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2018.05.08 14:26 Parents are just really fucking stupid sometimes

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2024.05.29 05:52 Glad-Geologist-1855 My 26M Girlfriend 24F Is Struggling To Lose Weight And Is Very Hard On Herself Because Of It. I Think She Looks Perfect As Is. How Should I Respond?

My girlfriend wants to lose weight but has been struggling to find the motivation. She is very insecure about her body and has extremely low esteem. She tells me she hates how she can't motivate herself to go to the gym more often (I was unsure how to respond to this). She has some body fat, but is both healthy and active, and by no means does she need to lose weight. I think she looks beautiful as is! It really pains me to watch her beat herself so much over this. If she wants to be healthier, I do not want to discourage her. However, I also do not want her to feel like she is fat or that she needs to change herself for me. I cannot relate to the social pressures women experience in todays society to have a perfect body. How can I help my girlfriend become more secure about herself?
tl;dr My girlfriend is incredibly hard on herself because of her weight. How can I make her feel better?
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2024.05.29 05:52 Jlynneknight "I am doing the best I can"

I have to see my ex every week because our kids go to the same school (shoot me now). It is incredibly painful and I feel like I take 10 steps back every time I see him. Today, at an event, after round 10 of small talk even though he blocked me on everything, I cut the crap and said "why did you block me? how can you talk to me normally now knowing that?" he said "I am doing the best I can" I said "that is bullshit and you know it." and he said "I am doing my best." I just paused and then said.... "you cannot continue to try to talk to me in person like this and act like everything is normal." He then went on a rant on how I am not blocked on email (I am, but I also have not reached out). What is his best? How can someone justify ending a relationship while I was in another country in a text message as their best? Moving out of the apartment complex we lived in within a week? No closure. No talk about the kids and how to manage. No returning of things (except asking for the ring back in a text). This is his best? What world do I live in? This all ended with him claiming how I treated him was bad and toxic. I didn't even reply because I had no reply. I have spent the last 3 months replaying every situation in my head because I felt like a doormat. There was no amount of validation I could give him. My body was breaking down. I was so tired and stressed and forgetful. I would ask for space to heal and focus on me and he would last a day before melting down. But I was toxic? I am rambling but I just cant make sense of anything. I am tired of losing my mind. I just want to feel human again. How do you move on from the projection?
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2024.05.29 05:52 Suspicious_Bee_5310 I need this to stop_

Ok guys another story about love and loss. So, my ex fiance, boyfriend of 8 year left me 2 years ago. He met a girl at work and same old story picked her over me.
During the time we were together he proposed and we bought a house. Along with my family and his family we started planning for a small intimate ceremony. We had already taken our engagement pics, ordered some party favors and sent out the invites.
But also during this time he went back to school to finish his Bachelor degree, while working full-time. At this time, I started paying for majority of the bills ( so he can afford school) and had to understand that he was going to be broke, tired and not have alot of time for me. I genuinely missed spending time with him. I worked too and our schedules just didn't align right. But, he promised that as soon as he graduates. He will have more money and I can go back to school, go on vacations abd fix up the house.
Fast-forward to April, 1 month before he walked the stage and receive his diploma. I find out he had been cheating on me. He moved out but kept saying he loved me but was confused blah blah blah.. The literal week of his graduation he chose her. She got to watch him graduate. He got a promotion at the end of May while I was trying to understand what had happened. And pick up the pieces of what was.
The following April, I find out they had a baby. Picturing him with his new little family kills me. I also found out I can't have children due to some illness. Again, I was devastated. I'm struggling w ith trying to be happy. Or at least having to pretend to be happy. It's been too long for me to be this depressed. Idk how to make the pain and loneliness go away. I'm an adult and know life is not fair. But damn. Idk how 2 people can be so selfish and hurtful and still come out on top. It's so unfair. I just don't want to feel this pain and loneliness anymore.
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2024.05.29 05:51 ElectroMenZ I just beat my first full Kaizo ROM hack (SM74 Ten Years After v3.74) + my review

I just beat my first full Kaizo ROM hack (SM74 Ten Years After v3.74) + my review
Ok, so on May 26th 2024, I got all the stars after 31 hours + 3 more I had on another save file, and let me tell you what, it was quite a rollercoaster of an adventure, so here I'll just review my overall experience of it
C1 Dice Domain: (9/10) It was a nice beginning course that felt welcoming for people who are just getting started on easier Kaizo hacks, like sure, it feels a bit different from the original source material, and that can be great, as it gives a player something kinda new, so overall, it's a solid level without it being intimidating, and it's just a nice little warmup for me, someone who's trying Kaizos for the first time
C2 Concrete Jungle: (8.5/10) This is also a pretty solid course, and although, the red coin star was replaced in this version, it was still a solid experience without them, and the stars still felt like a nice little warmup. Also, there was that one heave-ho trick I had to know about, so yeah, I didn't know at the time, and instead went the long way on top to slide and jumped to the star, which involved me finding a bug where I get soft locked on the slope, but again, still quite a solid level with interesting design choices
C3 Wallowing Wells: (8/10) This is a great mashup of C3 from SM74 and EE, and even though I'm not the biggest fan of water levels, you actually have faster swimming, and it's way better than what I tried in EE, I mean, I had a good time getting the stars and the 100 coins even, then you have the waterless mode star which is a good test of your platforming skills, and even though a fell down a few times, it's actually not near as bad as what you had to do in EE, and it was quite enjoyable, so still a nice mashup that doesn't feel like a difficulty spike out of nowhere, but still slightly trickier than the first two courses
Underground Slide: (7.5/10) Now, here's the first little difficulty spike in the hack, so this one had me dying a bit on the slide's reds, and yeah I died at the end to that stupid pillar. Also, to get that first star in the metal cap switch, I decided to take the long route instead of doing the skip, I dunno why, but anyway, near the end of that section kinda felt like a chokepoint, but I mean, it's not bad, and I liked how they replaced the Mario Party minigame music with the underground theme from Yoshi's Island, which is quite fitting with the redesign, so overall, even if it's a bit of a difficulty spike early in the game, I still did like my experience with it quite a bit, and I like the new aesthetic of it
B1 Bowser's Park Party: (9/10) I actually like what they did with this version, they made it feel a bit different by making it like an island in the sky, and the stars were just pretty fun overall, like the one metal cap star was an interesting because of the way you go inside the building to get it, and the key section felt free because of the metal cap safety net, but there was that one part where you had to do oddly precise lava bounces, I don't know why LinCrash made it that way, but I'm not gonna question it, and it was an enjoyable experience all the way through
C4 Bogey Bayou: (8/10) I thought this course was pretty fun, but there was that one pit with Bubbas with the red coins that were a bit risky to get due to the relentless nature of them, however, the rest of this course had some solid stars in it, like there was one star where you have the entrance to a secret lava section, and due to the Parallel Lakitu cam, you didn't have to do blind guesswork, so that's nice, but yeah, the actual secret entrance star was just free, nothing else to say about that one, but even though the 100 coins took me longer than it should've, I actually had quite a fun time platforming on rooftops over some deadly quicksand sludge
C5 Flamework Factory: (8.5/10) An interesting course with tunnels that leads you to other stars and parts of the level, and honestly, I liked how it felt sort of like nice little puzzle with a couple of stars requiring certain caps to traverse to the other section, and in the current version, the tunnels just warp you to that certain room, I don't really mind the change that much because it doesn't really decrease the difficulty that much, so overall, another solid experience when I knew the places I needed to go for certain stars.
MC Aerial Alpine: (9/10) I love what they did with the metal cap stage from the original EE, they turned it into a snow level, and now it's a lot more enjoyable, and even though this current version replaced the red coin star, it was still a nice chill stage, no pun intended, and the stars felt like nice little warmup sections that I had a pretty good time with, even though they replaced the metal cap section with a shell riding one, so that actually felt a bit more fun to do, since I'm actually good with the shell
VC Dusty Darkness: (6.5/10) Now, this is the first level that started giving me a bit of problems, like there's this one star where I had to jump down to a walljumping section, and I actually had to turn up the brightness on my monitor to see where I was, and even then, I kept on getting caught on the one wall because the collision is weird, and I missed my jump quite a bit because of it, but once I learned to stop touching the wall, it wasn't as bad, and there was one more star that gave me slight problems, but that one at least didn't have bad collision, and the other stars were actually quite decent, so yeah, definitely not a great level at all, but not that bad
WC Lava Pit of Inversion: (7.5/10) Yeah, it's just a chill wing cap course that doesn't feel special at all, it was just like the original, except flipped upside down, I mean, the stars were satisfying to get, however, could've done something more creative with it, but I mean, it still is quite a decent experience
C6 Stalactite Cave: (8/10) This is yet another water stage, and again, I'm not the biggest fan of them, but this one actually was kinda interesting, even though this course got the Drowned Factory treatment. This course seemed quite solid with this one platforming section above water that is slightly tricky, but quite fun to do, and I liked that one part where you had to get a Chuckya from the cage below and clip behind a wall to get that one star, so yeah, nice rendition of course 6 that had completely different stars, and it was not bad to navigate at all
C7 Crumble Rumble Tower: (8/10) I really do like the aesthetic of this course, and I enjoyed the climb to the top with the 5 secrets, it's actually kinda fun doing those ledgegrabs near the top, even when there were those clouds that blew you off the course, and the 100 coins were fun to get, except there was that one sketchy red coin you had to get a walljump off of, but it was still a bit of fun nonetheless, and the King Whomp bossfight is actually not bad, even though it was sand, but you actually had more of a platform to work with, so yeah, overall, solid course with only a couple parts that made me go "meh"
C8 Absolute Zeroasis: (6.5/10) Yeah, this is a course I didn't enjoy as much due to that red coins maze with freezing water, and the camera not being the greatest, along with that one spiral pyramid star that was quite a bit annoying to get, but if you set aside that, the 100 coins and other stars are actually decent, so overall, it's not that bad, but yeah, wasn't really a fan of a couple stars
C9 Nature Nocturne: (8/10) This is actually a solid rendition of Course 9, I liked the music in it, it was a nice vibe from Yoshi's Story, and I liked the red coins in it, there was some enjoyable platforming on top of wood planks, and it's interesting going under the flower field to get this one secret, even though you had to go back to get the star, but I really like the idea of it, and yeah, the star under the bridge I could've gotten by using the switch, but I did it the hard way, which took me dozens of tries, but overall, what a solid remake
B2 Bowser's Tidal Tropics: (6.5/10) So yeah, this is the first level that actually made me rage a bit, but before I get into that, I will say that I love the Koopa Troopa Beach music in this course, it really compliments the theme of it, and 4 of the stars in there were just kind of a nice experience, but that one star where you had to do the firsties at the right angle, even though, thankfully it's not quicksand this time, it's water, it still proved to be quite a bit annoying, but it was satisfying once I pulled it off, and now, the key part was what really started getting to me because at the beginning, I felt like I had to do the one firstie so that I can have just the right height land on the platform without getting grabbed by the Chuckya, and that gets annoying because every time a failed on those angled timed boxes, I have to start front the beginning, but I realized, I did that part the hard way, so my experience with this could've went a lot smoother, if it weren't for that, but still, not the greatest experience due to it deriving from the EE version of this stage, however, the stars before the key section were overall not bad, and again, that key section made me quite a bit angry, but the rest of it was actually not bad, it was just a matter of getting past those couple things I mentioned earlier
C10 Quicksand Beach: (9/10) After the last stage, this one was actually quite chill, the stars were actually quite enjoyable to get, like the red coins were fun to shell jump up to get in the middle of the quicksand, and thank God LinCrash decided to have 100 coins nerfed because in the older versions of SM74, you had to get all the blue coins like near frame perfect, and you had to slowly push all the bullies into that one tiny lava pit, but this version, really made it chill, and at first, I thought the stars you had to get by going into the quicksand tunnel we're gonna be a pain, but actually, the Parallel Lakitu cam worked out in my favor, and I actually enjoyed going down there, so this yet is another nice and solid experience
C11 Polluted Pond: (7/10) So, it's the level with one of the stars I dreaded, the star where you have to do walljump crossovers over a platform with quicksand, but I really surprised myself here, as it only took me a few tries, and I actually never died to the quicksand itself, I just failed at the last crossover a few times, so this might've been just a fluke, but yeah, while the rest of the level wasn't the greatest due to having to climb back up out of the toxic sand below, and it took me so long to find the last red coin for some reason, although, it still has quite a bit of fun platforming here and there, but on that one hideout star where you kinda have tight window for those timed boxes, it was mildly annoying when I hit that arrow leading me to it, however, after that is not that bad, just one sketchy jump, so overall, not really a great course, but the platforming was a bit of fun to do
C12 Cliff of Time: (8/10) Now this is an interesting one because this is like the first time that we see two versions of a course that you get to switch between depending on the star, and I mean, I enjoyed getting these stars, they were quite a bit unique from each other, and yeah, the red coins weren't really as bad as I thought, it was just that one sketchy walljump ledgegrab I had to do to get to the rest of the course, and every time you started the harder version of this course, you had to do a firstie to even start it, which is not that annoying at all, and just meh, but the same went for some of the red coins, however, you did have quite a bit of room for error before the timer ran out, so this course overall has cool concepts, and it felt quite fair
C13 Sea Salt Peaks: (5/10) Now, most of this course felt a bit free, and Koopa the Quick is still slow, this was just a fine level, but oh my God, the Hot Arch Crossing star really brings down the experience because it was so annoying with those firespitters while having to do more precise walljump crossovers three times in a row, and one where you have to do kind of a precise triple jump to get to the last crossover, like that star genuinely made me just rage, and I never wanna touch it again, although the 100 coins were quite a bit scarce
C14 Veninium Sphere: (8.5/10) Now this course was quite fun, and I actually like how LinCrash designed the course to have more gaps in it to make up for the nerfs he did, so it still didn't feel too easy for what it was, and the climb was quite satisfying, but the one small flaw I had was with the first star Tower of the South, and that is when I just got through the hall of angled walljumps, I would sometimes miss the star because I couldn't exactly tell where it is in that hole in the ceiling, but I mean, I feel like that one was just on me, although, the rest of the level was very good, and the red coins didn't feel daunting at all to get, so overall, it was quite an enjoyable experience
C15 Delombru Sphere: (8.5/10) Same as the last course, the climb was quite satisfying to do, but this course felt a bit more convoluted to me because there was that one sideways tower that I didn't know I could reach with a triple jump until I tried it, and there was that one Dungeon Dominance star where I didn't think that precise walljump ledgegrab was intended, yet it was, but it wasn't actually that bad, and thank God that one crazy Tower of the North star was changed into an amp obstacle course because in the old versions, you had to do really precise walljumps consistently without ledgegrabbing, and the 100 coins and 8 reds were actually pretty satisfying to get on only like what, my 4th attempt? I mean, you got those two sketchy red coins at the beginning, but after that, it was nice and smooth sailing because I just crushed it, I genuinely thought I was gonna fumble more on that, but glad I didn't, however, the Morbid Deadly Puzzle star was still pretty tough because it's like closer to EE difficulty than any other star here, and I will not forgive that one Snifit that killed me one time when I was getting far into that star, but it was quite satisfying once I finally got the star at the end, so overall, a well designed course with a challenge that will prove to be pretty difficult, but comes with a satisfying reward at the end
Void of the East: (8/10) Now this was quite a tough and challenging star, and that one angled walljump off the pillar and tower right next to it is kinda what made the challenge even moreso, but good thing you can come up with a good routing method for this star to not feel like as much of a drag, so for me, the metal cap lava bounce secret was the easiest, so I did that last, and yeah, to get off that one rooftop, it sucked when I just couldn't make the jump with the wrong angle, but as I did the right angle, it wasn't as bad, and the rest of the course is actually fun, so once it got consistent, it was quite enjoyable, and I was thoroughly satisfied after getting that star
B3 Bowser's Rainbow Realm: (6/10) Yeah, I didn't enjoy opening the cannon in this stage that much at all, I just hated having to do those angled wall kicks over the first lava section at every attempt I had at opening the cannon, but good thing that you didn't have to do three of those in a row, just one of them, and the amp section was just a bit annoying because I had to be careful with my jumps, while having to deal with the possibility of the firespitter getting me, as for the second lava section that first jump was quite sketchy to make, but right after that, the section was definitely better than the first one. There was also that Heave-ho on the third section that killed me at least a couple times, and it felt like a slap to the face when that happened to me, but when I opened the cannon, I felt quite a bit relieved, and the other stars were actually a bit enjoyable, despite me wanting to get to Grandmaster's Goal that final day, like the secrets had some decent platforming, but it was just a slight flaw that I couldn't properly see that one opening to getting that 5 secrets star, however, I got the right angle at some point, and now the 8 red coins were actually quite decent, it felt like a good break, but there were a couple red coins that seemed slightly sketchy, but we're not bad at all, however, I will say, wasn't really the biggest fan of getting on those steep slopes, as they felt fast, and I had to make sure my angle to get on them was good or else I'd fall down due to no ledgegrabs, but it was alright, and yeah, I accidentally got that one caged Banjo Tooie cartridge star while getting the red coins, but after that, there was one more kind of annoying star I had to get with that risky platforming on the walls of the amp section, and the final fight was just Bowser, but the bombs were oddly closer than the original, don't know why LinCrash made them like that, but whatever, it's fine, so overall, yeah, this stage can get quite frustrating when you are trying to open the cannon, but after that, it's not bad at all, it actually got quite a bit fun, although, the music felt a bit repetitive NGL
Grandmaster's Goal: (8/10) This was a pretty good gauntlet at the end, but oh my God it's quite nerve-wracking I got closer to the end, and when I died a couple times at those cones in the Cliff of Wrath part, it was a bit disappointing, but as I noticed that I was getting more consistent with the other parts, the confidence built within me, and in this current version, they added a heart at the walljump crossover section, and oh man, I really needed it, even though it nerfs the endurance test a bit, I still appreciated it, and yeah, the metal cap section was still a chokepoint because of that one walljump ledgegrab, and at the beginning of me doing this gauntlet, I kept dying at the Stalagmite Cave slide part, even though I shouldn't have because it's easy when I got the angle right, but yeah, overall, this gauntlet was pretty well put together, but yeah, there are a couple parts that are easily chokeable and can be roadblocks to your success. Oh and one thing I forgot, the other two Grandmaster's Goal stars, they were a bit easy to get, like you could just do a skip to save time for the "speedrun" star, and there was that one hidden star that was fairly easy to find, so those two stars were essentially before the real deal, and they were kinda cool to get
In conclusion, my first Kaizo experience definitely had times where I got quite a bit frustrated, but in the end, I'm glad I beat this as my hardest ROM hack, and the experience was definitely worthwhile, so I decided to post this review here to share my experience
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2024.05.29 05:51 DramaticTwist6477 Migraine therapy?

Hey, so Iā€™ve had horrible migraines for years. I also have occipital neuralgia. The pain typically runs from my neck over my head to my eyes. After I have a migraine my neck will hurt for days and sometimes feels like I canā€™t move it. Has anyone ever tried dry needling or anything like that for the neck pain? Did it help? I do emgality shots every month and have ubrelvy for breakthroughs but I feel like I need something for the muscle pain. Iā€™m willing to try just about anything. Thank you for any suggestions or advice!!
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2024.05.29 05:50 JTheodorus Feelings for my gay boss

So, 10 months ago I got a new boss at work. Heā€™s been great to work with. We have a great working relationship and we get along very well. Thereā€™s a lot of trust between us and we both opened up to each other about our personal lives pretty quickly. He shared with me that he was gay just a week after he got hired. After working with him so closely for a while I started developing very deep and strong feelings for him. I couldnā€™t say anything because I didnā€™t know if it was mutual and I could also risk losing my job or at the very least making things awkward between us. 4 months ago he started dating a guy and it seems to be going well. This whole experience has been so hard and emotionally painful. Today, I learned that he decided to leave and take another position elsewhere. If he wasnā€™t dating someone, I would use this as an opportunity to share my feelings and see if he would be interested in possibly dating. But, now that heā€™s dating, is it worth it to still share with him how I feel? Iā€™m crushed that heā€™s leaving and I wonā€™t see him everyday, and struggling if I share how I feel I would risk losing a friendship with him. Any thoughts?
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2024.05.29 05:49 milfhunterwhitevan2 How can I best comfort my boyfriend who accidentally just ran over an animal?

I (20F) just got a phone call from my boyfriend (20M) who was absolutely wrecked because he accidentally ran over an animal from his drive from work. It was dark and he couldnā€™t avoid hitting a family of ducks. I love my boyfriend dearly and also love animals, so to hear him sob profusely broke my heart to pieces. I told him that he isnā€™t a bad person and that it was an unfortunate situation, but I donā€™t feel like I did enough to help him. I know I canā€™t bring those poor ducks back from the dead or take away all his pain, but I really want to comfort him. Have any of you been in this situation before, and how did you heal from it? My boyfriend is such a kind soul, I just want him to feel less guilty in any way I can.
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2024.05.29 05:49 Affectionate-Bag-518 Neuropathy Post Op

I had DJS in March (BSSO, genio, septoplasty and Lefort 1) to cure a serious jaw deformity and I am experiencing a lot of pain in my chin and tongue. Even the lightest touch on my lower lip is super painful, itā€™s like pins and needles and getting a root canal all at once. My gums feel like theyā€™re on fire, half of my tongue doesnā€™t taste and feels like itā€™s being pinched.
While I can breathe better now than pre op, I canā€™t chew well, brushing my teeth feels like torture, I can only taste on half of my tongue, and Iā€™m in pain all of the time. Iā€™ve tried pregabalin, gabapentin, and amitriptyline with no success. Iā€˜be been pretty depressed about all of it. Iā€™m full of regret for this operation.
Does anyone else here have nerve pain like me? Itā€™s incredibly isolating.
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2024.05.29 05:48 Acceptable_Bench_574 Feeling so bad, please help

I made a post a bit ago so that could provide more context but I have such horrible sharp pain in the side/middle of my stomach. It's not like normal pain I've felt before and in so scared thst it's cramping as a sign of fp or sb its somewhat abdominal but also feels partially in my stomach
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2024.05.29 05:48 mehmehfruitcake Recurring Medication Specialist Visits

Need some advise here.
Iā€™m prescribed long term medication for cramps and pains by Ng Teng Fong GH through a gynae specialist. The medication works well and Iā€™m on it for 2 years already, likely need to use it for many more years. The medication is Mercilon, which is only through prescription.
I have checked with polyclinics and none of them carry the same meds.
I have requested for medication top up from NTFGH, but they always require me to have a specialist consultation which is costly, and the dr doesnā€™t spend more than a minute talking since the diagnosis is the same and meds are helping.
Any way I can get the same long term meds without seeing the dr?
TLDR : hospital long term prescription meds but forced to pay specialist consultation
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2024.05.29 05:48 exasperatedbean Genital HSV-1 First Outbreak and Disclosing Experience

Hey yā€™all, 25F here. Iā€™m new to the club as I just received my test results a few hours ago, positive for genital HSV-1, and I just want to share my experience so far as Iā€™m on around day (10?) of my first outbreak.
First of all, Iā€™ve definitely cried a few times this last week along with frantically googling, dealing with these awful symptoms, pretending everything is okay at my day job followed by coming home and experiencing intense anxiety (which can be triggered by medical issues).
I suspected it was HSV, but just didnā€™t want to believe it especially because Iā€™ve come out of a 5 year with an abusive alcoholic ex who cheated on me so Iā€™m new to the dating world and dating is hard enough without having to disclose good ole genital herpes. Havenā€™t I been through enough? Iā€™m not sure if I got it from my ex, new guy Iā€™m seeing (said heā€™s clean that heā€™s aware of and I never saw a physical outbreak on him), or if itā€™s something I got from a previous partner and it laid dormant for so long. Who knows, who cares at this point I guess.
I started by feeling a small bump on my inner butt crack which I chalked up to a razor bump. Within a few days, 3-4 more sores popped up and these were all of my symptoms over the course of about a week after noticing the sores: swollen lymph node and slightly sore throat for first couple of days, chills, sweats, burning pee like razor blades, nerve pain throughout lower half of my body (especially my feet), a dull ache in my genitals/surrounding area, burning/itching sores, random tingling, and the worst constipation Iā€™ve ever experienced which is now the main symptom Iā€™m dealing with as I think Iā€™m seeing the light at the end of the tunnel for this first outbreak. My doctor prescribed Valtrex as a precaution while I waited for test results and my sores are almost healed up.
Anyway, Iā€™ve been seeing this man for close to two months now, officially dating and exclusive the last couple of weeks so this is VERY fresh. Everything is going damn near perfect with us and I know we both have very strong feelings for each other and are interested in a future together, but with all good has to come bad (aka disclosing my HSV-1 status). I absolutely dreaded this conversation but knew it had to be had since I was symptomatic, we recently had sex right before my outbreak, and I was awaiting test results.
Luckily, he was so incredibly understanding. Of course he said it was a lot to take in at first which I understood. I am so grateful that he responded by basically saying itā€™s a bump in the road that weā€™ll get through together, weā€™ll monitor my symptoms, and it would be silly to jeopardize what we have thatā€™s so special over something like this that I couldnā€™t control. So sharing my experience to show that not all disclosing experiences are horrifying, and I hope you all find the person that chooses to love you through this. And if not, then fucking love yourself.
With that, I still am an anxious mess about how to move forward and about the effects long-term so if anyone has any good research on that Iā€™d be more than interested since I know it affects the nervous system. Obviously having a script of anti-virals on hand if I start to suspect an outbreak is a good idea but any and all advice, tips for dealing with the above symptoms, etc. would be appreciated. Peace and love to everyone reading.
TLDR; Genital HSV-1 Positive, having a lot of random and shitty symptoms, disclosed to my partner with a good response, and asking for advice/tips/tricks to manage symptoms.
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2024.05.29 05:48 throwawat2232 Opener and setlist?

Seeing Noah in Pittsburgh tomorrow but not able to head to the venue until after work (around 5pm). Is there opener and does anyone know roughly what time he goes on? I live about an hour away and Starlake is such a pain to get into, Iā€™m worried about getting there on time.
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2024.05.29 05:48 nbtesh Post-Op Recovery

Right After Surgery: Hour 0
I woke up as soon as i arrived at recovery. Was very Drogy, Realized I could Breath without effort and I could Swallow with small effort. Right away the nurse brought 5 pills and a small shot of water to swallow them. I was really surprised and challenged. I followed her directions and were able to take them one by one in single try. That Really gave me confidence and strength to move forward. 0 Pain, not even on my neck muscles. ( did not had pre-Surgery pain)
The swallowing was not that bad. left side ( incision) felt like very bad cold were it hurts to swallow, weirdly right side of the throat did not feel any pain or discomfort.
speaking in in a low volume voice and raspy.
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2024.05.29 05:47 kayla_ravioli NYC Orchestras to join

Hello! I'm just making a general post because I'm looking for orchestras/music groups in NYC to join in the fall.
I'll be a freshman attending an engineering school in midtown east/the lower east side so I'm looking for an orchestra (relatively) in that area. My school doesn't have much music at all and it really pains me to drop playing Oboe and English horn. As a junior & senior in high school I made all-state and was one of the top players in New York, and while I'm not pursuing music, I'd like to keep playing at that level and continue to participate in the arts.
If anyone has any ideas, recommendations, or contacts, I'm open to anything!! Thank you guys so much.
Also, I've already reached out to NYU, Greenwich Village Orchestra, Brooklyn Conservatory Community Orchestra and the NY session symphony.
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2024.05.29 05:47 Heralax_Tekran Finally about to make decent money, but thinking of pivoting completely. What would you do?

I'm a first-time businessman, and I finally got a decent-sized client, but I'm thinking of pivoting from consulting to a targeted product because I have no idea how to niche this practice down and systematize it. Should I pivot?
Some context: I'm four months into doing consulting/contract development, and I've landed my first five-figure client. I'm approaching the point where I'm going to invoice them for the first set of deliverables -- they seem pretty happy with the results so far and I'm confident that this will be a good, lasting arrangement. I've also been able to level up my technical skills, communication ability, and professionalism over the last few months.
But even though I've closed this client (and they aren't even my first paying customer) I'm getting seriously doubtful that I can make this practice a consistent success as it is right now. Why? Well, let me explain by telling you what I do:
The work I do for clients is basically: I train custom LLMs on company information they provide, like a knowledge base or explainers/sales copy. I basically build an AI that is mostly immune to all the mistakes generic AIs make, because they don't understand what they're talking about.
So for instance, my work for an open-source crypto community has seen me train an AI on transformed versions of their help documents and API documentation, so they now have an expert user support bot which can accurately answer questions about their platform. Their lead dev reached out to me with the offer.
The problem: I'm doing something extremely broad, bespoke, and the end customer has to figure out how to use the service to make money themselves.
Even I realize that's *horrible!\*
I've been wrestling with this since the end of April. My clients have been/are a marketing SAAS, a healthcare-related thing, and an open-source crypto community. It's all over the place, and I'm guessing this is because I'm basically selling skills and a broad direction, not an offer. This all came to a head when I was watching a very good business advice video, and the presenter said,
"When the money comes hard, I go easy; when the money comes easy, I go hard."
So I thought, "OK, I haven't been working as hard as I would like to, but I'm still making pretty good money, so that means the money's coming easy with what I'm doing right now. So I should commit to it! I need to take advantage of the AI boom and get rich before university starts again!"
Then I realized,
"How do I actually go hard here?!"
Since I don't have a precise offer, I can't target a precise customer avatar. I can't systematize it to speed up delivery, making that yet another bottleneck. Sales AND delivery is a problem -- right now I need to talk with the customer to figure out what to sell to them. I can't see that working long-term. I know I need a niche... but all my clients are all over the place, and frankly all of their projects were very unique, so I can't see myself making a repeatable service out of any of them.
So I was thinking I need a product. That would allow me to put all my development time in one place to serve many users, and it would simplify leadgen and selling a bit, because I'd be selling the same thing over and over. My initial idea for a product is sort-of similar to the thing I'm doing for the open-source crypto community, but more commercially oriented: I'm thinking of training a sales AI that can educate users about a company's solution, and nudge them to a call to action on a website (e.g., book a call, claim a free subscription). By training it myself I can ensure it's a specialist that reliably follows a sales script, unpretentiously (i.e., without the voice of GPT). Think like one of those intercom help bots, but actually useful, it knows about the products, and it can try to close you.
And with the synthetic data pipeline in place, I'd even be able to, essentially, finetune the model on customers' sales copy to ensure it really understands their product. With no manual work. Every business needs sales, so I could just specialize this into any sub-niche I wanted (sales AI... for XYZ industry!), and actually, finally, have a targeted offer.
Or so I've been thinking. I'm worried that this may be a case of me having the right idea of the problem but the wrong solution. I wracked my brain through May to come up with a solution to niching down my system instead, but I came up with nothing. And while I have this idea for a "custom AI salesman" I have no idea if business owners would actually want to add something like that to their website, or if we're at the point where they'd be like "eww GPT" and turn their nose up.
So, what would you do? Push on consulting or pivot to product? If push, how do I niche this thing? If pivot, is the proposed product a good one or a horribly bad one?
Sincerely appreciate any responses/help.
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2024.05.29 05:46 cloud-monet Is it doable for me to hike the Colorado Trail if I have never camped or thru-hiked before?

For context, I didn't grow up outdoorsy but in the last few years I have gotten heavily into hiking and climbing and it is all I want to do. However, I haven't camped yet. But I have a dream of hiking the CT. With enough preparation, is it doable and safe for me to plan and prepare for this? I would likely do it next year, so I'd have a whole year to plan and study logistics, buy the right gear (and test it out if need be), and read up.
I'm 27, F, and I am middle-ground fit. I hike, climb, lift, and long-distance run regularly. I have a remote job that could allow me to travel to do some weekend overnighter practice runs for camping gear beforehand.
I'd probably ask my job for 4 weeks off--is that doable? Is this whole thing doable or a pipe dream? I feel like this is a dream I really want to accomplish and I can't get it out of my head. No one in my actual life is interested in thru-hiking and camping, so I would not have a lot of in-person support or resources--I'd be heavily reliant on self-studying intensely. I'm sure many people in my life would object to me doing this and think it is extremely reckless and unsafe, even though I know thru-hiking the CT is not inherently unsafe.
But...I still want to know what you guys think. It may be stupid of me to ask reddit, but I genuinely do not have a single person in real life I can ask this question to, and even if I did, no one is knowledgeable on the subject and every person would undoubtedly think I am crazy. If I do this, I'd want to keep my planning and prepping as private as possible until I tell people irl.
Thank you in advance!
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2024.05.29 05:46 Ill_Ad_8060 Injured while under hospital care, can I dispute my bill?

I went in for an allergy testing panel at UCSF. When I arrived, they set me up on a fold up chair in the area where they take your blood pressure to do the testing. I told the nurse I have a history of fainting but I should be ok (did not really know what the testing entailed). She didn't seem too worried so we proceeded with the skin pricking but I began to feel faint halfway through and asked for a glass of water.
She must have left because I woke up on the floor with a sharp pain to my forehead. I had fainted and fell face first out of the chair onto the floor. I also badly injured my knees and it's been almost three weeks and I have still not fully recovered. I just got the bill for $800. My test results didn't even come through so it was all for nothing. I am not the type of person to fight these things, but I am just curious if I have any grounds to not pay this bill... and if so, what does the process look like?
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2024.05.29 05:46 Cheers-lol Canā€™t feel anything

Iā€™ve had a terrible week, found out my lifelong best friendā€™s brother committed suicide and then had to put my dog down 2 days later. He was only 6 and my whole world, heā€™s been the only constant in my life for an otherwise traumatic four years, heā€™s the reason Iā€™m still here today. I sobbed when I found out about my friendā€™s brother for the whole day, calmed down a bit, then all of yesterday when my dog passed and cried a bunch more on and off today, to the point of my head throbbing, abs hurting and me throwing up, but now I canā€™t feel anything. At all. It started a few hours ago when I felt the pain and need to cry when throwing out his bed (I wanted to keep it but it was covered in urine and feces due to his daily incontinence at the end) but the tears wouldnā€™t come out and I just breathed really hard and made faces while clutching it in front of the dumpster. Iā€™m so confused and just want to let out the pain but now but my body canā€™t feel it and my mind isnā€™t processing anything. There were even two guys having a loud conversation outside my window and it all sounded like gibberish to me. I canā€™t even believe Iā€™m typing all of this out without bursting into tears. Iā€™m really confused, Iā€™ve never grieved or felt an amount of pain like this in my life until now and I donā€™t understand why all of my feelings are just gone and I almost feel guilty
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2024.05.29 05:46 ginandchaos First month!

I just took my week five shot and it seems to be a good time to give an update. Iā€™m using Emerge
Week 1: starting at 2.5mg. 10lb loss and sudden relief of chronic pain and brain fog from auto immune disorder. Strong hunger suppression days 2-5.
Week2: 5lb loss. Still experienced almost magical relief of symptoms and total hunger suppression.
Week 3: 5lb gain. This week was my period. I was extremely bloated and felt like I retained more water than normal. Hunger suppression wasnā€™t a great.
Week 4: 3lb loss for a total of 13lbs the first month. Felt little hunger suppression or relief of brain fog and other autoimmune symptoms. Found myself very antsy to go up to 5mg
Week 5: I just had my first 5.0mg shot yesterday. I planned to work from home today because I usually feel pretty blah the day after my injection. Today was not an exception. I was very tired. Had an upset stomach, heartburn and diarrhea before bed. I ate very little today and am not at all hungry.
SW: 267 CW: 254 GW: 167
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2024.05.29 05:45 Ok-Bell1889 Help please! CTA of neck and head with unsettling results

Female 30 5ā€™4 143 lbs Hello, Iā€™ve been experiencing neck pain for the better part of 10 years. Dr chalked it up to thyroid cysts which I didnā€™t know better until I got older. I got an MRA and CTA and the MRA didnā€™t say anything abnormal. The CTA showed the results ā€œ the p1 segment of the right posterior of the cerebral artery is mildy hypoplastic with a prominent right posterior communicating artery compatible with fetal anatomical variantā€ th ER doctor never mentioned this but when I looked back at my results it showed this and of course Google is nothing shy of ā€œyou will have a strokeā€. Please any help or advice on next steps would be amazing as again, the ER doctor did not mention it.
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2024.05.29 05:45 FvckingSinner Sekiro: shadows die twice tattoo, done by Caos at Enjoy Tattoo - PR, Brazil

Sekiro: shadows die twice tattoo, done by Caos at Enjoy Tattoo - PR, Brazil
Hello! I did this tattoo roughly two years ago after having an amazing experience with the game Sekiro. The first picture is when it was fresh, and the second is today.
When I did it, I thought I could handle the pain... But no, lol. My pain tolerance is quite low, but the artist was VERY experienced and he managed to make it very manageable. He was also the one who suggested making it in a paintbrush style instead of just a "plain stamp" style. I, too, thought about regret at the time, but I never really felt bad about it and nowadays I love it!
I'm looking to do something else in my forearm, too. Maybe a flower sleeve, or something similar.
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2024.05.29 05:45 Subtle-Limitations For those that filed TDIU by yourself. What was your process?

Did you file online using quick submit or as an increase or as a secondary?
Did you mail the forms in?
I was gathering information and getting familiar with requirements to be eligible for TDIU.
Currently have the VA rating percentage requirements to be eligible.
In the past, have a completed CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy ) program related to chronic pain from intense migraines.
Have access to Social Security work history through the SSA website
I remember my last 5 years of work, with address and Human Respurce Number. Was able to work so long there because it was a VA job in a protected environment.
I could always see a VSO, however there are many stories about a VSO not submitting the correct forms and wasting a veteranā€™s time waiting for a claim that will just be denied.
Called an attorney and they suggested I submit the claim myself and see if approved. If denied I could call them back since they specialize in appeals and supplemental claims
So for those that filedTDIU yourself. What was your story? Thank you for your time
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