I’d love to hear your input!
Cal: Public Health B.A. major
Pros: - cheaper than UCSD by 5-7k - name and prestige - Global Poverty Practice (GPP) minor ^ can relate my own practice tailored to public health - 4+1 program (able to get masters in 1 year after undergrad, if i get accepted) - location! also has a joint program w UCSF - connections (great for networking and have multiple doctors I can shadow and gain experience from) - a lot of public health grads are able to land a job before they graduate - has a children’s hospital nearby (want to do pediatrics in the future) - research is great - feel like this school would rlly challenge me and make me grow
Cons: - gloomy weather bc of bay - close to home - grade deflation - worried I won’t have a high enough GPA to apply to med school - no med school on campus - academic environment - housing prices are expensive 😭 - safety (as a girl) - anchor housing is 2k with no meal plan (i think) - i’m taking a summer class which is on quarter system and cal starts on a semester system - more premeds get into medical school - “feeder” for UCSF, most students also go to UCLA med
UCSD: Public Health with Concentration in Medicine Science
Pros: - la jolla! great location and would feel relaxed going to the school - nicer weather - 3 hospitals on campus and many other facilities - easier on GPA - amazing for premeds - tution is expensive - far from home - people are more friendly - safer than cal ? - research is great - feeder school for ucsd med ?
Cons: - ucsd use to be my dream school but it changed to ucla - not really sure if i’ll feel challenged enough to grow academically - housing crisis? - not too sure if sd is my vibe - heard it’s harder to have a social life - heard their public health program is less premed and more health - dining hall food is bad, not too sure about places around ucsd
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Cal: Public Health B.A. major
Pros: - cheaper than UCSD by 5-7k - name and prestige - Global Poverty Practice (GPP) minor ^ can relate my own practice tailored to public health - 4+1 program (able to get masters in 1 year after undergrad, if i get accepted) - location! also has a joint program w UCSF - connections (great for networking and have multiple doctors I can shadow and gain experience from) - a lot of public health grads are able to land a job before they graduate - has a children’s hospital nearby (want to do pediatrics in the future) - research is great - feel like this school would rlly challenge me and make me grow
Cons: - gloomy weather bc of bay - close to home - grade deflation - worried I won’t have a high enough GPA to apply to med school - no med school on campus - academic environment - housing prices are expensive 😭 - safety (as a girl) - anchor housing is 2k with no meal plan (i think) - i’m taking a summer class which is on quarter system and cal starts on a semester system - more premeds get into medical school - “feeder” for UCSF, most students also go to UCLA med
UCSD: Public Health with Concentration in Medicine Science
Pros: - la jolla! great location and would feel relaxed going to the school - nicer weather - 3 hospitals on campus and many other facilities - easier on GPA - amazing for premeds - tution is expensive - far from home - people are more friendly - safer than cal ? - research is great - feeder school for ucsd med ?
Cons: - ucsd use to be my dream school but it changed to ucla - not really sure if i’ll feel challenged enough to grow academically - housing crisis? - not too sure if sd is my vibe - heard it’s harder to have a social life - heard their public health program is less premed and more health - dining hall food is bad, not too sure about places around ucsd
2024.05.13 22:38 bladerunner3027 I was the subject of a YouTube video, and I blame it for what happened next.
Half past seven on a Thursday evening. Almost through to the weekend. Not quite yet, though.
Time for a cheap dinner and a true crime YouTube video on the TV. Volume up loud. Feet up.
"This video is brought to you by---"
Skip 30 seconds.
The horrifying case of [REDACTED]. Oh, that's funny. He shares my name.
The narrator explains the intricacies of the case. The background of the victim. The lack of public knowledge about what happened. The unknown identity of the perpetrator. The terrible fate of their victim. Left for dead and never to speak again. It was fascinating and my theorising brain gets to work as it always did. Trying to explain the unexplained. To unmask a suspect only described in the most nebulous of ways.
Still, though, it tries.
How could an unassuming young man be the victim of such an evil-spirited crime and there be no leads?
I would soon find out.
TV off. Brain still whizzing with ideas. Time to turn that off, too. Friday is a big day at work, rest is important. Sleep eventually comes.
A knock awakens me. The red lights of the alarm clock on the nightstand read 4 AM.
Who the fuck is knocking at 4 AM?
I open the door. Nobody. Not a soul. A little pink coloured note lies on the bristled doormat.
"Welcome to the show.
Kisses."
I figure it was a dream. Or a nightmare. Slapping myself ought to wake me up.
Slap.
Slap.
Slap.
No luck. Now I'm confused and have red cheeks. The note is the same as the one described in the video from last night. The note that started it all. Was somebody playing a stupid prank on me? How would they even know what I had been watching last night?
Head is spinning now. Sleep won't come and the note mocks me from the pillow beside mine. The first sunlight of the day peeking through my blinds jars me. I notice another note slipped under the door. Part of me knows what it'll read. Another part tries to forget.
"Tick.
Tock.
Tick.
Tock.
Tick.
Tock."
Heart sinks. The note is less pink and more red this time. I place it on top of the older one. They both sit.
Awaiting the next.
Work could wait. That thing today isn't important anymore. They'll understand when I show them the video.
The video.
I try to find it again. Type, search, scroll. Over and over. It hides from me. Out of sight, never out of mind. The name of the channel is beyond me too. I search outside of YouTube. My name, my town, my apartment building. Again, nothing. My existence remains as unremarkable as ever. But I know it shouldn't be.
Maybe the video was a warning?
I pace around the bedroom. Theorising. Planning a way out. The next note would be hand-delivered.
Maybe the video was a taunt?
Barricading the door could work. Good idea. The couch works perfectly. I push it along the linoleum floor and it sits just right underneath the handle. I'm safe. They can't get in.
The video had to be a taunt.
That's why I could never find it again.
They were playing with their food.
The clock ticks along. Tick. Tock. They'll be arriving soon. Sundown, supposedly.
The last ray of sunlight fizzles out.
Knock.
Knock.
Knock.
Polite. Timely. No words. No response from me, either. I stand frozen. Hoping for some otherworldly intervention. It doesn't come.
Knock.
Knock.
Knock.
It grows louder. Then louder. Then louder.
The door handle rattles. The frame heaves. Over and over. It'll give way soon.
It does.
A tall man in a hood and glasses. Shadowy. Anonymous. A blood-red note clutched in his hands. He places it on the floor. Slides it across to me.
"I thank you for your viewership oh-so-kindly.
Kisses."
He lumbers over to me. Cleaver in hand. A blank portrait of a man. Time slows to a crawl. I try to run. To throw the nearest objects at him. No luck. He lumbers still. Slowly. Deliberate.
Tongue was the first to go. Tongue went agonisingly. Unhurriedly. Blood spewed all over. Screams lowered in volume until the tongue was all gone. Then nothing. Not for want of trying. Fingers went next. One by one until ten.
Consciousness went at the same time.
A ray of sunlight jolted me awake once again. Morning. Saturday. I lay in a drying pool of viscous crimson-red blood. Screams are still stifled. I shuffle towards the nightstand to grab the phone. I need help. The notes still lay there. Perfectly preserved. The most important one atop the others.
"911 what is your emergency?"
No words.
"If you can't talk right now, please use the keypad to answer my questions."
"Are you hurt? Please press 1 on your keypad for yes and press 2 for no."
Instinctual pressing leads to blood on the keypad from stubby "fingers". I use my knuckles instead.
"1".
"Do you need immediate assistance? Again, press 1 on your keypad for yes and press 2 for no."
It hurts. I switch knuckles.
"1".
"Thank you, we will send a unit as soon as possible. Please stay on the line."
Pain sears through my body. My now incomplete body. I wait.
Knock.
Knock.
Knock.
Instinct screams at me. A mundane sound now takes on an intensely sinister energy.
I freeze, again.
This time, the right people break in.
I pass out, again.
A hospital room greets me the next time I awake. He did more damage than I thought. 13 weeks in a coma. Learning to walk again. To talk. To be something resembling normal.
Every day I find myself looking for that video.
Every day it remains out of sight.
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Time for a cheap dinner and a true crime YouTube video on the TV. Volume up loud. Feet up.
"This video is brought to you by---"
Skip 30 seconds.
The horrifying case of [REDACTED]. Oh, that's funny. He shares my name.
The narrator explains the intricacies of the case. The background of the victim. The lack of public knowledge about what happened. The unknown identity of the perpetrator. The terrible fate of their victim. Left for dead and never to speak again. It was fascinating and my theorising brain gets to work as it always did. Trying to explain the unexplained. To unmask a suspect only described in the most nebulous of ways.
Still, though, it tries.
How could an unassuming young man be the victim of such an evil-spirited crime and there be no leads?
I would soon find out.
TV off. Brain still whizzing with ideas. Time to turn that off, too. Friday is a big day at work, rest is important. Sleep eventually comes.
A knock awakens me. The red lights of the alarm clock on the nightstand read 4 AM.
Who the fuck is knocking at 4 AM?
I open the door. Nobody. Not a soul. A little pink coloured note lies on the bristled doormat.
"Welcome to the show.
Kisses."
I figure it was a dream. Or a nightmare. Slapping myself ought to wake me up.
Slap.
Slap.
Slap.
No luck. Now I'm confused and have red cheeks. The note is the same as the one described in the video from last night. The note that started it all. Was somebody playing a stupid prank on me? How would they even know what I had been watching last night?
Head is spinning now. Sleep won't come and the note mocks me from the pillow beside mine. The first sunlight of the day peeking through my blinds jars me. I notice another note slipped under the door. Part of me knows what it'll read. Another part tries to forget.
"Tick.
Tock.
Tick.
Tock.
Tick.
Tock."
Heart sinks. The note is less pink and more red this time. I place it on top of the older one. They both sit.
Awaiting the next.
Work could wait. That thing today isn't important anymore. They'll understand when I show them the video.
The video.
I try to find it again. Type, search, scroll. Over and over. It hides from me. Out of sight, never out of mind. The name of the channel is beyond me too. I search outside of YouTube. My name, my town, my apartment building. Again, nothing. My existence remains as unremarkable as ever. But I know it shouldn't be.
Maybe the video was a warning?
I pace around the bedroom. Theorising. Planning a way out. The next note would be hand-delivered.
Maybe the video was a taunt?
Barricading the door could work. Good idea. The couch works perfectly. I push it along the linoleum floor and it sits just right underneath the handle. I'm safe. They can't get in.
The video had to be a taunt.
That's why I could never find it again.
They were playing with their food.
The clock ticks along. Tick. Tock. They'll be arriving soon. Sundown, supposedly.
The last ray of sunlight fizzles out.
Knock.
Knock.
Knock.
Polite. Timely. No words. No response from me, either. I stand frozen. Hoping for some otherworldly intervention. It doesn't come.
Knock.
Knock.
Knock.
It grows louder. Then louder. Then louder.
The door handle rattles. The frame heaves. Over and over. It'll give way soon.
It does.
A tall man in a hood and glasses. Shadowy. Anonymous. A blood-red note clutched in his hands. He places it on the floor. Slides it across to me.
"I thank you for your viewership oh-so-kindly.
Kisses."
He lumbers over to me. Cleaver in hand. A blank portrait of a man. Time slows to a crawl. I try to run. To throw the nearest objects at him. No luck. He lumbers still. Slowly. Deliberate.
Tongue was the first to go. Tongue went agonisingly. Unhurriedly. Blood spewed all over. Screams lowered in volume until the tongue was all gone. Then nothing. Not for want of trying. Fingers went next. One by one until ten.
Consciousness went at the same time.
A ray of sunlight jolted me awake once again. Morning. Saturday. I lay in a drying pool of viscous crimson-red blood. Screams are still stifled. I shuffle towards the nightstand to grab the phone. I need help. The notes still lay there. Perfectly preserved. The most important one atop the others.
"911 what is your emergency?"
No words.
"If you can't talk right now, please use the keypad to answer my questions."
"Are you hurt? Please press 1 on your keypad for yes and press 2 for no."
Instinctual pressing leads to blood on the keypad from stubby "fingers". I use my knuckles instead.
"1".
"Do you need immediate assistance? Again, press 1 on your keypad for yes and press 2 for no."
It hurts. I switch knuckles.
"1".
"Thank you, we will send a unit as soon as possible. Please stay on the line."
Pain sears through my body. My now incomplete body. I wait.
Knock.
Knock.
Knock.
Instinct screams at me. A mundane sound now takes on an intensely sinister energy.
I freeze, again.
This time, the right people break in.
I pass out, again.
A hospital room greets me the next time I awake. He did more damage than I thought. 13 weeks in a coma. Learning to walk again. To talk. To be something resembling normal.
Every day I find myself looking for that video.
Every day it remains out of sight.
2024.05.13 22:38 Sloth_Loverr Boyfriends Depression
Me and my bf have been together for 4 years now. I love him to death but his depression is bringing me down too... I try everything to help, give him all my love, tell him how handsome he is. I try and try to get him to go to the doctor or a counselor to be treated but he's stubborn and won't get help bc its "too expensive". Or counselors are "c*nts". His negativity has just gotten worse over the last 2 years. He works as a designer and his workplace is a very toxic environment. The business removed the windows bc they were too distracting, they haven't updated anything since maybe 1999, the supervisors are never around so people don't do their job, etc. (I could go on) It's hard to find a decent paying job in our area and he's been looking since we started dating, for a new one. He also was (idk the term) excused in the military after a year bc of his depression but he doesn't want to use military benefits bc it makes him feel guilty. If he ever needs help he doesn't ask for it from others bc it makes him feel guilty... I just dont know what to do I try and try to help but it just doesn't work. He's even gotten a card for Medical Marijauna but it's too expensive so he stopped going. And I thought THAT was helping! His negativity is mostly of "being stuck where we are in a small shitty town with shitty ppl, with nothing to do, no money to spend bc everything is too expensive and we need to pay bills-" all that crap... I just needed to vent, or I guess ask for help? I love him so much and he's a good person I just want what's best for him.
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2024.05.13 22:36 Professional-Sir-201 Serious Inquiries - care giver help needed ASAP
I’m not sure if this is allowed but I’m trying to help a friend who’s mother lives in Kinston and he is there with her now. I live out of state but I know word of mouth does wonders. They are looking for a part time care giver please see post. If not allowed can someone direct me to groups I can post this in to find help? This is a paid Job.
SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY! Mother has terminal illness 😞
Seeking Daily Caregiver for Morning and Evening Assistance (Flexible Hours)
Currently looking for a compassionate caregiver to help with my mother's daily needs in the morning and evening.
Responsibilities include: Assisting with changing, dressing, moving from bed to wheelchair, feeding. Will be working alongside family members who will also be present to help.
Details: Flexible timing (AM and PM help needed for a few hours each day)
Location: Kinston, NC
Please PRIVATE MESSAGE me for more details. I am posting this for a friend and will provide you with his direct contact information. So that you can connect together and make sure you will be the right fit for his Mother. His family is going through a lot so I’m trying to help them find someone to help out with daily care to avoid burnout on the family.
I do not live in this area so if you can recommend other groups I can post this in please let me know.
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SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY! Mother has terminal illness 😞
Seeking Daily Caregiver for Morning and Evening Assistance (Flexible Hours)
Currently looking for a compassionate caregiver to help with my mother's daily needs in the morning and evening.
Responsibilities include: Assisting with changing, dressing, moving from bed to wheelchair, feeding. Will be working alongside family members who will also be present to help.
Details: Flexible timing (AM and PM help needed for a few hours each day)
Location: Kinston, NC
Please PRIVATE MESSAGE me for more details. I am posting this for a friend and will provide you with his direct contact information. So that you can connect together and make sure you will be the right fit for his Mother. His family is going through a lot so I’m trying to help them find someone to help out with daily care to avoid burnout on the family.
I do not live in this area so if you can recommend other groups I can post this in please let me know.
2024.05.13 22:35 guardianocchealth1 Guardian Occupational Health
2024.05.13 22:34 Professional-Sir-201 Serious Inquiries- Care Giver for Elder Mother
I’m not sure if this is allowed but I’m trying to help a friend who’s mother lives in Kinston and he is there with her now. I live out of state but I know word of mouth does wonders. They are looking for a part time care giver please see post. If not allowed can someone direct me to groups I can post this in to find help? This is a paid Job.
SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY! Mother has terminal illness 😞
Seeking Daily Caregiver for Morning and Evening Assistance (Flexible Hours)
Currently looking for a compassionate caregiver to help with my mother's daily needs in the morning and evening.
Responsibilities include: Assisting with changing, dressing, moving from bed to wheelchair, feeding. Will be working alongside family members who will also be present to help.
Details: Flexible timing (AM and PM help needed for a few hours each day)
Location: Kinston, NC
Please PRIVATE MESSAGE me for more details. I am posting this for a friend and will provide you with his direct contact information. So that you can connect together and make sure you will be the right fit for his Mother. His family is going through a lot so I’m trying to help them find someone to help out with daily care to avoid burnout on the family.
I do not live in this area so if you can recommend other groups I can post this in please let me know.
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SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY! Mother has terminal illness 😞
Seeking Daily Caregiver for Morning and Evening Assistance (Flexible Hours)
Currently looking for a compassionate caregiver to help with my mother's daily needs in the morning and evening.
Responsibilities include: Assisting with changing, dressing, moving from bed to wheelchair, feeding. Will be working alongside family members who will also be present to help.
Details: Flexible timing (AM and PM help needed for a few hours each day)
Location: Kinston, NC
Please PRIVATE MESSAGE me for more details. I am posting this for a friend and will provide you with his direct contact information. So that you can connect together and make sure you will be the right fit for his Mother. His family is going through a lot so I’m trying to help them find someone to help out with daily care to avoid burnout on the family.
I do not live in this area so if you can recommend other groups I can post this in please let me know.
2024.05.13 22:33 cheeselesspizza Dog ACL Surgery
My dog has recently torn her second ACL and I am strapped for money and cannot afford to take out loans due to personal medical bills. The cost is roughly $4,500 and I have been doing everything to try and save up money for Luna. Doordashing, selling stuff, donating plasma etc. I am mostly wondering if anyone has any recommendations for agencies here in the valley that offer financial assistance for pet surgery. Thanks!
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2024.05.13 22:33 Professional-Sir-201 Looking for flexible Care Giver Help (Kinston,NC)
I’m not sure if this is allowed but I’m trying to help a friend who’s mother lives in Kinston and he is there with her now. I live out of state but I know word of mouth does wonders. They are looking for a part time care giver please see post. If not allowed can someone direct me to groups I can post this in to find help? This is a paid Job.
SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY! Mother has terminal illness 😞
Seeking Daily Caregiver for Morning and Evening Assistance (Flexible Hours)
Currently looking for a compassionate caregiver to help with my mother's daily needs in the morning and evening.
Responsibilities include: Assisting with changing, dressing, moving from bed to wheelchair, feeding. Will be working alongside family members who will also be present to help.
Details: Flexible timing (AM and PM help needed for a few hours each day)
Location: Kinston, NC
Please PRIVATE MESSAGE me for more details. I am posting this for a friend and will provide you with his direct contact information. So that you can connect together and make sure you will be the right fit for his Mother. His family is going through a lot so I’m trying to help them find someone to help out with daily care to avoid burnout on the family.
I do not live in this area so if you can recommend other groups I can post this in please let me know.
Thank you!
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SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY! Mother has terminal illness 😞
Seeking Daily Caregiver for Morning and Evening Assistance (Flexible Hours)
Currently looking for a compassionate caregiver to help with my mother's daily needs in the morning and evening.
Responsibilities include: Assisting with changing, dressing, moving from bed to wheelchair, feeding. Will be working alongside family members who will also be present to help.
Details: Flexible timing (AM and PM help needed for a few hours each day)
Location: Kinston, NC
Please PRIVATE MESSAGE me for more details. I am posting this for a friend and will provide you with his direct contact information. So that you can connect together and make sure you will be the right fit for his Mother. His family is going through a lot so I’m trying to help them find someone to help out with daily care to avoid burnout on the family.
I do not live in this area so if you can recommend other groups I can post this in please let me know.
Thank you!
2024.05.13 22:31 ThatOtherShore Essential for Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse: External Improvement!
We’ve talked a lot about the internal work that must be done to heal and recover from the horrors of narcissistic abuse. But what often gets left out is that the internal work, while essential, is only half of the new circle you are drawing for your life. The other half of the circle can only be drawn in by making positive external improvements to your life situation.
If your life is NOT measurably worse now, you are financially where you want to be, you are healthy and fit, your career & activities are fulfilling you with purpose, you have great friends, and you are working on actionable goals to keep growing, then this post is not for you. Great job and carry on!
If your life is measurably worse now than it was during the ‘relationship’, then I highly recommend you think about this message:
Measurable, Practical Realities of Life: What Would Actually Make Your Life Better?
If your measurable, practical realities of daily life- finances, career, health/fitness, friendships, actionable goals for the future- are worse off after leaving the relationship, you MUST take action to improve all of them by taking disciplined action consistently over time, IF you actually want to heal and recover fully.
Don’t be a perfectionist or think you can magically change it overnight. But do get on a real road to making the changes that will earn positive outcomes for yourself. Learning how to love yourself means wanting your life to go well and improve! I know it’s weird to have to say that, but people recovering from codependency really need to strengthen this muscle of self-interested action. It was so strange to notice in myself that I didn’t even know what I wanted when another person was not around telling me what I should want. It took a real change of locus to become sovereign over my own life, my own choices, and to learn what it is that I would want for myself whether anyone else is around or not!
This can start by simply allowing yourself to meditate on what it is that you DO want for your life. Not everyone’s values are the same, so there is no right or wrong answer, only YOUR answer. I just know that living in substandard, impoverished or stressful financial conditions, being unhealthy and sedentary, and not having an exciting plan for your life is a condition that will make recovery and transformation close to impossible. You can only do the best you can today without unnecessary pressure or expectation. Just start by coming up with a plan for the immediate future and exert your will to make shit happen for yourself! I mean it. It’s crucial.
You can do all of the internal work in the world to process your emotions, try to let go of anger and process your grief. You are worthy of love and respect today as you are, because you a human being with a good heart who has been treated terribly and victimized by evil behavior from someone else. But if your life objectively sucks, then I wouldn’t expect to feel better anytime soon.
Your sense of confidence, self-worth, and ability to create new successes, new relationships, new memories, and a new life that has nothing to do with your past cannot develop if you are staying stuck in a bad living situation. Be realistic and compassionate with yourself, and allow the time necessary to see some progress, but do get moving.
The Good News!
As hard as it is doing the internal work of grief, acceptance, processing anger, unwinding your own codependent patterns and family history, the good news is that you don’t need to have ‘finished’ those before you start going into the outside world and making positive changes for yourself.
You can look at your external work as a nice break from all of those heavy, sad emotions. Realize that a lot of that anger and heartbreak and sadness will sort itself out when your external life situation improves to a degree that you are now objectively BETTER OFF than you were during the relationship. The real key to healing and transformation is this combination of internal growth and external measurable success. They feed off each other in positive-reinforcement. All the little successes you pile up day-by-day start building your confidence back up, you sense of pride in work well done, your sense of worth and optimism about the future- all of it develops when you can see evidence of improvement.
So if you are finding it slow going and frustrating on the emotional front, if you’re having more trouble letting go of that person or that relationship than you expected, I know it sucks and it can improve with time and dedication to healing. But you really have nothing to lose by STILL choosing to better the other parts of your life right? How would it make it worse if you made more money so that your financial stress disappeared? How would it make it worse if you set some real world goals with your career, work, or passion projects that would improve your life and achieved them? How would it make it worse if you jumped into a disciplined fitness program of your choosing and got in the best shape of your life in the next year? I think you get my drift. If things are really sucking in your life, the best part of that is that you have not much to lose by saying FUCK IT! and just going for it in other areas.
Bottom Line
This does NOT mean that one should neglect the inner spiritual, emotional, and maturation work. Money, success, and the external trappings of life do not bring happiness on their own. But they DO matter greatly, so we need to not lie about that or become too ethereal about all of this. I’m arguing for a healthy balance that gives attention to the outer reality of your life so that you don’t get lost in never-ending therapy, an old tired story from the past, and overindulging in victimhood.
When you find a good balance between doing the internal therapeutic work and the external outer world success, you have the magic formula for transforming your life. This will help you become a new version of yourself more aligned with your inner truth, your values, your talents and gifts, so that you become someone who knows how to stand up for yourself and take action in pursuit of positive outcomes.
Letting go of anger is one of the most challenging parts I’ve found people have with the healing process. They can completely get over caring about the person, see the cold hard truth, and cut them off completely. But the anger and resentment really does burn people up inside, even years afterward, if they haven’t moved the needle on their own life. It is amazing how making your life better and succeeding in areas you used to fail in can make your anger seem unnecessary and irrelevant. Why? Because now you are stronger. You’ve built something admirable and successful for yourself and you don’t need anyone’s approval but your own and the support of those who truly care about you.
When you can sit back one day in the not-too-distant future and honestly say, ”By all measures, my life is leaps and bounds better today than it was back then,” you can tell me at that point how you are feeling emotionally and how much trouble you’re having moving forward.
Note: Just as people get themselves professional help for mental health/emotional issues, it can very wise to find a qualified person who can help you get going with your practical life issues if that is an area where you have struggled to pull it together. There are also tons of free information out there about this, so you can do your own research and find some good strategies.
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If your life is NOT measurably worse now, you are financially where you want to be, you are healthy and fit, your career & activities are fulfilling you with purpose, you have great friends, and you are working on actionable goals to keep growing, then this post is not for you. Great job and carry on!
If your life is measurably worse now than it was during the ‘relationship’, then I highly recommend you think about this message:
Measurable, Practical Realities of Life: What Would Actually Make Your Life Better?
If your measurable, practical realities of daily life- finances, career, health/fitness, friendships, actionable goals for the future- are worse off after leaving the relationship, you MUST take action to improve all of them by taking disciplined action consistently over time, IF you actually want to heal and recover fully.
Don’t be a perfectionist or think you can magically change it overnight. But do get on a real road to making the changes that will earn positive outcomes for yourself. Learning how to love yourself means wanting your life to go well and improve! I know it’s weird to have to say that, but people recovering from codependency really need to strengthen this muscle of self-interested action. It was so strange to notice in myself that I didn’t even know what I wanted when another person was not around telling me what I should want. It took a real change of locus to become sovereign over my own life, my own choices, and to learn what it is that I would want for myself whether anyone else is around or not!
This can start by simply allowing yourself to meditate on what it is that you DO want for your life. Not everyone’s values are the same, so there is no right or wrong answer, only YOUR answer. I just know that living in substandard, impoverished or stressful financial conditions, being unhealthy and sedentary, and not having an exciting plan for your life is a condition that will make recovery and transformation close to impossible. You can only do the best you can today without unnecessary pressure or expectation. Just start by coming up with a plan for the immediate future and exert your will to make shit happen for yourself! I mean it. It’s crucial.
You can do all of the internal work in the world to process your emotions, try to let go of anger and process your grief. You are worthy of love and respect today as you are, because you a human being with a good heart who has been treated terribly and victimized by evil behavior from someone else. But if your life objectively sucks, then I wouldn’t expect to feel better anytime soon.
Your sense of confidence, self-worth, and ability to create new successes, new relationships, new memories, and a new life that has nothing to do with your past cannot develop if you are staying stuck in a bad living situation. Be realistic and compassionate with yourself, and allow the time necessary to see some progress, but do get moving.
The Good News!
As hard as it is doing the internal work of grief, acceptance, processing anger, unwinding your own codependent patterns and family history, the good news is that you don’t need to have ‘finished’ those before you start going into the outside world and making positive changes for yourself.
You can look at your external work as a nice break from all of those heavy, sad emotions. Realize that a lot of that anger and heartbreak and sadness will sort itself out when your external life situation improves to a degree that you are now objectively BETTER OFF than you were during the relationship. The real key to healing and transformation is this combination of internal growth and external measurable success. They feed off each other in positive-reinforcement. All the little successes you pile up day-by-day start building your confidence back up, you sense of pride in work well done, your sense of worth and optimism about the future- all of it develops when you can see evidence of improvement.
So if you are finding it slow going and frustrating on the emotional front, if you’re having more trouble letting go of that person or that relationship than you expected, I know it sucks and it can improve with time and dedication to healing. But you really have nothing to lose by STILL choosing to better the other parts of your life right? How would it make it worse if you made more money so that your financial stress disappeared? How would it make it worse if you set some real world goals with your career, work, or passion projects that would improve your life and achieved them? How would it make it worse if you jumped into a disciplined fitness program of your choosing and got in the best shape of your life in the next year? I think you get my drift. If things are really sucking in your life, the best part of that is that you have not much to lose by saying FUCK IT! and just going for it in other areas.
Bottom Line
This does NOT mean that one should neglect the inner spiritual, emotional, and maturation work. Money, success, and the external trappings of life do not bring happiness on their own. But they DO matter greatly, so we need to not lie about that or become too ethereal about all of this. I’m arguing for a healthy balance that gives attention to the outer reality of your life so that you don’t get lost in never-ending therapy, an old tired story from the past, and overindulging in victimhood.
When you find a good balance between doing the internal therapeutic work and the external outer world success, you have the magic formula for transforming your life. This will help you become a new version of yourself more aligned with your inner truth, your values, your talents and gifts, so that you become someone who knows how to stand up for yourself and take action in pursuit of positive outcomes.
Letting go of anger is one of the most challenging parts I’ve found people have with the healing process. They can completely get over caring about the person, see the cold hard truth, and cut them off completely. But the anger and resentment really does burn people up inside, even years afterward, if they haven’t moved the needle on their own life. It is amazing how making your life better and succeeding in areas you used to fail in can make your anger seem unnecessary and irrelevant. Why? Because now you are stronger. You’ve built something admirable and successful for yourself and you don’t need anyone’s approval but your own and the support of those who truly care about you.
When you can sit back one day in the not-too-distant future and honestly say, ”By all measures, my life is leaps and bounds better today than it was back then,” you can tell me at that point how you are feeling emotionally and how much trouble you’re having moving forward.
Note: Just as people get themselves professional help for mental health/emotional issues, it can very wise to find a qualified person who can help you get going with your practical life issues if that is an area where you have struggled to pull it together. There are also tons of free information out there about this, so you can do your own research and find some good strategies.
2024.05.13 22:31 No-Seaworthiness9006 Did my father fail me?
This one’s from the child’s perspective. I don’t really know how to start it so I’ll just go from the heart.
I (18M) am a child of divorce. I only figured out the true reason for the divorce about last year and it hurts for me to say. My father (46) used my mother’s (42) inheritance on really stupid purchases, and gambling. The funds now would have been somewhere between 2-5 million which was going to be used to put me and my two sisters through college and help my mom retire early. We had also figured out he had multiple affairs while being married to my mother along with a wife before my mom that she didn’t know about.
There’s a much larger amount of stuff that’s came out with this such as him having a criminal record. Being a poker “world champion” even though he was losing horrible amounts of my moms money I believe at one point he lost over 100k+ in a night. My mother admits she made the stupid decision giving him access so he could “manage the funds”
We learned all of this because he ended up cheating on my stepmother with another co worker, and she for some reason forgave him.
Now cutting to the modern day, he hardly helps my mother with anything. He sends her $1500 a month in child support which as we know 15k a year is not nearly enough to help three kids and he sometimes splits medical.
He makes money in the high six figures he just temporarily left his high paying job in so that he could claim he made a lot left in court this was back in 2020.
He is a former alcoholic, he only stopped after getting caught having an affair on my stepmother in 2023, now he’s a stoner. He’s abused several drugs in the past.
He hardly helps with my older sisters college and now that I’m going to a fairly nice school I’m scared that I’m going to have to take out private loans as we know is a bad idea, but this is a very good opportunity for me.
Just today he cancelled a credit card he gave to my sister because she spent money on food, and he claimed I send your mom 1500 a month that should be plenty.
My mom is amazing and does everything she can to support us, which is impeding on her retirement it’s caused me to start working longer hours so I can atleast support myself. During the court case he tried to manipulate my step mom into believing that my mother was evil because they didn’t know eachother too well at that point.
What should I do in the future? How does one even deal with this? It’s quite literally killing my mental health and I’m just scraping the surface.
Edit: He holds clear favoritism to my step siblings there is not a single picture of us in that house but pictures of the step sisters all over. Might not be a tell tale sign but I feel that is might give sort of the idea of the aspects.
It’s only because he wants to impress my stepmother, he always volunteers to take them to their sporting events, as soon as I had my debut bodybuilding show he said he couldn’t make it because of a softball practice. He went to my show for the first 15 minutes I’ll give him credit there.
I would give him props for the stepsisters the only thing is that they have a prominent father figure in their life already, who they like a lot more than they like my own dad. He probably spends double each year on them who he has known for maybe 6 years as opposed to us.
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I (18M) am a child of divorce. I only figured out the true reason for the divorce about last year and it hurts for me to say. My father (46) used my mother’s (42) inheritance on really stupid purchases, and gambling. The funds now would have been somewhere between 2-5 million which was going to be used to put me and my two sisters through college and help my mom retire early. We had also figured out he had multiple affairs while being married to my mother along with a wife before my mom that she didn’t know about.
There’s a much larger amount of stuff that’s came out with this such as him having a criminal record. Being a poker “world champion” even though he was losing horrible amounts of my moms money I believe at one point he lost over 100k+ in a night. My mother admits she made the stupid decision giving him access so he could “manage the funds”
We learned all of this because he ended up cheating on my stepmother with another co worker, and she for some reason forgave him.
Now cutting to the modern day, he hardly helps my mother with anything. He sends her $1500 a month in child support which as we know 15k a year is not nearly enough to help three kids and he sometimes splits medical.
He makes money in the high six figures he just temporarily left his high paying job in so that he could claim he made a lot left in court this was back in 2020.
He is a former alcoholic, he only stopped after getting caught having an affair on my stepmother in 2023, now he’s a stoner. He’s abused several drugs in the past.
He hardly helps with my older sisters college and now that I’m going to a fairly nice school I’m scared that I’m going to have to take out private loans as we know is a bad idea, but this is a very good opportunity for me.
Just today he cancelled a credit card he gave to my sister because she spent money on food, and he claimed I send your mom 1500 a month that should be plenty.
My mom is amazing and does everything she can to support us, which is impeding on her retirement it’s caused me to start working longer hours so I can atleast support myself. During the court case he tried to manipulate my step mom into believing that my mother was evil because they didn’t know eachother too well at that point.
What should I do in the future? How does one even deal with this? It’s quite literally killing my mental health and I’m just scraping the surface.
Edit: He holds clear favoritism to my step siblings there is not a single picture of us in that house but pictures of the step sisters all over. Might not be a tell tale sign but I feel that is might give sort of the idea of the aspects.
It’s only because he wants to impress my stepmother, he always volunteers to take them to their sporting events, as soon as I had my debut bodybuilding show he said he couldn’t make it because of a softball practice. He went to my show for the first 15 minutes I’ll give him credit there.
I would give him props for the stepsisters the only thing is that they have a prominent father figure in their life already, who they like a lot more than they like my own dad. He probably spends double each year on them who he has known for maybe 6 years as opposed to us.