I was looking for a weekly pinned post to put this in but I was having trouble finding one. I thought maybe the sub used to have one. Anyway I have always used a point system for grades for HS science (I’m somewhat early in my career) but I want to switch to weighted grades in order to make tests and labs more important. Thinking about starting this next year. I was hoping to get some feedback on a proposed system with the following categories:
• Tests - 30% • Labs/Projects - 25% • Quizzes - 15% • Classwork - 10% • Homework (not graded for correctness, but for completion/attempt, with work shown) - 10% • Participation (to curtail cell phone usage during class) - 10%
(apologies for formatting, I’m on mobile. I’ll try to fix that)

I love delta because it’s a charming little emulator the best part are the skins and I just cannot wait for this emulator to use all the iPad screen space instead of being in an iPhone aspect ratio

I made the following payments other than the zomato, bigbasket swiggy orders and airtel phone recharges. How much cashback should i have gotten for these, please help
1.TATA play settop box recharge using airtel thanks app with CC: 550₹, i think 10% cashback?
2.Electricity bills paid via AMAZON PAY since my state,Telangana is not mentioned in AIRTEL THANKS APP : 220₹ , i think 1% cashback is correct?
3.Water bill paid via Airtel thanks app: 1335₹ , expecting 10% cashback, correct or not?
If anyone knows any trick for getting 10%cashback for electricity bills too, please comment as i get around ₹2k bill, would love to get that extra 200 also.

I’m a guest advocate, 5 days straight I was scheduled to work the positions that require the most talking and running around. Everyone in my store has been well aware that I despise being talkative all day long and tend to not talk at all when I’m drive up unless I’m with a guest or grumbling profanities cause my stuff isn’t done properly or my times have gone down. I go on a lovely week long trip tomorrow and have a concert while I’m on my trip that I’ve been trying to see for over 5 years. Well. Having to be in check out and guest services 4 days straight and in drive up for one 6 hour shift killed my feet and throat. Unfortunately drive up day was rough, I had called my roommates trying to figure out who was going to be taking care of my cats as my hire backed out while I was at work and was fuming and cussing pretty heavily. So last night I felt my throat get sore and my nose all runny. I woke up and to nobody’s surprise my lymph nodes are swollen and I’m in severe pain. I called out last night because I knew this would happen, whenever my throat is sore from talking too much my lymph nodes swell. My TL called me in a panic/fit of rage at 7:30 am- half an hour before my shift was supposed to start. I couldn’t talk so I handed my phone to my wife on speaker and had her explain that talking and swallowing hurt and that I’ve gotten sick and just need to rest. My TL demanded that I have to be the one calling out if I’m sick. I called out through the app and my wife was aware of this, she quickly told TL to check my time for target for my call out and said once again that I’m sick and called out properly.

My latest post
This morning, Nmom sent another text to both my daughter and I, without sending to just my daughter first, like she's supposed to. In other words, while it's addressed to my daughter, she needed me to see it too. Luckily, it was sent after my daughter left for school, so her phone is on Do Not Disturb, and she won't read the text until later. I will also decode things for her, and emphasize that she is not responsible for fixing Nana's upset at being turned down.

Hi (daughter). I'm so sorry that we haven't been able to bring your gift over and to wish you a happy birthday. Papa felt that it would be best to not try for Sunday (her birthday) and we were in (other city 3 hours away) yesterday and pretty tired but the time we got home. If it's ok with you we will bring it when we get together for MD. Love you bunches and hope your 17th was very special. (typos are Nmom's)

She wanted me to see that she's mad and she wants my daughter to feel guilty about making her mad. The part about eDad (Papa) thinking it's best to not try to come over was her way of saying that eDad kept her from coming over and yelling and making a big scene because of how mad she is.
Then I go on Facebook to browse while putting off cleaning out my fridge, where she has posted a belated Mother's Day post honoring her Mom. It was all so sugary and over the top. Then it got cringy, at least for me, knowing what she was getting at.

...Sure she made mistakes and said things that she latter regretted but I choose to remember the positive things and wanted to say, thank you mom for being the example of a godly mother to me. (typos are Nmom's)

I'm just over here laughing at her. She doesn't know what to do with herself when her grandchild rejects her. I'm pretty sure she thinks I had something to do with telling my daughter not to go. I didn't. She's almost grown up and has seen how unimportant she is to Nmom for years. But heaven forbid anyone reject Nmom.
We are supposed to go out to eat with both of my parents tomorrow. I'm really curious to see how it goes. I'm not stressing about it, but I am planning a couple exit strategies if she gets too far out of line. We are going to one of her favorite restaurants, so she will want to keep up good appearances with the servers and people she knows.

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I have been married for 6 years now,with three kids and my husband is in jail. He has been in Jail for two years,and my husband is in so much debit. He’s parents are so entitled that they tried to blame my family for their sons debits,saying that since he’s their only SIL they should pay off their son debits,and that went on and off for sometime,demanding to talk to my family or ask my father to loan me 50k or sell my jewelry to my father and get him to give me at least 25k(my jewelry doesn’t reach 25k) or to open a business with my name and credit card or take a loan……and this list go off a lot !!!’ After some fighting and cornering me,I decided to sell my jewelry except a bracelet my father bought me. However, they found out about the bracelet,and my phone started ringing demanding I sell everything I own,including the bracelet. And I got a call from my SIL calling me all sort of name saying that I’m hiding my jewelry and didn’t sell everything… After some fighting and yelling,I decided to sell it……. After I sold it my father knew and he blow off on my In-laws,calling them all sort of name and he talked trash about them,LIKE A LOT!!!! But after that each time a have a fight or disagreements with my SIL she would tell this::
OH!!! WE KNOW WHAt YOUR FATHER SAID ABOUT THE US SELLING THE JEWELRY,AND MY BROTHER ALREADY KNOWS!!!
I said yes he knows because he called my father and they had a talk!!! In this two years my mom was responsible for my necessities and would drive everywhere(i don’t have a car) they never took my to an appointment or elsewhere,even my kids are in The same pre school as my SIL and she never picked the kids to take them to school or take them home back from pre school!!!
Now my dear father bought me car,not that fancy but it does take me places,and guess what!??!? My SIL feels entitled to it…
(My dad put the car under his name so they can’t try to pressure me to sell it or not to ask me to take them places)
First time my father took the car at Friday,my husband had a visit in jail planned on Sunday,but my SIL calls me Saturday night demanding I tell my father to take the car back so I can go visit her brother!!!
(Since he got jailed I was the only one visiting him,my in-laws visited him once and the rest was me alone)
At the phone call with my SIL I told her that my father needs the car in the meantime and he can’t give it to me ,she started yelling saying I never loved her brother and never visited him while he’s in jail..I fought back and called my
Other BIL (he’s decent unlike my SIL) he said that it’s not a problem and he can assure I have a car in the morning to go to see my husband. Which he DID!! He brought me his wife’s car but I didn’t use it because my young SIL was home and she was happy to drive me their (she’s young like 20 years old ) And we went and visited my husband.
Second story my two kids were at my parents and my mom called to come pick them up,I went!!!and when I reached home my SIL was standing at the porch fuming demanding to know if they gave me the car forever or for sometime…
What do I do with this peace of S$&@??!

What is Dark Magic?
That's the question, I'm sure, if not every single one, but the majority of readers asked themselves at least once. Dark Magic in general is described as magic malicious in nature, one that's used to cause harm. It doesn't really make sense: a good applied Incendio is just as well to kill you as a swift Killing Curse, even more painfully, in fact. Or why Imperius is Unforgivable, but love potions are totally fine and legal and not considered Dark? And I'm sure people here are painfully familiar with many such arguments.
Did you know that "Petrificus Totalus" spell Hermione used on Neville at the end of the first book is a dark charm? Apparently, according to "The Standard Book of Spells, Grade 1" from Pottermore, jinxes, hexes and curses (though the last one is obvious) are all dark spells. And that includes such things as Ron's Slug-Vomiting Curse, Ginny's signature Bat-Bogey Hex, even Leg-Locking Curse that Draco used to bully Neville in first year. All because their purpose is to cause a negative effect.
So, some Dark Magic is bad, but other is used regularly in schoolyard fights, and no one bats an eye. Where's the line and who sets it?
Alright, Dark Magic in canon doesn't make sense. That means, that a lot of fic writers take it upon themselves to fill the gaps in logic and give their own definitions of what magic constitutes as dark. From the top of my head, I can remember a few, let me know if you recognize them:

• Dark magic is magic that's powered by emotions. Everyone knows that to properly use Killing or Cruciatus Curse, you have to fully desire to cause death and pain, so that fits. Also, by this definition, Patronus Charm is dark because it's powered by happiness. Why not, quite a good irony.
• Dark magic is powered by external source, while "light" magic is internal. I don't remember the details, but it was something to the effect that external makes it more powerful, and power corrupts, so it's feared. A bit strange but has a nice message behind it. Also, why I'm on the topic, a friendly reminder to those who are too deep in fanon and mix things up with canon. There's no such thing as "light" magic, just like there was no "Light" side in the war. There's Dark and there's everything else.
• Dark magic is one that is secret familial magic. People develop or discover new spells and for whatever reason decide not to share them, but to hoard them in their family grimoire, so other people don't know such a powerful spell or countermeasures against it. Usually this is followed by some heavy pureblood Houses politics, Lordships and such. Also, I've seen fics where bloodline gifts such as Tonks' metamorphmagus ability were considered Dark Magic for whatever reason (Bashed Dumbledore's propaganda to suppress pureblood Houses, more likely).
• Dark magic is the one that's forbidden by government. This is my personal favorite, as I prefer harder magical systems. In this case, it means that there's nothing inherently wrong in this magic, it's not different in nature from any other magic, just one that's seen as too dangerous. Of course, it also invites a heavy abuse by government to declare anything they don't want to as dangerous Dark Magic that's to be prosecuted for, but that's another story.

I like these theories, I like when people try to come up with their own interpretations or their ways to fill the holes in lore and logic. Not all of them I agree with, but it hardly matters.
What peeves me, however, is when authors use this fact, that there's no clear definition of Dark Magic or Dark Arts, as an excuse to basically do whatever they want. A character (more likely, main one) does or practices something that people don't like, so they just accuse them with an empty argument "it's bad, it's Dark Magic!". And no one can argue, because no one understands what Dark Magic even is! They don't have a box list of criteria to disprove. "I don't know what you're doing, I don't understand it - it's Dark Magic, it's bad."
It's one of the favorite arguments in Hermione or Order bashing stories when MC does something they do not approve of. Dumbledore bashing uses a bit different arguments, but this one can also be included.
It's just such a... I don't want to call it a bashing tool, because I can't say if every such story involves a heavy bashing, but it has potential to be, at least. I'd call it a bludgeoning tool. Just a blunt method to make characters do whatever they want without the need for any finer details: it's so much easier to just use the brand "Dark Magic" and get over it, why give any explanations.
Although, to be completely fair, canon does it as well to some extent.

“Did something happen to it when Flint blocked him?” Seamus whispered.
“Can’t have,” Hagrid said, his voice shaking. “Can’t nothing interfere with a broomstick except powerful Dark magic — no kid could do that to a Nimbus Two Thousand.”

Non-Dark magic can't do something like that? What is Dark about taking control of a broom anyway? Though, admittedly it's Hagrid, no matter his virtues, not the most reliable or knowledgeable of sources on this topic.

“Ask him,” shrieked Filch, turning his blotched and tearstained face to Harry.
“No second year could have done this,” said Dumbledore firmly. “It would take Dark Magic of the most advanced — ”

Again, I don't understand what the heck it is, so it must be Dark Magic. But, it is Dumbledore and highly knowledgeable wizard, plus it's clearly a harmful effect, so it's more assumption based on those, plus experience.

“Nonsense, O’Flaherty,” said Professor Binns in an aggravated tone. “If a long succession of Hogwarts headmasters and headmistresses haven’t found the thing — ”

“But, Professor,” piped up Parvati Patil, “you’d probably have to use Dark Magic to open it — ”
The Chamber of Secrets can't be kept a secret without resorting to Dark Magic? If no one found it, so it must be something truly obscure and terrible, so it's Dark. But, I mean, she's a second year girl...

Black jumped at being addressed like this and stared at Hermione as though he had never seen anything quite like her.

“If you don’t mind me asking, how — how did you get out of Azkaban, if you didn’t use Dark Magic?”
But Hermione surely disappoints here. Apparently, non-Dark countermeasures are all accounted for, so if they failed he must have used some Dark stuff.
It's very sad picture, which says about either ignorance on the matter, which is excusable for children but pity that it's not taught, or arrogance in the assumption that you know every bit of non-Dark magic there is and can be.
Anyway, we came back to the canon and it's understanding of Dark Magic. I spent some time thinking about it, what J.K.Rowling meant by it, without resorting to any headcanons.
No one can argue that Harry Potter series is filled with symbolism as any good fiction tends to be. It's a story for children, at least started as, and young adults, so besides a good adventure it also contains a moral message and more than one. The story of Boy-Who-Lived is about love and redemption, first and foremost. "Love is the most powerful thing in the world" is not just a preaching of a senile old man, but the most central point of the whole book series.
So, based on this, I believe that in canon Dark Magic at its basics is the magic that corrupts the soul. What it means is open to interpretation, as it often is when the topic of a human soul is involved. It's all based on the same moral messages between the lines: when you do bad things to others, it slowly but surely corrupts your soul, and if you fall into temptation, only love and compassion can heal the harm done to yourself. Harry vs Voldemort is basically the fight between Love and Hate, Soul and Soulless. That's why Patronus is basically an epitome of defense. And that's why Horcruxes are considered to be The Darkest of Magic, when it literally tears the soul apart. And that's why the cold blooded murder is even involved in the process of making one - metaphorical tear becomes literal.
To be completely honest, I find myself a bit resentful of the message, no matter how nice and beautiful it sounds. It somehow implies that soul is only about love, compassion, friendship and so on, that any negative feelings do not and must not have a part in it. But, I guess, it's a bit too much of a philosophical, ethical and psychological question to dive into in here.

I have had issue after issue with my in-laws since my baby was born she is now 18 months. They wanted alone time with baby, sleepovers when she was a newborn, they wanted unlimited access, visits when they wanted them, take her when they wanted to take her, control of how we parented they wanted to monopolize our holidays, they wanted to be apart of all of babies firsts, and would get upset and offended if we lay down any boundaries. And basically just act like toddlers throwing a tantrum if we didn’t give them what they wanted. We have a long and complicated history since baby was born. But essentially they have a lot of unresolved issues and unmet expectations and (despite all of Reddit warning me to cut contact) I didn’t. They have acted needy and possessive of my daughter but I continued visiting for the sake of the relationship. And trying to maintain peace while also keeping myself and baby at a safe enough distance. But none of it was good enough every single visit they pressured me to take her. I made it clear I wasn’t comfortable everytime but they won’t take a hint.
it finally came to a grande finale after I broke and said enough is enough. I told them in a text that no they wouldn’t be taking her and I wasn’t comfortable with it so to stop asking. I said let’s just enjoy our visits and holidays together and put our energy towards better things.
An hour later they called my husband. My Fil spoke first and started off put together and nice but then got creepy and weird and demanded to know who our daughter visited with and who gets to see her and wanted to know who gets to take her to the park. My Mil then came on screaming, she Doesn’t once call me by name just keeps saying:
“your wife hates me, she doesn’t care about my feelings.” “Your wife is trying to destroy our family just like she did with her parents” “If you don’t see it son you’re blind!!” “She doesn’t talk to her parents or her grandparents.” (I have a wonderful relationship with my grandparents) “She’s unhealthy!! What you guys are doing is unhealthy.” “Everyone thinks you are CRAZY” “I’m gonna send your wife’s texts to everyone” “You’re selfish”
“All of you are selfish, all 3 of you.”
“You just want to keep her (our baby)all to yourselves. You don’t want to share her with anyone.”
“You aren’t the son I raised.” “I don’t even know who you are anymore son” “I know her and I know she will NEVER let us. She won’t budge. She won’t let us take her no matter how old she is.” (Speaking about me not letting them take my baby) “What your wife is doing to us is BAD!!!”
“you aren’t a family. We are your family,”
“If you chose your wife and daughter over your mom’s feelings you are gone to me. Done.”
“You guys put your daughter’s feelings over that of your mom and dad!!!”
“That’s my grandchild you have!!!” “She’s mine and you are keeping her from me.” “I want 5 minutes alone with her and you won’t give me that.” “You gotta give a little.” “It’s give and take and you need to give.”
We raised you and loved you unconditionally and now you owe this to us!!!”
My husband ended up hanging He was very upset and felt absolutely defeated. They didn’t get what they wanted so threw a tantrum and basically told my husband he has to choose between me and his baby or giving them what they want which is alone time with her.
After that I told him I would never again have myself or my child around his parents. He agreed. His mom then started texting our family and friends trying to get them on her side. She texted MY aunt who is basically my mother. It’s like she was trying to build a case against me being crazy and hoped everyone would agree with her. (Including my own aunt, who she also insulted numerous time during the phone call) She then texted my husbands cousin (who is his bestfriend and we are very close with) and she told him she is now mourning the loss of her son. She told them not to talk to us or tell us anything and then also asked them to please take my husbands old trainset from when he was young and give it to their child and make sure their child passes it along to his kids…..wtf? My husband sent a long text to his dad explaining how hurt he was by everything and basically his dad sarcastically replied “guess we are the worst parents.” Then he told my husband we hurt them and that my husbands mom hasn’t stopped crying(knowing full well my husband has a soft spot for her)….they are so self involved and They have such huge insecurities about how they parented my husband and it constantly comes out here. I think they are so desperate for a redo with our child that they have become delusional thinking they have a right to her.
Then forward a few days later and my mil is texting my husband like nothing happened? She said her and my fil talked and they realized they may have missed the mark on boundaries then went on to invite my husband to golf and send him pictures of a coaster he made as a kid with a passive aggressive comment about “mom and grandmas name being on it and equal.” Then his dad texts him ignoring everything and asking us if we need boxes for our move.
They do this to my husband constantly. They act out and then brush it under the rug and act like nothing is wrong. My husband is always confused by it and lets it happen. But I don’t want to do that here!! They can’t just act like this and then expect everything to be fine after….Right??? Like am I crazy?

It’s been almost four weeks. I know they say “stop ruminating and obsessing” but it’s hard because I’ll just be doing something random and unrelated and it triggers a thought of him. And then for the next two hours I’m sad thinking of him - “why did he leave me? Was any of it real? Is he thinking of me? Remember that time he held you so lovingly. Remember that birthday trip how perfect it was…” How do I practically stop the spiral? People say to switch and think of something else but how? I try and the thoughts keep coming back. Do you open your phone and Google something? Do you physically stand up and go outside? I know in theory to stop doing it but I’m struggling.

Hello,
I’m trying to decide what New Balance running shoes to try next, and looking for opinions. Or if I’m missing any I should consider. I’m slowly getting back into exercising, and would like to incorporate running (1-2 miles 2 to 3 times a week). And then some faster sprint type workouts. I wear a 12.5 2E, and am 245lbs. I believe neutral shoes should work for me although my feet are relatively flat.
The shoes I’m considering: -880 v14 -Rebel v4 -Vonga v6
The last shoes I’ve had/tried: Beacon v3: -Liked fresh foam but for some reason they just hurt my knees when walking, they felt like they had no support or contour to my foot. Almost like it was just a flat interior of the shoe.
880 v12: Liked a lot but I kept messing up the sizing. They felt very springy, which I’m not sure if that was from the FuelCell forefoot addition or not.
880 v13: felt like the v12 but the top of my toe kept getting caught on a firmer piece of the upper and bothered me
Rebel v3 12.5 2E: Still have these, but they feel extremely mushy, almost like I go through the cushion. Then I don’t feel like I get much spring afterward. I thought trying a full fuel cell shoe after likening the 880v12’s would be the direction for me, but somehow the v12’s felt more responsive at my weight. The shoe itself is a perfect contour of my foot, almost like a sock which I love. It feels like there is additional arch support. They are great for walking around to me, a little unstable but not worrisome, but the running experience wasn’t super pleasant. I don’t think I want a higher foam stack height than the rebel v3

Over the course of the past few months I’ve been working on compiling a list of my 500 favorite songs ever. I gave myself a few rules (only 5 songs per artist being the big one) and here’s what I’ve come up with. Just thought this was fun and wanted to see if this might spark any discussion about song placement or lack of certain things. Also wanted to see if anyone had any similar lists.

1. Trash Panda - Aging out of the 20th Century
2. Djo - Roddy
3. The Beatles - Don't Let Me Down
4. Snail Mail - Heat Wave
5. Phoebe Bridgers - Savior Complex
6. Joji - SLOW DANCING IN THE DARK
7. The Shins - The Fear
8. Talking Heads - This Must Be the Place (Naive Melody)
9. The Cranberries - Linger
10. Post Animal - Ralphie
11. Hop Along - Not Abel
12. The Beach Boys - Heroes And Villains
13. Electric Light Orchestra - Livin' Thing
14. The Monkees - As We Go Along
15. Blondie - Heart Of Glass
16. The Strokes - Oblivius
17. Chet Baker - It's Always You - Vocal Version
18. The Beatles - Rain
19. Electric Light Orchestra - Telephone Line
20. Husbands - Must Be a Cop
21. Faces - Ooh La La
22. The Flaming Lips - Do You Realize??
23. Frank Ocean - Nights
24. Harry James - It's Been a Long, Long Time
25. The Turtles - Happy Together
26. Etta James - At Last
27. The Zombies - The Way I Feel Inside
28. The Beatles - Here, There And Everywhere
29. The Beach Boys - God Only Knows
30. Kanye West - Father Stretch My Hands Pt. 1
31. Briston Maroney - Sinkin'
32. John Lennon - Oh My Love
33. Herb Alpert & The Tijuana Brass - Ladyfingers
34. Squirrel Flower - Headlights
35. The Backseat Lovers - Maple Syrup
36. The B-52's - Rock Lobster
37. George Harrison - All Things Must Pass
38. Snail Mail - Ben Franklin
39. Laura Elliott - Grass Stains
40. Djo - Chateau (Feel Alright)
41. Tame Impala - Eventually
42. The Backseat Lovers - Snowbank Blues
43. Claude Debussy - Clair de Lune, L. 32
44. The Weeknd - Save Your Tears
45. Talking Heads - Thank You for Sending Me an Angel
46. The Zombies - Time of the Season
47. The War On Drugs - Nothing to Find
48. Queen - Brighton Rock
49. The Dream Academy - Please, Please, Please Let Me Get What I Want
50. The B-52's - Strobe Light
51. The Cranberries - Dreams
52. Fugees - Killing Me Softly With His Song
53. Molchat Doma - Тоска
54. Tyler, The Creator - ARE WE STILL FRIENDS?
55. The Mamas & The Papas - Dream A Little Dream Of Me
56. The Chords - Sh-Boom
57. The Beatles - The Abbey Road Medley
58. The Ronettes - Be My Baby
59. The Who - Baba O'Riley
60. Dr. Dog - Where'd All the Time Go?
61. M83 - My Tears Are Becoming A Sea
62. Billie Eilish - everything i wanted
63. Outkast - Hey Ya!
64. Nat King Cole - Orange Colored Sky
65. The Notorious B.I.G. - Hypnotize
66. Four Tops - Reach Out I'll Be There
67. Foreign Air - Shut Up and Show Me
68. Leonard Cohen - So Long, Marianne
69. dodie - If I'm Being Honest
70. Briston Maroney - June
71. Post Malone - Sunflower
72. John Lennon - Isolation
73. Buddy Holly & The Crickets - Not Fade Away
74. Phoebe Bridgers - I Know The End
75. Kanye West - All Falls Down
76. Alvvays - Adult Diversion
77. John Lennon - Beautiful Boy (Darling Boy)
78. Clairo - Amoeba
79. The Beach Boys - I Know There's An Answer
80. Paul McCartney - Let Me Roll It
81. Frank Ocean - Ivy
82. Radiohead - Motion Picture Soundtrack
83. Djo - Mutual Future (Repeat)
84. Phoebe Bridgers - Scott Street
85. Childish Gambino - Me and Your Mama
86. Pink Floyd - Astronomy Domine
87. The Pied Pipers - Dream
88. The Beach Boys - All I Wanna Do
89. Djo - Change
90. Второй этаж поражает - Крайности
91. Little Richard - Lucille
92. King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard - Shanghai
93. Chet Baker - Deep In A Dream
94. The Beatles - It's All Too Much
95. Post Animal - Dirtpicker
96. The B-52's - Love Shack
97. EDEN - foreve/over
98. Kanye West - Ultralight Beam
99. The Zombies - Going Out Of My Head
100. Talking Heads - Found a Job
101. Snail Mail - Pristine
102. Tom Tom Club - Genius of Love
103. Tears For Fears - Everybody Wants To Rule The World
104. WILLIS - I Think I Like When It Rains
105. Chet Baker - But Not For Me
106. Naked Eyes - Always Something There to Remind Me
107. Tyler, The Creator - GONE, GONE / THANK YOU
108. Djo - Half Life
109. Trash Panda - Check Please
110. Briston Maroney - Deep Sea Diver
111. Beach Fossils - This Year
112. Momma - Medicine
113. Hop Along - Prior Things
114. Talking Heads - Road to Nowhere
115. Electric Light Orchestra - Turn to Stone
116. Briston Maroney - It's Not My Fault
117. Tyler, The Creator - NEW MAGIC WAND
118. Snail Mail - Headlock
119. Phil Collins - Take Me Home
120. Gotye - Somebody That I Used To Know
121. The Beach Boys - Do It Again
122. Tame Impala - Breathe Deeper
123. Ella Fitzgerald - Misty
124. Phoebe Bridgers - Waiting Room
125. Kanye West - Runaway
126. Daft Punk - Get Lucky (feat. Pharrell Williams and Nile Rodgers)
127. Dire Straits - Money for Nothing
128. Kendrick Lamar - Alright
129. Black Country, New Road - Concorde
130. George Harrison - If Not for You
131. Harry Styles - Cherry
132. Ms. Lauryn Hill - Doo Wop (That Thing)
133. Paul McCartney - Junk
134. Wings - Maybe I'm Amazed - Live
135. Talking Heads - Houses in Motion
136. Del Water Gap - Ode to a Conversation Stuck in Your Throat
137. Pixies - Where Is My Mind?
138. Queen - Seven Seas Of Rhye
139. Paul McCartney - Jet - 2010 Remaster
140. Sufjan Stevens - Death with Dignity
141. A Flock Of Seagulls - I Ran (So Far Away)
142. Tame Impala - Let It Happen
143. Led Zeppelin - Whole Lotta Love
144. Clairo - Management
145. Tommy James & The Shondells - I Think We're Alone Now - Single Version
146. Fergie - Clumsy
147. Childish Gambino - This Is America
148. Prefab Sprout - The King of Rock 'N' Roll
149. Joy Again - Looking Out for You
150. Beach House - Space Song
151. John Lennon - Mind Games
152. The Weeknd - Gasoline
153. Weezer - Buddy Holly
154. Phoebe Bridgers - Sidelines
155. Tame Impala - New Person, Same Old Mistakes
156. Lana Del Rey - A&W
157. The Dillards - I've Just Seen a Face
158. The Doors - Break on Through (To the Other Side)
159. Julie London - I'm Glad There Is You
160. 2Pac - California Love
161. Dean Martin - Everybody Loves Somebody
162. Snail Mail - Anytime
163. The Strokes - The Adults Are Talking
164. Jordana, TV Girl - Better in the Dark
165. Juice WRLD - Hide (feat. Seezyn)
166. The Wild Reeds - Get Better
167. Finom - Mine
168. Hop Along - One That Suits Me
169. The Killers - Mr. Brightside
170. Michael Cera - Clay Pigeons
171. Clairo - Bags
172. Prince - Let's Go Crazy
173. The Zombies - She's Not There
174. Blackstreet - No Diggity
175. Frank Sinatra - I've Got You Under My Skin
176. John Denver - Take Me Home, Country Roads
177. Harry James - I'm Beginning to See The Light
178. The Clash - London Calling
179. Charles Bradley - Changes
180. Buddy Holly - (Ummmm, Oh Yeah) Dearest
181. Eagles - Seven Bridges Road - Live
182. Moxie - Honey
183. Faces - Stay with Me
184. Post Animal - How Do You Feel
185. New Order - Age of Consent
186. Natalie Imbruglia - Torn
187. Lana Del Rey - Doin' Time
188. Twin Peaks - Blue Coupe
189. Kanye West - Gold Digger
190. Fruit Bats - The Bottom of It
191. Frank Sinatra - Somethin' Stupid
192. Lorde - Perfect Places
193. Martha Tilton - Exactly Like You
194. King Crimson - 21st Century Schizoid Man
195. Glen Campbell - Southern Nights
196. Claire Rosinkranz - Frankenstein
197. Guillemots - Made-Up Lovesong #43
198. Fleetwood Mac - Say You Love Me
199. Frankie Valli - Can't Take My Eyes off You
200. The Crickets - Don't Ever Change
201. Paul Anka - Put Your Head On My Shoulder
202. George Harrison - Isn't It a Pity
203. Trash Panda - Off
204. Super Besse - Holod
205. Beyoncé - Hold Up
206. Charlie Burg - I Don't Wanna Be Okay Without You
207. Eagles - Peaceful Easy Feeling
208. Ella Fitzgerald - It's A Lovely Day Today
209. PERMSKY KRAY - Дорогой Человек
210. The Little Dippers - Forever - Single Version
211. The B-52's - There's a Moon in the Sky (Called the Moon)
212. Patti Page - Old Cape Cod
213. Daft Punk - Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger
214. The Soggy Bottom Boys - I Am A Man Of Constant Sorrow
215. Trash Panda - Things Will Never Change
216. Hop Along - Well-dressed
217. Sixpence None The Richer - Kiss Me
218. TV Girl - Daughter of a Cop
219. LAUNDRY DAY - Jane
220. Tyler, The Creator - EARFQUAKE
221. Sigue Sigue Sputnik - Love Missile F1-11
222. Joji - Gimme Love
223. The Backseat Lovers - Pool House
224. The Weeknd - Take My Breath
225. Mild High Club - Homage
226. Doc Watson - Am I Born to Die?
227. Daniel Caesar - Streetcar
228. The Kinks - Sunny Afternoon
229. John Lennon - #9 Dream
230. Tame Impala - Elephant
231. Chuck Berry - You Never Can Tell
232. Pink Floyd - Wish You Were Here
233. KIDS SEE GHOSTS - 4th Dimension
234. Soft Cell - Tainted Love
235. The B-52's - Song for a Future Generation
236. Gnarls Barkley - Crazy
237. Lana Del Rey - Blue Jeans
238. Billie Eilish - Halley's Comet
239. Glenn Miller - In the Mood
240. Kid Bloom - Control
241. The Cinematic Orchestra - To Build A Home
242. Marvin Gaye - I Heard It Through The Grapevine
243. Brenda Lee - If You Love Me (Really Love Me)
244. TV Girl - Lovers Rock
245. Art Lown - Knew You Well
246. Dean Martin - Ain't That A Kick In The Head
247. Miniature Tigers - Like or Like Like
248. Electric Light Orchestra - Sweet Talkin' Woman
249. The Hunts - Ages
250. The Cars - Good Times Roll
251. Bill Withers - Lovely Day
252. Drake - God's Plan
253. Kansas - Point of Know Return
254. The Neighbourhood - Stargazing
255. The Clash - Rock the Casbah
256. Hop Along - What the Writer Meant
257. Briston Maroney - Under My Skin
258. Jack Stauber - Buttercup
259. King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard - Ya Love
260. Ginger Root - Loretta
261. Thompson Twins - Hold Me Now
262. Frank Ocean - Pyramids
263. Kate Bush - Running Up That Hill (A Deal With God)
264. Destroy Boys - I Threw Glass at My Friend's Eyes and Now I'm on Probation
265. Mild High Club - Dionysian State
266. Franz Ferdinand - Take Me Out
267. Kevin Abstract - Empty
268. The Frights - Crust Bucket
269. Stealers Wheel - Stuck In The Middle With You
270. The Shins - Fighting in a Sack
271. fun. - We Are Young (feat. Janelle Monáe)
272. Lil Uzi Vert - Money Longer
273. Miniature Tigers - Cannibal Queen
274. The Doors - Touch Me
275. Jean Dawson - Clear Bones
276. King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard - Catching Smoke
277. Molchat Doma - Люди Надоели
278. The Go-Go's - Our Lips Are Sealed
279. Billie Eilish - ocean eyes
280. BOYO - Crown
281. The 1975 - Somebody Else
282. Husbands - She's a Betty
283. Syd Barrett - If It's In You
284. Trash Panda - Atlanta Girls
285. Frank Ocean - Godspeed
286. Alice Phoebe Lou - Glow
287. Childish Gambino - Redbone
288. New Order - Blue Monday
289. Post Animal - Schedule
290. Harry Styles - Fine Line
291. Harry James - I'll Get By (As Long As I Have You)
292. Depeche Mode - Never Let Me Down Again
293. Chet Baker - I Fall In Love Too Easily
294. The Cranberries - Put Me Down
295. John Mayer - Edge of Desire
296. George Harrison - All Those Years Ago
297. Electric Light Orchestra - The Diary of Horace Wimp
298. Alex Clare - Too Close
299. Eric B. & Rakim - Know The Ledge
300. Peter Frampton - Show Me The Way - Live
301. Simon & Garfunkel - Mrs. Robinson
302. Black Eyes - Deformative
303. The Righteous Brothers - Unchained Melody
304. Bonny Light Horseman - Deep In Love
305. The Walker Brothers - The Sun Ain't Gonna Shine Anymore
306. Cage The Elephant - Cigarette Daydreams
307. Hot Flash Heat Wave - Raindrop
308. Clairo - Sofia
309. Kendrick Lamar - PRIDE.
310. Camille Saint-Saëns - The Swan
311. Weezer - Say It Ain't So
312. C418 - Sweden
313. Lana Del Rey - Let The Light In (feat. Father John Misty)
314. The Postal Service - Such Great Heights
315. Pickin' On Series - Those to Come
316. Lana Del Rey - Grandfather please stand on the shoulders of my father while he's deep-sea fishing (feat. RIOPY)
317. John Mayer - Moving On and Getting Over
318. Field Medic - POWERFUL LOVE
319. Cage The Elephant - Flow
320. Joji - Run
321. The Who - Won't Get Fooled Again
322. Boston - Peace of Mind
323. Ben E. King - This Magic Moment
324. David Bowie - Starman
325. Beastie Boys - Sabotage
326. Harry Belafonte - Banana Boat (Day-O)
327. Gene Krupa & His Orchestra - Rhumboogie
328. The Cardigans - Lovefool
329. The Kinks - You Really Got Me
330. The Zombies - She's Coming Home
331. Michael Jackson - Thriller
332. Moxie - Blue Skies
333. The Mamas & The Papas - Straight Shooter
334. Peter, Paul and Mary - Don't Think Twice, It's All Right
335. Green Day - Brain Stew
336. Dua Lipa - Levitating (feat. DaBaby)
337. The Police - Roxanne
338. Britney Spears - Toxic
339. Tears For Fears - Head Over Heels
340. Rex Orange County - Pluto Projector
341. The Strokes - Call It Fate, Call It Karma
342. Portugal. The Man - Feel It Still
343. The Black Crowes - Twice As Hard
344. Ted Nugent - Stranglehold
345. fun. - Some Nights
346. Wings - Silly Love Songs
347. Paramore - Still into You
348. Peter Frampton - Baby, I Love Your Way - Live
349. The Monkees - Last Train to Clarksville
350. Royel Otis - Oysters In My Pocket
351. The Backseat Lovers - Growing/Dying
352. Nelly Furtado - Say It Right
353. Post Animal - Goggles
354. Erik Satie - Gymnopédie No. 1
355. Childish Gambino - IV. Sweatpants
356. Steely Dan - Dirty Work
357. ABBA - Lay All Your Love On Me
358. Still Woozy - Goodie Bag
359. Arlo Parks - Black Dog
360. Goth Babe - Weekend Friend
361. George & the Handsomes - Sleepy Beats
362. boygenius - 20
363. The Mills Brothers - You Always Hurt The One You Love
364. Travis Scott - SICKO MODE
365. Pinegrove - Need 2
366. The Backseat Lovers - Sinking Ship
367. Franz Schubert - Ave Maria, Op. 52 No. 6, D. 839 (Arr. for Soprano, Harp & Chorus)
368. Zac Brown Band - Knee Deep (feat. Jimmy Buffett)
369. Justin Timberlake - Mirrors
370. Simon & Garfunkel - Cecilia
371. The Cranberries - Zombie
372. Daniel Caesar - Japanese Denim
373. Billie Holiday - Easy Living
374. ISLAND - By Your Side
375. Phil Collins - Tomorrow Never Knows
376. Bob Dylan - The Times They Are A-Changin'
377. The Four Freshmen - Day By Day
378. Fleetwood Mac - The Chain
379. Billy Joel - Big Shot
380. Billie Eilish - Happier Than Ever
381. Yot Club - down bad
382. Rihanna - Stay
383. Fleetwood Mac - Landslide
384. Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky - Swan Lake, Op. 20, Act 2: No. 10, Scene. Moderato
385. The White Stripes - Fell In Love With a Girl
386. Alvvays - Easy On Your Own?
387. Jason Isbell and the 400 Unit - If We Were Vampires
388. Blackway - What's Up Danger (with Black Caviar)
389. Albert Hammond - It Never Rains in Southern California
390. Matt Maltese - Jupiter
391. John Denver - Mother Nature's Son
392. Childish Gambino - Sober
393. Claire Rosinkranz - Pools and Palm Trees
394. The Cars - Just What I Needed
395. The Doors - Light My Fire
396. Blondie - Tomorrow Never Knows
397. King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard - Hell's Itch
398. The Japanese House - Saw You In A Dream
399. Franz Schubert - String Quartet No. 13 in A Minor, Op. 29 No. 1, D. 804: I. Allegro ma non troppo
400. The Drifters - White Christmas
401. The 1975 - Robbers
402. George Harrison - Between The Devil And The Deep Blue Sea
403. The Frights - Tongues
404. Paramore - Ain't It Fun
405. Billy Joel - Pressure
406. Frank Sinatra - My Way
407. Art Lown - Going Back to Carolina
408. Bruno Mars - Just the Way You Are
409. Under The Rug - Lonesome & Mad
410. The Mamas & The Papas - Dedicated To The One I Love
411. Foster The People - Sit Next to Me
412. Weezer - Undone - The Sweater Song
413. Michael Jackson - Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'
414. Tia Blake - Plastic Jesus
415. Los Bravos - Bring a Little Lovin'
416. Lady Gaga - Bad Romance
417. Minnie Riperton - Les Fleurs
418. Billy Idol - Dancing with Myself
419. Cody Fry - I Hear a Symphony
420. Gringo Sapiens - Driver's Licence - 16LM mp3
421. Vacations - Relax
422. Glitter Party - time waits
423. Steve Lacy - Bad Habit
424. The Crystals - Then He Kissed Me
425. The Pied Pipers - Mairzy Doats
426. Mitski - Bug Like an Angel
427. James Ray - I've Got My Mind Set On You Pts. 1 & 2
428. Clairo - Bubble Gum
429. Masayoshi Takanaka - SEXY DANCE
430. Nat King Cole - (I Love You) For Sentimental Reasons
431. Sleigh Bells - Crown On the Ground
432. Olivia Rodrigo - favorite crime
433. No Doubt - Just A Girl
434. Foreigner - Long, Long Way from Home
435. Heart - Crazy On You
436. The Hunts - Darlin'
437. David Bowie - Heroes
438. Alice Phoebe Lou - Hammer
439. Thee Oh Sees - Toe Cutter - Thumb Buster
440. Roar - I Can't Handle Change
441. TV Girl - Birds Dont Sing
442. Laufey - From The Start
443. Chas McDevitt Skiffle Group - Freight Train (feat. Nancy Whiskey)
444. Metro Boomin - Am I Dreaming
445. Liana Flores - rises the moon
446. POP ETC - Speak Up
447. Jean Knight - Mr. Big Stuff
448. The Platters - Twilight Time
449. Derek & The Dominos - Layla
450. King Gizzard & The Lizard Wizard - Homeless Man in Adidas
451. Charlie Burg - Lovesong (The Way)
452. Hot Flash Heat Wave - Gutter Girl
453. ABBA - Fernando
454. Mitski - My Love Mine All Mine
455. Savannah Conley - More Than Fine
456. Young the Giant - Mind Over Matter
457. Future Crib - Yer Movin'
458. Bob Dylan - Like a Rolling Stone
459. benches - Violent
460. Musical Youth - Pass The Dutchie
461. Olivia Rodrigo - vampire
462. Ryan Gosling, Emma Stone - City Of Stars
463. Maya Hawke - Thérèse
464. Current Joys - A Different Age
465. Wayne Newton - Danke Schoen
466. La Roux - Bulletproof
467. Jason Segel, Walter - Man Or Muppet
468. U2 - I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For
469. The Raconteurs - Steady, As She Goes
470. The Ink Spots - Into Each Life Some Rain Must Fall
471. Ace of Base - The Sign
472. Vulfpeck - 1612
473. Nordista Freeze - Hey GiGi
474. The Chainsmokers - New York City
475. Suki Waterhouse - Johanna
476. Pete Rodriguez - I Like It Like That
477. Calvin Harris - Summer
478. The Rare Occasions - Notion
479. a-ha - Take on Me
480. Rush - Working Man
481. Traffic - Dear Mr. Fantasy
482. Starbuck - Moonlight Feels Right
483. Van Halen - Drop Dead Legs
484. The Troggs - Wild Thing
485. Led Zeppelin - Good Times Bad Times
486. The Byrds - Turn! Turn! Turn! (To Everything There Is a Season)
487. Cream - Sunshine Of Your Love
488. Justin Timberlake - SexyBack (feat. Timbaland)
489. David Bowie - Suffragette City "490. Ludwig van Beethoven - Sonata No. 14 in C-Sharp Minor, Op. 27, No. 2 ""Moonlight"": I. Adagio sostenuto"
490. Avicii - Wake Me Up
491. The Who - La-La-La-Lies
492. The Spinners - The Rubberband Man
493. MGMT - Time to Pretend
494. Hootie & The Blowfish - Only Wanna Be With You
495. Sheck Wes - Mo Bamba
496. Claire Rosinkranz - 123
497. Ringo Starr - Photograph
498. The Proclaimers - I'm Gonna Be (500 Miles)
499. Duran Duran - Rio

Today I got a call from unacademy and they wanted me to purchase some course and that sent me down the memory lane. Around year ago I got the same kind of call but as soon as I heard his voice my skin is clear, my crops are thriving, depression gone, I have 20/20 vision suddenly my word is brighter and vibrant oh I was in love. He had this hunky masculine voice closest would be this guy. He wanted me to purchase the course I didn't have money but I used to tell him "I am busy today can you call me later" and when he called I would tell him to explain everything again then I say I am busy call me tomorrow and how I am thinking about joining the course. He told me about type of course, how dumbass like me need coaching, the fees structure, the faculty, he told me about EMI and everything. One afternoon I was waiting for the phone to ring but it didn't he never called again. He talked to me about 5 days in hopes that I would purchase the course. I was devastated. Maybe he found better job, maybe he got married or worst of all he lost intrest in me😢. Anyways I long for his voice so I pickup every unacademy call in hopes I will hear his voice again and like the first time he would shake my core.

Wala man lang post or kahit small gift man lang from my partner nung nag-celebrate kami ng anniversary. Habang ako effort na effort mag-plan ng anniversary getaway namin, binilhan ko siya ng token for our anniversary para maalala niya how much I love her, tapos siya wala siyang effort. Binati lang niya ako and that’s it. Kahit onting post lang sa socmed ng celebration namin, kahit nung birthday ko rin wala. Sinabi ko rin na sana magpost man lang siya for our anniversary para naman makita ko mukha ko sa IG niya pero tumawa lang siya and teased me na ganon daw pala ako. Tapos makikita ko pa sa phone niya na hindi pa niya dinedelete photos nila ng mga people na naka-date niya before and when I told her I’m a little jealous about what I saw tinawanan lang ako. 3 araw na akong nalulungkot pero mukhang inis pa siya that I’m acting this way. I love her but sometimes I feel so alone in my relationship. Wala ako mapagsabihan kaya dito nalang.

I woke up today after my hour nap
Feeling very drained and whatnot
I’m normally more energetic
But life has drained me
I’m so tired in every way
After a ten hour shift
Driving included,
I was feeling defeated
The first thing I did was
Check…my…phone
I can’t help but be nervous
When I care, I care deeply
Without regard and openly
As the day started to pass
I felt a heaviness in the air
Like something was there
I must let this go
You see I’m carrying
An extra burden
I’m loving far to deeply
This must stop
I have to regulate, gauge, cypher
With without a compass
I become overwhelmed
And sometimes go off the rails
But my heart is always in the right place
It always comes from a place of love
Today I spoke briefly with you
And as always you made me feel special
And I appreciate that more than you know
Your loving words always mean so much
I’ve finally come to a place
Where I feel safe enough to let go
I will always love you
That’ll never change
But finally I can say
I’ve got to let go completely
Let go of the thought of us
As it is too painful a reminder
Of what will never be
So today, no more wishy washy
No more back and forward with emotions
I can honestly say from this point on
I love you but I love you as my friend
For now and always
And never underestimate me
For my love lasts forever

Edit: tldr: basically my in-laws have trouble respecting boundaries, have been super weird and possesive with my baby, acted crazy entitled to her and have wanted alone time with her since she was born. They are super bitter that they don’t get to be as involved as they want and their expectations haven’t been met. It’s been a constant struggle. And now they freaked out cause I said I wasn’t comfortable or trusted them. And act like they have no idea why they wouldn’t be trusted….
it finally came to a grande finale after I broke and said enough is enough. I told them in a text that no they wouldn’t be taking her and I wasn’t comfortable with it so to stop asking. I said let’s just enjoy our visits and holidays together and put our energy towards better things.
An hour later they called my husband. My Fil spoke first and started off put together and nice but then got creepy and weird and demanded to know who our daughter visited with and who gets to see her and wanted to know who gets to take her to the park. My Mil then came on screaming, she Doesn’t once call me by name just keeps saying:
“your wife hates me, she doesn’t care about my feelings.” “Your wife is trying to destroy our family just like she did with her parents” “If you don’t see it son you’re blind!!” “She doesn’t talk to her parents or her grandparents.” (I have a wonderful relationship with my grandparents) “She’s unhealthy!! What you guys are doing is unhealthy.” “Everyone thinks you are CRAZY” “I’m gonna send your wife’s texts to everyone” “You’re selfish”
“All of you are selfish, all 3 of you.”
“You just want to keep her (our baby)all to yourselves. You don’t want to share her with anyone.”
“You aren’t the son I raised.” “I don’t even know who you are anymore son” “I know her and I know she will NEVER let us. She won’t budge. She won’t let us take her no matter how old she is.” (Speaking about me not letting them take my baby) “What your wife is doing to us is BAD!!!”
“you aren’t a family. We are your family,”
“If you chose your wife and daughter over your mom’s feelings you are gone to me. Done.”
“You guys put your daughter’s feelings over that of your mom and dad!!!”
“That’s my grandchild you have!!!” “She’s mine and you are keeping her from me.” “I want 5 minutes alone with her and you won’t give me that.” “You gotta give a little.” “It’s give and take and you need to give.”
We raised you and loved you unconditionally and now you owe this to us!!!”
My husband ended up hanging He was very upset and felt absolutely defeated. They didn’t get what they wanted so threw a tantrum and basically told my husband he has to choose between me and his baby or giving them what they want which is alone time with her.
After that I told him I would never again have myself or my child around his parents. He agreed. His mom then started texting our family and friends trying to get them on her side. She texted MY aunt who is basically my mother. It’s like she was trying to build a case against me being crazy and hoped everyone would agree with her. (Including my own aunt, who she also insulted numerous time during the phone call) She then texted my husbands cousin (who is his bestfriend and we are very close with) and she told him she is now mourning the loss of her son. She told them not to talk to us or tell us anything and then also asked them to please take my husbands old trainset from when he was young and give it to their child and make sure their child passes it along to his kids…..wtf? My husband sent a long text to his dad explaining how hurt he was by everything and basically his dad sarcastically replied “guess we are the worst parents.” Then he told my husband we hurt them and that my husbands mom hasn’t stopped crying(knowing full well my husband has a soft spot for her)….they are so self involved and They have such huge insecurities about how they parented my husband and it constantly comes out here. I think they are so desperate for a redo with our child that they have become delusional thinking they have a right to her.
Then forward a few days later and my mil is texting my husband like nothing happened? She casually stated that her and my fil talked and they realized they may have missed the mark on boundaries then went on to invite my husband to golf and send him pictures of a coaster he made as a kid with a passive aggressive comment about “mom and grandmas name being on it and equal.” Then his dad texts him ignoring everything and asking us if we need boxes for our move.
They do this to my husband constantly. They act out and then brush it under the rug and act like nothing is wrong. My husband is always confused by it and lets it happen. But I don’t want to do that here!! They can’t just act like this and then expect everything to be fine after….Right??? Like am I crazy?

I (24F) am in a long distance relationship with my bf (35M) for a little over a year. Currently I'm studying in my home country and I am finishing my 1st year of bachelor's this year. My home country is not where I want to stay because of mentality and politics. Original plan for me and my bf was that I finish my bachelor's and start master's in his country or we move somewhere else together. That would be approximately mid 2026 if everything goes as planned.
Lately, my boyfriend has been in a crisis because of the distance. He is saying that he can't handle the distance, not seeing me very often and he has been making big deal out of anything and escalating arguments with me, his family and coworkers because he is frustrated and lonely. His mood is changing from being patient and just happy to have me, to wanting to break up, and that goes in circle, because he can't handle the distance.
During our last fight (he told me he got mad because I am going out with friends without means of communication because I broke my phone, but when we actually talked about it, it was all about the distance) I came up with a possibility that I am not so sure is a smart idea but could also be a great opportunity to leave this hole which I want to leave asap since this year's "elections".
The idea is that I finish this year of uni, quit, move to his country, start learning a language and start uni there in academic year 2025/26 when I would, again, be a 1st year. That year I could possibly graduate uni here if I don't fail any years again (I am not a greatest student). I would move in with him and he would put me through school. He was ecstatic hearing that I might move in within few months. Even before I mentioned this he said he won't be able to keep missing me for 2 years and is reaching his breaking point and that, as much as he tries, he will probably end up breaking up or fu*k up beyond repair.
Our relationship wasn't the best for the last year. He is always saying that most of our problems would go away if we were closer. It has been rocky and we had a period where we fought every week over stupid things that I don't even remember now. I know this guy loves me a lot and would do anything for me and I love him too. But if something happens and we break up I won't have anyone to lean on (I do have a friend in his country and worst case scenario she would help me but I don't want to bring her in that situation). If I fail uni here I can always go back home.
The biggest issue I have with this is starting uni again. I paused school to work and figure out what I want, had an injury (spent my small savings for treatment), and all that put me back from accomplishing my goal of getting a degree and finding a job that I like and stop getting financial help from my mom. My boyfriend says that losing this extra years doesn't matter because we will be together (which, yes, we would be together, yay!) but I can't help but feel stupid and like a loser for prolonging uni for so long. His country has one of the best opportunities for me in my field of study which is also a big plus but just this feeling like I have been wasting my time here when I will start again is killing me.
So, in the end I need to choose between finishing uni in 2 years in a place where I don't want to be (I don't even have family in this city) and break up with my bf or stay with my boyfriend, move across Europe and start uni again. Should I move?

I’ve been here with very positive experiences with my WH and our growth/healing. Our marriage counselor told us we are further ahead in R than a lot of couples because we both went all in and have faced everything head-on since he confessed right away and that was good to hear. WH is avoidant and is working in IC through childhood trauma and reasons why he struggles to love fully and express himself even though me and our kids have always been so important to him. He’s been so genuine, loving, and remorseful since the moment he messed up so badly.
Well, this weekend was great. He did so much to make me feel special and loved for Mother’s Day, a thoughtful public post, lots of love and doting on me which is how it’s been since Dday.
With that said, yesterday he seemed edgy which is not how he’s been these last few months. I randomly ended up asking him if someone involved in the situation had talked to him at work? And to my surprise he said, “AP’s fiance did talk to me. He said he would love to fuck me up.” I was really taken back. AP and her fiance decided to rug sweep the situation immediately and asked me to let them move on and get over the situation. I have had them blocked for 2 months and figured they were doing well but that rug sweeping would end up blowing up in their faces and it seems like it has. I looked up the fiancé after my WH said that and he has deleted all social media. So I assume he is now dealing with the emotions and feelings of his fiance and mother of his child admitting to sexually pursuing a married man they work with.
With that said, I handled the situation wrong because I was frustrated that WH didn’t tell me immediately about the fiance saying this to him and that I had to ask. I reacted quickly by saying “You’ve communicated with her haven’t you?” And he got very upset. He said that he has been truthful and adamant about everything and that once he messed up and realized how stupid he was being, he thought nothing of her and never wants to speak to her again and has repeatedly told me that. She said the same, especially with all of the proof I have and could wreck her job at any time. They both said there was no connection and this was purely a stupid sexual curiosity that ended in an awkward act which led to my WH immediately outing them and diving into fixing himself and our marriage right away. We have open phone policy and check-ins and I haven’t had much doubt at all.
I guess I’m just venting and wondering how fellow BPs or even WPs would feel about this specific situation. I am bothered that he got so upset that my first thought was maybe he had spoken to AP. We’ve had so much progress so I feel like we just took a step back. He said it hurts him to be accused after all of the work we’ve been doing together.