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My sister got scammed yesterday! 2pm daw may tumawag sakanyang nagpakilalang Eastwest bank representative and offered a replacement card! Alam daw ang card number nya, pangalan at transactions nya sa credit card so hindi sya naghinala. Nagkataong di nya mabuksan ang online banking app nya at alam din ni caller kaya kala nya legit talaga. To the extent na binigay nya yung cvv at OTP ng multiple online transactions like Paymaya Cash In, Grab at Foodpanda). All in all nasa 15200 din yun. Umiiyak na sya paguwi kagabi kasi 7pm nya na narealize habang nagbabasa ng mga messages (busy daw sya sa work when the scammer called). Hindi pa rin mabuksan ang online banking nya nung time na yun so we can't check kung yun lang ba talaga yung na-scam na amount. My sister is the youngest and just started working recently so it's really a big deal and might seem the end. We tried contacting Eastwest, buti sumagot agad and we got the card blocked since it was already compromised. And fortunately, none of the transactions pushed through!!!! Thank God!!! Natunugan na ata ni Eastwest since her transactions are usually only foodpanda and less 1k. Which made me realized na oo nga parang may ganong feature na ang mga cards lately pertaining to online top ups. Yung Citibank ko, pag more than 4k ang ginagamit ko sa grab top up, di sya nagpupush through agad on first few attempts kahit nalagay mo tamang details and OTP. Sa mga cards niyo ba ganun din?

yung tatay ko more than two decades na ata nagttrabaho sa kanila. maliit lang yung business nung boss niya pero dahil malapit sa bahay dyan na lang nagtrabaho dad ko. dati ofw dad ko pero umuwi rin at pinili ang simpleng trabaho. kakilala namin amo niya kasi kapitbahay tapos naging classmate ko pa dati isa sa anak nila.
sobrang shit lang kasi porket kakilala ganyan? tangina minsan ilang weeks na hindi sineswleduhan tatay ko. nagsimula ito nung humina negosyo nila. tapos nagkaron naman ako magandang trabaho pati ate ko kaya parang yung isip ng boss niya may magsupport naman sa magulang kahit hindi swelduhan tatay ko.
wala silang empathy sa nagwork sa kanila, tatay ko na lang nagttrabaho sa kanila at umalis na ang lahat kasi nga ayaw naman tumigil ni daddy dahil walang ginagawa. pero mali naman ata na porket walang kita, hindi rin swelduhan ang tatay ko? ang kapal. unethical na tapos wala nang benefits and all.
tangina lang ang bait kasi ng nanay ko at hindi na rin nagrereklamo porket kakilala. yung isang anak pa ng boss eh nagnegosyo din tapos naiirita ako pag nakikita ko sa socmed kasi businessman emerut ganun pero mga di naman marunong magpasahod ang pamilya nila. yung tipong walang pake sa worker nila basta sila lang aangat dapat. tangina pag makalipat na ko sa binili kong bahay sasama ko magulang ko para umalis na ng tuluyan tatay ko sa kinginang small business nila. hilig magbusiness kuno di naman marunong magpasweldo sa tauhan

I'm hired as a project based In-House IT Specialist full time good for 1 year renewable sa isang IT outsourcing company deployed in ortigas then nag start ako last may 13. Sa job offer at orientation last may 11, ang linaw sa usapan namin ni HR at ni Operations na for 1 year, I'm reporting sa office ni bank as "In-house" IT Specialist then do my duties & responsibilities. So ayun, okay naman sakin madali naman akong nakapag-adjust sa first day ko since familiar na din naman ako nakapag-support na agad ako sa pending tickets nila kailangan ko na lang makabisado yung policy at administrative works. No proper training inassist lang ako ng katabi ko sa process buti na lang talaga familiar ako sa flow. Second day may 14 afternoon tinawagan ako ni HR kinamusta ako then sabi ko okay naman. Nafeel ko sa boses ni HR na worried sya then sabi nya "Sir, may nakarating po kasi samin na may sinabi ka daw po". So ako nabigla tinanong ko kay HR kung ano yung mismong sinabi ko many times pero ang sagot lang nya sakin "Bukas na lang po sir i-discuss ko po sayo need mo po mag-report dito sa office at may changes po tayo sa contract". Outsource IT company kasi at client nila si bank kaya sinasabi ni HR na need ko daw mag-report sa office nila. Kinulit ko si HR in a good way habang kausap ko sa viber kasi dahil sa tawag na yun nasira na yung diskarte ko sa work umiba na ang mood ko. Then sinabi din nya na papalitan yung contract ko as On-Call Field IT Specialist ididiscuss daw sa office ang full details. Sobrang nabadtrip na ko nung nalaman ko yun pero nag-stay cool parin ako up to mag end yung call. Natapos yung office hour pauwi na ako at nag-iisip kung may nasabi ba talaga akong hindi maganda na nakarating sa kanila ehhh first day ko lang nung isang araw so tamang observe at kinig lang ako sa mga kasama ko kung baga nakikiramdam pa nga ako sa kanila at isa pang naisip ko is baka "Bluff" lang kaya ni HR yun sakin para maisip ko na fault ko kung bakit magkakaroon ng changes of contract. Inisip ko ng mabuti at nag-seek of opinion na din ako sa mga kasama ko sa bahay kaya nag-decide na lang ako na mag Immediate resignation kinabukasan may 15 hindi na ako pumunta sa office nila nag-send na lang ako via viber w/ my sign. Same day afternoon, nakita ko job posting nila sa indeed hiring na lang sila ng On-Call Field IT Specialist as part time. Meaning to say from the start yan naman pala ang hinahanap nila so bat kailangan pang mag offer sakin ng 1 year full time in-house. Very unprofessional company bigla na lang magkakaroon ng changes sa contract even maayos ang naging usapan sa orientation. Gumastos pa ko ng medical dahil okay ako sa unang mga nilatag nila sakin then biglang ganito pala. How about kaya yung 2 days na pinasok ko, makukuha ko pa kaya yun?

Sa mga naka-claim na dito ng life insurance, ano ang hinanap sainyo na requirements? May insurance ako tatlo. Malaki ang percentage ni Mama ko compared sa ibang beneficiaries ko kaya lang wala syang birth certificate. Nasunog daw yung munisipyo dati at hindi na daw mahanap ang records nya. Meron lang sya voters ID kasi noon tinatanggap pa yung luma na Birth Certificate , ngayon kasi ay need na ng PSA copy. Wala sya nun kasi di nga naforward record nya sa PSA gawa nung sunog.
Magiging problem ba yun pag nagclaim sya ng insurance claims (in case kunin ako ni Lord ng maaga?) Please sana may mag answer. Bread winner kasi ako kaya gusto ko secured ang family ko kahit ano man mangyari sa akin. Sana may sumagot po. Salamat

Sa mga naka-claim na dito ng life insurance, ano ang hinanap sainyo na requirements? May insurance ako tatlo. Malaki ang percentage ni Mama ko compared sa ibang beneficiaries ko kaya lang wala syang birth certificate. Nasunog daw yung munisipyo dati at hindi na daw mahanap ang records nya. Meron lang sya voters ID kasi noon tinatanggap pa yung luma na Birth Certificate , ngayon kasi ay need na ng PSA copy. Wala sya nun kasi di nga naforward record nya sa PSA gawa nung sunog.
Magiging problem ba yun pag nagclaim sya ng insurance claims (in case kunin ako ni Lord ng maaga) Please sana may mag answer. Bread winner kasi ako kaya gusto ko secured ang family ko kahit ano man mangyari sa akin. Sana may sumagot po. Salamat

Sobrang luma na siguro ng sim card ko, baka di sila compatible ni iphone 14pm.
Ano kayang magandang gawin?
Pumunta ako sa Globe para magpaupgrade ng Sim pero wala daw sila stock ng Sim. Magpostpaid daw ako para mas mabilis. E gusto ko prepaid lang na SAME NUMBER dahil lahat naka-link sa number ko. Naka-ilang balik nako sa tatlong Globe Centers pero wala pa rin.
E-Sim naman daw is for postpaid plans lang din.
Somebody help

So eto may crush akong guy (aka Khal) sa company namin, tapos nakikita ko sya everyday. One time inabot ako ng gabi kaka OT sa office so ako nalang natira sa office and may isa pang guy (bestfriend ni crush, aka Myg).
Pagkauwi ko inadd ako ni Myg, nagandahan daw sya sakin and kung pwede daw ba pumorma hahaha (huyy walang halong echos to)
Edi syempre daldalan kami sa chats ni cutie huhu pero ang crush ko talaga at gusto ko mag add sakin si Khal. Napaguusapan din namin ni Myg si Khal sa chat, nabanggit daw ni Khal na type nya in general yung mga petite like me. Tapos one time si Khal naabutan ko sa pantry namin and tinanong nya name ko. HAHAHA kinilig ako kala ko i-add na ako, pero hindi!!! ang torpe kainis.
Ano bayan single naman si Khal, ayaw pa ako i-add 😭 Baka mafall tuloy ako dito kay cutie ughhhh.
Di ako delulu ha, pero nafeel ko din crush ako ni Khal. Torpe lang sya, and mas babaero si Myg lmao.

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Sobrang luma na siguro ng sim card ko, baka di sila compatible ni iphone 14pm.
Ano kayang magandang gawin?
Pumunta ako sa Globe para magpaupgrade ng Sim pero wala daw sila stock ng Sim. Magpostpaid daw ako para mas mabilis. E gusto ko prepaid lang na SAME NUMBER dahil lahat naka-link sa number ko. Naka-ilang balik nako sa tatlong Globe Centers pero wala pa rin.
E-Sim naman daw is for postpaid plans lang din.
Somebody help

My gf always chatting me galing pag gising hanggang matulog, parang nauumay na kasi ako kasi kahit wala ng ma topic chat pa rin chat siya pag hindi ko naman ni rereplayan magagalit, gusto ko rin ng time sa sarili ko mahal ko siya at hindi ko iwan pero bakit parang nag chachat kami ng matagal parang nawawala yung gana or naiinis ako

Or maybe I lost it already. After working for over 2 years and 6 months, I decided to take a break from work recently. A supposed 2-month break turned into 3 months. Without realizing it, and hindi ko naman mappredict ang mangyayari, during those 3 months I SLOWLY LOST MY SPARK for everything. My passion, hobbies, and the things I loved the most no longer made me happy or bring comfort to me. There was also a time na lagi nalang bukang bibig ko, “ayoko na magtrabaho,” “anong gagawin ko sa buhay?” “hindi talaga para sakin magtrabaho,” and many other words that represent that I already lost my old self.
Before I quit my job, sobrang hardworking kong tao, and all I do is take care of myself to become the best version of myself — emotionally, physically, spiritually, and mentally. I felt like I could do anything as long as I have myself. I already had plans in my mind for my future, A PLAN THAT WAS WAY AHEAD OF TIME. I was independent, had freedom (since I had my own place kasi malayo work ko kaya i decided to rent a place), and i feel everything will work out for me as long as I focus on my goal. Ni hindi nga sumagi sa isip ko na makipag relasyon and be intimate with someone during those times eh.
Not until I decided to quit my job for some break and since 2 months pahinga ko, I need to leave my rented place din. Basically need to go back to my hometown nanaman. One week palang and kakabalik ko palang sa family house namin, nothing feels right na agad. Akala ko nabobored lang ako so I seek comfort and decided to hangout with my friends A LOT and I also planned some vacays.
I also became sexually active after more than 3 years of not having it, i had my first ever hook up and nasundan pa ng iba, i met three strangers na here from Reddit. I crave intimacy and companionship, na akala ko maiibsan yung bigat na nararamdaman ko but everything is just TEMPORARILY COMFORTING.
I also started looking for a job na ulit kasi nga feeling ko kinakalawang na ako, and luckily, 5 out of 6 companies na pinag-applyan ko is natanggap naman ako. But the only one company na hindi ako natanggap is THE COMPANY THAT I REALLY WANT TO WORK WITH. And it took toll on me nanaman even tho I’m thankful na napasa ko yung iba, feeling ko failure ako kasi hindi ako nakapasok sa company na gusto ko.
But still, nothing feels right and I think sobrang kulang ng buhay ko, finances are the least problem here since I have enough savings to support my wants and needs. This is more of a problem with myself na HINDI KO TALAGA MAEXPLAIN kung anong mali. Sobrang hirap na everyday I woke up lagi kong sinsabi na “tangina panibagong araw nanaman, paulit ulit nalang, ayoko na.” I am also scared na kapag lalo pa akong tumagal na magstay dito sa family house namin, the problem I have with myself might affect my relationship with my family, since napapansin nadin nila na I am always irritated and elusive to them this past few months. I already experienced this feeling way back during the pandemic and, thankfully, overcame it in the span of one year. BUT this time nararamdaman ko nanaman siya and the only thing I can guarantee is mas malala at mabigat siya ngayon.
I know that this might be confusing since hindi ko masabi yung specific problem ko pero kasi nga ako mismo hindi ko din alam kung anong nangyayari sa akin, kung bakit sobrang nawawalan ako ng gana sa mga bagay bagay and bakit sobrang bigat sa pakiramdam.

A lil background lang. I'm a 3rd year medtech student and 1 sem na lang, intern na ako. I'm a transferee dito sa current school ko so as usual, overload ako this sem because I really wanna be an intern na. Tinake ko minors and majors ko na hindi pwedeng buksan ng summer.
My schedule is Monday to Saturday, 7am-5pm, and afternoon lang ng Monday ang free time ko kasi morning lang naman pasok ko. Kapwa ko MT students know that 3rd year is TIRED year for us. Nakakabaliw 2nd sem subjects lalo na CC2 and HEMA2. I'm surprised that I'm not yet crazy but all I know is I put all my worries and trust in God because without Him, it would be impossible to survive this sem without failing one of my subjects.
Prelims, I slacked off kasi I don't know what to do and my body and mind are still adjusting to this new schedule of mine. I failed most of my exams and yeah, I failed most of my subjects, too. Then here comes the testimony of our newly passed alumna. Ang tumatak talaga sa'kin ay yung sinabi niyang, "Ma, gagawin ko best ko kasi ayokong my pagsisihan." And that's the time I told myself, "Ngayon lang 'to and everything will be okay na after. Need ko lang tiisin."
From laging absent nung prelims due to anxiety and fatigue to always showing up no matter how tired I am. Walang tulog? Papasok. Pagod galing community? Papasok. Anxious kasi parang hindi enough yung inaral ko? Papasok. I am confident to say na not once did I miss my classes this midterm. Even in my Saturday class, I always show up. And believe me, may mga opportunities akong nakuha just because I showed up. Yung pag-aaral ko for exams, sinisiksik ko sa time ko kahit 3 hours na lang tulog ko. Sabi nga nila, "Ang tulog, mababawi, pero ang grades, hindi."
I was fucking losing it during our exams nitong midterms and after my last exam, nasa gate pa lang ako ng bahay namin, nag breakdown na ako due to pent up pagod and frustrations tapos sinalubong oa ako ng dalawa kong chanak, edi hagulgol so much na ako. 😭 I hugged them until I felt better. Good thing I have them kasi seeing them being all happy pag umuuwi ako from school is such a boost of serotonin for me. They're one of the reasons din naman why I'm doing my best.
Yesterday, I got the result of my HEMA2 major exam and long quiz. Kabado pa ako niyan kasi I'm overthinking baka bagsak ako and di ko na ma-clutch hema ko kasi super baba ng grade ko nung prelims. Nasa line of 6 ako that time and I even asked my prof if kaya pa ba mahabol and she just said, "Wag ka lang ma-late." Meaning, was ma-late at be always present para walang ma-miss na quizzes and activities. Tinignan ko and boom! 28/40 LQ ko and 64/90 major exam ko with 67 as our highest and tumaas ng 10 yung overall grade ko this midterm. From line of 6 to line of 7! Iiyak narin sana ako sa harap ng class namin kasi sobrang proud daw ni ma'am sa'kin. 😭
Ang daming bagsak sa major exam namin dahil sa malalang pa-case analysis ni prof and sobrang naiiyak na ako during and after exam that day. Lahat kami nahirapan at sabi nga ni prof, marami raw ang bumababa ang grades this midterm at kakaunti lang ang tumaas. I prayed to God na kahit 60% lang but voila! He gave me more than what I asked for! My hard work paid off. 😭 Hindi ko shinare sa family ko kasi I'm working hard in silence. Only my bf knows how hard I'm working to pass this sem and this achievement of mine.
Mas lalo akong ginanahan hahahaha! And I pray na yung ibang exams ko ay pasado rin!
Kahit pagod na pagod na kayo, if you really want to reach your goal, always show up! Not for others but for yourself. God can see your efforts and He will not let it go into waste. Pipilitin at kakayanin para sa pangarap kasi ayokong may pagsisihan. Padayon, future RMTs and believers of theirselves! ♥️

My boyfriend and I are both 30. We met last year, Aug30 and dated for months and became official on January 1st. A little background lang, I live alone in a condo and he visits me daily when we were just dating pa until we became official. So, last year when we were just dating pa(not official) I clearly remember this day when he visited me at my place, it was the coronation day of Miss Universe yung nanalo si Ms. Nicaragua. So I borrowed his ipad kasi I can put it at the table kasi may stand instead of phone na hinahawakan lang tapos that time I was watching live sa Fb, so i sent the link from my phone to his messenger so I can just watch it directly sa ipad. While I was watching sa ipad nya hindi kasi naka full screen. Na noticed ko lang sa right side parang may suggested na mga profile like except from his mom and dad’s profile meron then 1 person dun always suggested which is si (ex) pala kasi like sa right side ng screen parang like recommended talaga yung profile like( “ex commented to, ex like..”) yung mga ganyan. That was the day I found out na ex nya pala yun. Kasi pansin ko din si fb kung sino ang profile na vinisit mo palagi mag aapear talaga sya mostly sa profile mo like “yung shortcut”.. Out of curiosity, i visited her profile and saw that she’s already in a relationship, and I knew the guy from a previous company. So, mas na curious pa ako then when you try to search kasi sa fb makikita mo history sa “recent searches, visits” at that time nakita ko na my bf still visits his ex’s profile once i a while maybe 3-5x since the day we started seeing. I just told him after ng Ms. U, na “I think I know na sino ex mo, is it (name) noh? He didn’t deny naman and just ask n how did i know, and i just casually said na because sa fb mo sya ang top suggested profile together with your mom and dad, meaning you always visit their profile, that’s it. I didn’t ask anything na.
Then maybe a month or so, we were open to giving access to our phones. One day, while I was browsing some photos, android kasi phone nya so medyo daming albums, meron like “google photos”, so when I went to click it, meron dun another gmail account with more photos, so while I was scrolling, i saw a photos of them, and when I returned the phone I intentionally left it to the photos and did not bother to exit so para when he open he would know that I saw the photos. I did not confront him or anything just waited for him to say something pero wala. Then a few days after I went to check the photos again, the other account was logged out na. I asked him, bakit na logout yung ibang account and he said wala daw sya ginalaw at wala nman daw ibang acct, i told him anong wala nakita ko pa nga photos nyo ng ex mo sa acct na yun sabi nya hindi naman nya ni logout. So ayun, i just dismissed it.
Fast forward, we rarely check each other’s phones na. We had disagreements, away bati in our relationship just like a normal couple but never this. So just this Monday may 13th. I decided to check his gallery. I saw some retrieved old google photos na sa album nya. So I when checked the account I saw the other account na login na ulit, so I opened it and saw their photos again. So while he was lying down, even though I feel hurt na and medyo nag shake na hands ko I calmly said , wow “grabi yung glowup ng ex mo ngayon, like ang layo2 before grabi sobrang puti na” Pero without looking up, he said “yeah, because at that time dami nyang nilalagay sa face nya kaya daming sugat2. Like, hello is that the right thing to say to your gf? Instead of saying, sorry hindi ko pala na delete yung photos because this or that or why i I decided to keep it. He also insisted he didn’t see the photos and I was like how come you knew exactly which photos I was referring, also yan nga una nag aapear eh when you opened that account. I continued to browse the photos and he was looking as if proud na proud pa. He let me continued making side comments and until I saw video nya he was calling her ex their endearment. Then I said, “sus gusto nya palang endearment ****, ako ang dami ko ng sinuggest like baby, babe, love to the point na ginawa ko ng friend, bro and brader, kaya ayaw iba pala ang gusto, kaya pala hanggang first name basis pa rin tayo. Sana all, pati sa mga photos nyo ikaw mismo nag tatake directly pero tayo ni walang halos photos, buti nlang talaga hindi ko din pinipilit mag take tayo ng photos” tapos defend pa saying hindi naman ako ang gusto ng tawagan sya naman” I got annoyed and added more side comments saying na maybe ganyan talaga pag nasa tamang tao, mas nag go-glow naalagan natin ang selves natin, baka cgro we both look stress because we’re not at the right partner. Kaya siguro palagi mo vinisit ang profile ng ex mo kasi di kapa naka move on or maybe ng hihiniyang ka because she’s so happy with her partner now, traveling together.. Between, our argument he said “do you know when was that(referring to the photos) and what we’ve been through?”, “I don’t care about them kung anong gingawa nila and he keep shouting at this point, I’m trying to remain calm because nakakahiya sa neighbors ko kaya even if want to shout back I can’t, instead I sinabi wag ka mag scandalo dito, hindi mo ito place, hinaan mo boses mo”.. He calmed and took his phone put of my hand and deleted the photos. When he did, sinabi ko oh bakit mo dinelete nayiha kapa, kanini proud na proud kapa. He just stood and left. I went to msg him and showed him a screen recording of deleting all our photos and said this how easy to delete photos, it’s less than 1 minute and he should delete our photos too. I also told him that we need to talk in the morning . I have so many questions. He said he’ got diarrhea so we video call, and it turned to argument again, he said shouted at me and cursed me a lot like big time! I never had a partner who cursed me before so i felt attacked and very disrespected like i never expected that it would come from a partner, haven’t heard from him not even sorry. So yesteday, I messaged him saying “Was it worth it? Worth it ba yung pag shout and pag cursed mo sakin over your past? Not even sorry or proper explanation. Ito pala gusto mo style disrespectful and bastos. Then I’ll give it back to you” right after sending the message I blocked him.
Did I overeact or valid yung ginawa ko? Sa true lang gusto ko gumanti ng insults and hurtful words, pero na realized ko na sayang sa oras but if he ever come to my place, feel ko, makapagbibitaw din talaga ako ng insults

I dont even remember who she is, sumaglit ako sa home town ko para kunin yung pistol ko, nadaan ako sa mall para mag lunch and adun sya, greeted me and all, she was like "Anyare sayo? Kamusta? Principal na ko, ano work mo ngayon?" I congratulated her said "jobless, errand girl ni mama at papa as of today" and got back to finding a place to eat.
Tinawag nya ko sa first name ko kaya alam ko magkakilala kami dati, turns out na nung hs nangako sya na uunahan nya ko maging principal. Nung first day ng 4th yr ay sinabi kong gusto ko maging principal of the school just for shits and giggles at sinabi ko din sa last day na mag eeduc ako also just for shits and giggles. She made us promise na may the best principal wins, sinabi nya yun habang kadaldalan ko yung katabi ko (i was distracted at hindi nakikinig sa kanya) so sinagot ko lang sya nang "ok, galingan mo"
Highschool was 15+ years ago, imagine that, I cant make this up she's so commited na hs rivals daw kami kaya sya kumuha ng same course at same path just to be principal na mas better sakin kasi simula 1st yr hs top 1 sya at top 2 ako sa klase. I cant, like why? Bakit mo yun ginawa? Were not asta and yuno, dekunand bakuho, naruto and sasuke, goku and vegeta, why????
Naalala ko lang kung sino sya kasi sinabi nya, after hs iba kinuha ko na course. Akala nya nag abroad ako but nag educ pa din, I said no, I never wanted that, I said it for shits and giggles, she said I wasted her time, bruh what? Nag educ daw sya to prove shes better, and anghaba na ng nainvest nya na oras at too much money na so too late to turn back kaya tinuloy nya yung path hanggang maging principal sya, hindi daw nya passion yun.
I apologized, hindi ko sineryoso but she looked mad and disappointed. Kung alam lang daw nya hindi na nya ginawa in the first place, sayang daw pera sana daw nag it sya, ang sabi ko "Hey at least mataas position mo, sorry for what happened," kaso mukang pikon talaga sya sakin, nag bye na ko hindi ko na pinahaba conversation.
Asshole ba ko for not giving a fuck on my college course? Naaksaya ko ba talaga oras nya? Naaawa ako dahil 15+ years sya nag commit sa word ko na ako mismo I couldnt care less, feeling ko nasira ko buhay nya in a sense, but choice nya din kasi yun, bakit ganun, bakit binig deal nya, kung sana nag IT sya kesa naging competetive edi hindi sana nasayang. In a sense I lied, but I was hs and I was fucking distracted. The whole thing was supposed to be a joke, sineryoso nya. After hs I lived like a degenerate for a year bago nag college, I didn't even thought of her not even once.

Ewan ko nalang sa kung ano dapat mafefeel ko ngayon hahahahaha for context kami ni bf ay mag 1 year na this coming September. Nagtransfer ako ng school last August at don kami nagmeet. So before naging kami is may crush siya na babae don sa grupo namin pero wala siyang courage para makipagcommunicate don sa kanya kasi sobrang shy talaga niya and I learned nung talking stage pa kami is 1 year na niya crush yung babae pero sabi niya saken na narealize niya na "happy crush" lang nga daw niya yung babae kasi nafefeel niya na mahal niya ako at sa akin siya napa confess ganon. Yung girl naman wala lang dedma lang kasi may rumored jowa yun sha pero lowkey lang sila ng bf niya– may signs na may something sila pero di lang talaga nila kinonfirm.
For the past few months, makikita ko talaga si bf na palagi niyang aasarin si girl. Nung na integrate ako sa circle nila, di naman talaga si bf mag asar sa kanya nung crush pa niya si girl tapos si girl parang siya yung inaasar ng lahat. Ngayon na mag jowa na kami, bumago siya like may confidence na siya at comfortable na siya mag aasaran ni girl, which is not a problem sakin. Yung problema ko lang is parang humahanap ng paraan o timing si bf na aasarin si girl palagi. Example, may ibang kausap si girl tapos bigla nalang siyang bumwelo para aasarin niya si girl. Tatawa siya ng malakas parang gusto niya ng attention ni girl kung may nagawa si girl na funny ewan ko lang parang panakip butas ang nafefeel ko kasi kahit naging kami, attention lang niya yung hinahanap niya sakin. Kung sakin naman, di naman gaano ka loud yung pag aasar niya sakin. Di din ako makajudge sa dynamic nila eh kasi sila yung una naging kaibigan tas ako parang foreigner lang bago lang naging friends nila HAHAHAHAHA
Di ko talaga alam kung nagseselos lang talaga ako, kung justified ba o hindi yung naramdaman ko kasi nagusap kami last week via chat at sinabihan ko lang talaga siya sa na observe ko na ganyan siya at ganon, na feel ko parang naging panakip butas ako (syempre dinadaan ko in a light hearted way na may HAHAHAHAH pero umiyak na pala ako HAHAHAHAH) tapos nagsorry naman siya kasi napafeel niya sa akin yun PERO sabi niya na ganyan na talaga daw sila tapos si girlie talaga yung inaasar nila at baka na shookt lang daw ako sa changes ngayon na wala na siyang feeling sa kanya tapos confident na siya mang asar sa kanya eh pati ba naman sa group chat namin aasarin pa niya si girl like nafefeel ko talaga na attention ng iba ang hinahanap niya.
Nagsorry nga siya pero ewan hindi ko feel na apologetic siya tapos nalilito ako if dapat ba akong makafeel ng ganito. Di naman sila gbf bbf tapos wala lang naman si girl pero si bf lang talaga ewan lang, I tried to think about certain things para mawala ito sa isip ko and to gaslight myself na I'm being ridiculous pero wala eh. Sinabi din niya sa akin na "tignan mo oh, yung ibang lalaki ng grupo natin nag aasar sa kanya," parang na-invalidate yung nafeel ko kasi ikaw jowa kita, ikaw yung main focus natin dito wala na yung iba kasi aba wala ngang jowa yung iba eh. Tapos I should keep in mind talaga lagi na ex-crush niya yung babae para hindi ako mag overthink pero yun nga, ex-crush niya yung babae tapos parang ngayon active talaga siya mag asar para makuha attention ni girl.
Needed to get this off my chest talaga, iyak na iyak na talaga ako sa nafeel ko. Ayoko na makipag usap sa kanya about nito kasi alam kong ma invalidate nanaman ako tapos magpa sadboy yun na "sorry na, mali ko na yun," tapos may "pero" pa after sa sorry niya. Ewan ko nalang hahahahahahaha

May store kami sa shopee that offered free shipping during a campaign, and sobrang mura nung benta namin parang tig 5 lang. Tulong kasi namin yon sa kandidato na sinusuportahan namin last election. So dahil nga free shipping, nag negative yung balance nung seller account.(Totally my fault, di ko na anticipate yung influx ng bibili)
Logically, inisip ko noon na okay sige negative today, bayaran ko kaagad to, magsesend ako ng pera sa shopee pay account ko. Lo and behold kinabukasan pagka bukas ko ng app, banned na yung buong account.
Lahat ng devices ko, iPad, PC, Laptop, Phones na naka login si Shopee naka hardware ban. Meaning, kahit ibang account i login ko, may ban message na lumalabas.
As a person na nagtatrabaho sa customer service and tech support, syempre ni document ko talaga lahat ng error messages, ban message and communication sa Shopee support.
Pano ko ngayon ifu fulfill yung mga orders ko? Pano ko ngayon mababayaran yung negative balance (450+ yata) Pano ko ngayon babayaran SPAYLATER ko?
So I reached out to shopee. Sa hotline, email and in app chat nakigamit ako sa account ng partner ko. Lahat sila may scripted ban messaging lang or sinasabi mag reach out ako using the account of concern. Eh banned nga??? This went on and on for more than 2 months. Tawag rin sila ng tawag, pero pag sinasabi kong naka ban yung account di ako makabayad, wala silang resolution na mai provide. Puro we will reach out soon lang sinasabi. Hinihingian ko sila ng account number to send the payment, pero walang maibigay. In-app daw dapat gawin.
Sa sobrang bwisit namin, nag stop na kami gumamit ng Shopee non. Consequently, damay rin yung side hustle namin. Pero hindi pa tapos. A few weeks after, may biglang kumatok sa bahay namin. 5 people who are looking for me. Mga representatives pala ng isang credit/lending corp na balak ako singilin personally.
So syempre ako naman wala akong takot dahil I exhausted all means on my end to resolve the issue. I talked to their main goon and told him na hindi po ako maka login, tapos etong si koya mo, napaka passive aggressive, pinagbibintangan ako na ino off ko raw yung wifi namin kaya di maka login. At that point, nag iinit na ulo ko dahil sobrang hassle nung ginagawa nila, and they are accusing me of that. Habang chinecheck pala namin yung devices ko, nagpi picture sila without my permission sa harap ng bahay. But at the end of the day, hindi rin nila nakuha pakay nila dahil nag try ako mag login sa cellphone mismo nya para manahimik na sya, and may ban messaging pa rin.
Ayun lang, I'll never ever give a dime to Shopee ever again.
ps. sa pumunta sa bahay namin na pinagbibintangan ako na pinapatay yung wifi pag naglo login sa app, napaka bobo mo po. Di ko alam bakit di mo ma recognize yung wifi icon sa ipad kahit universally recognizable naman yon 🥴

Hi guys,
Ako lang ba nakaka experience nito or kayo din? Nag pay using QR kasi ako tapos nag error yung transaction (may lumabas na timed-out). Pero nung bumalik ako sa homescreen, nabawasan na yung balance ko.
Eto yung timeline of events, I will approximate some figures, I can show the mods exact proofs if they need to confirm the details:

1. [2024/04/14 09:00am] Balance is 10,000php.
2. [2024/04/14 03:00pm] Nag Pay using QR ako ng 2,000php. Nabawas sa balance at hindi din natanggap ng merchant.
3. [2024/04/15] Nag file ako ng ticket sa Gcash stating na nag Pay QR ako. Nabawasan yung balance.
4. [2024/04/28] Hindi pa rin nagrereply yung GCash so nag report ako sa BSP.
5. [2024/04/28] Biglang ni close ng GCash yung dalawang ticket na ginawa - both ung BSP at ung old ticket. Sabi daw, "An agent will get back to you." Pero closed yung status ng dalawang ticket.
6. [2024/05/15] Nag open ako ng panibagong ticket, mabilis silang nag reply.

[2024/05/16] Latest update:
At eto na ung highlight ng accusation. Sabi nila, "We have conducted a thorough review and have not identified any transactions totalling 2,000php. Please review your transaction history."
Now, yung transaction history ko, naputol between 2024/04/08 and 2024/04/14. Legit mga mars, para ni-doctor ung transaction history.
https://imgur.com/a/7tCCeKl
I have screenshot proofs na may mga transactions dapat ako between those dates, here's one na nangyari 2024/04/10. Madami ito. Pero take note na naputol na yung transaction history ko after 2024/04/08.
https://imgur.com/a/qEtVAWe
SOMETHING IS VERY VERY WRONG HERE. They said na nag conduct na sila ng thorough review pero bakit may na delete na transactions sa history para mag match ung current balance narrative ko?
Yung BSP hindi naman nagrereply, More than 15 days na yung ticket ko, "open" pa din ung status. Please monitor your balances closely, if nangyari sakin to, most likely baka mangyari din sa inyo.

Nung nagkaroon ng kinakasama yung ex ko at nagkaanak na, sabi ko sa sarili ko, ah eto siguro yung tinatawag nilang building a man for another woman. Kaso narealize ko lahat ng ex ko at ex something ko (walang label pero naglandian) eh happily married na with kids after namin. Haha Etong last na ni let go ko kinasal na din. Tapos ako eto single na single pa din. Taena ako ata ang red flag. Lol. Why naman ganun? 😅

Hi po sa mga law students,
I’m 31 Female and Panganay sa pamilya, I badly need your advice, my papa died 3 years ago and now my bf ang nanay ko na mas bata sa kanya ng 10 taon.
Inlove na inlove yung ina ko and hindi na rin ako mag tataka dahil ilang beses niya na niloko si Papa.
(please correct me if I’m wrong) Wala po kasing Last will and testament si Papa before siya mawala.
Automatic sa ina ko mapupunta ang 2 lupain ni papa, paano kung maisipan magpa kasal ng ina ko magkakaroon ba ng karapatan yung hayop na lalaki na yon sa pinag hirapan ng papa ko?
Anong gagawin ko as a panganay, paano ko ma pro-protektahan ang lupa ng papa ko.
Salamat po sa sasagot.

I'm not the type of person na nanghihila pababa. I am not that type of person na masaya kapag may bumabagsak. Really. All my life I tried to encourage and help my friends to be successful. Sabay sabay kami aangat sa buhay. But things changed last March 1, 2024.
Maghahang out sana kami ng 2 friends ko that day. Our friend called me, let's Call her friend A, and my other friend, let's call him Friend B, kasi she needs emotional support from us and we agreed. But, unfortunately, I am unable to attend because I was hospitalized due to panic attack. So, natuloy lang silang dalawa, sabi ko pa hahabol ako kapag pinauwi na ako ng doktor. And yung friend namin na nag-aya said oo humabol daw ako if kaya. Kasi hindi na talaga kaya kasi 7na ako nakauwi.
Fasr forward tk next week, nagkita kami ni Friend B sa megamall. He's doubting if tama ba na ikwento niya raw yung sinabi ni Friend A or hindi. So ako sabi ko, naopen na niya sakin so sabihin na niya. Aftee that, he told me na "Sabi ni Friend A, hindi niya raw magets bakit inaatake ka ng panic attack, eh you habe good things in life na raw. May pamilya ka, may jowa ka, parang wala nang dahilan para don" nahurt ako na nanggaling yon sa friend ko. Really, nahurt ako. I was diagnosed with Depression, and I had panic attack that time kasi naging trigger ng mental instability ko yung workplace ko (which is another story to tell). I got really hurt, naunahan ng judgment nung friend koyung nangyari sakin instead of asking kung kumusta na ako. We're all psych graduates. Ako, at si friend 1, we took board exam, and friend 1 did not pass. As mentioned, hindi ako type ng person na masaya sa lost ng mga tao sa paligid ko, but after that, one thought came to my mind. Deserve niyang hindi pumasa. Wala siyang empathy,masyado siyang priveleged, kawawa ang mga magiging future clients niya.
It has been 2 months since that thing happened pero nasaktan talaga ako. Aftee that, mga ilang days after non, nagchat siya sakin na miss niya na raw ako, and nagreact lang ako. I'm not in a mood the be friendly with her. As of now, I'm slowly cutting her in my life. There's no room for friends who does not understand that we all have different capacity to handle things.
To that friend of mine, I hope someday, you'll met the same person as you are, para magreflect ka from what you did sa past.