Unblock a person on facebook

Hi to give some back story me female 18 and my dad 57 have always had a rocky relationship but still see each other every so often, my dad got married in 2018 to my stepmom 55 i didn’t find out until 2020, found out though facebook this was the beginning of all this i didn’t know this woman first time i met her was around late 2021 when she moved into my dads home we had an okay relationship wasn’t anything too crazy always respectful and nice to each other since i wasn’t there too often. my mom 38 and dad got married very young and divorced before i even tuned one in 2007 so everyone is nice to each other we went on vacation with his new wife and my mom side of the family and dads ,so i thought everything was okay that was dec of 2022. in nov of 2023 i ended up in the hospital and my mom was trying to reach my dad since i was in pain i didn’t want to call and we find out my mom is blocked which is weird because they don’t communicate if it’s not about me which is not often i ended up calling him and asking him and he said he didn’t know why my mom blocked but it had to stay that way which me realize it was her who blocked my mom so i told him i was not going to him nothing about my surgery until he unblocked my mom because i found it dumb honestly the next day my step mom post on instagram saying to not blackmail because the only person who loses is me , this wasn’t the first time something like this happened one time me and my dad got into a argument at his home and she had posted don’t bring drama to my door so i told my dad about it and all she had to say was the internet is public and she can post what she wants so i took a step back from them 3 months had gone where i hadn’t seen or talked to my dad and he called me telling me she wanted to apologize and talk so i went to his house the conversation started by her telling me that my bad adttide is why the people who love can’t love me she was talking about my dad like i said before we have a rocky relationship because of stuff that’s happened in the past which she wasn’t around for so it’s not her business so i got up to leave and she followed me out telling me not to go and then we get into a argument basically me telling her to mind her own business when it came to mine and my fathers relationship and her saying as his wife that she can say what she pleases then we get outside and it gets heated me and her are going back and forth ( all while my dad was just standing there ) and then she said if we’re in her home contry i would have all my teeth knocked out so i called my mom since my dad wasn’t defending me and her my mom got into it ended up finding out that my quince photo was never hung up because i look like my mom ( i am a spitting image of my mom ) so basically this is all because i look like MY mother and the after that she locked m dad in the house and didn’t let him out so i left. it’s been 1 month since then and and she sent me a paragraph apologize and i honestly don’t care for it and ain’t want her apology but everyone on my dad side of the family thinks i should accept it and move on but i just can’t see past what she said

Hi to give some back story me female 18 and my dad 57 have always had a rocky relationship but still see each other every so often, my dad got married in 2018 to my stepmom 55 i didn’t find out until 2020, found out though facebook this was the beginning of all this i didn’t know this woman first time i met her was around late 2021 when she moved into my dads home we had an okay relationship wasn’t anything too crazy always respectful and nice to each other since i wasn’t there too often. my mom 38 and dad got married very young and divorced before i even tuned one in 2007 so everyone is nice to each other we went on vacation with his new wife and my mom side of the family and dads ,so i thought everything was okay that was dec of 2022. in nov of 2023 i ended up in the hospital and my mom was trying to reach my dad since i was in pain i didn’t want to call and we find out my mom is blocked which is weird because they don’t communicate if it’s not about me which is not often i ended up calling him and asking him and he said he didn’t know why my mom blocked but it had to stay that way which me realize it was her who blocked my mom so i told him i was not going to him nothing about my surgery until he unblocked my mom because i found it dumb honestly the next day my step mom post on instagram saying to not blackmail because the only person who loses is me , this wasn’t the first time something like this happened one time me and my dad got into a argument at his home and she had posted don’t bring drama to my door so i told my dad about it and all she had to say was the internet is public and she can post what she wants so i took a step back from them 3 months had gone where i hadn’t seen or talked to my dad and he called me telling me she wanted to apologize and talk so i went to his house the conversation started by her telling me that my bad adttide is why the people who love can’t love me she was talking about my dad like i said before we have a rocky relationship because of stuff that’s happened in the past which she wasn’t around for so it’s not her business so i got up to leave and she followed me out telling me not to go and then we get into a argument basically me telling her to mind her own business when it came to mine and my fathers relationship and her saying as his wife that she can say what she pleases then we get outside and it gets heated me and her are going back and forth ( all while my dad was just standing there ) and then she said if we’re in her home contry i would have all my teeth knocked out so i called my mom since my dad wasn’t defending me and her my mom got into it ended up finding out that my quince photo was never hung up because i look like my mom ( i am a spitting image of my mom ) so basically this is all because i look like MY mother and the after that she locked m dad in the house and didn’t let him out so i left. it’s been 1 month since then and and she sent me a paragraph apologize and i honestly don’t care for it and ain’t want her apology but everyone on my dad side of the family thinks i should accept it and move on but i just can’t see past what she said

So when I was in sixth grade I had been friends with this girl I had known since fifth grade, she was a year younger than me. I'll call her Lilith. So the day started normally, except for the fact my younger sister (Mary) wasn't very happy, so our mom asked me to sit with her if she came to my classroom for lunch; I agreed as I am the oldest. In school the morning passed by normally, I tutored the kid I was assigned to, talked to friends including Lilith, did my school work, etc. Eventually lunch arrived and I broached the subject to Lilith that my mom had asked me to let my sister sit with me during lunch and asked Lilith if we could save her a seat just in case she wanted to sit with me. Everything seemed fine up until I asked if Mary could sit with us. Lilith had to go get her hot lunch from the office and Mary and I both packed home lunches. Lilith told me that if Mary sat in her (Lilith's) seat she (Lilith) would kill Mary. I told her that was rude, and that I would simply tell Mary that was where Lilith was sitting, so Mary could sit beside me or something. Lilith kept going on about how she would kill my sister over that stupid chair, and I sat there in silent seething rage. When Lilith went to the office to get her lunch I explained to our teacher what had happened and he said he would talk to her. Afterwards I sat with 'Teddy' the kid I tutored and 'Johnny' one of my other friends; I told them everything. Now this is where the petty comes in, Lilith had this obsessive crush on a kid a grade above me (who i will call Orion), and I had a minor crush on one of his friends (who i will call Dimitri); this is something Teddy and Johnny both knew. So they suggest telling the friend group Lilith and I were apart of. I agreed saying we would also tell her crush and mine. The plan: they (Teddy and Johnny) would go out first and tell Orion and Dimitri, meanwhile I would go and tell my sister and her friends (who were standing fairly close to my friend group so they over heard), after that I would go and finish the story to Orion and Dimitri. Well everything went according to plan, when Lilith came out and tried talking to Orion he told her to get away from him because he didn't want to hangout with a psycho (I didnt think he would go that far); and all except one of our friends turned their backs on her. The friend who sided with her told me I was a horrible person for doing that to Lilith, knowing what she (Lilith) had gone through. Something to know, Lilith's father had abandoned her and her mother before she was born; and her mother had gone to jail two or so years before for stealing, leaving Lilith in the care of her grandmother. Now it is my belief that no matter your background or how you grew up, threatening someone's life was and is unacceptable; and I told this "friend" exactly that. Then Lilith started to threaten me, in front of the entire forth, fifth, sixth grades (upper elementary) and middle school classes (we went to an elementary/combined middle school); saying things like she would ruin my life and ruin me, which only proved my point to the others, and I told her that if she came for me or my family she best be prepared for a fight (usually im not a confrontational person so this was a surprise to pretty much everyone). After school I told my mom what had happened and she talked with not only my and lilith's teacher but the principal of the school as well; which led to Lilith getting a talking to from the principal but not much else because of Lilith's background. The next day my teacher pretty much begged me to forgive Lilith, seeing as it was two weeks before summer break, and I told him I wouldnt even consider it until she apologized to my face; by this time Lilith had messaged me on Instagram saying how sorry she was Yada Yada blah blah blah and so on (to which i blocked her temporarily). So the teacher sent us both outside to reconcile; not realizing I had a different plan. Lilith tried to apologize but wouldn't look me in the eyes, my mother told me if someone ment their apology they would look you in the eyes and I told Lilith that and she tried again, again not looking me in the eye. Eventually, because she wouldn't look me in the eyes, I pretended to forgive her simply because I wanted this whole thing to end (and to prove my fake point unblocked her). I spent the next week or so pretending to be her friend (I never told my mom about this fake friendship thing, mostly because nothimg had been done about Lilith and I could be painted in a bad light for discrimination which wasnt the case because i knew about Lilith's home lige long before this whole situation and was still friends with her regardless; im not superficia, i care more about personality and things like money and appearance), and ghosted her the night of the big dance our school had like a week before the end of school; come to think of it i dont think she was even at the dance. And after the dance I started cutting back on how much time I spent around her, and I noticed pretty much everyone else did the same. Then on the last day of school, when I got home I immediately blocked her on everything: phone number, insta (all of her profiles), everything. AITAH?

I am very exhausted, even more as is usuall. I have a lot off stress at work as I took leadership position for my team. So this for sure doesnt help the situation. But what I seek advice for is my ex boyfriend.
We were together 4 years and I broke up with him in January for valid reasons (drinking, anger issues, jealousy). Since then it was even worse and I had to block him almost everywhere and even that didnt help because then he continued the pressure even with emails. He was also threathening me that he will hurt or worse himself and it will be my fault, he was blaming me to be hearthless and selfish and on and on. So after threaths I stepped back and unblocked him only on facebook. I am also still contributing for rent even though living elsewhere, because he refuses to move to smaller affordable apartment.
Long story short, my ex didnt change at all. Time and me repeating and explaining the same that I have no interest in coming back didnt help at all. I really cannot continue to hold him above water... I can barely hold myself and my work.
If anyone has similar experience or can offer advice, please let me know, what would you do.

Or is that kind of off the wall and counterproductive to R?
I’ll try to make this as short as possible, I had a while post typed out but it was rejected because I copied a couple of my WH messages. We’re only about 4 weeks in from dday2.. after a false R that was about 2.5 months of which He went back to seeing his AP multiple times a week after only a month. It’s been difficult but he’s been a little more committed to R this time. Saturday we went out to celebrate our 16 year wedding anniversary. Everything was great including the weeks leading up to this night. However at one point I was trying to show him a picture on Facebook and he saw that his AP was on my search history. He gave me a face and we moved on with the night things were good. Then yesterday he was in a mood and really kind of projecting onto everyone. He was being inconsistent with me too about how he wanted to spend his days off. Told me he wasn’t sure we could hang out (we aren’t living together currently) so I made plans for myself. Then he abruptly decided he now did want to hang out and I was a little annoyed. When he asked what was wrong I told him that but that conversation really went nowhere sometime go. He finally ate and felt better and we ended up staying at his place and had a great night I thought. We cuddled, Watched a movie Was very loving etc. Today everything was fine again, we talked on the phone during my lunch break For an hour. Suddenly 1.5 hours later he send me A long message about he’s Struggling because of the Facebook thing And my attitude yesterday and how that’s where he’s at and just wanted to let me Know. I told him I appreciate him Communicating that to me and explained I was sorry I and I admitted I do look up AP sometimes and I struggle still with insecurities about it all. I was just explaining myself a little and his response was
“I’m not sure what to do to fix me that’s why I’m going to start counseling and take a solo trip somewhere and really focus on myself. I feel bad when i need space because it hurts you.”
So now this is triggering some sort of abandonment wounds in me. Why is he talking like we’re splitting and doing our own things for a while I told him if he needs space I’ll give him far and I’m proud of him for getting counseling but then I go on about how I just don’t understand how we got here from Being loving before and telling me how much loves me all the time to now he Striggles and needs space.
He’s now at work and says he doesn’t k know how to respond but he feels like he’s getting grilled because he told me how he felt and i tell him its fine he doesn’t have to now and That I’m not upset.
Next thing I know he says “do you think we need to take some time? I know I need to get away for a weekend deep dive my personal issues and I’m trying to get into therapy. Is that the fix though actually separating and being happy by ourselves ? I just don’t know”
Now I’m full on panicking and telling you go take space if he needs just stop making me thinking we’re okay when we’re not. If that’s what he wants just do it. And I can’t keep doing this feeling like I’m about to be abandoned again.
He then turns it into “woah I was just asking” and”this is why I don’t express my feelings” “this is what I get for sharing my feelings”. And acting like I just went crazy because he just esp expressesd two little things that bothered him.
How would all this make you feel and did I overreact? Sometime I question if I did but this wasn’t about just his expressing the two things its more about the sudden need for space and mentioning of essentially splitting that take.

I am a 26M. In 2020, a guy from HS (a year above me) matched with me on Bumble and starting chatting me up. Conversation was okay and quickly got hot. Unfortunately, as we both lived with our parents, we found it impossible to then ever hook-up (For context, he is Bisexual but I only found out later). For the next 4 years, he constantly reached out on Grindr, GROWLr, and text about hooking up and NEVER following through with it and instead ghosting me or blocking me. We are at 8 times by December 2023. Am I stupid? Yes. Am I naive? Yes. Am I desperate? Yes. Am I happy I do this to myself? No. Last December, I had reached my limit. As he followed me on IG, I posted a public story (not tagging him to be nice and not out him as I later found out he was still in the closet) basically saying Fuck You and you need to get your feelings checked out cause if you are doing this to other men and women, you are a fucked up man. I deleted all the apps including social media. This past Saturday, he texted me (I assume unblocked my number) and apologized and expressed that he was dating. Part of me wanted to say bye and part of me desperately hoped he was being genuine. For context, all the previous 8 times he never apologized and made excuses but he actually said “sorry” this time. So originally we were gonna hang at his place Sunday (I expected to hangout and maybe a little fun) but he cancelled on me because of Mother’s Day. This was a pleasant surprise because this was also the first time he actually replied saying he was busy instead of me finding out he deleted the app or blocked me. Earlier today, I decided to text him and explained that I think it would be better for me if we met in-person not at his apartment but maybe to chat over food or a walk in the park. He replied “don’t be like that.” That got me SOO mad and I replied 2 paragraphs of how I feel he only wanted to fuck and he wasn’t actually looking to date. He then replied “don’t be like that.” I didn’t reply because I just cannot believe that in these 4 years he really has 0 sense of communication. He clearly cannot lay out what he wants. I’m getting at his “dating” means hooking up and sex. This is time #9 and I’m in-between blocking and just never thinking about this or replying and wanting to start a fight (even tho it’s clear he’ll probably say something like “okay.”). Idk if it’s worth replying. Idk what I want from posting this but I’m just venting really. I long for something real and I just wish I could meet someone who likes me and is real.

I was scrolling through UNIS GLOBAL in Facebook and came across this post:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/HJaZmZPheds1BvWa/?mibextid=oFDknk
And this post made me realize something. Their What is Love performance was sort of the amalgamation of their constant hardwork (in a sense). This performance showed the following:

1. Gehlee's dancing improved significantly. She's always been more of a smooth dancer, shining especially on more slower tracks like Beautiful back in UT. But on more faster tracks she seems to always struggle or at the very least have a hard time, her moves often times looks stiff, which is not a good compliment to her usual smooth dancing. So often times, she ends up looking sloppy, but in this performance we can clearly see that she improved her dancing ability to faster tracks. And maybe this is just out of pure love from TWICE, but her expression the entire performance is just a massive improvement from her usual somewhat awkward smile, she looks genuinely elated throughout the performance and her expression showed it. It gave of this starry-eyed, curious teen impression, which is necessary in performing a TWICE song like What is Love.
   
2. Kotoko's promising vocals. One of the main criticism about Kotoko back in UT days was that she's very weak vocally, and I used to agree to that (looking at it constructively, of course). But her “I'm gOoOoOoOoOd” part in SUPEREWOMAN, showed massive promise. No offense, but I think that the J-Line along with Gehlee are the most handful members to be distributed a line to, not because they're bad vocalist, but rather because of they're unique vocal quality. In the sense that if you put them in specific parts of a song, it sounds extremely good and invokes the necessary feeling, but at the same time, putting them in other specific parts could feel out of place. The way I could describe those three is that: Nana's voice is breathy, perfect for conveying emotion and should be preferably used in more lower register, best example is Dream of Girls. Gehlee's voice is low registered, best utilized for highlighting low register killing parts and being second or last chorus like in Dopamine to switch things up and make their songs sonically dynamic. And lastly, Kotoko's voice is more on the high pitch side, should preferably be used in stylish parts like a falsetto with preferably Elisia adlibbing (more on this later) and also probably the rap parts too, because her rapping tone is a good contrast to Yoona's rapping. Sorry for the long unrelated yapping, but overall, I think that they're doing a good job improving Kotoko's unique voice and it shows in this performance.
   
3. And lastly Elisia's ad-libbing. My personal favourite UT performance is Beautiful, because of the absolute god-sent of a performance that was, vocally. And a huge reason to that, is because of Elisa's ad-libs, her ad-libs adds that necessary emotional and vocal depth. And even way back in her Red Flavor performance, she was already trying to adlib although she was discouraged to do so. The biggest reason on why I think Elisia is arguably one of the best vocalist in 5th gen is because of her ability to impact and add to a song, regardless of whether is sing or being a back up vocal. And although it is subtle, I think this performance is a great practice for her to expand her vocal abilities by essentially playing backseat and still adding something to the song (although I do hope that they start giving her more lines in their CB).
   

Overall, there was a lot, and I mean A LOT of things wrong with the performance but we can't just ignore that positives and undeservedly write the performance off. I, for one, am also immensely disappointed in the distribution of this performance and their album but we can only hope that FNF will listen to our pleas and distribute the lines to the girls more fairly, but in the mean time, let's just focus on the goods and not let the negatives affects us too much.

Please let me know how this sounds 💚 I am terrible with words and terrified of public speaking sooooo I need it to sound good while I try not to pass out as I give this speech 💀
-Hello everyone! Thank you all for joining us to celebrate these two amazing individuals. Bride, you look absolutely stunning, and groom, you clean up quite nicely too!

• I know a good portion of you here with us tonight but for those I don’t know, hi my name is MOH.
  
• I met Groom and Bride in high school through mutual friends. While I hung out with bride occasionally and bumped into groom in group settings, it wasn't until a few years later that bride and I would become close.
  
• bride, It's difficult to put into words just how grateful I am for you, but ill give it my best shot. Thank you for loving me for who I am, even though I'm a bit bullheaded and stubborn. You’re the person I call when I have exciting news to share or need to vent after a tough day. I know my deepest secrets are safe with you and you’ll give me the advice I need, even when it's tough to hear. Thank you for loving my children as your own, even if they are little wild. I can never thank you enough for always being around to support me during those dark days after I had child’s name.. I don’t know how I would of made it these last 9 years with out you. While life has taken us down different paths, we have always made the best effort to keep our friendship as close as possible. Naps on the couch with the dogs and all day hangouts have turned into trips to the zoo and hour long phone calls on your drive home and even longer when you commuted for school. Just know we can never stop our wild days on the boat and ice cream runs to ___, those keep us both somewhat sane. Bride you are kind and loving, genuine to the core and never afraid to speak your mind. You are truly amazing inside and out and i’m so glad I to call you my best friend.
  
• Groom, I was unsure if we would become friends in the beginning of you and bride’s relationship. You would walk in the door without saying a word, heading straight for the computer room. Now when you walk in, you almost always have some smack to talk, so id say we’ve come a long way. You’re not the type to write some mushy Facebook post professing your love for bride, and If you did, I'd probably think you've hit your head... But words aren’t necessary to see how much you adore her. The way your face lights up when you look at her says it all. Your love for her is unconditional. Thank you for loving bride exactly as she is, for always standing by her as her biggest supporter, and for filling her days with laughter and joy. Even if that means occasionally pushing her buttons just to get a rise out of her. I could not imagine a more perfect person to be her husband.
  
• Mr. And Mrs. XXXX! I have been dying to say that all day. Thank you for allowing the kids and I to be a part of your special day. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day, and may your journey together be filled with laughter, joy, and endless blessings. Here's to a lifetime of happiness and cherished memories. Congratulations, Groom and Bride, I love you both. Cheers!!
  

Please let me know how this sounds 💚 I am terrible with words and terrified of public speaking sooooo I need it to sound good while I try not to pass out as I give this speech 💀
-Hello everyone! Thank you all for joining us to celebrate these two amazing individuals. Bride, you look absolutely stunning, and groom, you clean up quite nicely too!

• I know a good portion of you here with us tonight but for those I don’t know, hi my name is MOH.
  
• I met Groom and Bride in high school through mutual friends. While I hung out with bride occasionally and bumped into groom in group settings, it wasn't until a few years later that bride and I would become close.
  
• bride, It's difficult to put into words just how grateful I am for you, but ill give it my best shot. Thank you for loving me for who I am, even though I'm a bit bullheaded and stubborn. You’re the person I call when I have exciting news to share or need to vent after a tough day. I know my deepest secrets are safe with you and you’ll give me the advice I need, even when it's tough to hear. Thank you for loving my children as your own, even if they are little wild. I can never thank you enough for always being around to support me during those dark days after I had child’s name.. I don’t know how I would of made it these last 9 years with out you. While life has taken us down different paths, we have always made the best effort to keep our friendship as close as possible. Naps on the couch with the dogs and all day hangouts have turned into trips to the zoo and hour long phone calls on your drive home and even longer when you commuted for school. Just know we can never stop our wild days on the boat and ice cream runs to ___, those keep us both somewhat sane. Bride you are kind and loving, genuine to the core and never afraid to speak your mind. You are truly amazing inside and out and i’m so glad I to call you my best friend.
  
• Groom, I was unsure if we would become friends in the beginning of you and bride’s relationship. You would walk in the door without saying a word, heading straight for the computer room. Now when you walk in, you almost always have some smack to talk, so id say we’ve come a long way. You’re not the type to write some mushy Facebook post professing your love for bride, and If you did, I'd probably think you've hit your head... But words aren’t necessary to see how much you adore her. The way your face lights up when you look at her says it all. Your love for her is unconditional. Thank you for loving bride exactly as she is, for always standing by her as her biggest supporter, and for filling her days with laughter and joy. Even if that means occasionally pushing her buttons just to get a rise out of her. I could not imagine a more perfect person to be her husband.
  
• Mr. And Mrs. XXXX! I have been dying to say that all day. Thank you for allowing the kids and I to be a part of your special day. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day, and may your journey together be filled with laughter, joy, and endless blessings. Here's to a lifetime of happiness and cherished memories. Congratulations, Groom and Bride, I love you both. Cheers!!
  

Thank you for the report and welcome back.
Sorry for the long one. Somethings have been piling up. I guess this is my welcome back gift. 🎁
In old business. There are still regular reports that posts are submitting and not actually posting on profile or subreddit. The iOS drafts issue where they don't save and can't be accessed, is still present. The algorithm has been as bad or worse than it has ever been. It is especially bad on the mobile apps.
New UI. There is a persistent problem for some when a person replies to a comment and blocks you, all of your comments disappear from your profile until you find and delete that replied to comment. If there were other comments in the same chain, those may need to be deleted as well. It also sometimes includes your overview disappearing. The same thing happens for some when they reply and then block someone. They then have to go and unblock them to get everything to appear. That issue has been quiet this week, so it may have been recently fixed. Right now I have 6 original broken or missing things since the beginning, 3 newer broken things and a list of 18 annoyances on the new UI currently.
The new UI does not show if a subreddit is restricted or private. It also does not show if it is NSFW. I have to switch back to new.reddit to confirm all three. And with the new.reddit going away later this year, I am concerned these will not be fixed in time.
Issues. Reddit's Filters are becoming a major issue. With having no confirmation of what it could be looking for, and no consistent behavior by the Filters, it makes it very difficult to help when these reports come in. Sometimes they seem like subreddit new user restrictions might be the issue or a Reddit new account restriction on posting. Other times, it looks like crowd control. Still more there is no discernable reason why it removed something. I have confirmed it acts as the spam filter also at times. Sometimes it removes all posts after a date. sometimes it is only posts from one subreddit.
This one is more for me, but may be helpful for others. When a user makes a post about their other account "not working", I open my profile and swap my name for theirs. The sh.reddit UI shows different and inconsistent things than the new.reddit UI. It also does give a crazy eyed snoo head when trying to look at new.reddit.
When Shadow Banned: new.reddit shows. Nobody Goes by that name. https://imgur.com/V1zdgcn. While sh.reddit shows suspended. https://imgur.com/a/XfotmLr . But it has also sometimes shows Nobody Goes by that name. https://imgur.com/a/ql2Ttgv
When Suspended: new.reddit shows Suspended. https://imgur.com/csPLq6J. While sh.reddit shows Nobody goes By that name. https://imgur.com/a/ql2Ttgv but recently it also gives the suspended image. https://imgur.com/a/XfotmLr
When Account is Deleted: new.reddit shows Deleted. https://imgur.com/a/Gfh024A. While sh.reddit shows Nobody goes by that name. https://imgur.com/a/ql2Ttgv.
Sometimes it is show as the account is suspended in the sh.reddit.com . https://imgur.com/a/XfotmLr . But when looking on new.reddit.com it shows Something Went Wrong. https://imgur.com/a/Eaes6Dq .
My big concern is that when new.reddit goes away later this year, I will not be able to give accurate advice anymore.
One thing indirectly help related that I have a question on is bugs . Now that everything we can't help fix is going to bugs, is there any information you can share on how it is going to work? In the past, bug report tickets typically took a month or more to get a human answer from redditsupport. Are employees going to be answering on the subreddit? Taking posts down and answering via PM? Is the expectation users will have to fix everything except platform wide issues, even though we can't? Is the timeline going to look the same? I have noticed posts getting removed from bugs, are they removing duplicates like the rules say that will do? How do the users of the removed duplicates get help?

So I was looking for a job, Found a person advertising a customer service agent job on Facebook. This person referred me to a Telegram Chat of the Restaurant that has the job opening. A basic af Q&A was conducted, HR Person asked me to write 5 apology emails on their behalf and send it via a newly created email ID. I did that. Then he said for some "special customers" they want to compensate by buying Apple Gift cards, 5 of them and $100 each. Said they'll send me the money and I'll have to buy the cards. Emailed me a $500 cheque, I encashed it. Money is now in my account. I said I would need a letter of authorisation/ Appointment letter to use these funds, now he started panicking and msgs started seeming very bot-like. Refuses to send the letter, the Email used by him also is a typo-filled name of the Restaurant. Now he's asked me to eTransfer the money to a "supplier" who can buy the gift cards, but I'm sort of leading him on for the day. Told him I can mail the money by cheque to the actual Restaurant owners, he's denying it profusely. What do I do? Should I keep the money or return it? Has anyone dealt with this sort of scam where you get the money first??
P.S. Chat is on Telegram so can be deleted forever for both parties. And he only has my Full name and email address. Thats it.

**He’s from Canada (M29), I’m from Asia (F24)
My queries are:

1. Is it possible for the person to he persecuted even when I live so far away?
2. Do you personally know someone who got fined or jailed for doing such actions?

A little summary, I broke it off because I got fed up, but he couldn't accept it. He has been trying to win me back but kept rejecting so guess that's why he's mad (Also, because I have been ignoring him). Before he threatened me about leaking my nudes, we were bickering about something and he asked me to block him and that if I don't, he'd do something. And so I did block him, then unblocked out of fear. He has been trying to add me on snap multiple times after I removed him. I ignored him for days. I forgot to block his number and he texted me and threatened to send it to someone else and that person is going to do the leaking (Mind you, this person that he's going to send it to is known to keep people's nudes and spread them). He threatened to spread it like wildfire.
I gave in and added him back to try to talk him out of it. It seems that he's firm on wanting to do it and he kept saying he wouldn't change his mind. My mistake maybe is that I said I was scared he’d really do it — showing weakness.
l am not sure if it's already out or not.
I have contacted my cousin who is a lawyer and she helped me report the case (https://www.cyber.gc.ca/en/incident-management/report-cyber-incident-individuals). She has already sent in the report with the receipts of the threats, including info about him.
Also, is there anything else I can add or do? I have been very anxious about this whole situation and any insight or answers would be of help. This all happened yesterday and today.
Thank you so much!

Full disclosure, this is my first post here and I understand extra verification will be needed. I am happy to answer any questions you may have and hope to provide a good experience while you work with me.
With that being said, here is what I currently have for sale…
Apple Watch Ultra -
• Like new, 100% battery capacity • Purchased Jan 2024 from Verizon full price - unlocked. • Includes original Green/Gray Trail loop band, Starlight Alpine Loop Band, Apple braided watch charging cable. • transferable AppleCare+ monthly coverage. - Does not include box (was lost in a recent move).
REPAIRS: none
PRICE: $629 PayPal G/S or $599 local cash
TIMESTAMPS: https://imgur.com/a/mzOnKyc
iPad Pro 12.9” M1 Pro 16gb/1tb 5G(Unlocked) -
• Like new with screen protector since day one • 96% Battery capacity • Purchased Mar 2022 from Verizon full price - has been unlocked. • includes Original box/papers/stickers, Apple 20w US adapter, Apple USB-C cable (2m), Apple Cyprus Green Smart Folio, USB-C to SD/MicroSD adapter.
REPAIRS: none
PRICE $ 949 PayPal g/s $929 local OBO
TIMESTAMPS: https://imgur.com/a/oMQIgVW
MacBook Pro 16” M1 Pro 16gb/512gb
This was bought on Facebook marketplace in Aug, 2022. It was sealed when I purchased it, however I did not open it until I got home. After opening and connecting to WiFi I found it had a MDM config. I attempted to reach out numerous time to the company that was tied to the Mac via email and phone calls, however never got a reply. Long story short, The Mac is now 100% MDM bypassed and is currently running macOS Monterey as a personal preference, It is able to be updated to Ventura, however I have not tested with Sonoma. It is completely functional and runs like a dream.
• Like new, 95% battery • purchased Aug 2022 • includes original box (Apple stickers too), 2 Apple MagSafe 3 to USB-C cables (Space Grey + Silver), pre-installed Roxxlyn real-stone display decal, 1tb Sandisk external SSD
REPAIRS: none
PRICE: $1099 PayPal G/S or $1069 local cash OBO.
TIMESTAMPS: https://imgur.com/a/deJml4v
I do believe my prices to be fair for the most part, please make offers, but do not lowball me.

So I was looking for a job, Found a person advertising a customer service agent job on Facebook. This person referred me to a Telegram Chat of the Restaurant that has the job opening. A basic af Q&A was conducted, HR Person asked me to write 5 apology emails on their behalf and send it via a newly created email ID. I did that. Then he said for some “special customers” they want to compensate by buying Apple Gift cards, 5 of them and $100 each. Said they’ll send me the money and I’ll have to buy the cards. Emailed me a $500 cheque, I encashed it. Money is now in my account. I said I would need a letter of authorisation/Appointment letter to use these funds, now he started panicking and msgs started seeming very bot-like. Refuses to send the letter, the Email used by him also is a typo-filled name of the Restaurant. Now he’s asked me to eTransfer the money to a “supplier” who can buy the gift cards, but I’m sort of leading him on for the day. Told him I can mail the money by cheque to the actual Restaurant owners, he’s denying it profusely. What do I do? Should I keep the money or return it?
P.S. Chat is on Telegram so can be deleted forever for both parties. And he only has my Full name and email address. Thats it.

**He’s from Canada (M29), I’m from Asia (F24)
My queries are:

1. Is it possible for the person to he persecuted even when I live so far away?
2. Do you personally know someone who got fined or jailed for doing such actions?

A little summary, I broke it off because I got fed up, but he couldn't accept it. He has been trying to win me back but kept rejecting so guess that's why he's mad (Also, because I have been ignoring him). Before he threatened me about leaking my nudes, we were bickering about something and he asked me to block him and that if I don't, he'd do something. And so I did block him, then unblocked out of fear. He has been trying to add me on snap multiple times after I removed him. I ignored him for days. I forgot to block his number and he texted me and threatened to send it to someone else and that person is going to do the leaking (Mind you, this person that he's going to send it to is known to keep people's nudes and spread them). He threatened to spread it like wildfire.
I gave in and added him back to try to talk him out of it. It seems that he's firm on wanting to do it and he kept saying he wouldn't change his mind. My mistake maybe is that I said I was scared he’d really do it — showing weakness.
l am not sure if it's already out or not.
I have contacted my cousin who is a lawyer and she helped me report the case (https://www.cyber.gc.ca/en/incident-management/report-cyber-incident-individuals). She has already sent in the report with the receipts of the threats, including info about him.
Also, is there anything else I can add or do? I have been very anxious about this whole situation and any insight or answers would be of help. This all happened yesterday and today.
Thank you so much!

Social Media and smartphones are warping how we see the real world and our reality is losing nuance rapidly.
Take the man or bear debate as a recent example. The whole premise is unhelpful and based on a glaring falsehood. It's like a 13-year-old's first essay on a topic they know next to nothing about. I'm pretty sure actual survivors of sexual abuse don't give a single damn about this "dilemma". They have real issues to deal with that those of us who are engaging in this discourse have the privilege of not having to deal with. All this fad is doing is spread the paranoid notion that there are male predators waiting around every other corner. How is that helping survivors of abuse with real trauma and fears that they carry with them in public places on a daily basis? It is absolutely not a show of solidarity to those who have actually suffered, yet people do genuinely believe they are "raising awareness", or "taking a stand".
I mean it's a far-less improbable yet ironic scenario to imagine someone walking the dim city streets at night alone with their necks bent square over their smartphones, going round corners oblivious to their surroundings while texting "I'll take the bear lol". Those same people will say they're afraid to walk alone at night and they yeard for the bear. I made that scenario up, but I've literally seen people bumping into walls and into other people in a smart phone-induced trance and just continuing like nothing happened and I've also seen people gleefully (not ruefully) opt for "the bear". What I mean is a lot of people are claiming to be terrified when they're not.
Like with the Tik-tok trend that's been dangerously telling people they have "high-functioning anxiety" without professional diagnoses, where if everyone is mentally ill then no one is mentally ill¹, it also stands to reason that if everyone is afraid, then no one is afraid. It's a dangerous way of "showing solidarity" to let pervade through society. I'm no Jordan Peterson fan, but this is a good example of the dangers of fake solidarity*. It's not just fake; it's damaging.
The whole bear vs man thing just seems to polarise people into two camps who perceive the other either as man-haters or rape-apologists. But you know what? it's not even close to being real and does absolutely nothing to bring people of differing views any closer to understanding each other. I also 100% guarantee you that those who "choose the bear" don't actually practise what they preach in their lives to even the slightest degree. One example I witnessed was at a recent social occasion where a female high school teacher whom I know quite well told her boyfriend and father to ask her if she was alone in the woods, what she would prefer... Before she even said the words "bear", or "man", I knew where where we were heading and intuitively knew what her answer was going to be.
It wasn't a debate from the very beginning. It was more like a joke - a weird joke about sexual assault told in the first person. Before she'd even got to her supposedly mind-blowing punchline (which was, in case you're a bit late to this party, "I'd choose the bear because the bear won't rape me!"), everyone seemed to know what it was going to be. Given the expectant grin on her face when she said these impactful words, It didn't turn out to be the “gotcha” she thought it was going to be. This was quite an awkward experience. I can only guess that the "gotcha" aimed at the men in the room was supposed to educate them to be ashamed to be male on the spot. It didn’t. I explained why I thought the whole thing was flawed and I was informed I needed to lighten up. I was definitely mistaken in thinking that it was a chance to talk philosophy (is it ever these days?), but perpetuating the idea that "male rapists are everywhere" while simultaneously trivialising real suffering of abuse goes completely unchecked because when we engage in this form of discourse we reduce ourselves to vacuous, infantile creatures who ironically think they're acting like fully-developed adults. Rape is light-hearted; yet - and this is where the cognitive disonance gets really odd - you're either standing up for it or you're standing up against it, but no matter what side you're on, it's funny. Instead of thinking, "why is she grinning?!", we're thinking, "what side am I on and how can I also somehow make it funny?". When in reality, it's surface-level shock-value statements with zero nuance that we allow to insincerely represent us (the wide-grinning rape denouncer doesn't practise what she preaches: she isn't a raging man-hater; she's a decent person, but for some reason, she's adopted an inane comic-strip view on something as serious as rape - and incredibly, it's all in the defence of victims!).
And this way of engaging in discourse is everywhere. On Reddit, Facebook, Twitter etc., the finger-pointing and artificial coralling of all of us into fake dualities of misogynist vs virgin-for-life simp, misandrist vs patriachy-enabler, racist vs communist and many others are rife and it's finding its way into real-life discourse at the dinner table, the classroom and the office.
If we artificially and insincerely self-separate into these 1s and 0s, are we making it easier for the A.I. on our devices to "understand" us, classify us, manipulate us and ultimately annihilate us?
OK, maybe I went too far there, but is this jarring lack of nuance really the only way we want to "talk about" serious topics now? Is it only going to get worse? I feel like it wasn't long ago you could have real discussions about issues, but this art is dying - and rapidly. You can probably sense my frustration at how society is organising itself right now and I'd love to know if anyone has any suggestions on what we can do to encourage healthy conversations and debate with each other. Maybe I'm the problem. I used to be surrounded by people who took part in stimulating, nuanced debate and now I'm not. We used to tolerate different viewpoints and we didn't confront and "block" each other on a hair-trigger. Maybe I'm old and the kids are actually all right. Let me know.
¹ ~https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5MCw8446gs&ab_channel=TheNewYorkTimes~
*I couldn't find a good quote for this, but similarly, he terms it "narcissistic compassion"

I know I said in my last update that I would not reach out to any new leads for the moment, but I couldn't resist!
So I won't go into too much detail, but I found a new lead that seems promising and I wanted you guys' opinion.
So I was looking up variations of "Belarusian indie rock before:2011" and "Minsk indie rock band before:2011" on YouTube (which as another user pointed out was how the Kenya Dance song was found). I stumbled upon this YouTube channel for an act called Dreamlin based on Minsk, whose title reads "Dreamlin: We have a band and sometimes film others." I thought, "Okay, what are these other bands?" In their videos, they have some songs by a man named Andre Karp and his bands including Pranayama.
Here is a live performance of a song by Pranayama called "What Am I Got to Do If I Love You?". If you ask me, I think the drums and the vocals sound similar to WMT (at least more similar than most others I have been listening to).
So I said "Why not?". I reached out to Dreamlin with a general inquiry via email, and to Andre Karp and Graffiti Bar Minsk (the venue where the live recording was made) via Facebook Messenger. Dreamlin responded to my email very quickly saying simply "no idea, sorry". I have not received replies from Andre or Graffiti Bar and I do not want a lot of people reaching out to them (especially since I messaged Andre's personal Facebook account).
So what do you guys think? Here's some more songs by Andre: "Like a Stone", "My Sweet Sister", and a documentary he was in called "Made in BY" about counter-culture in Belarus under Lukashenko's government. This very well may not be WMT, but either way I do like Andre's music.

This was posted on St Albert Chat Facebook group. I'm hoping someone on Reddit is able to help?
"My daughter was hit by a car in the crosswalk by a car turning onto Everitt drive from Erin ridge drive at around 950pm tonight. I’m wondering if anyone saw anything or if the person who hit her would be decent enough to come forward and identify themselves. We’re in ER right now and her bike is trashed. We did report it but because she was shaken up the she didn’t get a license plate so there’s not much they can do."
If you have any details please report it to the police.

It is for the facebook page activity. English isn’t my first language and I accidentally wrote it too long… 💀What have I done they don’t even reward diamonds 🫠🫠🫠
1
After knowing Eric was killed by the cold arrows, in countless lonely night, Celestine doesn’t remember how many times she couldn’t help but sobbing underneath the moon. Everything from that dreamlike memory turns against her, making regret and yearning as her tear. The secret they have shared and the happiness they have experienced for only a short while, now is remaining as a hole in her which fills with unspeakable agony.
Yes, unspeakable. As long as the Fairy and the Sanguine are still enemy, the knot of her mind could never untie, no matter how much concern and care were shown to her. Because the reason she couldn’t relief can only be a secret that bury in her deepest mind.
2
Her fairy friends bring her brushes and pigments, expected that Art could be a way to heal her. When she picks up a brush, the flashback of that moonlit night of the first time she met with him is very much clearly recalling in her mind, as if it was happened yesterday. Tear droppes from her bowing head, a strong feeling bloom in her heart, ‘If getting to understand the thing he liked, can I get closer to him?’
In later days, she spends all her days to soak in the world of color. Except it is a way to commemorate her beloved one, sooner she has found that art could also be the way to express her true feelings beneath the deepest side of her mind, and so she feels so much relief than before. Years and years, by the artwork in her memory which she has seen from talented him as a goal, she worked very hard to improve her art skill, in order to paint the world he has seen. Every years, she would paint the lake where he drew and where they‘ve met once, until one day, she found that her skill has already been to where she has once wished to reach. “I could see the same view as you now…”
Somehow, a feeling of emptiness comes over Celestine.
3
As she walks to home in the deepest forest, the thick woods gradually cover the moonlight and the starlight from the sky. Beneath the shadow of branches and leaves, she takes out a new canvas, and starting to draft an appearance of a person.
“He had a pair of branch-like dark wings without feather and unlike any fairies, the black and light purple suited perfectly outlines his artistic body, the pair of high heel boots quietly brought out of his sexiness, and that slightly worn hood whispers his mystery. He looked so dangerous with his bone hands but I was so much into his touching. When he took my hands into dance, the moonlight fell on his flowing silver hair, making lively of his….”
…How was his face looked like?
Celestine, then sinking into shocked.
——
A few days later, a friend who visited Celestine has found that her house was in a mess. There were a lot of canvas scattered around everywhere, which were all depicted about the same person but with an erased face. However, Celestine herself was nowhere to be found. The only thing the fairies could find after a long while, is an existence who is known as Mrs. Bone.
—-—
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4
“I finally meet you… I finally meet you… I finally meet you…”
A repeating whisper echoes in the Shadow City, no body knows how did the master of this voice entered into here. Leading by a Sanguine, the fairy who holds tight of a skeleton which is wrapping by some muddy, broken clothes in her arms, kneels in front of the throne of tomb. The giant wings of white devil and black angel spread, showing the glamorous body and the blood lust gaze of the queen from that dark throne.
"Are you gonna pay for your desire, even if the cost is to render yourself into darkness?", she asked, with a slow, arrogant voice.
"Show me your madness then, soak your soul into BLOOD!"
——
5
Putting on a dress that made of the bone under her feet, to make herself a well-match wife to him - You’re in black, I’m in white, and we’re in bone.
Upon the cluster of rose and bone, the man who has only bone remained, opening his “eyes”. He is unable to speak, since he has no throat. (But this will be just temporary)
He has never expected that he could awake from his everlasting “sleep” in this form, seeing the world, and meeting her once again. Her atmosphere seems slightly different, but still, her light skin is as beautiful as the moon of Lake Bovaly, her purple eyes is as deep as the sky of Shadow City, and her tender smile is like the meteor they’ve seen together, which streaks into his very heart. Tears that reflects the color of the blood moon shud from her eyes, and he just reaches out, wipes her tears away from her endearing face. Yet she holds his hand and rubbing her face with it, to feel this touching of long lost - she has been waiting for this day for so long in countless lonely nights. And now, she’s not the girl who has only the understanding of the art he likes, but also has learnt the desire of blood that root in his sanguine nature - it is for the sake of maintaining the spells of his resurrection, rebuilding, and existence. But most importantly, for the sake of LOVE.
“Even death could never separate us anymore.”
-End-
Thank you for reading and Sorry for my grammar and weird story🫠

This is kind of a long story and I feel like a lot of context is needed for it to make any sense at all. For starters, I went through a very hard breakup about 8 months ago, and I have been spending a lot of time getting to know myself again since the split. Especially since I was so hurt, I have been really nervous to go out with anybody because I want to avoid the possibility of being hurt again so soon. I was still going on dates but not letting myself get too attached to anybody.
(For the sake of anonymity, 40M will be referred to as Adam)
I met Adam about 6 years ago. He was one of my teachers during my grade 12 year, and we always got along really well. I was a very withdrawn person and would get nervous speaking out loud in front of people, but something about Adam made me feel super confident. I always joked about us flirting to my friends, but I obviously didn't take it very seriously, since I was only 17 and he was my teacher. I graduated and didn't really think about him much. Admittedly more than I thought about any of my other teachers, but still not a ton.
Fast forward to 2 months ago. Adam reached out to me on Facebook and we started talking. It started off very casual, he was asking me how I am and whether or not I went to post-secondary, ie, typical teacher questions. After a couple of days, however, I could tell the conversations between us were getting very flirtatious.
To be totally honest, I was really happy because I had nothing but good memories of Adam, so when he started finding sneaky ways to tell me how pretty I am I dove right into full on flirting. We started to make plans to meet up when he got back from a trip.
We talked all day, everyday up until we were going to meet, and as soon as we got together there was an instant connection and spark. It turns out Adam and I have had really similar upbringings, and we're super compatible emotionally and sexually. He had opened up and told me about how he regrets not having kids and that he worries if he doesn't have any soon his window of opportunity will close (It is a dream of mine to have babies and I have suffered multiple losses so I was so happy to hear that he was open to the idea) Things were going really well and then he sat me down for a talk.
Adam explained to me that he is married, he loves his wife, and he is worried about hurting my feelings down the road because he has no intentions of leaving his wife. He also told me that he thought I already knew (I probably did but that information was not important enough to a 17yr old me to remember). We discussed the possibility of not continuing to see eachother, but we both decided that this felt too special to not continue.
So that's what we did and now for the last month or so we have been getting together as often as possible, talking every single day and Adam has been buying me lots of gifts and food. He is also planning on taking me away for a weekend next month.
I was feeling happy and good about the situation, since I have been admittedly pretty lonely lately, and seeing someone who I already knew from the past has given me a nice feeling of familiarity while also giving me someone to tell jokes to and talk to when I'm having a hard day. But lately I can't stop thinking about Adams wife and how horrible it would be to be in that position. She has no idea that I exist and it seems like there is a lot of trust in their relationship, so I don't see her figuring it out any time in the near future.
I have thought so much about reaching out to Adams wife and coming clean, since if I were in her shoes I decided I would want to know asap, and it feels very not girls girl of me to be sleeping with somebody else's husband. At the same time, I understand that if I were to do that, Adam might never forgive me. Part of me feels as though Adam doesn't really care about me, or his wife since he seems so willing to hurt us both. I love spending time with Adam and I can't stop thinking about him. I'm worried if I stopped seeing him, I might have my heart broken again and I already barely survived my last heart break.
What should I do?

Yesterday, The Simpsons released a Mother's Day video that left viewers with an unexpected emotional reaction - a mixture of disgust and outrage. The video, titled "Unexpected Emotional Reaction to Unusual Mother's Day Gift Surprise," showcased Marge Simpson receiving a spicy ham sandwich covered in vomit and vinegar as a gift from her husband, Homer. What the actual fuck, Homer?
But that's not even the worst part. To add insult to injury, Homer invited Dan Schneider, the controversial Nickelodeon producer, to their house to interact with Bart and Lisa. Are you kidding me? Homer, do you have any idea the kind of disgusting shit that Dan has been accused of? You should be ashamed of yourself for subjecting your children to that creep.
And now, let's turn our attention to Charles Ingalls from Little House on the Prairie. His recent Facebook post about Mary getting her jaw stuck wide open after yawning is absolutely revolting. Who wants to hear about a young girl's medical emergency? And to top it off, Charles casually mentions how four random people from their town had to help shove her jaw back together. Disgusting.
But the real scumbags of the day are Mike and Carol from The Brady Bunch. In a recent YouTube video, Mike gleefully recounts the terrifying moment when Cindy had to take cover inside their home during a drive-by shooting. Are you fucking serious, Mike? Your daughter was in a life-threatening situation, and all you can do is film it for YouTube views? You are a despicable excuse for a father.
So, to The Simpsons, Charles Ingalls, and The Brady Bunch - you can all get absolutely fucking wrecked for exploiting your family's personal tragedies for likes and clicks. You are all slime, and I hope you rot in hell for your disgusting behavior. And Dan Schneider, you can go straight to hell with them. You are all a disgrace to humanity.