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r/fantasyfootball. There is no offseason.

2008.08.27 23:14 r/fantasyfootball. There is no offseason.

The biggest and best place on the internet for fantasy football discussion, strategy, and advice. Home of AMAugust where the biggest names in the industry answer your questions.
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2016.09.12 04:43 Entitled People

https://www.reddit.com/ModCoord/comments/1476fkn/reddit_blackout_2023_save_3rd_party_apps/ Stories from your lives about people who think the rules don't apply to them and they should get what they want. Sister subreddit of /entitledparents
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2016.11.01 10:33 tilnewstuff Salty satire and morons unite.

A subreddit about people who miss the joke/satire.
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2024.05.29 05:32 ObjectiveIll463 I’m selling a large collection of great vintage clothing and collectibles,valuable one-off pieces etc.. I work out of Las Vegas and Nashville and don’t have the time to do anything with it so I’ve just added to the collection over the years but it’s time to go.

I have one the best collections of vintage clothing and vintage collectibles, cool/rare pieces that are valuable,man cave type stuff etc... I work out of Las Vegas and haven’t had time to do anything with this collection I a it’s all inside a 10x20 indoor climate controlled unit and there is really no filler,it's all really good stuff. It’s "Vintage Everything" it started with clothing and hats,collectibles,and now there's Vtg movie posters,watches,car parts,toys,sports cards and memorabilia,autographs,pocket knifes,radios,1st edition 1960’s sci fi paperback book collection and a whole lot more. Tons of single stitch tees sports teams,cool graphics,movies, there's nos and nwot old stock included,overall everything is in very nice vintage condition,western pearl snaps,rockabilly,plaid shirts by Pendleton,Levi's,Sears,rare Ralph Lauren Polo pieces,AOP tees,concert/tour stuff,all the best brands Starter,TheGame,Nike,Logoathletic, adidas,Hilfiger, Reebok, Polo. All the good tags screen stars,Hanes beefy, Giant,old Fruit of the loom sportswear etc.. I can send photos to anyone that has the money to purchase I haven't settled on a price because it's a very big and hard to price the collection definitely in the 5 figures just trying to see how high up which I'd be willing to work with any reasonable buyer. Im in my late 30's gonna turn 40 soon and been collecting for 2 decades,just yrs and yrs of sourcing and saving,collecting,it’s literally a turn key business I just don’t have time for it I’m in Las Vegas,and Nashville 99% of the time. The inventory is in north central Alabama I’ve never showed it to anyone but if you’re serious and looking for a way to get a real business started this is a great opportunity I can send plenty of photos to give you an idea of what I’m talking about. Thanks,and sorry for such a lengthy post
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2024.05.29 05:31 Janhitmjaari I don’t know whether i was used by a guy?

I am a 21F in college. I recently moved to a new country a little less than a year ago. Fairly new and homesick. I made a small group of 4 friends who are all helpful and good at heart, but all of them have issues which is taking toll on me. I typically don’t rely on people and maintain distance, i always try to be there for them and vice versa. Recently i have seen 2 of them just bail or never respond back. If invited they would reschedule plans or don’t even show up, if talked about problem they would be sympathetic to me or interrupt, yet i know they have best interests for me in their hearts. Yet if i want to communicate if i am hurt by them they have the excuse of suffering PTSD or they are a neurodivergent. I was close to the 3rd friend lets name him ‘A’ , thou he had his own issues but he still supported me and helped me a lot at times. We both realised we had feelings for each other, we dated for a week but he realised it won’t work, because he has his own insecurities and doesn’t want to hurt me. He feels he is unsure about his feelings towards me that’s why ending things now before it gets too late. I respect his decision and taken a step back. My other two friends think he is manipulative and he used me. I don’t know who to believe. I have started taking more distance from three of them, but i am not sure about whether A is really a bad guy, because i get his opinions but i also don’t want to disregard the other two.
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2024.05.29 05:30 One_Spare_7118 A Chrome extension that compares Amazon.com vs Amazon.ca to see where you get the best deal.

Like everyone else, I spend thousands on amazon each year.
Living on the border of Canada and the US (in Canada), I was constantly checking both amazon.ca and amazon.com to see if a product I was buying had a significantly cheaper price in the states. We usually go visit family or have people come visit, so if the savings were decent and I didn't need the product immediately, I would order the product to a family south of the border and get it whenever.
The wait for for the item wasn't the annoying part - the comparison was. So, being a software eng, I create a Chrome extension that inserts a "compare button" on an amazon product page that compares the price on .com to .ca and vise versa using the current exchange rate.
It's also gratifying when the best deal is amazon.ca so I know I'm getting the best price.
I built it a while ago, it still works for me (I've saved over $2,000 so it's been worth it!), but I'll say it's beta since I'm sure people will find bugs.
Let me know what you think!
(I know Checkr is a different company, I need to change the name)
https://chromewebstore.google.com/detail/checkr-compare-us-and-ca/fjhjkfelmcadcbmhpebmmahcnnaafidf?hl=en&authuser=0
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2024.05.29 05:29 watchgyanhindi Support needed

Support needed
Support Needed for Fellow Watch YouTuber Rythm Bhai from "Desi Watch Hub"
Hello everyone, Our fellow watch YouTuber, Rythm Bhai, who runs the channel "Desi Watch Hub," recently faced a major setback. His original YouTube channel, which had almost 2,000 subscribers, was hacked. Despite his best efforts to recover the channel and extensive communication with the YouTube support team, it was determined that his account could not be restored.
However, Rythm Bhai hasn't let this setback deter him. He has created a new YouTube channel under the same name, "Desi Watch Hub." Here is the link to his new channel: https://youtu.be/lfuaazmN3Ao?si=drk975hcwpekjVl0
I urge everyone to show their support for Rythm Bhai during this challenging time. As a community of watch enthusiasts, it's important for us to come together and support each other, especially in times of difficulty. Let’s help him rebuild and grow his channel again by subscribing, watching, liking, and sharing his content. Also, please remember to unsubscribe from the old "Desi Watch Hub" channel that was hacked, as mentioned in Rythm's video.
To Rythm Bhai and all fellow watch enthusiasts, remember that we are a community, and we will always stand by each other in tough times.
Thank you for your support and special thanks to @TickTockTreasures for going all in to help out chotu here.
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2024.05.29 05:26 EVPN Roaring Kitty Playlist

Also posted in other gme sub.
If you're like me.. hype as fuck since the tweet storm.. I've watched the reverse compilation of Roaring Kitty's tweets many times. Here's the soundtrack from his masterpiece of a movie. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0rtHTBt6XyVcwnoG4a2D5l?si=af0eba7a319240d6
The songs are in reverse order as they appear in his tweets. Most recent first.
A lot of the song names and lyrics probably have some hidden meaning. Many stand out but these stand out the most to me.
Matter of Time, whatsyourask, SHERlocked, tick of the clock on there twice.
SHERlocked is most interesting to me. Shares... Locked...
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2024.05.29 05:26 IssueofApollo HOW TO CHANGE YOUR NETFLIX AVATAR / ICON / PROFILE PICTURE TO CASTLEVANIA ICONS (DRACULA, TREVOR, ALUCARD) [GUIDE]

These are Castlevania Netflix icons made available as part of the limited \"Netflix and Chills\" collection (October, 2018).
Before I include the steps, I would like to give a few thanks. Some of you may know that I started this mission to find a way to get these icons a few days ago a while back. It took a bunch of work, posting on Facebook groups, Reddit, Twitter, desperately asking for people to help, haha. Well here we are. Thank you u/Sartana for getting the ball rolling by giving me the unique ID of Dracula. Thank you u/sublimeme for providing us with Trevor's. Thank you @insightsoda (Twitter) for helping us get Alucard's. And thank you u/N313intruder for helping me ask around once you were made aware of my mission, haha, and successfully helping me get the icons I would have missed.
Well, that's it. Here's what you need to do to be able to change your Netflix avatar to these icons (taken and altered from u/TaylorSwiftAddicted's guide):
* Be sure to turn off VPN before attempting as some people are having trouble with them on *
  1. You will need to be on Microsoft Edge or Chrome to do it.
  2. You will need to temporarily install this extension to help you change it. Should you worry about whether or not it is safe to install, it has over 2 million users, and is made by Facebook. You can remove this extension after you have changed the icon, should you wish.
  3. Go to https://www.netflix.com/ManageProfiles, and navigate to the page where you can change your profile icon.
  4. Open the React Developer Tools by right clicking anywhere on the page and choosing 'inspect'.
  5. At the top of the developer tools, you will find a tab named 'Components'.
  6. On the left inside this Components tab, you will see a bunch of rows of things. Click on the first row that says 'LolopiIcon'.
  7. Now on the right side, you will see a bunch of information about the icon. Next to 'icon' there is an arrow, click it to expand the information inside icon.
  8. Inside 'icon' is an 'id'. This is the one we will need to change. Double-click on the value to the right of 'id' so you can edit it.
  9. Replace it with the unique ID of your desired icon. In our case, the IDs are as follows: Dracula: "AVATAR0c531682-c1ea-11e8-a863-1204ac6e63e2enMX81029379" Trevor: "AVATAR0c52c863-c1ea-11e8-a863-1204ac6e63e2enMX81029379" Alucard: "AVATAR0c5364a0-c1ea-11e8-a863-1204ac6e63e2enMX81029379"
  10. Back in your browser on the edit profiles page, click the very first icon on the screen (this would normally be the first icon in your history of past icons used). This icon is the one we just set a new ID on. Don't worry, it didn't overwrite this icon and you can still change back to this icon in the future, should you wish.
  11. After you click, you will be shown a prompt about whether or not you want to change. This will not yet show your desired icon under 'new'. Click let's do it.
  12. You will now be shown another prompt about whether or not you want to save your profile settings. Again, it will not show your desired icon yet. Click 'save'.
  13. You should now have your desired icon! And yes, this change would be reflected on all devices.
Have fun!
ALSO, if it's not working, try following these steps, but it really should work.
If you're interested, here are links to reddit posts relating to our little mission hehe:
https://www.reddit.com/castlevania/comments/r9efwx/i_finally_have_draculas_icon_on_netflix_still/
https://www.reddit.com/castlevania/comments/r1mfst/does_anyone_still_have_alucard_as_their_netflix/
https://www.reddit.com/castlevania/comments/rammz5/how_to_use_alucard_dracula_netflix_icon_2021/
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2024.05.29 05:25 ZanaZamora KLR story time! This is lengthy war story so TLDR months ago I posted having found something in oil screen, soon after engine blew , I replaced the motor and have just now opened the old one and have confirmed that it was a piston circlip from previous owners big bore kit

KLR story time! This is lengthy war story so TLDR months ago I posted having found something in oil screen, soon after engine blew , I replaced the motor and have just now opened the old one and have confirmed that it was a piston circlip from previous owners big bore kit
As title says, This isnt a cautionary tale so much as a war story for the sake of it and to add to the wealth of knowledge on these bikes a story of… a curious thing that happened. XD That’s to say this isn’t a thing many will ever encounter, nor something one should ever worry about, but something that might make you say “hmm… neat” 😂
That being said this is a story of how I killed the unkillable, or I guess at least gave a KLR a heart transplant after complete cardiac arrest. The interesting journey of what happened, but I do not truly know how. So maybe some more seasoned KLR surgeons can offer additional insight into the how. I had considered breaking this up into the story and just the mechanical aspects for those not interested in the story, but the motivation here is the story and so that’s the read, enjoy 😀
About 8 months ago I bought a ‘09 KLR as my first bike. I’m an over the road truck driver and have always dreamed of putting a motorcycle on my rig, and decided at a fork in my life that it was time. It had 28k miles on it, amazing shape, very few mods, all ones that I considered valuable as I would have done them myself. Crash bars, metal skid plate, panniers with very nice Givi cases, Sargent seat, etc. The curious bit was a big bore up to 683. I did not ask what mileage it had been bored at or if it was done for maintenance reasons or just performance. In retrospect I would have asked these questions but that’s out of curiosity not because I believe to any degree the seller was misleading me. I do not believe they had any idea the events that followed would conspire and I accept them as just bad luck. What did follow is in the first 3 weeks I put nearly 900 miles on it and had only encountered a single issue which was the clutch slipping too easily under heavy acceleration. As one does with a KLR I had already ordered and done a slew of other personalization so I added new clutch plates and heavier springs to the list. Job went smoothly, the old clutch plates were worn but not to any degree that alone would warrant the slipping so the weak springs were the culprit as my research had strongly suggested. But new “performance” clutch plates sounded fun so I installed them as well 😀
This is where things get interesting. As some may know, on the right side of the engine there is an oil screen, a fine metal mesh that acts as a filter to catch larger particles. Definitely something to clean if you’re ever in there, as it’ll tend to have any gasket material and other manufacturing run off in it that over time could choke oil flow. In mine I found the expected gasket gunk, suggesting it had not been cleaned since birth but frighteningly I also found 2 mysterious metal pieces that appeared to be the greater part of a metal ring. Reference the 1st photo. They had been chewed up slightly suggesting they made their way through the engine less than smoothly but not catastrophically obviously as the motor ran fine with no signs of any problems. I spent the better part of the day digging through any and every resource I could find for an answer on what this ring could be and the further I dug the more and more confident I grew in my initial suspicions that it was a piston circlip… but this just didn’t make sense, how did it get there? How was it not more destroyed? How was the engine still running with zero indication of damage? The sun was setting and I had to be on the road in the morning so after weighing all the possibilities I decided to button it back up, hope for the best, and tell myself if it was fine before it’s fine now. As the alternative was tearing apart the engine which meant going back out on the road with no bike, and no idea where to even start weeks later when I returned. Of the many theories the one I convinced myself of was that this was indeed a piston circlip but not one from the current piston but from the original one. That the mechanic that had done the big bore had either snapped it when removing the original piston and it fell down in the engine to never be fished out, or maybe it had been the reason for the bore. 2 days later I get it out for the first time since the quick 5 mile test ride after putting it back together and my theory is proven wrong, violently. About 80 miles later I was enjoying the bite of the new clutch, accelerating hard through 50mph and bam instantly the rear wheel locks up. At this point I had just under 1000 miles under my belt on two wheels, no MSF completely self taught…. Holy shiet that was a bad thing nearly gone horrible. I don’t know how I had the muscle memory at that point to instinctively grab the clutch but I did fractions of a second before I went down, hard. As I coasted to a stop on what little shoulder there was my thoughts were “holyshitholyshitholyshitholyshit….Ohhhhhhhhh it was a piston circlip” before I even stopped 😂😂😂 Sure enough I look back to a trail of oil behind me, dismount and out of the front of the block I see a very displeased connnecting rod peeking out. Well, there’s your problem. I took a gamble and initially I was feeling like I had lost, but after not getting taken out with the engine, I was pretty okay with the situation. I rolled the bike into a church parking lot a couple blocks down the road and helplessly called for ride after ride on Uber to no avail. I was states away from anyone I knew and too far from any civilization to find luck with any ride share or cab service. As it started to get dark the 6 mile hike back to my truck in Mx Boots was not a great outlook but I was out of options. Just as I had buttoned up what I could on the bike getting ready to start walking I noticed an older couple sit down on their porch enjoying what was, to anyone else, admittedly a very pleasant evening. I’m shy as hell and absolutely terrified of being imposing, especially when it’s a true need… but these boots were brand new, zero flex, damn near knee high… just from standing there I was on the fence of what would be worse, boots or socks. So I mustered up the will power to make my way to their front yard and explain that my motorcycle had broken down and that I had no way to get back to my truck to come back and get it, if they’d be willing to give me a ride I’d happily pay for the trouble. They happily obliged and were the nicest folks you could have met, asked me about my travels and wished me luck in getting it back together, wouldn’t even accept my money. They drop me off, I get my rig back over there and load up the bike. They waved me off from their porch and that was that. I know that bit doesn’t pertain to the mechanical endeavor but I wanted to share it as well as an appreciation of just how much generosity can change the outlook in things. I had bought this bike at a critical moment in my life, during a separation, unsure what direction I was going, and it by all means was my coping mechanism. Sitting there stranded, the adrenaline started to wear off and the dread and hopelessness started to develop… the 6 mile walk back, nothing by my thoughts torturing myself for the dumb decisions I made would have left me feeling defeated and lost. But instead I got to share a tiny bit of my story, that it was still chaos but I was… proud of myself for chasing after my dreams not letting it consume me. And it was because of that moment of pride that I had the fuel to tuck tail and accept my circumstance, that I had indeed known this was a possibility and that it was not the end of my journey, just a different path. I believe without that I would have easily accepted the loss and dropped the bike off at home to gather dust and that would have been the end of my motorcycling experience. But I was determined. So I spent every minute of free time I had researching what I needed to rebuild it, what it’d cost, how hard it’d be, and if it was even something I could do over the road. As I added things up it was indeed doable but it’d leave the bike out of commission at best for well over a month… and I had a fire under me to get back on it… so I started digging through marketplace, eBay, Craigslist, etc searching for doner bikes or full engines. Scrounging up every penny I had, I booked a load and made my way all the way to Kansas City where I had found a salvager with a 2009 with just 1300 miles on it that was willing to take $1300 for the whole engine if I’d help him pull it. My determination was unwavering. I showed up at his house as early as I could after my delivery, about noon. My semi truck left on the street where it clearly did not belong 😂 It was a two lane and the right lane was conveniently closed, so I moved some cones and it worked out perfectly but was still a funny sight. He gathered bikes from auctions and had them scattered around his yard, and so while he gathered some stuff he pointed me to two other KLRs to see if there was anything I wanted from them. Ended up pulling a full yoshimura exhaust from one that he tossed in for cheap. Before I had gotten there he had already stripped the most of the bike with the doner engine down so it took us a little under an hour to pull it. Yet another really positive experience that I’ll never forget, really nice older guy who genuinely enjoyed wrenching on the bike with me, not just trying to get it done and get paid. Offered me any small bits like the rubber tank picks that would easily get lost for no charge. And even gave me an old Milwaukee battery charger he had laying around as I had lost my charger at some point and my last battery died while we were working on it. We had it out by 2pm and I heaved the enormous hunk of steel into my chest high passenger floor board of my semi truck to be on my way. And by on my way I mean 7 miles away to a Walmart parking lot where I then unloaded my bike and started the transplant. I gathered my tools while waiting for a Milwaukee battery to charge, caught my breath, and started the operation around 3pm. I was definitely a bit of a spectacle. Not everyday you see someone doing an engine swap in a Walmart parking lot. The semi truck parked alongside definitely added a layer that invoked enough curiosity for people to inquire about what they were looking at as they passed by. I enjoyed the conversation and that sense of pride grew ever stronger as I worked through it. Early on in the process another rider had briefly stopped by and asked if I needed help, I declined understanding he was inquiring if it was an emergency not if I needed a wrenching buddy haha. Over the course of the next 4 hours he passed by another 2 times, giving a nod of approval at my progress. I was fired up. So excited to get it all done, feeling like I’d be too tired to do anything else but driven just to know it was ready to ride whenever I was. All and all it took about 5 hours to get done, a few stuck bolts there, a few how the hell does this come out there, and a good bit of how does one finagle this thing back in here by themselves(ps lay it on its side right side and just set the engine down into the frame, stand up and then align it) and it was done. I had done some mechanical work on cars and what not in the past but honestly changing the clutch on the previous motor was the most invasive thing I had done prior to this. But my confidence was in the clouds, and rightfully so, because while it took some convincing with the starter this stagnant motor awoke with not a cough or a sputter, but with an immediate healthy growl! My excitement was immeasurable and my little KLR, now much more aggressively singing through the Yoshimura exhaust, seemed just as excited as me. The sun had set, I was exhausted and against my recommendation they had already booked me a load picking up early the next morning. But I couldn’t not sing through the streets with joy, so a quick ride I told myself…. I was gone for hours, returning well past midnight. Ripping around Kansas City, sobbing with joy, with what felt like the loudest exhaust I’d ever heard 😂😂😂 A true menace, she was alive and god damnit I was too.
Exhaustion catching up with me I loaded my precious back on to the truck and realized I still had an entire engine to deal with. So I opened one of my side bins, at chest height just as the floor board was earlier in the day loading the new engine. If I didn’t look like a maniac riding around I certainly did trying to get that motor up and into the truck 😂 I was too happy to be upset or anything but it was just about all I could muster to get it up to that height after the day I had had. 2am and I’m screaming, crying, and laughing simultaneously as I blew out every single part of my body trying to get this absolute brick of an engine into the side bin. While I know at that point I was significantly more worn out I still find it very funny that my sheer will power made that new engine effortless to lift into the truck, but the old one was an inch shy of being impossible 😂 Over 7000 miles later and that new motor is still singing happily ❤️
So… the old motor… it rode around in my side bin for 7 months till last week I was at home and finally had the free time to unload it and crack it open. Motivated by the interest of pulling the new clutch plates and springs I had put in it that’d only have about 80 miles on them, and the curiosity of figuring out if the seemingly obvious cause for its demise was indeed due to the piston circlip… breaking? This is where any KLR surgeons may be able to chime in, if they made it this far xD Because I pulled the motor down to just about as many pieces as one could so I could take the bits that may be useful to have on the road with me and have the less likely to fail ones ready to go if I needed them at home, and all of the evidence seems to suggest that one of the circlips did indeed get ingested. The piston is definitely missing one of the circlips, and… the entire part that would house it lol. The broken pieces found in the oil screen visually match the remaining circlip, and I never found any parts of the circlip if those pieces in the oil screen were not it. So… I have full confidence the circlip did indeed end up in the oil screen. The fact that I found it was complete coincidence and had I not changed the clutch out it likely would have failed just as it did, meaning that circlip could have been there for… lord knows how long… which raises the questions, how did that happen? How long could it have feasibly been there? And was this just a ticking time bomb bound to happen without warning at any time or did maybe the stress of a more aggressive clutch bite upset it? And also just… how does this happen in the first place? Improper install or weak components? I know the kit they used is from Schnitz Racing and I was told 683 but I’ve never seen a 683 kit, only 685 so I would assume maybe that, regardless not cheap parts so, just a curiosity.
Final notes, the new engine with 27k less miles absolutely feels more powerful than the bored out one did, that’s seat of the pants and inexperienced rider mixed with intense emotions but I still to this day think it’s more peppy. Have not installed the new clutch on the new motor yet but I’m curious as hell as I don’t think I had enough experience to really appreciate the difference for the 80 miles I got to use it lol.
Oh and as a trinket to remember this entire experience and to show my KLR is on its second heart I polished up the blown piston and hung it on the tail ❤️
Thank you for coming to my TED talk, stay safe out there!
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2024.05.29 05:25 Cfran1500 I need help :(((

I was involved in a road traffic crash. 11/05/202. I have no insurance only CTP. The guy admitted to me he ran his light, then admitted to the father of my children who was first on scene after the crash and also admitted to him he ran his red light, resulting in him hitting the whole right rear of my bumper as I was indicating right to turn at the + intersection. Since the crash, I made a post a post on Facebook hoping any cars of traffic had seen it, turns out a witness did. She was the middle lane car, travelling straight and I was the only car in the 4th lane turning right and confirmed my green indicative arrow. 12th May She made a police report, the father of my children did too, and was followed up by the investigating officer and confirmed my green light but was still holding me as the at fault driver 13th of May. 14th of May I went into the shop myself and seen it’s public CCTV footage I have witnessed it myself. And was curious as to why the police were still against me with 2 reports. Police stated they were going off the reflective light on the ground
15th May I went into the station personally to talk to the investigating officer and was sent a link to my phone and was told to open it to receive RTI forms (Right Of Information) as police on scene said they know who called, and the name was mentioned 3+ times I said impossible that name called 000 I reach for my phone for proof of phone log contact because that’s the name of my friend, she died at this intersection.. I was told that same day no was gonna be issued a ticket. 18th of May I received a $619 fine processing through a red arrow from the 11/04/2024.
21st May find my original photos for evidence on my phone had been tampered with. The screenshot conversation was squared off instead of round (Messenger Facebook)
29th May I’m at a lost everything has been reported to police, I just can’t believe I am experiencing this can someone please help or guide me in this situation as I truly do not know what to do. I barely make it by now, single mum of 2, the car is financed no insurance only CTP I had picked my friend up from my finishing shift at work and took her home when she finished so my work won’t cover me either :(((((( please helpppppp meeeeeee
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2024.05.29 05:23 Scheme_Annihilation Can you forgive your transphobic and homophobic mother, your abusive brother/siblings?

I love my mother but her words and actions hurts so much, when she's asking for my love i just can't give it to her, i can't hug her or kiss her cheek....
Dead naming is their right apparently among other transphobic behavior, they won't accept me as a woman EVER, even if i were to follow the conversion therapy that is the only therapy in iran and the way to be accepted as the other gender legally (and being forced to have srs at the hands of people who don't care what they do to transgender patients,fyi i love to do it but at the hands of professionals and not suffering for other people's pleasure while going through it) , they'll turn back on their words that they'll accept me and keep hurting me......
But my mom loves her supposed son 🤦‍♀️ and is trying her best to be there for him.... When she asked where's this hatred of yours is coming from (in her book calling out their transphobic and other abusive behavior is hatred), I said look at yourself you might understand... She laughed
Moments later she was yelling that come and say everything you need to say (not that she'll listen or attempt to understand or even try to learn more).... A few moments later she baked something as a form of attempting to calm her "son".....
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2024.05.29 05:22 EVPN Roaring Kitty Playlist May 2024

If you're like me.. hype as fuck since the tweet storm.. I've watched the reverse compilation of Roaring Kitty's tweets many times. Here's the soundtrack from his masterpiece of a movie. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0rtHTBt6XyVcwnoG4a2D5l?si=af0eba7a319240d6
The songs are in reverse order as they appear in his tweets. Most recent first.
A lot of the song names and lyrics probably have some hidden meaning. Many stand out but these stand out the most to me.
Matter of Time, whatsyourask, SHERlocked, tick of the clock on there twice.
SHERlocked is most interesting to me. Shares... Locked...
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2024.05.29 05:21 Revolutionary_Use312 i’ve been title jumped what do i do

hi everyone! Im a college student who bought my first car the other day off of facebook marketplace. The lady selling it to me told me the car was her husbands and she was selling it for him but he wasn’t there. She handed me the pink slip title and it was signed ready to be signed by me. The date of the signature was about 8 days before buying the car I assumed that i’d be okay since the signatures were all where they needed to be. I checked the Vin number on the title and it all looked good. I bought the car and she gave me her number incase i had any problems switching the title. Today I went to AAA to switch the title to my name and there was a problem with the number of miles I reported it didn’t match with dmv records, the lady went to check the car and told me we had to fill out a statement of fact check. She said I need the sellers signature and a smog check done and that the title will be suspended for 6-8 months because they have to send it to Sacramento. I don’t know what to do or how i can even get the signature the lady took down her facebook profile and doesn’t answer her calls. I also made the mistake of telling the workers it was a gift when it wasn’t. The dmv records said the car is salvage but the title I was given showed it was clean. What do you guys recommend I do?
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2024.05.29 05:21 MoneyMo28 Need advice- my stalker has bi polar.

This is weird but i need advice from the bi polar community. I have a cyber stalking order against someone who has really bad bi polar, delusions, and psychosis.
Quick backstory: she briefly dated my husband before he ever met me. Got pregnant; had an abortion. He met me and we moved away.. years later, i started realizing she would go through episodes where she wouldn’t stop calling, Harrass us, threaten us, make up things that never happened. Fast forward 3 years ago i got granted a restraining order for cyber stalking. Things went quiet.. now last week she popped up again. We got into touch with her mother and aunt who’s a police officer, found out about all her mental illnesses . Now it’s all making sense. Tho i do feel sorry for her , i am afraid for my safety. Her mother assures us she won’t hurt us, but she found out where my husband works last month .. walked into his work and punched him square in the face then ran away. Charges pending. But I’m afraid she doesn’t need jail time! She needs mental help. Her family isn’t taking it seriously. She posts on Facebook about 500 times a day . Claiming she knows celebrities. Says Rihanna stole from her, Kim k sleeps at her house. Claims she’s a god and she was pinned down and microchipped. She’s also Been writing cruel statuses about me and my children. Saying she’s going to continue to stalk us. Then she’ll say she wants to kill herself .. then after that she’ll Claim she has some sort of relationship with a celebrity again. She has multiple charges of domestic violence , injunctions , battery, you name it. I want to know how i can navigate this- i really wish her family would take this more seriously. As much as she’s hurt me i don’t think she belongs in jail.. but she really needs professional help before she really harms herself or others
I don’t know much about this illness but I’m afraid and wondering how long it lasts 🥹. I truly feel sad for herself and her family .
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2024.05.29 05:21 Dawndolly Need any serious advice. Happened earlier tonight.

Have posted here before, in my 20s, and live with an alcoholic and abusive mother. It is just her and I living here. She has been abusive my entire life. There are no other family members around because she chose to continue drinking while pregnant with me as a baby. My dad’s entire family disconnected with her after my dad found out. This is why the abuse has always been more extreme than what I’ve heard any other friends go through, because it’s always been just me and her. CPS and police were involved many times because of the abuse, but I always stayed living here.
The past few years I’ve been dealing with health issues that kept me out of work, but have gotten it more under control, and have been applying to jobs, taking good care of myself, and created a solid daily schedule these past weeks. I’m doing much better than past years. But I still have no job, my mom knows. The health issues I’ve experienced, are directly caused by the stress that I’ve been experiencing in this house. It’s nearly daily threats, but this was definitely different..
She is someone that threatens pretty serious things, and I would give this the benefit of the doubt of being fake, but, she sounded so real despite being drunk. So real sounding that I recorded her entire threat. It was detailed, and sounded rehearsed. She began with “I am going to fuck up your life completely, you slut scum whore” “you have no idea what’s coming” I have this on recording on my phone. To me, it sounded like she was very excited about the prospect of leaving me with nowhere to live. In the very slim chance, this was a drunken fake threat, if I still was able to live here, I will absolutely still look to move out by the end of the year.
The threat, is that she said she is going to end the lease on the house we rent, before I can prepare for it so that “your life will be completely fucked” it sounds very purposeful and like this is something she looks forward to. She said she will end it at the beginning of July so I would have a month. That is not enough time to save up, and build credit to rent a house or apartment. I have $0. Honestly.
If I do end up in the worst case scenario, what are the best resources to look for in my area? I have no family and no friends in the area. There’s nobody I know that I can stay a few weeks on a couch while finding work. This is why my mom said my life would be “completely fucked”. She knows how hard it’s been to find work while living here, I’m not sure how I’ll achieve this while having no phone, or belongings. The phone is under her name, and because I have no car, I will have nowhere to put things like my bed and tv or even clothes that I’ve bought, they’ll have to be thrown out.
The only reason I didn’t post this sooner tonight was because I had a solid panic attack for the past few hours, going through levels of grief because of this possible future. Please send all prayers, love and advice you can..
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2024.05.29 05:20 richfiles [TOMT][MOVIE][70s-80s][Religious] Old Christian film about a group of teens (I think) who die in a car accident, and face judgement... Heaven & Hell, maybe Purgatory? This feels very similar to, but definitely NOT "Without Reservation" (1989). I think the film I am thinking of is several years older

I'm looking for an old Christian film that I remember seeing as a kid. While I was looking for this movie, I came across an already solved post for a very similar film called "Without Reservation" (1989). I'm 99% sure I actually saw that movie when I was a kid. My grandmother had cable, and I recall seeing some movies like this on one of the Christian channels. Always stuck with me.
I think I might have actually been remembering two very similar movies, and my memories were merging them into one... That or my memories are just not all that great anymore. I remember a lot of the details of "Without Reservation", but there are details that simply do not match it at all. I definitely feel like I saw another film with an incredibly similar concept... Teens or young adults in a car crash, in the judgement line, but in this version, I remember MUCH different details...
The driver was, I think speeding, and that caused the accident. I am not entirely certain on that memory, but it feels right. I feel like the computer was MUCH older... Looked like late 70s or early 80s, might have even been a terminal, and not a proper computer. I recall one character in the film saying that they thought Heaven was supposed to have a Book of Life, to which the angel responds with something like "We always have the best stuff in Heaven. Someone from ancient times might see a scroll, someone from years past might see a book of names, and you... You see a computer". This really stuck with me strongly, cause the computer was already quite dated, and I've always been a computer nerd, so the angel calling that thing the latest and greatest had me chuckling. The computer in "Without Reservation" didn't feel nearly as old. I also am somewhat unsure on this (could be bad memory), but I feel like the view of the Computer of Life and of the judgement line was set at a possibly wider angle, and I'm unsure of the gender of the person depicting the angel. My memory is foggy on that, but I don't feel like it was a deep voiced man like was in "Without Reservation".
The premise of the film I feel like I am remembering and "Without Reservation" both feel very similar... The kids are judged for their faith and sins... I always felt it might have had a Catholic lean... Not 100% sure on that detail. "Without Reservation" focuses purely on the faith... did the kids believe or not. I feel like this film delved more into the aspect of whether they carried unforgiven sins. I also have a memory of two particular bits... The driver was found to have "died in sin" because he was disobeying the posted speed limit, which while a law of man, is still law given authority by God to the rulers of nations. That, and his recklessness murdered himself and his friends. I think I'm remembering that detail right. I hope... The second thing, and what really hit, was the person who was saved noted that they didn't feel sorrow over the friends who's souls were not saved. I think the angel informed the one person that in heaven, there are no tears, and they would not be burdened with such pain. It was such a gut punch line for a kid...
If anyone has ANY idea what film I think I saw, I'd love to know. It's been such a prominent memory, and I think my 3 decades since seeing it probably melted it in with my memories of "Without Reservation"... Or maybe I dreamed it... I dunno.
Either way, I hope someone can tell me I'm not imagining things! Heh.
And just to reiterate... I literally just watched a copy of "Without Reservation" on Youtube, and I can verify that very key elements of the movie I recall are NOT found in that movie. I'm certain I either imagined this, or that it's actually a separate film. The dialog about the computer, the idea of speeding, and the bit about not feeling sorrow in heaven were all prominent memories that stuck with me, and they are definitely not in "Without Reservation". I feel convinced this was another similar film, probably older... Or my memories are all jumbled...
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2024.05.29 05:19 F34RED_Nob0dY_ Engine swap in Colorado

Looking for a reliable shop to get my engine swapped in Colorado, I own a 2000 Nissan maxima SE, I absolutely adore this car as it is and I’d love more power if I could get it, only problem is recently the engine has started knocking, me and my brother (who’s name is on the title) have decided the best action is to scrap it or swap it. I decided I’d prefer to stay on the platform rather than switch, cause I don’t want to go through the hassle of finding a reliable used car, and for the swap me and my brother though of staying with the VQ’s and going from a VQ30DE to a VQ35HR, or VQ37VHR depending on which one we can find for cheaper and from a reputable seller. Only problem is the shop I just called quoted me 36K for the entire procedure… based on prices I’ve seen before I know that probably isn’t the best I can find…
now that I’m down with all that does anybody in Colorado know if there’s any shops that would swap my VQ for a better VQ for under 5K or am I just screwed here?
TLDR; shop quoted me 36k for an engine swap and I say bullshit, anybody know any better cheaper shops in Colorado?
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2024.05.29 05:19 ExtremePixel541 Seattle Public Schools SPS is a literally a joke

Seattle Public Schools SPS is a literally a joke
Hearing from my partner’s Facebook connections that attended Seattle Public Schools Roosevelt meeting on the “Well Resourced Schools” (the most Orwellian name possible since it involves closing schools 🙄) involved no public questions and the district still hasn’t provided ANY financial analysis or data to parents that supports their claims that closing schools will save money. I’ve been relying on https://www.seattlehallpass.org for info and I’m wondering if anyone was at the meeting.
They presented this gem 💎 of a slide which is literally the underpants gnome meme (Step 1: PowerPoint, Step 2: ?, Step 3: Financial stability!!!!!). I’ve got three kids in SPS and honestly my frustration is at an all-time-high. Even as a professional, upper income parent this is exhausting and infuriating.
What the fuck Seattle.
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2024.05.29 05:18 larrubcarran2815 AITA for refusing to continue a friendship/consider this person a friend, when they still think I do call them a friend? Tbh, this might just be a “Best Kind of Petty Revenge” story. Lmk!

Let me give some backstory because there were 3 main “events” that led me to eventually ghosting this person. (Please forgive me, this may end up a little lengthy. Also, this wasn’t written as well as the first draft but that one got deleted)
Event #1: In high school, there were 4 of us that were really close. We will call them each, Diana, Julia, and Jack. Julia worshiped Diana. Diana could do no wrong in Julia’s eyes. Diana and Jack were a couple. They dated the majority of high school. All the way up to the summer before our senior year. Obviously, it was hard on the couple, but it was also difficult for ALL of their friends because we were expected to pick a side. Julia took Diana’s side, no questions and no doubts. It felt like I was the only one that wanted to remain neutral because I considered both Diana and Jack really good friends. Not just the typical, Jack was a friend because he was Diana’s boyfriend. Anyways, trying to remain neutral I gave support to both of them, the best I could. Jack confided in me that the reason he broke off the relationship was he had become overwhelmed by the drama Diana created. This made sense to me because Diana CRAVED drama. She created drama All. The. Time. (Looking back, I have no idea how I was friends with either of them. These friendships were just those friendships that some how… became and existed) The break up launched a series of dramatic situations created by Diana that escalated. These situations ended with Diana sleeping with a random guy from our school, 2 maybe 3 weeks after breaking up, and she ended up pregnant. The school year started up and as more kids found out about her pregnancy, the more rumors started going around. The biggest one – Jack was the father. Pregnant teens were absolutely not common in my high school. And Jack was being blamed for the situation Diana was in. Feeling empathy for my friend, I continued to be Jacks friend because most of his other friends were isolating him and giving him the cold shoulder. (To make it completely clear – Jack and I only felt friendship for each other, nothing more.) Julia hated that I was continuing to be Jacks friend. Julia accused me of betraying Diana and yelling at me for even talking to him - Jack: the one that got Diana pregnant. Julia said that she knew I couldn’t be trusted and was a horrible friend. The kicker? Julia and I knew who got Diana pregnant. Diana told us. Julia fed the rumors about Jack being the father, even though she knew the truth! For the sake of keeping the peace and adhering to the “Girl Code” I had to let the friendship with Jack dwindle to an occasional friendly wave in the hallway. A rift between Diana & Julia and myself grew regardless. The way they treated me began to change – talking down to me and keeping me out of conversations. I can guarantee they had conversations behind my back (as teenage girls do.) I can also guarantee Julia was the mastermind because Diana was too busy with the drama/attention of her pregnancy to notice anything or anyone else. I was already dealing with things at home and on top of it, had to maneuver the drama with my so called best friends. Julia doing this hurt so much because friends don’t do that. On top of it, I had a similar situation happen in middle school with a previous group of friends.
Event #2: (my main reason I don’t consider them a friend) Through Jr and Sr High school I had a crush mostly on one guy. There were other little crushes, but he was always the main one. We will call him Mark. Mark and I were actually really good friends. He was in a different friend group than Diana, Jack, and Julia. He and his friend welcomed me into their group when the drama was happening our senior year. Mark actually knew I had a crush on him. He was as kind as possible when he turned me down. Mark said he was committed to his own crush (who turned him down, saying she didn’t want to date in high school) Mark believed she was “the one” and was trying to not date anyone else as a sign of loyalty to her. Realizing Mark wasn’t going to change his mind, I had a hard time pretending and convincing myself I shouldn’t and didn’t have a crush on him. Doing so actually opened a door for Mark and I to become even closer friends. I hung out with him and his two guy friends a lot. Especially after we graduated high school. In fact, the majority of that calendar year, I basically didn’t spend any time with Diana and Julia. At the end of that year, the holiday season, all of the sudden Mark wasn’t hanging out with us as much. Our two friends told me he had a girlfriend. I assumed it was the girl he had a crush on. Especially because our friends said things like “he is picking up his girlfriend from the high school.” (his crush was the year behind us) a few weeks went by and it was almost Christmas. One of my friends was throwing a Christmas party, a bunch of us were invited. While I was hanging out in the front room with others, Mark came in through the front door, his girlfriend behind him. I couldn’t help but look in disbelief. His girlfriend wasn’t his crush, but was none other than Julia. Julia was also in the year behind us and was still going to school. Julia noticed me looking and as Mark turned away from her, she grabbed him, turned him back toward her and kissed him. I was already trying to tell myself it wasn’t a big deal. But then Julia, mid-kiss, looked straight at me. The kiss wasn’t very long but still. Some of you may argue that she was “concerned” about my reaction. But it was her grin and wave afterwards that told me Julia was gloating. Gloating that she was now dating the guy I had a crush on for years. And despite trying to deny it, I still had a crush on him. I left that friend group as well because I knew Julia was going to be there more often, which would inevitably ruin that group for me as well. I didn’t want to deal with the drama and hurt so I cut my losses.
Event #3: (the reminder event) A couple years later, Diana and Julia were married with kids. They had moved out of town, Julia even moved out of state. I got a message from Julia, sent to both Diana and I, asking if we would like to meet for lunch the next week because she (Julia) was coming into town to see family. As best as I could tell, Diana and Julia went their separate ways after we all graduated high school. For the sake of the friendship we once had, I agreed to meet. The day came, we get our food and sit down. They immediately start talking about their husbands and kids. Which is totally understandable, we were there to catch up. Thing is, I was still single – no kids, no husband. So I couldn’t add much to the conversation to relate and there wasn’t much of an opportunity to even ask questions. I finished my lunch while listening to them talk. At this point, 30-45 minutes went by and no one asked me how my life was going beyond the initial “How are you?!” when we first met up and got in line to order our food. Feeling very much like a third wheel, I wanted a chance to talk with my old friends. Finding an opportunity to organically get involved, I did so. I don’t remember what the conversation was about but I do remember I added to the conversation by saying something as simple as “Have you seen that movie yet?” Julia looked me dead in the eyes, said something specifically in response to my question and added “You aren’t even married or have a kid yet, you wouldn’t understand.” Diana laughed a little and added, “Not yet” They then continued to talk about their kids till it was decided we had been there long enough (a total of nearly 2 hrs) Today, I am married and have a kid of my own. I could talk about my kid all day long. But I don’t, because I considered it a basic social skill to be able to talk about other things. Especially to keep others involved in conversation. After this last situation, I was reminded of the way she treated me. So, I committed to keeping both, specifically Julia at a distance. At first Julia would try to convince me to visit her where she lived. Even after getting married. It eventually dwindled down to maybe 1 or 2 messages from her a year. Through all this time I give very minimal responses if Julia Facebook messages me.
I never confronted either of them about everything because I knew it would cause more drama that wasn’t worth dealing with.
So AITA?
Some of you may be looking for the petty. Well, to keep it short, Mark and I started dating 5 years after graduating high school. We have been together for 9 ½ years, married 7 ½ years, and have a beautiful 3yr old girl.
If you guys want an update on his experience dating Julia (he says it was the worse relationship he had) and how Mark and I ended up together, lmk!
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2024.05.29 05:17 Warbly-Luxe I didn't realize how ableist my parents are until now...

[CW: talk of ableism and trauma]
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TL;DR: My dad said to my mom when I took out my new fidget toy after a fairly traumatic day: “he’s (not my preferred pronouns) just going into ‘Autistic Mode’”. He said that he would look into group homes tomorrow again because I “treat them like shit”. I shut down around them, and have been doing so for at least a week or more. I don’t have a job, freshly graduated from college as of December, and I have been struggling to get interviews. I have been using my university’s career services and got accepted into Vocational Rehab, but my parents keep threatening to kick me out of the house and be done with me.
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For reference, I am highly confident I am Autistic and ADHD, but I have not been officially diagnosed. I have a referral and am in the process. My med manager is treating me with non-stimulants which work well and have increased executive function. I have also been exploring my being queer over the last few years, but only recently tried to explain to my parents in totality last November.
I knew they are queerphobic, and I knew that I annoy / upset them when I don’t talk and engage, and that when I talk it’s too much and not about the right thing. I just wanted to believe I was wrong. I wanted to believe I was reading into things because I’ve had so many past experiences where what I felt and what I thought turned out to be false. And they say they love me, and they love me so much that they hate to see me in pain, and so I wanted to believe that it’s true.
The last few days have been hard. My parents had family friends over (that have known me since I was a baby, and they have two adult children that didn’t come this round) for memorial day weekend from out of state. Since seeing the friends last, I have been doing a lot of self-discovery and further accepting the queer parts of myself. I hadn’t been planning to change my name, until by happenstance I found one online that I wanted to be mine due to it's simplicity and androgynous nature. But my parents (and my brother, though he has trans friends) have not been supportive. I just thought they raised me and gave me a name they picked out and so didn’t want to use a new one. It doesn’t make it better, but it’s something.
But they have made it clear in past conversations that it would be unfair for me to tell family friends and extended relatives. And so I spent all of last week before the weekend trying to debate whether I should tell the family friends that were coming over in a text message before they arrived. I tried to summon the courage, but I ended up not doing that. So when I first saw them, I shut down when their first words were “Hey, ”. I decided that I would make myself scarce because I knew I would just keep shutting down and having trouble speaking with them. Literally, it would be the same as with my parents where either the words don’t come or I don’t have the energy to get them past my throat.
So, I tried to be polite when I saw them and just didn’t engage in extensive conversation. When they left, my dad told me I was rude and selfish, and that I need to write them a letter to apologize. I ended up sending them a text today to apologize (didn't explain everything), but I didn’t want to send a letter because I am tired of using my dead name, and I would need to sign it.
I have been trying to avoid my parents even though we live in the same house because I don’t have a job yet. I recently graduated from college in December, but I have not been able to get interviews. I have been making use of my university’s career services and made appointments with the head of engineering to make my resume more appealing in terms of software engineering. I graduated with Interdisciplinary Studies focusing on Computer Science, Creative Writing, and Linguistics. I just want a job right now, and computer jobs pay well. I am hoping to figure out something beneficial in Creative Writing later, maybe Ghost Writing or something that might pay better than that. I also got accepted to use Vocational Rehab, and so I have been working with them.
But, since I am avoiding my parents, they believe I am trying to make it clear that I hate them. They consistently say that I “treat them like shit” and I am “lazy and just want an easy life”. Today has been a hard day after all the turmoil over the last week, and so I have had very little energy. I thought I could be experiencing depression, but I know what that feels like and where it leads. I am not there yet. So, I think the best word to describe it is probably dejected. Like the people who are constantly in my life don’t want me. In the late afternoon, I decided I didn’t just want to sit up in my room anymore, so I drove down to my bookstore to browse, and then checked to see if I could refill my meds. I had about an hour where I started feeling happy and enjoying myself, especially being able to browse the books and look at the descriptions on the back and recording the ones I want to read for later.
When I got home for dinner so my parents didn’t get mad, it was like all that happiness disappeared the moment I saw them. I could not move my face even if I wanted to, to pretend like I was cheery and all right. We got dinner out, and then I sat down. The counselor I like seeing at career services is also an ADHDer. I saw her last week to go over more plans for jobs, and she showed me the various baskets of stim toys she keeps on her bookshelf to hand out to students. She gave me one that’s a tightly knit, long rectangle and has a small glass ball inside. You squeeze it and the ball moves back and forth.
I haven’t used stim toys much growing up because I thought I was supposed to bear all the frustration and anxiety. But I have been trying to treat myself kinder over the last few months. So, I’ve been taking that stim toy with me, and had it when I went to the bookstore. With dinner set up, my parents were trying to get me to interact and “be better”. Without thinking, I took out the stim toy. My dad said I was going into “Autistic Mode” and that they can’t do anything. He will look at group homes again tomorrow.

Up until that moment, I had doubts. I thought that they really were trying to accept me and it was just hard, especially with all the queerness and years of mental health management (since 2019 when I broke down). But over the last month or so, I’ve had various times where I needed to record my mental health history for intake and I started talking about my parents and how I am starting to recognize the gaslighting and emotional abuse.
I have also been trying hard to remember the good moments. But I can't remember a moment where I was showing signs I am clearly Autistic or ADHD, and that they genuinely enjoyed and loved it. Especially as I've gotten older. I remember them expecting me to get good grades in school from the beginning. If it wasn't "A"s they were upset, and if I failed a test they told me to study again and took me down to school to convince the teacher to let me test again. If I couldn't prove I knew the material and the teacher didn't let me retake it, then I was shunned on the way home.
I want so much to be wrong. I want so much for them to be right and that it's me who is abusing them like they say it is. I don't know why--I don't really feel any emotional love for them and I don't think I ever did, I just don't want them to suffer--but if I am the one who's hurting them then maybe I can change and stop. Maybe I can get better and show them love and be nice to them like they deserve. I wouldn't need to make a plan to estrange myself from them when I am on my feet to better take care of myself. I wish it was me.
I don't know why I am writing all of this. You all have your own problems and don't need to load on mine, and I am not going to pretend I have it the worst even just in my own city. I also feel manipulative, like I am only writing the bad parts and that I should try to remember and describe the good parts.
I just don't have anyone I can talk to right now. I have been out of therapy for a few months. I have been on wait lists for more experienced therapists dealing with gender-affirming care, since that has become a bigger problem. I have something scheduled for the middle of next month with a more general therapist and a referral to a specialized therapist as well.
But I just want to talk to someone who understands. I don't have that in my life. When doctors ask me if I have anyone I can just vent to or trust, I can't think of anyone. I have one friend, but since graduating we only meet up once a month. I can share a lot with her and she is supportive, but then I feel like that one meeting is filled with me trying to vent and seek therapy from her. I don't really want more social interaction, but I want to feel like someone sees me, the real me, and they actually like what they see.
I plan to call the suicide hotline tomorrow. Not because I am suicidal, but because I was told I don't need to be suicidal to call. I know my parents will hear me on the phone if I call tonight, and I don't really want to spend a long time writing out the words in a text to the text number to explain everything when the person on the other end might not be able to fully understand, and so they would just tell me what they think I need to hear. But I guess I'd get the same from the phone call.
I don't know how to wrap this up, and it sounds when I read this over like I am quite lucid and therefore being petty by putting this here. I am lucid, but it doesn't really help me feel better. I can't lie to myself anymore; I've been trying so hard to not lie to myself when I spot it. I am sorry for the long rambling and various tangents. I just want to put this somewhere where people might understand.
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2024.05.29 05:14 Assistance_Which 18M Looking for friends or a chat or something 🤷‍♂️

Hi! So a little about me, my name is Marc, I’m from Whittier, CA, and I just turned 18 a little bit ago. I’m a musician, I like to sing and play piano most of the time, but I play other instruments too like alto sax and guitar. I love the outdoors, whether it’s hiking or a beach trip, I’m always down for a little excursion.
To be completely honest, I’m not the best texter, I usually prefer calling unless I really mesh with someone or you can keep a convo going. I’m kind of an ambivert, I’m an INFJ on whatever that personality test is, so I usually have a bit of a hard time making new friends and recently my list of day 1’s is pretty much gone. I’m really just looking for anyone to play video games with, chat, and maybe hang out if you’re in the area. Hopefully, I can find a person or two to pass summer with, I’ve got a ton of other interests (ADHD hyperfixation coming in clutch) so if you’re interested, shoot me a DM 🤷‍♂️
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2024.05.29 05:14 mgamer1011 Best way to snap CharacterBody2D to a vertically dropping StaticBody2D platform

Hello! I have some vertically-moving StaticBody2D platforms that gradually gain velocity as they drop off the edge of the bottom of the screen and then reappear at the top to fall down all over again in a loop.
The trouble is, my CharacterBody2D player isn't able to keep up with the platforms' downward momentum (making it impossible to jump off the platforms) and needs to be manually snapped to the top of the platform somehow. I chose the StaticBody2D node to create my platforms as I didn't want them to be affected by CharacterBody2D physic interactions, but is this the best way to be doing this? I read that AnimatableBody2D is also another option, but I don't want any physics collisions occurring between my platforms and player.
What is the most efficient way to snap a CharacterBody2D to the top of a StaticBody2D platform?
Good ol' Chat GPT recommended that I add the following script to my CharacterBody2D, and while it does work to some extent, it snaps my player to somewhere in the middle of a platform, which gets my player stuck and unable to jump correctly.
func platform_snap(): for i in range(get_slide_collision_count()): var collision = get_slide_collision(i) var collider = collision.get_collider() if collider.is_in_group("Platform") and Global.player.is_on_floor(): Global.on_platform = true var collision_shape = collider.get_node("Red_Log_Collision") if collision_shape!= null: var platform_size = collision_shape.shape.extents # print("Standing on a platform in group:", " Platform") var platform_top = collider.global_position + Vector2(0, platform_size.y) global_position = Vector2(global_position.x, platform_top.y) 
Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!
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2024.05.29 05:12 RestNester The Problems With The MultiVersus Relaunch

Now that MultiVersus has returned, there is debate as to whether the game arrived with either positive or negative additions to the now fully finished, polished, and launched game. Many argue that the new mechanics have actually improved on the gameplay from the Open Beta alongside other neat additions, while others argue that the execution of the Beta versions gameplay amongst other details were remarkably better than the excuse for a finished game in these people's minds. In my opinion, the Open Beta beats the Official Games "quality" by a huge landslide, and here is why I believe that.
  1. "The Camera Zoom And Slow Paced Gameplay:" A lot of people seem to be aware of the camera zoom system that was implemented in MultiVersus (Which by the way, cannot be modified to where it is completely gone), alongside the dramatically slower movement. It seems that a possible reason for why Player First Games included this monstrosity of an addition was because of players reporting the spam of attacks in matches alongside the seemingly way too swift gameplay, which of course lead to Player First Games including the previously mentioned implementations in the relaunch, thinking that players would "think outside the box" with attacks when playing. Back in the Open Beta days, there was a little something called "Attack Decay!" Sounds wonderful right? Well, my friend, here is a description of this glorious mechanic; Attack Decay basically made opponents attempts at spamming attacks utterly useless! This mechanic rewarded players who were already thinking creatively when utilizing their fighters moveset splendidly, but it seems that everyone at Player First Games thought that this aid for players who aren't spamming the same move forgot its existence to where it is M.I.A in the Official Game. About the fast-paced gameplay, let me present a question; Do you really prefer the new slow-paced gameplay, or the way the movement worked in the Open Beta? The movement was arguably floaty during the Beta days, but you would think that the gameplay that for the most part did not need any fixing whatsoever (in most peoples eyes) would be perfected by only editing the very small grievances and glitches in this way of playing the game, right? Nope; we would instead get gameplay that really shows the transparency of the playable characters not fitting in the new gameplay style at all (Iron Giants meets the Dexter's Laboratory Map for example) that seemingly only a small portion of players seem to be content with. I am willing to bet that if a dedicated fighting game enthusiast were to playtest both the Open Beta and Official Game versions of MultiVersus, the enthusiast would prefer the Open Beta's almost near perfect fluidity that was fun to participate in compared to the clunkiness of the Official Game that feels like a chore to play through after a couple of matches.
  2. "The Corporate Similarities To Other Free To Play Games:" From the removal of the beautifully drawn 2D renders in game to make way for the ugliest 3D renders, to the layout of the Fighters menu quite literally being the FTP Battle Royale Locker, to the exclusion of a proper fighting game character select screen, almost everything about the new UI for MultiVersus screams "Fortnite" and "Stumble Guys'" unoriginality instead of a celebration of a company's Intellectual Properties with colorful, vivid, and creative design that actually was in the Open Beta. When you launch a game like Super Smash Bros or any MARVEL VS. CAPCOM game besides Infinite, you can feel the authentic love and passion poured into every single aspect of the game. When you log on MultiVersus, you are bombarded with microtransactions that probably cost as much as a wedding ring when accumulated together. Adding to these problems, fighters who should be carefully selected and handpicked with the intent of being well thought-out inclusions to the roster are treated like the average skin that adds no value to the gameplay in the average FTP game. So many people are fine with the idea of MultiVersus having an infinite number of character slots and franchises one day that could give Fortnite's colossal library of franchises a run for its money, but has anyone thought about the example of not having every participant in a baseball game receiving the big trophy, as well as keeping the roster at a reasonable limit to avoid having the roster the same size as a MultiVersus fan roster on DeviantArt? We have characters like Banana Guard before Scooby Doo, Samurai Jack, and many other characters who are objectively better picks for a celebration of Warner Bros as a whole; and yes, every good fighting game has a good selection of joke characters, but MultiVersus has not even reached the excellence of other platform fighters with their current strategy (putting emphasis on the most laughable and unnecessary aspects of a game) to add a joke character in a roster that has missing combatants that are way more important to Warner Bros history. But hey, Warner Bros and Player First Games have to make that green paper somehow, and they more than likely don't care about the fact that adding a "Passion Project" like Banana Guard before Daffy Duck is a massive slap to the face to people who want beloved characters added to the game that are not treated as muses to sell rubbish.
  3. "Miscellaneous Stuff That Doesn't Need It's Own Category!!!:"
The Minigames are boring and suck for the most part, except for the Target minigame.
The coloring of the opponent and allies team color on the fighters looks atrocious and weird.
The game has crashed and disconnected over 20 times due to lag that will come at you even if you had the best Wi-Fi and/or Internet on the planet.
If they were trying to make the graphics better with Unreal Engine 5, they failed miserably! Everything looks shiny and gross compared to the Open Betas graphics. "Work Smarter Not Harder" I guess.
The new dash attacks feel very clunky most of the time.
The scrapped Guilds mode sounds a lot better than Rifts mode. They are more or less the same, but the details about Guilds sound much more interesting than what we got in Rifts.
You cannot play as characters you don't own in offline modes such as "The Lab." (They took out the Training map from the game too)
People are missing the characters they purchased with real money???
Hopefully everything gets fixed, as I do want the game to succeed and be in the greatest state it can be because right now, everything is a dumpsterfire compared to the very low lows of the Open Beta days. If you guys have your own problems with the game or have anything to say about the game, leave a comment and have a great day!
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2024.05.29 05:11 Ancient-Growth-9143 AITAH for fighting two girls and shoving my pregnant teacher?

I wanted to preface this by saying this occurred 7-8 years ago, when I was a sophomore in high school, and im a much different person now and not proud of who I was. Even so, the events of that semester haunt me even today, to the point that it occasionally keeps me up at night, I feel like if I get some impartial judgement on the situation I may be able to resolve some of the lingering grief. I feel like all things considered my actions were justified, but of course you will always be the protagonist fighting off the antagonists in your own story.
So it started in February 2017. I entered into an alternative high school program in my county designed to give students who couldn't otherwise function in normal schools a second chance. I had missed a few weeks due to a hospitalization earlier that year, and while my teachers had been lenient, I was having a difficult time catching back up and it was decided by my school counselors that I would be an excellent candidate for transfer.
It started off really well, I immediately was making new friends, I felt refreshed and hopeful about my new school, I really liked all my teachers, things finally felt right for the first time in awhile. Then I met a boy who i'll call "T", he was pretty cool, easy to talk to, very friendly, overall welcoming and we became friends right off the bat. I decided to get involved in extracurriculars, and T was part of the schools forensics club, which I had an interest in, so I joined up. On the trip we exchanged phone numbers, and ended up flirting over text over the next couple weeks. Eventually he asked me out and I accepted, this is where it started going downhill.
I figured dating this guy meant we would spend more time together, so we could really get to know each other, I was mistaken. I asked him to eat lunch with me, he wasn't interested, he wouldn't walk me to class or really interact with me outside of the classroom and texting. On top of this I learned some information about him over text that I will still not share because this story is still recognizable by those involved but lets just say it was a major turn off for me, I ended the relationship quickly. After that "J" and "A" his two female besties, quickly entered the scene to make my life a living hell. The initial accusation was that I led T on, and that I was trying to control him by forcing him to eat lunch with me, the truth is, I just wanted something different than what he was offering. I even told him we could still be friends. Meanwhile I was in my promiscuous phase and had many non serious flings and sugar daddy's and whatnot, this was just a run of the mill whelp that didn't work out moment for me, I was ready to move on immediately. They were not.
Rumors quickly spread about me, about me being a slut, apparently I was a prostitute and everyone seemed to know except me, and honestly I was unbothered by this. The prostitute thing was untrue, though I absolutely accepted gifts from people I talked to online, and I kinda was a slut, to be fair, so, not exactly the reputation I wanted but things could be much worse. I still had my friends, and I poured myself into my studies and ignited a love for STEM that I still have today.
Then one by one my friends disappeared. I would see them talking with A or J or one of their misc. associates. I was confused, because I hadn't done anything to them. I tried to talk to them, but I was blocked or laughed at, the more I was mocked and ridiculed the less confident about that whole thing I became. It wasn't just my current friends though, A kept tabs on who I was trying to befriend and snatched them up before I could clear the air. This happened with a couple people, but one in particular really hurt, i'll come back to him in a bit. I still had my best friend "M" who I had known years prior to coming to the school, she stuck around the longest, but eventually she started dating a guy from that clique, I was completely alone.
Meanwhile I was getting sneered at and laughed at, and whispered about, I would see girls I didn't know except through association with A and J who would point at me when they thought I couldn't see, and they'd lean into their friends to quitely gossip behind their hands. I tried not to see it, I found myself staring at the floor a lot.
I ended up talking to A and J and asking them to stop, I told them they were being immature (which in hindsight fanned the flames) there was no ceasefire. I ended up going to the school counselor who basically told us to be nice and did nothing to help. I talked to her 1 to 1 and explained the situation and she shrugged it off. I was growing increasingly desperate for support I wasn't receiving. I started to notice an impact to my grades, I was depressed, I couldn't focus, I was randomly tearful. I started eating lunch in a random corridor away from my peers. I wish I could have disappeared completely.
Then one day a boy transferred in from another school, a teacher asked for a volunteer to give him a tour of the building, I was chosen. His name was S. Talking to him was like a breath of fresh air, we hit it off quickly, I was so relieved to finally made a friend. We connected over history, he was a nerd like me and funny too. I went home that day and cried joyful tears, I was so excited to see him again the next day in first period, and when I walked into the room and saw A, J and him sitting together, my stomach hit the floor, we made eye contact and he just frowned and shook his head. I went to my desk and just put my head down and cried. At this point I didn't care if I was seen or not. This is the one that really got me.
A few weeks passed by, I was quietly working in biology class and I heard a dude call my name across the room, he said "OP, "D" thinks your cute!" and the group of guys laughed, I motioned the guy over, and gave him my number, I didn't have any interest in dating the guy but I really really wanted someone to talk to me. It wasn't even two hours before he was hitting it off with A.
At lunch time I went to a different counselor, one who showed more empathy to my situation. She told me I could stay in her office the rest of the day. 4th period came around and I was reeling in my head, I felt like I was a cornered animal, I was desperate for something to change. When she stepped out for a meeting I marched myself up to Spanish class, Which I shared with A, J, T, and S. I cracked the door and asked if I could speak with A in the hallway. I had the perfect speech planned, I had rehearsed a million times, that teacher said no. I told her it was incredibly important, she told me no and to get out. I looked at her, I looked at A, I stepped toward her and before I knew it she had a fist full of my hair, she was hitting me in the head while J grabbed my arms, I broke free and shoved J hard, and started punching A back but couldn't gather the momentum to do any damage as she still had my hair. The teacher who was 6 months pregnant tried to step in, I was so disoriented I shoved her away with my elbow. A male teacher came in and pulled us apart. I looked around at several cameras, faces of disgust. Sam looked at me and said "what the fuck is wrong with you?" I took my bags, and ran out into the hallway, down the stairs and was almost out of the building when the principal stopped me. I was suspended for a week.
My mom picked me up and I told her everything. We decided I would be withdrawn and I would be homeschooled the rest of high school. I eventually got my GED. I mellowed out, met my husband, and now we have a sweet baby boy. For some reason though, my heart can't handle what happened, even still it plays on a loop in my head. Everything I never got to say is still in my throat and has been since that day. Im hoping sharing this will finally put all that to rest. I want to move on, truly.
AITA?
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