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2014.05.29 01:37 Erinmore Where can I buy this

Do you have a picture or description of something but don't know where to get it? Ask "where can I buy this" or "Help me find this" here. any idea where, looking for, wcibt, something like, replacement, lost, broke, favorite, need, want, get this
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2016.05.26 02:49 shnurshnur Makeup, Skin and Hair Care PH!

Beauty talk from the Philippines and for the Filipinos!
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2011.09.05 23:46 BeMyNeighbor Where can I buy...?

Welcome to /WhereCanIBuy - please read the rules in the sidebar, and if you have any questions on what you can and can't do here, feel free to message the Moderator.
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2024.05.15 17:13 Honest_Back_994 Does Anyone Have a Copy of a Junk Debt Buyer Purchase Agreement

Just had Pre trial conference:
Judge called my motion for request for production of documents and the debt buyer purchase agreement burdensome.
“It could be 1,000 pages”, he said. According to the rules the Plaintiff had 14 days from receipt to answer. They didn’t answer. I filed a motion to compel production.
Today was the first time the judge looked at the documents. He skimmed them.
It looks like he considers the bill of sale, the affidavit, and the redacted spreadsheet with my name on it as valid assignment to the junk debt buyer.
I explained to the judge that junk debt buyers pay about 4 cents on the dollar for written off debt. That the typical junk debt buyer purchase agreement has exceptions like as is, no warranty, might have errors, and even an exception that the junk debt buyer can collect but cannot sue. Facts that benefit me, and strike the single page documents that the junk debt buyer presented in the complaint.
I also explained that the documents provided aren’t admissible evidence for trial… they are designed for default and summary judgments.
And that I’m entitled to the complete records as per Ohio civil rule 106 - Evid. 106. When a writing or recorded statement or part thereof is introduced by a party, an adverse party may require the introduction at that time of any other part or any other writing or recorded statement which is otherwise admissible and which ought in fairness to be considered contemporaneously with it.
We were given 60 days to file our motions, 21 days to respond, and then we have another pre-trial conference on July 17th.
What should be my next move?

Does Anyone Have a Copy of a Purchase Agreement?

I'd like to get a copy of a purchase agreement to put in an exhibit for my next motion on my case.
Pre-trial conference the judge said my request to have junk debt buyer produce it was burdensome.
I'd like to show him terms where the debt file is as is, no warranty etc.,
I've searched online, but can't find an example.Does Anyone Have a Copy of a Purchase Agreement?
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2024.05.15 17:12 Pulsar-Darkstar I (26 F) don't get appreciated by my partner (32 M) and am not in his priorities. He also started blaming me for many things. What should I do?

I'm Lisa, 26 F, and have been in my relationship for 1,5 years with Max, (32 M). Me and Max met each other online. We both like gaming and one day started talking more with each other. We both confessed that we were not on the lookout for a partner, but soon realized that our chemistry was on point, and soon after we first met in a hotel. Things were going great, we realized we loved each other deeply, and after 3 moths, I asked him if he was ready for a new relationship. His last relationship ended just about a year ago because his ex gf suddenly left him. It was obvious that he was hurt, but never compared me to her or vice versa. Max is the guy that's very neutral, not bashing people or just talking gold of them, he sets things straight and clear, and has nothing to hide. He cares for his stuff, is working full-time in a 3 shirt system, and cares for the people he cares about. I on the other hand, am more of a realist/pessimist, but thanks to Max I started being way more optimistic. We both had a rough childhood. Max' mother left him and his family when he was 13, not caring about them after that. His dad always supported and cared for him, and teached him very useful lessons about how to handle things on a daily basis, and to overtime certain objects which become to be important in the future. My childhood was more chaotic. My dad never actually cared for me or my mother (his wife) and never stopped bashing my mom. She on the other hand handled everything herself. She cared for me nonstop as I had a serious heart condition and basically not working immune system, but thankfully this subsided over time when I grew older. My parents were always messy tho, they rarely took care of our home, and couldn't throw or give away stuff no one ever needed and used. I grew up in this horrible environment, not getting the support I needed in school when I was getting bullied and almost killed by some classmates, and had to deal with bashing at home after school. When I was 11, soon after the incident with my classmates, I soon became depressed and overwhelmed by all the hate and anger I encountered over the years. It's safe to say that some would've ended it after these events, but I didn't, but I thought about doing it. Yes, I started thinking about it, and it went on till my early 20s. Soon after when I was out of school, things took a turn for the worse, and my health was declining. At 16 my doctor diagnosed me with hydrocephalus, where the fluid in my brain caused pressure on my frontal lobe. He also found out that my right heart chamber was enlarged, and that I needed to take things slow and avoid stress at all costs. These issues persisted and are cause more and more smaller issues that affect my daily life. My hormones are out of control, with testosterone being in an extreme high, which makes me impulsive and I get angry fast. I was never like that, and I can't control it either. My senses started dwindling and I got in an even more depressed state as more issues appeared. I'm currently trying to get ahold of some professional doctors to further check me out, but getting appointments is very difficult and extremely time consuming. My boyfriend Max always supports me, and even offered me to take me to specialists, but never did it and stopped talking about it, even tho I asked from time to time. He knows about my past, and at the beginning he understood and respected me and the way I am because of all this. He never had any issues besides me being too pessimistic, but this greatly changed over a couple months after we came together. What concerns me is, as soon as I started improving, he started being the negative one. He started blaming me for being lazy, even tho he knows how bad my physical and mental health can be at days. I don't follow my parents standards when it comes to hygiene, and tbh I sometimes don't clean for 2 to 3 days, but this isn't the norm. I keep my home relatively clean, despite having 3 cats. He was very affectionate and curious at the beginning, but this all dwindled down with time. He knows what I like, like being cuddled, having my head or back scratched or getting gently caressed. It's something I do to him, and I know he loves it, but he stopped doing this to me. Max loves getting massages by me, as it helped with his back pain, and when I ask for a massage in return, he just postpones it day after day. He even stopped making out with me, even tho he always tells me how badly he wants it. The only thing that's been unaffected by this is the intimate part. It got better over time, and lacks nothing except sometimes, he tends to rush it. The overall affection and carefulness is on a hold tho, and when I try to talk to Max, he gets defensive and tries to blame me for everything. His understanding, respect and appreciation for what I actually do decimated as well. Even tho we share most lifegoals, Max still isn't sure about having a family one day and what we as a couple strive for. He also spends more and more time with his friends. He isn't cheating, I know most of his friends and been with him many times, and when I ask about some we-time, I always get "they are my friends, I was always like that. If I want to spend time with them I will" as an answer. He has no secrets, and would let me look into his phone and everything anytime, but I never looked into it as I respect his privacy.
What should I do? Should I ask him if I am one of his priorities at all? Or should I make clear what I want and expect? I just want mutual feelings and honesty, e.g. when I write him a letter about how I feel, how much I love him, what he means to me and that I'd like to built a healthy life with him, or when I do extra chores for him when he's sick, comforting and caring for him. Would that be too much to ask for?
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2024.05.15 17:12 Ocean--2209 Advice for holistic pregnancy nutrition

Hi everyone, I'm looking for recommendations on good books that address what specific herbs etc you can have/ need to avoid during pregnancy. I have been searching online but would prefer actual recommendations! Something ideal would be like a pregnancy dictionary where I can look up specific herbs etc and see if they are safe. I'm trying to be as healthy as possible! Thanks!
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2024.05.15 17:12 presumedinnocense Two pieces of critical evidence in triple murder trial are sketch as he!! 30 year vet imprisoned on a life sentence - how did this even happen? Our justice system is truly broken. #freekitmartin

Imagine if you will that you have been accused of a triple murder. Sentenced to a life sentence without the possibility of parole. Twelve jurors in Kentucky found the evidence convincing enough to convict Christian "Kit" Martin for the murders of his neighbors Calvin Phillips, Pam Phillips and Ed Dansereau.
His defense is that he was framed by a vindictive wife (Adele "Joan" Harman) that threatened to ruin him if he divorced her. The jurors got to hear very little about the backstory, a pattern of wild lies and deceptions and accusations against prior men in her lives when things didn't go her way, all discovered by private investigators.
This was a heavy circumstantial case. Joan and her son were allowed to plead the 5th and that fact was not disclosed to the jurors. Out of more than 100 DNA samples tested not one belonged to Kit. There were two key pieces of evidence that convinced these jurors beyond a reasonable doubt the Kit Martin was guilty. Kit claims those two pieces of evidence were planted so lets take a closer look:
First we have the dogtag. I mean, Kit must have done it because he left his dogtag right? There are four critical problems with this evidence:
  1. The name on the dogtag read "Martin, Kit" so this dogtag is not military issue. The military only issues tags with the full name (not nicknames) which would have been printed instead "Martin, Christian." Fake souvenir tags can be purchased online (an even in kiosks in some locations) to read what you input on your order. I know a lot of military people and know exactly zero that wear their tags outside of work. But let's say for arguments sake that the souvenir tag really was Kit's. The murders were planned in "precise military fashion" according to the prosecution, yet Kit chooses to put on a souvenir tag with his name on it that morning? I find that very hard to believe.
  2. This souvenir tag was tested for fingerprints and DNA and they found none. The prosecution argued that while Kit was cleaning up the blood from the carpet in the foyer, the tag must have kept getting in his way so he took it off and set it up on a shelf. That seems really far-fetched.
  3. The tag was on a string and not a break-a-way chain which was also tested for DNA evidence and there was "some DNA evidence" but apparently not enough to make a comparison to Kit's. This seems really off to me. If someone had just committed three murders, I would imagine they would have sweat a bit leaving behind DNA. Yet interestingly there is no DNA evidence on the tag or string matching Kit.
  4. Besides the most ridiculous idea that a murderer would even put that tag on before going to commit these murders, he had the forethought to wipe it down real good when removing it when it was in his way (to remove any fingerprints and DNA). Instead of putting it in his pocket, he places it on a shelf and then he forgets to take it when he leaves? Wow, really?
So the second major piece of evidence in this murder case was a spent 45 casing that matched the Glock found in Kit's safe. Here again there are a few problems with this evidence:
  1. Kit was portrayed by the prosecution as a highly trained ranger who skillfully planned out these murders (or at least Calvin and Pam's as Ed was an unexpected variable). But then afterwards he walked across the street and placed the murder weapon in his safe instead of ditching it? That's not too bright.
  2. The 45 casing was found by family members when cleaning the porch area FIVE months AFTER the murders. This was despite the porch area being processed THREE separate times; once by Christian County Sheriffs Department, once when Detective Scott Smith went to spray the scene with Blue Star (Luminol), and lastly when Crime Scene Investigators came in to try to determine where on the property the shootings took place.
  3. The bullets found in Cal's body were not conclusively linked to Kit's Glock in his safe. But the 45 casing found by family members WAS positively identified as being fired from Kit's Glock.
  4. Kit testified that when he first moved to the area he hung out with Cal some and did target shooting in Cal's backyard. There is no doubt that Kit was a gun enthusiast, but that does not make a person a murderer. He had spent casings in his backyard, Cal's backyard and in his truck bed. So it would be easy for someone to collect one of Kit's spent casings and plant it on the porch through the latticework.
So there you have it - so much reasonable doubt, zero DNA evidence yet Kit sits in prison with a life sentence. I want justice for the murders of Cal, Pam and Ed as much as anyone but I want the true killes behind bars. The entire case was aired on Court TV but a great book outlining this complicated triple murder along with much of the backstory was just released: https://www.amazon.com/WILL-RUIN-YOU-Twisted-Behind/dp/1960332651/ref=sr_1_1?crid=16F4EJ1ADIAFW&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.0Uv31xRkigJgf0YtFU_hoTDA5NKrUkmCjLdhWuYJt7PGjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.JPhlG_WJosxW0v7nGrsHoDXG_IlDGM6632INYnJiFwA&dib_tag=se&keywords=emilio+corsetti&qid=1715785721&sprefix=emilio+corsetti%2Caps%2C184&sr=8-1
A good reference for this case is the Dateline episode "The Evil That Watches." https://www.nbc.com/dateline/video/the-evil-that-watches/9000190878
Another good shorter synopsis (though a HUGE mistake is minute 4:25 where he states the phone found in the driveway was determined to be Pam's. It was Ed's phone found in the driveway. Joan was actually the one that took Pam's phone into the ATT store about a month after the murders saying she found it and wanted to get it unlocked (that's a whole crazy part of evidence that also convinces me that Kit is innocent - #joanhadthephone https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WbFF7SyeSg
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2024.05.15 17:12 Daydream_Meanderer Tivat — Need Help — Bike Pump

I am a foreigner staying in Tivat. I bought a used bike with flat tires and I don’t have a bike pump, I can’t buy one online because I can’t make a giro transfer, and I don’t know how to use the pump at the gas station or I don’t know maybe it’s broken? I asked for help and the guy said there was something wrong with it, but it looked weird to me. I don’t know if he just didn’t know either. But I really need a bike pump in Tivat. Can anyone help me.
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2024.05.15 17:11 Material_Swan_3521 advice and perspective needed

I have been with my significant other for over ten years. Seven years ago, I was told by my partner they had been unfaithful to me during an extremely low point in our early relationship ( roughly 1.5 years into our relationship). We were young, both wildly immature. My significant other was extremely conflict avoidant, and I was extremely judgmental when they chose to share vulnerable moments from their albeit promiscuous sexual past with me. We both handled the situation incredibly wrongly, with me buckling down on shaming them, and with them eventually turning away from our relationship and acting out irrationally with multiple inappropriate relationships; some online, sending photos sent between an AP for validation, and also a sexual experience with a mutual acquaintance who had offered interest. I had an inkling we were not in a good spot, and really worked on myself, and took accountability for my actions, however, had no idea about the infidelity. a few years later, My significant other broke down crying and came clean. We both worked on apologizing and working to create a space that allowed vulnerability. my significant other had cut off all contact with APs years prior, but presently did the hard work on themselves to be accountable. They shared their infidelity with their parents, and close friends. We have done the work and have been successful in turning towards each other in moments of hardship, and I really am thankful that I can look at them with love, and understanding, instead of hurt and hate. I am proud of them for the work they have done, as well as what I have accomplished. It has not been easy, but our new reality has given us larger sense of understanding of the other.
I went to therapy. They went to therapy. We did couples counseling, and have overall, enjoyed a wonderful relationship together as we have recommitted ourselves to the relationship. It was a hard time of self discovery for both of us, having to confront our demons and recommit to ourselves. In this period however, there was a convenient lack of accountability in my opinion, due to the fact that the situation was discussed years after happening, and we had moved from that city. The AP lived in another part of the country. I had felt that my significant other did not have to do much in terms of boundaries and change for the good of our relationship, out of convenience.
All that to say, is that we have been invited to a wedding where the bride is best friends with the AP who engaged with my significant other. As in, the AP will be in the bridal party, active role. I personally have grown in self esteem and respect, and feel strongly that the "no contact " rule applies here. I certainly am not alright with us sitting through a 1 hr wedding mass looking directly at the AP on stage. I shared with my significant other that unfortunately, I respect myself too much to attend, and that due to their poor decisions, this falls under that the no contact rule as well. Their poor decisions led them to not being able to attend the wedding, no matter if a good friend.
My significant other has not bucked against this verbally, and stated they understand if that is my position. However, through the past few days, there has been many discussions of " well, I have a lot of complex emotions about this, because your shaming me pushed me to to edge," etc. to which I have responded accordingly " I love you, and I am sorry that you hurting and dealing with a complex of emotions. I am sorry your choices caused this scenario. however, when you chose to accept the second chance I offered, it meant coming to terms with a new reality, where you would have responsibility to your actions. Those actions unfortunately do have consequences in our new reality". What is your thoughts on the scenario? I believe for myself that I respect myself too much to attend the wedding, no matter social pressure, as this sad scenario came about through my significant others actions. However, I also hate to see my significant other in pain. I do feel strongly that unfortunately they were able to not deal with some the real life ramifications of their choices in the years past, as we had moved and didnt really engage with social situations where the AP may be attending. In this it is not a matter of trust, as I truly trust my significant other; it is a boundary that needs to be respected given the reality of their past choices. As stated, I would appreciate input.
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2024.05.15 17:11 hoezonelayer- My suite for my job

I have zero clue how to decorate this room, the sink and the bed CANNOT move however everything else can be. I just need some sort of an idea on how to create a more appealing space before I start buying stuff with no idea where to put it.
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2024.05.15 17:11 Dreamsdoggo where can i buy baggy jeans?(irl stores only btw)

i’m trying to look for some baggy jeans but i’m only 4”11 and since i’ve got big thighs most jeans fit awkwardly.
it’s hard to find my length and size that fits right. does anyone have any specific stores they go to shop that are not that expensive?
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2024.05.15 17:11 ReadyCheesecake6052 [WP] What’s the key? Communication!

Have you ever found the key? Maybe it is on the table or under the sofa. Where is the key? Who hides the key?
Phrases that most people use nowadays, especially Gen Z, when communication is not communication-ing and the discussion is not giving, now, let’s dive into the importance of communication and its twin comprehensions.
Communication is a part of our daily lives, from buying groceries in the marketplace to arguing with your sister about who will be sitting next to the window, talking about your crushes at school with your friends, and answering your teacher's questions about the lesson she is teaching (it is only applicable if you know the answer or are listening, oops).
It is crucial to interact with others as successfully as possible, particularly in formal settings or events. As a result, you might think you're the smartest person there.Being able to communicate effectively is also advantageous since it is essential to developing your social skills, building relationships with both business and non-business associates, boosting your self-confidence, and being the person you want to be.
Despite their differences in culture, beliefs, and religion, it will bring individuals from many nations, areas, provinces, and cities together. In order to avoid disagreements over their own opinions and the circumstance in general, communication will serve as a bridge between two people who are generally very different from one another. The ideal way to bring these individuals together and foster positive relationships would be through communication.
Expressing our own feelings to our family, friends, and lovers. It takes communication, using your words to express how you like your dog more than your sister. writing a letter to express your genuine gratitude and love for your friends and lovers in this modern day. Also, there is non-verbal communication such as when you naturally raise your eyebrows when your sister tells you that she is prettier than you, when you hug your friends because you feel that you are the happiest person after you have not seen each other for a long time, and when you wave your hand to your lover who will be going to work. Communication is the key to expressing love and care for the people you choose, no matter what.
We are right! Communication is the key when looking for an answer; communication is the key when we want peace over conflict; communication is the key when we want to express something, even if it is hard to put in a word or say it. Is it still the key when communication is not communication-ing?
“I used to think communication was the key until I realized comprehension is.”
You can communicate all you want with someone but if they do not understand you or refuse to understand, communication is useless.
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2024.05.15 17:10 Material_Swan_3521 advice and perspective needed

I have been with my significant other for over ten years. Seven years ago, I was told by my partner they had been unfaithful to me during an extremely low point in our early relationship ( roughly 1.5 years into our relationship). We were young, both wildly immature. My significant other was extremely conflict avoidant, and I was extremely judgmental when they chose to share vulnerable moments from their albeit promiscuous sexual past with me. We both handled the situation incredibly wrongly, with me buckling down on shaming them, and with them eventually turning away from our relationship and acting out irrationally with multiple inappropriate relationships; some online, sending photos sent between an AP for validation, and also a sexual experience with a mutual acquaintance who had offered interest. I had an inkling we were not in a good spot, and really worked on myself, and took accountability for my actions, however, had no idea about the infidelity. a few years later, My significant other broke down crying and came clean. We both worked on apologizing and working to create a space that allowed vulnerability. my significant other had cut off all contact with APs years prior, but presently did the hard work on themselves to be accountable. They shared their infidelity with their parents, and close friends. We have done the work and have been successful in turning towards each other in moments of hardship, and I really am thankful that I can look at them with love, and understanding, instead of hurt and hate. I am proud of them for the work they have done, as well as what I have accomplished. It has not been easy, but our new reality has given us larger sense of understanding of the other.
I went to therapy. They went to therapy. We did couples counseling, and have overall, enjoyed a wonderful relationship together as we have recommitted ourselves to the relationship. It was a hard time of self discovery for both of us, having to confront our demons and recommit to ourselves. In this period however, there was a convenient lack of accountability in my opinion, due to the fact that the situation was discussed years after happening, and we had moved from that city. The AP lived in another part of the country. I had felt that my significant other did not have to do much in terms of boundaries and change for the good of our relationship, out of convenience.
All that to say, is that we have been invited to a wedding where the bride is best friends with the AP who engaged with my significant other. As in, the AP will be in the bridal party, active role. I personally have grown in self esteem and respect, and feel strongly that the "no contact " rule applies here. I certainly am not alright with us sitting through a 1 hr wedding mass looking directly at the AP on stage. I shared with my significant other that unfortunately, I respect myself too much to attend, and that due to their poor decisions, this falls under that the no contact rule as well. Their poor decisions led them to not being able to attend the wedding, no matter if a good friend.
My significant other has not bucked against this verbally, and stated they understand if that is my position. However, through the past few days, there has been many discussions of " well, I have a lot of complex emotions about this, because your shaming me pushed me to to edge," etc. to which I have responded accordingly " I love you, and I am sorry that you hurting and dealing with a complex of emotions. I am sorry your choices caused this scenario. however, when you chose to accept the second chance I offered, it meant coming to terms with a new reality, where you would have responsibility to your actions. Those actions unfortunately do have consequences in our new reality". What is your thoughts on the scenario? I believe for myself that I respect myself too much to attend the wedding, no matter social pressure, as this sad scenario came about through my significant others actions. However, I also hate to see my significant other in pain. I do feel strongly that unfortunately they were able to not deal with some the real life ramifications of their choices in the years past, as we had moved and didnt really engage with social situations where the AP may be attending. In this it is not a matter of trust, as I truly trust my significant other; it is a boundary that needs to be respected given the reality of their past choices. As stated, I would appreciate input.
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2024.05.15 17:10 sitepromotionDOTcom Battery for Dell Latitude E7450

Hi,
From where can I buy a mint condition battery for my Dell Latitude E7450 in Karachi? I have got quite a beefed up system so don't want to get a new one.
Thanks in advance.
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2024.05.15 17:10 Material_Swan_3521 advice and perspective needed

I have been with my significant other for over ten years. Seven years ago, I was told by my partner they had been unfaithful to me during an extremely low point in our early relationship ( roughly 1.5 years into our relationship). We were young, both wildly immature. My significant other was extremely conflict avoidant, and I was extremely judgmental when they chose to share vulnerable moments from their albeit promiscuous sexual past with me. We both handled the situation incredibly wrongly, with me buckling down on shaming them, and with them eventually turning away from our relationship and acting out irrationally with multiple inappropriate relationships; some online, sending photos sent between an AP for validation, and also a sexual experience with a mutual acquaintance who had offered interest. I had an inkling we were not in a good spot, and really worked on myself, and took accountability for my actions, however, had no idea about the infidelity. a few years later, My significant other broke down crying and came clean. We both worked on apologizing and working to create a space that allowed vulnerability. my significant other had cut off all contact with APs years prior, but presently did the hard work on themselves to be accountable. They shared their infidelity with their parents, and close friends. We have done the work and have been successful in turning towards each other in moments of hardship, and I really am thankful that I can look at them with love, and understanding, instead of hurt and hate. I am proud of them for the work they have done, as well as what I have accomplished. It has not been easy, but our new reality has given us larger sense of understanding of the other.
I went to therapy. They went to therapy. We did couples counseling, and have overall, enjoyed a wonderful relationship together as we have recommitted ourselves to the relationship. It was a hard time of self discovery for both of us, having to confront our demons and recommit to ourselves. In this period however, there was a convenient lack of accountability in my opinion, due to the fact that the situation was discussed years after happening, and we had moved from that city. The AP lived in another part of the country. I had felt that my significant other did not have to do much in terms of boundaries and change for the good of our relationship, out of convenience.
All that to say, is that we have been invited to a wedding where the bride is best friends with the AP who engaged with my significant other. As in, the AP will be in the bridal party, active role. I personally have grown in self esteem and respect, and feel strongly that the "no contact " rule applies here. I certainly am not alright with us sitting through a 1 hr wedding mass looking directly at the AP on stage. I shared with my significant other that unfortunately, I respect myself too much to attend, and that due to their poor decisions, this falls under that the no contact rule as well. Their poor decisions led them to not being able to attend the wedding, no matter if a good friend.
My significant other has not bucked against this verbally, and stated they understand if that is my position. However, through the past few days, there has been many discussions of " well, I have a lot of complex emotions about this, because your shaming me pushed me to to edge," etc. to which I have responded accordingly " I love you, and I am sorry that you hurting and dealing with a complex of emotions. I am sorry your choices caused this scenario. however, when you chose to accept the second chance I offered, it meant coming to terms with a new reality, where you would have responsibility to your actions. Those actions unfortunately do have consequences in our new reality". What is your thoughts on the scenario? I believe for myself that I respect myself too much to attend the wedding, no matter social pressure, as this sad scenario came about through my significant others actions. However, I also hate to see my significant other in pain. I do feel strongly that unfortunately they were able to not deal with some the real life ramifications of their choices in the years past, as we had moved and didnt really engage with social situations where the AP may be attending. In this it is not a matter of trust, as I truly trust my significant other; it is a boundary that needs to be respected given the reality of their past choices. As stated, I would appreciate input.
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2024.05.15 17:10 InlineSkateAdventure How NY pays your pension

This isn't exactly civil service related, but they make you wait 25-30 years, then you are supposed to get a portion of your salary forever. That makes these positions attractive even though the salary is lower. Your contributions are invested in Wall St in various stocks and funds. They are technically "hedge funds" because they are supposed to guarantee the money will always be there, they aren't always looking for the highest returns and risk. NY also holds your "principal" money forever. They likely pay off the dividends. You never get to have that wealth. What I mean is all the contributions may grow to $2 million. Then they can pay you 4-5% off that and cover your benefit. I am sure NY is well managed and conservative. They could make much more but there is huge risk.
This video explains how 10K (or dripping in money (DRIP also means dividend reinvestment) )) can "potentially" be multiplied into millions (over that timespan). Nothing really risky, and you can do it ! That is pretty much where the pension line item is going. The big cost to NY is funding those pensions every month over thousands of employees.
Anything could be verified using a portfolio backtester: https://www.portfoliovisualizer.com/backtest-portfolio#analysisResults
Before watching it:
1) Past performance does not guarantee future growth, but it is very likely. Companies like Home Depot, National Grid, and Verizon are not going to stop skinning their customers.
2) The key is to find companies that GROW dividends. Even if the dividend is low. Even small growth can produce HUGE results in 25-30 years. Even if the stock drops for a period over that time, it can work to your advantage because you will buy more shares that will appreciate in the future. You will be reinvesting dividends.
3) Since you probably not likely a financial experts, best to put money in a good ETF, rather than pick stocks. ALWAYS reinvest dividends. Putting in money every month also "dollar cost averages." Sometimes you get a great bargain, sometimes you pay more.
4) If you are new, spend a few weeks doing research before putting in money. Not that this is high risk, but understand everything. There are other videos in the series. Again, see the portfolio backtester above, you can see what they funds WOULD have returned. Always set dividends to be reinvested.
5) After watching the video, you will probably think twice about wasting money on junk 😂
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UG2GSQFhI5w&ab_channel=John%27sMoneyAdventures
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2024.05.15 17:09 Neo_zoft_77 Question about souvenirs

I'm unfortunately leaving the country in a couple days and need to buy some souvenirs for family before I leave. Can anyone recommend me stores or kiosks that sell souvenirs and trinkets in Bishkek? A guy I met in the hostel I was staying at showed me some cool authentic Kyrgyz "slippers" and a handbag he bought at the Osh Bazaar, unfortunately I looked throughout the Bazaar and couldn't find anything similar to what he bought. I'm just looking for cool stuff to get my family and friends as a gift from a foreign country. I already got the stuff I wanted, which were cool soviet era treasures. With all that said, can anyone tell me where I can buy Kyrgyzstan/Bishkek souvenirs? Any info will be appreciated.
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2024.05.15 17:09 Ok_Common_4208 Hi guys! I'm new to this community, really getting into this style, so I was wondering whether you had any style tips and/or store recommendations where I can buy accessories and such. Thx so much :)

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2024.05.15 17:08 IAMLITTERLYONACID I need juice merch

Iv been wanting to buy juice merch for years now but i dont know where i can buy since 999 club is a scam someone got any cites that ship to The Netherlands?
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2024.05.15 17:08 ARupertH Where can I buy raw sage (the herb), or sage smudge sticks on the Island?

Where can I buy sage or sage smudge sticks on the Island? Preferably from somewhere in the North. Thanks!
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2024.05.15 17:08 TheFallingBlade Internet Crashed When Opening Chrome

Hello all! I've tried searching for this online, but couldn't quite find anything or many solutions.
For the past few months I've had an issue where opening Chrome causes the entire network in my home to go down. Like, the router has the red light and everything.
I've used other browsers and they work totally fine. I've tried Chrome on two different computers and they both cause the network to go down. However, connecting to my phone's hotspot seems to work okay.
I've ran security checks on my computer, I've reinstalled Chrome several times on both devices, and I've gotten rid of any extensions that I had installed, and I'm still having this issue continue.
I've switched browsers for the most part at this point, but my job requires me to use Chrome when I sign on to work. Needless to say, it's frustrating.
Has anybody had anything similar like this happen before? Can anybody think of any tips that may be of help? Any responses are appreciated. I figured I'd ask here before making the trek through Google's actual support.
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2024.05.15 17:08 ThrowRAohra Does it feel better or worse for you, if someone doesn't mean to hurt you on purpose?

I think about it sometimes. My ex posted my nudes online without my permission at the start of our relationship. He didn't do it maliciously, and he didn't do it out of vengeance. We were still very happily together at that point. We stayed together for 2.5 years after that.
He didn't do it to hurt me. He did it simply because he does not think. He doesn't tend to think things like, "If I do this, this other person might feel this way." I just don't think he had the capacity to think that through. He really didn't think he did anything wrong. He came up to me directly and said, "I posted it in a place where people can't take screenshots, so it's okay!"
And I'm not the most technologically literate but even I can find a loophole for that. What if someone... just took a picture of their screen with their phone? They have a picture of me now. Isn't that just... common sense to realise? I suppose not.
He told me without hesitation that people had offered to send money in exchange for feet pics or my panties, and I felt a bit startled, maybe a little bit gross. He said he had answered their messages, but never accepted money or sent anything. He answered and managed the messages if he were my pimp, that's how I felt about it. But he was the first person in my 17 years of living who had ever been remotely interested in me, so I thought, it's not that bad. He didn't mean anything bad by it.
I know him. I know he didn't mean it in a bad way. He didn't have a mean bone in his body that way. He just doesn't THINK.
I thought that was what love is. I thought that that was how love felt like. I realise now that it isn't, and wasn't.
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2024.05.15 17:05 ResonateMama Toddler sleep: at my wits end

Hi parents. I come here with a very heavy heart. I have a 15-month-old boy. He has been a terrible sleeper since day 1.
Dad and I were against sleep training from the start. We (LO and I) co-sleep at night and still breastfeed. But we are at the stage now where LO wakes up to 10 times per night and only goes back down when latching onto my boob. It's clearly a strong sleep association now - he eats solids amazingly and is well-above the average weight for his age. He also won't stay asleep at night unless he is tucked under my arm.
He is as healthy as can be (as per recent paed checkup). But I'm really struggling, because:
  1. I work full-time for a high pressure job. The sleep deprivation is getting to me.
  2. Dad and I have not spent more than 30 minutes together, alone, in 15 months.
  3. I feel like I am not as present as a mother during the time I spent with my son in the day, due to my sleep deprivation.
  4. I don't have my period back and we want another baby sooner rather than later (perhaps crazy considering #1, but baby fever is real).
  5. I have not spent a single night away from my son since the day he was born. My quality of life is really impacted by this.
As such, we have become pretty set on night-weaning LO. I know this is not the most natural decision possible for my baby. But with me also working full-time, and not having the support of a broader community (e.g. many aunties who live with us and could take turns at night), unfortunately this "unnatural" setup is our reality.
Everything I read online about night-weaning really scares me. Our plan is to do the following:
  1. Set aside two weeks (hopefully it won't take this long). During this time, have very few obligations due to some rough nights, and have no other change in LO's current routine
  2. Dad will "do" the night weaning and I will sleep in a separate room (if I were involved in the weaning, I just feel like LO won't be able to see past the fact that my boob is "there").
  3. Dad will put LO down, respond to him each time he wakes up, and get him back down without me
    1. This said, when Dad puts LO down, he rocks him to sleep. Should this continue? Or just rubbing back/singing etc.?
  4. LO will now sleep in a floor mattress next to our bed (rather than in our bed and under my arm)
  5. I'll return to our bedroom once LO has been "successfully" night-weaned. LO will continue to start bedtime on the floor mattress next to our bed, and sleep much longer stretches (I won't even dare to think "through the night").
What I am scared about:
  1. That this will traumatize my son with irrevocable damage
  2. That my son will feel abandoned by me, that this will damage our bond
  3. That my son will develop health/psychological issues now or in the future (he has never ever been unwell!)
  4. That now, going forward, if LO does wake up at any stage (teething, sleep regressions), we will no longer have the feeding-to-sleep tool in our toolkit.
But all this considered - me and my family need this. PLEASE let me know your experiences/any helpful resources/and so on. I have read Jay Gordon and have mixed feelings. I want to be as gentle as possible, while also now taking into account my and Dad's needs, which at this stage have now surpassed LO's needs (IMO). <3
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2024.05.15 17:05 Practical_Emotion_31 First Garmin to my beloved brother

Hi guys, I'm from Brazil and I'm heading to Boston next week. Garmins are cheaper in the US compared to Brazil, so I'm thinking of buying one for my brother, who is a runner and triathlon enthusiast. It'll be his first Garmin. I don't want to buy the simplest Forerunner 55, but I can't afford the most expensive one either. Which model would you consider to be the best value for money? Also, where would you recommend buying it? Online or in-person at a store? Appreciate your help.
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2024.05.15 17:05 souljatickle Market Prices

I’m not sure if anyone has ever played fifa ultimate team, but to buy players you can type in the player you want as well as other different search parameters to narrow down what you want to buy. One of these parameters are the price of what you’re looking for.
I think this game could benefit largely from a search function where you can set the maximum price of songs that show up in your search, so you can avoid being scammed and check exactly what the cheapest possible you could buy a song for.
Also avoids people having to put prices in their bio on their profile which is kind of a pain to look at, as when i go to someones profile off of searching for a certain song and then go back to make an offer, the trade page refreshes for that person to never be found again.
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