Like the title says looking for someone to talk to today stuck at work bored and the weather is miserable today in England so hoping to chat with someone and if we hit it off could go long term
Little about me I’m tall blonde blue eyes short beard I’m a metal work engineer in a factory and in my spare time I like gaming sports movies food and naps haha happy to chat with anyone 😊

Hi all,
I’m looking for some advice. I casted a few spells a few months ago with the intention of getting my old job back.
Long story short, I had to leave my job (that I adored) a year ago because of a few reasons. A few months later I was hoping to come back; however, they had no choice but to fill the position. The lady that is in my old position now is awful. My old boss has told me that she’s rude and not fit for the position at all (the position requires someone very empathetic and she’s very apathetic). My old boss wants me back, my old coworkers want me back—but it seems this new woman likes the job and has no intention of leaving.
A few months ago I did both a banishing spell and a sweetener spell for her (one to make her leave and one for her to find a new job). However, despite my old boss and coworkers not liking her, it doesn’t seem like she’s budging.
What’s the best thing to do in this situation? I want to cast another spell, but my gut is telling me to let it be and continue to see how it plays out. Any thoughts or advice?

Okay so some quick context I can never seem to keep anything in a straight line, it’s like I’m always either pushing more with my left hand or my right now matter how hard I try to keep both even, even when I push my pram I’m all over the place and have to concentrate super duper hard to maintain a straight line for even a short while like passing someone else on the side walk.
I learnt to ride a bike without training wheels at like 10 maybe a little older, I was really good at it and really enjoyed it into my teenage years than my sister broke it and I haven’t ridden for over 10 years now. I don’t drive so me and my partner have gotten an electric bike, my partner also hasn’t ridden in over 10 years and he got on like it was nothing and can ride well. Me I’m all over the road, the reason I got this was so me and my toddler can get into town on our own since we live to far to walk like I usually would. Now I’m all over the road either left or right I can’t seem to keep an even remotely straight line, my balance is alright ish like it could use a little work but it’s more the fact I kept turning the handle bars without meaning to one way or the other, I had the electric part off so it was just manual because it goes faster if it’s on and that makes me turn accidentally even sharper. I’m super frustrated can anyone related and maybe offer tips?

We’ve been together for going on 5 years now. The first 2 years were great in every way. Then my dad passed way and I completely shut down, had health problems emerge, and had to really push myself to finish school. It took me maybe a year and 1/2 to start getting back to my normal self. Then I found out the issue. While I was going through everything, apparently I made him feel unwanted somehow. I never did it intentionally and was never mean to him as far as I know. I just, for obvious reasons, didn’t want sex. Now that I’ve been feeling more myself, for about a year now, I’ve been trying to get things back on track but it’s not working. We’ve had like 2 fights about it at this point but nothing too crazy. He says he wants me to initiate more, I try but he doesn’t notice or turns me down. He acts surprised when I compliment him, when I compliment him all the time. I ended up going to grad school and we talk every night (I’m in another state for school). There’s no worries of cheating or anything like that. Now I’m home visiting and he’s been lovey like always. We always grab on each other, kiss, hug, and everything seems fine… but no sex. Im incredibly confused and my feelings are hurt. I want to bring it up but I don’t want to start a fight when I only get to see him for this short time before I go back. Every part of our relationship is perfect, except this and I don’t know what to do. The thought of the relationship ending due do this fills me with a feeling I can only describe as feeling like my heart is being ripped out. What do you think I should do? How can I even start to work through this with him?
TL;DR: Very little sex for the past 2.5 years due to grief. How would you suggest trying to rekindle the intimacy after getting through said grief?

Good afternoon po at sorry for the lack of a better title. Just want to inquire ano pwede gawin namin. Naaawa kasi ako sa sitwasyon ng pinsan ko, sobrang depressed na kasi di nya alam gagawin. Wala kasi syang alam sa batas at sa rights nya.

Cousin (Male, married, in his 40s, tricycle driver) Wife: walang work, with 2 kids from her 2 exes Kids ni cousin: A(m,10), B(f,8), C(m,3) Aunt ni Wife (P) Asawa ng aunt ni wife (Q) 

Hindi na nagkakasundo yung cousin ko at yung wife nya. May times na pinipisikal sya ng asawa nya pero di sya makalaban kasi takot sya ma-barangay at makulong. Ilang beses na rin sya pinapalayas ng asawa nya sa bahay nila kung saan siya ang nagbabayad.
Nakatira sila sa apartment na pagmamay-ari ng aunt ng wife nya(P). Two weeks ago after nila mag-away, pinalayas na si pinsan at dun sya tumira kasama sa mother niya. Dala nya sina kids A and B (gusto ng mga bata na sa kanya sumama, even yung isang stepdaughter gusto rin sana sumama kasi pabaya yung nanay at palaging nag-iinom).
Aware si pinsan na kailangan nya magsustento sa mga bata. Pero ngayon, nag-insist si wife nya, P, at Q na bayaran yung apartment kung saan nakatira si wife nya kasi daw pamilya pa rin. Sinabihan din sya nina P at Q na wala syang madadala sa mga anak nya kasi dapat daw sa nanay. Today, ipapa-barangay daw ang pinsan ko (wala pa kong balita if natuloy).
Additional info. Tricycle driver si pinsan at yung linya (ruta) ay owned by P and Q. Kinuha nila yun sa pinsan ko kaya hindi nakapag-biyahe and pinsan ko yesterday. In short, wala na syang trabaho.
Ito po questions ko.

1. May laban ba sya sa mga kids nya (A and B)?
   
2. Obligasyon ba nya bayaran ang rent sa apartment plus utilities na tinitirhan ng asawa nya (kasama ng asawa nya si kid C)?
   
3. Ano po ang minimum sa kelangan nyang ibigay para sa mga bata? (Percentage ng kita nya)
   

Hoping na may magbigay po ng guidance. Maraming salamat.

Hello , I’m posting here since I don’t really have too many friends that can help me , so I decided to ask here maybe someone can help me .
Long story short , my mother has a disability , sadly she lost one of her arms , she lives here for like 15 years worked all the time full-time job until the incident happened , she has 70( GdB) . I live with her , I work a full time job and a second job so I can support her .
What I seem to don’t understand . She gets only 198 euro every month as help . Is that normal ? Aren’t there more benefits that she can get ?
If someone could help me I would be really grateful , if you want to be rude please don’t comment .

Today I got a call from my agency that my contract was going to be cut short due to a few complaints. I need other nurses’ opinion on this please.
Context: I’m contracted at a rural multi purpose hospital, combined emergency, acute medical and residential care. It’s purely nurse-led with medical officers on call who can get on the telehealth/screen in ED if needed. Plus a doctor who physically visits approx 3x a week in AM shifts.
There’s a senior RN who works casual shifts. We never really got along, although we’ve never had any direct conflict or arguments. She just makes a lot of comments about travel nurses, questioning our ED skills, how we made the nurses accomodation a “pig sty” (even though it’s spotless, no dishes on the sink, always dried and put away on the spot etc). Anyway she complained to the management that I don’t do complete handovers- for example I didn’t hand over to their shift that I gave a slow IV push of digoxin to an ED patient. Another nurse who was in the handover room 100% remembers that I did in fact hand it over including the period of time I took to push the drug in and what time. On top of that, all the drugs given were charted and co signed by us, all available for her to read. But she says I never handed it over.
Number two, there’s a complaint that I argued with the doctor and have “abrupt attitude.” I have never ever argued with anybody there- not the admin, nit the cleaners, not the medical team etc. I have opinions about the people but I always keep it to myself to avoid the work politics. The closest thing I can think of is the doctor DECLINED to see a head injury patient I handed over, because she would rather suture a non urgent wound on the limb in another room. Without asking who, what, how, when, she just replied “I don’t want to see him” with a smile on her face. I said “They’re actually in that other room right now and have timed their arrival to see you.” And she went “Well I’ll be too busy suturing in there.” And that was end. She refused to see him 100%. Fortunately, the same coworker who is vouching I handed over the digoxin also witnessed this interaction. The patient was clinically well and neuro obs okay so he was discharged with a minor traumatic brain injury fact sheet. I explained all the warning signs and to come back if so. He returned the next day unwell and I texted her again to come SEE him, that’s when she finally saw him. And the kid ended up getting a CT scan in a bigger hospital. Luckily, there was no brain bleed. This was an INCREDIBLY DANGEROUS situation and I have so many regrets because I didn’t advocate for that patient enough. Luckily he was okay and he went home. I also had another chest pain patient who presented twice on the same day- I followed protocol, did the ECG and bloods. The dr was giving me attitude that it was clearly non-cardiac and non-urgent, rather mental health related. Regardless, I did my job and followed protocols for chest pain. Then the pharmacy called me asking about a loratadine script not matching the online med chart, and wanted to clarify which drug the doctor wanted. Obviously I was not going to tell her which drug to dispense (as I’m not a doctor) so I passed it on to the doctor. Her response was “This question is so petty. I don’t really care.” As you can see, despite this doctor’s attitude, I’ve been very patient and kept things to myself to remain professionalism. These are the closest interactions I can think of to an “argument.” The only person other than my witness who knew about this interaction was the same RN above who complained about the digoxin
Fourth, we do our own blood pathologies onsite due to being rural. So when I had a chest pain, I placed a 24 gauge IV cannula on a 71 year olds r) forearm SOLELY for the collection of bloods. My thinking was rather than poking her 3x for repeat bloods I would cannulate her to collect from the same cannula (you only need 1 mL or less each time). I already told this to the LPN/LVN who questioned the size of the cannula. I assured her at the event we had to administer IV drugs, it would be given in a bigger cannula on the L) forearm (as I avoid collecting blood from the same IV where drugs and fluids are being pushed into). This is also documented in her acute folder, cannulation form (under reason for cannulation is BLOODS). Anyway this LPN complained that I’m using the wrong IV size. Iwant to clarify NO IV DRUGS were given. Only ORAL. That IV was purely for bloods. But you know what, thinking about it, even if I were to push fluids through there, it wouldn’t be wrong. 24 gauge is used on paediatrics AND elderly AND adults with miniature sensitive veins.
But despite all of this, my contract has been cut shorter by weeks and the agency has asked me not to approach the management. And to finish my contract quietly and in peace. They won’t pass my feedback on out of fear it will cause conflict in their relationship with the client. Additionally, moving forward, they cannot place me in ED contracts anymore until I’ve completed a medical/acute contract and gotten good feedback.
To me this absolute bullshit so I told them this will be the last contract with them (I have other agencies). Did I do the right thing? Was I wrong in any of these scenarios? Please give feedback as I want to improve myself as a nurse…

posting from a throwaway bc my boyfriend follows my main a/c.
to make a long story short, I saw my boyfriend’s saved Reddit posts the other day and most of the content is transsexual porn (exclusively with breasts and a penis). He has never indicated that he has this sexual preference before nor even displayed remotely bisexual tendencies, so I was shocked to see this. He is pretty liberal, but comes from a country where homosexuality is heavily discriminated against and traditional gender roles are encouraged, so maybe he feels ashamed, idk.
We’ve known each other for quite a while but only started dating around 7 months ago. We have a really great relationship - communication is healthy, a really natural connection and a very healthy and enjoyable sex life. I do honestly believe he is attracted to me (I did see a handful of porn videos of cis women too, not sure if this means anything though) and he is a very thoughtful and kind boyfriend, honestly, everything overall has been pretty great.
However I can’t get this out of my mind. I don’t feel too bothered about the preference itself (although I do wonder if I should), but i am worried that this might negatively affect our sex life later down the road, or maybe I’m in denial and should be taking this a lot more seriously. I don’t know anyone who has been in a situation even slightly similar to this and I’m just feeling so confused right now

I only get mute if I’m anxious, stressed or sad, I feel so rude it makes me want to cry. I can whisper very short sentences if I force myself but everyone gets angry with me and they all end up not wanting to speak to me after. What do you do when mute?

I’m 18m and over the course of the last 4 months, every single one of my 3 best friends stopped talking to me for different reasons. It’s hard to think I’m not the problem. I don’t have anyone to talk to anymore, play video games with, smoke with, hang out all night or someone to look forward to working with anymore because of random shit that I’ve done that I didn’t think were that bad. First was k. K and I stopped talking on the day after my birthday. Basically k I had known the least amount of time, just short of two years at the time after I met him when I started working. He quickly became my best friend I’ve ever had. We both had very similar very irregular sleep schedules,and liked the same stuff like video games, smoking, and hanging out at all the odd hours of the night and also had very similar senses of humor. So on my b day he had slept over the night before because he brought me home from work and didn’t wanna drive home so late, we didn’t do anything we both just went to bed and I went to school in the morning, he’s already graduated so he just chilled at my house. He got me after school and we chilled for like 2 hours before he left because he had a piercing appointment. He decided to come back a few hours later unexpectedly and it was rly excited to have him chill on my b day. But then randomly like an hour in he’s like dude I gotta go I’m sorry because his gf was freaking out that he wasn’t hanging out with her yet. They had plans to just hang out after she was out of work but I was like “dude it’s my b day she can’t like, reschedule or just wait a few” but she was firm and he left. Me and her were friends but I was mad so I texted her being just upset that she mad him leave and she started freaking out and we argued for a bit. The next day while I was working K texted me freaking out for texting her and such. I found out prior he wasn’t as mad about that but more mad about me constantly having to be right about everything and that just set him off. He still hasn’t shown any interest in talking to me again and it’s killing me. Then my friend A about a month or two later had some dumb little fight about something unimportant with me and he blocked me like he always does whenever he gets mad at me. Ive been friends with him for like 6 years and we always have stupid little fights about shit like him lying or ditching me for someone or stuff like just little disagreements that get blown out of proportion. I basically decided this time that waiting for him to get over it was not worth it and I’m not wasting my time waiting for him to forgive me for things that or more or less not my fault most of the time so I blocked him back this time and made the choice myself to drop him. It was hard but we clearly weren’t great together if we always argue so I just said it’s for the better. This led to W tho. About 2-3 weeks ago W stopped talking to me over a disagreement with A. Although I was done with A I went to go use my phone controller thing for a game called a back bone, it’s like 100 bucks and when I was looking for it I realized I had let A borrow it. Me, A, and W were part of our little group and usually did most things as a group. Since I had stopped talking to A, we obviously didn’t anymore and we both just talked to W separate. I basically asked W and our other mutual friend who I knew was actually with A at the time to tell him I wanted it back. W didn’t answer for a bit but the other friend did and said that “he said he’ll give it back if you give him the cards against humanity games”. I have like 4 $20 sets for cah that I had purchased throughout the years for our sleepovers. Since I bought them I told him through our mutual,” no, those are my cards. That I bought with my money. I’m not giving him my stuff to get my stuff back. I ain’t playing these games so tell him he either gives it back or imma beat him up.” Mind you the last fight I was ever in was when I was like 12 but I was just using scare tactics because it’s what works, I’m huge he’s small I was using what I had to get my shit back. W finally answered and got a different answer saying that he didn’t know where it was so I said then he owes 100 bucks. W was telling me I make plenty of money and to just let it go and I said no. He heard that I threatened him and that was basically it. He called me a bully and stopped talking. And that’s it. I have no friends now. I feel like I can’t not mess up. If I break my bong then I’d rly have no friends so I better not fuck him up too.

Hello everyone, so I’m in my early 20s and for most of my life I’ve been trying to deal with the loss of my dad. My dad died when I was toddler. I wish could get into the details here, but I’m afraid that’s too personal. To make a long story short: he ultimately changed our family’s life and others for the worse because of his unconscionable actions. When I was younger, I didn’t think about him a lot, but as I got older I began to think about all of the things that we missed out on together, but at the same time, I can’t help but think about all of the pain he’s caused me, even from the grave. I’ve seen the father-son relationships that my bros have with their dads and it’s honestly something I’ve always wanted to have with mine. Often times I wonder if we ever meant enough to him for to risk everything that he worked so hard to get. When someone asks about my parents,it’s hard for me to tell them that I only have 1 parent, and when they ask about my dad, I have to try my best not to get teary-eyed; this is something i’ve always struggled with, not only that, but it’s the fact that I can’t even tell them how he died. I’ve never even shared it with my best friends and I don’t even talk to my family about it. His actions also affected my relationship with the other side of my family, who I hardly ever see, but I still love them. As a child I was told “just tell them you don’t like to talk about it,” which is why I feel like I have a hard time expressing my feelings or even trying to get in a relationship, bc of the fear of rejection and this secret. Despite all this, I’ve had a good life, many struggles, just like everyone else, but at times I fear that I will end up like him. Sometimes I’m even told that I’m a splitting image of him, at times it’s comforting, yet scary.
As a Christian, I know I am supposed to love others and forgive them, but in a situation like this, how does one overcome something like this: loving your deceased parent that you don’t remember, despite their dark past that can ultimately affect how others would view you, if they knew the truth? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Day 0!
5/13, total lap, took uterus, cervix, tubes, and did a bladder check. Edit: both ovaries intact.
I checked in about 840, surgery about 1040. One final pregnancy test. The staff was amazing (except the anaesthesiologist was a bit of a dick to one of the nurses, I didn’t like that-I think I might be reporting that… but he was fine to me). Even my gyno who I wasn’t a fan of during our appointments, I could tell surgery is where she was meant to be. I met my OR nurse, anaesthesiologist, and my gyno/surgeon in pre-op where every single person (plus surgical day care nurse) went over everything with me again and again, and ensured I was comfortable with what we were planning to do, and confirmed that barring any issues, my catheter would be removed during surgery, and then a camera check up the urethra and into the bladder. There was a slight hiccup in something in the lab with my pre op blood work where they listed me as a c section (ABSOLUTELY NOT) and something in the test regarding transfusion expired within 3 days and I did my pre op Thursday. I was worried it was going to delay things but since I have been fortunate and never had a transfusion (and the surgeon believed me and didn’t want her day messed up, plus they had the Thursday results) they called the lab, they were there super quick, and it was drawn up then I was wheeled in to the OR. Once in the OR they had me transfer onto the table, got me situated, introduced the surgical team, and my surgeon went over everything one last time while I was still conscious and made sure everyone was on the same page and ready to go. I was given oxygen and told to take a few deep breaths, and then they started pumping meds into my IV and I was out.
From what I hear (my surgeon called my mom/pickup person) it all went like clockwork. I was out in under two hours, into recovery to wake up and when I came to, three nurses (or health care workers, whatever their role, but I think RNs) were chatting about me near my bedside on how I had a lack of requirements before I could be discharged. I don’t think they realised or expected me to be awake so quickly but I said I had been told that as soon as I could walk to the bathroom and pee on my own, I could leave. They looked a little shocked. Not sure if because I was awake or because I knew what I needed to do.
I did say in recovery to my nurse that I felt like I needed to pee, but they wanted me to wait until the hour was up in recovery and I was transferred back to surgical day care.
Once I was in day care I was given juice, digestive cookies and my phone and started texting my mom, who was right outside, and said I was back to where she could come see me. The person at the desk at the front tried not to let her in and said I wasn’t back yet (not sure if there was a lack of communication or no) but mom insisted I was texting her and telling her I was back, and the woman from the desk had to come in and check for herself that I was back… and asked my nurse-who was again nearby-and I heard the front desk woman muttering and said something about “her mom”. I piped up and said don’t try to stop her from coming in, she won’t go away and she would get in either way, I’m texting with her now. The woman didn’t like that much, but my nurse laughed and okay’d her coming in.
Nurse back in day care listened to me pretty quick, did her checks and made she I could sit/stand and disconnected my IV line. She walked me to the bathroom to make sure I was okay. I peed without issue-it was a bit tender coming out but no burning… but man. Maybe bring your own toilet paper. That rough stuff is even rougher when you’re sensitive😳
I felt immediately better cause now I knew they could let me out once my final hour in recovery was complete. Another glass of juice, some more post op checks done, and I was able to get my IV out. (I know most people wouldn’t like IVs but it was a huge hang up for me… my veins suck and it was tender and once they confirmed I could leave I wanted it GONE.
Passed the rest of the time chatting, going over discharge paperwork/instructions, then I was given the official go ahead to change and leave. Slow going, changing, and man the hospital pads are atrocious (and no wings?!). I peed once more, hating the toilet paper but loved the mesh ish shorts they gave me and asked for a couple more, and they gave me two or three more. I was allowed to leave just after 230pm.
I was able to walk out of the hospital on my own two feet. Slowly, but walking and being upright felt much better than sitting. The nurse said it was allowed as long as mom was right there (which she obviously was) in case I got dizzy. We walked out to the front entrance (elevator, no stairs of course), and I stood at a safe spot where I could sit if I needed to, while she went and got the car from the far side of the lot. I probably could have walked it, but it was slow and didn’t want to chance anything.
The ride home was a bit rough-I forgot my pillow and I think that would have helped. Held my hands/palms onto my lower belly for some support. It was manageable, I wasn’t crying out in pain or anything, but definitely internally felt every little bump despite mom trying her best to avoid them.
I’m staying in my own apartment, (parent’s offered me to stay at theirs but I’m far more comfy in my own place, and no stairs) my dad’s sleeping on the couch while my pup is at the house with my mom and their two dogs. So far I’ve been able to manage on my own but it’s nice knowing he’s here incase I need something. When I got home, much to my dad’s chagrin (he wanted to do it for me), I made myself buttered toast, had an ice cream sandwich, some arrowroot cookies, a Tylenol and after eating upright and walking in circles a bit, I went to my bed with my heating pad, pregnancy pillow and about 8462619 other pillows I adjusted as needed. I’m very happy I had a pregnancy pillow. I was debating getting the wedges but decided with the option of Amazon same day/next day delivery, if I changed my mind it wouldn’t be long without it.
Obviously there’s more internal room now, but a heads up-I’ve peed a few times since getting home (it’s near 1am) I have noticed that “hmm I need to pee” turns quickly into “YUP GOTTA GO” when I stand up. I think that little bit extra gravity assist hits when I stand. No burning, still just a bit sensitive, but I bought a peri care bottle with a nozzle on it and is it a game changer. The hospital gave me one but it didn’t have an angled nozzle, which to me is useless unless I want to climb in my shower every time or end up with water all over my floor. First time I used it, I just rinsed with cool water multiple times as it was soothing (not going into the vagina).
There’s been very little blood so far-some spotting but not much.
The pain? Feels like a concentrated day 2 of my usual bad periods, with low back pain (helped greatly with heating pad). Like most of us here… we’re used to heavy pain so it’s not all that unbearable.
I was given tramadol, and didn’t take my first one until 9pm. Didn’t love the feeling. And my limbs started tingling which was weird. That’s supposed to be a withdrawal effect. But my body doesn’t handle drugs well so could just be me. I’ll see what happens later in the night if I need something else, I’ll take it. But so far the pain/discomfort is reminding me not to sleep how i normally do-on my side with my leg up toward my abdomen.
I’ve got my naproxen and Tylenol that the pharmacy okay’d me to take instead of Advil and Tylenol.
Forgot to mention-my throat is a bit sore, but not nearly what I expected. Feels like I just spent some time around a campfire where the smoke randomly followed me. One Halls seemed to help, and of course, ice cream sandwiches 😂.
And now to wait for meeting the real me after 20+ years of being on oral birth control… should be some definite hormonal swings during recovery plus that, but can’t wait😂🤦🏻‍♀️

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This is a short rant/general inquiry about the features available on mobile compared to desktop.
How is it that they can add the floating events to mobile that are generally quite glitchy on desktop AND mobile platforms, but not a MUCH needed and requested at least Curio Shop section to the Wshop like they have for kinzstyle outlet clothes?
I’m going to be away from home for the next near two months and don’t particularly feel like lugging around my laptop just to get my Curio Rares, daily wishes, and missing daily games (deluxe wheel, wishing well 2, jumbleberry, and spree)😭😭 over half my routine is gonna be interrupted…
On a side note to that, how can you as a company promote, promote, promote deluxe membership and features it exclusively brings, but not have the bare minimum ones available through mobile (deluxe wheel and the today’s activities tab that provides bonuses for them AND the pets of the month)?
Anybody know the reason? I know that Flash is particularly outdated and harder to use, but that cannot be the only reason, can it?

This is long, sorry.
My wife cheated on me 14 years ago while we dated. We were in our mid twenties and had been dating for several years. She was seeing a man from work that was almost 40 years old at the time, so nearly a 15 year age difference. I found out while I was using her laptop to help her with a project for school (she was finishing her degree) and found an email she sent to this guy with a picture of her boobs with the words “do my boobs look good today?”
I remember I was shaking and blew up at her immediately. She denied it was anything and she strung me along for a few months before we got back together. I knew she was still seeing this guy while we were trying to fix our relationship. I remember the anxiety and depression like it was yesterday.
Shortly after we got back together, she found out she was pregnant. She assured me it was my child and I believed her. I remember the possible night of conception when she told me to cum inside of her. We were always careful and never did that before for obvious reasons. We moved in together and got married 2 years later. We now have 3 kids together. I didn’t bring it up at the time because she was pregnant and I didn’t want to cause her stress.
This has always bothered me as we never discussed the cheating. I finally brought it up 3 years ago and told her I needed closer and have always thought it was possible our oldest was not my child. I needed details on the extent of her relationship with this guy. The conversation did not go well. She was so cold and seemed like she wanted to avoid any conversation about the subject. She does not do well with communicating so I admit it was probably tough for her.
I needed more answers so I brought this up again recently. She admitted that he kissed her and that it was more of an emotional affair. She claims they did not sex and he never touched her. She said she didn’t feel right when they kissed so she told him to stop and he never did it again. They went to a movie together, walks at the park, coffee dates, late night dinner. She said that she liked the attention and that was it.
The problem, she claims to not remember any details. She doesn’t know the name of the movie, when or where they kissed, when she officially broke it off with him. To top it off this guy was married and his wife was pregnant, but claimed he was separated. I asked if he told her about his wife and she said yes but again can’t remember when he told her about his wife’s pregnancy.
She has zero fucking details other than she realized she loved me and broke it off with him. I don’t know what to do here. I’m tired of brushing this under the rug. I love her and want to believe her but I can’t without details.
I think she might be afraid to admit the truth because we have a nice life together. She doesn’t work and I make enough money to support us and not worry financially. We are very grateful for that. She did tell me that she regrets this every day and always feared I would divorce her over this.
I told her I want a paternity test for our oldest and she agreed. She said she know with 100% certainty our oldest is mine and nothing else is possible”. I think that a paternity test will strain our marriage if she is telling the truth. Now what? I can’t figure out if she’s telling the truth, lying because she fucked him and was scared she was pregnant so she had sex with me to say I got her pregnant, or just horrible timing around when we had sex and when the cheating occurred.
I have no idea how to get past not knowing what she did with this guy.

I’m going back home for 2 days to sort out some paperwork that has to be done there and see my mother but god do I dislike flying.
My last return flight was in October and I was a mess both ways, I’m talking really high heart rate and literally sobbing for the entire takeoff and then some. I had worked myself up so badly I was having palpitations and felt so bad when we finally landed. These days I mostly avoid going anywhere that requires a flight unless I have to or someone convinces me to but it’s always traumatic.
Anyway I’ve mostly felt calm in the last 24hrs because I know I have to go and can’t cancel this as it’s not a holiday. Usually I always feel like I have the option to. However now I feel like I should be worried and concerned and research flight statistics and how it’s safe etc because if I don’t, if I relax too much, something will go badly. I know it’s not logical.
I’m flying from London uk to Denmark and it’s relatively short flight but the weather is rainy and there are dark clouds atm and the landings in Copenhagen are always so bumpy because it’s right by the sea and they do these sharp turns where you can see the water and the wing is pointed down and it FREAKS ME OUT.
Anyway I’m just ranting to get this out of my system hopefully. I just want for once in my lifetime to get on a plane and not care in a way I don’t care when I’m in a train or bus.
I’ve read SO much about how safe it is and what happens every step of the way but it’s hard to come to terms with all the what ifs. If not that then I get anxious about having a medical situation on board. If not that, what if a pilot does. If not that - what if some unprecedented thing happens. Ugh.

I can’t find anything on the internet, and reading the lists of properties/funcs in the doc is sometimes very abstract to me, and therefore hard to implement in my project. But I’m sure this must be doable with tilemaps.
When I think of games like stardew valley, or anno, then the maps there are basically grids where you can move freely, but only build on the grid. Where can I start conceptually to achieve this? Is this possible through tilemaps? Or do I need an array that calculates the grid and then looks at the mouse pos every frame to know which cell we technically are in?
What I did for now was using % on my mouse pos Vector2 together with my grid size (64) to make a building shilouette, that followed my mouse, always snap to an imaginary 64x64 grid. But this seems like a very short term workaround to me. It wouldn’t work in a stardew valley scenario for example.
Are there any good tutorials/resources to this you can recommend? (Except the doc, I read it but it’s hard for me to grasp without practical examples). Or do you have a tip for me as a beginner on where to start with this?
Thank you guys, and have great day!

Before I begin this is completely off the record. So for about 7 years I’ve liked a girl. She has manipulated me hurt me mentally make me hate myself completely. For example A few days ago she did multiple things. I tried talking to her irl and she would end the conversation immediately. Prior to the silence she wrote a poem about “how she felt”. I really felt evaluated and loved. Then she said it was a trend. I felt so hurt and I got very mad. But when I could calm down I almost felt even more in love with them. I remember how they love to skate just like me and how amazing they look. And flash forward to now-two days later. I think I’m obsessed. I’ve tried to gain back control of the relationship but I feel so in love when I shouldn’t. I’m so obsessed I’m scaring myself. Please give me advice

Alright, I get the 💎✋🦍 nostalgia and I’m here for it (even if I missed the real opportunity with calls). But the short float % is nowhere near what it was in 2021.
Why aren’t we going full autist over SPWR, ABR or MPW?
SPWR Short Float 95% rn 👀