How to make a christmas pine cone wreath

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2024.05.15 01:56 insuspension All right hazard tree guys, how would you handle this?

I’m the only arborist for a logging and clearing company. We got contracted to clean up a section of woods in town where all the pines blew over into a neighborhood.
Most of it was handled by the equipment, but I’ve got one broken hanger over a house that I haven’t figured out how to safely handle.
I’ve been a climbing arborist for 10 years and have spent most of my career focusing on hazard mitigation (cutting down dangerous trees).
The camera angle makes it hard to tell, but this tree is just about 100’ tall and is broken off around 30’ up.
The equipment can’t reach high enough to grab the broken part and the closest I can get a crane or bucket truck is about 150’ away.
I basically have a blank check and access to all the heavy equipment you can imagine, but the cheaper I do it the better my job bonus. Basically I’ll go for anything short of getting a helicopter.
I’ve been looking at it for a few days and have a few ideas, but I’m hoping that I’d get some help by outsourcing to the combined experience of all you guys.
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2024.05.15 01:50 No-Onion-2896 Ideas for this yarn?

Ideas for this yarn?
I was gifted this skein last Christmas. I love it, but have no idea what to do with it. I searched Ravelry, Bernat, and other websites for inspiration with this color way (and similar colors) but came up empty.
I started freehanding a baby vest with moss stitch, but it turned out huuuge (for a baby) so I’ll probably frog what I have. I do love how the moss stitch looks though.
  • It’s Bernat Baby Blanket yarn in the color Pitter Patter, bulky weight (6).
  • As of this year, I’m pregnant and due at the end of September. Do any of you have ideas on baby items I could make?
  • If I make a simple moss stitch blanket (to throw down for diaper changes / tummy time, not to use as an actual blanket), what dimensions should I make it with just one skein?
  • Do any of you have links to patterns of beanies that would look good with this mix of colors? I was thinking I could make matching beanies for me and baby.
  • Are there any stitches besides moss stitch that would look good with these colors?
Thanks in advance! You all rock! :)
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2024.05.15 01:42 rib_eye_b (SELLING) Barbie - Dune Part 2 - The Iron Claw - Mulan - The Super Mario Bros. Movie - Top Gun Maverick - True Lies [AMAZON GC]

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2024.05.15 01:42 LessSatisfaction3718 Did I [24F] self sabotage after a hookup or did I make the right choice to ''friendzone" my childhood friend [25M] after?

So I've known my male friend since around high school. Things never really worked in high school but we both had huge crushes on each other but never reciprocated it correctly (from both of our own admissions). We get to college and we went to separate schools and became somewhat distant but were still close friends as we'd both come home a lot and we'd still hang out. Most of the time we just hung out as friends and enjoyed each others company, a few times we got intimate but never to the point of sex. His senior year of college he had a girlfriend and we got more distant out of respect for the relationship. They broke up shortly after he graduated. After their breakup we got intimate one more time but we had an intimate talk about progressing to sex and how it was a big step for both of us, so we decided to not go that far with things.
In present day, we were still friends but our communication became a lot more distant. I admit I had feelings for him in this year and still do now. I just really admire the person he is and I would love to be with him. We still maintained communication and always checked in on each other but never spent much time physically together due to time consuming careers, especially since my job requires me to travel a lot.
I am a lot more settled and stationary with my job now and we ended up hanging out at each others place about a week ago. Everything felt comfortable and like old times and eventually we ended up having sex, multiple times... It was really good and we had great chemistry. I stayed over at his house and we cuddled and ended up having sex again in the morning. But instantly after I went home I began to second guess everything and regret the sex.. We texted that same morning and he mentioned how he wanted me to come over again that night, but he ended up going ghost that night, so I feel like this really triggered me.... The sex just seemed to happen so fast too... like we were both turned on and I really enjoyed it but his energy just seemed much more different than the last time we were intimate. I guess it made me feel distrustful of him as well.
I used to be a lot more open with sexual things and did so more freely. After lots of experiences where I was used for sex and led on to believe things would be more but didn't, the act of sex now always fills me with regret, dread and anxiety and I always think of how I should've waited. I have kind of shut myself off to dating and sex in general for a bit over a year as I just couldn't deal with all of the ups and downs.
So in the morning i felt really horrible about the whole thing, and in my head I figured he just wants me as a hookup... Especially since prior to we said we both get attached to sex but it didn't seem like he was any different..
So I called him and told him that I think we should just be friends.. I basically told him that I didn't want to ruin our friendship by being just about hooking up with each other. He simply responded Okay and we hung up and haven't spoke since which is weird because we are generally close even prior to this..
Did I make the right call? Was this likely going to just result in a hookup situation? I feel like if it wasn't he would've said something, especially since I made sure to say the reason for this decision was because I hadn't had sex in so long and didnt want things to become just about sex with us... And guys will usually say that a guy will make it known if he wants to be with a girl. and there will be no confusion... I would love to be with him but I cant be that same girl I was pining over a guy that tells me "sweet nothings" just to keep me around which has happened pretty much every time before... I should also mention I have never been in a fully committed relationship... just talking stages and situationships so I dont know if Im going about this all wrong.
Tl;Dr: Childhood close friends and I hooked up with each other. I told him I just want to keep things platonic because Im not looking for a hookup. I am wondering if I made the wrong decision or self sabotaged...
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2024.05.15 01:37 Bigbill245 My little Eastern White Pine

My little Eastern White Pine
I've been experimenting over the past 3 years with Eastern white pines. Some are 2 feet tall but this one is only 5 inches tall. I keep experimenting to figure out how to make a nice bonsai out of a Eastern White Pine. I find the shorter ones look the nicest, but only time will tell.
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2024.05.15 01:34 DogSpark84 When there is a dip. Do not flip. When a whale unloads. I get a chode.

I replied to an individual the other day in regards to Cone distribution. I thought this might be helpful for others so I wanted to post in on the main page.
This week there was a post that mentioned "The top 250 holders collectively own 74.57%."
In response, one individual mentioned;
"Actually this is kinda bad. A few people can change the trajectory of the coin just by selling."
I responded with this long form reply, which I feel also warranted a posting on the main page.
This is why I love it when we dip, and you should too!
"While this is true, we are so early and at such a low MC that not only is it OK for Cone to have whales sell, but it's actually quite preferred. Even if that means a huge price reduction, as long as there are new cones entering, that's all that counts. We want to allow the distribution to occur when the MC is low. Anytime I see cone drop 10-15% in price, it's almost always because a whale sold, not because smaller holders are selling. Regardless of what the price does this is as very positive trend. Cone could add another zero if a handful of whales sold, but again, that is only a positive if the demand from new wallets or currently smaller cone wallets is high and they are buying those dips. What would be not great though is if when whales sell, other current whales gobble it up to a very very heavy degree. Of course them buying the dip is nice and helps the price, but there is a limit to how much a whale should try to accumulate, imo. An example would be if our top holders at 10+B would gobble the dip up and shoot to say 15B, that would not be great. The amount of unique holders of cone continually goes up, which is a very very good sign. When those whales sell it should be a celebration not a cause for concern for current whales and fish alike. If the price does drop significantly, I think current top 25ish whales could even take that opportunity to purchase cheap cones if ONLY for the purpose of distributing it through multiplietipping posts etc. Every whale should have a 'this is almost too much cone' amount that they don't want to go beyond. I see the top 5 holders possibly teetering at that level right now. Simply from observing those wallets, I do get the sense they have a 'this is almost too much cone' amount in mind. It is very very rare to see those top 5 wallets accumulate, and when they do it's at very reasonable amounts. When whales(in general crypto, not specifically within Cone)accumulate too heavily, they might be thinking "oh this is going to help make me more profit", but in reality it's only hindering the ability to make profit because you are pricing out new wallets. Again, for those top 5 holders, please don't take this the wrong way I'm just using it to help get the point across. I do not feel they have overdone it just yet. If you start seeing wallets at 13, 14, 15, 20B+ that's when the red flags come in. Right now the top wallet holds 1.9% the total supply. Anything beyond that, say 2.25%+ is IMO, being greedy and counterproductive not only to all Cone but to those specific whales. A nice thing about our community is that most if not all those whales are people that post here and seem like good people. Regardless of how they are as people though, as in strictly from a numbers standpoint, going beyond that 2.25ish% of the supply level is a red flag.
So in summary: I hope whales sell and the price drops, granted demand from smaller wallets is there and new holders are created as well. Which has been the pattern from the beginning."
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2024.05.15 01:32 LessSatisfaction3718 Did I self sabotage after a hookup or did I make the right choice to stay friends with my childhood friend?

Hello, I am a frequent viewer of this subreddit and I am having an issue that I am second guessing. So I've known my male friend since around high school. Things never really worked in high school but we both had huge crushes on each other but never reciprocated it correctly (from both of our own admissions). We get to college and we went to separate schools and became somewhat distant but were still close friends as we'd both come home a lot and we'd still hang out. Most of the time we just hung out as friends and enjoyed each others company, a few times we got intimate but never to the point of sex. His senior year of college he had a girlfriend and we got more distant out of respect for the relationship. They broke up shortly after he graduated. After their breakup we got intimate one more time but we had an intimate talk about progressing to sex and how it was a big step for both of us, so we decided to not go that far with things.
In present day, we were still friends but our communication became a lot more distant. I admit I had feelings for him in this year and still do now. I just really admire the person he is and I would love to be with him. We still maintained communication and always checked in on each other but never spent much time physically together due to time consuming careers, especially since my job requires me to travel a lot.
I am a lot more settled and stationary with my job now and we ended up hanging out at each others place about a week ago. Everything felt comfortable and like old times and eventually we ended up having sex, multiple times... It was really good and we had great chemistry. I stayed over at his house and we cuddled and ended up having sex again in the morning. But instantly after I went home I began to second guess everything and regret the sex.. We texted that same morning and he mentioned how he wanted me to come over again that night, but he ended up going ghost that night, so I feel like this really triggered me.... The sex just seemed to happen so fast too... like we were both turned on and I really enjoyed it but his energy just seemed much more different than the last time we were intimate. I guess it made me feel distrustful of him as well.
I used to be a lot more open with sexual things and did so more freely. After lots of experiences where I was used for sex and led on to believe things would be more but didn't, the act of sex now always fills me with regret, dread and anxiety and I always think of how I should've waited. I have kind of shut myself off to dating and sex in general for a bit over a year as I just couldn't deal with all of the ups and downs.
So in the morning i felt really horrible about the whole thing, and in my head I figured he just wants me as a hookup... Especially since prior to we said we both get attached to sex but it didn't seem like he was any different..
So I called him and told him that I think we should just be friends.. I basically told him that I didn't want to ruin our friendship by being just about hooking up with each other. He simply responded Okay and we hung up and haven't spoke since which is weird because we are generally close even prior to this..
Did I make the right call? Was this likely going to just result in a hookup situation? I feel like if it wasn't he would've said something, especially since I made sure to say the reason for this decision was because I hadn't had sex in so long and didnt want things to become just about sex with us... And guys will usually say that a guy will make it known if he wants to be with a girl. and there will be no confusion... I would love to be with him but I cant be that same girl I was pining over a guy that tells me "sweet nothings" just to keep me around which has happened pretty much every time before... I should also mention I have never been in a fully committed relationship... just talking stages and situationships so I dont know if Im going about this all wrong.
Tl;Dr: Childhood close friends and I hooked up with each other. I told him I just want to keep things platonic because Im not looking for a hookup. I am wondering if I made the wrong decision or self sabotaged...
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2024.05.15 01:28 InternationalYam4461 AITAH for considering breaking up with my boyfriend?

Hey there...I need some advice about this. My boyfriend (35M) and I (30F) have been together for about 10 months. I started dating him a year after I got divorced from a very unfaithful man. Ex-husband cheated on me (online and physically) for the entire 7 years we'd been together (married for 2). Yes, I was stuck in a very unhealthy cycle with this man. I regret sticking it out past the first year and I've been in counseling since before the divorce. I know where I chose to ignore all the red flags by the time I found out he had cheated on me. I've been working hard to do what's right for me since. By the time we got divorced, I was so unattached, I really do believe I just stayed because it was what I knew for so long.
My counselor has been with me every step of the way during my dating journey after the divorce, and I'm brutally honest with her about everything because I don't want to make the same mistakes again. My nervous system is triggered by small things here and there still, and my boyfriend and I have been able to with through them and talk things out for the past 10 months. He knows my history and how badly I was hurt by my ex-husband (self- inflicted after the first time I caught him cheating with a girl from his hometown, I'll admit.)
My boyfriend, who has been nothing but warm, doting, patient, and consistent with me since the beginning, was also hurt pretty badly by his ex. He proposed and she took off with the expensive ring without telling him that she was leaving for good. She was in another relationship quickly after she dumped him over the phone a while later.
We agreed to be open about our cell phones, and we talked about all that a couple of months into the relationship. I'd never had a feeling in my gut that he was hiding something at all, and if I did have a question about something, he was quick to say that I could look through his phone if it made me feel more secure.
The other day, I reached for his phone to take a photo of us, and he grabbed it out of my hands, nervously saying that he'd just take the photo since I was laying down. My gut squirmed instantly. Then he told me I could look through his phone if I wanted to. So I did. I am always open with him about my phone, and he's always been open about his until this weird little interaction.
Initially, I saw he was just hiding some porn he was watching (I don't care about that, I watch a little porn sometimes, too. He gets embarrassed easily about that stuff, so I give him a hard time about it and joke with him. He is really shy when it comes to porn, but I like that about him. If anything, I've even mentioned we should watch it together just to see him blush.) So I didn't think too much of it.
Then, I saw in his Instagram messages that he had sent a few kissy face emojis along with a "Happy New Year!" to some lady. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, and figured maybe it was just an old friend. He has a lot of older ranch friends from the area he's from, so I chalked it up to that. Turns out, she had lightly been putting it out there to him the week before my birthday, saying he checked off a bunch of things on her wishlist, but she wanted to know if he could ride horses. He didn't respond right away, but he did respond a few days later with a photo of him on horseback. This back and forth went on for about a month, where they'd take a few days to respond to each other, and it seemed pretty harmless, but still a little flirtatious, talking about riding horses and how they both like air planes. She was obviously flirting from the get go. He wouldn't respond initially, and she'd send another message to try and get his attention again.
She gave him her number, and he gave her his number on my birthday. We were together that day. So that stung quite a bit. He called her cute as hell at one point, and they sent each other a selfie of just their faces. They fell off from talking right after that, except for when she wished him a merry Christmas, happy new year, which he responded to once each (the new years one had the kissy emojis), and that was it. The weird thing is, she's an older lady than me, like in her 50s (nothing against older ladies here at all), and she's not attractive. She tried to reach out again one more time for Valentines Day, and he didn't respond. He continued to interact with liking her photos on instagram every once in a while. Most of the time she's on horseback or hiking somewhere. He likes everyone's photos, though, except for Instagram models because he knows that I don't feel respected when that happens, so I'm not sure what to think of it.
I took screenshots, and showed them to one of our mutual friends to get some perspective. She said that it seemed pretty harmless, but it still crosses a line. She said she'd be hurt, too, if her husband did that. She also said that she doesn't think my boyfriend would ever physically do anything with anyone like my ex did. She said I need to decide if I can forgive him or not, and work on building trust with each other if I did forgive him and if I felt like he was trustworthy after a while.
I confronted him, and he said he didn't remember it (even though he deleted the thread at that point). I told him he was hiding something, and I had pictures of it all. He told me he didn't want me to think that there was anything going on between him and this old lady, and it wasn't carrying on at all (which I believe). I told him what's hurts me more is that he tried to hide it and he wasn't upfront about it. He told me he was just bantering and it was more of a joking back and forth than anything. Needless to say my nervous system is shot from this whole thing. It's May now, and these messages happened back in September (besides Christmas and New Years). I didn't see anything else that rang any alarms in me, but I'm still hurt that he'd hide something dumb like that.
I've contemplated just leaving, and he knows that. He was devistated to find out that I was thinking that, and he started to cry so hard it took me by surprise, but I told him this feels too familiar for me and scares the living sh*t out of me. He said he'd do anything he had to to build up that bit of trust he took, including couples counseling. He said I could just take his phone if I wanted to. But I don't want to do that. I don't see my counselor for another week, and I don't want to drag family into this. I know from other threads people will say to just leave, but I'm struggling with that. No excuses for hiding it, but it was harmless and she's not attractive, so I don't feel threatened that he'd try to go after her or something. I believe she lives in another country. It just seems so dumb to lie and hide something like this. Am I overreacting?
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2024.05.15 01:21 Gothicghosty I don’t know what to do with my life

So I’m 20 and I graduated with my bachelors (theatre) in December and I have no idea where to go from here. I know I want to go to grad school but I don’t know for what. Working isn’t a great option because I live nowhere close to jobs in the industry my degree is in and for the speciality (dramaturgy) I wanted to pursue you need at least a masters. However the more I think about it I feel like it’s not an obtainable career. I have thought about going back and pursuing another bachelors (in either history or museum studies as I think I’d love to work in a museum) but I also feel like those aren’t very alive job industries in this day and age. I’ve been scrambling and looking at nearly every field but nothing sticks out to me. Any of the fields I’m interested in are pretty far from me (I live in a decent sized place but not with any great jobs my only two options here are pretty much retail or food service) and I don’t feel comfortable enough making a big move on the basis of simply trying a career and seeing if I like it, nor do I want to spend any more money on a degree I’m unsure about.
My whole life I’ve been a strict planner and I’ve never felt so purposeless. I’ve been in college courses without breaks (besides Christmas) since I was 14 and I’m just lost. My depression and anxiety have gotten way worse and I’ve been separated from my social circle since moving.
If anyone has an advice on how they found out what they wanted to do in life or on just being okay with being stagnant/unsure I’d love to hear it.
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2024.05.15 01:18 lulufan87 Guide: restat your party while still keeping their class

Doubt this will get traction, but I thought it might be a good one to write anyway so if people google 'How do I make shadowheart stop missing?' or the like they might see this.
Abilities scores are the numbers that determine pretty much everything about your character and party members. I'm not going to go into what they are and what they do. More info on the wiki. The base ability scores the game assigns your companions aren't optimized.
This is a brief guide intended for new players who don't want to be confused by things like multiclassing or even changing classes, but who would like their companions to be optimized a little better than they are. Therefore this guide is only intended to suggest better ability scores than the default that each companion starts with.
When you get an NPC named Withers at camp, either by finding him or by him just showing up, you will be able to change your and your companions' classes. He will arrive during Act 1. We're not going to do that, we're just going to use the default class and subclass our party members start with. What we are going to do is just change their base ability scores so they are more effective in combat.
How to start:
Switch to the party member you want to re-stat Talk to Withers Can you help me change my class? (100)
This costs 100 gold. Withers is special, because you can pickpocket that gold back and he won't get upset no matter how many times you fail. To do that, use the Hide action, stand behind him (outside of the red cone), and select 'pickpocket.' Just keep trying until you get the gold.
Select their class:
You'll see a screen asking you to select their new class. It defaults to what they already are, so just select what's there.
Select cantrips if needed:
It defaults to your companions' pre-selected cantrips. No need to change unless you want to. Not everyone has these.
Ability points:
This is what we're here for. Notes are optional, don't read them if it's too much information.
Shadowheart
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
10 14 16 8 16 10
Notes: if you want to change Shadowheart's Cleric subclass, you may want a different stat array. Post about that here.
Astarion
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
10 16 16 14 8 10
Notes:
The 14 intelligence is because one of the rogue subclasses, Arcane Trickster, uses intelligence for spell-casting.
If you ever decide you want to try multi-classing, try changing his class to Gloomstalker Ranger for the first five levels, then going back to rogue for the rest. If you do that, take the 14 in Wisdom instead of Intelligence.
Gale
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
10 16 14 16 10 8
Notes:
Gale and every other wizard can learn spells from scrolls. Put a scroll in your inventory, go to the Spellbook tab, and select 'learn spells.'
The mage armor spell can be applied in the morning and stays on all day.
Lae'Zel
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
16 14 16 8 10 10
Note: If you would like to use her as an Eldritch Knight, put the 14 in Intelligence instead of Dexterity.
Karlach
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
16 14 16 8 10 10
Wyll
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
10 14 16 8 10 16
Notes:
Warlocks can be customized in a lot of different ways. The above is a stat array for a spellcaster.
If you're overwhelmed about what spells and class options to take, try the following: Cantrip: Edritch Blast, Hex, Repellent Blast, Armor of Shadows, Devil's Sight, Agonizing Blast, Darkness, Hunger of Hadar.
Halsin
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
10 14 16 8 16 10
Minthara
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
16 10 14 8 10 16
Jaheira
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
10 14 16 8 16 10
Minsc
Strength Dexterity Constitution Intelligence Wisdom Charisma
10 16 14 8 16 10
Ability Score increases:
When you level, you can sometimes select something called a Feat. If you want to raise your ability score, select 'Ability Score Increase' (the first option). Put two points into the bolded number on their ability array above.
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2024.05.15 01:14 prcdesign Got my job rejection today after 4 rounds of interviews and a 12 hour “test”

Sorry, Yet another one of these posts.
I just got rejected today after giving at least 16 hours of my time to a company for a Graphic Designer position.
There was a pre-screening interview, an interview with the CEO, a “Design Test” where I was asked to recreate a 10-page interactive InDesign document (it was also littered with errors, which i had to proof read, apparently that was all part of the test), and then an interview with the ceo, vice president, creative director and another designer. Apparently I did really well and the creative director raved about how well i did on the “Design Test” and how no one else was as thorough as me. Afterward, I sent thank you emails to everyone involved, and later that day, they sent me an invitation to a “finalist interview”, which was going to be 4 hours long. It was going to be in 3 more weeks.
So I kept applying in the mean time, but I had been mentally preparing for this long interview and I was even working on a personal project on my own that was more web based, so I had something new to show them. I was feeling pretty good. This morning, I got a voicemail from the CEO thanking me for my time, but explaining they decided to go with another candidate because he “just had so much web design experience”. So they were canceling my Thursday interview.
If I was going to spend over a full day on their “Design Test”, I really wish they had thought it through better and given me a web design test instead of something meant for print, if this was so important to them. It just doesn’t make much sense to waste someone’s time like that.
I got fired from my full-time job 2 weeks before christmas, it’s been months since I actually had a paying gig and I’ve been having problems landing interviews as it is. I’m completely devastated and have been crying all afternoon.
I’ve been working so hard, and I can’t get a single win. Feeling pretty hopeless.
Sorry for the long post. Really just need to vent.
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2024.05.15 01:12 English_budgie Am I (22F) right to feel hurt by my boyfriend (25M) after he decided to live abroad longer than expected?

This is a long one, so buckle up.
Me and my boyfriend have been together around a year and a half. We are so very deeply in love, healthy, and are very physically attracted to one another. We have a healthy bedroom, good friends, and have similar viewpoints and morals. Really just the ideal relationship. Although we have not dated very long, we are aware of how strong our feelings are for each other and that we are willing to work to stay together for the long term.
When we got together, he had planned to leave the country and head to Europe, to live and work for a long time, possibly permanently. We were just supposed to be casual, but alas, here we are. He kind of messed about with leaving over the first year, not really booking anything, having loose plans of where he wanted to go, etc. meanwhile he’s actively building a life at home. We are getting serious, he’s got a job he really enjoys, his friend circle grows. But eventually, he booked his ferry, got in his van (he’s doing van life), and left the country. I was very proud, and I was excited to visit him in this new place and prepared for the inevitable long distance relationship antics.
When he first arrived, he was having a terrible time. He was home sick, just wanted to come home, felt alone, very typical response if you have just left your family, gf and friends back home and ventured out on your own. At this time, I had a flight booked to come and see him 10 days after he arrived, so it was a very short time to wait and get acquainted with his new home. In his feelings, he did state he wanted to come home and swore he didn’t want to stay in the country, I told him to stick it out and encouraged him, but I subconsciously held onto the fact that he said he would possibly like to come home at some point.
I arrived, we had a lovely holiday for around 8 days. Travelled the other countries nearby, did the typical touristy things. Then I went back home.
This is where my problem begins to bubble. You see, I have a well paying job for my age, but it’s is extremely taxing and I don’t see myself doing it for much longer (hopefully no longer than 3 years). I have good friends I see regularly, but my life at home is beginning to become monotonous and a bit stressful. Something that was prevented by having my partner here. When I had a bad day at work he was there to comfort me, if I was sore he was make me feel better, bring me tea, etc. something that I miss so much. No matter how much I fill my days off with something to do, or see my friends, I just miss him. It all just feels like filler until I see my boyfriend again.
At this exact point, my boyfriend is over his home sickness, he’s reaching out and beginning to make some friends, he’s got a new job at a small restaurant, and he’s just doing what you should at that point. I’ve been cheering him on and we have great communication (texting throughout the day, nightly FaceTimes)
Later on, he’s come home for a visit for 5 days. It’s amazing having him back. I took some days off work, we stayed away in an amazing bnb, etc. then he’s off again.
I get a bit depressed as anyone would, it’s the joys of long distance. He’s to be back at the start of June again for an event with me so we’ve got a few weeks to wait. But I’m just not in it right now. I hate my job, I’ve started the gym as some kind of outlet for any frustrations and to improve my mental health, and it seems to work.
During his last visit, and over the course of a few weeks prior, we’ve been discussing the fact that I too, want to live abroad and travel WITH him. I’m not fulfilled anymore and I’ve thought about if this is something I’m really serious about. You see, before I was 100% a homebird, I knew that living abroad in a van wasn’t for me, at least permanently. I told him this, but over the coming months I’ve changed my perspective and I’m genuinely interested in living abroad. We agreed that we would try to find an apartment, and live somewhere together with our little dog. I feel at our age we can only get our there and experience the world, even if it’s scary.
So I discussed my 5 year plan. *give a very lengthy notice for my job * whilst working, obviously actively saving as much as possible *I would give my car back to my finance company (so didn’t have such a big recurring bill) Etc etc etc
When discussing these plans, he mentioned he would probably come home after peak season (so September ish) and we could work on getting out of this country together. He also said he would probably leave again in the next summer for somewhere new, and I agreed that that is a good idea since I may not be ready to leave our home country by that time. So he still gets to travel and live abroad, and I still get to see him for the majority of the year whilst we actively work to leave the country together. This was the idea in my head.
We were just on FaceTime, so I asked “do you think you’ll be home after peak season?”
And he said “what just to visit? Or like permanently?”
I said “no like permanently”
“Um no probably not..I think I may keep travelling around after season when I can leave my job”
Oh… I was quite taken aback as this was the first he’s mentioned this. He stated valid reasons to why he wouldn’t just come back home after the season (expensive, he doesn’t feel as though he’s did enough yet, he wants to see X,Y,Z) I mentioned if he would be back before Christmas? He said he wasn’t sure. He said he’d definitely come back home before date as the vans MOT will need renewed back home so he has no choice but to come back. But besides that he just isn’t sure.
Now, this has just happened, so my emotions are a bit fresh so I apologise. I understand plans change and since there was no SET plans in place, things can change. But I feel quite hurt and upset. I believed we were on the same page, and I feel like this is almost a selfish thing to do. I don’t know if it is actually selfish or if my desperation to leave my life here + mixed with my jealousy towards the fact that he gets to live this amazing life out there, is making me resent this choice of his? I want to be with him, out there, so badly. For him to just take himself off to these other countries that I have expressed to him I REALLY want to visit, just because he doesn’t want to come back home? He’s having a great time, and I completely understand why he wouldn’t want that to end. I just feel like, why doesn’t he want to wait to be able to share that with me? Or come home to me? His dog? His family? Are we that bad?
He mentioned a country he would really like to see, that I have ALWAYS wanted to visit, and I think that was my breaking point whilst on call. He knew I was upset but I do not talk if I feel I am going to cry (working on it) so I shushed him away and said I’ll speak to him tomorrow when I’m ready.
I just need a bit of advice and clarity. What do you think you would bring up in this situation with your partner? Am I right to feel angry at him for not waiting for me? To just sacrifice a solo holiday and come home so we can plan it together? I’m just feeling so upset.
I appreciate all feedback.
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2024.05.15 01:10 ahhdecisions7577 Helping Baby Bunny Transition Home from Foster Care?

(Cross-posted)
TL;DR: Ideas to help a baby bunny feel secure and cope with any grief when moving from a long term foster home to a forever home?
Tomorrow, I’m officially adopting a 7 month old, but he won’t be coming home with me until Monday and will remain with his foster mother until then. This baby has been with his foster mother since he was 1 week old (as his pregnant mother was found abandoned and brought into the rescue).
He does not have a bondmate because both of his littermates died and the bonding sessions he’s been on since he was neutered 2 months ago haven’t been a great fit so far. I will find him a bondmate once he is settled into our home :).
My concern is how to help him adjust to no longer living with his foster mother. He is extremely bonded to her (lies on her chest and purrs), but she is unable to keep/ adopt him (as she is an incredible person saving the lives of so many medically complex rabbits and cats at once right now, and he had always been in the home as a foster baby).
She’s going to be sending home his favorite straw playhouse, and since she said it’s falling apart a little, I also ordered him a second copy of the first one so that I can set up both his old and new one side by side. I asked about having her sending something like a blanket that smells like her home with him, and she thought that was a good idea and would help him. I can also bring a blanket for him that smells like me and drop it off tomorrow.
We’ve coordinated around hay and pellets in terms of making sure any changes are gradual and that we work together to help him adjust or that I get the same types she is using now. I am using a very different litter than she is, but she says he has never peed outside the litter box and is very unlikely to have an issue with any type of rabbit—appropriate litter (she’s using pine pellets, I’m using Carefresh). I bought all the things she said are his favorite snacks (Science Selective Naturals Loops and Oxbow Simple Rewards in two specific flavors) and made a list of the greens/ herbs he likes best.
I let his foster Mom know she could come to visit sometimes if she wanted to, and she expressed interested in doing that once he’s settled in. In the meantime, I can send lots of photo and video updates. Can anyone think of anything else (other than a bondmate, which I can’t conjure up in the next few days, unfortunately), that might help make this transition a little easier for him? I’ll be with him for probably about 22-23 hours a day (as I work from home as a PhD student, and his X-Pen is directly next to my bed), and he’ll have free roam time with me probably about 14 hours per day (and the rest of the time in the 4x4x4 X-Pen in my bedroom).
Anything else that might help? I’m so, so excited to bring him home and also so heartbroken for both him and his foster mother, who is incredible, and I just want to make sure this is the best transition possible for everyone involved.
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2024.05.15 01:07 ahhdecisions7577 Helping Baby Bunny Transition Home from Foster Care?

TL;DR: Ideas to help a baby bunny feel secure and cope with any grief when moving from a long term foster home to a forever home?
Tomorrow, I’m officially adopting a 7 month old, but he won’t be coming home with me until Monday and will remain with his foster mother until then.
This baby has been with his foster mother since he was 1 week old (as his pregnant mother was found abandoned and brought into the rescue). He does not have a bondmate because both of his littermates died and the bonding sessions he’s been on since he was neutered 2 months ago haven’t been a great fit so far. I will find him a bondmate once he is settled into our home :).
My concern is how to help him adjust to no longer living with his foster mother. He is extremely bonded to her (lies on her chest and purrs), but she is unable to keep/ adopt him (as she is an incredible person saving the lives of so many medically complex rabbits and cats at once right now, and he had always been in the home as a foster baby). She’s going to be sending home his favorite straw playhouse, and since she said it’s falling apart a little, I also ordered him a second copy of the first one so that I can set up both his old and new one side by side. I asked about having her sending something like a blanket that smells like her home with him, and she thought that was a good idea and would help him. I can also bring a blanket for him that smells like me and drop it off tomorrow.
We’ve coordinated around hay and pellets in terms of making sure any changes are gradual and that we work together to help him adjust or that I get the same types she is using now. I am using a very different litter than she is, but she says he has never peed outside the litter box and is very unlikely to have an issue with any type of rabbit—appropriate litter (she’s using pine pellets, I’m using Carefresh).
I bought all the things she said are his favorite snacks (Science Selective Naturals Loops and Oxbow Simple Rewards in two specific flavors) and made a list of the greens/ herbs he likes best.
I let his foster Mom know she could come to visit sometimes if she wanted to, and she expressed interested in doing that once he’s settled in. In the meantime, I can send lots of photo and video updates.
Can anyone think of anything else (other than a bondmate, which I can’t conjure up in the next few days, unfortunately), that might help make this transition a little easier for him? I’ll be with him for probably about 22-23 hours a day (as I work from home as a PhD student, and his X-Pen is directly next to my bed), and he’ll have free roam time with me probably about 14 hours per day (and the rest of the time in the 4x4x4 X-Pen in my bedroom).
Anything else that might help? I’m so, so excited to bring him home and also so heartbroken for both him and his foster mother, who is incredible, and I just want to make sure this is the best transition possible for everyone involved.
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2024.05.15 00:58 LadyChikorita I don't really have any hopes in romance for me.

Might be also because I'm not usually one to take risks, I'm not even sure if I can fall in love anymore and I'm barely ever attracted to anyone. Sometimes I wish I could be that kind of person that just finds people attractive and goes to talk to them, but I'm the kind of person that has no attraction to people I don't know. You can count the people I've been attracted to on the fingers of one hand and I'm 28. I have had short-lived infatuations but that's it. In the past my romantic feelings towards people used to be very intense such as when I was crushing on my long distance friend; he did not reciprocate, but promised me to meet up and all that stuff that never happened and I kept pining after him for years. My first relationship was one I got into only out of loneliness and guilt due to negative experiences and low self esteem and he was toxic, had no respect for me or my opinion, manipulative, addicted to substances and a cheater. My second ex (2 years together) was a nice guy, used to drive 1 hour to get me pancakes, took care of me, except for the fact he used to send me unsolicited inappropriate content such as g0re, p0rn in the first stages of dating and I took that unexpressed resentment into the relationship months and months later. Eventually we broke up. As I go through life and notice other people's relationships it's always pretty off-putting, with some dynamic I wouldn't tolerate. Other than that I have a fwb that I used to be infatuated with and my feelings for him swing from attraction to hatred as I do not like how insensitive he is. I tend to hope I never meet him and want to avoid him as much as possible in public as I usually feel hurt by many things he might say. However he's the only person I find attractive and I'm so angry because I wish I were attracted to someone that actually wants to love me. All I want is someone sensitive, considerate and with some interests in common with me, someone kind that does not expect anything from giving kindness and makes me laugh. It's not much. But I forgot what's romantic love. And it's already difficult to have someone liking you, so it's even worse when you never like anyone. When it comes to my fwb, I'm pretty sure I don't have feelings for him, I used to at the start so I wonder if I'm just suppressing them due to the boundaries we have. But he did something that hurt me in a time of my life in which I was emotionally unwell, so I won't be with someone like that. My standards include people that make me feel at home, not drama. Even tho I'm fine alone I wish I could have romantic love in my life. True romantic love. For these reason I actually believe I am probably always going to be alone romantically, it's like no one ever makes me feel anything anymore.
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2024.05.15 00:38 West-Advertising7128 Group Chat

I put this under AITA because i dont really know what to put it under. So i had three best friends, lets call them Regina (my aunt), Gretchen (ex best friend), and Karen(childhood ex bestie). They all had known each other and were decent with one another which was great, we started to hang out together and talk on the phone together, finally felt like i had a girl friend group. December rolls around and me and my fiance wanted to go to see Bert Kriesher, it was already planned out, tickets bought, etc. I was so excited to go i told everybody about it in the beginning of November. Well about two weeks after I told everybody about it i find out the Regina is having “Friendsgiving” and has invited all of the girls. It happens to be on the same night we are going to see Bert, that is completely fine with me, i told them that we can’t make it and we can do something before Christmas (early Christmas) if they would like. All said yes and everything was good, we did early Christmas with Regina and Gretchen lived two hours away so it was hard to connect. Fast forward to early Christmas with Karen a week later and she was acting kinda weird during the entire time, was responding with short responses, wasnt really all the chatty and i just thought she was having a tough day. Asked her what was wrong she said nothing. Well two days later i get a message from Karens Fiancé saying that the people who i think are my friends arent my friends, curious i asked what he meant and he responded with i have screenshots and sends me almost a whole album of screenshots of all three of them talking shit in a group chat named Shit talk and then changed it to Grinch Talk, about me and my relationship, my recovery, how i parent, how i look, my health and more, but what really pissed me off the most is they decided to add my son(2yo) into it, so after receiving the screenshots i decided to make a group chat on snapchat and called it why are you talking shit, no-one responded to the group chat and messaged me individually. Karen called me crying saying the did it because they were concerned about me. Regina texted me saying i was making all of my health issues up and i just wanted attention when i in fact have medical records to prove otherwise (i have POTS, Seizures, stomach issues, and more). And Gretchen blamed it on karen and Regina saying she just wanted best for me. I blocked all of them on snap which Karen took personal and blocked me on everything after getting mad at me for blocking her on snap because i needed a break from seeing them all over my social media. Afterwards i cut Regina and Gretchen off and have completely cut them out of mine and my childs life. Some part of my feel guilty for my son because he was besties with Karens son, but i choose our peace over that drama anyday. Rant over✌🏼
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2024.05.15 00:36 Straight-Row-3458 What would you like to see if they were to remake Awakwning for the upcoming Nintendo system?

I got awakening for christmas almost 10 years ago and I instantly got hooked into the world and characters. Even to this day i can basically remember every character from the top of my head, but playing it again I can see some things that can be aproved on. So (outside graphics and full voice acting throught the game of course) what would you like to see if they remade awakening for the switch or the next nintendo system? What would you like them to change about the story, characters or gameplay?
Anything below here will contain spoilers to awakening, so be warned.
For me, 1) improve the villians. The villians in awakening are pretty bland especially coming from 3h. I think to improve the 4 main villians (Gangrel, Walhart, Validar and Grima) they should make them more memerable somehow. Starting with Gangrel they should make him more of a tragic villian. Have him start off seeming like a one note villian just wanting a war, but the deeper into his arc they start to show how hes gone crazy due to chroms father killing his family when he was child. Maybe, in one of the chapters (after Emeryn dies) have him monologue to chrom saying something like "what did you feel chrom when you saw your sisters dead body? Did it hurt? Did you feel anger, sadness, regret? Most it feel weird to lose someone you care about right infront of you. That pain, that regret, that anger you felt when she died is what I feel every day since i was a child. I was scared when your father burst into our city, I felt anger when he paraded my father and brothers across the city like pigs to the slaughter. I felt anger when he had his men do what they wanted to my mother and sisters. I felt so helpless as they slit my families throats. You know, I only survived because my brother convinced a soldier I was just a slave. How could I be the only survivor of that monster? Ive asked that question every day. Everyday, my family calls to me to avenge them. Night and day they call to me, and now, finally, I killed one. Now, I just have 2 more then I shall have peace." I think doing this will help flesh out gangrel more.
For Walhart IDK exactly how to make him better except for making him more of an unmovable object kinda thing. Maybe have us play a one-off chapter as Basilo and in a that suicide march against Walhart rather then it being a cutscene. Also, make sure the player knows hes trying to unite the whole world under one banner so humanity can be united before grima is awakened.
For Validar I think they need to make him delusional and smarter. I think they should change awakenings prologue or whatever to show Validar, Robin, and Robins mothers past. Maybe have it so they show Robins mother fleeing Plegia with Robin as a baby to Ylisstol which will eventually lead to her death by Validar and the grimleal followers,which, in turn, will eventual lead to chroms father starting the war with Plegia. Validar justifies all the killing he does to the fact that he believes the lie that grima will bring peace to the world and bring the living to the dead. So he really wants to resurrect Grima to bring his dead wife back to life. Also, I think he should be the main reason most of awakenings plot happens in the remake without being totally stupid like he is in the original.
With grima, have him be more of a threat throughout the story.
2) Have each arc be more connected. Gangrels, Walharts and Grimmas arks are all kinda just thrown together so connecting each of them would be cool. Maybe have it where Gangrel starts the war with ylisse but seeing that hes losing, Aversa suggets aid from the mighty king on Valm, Walhart, who'll help in their aid if he gives walhart the fire emblem, Gangrel agrees but obviously hes killed before walhart can arrive. For walhart to grimas arc, I think Excellus (the purple haired tactician of walhart) should be a spy for the grimleal and would steal the fire emblem from chrom and book it out of there. Now having the fire emblem, all the gems validar can start the awakening ceramony.
3) have there be open 3d spaces to run around in, like a camp like in FE engage, where you can go there to spend more time with characters and stuff but not be needed like in 3h. Maybe have optinal dungeons that can unlock world building, powerful loot and characters.
4) Just have more lore in general and have some side characters be more important to the story outside their intro chapters.
5) have there be choices that affect the ending. If robin makes too many evil choices and doesnt have a lvl B or higher support rank with chrom and a few other characters, have him kill chrom and turn into grima. If he turns, let us play as grima and kill the remaining shepards, but if he doesnt turn, have the story continue as normal. I think this will help strengthen the story about bonds.
6) Explain grima more. I dont fully understand how grima works. Why does grima need a human body? How is robin grimma? Is grima the human or the dragon? I kinda have it as head canon the grima is like a titan in attack on titan where the human body is grimas actual body but the dragon is just kinda like a mech that is controled by his human form.
Thanks for reading this far! Im interested in hearing what you guys think they should do.
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2024.05.15 00:31 DragonKnov Kunlun Sect's Weakest Disciple: Chapter 17

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One had recently become a 2nd realm martial artist, while the other was renowned solely for her exquisite beauty that turned heads wherever she went.

Ji Wuye's eyes narrowed as he scrutinized Song Jia, who appeared outwardly calm despite the fury that had been etched across her delicate features moments earlier.

With a curl of his lip, he muttered inwardly, 'Come to think of it, what realm is she even in now? First? No... perhaps second...'

As Ji Wuye pondered, his Senior Sister raised a hand, ebony silken robes whispering around her wrists. "Begin!" she commanded, her voice cracking like a whip in the silent sect ground.

At her signal, Qin Bai burst into motion, his body wreathed in a shimmering azure aura of Qi. He closed the distance in the blink of an eye, crossing the three zhang between them in less than five breaths.

Qin Bai leapt, raising his wooden sword arm in a blur until the wooden blade was parallel to his body. A vicious grin split his features as he took in Song Jia's seeming lack of reaction.

"Hahaha, take this, you bitch!" he jeered, assuming her stillness meant she was frozen in fear or shock.

As the one who has basically stayed longer in the sect, even though Qin Bai rarely practiced, with the ease born from years of being in the sect, he still managed to draw the wooden sword down in a straight, powerful line.

In addition, confidence blazed bright within him now that he had finally overcome the barriers of the 1st realm. And from what he had gathered, this Song Jia was all beauty with no bite, just another fresh-faced newcomer with no real strength to speak of.

The wooden blade sang through the air, trailing streamers of azure Qi that stirred Qin Bai's hair into a wild dance as it arrowed down towards her unprotected head.

To his delight, she made no move to channel her own Qi in defense against his attack. His smile stretched wider, vicious satisfaction blazing in his eyes at being proven right.

The Kunlun Sword Style he practiced was famed for its elegance and swiftness. The opening stage of Meridian March focused on stimulating the flow of Qi through the body's meridians and was practiced by those below the 4th realm who had not yet formed their Three Main Dantians.

Meridian March, First Move - SINGLE WHIP! 

A straightforward vertical slash tracing the path of the Taiying Lung Meridian along one side to promote Qi flow from the hand into the lungs.

Though not a tremendously powerful technique, it packed more than enough force to easily floor an untrained civilian when fueled by a 2nd realm martial artist. Yet Qin Bai missed one crucial aspect in his arrogance...

His wooden blade met an impenetrable horizontal guard as Song Jia effortlessly parried his strike!

With a resounding clank that reverberated through the courtyard, she turned the wooden sword to absorb and disperse the weight of his weapon and the intense momentum of his descending body.

Qin Bai's victorious sneer froze, transmuting into sheer panic mid-air as he absorbed the impossible scene before him.

Not only had this slender beauty remained utterly unharmed and unmoved from her position, but she had negated and deflected the full force of his offense with apparently no effort at all!

Her calm expression didn't even flicker as the impact shuddered through her slim form in a manner that should have been impossible.

For a lower realm martial artist to withstand an attack from someone of a higher realm was nearly unheard of.

The only explanations were if she had undergone intense physical conditioning to augment her body's fortitude, but surely not at her delicate size.

'Or perhaps she had superior skill and experience in the same martial style as me... or even employed a different art entirely designed to counter the Kunlun sword techniques.

'But no... that couldn't be... could it?' Those were the inward thoughts ranging in Qin Bai's mind.

In that case, Song Jia could easily exploit any openings or weaknesses left by Qin Bai's overconfident assault and capitalize on her evident advantage.

And finally, the most logical yet unthinkable conclusion - her realm was higher than him...

"You..." Qin Bai snarled, poised to rotate his waist and deliver a retaliatory kick. But before he could, a look of acute satisfaction gleamed in Song Jia's eyes as her wooden sword continued halting the progress of his own blade.

The shock and disbelief writ large across his features made enduring his crude insults absolutely worth it.

"Stupid," Song Jia retorted, a mocking smile curving her lips as she reveled in his humiliation. For a brief moment she allowed the tension to ease from her slender shoulders, savoring the sight.

Then, with a subtle adjustment of her wrists, her wooden sword shifted trajectory. The pressure abruptly released from Qin Bai's suspended weapon, sending him stumbling forward towards her in his precarious, airborne position.

THUD!

In the next instant, a stunned gasp of surprise escaped Qin Bai's lips as Song Jia's wooden blade struck the unprotected right side of his abdomen with pinpoint accuracy.

"Gah!" His body flung violently to the side, legs buckling as he crumpled into an undignified heap on the ground. The surrounding disciples squinted against the billowing clouds of dust kicked up by his impact, watching in hushed disbelief as his form convulsed.

"That's it? He didn't even realize his mistake..."

"I thought Qin Bai was supposed to be strong...how pathetic am I in comparison..."

"What a disappointment, it ended in just one move..."

The whispers and mutterings among the observing disciples filled Qin Bai's stunned mind as he coughed and struggled to push himself up on trembling arms.

He looked towards Song Jia, who smirked and mockingly stuck out her tongue at his prone form.

Fear, rather than rage, consumed him in that moment.

"She's already...in the 3rd realm..." he rasped, grasping at the only explanation that could account for his utter defeat. His obsessive pursuit of climbing through the realms at the expense of true martial skill had clearly blinded him.

Qin Bai swallowed hard, casting venomous glances around at the other disciples gathered who were all weaker than him in terms of realm alone. The bitter shame and impotent fury churned in his gut as their mocking disdain washed over him.

Meanwhile, Lian Ruogang, the senior sister who had overseen the duel, observed the scene unfolding with a discerning eye.

Though her expression remained outwardly inscrutable, inwardly she felt a sense of satisfaction at Song Jia's elegant display of martial prowess against such an arrogant, overconfident opponent.

As Qin Bai continued struggling fruitlessly to rise from the ground after the devastating blow, Lian Ruogang directed her piercing gaze towards his prone, pathetic figure.

Instead of focusing on his opponent, he seemed lost and absent-minded, eyes roving wildly around as if uncomprehending of his surroundings. It was clear he either lacked the intention or ability to stand and face her.

With a tone that demanded respect and carried a sense of finality, Lian Ruogang addressed the defeated youth, each word dripping with censure:

"Qin Bai, it is evident that your so-called prowess has finally found its match on this day. Will you yield now, preserving what little honor you might have left? Or will you continue to invite further embarrassment and humiliation upon yourself with this disgraceful display?"

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Meanwhile, amidst the crowd of onlookers, Ji Wuye's glowing crimson eyes gradually faded.

His gaze fell upon Song Jia, whose hands now trembled with the force of her exertions as jubilant female disciples swarmed her, hugging and playfully pressing her flushed cheeks in congratulation.

'It's not the 3rd realm, but her stance...' he pondered inwardly, brow furrowing slightly.

Having witnessed arrogance and underestimation of an opponent's skills countless times before in those like Qin Bai, Ji Wuye understood that most of the other disciples present were not as oblivious to the truth as the defeated youth.

Thanks to his passive skill Quick Adaptation constantly analyzing and adapting to situations, Ji Wuye was able to not only identify critical flaws in Qin Bai's movements, but also recognize the subtle preparations and feints behind Song Jia's deceptively simple actions.

'Firstly, Qin Bai made the mistake of levitating his body off the ground by jumping, sacrificing a solid footing,' Ji Wuye mused to himself.

The initial Single Whip strike of the Kunlun Sword Style's opening Meridian March sequence relied heavily on proper stancing and grounded footwork to unleash its full potential.

Yet the overconfident youth had forgone those fundamentals.

'On the other hand, Song Jia clearly had her stance and rooting mastered.'

In her brilliant counter-attack, she seemed to have utilized the follow-up Double Slash movement to simultaneously target both flanking sides of Qin Bai's exposed torso - his key vulnerable area left unguarded by his unbalanced posture.

'Furthermore, Qin Bai has only recently broken through to the 2nd realm after wasting years on frivolous pursuits fixated solely on realm advancement, neglecting the true essence of martial arts...'

Ji Wuye nodded in satisfaction, confirming the current timeline seemed to still align with the previous one despite the subtle alterations he had introduced.

Qin Bai's lack of true skill and one-dimensional focus were glaringly evident.

But there was more to Song Jia's effortless victory. As Ji Wuye's crimson eyes studied her movements, he realized she had not merely relied on superior stancing.

Even as she appeared to make no attempt at channeling her Qi, deftly concealing it, Song Jia had been circulating and consolidating her Qi beneath her feet the entire time.

The implications gave Ji Wuye pause.

For Song Jia to already be capable of such fine Qi control, there were only two possibilities - either she had secretly become 5th realm martial artist...or she possessed a hidden, powerful martial art imparted by her Master.

'Hmm…the 5th realm… then, why would she have bothered concealing such an achievement all this time?' Ji Wuye dismissed the former option as unlikely, leaving only the latter conclusion.

'Which means...her Master's sword art is the key,' he murmured, thoughts trailing off as he pieced together the full significance.

'So basically, all this time she used her Master sword art, heh,' This was a new revelation; in the previous timeline, Ji Wuye neither possessed the Quick Adaptation skill nor had knowledge about Song Jia's secret art.

Just as he was about to take his leave and ponder this further, a sudden prickle of unease ran down Ji Wuye's spine.

Almost unconsciously, his crimson eyes scanned the surrounding area, coming to rest squarely on the burning, venomous glare aimed directly at him from none other than the humiliated Qin Bai himself.

'Ah... I almost forgot about this one,' Ji Wuye exhaled softly, lips quirking in a curled-up smile as their gazes met and locked.
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2024.05.15 00:29 B-chPlease AITA for telling my mom she has to move out?

I’ll start this off where it’s relevant. Me and my partner were looking to buy a house and when we found the one we wanted of course my mom wanted to do a walk through with us. So we did the walk through and she thought it was nice and even joked about the basement being all set up for a mother in-law suite. To which my husband replied we don’t have any intention of renting it out and we don’t know if we will need that space yet.
Later I was at her house visiting getting some help doing out taxes and she was on the phone then asked my about giving her landlord notice. I was busy I didn’t really hear her or know what she was asking and just said “ya ya, give me a minute.” And she walked away and I figured she’d ask me again after think it was about lunch or something. She never brought it up again but we had talked about it in the past and I always told her the same thing my husband had. We don’t plan on rent out the basement and we will probably need the space.
Fast-ward we just finish moving our stuff not even unpacked yet and she needs to move out cus she’s given her notice and of course I felt terrible saying “ya ya” not know what I was saying yes to. I convinced my husband to let her move in and his wasn’t happy but we moved her into the basement. We did say a few rules not smoking in the house there is a detached heated garage for that. The upstairs was supposed to be our space. And don’t overstep boundaries or our parenting.
That’s when all the issues started. My mom would make plans for me with little notice and monopolies my and my kids time. At first it was fine to get to spend time out with her and the kids but it became an issues when she wouldn’t respect my boundaries. Like I need more notice cus I do make plans with my husband to do family stuff or friends. Or I don’t want certain people around my kids and she would bring us there or invite them over. If I invited friends over she’d come upstairs and take over the conversation and not let me talk and try to bring them downstairs to sell them stuff she’s made. She never respected the upstairs was our space rule.
She would talk down to me in front of my kids why isn’t the house spotless. Why are there dishes in the sink etc.. she would complain about everything but never help. She would not listen if I told hethe kids no to something ex. Candy before dinner. Me: No you can’t have candy before dinner, maybe after. Her: They are only kids once let them have it. And would give it to them. They need to eat lunch but “oh she was on a diet.” And so on
It got to the point where she would tell me she doesn’t have to listen to me cus she’s my mother. My kids started to throw fits and say I was mean and “they wanted nana cus she gave them anything they wanted.” Or “why do I have to listen to you when nana doesn’t have too?”
One Christmas I was working to afford a better Christmas and help pay off the line of credit we needed for the house. We hosted the Christmas dinner and had family and friends and everyone helped out. I cooked all day and then took a nap while everyone else was enjoying dinner as I had to work the night and was already going to be running on fumes. When I got up to my surprise everyone was still there. They were helping put the food away and had made me a plate for work. When I got home the house was clean and I was relieved as I was exhausted and just wanted to get some sleep. My mom told me she did all the dishes for me and cleaned to kitchen.
I worked for a few months before and after Christmas and during this time my mom was chain smoking in the basement. Her bedroom right below ours and our kids rooms. Me and the kids have asthma and my husband has crippling migraines that helped encourage him to quit smoking years ago. I didn’t notice the smell unless I was down stairs but he noticed it immediately. Saying he can’t sleeping and his crippling migraines had come back and the house smelled like cigarettes smoke. I confronted my mother and she said no of course she would smoke in the house but all her stuff clothes, furniture, smells that way cus she use to smoke in the house at her old place. (Mind you she was living with us for months now, and some of her future was new and we only just started having a problem suddenly after months with no issues related to smoke/smell)
Me and my husband fought over this as I really didn’t want to believe she would smoke in the house. First off it’s illegal here and second she knows off all our health issues. And you can get in trouble with child protective services if they thinking your smoking in the house which is considered endangering the health and safety of your children. And asthma can be considered the fault of the parents if they are smoking around them. You can’t even smoke in the car if a child is in the car with you
So my husband got a nicotine testing kit and when it finally came in we put it to use. The house was completely clean when we moved in. We found next to nothing upstairs but downstairs was a different story. My mom’s bedroom and kitchen being the worst. I was so mad that I decided I would look around to see if I could find an ashtray. Well I found it in her nightstand right beside the bed…. I was pissed. I can still remembered her fallling asleep with a cigarette in her hand on multiple occasions as a kid and how lucky we were that she never burned the house down back then
I confronted her when she got home and her instantly denied it till I showed her my proof and that I found her ashtray “your husband didn’t want her there always” was her response. I was floored. The whole time I stood up for her after confronting her the first time. she was lying saying “I’m so sick, I’m not even smoking right now, I’m quitting.”
He had bin upset at first but the first few months were great till all the issues started. But I quickly realized that no matter what I said I’d be wrong and she wouldn’t apologize. She had no remorse or sympathy not even when I mentioned the kids health or mine and my husbands. As she was my mother I felt it was my personal responsibility to hold her accountable for her actions we were going to give her till the spring as she is old but her response infuriated me.
She made it clear she didn’t have any level of respect for me or my husband and didn’t care about her grandchildren’s health…. I told her she had till the end of the month to move. She was pissed. She wanted to die here and how could I pick my husband over her and allow him to force her to move and in a month no less. I told her it was my choice to only give her a month and that I couldn’t stand to look at her. And this was the straw that back the camel’s back.
After that she avoided us and would hide in the basement when she wasn’t at work. A day or so later I woke up in the middle of the night to a noise only to find my mother in kitchen going through our cupboards…. I asked her what the H she was doing in my kitchen in the middle of the night? After that I started double checking the door separating the basement from the upstairs was locked at night.
She didn’t want to move so naturally I helped her looked for a place. Did the walk throughs with her till she settled for a place and of course she complained the whole time. How could I do this to her, look at the house I was forcing her into. (She picked it) and it was the nicest one we looked at. In her price range. And it was still close enough to visit and come help her if she needed it.
She refused to pack so I ended up packing everything for her and as I was packing her things I kept coming across things she had stolen from us. A can opener, canned goods, cereal, shopping bags, a blanket she had knitted for the family for Christmas and other things she had got the kids among many random things she must have wanted. I was growing more upset as the days passed and I told my husband everything I had come across while packing her things each day. He told me not to bother taking anything back because she would probably forget she stole it and claim we were stoking her things. He said she could have anything she wanted and hopefully with time she would remember that we still gave her whatever she wanted and there might be hope to fix the relationship with her in the future.
We called a couple friends to help us move here. We even put the furniture in the rooms/spots she asked for them to be put and we them up. As for the boxes I was going to help her empty them and put everything away but the first night she refused to let me touch anything and I just ended up sitting there while she berated me. “You’re a horrible daughter!” “A horrible mother!” “You’d let your own mother live in this dump!” “Who going to take care of me now? I might as well just die” “if I die it’s because of what you put me through” and those are only thing things a can remember
She keep my there in till 2 in the morning after that I said I couldn’t help her because I still had kids at home I had to get up with and she wouldn’t let me help anyway just berate me the whole time.
Me and my husband both agreed that we wouldn’t stop her from seeing the kids but she would have to respect our boundaries or we would have to put a stop to it. She refuses to see us or the kids. She refuses to apologize or admit to any wrong doing. She going around telling everyone I’m dead to her and take we took everything from her and we used her and abused her. We stopped talking to her all together and stopped trying to visit her.
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2024.05.15 00:13 Cewy67 how do I tell my ex I want him back?

(Burner account) Before I start I wanna say that this is a long one and I’m not the best at writing how I feel so sorry if this sounds all confusing now for some context I (f) have this ex let’s call Liam. Me and Liam dated for a few months and back in December he broke up with me because I had been down that week. Around the holidays I always tend to get sad because that’s around the time when I lost my grand pap, childhood cat and my long time best friend. Also during that week my mother was in the hospital for a brain problem. Me and Liam had an amazing relationship he was my first kiss first love first everything , we hung out all the time my family loved him and his family loved me, we were planning on going to his moms family Christmas party. I was begging him for around an hour but to no avail. Now a few hours after that I was laying on the floor falling alseep in my best friends arms when she told me he was texting her and told me to check my phone. When I checked my phone I saw him texting me how regretted everything and how sorry he was and how we needed me so the next morning we got back together. THEN the day after that we dumped me again AFTER I found out the day we broke up he liked this girl let’s call Paige. Then that Monday we came to school and he was telling everyone how sad he is but that’s whatever now this was the week of Christmas break and we were doing fun things all week so one day I’m in a study hall while everyone is watching a movie and I get an email from him saying how he’s sorry and how I’m so prefect and he wants one more chance. And me being the desperate girl I am take him back. The day after he dumps me again. Now back to my point it’s now may and I thought I was over him but today something happened and I miss him. I miss our long calls, our hang outs , sitting together at lunch, our cute little side jokes , making each other things and just him in general. When we broke up I started SHing and I was just depressed. I tried dated but nobody was like him. How do I tell him I miss him anything will help but I’m just scared that if he doesn’t want me back that he’ll make my life even more miserable. I’m so stubborn and pride heavy so that’s why I’m coming to Reddit please someone help me thank you for reading I’ll update if anything happened
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2024.05.15 00:11 The_Lucinator A quick primer on stealth

A quick primer on stealth
Boo
I have seen a lot of people both here on reddit and on discord with questions on stealth or misconceptions on it. As a Docent and historian at the worlds largest private aerospace museum which has a lot of documentation on the subject and a few actual stealth aircraft, which helps in understanding this topic at a deeper level than most. This is meant to be a basic overview of how reduced Radar Cross Section, (RCS) is achieved. I’m not gonna go into detail about other features that matter in stealth such as Infrared signature reduction, or electromagnetic signature reduction both of which are just as critical to a proper stealth design.
If anyone wants to do some light reading on the subject I recommend Stealth by Doug Richardson, or Stealth Aircraft by Bill Sweetman. Both can provide a basic overview of the technical aspects of RCS. If you have a Aviation Week subscription they did a couple of great primer articles on this a few years ago and are also worth reading. There are also numerous academic papers on this topic that can be found if you want something with a bit more meat on the bones. What will follow is even further simplified from those books but should at least be more accessible and easy to understand.
The first thing I want to point out is how Radar actually works as this is something that a lot of people get wrong, and it can lead to many mistaken beliefs about how stealth works. People often think of a radar return as light reflecting off a object, and while in layman's terms this explanation suffices the actual quantum mechanisms are a bit more complicated and while the description is fine for basic knowledge knowing how it works at the smallest of scales is critical for getting your RCS to actually work.
When Radar strikes a object it doesn't just bounce off, what actually happens is that the radar wave induces a current in the material it hits, this then creates waves of the same magnitude as the incoming waves. It is this re-emitted energy that is what the radar receiver actually pics up. The direction of emission is also related to the direction of the incoming energy. One important factor in this is that object with a length/diameter about one half the wavelength will create a much stronger return. This is why some objects are much more radar reflective than others. However this isn't the only thing the energy can do. Sometimes the energy is absorbed by the material struck, this is your standard Radar Absorbing Material (RAM). Another interesting feature of radar is scattering and wave travel. The energy does not have to be emitted right away, it can travel along the object it hits before being re-emitted. Sharp boundaries are more likely to emit this radiation than smooth rounded shapes. This is further compounded by scattering which is how the magnitude of the return varies by the relationship of the wavelength to the size of the object. When they are about the same size (note this means the area the wave can travel not the size of the whole plane) you get what is called resonance which greatly increases the return of the object. When the wavelength is smaller than the object then it starts to treat smaller and smaller sections independently of each other as the object. This is important and will be discussed later.
The goal of RCS takes all of these considerations and more into the equation as some objects are also transparent to radar waves and others translucent. Furthermore the ability of a material to conduct electricity is important because this can help the waves propagate further before emitting. While on the surface this may seem bad and in some cases it is, it also allows for better control of where the emissions come from. Move over the angle of the surface being emitted dictates the strength of the signal and how it changes with direction, think this like a funhouse mirror, the cone/dome of radar can be emitted in a very different direction than it came from. This is not a easy thing to calculate and is a reason that early stealth aircraft were faceted as with the sharp lines were easier to predict where and in what direction the return waves would propagate. This has ironically led to many people thinking that faceted shapes are better for RCS, when in truth the opposite is true, however as stated earlier it is easier to model. This is why flat surfaces such as single vertical tail fins, and turbine blades are such big reflectors. The goal of any RCS is to reduce the amount of stuff making its way back to the emitting aircraft and being able to know exactly how the waves will travel is paramount to a successful RCS design.
To complicate matters further as I mentioned earlier when a wavelength is smaller than the object you are trying to detect than it will treat different parts of the aircraft separately however this can be modified by increasing the distance the wave can travel in a object. This is where the most critical part of any proper RCS effort comes into play. This is one of tolerances. See gaps are the ultimate emitter of waves since they have sharp edges, and break the electrical current flowing through the material thus drastically increasing the chance of emission. This is by far the largest contributor to RCS. It has also proved the bane of countries trying to develop stealth since it is very hard to have manufacturers that can achieve such tight tolerances and it isn't something you can just steal like the shape or RAM materials. Since a plane needs to have at least some moving parts being able to make them close to one another is paramount, having seems be almost non existent on a moving part is very hard. Most stealth aircraft require special tape to bridge the gaps especially the ones between materials with different electrical properties like those around the cockpit. This tape had to be applied every mission perfectly and was (and to some degree still is) the part that added the most to the Maintenance of aircraft like the F-117 and B-2. You can see a good example of this on the photo below of the TACIT BLUE aircraft which was one of the first stealth aircraft.

those dark area's around any hatches is the tape
As you probably well know part what is important is how the aircraft is structured and shaped, What isn't talked about is that most shapes that direct radar waves in a specific direction aren't the most conducive to good aerodynamics, thankfully for early stealth pioneers there are many materials that are very transparent to radar (such as the dome over most maritime radars). These materials can be used to smooth out the airflow and create a shape conducive to good flying characteristics (or even the ability to fly at all). Below is a good example of a photo showing the intricate sub surfaces on a aircraft control surface. You will notice that the underlying sawtooth shape would probably not be very aerodynamic but with the radar transparent leading edge the surface smooths out into the familiar shape you can recognize.

A great example of how the edges are smoothed over to create a clean wing
Another part that needs to be considered is that there are a wide range of radar wavelengths that can be used. What is a good RCS shape to one wavelength might matter a lot less to another frequency. This is why most broadband stealth designs are created and coated with materials the work to harmonize as many different wavelengths of radar as possible into a more cohesive waveform. This is mostly seen in third and fourth generation designs like the F-22 and F-35. You will often note the metallic sheen their paint tends to have and this is indicative of attempts to do this.

Stealthy paint
Not stealthy paint
There is one last effect that is worth noting and that is that if a wavelength is larger than the object then a effect know as Reyleigh Scattering happens and the radar treats the aircraft as one homogeneous aircraft and shape and angles no longer really mater to the return just the size and composition of the object. This is why many countries looking to develop counter stealth technologies often look at low frequency radar as it can get around the shaping of the aircraft as well as issues with things like gaps, though the effectiveness of RAM isn't changed. Ok so you are probably asking why people don't just use long wave radar, well there are two problems while long wave radar has great range due to the energy required for a given distance is proportional to the wavelength it also comes at the price of accuracy and also needing a large antenna to pick up any receiving signals since the reception of radar signals generally requires a receiver proportional to the wavelength. Also effected is resolution which means that knowing that something is out there is easier but knowing where it is, is much harder. The lower resolution can have other unhelpful effects such as combining many small objects (like a flock of birds) into one.

Lastly as alluded to earlier there is a hierarchy to the importance of design features. In general it goes like this. By far the most important one is tolerance of the parts and elimination of gaps. Then in a distant second is RAM and other coatings. Lastly there is shape though unlike the other two this is still required by some degree to any stealthy aircraft whereas you can go without the other two but with a much more easily detectable object. It illustrate this and to show how all of this starts to fit together look below at the four aircraft's. Now rank them in order of smallest RCS to largest.......Scroll down past them for the answer.
F-22A Raptor

Su-57 Felon
F/A-18E/F Block III Super Hornet
KF-21 Boramae (fighting hawk)
Ok good here are the results
  1. F-22
  2. F/A-18 E/F Block III
  3. KF-21
  4. Su-57
so how many of you thought that the KF-21 would be 3rd, or that the Su-57 would be last? This illustrates the importance of both keeping tight tolerances and in the heavy use of RAM and other skin (and some sub-skin) treatments. Both of the planes have shaping that is conducive to having a low RCS but are not able to match the 4.5 gen Superhornet’s latest version due to the latter's better tolerance control and increased use of RAM materials. This much has been admitted by the Korean government which has admitted that the Block one KF-21 which has no RAM and looser tolerance levels than they would have wished. They do plan on incorporating those as well as including a full internal bay rather than the semi-recessed hardpoints it currently has. This shows the difficulty in mastering those two elements since the South Koreans have a lot of experience building and even decent experience designing planes. The Su-57 is a bit of the different case. Teasing out the failings of the Su-57 has taken more work given the Russian government claims that its stealth feature are some of the best in the world. However pictures of the Su-57 during construction shows a complete lack of sub-surface shaping, as well as a lack of RAM coating on many surfaces that should have it. Furthermore riveting and screw attachment of parts are massive no no’s in stealth and the Su-57 has those in droves. Furthermore the engine's turbine blades are visible through the air intake something even the KF-21 avoids limiting the ability to actually improve the RCS. It also has clearly visible gaps at locations where they would significantly contribute to increasing the RCS. Lastly the paint on the plane does not exhibit any metallic properties meaning that it likely is derived from first gen stealth paint, most likely from samples of the F-117 that was shot down in the Balkans. Based on this and knowledge that tolerances have always been a weakness of Russian manufacturing (though in the past this was deliberate as low tolerances allow for more rugged machines) thus the Su-57 probably doesn't have a ton of RCS reduction and is probably on the level of the Eurofighter in terms of RCS.

Ok so now withe the brief overview out of the way you are probably wondering how Flyout's “RCS” system fits into all of this. The answer is not at all. There is almost no connection between the games determination and reality. This can be deduced by the lack of most properties that are needed to define RCS. Some of the notable ones needed are wavelength of the radar used and given radar itself isn't in game we know that's not yet on the table, the electrical conductive properties of a aircraft's paint and skin/structures are very important to any radar return modeling and so far materials used in game are purely cosmetic. There also is no RAM material and even how that works is highly variable in real life but even a massively simplistic implementation doesn't exist so we can cross that out. There also is no setting for tolerances of parts of the plane and given that is the most important contributor to reducing RCS the lack of all these features means that the game’s RCS has no real connection with how real RCS works. Lastly, I don’t expect there to be a accurate system implemented. This is due to the massive computing power needed to model the subtle interactions of radar waves with all of these factors. As mentioned before there is a reason faceting was used heavily in early stealth aircraft despite it being less than optimal. It would take several months of using 1970’s supercomputers specially programed to just do this calculation to get a RCS model for a given aircraft shape. Even then it had to have data from real world RCS testing added to achieve this. While computing power has exponentially increased since then the ability to actively simulate a planes RCS in real time, is still well beyond anything a desktop computer can do. Especially given you would need a completely custom engine just for that part. And none of what I have said touches on other parts that can contribute to RCS like degradation of RAM coatings, or the fact that the exhaust from planes in afterburner shows up on radar (this is due to the lower density of hot air coupled with changes in the airs natural radar absorbing properties due to being at a different temperature). So for everyone out there, don't worry about or look too far into the RCS of your stealth plane be as creative as you want. That being said it is possible that IR reduction could be better simulated in game and might be a possible thing to have added. Real RCS will likely be limited to at best massively approximated stand-in values. Though there is a way to achieve a real world stealth parameter which is visual stealth, ie cammo or other tech that reduces a aircrafts visual signature. Along with some tech (like the hole material that is fictional but renders the plane truly invisible)
Implementing the \"hole\" surface material to a plane in real life
On a side tangent I want to point out that the exhaust phenomenon is something that has effected all stealth aircraft and the main reason the A-12 and SR-71 had no real RCS reduction since the massive amount of air the moved through the planes engines meant they were usually spotted at the maximum range of whatever radar they flew near. And while on the A-12 they tried to eliminate this through a combination of using a cesium fuel additive(which did absolutely nothing), and plasma stealth to shield the air intake so the fan blades would not reflect (which apparently worked ok but used a enormous amount of power, led to airflow disruptions that made the engine both less efficient, even more prone to flameouts, and caused the formation of nitric acid and other corrosive compounds the hurt the engine.). For the reasons I just showed the cesium and plasma stealth systems were disabled on the A-12 by the time it entered its brief service and not used at all on the SR-71, which instead used it’s extreme speed, altitude and what can be argued was the most extensive ECM suit ever fitted to a aircraft at the time, to ensure that any missile that got close could be jammed.
Hope this helps people.
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2024.05.15 00:02 No_Mycologist6603 Inverted Sub help???

Hey guys, i have a simple question. My system has 2 12's inverted and it bumps !! I wanna go to an 18 and originally I planned on making a box that'll fit SNUG in my trunk and it has to be sealed. Ported won't allow a good box to fit unless i strip the spare and trunk, but a proper sealed 4cu box fits nice. Is there any way to calculate or figure out how much airspace is needed when you invert a sub?? Can i make a super short box that'll hold an inverted 18? I figure If i do, the airspace will be sooo small so I don't want it to sound bad. I know the motodriver eats air which is why inverted in the first place and want to invert this big boy for some nice lows, but I wanna make sure the cone has proper air-space so it can also resonate well but also fit with an inverted sub into my trunk. Is there a calculation for cone airspace when inverted or something so I design a box properly.
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