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I wasn’t always available at times and I was abroad for 6 weeks or suffering from depression and not leaving the house. But he met one and kissed just a day after being intimate with me. We were looking to get married very soon as I want to start a family due to my age. He said he has a problem and it was a habit chatting to multiple women but is begging me to stand by him and says he wants to change and prove himself.
I don’t want to leave. But can cheaters change? Has anyone here stayed and not regretted it?
He’s supported me in my mental health and bent over backward in everyway but this. He says he is determined to prove he will change and never relapse. I haven’t married him yet but I’ve devoted 4 years to him solely and never myself cheated. We have had ups and downs though.
I suffer from anxiety and this has made my anxiety skyrocket and my insecurity the worst. Help…

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It all started on 7th of May when one of the discord servers I was in got hacked, then I noticed i was added in multiple 18+ discord servers and somehow someone changed my discord profile name and profile photo. Then, I left all those servers(including the one that I think got hacked) and everything seemed fine. After a couple of minutes people that I dont have in my contacts started calling me asking for dr*gs saying I gave my number on a telegram group( I have to mention im only in football groups to watch live goals and clips) but those people who called me were from the same country as I am so I’m not sure if it has anything to do with that discord server. The next day and for the rest of the week no one called me. On sunday night I used my pc to do a history project and the next day someone tried hacking into all of my accounts and he managed to change some of my passwords but I got all my accounts back except my tik tok account(because he changed the email and the phone number in the app so I cant log in using my personal email and phone number). I found out he was doing this from a S22 Ultra and I saw his location(he was at my friend’s school; so I suppose my friend is involved in this too). He also sent me an email saying that my family is in danger if I dont send him 100 dollars. The emails name which he sent this message to me is “pavlonozbuisness@gmail.com”. I searched pavlonoz on google and I found him on unknown cheats(from this site my friend sent me a gta hack saying its safe but windows defender spotted it as a trojan;I deleted all the folders that had to do with the hack and the notifs from windows defender stopped ) and I also found this guy on reddit(he is in Romania comunity(which means he is romanian as me) and in S22ultra comunity(his phone).In the same day people from the telegram group started to call me again and one of them sent me a photo of the guy that put my name on the telegram group. I wasnt able to contact him on telegram as i needed his phone number. And now he stopped since my parents called my friend’s parents so I suppose my friend and pavlonoz are in the same school or class. I changed my passwords to all of my accounts but im still scared he can still log in into them. Anyways today Im going to the police maybe they can track him down. Now the only account I cant get back is my tik tok account(i explained upper why) so if there is any solution of getting it back please help me. Or maybe the police will find him and he will log out with his account. What should I do?

It’s been 2 months since I was dumped(blindsided) by my bf of 2 years. Do you ever get to a point where you can make sense of things? I feel crazy. I know heartbreak is so common but I don’t understand how you can just stop loving someone!?
Also struggling to analyze how much was his fault or my fault. I’m questioning my reality in the relationship a bit. I wish I knew the real reason of why this happened. We had a “closure” talk 2 weeks after the breakup but I don’t believe everything he told me. He said he lost the spark/passion. He fell out of love. He felt I was “controlling”. He said he didn’t want to have to check in with anyone anymore. And that he couldn’t give me reassurance and the love I deserved. He swore there was no one else. But I’m still skeptical. Don’t know how much of it is anxiety or if I do have a right to suspect something. Finding out I was cheated on would break me.
Also, he apparently got on dating apps 3 DAYS after we broke up and had a girl over only a week after we broke up.. idk how someone could do this. Someone I thought loved me so much. Someone I loved and gave everything to. It hurts so much. And I’m so angry! Last I saw he was living it up and DJ’d at a bar for the first time. He’s had great things come to him while I’m absolutely shattered. I hate this. It doesn’t feel fair. Wish I could tell him he’s nothing but an immature man wh*** who doesn’t know how to love.
Not exactly sure what I want to get out of this Reddit post. Partly wanted to vent. But even some advice or words of comfort would help. Thanks.

I'm in a bad place mentally and I really need support/advice/anything!
So.. I (32F) have been dating this guy 34M for a year. We met in a dating app in a city where I was working temporarily(I was on a sabbatical and working with an art festival) and he was attending a friends wedding. We ended up connecting greatly on music and whatnot and spent 2 nights together. He then returned to his city but pursued me. We re from different cities and over meeting and going for trips every month, it turned into a long distance relationship.
We would spend a week together every month in different places, twice or thrice his city but we always stayed in hotels. Each trip was a dopamine bomb and beautiful, luxurios, he was super loving and attentive and everything I dreamed of. He earned well and keeps travelling between his hometown and city of work frequently. Now I can see that it was blatant love bombing.
The first 6-8 months of our relationship, I was also smoking up(h) and then quit. Pretty soon, I slipped into anxiety and depression and have been pretty low since some months now. However, we still continued dating. His availability kept decreasing. I felt things were off/was doubting he is cheating on me but I kept thinking it's me and my anxiety that's telling me these negative things. I did ask him such questions directly and ofcourse he would deny them.
I would blame and hate myself for being depressed and not being able to talk/be a "good girlfriend " on our calls. He would call me only on his commute to the office or gym and somehow, I was so in my head, I didn't even notice. The calls before sleeping were almost none, by now.
2 weeks ago, I caught him lying about a certain flight thing and I confronted him. He apologised, gave a reasonable excuse and I let it go. I once video called him out of the blue and he wouldn't show me his home. And I just found out yesterday through somebody who lives in his hometown that he is married. And has a 2 year old kid.
I have no clue what to do. I have been so deep in depression and so ashamed by it (cptsd, childhood trauma and what not) ..I am also figuring out my next career step since the sabbatical, have been working on design projects and my self esteem is dipping. It feels like I'm even going to fall deeper.
What should I do. I will definitely leave him, for sure. But I want to see his face, confront him. Should I Visit his place/hometown, tell his family. Confront him on the phone. Tell his wife. How can somebody fucking do this. I thought I finally found the one. I thought I'll be marrying this guy.
And get away with it!!!! HOW?! I'm unable to process what's happening. And I feel like there's a hole in my stomach.. I haven't slept. J feel rage and hurt and disgust and .. the fact that I thought we had a future!
Note: Yes, I'm in therapy. Have been for more than a year, looking for another therapists. Have also consulted psychiatrists for meds, one of them diagnosed me with ADHD but I'm unable to get over my fear of meds. I want to get better without them( yes, exercise, yoga, sleep, meditation )And I'm trying. But so far, I am having a hard time being motivated to do anything.

It all started on 7th of May when one of the discord servers I was in got hacked, then I noticed i was added in multiple 18+ discord servers and somehow someone changed my discord profile name and profile photo. Then, I left all those servers(including the that I think got hacked) and everything seemed fine. After a couple of minutes people that I dont have in my contacts started calling me asking for dr*gs saying my I gave my number on a telegram group( I have to mention im only in football group to watch live goals and clips) but those people who called me were from the same country as I am so I’m not sure if it has anything to do with that discord server. The next day and for the rest of the week no one called me. On sunday night I used my pc to do a history project and the next day someone tried hacking into all my accounts and he managed to change some of my passwords but I got all my accounts back except my tik tok account(because he changed the email and the phone number in the app so I cant log in using my personal email and phone number). I found out he was doing this from a S22 Ultra and I saw his location(he was at my friend’s school; so I suppose my friend is involved in this too). He also sent me an email saying that my family is in danger if I dont send him 100 dollars. The emails name which he sent this message to me is “pavlonozbuisness@gmail.com”. I searched plavonoz on google and I found him on unknown cheats(from this site my friend sent me a gta hack saying its safe but windows defender spotted it as a trojan;I deleted all the folders that had to do with the hack and the notifs from windows defender stopped ) and I also found this guy on reddit(he is in Romania comunity(which means he is romanian as me) and in S22ultra comunity(his phone).In the same day people from the telegram group started to call me again and one of them sent me a photo of the guy that put my name on the telegram group. I wasnt able to contact him on telegram as i needed his phone number. And now he stopped since my parents called my friend’s parents so I suppose my friend and pavlonoz are in the same school or class. I changed my passwords to all of my accounts but im still scared he can still log in into them. Anyways today Im going to the police maybe they can track him down. Now the only account I cant get back is my tik tok account(i explained upper why) so if there is any solution of getting it back please help me. Or maybe the police will find him and he will log out with his account. What should I do?

genuinely asking if anyone knows a legitimate reason for why we still write our exams by hand? i understand it's not accessible to everyone, but if available to some- why not make it an option? test durations can be shorter for people doing them on computers so there's no unfair advantage of typing speed vs handwriting, and it would also be easier for papers to be marked if they were done using computers. plus they can get rid of all apps and platforms etc. on the computers and monitor the screen activity so no one can cheat, so what's stopping them?

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TL;DR: I paid a contractor £1982.25 to handle property maintenance and gardening work on a rental property. The contractor repeatedly assured me that the work was complete or nearly complete, but property inspections and subsequent photo evidence contradicted these claims. Despite multiple excuses from the contractor, ranging from personal injuries to subcontractor issues, the work was never completed. After attempting various methods of communication without success, the contractor has become unresponsive. He has not finished the work, yet still holds my money, and I am now considering my options for recourse.
I have used a guy ("L") to do some garden works. Recommended by a work colleague he was personable and punctual when I used him for some gardening work when I had COVID. Since he told me that he did property maintenance and gardening and I was pleased with his work thus far, I booked him to do some work on my old house which I now rent out in Surrey; repainting some old water damage after a repair and replace an old brown wooden back door showing signs of wear and rot for a new uPVC one. He said yes and needed money for the work as the door was a large lump of the cost. As it was March 2023 I gladly paid him the whole sum (£1982.25) and on the 26th July he said that all the works had been done and just needed to finish the door but was having access issues with tenent but due to complete the works on the Saturday. All good. I asked him about the £300 of gardening, he said he would come over in August. Fine.
L then said that he was having mechanical issues with his van and could not attend the gardening. Me, being understanding, said get the van fixed and let's sort another date when he's back on the road. The property inspection report done by the estate agent came through on 23rd August and my wife noticed that in the photos the back door had not been completed. In fact, there was no evidence of any of the work having been done. I was suspicious that the works had not in fact been done.
I asked my property management company and they suggested that it was unlikely to show his work in the photos, since the inspection happened in June/early July time because the works were done after the date of the property report. It was possible, they suggested, that the report was sent was after the works had been completed but the inspection was done before that was why the photos didn't match what I was being told. Probably.
The property management company / estate agent I pay for my fully managed property confirmed this might have been the case but I was still suspicious myself and unsure. I attempted to reach out to him using WhatsApp on the 22nd January, our usual line of communication, but no response.
I learnt on 4th February from the cleaner at work who knows him and recommended him in the first place that he had been caught cheating on his girlfriend on Christmas day and was attacked by her with a broken bottle and now has an arm injury preventing him from working again. It was all in the news. There is an article in the newspaper about the event. She also told me that he had a new phone number which she gave me. She also told me that he had also been drinking heavily since his mother had been diagnosed with cancer last year and she was worried the he had turned into "a bit of a deadbeat". I was concerned so messaged him on both numbers I now had.
He responded on the same day on the new number only, saying that he had been embarrassed to tell me that he had not completed.
He said he was sorry and could we book in the work to get done. I replied that, as long as the work gets done on my rented house which is my main concern (as someone else is living there and paying for the house to be kept in good order), we can then talk about the £300 of gardening afterwards but I also asked for photos of the work when it was finally completed.
On 5th February we agreed for him to complete the work on the 14th February.
My cleaner friend, now mortified with him too, called him and he assured her that all the work had been done. I messaged him the following week to say I was thrilled and asked for the photos. Of course I trusted but wanted to verify for myself.
I asked for the photos on the 19th February of the works that had taken place; he replied that he had gotten sepsis and had been in hospital and just got home and he had just called "the guy" he sent out to do the works and he had not done it and he was "fuming". That he had "seized trading" [sic] but wanted to make sure "this was all sorted" and "all I can do is apologise" and hope that I would understand and had booked in Saturday to give him recovery time, and then told me Tuesday, which then became the following Saturday.
He assured me that "his guy" was now rebooked the Sunday 25th February 12pm and he would personally make sure it was done. I said this would have to be the last time as I need the work done and he had now had enough time and chances and was not telling me every time he had failed to get the work done. I asked for the photos on the 26th. He replied that the guy he sent to do the works didn't show up and "he was fuming" and was going to personally oversee that the work was done. He was now appearing to me to be simply more than just unlucky. He assured me that the Sunday he would get the work done. This would be 4th March.
I chased for photos 4th March. No response. I chased on 6th March via WhatsApp. No response. The next property inspection report was sent to me on the 8th March it is clear that there has been no works done in the photos and I had reason to believe that he has not completed any of the work and still has my money. In fact, I suspect that he has no intention of doing the work at all and simply keeping the money.
On the 14th March I asked for his contact details to write to him formally within 7 days. No response.
On March 20th I looked up his email which had the original quote on it and wrote him a letter and sent that, with his original quote asking for my money back plus 8% per annum calculated to 29th March 2024 for £2140.83 for additional inconvenience and expenses I have incurred in chasing for my money back for a year now. I also sent a hard copy of the letter to his address by recorded post (which got signed for) asking for the same and needed a response by 2nd April.
No response.
I don't know what to do now. I hear from my cleaner friend that he's moved house and ghosted everyone. I checked his invoice, he is not a LTD. He's in the wind. He's not responding to letters or emails or WhatsApps and he has around £2000 of my money and simply kept it.
I've tried renegotiating the works multiple times over the last year, I've tried contacting him and now he's just stopped replying. I think I've been reasonable and tried my hardest to make it work out and keep in touch but I just want my money back.
Have I lost my money or is there anything else I can do now? What are my next steps?

…all while I’d given up my career and future to become her full time caregiver (nothing I’ve ever had more than a poor me thought once in a blue moon on a crappy day; I was happy to do it and committed to keeping her safe, independent and happy).
She was diagnosed with MS about ten years ago and became wheelchair bound less than a year later due to a treatment resistant form of the disease. She has the progressive form, so her health declined quickly.
There’s a long story to be had, but I’m feeling hurt and not up for typing a ton. Just wanted a place to get my pain out of my head.
Some will say it isn’t cheating because it was all online (given her disability), but there’s been multiple men, over a long period, sexting, photos, videos, etc.
I caught her a year ago and she vowed to stop, to make more of an effort in our relationship, to stop taking advantage of me, etc. We spent weeks upon weeks talking and trying to understand one another and find a path forward. I was skeptical, but I was (am?) also in love with her…so I committed to that path forward…
Almost a year to the day (yesterday) I find a messaging app on her phone by happenstance - and find multiple men, conversations spanning months and months, complete with the pics and videos.
She’s got no bullshit to try and hide behind this time. To her credit, she’s not really trying to talk her way out of it.
We’re broke, given we’ve been living off of her disability after we burned through all of MY savings and inheritance, so I’ve no means of leaving.
And, as fucked up as it is, I can’t just leave her without care - which we/she can’t afford to hire, so…
Feeling extremely lost. And broken.
I gave up a career I loved, I had to commit a half million dollar inheritance to house renovations (disabled friendly) and living expenses. I gave up sex 8 years ago when it was no longer possible (which she seemed relieve by as she would always suggest she was not a very sexual person…). I haven’t been happy in a very long time, but I’ve done my best to be the best husband I can be. I’ve always prioritized her wants and needs.
HOW?!

for context we are 17 and 18 and i had already been having troubles in our relationship,like i felt like he wasn’t rlly being honest w me and he never put in effort into seeing me. It seemed like things where getting better we had spend the last weekends together and he had planned stuff and i slept over. We even decided to share our passwords on instagram. When i logged into his account i wnet through it and found something that scared me on his instagram link history (Shows u every link you click on.) We had talked abt corn ( the other word) multiple times before and he said he didn’t watch it at all anymore. But what i found on his instagram link history showed that every single day he is going to multiple accounts on vsco ( a photo app) of random girls from his school.Think popular pretty girls. I also saw only fan accounts. So our entire relationship while we were having sx he has also been touching him self to other girls he knows in real life from his school every single day. I know it’s unrealistic for a boy to not jerk off but i can’t see him the same way knowing he was jerking off to girls he knows in real life while telling me he loved me and having sx with me and asking me for n*des. He says almost every guy does this But i don’t believe every guy has a roster of girls from his school to jerk off to every day . He even has attempted sewerslide after i found out and tried to break up with him ( just happened two hours ago) and i had to get one of his friends to see if he was alive ( he is ) I feel awful throwing away a 6 month relationship over jerking off but i can’t imagine my self touching my self to boys from my school and lying to him about not watching corn for months . It feels like he has been cheating on me every day and lying to me but he says it isn’t cheating to him because he doesn’t even view them as people just as corn. Should i break up with him?

So I like to draw off of reference photos, and then after I draw them to the best of my ability I will take a photo of it and then edit the picture in the photos app to achieve more dramatic dark colors in my drawing that I can’t get with pencil. Is this considered cheating? I know some people draw using drawing apps but idk if this is considered an acceptable method.

TL; DR - looking for free diagnostic tests and materials to teach myself math in a fun way over the summer.
I (20f) have never been great at math. I finished my senior (covid) year of high school with a B- in accelerated pre-calculus while my friends all too AP Calculus. I took a course called “discrete mathematics for the life sciences” in my freshman year of college but I can’t tell you what discrete math means. I failed my calculus I class my freshman spring and retook it in the summer (online) and got a B-.
After doing waves in my physics II course and seeing physical representations of sine, cosine and tangent I’ve started to take a bit of an interest in math and want to spend my summer learning more
I know I’m not stupid, I can do math with a calculator on all of my physics and chemistry courses, I’m gonna graduate a semester early with a BS in biology and I’m applying to medical school. I think just having difficult math classes online during Covid made me feel like I had to cheat to get by and now I’m missing fundamentals but I don’t know what fundamentals I’m missing. I can’t really afford a math course as I have to spend about $1000 on medical school apps and a bunch of other school necessities. Are there free resources where I can get like a baseline measurement of my math skill? Any resources to learn math concepts in depth for free?

this is the first time i play zodiac age version as for other version i already cleared it around 4 times. so to spice things a bit, i want to use mod to play zodiac age version so i get fresh feeling of 'new' game. i tried some mods on nexus and i find that most of them are hard to implement except for draklab one. i tried SFF mods but their struggle/freedom license are too restrictive for me and i somehow cant use vanila license (the mod locked it to struggle/freedom licenses), maybe because i already edited the vbf file so it cant be removed anymore. other than that i tried insurgent series mod but i dont know how to install it since there is no guide, i tried using cheat engine and white wolf software thing but i keep getting error so idk whats wrong with it. also idk why vortex app at nexus cant do anything to my game.
so i want to ask, is there any other mods outside from nexus? i remember in izjs we had some kind of trainer app that let us to directly manipulate ingame inventory or spell effect. that kind of mod is what i want or any kind of mod that overhaul enemies difficulties, overhaul the technique or mod that give new magick like quakega or aeroga.

Context: I’m 22 he’s 23. We’ve been together for almost 10 months. His family invited me along on their trip to Greece (we live in US) for two weeks and we’ve been so excited about it. Last night he was showing me something on his phone and while switching apps I see tinder open with a message to a girl. He had asked her out to drinks while I was talking a nap. I almost thought I was seeing things at first bc the man I knew would never do this and he tried to lie to my face about it at first but eventually pulled up the message. We had literally been having a serious conversation about marriage about 10 minutes prior to this. Up until about two months ago he was the sweetest man in the world, cooked me dinner all the time, always kept flowers in my apartment, was just so kind. He’s always struggled with alcohol abuse but I think the excitement of our relationship being so good just made it better for a while. Anyways he started drinking more heavily and he wouldn’t get mean or anything he’d just turn into a completely different person and lie to me about whether or not he was drinking, whether or not he was driving stuff like that. He kept making all the empty promises about stopping and I was being pretty patient with him but he went on a few benders leading up to the trip where he would go “fishing” and end up turning his location off for a while and come back drunk or high and lying about it. I wasn’t going to put up with the lying for long but the one thing I never thought he would do was cheat on me. Looking back on it this definitely wasn’t the first time. I cried about it to his mom and sister last night because they’re the only people I have in this country. They said they wanted me to stay with them but wouldn’t blame me if I left. My question now though is what would you do in this situation? I’m at the start of this trip with a very detailed itinerary for the next two weeks. We were supposed to be island hopping for a few days at a time.
Forgiving him isn’t an option and I can’t just go along with the trip acting like nothing happened. We also work together in a very small office which makes things extra complicated. I live out of state from my parents so besides a few friends he’s pretty much all I have back home. Were supposed to get on a 4 hour boat ride from Athens to Naxos tomorrow and I think I’m going to at least go along from there and either get my own hotel for a few days or fly home early. I have enough money of my own to stay here for maybe a week but I’m scared that it’s just going to be more lonely than ever in a country where I know nobody and have just had my heart broken. I’d appreciate any advice, I feel so lost.

Hi! My first post here.
To cut to the chase, I have a mother who always wants to find something wrong with my life. Ever since I was a child, she found the smallest things to be mad at me for, such as doing a chore just slightly incorrectly, and every single time she'd call me "useless". She constantly compared me to other children, and still does the same now and my big age of 19. Apparently, I'm not independent enough, and I don't care about her enough, even though I'm constantly going out of my way to prove that she's wrong. She's my mother, I would do anything for her. But she doesn't see that at all. Once, I told her I didn't like it when she called me worthless, and she told me that she said it because I am. She never apologized. Trust me, there's loads of things she's done to me that many of my friends feel like would justify me running away, but I'm not going to be too morbid.
At the same time, she's my best friend. I'm an only child who grew up with little friends, so the person I interacted with the most was her. We share a lot of the same interests and gossip about family drama. It's at those times, I feel like I'm wrong about her. But this time, she did something I feel I can't forgive her for.
Last July, I finally got a boyfriend. It seems like we're soulmates...we met on dating app but found that we have so many friends in common and also that we used to go to the same school as children. He's more than I could ever ask for. He travels to where I am by train for more than 2 hours every week (so a total of 4-5 hours). Once, he travelled more than 3 hours (a total of 6 hours) to see me in my university campus because I was feeling depressed about my assignments.
He indulges in my passions and interests. He doesn't have much money but sometimes scrimps on his meals throughout the week so he can afford to get me a small treat like ice cream when we see each other. He bought me roses on Valentines. He buys me meaningful gifts whenever he can. He understands me on a super deep level and we talk about everything. I could call him at 3am with a problem and he'd pick up. He never gets mad at me, and we've never had an argument because we always sort out our issues by communicating effectively. Heck, he even follows me to church sometimes because he wants to show me that he's interested in the things that matter to me and because he wanted to make a good impression on my mom-who married someone who never took interest in anything she did or liked let alone follow her to church every other week.
He's the most amazing guy I could ever want, and his family loves me (he jokes that they love me more than him). It's just that I haven't met them yet, since there's the distance to take into account, and because both his parents work so they're constantly busy. Also, they wanted to respect the fact that my mother might not let me go all the way to their house because of how far it is. Still, he always tells his family about me, and I often speak to his 3 sisters on the phone as they're younger than me and sometimes like hearing my advice.
My boyfriend, though, has met my mother on multiple occasions and she told me she loved him. My dad on the other hand, is actively avoiding meeting him (example: we were supposed to follow my dad to the temple for a special occasion, but at the last minute he backed out. He would never back out from that kind of thing).
If you're wondering, this is where the issue starts. My mother thinks it's incredibly suspicious that I haven't met his family yet (even though I told her I'm meeting them on the day my boyfriend graduates from pre-university). It was never really a big deal to me, since I have met his close friends and spoken to his sisters-and the fact his parents knew about me and liked me was enough. I understood that they are both busy working people and they live quite far from me. But yesterday, all this blew up in my face.
I asked my mother if she'd be okay with me taking a trip with my boyfriend, just for a couple of days, to celebrate our first anniversary. I wasn't expecting a yes or no, really. Just asking. Initially she yelled at me about how I haven't even met his parents yet and how he hasn't met my dad yet (which was entirely his fault) and said we should do it in September instead. I said okay.
Then, when I got back to campus later that night, I called her again to check up on her and she brought this up again. She said my dad disapproved of the trip and went on for 15 minutes about many things. I'll summarize in a list about what she said.

• He isn't good enough for you
• He doesn't want you to meet his family
• His family probably doesn't like you because they haven't met you yet
• You guys are taking things too fast and should continue getting to know each other
• You're always sacrificing for him
• You're getting the short end of the stick
• There are better people for you to date
• You're sacrificing your studies for him and you'll get distracted by him

As you can see, none of these are true. The last one made me especially angry because I go to what is known as a "smart kid school" in my country and it's very hard to get a distinction on our assignments! However, a condition on my student loan says if I get first class honors, they will cancel my debt completely. So my mom kept burdening me with how I dug a hole by myself for choosing to be in a relationship with him during university life (EVEN THOUGH, she wanted me to date around in university before. The difference is, she wanted me to basically be a playboy...playgirl? I don't know. When my mom was young she was exactly that. Had tons of boyfriends and cheated on a lot of them. She even told me to join a speed dating event).
I had never been so hurt in my life! What happened to "don't worry about money just focus on getting your degree"? Anyway, my boyfriend never complains when I tell him I need to be by myself on that day because I need to study and do my work...I'm one of the hardest workers in my class and he knows how much my studies mean to me. It's not my fault I'm not getting distinctions.
Now I'm a mess. I want her to love my boyfriend, and I want my dad to love my boyfriend. But he's truly done as much as he can to get their approval but he's depressed himself knowing that none of his efforts have been seen by them. He has a life, a curfew, and a worrying mother too...he can't always be accommodating to me (his mother initially didn't like me because she felt like he was spending too much time and money coming to see me but came around eventually), so I accommodate to him whenever by choosing a convenient location for us to meet up and meeting up at a later time. Because of this, my mother says I'm doing too much because distance isn't an excuse (it kind of is).
Anyhow, my question is, how in the world do I deal with this? Or at least, I need some comfort...this is the best relationship I'm honestly ever going to have but my mother wants me to date around because that's what she thinks having fun means. She thinks I'm sacrificing everything when the truth is, I'm having loads of fun in university with my new friends, I still see my old friends, and I have more than enough time to focus on my studies. He's not distracting me from everything.
How do I convince such a stubborn woman to be on my side?

We met in school, both part of the same program. We talked for 3 months and courted me for another 3 months. He spoiled me, cooked my favorite food, and constantly reassured me. Everything seemed perfect until one night, I overheard him on the phone (we lived together) with someone he claimed was his friend's cousin. I simply went back to sleep since it was 2 in the morning. But when I woke up around 7 am, I felt the need to check his phone and confirm my suspicions. I asked him to unlock his phone and prove he wasn't hiding anything. While checking his messages, I noticed their conversation was gone, but found it in the archived instead. He hastily grabbed his phone and claimed they were talking since he wanted to surprise me with a new pair of shoes, which he wanted the guy to buy in Manila since we were in the province. I borrowed his phone again but he wouldn't let me until I threatened to break up with him. I was supposed to check his messenger but something told me to check his gallery app as well. And that's where I found out he was cheating on me with his ninong (his uncle whose married and has a child already). His uncle was actually his sugar daddy, and they would meet up occasionally and exchange sexually explicit content for money. After discovering this, I called the guy he was talking to at 2 am to confirm the surprise thing it it was true. I was indeed surprised to know that the guy he was talking with was also his kabet. He confessed to having a sexual relationship with my now ex-boyfriend, who had even told him that we were in an open relationship. After finding all of that, my ex-bf decided to harm himself and guilt trip me by drinking muriatic ac*d. Don't worry, I ended the relationship immediately after finding out everything. He's still alive since his friends rushed him to the hospital after that, but he dropped out of class and has disappeared since then.

Oh boy here we gooo. I 24f and my boyfriend 26m have been together for 4 years. Back in April he went on a work training trip for 5 days. We’ve been together for 4 years so I trust him and didn’t even think anything of it. However, once he came back I just had a gut feeling. So while he was golfing I went onto his laptop and into his email.
Bam. There it was an email asking him to verify his tinder account. The email was from the first day of his work trip. I couldn’t tell him straight up that I went through his laptop because that would cause an argument I just knew it. The work trip he was on was located right next to the city I went to college in (I graduated in 2022). So I straight up asked him “you know while you’re out of town and stuff you wouldn’t be on any dating apps right?” And before he could even say anything I hit him with “because you know I still have friends that live in my college town and so and so messaged me saying that she saw a profile that looked just like you”.
You guys… he couldn’t even deny it. He was like “yeah I might’ve been on there but i would never doing anything babe, i would never cheat on you…. Blah blah”. I am hurt by this still and I can’t fully get over it. In his email I also found 2 other emails from tinder in 2022 and 2023 when he was out of town. Last year I thought this was the guy im gonna marry but now I’m questioning everything. My dilemma is I moved to this new city to live with him after graduating.
I recently got a promotion and make 33% more that I used to. My game plan now is to just save up money for myself in case I need to leave. I haven’t been able to save hardly anything since moving here but now with my promotion I’m able to. I just feel stupid for staying. We talked about it and decided to try and move through this.
I’m telling myself that if I ever find 1 more thing then I’m out. I’m done. It’s hard because I love him so much and we’ve put a lot into the last 4 years but my trust is broken. I thought this was the man I’m gonna marry.

thiss might be rly weird. 😅
so about a year and a half ago my friend who i had been talking to a lot wanted to get into a qpr (queer platonic relationship) with me since they said they felt like an emotional attachment to me in a platonic way. i had no idea what that was when they first asked me out, so i agreed based on their explanation of what it was like. i also was pretty sure i was in the aromatic asexual spectrum, so i thought it would be nice.
the weird thing was even though i claimed to be acearo, i was still messing around on dating apps. and shortly after the qpr started, i was visiting my friend group in my hometown for a bit. we were discussing dating app stuff with our other friend, and i shared some of my own stories as we talked. i mentioned after my stories that i wasn't using dating apps anymore and i only had one friend making app/quote unquote "dating app" left on my phone. my partnefriend got concerned and asked me what it was. i explained to them it was an app i told them about before. but the way they got defensive about it made me realize that they probably considered me being on dating apps of any sort as cheating.
so, i guess i just didn't know what i was getting into? i thought it was like just a stronger friendship or like best friends plus or something lol,, but my friend/partner seemed to want to do more romantic stuff like use pet names and go on dates and stuff. i said i was okay with that, but i didn't really want to do cuddling with them which i told them when we were establishing rules or boundaries or whatever. they were fine with it, but idk the pet names felt unnatural to me and "dates" felt like just hanging out with a good friend. they send couple memes to me saying it's us, but half the time i don't really agree. sometimes it feels like they think of me as their idea of their 'perfect version' of me or something, and not actually me. i do care about this person, but i cannot see myself doing anything remotely romantic with them, the more i inch towards it. after a few months of trying this, i decided i didn't like this, but i didn't know how to bring it up and now we're nearing one and a half years..
i think i went along with it because i cared about this person. and when we hung out together, it felt like just being with a friend and someone i really cared about. i do care about them a lot, and i very much enjoy their company. we've known each other for forever, and our friendship has gone through quite a lot of ups and downs. and recently i keep thinking of the downs and how we'd get into fights and annoy the shit out of each other. we were celebrating our anniversary with them coming up to where i live, and we had a disagreement at a restaurant that reminded me of those times when we were younger teens. and more recently i just feel hurt with some of the stuff they do/say. maybe remembering our past is making me more sensitive to the negatives, idk atp.
i think i am a person who will easy go along with something, and my friend/partner claimed a few things about me that i never even thought of for myself. i believed when they explained why they thought it. they told me i was autistic and deserved to be on disability because i was "disabled". i am able bodied,, just have some mental illness. when i told my dad, he got super mad because before i started this relationship, i was really good about school and making good grades. i dropped out my classes for a bit after the relationship started. my friend/partner has never showed much interest in school beyond high school and they didn't want a job until more recently when they realized yt and their small business weren't getting much money. i stopped school for a couple semesters just to work, but i plan to go back in next semester– when i told them, they said they were worried it would go bad for me again... and i guess i feel like the relationship is stopping me from doing better in school.
i don't want to say they're a bad influence, i think i am more just easily influenced or tend to mimic people around me... my partnefriend should live their life they want, but i think i also might be mimicking what they do kinda and that might be why my family does think they're a bad influence. and i feel more disconnected to my family when i started talking to my friend/partner more. they told me my dad is a manipulative person, but i don't even want to think that... sometimes i wonder if they said it because they consider their own parents (especially dad) manipulative. and i have met their family, they do seem p shitty even to me, but i don't see my own parents like that... my dad is doing his best i think, and he's good enough at least,, my friend/partner also claimed stuff like gender, gender preference, political views of mine when i never really told them that? most was similar to their own identity, and i honestly don't know what my gendegender preference/political views are specifically, ive never firmly said i was a specific label of any of those, but it still felt weird that they were putting me in this box when i felt uncertain about those things.
i also don't know if i'm really aroace. like i see happy romantic couples, and still want something like that. and i don't know if i can go and find someone like that if im platonically partnered with someone. and at this point i feel like "i didn't know what i was getting into" doesn't work if i try to just end things now,, i also am afraid it'll just go down terribly, and i'll never even get to be acquaintances with this person again. and i feel like our mutual friends will all side with them and i will just lose those friends forever as well. i'll feel even shittier if i try romance and see that i really am aroace and then id just be forever alone with no friends.
my partnefriend also bought tickets to go to a convention in a few months and id feel even shittier to end things poorly before that since they really wanted to go there and cosplay with me. the convention famously doesn't give any refunds too so they can't even get their money back for the tickets.
we're even planning to move out together in 2025, but i don't know if it's still something i want. we've been planning since like 2022 to move out together (it started out as just friends before they asked to be partners) but we keep having to push it further down with financial issues and such, so i don't even know if 2025 is a good year either. i am going through the process of switching my college major, and i feel like that's all ill really have time for soon especially when i start working alongside studying too. (im quite literally switching from an arts related major to something stem related lol.) i want to get my bachelor's and establish a good paying job before moving out. (and probably also work towards my master's) i don't even know if my friend/partner has anything going on in their future career and stuff, and i do not want to have to be financially responsible for them at all. i barely like when they ask me for money. they usually pay me back or pay for some of my stuff in return so it probably balances out, id just rather we each pay for our own things i guess,, or maybe im just being a prick abt it lol.
i just feel like an asshole, and im probably wasting their time by pretending to want to be more than just a standard friend and like everything is going ok on my side. i just don't know what to do. this is kinda my first relationship tbh, and definitely a first for qpr so i don't really have experience on how to end things lol, and i don't know what a good method to do so is.
sorry if this makes no sense, im rambling... but i am in need of advice... mainly, i am just looking for a way to end the relationship. but any other advice is fine, i need it. if im a piece of shit or you want to say something else 'negative' you can tell me that too, i just need honesty on my situation.
tldr; i am in a queer platonic relationship with someone who i saw as a friend. they wanted to be romantic. i did not. we are getting into disagreements. We seem to have different lifestyle choices, and it's getting to the point where i just want to end it. how do i break up with them that won't make things terrible between the two of us?

My husband cut out sex with me very early on in our marriage. Not because I didn’t want it but because early on he decided to choose escorts over sex with me. When I found out about the cheating he was remorseful and we have tried reconciling. Almost 2 years in and I am starting to get that gut feeling again. Our sex life and intimacy is gone. I broke down and asked him why and he blames stress from work. It’s hard to believe this as he spent years paying for escorts and on dating apps behind my back. He swears he would never cheat again. He seems to have no problem with us having zero intimacy. He cooks, provides and gives gifts but he can’t even hold my hand. I’m attractive. I work out and I have a good career. I don’t nag, I’m home every night and I do pretty much whatever he wants. I’m losing myself trying to understand why he can’t just tell me why he won’t touch me. I’ve convinced myself he’s cheating again but covering it up better. Any advice would be helpful. I know I sound pathetic so please give me some grace as I really feel lost right now.

I just got out of a Premier game and as I closed the window I noticed a text editor box saying something along the lines of "you have to use" and I assumed it wouldve said hacks. I performed very well suring the game and I dont use cheats. There was also what seemed like some kind of recording software open as well. I checked control panel for any new apps but all looked normal. Ran an antivirus scan and my pc came back clean.
Anyone have any advice on what to do next?