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The place to talk about your car
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2015.08.24 15:12 DIY projects for Tabletop RPGs

Share your D&D (and other games, too!) DIY projects here!
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2012.07.22 13:32 omasque A subreddit for commissions!

Artists/writers/musicians/animators/etc. can advertise their services/commissions here. Buyers can request specific things they'd like to buy. A few reminders: ❥ All [For Hire] posts must state a price. ❥ All [Hiring] posts must state a budget. ❥ Do not post more than one [For Hire] post per 24 hours. See the side bar for clarification and details!
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2024.05.13 22:31 Temporary-Treat8501 This thing has been bothering me

(I apologie for my bad English) Why does this community care about ships and sexuality so much The only canon ships are hust in ggz not hi3 yet people still insist that they are canon and what bother me is that they don’t have proves like they will either bring ggz4koma( a comedy manga) or fanart or croped official art and most importantly those ships doesn’t have effect on the story like if you say they are just close friends nothing will change the story will remain the same and some people will say (it’s because of ccp) mihoyo had 6 years before getting promoted to ccp yet nothing happened And no there nothing called implied you can hang out with your friends or show care toward them and that doesn’t make you gay and friends tend to care about each other And about representation: no those characters aren’t for representation they are gacha game it mean it have to attract the audience and using the multiverse theory wouldn’t help to use your sexuality And about self insert : birthday cg /letters/ captain event are all content by mihoyo and if you say it’s just for straight fans those yuri baits that you take as representation are also for them those were never a thing for sexuality it’s just straight up fanservice and doesn’t saying that’s a character is lesbian is insirting your mindset into a character Acheron/sakukallen/renhang/bronseele/kiamei situation proved me right they use the dumbest way to prove their ship Jojo a famous animanga showed some weird thing yet i never saw anyone take it as a representation To end it all no characters from hi3 to hsr have/must have a sexuality and caring about each other doesn’t make them gay ship whatever you want but don don’t be a pain in the head and start pushing it as canon and focus more about the game lore(if à one piece fan had this much of lore they will came out with crazy theories which is much better that talking about sexuality)
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2024.05.13 22:31 ThatOtherShore Essential for Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse: External Improvement!

We’ve talked a lot about the internal work that must be done to heal and recover from the horrors of narcissistic abuse. But what often gets left out is that the internal work, while essential, is only half of the new circle you are drawing for your life. The other half of the circle can only be drawn in by making positive external improvements to your life situation.
If your life is NOT measurably worse now, you are financially where you want to be, you are healthy and fit, your career & activities are fulfilling you with purpose, you have great friends, and you are working on actionable goals to keep growing, then this post is not for you. Great job and carry on!
If your life is measurably worse now than it was during the ‘relationship’, then I highly recommend you think about this message:
Measurable, Practical Realities of Life: What Would Actually Make Your Life Better?
If your measurable, practical realities of daily life- finances, career, health/fitness, friendships, actionable goals for the future- are worse off after leaving the relationship, you MUST take action to improve all of them by taking disciplined action consistently over time, IF you actually want to heal and recover fully.
Don’t be a perfectionist or think you can magically change it overnight. But do get on a real road to making the changes that will earn positive outcomes for yourself. Learning how to love yourself means wanting your life to go well and improve! I know it’s weird to have to say that, but people recovering from codependency really need to strengthen this muscle of self-interested action. It was so strange to notice in myself that I didn’t even know what I wanted when another person was not around telling me what I should want. It took a real change of locus to become sovereign over my own life, my own choices, and to learn what it is that I would want for myself whether anyone else is around or not!
This can start by simply allowing yourself to meditate on what it is that you DO want for your life. Not everyone’s values are the same, so there is no right or wrong answer, only YOUR answer. I just know that living in substandard, impoverished or stressful financial conditions, being unhealthy and sedentary, and not having an exciting plan for your life is a condition that will make recovery and transformation close to impossible. You can only do the best you can today without unnecessary pressure or expectation. Just start by coming up with a plan for the immediate future and exert your will to make shit happen for yourself! I mean it. It’s crucial.
You can do all of the internal work in the world to process your emotions, try to let go of anger and process your grief. You are worthy of love and respect today as you are, because you a human being with a good heart who has been treated terribly and victimized by evil behavior from someone else. But if your life objectively sucks, then I wouldn’t expect to feel better anytime soon.
Your sense of confidence, self-worth, and ability to create new successes, new relationships, new memories, and a new life that has nothing to do with your past cannot develop if you are staying stuck in a bad living situation. Be realistic and compassionate with yourself, and allow the time necessary to see some progress, but do get moving.
The Good News!
As hard as it is doing the internal work of grief, acceptance, processing anger, unwinding your own codependent patterns and family history, the good news is that you don’t need to have ‘finished’ those before you start going into the outside world and making positive changes for yourself.
You can look at your external work as a nice break from all of those heavy, sad emotions. Realize that a lot of that anger and heartbreak and sadness will sort itself out when your external life situation improves to a degree that you are now objectively BETTER OFF than you were during the relationship. The real key to healing and transformation is this combination of internal growth and external measurable success. They feed off each other in positive-reinforcement. All the little successes you pile up day-by-day start building your confidence back up, you sense of pride in work well done, your sense of worth and optimism about the future- all of it develops when you can see evidence of improvement.
So if you are finding it slow going and frustrating on the emotional front, if you’re having more trouble letting go of that person or that relationship than you expected, I know it sucks and it can improve with time and dedication to healing. But you really have nothing to lose by STILL choosing to better the other parts of your life right? How would it make it worse if you made more money so that your financial stress disappeared? How would it make it worse if you set some real world goals with your career, work, or passion projects that would improve your life and achieved them? How would it make it worse if you jumped into a disciplined fitness program of your choosing and got in the best shape of your life in the next year? I think you get my drift. If things are really sucking in your life, the best part of that is that you have not much to lose by saying FUCK IT! and just going for it in other areas.
Bottom Line
This does NOT mean that one should neglect the inner spiritual, emotional, and maturation work. Money, success, and the external trappings of life do not bring happiness on their own. But they DO matter greatly, so we need to not lie about that or become too ethereal about all of this. I’m arguing for a healthy balance that gives attention to the outer reality of your life so that you don’t get lost in never-ending therapy, an old tired story from the past, and overindulging in victimhood.
When you find a good balance between doing the internal therapeutic work and the external outer world success, you have the magic formula for transforming your life. This will help you become a new version of yourself more aligned with your inner truth, your values, your talents and gifts, so that you become someone who knows how to stand up for yourself and take action in pursuit of positive outcomes.
Letting go of anger is one of the most challenging parts I’ve found people have with the healing process. They can completely get over caring about the person, see the cold hard truth, and cut them off completely. But the anger and resentment really does burn people up inside, even years afterward, if they haven’t moved the needle on their own life. It is amazing how making your life better and succeeding in areas you used to fail in can make your anger seem unnecessary and irrelevant. Why? Because now you are stronger. You’ve built something admirable and successful for yourself and you don’t need anyone’s approval but your own and the support of those who truly care about you.
When you can sit back one day in the not-too-distant future and honestly say, ”By all measures, my life is leaps and bounds better today than it was back then,” you can tell me at that point how you are feeling emotionally and how much trouble you’re having moving forward.
Note: Just as people get themselves professional help for mental health/emotional issues, it can very wise to find a qualified person who can help you get going with your practical life issues if that is an area where you have struggled to pull it together. There are also tons of free information out there about this, so you can do your own research and find some good strategies.
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2024.05.13 22:31 kittenkuddler How do you manage iterations on a page?

I am curious how designers work through iterations on the same page. For example, we start with some very basic wireframes that I lay out, then another designer on the team will take those and iterate on them. We want to keep the process of iteration intact so we can see version 1 then changes that become version 2 and so forth.
This can get a little tricky with multiple people working in the file. I am trying to avoid creating a new page for each iteration or a new file, which would be really not the way to go.
Ideally I am trying to learn from other peoples process on how you keep track of iterations on the same page. I am thinking that we do feature explorations horizontally and versioning vertically, as one solution.
Can anyone share how they move through design process iterations ideally on the same page. Do you keep all your versions? Do you delete process designs and only keep what you're using? Do you design on top of designs and not keep a history?
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2024.05.13 22:30 Tricky-Sprinkles-807 Pain, but no one can see to find a cause

36 y/o Female, around 165 lbs
I’m basically looking for any advice possible
About a year ago I started having some pain in my right shoulder area. Initially, I assumed it was muscle pain, but after about a month of constant pain no matter what I did (massage, ibuprofen, etc) I realized something else was likely going on
My husband and I were in the process of moving across a few states, so I didn’t actually talk to a doctor about it until about six months after the pain started when it was to the point I was in tears, and went to urgent care. They told me to use lidocaine patches and sent me to sports medicine
Sports medicine had me do physical therapy, and ordered an MRI of my cervical spine, which showed a herniated disc with mild spinal stenosis in c5-c6 and a herniated disc with moderate-severe spinal stenosis in c6-c7. The MRI was ordered because I had started to experience a constant painfully cold feeling down my right arm
Sports medicine sent me to a neurosurgeon who was awful, so I’ll skip that guy. But then my doctor (who personally knew how awful the other guy was) sent me to a different neurosurgeon
The new neurosurgeon is great, but said he can’t see any nerve compression on the MRI. He did make a note in my chart that says I have weakness in my right hand, and increased reflex in my right leg. He’s referring me to pain management, but I can’t see them until the end of July. Im so tired of being in pain, it seems hopelessly far away. He also ordered an EMG, but they haven’t scheduled it yet
I should also mention I’ve already had a cervical epidural which was zero help, dry needling (no help) and I’ve been on oral steroids and muscle relaxers. The steroids helped a little bit, but they were short term. I also use lidocaine patches daily, and sometimes I’m probably using it too often, but I’m desperate. I’m also still taking ibuprofen
If this isn’t nerve pain from the discs, what else could it be? And could the MRI have possibly missed a pinched nerve? Things just keep getting worse as time goes by, I’m now have trouble with my thumb and index finger going numb and feeling really stiff. I’m so worried they’re never going to find an answer and I’m just going to live in pain for the rest of my life
Thank you for reading
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2024.05.13 22:30 NationalAnything1547 Thriving as a Model in Toronto: Financial Tips and Job Opportunities

Hello models and fashion enthusiasts!
Today, we're focusing on an essential aspect of a modeling career that often gets overlooked: financial management and job opportunities in the diverse Toronto job market. The life of a model can be unpredictable, so it's crucial to have a firm grip on your finances and consider diversifying your income streams.
Firstly, it's important to understand that your modeling income might fluctuate throughout the year. High season can be lucrative, but there may be quieter periods where work is scarce. So, how can you manage this financial uncertainty?
1. Budgeting and Saving: Take advantage of high-income periods by creating a budget and sticking to it. Save a portion of your earnings during peak seasons to get through lean periods without financial stress. Make sure to allocate funds for essential expenses like rent, food, and transportation.
2. Diversifying Income Streams: Don't rely solely on modeling income. Consider part-time job opportunities that are flexible and compatible with your modeling commitments. Toronto's diverse job market provides plenty of options. There are remote job opportunities spanning finance, accounting, technology, science, marketing, and more. Plus, fields like healthcare, real estate, retail, and telecommunications are actively hiring.
3. Financial Planning: Working with a financial advisor can help you plan for the future. They can assist you with making sound investment decisions and planning for retirement. This is especially important for models, as our careers can often be shorter than those in other professions.
4. Education and Skill Development: Education can be a sound investment. It can provide you with career opportunities beyond modeling. Consider part-time studies or online courses that could lead to a secondary career. Companies such as TD Bank, Deloitte, Scotiabank, and EY have job opportunities in Toronto. Positions range from finance and accounting roles to technology and marketing jobs.
Finally, there are numerous job openings in finance-related fields where your experience as a model in managing your personal finances and your public persona can be a unique advantage. Roles such as financial analysts, financial planning and analysis managers, and risk modelling specialists are available in diverse industries like healthcare, construction, and technology. These positions not only offer competitive salaries and benefits but also provide a stable income that complements the unpredictable nature of modeling work.
As models, you're constantly told to take care of our physical health, but it's equally important to maintain our financial health. Let's take the steps today to ensure a financially secure tomorrow.
Stay fabulous, Toronto!
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2024.05.13 22:30 SomethingSeason New caretaker seeking advice.

Hello to whoever may see this. I’ve been lurking here for a few months reading posts throughout almost every day looking for comfort, ideas, things to look out for and be aware of, etc.. I’m glad you all are here and I think of you often as I read about your stories and experiences and grief and moments of laughter.
I will try to keep this brief. I’m sure it won’t be—I don’t know how to articulate the problem I’m having without background. For anyone who is up to reading this and responding, I thank you sincerely and deeply in advance.
I’ve had concerns about my mom’s brain function over the last several years. I got married in 2020 and moved out of state, where I began working and helping keep her afloat financially. We talked often and remained close.
I lost my job in August and my husband and I decided we’d better take the opportunity to move her here (as in, here into our house) as I wouldn’t be able to continue supporting her— also with the awareness that she needs more help than just covering bills. She’d lost a ton of weight, seemed overwhelmed and confused by doctors, was no longer receiving treatment for her long-term issues (narcolepsy with cataplexy and frequent melanoma skin cancer) etc.
She moved here in October. Evidently she had convinced herself that she was moving here to help me. We did manage to explain that is not the situation and she took it ok, but truly… things have been so hard since she moved here.
Initially we were arguing all the time. It was awful. Through that, we’ve done a zillion doctors appointments, tests, follow ups, etc. we have an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. She’s been on donepezil for a few months now. We are also talking with her doctor about getting her in the trial for Leqembi. She just had a PET scan on Tuesday.
Things have settled down… mostly, but I am not doing ok. I spend most of my time with her and much of it is quite nice. We can take care of household chores together, enjoy watching tv or movies, she comes with me to work (I work in a community arts center w/ a creative reuse aspect) and has carved a little niche for herself sorting and organizing all of the jewelry donations.
I don’t know that my mom cannot be left alone, but she makes some concerning and questionable choices. I wouldn’t feel confident leaving her alone for extended periods. She is still herself in lots of ways (and… not herself in all the ways that make me heartsick every day). My husband and I cook all the meals, and basically keep the ship afloat.
My mom was disabled in an accident when I was young and had been on SSDI until she turned 65 and it switched to regular SS. She has zero in savings and has continued to get herself into debt repeatedly (thankfully minimally in debt at this time).
I make effectively no money at my job now, it’s just something I love that makes my life slightly less miserable and lonely. When I lost my job last August, my husband and I lost half of our income. All this to say, we have zero flexible income.
The problem I am looking for feedback on is that my mom and I argue a lot. It’s not as explosive as things were at the beginning, but she’s sure that she like. ~Gets what’s going on~ and somehow I am always doing her wrong in any number of ways. We spend nearly all day every day together but I cannot get through a day without some kind of infraction. She has a question and she doesn’t like my answer so that means I am not the person I used to be (not literally, like. In a sarcastic mean way.) once in awhile I make plans to see a friend for lunch or I ask to go to work without her, and she acts slighted and nasty. We spend all day together and then I tell her I’d like a little time to myself—that’s a problem. I’m getting lunch with a friend next week, that’s a problem. etc.
When she gets upset with me, she sulks, she’s sarcastic, and she’s even left home a couple times without telling me or my husband where she is going (even though she knows that she doesn’t know how to get around). Basically she gets super defiant. And mean. And critical. I don’t know how to short circuit these interactions. I don’t know how to make space or time for myself in my life. I feel like my mom doesn’t like me anymore and I am putting everything on the line and she is unable to see it, so it’s a net loss. She used to be so supportive of me taking space and time for myself. I keep trying to do enough so that it will be ok when I need to do something else, but i am realizing that way of thinking isn’t serving me. Like, there may not be some magical right amount of giving that I can do to then be “allowed” to have any bit of my life left for me.
I’m 33 years old, struggling with fertility, I’m so sad about the state of my marriage, unable to see how I will be able to contribute meaningfully to our household beyond keeping my & my moms necks above water. my husband and I thought that by now we would have our own family, maybe another dog. That we would have this beautiful life complicated by anything other than this day to day reality that is crushing my fucking heart. And I know it’s just the beginning of this journey.
What can I do? My mom is not in a place where she can be distracted from issues. She stews over them. If I try to avoid a confrontation, she complains that I’ve never wanted to work things out and I’m unwilling to try. I know that I can’t reason with her. Any time things get escalated at all she says she knows she can’t live here — and like, ok! But guess what? There is no where else to go. All of our family is dead. There is no money. There is no where to go. If there was somewhere to go, I’d probably go there!
What can I do so that this household isn’t in so much turmoil all the time? I am heartbroken. I have always absolutely adored and admired my mom. I’m grieving so much, and I’m grieving that I cannot seem to make her feel ok. I don’t want her to be miserable and lonely. I didn’t know what I was in for when we moved her here, but I guess I thought that I would be able to provide some security and help her have a more fulfilling life at this stage. Now she will fight tooth and nail about her independence, as long as it doesn’t mean I get to do anything outside of this house and this relationship.
If anyone has read all of this, again. Thank you so much. Thanks for being here. Thank you for sharing space with me and my thoughts and my sadness.
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2024.05.13 22:30 Ilovemydog7889 Small baby, trouble latching. Will time and her growing help us EBF one day soon?

Hi! Looking for advice or experiences for those who have been in a similar situation. My baby was born teeny, 2.4g and in 4th percentile via cesarean at 37weeks due to fetal growth restrictions. Since her birth, we’ve not been successful with BF and I am exclusively pumping 8-10x daily around the clock to feed her breast milk and create/maintain a supply in the hopes that she one day latches (and we can be pump and bottle free!!)
Lactation consultants tell me she just has to grow a bit, for her mouth and jaw to be able to latch and her energy to BF comes. Did anyone have a smaller baby that eventually did BF? How “long” did it take/how much did they have to grow? What (if anything) did you do to help the BF “click” with your baby?
I’m so discouraged at the pump, need to drag it everywhere with me, and just want the freedom flexibility and closeness of BF while giving maternal milk to my little but perfect baby girl.
Thank you!
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2024.05.13 22:29 PeboPJ New Contractor, Estimate ?s

Hello everyone,
New Contractor focusing on Remodels currently. How do you guys complete and deliver your estimates/work preformed and how long does it usually take? For example you visit the home, a client wants to remodel 2 bathrooms and a full kitchen gut. You do your measurements, go over design, and then go back to the office to crank out the estimate.
Do you guys provide a full contract with every detail (for example moving outlet A to location B and/or installing new bathroom accessories in gold). Or do you guys usually just give broad strokes on a estimate with a price until its accepted then you give them a more detailed SOW/estimate with all these speficic design details?
If so can you guys provide example what you guys do or any resources I can look online? Things are done in my city ass backwards and I would like to set a new standard of professionalism.. THANKS!
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2024.05.13 22:29 bbbbaconsizzle Anybody have trouble with acid levels?

I don't mean ketoacidosis but other like lactic acid or uric acid or one of the other types of acidosis, maybe because of a medication or other reason. And what do you do to combat it and still be able to maintain low carb diet?
There is suggestions of things to take to help with body acidity.
My question is, not of medical advice, but what are those of you with similar issues of mine doing to get around this problem that I can explore. Thanks you all!
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2024.05.13 22:29 ThrowRABadHusband01 I [40F] am thinking about divorcing my husband [36M]. Advice? Feedback?

TL;DR Husband [36] doesn’t help me [40F] with cleaning and pet care; he is damaging himself (and, by extension, me) financially; he’s possibly addicted to video games, and barely talks/spends time with me. Almost dead bedroom.
Note: obvious throwaway account
I’m embarrassed because I’ve seen this question posed in this sub So. Many. Times.
I broke this into sections to avoid a long wall of text and backstory. Please forgive any errors (spelling, grammar), I'm not in the mood for editing.
We've been together in June 2017, married in October 2022.

Cleaning: He is a slob. Even his dad admitted this to me. His parents almost never forced him to clean, so he doesn’t understand that maintaining a home is part of being an adult. I’m not a neat freak. I enjoy dedicating one day (usually a Saturday) to cleaning the house. This hasn’t been feasible in the last 1-2 years because I suffer from chronic back pain brought about by the breakdown of my SI joints, and it's gotten worse.
I have to force him to help me clean the house. Sometimes he does it on his own (i.e., dishes). But 98% of the time, it falls on my shoulders. Before you ask, I’ve done the thing where I put off cleaning as long as possible to force him to do it. It doesn’t work. We just get a mountain of dishes in the sink, a floor covered with dirty clothes, and a gross bathroom. I’ve tried teaching him how to do it, but sometimes I feel like he’s weaponizing incompetence.
When I ask him, “Hey, can you do XYZ today?” He “forgets.”
I can’t have any family or friends over because the house is always disgusting.

Pets: He barely helps with our pets. He’ll forget to feed and water them. I have to force him to help with the cat box. He is fine letting the poop and pee mount up until the whole house stinks. This is troublesome for me because of my chronic back pain. It makes changing the cat box upstairs difficult. That being said, when I do ask his help, he’s (usually) good about helping.

Gaming: I think he’s addicted to gaming. He gets home around 1045pm. He’ll ask me, “How are you doing?” and play with one of the dogs for a bit. Then he goes upstairs and plays games until 2am-3am in the morning. At this point, I’m asleep. On his days off, if I don’t plan for us to do something, he’ll sit up there all day long. If it’s not gaming, he’s chatting with his friends online; we barely talk. When we first moved in together, he was good about maintaining a healthy balance. Now, he doesn’t even try. Of course he claims that he doesn't have a problem.

Finances
He is financially unfaithful. To those who haven’t heard this, financial infidelity is when a person hides or downplays finances. Sometimes he just doesn’t pay bills. Granted, they’re his own bills, but it’s putting us in a really bad position financially. He recently got a registered letter from a company demanding that he pay them. They've even threatened to put a lien on the house.

Relationship: He puts in 120% at work, but less than 40% at home.
He won’t spend time with me unless I force him to. I ask if he could sit with me when he gets off from work and talk or have a chat on his days off. His response, “People actually do that? What are we going to talk about? I don’t just sit down and talk to people.”
I ask him if he wants to do , and his response is “meh.” Literally. Or he subtracts the “m,” and just says “eh.” He only spends time with me if “I” find us something to do, but only if it interests him. Even when he suggests things for us to do together, it’s only stuff he wants to do, such as gaming, going to the range, joining a DND group, and such. He has zero interest in what I have going on.
Even when we go out to eat, he’s always on his phone. This forces me to be on my phone because, otherwise, I’m just talking to a brick wall.
We have a relatively dead bedroom, but I can’t say it’s all his/my fault. We both take meds for mental health that makes it difficult. Also, sex with him has become painful. That being said, sometimes I wonder if it's me. Maybe he just doesn't want me anymore.

As a result, I’ve started fantasizing about moving out and being in my own apartment. Just me, dogs, and cat. A place I can keep cleaning, fill with all my stuff, and not have to worry about whether our house is gonna have a lien put on it. I honestly don’t know what to do.

So why don’t you just get divorced? (in no particular order)
1. His family has become my family. I have a barely tolerable relationship with my parents. My brother has his own family/life to deal with. I see his parents as my parents. Every holiday with them is magic. If we divorce, I’ll have no one.
2. Our house needs work before we can sell it and make any type of profit.
3. I mean, I do still love him. I just don’t like him.
4. I’m 40, which means it’ll be hard for me to find a relationship, especially since I don’t want kids.
I guess, what I'm asking is... should I hold out hope? I'm considering marriage counseling, but will it do any good? Will it even help if he won't even sit down and talk with me? Am I just wasting my time? I've been crying more than usual, and I don't think I can handle much more.
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2024.05.13 22:29 Popcorn_Axolotl Is being too trusting a character flaw?

Would you consider being too trusting a good character flaw?
I'm writing my first YA novel, and I've been learning about how important it is for a character to have flaws, so that they're not perfect. One of the biggest flaws I can think of for my main character is that he's too trusting, he always sees the best in people (which I think can be both a flaw and a good trait) and takes in everyone's words without a second thought. But, is this a strong enough character flaw? Should I come up with another major one, or continue to highlight this one?
Thanks in advance!
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2024.05.13 22:29 SunshineSurferGirl What are your ideas to transform my kitchen and bathroom with a beach costal theme?

I was planning on remodeling and taking my time to design but we had a leak and have to remodel fast. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Your expertise is much appreciated. I am looking for the clean coastal beach house feel to match the rest of the house. Colors throughout the house are light teal and blue and cream and grays.
The walls will have to be painted, the cabinets will either be lacquered or stained. Quartz countertops I would like some cream and grey to make the colors flow. New stainless-steel appliances. The travertine floors are staying and we still can use the same cabinet doors. I have attached a photo of the backsplash that I love (it has little teal and blue that’s hard to see in the photo). The curtain (teal and gray) other decorations are staying. I am considering lacquering the cabinets a light to medium gray or staining a light walnut. Any pro/cons lacquering vs staining the wood cabinets from chipping. The room does not get direct sunlight and I don’t want it to make the room too dark. I’m looking for some to a lot of contrast but not too much that it overwhelms the room. Thinking maybe a different color gray for the island. I have attached some quartz counter tops that I’m considering. The pain does need to match the color that is on the stairs
The whole wall between the kitchen and the bathroom will be included in the paint. Looking for suggestions for the bathroom remodel I would like the bathroom paint color to be a dark color. Possibly a textured wall (stone). Will need maximum cabinet space. The floor, wall art and decorations will be staying.
I know a lot of people like white cabinets but I do not want anything white. Doors are okay with white but I’d be willing to look at a color on them, too.
I’m not sure if just putting the backsplash on the backwall would be silly or do we do all the areas (coffee pot and behind instant pot)?
I love how the color agreeable gray looks similar to cream but also gray; however, I don’t like that it is so lite and looks almost white. A darker color similar would be perfect but probably impossible.
The last few photos are the closest thing I can find similar to what I want.
Any visualizers online that I could use to see what it will look like would be fantastic before getting it all ordered and then not matching. The one I used I changed the cabinets on the photo I didn’t love the kitchen (last photo). Thank you!
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2024.05.13 22:29 AdFun360 How to slow my mind down.

Hi all, this is probably more of a question for a therapist, but complaining to strangers on the internet is cheeper lol.
I have a mind of “I need to check a box” more then being able to relax. This leads to a lot of rushed trips and a feeling of unsatisfaction. I am the type of person to cross the border for 3 hours to say I have been to a country. I want to stop this type of thinking. When my run on this earth is finished, I don’t want to feel resentful for not seeing every country on earth, even if it meant only being there for 1 hour. This doesn’t mean I won’t take short trips. I take the time that is given me, but I don’t want to feel the need to cram things in. If I had a five day vacation, my mind would snap to how many countries I can fit in those five days.
Me and my fiancée are talking a 4 month trip to SEA, and I went from having an itinerary of like 12 countries to cutting it all down and doing one month in each country that I really want to see. I feel this is a step in the right direction. We are so fortunate to have our health and finances to be able to do this, and I would hate to feel negatively about not seeing enough.
I definitely know other travelers have dealt with this, how did you get over it if at all lol.
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2024.05.13 22:29 Berserk2024 I took my reworked definitely not over powered OC and added the weaknesses cause I forgot to add them in the last Post.

Reason why he has wolf characteristics is cause wolves are my favorite animal.
Name Matthew Hammond age 15
Quirk: Power control
Has the ability to control a type of energy only he has.
Ways to use this energy is standard strength and speed by but the power into your muscle fibers and organs to enhance their performance. Matthew can also materialize this power in different ways he traniednto find out how he can do this, for example shock waves or energy tenticals.
The main weakness is energy drain. I know what y'all probably thinking, "this is like every quirks weakness cause I swing your quirk can tire you out", but his quirks energy drain. When he use his quirk, the energy run down and if uses a all out attack he loses the energy and cant use his quirk. But on the good side , this energy grows back over time , and since it's his quirk energy if he goes to where he let out a huge attack, he can absorbed it back. It takes like an hour to get his power back to 100% naturally if he just goes on with his day.
Mutation: * Wolf Ears and Tail: Matthew has permanent wolf-like ears and a tail as a result of his mutation.* Laser Eyes: Matthew can emit powerful laser beams from his eyes. This mutation was a rare coincident.
Also he can share his energy with others to enhance their quirks cause energy works like that I think.
Elemental Forms and Powers:
  1. Lightning Form (Name: Volt)
Weakness: If used too much then it will damage his nervous system temporarily.
  1. Fire Form (Name: Blaze):
Weakness: if you use too much then we'll gain first degree burns.
  1. Water Form (Name: Aquos):
Weakness: No clear weakness.
  1. Ice Form (Name: Frost):
Weakness: if in a heated area, then he will get weak and slower.
  1. Light Form (Name: Radiance):
Weakness: overused will make him temporarily blind
  1. Darkness Form (Name: Shadow):
Weakness: Obviously light. Even a flashlight.
  1. Plant Form (Name: Flora):
  1. Metal Form (Name: Alloy):
Weakness: Overtime he'll get weaker cause of rust. Water
  1. Earth Form (Name: Terra):
No clear weakness.
How this works is his power works like a computer l well more like just a normal computer, then a virus AKA and elements infects this power and then it slowly corrupts his powers AKA but there until his body is able to use a different elements,the form is only as strong as his original form because the element can only corrupt what is there,not make more power. A little bit of this energy is still there so that it can take back control. Each form has a mind of its own like some dark shadow type thing. The reason why his forms have minds of their own is cause if I gave him full control his forms he would swap to frequently and that would be two strong.
The reason why he can do this is when he was 3 is quirk was developing and he was exposed to radiation messing with his quirk genes and when his quirk developed it added this.
Hero Costume:
He also has tubes that are like water bottle size on this belt that he charges with his energy every night before he goes to bed in case he runs out of energy himself.
Maximum Output Move: Master Elemental
Carrys amounted cannons inspired by Titan speaker man. They harness his power into either energy balls or just flat out lasers.
To make my self clear his max form when he uses all his elements he can only use 1/10 of his forms power including him as the main guy of this whole body.
PERSONALITY
He's smart nice in a way sometimes a prankster if you try to roast him you will go complete PackGod on you, if he's in a bad mood don't try to comfort him you'll just make things worse and not for him for you, he's really cocky, but not bakugo cocky hes just a bit over confident. He is very creative. He loves tech to the point if you break a 30 buck phone around him, let's just say you gonna want to do a crime in front of batman before Matthew finds you.
Favorite food: Red Beans and rice
6ft 2
Hates obsesseve people.
There's some girl who likes him so much she stalks him threatens his girlfriend tried to kiss him by force kidnapped him. She did this to point he couldn't take it any more so he moved to Japan but she still found him.
Any way I hope y'all like my reworked oc
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2024.05.13 22:29 Golden_Pineapple07 Akaris (My OC) quirk awakening.

I have written Akaris story (well part of it) on AO3 and have even published extracts of it on here before however I ended up deleting the AO3 due to feeling unsatisfied. Anyways here's a revamped version of her quirk awakening. I hope to re publish on AO3 at some point. Would love to hear some thoughts.
Akaris’ first memory was of the sun. The golden orb shone down on her, enveloping her in what felt like a soft warm hug.
She could see the beams of it through the overhanging tree she was laying beneath with her elder brother, Keigo. Birds twittered in the distance as the blades of grass danced in the small gusts of wind.
Both siblings were breathing heavily as sweat trickled down their skin. Akari rolled over onto her side, so she was facing Keigo
“You… did well.” Keigo said between breaths.
“But you won, you always do” She protested. “Doing well means winning.” She recited in the exact way Ichika, her trainer, would. So far, according to her she was exceeding in her studies and training however she still wasn't doing well enough to train with the same group her brother does.
She lifted her small hand up to wipe the sweat from her brow and block the sun's beams before sitting up.
Keigo sighed, joining her and flapped his red wings in her general direction. The breeze came in small lashes however she treasured each and every one of them.
“You wanna be a hero, right?” Keigo asked.
She nodded enthusiastically. Sure, her quirk hadn't come in yet, however, when it did she was going to use it to save others, like the hero's, not to harm others, like the villains.
“It's not always about winning.” Keigo followed up.
“Ichika says that being a hero means beating the bad guys and saving the good ones” She said. “The only way to do that is to win,” She concluded, stretching her arms above her head and standing up. “Let's go for another lap.”
Keigo sighed, shaking his head.
“We have training later, let's not use our energy now.”
“But K—”
“It's the smarter choice.” He said already heading back to the dormitory buildings.
She jogged to catch up with him before falling into step beside him.
“I'm bored though,” She moaned, “and it takes so long to walk back, can't we do another lap?”
Keigo shook his head before deploying a few of his feathers.
“You like flowers, right?” He asked.
She raised an eyebrow but nodded.
The red feathers shifted before shuffling and arranging themselves into the shape of a flower upon Keigo's command.
“That's so cool!” She exclaimed. Keigos quirk never seemed to amaze her. “Can you do a… unicorn?” She suggested.
Keigo frowned, concentrating on the feathers and arranging them. The outcome made her giggle.
“What?”
“That doesn't look like a unicorn!”
“How you talk badly of my amazing art!” Keigo exclaimed.
“It's really bad!”
“No it's not!”
He shifted the feather again. She giggled.
“It looks like it has a moustache!”
“That's meant to be the mane!”
“Okay, okay, how about we play a game instead, ill make something, you guess what it is.”
The feathers shifted again.
Akari squinted.
They looked all jumbled up and she couldn't decipher what they were meant to represent.
“Come on, you should be able to figure that out!” He exclaimed.
“I'm trying, it's not my fault you're bad at art.”
Keigo spluttered back some response however she was too busy observing the cluster of feathers; she really wanted to figure it out.
At first she hadn't noticed it, however at this point she felt it loud as day. The sensation was something she had never sensed before, it was something that was rooted deep within her; she felt as if a pile of Keigo's feathers had fallen on top of her. She could also feel the air weaving between the red feathers, she almost felt as if she partly was the feathers and as if they were another part of her. It felt nice and refreshing, so she didn't question it.
This connection between her and the feathers only developed the more she focused on them. Before she knew it, it was all she could focus on.
And then, suddenly, the feathers felt like a limb, a limb she could move.
Confused, she did just that, she moved it.
Coincidently, a feather moved.
Her shock knocked her focus away from the feathers and to Keigo, who stared at the group of feathers he called art with narrowed and confused eyes.
“That wasn't me…” He muttered. “That's never happened before.”
She bit her lip and turned back to the feathers.
“I think…” She hesitated and then took a breath. “I think that was me.”
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2024.05.13 22:29 scubatuna8005 Lyme Symptom management

Hi everyone, Im about at the 30 day mark of knowing and treating lyme. I was sick for about 30 - 45 days prior getting progressivly worse. I started with 10 days of doxy and saw some relief of brain fog but not much. Then the doxy destroyed my throat but I landed in the hospital anyways with the inability to walk so I started IV rocephin for the nerve symptoms. I just completed 14 days through a pick line. and the hospital said enough see you later
Im seeing a lyme specialist and will be starting further antibiotics as well as IV infusions of vitamins. But as for symptoms treatment
Can anyone relate or make suggestions
My main issue is my throat always hurts, feels full difficult to swallow horse voice but its not the back of the throat its the neck area (Might be due to neck nerves)
Full body pain somtimes 10/10
Chest pressure and or tightness makes it hard to breath
Depression and anxiety - Because I cant do shit, my lifes falling apart, and I feel so terrible
Sleeping - Im almost scared to sleep because I wake up with night mares or wild scary symptom. I have been taking 2.5 MG valium for the last week which helps me fall asleep but like last night 2 am choking feeling coughing, chest tightness. Like Im dying.
Not sure how much more I an take. Im 37 years old, 6'2" 180 pounds was super healthy and had the world by the balls. Im now about to cancel/ postpone my wedding which is in 30 days. Self employed and havent worked in 2 months.
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2024.05.13 22:29 YeehawBebop 23 northwest Georgia/Florida [TF4M] be my overwatch duo <3

Howdy everyone, I’m Artemis or Artie for short. I’m a 5’5 trans woman who is pre op everything meaning that I haven’t medically transitioned so I still am physically a guy but I’m planning on getting all the surgeries and hormones once I’m more financially stable. I’d also prefer if you live in Georgia as well, I can’t do long distance but I’m starting online college in May and then moving to Winter Park, Florida in October to be on campus! I’d really like to be friends at first and slowly develop a romantic relationship, I don’t want to rush into a relationship but hey anything can happen. I’m super bubbly, optimistic, funny, open minded, kind, clingy and hella sensitive (I’m a crybaby) and I will always try to spread positivity and kindness. I grew up around a lot of negativity and hatred so I strive to be the opposite of that and always wear my heart on my sleeve no matter how much being too nice hurts me. I want to mention I am mentally ill and that includes have BPD (borderline personality disorder) so it can be rough being with me so if you don’t think you can handle it that’s okay! I’ll text you back pretty much immediately if I’m not busy, I love music and sharing/discovering music, I absolutely love horror movies and all things Halloween/spooky, I have 6 tattoos and planning on getting a lot more. I have two cats, Salem and Beetlejuice who is but a wee kitten. I’m a huge stoner and I sometimes take acid/shrooms so I ask that you’re okay with that. I play a lot of video games but mostly overwatch. I play dead by daylight, Ghost Of Tsushima, apex legends but I desperately need to finish Sekiro. I recently got a ps5 as well! If you decide to message me please send a small introduction about yourself, it doesn’t have to be an essay, just a few sentences :) Hope to fear from you!
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2024.05.13 22:29 ClaireEmma612 STP+, did temperament affect when you decided to sleep train each of your children?

My baby girl is 4 months today. We sleep trained my son with Ferber at 4.5 months and I was planning on doing the same with my daughter. My son was easy going and took to it pretty well. I’d call him an average sleeper at that age (he’s amazing now).
My daughter was very fussy and velcro-ish until maybe a few weeks ago. She is doing much better although she can still have her days. No medical explanation. She sleeps about the same as my son did at 4 months. EBF, fed to sleep, wakes once or twice a night with lots of EMWs, and naps pretty well. My husband just told me he thinks we should hold off on sleep training for a little while longer until she seems less “high-needs” (he acknowledges all babies are needy but comparatively, our daughter is needier than my son).
Did you change when you sleep train depending on personality? We don’t necessarily have reason to believe she might not take to it as well. I think he just doesn’t want to go through it and have it fail.
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2024.05.13 22:29 FarradoN Is it safe to take supplements with immune boosting effect

Hey guys, I’m currently getting treated with infliximab and I’m in remission for the least couple of years (while maintaining strict diet called “cded”).
Lately I thought about taking supplements for the overall health however some of them have immune boosting effect which can interfere with my treatment.
Do you think it safe?
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2024.05.13 22:29 goodnewsjimdotcom GAME RELEASE! Starfighter General first official lasting MMO patch. Space is boring, so you must design around making it fun, and all good mmos now are designed around end game.

A video of some random game play: https://youtu.be/EK2xB3xCFjQ

If you want to jump in and play: https://store.steampowered.com/app/658480/Starfighter_General/

I'm trying to make the spiritual successor to Xwing for 90s DOS everyone craved, but Lucas Arts never delivered. I was also inspired by Wing Commander Privateer who's title led me to imagining building a giant fleet by buying more and more ships and making friends.
It has a bunch of bugs but these will be fixed in a week or two. It's still pretty fun and a base by which a HUGE HUGE potential WOW killer will be made on. fairly long patch notes of a subset of what I plan on doing in the future are at the bottom.

My take Diablo2 skill tree/Path of Exile Talent tree: https://youtu.be/E8h9E4lw2jk?si=LVK8hQOtWez6Riwy&t=16 Very pretty to watch.

I'm exhausted... I spent close to a year on this patch... And the last 3 months was nothing but sleep, code, sleep, code, body necessities, balanced against being stress sick, normal sick, and trying not to break down due to being isolated non stop working... About 2000 hours in this patch alone, on top of 10,000 hours in the past 6 years before that, and I use an anthology of game resources that took me 20,000 hours to make. There's some bugs due to Unity compiling standalone improper from editor, but they'll be fixed, as well as the story line not in... It's a spoiler, but people say my SCI FI is better than any scifi man's ever written, it's at least good:

Cut scene spoiler of next patch assemble link by hand:

rum ble.com /v4tf892-spoiler-female-ai-voice-all-of-starfighter-general-mmo-patch-1-quests.html

-> What's next timelinie

NOTES:COMING SOON, AND FORECAST->Story missions non stop, techs around em, story's awesome!

Future Patches ->Non Stop Missions in Star System Sol until that story arc panned out and the next enters.
->Bounty System:Allows Player vs Player... Except people who don't want to be doing PVP will get insurance refund money of damages if/when the offending player pays up or gets captured as Bounty.
->70,000ish star stystems per core, 24 cores to dive.
->Warp drive lets you see actual stars warp by you that exist, aim for the star you want to explore, hit warp.
->Space Opera of partially Ai driven, partially Next Gen personality Memento system to have realistic aliens who grudge match you or befriend you.
->Unlimited player MMO
->Fleet building and Fleet Destroying, soft perma death hardcore means its a thrill of the rise and thrill of fall, rinse and repeat! Aim for higher personal bests of fleet sizes
-> Star System capture, control, taxing, law imposing. People can challenge to take over your star in an 2 hour window where your friends are on... If they're not on, AI will use their craft. So build big alleginances for star control power.
->Better UI hull/shields/armoetc such as NES style Brick Icons for stats ->Transfer between shields/thrusteweapons power
->more sanity loss special effects
->Radar
->Better targetting
->Multi Targetting of friend/foe/neutral/quest...
->Fleet General Commands to allies of flight style: ie defend me, skirmish(fight optimally), attack target, bomb target, evasive manuevars, flee(rout) ta
->Weapon escalation: I) rockets/homing missile/cluster rockets, rocket spam mitigated by chaff, ECM, or a bold force shield ejection II) Lasers will always hit, and heat up your ship, so you're encouraged to rotate your ship's sides to absorb heat in multiple places. III) Bombs you need to travel in a straight line without much damage for 7 seconds ->very long range for shelling bases out of turret range IV) Rail Gun V) Destroyers/Capital Ships VI)
->Bounty Combat PVP system
->Magic enabled
->Cockpit overlays
->Custom Attribute Allocation to stats you prefer from leveling up.
->96 most bilious bosses
->More Galactic News Network tickers
->Enable reduction in manueverability based on encumberance, volume limit of cargo
->Crafting based on real world Molecular structures, make materials out of periodic chart elements, and use those materials to make gears, levers, switches, interchangeable parts of a variety of styles. .Hopefully this becomes educational to people entering Chemistry Class later and beneficial to humanity.
->Favorite foods, drink, sanity preservation
->Elaborate 16 supernatural elemental magic systems
->traders and galactic encounters randomly, get cosmos gems to access untold areas, maps of places no one can get to...
->Secret, get ingame podcasts when available by hitting alt+p, ALT+P AGAIN CYCLES THROUGH THEM, CTRL+P CLOSES EM,
-Memento system
-Scientific items system elaborations evident
-power recover of various systems rates, shots costing powers
-Allegiance & Dark Allegiance system where by helping others or the illusion of helping them raises your power, fame, and status in the Galaxy.
-Live Omnipotent roleplay
--MMO Mode leaderboards such as EXP
--More enemies with fun catch phrases?
--what ASPECTS DO YOU WANT WORKED ON MORE? Send ideas and buy triderium. Forums or email is cool.
--multi drops, more rares, uncommons
--more advanced inventory->Scroll deeper, limited by volume, weight slows your thrust + adds collision damage & kickback, sort with different filters, better descriprtion, items catch on fire in inventory, emit toxic gases, melt, get destroyed by oncoming heat attacks or collisions
--Ability to dimensionally recover items picked up previous session... You have em saved on server, just can't see when you load until next patch.... Use upgrades when you got em!
-Conquer Stars and setting taxes and laws
-story history replay dialogue
-more achievements
-Asteroids properly breakinto more than oen
-Give android race an android sounding voice
--Three forms of Ground Combat: GROUND COMBAT FORM I) One is a classical First Person Shooter (FPS) with vehicles.
GROUND COMBAT FORM II) One is tactical Real Time Turn Based Game(RTTG) from top down, almost isometric. RTTG will give you the feel of a classic orthogonic chess like game with cover, vision and such, yet everyone plays at the same time. RTTG mode happens when you enter populated towns, not because the server can't handle infinite players in a small zone, but because it feels more intense when any action and fight can start from the shadows. Movement is freer and faster when no one has fights going on nearby.
GROUND COMBAT FORM III)One is a 3d Fighter Game you'd see in Arcades from the 90s, but with the ability to change targets.
Starfighter General is the Everything Game. And it's for real. Let me know what you want me to dev next. Virtual Goods buys lets me sub contract parts out to make the game faster. Talk about what you want, and if you got the money, be a driver, push this game's development faster. I'm a 64x coder, people who meet me don't believe people like me exist, so I get things done... I just have literally 0$ funding at the moment. You'll see things in Starfighter General you thought were impossible and things never done before... Be a believer, or heck, just play and enjoy.
KNOWN BUGS: 1) Iron ore is called a book 2) Collision detection on giant space ships is clunky and can be very annoying if you get close 3) Vision obscuring of mesh fog in junk yard 4) Laser angle not straight 5) TEXT RENDDER DEPTH of chatting aliens, or targetting computer needs fixed so always visible.
Enable Prime Skils(21):
Attribute is the attribute that influences the skill, Min Int is the minimum intelligence to acquire skill, skill point costs is the number of skill points required (each intelligence you get 1 point), and the name, well, that's the Name:
Mining ships, transport friggates, shipping containers, tugs, destroyers, capital ships, limi
Closing about determination and the long play... If you're of meager means like myself... You can enjoy the challenge MMODE over the long haul... Always getting stronger, never weaker, the ship upgrades, your level, your ascended masteries, your money, your credits, and most of all your own skill level and reflexes that you don't notice but is always increasing.
Name:"Munitions Motorhead" //assault damages Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:4
Name:"Fleet Architect" //general gains to larger fleet Attribute:intelligence MinInt:13 PointCost:10
Name:"Quarry Champion" //mining bonuses Attribute:intelligence MinInt:9 PointCost:6
Name:"Pet Sympahthyry" //charm pets, higher battlemon fight with you, higher morale, Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:5
Name:"Merchant Maestro" //merchant Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:4
Name:"Diplomatic Impunity" //diplomat Attribute:charm MinInt:12 PointCost:4
Name:"Space Speed Ace" //go fast Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:4
Name:"Universal Researcher" //science-shield Attribute:intelligence MinInt:16 PointCost:5
Name:"Intruder Adept" //sneaky Attribute:stealth MinInt:11 PointCost:3
Name:"Astro Archaelogist" //relic finder Attribute:intelligence MinInt:12 PointCost:4
Name:"Midnight Star Drifter" //preserver of self Attribute:agility MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Mixmaster Mechanologist" //crafter Attribute:intelligence MinInt:15 PointCost:6
Name:"Celestial Trailblazer" //explorer Attribute:intelligence MinInt:9 PointCost:2
Name:"Gangster of Smug" //running contraban, con artist Attribute:stealth MinInt:0 PointCost:3
Name:"Cuthroat of the Constellation" //assassin +crit hit Attribute:stealth MinInt:0 PointCost:6
Name:"Seeker of Destiny" //find magic, starts weak due to 10 missing Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:10
Name:"Wing Broman" //buffs//alliance//loyalty Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Dimensional Void Shifter" //cult of the cloak, friends up phantasms dimensionally more Attribute:stealth MinInt:0 PointCost:5
Name:"Racing Destruction Vet" //Ex destruction derby guy Ram Offense/Defense Attribute:endurance MinInt:0 PointCost:3
Name:"Motley Steward" //Friends with Disgraces in Underground Places...Rowdy good for nothin but keeping company with other rowdy good for nothins:+Hires +Recruit enemy Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Trash Baron" //+1 tractor beam lolz extra drops Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:3
Enable Flex s(66)
Name:"Combat" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:4
Name:"Electronics" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:13 PointCost:3
Name:"Cyborgs" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:17 PointCost:4
Name:"First Aid" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:9 PointCost:3
Name:"Surgeon" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:17 PointCost:8
Name:"Androids" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:17 PointCost:4
Name:"Weapon:Plasma Bolts" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Greater Reasoning" //core Attribute:intelligence //order MinInt:9 PointCost:1
Name:"Decipher Codes" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:12 PointCost:1
Name:"Martial Arts" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:4
Name:"Chemistry" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:5 PointCost:3
Name:"Forage" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:1
:Name:"Quick Draw" //core Attribute:dexterity //blade MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Taunt" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Annoy & Pester" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Lie" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Politics" Attribute:charm MinInt:12 PointCost:3
Name:"Disguise" Attribute:stealth MinInt:9 PointCost:2
Name:"Critical Hit" //core Attribute:luck //chaos MinInt:0 PointCost:3
Name:"Atomic Energy" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:18 PointCost:4
Name:"Pulse Engineering" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:16 PointCost:4
Name:"Fly Aircraft" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Drive" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Pilot Shuttle" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:12 PointCost:3
Name:"Read Instruments" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Navigate" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Remember" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Pick Lock" Attribute:stealth MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Ambidexterity" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:4
Name:"Pick Pocket" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Distract" Attribute:stealth MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Explosives" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Construct Trap" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Fire Artillery" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Fortitude" //core Attribute:endurance //body MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Interrogate" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Law" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:13 PointCost:2
Name:"Popularity" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Confidentiality" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Sport" Attribute:agility MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Facilitate" Attribute:luck MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Gamble" Attribute:luck MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Cheat" Attribute:stealth MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Deceive" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Intimidate" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Space Craft Repair" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:14 PointCost:2
Name:"Aircraft Repair" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Automotive Repair" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Labor" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Advanced Mathematics" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:12 PointCost:1
Name:"Detective" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:3
Name:"Perception" //core Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Soliciting" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Rapid Fire" Attribute:dexterity MinInt:0 PointCost:3
Name:"Safe Crack" Attribute:stealth MinInt:9 PointCost:3
Name:"Auto Mechanic" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Investigate" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Forensics" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:13 PointCost:3
Name:"Survival" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Lore" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Butt Kiss" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Insult" Attribute:charm MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Hardware" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:1
Name:"Bureaucracy" Attribute:charm MinInt:9 PointCost:1
Name:"Leadership" //CORE Attribute:strength //earth MinInt:13 PointCost:4
Name:"Solicitating" //core Attribute:charm //storm MinInt:7 PointCost:1
Name:"Negotiation" Attribute:charm MinInt:14 PointCost:3
Name:"Vetinarian" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:13 PointCost:3
Name:"Junkyarder" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Tactical Analysis" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:0 PointCost:3
Name:"Resourceful Mining" Attribute:wisdom MinInt:0 PointCost:3
Name:"Evasive Manuevars" //core Attribute:agility //water MinInt:0 PointCost:2
Name:"Nanotech Engineering" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:17 PointCost:4
Name:"Astrobiology" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:17 PointCost:3
Name:"Metallurgy" Attribute:intelligence MinInt:14 PointCost:3
Name:"Infiltrator" Attribute:stealth MinInt:14 PointCost:4
Name:"Stealth Ops" //core Attribute:stealth //dark MinInt:9 PointCost:2
Name:"Tough Grit" //core Attribute:willpower //fire MinInt:0 PointCost:2 //LOWER EFFECT OF SANITY HITS, lower hungewater costs lacking/etc
Low coolness Upgrade the targeting computer:3 target classifications:Enemies/Missions/Allies:With allies, you can then send fleet commands to them. Encounter rates-Different random encounters in space
---upgrade ideas ->NEW ITEMS ->nEW CATCH PHRASES ->IDEA FOR PROGRESSION OF MOBS gnn MISSIONS
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