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TLDR - I should have stayed home and now every dude is gonna say "this is why you can't trust girls" 🤦🏼‍♀️ & I probably read too far into this lol
My bf (he's 30) and I (26) have the same group of friends. My bf and I have been together for 4 years & one of his other friends has been in a committed relationship with my friend Angelina, but the rest of our friend group couples are less committed and more on and off dating. (I am the youngest of our friends and the rest are 26-31)
Well first off, these other girls can be sort of "wild" & not in a sexy way that our bf's appreciate, so generally me and Angelina just hang out with the boys while the other gf's go out because they usually stay out pretty late & idk we love our bf's.
Last weekend my one friend was out of town and the boys were going golfing and they just drink beer and it's boring w/out my one friend so I just told my bf I was going to go with the girls to dinner and then there was some trivia thing at the place we were eating so the boys just dropped us off and said they would come back to get us at 12 once it was over.
Well things went not as planned and I definitely wish I just stayed back. After dinner they were bored of the Trivia so they wanted to walk to this other arcade thing but it does have a bar in it, it was just still only like 8pm and I thought we were just walking back so I didn't text my bf. Well fast forward one of the girls had my phone because she said she was going to text her bf who was the one driving to come get us so I let her but then she started saying we're getting a ride home with this person who then actually took us to this party. She drained my phone texting some other guy so it was dead. So as soon as this dude takes us to his friends house and the other girls were trashed (I wasn't drinking) I found a phone charger at this random house and called my bf and he told me to share my location. Which all the girls were pissed at me for because they weren't ready to leave. Well then they go with all these other people (mostly dudes) and they leave so I just stayed and waited on my bf to come, which our bf's were obviously already all pissed and then had to drive around trying to figure out where the girls went. My bf was just moody af and annoyed but the other ones were pissed & mad at me asking like where tf they went or if they went off with dudes etc my bf asked me if the dudes were just hitting on us and I said not really just like drunk and I mean idk I just didn't like all the tension so I didn't mention that one of the girls was texting some guy on my phone.
Well now this dude starts texting me yesterday asking what I'm doing this weekend so I just said that he's trying to text the other girl not me. And this dude has called like idk 20x and is texting me telling me to tell the other girls to hang etc and then he starts like hitting on me saying I missed out on fun with them last weekend 🤦🏼‍♀️ so I just blocked him. I didn't delete the messages and I can't decide if I need to tell my bf that the one girl was actually texting some dude on my phone, he definitely would tell his friend & the girl might hate me but I'm not as worried about that as much as my bf being mad some dudes texting me & that I lied about not knowing last weekend that she was on my phone etc. He was just already pretty irritated I was somehow in the situation but he was pretty forgiving and I already got fucked super hard for it lol I'm sore and not looking to start anymore fights even if the sex was type 2 fun (it was rough lol), it was also because I pissed him off and disappointed him but he knows those girls are trouble. Anyways, do you think it is in the past and I could just let it go or do you think I need to bring up that the guy was texting me, which I'll then have to bring up that he only had my number from texting her on my phone which then will lead to me showing him the texts which then will lead to him reading that one dude telling the girl using my phone how sexy she was and all her friends & other horrible things, like one of his texts to her last weekend he told her his friend likes MY ass/needs pussy🙈 ah oh no. I didn't read the texts until today when this dude texted me now, but that was why I just waited for my bf last weekend - the dudes were a lil too eagethirsty at that party. You can tell it's my friend texting because she texted the dude that it was her. But I still feel really bad about it all and ya I just don't want this fight now, my bf isn't controlling but he'd not be too happy about the things the guy was saying about me or like the wording was a bit much. If the dude had texted that girl like "oh your friend is cute" ya my bf would be like "you are" but if he sees its more like "is her pussy tight...would she ride it with u" 😬😳 he's probably gonna b like "this jdjrjdakwnd cocksucker needs his ass whooped god damn skajcbeiwisb" and I do not want that at all soooo do I not say more? Oh & when that guy texted me I told him I have a bf, but when I texted that he said "ya I have a goldfish" back 🤔 and then kept calling, so like I said I blocked him but my bf would probably say the dude is asking for shit.
I did apologize to my bf & took responsibility after it all last weekend. I've never cheated and I would never support it or anything so I don't want it to seem like I'm helping her hide it or I was hiding that they were hitting on me because I really was outside vaping most of the time and Idk why I lied other than i was overwhelmed by the situation and mad bfs everywhere idk but I should have just told him and let him be mad last weekend so I'm not here stuck now.
My bf won't think I cheated or anything, he knows no one else gets me in the bedroom & we have trust, which is why I care so much about not compromising that.

This is probably going to be a long post but there's a lot of backstory.
My partner (39m) (we're going to call him J) and I (38f) have been together for 12 years. We have 1 kid together and we are step parents to each other's kids from former relationships.
Things have been rocky from the very beginning. I got pregnant after only being together about a year. I thought things were great, but when I was 7 months along I went out of town to visit my grandmother and he cheated on me within hours of me leaving. I found out right away when I got home (being empathic is rough) and confronted him. He lied and it took me a few days to find the proof. Once I did he was super apologetic and because I was pregnant I made the worst decision of my life... I stayed. Doing so threw me into a depression so bad that I spent the next few years having to fight off suicidal thoughts and horribly low self esteem. I also developed severe anxiety as a result and had a difficult birth because of the stress.
Fast forward a few years. I've been struggling with my mental health and it's gotten so bad that it's affecting my physical health as well. I developed fibromyalgia and my immune system started attacking my body (mostly connective tissue like tendons) and made moving extremely painful. At this point, our daughter was old enough that I could start working again, so I tried to have a job. I couldn't hold one more that a few months before I had to leave because of my health. I usually needed a few months to overcome the results of the last attempt before I tried to work again, but I kept trying.
While this was going on I was having problems finding a doctor who would listen to me about my medication not being effective. I kept getting told to "give it 6 more months"... for 6 years... And I'm a very non confrontational person, so I just said okay. J was working this whole time and paying for everything while I took care of the house as best as I could. He kept reassuring me that it was okay that I wasn't stable and that he would take care of us until I was able to help.
Finally, I found a doctor who listened and I got on meds that really helped me. I'm a happy, productive, hopeful human being again! I've had a job for about 8 months (which I started right after the med change) and I have completed a college course and now have a veterinary assistant certification. I'm going on to get my full vet tech degree next.
During the period that I was changing meds, J was getting a hernia repaired and they found a small tumor on his kidney. It turned out to be cancerous but they found it very early and were able to remove the whole thing. No chemo, no big surgeries, just a day surgery and then scans every 6 months. I stood by him every step of the way, even when he was yelling at me for crying about it ("I'm the one with cancer, why are you crying?").
After he got the all clear, he started acting strange. Being distant, keeping his phone closer to him that usual, being super irritable, etc. Finally, he blew up and said that he didn't love me, hadn't loved me in years, had been looking at other women, and wanted me and the kids to leave. I told him that I thought he was having a trauma reaction and that we needed to talk about it more and try and work it out. He agreed and proceeded to not do anything different at all for the next 6 months. Occasionally he would want to have sex and so he would be nice that day and say that we were going to work on it but then the next day he would flip his switch again and it would be right back to I want you gone. After a few times of getting my heart jerked around this way I made the decision that I didn't want to try anymore. My heart is so broken that there's nothing to salvage. So I told him that I'm leaving. Naturally, as soon as I do this he starts backtracking and saying that he's sorry that he wasn't trying and that he'll do better. At this point I don't want his effort anymore. I tried very hard for 6 months while I was in college, taking care of two kids, and during which time I lost my dad to cancer. J didn't show any effort whatsoever unless he wanted something and anytime I mentioned that I wasn't seeing any effort from him all I got back was hostility.
Because of our living situation and finances we are stuck in the same house still. I will be leaving in a few weeks to move in with my mom, but that is 7 hours away from me so it requires some financial planning. While we are still living together we have agreed to stay civil and continue to co-parent together. I thought that the situation was working okay until I started talking to someone, as a friend, and J started getting jealous. There's nothing going on between me and this guy. He lives in the town that I'm moving to. He's literally 7 hours away from me. There is no way for anything to happen, and even if there was J didn't want me. He pushed me away, I didn't leave him. But I am a very soft-hearted person and I'm wondering if maybe I'm actually the a**hole of the situation. Please advise...

TLDR: Im scared to make the jump of ending things. I love him but I don’t think I’m in love with him anymore. Im scared it’s the wrong decision. Im scared to start over. Im worried financially. Im worried about our pets.
If you can do math I’m sure you can see that my boyfriend and I started dating pretty young, if anything I’d say he is my first love. I thought he was my true love. Backstory: We moved in together after about 7mo of dating (with roommates) then a few months later just the two of us. Things were great, we were working on our careers and got two dogs. It felt like we had a little family and happy life. Fast forward three years: we go on a trip with his family. His dad flips his shit on us about finances in an airport but is primarily yelling at me because my partner was being submissive and not questioning or trying to discuss this with his dad. His dad also brought our relationship into his yelling, saying things like I don’t make my BF happy, he doesn’t support our relationship. It was really shocking and “random” for me to see this display. It honestly sent me into a depression to be broken down like that publicly, with no warning, by my boyfriend’s dad and him not even sticking up for me or our relationship. My bf telling me the entire trip home and at home that that’s how his dad is, that he’s sorry, and he doesn’t know why his dad said those things. That he’s happy with me. Three months later I catch him texting other girls talking about meeting up. I already had a girls trip planned coming up and told him I needed time to sort through all of this given that I feel like I was dealt blow after blow. I came back from the trip and we talked about it more, I asked numerous times if there’s something I’m not doing right or if I do truly make him unhappy. He denies, says that he doesn’t know why he reached out to other women and that it was a stupid mistake that will never happen again. Of course for awhile I was on edge and wary but I loved him and wanted to make this work. A few more months later I was trying to find a tattoo artist he follows and showed me on instagram. But instead I found him following a lot of explicit female pages. I told him that this made me uncomfortable especially given our recent issues and set a boundary to not continue following/looking at these women. For the past year I feel as though things have been good and my trust is back for him. Here’s the but: 1) I don’t feel like I enjoy his conversation anymore or it’s gotten less. I feel like I have to initiate every conversation, find things to talk about. 2) I feel like I almost have to mom him or be his parent. Having to help him file his taxes, figure out his car insurance, his doctors appointments, cleaning etc. 3) He’s not romantic. We’ve had numerous conversations about how I want to surprise occasionally, I want him to do something romantic for me. I’ve quite literally almost begged him to. He always says he’ll try harder and he’s sorry. I know everyone has different love languages giving and receiving but I feel as though we’ve both communicated ours and it’s feeling one sided. Some anniversaries or valentines we took it easy and just did a cute dinner together. Some I planned trips for us. One year I did a surprise beach trip. For our 5yr anniversary I did a spa resort since neither of us had gone and well it’s our big 5 year anniversary! I don’t want to degrade him and say he’s never done anything for me but I just don’t feel like we’re on the same level. We just got back from a week long trip to the PNW we’ve been wanting to do for years. He didn’t put any effort into planning so I made the entire itinerary including finding where to eat at during the trip. I feel like this trip really snapped for me. Our 6yr anniversary is next month and I almost want to just not bother and see what he does, if anything. I know I shouldn’t expect things but I thought he was going to propose during our 5yr anniversary because he occasionally would ask what kind of wedding rings I liked. When he didn’t, I thought maybe he was waiting for a romantic trip like the PNW since we always talk about where we would and wouldn’t want to be proposed at. He didn’t. I know it sound silly to expect a ring when I’m sitting here questioning staying with him. Because I’m usually a logically person and clearly a planner and mentally made a pros and cons list.. and the reasons I kept coming back to for not leaving him is 1) we have long history together 2) I love him and I don’t want to hurt him 3) the stress of having to decide moving out and furniture 4) we have two dogs together 5) financially 6) I’m scared to start over.

When I was first diagnosed, I completely changed my diet, how I ate, read every ingredient on every shelf. It would take hours to grocery shop because very few things were "certified GF" back then, so it was Google and Guessing. I felt better immediately but I was always itchy or had random rashes, terrible dandruff/dry scalp. Fast forward a few months. I forgot my phone downstairs so had to read shampoo bottles like it was 1994 and noticed "wheat protein" in nearly every bath product that I was using. I felt SO stupid for not ever thinking of gluten ON my body. It was even in the Johnson's Baby Shampoo. My kids bought me a Lush care package for mother's day and it says "Vegan" but not GF. I'm a little apprehensive because I get these horrible tiny, itchy pimple-like blisters that take weeks to clear up, when I gluten my skin. Does anyone else get horrible skin reactions? (I have really fair and sensitive skin to begin with)

I put this under AITA because i dont really know what to put it under. So i had three best friends, lets call them Regina (my aunt), Gretchen (ex best friend), and Karen(childhood ex bestie). They all had known each other and were decent with one another which was great, we started to hang out together and talk on the phone together, finally felt like i had a girl friend group. December rolls around and me and my fiance wanted to go to see Bert Kriesher, it was already planned out, tickets bought, etc. I was so excited to go i told everybody about it in the beginning of November. Well about two weeks after I told everybody about it i find out the Regina is having “Friendsgiving” and has invited all of the girls. It happens to be on the same night we are going to see Bert, that is completely fine with me, i told them that we can’t make it and we can do something before Christmas (early Christmas) if they would like. All said yes and everything was good, we did early Christmas with Regina and Gretchen lived two hours away so it was hard to connect. Fast forward to early Christmas with Karen a week later and she was acting kinda weird during the entire time, was responding with short responses, wasnt really all the chatty and i just thought she was having a tough day. Asked her what was wrong she said nothing. Well two days later i get a message from Karens Fiancé saying that the people who i think are my friends arent my friends, curious i asked what he meant and he responded with i have screenshots and sends me almost a whole album of screenshots of all three of them talking shit in a group chat named Shit talk and then changed it to Grinch Talk, about me and my relationship, my recovery, how i parent, how i look, my health and more, but what really pissed me off the most is they decided to add my son(2yo) into it, so after receiving the screenshots i decided to make a group chat on snapchat and called it why are you talking shit, no-one responded to the group chat and messaged me individually. Karen called me crying saying the did it because they were concerned about me. Regina texted me saying i was making all of my health issues up and i just wanted attention when i in fact have medical records to prove otherwise (i have POTS, Seizures, stomach issues, and more). And Gretchen blamed it on karen and Regina saying she just wanted best for me. I blocked all of them on snap which Karen took personal and blocked me on everything after getting mad at me for blocking her on snap because i needed a break from seeing them all over my social media. Afterwards i cut Regina and Gretchen off and have completely cut them out of mine and my childs life. Some part of my feel guilty for my son because he was besties with Karens son, but i choose our peace over that drama anyday. Rant over✌🏼

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Super long post so grab your tea and settle in.
I, (50f) have two kids; daughter (19) and son (18). My daughter has always been difficult. She would blame her brother for things she did, fight with him endlessly, lied continuously to me, stole from family and stores and was a hard teen to raise. She began seeing a boy (21m) 3 years ago and honestly I didn’t care for him from the start. He was rude, intitled, zero respect and already had quite the legal record.
My daughter ended up pregnant by him about 1 month into their relationship she was 16 he was 18. They lied to me and told me he was 16. They also lied about the pregnancy. She really didn’t get a pregnant belly and anytime I mentioned she was gaining some weight and could she possibly be pregnant she would accuse me of fat shaming her and being rude just for asking. Fast forward a few months and she said she was staying at her best friends for the weekend. Her friends mom even backed this story and lied to me saying, yes she is with us. When in fact she was at boyfriends recently acquired apartment ( I had no idea about and was told he lived with his grandparents). She went into labor that weekend, I still had no idea she was pregnant. When she finally called to say she was at the hospital and had a baby she insisted she had no idea she was pregnant and it was a suprise to all of them. I didn’t really buy that but didn’t argue, none of it mattered. She had a new baby and baby needed taken care of. With her story of not knowing I immediately went shopping. Bought everything you would need for a new baby. She let me know she was moving in with BF and would be raising the baby with him. When I dropped off the baby gear (literally an F250 truck load) to the apartment I notice quite a few items were already in place for a new baby, and realized they knew and had already gotten some stuff. None of that really mattered to me, I was a grandmother now and the how’s and why’s weren’t changeable so I just moved on. I tried really hard to accept her BF and invited him into our little family. He was always rude making snide comments about my son and their father. Father took his life a month before baby was born, whole other story. He would say how much better he was and would never leave his family, just a little turd. He wouldn’t let her visit without him. I couldn’t even talk to her on the phone without him listening and answering for her. He seemed extremely controlling and jealous of any relationship she had, even with her brother and I.
This kid could never hold a job for more than a month, sat around playing video games, didn’t help with baby, didn’t clean or cook. Just a waste of space, smoking weed and doing nothing. I tried not to say anything but the look on my face was telling whenever she would talk about him to me. They eventually got behind and lost their apartment and refused to move in with me because I wouldn’t allow him to stay, just her and the baby.
They were living in their cars and couch surfing. She had very little contact with me durning this time. At one point a friend of theirs called me to tell me BF was being abusive and I drove to where they were living to see if she would come home with me and leave an abusive relationship. She refused, actually became very angry I would even butt in to their relationship like that. I honestly just wanted my babygirl, my first born safe and not hurt. A little time goes by and eventually she reached out and I help her get into an apartment, he wasn’t on the lease. A couple months go by she tells me she is 5 months with number two. I am less than thrilled but it is what it is and I am just happy she is in an apartment.
Then, I get a phone call. She was just taken to the hospital because BF hit her in her pregnant belly and baby wasn’t moving. (Baby is fine).
Cops were called he is taken to jail. There was apparently an incident before this where he gave her a black eye. The police were called then but he ran and they didn’t find him but there was still a report filed. I was never told of the black eye story till later.
The time he is in jail (3 months), she is at my house daily. I am helping her with the baby and her pregnancy. I go to doctors appointments was even in her labor room. Things were actually good between us and her and her brother were getting along great. Brother is an amazing uncle and loves his niece to death. Buys her anything she wants and they are so close. She tells me she is done with BF, has a restraining order. Is moving forward and sees how in 3 short months her life is actually improving.
But sure enough as soon as he is released (2 felony charges) she takes him right back. She lies to me saying she won’t and isn’t but I don’t believe her at all. So I drive to her place and he is there. She screams at me to mind my own business and if she wants him it’s not up to me. Again I have been there everyday with both baby’s. Helping her and getting a chance to know my grandkids. At this point am very attached to my little angels and extremely frightened for her safety . She tells me, If I can’t get over the fact she will be with BF, then she never wants to see me again. I’m crushed but at the same time I am done. Done with all the lies, done with being told I can’t see the kids. With baby number one I have gotten to see her just a handful of times until the three months BF was in jail. Done with being treated like crap from my daughter. I feel like she was just using me while he was in jail. So I say fine.
That was in march. I haven’t spoken to her since. She hasn’t reached out at all and even changed her number. I feel guilt because I didn’t really fight the no contact. I mean I miss the babies something horrible but I am so done with lies. But I also feel guilty because what if he is still hurting her. A couple of her friends let me know how she and the kids are doing. And now that she isn’t pregnant I know she could kick his butt in a fight. I feel like I have abandoned her but she is the one who said no contact.
I’m I wrong for wanting no contact as a parent?

last night my SM told me (former ASM) to prepare three deposits - one which was mine which hadn’t been sealed, another belonging to a different employee which hadn’t been entered for deposit, and mine for the night.
however, she told me to prepare the second deposit (belonging to another employee) under that employee’s name and to use the same bank bag/bank bag numbers that aforementioned employee used. i didn’t feel like that was right, so i called the DM to tell her. the DM said that no, i shouldn’t do that because it’s fraudulent financial documentation.
so today, 15 minutes before my shift was scheduled to start, my SM started sending me verbally abusive texts asking why i reported her to the DM. i knew she would retaliate, but now she was blowing my phone up with a slew of cruel messages. that was my breaking point. i didn’t respond, i blocked her number, and tied duct tape around my keys with “I QUIT” written on them, and had them dropped off.
i forwarded the abusive messages to the DM and told her that i quit.
it had been months of tolerating my SM’s abuse for the (frankly not even worth the hassle) paycheck. her retaliation was the last straw.
i’m sad that i’ll be leaving my regulars and my favorite customers, but if i don’t save myself from the shitshow, nobody else will.
if you’re looking for a sign to quit, this is it. leave that fuck ass job.

(Burner account) Before I start I wanna say that this is a long one and I’m not the best at writing how I feel so sorry if this sounds all confusing now for some context I (f) have this ex let’s call Liam. Me and Liam dated for a few months and back in December he broke up with me because I had been down that week. Around the holidays I always tend to get sad because that’s around the time when I lost my grand pap, childhood cat and my long time best friend. Also during that week my mother was in the hospital for a brain problem. Me and Liam had an amazing relationship he was my first kiss first love first everything , we hung out all the time my family loved him and his family loved me, we were planning on going to his moms family Christmas party. I was begging him for around an hour but to no avail. Now a few hours after that I was laying on the floor falling alseep in my best friends arms when she told me he was texting her and told me to check my phone. When I checked my phone I saw him texting me how regretted everything and how sorry he was and how we needed me so the next morning we got back together. THEN the day after that we dumped me again AFTER I found out the day we broke up he liked this girl let’s call Paige. Then that Monday we came to school and he was telling everyone how sad he is but that’s whatever now this was the week of Christmas break and we were doing fun things all week so one day I’m in a study hall while everyone is watching a movie and I get an email from him saying how he’s sorry and how I’m so prefect and he wants one more chance. And me being the desperate girl I am take him back. The day after he dumps me again. Now back to my point it’s now may and I thought I was over him but today something happened and I miss him. I miss our long calls, our hang outs , sitting together at lunch, our cute little side jokes , making each other things and just him in general. When we broke up I started SHing and I was just depressed. I tried dated but nobody was like him. How do I tell him I miss him anything will help but I’m just scared that if he doesn’t want me back that he’ll make my life even more miserable. I’m so stubborn and pride heavy so that’s why I’m coming to Reddit please someone help me thank you for reading I’ll update if anything happened

Hi Folx!
I'm in the midst of a career change (elementary education for 10 years) and I'm trying to figure out the etiquette for the interview process. I had a phone screening interview 12 days ago for an instructor position with an aquarium. During the call, the recruiter said that, based on my resume, she was calling to tell me that I'm moving on to the next round. I was super excited! I responded to the email I got from the system to schedule the screening interview asking if they need any additional information from me to move things forward. That was 7 days ago. Still haven't heard anything. Would it be bad form to send the recruiter a message on LinkedIn re-affirming my interest? I definitely don't want to come off as creepy or over-eager but I do want to express my enthusiasm for the position. Help?

TLDR uBPD Mum wrote her twin daughters a birthday poem but sent it twelve days late, full of innacuracies and with a request to visit one of them. The request is for a fictional exhibition in a specific date range. She forwarded her original message to the other twin without to editing out the visit request or making an attempt to cover the fact it was written for the first twin and sent to the other as an after thought.
Context A birthday poem sent to me an hour after it was sent to my twin sister. It was also 12 days after our actual birthday, neither of us heard from uBPD mum on the day (I've asked her not to contact me but she thinks that my sister & I are 1 entity so even though my sister is still in contact with her, mum treats her like she is not). My sister (Twin1) trained in fine art in the city she now works in. She is not currently making art so has no idea what exhibition uBPD mum refers to in the poem. I have marked lies/inaccuracies with an * I've asterisked the line about being a proud mum and gran because if she was so proud, why does she make no mention of wanting to see her 2 grand sons on this trip to the city to see my sister at her exhibition? She hasn't seen her grandsons in at least a year despite visiting near by their city in our small country twice last year. She didn't even tell my sister she was in the area until my sister phoned to wish uBPD mum happy birthday on her birthday February this year.
Poem
Twin1 and Twin2 38 today * That's just not possible no way Where has the time gone Times flies sadly that's so true Doesn't seem that long ago when Myself and Twin2 went to the zoo.
You were and are my sunshine of Hometown on Gala My beautiful twin daughters living in bonnie Hometown Bay A prouder mum I could not be how you both excelled and now you both have your own family You get to experience the love and joy like I had and still have as I reflect on my wonderful family tree When you hurried home excitedly to show all the things you had lovingly made for me
You were always caring and sharing Even at such a young age so helpful too. Remember girls I was on the phone to uBPD Gran When you flushed Twin2 nappy down the loo I was panic stricken and mortified when the neighbour below said it had flooded her too.
I loved my plants* .it was a not easy to maintain with two Mischieves monkeys who tipped them upside down . It was funny but I also did frown Before you knew it we were back to laughing and getting along Happy again and full of song
Love shack was your favourite tune I loved that song too you could sing it to the moon Love shack baby love shack Oh to hear you sing that song would bring It all right back
The time we all got such a fright Twin 1 When you accidentally bumped into a light Well lamp post * Out of the three of us who was startled the most?
You were fine ,you got a war wound scar Was it the left or right side I can't remember I think it was your right eye It was so long ago at the time you were very shy
Twin 2 walked into a gate * I was dumstruck only seconds too late* You got a scar on your eyes too By then I was beside myself and did not know what to do !
Almost in the space of a year You each have a scar by your eye Which side they are on your eye is unclear Now you parents yourself you know what I mean How quickly things can happen Even when your close by to the scene
Bless the wee lady above is in Hometown She used to shout girls you whoo seconds later it was raining milkyways all over you I could only chuckle when I realised I too Along with uBPD dister we went to our neighbour for our daily rations of sweeties too * And to this day I believe my mum never knew.
Remember when you got up early and Oh my you got hold of the butter I think I was in a flutter Butter in the rods of the Wendy house it was everywhere If I recall righghtly it was in your hair.
You used to trick people switching places * Sometimes you did trip up on your laces You tried to fool me but that was not so easy * However tricking your pals and strangers was easy peasy.*
The things you have done this uBPD Mum and gran could not be more proud of you You won a camera for your ambulance picture Twin2 you designed the school logo in highschool too Is there no end to your talents You both excelled and followed your career Which I never regretted not being able to As th minute I knew I was expecting I always prioritised you* and am a proud mum of twins with 5 wonderful grandchildren too*
The trips we went to beech and picnics with aunt The endless pictures are wonderful memories of happy times with you I still have her special multi coloured umbrella Where we often seemed shelter under it too
So many more memories this is some of them I just want to ask you Twin 1 can I come with my friend M or F and see your exhibition* city between 23 rd and 29 th Sept I love seeing all that you can do and have done
Your pictures in the cafe The story about wellies and where they travelled from faraway I believe it was Canada And you made a wellington cast Now it's a focal point for tourists and everyone to see.*
I often look at the screen you both made me made before I moved country All the gifts over the years cards and mementos each one speaks words to me When you gave me the picture and chair for my birthday .
That incredible exhibition in the gallery when you made a clear curtain and even there there is a story
I understand if you say no don't come .I hope and pray one day we will all Be together again surrounded by my family.Until that joyous day comes remember I carry love in my heart for you all eternally❤️

Me and my wife have been married for 7 years. We’ve known each other for around 12 years. 2 kids. 5 and 6. I’ll be 30 in two days and she’s 26.
4 years ago, I had an affair. It was pretty rough but I Cut off all communication. Left the job I had where I was making great money. Left all of it to work on our marriage and go to counseling. The last few years have been tough. Emotionally, financially, mentally, etc.
Fast forward to present time.
About a month ago, I got a phone call from a family member who is a police officer. My wife wound up having 14 warrants for theft.
She had to turn herself in and I bailed her out the same day.
She’s currently waiting on her court date which is in July.
Around fall of last year, she came home from work and said that she needed to tell me something.
She warned me that I might hear a rumor about her and a coworker sleeping together at work. She told me that it wasn’t true and we spoke nothing of it again. She works thirds and during that time, she was working part time. Maybe 2–3 days a week.
A few months ago, maybe thanksgiving? We went on a lunch date. She opened up to me and told me that she did not sleep with him but had been hanging out in his vehicle on break times with him. She also said that he had sent her a D*** pic on Snapchat and that she never sent any nudes back. But she has snapped him in a low cut tank top.
I believed her. She cut off all communication with this guy and he no longer works there.
But with this new information about her stealing multiple times over the course of two months, part of me feels like she’s lied to me about the whole thing and that she did sleep with him.
I’ve known her for a long time and always found my wife attractive, easy to talk to, great to be around.
But her attitude has gotten pretty rough. She’s really vocal to the kids.
She only works maybe a week out of the month.
We homeschool.
And it seems that she has no motivation for anything. She constantly says she’s “just done with everything” and “defeated and wants to throw in the towel”. Not suicide wise. But just run away.
All of this has caused my love for her be very minimum.
The only reason that’s holding me back from divorce is my children. I’m in Alabama and it’s extremely difficult to win a custody battle.
I could make one phone call and be back in the line of work that I was in when I was making close to 100k a year.
I don’t want to do counseling again. It was a temporary solution. And deep down, when I had my affair, my kids were the motivation for going to counseling. I hate the idea of not seeing my children that often.
But I’m to the point to where I just want to run away. I hate my current job even though I work M-F and I’m home by 5:30. We’re a family of four and my wife only works when it’s needed.
She’s obviously going to be continuing to work since she’ll be paying a bunch of money due to her warrants.
But I’m just to the point to where I wish I could throw clothes in a suitcase, grab my essentials, and just go.
AITAH for feeling this way?
P.S. this is a burner account

My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years. Married now for going on one year. In the beginning of our relationship he was involved with a woman who flet it was necessary to tell me about his infidelity and her pregnancy. The pregnancy turned out to be false and he claims to have cut her off. Fast forward were married now and I checked him phone after he came in almost 3:30 in the morning. Found out that they are still very much talking and she had just sent him nudes the day before. I want to leave because I feel like after everything and all this time your still engaged with her I believe that that's where he heart is and that's who he loves. I want to step back and let them be together because she's never going away. Am I right or over reacting

I’ve been married to my wife for 6 years. We dated for a year and I knew her for about 2 years prior to that. Also this is a throwaway. My wife frequents this sub from time to time.
The other day my wife, 32, and I, 35, had a conversation about trust. We have two children together, pregnant with our 3rd, and I trust her to the moon and back. With my life. She told me that despite how long we’ve been together, and our kids, she doesn’t fully trust me, about 85%-90% she said. I was a little surprised by this answer.
A little background, I’ve never cheated on my wife. I’ve actually never cheated on anyone. Not when we were dating, not when we were married. I’ve never given her a reason to not trust me. She has my phone password, email password, basically all of my social media account passwords as well.
She told me she doesn’t trust me partially because we have disagreements here and there, as well as the fact that she had a very hard past, where previous partners had cheated on her.
I do feel the distrust between my wife and I. And I feel as though it has created somewhat of a strain on our marriage. and our kids.
For example, in the fall, about 2 years ago, my brother was celebrating his 37th birthday at a pub/restaurant near his home. We live in the UK, so the drive there isn’t that bad. He lives about an hour or so from me, so when he initially asked me to come to his birthday event, I told my wife and she agreed to watch our (at the time) 4 year old, so I could go to his birthday outing. She was pregnant at the time as well. As the date approached closer, my brother shared the location for the evening. It was at a pretty fancy pub, with music, dancing, a restaurant, good food, pool and overall fun time. He already made the reservations as well.
Last minute, my wife told me she didn’t feel comfortable with me going. She said at pubs, you put yourself in an environment where you can be unfaithful, and she’d rather go together when she wasn’t pregnant. But the thing is, I wasn’t going to get hammered, or totally wasted. I was driving there and back. I was going to celebrate my brother’s birthday.
We got in a big argument about it and I just ended up staying home. Thought it as a bit much but moved on. Had our second child.
Fast forward a bit,at this point we’ve been married for about 4 1/2 going on 5 years. I get a message on twitter from my ex. Apologizing for everything, and just saying have a good life. I don’t respond, I blocked the ex, told my wife, and my wife was furious. She snatched my phone from me and demanded to look. I told her I didn’t save the messages, and swiftly deleted it when I blocked her. She started screaming at me, asking why I even use twitter in the first place, (I use twitter to keep up with some celebs) because she doesn’t have one, and I should just delete it. I ended up deleting twitter after that.
We moved on from this. Now she’s pregnant again.
So what do you think? Why does my wife treat me this way when I’ve given her no reason to distrust me? After two kids, and pregnant with our 3rd, I’ve given her the world, and somehow she still doesn’t trust me.

Experts say that when you’re sexually or romantically attracted to someone, your pupils dilate. Oxytocin and dopamine, the “love hormones,” affect pupil size.
Like drugs do. I didn’t know this until I met her.
On our first date, we sat next to each other on wooden stools in a quiet corner of a popular bar in town. I ordered a Bee’s Knees. She ordered the same.
We turned and faced each other as we sipped and talked. Our legs were touching, and our faces were so close that I could feel her breath when she laughed. Within minutes of interacting, I noticed her smooth chocolate brown eyes turning black. I felt like I was getting sucked into a black hole of desire where there was no turning back.
Thirty minutes into the date, I excused myself to go to the bathroom. I needed to calm down. The electric surge of chemicals between us was just too intense. When I looked in the bathroom mirror, I noticed that my sparkly blue-green eyes had turned mostly black too. I started to fantasize that I was living in some vampire romance novel.
I took my phone out of my purse and googled, “Why are my and my date’s eyes black?” “Your eyes dilate when you’re in love with someone,” Google replied.
I felt instantly drunk. I walked out of the bathroom with butterflies in my stomach and sat back down on the stool, inches from her.
We locked eyes again, and I gently put my hand on her thigh. For the next two hours, we talked about everything and anything. I watched her lips stretch and bend when she smiled and laughed. I studied the curve of her jaw and the petiteness of her frame. I noticed the adorable cowlick that made her hair stick up.
I was giddy. It felt like no one else was at that bar. It was only us. The live music next door sounded muffled, like the band was playing underwater. Time and space no longer existed.
It’s been seven months since that night. And I was right. There was and is no turning back.
Until two weeks ago when everything went downhill. We had a trip planned to Paris where I thought to myself, this is it. This trip will set our love in stone and the rest will be history. She decided to uninvite me about 1 month before we were to leave. We slowly grew apart as I knew subconsciously that her mind was made up, that she was done trying to work through our issues.
She comes to pick up her things from my house a week before heading out for Paris. Everything hits me all at once. "Oh my god what have I done". I realized right then and there that I had made the greatest mistake of my life. That I had given up on fighting for the most wonderful girl that had ever walked my way.
I began obsessing, looking at her Instagram. Trying to piece things together and figure out where everything went wrong. I realize that her and her ex of 3 years started following each other again on Instagram. I look further, she's unarchived 100 photos with him. I begin to lose my mind.
I reach out to her, call her a cheater, only to push her away more. She begins to think I'm crazy. Fast forward to today, I see her and her ex in Paris together, enjoying the trip that we had planned.
In the span of 1 month, she went from loving me to being amicable with me to getting back with her ex and completely disposing of me. Lying about it. Never once saying sorry, but instead that “you’re not my issue anymore” and that I should check myself into a psych ward for even feeling hurt by everything. Telling me she never thought we were meant to be. I was a terrible boyfriend. I was her rebound. And my hate for myself grew even more.
I'll see them grow happy, get engaged, have children. I can see their future clearly.
And all my future holds is the despair I will continue to endure as I see their life unfold. I've dated enough women to know this will forever be the best girl that has ever given me a chance. I am sick to my stomach. She loved me so much and I let it slip away.
I’ll never forget when I first met her. It was as if my heart leaped out of my chest. We had an immediate connection. I remember coming back home to my friends in discord at the end of the night and saying to them, “This is the one”. I don’t know how things got away so fast. I was a soul just barely hanging on when I met her. She helped me through my addiction, she showed me what true love is, and I took her for granted.
I feel like a true psychopath now. But at least she made me feel less alone for a few good months.
I've grown tired of the struggle, of the rollercoaster, of the endless highs and lows, of waking up feeling good and then without warning being triggered back into suicidal despair. It's been a consistent cycle for so long that I see no reason to believe that it will suddenly change. I just can’t get her out of my head. And I don’t ever see a day that I will.
I've wavered back and forth about making this post, secretly hoping she will see it. I've decided to go ahead and do so because in a sense I’m thankful that she's helped me decide to finally end my miserable life.

Purple Guy MOVESET
Lightweight with 2 jumps (the jumps would just have afton raise elevation, no animation)
Gimmick
More so a visual thing but afton would be a 2d sprite like mr game and watch. Except for all of his moves where he is springtrap or a springtrap variant which would use a 3d model. The exception is spring bonnie which would stay 2d Also when he crouches he will turn into a 2d spring bonnie collapsed on the floor
Basic Attacks
Jab: Disassemble (Afton swing one arm forward before swinging the other)
Basic 2 hit Jab
(Aftons famous sprite)
Dash: Foxy Go Go (Afton dawns a foxy mask and jumps forward)
Pretty strong Damage
(Michael Scaring his brother and Withered Foxy Jump Scare)
Side Tilt: Run (Both his arms are put forward as he runs forward)
Does Good knockback but mid damage
(When he ran into the suit)
Up tilt: Fear (Afton punches his arm above him)
Does Great Knockback but no damage
(Running away from the spirits)
Down Tilt: Spirit (a spirit appears in front of afton)
Does minor damage but can cause a stun
(Spirts causing aftons springtrap)
Side Smash: Jumpscare (Afton turns into springtrap and walks forward)
Does A lot of damage and has a chance to stun
(Springtrap jumpscare fnaf 3)
Up Smash: Dark Trap (Afton Turns into spring trap as he leans back before leaning forward back to standing position)
Does Great Damage but really slow
(Dark Springtrap aka sister location springtrap cutscene)
Down Smash: Springtrapped (Afton freaks out in the suit (still 2d) )
Does Great Damage to both afton and the opponent. But also can bury
(Aftons death)
Aerials
Neutral Air: Activation (Spring bonnie extends all of their limbs)
Does Great Damage to afton and his foe. And also great knockback to the foe
(First thing to happen when Aftons springlocked)
F Air: World Slash(Afton smashes the below area)
Does Great damage and can spike.
(Fnaf world attack)
B Air: First Spring (As spring bonnie punches down behind him)
Does Great damage and can spike
(First spring bonnie appearance)
Up Air: Dark Return (Afton Turns into spring trap as he leans back before leaning forward back to standing position)
Does Great Damage but really slow
(Dark Springtrap aka sister location springtrap cutscene)
Down Air: Panic (Afton shakes the feet below him)
Hits great damage and can spike. Also has a chance to use the springtrap model which would just be visual
(When burntrap got kidnapped. And the panic animation shared between afton and CC)
Grabs
Grab: Shadow freddy appears the foe as both Hold the opponent up
(Loosely based on the events before the bite of 83 and the events in the follow me games)
Pummel: Same thing as his jab
F Throw: Shadow freddy walks forward where the opponent follows them before shadow freddy disappears and william runs up and punches the foe twice
(the events in the follow me games)
B Throw: Shadow freddy walks behind afton where the opponent follows them before shadow freddy disappears and william runs up and punches the foe twice
(the events in the follow me games)
Up Throw: Uppercut
(smash original)
Down Throw: Puts opponent in suit (doesn’t do any damage but when the throw is finished it causes the foe to still be wearing the suit for 15 seconds which while making them heavier also makes them incredibly slow and jumps go half as far)
Specials
Neutral Special: Ventilation
Springtrap enters a vent in the ground. Acts Like meta knights peek a boo with some minor differences. First after a random amount of time the opponent will become poisoned and lightweight. After all theres a thing in vents its harder to get clean air. After another amount of random time a random phantom animatronic will appear and stalk the opponent. If it hits the opponent they will become dizzy. Sounds broken right. Well while in the vents will also takes damage. And after a random amount of time will be bouted out at a random part of the stage with the dizzy effect. Could happen before or after a phantom spawns but will always happen after the light wight poison. So it’s a very risk and reward move how much damage do you wanna take, the opponent is light do i strike now or risk getting booted for the phantom. Also can only move horizontally and puts you in free fall if existed in the air
Side Special: Plushtrap
Plushtrap appears in front of Afton and chases the nearest foe. Only one plushtrap can be on screen per afton player at a time. When it manages to hit a foe it act like a stronger pikmin that will take 5 seconds to disappear where it takes no time to spawn another one. If After 30 seconds the plushtrap never hits someone it will naturally disappear where it takes 15 seconds to spawn another one. And it will freeze for 2 seconds if hit by a projectile. Finally it can’t fall off cliffs nor can it jump so it will never be in the air. unless spawned in the where it acts like a Pikmin spawned in the air. Also wouldn’t change anything mechanically but it has a 1/10 chance to summon a bunny from princess quest. Specifically the flying ones that appear in the beginning. And a 1/50 chance to summon vanny. Again changes nothing except visual
Up Special: Malware
Afton turns into springtrap as a tentacle comes out of his body. You can point to which direction you want the tentacle to appear. It acts as a basic tether recovery with one caveat. If it hits a foe they will have a 25% chance to become infected. When infected your directions reverse and out of every 16 attacks 1 of them will not go through and leave you vulnerable. You will be infected for sixteen second before you are cured. Now to balance it out if the attack is used and doesn’t connect to a stage or player there will be heavy end lag and will put you in free fall if used in the air. So always be careful when using this move
Down Special: Bite of 83
As Springtrap Will Bites Down. acts exactly like wario's neutral special.
Final Smash: Missing Character incident
A cinematic final smash. The smash starts with afton throwing a rainbow knife as a refrence to the move slasher in Fnaf World. Any one hit by the rainbow knife has a 1/10 chance to instantly lose stock. But if that one in ten chance fails they enter the cinematic. It shows the character at a birthday party before they’re lured away by a 3d model for spring bonnie.it then cuts to black before showing the character trapped in a golden freddy suit. Racking up tons of damage but no knockback. However if the opponents damage goes over 100% it is an instant stock loss
Cosmetics + Gimmicks
Every costume has both a different color for will and a different springtrap variant. And you can pick which springtrap variant you want with whatever afton you want. So you could have alt 3 afton with an alt 7 springtrap.
Costumes
Pure Purple - Springtrap
Pure Orange (Midnight Motorist) - Scraptrap
Pure Pink (Pink guy theory (no i don’t believe it just felt like it should be referenced) ) - Vanny
Pure Blue (Phone Guy) - Glitchtrap
Pure Red (Old man consequences) - Frost Springtrap (yes i know only plushtrap has a skin in special delivery but creative liberties)
Pure Yellow (Prize King And Sun) - Toxic Springtrap
Pure Bluish Grey (Moon) - Burntrap
Black body with white stripes and white face (Puppet) - Flaming Springtrap
Stage Entrance: Will comes in on a car like captain falcons
Taunts
Iconic Save Them Sprite
Eats pizza
Pose he takes in fruit maze
Victory Animations
Springtrap stands in the middle of a bunch of masks with a light in there eyes
The puppet lays on the floor as a car stands parked in the background
Nothing appears on screen before springtrap jumps the screen
(If you win the match with the final smash it show william dancing in the pizzeria)

This is a long one and I’m sorry! My (24f) boyfriend (29m) and I had been together for almost 5 years. Everything was great up until my spring break the first week of April.(I am a middle school teacher) I mean seriously we were great on Easter Sunday (March 31) and by Monday (April 1) it was completely different. I wake up that morning and call him good morning when he informs me he wouldn’t be able to come over that day due to work stuff. I was fine with that and went on with our conversation but by the end of the conversation he was very short and seemed a bit distant. This was around 8:30 am and I didn’t hear from him for the rest of the day. Tuesday morning comes and we are having horrible tornadoes where I live and they hit really hard where he lives (around 20 minutes away).I am texting him at around 9:30 am to check on him with no response. Meanwhile I’m really scared and have nowhere to go for safety due to having no friends or family in the area. I live on the top floor (2) of my apartment building so I go take shelter in the bathtub. I call my mom during all of this because I am quite nervous about it all. I still hear nothing from him all day. I finally had to call him around 4pm just to check on him and he finally answers, let’s me know he is ok, and he seems more normal so we talked a bit and that was the end of the conversation. Wednesday morning I call him to say good morning like always and he acts like he doesn’t want to be on the phone at all. I told him I’d let him go work and that was all I heard from him that day. Thursday, Friday, and Saturday pass and I get no response from him at all. I am overthinking everything and I am a worried mess about everything that is going on. Finally on Sunday I text him to let him know I was praying for him and I loved him. He texts me back “it’s not you. Just not myself rn” I text him back and let him know I support him in whatever is going on and I am here if he wants to talk about it. I get no response. A week goes by and no response even tho I was trying to check on him. (I know you probably think I’m crazy being this patient but I genuinely loved this man) I finally decide I’m going to pop by just to see that he was home and ok. Well, he is outside his house when I drive by. So he walks over to my car. He stands at the passenger window. And proceeds to seem upset that I am there. I apologized to him if I was out of line showing up but told him I needed to make sure he was ok because I was really worried about him. He proceeds to tell me he is just going through a lot mentally at the moment and didn’t feel like himself at the moment. He said he wanted space to try to collect his mind. (Never did he say it in a “I don’t wanna be with you” way) I agreed, told him I’d support him however he needed and I went on my way. Fast forward another 2 weeks with no responses at all. I only texted him a couple times to let him know I was still there for him and to let me know if he needed anything. I am finally at my breaking point because not knowing what is going on with my relationship and having to pretend I am okay every day was hard on me. All of this took a toll on me mentally as well. I finally text him and just kinda ask where we are and what is going on. I was very respectful and was basically asking for clarification to know how to process my own emotions. He proceeds to tell me that I am making everything he is going through about myself and that he was clear about what he wanted. And me showing up to check on him wasn’t okay and that it messed him mental space up more than it already was. I didn’t know how to respond so I didn’t. After this he begins posting about me without saying my name and how he can’t even go through something without people making it about them. So AITA for assuming we aren’t together anymore?

Note: This is repost from LCDA Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/LaCancionDeAlicia/comments/1cs3u0v/lcda_manual_of_the_search_new_timeline_news/
Link: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cj5ixC9WV5o66ciSr03SJWE8XWnfYeWQcImwOum6OUo/
After seeing tendency of misinformation in this community and overall confusion regarding what we know, I decided to create manual with everything we know and also, including my own research on different topics. 142 pages as of now.
While this manual won't give any new particular leads on what was the origin of the song itself, my goal was to give new indications about the origin of this search, and details which could help moving forward. And in general, I wanted to show different very interesting and helpful opinions of people in Discord servers and Reddit feed for everyone. For everyone, in one place.
I tried to give as many facts as possible, however, there are several speculations of my own or my opinion on some things. My research on some things was not perfect but I tried my best to as objective as I could, so if you have more information, please, let me know, and I will update this document!
Here is tl;dr of my discoveries, which could be interesting:

• There is no proof that Jitomate Triste was banned from Facebook. I will tell even more - there is no proof that their account is deleted or that the post is deleted as well. It is very possible that original post is still available in some random smaller Spanish Facebook group. And it is possible that JT changed their nickname. To prove anything, there is a need of original link of the post, which was never found.
• The phone on which JT's post was recorded is iOs 12, so the post was made after September 17, 2018.
• Phone recording was made by an Unknown person, who just happened to see the post 7 hours after it was uploaded. They decided to record it and at some point it seems like they published it and the circulation of the video started, but at some point. However, we do NOT know anything about it. Information about it is lost as of now and maybe only whoever gave the video to DG could know anything. Although I believe that there are probably reuploads of this recording in 2019, but we just did not find any of those.
• Facebook UI for iOs seems to have changed before August 2019, so JT post is probably before or on July 2019 (which corresponds to the alleged information that DG received file in July 2019). Also, yes, this a real UI - so the post of JT is real and DG's post is NOT a hoax.
• I noticed that GIF 4 and GIF 5 are missing 1 frame from their original GIFs. So for me it seems like someone specifically wanted to edit it for the aesthetic choices most likely. And they definitely had original GIFs downloaded they worked with to make an edit - it seems like it was specifically edited to fit the song.
• I found new dates and origins for GIFs. While the exact origins for GIFs might be even earlier than I found, I believe whoever made this edit - made it when GIFs had peak of its popularity. I noticed tendency that these were all popular on Tumblr indeed. Some of them are from 2013, others probably from 2014. GIF 5 had popularity in 2015 (and I am not sure if it was popular before that). I provided my own research but there probably can be tracked other popular posts on Tumblr.
• As was mentioned by some other users on Reddit and Discord - it seems like song is not live and the singer seems to have European Spanish accent.
• I believe Zair Casillas Mrtz simply got video of Daniel Gutiérrez from someone who saw Daniel Gutiérrez's post. I do not think that the actual origin is from separate source. So if I am right - Zair Casillas Mrtz is reposter rather than one of the actual OPs.
• There is still missing information regarding how Daniel Gutiérrez found the file.
• All Facebook posts are now analysed by me and also uploaded on playlist on YouTube, so if you do not have Facebook, you can still look through original posts: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLa5LBFjhsC-UspQyTql6kBKkUwwG5JQ7q
• Lyric analysis using different sources and my own new interpretation
• In the end I propose several questions which could help finding the song, or questions which could lead towards new leads at the very least.

This file also has a timeline near the end of the file.
If you have any questions, let me know.
I hope this post is gonna clear misinformation and gonna allow to actually make progress rather than returning to the same things over and over again.
Shoutouts to the whole community for amazing job in different discoveries and information provided!
P.S. No, Richardvox did not create LCDA.

Purple Guy MOVESET
Lightweight with 2 jumps (the jumps would just have afton raise elevation, no animation)
Gimmick
More so a visual thing but afton would be a 2d sprite like mr game and watch. Except for all of his moves where he is springtrap or a springtrap variant which would use a 3d model. The exception is spring bonnie which would stay 2d Also when he crouches he will turn into a 2d spring bonnie collapsed on the floor
Basic Attacks
Jab: Disassemble (Afton swing one arm forward before swinging the other)
Basic 2 hit Jab
(Aftons famous sprite)
Dash: Foxy Go Go (Afton dawns a foxy mask and jumps forward)
Pretty strong Damage
(Michael Scaring his brother and Withered Foxy Jump Scare)
Side Tilt: Run (Both his arms are put forward as he runs forward)
Does Good knockback but mid damage
(When he ran into the suit)
Up tilt: Fear (Afton punches his arm above him)
Does Great Knockback but no damage
(Running away from the spirits)
Down Tilt: Spirit (a spirit appears in front of afton)
Does minor damage but can cause a stun
(Spirts causing aftons springtrap)
Side Smash: Jumpscare (Afton turns into springtrap and walks forward)
Does A lot of damage and has a chance to stun
(Springtrap jumpscare fnaf 3)
Up Smash: Dark Trap (Afton Turns into spring trap as he leans back before leaning forward back to standing position)
Does Great Damage but really slow
(Dark Springtrap aka sister location springtrap cutscene)
Down Smash: Springtrapped (Afton freaks out in the suit (still 2d) )
Does Great Damage to both afton and the opponent. But also can bury
(Aftons death)
Aerials
Neutral Air: Activation (Spring bonnie extends all of their limbs)
Does Great Damage to afton and his foe. And also great knockback to the foe
(First thing to happen when Aftons springlocked)
F Air: World Slash(Afton smashes the below area)
Does Great damage and can spike.
(Fnaf world attack)
B Air: First Spring (As spring bonnie punches down behind him)
Does Great damage and can spike
(First spring bonnie appearance)
Up Air: Dark Return (Afton Turns into spring trap as he leans back before leaning forward back to standing position)
Does Great Damage but really slow
(Dark Springtrap aka sister location springtrap cutscene)
Down Air: Panic (Afton shakes the feet below him)
Hits great damage and can spike. Also has a chance to use the springtrap model which would just be visual
(When burntrap got kidnapped. And the panic animation shared between afton and CC)
Grabs
Grab: Shadow freddy appears the foe as both Hold the opponent up
(Loosely based on the events before the bite of 83 and the events in the follow me games)
Pummel: Same thing as his jab
F Throw: Shadow freddy walks forward where the opponent follows them before shadow freddy disappears and william runs up and punches the foe twice
(the events in the follow me games)
B Throw: Shadow freddy walks behind afton where the opponent follows them before shadow freddy disappears and william runs up and punches the foe twice
(the events in the follow me games)
Up Throw: Uppercut
(smash original)
Down Throw: Puts opponent in suit (doesn’t do any damage but when the throw is finished it causes the foe to still be wearing the suit for 15 seconds which while making them heavier also makes them incredibly slow and jumps go half as far)
Specials
Neutral Special: Ventilation
Springtrap enters a vent in the ground. Acts Like meta knights peek a boo with some minor differences. First after a random amount of time the opponent will become poisoned and lightweight. After all theres a thing in vents its harder to get clean air. After another amount of random time a random phantom animatronic will appear and stalk the opponent. If it hits the opponent they will become dizzy. Sounds broken right. Well while in the vents will also takes damage. And after a random amount of time will be bouted out at a random part of the stage with the dizzy effect. Could happen before or after a phantom spawns but will always happen after the light wight poison. So it’s a very risk and reward move how much damage do you wanna take, the opponent is light do i strike now or risk getting booted for the phantom. Also can only move horizontally and puts you in free fall if existed in the air
Side Special: Plushtrap
Plushtrap appears in front of Afton and chases the nearest foe. Only one plushtrap can be on screen per afton player at a time. When it manages to hit a foe it act like a stronger pikmin that will take 5 seconds to disappear where it takes no time to spawn another one. If After 30 seconds the plushtrap never hits someone it will naturally disappear where it takes 15 seconds to spawn another one. And it will freeze for 2 seconds if hit by a projectile. Finally it can’t fall off cliffs nor can it jump so it will never be in the air. unless spawned in the where it acts like a Pikmin spawned in the air. Also wouldn’t change anything mechanically but it has a 1/10 chance to summon a bunny from princess quest. Specifically the flying ones that appear in the beginning. And a 1/50 chance to summon vanny. Again changes nothing except visual
Up Special: Malware
Afton turns into springtrap as a tentacle comes out of his body. You can point to which direction you want the tentacle to appear. It acts as a basic tether recovery with one caveat. If it hits a foe they will have a 25% chance to become infected. When infected your directions reverse and out of every 16 attacks 1 of them will not go through and leave you vulnerable. You will be infected for sixteen second before you are cured. Now to balance it out if the attack is used and doesn’t connect to a stage or player there will be heavy end lag and will put you in free fall if used in the air. So always be careful when using this move
Down Special: Bite of 83
As Springtrap Will Bites Down. acts exactly like wario's neutral special.
Final Smash: Missing Character incident
A cinematic final smash. The smash starts with afton throwing a rainbow knife as a refrence to the move slasher in Fnaf World. Any one hit by the rainbow knife has a 1/10 chance to instantly lose stock. But if that one in ten chance fails they enter the cinematic. It shows the character at a birthday party before they’re lured away by a 3d model for spring bonnie.it then cuts to black before showing the character trapped in a golden freddy suit. Racking up tons of damage but no knockback. However if the opponents damage goes over 100% it is an instant stock loss
Cosmetics + Gimmicks
Every costume has both a different color for will and a different springtrap variant. And you can pick which springtrap variant you want with whatever afton you want. So you could have alt 3 afton with an alt 7 springtrap.
Costumes
Pure Purple - Springtrap
Pure Orange (Midnight Motorist) - Scraptrap
Pure Pink (Pink guy theory (no i don’t believe it just felt like it should be referenced) ) - Vanny
Pure Blue (Phone Guy) - Glitchtrap
Pure Red (Old man consequences) - Frost Springtrap (yes i know only plushtrap has a skin in special delivery but creative liberties)
Pure Yellow (Prize King And Sun) - Toxic Springtrap
Pure Bluish Grey (Moon) - Burntrap
Black body with white stripes and white face (Puppet) - Flaming Springtrap
Stage Entrance: Will comes in on a car like captain falcons
Taunts
Iconic Save Them Sprite
Eats pizza
Pose he takes in fruit maze
Victory Animations
Springtrap stands in the middle of a bunch of masks with a light in there eyes
The puppet lays on the floor as a car stands parked in the background
Nothing appears on screen before springtrap jumps the screen
(If you win the match with the final smash it show william dancing in the pizzeria)

I am a parent of a troubled teen and this is my first post on Reddit. I registered for an account, just to make this post.
About three months ago, I found a post on Reddit discussing Red Hawk Academy in Littlefield, Arizona and it made me so angry I posted a response.
You can find the original posting at troubledteens Beetlejuicenewton.
Here was my written response to the original post:
"This comment is absolutely inaccurate and incorrect. My daughter has been there for months. I speak to her every week and we exchange letters throughout the week. This is the third program, she has been in and hands down the best program. You should not make accusations when you are not the parent and not actively involved in the program. I highly recommend this program. The staff are incredible and have helped my daughter tremendously. To all parents out there, call the school and ask to speak to Valerie. I have told Valerie that I will gladly speak to any parents who are interested in the school. This program has saved my daughter.) and was utterly shocked about what was being said about Red Hawk Academy."
Not understanding how social media works (in this case Reddit), I did not know that one's opinion can be removed from a site if the comment is contrary to the original post.
After posting this comment, I received an email from Reddit that my post had been removed and I was banned from the conversation. It took me awhile to calm down, but now I am in a place where I create a thoughtful post discussing my life with a troubled daughter and our experience with RHA.
Unlike the troubledteens Beetlejuicenewton post, I will not ban individuals who disagree with me.
This is my story...
In 2020, I started to notice a difference in my daughter who was 13 years old. I started to see a shift in her behavior. She was being inappropriate while on the internet, hanging out with troubled kids, and being very unkind to her family members. She started to lie, which turned into chronic lying. She started to get mad and hit her head into the wall. She never hit her head hard enough to receive a concussion, but it did get our attention. One day, I sat her down to discuss her behavior and took her phone. When I opened the phone, she had a screensaver that was a short clip of 2 toddlers being hit by a car. When I asked her why she had this as her screensaver, she said she thought it was funny.
Fast forward a couple of months....she was in therapy that was completely useless. She managed to make a handful of the therapist cry or get really upset. My daughter seemed to find humor in upsetting others. Her lack of empathy was beyond scary. She continued to hit her head into the wall every time she was upset. She then threatened to hurt herself, but it seemed to be more of a threat than anything else.
Fast forward three years...from the age of 15 to 16....she tried to "kill" herself twice (actually didn't really hurt herself, but it did get her into the hospital), hospital dependent (always wanted to be admitted to the hospital), suspended from school for inappropriate behavior (my daughter and her boyfriend were making out at lunch with hands down each others' pants), shoplifted (she shoplifted back-to-back days and took her little brother with her to provide cover), unprotected sex (I only found out because she thought she was pregnant), lying all of the time (she forgot how to tell the truth), cutting herself and still hitting her head into the wall, treated her little brother like crap (he would come to me crying, and tell me that he just wanted a "normal" sister), experimented with drugs (she only told me because she was feeling off and was scared), allowed strangers on the internet watch her sleep)....the list goes on and on.
This all happened within the timespan of 1 year! She was diagnosed with depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and borderline personality disorder. (For parents with daughters who have been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, there is a great book I found on Amazon - When you Daughter has BPD: Essential Skills to Help Families Manage Borderline Personality Disorder by Daniel S. Lobel, PhD.)
Our family finally hit the breaking point. My husband and I were fighting all of the time, my son was so upset about his sister's behavior, and I was on the verge of having a breakdown. I cried all of the time and was so very sad about what was happening to my daughter.
We decided that we needed to send her some place. We could not manage her and she needed more help than we could provide. We sent her to a wilderness camp in Utah that came highly recommended by our therapist. I was scared to send her there, but I did not know what else to do. During her time at the wilderness camp, we had a neuropsychological assessment conducted, which resulted in an autism diagnosis. While she was slightly on the spectrum, it was clear that her behavior was driven by her borderline personality disorder. Within 5 weeks at the facility, we were advised that she was not a good fit for the program and we needed to find a therapeutic boarding school for her.
The wilderness program recommended a therapeutic boarding school in Oregon. We enrolled her in this program. She was a hot mess...she would not get out of bed and refused to go to school. She starting hitting her head into the wall (again), which the staff would not stop because the facility was a "no touch" facility, and the staff would just attempt to "redirect" her. She would punch and kick walls. Within 4 weeks of being at the school, the school called us and told us that we needed to immediately come pick her up because she was threatening to harm the staff members.
We felt desperate and full of despair. We did not know where to turn. We found the one and only program that has helped her....RED HAWK ACADEMY.
I initially called and spoke to Valerie. She and her husband, Sonny, own the school. Instantly, I felt heard and understood. During that initial conversation it came up that the school had received a reputation (not at the school's request) as the school that would take the girls that were kicked out of other programs. When I was filling out the paperwork (which is required for all programs), I got nervous because I had to sign a form that provided RHA with temporary guardianship. I prayed that this would not backfire on me. Unlike the other schools, RHA could restrain the girls when absolutely necessary. People instantly make accusations when the word "restraint" is involved in programs. What people do not understand, and unless you are in the unfortunate situation where you have a kid like my daughter, programs that restrain are absolutely essential. My daughter continually hurts herself and I need someone to stop her.
We dropped my daughter off at the school and hoped (with all of the hope we had left), that RHA would help our daughter. Programs, like RHA, are designed to help troubled kids. By no means, is this a vacation for your daughter or a break from the real world. My daughter tried everything she could to get kicked out of the program. She went so far as to orchestrate a fight with another student so they could both be kicked out. Unfortunately for her (and fortunately for us), she had consequences none of which involved removal from the school.
I have been so scared that we could not find help for her and that she would end up on the street when she turns 18 and most likely would end up homeless, uneducated, and in prison.
My daughter has been at RHA for 6 months and she is now at the point where therapy can begin. She has been so combative and defiant that it took 6 months for her to realize that she was not going anywhere and the only way she would leave the school was to complete the program.
While there have been good and many bad days, I am finally seeing a version of my sweet daughter. The daughter who used to hold my hand and tell me she loved me. For parents who are struggling, know that there are parents who understand your pain, understand the feeling of being out control, and understand how you become unsure of yourself (and your parenting skills). Just remember that you can change the trajectory of your daughter's life by getting her the help she needs. Welcome the opportunity to send her to a therapeutic school, like RHA, where she can get the helps she needs.
Thank you for reading this ridiculously long post, and I hope you can find some peace in knowing that are safe, supportive programs that can help your daughter!
I am going to write another post that specifically discusses RHA. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.
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Hey folks,
But of a long one so apologies in advance but would love to some advice. I have recently had an absolute nightmare with British Gas. It’s a very long and boring story at this point but the gist is this:
I moved into my flat a year and a half ago and my electricity bills from British Gas were being sent to the flat downstairs with the wrong address and addressed to ‘the occupier’. I had absolutely no way of knowing these bills were for me.
When I thought it was sus that I wasn’t paying electricity (assumed for a bit my bills were combined but they were too low so grew suspicious) and did my own research to try and sort it out, British Gas began sending me debt collector letters saying they were taking me to court.
I of course grew frightened and tried to get in contact with British Gas to sort out the problem and pay the bill. A whole saga played out where they tried to make me pay an old account, couldn’t figure out why it wasn’t under my name, attached two accounts to my flat and basically totally cocked it up to be frank. At this point I was on the phone daily to them for a week to get it sorted.
Flash forward to a few weeks ago when I FINALLY managed to get through to someone and they manage to sort my account out for me, although I had to hold their hand the whole time. During this process there was multiple mistakes on my account and at one point people were just hanging up on me because they couldn’t sort out the problem.
Then last week, I receive a bill for the back dated energy finally to the right address and under my name. To avoid any more debt collector letters, I put promptly set up a repayment scheme to pay this monthly.
Throughout this process, I placed many complaints to absolutely no avail and they were closed one after another with no response. However, I put another complaint in yesterday stating how disappointed I’ve been with the service, the mental stress this has caused me and the fact that if I hadn’t investigated the bills would still be going to the wrong place. I requested that I have the large back dated bill wiped from my account.
Someone replied today and asked me to confirm my address and name AND PUT SOMEONE ELSES ADDRESS AND NAME????
A lot more has happened but you get the idea and the fact it’s been a nightmare. SO MY QUESTION IS:

1. Is there anything I can do here to legally get help or does this sound like something that is not a legal matter?
2. Should I be paying the back dated bills that were not addressed to me or my flat?
3. Is it a breach of privacy that they sent me someone else’s name and address?

Apologies again for this ridiculously long post but I’m so frustrated and really need advice… I know these people are just trying their best but it’s been so stressful for me and my family